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Speaker 2: All right, let's get in the courtroom. The gavel has

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Speaker 2: been hit. It says, hey, ki ki, am I wrong

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Speaker 2: for not lying to my brother about what really happened

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Speaker 2: at his fiance's bachelor party. My brother is getting married

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Speaker 2: my future sister in law's bachelorette party, and now I

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Speaker 2: one male and one female. As you can imagine, you know, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: as you can imagine, the party got wild, so wild

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Speaker 2: and asked me how did the night go?

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Speaker 1: Various various different answers. Yeah, different, different for different folks.

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Speaker 1: This evening, I told him.

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Speaker 2: She said, I told him the truth, and he lost it.

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Speaker 2: He called off the wedding, and now I feel like

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Speaker 3: Was I wrong? No?

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Speaker 1: I mean there are one hundred layers of issues here.

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Speaker 1: We had a lot of things going on. But judge, Kiky,

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Speaker 3: What do you think?

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Speaker 2: I'm a girl's girl until it comes to my brothers.

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Speaker 2: Not gonna lie, you know what I'm saying. Hey, I

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Speaker 2: you need to let me go home because I'm snitching.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, especially if he asked me. If he didn't

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Speaker 2: I think you should know that you're marrying a little

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Speaker 2: however he reacts is how he reacts. Now, I hate

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Speaker 2: that he called the wetting off. We then bought these

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Speaker 1: And I can't live. I shouldn't have to live with that.

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Speaker 1: You can't, I shouldn't. Don't do that. Like that's sloppy.

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Speaker 1: If you're gonna do something like that, don't do that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like there's familial obligation. Yeah, Kalyn, I was sorry.

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean to cull you off.

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Speaker 5: I would probably give them the opportunity to tell my brother,

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Speaker 5: oh four, That's the only thing I would have done differently.

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to live with that. Last rested up,

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Speaker 3: Not when it's my brother. No, sorry, I'm here for

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Speaker 1: You get to live with that, But I'm saying if

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Speaker 1: I don't think you go ruin somebody else's life because

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Speaker 3: But if you're gonna be sloppy.

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing this with you, Like I don't need

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Speaker 5: I have been on Bachelor at parties where there have

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Speaker 5: Right now, there's no cheating, no nothing, but we know that,

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Speaker 3: Would not be happy. I'm not talking about that again.

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Speaker 2: You never tell then, you know, No, you keep those

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you actually sleep with somebody that. I mean, hey, right,

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Speaker 2: it's not a big deal because it's a one.

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Speaker 3: No he said it was a big deal. No, cheating

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, no, I mean I once you cheat in

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Speaker 3: Everyone everyone involved. Oh wow, I'll keep that in mind.

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Speaker 1: Layer and that's just inconsiderate and none cool. But family

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Speaker 2: And I think that's another valuable lesson about in laws,

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Speaker 1: Well, and that's the thing. Why are you making me

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Speaker 1: didn't do it, But if I saw it and know

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Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, Fred, he was there, he

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Speaker 1: it's none of my business, Like this is between you two.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that would fly. So I'm not willing

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Speaker 4: She's only mad because she got caught, not because she's

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Speaker 3: Well, you would not have that's true.

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Speaker 1: I mean we're not even talking about that because right right,

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Speaker 4: So I'm with Kaitlin, either you tell or I'm going

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Speaker 1: I liked that that that's the plan that I think

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Speaker 1: The only time that backfires is if you're somehow involved

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Speaker 1: where like you now it's your word against somebody else, right, Frank, Ye, so.

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Speaker 2: Drunk and lit, you know, giving me drinks and next thing,

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Speaker 3: You know, he knew that lady was in the room

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Speaker 4: And now you can't go out with my sister anymore.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, there you go. Yeah, there is it. Yeah

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Speaker 1: But I think that my biggest takeaway from this segment

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 6: I also don't know if a bachelor party is for me.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if I give that vibe, but I'm not.

