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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glaser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glaser, here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's Nicky

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Speaker 3: Glazer Podcast. Happy to be here alone in my apartment

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Speaker 3: in Saint Louis. I'm not happy to be alone, but

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Speaker 3: oh maybe I am. Who knows Brian Frangie is here

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Speaker 3: in Los Angeles? Yes, no, it's in Arizona. What's up, guys?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I have had dirty hair since I think the last

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Speaker 3: time I watched my hair was Saturday, and it's now Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: Is it Wednesday or Tuesday? It's Wednesday's typical?

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Speaker 1: Is that what you're supposed to be doing?

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Speaker 3: You know, it's atypical for me. That's a really long

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Speaker 3: time for me. I really needed to get one in

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Speaker 3: this morning, and then my apartment did not have hot water,

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Speaker 3: so I took it as a sign. You know, you

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Speaker 3: take things as a sign when there's no other choice,

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Speaker 3: and you go, this is meant to not take a

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Speaker 3: shower today.

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Speaker 1: To get some dreads. Yeah exactly, Well.

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Speaker 3: I have to brush through it because it is starting

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Speaker 3: to dread. Give dry shambo, naughty? I did. I got some.

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Speaker 3: I didn't spray it today. I sprayed it like two

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Speaker 3: days ago, and that really SOPs some stuff off, but

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Speaker 3: it's just a tangled mess. I'm obsessed with these new brushes.

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Speaker 1: I found.

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Speaker 3: Someone gave it to me in a bag of something

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Speaker 3: like a gift bag, but it's I bought others. It

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Speaker 3: looks like a little egg and it has plastic bristles.

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Speaker 3: And I've always looked for a brush that doesn't rip

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Speaker 3: your hair. I'm obsessed with not ripping my hair. I

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Speaker 3: cannot believe when I watch my friends brush through their

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Speaker 3: hair after it's wet from the shower. They just start

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Speaker 3: at the root and go straight down and push through.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, I get it goes through, girls, but

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Speaker 3: you got to start at the ends, at the very ends.

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Speaker 3: Get those good. Then you slowly work up because you

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Speaker 3: are ripping out your hair. And I've seen my friend

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Speaker 3: Catherine does it so violently, and I'm like, treat your

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Speaker 3: hair like fine papyrus that you would find in an

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Speaker 3: ancient tomb. Yeah, Like that's how gentlely you have to

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Speaker 3: be on your hair.

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Speaker 1: Fine?

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Speaker 3: What? Yes, it as a As you age, it absolutely

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Speaker 3: thins and it does and it breaks, you know, especially

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Speaker 3: if you treat your hair with heat and paraffins and

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Speaker 3: uh and color it like you have to. I think

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Speaker 3: that's why my hair. I mean, I definitely take Neutral.

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Speaker 3: And I want to tell everyone that neutrafil is legit.

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Speaker 3: They don't are not paid. It's just the thing that

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Speaker 3: I I if I miss one supplement of Neutral, I

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Speaker 3: feel it in my head. It's like, might be psychosomitic.

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Speaker 3: But it's fucking works. And it's just I just take

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Speaker 3: the four pills a day, don't You don't need to

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Speaker 3: do all the other things.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I like the serum.

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Speaker 3: Oh you use the serum. I I don't do that

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Speaker 3: because it's gonna make it so I have to wash

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Speaker 3: my hair.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I just have to it. It's probably good.

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Speaker 3: The friends husband invented it, and that's and so we

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Speaker 3: get they we get fit friends and family.

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Speaker 4: I support, But I feel like I can always ask

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Speaker 4: for a free one.

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Speaker 3: You literally, I just write to her and I say,

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Speaker 3: can I get some Neutral? And she sends me an

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Speaker 3: entire like, uh shed which is worth? Like I have

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Speaker 3: so much neutrafl. I give it to my I give

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Speaker 3: it to my mom, I give it to Chris, I

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Speaker 3: give it to Tim.

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Speaker 1: Everyone. I'm not gonna know as saying like sometimes I'll

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Speaker 1: I'll opt not to do prime on Amazon, so I

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Speaker 1: can support Jeff Bezos exactly like I'll pay for the

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Speaker 1: ship in her pocket.

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Speaker 3: It's not the same.

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Speaker 1: Like it's also why I buy a new iPhone every

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Speaker 1: three months. It's like, I know that Tim doing the

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Speaker 1: right thing by part yes.

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Speaker 3: To help billionaires get to that one point one one

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Speaker 3: point two.

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Speaker 2: You know how to part of something. Let me alone.

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Speaker 3: You're being a good friend because our friend's husband does

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Speaker 3: own it, and that means that she owns it, and

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Speaker 3: you're being a good friend. But like, it's like when

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Speaker 3: people when my friends pay for tickets to my show

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Speaker 3: and no offense. Everyone listening is my friend. But I

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Speaker 3: can't give away that many tickets. But like I don't

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Speaker 3: have that many friends my life, and when they buy tickets,

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Speaker 3: it annoys me because I'm like, I get comps. You

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Speaker 3: get like it's part of the deal that I can

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Speaker 3: give this stuff away, and that money you're spending is

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Speaker 3: kind of not really going I'm gonna get that anyway.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of the deal, right. This is not a

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Speaker 3: good way to sell tickets, but I do need people

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Speaker 3: to buy tickets. But it's just when your when your

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Speaker 3: family is like I already bought one. I'm just like,

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Speaker 3: that's so nice. But if they're billionaires, yeah, buy all

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Speaker 3: the tickets, buy literally all the tickets if you're But

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Speaker 3: if someone is a friend and I know that they

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Speaker 3: don't have all the money in the world, I'm like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: don't do that. And that's why I say busties, don't

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Speaker 3: spend your money on a meet and greet. If you

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Speaker 3: just say you can't have four, one, I'll give you one.

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Speaker 3: You know it.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful brush is so nice. It looks like a brush

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Speaker 1: for a horse.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say it looks like a pet brush. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that might be it. It's just so soft, bristled, and

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Speaker 3: like I couldn't find any brushes that really do this

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Speaker 3: kind of thing for me where it doesn't rip my hair.

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Speaker 3: But I can kind of just get through it.

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Speaker 4: Because people listening to the audio you're missing keep brushing

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Speaker 4: her hair with a pet brush.

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Speaker 3: I think they hear it.

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Speaker 1: It looks like a brush a doll.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And this one's like glittery and small, but it's small.

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Speaker 3: It fits in your bag. It looks like a little egg.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what they're called, but like, if you

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Speaker 3: just go to the video and see what I'm looking

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Speaker 3: like type an egg brush or like small circular brush.

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Speaker 3: They come in all different colors. I got so many

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Speaker 3: my friends, but I lose them a lot, so I

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Speaker 3: just cut them all. But but yeah, it's it's my

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Speaker 3: new favorite product as a woman, and I think I

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Speaker 3: That doesn't because all the little brushes have so many

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Speaker 3: tongs or they're combs. I would I would rather shave

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Speaker 3: hell when people are trying to fix my hair on

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Speaker 1: What the hell.

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Speaker 3: I'm just like, get out of here with that, Like

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Speaker 3: I it won't pull through my hair.

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Speaker 2: Whoa.

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Speaker 4: So you know how when you go on Instagram and

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Speaker 4: you go to the search and it just like brings

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Speaker 4: up random videos for some reason. I don't know why

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Speaker 4: I'm being targeted this, but it's these videos. This is

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Speaker 4: going to freak you out of It's like backs of

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Speaker 4: heads getting haircuts, but it's like like snipping like really

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Speaker 4: short towards the skull cap okay, and it's just like

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Speaker 4: cutting hair, Like I don't understand it. I don't know

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Speaker 4: why people do this. It's not selling anything. It's just

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Speaker 4: why am I getting targeted this?

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Speaker 3: But I don't understand what it's targeting you for. On Amazon?

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Speaker 2: No, No, on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: On Instagram, oh oh, discover for some reason. I was

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Speaker 3: picturing Amazon for some reason. Oh yeah, they they think

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Speaker 1: Stuff social media is I think you're sick. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's just terrible.

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Speaker 3: It's go searching for warp videos. They don't even know

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Speaker 3: that I want that, and that is what I want.

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Speaker 1: The things that I going to show this to you.

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Speaker 3: To give it to her, they won't give it to me.

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Speaker 3: I have to search it out. There's got to be

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Speaker 3: more good, Like if you're just joining the show as

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Speaker 3: a new listener, I like seeing videos. I'm not a

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Speaker 3: pimple popper girl. I don't want to see things explode

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Speaker 3: with gushy like puss coming out. Disgusting. There's something wrong

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Speaker 3: with you if you like that, even though most people do.

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Speaker 1: I like, definitely not me.

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Speaker 3: Hardened things being like cut into like a wart being

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Speaker 1: I got a little doctor. You're gonna love mama to

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Speaker 1: see the hoof doctor.

