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Speaker 1: My brother evicted me from my own house citing medieval

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Speaker 1: property laws.

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Speaker 2: Yea must evade this house this instant.

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Speaker 1: The Crown off protests this eviction. My brother moved in

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Speaker 1: with me at the start of lockdown because he was

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Speaker 1: living in hotels for some reason. I recently found out

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Speaker 1: it was because he owes two hundred and sixty thousand

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Speaker 1: pounds in debt to a multitude of small businesses for

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Speaker 1: various reasons.

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Speaker 2: Small businesses are these prostitution.

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Speaker 3: Ladies of the night, ladies of the night, drug lords

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Speaker 3: and casinos, you know.

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Speaker 1: The backbone of ourn. A lot of these cases have

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Speaker 1: gone to High Court and he's being actively pursued by bailiffs.

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Speaker 2: Okay ahi, Yeah, he's on the run.

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Speaker 1: He's on the run. When he moved in, he was

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Speaker 1: relatively normal, but vague about why he was living in hotels.

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Speaker 1: Then as lockdown went on, he started to get more

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Speaker 1: and more obsessed with these free men on the land

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Speaker 1: common law types, which has led to some major disputes,

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Speaker 1: saying he doesn't have to wear a mask because he's

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Speaker 1: not subject to the Crown and the Cormuellian lawn protect

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Speaker 1: your ship and trying to annex land from the fields

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Speaker 1: behind our house, because apparently you can claim land by

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Speaker 1: throwing a hatchet at four corners. So he threw a

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Speaker 1: hatchet in four corners in my backyard and said, I

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Speaker 1: claimed this land on my own.

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Speaker 3: This is why we're lucky living in the US, because

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Speaker 3: we don't have these crazy looking from hundreds of years ago.

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Speaker 1: I mean, are they still active?

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Speaker 2: Apparently?

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Speaker 1: Well, recently the bailiffs somehow caught up with him, and

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Speaker 1: they were pretty nice lads. They explained everything to me,

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Speaker 1: but after he said he wouldn't pay, even if he

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Speaker 1: had all the money in cash, they took his car.

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Speaker 1: Ever since this, my brother has been furious with me,

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Speaker 1: so we started avoiding each other around the house. This weekend,

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Speaker 1: I went away for a mini break on the coast

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Speaker 1: and came back to find all the locks had been

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Speaker 1: changed and the windows were boarded up. What garden furniture

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Speaker 1: nowhere to be seen. I rang my brother, who basically explained,

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Speaker 1: as the house was unclaimed, he made a de facto

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Speaker 1: eviction of me from the house, making him sole owner,

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Speaker 1: and if I attempted to make entry, he'd have every

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Speaker 1: right to me under the provision that an englishman's home home.

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Speaker 3: You basically can show up in somebody's house one day

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Speaker 3: and say, go go on vacation, house it for them,

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Speaker 3: and then steal their property because it's your throne.

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Speaker 2: Let's good, let's good engle and find a nice little chateau.

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Speaker 1: That's the law. Yeah, so what do you do in

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Speaker 1: this case? If your brother is literally trying to kill you,

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Speaker 1: if you enter your own house, I.

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Speaker 3: Call the police. Feels like an easy, easy first step.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, we'll see what happens. What do you do, guys?

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Speaker 1: Just put in the comments below. I'm staying with my parents,

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Speaker 1: which isn't ideal, as they should be shielding I guess

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Speaker 1: like COVID wise and I went on the mini break,

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Speaker 1: but when I contacted the police, I was told as

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Speaker 1: a tenant, he has every right to change the locks,

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Speaker 1: which is confusing. Any help is much appreciated. Okay, there

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Speaker 1: is an update. Okay, so I'm back in the house

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Speaker 1: and otherwise everything's ill here. I spent the whole day

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Speaker 1: making sure and nothing's been trashed. But there's a ton

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Speaker 1: of Domino's boxes in the kitchen. Apparently he'd contacted the

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Speaker 1: bank trying to access my accounts and spunked anybody he

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Speaker 1: had left on pizzas in celebration, so he's now both

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Speaker 1: homeless and has no money and pizza less. I stole

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Speaker 1: a priceless family heirloom from my cheating dead grandpa, and

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Speaker 1: now it's causing my entire family to amplow. Basically, it

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Speaker 1: came out some years ago that my grandfather cheated on

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Speaker 1: my grandmother and had a baby. It was a long

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Speaker 1: time ago, and the baby is like twentyish. I guess

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Speaker 1: I don't know because no one in the family wants

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Speaker 1: to talk about it or meet him or anything. My

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Speaker 1: two aunts, who sort of run everything, say that he's

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Speaker 1: not really part of our family, his mom is a whore,

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Speaker 1: and that my grandmother died of a broken heart from

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Speaker 1: finding out. So basically, he killed their mother. But I

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Speaker 1: know that in the last couple of years, my grandfather

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Speaker 1: was secretly emailing my bastard uncle in sometimes meeting him.

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Speaker 1: He only told me because he needed someone to make

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Speaker 1: an email account for him, plus I could drive him there.

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Speaker 1: I feel pretty bad about lying, but also it's not

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Speaker 1: my uncle's fault that grandpa cheated, and it's kind of

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Speaker 2: Exactly, the kid didn't choose to be born anyway.

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Speaker 1: When Grandpa got sick, my aunt wouldn't let my bastard

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Speaker 1: one last time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would feel pretty pretty shifty about that, because again,

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Speaker 3: the one that has to live with this is the kid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's sad. My mother and the other uncle tried

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Speaker 1: to fight it, but one of my aunts has the

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Speaker 1: power of attorney and she decided everything, and the other

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Speaker 1: aunt supported her. These aunts sound like a.

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Speaker 3: It's like Cinderella, Like Cinderella and the evil aunts, step on,

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Speaker 1: No, there was a thing. I won't say what it

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Speaker 1: is because my family reads it, they'll know it's me.

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Speaker 1: But it's antique and it has been in our family

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Speaker 1: for a long time. I think it's Cleopatra's wooden and

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Speaker 3: And there's still remnants of the king.

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Speaker 1: Right because Cleopatra baiting. My grandfather wanted to give it

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Speaker 1: to my youngest uncle, the one not from my grandma,

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Speaker 1: to say that he is part of the family, to

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Speaker 1: make him feel better, which is actually is like so nice.

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Speaker 1: The least he could have is cleopatcha still though, But

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Speaker 1: my aunts wanted it to stay in the family and

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Speaker 1: he's not family. Also, no one was allowed in my

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Speaker 1: grandfather's house while he was sick because they were sure

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Speaker 1: we would steal his stuff for oursells. This is a

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Speaker 1: dysfunctional family.

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Speaker 3: They sound really unhealthy and definitely not like what's yours

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Speaker 3: is mine?

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Speaker 2: What's mine as yours?

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Speaker 1: No, no, it's what's mine is mine. We're going to

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Speaker 1: take it from you. But I know how to get

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Speaker 1: into his house from the back window, So one day

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Speaker 1: I cut class, climbed in and took it and hit

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Speaker 1: it in my room. Right after he died, both of

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Speaker 1: my aunts went to his house to set up things

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Speaker 1: in order, which I think means divide up his stuff.