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Speaker 6: I also want to know, like, did did the stripper

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Speaker 1: I'm into this, I'm staying because that's a that's a compliment.

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Speaker 3: Well yes, and what do you always say? You don't

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Speaker 1: But don't put me in that position? But don't put

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Speaker 1: me in that position if you're advertiser. Weren't in an

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Speaker 1: have to live with that guilt or don't. But like

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Speaker 1: you're right, if I witness something like if I walk

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Speaker 3: But I was.

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Speaker 1: I'm part of a group of people. I watched it happen.

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Speaker 1: I'm privy to it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 1: I can look the other way if I don't know,

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Speaker 1: you know, but I don't think I can look the

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Speaker 3: Ashley, Hi, good morning. Hey, so Kiki's court. What do

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Speaker 7: So I feel like it would be like probably brushed

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Speaker 7: back because it's female and female, so that's considered, you know,

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Speaker 7: quote Potter, And that's probably why the family is probably

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Speaker 7: like who cares? Like why would you say something like

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Speaker 7: it's just a girl with a girl, but like it's cheating,

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Speaker 7: so cheating who you did it was?

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Speaker 1: And she would bother me just the same. I mean

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Speaker 1: a guy would probably bother me slightly more, but they'd

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Speaker 1: both bother me. I'd be like, oh, really, so you

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Speaker 1: can just hook up with whoever you want, you know, like, no,

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Speaker 1: you can't.

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Speaker 7: She like the stigma is definitely Like if it was

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Speaker 7: a guy, it would be no question to ask, Like

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Speaker 7: the sister is not a jerk, Like, yeah, the wedding

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Speaker 7: is off and oh, well she cheated with a guy.

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Speaker 7: But because it's the girl of those families, like why

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Speaker 7: would you say something like makeing her feel bad and

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Speaker 7: it's still the same thing, It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: I think people don't give the witnesses enough credit in

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Speaker 1: these situations, Like if you are going to be I

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Speaker 1: said this earlier, if you were sloppy enough to do

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Speaker 1: all this in front of me, then now you've involved

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Speaker 1: me and now it's on my character.

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Speaker 3: So how about this.

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Speaker 1: If you want to be shady, then don't be shady,

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Speaker 1: but don't don't do in front of me because it

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Speaker 1: shouldn't infringe upon my values.

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Speaker 3: Your bad decisions.

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Speaker 7: Shady in private?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, Ashley, Yes, I have a good day. Guy,

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Speaker 3: shady in private. That's add that to the constitution.

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Speaker 2: Add that they should have ended the party like oh,

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Speaker 2: we're going to bed now, everybody go home, and then

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Speaker 2: have the exotic dancers come after the sister left, but

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Speaker 2: like doing it in front of her face and then

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Speaker 2: not expecting her to tell her brother is great.

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Speaker 1: Plus I wonder if she was that sister who like,

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Speaker 1: you've heard me talking about this before. But I can

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Speaker 1: see it from a mile away if I'm out, you know,

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Speaker 1: on a summer afternoon, I'm on the patio and I

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Speaker 1: see the bechelorette group approaching. I can, I can, I am,

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Speaker 1: I have a gift. I can see the group and

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Speaker 1: I can tell you, well, the bride's usually wearing something

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Speaker 1: awful matching T shirts or something. But or so, you know,

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Speaker 1: just whatever, I can tell you which which ones are

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Speaker 1: supposed to be there and which ones were there out

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Speaker 1: of obligation, because it's like all the girls from like,

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Speaker 1: you know, they all went to whatever college together, and

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Speaker 1: they're a on a sorority and they all kind of

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Speaker 1: look the same. And then over here is the girl

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Speaker 1: in the birkenstocks with the backpack, and you know, and

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Speaker 1: and she has nothing. One of these kids is not

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Speaker 1: like the other. That's the sister of the groom, yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, or something like. That's a person who was

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Speaker 1: obligated to be included, and and and so you don't

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Speaker 1: with the rest of them. So don't be messing around

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Speaker 1: because that person knows you guys nothing law.