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Speaker 3: Oh I like that guy, Yeah, because it's dry, there's

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Speaker 1: It's a guy who owns a ranch who takes care

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Speaker 2: Like mow and then it yes.

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Speaker 3: And then he just like digs into it and gets

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Speaker 2: It's very satisfying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a coconut or something it's comes off.

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Speaker 3: Or have you ever scraped plaque off your teeth?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, I've never been. What do you buy a device?

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Speaker 3: So I just remember going to the doctor once and

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Speaker 3: with a brush. And I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: And I always have loved the feeling. And sorry trigger

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Speaker 3: warning if you hate dentist stuff, tailor's not here. But

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Speaker 3: I always liked I like when they scrape on your

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Speaker 3: I like what's going on there. I can never see

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Speaker 3: it though, But then she told me you're because your

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Speaker 3: plaque builds up. Your gums will recess because it'll keep

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Speaker 3: building and that was what makes recess gums. And then

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Speaker 3: I will, And so like once a month, I just

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Speaker 3: get in there. I'll take like some metal Tweezers and

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Speaker 3: I just go scrape it off, and I just like scrape.

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Speaker 2: There's it's like you can get that hook thing.

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Speaker 3: I know. I just never have I just use my

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Speaker 3: I use Tweezers that.

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Speaker 2: I getting for your birthday.

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Speaker 3: Gross. Oh that would be amazing to get a dental kit. Okay,

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Speaker 3: write it down, it's mine, that's my present. Oh my god? Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Do you brush your tongue? Did I talk about this yet?

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Speaker 1: I recently learned that people are supposed to brush their

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Speaker 1: you are supposed to do and I never do, and

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Speaker 1: maybe even the roof of your mouth a little bit,

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Speaker 1: but mostly you brush your tongue and then you can

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Speaker 1: buy this thing called the tongue scraper.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like a little you looks at me every day.

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Speaker 3: No, you say, listen, I hear you. I hear you, elbow.

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Speaker 3: You're hurting right now because mentally, I'm going through something

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Speaker 3: The reason you can't walk is because you need to

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Speaker 3: You're just to sit like the John Lennon yoko ono

435
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Speaker 3: fuck yeah, oh yeah, lay in.

436
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Speaker 1: I guess sometimes it raises awareness, but like, yeah, so

437
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 1: now we're all aware of the ninety nine percent or whatever,

438
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Speaker 1: but nothing changed. Yeah, we all have been better off

439
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Speaker 1: working at grocery stores putting our paycheck towards anything changed.

440
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Speaker 3: All right, Well we'll get into this more, probably not

441
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Speaker 3: when we get back from this. Stay with us. Yeah,

442
00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,639
Speaker 3: how do you enact change? You know there was a

443
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Speaker 3: person the other day on this sidewalk that had a

444
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Speaker 3: uh how do you enact change? Well, the other day

445
00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 3: I was walking down the street and I saw a

446
00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,920
Speaker 3: man with a clipboard. Everyone's very active in Saint Louis

447
00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,879
Speaker 3: right now. It's spring is sprung, so there's like people

448
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 3: singing on the sidewalk. Like yesterday there was like three

449
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 3: girls that were just pressed play on a boombox and

450
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Speaker 3: We're just like, show it is wing my Way. Show

451
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Speaker 3: looks good to me. I'm like, you can just do that.

452
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Speaker 3: What if I just took a fucking little bow speaker

453
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Speaker 3: out on the street and just sang Taylor Swift next

454
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Speaker 3: to a bow speaker. Yeah, I could do that and

455
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Speaker 3: put out a little jar.

456
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Speaker 1: But these were little girls.

457
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Speaker 3: No, they were like in their twenties.

458
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you could do it.

459
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Speaker 3: You don't know. If you're a little girl, you don't know.

460
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Speaker 3: Show it is wing my Way. I guess I could

461
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Speaker 3: do it. But it was just like wow, Everyone's just

462
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Speaker 3: like this is That's what you do now? Instead of

463
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:49,119
Speaker 3: uber eats is you just put a fucking tin can

464
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Speaker 3: and you start singing along to a karaokee track of

465
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Speaker 3: your favorite song. But uh, but I loved it. But

466
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Speaker 3: there was a guy with a clipboard that said, uh,

467
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Speaker 3: legalize abortion. Was like, do you want to legalize abortion?

468
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 3: I was walking with two guys and so they were like, no,

469
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Speaker 3: I don't care, you know, And then I was like,

470
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 3: yeah I do, And I go, what is this? You know,

471
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,640
Speaker 3: because here's the thing I would have usually just walked by,

472
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 3: but I'm reading. I just finished reading this book that

473
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 3: I recommend everyone read. And it's so funny. When I

474
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Speaker 3: put it on my Instagram story, so many people wrote

475
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Speaker 3: to me. I'm probably like three people probably separately said

476
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Speaker 3: to me, I loved this so much, they should it

477
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Speaker 3: should be required reading in high schools. And I was like,

478
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Speaker 3: that's I don't usually get that feedback a lot on

479
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 3: books that I mention, but this one. It's called No

480
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Speaker 3: My Name. It's by Chanelle Miller, and Chanelle Miller was

481
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Speaker 3: the rape victim in the brock Turner case, and she

482
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Speaker 3: is fucking incredible. She's one of the best writers I've

483
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Speaker 3: ever read. She just so happens to be like she

484
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 3: was always going to be a writer. She was always

485
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Speaker 3: going to be a name you knew because she is

486
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Speaker 3: so incredible at writing. But she just so happens to

487
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Speaker 3: also have been the girl that brock Turner at a

488
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Speaker 3: frat party. She was blackout drunk and she was found

489
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Speaker 3: being fingered by him next to a dumpster on the

490
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Speaker 3: Stanford campus, and luckily to bicyclists saw it happening and

491
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Speaker 3: he gave chase. They tackled him and he got caught.

492
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Speaker 3: Otherwise she would have woken up and probably had been

493
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Speaker 3: actually raped by this guy and not known anything because

494
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Speaker 3: he would have left her there because he was a

495
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Speaker 3: piece of shit. So, but the intimidation she faces from

496
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Speaker 3: the public when she's just a Jane Doe, the like

497
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,479
Speaker 3: her whole experience going through this, it's just such a

498
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 3: great read about just being a survivor, like going just

499
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Speaker 3: going through any kind of really hard time in your

500
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 3: life when life throws you a curveball. It's like it's

501
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 3: just a book about not just like about rape and

502
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 3: you know, toxic masculinity on all those things, but it's

503
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,919
Speaker 3: just so much more. It's like I just feel like

504
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 3: I it opened up a part of me that I

505
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 3: did that needed to be opened in terms of like empathy,

506
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 3: and although obviously I already had empathy for rape victims,

507
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 3: it's just the next level. Like literally everyone needs to

508
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 3: read this. It will change the way you think about things.

509
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 3: It's not just a book that I'm like it's important.

510
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 3: It's important. It's just like it will make you a

511
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 3: better person, and it's it is a great read, even

512
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 3: though it's and it's not. It's not as tough of

513
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 3: a read as it sounds like based on what I'm saying,

514
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Speaker 3: It's actually one that you're It's kind of a page turner.

515
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Speaker 1: I gotta say, if you're a parent and you name

516
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Speaker 1: your kid Brock, You're just you're asking for it. I

517
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Speaker 1: know it is.

518
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Speaker 3: Brock Turner. Yeah, overdrive. He no, he that's a name,

519
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 3: that's his name. He was a swimmer. It doesn't really

520
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 3: matter what he was. All I have to say is that,

521
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 3: like he miss, when you're a rape, when you are

522
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 3: accused of rape, everyone goes, oh my gosh, this kid's

523
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Speaker 3: bright future. What what could he have been? This one

524
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 3: night he made a mistake. Think of all the things

525
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 3: he could have been. And yet for.

526
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Speaker 2: Her, I think everyone says that. Not everyone.

527
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 3: Obviously I'm high perbolizing, but like the media, there was

528
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 3: a lot of that, not just from his defense team

529
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 3: like it was. He was even talked about, like in

530
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Speaker 3: in the Washington Post as like a swimmer, like a

531
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 3: future Olympic swimmer, something like that, Like a year was.

532
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: A tragedy of him, but the tragedy that befell him

533
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Speaker 1: when he tried to rape somebody.

534
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Speaker 3: Yes it really was. A girl does not She does

535
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 3: not go after him at all in this book. Honestly,

536
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 3: she has so much empathy for him. More than I

537
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 3: would ever have. And I'm pretty enriched in empathy, and

538
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,719
Speaker 3: and so this is not just like look at how

539
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 3: look at all these people and how they came after me,

540
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 3: and look what they said about him, and look at

541
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Speaker 3: what they said about me. It really like she gives

542
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,239
Speaker 3: fucking evidence for it, like she like shares articles things

543
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,199
Speaker 3: that were written. This is a thing that happens with

544
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 3: like rapists that maybe or just it's a date rape

545
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: thing where it's like they're not a serial rapist. They

546
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 3: did it was one night in his life, he was,

547
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 3: he made a drunken mistake. Yet her one night, no one,

548
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 3: no one ever mentioned about her future and how this

549
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 3: threw her off track. It was all about what was

550
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 3: she before this? Did she drink a lot?