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Speaker 1: When they found the item was missing, they got pretty

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Speaker 1: upset and blamed my mom and my uncle and my

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Speaker 1: other uncle, but only they have the keys, and everyone

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Speaker 1: with my grandfather at the hospital. So basically they're like,

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Speaker 1: who done it? They don't know who done it?

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Speaker 2: Get sherlock on the case late, So.

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Speaker 1: Then they started blaming each other as well, and it

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Speaker 1: became a huge, huge fight. They got lawyers and my aunt,

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Speaker 1: with the power of attorney, try to take all my

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Speaker 1: grandfather's money and cut everyone else out. So they're basically

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Speaker 1: like now it's like imploding because it's like, oh, you

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Speaker 1: stole it, well, I'm gonna steal my It's like it's

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Speaker 1: like a cascading, Like cascading. Venus was just this dunk

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Speaker 1: kid that stuck to the window, little Steelers, I goes.

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Speaker 1: My mom didn't want the money, but my older uncle

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Speaker 1: got angry with my aunts and said we should fight

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Speaker 1: for the money just so they don't win, and then

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Speaker 1: donate it if she doesn't want it. What would you

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Speaker 1: do in this situation? Would you like give back the

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Speaker 1: crown or not all that thing?

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Speaker 2: The for the kid? Do you give the jildo back?

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Speaker 1: So now there are angry emails and lawyers and no

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Speaker 1: one talks to anyone but my mother and my older uncle.

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Speaker 1: My mother is so unhappy and stress that she's starting

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Speaker 1: to get sick. We still have the stolen thing and

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Speaker 1: want to send it to my younger uncle. But maybe

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Speaker 1: if I put it back in a hidden corner of

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Speaker 1: stop and my mother can feel better. So should OPI

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Speaker 1: return the heirloom or give it to the granddaddy's bastard son?

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Speaker 1: Is OPI the a hole? I want to know in

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Speaker 1: the comments what you guys think. But Arianna, what do

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Speaker 3: I actually think that's hilarious, just like hide it in

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Speaker 3: the house somewhere you were.

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Speaker 1: A chaotic all these stories You're like, actually, this is

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Speaker 3: I'm just thinking from his perspective, like, how do I

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Speaker 3: avoid the wrath of my family?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because if they find out it's him, he's freak.

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Speaker 2: His mother's gotten sick from this.

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Speaker 3: The whole family is not talking to one another, Like,

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Speaker 3: I actually think the way to resolve all the family

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Speaker 3: tension is to hide it in the house, Like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, we misplaced it.

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Speaker 2: Guys, we've been so silly this.

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Speaker 1: How about the bastard uncle?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but is the dildo really going to get him anywhere?

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Speaker 2: Like tell him listen, grandaddy.

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Speaker 1: Wanted to have this, but you just tell him that counts. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess just I think the compromise is telling him that, hey,

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Speaker 1: like he wanted you to have this, but my family's

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Speaker 1: being crazy exactly. And then he knows that he was

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Speaker 1: accepted by his dad. Well, if you want to be

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Speaker 1: accepted by your daddy, make sure to comment so I

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Speaker 1: will maybe give it a heart or something. Oh, baby, daddy,

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Speaker 1: my mom and my husband are a little too close now.

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Speaker 1: My mom's pregnant and I don't think my dad is

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Speaker 2: You are not the answer. Get pregnant with your dad's baby.

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Speaker 1: Yes, why are you adding this chaos into the world?

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Speaker 1: And also this little bundle of chaos as my girlfriend Ariannor,

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Speaker 1: she's summoned in for John this week. Please be nice

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Speaker 1: to her. She has a little bundle of sunshine in

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Speaker 1: my life, all right. My forty female parents, dad, a

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Speaker 1: sixty three male, and mom's sixty female, have been married

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Speaker 1: for forty three years, which means.

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Speaker 2: That mom was seventeen when she got married.

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Speaker 1: Right over there, I have been with my husband, thirty

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Speaker 1: nine male, since we were fifteen. I got pregnant at seventeen,

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Speaker 1: and then we moved in with my parents. I gave

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Speaker 1: got married at eighteen, shortly after I thought I had

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Speaker 1: a good marriage. We were intimate more than twice a week.

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Speaker 1: We went on date nights, we bought each other gifts.

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Speaker 1: We didn't fight. My entire world was shattered on your deed.

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Speaker 1: When I were turned early from a girl's trip I

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Speaker 1: had taken with some friends. I walked into my bedroom

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Speaker 1: to find my mom having sex with my husband. That

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Speaker 1: is a picture you can't race.

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Speaker 2: No, scarred for life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my mother screamed at me to get out of

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Speaker 1: their bedroom, which really shook me up even more.

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Speaker 3: Like dementia and not realize what's going on?

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Speaker 1: What would you do with that situation.

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Speaker 2: I'm go to therapy.

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Speaker 1: I don't better house. Unfortunately, my oldest daughter was already

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Speaker 1: I asked him for the truth. You can't handle the truth.

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Speaker 3: Do you know that any of the children that your

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Speaker 2: I guess that's where we're going.

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Speaker 3: This is how you blow up a fan, breaking in

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Speaker 1: He and my mom were high school sweethearts too. Needless

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Speaker 1: Like I understand maybe you fuck Opie's husband once twice?

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Speaker 3: The twins are the husband's biological children. The mom literally

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Speaker 1: Since inherited assets are not subject to be split in divorces.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that they were in love?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just trauma for the rest of real life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's generations of therapy that are going to need

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Speaker 3: The fact that her siblings are even coming after her

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Speaker 3: It feels fair, and he loves both of them. You

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Speaker 1: Face, think you butts. I grew up with four and

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Speaker 3: To have a third one loves she finds purpose in motherhood.

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Speaker 2: This so what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: This time.

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Speaker 1: My first thought was oh. My wife noticed my less

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Speaker 1: effects are bad and she was sick. She also brought

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Speaker 1: up if I really didn't want a third kid, I

441
00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,160
Speaker 1: would have had a vasectomy.

442
00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:02,000
Speaker 3: This is crazy. Were supposed to have these conversations together.

443
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,679
Speaker 3: If birth control is making you sick, talk to your

444
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 3: partner about it, then you go off of it, then

445
00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,160
Speaker 3: he would probably choose to.

446
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 2: Get a vasectomy.

447
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,720
Speaker 1: I mean, it's absolutely she's gaslighting him. To the MAC,

448
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:13,160
Speaker 1: She's like.

449
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,720
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, God, WOA, now, dare you look through

450
00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 2: my phone? After I poketoles in the.

451
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,399
Speaker 1: Content, she told me to go sleep on the couch.

452
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 1: I laughed out loud and said, no, I'm sleeping here.

453
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 1: You're leaving, So, while wailing, she packed a bag and

454
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 1: left to her parents. When she called the next day,

455
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,919
Speaker 1: I told her I need some time to myself. She

456
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,480
Speaker 1: said that's fine, but I need to come around for

457
00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 1: a child. I told her I wasn't sure if it

458
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Speaker 1: be our child, and she cried more. It's been two

459
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,119
Speaker 1: weeks since then. Government recommended to stay home, and I

460
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 1: knew staying home by myself while also working with the

461
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 1: two kids and not be ideal, and she wanted to

462
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Speaker 1: see the kids. So we're in the same house. She

463
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 1: constantly keeps on stopping me and trying to get me

464
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,159
Speaker 1: excited for a kid, and planning the nursery names and whatever.

