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Speaker 1: Subject my ex paid for my grandma's funeral. Here Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I am engaged to a man that I work with.

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Speaker 1: We both teach elementary school, and when he transferred to

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Speaker 1: my school, it was love at first sight for me.

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Speaker 1: At the time, I had only been divorced a few

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Speaker 1: months and my ex husband was still pursuing me and

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Speaker 1: trying to work things out. He cheated on me more

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Speaker 1: than a few times when we were married, so I

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Speaker 1: divorced him. He didn't contest anything, and I got whatever

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Speaker 1: I asked for because he is still in love with me.

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Speaker 1: I have our family home sitting on three acres, and

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Speaker 1: he let me have both our dogs. I lost respect

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Speaker 1: for him every time I heard a rumor of him cheating,

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Speaker 1: and I'm much happier divorced. Now. Fast forward to when

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Speaker 1: I met my fiance and we became inseparable in no time.

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Speaker 1: My ex husband was overbearing and used his money to

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Speaker 1: try to lure me back in. He bought me a

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Speaker 1: range Rover last year for my birthday, and I could

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Speaker 1: not tell my fiance this, so the car is still

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Speaker 1: at my ex's house. When we first got engaged, I

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Speaker 1: was honest with my fiance about my ex's extravagant gifts

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Speaker 1: so he wouldn't find out later and be upset. He

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Speaker 1: told me that I do not set boundaries with my

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Speaker 1: ex because I liked the attention. I told him I

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Speaker 1: would do better. Then, my grandma died. She and my

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Speaker 1: ex husband were very close, so I knew he'd be

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Speaker 1: at the funeral. My fiance and my fiance and I

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Speaker 1: went to her funeral, and as soon as a service

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Speaker 1: my ex husband for paying for everything. My fiance was

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Speaker 1: furious so we skipped the repast. I tried to control

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Speaker 1: the situation by calling my X and telling him to

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Speaker 1: stop coming around my family. My fiance told me that

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Speaker 1: we're going to pay my ex husband back for the funeral.

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Speaker 1: Is my fiance crazy? Why does it matter who paid

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Speaker 1: for it? Well, you know what, I kind of think

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Speaker 1: this is a problem that doesn't have to be. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you have two men who are fighting over you and

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Speaker 1: fighting for your attention. Really, but your ex if you're divorced,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he needs to let go. If he was

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Speaker 1: married to you and had you and then he started cheating,

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Speaker 1: you know that's on him. You clearly have moved on

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Speaker 1: and he should too. It's too late for him now.

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Speaker 1: When he was married to you, Like I said, he

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Speaker 1: blew it. He lost in this situation, he's not dealing

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Speaker 1: with reality. He's in denial. I think right now he

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Speaker 1: created this problem. I do think your fiance was out

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Speaker 1: of line making you miss your grandmother's repast. He was

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Speaker 1: in his feelings looking at this situation to me all

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Speaker 1: the way wrong. I'm with you on this one. What

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Speaker 1: difference does it make who pays for the funeral? You

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Speaker 1: can't control what your ex does. And you said that

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Speaker 1: he and your grandmother were very close, and apparently your

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Speaker 1: grandfather appreciated it. I think it's stupid to spend money

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Speaker 1: to pay your ex back. That's just stupid to me.

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Speaker 1: Your fiance shouldn't be trying to prove anything, not to you,

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Speaker 1: not to him. He's saying he's going to pay your

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Speaker 1: ex back. I think that's just his ego getting in

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Speaker 1: the way. Funerals are not cheap, okay, so you know

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Speaker 1: you could spend that money on something else. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: have to flex your new fiance. He's already got the

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Speaker 1: prize and the prizes you as far as the cargoes.

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Speaker 1: Just let his stay where it is and your ex's garage.

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Speaker 1: And I say, go on and live your life with

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Speaker 1: your fiance and don't let your ex get in the

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Speaker 1: way of your happy Steve. Surely, Yes, it's a man

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Speaker 1: problem right here. I don't worry about it. See, it's

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Speaker 1: a lot of man law in hell. There's a lot

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Speaker 1: of codes in hell, a lot of egos in hell,

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Speaker 1: a lot of flexing in hell. It's some power struggling here,

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Speaker 1: and there's someone trying to stand up and do some pushback.

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Speaker 1: It's all of this, but all, this is man problem

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Speaker 1: because the woman in this letter is correct and perfect.

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Speaker 1: I see no flaw in this woman right here. I

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Speaker 1: really don't. I'm engaged to a man that I worked with.

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Speaker 1: We both teach elementary school, and when he transferred to

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Speaker 1: my school, it was love at first sight for me.

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Speaker 1: At the time, I had only been divorced a few months.

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Speaker 1: What happens is when people get divorced, they don't know

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Speaker 1: what love gonna come along. So anybody walked through to

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Speaker 1: do it look like love right away. This happens to

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Speaker 1: be real. Brough h. He cheated on me. Excuse me.

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Speaker 1: He's only been divorced a few months and the ex

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Speaker 1: husband was still pursuing me. This is important information trying

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Speaker 1: to work things out. He cheated on me more than

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Speaker 1: a few times when we were married, so I divorced him.

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Speaker 1: He didn't contest anything, and I got whatever I asked

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Speaker 1: for because he's still in love with me. This is

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Speaker 1: a love story going bad, y'all. This is a man

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Speaker 1: who has lost the best thing ever happened to him,

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Speaker 1: and he wanted back. I ain't mad at him. Now

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Speaker 1: we have a problem because he gave you your family home,

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Speaker 1: our dogs. I lost respect for him every time I

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Speaker 1: heard a room of him cheating, and I'm much happier divorced. Well,

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Speaker 1: you sound like it, and you need to keep that

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Speaker 1: in mind. Fast forward to when I met my fiance.