551
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: Well?

552
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 3: How many boyfriends does she have? Why did she get

553
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 3: so drunk? Was she looking to cheat on her boyfriend?

554
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 3: Was she just calling this rape so that she could

555
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 3: cover it up because she had a boyfriend and she

556
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 3: didn't want him to know that She got fingered laying

557
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,880
Speaker 3: in a pile of dead leaves and pine cones and

558
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 3: trash next with dumpster like every girl has ever dreamed of.

559
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 3: We all love getting fingered by a dumpster, So why

560
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 3: did she do this? And it's like it's just this,

561
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 3: it just makes it fires you up. But anyway, part

562
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: of the book was that she this judge gave him

563
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 3: like no, no, no time, like she got fucked over

564
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Speaker 3: by swimming.

565
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's not going to be a night a swimmer,

566
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: a swimmers if he's as ever.

567
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 3: Given a fuck about swimmers until this kid, like who

568
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Speaker 3: even get Michael Phelps is only swimmer anyway, and Mark Spitz,

569
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Speaker 3: if you're enough those Katie Lideci, name another swimmer, Summer Sanders,

570
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 3: you don't give a fuck about swimming. Who gives a ship?

571
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 3: If this guy would have been a good swimmer, you

572
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 3: wouldn't have known his name because he's not as good

573
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,239
Speaker 3: as Michael Phelps and he never will be. You know,

574
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Speaker 3: it would have been so fun to follow his career.

575
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 3: What fucking when have you gone to a swim meet

576
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 3: in your life? Shut up? And this is obviously like

577
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Speaker 3: twenty men.

578
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,439
Speaker 1: And then if he did have the career and then

579
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Speaker 1: he went to the Olympics, they always do those uh

580
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 1: those little those clips before they entered like where their

581
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 1: life has been in their tragedies, and they would probably

582
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Speaker 1: be overcome raping someone and going.

583
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Speaker 3: Making just one bad decision changed the course of his life.

584
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, that's what crime is called. I just

585
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 3: don't even know why what do we reframing it for.

586
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 3: It's like this tragedy and but anyway, in the in

587
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 3: the thing she gets people, she writes the statement or like,

588
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: she writes a statement to read to the judge during

589
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Speaker 3: his sentencing. The statement gets picked up by BuzzFeed, goes

590
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 3: completely viral. Hillary Clinton quotes it after she loses the election.

591
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 3: She's like, I called I read this her statement again

592
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 3: to remind myself, like that I'm you know that I'm

593
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 3: not alone because this girl, like this girl's stay and

594
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 3: she was a Jane Doe at the time. This is

595
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 3: before she came out with her name, and you know,

596
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 3: it just goes extremely viral on BuzzFeed. And then the

597
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,320
Speaker 3: judge gives like a very lenient sentencing and he says

598
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 3: all these really inappropriate things during it. He's having so

599
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 3: much compassion for Brock and his poor family, and he

600
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 3: just barely lets her get out her statement of the.

601
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Speaker 2: Olympic girls who were assaulted by Oh.

602
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Speaker 3: Yeah, she talks about them. Oh my god, she found

603
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 3: so much strength from them because while she was a

604
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 3: Jane Doe and waiting to see if it was either

605
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Speaker 3: she was waiting for her trial or she was waiting

606
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 3: to see if he was gonna appeal it. She watched

607
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 3: that trial and talks a lot about all those women

608
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 3: and how much strength they gave her because they were

609
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 3: just standing and looking at him dead in the eye.

610
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 3: And she's talked about that judge and how that judge

611
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 3: was the opposite of her judge. Her judge was like

612
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,159
Speaker 3: rushing her through her statement. That judge let one hundred

613
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 3: and thirty nine women read their statements to him over

614
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 3: the course of many days, one hundred and thirty nine.

615
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 3: Can you believe that that is he gave that he

616
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 3: or she gave those girls space to to have every

617
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 3: victim heard. It was such an incredible thing to do.

618
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 3: And she said, you know, that's a really good judge.

619
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Speaker 3: So anyway, the people were so upset about this ruling,

620
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: she had nothing to do with it. They took it

621
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 3: upon themselves to get this persky guy thrown the fuck out.

622
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 3: But what they needed first was signatures. And I don't know,

623
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Speaker 3: I've always thought about signatures as like, do they really

624
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 3: fucking mean anything. It's just like my dumb signature. And really,

625
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 3: am I gonna end up on some list And now

626
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get some messages from Amy Klobashaw every day

627
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 3: for the rest of my life. And even though I

628
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 3: keep saying stop, stop, stop, and then they have to

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Speaker 3: tell you you, oh, you unsubscribe, I'm like when I

630
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Speaker 3: say stop, I don't need reassurance said it's unsubscribed. Just

631
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Speaker 3: end it. Don't tell me you unsubscribe me no more.

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Speaker 1: Amy Klobs' just assured we have stopped send you have

633
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Speaker 1: we have received your stop message.

634
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Speaker 3: We're so sad. We'll see you go.

635
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Speaker 1: I know, give me a FU or what about the survey?

636
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Speaker 1: Please tell us why you've decided to stop receiving our emails.

637
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Speaker 1: And then they give you five options.

638
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Speaker 3: And you have to read all that shit to just

639
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 3: find other I hate this product and I never used

640
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 3: it and I don't know how I got signed up

641
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 3: for it in the first place.

642
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: I ever signed up for it in the first place.

643
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: It's almost always the answer.

644
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 3: Yes, that is always so. Anyway, when this abortion guy

645
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Speaker 3: yeah said hey do you want to sign I go, yeah,

646
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 3: I'm signing because I learned she just taught me how

647
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 3: these one hundred and ninety eight thousand signatures got this

648
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Speaker 3: judge to be overthrown, and how it really did matter,

649
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Speaker 3: and how all these people were out with clipboards in

650
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Speaker 3: the sun and they were just doing something they believed in.

651
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Speaker 3: So I went up to the guy and I go, so,

652
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Speaker 3: is this this isn't some like trick thing where it's

653
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Speaker 3: like I think I'm signing a thing about legalizing abortion. Yeah,

654
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Speaker 3: it's actually the opposite. And he goes, no, no, no,

655
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Speaker 3: read the fine print, and I go, I know how

656
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Speaker 3: these motherfuckers do what they do, like, so I read

657
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Speaker 3: the fine pray it actually was, so I signed it,

658
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Speaker 3: and I go, oh, wait a second, Is this a

659
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Speaker 3: list Trump is going to look at when he decides

660
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Speaker 3: to have public hangings? Is this the list? And he

661
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Speaker 3: and he laughed, and he goes, oh, well, there's uh,

662
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Speaker 3: you know, seventy two thousand signatures so far, so he'd

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Speaker 3: have to do a lot. And I go, oh, he'd

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Speaker 3: do that many. Yeah, he'd he'd be like that that

665
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Speaker 3: second judge and go through every single one of them.

666
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Speaker 3: I'm like, is this the list? But he's going to

667
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Speaker 3: refer to Okay, you know what I don't even want

668
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Speaker 3: to live in that world anywhere. Hang me in public

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Speaker 3: for signing for saying that I want abortion legalized, I

670
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Speaker 3: don't care. But yeah, it does get you on a list.

671
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Speaker 3: But I think I just want to remind people that

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Speaker 3: those people out there with clipboards, they're not all uh

673
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Speaker 3: you know, it's not it's not nefarious all the time.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes it is really always most important.

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Speaker 4: Well sometimes they're volunteers, but sometimes they get paid, So

676
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Speaker 4: I like.

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Speaker 1: Because yeah, just hiring people to do it, and right, yeah, and.

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Speaker 4: Then and then you just look into the non profit

679
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Speaker 4: and you see if you agree with what they're pushing.

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Speaker 1: I've been a guy. I've been a signature getter guy before.

681
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, to try to shut down the oil

682
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Speaker 1: field and Culver City, which has happened, I collected signatures

683
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Speaker 1: and it's uh, you go, well, it was easy for

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Speaker 1: me because I'm in Culver City. I'm a resident of

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Speaker 1: Culver City, and I'm.

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Speaker 3: Going to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm wearing the Culver Hooters cap. It's as actually

688
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Speaker 1: a Shaky's They ever been to a Shaky's No, yes, no,

689
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Speaker 1: because you just go, hey, uh, trying to get the

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Speaker 1: oil field shut down, you kind of like relate to

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Speaker 1: them on the fact, like do you know there's an

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Speaker 1: oil field right there? And they go what and they're

693
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Speaker 1: like they're like wheeling their baby through the park, like

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Speaker 1: right next to an oil field. It's like, yeah, there's

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Speaker 1: an oil field over there with active oil wells that

696
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Speaker 1: are releasing methane gas every day and it's seeping into

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Speaker 1: your water. Do you want to sign this to stop that?