465
00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 1: I've been ignoring her entirely. What do I do? Staying

466
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 1: home with her is bad enough, and I don't know

467
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Speaker 1: if I should leave her over this. I don't trust

468
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 1: her anymore. She betrayed it. I'm angry, but I have

469
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 1: another child on the way. Is this a big enough

470
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,120
Speaker 1: breach of trust to end the relationship.

471
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Speaker 3: I don't think that you will necessarily have a happy

472
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Speaker 3: relationship unless you're both willing to put on the work.

473
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Speaker 3: Maybe you decide, you both decide okay this Actually, you know,

474
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:27,000
Speaker 3: given the children, it matters so much to me. Hey,

475
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 3: we realized we both weren't communicating well with one another.

476
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 1: But she has to admit that.

477
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:33,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, they both have to decide that, but maybe she

478
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:34,440
Speaker 3: would who knows it.

479
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: Like, I think he is well within his rights to

480
00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 1: get a divorce like in.

481
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 2: Definitely not the end, but there is an update, ooh,

482
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 2: tell me more so.

483
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 1: The wife is still at home. I'm going out of

484
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 1: my mind. Kids don't understand what's happening and keep asking

485
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,439
Speaker 1: why I won't talk to mommy. It's been close to

486
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 1: a month since then, and I've been following the advice

487
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 1: I saw. I lied and said I was going for

488
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: a drive. She tried to come along, but it's a

489
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 1: two person limit per car and she needs to look

490
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: after the kids. I called my dad's best friend, she's

491
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,199
Speaker 1: a lawyer, and told her everything. I screenshot of the

492
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: text and sent them to myself, and at nighttime, I

493
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 1: asked her to talk and press my phone on record

494
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 1: and asked her why she did it, and she went

495
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: on about completing our family and how we needed a

496
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 1: third kid and she knows I'll love them more than

497
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 1: anything when they're born. She apologized profusely as well, and

498
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 1: she told me she knew she hadn't gone about it

499
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 1: the right way and she should have accepted it. And

500
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Speaker 1: I'm within my rights to do what I want but

501
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: please stay for the kid, and now that it's on

502
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: the way, we can take it positively anyway. That brings

503
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,360
Speaker 1: us today.

504
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 3: It sounds like she just wants to brush the whole

505
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 3: thing under the rug, but you're gonna love it so much.

506
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm back on civil terms with my wife and I've

507
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: started acting like everything's okay between us. She's happy, the

508
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: kids are happy and excited for their new sibling. Everything's

509
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: going great except for the divorce that I've planned behind

510
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: her back. No, I've got the evidence, I've got the lawyer,

511
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 1: and I'm preparing to present her the papers. I talked

512
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: to the lawyer about how it's going to go because

513
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: of quarantine and what technology is being used online documents

514
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 1: and video conferencing. This thing called ADR Alternative Dispute Resolution.

515
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: So that's pretty much it. I've got all my ducks

516
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 1: in a row, and my wife doesn't know a thing.

517
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 2: I feel bad for the little kids, kind of feel

518
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 2: bad for the kids. I feel bad for the kids, yeah.

519
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: Because like they're excited for their.

520
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 3: Like exactly, they're they're happy. Moment and Daddy are talking again.

521
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,640
Speaker 1: It does suck, but it's like, but just remember it's

522
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 1: not him that broke up the family, like she.

523
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,719
Speaker 3: Will the kids understand that, Like, I don't know if

524
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 3: they will.

525
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if they will. And I

526
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,120
Speaker 1: honestly like, how do.

527
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 3: You explain the whole situation to them? Like, Yeah, there's

528
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 3: these things called condoms you can poke holes in them,

529
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 3: and there's this thing called birth control like bees on

530
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 3: the birds talk happening very early in this thing.

531
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it's uh, it's definitely a complicated one. But

532
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: let us know, is op the a whole? What do

533
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: you think? Put in the comments below and Ariana, is

534
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: he the a hole for leaving?

535
00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 2: No?

536
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: No, not at all. My boyfriend's cousin stoles credit card

537
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: and robbed him blind. But now I'm not sure that's true.

538
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: I feel like, have you ever seen that Mister Beasts

539
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: video where Mister Beast gives them the credit card and

540
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 1: they get to like spend it on like Gucci and Louisbitan, Right,

541
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: maybe that's what happened. Maybe this story is actually about

542
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: mister Beast and it was totally fine and not a

543
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: big deal at all.

544
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Speaker 4: Backstory, I twenty seven female, and my boyfriend, thirty four male,

545
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 4: have been together for five years and have worked really

546
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 4: hard to save for a house. Nice two weeks ago,

547
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 4: we fell in love with the house and we put

548
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 4: down an initial deposit on the property. The house won't

549
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 4: be built though, until the end of twenty twenty two.

550
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 4: Can't build up without a strong foundation. Now that's true,

551
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 4: that's true. You know they say don't build a house

552
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 4: on sand. So this sounds like dirt. So solid dirt,

553
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 4: solid dirt. We've been in talks with the mortgage broker

554
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 4: and the builders and finance people, et cetera. But last

555
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 4: week we received some shocking news when my boyfriend's credit

556
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 4: card score came back as trashed.

557
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: What are we talking? Are we talking like, you know,

558
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: a seven to fifty to like a six fifty?

559
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 4: I think we're talking in the gutter. That is in

560
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 4: the gutter for a credit score. The gutter is I

561
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 4: mean probably, I don't think we ever know. But four

562
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 4: hundred or below? Oh, I mean that's bad, right, that's terrible.

563
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 4: But there is some activity on the credit card statement

564
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 4: that was one hundred percent not his and a credit

565
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 4: card that had gone into default in the last six months.

566
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 4: This credit card was originally my boyfriend's, but he swears

567
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 4: he closed the account and canceled the card mid twenty nineteen.

568
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: Long story shorts. We have discovered that a family member

569
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: that was living with him a few years ago got

570
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,719
Speaker 1: a hold of the card at some point and has

571
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: been using the card on and off since twenty nineteen.

572
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: No way that. Wait, isn't there a point where, like,

573
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: you can't withdraw any more money?

574
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 4: There's a point like a credit card limit. Yeah, but

575
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 4: you will probably hit a limit. They defaulted on payments

576
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,400
Speaker 4: in early twenty twenty, but paid this off, but then

577
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 4: defaulted again in December of last year.

578
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, they paid it off.

579
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 4: They paid it off, but then ran it up again

580
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 4: and then defaulted it. He then defaulted again in December

581
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 4: of last year, and the account was still in default

582
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 4: and owed over five thousand dollars in charges and late fees.

583
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 4: These charges were for shopping, news agency, takeaway, food pubs, gambling,

584
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 4: et cetera.

585
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:11,880
Speaker 1: My boyfriend had zero knowledge of this.

586
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 4: And hasn't had access to the account after he closed

587
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 4: it and hasn't been receiving statements or notices from the bank.

588
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 4: Family member has diverted all of the notices to their address.

589
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 4: Now you are unable to apply for a bank loan

590
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 4: for the house as they won't lend my boyfriend because

591
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 4: of his credit. And that's where it really is that

592
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 4: cousin totally screwed them over because the cousin is maybe

593
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 4: like trashing his credit and his credit is fine and

594
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 4: he can go do whatever he wants, you know.