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Speaker 3: That's what I mean, that's your law. And you you

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Speaker 3: were Colin have a bachelor party.

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Speaker 1: So I was just gonna say, it's very telling, and

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Speaker 1: I'm appreciative of it, but I also wonder. I love

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Speaker 1: the guy, but I was not a I was not

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Speaker 1: in the we I was. I officiated the wedding. I

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Speaker 1: was not a groomsman. I think if I hadn't officiated

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Speaker 1: the wedding party, which I would have declined because I

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't deserve to be up there. I don't decline.

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Speaker 3: I don't like I don't like that tradition.

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Speaker 1: I don't like the tradition where if I have if

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Speaker 1: to stand up there, then I should stand up there.

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Speaker 1: But if it's one guy doesn't get to go up

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Speaker 1: there because I have to because I'm the brother. That's

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Speaker 1: not cool. I wouldn't like that. That's not fair. It's

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Speaker 1: not fair to him. It's not fair to me. Wow, Like,

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Speaker 1: why should I take the spot of somebody who.

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Speaker 3: Was like his boy?

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Speaker 1: Like, for example, I've got I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: really know who would stand up with me if I

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Speaker 1: got married. But I can tell you right now, if

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Speaker 1: I had to inject a sibling in there, that's one

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Speaker 1: last person who was really important to me who's not

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Speaker 1: standing up there. And that's not fairy. You have both, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because at some point you're not going to have forty

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Speaker 7: I don't see why not.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's a respect thing. I think you couldn't say

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Speaker 3: no to that. I don't think it.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, I was not invited to it. I was

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Speaker 1: not invited to the bachelor party. Oh, I was not invited,

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Speaker 1: and I will say I had no business being there

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Speaker 1: for the same reason. But again, maybe he was respecting

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Speaker 1: my ability to play dumb because I don't know what

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Speaker 3: I wasn't there. That's now I wonder what he was

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Speaker 3: up to. But it was it was all that.

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Speaker 1: It was people that he'd known since he was a

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Speaker 1: child like, Yeah, I mean these are like deep A

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Speaker 1: couple of guys. He toured the road with a a

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Speaker 1: the country for years with these guys like these are

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Speaker 1: like deep relationships. They deserve to stand up there. I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't RICO, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: Hey bro'? Hey man, what do you want to say?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 7: So the thing is, so I.

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Speaker 8: Wanted to say, I don't think my sister would tell

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Speaker 8: me if that happened in front of her. I'm kind

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Speaker 8: of basing it off of our birthdays. It's just last

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Speaker 8: year I got my birth my sister a real expensive camera.

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Speaker 8: It was like five hoard bucks. And this year she

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Speaker 8: got me a pizza cutter. I'm like, bro, bro, wait,

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Speaker 8: what is going about? You a pizza cu She got

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Speaker 8: you a pizza cutter.

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Speaker 1: So now you're thinking, my wife probably should have on

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Speaker 1: me at the bachelorette party and I never know how

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Speaker 1: we get here. Yeah, she likes you so little that

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Speaker 1: she got you a pizza cutter, so god knows what

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Speaker 1: else she's harboring. You know what, rec I pick it

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Speaker 1: up with what you hear? You you get me a

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Speaker 1: pizza cutter. What are you hiding?

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Speaker 8: I mean, I thought, you know, there's just because for

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Speaker 8: her birthday. I kind of you know, I think I

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Speaker 8: I'm like, man, tan't get that.

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Speaker 3: But I don't think you.

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Speaker 8: Would have like, yeah, I don't think she would tell

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Speaker 3: Stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: Man, that's how you know what. I'm gonna go back

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Speaker 1: and stay. Look at what of my friends gifted me.

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Speaker 1: You give me a pizza cutter. You don't care about me,

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Speaker 1: You are aware that I.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Rico, have a good day. I mean, it

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Speaker 3: just makes a lot of sense to me. Wow, you

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Speaker 3: know