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Speaker 3: And then yeah, for you, yeah, I just I don't

699
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Speaker 3: think I've ever done anything like that. But were you

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Speaker 3: getting paid to do it?

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Speaker 1: Fifty thousand dollars an hour? Yeah, pretty good. I was

702
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Speaker 1: actually the oil company was paying me. And then I

703
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: would take the list and we would hang the well.

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Speaker 3: This is the thing with those abortion you know, those

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Speaker 3: clinics that are like, are you pregnant? You hear about

706
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Speaker 3: the radio? Call us? Are you pregnant and scared? Call us,

707
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Speaker 3: We'll give you counseling you. If I was a pregnant teen,

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh my god, I don't great. I

709
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Speaker 3: don't have to tell my parents I want to get

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Speaker 3: an abortion. This bitch will like help me figure out

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Speaker 3: a way to do that, you know, like I don't

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Speaker 3: want to have this kid I'm scared. You know, they're

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Speaker 3: praying on my like are you scared? Why would you

714
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Speaker 3: be scared about a baby if you wanted it. So

715
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Speaker 3: they're literally reaching out to girls who want to terminate

716
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Speaker 3: pregnancies kind of is what their their messaging is. And

717
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Speaker 3: then you go there and it's a fucking Christian organization

718
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Speaker 3: that then talks you into having the baby and scares

719
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Speaker 3: you and makes you feel guilty for even considering wanting

720
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Speaker 3: to keep it. They like make you listen to its heartbeat,

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Speaker 3: they make you name it, they make you start picking

722
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Speaker 3: out colors for its nursery, like they they don't go,

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Speaker 3: don't those places are fucking bad. Yeah, they make your

724
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Speaker 3: name it brock, But I think John Oliver did a

725
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: whole piece on those places. But they're everywhere, They're everywhere,

726
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 3: and they owe it. But you see the signs for it,

727
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Speaker 3: and it's so deceitful because if I were just if

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Speaker 3: I were a girl whose parents didn't and didn't have

729
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Speaker 3: a family that would support my decision to terminated pregnancy,

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Speaker 3: I would have one hundred percent called one of those numbers.

731
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Speaker 3: Because it looks like they are reaching out a helping

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Speaker 3: hand to help you figure out how to keep the

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Speaker 3: life that you want, and they're.

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Speaker 1: Not like the time in Times Square people barking people

735
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Speaker 1: to go to a comedy show.

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Speaker 3: Oh, and promising that George Carlin will be there even

737
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Speaker 3: though he died eight years ago.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and then you go there and they're just like, uh,

739
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Speaker 1: and it's just like a bunch of people who probably

740
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Speaker 1: should have been aboarded.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's uh. That would happen all the time. And

742
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Speaker 3: sometimes they would say my like someone would message me

743
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Speaker 3: and said they were supposed to be at the show

744
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I don't know why they're using my name.

745
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Speaker 3: But or they'd say a live comedy taping. I'm like,

746
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Speaker 3: there's not a live comedy be taping tonight. And that

747
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 3: really does real people in they want to be on TV. Yeah, yeah,

748
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 3: I've but there's scams all over now. There's a scam

749
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 3: I heard about where they'll call you from your bank

750
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Speaker 3: and it will be the number of your banks customer

751
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Speaker 3: service number. So if you google it while you're on

752
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 3: the phone being like is this a scam? The number

753
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 3: will come up, as you know, that's Bank of America's number.

754
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 3: So just if your bank calls you hang up and

755
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Speaker 3: call them back and check on whatever they were just

756
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 3: checking on that. I think that's just a good rule,

757
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Speaker 3: no matter who. Just if there's a fraud alert, be like, yeah,

758
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you back and check this, like you

759
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 3: you start it because it's just too shady.

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Speaker 1: Man.

761
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Speaker 4: Yeah, your phone anyway, for like an eight hundred number.

762
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Speaker 3: I can't even imagine doing that. I can't imagine it.

763
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Speaker 3: I don't think the one time I did it, they're

764
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Speaker 3: asking me to do the Tonight Show. The one time

765
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Speaker 3: I had the impulse to go it's a private number,

766
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 3: maybe I should answer it. It was it was the

767
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 3: Tonight Show calling to be like we had to fall out,

768
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Speaker 3: and I was in two thousand and nine. I wasn't

769
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Speaker 3: answering two thousand yea January two thousand and nine. I

770
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 3: was not answering my phone back then, even because I

771
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 3: was getting solicteners. But now I would. I would never

772
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 3: do it. Yeah, I mean it's it really is weird

773
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 3: when someone calls you, it's it totally means something really terrible.

774
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 3: Now I actually do pick up when my friends call

775
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 3: me because at one hundred percent means something's really wrong. Right.

776
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Speaker 1: Well, I used to think that, and now I would

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00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: tell that to people, and now I get more phone

778
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Speaker 1: calls from people who are just like just calling the

779
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: chat and now I'm like no longer feeling that anxiety

780
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Speaker 1: when I get a phone call.

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Speaker 3: I love a voice memo. I just say, voice memo me,

782
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 3: if you really want to communicate this in a shorter

783
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 3: way than typing it, because then my phone's going to

784
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 3: type it up for me because the new update, they

785
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 3: just transcribe it, so I don't.

786
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Speaker 1: Well, it's not really to say something short, it's to

787
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: have a long conversation about what I used to do. Yeah,

788
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Speaker 1: I just I do.

789
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Speaker 3: I talked on the phone last night for a while

790
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 3: to my friend and that was really like, we probably

791
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 3: went an hour and twenty seven minutes. I was like, man,

792
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 3: the stupid podcast. That's all I like. I think about

793
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 3: my wife in term of podcasting time. No, it feels

794
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 3: so good to talk on the phone. It's something we

795
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 3: probably should do more of and night not isolate ourselves.

796
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 3: But we're also fucking lonely. Yeah, people are like so

797
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 3: lonely out there. I was talking about it the other day.

798
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 3: I was doing this shoot and me and my makeup

799
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 3: artists we're talking about how lonely people are. And this

800
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 3: guy was in the room kind of just like filming

801
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: b roll footage and we weren't even talking to him

802
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 3: because he was just filming and not supposed to be

803
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 3: a part of the conversation. And he was like, I was,

804
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 3: I have a family and during COVID I was lonely.

805
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 1: Wow.

806
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 3: We were just like whoh man. He's like, I have

807
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 3: a full family that I was living with And in

808
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 3: the middle of the night I couldn't wake up my

809
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 3: wife to talk and I just had no one to call,

810
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 3: and I'm like, fuck, dude. Yeah, we'll need community. People

811
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 3: need places to go, people need friends, people need girls chats.

812
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: You have boys chat.

813
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 1: I have boys chat. Yeah. I mean no, I always

814
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: say it, like it. People are seeking out community now

815
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: more than ever. You can go on like Reddit, I guess,

816
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,240
Speaker 1: and then get feel worse.

817
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 3: But no, there's some good areas in reddit.

818
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 1: There's some good areas in reddit. If you're having a

819
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: real problem. If you're having like a real problem, going

820
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 1: on Reddit has been helpful for me.

821
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Speaker 3: If you're having are you serious, like you've shared about

822
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 3: a problem on Reddit?

823
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, like an emotional problem, like for example, like now

824
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: I'm on like the TMJ reddit and I'm posting like

825
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: my experiences with and like the people on there like

826
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: are like supportive and want to help, and yes, give advice,

827
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: and it's it's really nice to talk to some people

828
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: who have gone through the same thing that you're going through.

829
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Speaker 3: If you have a planner's word, go to the warts subreddit. Yeah,

830
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 3: and half of us will just ask you to stick

831
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Speaker 3: a rusty nail in it and shave it off with

832
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 3: just cuticle clippers that you haven't cleaned. But some people

833
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 3: there will offer you actual advice. But there are sickos

834
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 3: in there that just want you to be We want

835
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 3: you to like document your pain. It's like half people

836
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 3: that are like, oh, rip that thing out, just pull

837
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 3: it out. People always go rusty plyers, rusty pliers. And

838
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 3: then other people are like, you can use apple cider

839
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 3: vinegar every night, shave it down to bride it. Then

840
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 3: you can use the Swift treatment. Like there's actual treatments,

841
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 3: but then there's sickos, but yeah, there's there's even I

842
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 3: follow the subreddit Depression. There are constantly people on there

843
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 3: that are like, I'm killing myself tomorrow, and then I

844
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 3: constantly see them get talked out of it because all

845
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 3: these people come to the rescue and are like, call

846
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 3: me right now. You think no one cares about you,

847
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 3: I care about you. I'll literally talk to you right now.

848
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Speaker 3: And it's just so beautiful.

849
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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's something. It's like one it's like these little

850
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: beautiful corner of the Internet that's like the opposite.

851
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: People are really nice.