595
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: So now we have two options. Number one, proceed with

596
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,439
Speaker 1: fraud investigations and charges to the family member, allowing us

597
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: to prove this is of no fault of my boyfriends

598
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: and successfully securing the loan. Or number two, boyfriend pays

599
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,120
Speaker 1: the debt and we wait at least two years from

600
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: the debt payoff dight or his credit to regain after

601
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: the loss two years. Two years, so Opie says option

602
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: number two would set him back at least three years

603
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: for starting a family in their lives as homelon. That's insane.

604
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 4: This will also not allow my boyfriend to secure a

605
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 4: bank loan to start up his own business, which he's

606
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 4: been dreaming of starting for a few years, and this

607
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 4: was the year he had planned on doing it. This

608
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 4: has devastated us and put a major delay in our plans.

609
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 4: My boyfriend doesn't like conflict, and so he's going with

610
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 4: option too. He isn't even planning on mentioning anything to

611
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 4: this family member. He wants it to all go away

612
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 4: and thinks the family member is going through a rough time.

613
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: To that bro, I mean, like I understand not wanting

614
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: to maybe like you know, put your cousin in prison. Yeah,

615
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 1: like because they're gonna steal more your shit.

616
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 4: Literally literally, I want my boyfriend to proceed with the

617
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,239
Speaker 4: fraud charges and investigation. He has worked too hard to

618
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 4: not have our dream house and him start his own business.

619
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 4: So am I the a hole for pushing my opinion

620
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 4: on my boyfriend, not the a hole for pushing your

621
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 4: opinion on your boyfriend?

622
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: I think. I mean, like you can like give it

623
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 1: whatever advice you want to your boyfriend, but ultimately it

624
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 1: is the boyfriend's decision. But I mean I would at

625
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: least say, like, Jesus, my god, man is so non

626
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 1: confrontational that someone could tank his credit score, is steal

627
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: three years of his life and he's still like you,

628
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: they're a rough patch. But the thing is, like, it's

629
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: not a rough patch. Man has been stealing for like

630
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: y yeah, three three year yeah? Yeah? Come on, bro,

631
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: But Sam, what job the day I want to begin

632
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: by thanking everyone for their advice. There were some really

633
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: constructive strategies and words of advice. I spoke with my

634
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: boyfriend about my concerns, and I was honest with him

635
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: that it seems like things he were telling me it

636
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: didn't all make sense. Okay, so that's why he's not

637
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: wanting to count.

638
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

639
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 4: He was adamant that he didn't know anything about the

640
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 4: credit card or the apparent inquiries on his credit account

641
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 4: about payday loans. My boyfriend is still refusing to open

642
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 4: any fraud investigations against his family member, and he said

643
00:28:58,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 4: that he will pay off all.

644
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: The debt himself.

645
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 2: That's suspicious.

646
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: But some other things did come out during our conversation

647
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: that he was hiding from me. Lying has been a

648
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: big issue during our entire relationship. In the past. I've

649
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: forgiven him for his lies, but I can't.

650
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 4: Keep forgiving him for the same issue every few months

651
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 4: when he promises to change. But we're in the exact

652
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 4: same spot every few months. And I'm not talking little

653
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 4: lies here, I'm talking big lies and even bigger lies

654
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 4: to cover him up. I know I'm stupid for giving

655
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 4: him the benefit of the doubt. Yes, yes, so in

656
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 4: saying this. My boyfriend is now my ex boyfriend.

657
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you for listening to the signs my darling over.

658
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 4: When I spoke with my boyfriend about my concerns above,

659
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 4: he ended things by picking up his bag and driving away.

660
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: So he had broke up with you. Yikes.

661
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 4: That was the last time I've seen him in person.

662
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 4: This is how this man dealt with issues in our

663
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 4: relationship for five years. We haven't spoke much since, but

664
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 4: I have definitely resigned to the fact that my relationships.

665
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 3: Oh.

666
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 4: I think he's expecting me to forgive him like all

667
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 4: the previous times. But I've packed up his stuff and

668
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 4: I'm going to give it back to him after our

669
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 4: city comes out of lockdown. There is a good ending

670
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 4: to this story, though.

671
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: Okay.

672
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 4: I spoke with my mortgage broker and the housing developers.

673
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 4: I can't afford the original townhouse I fell in love with,

674
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 4: but a similar townhouse that I also loved came available

675
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 4: and I was approved for it. I paid my deposit

676
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 4: three days before my birthday last month. I have just

677
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 4: bought myself a house.

678
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: Yeah that's awesome. Okay, that's the condable loser, boyfriend and

679
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 1: buy yourself a house ladies, Hey, you can do it

680
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: all by yourself. We love a queen glowing up. Yeah,

681
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: we love an empowered queen. Yeah we do. My ceo

682
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: found out he's my dad's a fair baby and tried

683
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 1: to fire me. But I've got a big surprise, a

684
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: last leave, a surprise bigger than our daddy's sausage. My

685
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: dad gave the whole family DNA ancestry kits for the holidays,

686
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: And it turns out the CEO of the company I

687
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: work for is my half brother. Dad's not the kind

688
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: of guy to gift everyone DNA kits as a way

689
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: of telling us he had a secret love child. Ooh,

690
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: so I don't think he knew he had another kid.

691
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: We're all grown up to nowhere baby come from, and

692
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: that things aren't always what we expect. So I have

693
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: a feeling this is a shock to everyone in there.

694
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: So the CEO's company bio says he's a proud piction

695
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: born right. Everything's big in tixas sleep in my daddy's speech.

696
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: Dad was stationed in Texas ten years before he met

697
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: and married my mother. The timeline all fits, and so Religians,

698
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: I guess none of my siblings have initiated contact, and

699
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: neither has my dad. I met the CEO a few times,

700
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: but he works out of the corporate headquarters across the

701
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: country from a smaller division where I work. About a

702
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: week after I got my results, an email went out

703
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: from the head of HR stating that all staff had

704
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: to take a refresher training on nepotism. The training also

705
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 1: included a clause that said something along the lines of

706
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: staff are not entitled to privileges personal or professional if

707
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: familial relation by jeans or marriage to executive or management

708
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: staff is known or unknown, or discovered during employments. Talking

709
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: to me, this, it feels like aimed at OPI almost right, Yes,

710
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: other than being clunky verbiage, I felt like it was

711
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: aimed at me. Okay, so OP ogrees. I found out

712
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: no other branch had to retake the nepotism training and

713
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: the email only came to our office. Sussy Bacha. This

714
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: is literally like instead of sending Op a direct message,

715
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: it's like a direct message with like the mustache and

716
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: Faye glasses. Yeah, that's the level of competence they have.

717
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: Just because you might know him family doesn't mean you

718
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: were gonna get any special treating brothers don't get special treatment.

719
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,959
Speaker 1: My manager later pulled me in personally to ask if

720
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: I had any questions about the policy. She was vague

721
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: and uncomfortable, and I said I wanted to know why

722
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: nobody else was gone on to the one on one

723
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: to talk about the policy, and why no other branch

724
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: had to do the training. Why not your stupid fast

725
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: OPCs through the mustache. She just kind of ignored the

726
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: question and said she just following instructions. So now I

727
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: definitely think it was aimed at me. I was happy

728
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: to drop the whole thing. I'm sure he feels uncomfortable

729
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: as I do about this, But to weaponize HR and

730
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: make my coworkers waste the whole day on mandatory training

731
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: just to put a boundary up seems like he messed up.