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Speaker 1: We became insuperable in no time. Now. My ex husband

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Speaker 1: was overbearing and used his money to try to lure

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Speaker 1: me back in. That's what it is, fault, that's what

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Speaker 1: That's what me and become powerful to use a power.

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Speaker 1: What good is power if you don't wield it? You

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Speaker 1: got a wield it. He bought me a range Rover

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Speaker 1: last year for my birthday, and I could not tell

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Speaker 1: my fiance this, so the car is still in my

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Speaker 1: ex's house. You're a good woman. You are a good woman.

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Speaker 1: I told you, I can't find no fault in this lady.

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Speaker 1: Right here, you left that range roll. He ain't many

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Speaker 1: women gonna lead that range rover. That driveway not right,

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Speaker 1: but you did it to keep the peace, and I

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Speaker 1: admire you. All right, We'll have part two of your

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Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the our

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Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry Letter and my ex paid for

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Speaker 1: my grandma's funeral. Will get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject my ex paid

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Speaker 1: for my grandma funeral. We ain't got to that part yet,

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Speaker 1: but we're dealing with some man stuff here. This is man,

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Speaker 1: law man, cold man, flexing, power, struggles, all this here,

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Speaker 1: self esteem, This is all this in this letter. Now,

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Speaker 1: Shirley couldn't tell you that because she don't know all

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Speaker 1: these man rude and what Shirley said was fine. But

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Speaker 1: Shirley liked this woman in this letter. I can't find

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Speaker 1: no flaw with this woman in this letter because this

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Speaker 1: woman is absolutely doing the right things. She's been divorced.

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Speaker 1: Her husband cheated on him, he ruined it. She's happier

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Speaker 1: being divorced without him. She met a new man at

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Speaker 1: a job. They both elementary school teachers. This is what's

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Speaker 1: gonna come into play. He's told the X about he's

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Speaker 1: told the fiance about the X and extravagant gifts. Doing

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Speaker 1: the divorce. The man gave her everything, the house on

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Speaker 1: three acres, both the dogs, everything because he still loved

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Speaker 1: the woman he messed up. He trying to get her back.

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Speaker 1: She says her ex husband was overbanned and he used

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Speaker 1: his money to try to lure me back in, as

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Speaker 1: he should, because that's what it's for. What is power

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Speaker 1: unless you wield it. I ain't mad at the husband,

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Speaker 1: the ex husband, so he bought you a range Rover

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Speaker 1: last year from my birthday, and you couldn't tell your

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Speaker 1: fiance this, so the car is still at my ex

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Speaker 1: his house. You're a smart lady. You're a smart lady

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Speaker 1: when we first got engaged. That here's the part. I

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Speaker 1: was honest with my fiance, who is the school teacher,

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Speaker 1: about my ex husband's extravagant gifts, so he wouldn't find

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Speaker 1: out later and be upset. He told me due that

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Speaker 1: I do not sound set boundaries with my ex because

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Speaker 1: I liked the attention. I told him I do better. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's you're It's amazing when people say that you should

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't. You wouldn't let it. He wouldn't have been

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Speaker 1: people do stuff, and it's a little bit unfair mister

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Speaker 1: school teacher, sir that you talking about. You don't set

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Speaker 1: no boundaries. She got boundaries. She don't take the gilts,

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Speaker 1: but she can't stop everything because he flexing on your dog.

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Speaker 1: You know what this is now. Then my grandma died.

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Speaker 1: She and my ex husband were very close, so I

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Speaker 1: knew he'd be at the funeral, my fiance said. Fiance said,

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Speaker 1: And I went to her funeral, and as soon as

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Speaker 1: the service came to an end, my grandfather stood up

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Speaker 1: and thanked my ex husband for paying for everything. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's honorable. He thanked another man for stepping up burying

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Speaker 1: his wife because that's what me and do. I think

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Speaker 1: it was really admirable of your ex husband. But he's

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Speaker 1: always showing that he's dead. But he paid for that funeral,

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Speaker 1: You don't want to range, Rover, I'm gonna pay for

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Speaker 1: your dear grandmother's funeral. Everything. The grandfather, he don't know

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Speaker 1: because hes going wild. This boy didn't have to do this. Now,

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Speaker 1: he didn't even date my granddaughter no more. And that's true.

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Speaker 1: My fiance was furious, so we skipped the repass. He

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Speaker 1: probably want to go over there because they repairs. I

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Speaker 1: promise you the repass was nice because he paid for

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Speaker 1: the funeral. Oh, they got steaking lips over there. They

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Speaker 1: got a chef, had to repass. Oh it's finn to

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Speaker 1: be ball love. He Finnish set the repass out. The

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Speaker 1: boyfriend knew we cannot go to this repass because he

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Speaker 1: didn't clowned over there too. I'll be damned. Who got

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Speaker 1: this big ass cake up in here this repass? Who

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Speaker 1: in the hell got a chocolate fountain at the repairs?

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Speaker 1: Ex cover her ex husband flexing. Now we got an

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Speaker 1: He hadn't told you he ain't goingto the repass. Then you,

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Speaker 1: being a decent lady, you try to control the situation

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Speaker 1: by calling your ex and telling him to stop coming

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Speaker 1: Is my fiance crazy? What doesn't matter who paid for it?

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Speaker 1: Really shouldn't matter who paid for it. But see he

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Speaker 1: thinking because he'll school teacher. He couldn't come up with

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Speaker 1: past it. And now he can't afford to pay this back.

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Speaker 1: If you pay this back, y'all ain't gonna be able

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Speaker 1: to get that house or nothing else. Y'all all right,

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