852
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: I know. That's why, fuck man, the Internet is such

853
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 1: a fucked up place because there's so much hate and

854
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 1: there's so many people just ripping people down. But then

855
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: there's this like little three percent of the Internet where

856
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: there are these like little nice communities where actually people

857
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: help each other. But most of it is just pure

858
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: like vitriol, racism, and hatred.

859
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Speaker 2: I know.

860
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Speaker 4: But is that so it's like, what's natural? Is it

861
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 4: that there's more people who are compassionate and empathetic, but

862
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 4: we just can't find them because the algorithm pushes the

863
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 4: other stuff up, so they could pollute.

864
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: Our minds with all this negative shit.

865
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 3: I think that there's we're all both and the side

866
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 3: of us that is like mean and cruel and vindictive

867
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 3: is winning out because we're so isolated and because we're

868
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 3: all addicted to our phones, and we don't have communities,

869
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 3: so we all have it in us to be both.

870
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: I think, well the number one thing I think and that.

871
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 3: Society is driving us towards the bad.

872
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: You have the ability to be anonymous also, and when

873
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 1: you can be anonymous, you can be a huge piece

874
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: of shit.

875
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 3: It's been talked about ad nauseum about like when you

876
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 3: can be like the difference between being anonymous and not

877
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 3: like it's David Spade used to tell me that the

878
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 3: only way celebrities would ever get taken down back in

879
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 3: the nineties was literally when he would do that weekend

880
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 3: update segment called Showbiz Showdown. That was the only time

881
00:39:55,080 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 3: celebrities heard actual joking, mean sometimes mean feedback about what

882
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 3: they were doing. You know, when he said, like I

883
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 3: went and saw the bodyguard this weekend and I want

884
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 3: my money back, like that kind of thing. He got

885
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 3: in so much trouble with. There's still celebrities to this

886
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 3: day that don't talk to David's Maade because of his

887
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 3: nineties segment because there was no can you imagine nowhere else?

888
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 3: Sometimes maybe it was Joan Rivers on like a red

889
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 3: carpet show that was maybe in the early two thousands

890
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 3: that started to get mean about celebrities, and then it

891
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 3: was US Weekly and it would be that backpage that

892
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 3: would make fun of their outfits, and comedians would make fun.

893
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 3: But there was not constant comments from anyone talking about

894
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,720
Speaker 3: anything they want all the time. And now with YouTube comments,

895
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 3: they they they're on a scroll, so like if you

896
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 3: don't even want to make comments, you have to read them,

897
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 3: and they keep serving up new ones, and I'm like,

898
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 3: I don't want anyone's fuck, I hate it. I don't

899
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 3: want any I want to go search comments if I

900
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 3: want to stop giving me unsolicited comments from people that

901
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 3: I don't need that are just uh, that's true, manipulating

902
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: how I perceived this thing. I used to like it,

903
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 3: and now I don't because this fucking asshole who I

904
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 3: don't even know who he is. And then I met

905
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 3: I talked to someone recently who got so much criticism

906
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: of about someone. I wish I've remembered what it was.

907
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 3: It could have been something I was watching. And then

908
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 3: someone goes, how many people have said this to your face?

909
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 3: And it's like, this was like a megastar. I forget

910
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: who I think it was something I watched it on

911
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: and they go, so, how many people have said this

912
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 3: to your face? And they're really struggling with how much

913
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 3: backlash there was about this performance or whatever they did,

914
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 3: and they go, no one, literally no one. Can you

915
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 3: imagine that celebrity in the nineties would have had none

916
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 3: of the negative feedback that they got. Yeah, none, maybe

917
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 3: a review and your times if you were lucky, the

918
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 3: fan mail, but you would have to write, like it

919
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 3: was still hard to get a letter written you be

920
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 3: happy in the nineties.

921
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 1: Someone just trying to write You're a fucking loser and

922
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: write that in a letter.

923
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 3: And they would those people would kill you. It would

924
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 3: be the easiest way to find the people that were

925
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 3: gonna kill you, you know, amongst all of the comments

926
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 3: that you get, because somewhere in there someone would kill

927
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 3: you and it's hard to find which But that was that's.

928
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: Such a funny if people have if people have to

929
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: write their letters, I just don't find women funny. And

930
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: then they go.

931
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:10,720
Speaker 3: To the the whole time.

932
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: I mean, then if they went through that much trouble.

933
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 3: The effort, cameltoe t o W, you're like, you couldn't

934
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 3: even okay, thanks, Yeah, it's it's it's just we should

935
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 3: not have all these opinions, and not only me as

936
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 3: like a celebrity or whatever. Shouldn't have these opinions. You

937
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 3: and me as a consumer should not have everyone's opinions

938
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 3: about everything we fucking consume. Except I'm just ken is

939
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 3: the best thing ever?

940
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 4: Just don't have to comment on positive.

941
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 3: My new thing is like I do not. I am

942
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 3: trying my damn this. I'll tell you after the break. Wait, oh,

943
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 3: Brian has to go. Okay, Brian, where you're gonna miss

944
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 3: what I'm gonna tell you? But it doesn't matter. You'll

945
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 3: hear it later. Brian has to go, where are you

946
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 3: going a meeting or something?

947
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

948
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:05,479
Speaker 3: Oh cool? All right, I can't tell us what happens

949
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 3: with that oil rig? All right, thanks Brian. Later, all right,

950
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: we're back. Okay. This new thing I'm doing is I

951
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: am trying to be zero negativity online anymore.

952
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm trying to be zero negativity in general.

953
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 3: Okay, let's share. Let's share what we've been doing, Like,

954
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 3: what's something, What's something that you found yourself going like

955
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 3: I would have done it? And then I just stopped myself.

956
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 3: Have you done it?

957
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: Well?

958
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,359
Speaker 4: So for me, it's more about like negative self talk

959
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 4: and just like reframing how I would say something about

960
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 4: myself or that I want or.

961
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: Like I look forward to or something.

962
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 3: Like that, instead of I have to go do this again,

963
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 3: like instead.

964
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 4: Of I need, there's no need, there's I would enjoy

965
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: having that or something like that, or I'm going to work.

966
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 3: I would enjoy food, shelter and water and air.

967
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 4: But yeah, so mine is more like it's actually what

968
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 4: you were talking about earlier about like those monks who

969
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 4: don't feel pain. I'm trying to do gentle birthing, which

970
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 4: is like a form of natural birth, just gonna try.

971
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 4: I don't know how it works, but I'm putting any expectations.

972
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 3: I asked my mom yesterday she had us both naturally.

973
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 4: Oh okay, great, I'll text her and ask her.

974
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 3: You really should. I don't know how she did it. Well,

975
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 3: it's incredible.

976
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 4: From what I'm reading this, it's like it's like labor

977
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 4: and childbirth and all that, like the whole thing about

978
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 4: it being painful and like a terrible experience and you're

979
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 4: just kind of like wrung out at the end. That's

980
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 4: all that was awful, Like the thirteen hundreds shuttled in

981
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 4: by priests to punish women, where before that women were celebrated,

982
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 4: it involved community. It was you know like you just

983
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 4: kind of squat down, pull the baby out, and that's it.

984
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,720
Speaker 4: Like it's not your body is doesn't it could be painless?

985
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 3: Just crazy. Well, I think you're so right, Like we

986
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 3: just go along with whatever society is kind of telling

987
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 3: us what that experience is. Oh you're turning forty okay,

988
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 3: well back pain starts. It's just like these this mean

989
00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 3: culture of like what what we are, how we should

990
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 3: experience life. We just fall in line with in so

991
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 3: many ways.

992
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 4: Well that's what I'm saying, Like good us taking that

993
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 4: in and then speaking it out loud is perpetuating it.

994
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 4: We can Yeah, like I really believe that we can

995
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 4: change that.

996
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 3: I do too. I had to, I like flew in

997
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 3: my music producer this week to write a song because

998
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 3: I just want to work on writing an album. Maybe

999
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 3: we wrote a song before together so easily, so I didn't.

1000
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 3: But I didn't write a song prior to this. Like

1001
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 3: last time I brought in a song and then he

1002
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 3: helped me shape it. But this time I just didn't

1003
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 3: get around to writing the song. But the night I

1004
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 3: gave myself. On Monday night, I was like, I have

1005
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: to write the song was starting yesterday morning, Tuesday, and

1006
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 3: Monday night. I was just like couldn't bring myself to

1007
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,439
Speaker 3: do it. So I just started being like, I can't

1008
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 3: believe we wrote like the greatest song. Like I kept

1009
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 3: doing that thing of like can't believe I'm writing the

1010
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 3: greatest song I will ever write this week, Like I

1011
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 3: can't believe. This song just flow out of me so

1012
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 3: naturally and helped me deal with like what I was

1013
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 3: actually experiencing life. Like I just started talking about what

1014
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 3: the song would bring me like, and and it's yesterday.

1015
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 3: He got here and we kind of worked on something.