732
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: A simple personal email saying hey, I saw this, I

733
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: don't know what to make of it. Please give me

734
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: space and don't bring it to work would have sufficed,

735
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: But instead he has to orchestrate everyone going to a meeting,

736
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: even ignoring it would have been fine by me too,

737
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: since I wasn't sure, I wanted to be the one

738
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: to initiate a conversation about this without having talked to

739
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: my dad first. Right. Dad has gotten his results back, obviously,

740
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: and he's avoiding the conversation. This is the big elephant

741
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: in the room, and it makes it hard that I

742
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: work with this guy. What bothers me the most is

743
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: the weaponizing of HR and the intent to make sure

744
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,239
Speaker 1: I know not to ask for perks. I've been at

745
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: the company for five years and have a great reputation.

746
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: What do I do? Donald's more to this story even crazier.

747
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: But what do you think of the CEO's response? I

748
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: think the CEO is a madman. What would you do

749
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: if you were op Bro? I would take him for

750
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: everything he's got. I'd be like, you're my brother. So

751
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: there is an update. He would try to fire me.

752
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So just after my question was posted,

753
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: my boss Katie met with me and she told me

754
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,720
Speaker 1: that she was aware of the situation and didn't agree

755
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: how the CEO and HR had been handling it. In

756
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: regard to nepotism training. I told her my plan was

757
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: forget about it. Things were quiet for a week until

758
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: a major project I was working on was mysteriously deluded

759
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: on the company drive. It was a coincidence that I

760
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: had it backed up on a USB. Katie was suspicious

761
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 1: about my project getting deleted and told me to save

762
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 1: everything to an external drive and my hardware, and sure enough,

763
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: the project got deleted again. What is happening after that?

764
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: Anything I put on our work servers was getting deleted

765
00:34:55,640 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: within hours, as well as any correspondence with clients or team.

766
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: It's so obvious. This is again like the mustache, Like

767
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't me. I started sending all my work communication

768
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: and attachments to Katie and duplicating them on a USB

769
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: that Katie kept locked in her office. It was like

770
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 1: a James Bond movie. So after a mid month project

771
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: meeting where I showed up with all my work on

772
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 1: a USB drive, HR pulled me in because an anonymous

773
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: concern was raised about me hiding my work from my colleagues,

774
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: and they tried to write me up anonymous concern. God,

775
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,760
Speaker 1: Katie must have known something like this was coming because

776
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: she handled it and bcced me on all her correspondence

777
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: with HR and the executive team, outlining her concerns about

778
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: the CEOs and HR's behavior regarding the DNA results, and

779
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: that she believes someone was remotely accessing my work computer.

780
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: To any things. The company VP was horrified. Up until that,

781
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: I didn't know ce Bro wasn't the owner of the company.

782
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: So CEO is not the owner. He's just like, okay,

783
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: he just runner. Katie and I had a call with

784
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 1: the VP that day, who assured me that the owners

785
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: were being made aware of the situation and that my

786
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: job was not in jeopardy. WHOA, that's good. But then

787
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: the fan oh god, that always does CEO. Bro's mom

788
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 1: contacted Dad on the home front as all this was

789
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: happening at work. I won't get into what was said,

790
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: but the gist is Dad was set up as an

791
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,919
Speaker 1: unwitting donor for a childless couple. The Monday after Dad

792
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: spoke to see Bro's mother, I was walking through the

793
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 1: lobby when HR literally ambushed me and loudly fired me

794
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: in front of a client in twenty of my colleagues.

795
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: Oh my security then escorted me out in front of

796
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: my friends and colleagues who had no idea what was happening.

797
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: So that was pretty dark and humiliating. Katie stopped me

798
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: on the way to my car and brought me back

799
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: in for a video call with her, the VP, and

800
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: the owners of the company. I explained everything that had

801
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: happened since I got my DNA results back, the nepotism

802
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: training and everything, and what do you think the company did,

803
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: John Bro?

804
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 4: I pray that they were like, Nah, you're you're straight,

805
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 4: You're good, You're yep.

806
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: I was fired but asked to turn in my badge

807
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: as both a CEO. BRO and I were suspended pending

808
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,399
Speaker 1: a full investigation by the owners and their lawyer, oh

809
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: P suspending well. I was suspended with pay, which HR

810
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: vehemently protested against. The suspension lasted a week and I

811
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: had planned to spend that time looking for another job,

812
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: but I just didn't have time. Bro to HR literally

813
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: the CEO's like cronies, army.

814
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,320
Speaker 2: Just yes, yes, yes, I w do your biddings.

815
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: Okay, Actually there is some some tea on that CEBRO

816
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: did not return after the suspension. I was offered my

817
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: job back within an apology, but I opted not to

818
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 1: go back either and have been freelancing and taking some

819
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 1: much needed downtime as this last month sucked. Yeah, I

820
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 1: did accept a generous severance package, tried to do the

821
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:48,919
Speaker 1: right thing in all of this. I have to say

822
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: that people I resent the most in the situation where

823
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: the two goblin HR reps who knew they were doing

824
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: the wrong thing every step of the way and openly

825
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: enjoyed the drama of it all. That you're supposed to

826
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: be an HR like the opposite of that. I know

827
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: rumors have reached me that both the people in HR

828
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: are connected with Cbro in some way, like former colleague

829
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: friends or ex's or something. I wish them the future

830
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: they deserve. So John is Op, the A hole? Is

831
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 1: Cebro the A hole? Are the HR reps a hole?

832
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: Past your judgment now? But before John Bass's judgments. I

833
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: want to know what you guys think. What would you

834
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: do in this situation? And who's the A hole? Op?

835
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 4: Not the A hole cee Bro definitely the A whole

836
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 4: HR the craziest A holes. They just took these marching

837
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 4: orders and just like went for it.

838
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: It is I hate that. I know. I know where's

839
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: your spine, sir? My childhood really asked me out, and

840
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: I know exactly what I'm gonna do. I'm twenty seven

841
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,720
Speaker 1: male was heavily bullied since the beginning of kindergarten until

842
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: the end of middle school, when I transferred to a

843
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: different town. My classroom had fifteen children, me excluded. Out

844
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: of these fifteen, seven of them used to bully me constantly,

845
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: and the other eight simply ignored what was happening mat problem.

846
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: Out of the seven bullies, four did some particularly heavy

847
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: fit I would call them the B team. You can

848
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: guess what B stands for beautiful, while the other three

849
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: did some random lighter things like throwing paper scraps at me,

850
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: stealing pencils like that. I'll call them C teams for

851
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: correctly not going too far, basically the activist followers for

852
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: B team. What the B team did to me scarred

853
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: me for life, and I had to go to therapy

854
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: to deal with it. If I met them today, I

855
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: would make them my hatred for C team, not nearly

856
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: as big, but still vivid. Until last year, I couldn't

857
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: bring myself to forgive anybody in that classroom, both teachers

858
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: and students, for doing nothing to help me when B

859
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: team was tormenting me. I got bullied mercilessly in middle school.

860
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 4: They literally bullied this man for having a six pack,

861
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 4: which I don't understand how that is.