1016
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 3: He had like brought an idea, and so we were

1017
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 3: like writing to track. I guess is what it's called.

1018
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 3: Like he came in with a track and then we

1019
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 3: were writing to that, and I started with the like concept.

1020
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: I was really struggling with it because like, I am

1021
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 3: going through feelings that I'm not ready to like share

1022
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 3: publicly yet. I guess is my point, Like I would,

1023
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 3: I would kind of compare it. It's not the same thing,

1024
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 3: but I think Taylor Swift get Ready for Swift Corner,

1025
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 3: She released Midnights in October of twenty twenty two, and

1026
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 3: then she and Joe broke up in the spring of

1027
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 3: twenty twenty three. But when she released Midnights, there's like

1028
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 3: lots of love songs on there. And I've talked about

1029
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 3: this before, but Midnights has always even when it came out,

1030
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 3: it was a breakup album. To me, I was like,

1031
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 3: this is about ultimately, this is about a relationship that

1032
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 3: is not doing well. But she couldn't say that explicitly.

1033
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 3: It's all like when you when you now look at

1034
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 3: it through the lens of oh my god, the relationship

1035
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 3: is falling apart during this you see it so clearly.

1036
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 3: But she wasn't free to do that because you was

1037
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 3: still in the relationship. So here's the things I want

1038
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 3: to talk about. I can't because I'm it's I'm still

1039
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 3: struggling with them, like the career decisions that I'm wanting

1040
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 3: to write about.

1041
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 4: But by the time it comes out, because it takes

1042
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 4: a little bit of time to produce an album and

1043
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 4: to master the tracks and all of that. Just think

1044
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 4: about you in the future and how you'll feel probably

1045
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 4: a lot better.

1046
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 3: I have to write metaphorically, and you have to go. Oh, like,

1047
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 3: even if they the people that I don't want to

1048
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 3: hear this hear this, they won't think it's about them.

1049
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I mean, doesn't that kind of relate to

1050
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 4: right comedy and performing stuff on stage?

1051
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 3: Yeah? With commed it totally does comedy, though it's not

1052
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 3: as emotional, and it can be and comedy. I feel safe.

1053
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 3: I can say whatever I want because at live shows,

1054
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 3: none of the people that I'm talking about are ever there,

1055
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 3: and no one's recording because you can't record stuff there.

1056
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 3: So it's not going to live anywhere until I decide

1057
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 3: it's ready to live somewhere, and by the time I

1058
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 3: take my next special, this issue will be resolved that

1059
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 3: I'm working on stage. So my live shows really are

1060
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,280
Speaker 3: a place where I feel the most free to express

1061
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 3: myself and I don't struggle with this thing. And it's

1062
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 3: kind of weird because when you're struggling, I got If

1063
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 3: I could ask Taylor Swift anything today, I would ask her,

1064
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 3: how weird is it when you have written like a

1065
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 3: very vulnerable song that is so emotional and you have

1066
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 3: to present it to like your guy friends and it's

1067
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 3: like filled with girl feelings, you know, and like you like,

1068
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 3: is that how does that feel? And I guess I

1069
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 3: could ask any female musician that, like, or any musician

1070
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 3: really just like what does it feel like to write

1071
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 3: a let's say, a breakup song if you're going through

1072
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 3: like really woe is me? Like really sappy feelings? And

1073
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 3: then you're like this, like cool guy.

1074
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 4: I mean if they're if they're music, I mean, Anya

1075
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 4: would be a great person to ask, but they probably

1076
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 4: enjoy letting that out and just kidding.

1077
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right. He can ask her. She literally is

1078
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 3: a phone call away. But would she pick up, Yes,

1079
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 3: she would. Yeah, you're right, it's it's probably they probably

1080
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 3: like it, and and and the thing is, I've just

1081
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 3: that was something that was really scary for me to

1082
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 3: do in starting to write music, was like, Okay, I'm

1083
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 3: gonna share this with like actual musicians who've been doing

1084
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 3: this for twenty years, Like are they gonna be like, yeah,

1085
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 3: that's a good idea, Like the way sometimes when people

1086
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 3: tell me to here's a joke idea, and I'm like, oh, boy, Like,

1087
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,720
Speaker 3: but these guys I'm paying them to like actually treat

1088
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 3: this like a real thing, Like if someone brought me

1089
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,439
Speaker 3: a joke. Some of the joke ideas I've been brought

1090
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 3: that are so bad. I couldn't You couldn't pay me

1091
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 3: to lie to them and say it's good. So I'm like,

1092
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 3: are these guys going are they being?

1093
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 4: Now You're making it negative because you're saying, oh, they

1094
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 4: only want to work with shit because I'm paying them.

1095
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,479
Speaker 2: This is only Well.

1096
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 3: I've sent several times to them, and he's like, no,

1097
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 3: I said, oh.

1098
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 4: They could turn you down and say, actually I can't, like,

1099
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 4: I only take your Donna.

1100
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 3: Well, you know my friend Dan Monahan, who's from the

1101
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 3: band The Dog and Everything. He and he writes with

1102
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 3: the Plain White Tea's he's my guy and we have

1103
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: become such good friends that I flew him in this

1104
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 3: week and yesterday I was like, who's not as soon

1105
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 3: as Tim are? Like Tim Convey, my boyfriend's brother is

1106
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 3: like kind of the task master of the group and

1107
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 3: like really wants to move things along and like, you know,

1108
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 3: he's just a musician producer vibe. Yeah, he's a musician

1109
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,360
Speaker 3: as well, but he also has a baby and a

1110
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 3: family and a house far away. So I flew Dan

1111
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 3: in from Chicago to come write with me, and he's

1112
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: staying at the hotel next to my apartment. So him

1113
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 3: and I like didn't have a talk about what this

1114
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 3: week was. Even I was just like, hey, I want

1115
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 3: to write another song. Come down. This was a few

1116
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 3: weeks ago. So he's here and we meet up yesterday

1117
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 3: and I said him a few songs of like things

1118
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 3: I wanted to it to sound like. And we said

1119
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 3: down yesterday and go, I just want to tell you

1120
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 3: I did not write a song because last time I

1121
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 3: wrote a song and I had something for us to

1122
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 3: work on, and I was like, I got nothing. I

1123
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 3: got a couple ideas in my phone, a couple of lines,

1124
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 3: and he's like, it's fine, dude, it's fine. Starts so that, yeah,

1125
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 3: I didn't and I don't know this. So I was

1126
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,319
Speaker 3: just like felt guilty. But then I was like, oh wait,

1127
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 3: even if I do nothing, I'm gonna pay this person

1128
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 3: and I'll feel okay about it because they I won't

1129
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 3: have wasted his time. My fear is that I'm wasting

1130
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 3: his time. He could be off writing and producing with

1131
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,720
Speaker 3: someone else that would actually you know, they produce something,

1132
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 3: and and I might night this week, like I thought

1133
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 3: i'd be in the mood to write a.

1134
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 4: Song this week you could also not You could also

1135
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,359
Speaker 4: see it as like this is this guy's profession and

1136
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 4: he probably gets a lot of joy and you know

1137
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 4: he does self worth or you know, like just like

1138
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 4: like he's amazing, purposeful helping people get from Oh I

1139
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 4: came here with nothing to a fully produced.

1140
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 3: And that is so true about him. He does love it.

1141
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 3: And he told me, I go, this is like a

1142
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,720
Speaker 3: passion project for me. I really don't have a deadline.

1143
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 3: I'm not like super like we gotta get this done,

1144
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 3: so it's it's it might be like a gradual process.

1145
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 3: And I was like, so if you ever just so

1146
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 3: you know, that's kind of how I'm approaching it. And

1147
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 3: I'll always pay you for your time. Like if we

1148
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 3: don't write anything, don't think of that that's like a

1149
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 3: failure unless you want to and then you don't have

1150
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 3: to show up, like it's totally up to you. And

1151
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 3: he was like, this is a passion project for me too,

1152
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 3: like I and he was like, I just like hanging out.

1153
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 3: So yesterday as soon as Tim left to go like

1154
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 3: take care of his family, he was like, Okay, so

1155
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 3: you guys are gonna work on this. We're gonna get

1156
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 3: the bridge we're gonna do this final thought, tim Confy's like,

1157
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 3: you're gonna get this, You're gonna work on the bridge,

1158
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 3: You're gonna finish up that thought. I think maybe we

1159
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:40,919
Speaker 3: should take the lyrics in the destruction. He like gives

1160
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,399
Speaker 3: us all these prompts and then he leaves, and then

1161
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:45,279
Speaker 3: Dan I was like, can I play you a couple

1162
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 3: of songs that I liked listening to. I'm like, now

1163
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 3: I'm like trying to get him into Taylor Swift. And

1164
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 3: then I was like, wait, can wait? Can you tease

1165
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,640
Speaker 3: me how to play this on the guitar. So now

1166
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 3: we are like Nicky Glazer has gotten the thing off

1167
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 3: track as I do like. He's like he said something

1168
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 3: yesterday about like, yeah, if I really wanna work on

1169
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 3: a song, I'll work with this person who like will

1170
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 3: keep me on track. And I'm like, and if you

1171
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 3: want to eat skinny pop all day and hang out

1172
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 3: on my balcony and talk about life, you'll work with

1173
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 3: Nicki Glazer because I will. I love not doing work.

1174
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 3: I love finding other things to like waste our time.

1175
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 3: So we watched Seinfeld, we jammed out to Taylor Swift,

1176
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 3: we sang karaoke, We we just did, and by the

1177
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 3: end of the day, I was like. Tim wrote back

1178
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 3: and was like, so, how's it going. I'm like, we

1179
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:31,240
Speaker 3: literally haven't done anything for the song since you left.

1180
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 3: And he was like, okay, but I think we have

1181
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 3: a hit on our hands, and I'm like, you're right,

1182
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 3: we do. We have not taken even a single step

1183
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 3: in that direction. But we just had a good bonding

1184
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 3: day and we are closer than ever and that's what

1185
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 3: this day was about. So it ended up being such

1186
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 3: a great day. He left at like ten o'clock and

1187
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 3: was like, I think this was one of the best

1188
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,879
Speaker 3: days of my life. And I was like, dude, this

1189
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 3: is the life, Like beautiful spring day in Saint Louis,

1190
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:57,800
Speaker 3: walking around getting Starbucks, getting takeout, talking about life, sharing

1191
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 3: like as friends. It was just so fun and like

1192
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 3: just playing and singing music. So today we got to

1193
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 3: buckle down and write and I am looking forward to

1194
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 3: it because I think I have an actual promise for

1195
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 3: the for the song. But oh so, what I've been

1196
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 3: doing though on Instagram, like I've been wanting Usually if

1197
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:18,840
Speaker 3: I see something on Instagram, I want to make fun of.

1198
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 3: It's the way someone's dressed, the way someone looks something

1199
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 3: they've done to their face that I want to go,

1200
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 3: what does she do to her a face? Or like

1201
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 3: when an Innette, I just shoot it off to Anya

1202
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 3: and we make fun of it in our DMS like

1203
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 3: it is. That's just what I do. That's what I've

1204
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 3: always done. If I want to make fun of someone,

1205
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,919
Speaker 3: if I want to go, I just I love making

1206
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 3: fun of people behind their backs on Instagram. It's one

1207
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 3: of my favorite things to do with my personal friends,

1208
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 3: my close friends who I trust, who will not like

1209
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:46,800
Speaker 3: that would never get out. I always double check that

1210
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 3: I'm not sending the post of the person to the person.

1211
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:50,959
Speaker 2: Oh you know, yes.

1212
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 3: But then yesterday I was about to send one off

1213
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 3: and I was like, why, why, right? Could would you

1214
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:57,919
Speaker 3: say this to their face?

1215
00:54:58,000 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 2: Nikki?

1216
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 3: No, never would And if this actually excellently you did

1217
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 3: send it to them instead of her, well, how would

1218
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 3: that affect your life so fucking negatively? And also do

1219
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 3: you want people doing this about you? One percent?

1220
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 1: No?

1221
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 3: So I just didn't send it. And you know what,

1222
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 3: I don't even remember what it was. It was not important.

1223
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 3: I didn't you need to send off that negative, judgmental

1224
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,959
Speaker 3: bullshit that I usually send off, and will it ruin

1225
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 3: my relationships with certain people? Sure, because like drinking, when

1226
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 3: you stop drinking, yep, you fall away from the people

1227
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 3: used to drink with. And people go, I don't want

1228
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 3: to lose those friends. You won't want them because you'll

1229
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 3: realize all that was keeping you together was drinking. So

1230
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 3: if I have, if Anya and I have so much

1231
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 3: more of a friendship than talking shit about celebrities, so

1232
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 3: that that I know can slip away without me losing

1233
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: anything that we have. And also I was talking shit

1234
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 3: about to Dan, my producer. I was telling some story. No, no, no,

1235
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 3: this was the other night. I was talking to a

1236
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 3: friend about a comedian who just had had a like

1237
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 3: a scam last week, and oh, I was asking Brian,

1238
00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 3: I go, do you hear about blah blah blah? And

1239
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 3: he goes no, And I was like, oh so, and

1240
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 3: I go, actually, if you haven't heard about it, let's

1241
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 3: pretend it didn't happen. Like, actually, I don't even think

1242
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 3: the thing was true because the person is like suing

1243
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 3: for defamation, So like, I'm gonna support this person and

1244
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 3: not spread it more. Even though it sounded so juicy

1245
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 3: the way, I was like, oh my God, did you

1246
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 3: hear about it? And he was like, wait what I go.

1247
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 3: I'm sad, I'm even put that out there. I am not,

1248
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 3: I'm not. I don't want to talk shit anymore. I

1249
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 3: really my friend Rick Lastman, I talked to him recently

1250
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:34,760
Speaker 3: and I hung out with him for an extended amount

1251
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 3: of time, and he's just like, doesn't talk shit about people.

1252
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 2: Gossip It's really sick and you know.

1253
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 3: Something annoying at first, but it's He's right.

1254
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 4: It's kind of like what you said about sobriety because

1255
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 4: when I was consciously trying to stop gossiping in like

1256
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 4: at like a work environment, because I realized at the

1257
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:56,400
Speaker 4: end of gossip session this like gossip circle, everyone feels frustrated,

1258
00:56:56,840 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 4: everyone feels demoralized, and nothing is changing.

1259
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 3: So when you feel alive, I know, but I feel

1260
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 3: connected with people, it's fake intimacy.

1261
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 2: It's fake intimacy.

1262
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:10,839
Speaker 4: But you'll see that when you start to pull away

1263
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 4: from that, you really will lose people, Like they'll get

1264
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 4: annoyed with you, because misery loves company.

1265
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 3: Oh, I've been around people who won't talk shit Glassman.

1266
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 3: I mean I tried to talk shit around him about

1267
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 3: someone I think and he just didn't pick it up,

1268
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 3: and I knew, I know he's able to pick this.

1269
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 2: Did it irritate you?

1270
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 3: No, it really was like it it made me. I

1271
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 3: think there was a little bit of shame that I

1272
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 3: felt at first because I felt like he was then

1273
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: judging me for being that way. So I maybe internalize

1274
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 3: some shame there that he wasn't even meaning to bestow

1275
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 3: onto me. But then at one point we got to talking,

1276
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 3: I think hours later after we were hanging out, and

1277
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 3: he's just said something about like, I don't really gossip,

1278
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 3: and I was like, well, you know, I don't like

1279
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 3: to talk bad about people that I wouldn't say to

1280
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 3: their face. And I said that like that, and he goes,

1281
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 3: but you're not saying it to their face. Even if

1282
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 3: you say, but I would say this to their face,

1283
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 3: well then call them up first and say it to

1284
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 3: their face, and then say it to your friend if

1285
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:11,959
Speaker 3: you really would, Like the truth is when I say

1286
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 3: i'd and i'd say this to her face, I don't

1287
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 3: mean that ninety nine percent of the time. And he

1288
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 3: was right. And so it's like I do find really excitement,

1289
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,280
Speaker 3: a lot of excitement and secrets. But here's the thing.

1290
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 3: Is like, I share all of my secrets. So if

1291
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 3: we just became more honest with ourselves, we wouldn't have

1292
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 3: to be talking shit because talking shit comes from a

1293
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 3: place of like can you believe she did this? And

1294
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,040
Speaker 3: it comes from like wanting to shame other people. But

1295
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 3: if everyone was just what was that?

1296
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 2: Or self hatred?

1297
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1298
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 3: I mean pretty much every time that I'm judging anyone

1299
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 3: for anything, it's always about my own insecurity. I don't care.

1300
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 3: If something it doesn't have anything to do with me,

1301
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 3: and it looks bad, I'm like, I don't care. But

1302
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 3: if something looks bad, then I'm like, oh, I might

1303
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 3: do that to my face? I'm like, what did she

1304
00:58:57,160 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 3: do it? Like cat, It's just there's I love. I

1305
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 3: love what I catch myself about to be negative. I

1306
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 3: might I like, I stop downvoting things on Reddit or

1307
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 3: up voting negative comments if someone like used to talk

1308
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 3: shit about someone that I didn't like. I would never

1309
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 3: write a negative comment about a comedian I didn't like.

1310
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 3: But if someone said a comment that I was like, yeah,

1311
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 3: this person fucking gets that they're a charlatan, I would

1312
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 3: like upvote it. I don't even do that anymore. I

1313
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 3: won't even support negative comments anymore. I'm really this is

1314
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 3: like me in the past month, I've weeded it out

1315
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 3: of my system. Talking about it feels good because it'll

1316
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 3: make me do it even even more.

1317
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: So.

1318
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 4: You're not sending posts to your friend to be like,

1319
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 4: oh my god, look at that. You're not down voting

1320
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 4: or up things in up voting, negative comments, anything else.