862
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,240
Speaker 1: Gina Stubbach. I got made fun of also for eating

863
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 1: solid and they made a whole rap about me called

864
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 1: salad Boy. So middle school pulling sucks. Yes. So last year, though,

865
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: my hatred started to fade following some serious events in

866
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 1: my life. Sorry, I won't share those events. When I transferred,

867
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 1: I swore to myself I would never go back to

868
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: that town or talk to them anymore. Despite that, my

869
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 1: past has found ways to follow me. I work in

870
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: a pub not sure if that is the right term

871
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: in English part time twice a week, and around six

872
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: months ago I met Nina twenty seven female. Ooh. Nina

873
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: was one of the three bullies of the sea team,

874
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: and while I've forgiven them now, it doesn't mean I

875
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: want to have anything to do with her, so I

876
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: tried to stay professional in act if nothing was wrong anyway. Physically,

877
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: she hasn't changed much. I mean she has grown up

878
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: since middle school, obviously, but I can still recognize her.

879
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: The same cannot be said about me. In middle school,

880
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: I was fat, white like snow, and had light brown hair.

881
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: Well now I'm fit, my skin is a bit more

882
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: pink in it, my hair is dark. In the last

883
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: few years, when some of my friends look at my

884
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: old photo that they struggled to even recognize me. We

885
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: didn't talk for long as I was working, and she

886
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: initially didn't recognize me, but when one of my colleagues

887
00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: called me to ask something, she connected the dots.

888
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

889
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: Oh, what do you think she's thinking done? I think

890
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: she's thinking you got bullied into perfection popping that six

891
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: pack six pack baked daddy O. Once she recognized me,

892
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 1: her demeanor changed drastically, and she got out pretty soon.

893
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: She came back a couple of times in the following months,

894
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: and she was quite shy towards me whenever we interacted.

895
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: A few weeks ago, she got mildly drunk and she

896
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: started sobbing and ranting about what a crappy person she

897
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 1: was in the past and how her life is utter shit.

898
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: And I didn't pay it much attention. I simply stopped

899
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: serving her alcohol and gave her some water. But at

900
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 1: some point she grabbed my hand while I was taking

901
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 1: away one of the empty classes, and she said, it's

902
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: free real estate. I'm sorry. Oh okay, I have to

903
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: say it felt weirdly good. Oh all right, but what

904
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: do you think Ohpi's next move is. I think he

905
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 1: lays it that He's like, hey, sweet Mama, you've forgiven,

906
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: but you ain't gotta forgive me. You gotta forgive him

907
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: because I'm him. Don't say forgive me, father, for I

908
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: have sin. Say sorry, Daddy, I've been a bad girl.

909
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: Oh God, apologize to these nuts. She didn't come back

910
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: in the following weeks, but a few days later she

911
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: texted me on social media, apologizing profusely for whatever she

912
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,959
Speaker 1: did while drunk, and then she suddenly asked me out. Oh.

913
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: At the time, I was evidently too stupid or too

914
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 1: tired to understand clues and didn't understand it was meant

915
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: to be a date. She asked me out for coffee,

916
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,720
Speaker 1: and I thought she simply wanted to apologize in person

917
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: or talk about the past in a more sober states.

918
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: I realized my mistake yesterday when I talked about it

919
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: with a friend, and now I'm torn on what to do.

920
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 1: On one side, what Nina did in the past has

921
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: greatly conditioned me, and I can't simply forget about it.

922
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: On the other hand, she really seems apologetic and she

923
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: seems to have changed. It's been fifteen years. Should I

924
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: give her a chance? So John? Should o p dick

925
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: down or get her.

926
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 4: The looking at it objectively in a vacuum. If you

927
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 4: don't feel attracted to the person she is today then

928
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 4: then maybe not.

929
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think OP is the a hole either way,

930
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: like I think and super super nice and kind. So basically, OP,

931
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: if you're in there, go for it.

932
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 4: I'm curious and to all you all is not only Ope,

933
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 4: the a hole is the woman the a hole? Is

934
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 4: it kind of like maybe crossing a line to try

935
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,879
Speaker 4: to something start something when you know you heard him

936
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 4: in the past.

937
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like, let us know in the comments,

938
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: what do you want to hear from you? And if

939
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: you've ever been in this situation where childhood bully is

940
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: trying to get up on in you, let us know. Yep.

941
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 4: But Sam, I'm gonna get up on in another story

942
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 4: for you, please do. I left my cheating X to

943
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 4: wither away on top of a mountain, but I didn't

944
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 4: realize what would happen to him.

945
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 1: So this is actually submitted.

946
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 4: By one of our very own fans on our slash

947
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 4: Okop show on our subreddit.

948
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 1: Submit your stories there if you haven't already.

949
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 4: This one is from a throwaway feel Bad twenty So

950
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 4: my ex cheated on me and I took him to the.

951
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: Top of a high mountain.

952
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 4: I broke up with him and left him destitute without

953
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 4: a ride home. Now, I've been on Reddit for a while,

954
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 4: but I've never had anything noteworthy to post, so I'm

955
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 4: excited to post this up despite it being a crappy

956
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 4: time in my life.

957
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 1: The best stories come from the crappiest times. This is

958
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: literally true.

959
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 4: This just happened a few hours ago, so I still

960
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 4: have a bunch of adrenaline. So I female twenty have

961
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 4: been dating this guy, male twenty two for a little

962
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 4: bit over a year now, and it's been nice, even

963
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 4: though we've had our differences. I love to work out.

964
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,359
Speaker 4: By that, I mean run up and down fourteen years

965
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 4: in my free time.

966
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: I yes, it's like fourteen thousand feet. And my boyfriend's

967
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: always been sort of lazy and out of shit. He's

968
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: just a fab blob. No, it sounds like you've settled though, pee, but.

969
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 4: He's still easy on the eye, so it's never been

970
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 4: much of an issue. Recently, though, my girlfriend was at

971
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 4: a bar with some mutual friends and coincidentally and luckily

972
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 4: saw him out with the boys as he said he

973
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 4: would be. But but his ex was sitting there with

974
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 4: him along with some other girls. She figured that they

975
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 4: just ran into each other. He's never done anything suspicious before,

976
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:21,240
Speaker 4: but I guess I've.

977
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: Been a bit too trusting. That's so sad when you

978
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 1: have to say I've been a bit too trusting. Oh,

979
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: she said.

980
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 4: She kind of looked over there occasionally, but decided to

981
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 4: text me when they were a little bit too close.

982
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 1: Stamp Bro also sick of op to have friends that

983
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: are like just like spy and look it out for Yeah,

984
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: I see activity.

985
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 4: At this point, I realized I hadn't been paying much

986
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,760
Speaker 4: attention to his behavior. I was preoccupied with college work,

987
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 4: and everything just fell into place, and I realized that

988
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 4: he was most definitely hooking up.

989
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: With Ding Ding Ding. You are the winner. You have

990
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: just found out that your boyfriend news cheating on you.

991
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,479
Speaker 4: So my boyfriend would always stay out late, he would

992
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 4: ignore my textan calls for hours, hung out with his

993
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 4: friends but never invited me, and has always been ridiculously

994
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 4: protective of his phone, saying that he wants to live.

995
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: His own life. Yeah, and it's private, which I should

996
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 1: have called him out on, but I was too naive.

997
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 1: I guess that's kind of like when you're ridiculously sensitive

998
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: about your phone, like you're hiding something is a red

999
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: flag if your partner is not letting you see their phone,

1000
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: red flag.

1001
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 4: As Anyways, he got home way late, like three am,

1002
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 4: and I hadn't heard anything from my friend or him,

1003
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 4: right yikes.

1004
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: But I had been staying up plotting my revenge. I

1005
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,760
Speaker 1: like this. I like where this is going.

1006
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 4: I love revenge because a breakup over this type of

1007
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,720
Speaker 4: thing is not enough.

1008
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: We must serve justice. He must be racked. Didn't torture,

1009
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 1: so he may seek his gain where his gain is

1010
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: his to get grasp it everywhere, withering with his last

1011
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:11,920
Speaker 1: gasp of saying please.

1012
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 4: So messy now. I demanded that he give me his

1013
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 4: phone when he got home, and he refused, so I

1014
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 4: straight up said, then pack your crap and life. He's

1015
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 4: not in the contract and has just been staying with

1016
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 4: me in my roommate and giving me rent since COVID started.

1017
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 4: I guess he didn't realize I would actually say something

1018
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 4: like that. I've always been super gushy around him. Clearly

1019
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,799
Speaker 4: I would never be the one to break us up.

1020
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 4: Now he gave me his phone, and I didn't know

1021
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 4: where to start, but eventually founding a messaging app I

1022
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 4: had never heard of, and sure enough, when I opened it,

1023
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 4: the first name to pop up.

1024
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: Was his ex yike ex Fuste.

1025
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 4: Turns out that they met almost every weekend for drinks

1026
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 4: or a restaurant, and most definitely hooked up afterwards, as

1027
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 4: well as sent some picks to each other. I was

1028
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 4: pissede pussed, but already had some petty revenge plan. I

1029
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 4: like where this is going, he.

1030
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 1: Said, the classic stuff like I can be better.

1031
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 5: I never meant to hurt you, I'm so sorry you've

1032
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 5: been nothing but good to me, and the infamous I

1033
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 5: can change, I'll swear change.

1034
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 4: I had been waiting for that, so I said, prove it.

1035
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 4: Come on my hike with me tomorrow. Show me that

1036
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 4: you can change your ways and do something I like

1037
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 4: for once. I'm fairly manipulative.

1038
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: Ooops. I just had these.

1039
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 4: Quirky tendencies like murder. I've been trying to hit a fourteener.

1040
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 4: That's a fourteen thousand foot plus mountain. For those who don't.

1041
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: Live in Colorado, the scariest psychopaths are the ones that

1042
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: could actually like strangle you and run up a mountain

1043
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 1: to get away to the place. Literally.

1044
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 4: It was on a weekend since the season started, and

1045
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 4: I've been fairly successful, only missing one week so far.

1046
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 4: I had been planning to finally do long Speak, but

1047
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 4: he would definitely not have made it up to the top,

1048
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 4: so we did an easier one instead.

1049
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: Hiking up.

1050
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 4: He was a little sure, so we stopped about every

1051
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 4: thirty minutes for him, making a very boring eight hour

1052
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 4: trip to the.

1053
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:28,720
Speaker 1: Top eight hours. He was definitely trying to be nicer

1054
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: and sweeter than he has been, but it was just

1055
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 1: kind of pathetic. At this point, I already knew I'd

1056
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: never take back a cheater. I took some obligatory pictures,

1057
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: since this is still a hike I'd never done before

1058
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: and this is the last anyone would ever see this man.

1059
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: And then I gave him a sweet, succulent kiss because

1060
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 1: got dang those lifts still, and I whispered sweetly into

1061
00:49:53,960 --> 00:50:00,400
Speaker 1: his little ear, we are officially over brutal, and then

1062
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 1: I turned around to start my jog down. He was

1063
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: exhausted and couldn't keep up for long once we hit

1064
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 1: the trail again, but he started saying a bunch of

1065
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 1: stuff that I mostly tuned out, but I heard him say.

1066
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 4: Dun, you're gonna have to wait in the car, to

1067
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 4: which I said, just call a friend. Are better yet? X?

1068
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 1: Oh she knows, she knows your dirty little secret.

1069
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 4: I'm writing this in the car right now, and since

1070
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 4: I don't have the reception, hopefully it'll reach Reddit while

1071
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 4: I go home. It was a pretty long hike, so

1072
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 4: I doubt he'll be home for a while. Oh my god,

1073
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,280
Speaker 4: it gets dark. He has no idea.

1074
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:41,799
Speaker 1: Where he is.

1075
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 4: I need to know what you all think. Please tell

1076
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 4: us in the comments? Was Opie the a hole? And

1077
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 4: I think this one's more debatable. He would survive he

1078
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 4: walked down the eight hours. You know, hey, Edie's a cheater.

1079
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,919
Speaker 4: Eddie's a dirty cheers cheating with his ax. I don't

1080
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 4: feel that bad for him. I say, leave his larnas

1081
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 4: on top of the mountain. You know, I think I

1082
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 4: might disagree with you here. How safe is it really

1083
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 4: to abandon someone on a fourteen thousand foot mountain alone,

1084
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,800
Speaker 4: who is like unfit and what we can all assume

1085
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 4: an knowledgeable of the terrain and like nature experience.

1086
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: Duh? Do my parents still six figures of my inheritance? Okay? Fine?

1087
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: Also you for everything you've got be a sociopath, just

1088
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: dru in the relationship he has with his parents.

1089
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 4: So my great aunt set up savings accounts for all

1090
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 4: of her female relatives. In our culture, education for women

1091
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 4: is not really valued, and she thought that.

1092
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 1: That was bs.

1093
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 4: So my great aunt lived with her father in London,

1094
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 4: where she was education. She went on to attend university

1095
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:51,720
Speaker 4: and became a doctor. Oh shout out great aunt Yoh.

1096
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: Also shout out great Auntie for like just saying like

1097
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 1: E fit to the system, learning from the schools.

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00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 4: Anyway, Now, my great Auntie married a British man. They

1099
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 4: moved to America and had a great life together. She

1100
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 4: my great aunty, funded the education of as many of

1101
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 4: her nieces and grand nieces as she possibly could.

1102
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: That's so freaking badass giving it back. That's huge. That's

1103
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: of a generational wealth. A yo, that's the key.

1104
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 4: My parents managed to access the accounts that were set

1105
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 4: up for my sister and myself.

1106
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: No way, the parents that are kind of like bigots

1107
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: and don't want their kids to learn. Ye, give me

1108
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,359
Speaker 1: what do you think they used it for? What do

1109
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: I think they used it for? Yeah? I'm thinking of

1110
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: a red Bugatti. Ooh, that's a good guess. Or maybe

1111
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: like a maybe like a couples massages every day. Maybe

1112
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 1: they used it to buy equipment like recording equipment to

1113
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: start a forty plus only fans. Wow.

1114
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 4: They used it to pay for my brother's entire wedding,

1115
00:52:58,719 --> 00:52:59,720
Speaker 4: and those aren't cheap.

1116
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: Those aren't cheap.

1117
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 4: Now, my sister didn't care about this because she got

1118
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 4: married two years out of high school and had no

1119
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,760
Speaker 4: intention of going to college, which I would still be pissed.