1321
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,760
Speaker 3: I saw a guy at the airport writing a comment

1322
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 3: on an Instagram post. Have you ever witnessed someone writing

1323
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 3: a comments. It's such a weird thing to see because

1324
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 3: you don't even attach a person to these things. And

1325
00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 3: so to see him writing a comment. I saw him

1326
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 3: look at a picture. Then I saw him go to

1327
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 3: the bubble and then start writing a comment on Instagram,

1328
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 3: a big paragraph, and men, did I want to see

1329
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 3: what he was writing because I was just I was

1330
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 3: dying to go find the comment and go I just

1331
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 3: watched him write this. This is like, she's a disgusting

1332
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 3: guy sitting at start like causing more hate. I wouldn't

1333
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 3: have done that, but I would have been like, I

1334
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 3: saw you write this, I caught you gate thirty seven

1335
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 3: cy Like. It would have just been so funny to

1336
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 3: be like I just saw you do this and be this.

1337
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 3: And actually I wouldn't have been anonymouscause I would have

1338
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 3: written it from mine. But it just seeing someone write

1339
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 3: a comment is so vulnerable. You're just like, ew, why

1340
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:37,000
Speaker 3: are you wasting your time typing a sentence to strangers?

1341
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 3: No one cares what you think. Keep this inside unless

1342
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 3: it's positive, unless it's like slag girl, you look amazing.

1343
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't wait to see this. Whatever,

1344
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 3: just don't do it. Just challenge yourself today to not

1345
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:52,440
Speaker 3: text or write or vote anything negative. See what happens.

1346
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 3: Because you won't, you won't have this longing for it.

1347
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 3: I always do this with like things i'm buying. If

1348
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, if I'm going on a shopping online and

1349
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 3: I'm feeling a little bit manic, I'll add a bunch

1350
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 3: of stuff to my cart and I go, you can

1351
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 3: check this cart out tomorrow if you're still thinking about

1352
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 3: these things. And I never am. Ever, the next day

1353
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 3: I can't even remember one. Maybe once or twice I've

1354
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 3: been like, no, I do really want that bag or

1355
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 3: that suitcase or whatever. And sometimes I'll go through my

1356
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 3: Poshmark likes and I'm like, oh, she offered me, you

1357
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 3: know ten percent off. Let me you know what I

1358
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:28,479
Speaker 3: actually do want this I forgot like, but just add

1359
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 3: things to cart before you press go. My voice teacher

1360
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 3: has a thing written on his wall in his room,

1361
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 3: and I wish I could remember the exact phrasing. But

1362
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 3: it's like engaged brain before opening mouth. And that's for singing,

1363
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 3: Like think about what you're about to sing before you

1364
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 3: just sing it. Think about what you're about to speak

1365
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 3: before you speak it. When I did not have a

1366
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 3: voice for those three weeks when I was having vocal

1367
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 3: cord surgery, the biggest lesson I learned was that in

1368
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 3: order for me to communicate, I had to think the thought.

1369
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 3: Then I had to go to my phone and type

1370
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 3: in right, and then I had to hold it up.

1371
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 3: There were I would say half of the time I

1372
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,440
Speaker 3: would just start typing and go, this isn't worth like

1373
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 3: whatever it is. But I would not have even had

1374
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 3: that moment because it would have just flown out of

1375
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 3: my mouth. There would be no thought. So so much

1376
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 3: of what we say, including this most of this podcast,

1377
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 3: is just there's no plan for it. It just flies

1378
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 3: out of your mouth. And like, I just want to

1379
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 3: take more of a beat in life and go like,

1380
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 3: is this really what I want to say?

1381
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 2: Good for you?

1382
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 3: Is this really what I want to do? And it's

1383
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 3: like you feel very in control when you're able to

1384
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 3: catch those moments before they happen, and you're like, am

1385
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 3: I fucking gandhi because I didn't just send this picture

1386
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 3: of this girl and I'm where I'm questioning if she's

1387
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 3: pregnant or not or whatever it is. I'm ready to

1388
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 3: talk shit or speculate on that's not on my fucking business. Yeah,

1389
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 3: it feels really good. It feels really good to just

1390
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 3: only be sending pictures of Emily Blunt at the Oscars

1391
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 3: and saying, this is the most gorgeous human being I've

1392
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 3: ever seen in my life, and I don't understand it.

1393
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 3: I am Her look at the Oscars is my favorite

1394
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 3: look I think of all time of Anyone's the glow,

1395
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 3: the hair, the dress that has the elevated Did you

1396
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 3: see these straps They're like elevated. This new thing is

1397
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 3: like the strap comes off the shoulder like a plastic

1398
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 3: bag that's been like picked up. You know, Yes, it's

1399
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 3: so cool. I love it. God, I loved her look

1400
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:25,320
Speaker 3: so much. We didn't even talk about Oscar Margot Robbie.

1401
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 3: I loved her look for the Oscars because it was

1402
01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 3: like a dark purple brown blackish dress, which is her

1403
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 3: first time not wearing Barbiecore in like a year and

1404
01:03:33,480 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 3: a half, like she's always dressed in Barbiecore something Barbie.

1405
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:42,439
Speaker 3: I loved Ariana Grande's. I loved Florence Pugh. She also

1406
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:47,040
Speaker 3: had the elevated strap look, and I think that was

1407
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 3: all my like real favorites. But that fucking Emily Blunt look.

1408
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,439
Speaker 3: I can't stop thinking about it. I want that dewey skin.

1409
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna figure out, Like that's the plastic surgeon. I

1410
01:03:56,240 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 3: want whoever she has, Like that's the name I have

1411
01:04:00,360 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 3: to get, and I don't know how to get it,

1412
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 3: but I shan't have any work done until I find

1413
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 3: that person.

1414
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 2: Pretty sure. A part of it was the makeup that

1415
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 2: she was wearing.

1416
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 3: Absolutely, oh my god, make up springe a difference when

1417
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 3: these people fucking know what they're doing, because I think

1418
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 3: I know what I'm doing, and when I do a

1419
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 3: makeup it's disgusting, Like actually, I'm trying my best. It's

1420
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 3: really good when I do my bakeup, but it's Fantastic'm

1421
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 3: trying to say positive. It's fantastic. When makeup with actual

1422
01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 3: artists professional, it's like someone you know, it's like me

1423
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:37,520
Speaker 3: drawing a picture of a like mountain range versus Bob

1424
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 3: Ross doing it or whatever. You know what I mean,

1425
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 3: Like I think I can oh these are mountains, and

1426
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 3: you can go, oh, yeah they are. But like I'm

1427
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:47,000
Speaker 3: not makeup. We don't think of it like that is

1428
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 3: like such an art that has such a learning curve.

1429
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 3: But yeah, so we covered a lot today. Brian's on here,

1430
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 3: but we have shows this weekend. Oh god do we

1431
01:04:56,800 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 3: have shows Grand Rapids and Columbus, And then next week

1432
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 3: we have Cincinnati and Gary, Indiana. And then I just

1433
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 3: announced a bunch of tour dates over the summer that

1434
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 3: just went on presale and you can get them now

1435
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 3: on pre sale using code good. They go on actual

1436
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 3: sale on Friday, but they're on presale right now. You

1437
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 3: use code good and just go find it out my website.

1438
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 3: I'm going to Boulder, I'm going to Cleveland, I'm going

1439
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 3: to God, what are the other cities? They're all like Charlotte.

1440
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 4: And you also have Vegas with David Spide When is

1441
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 4: that you have one in May? May seventeen, Oh my God,

1442
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,479
Speaker 4: May seventeenth with David's Made in Vegas.

1443
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 3: The please go to that. That'll be oh my god.

1444
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 3: At the Venetian. There's such amazing shows. If you want

1445
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 3: to plan like a girls tripper, boys trip to Vegas,

1446
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 3: or just a trip alone, it's worth it to go

1447
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 3: see that show. But h yes, Boulder, Salt Lake City, Cleveland, Indianapolis,

1448
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 3: and Charlotte all on sale. These are June and July

1449
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 3: dates this summer. Have your first summer plans started now

1450
01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 3: by getting tickets and you can get special ticket prices

1451
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 3: right now on the pre sale. But tomorrow on Friday,

1452
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 3: they do go on sale for everyone and you'll get

1453
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 3: regular prices. But right now you can use code good

1454
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 3: and get on presale prices for these summer day days Thursday.

1455
01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 3: Technically right, That's what I'm saying. So today you have

1456
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 3: today today until tomorrow that they go on sale at

1457
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,200
Speaker 3: ten am and they go switch to the regular price.

1458
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 3: But right now, get it now, get it now, use

1459
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 3: code good. Okay, thank you guys, I will see you

1460
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 3: at those shows see this weekend, busties. Thank you for

1461
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 3: listening to the show this week. Thank you, Noah, thank

1462
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 3: you Brian, Dolbeka and Bye