1120
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 4: But when I graduated high school, I went to the

1121
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 4: bank to get some money for school, and it was

1122
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 4: almost entirely gone. There was only thirteen thousand dollars left.

1123
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 4: I asked my parents about it, and they said they

1124
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 4: had needed the money for the wedding.

1125
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: Bro what When I finally found out where the money went,

1126
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: I got furious. I would I don't care where the

1127
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: money went. I would just be curious that it bene Yeah. Right.

1128
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:42,919
Speaker 4: I ended up getting student loans and moving out no

1129
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 4: way from literally like definitely her education would have been

1130
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 4: like almost certainly covered easy from that to like all right,

1131
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 4: now I got to get student loans and like.

1132
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's wonderful chick. Dude, it's wonderful till oh,

1133
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: I'm pissed. Pissed, my god. Now I am a great

1134
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: source of shame to my parents, but I don't give

1135
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: two f's. Everyone please comment shame and the comment. So

1136
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: it's just a shame, shame over these freaking parents.

1137
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 4: So I am currently suing my parents for the money

1138
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 4: that was left for me. My entire family is against me.

1139
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 4: They all think that I'm a complete a hole for

1140
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 4: airing private family business and public.

1141
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: It became on private, but it stole my money. So

1142
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: my family says that I'm putting money ahead of the family.

1143
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 1: My friends are all on my side.

1144
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 4: We're on your side to OPI, but they don't really

1145
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 4: get my culture, and neither do I.

1146
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 1: To be honest, I want to know what the culture

1147
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 1: thing is. Yeah, me too, Me too.

1148
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,399
Speaker 4: Now my brother called me up and offered to pay

1149
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 4: for my university if I dropped the lawsuit.

1150
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you think would you? Would you take that?

1151
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: The lawsuit? I mean I can't want. I just say

1152
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: I can't imagine suing my parents. It's kind of hard, right,

1153
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 1: Like that's like, but like they also haven't stolen almost

1154
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:07,720
Speaker 1: one hundred grand for me. Probably yes, because only bad

1155
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: things can happen if you can continue. Maybe you can't

1156
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: pay it all back, but like you should help me

1157
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 1: out with school.

1158
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 4: I agreed as long as we had a legally binding contract.

1159
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 4: Now my brother said that I was being an a

1160
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 4: hole for not trusting him.

1161
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:27,839
Speaker 1: Oh oh, I wonder why I'm done trusting you.

1162
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 4: I said that he should not have accepted my money

1163
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:32,280
Speaker 4: for his wedding.

1164
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:32,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1165
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 4: Yes, it is causing all kinds of embarrassment in our community.

1166
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 4: I am somewhat ashamed to be doing this, but I

1167
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 4: don't want to have this debt that I should not have.

1168
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, we need to know, we need to know.

1169
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, let you think what should OPI do in this?

1170
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 4: Do please tell us what you think sam.

1171
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: Opie is entitled to that money. For sure, I'd say

1172
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: to the brother, hey, sign on track of you paying

1173
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 1: me back, or I'm going to continue with the suit

1174
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: because I don't want to be in debt. I'm not

1175
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:08,720
Speaker 1: going to change my life plan to suit you because

1176
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: you stole from me. Ridiculous. Ridiculous. If brother don't sign contract,

1177
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 1: see the fcat of your parents there it is am

1178
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,720
Speaker 1: I the a hole for stealing my sister in law's wallet.

1179
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm just borrowing it. Just borrow it, borrow it. My

1180
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 1: female twenty eight sister in law Amy, female twenty six,

1181
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: always comes to visit from out of town. She stays

1182
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 1: with us instead of hotel, and always wants to go

1183
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:36,759
Speaker 1: to expensive restaurants. She always conveniently forgets her wallet or

1184
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: comes up with some excuse as to why she can't

1185
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: pay her share out of a stomach ache. I couldn't

1186
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: possibly pay. I worked out so hard at the gym

1187
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 1: that I can alter bear to lift my wrist. She

1188
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: has implied that since I make so much more money

1189
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: than her, I should be the one to pay. No,

1190
00:56:56,000 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: not my husband should pay, but me. Specifically, I do

1191
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,919
Speaker 1: make a fair amount of money, but not so much

1192
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 1: that I can treat someone every time they come into town. Nonetheless,

1193
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: in the past, I have just paid the bill and

1194
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: asked her to pay me back. She never has nice,

1195
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll ventmo yu. She made a reservation at

1196
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: an extremely expensive restaurant last night, and before we left,

1197
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: I made it very very clear I would not be

1198
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: paying her bill. This, though, is where I might have

1199
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: been an apple and I'll admit I got this move

1200
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: straight from the episode of Two and a half Men.

1201
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: As we were leaving, her and my husband went to

1202
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: the car, I pretended to forget something and went back inside.

1203
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:45,439
Speaker 1: I found her wallet sitting right on top of her suitcase. Well,

1204
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: would shall look at that? Conveniently forgotten of my goodness?

1205
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: I put it in my purse and we went to

1206
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 1: the restaurant. When we were done eating, I asked for

1207
00:57:55,680 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: separate bills. She said, we need one bill because, honey,

1208
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 1: I can't believe it, but I seem to have forgotten

1209
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: my wallet.

1210
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 5: Oh no, oh no, the humanity checks again.

1211
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: Oh I reached into my purse. Do you mean this? Wallets?

1212
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: Mike freaking drop on that one.

1213
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 4: Bb.

1214
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: She was extremely furious. She said I should not have

1215
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 1: touched and grabbed her wallet. Honestly, OP is doing a

1216
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: good thing by just helping her remember a thing that

1217
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 1: she exactly.

1218
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 5: You know.

1219
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: Imagine, oh you know I left, I left my textbook

1220
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: at the house or whatever. Imagine someone was like, here

1221
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: you go, oh, I have it. Wow generous? Am I

1222
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 1: the a hole for stealing her wallet? I want to

1223
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 1: know what all of you think. Let us know what

1224
00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: you would do in the comments, you know what kind

1225
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: of WWE wallet smacked down? Would you do?

1226
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 4: World wallet entertaining, Oh, don't worry, I got it. Pull

1227
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,959
Speaker 4: out the wallet like super obvious, pull out.

1228
00:58:59,880 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: The she's got it, She's get o pay. I ruined

1229
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: my best friend's wedding by helping him propose. Here's why.

1230
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 4: Usually when you help your friend propose, that's a good thing.

1231
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 1: Usually it is. But John, the other question is is

1232
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 1: this written by an AI or a human? Seems plausible,

1233
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 1: so I'm going to go human. I had the worst

1234
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,439
Speaker 1: luck yesterday. My best friend had confided to me that

1235
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 1: he was planning to propose to his girlfriend, and he

1236
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: asked me to capture the moment on my phone. I

1237
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: was honored to be part of such a special moment

1238
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: and excited to document it for it. We arrived at

1239
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: a beautiful beach and everything was going according to plan.

1240
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: My best friend got down on one knee and asked

1241
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: his girlfriend to marry him. I pulled out my phone

1242
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: and started snapping pictures and recording some video. But as

1243
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: I was taking the photos, I noticed something on my phone.

1244
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: It was running low on storage. I had forgotten to

1245
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: clear out some old photos and videos and now I

1246
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: had barely any room left. I was worried that my

1247
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: phone might run out of storage before I could capture

1248
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: the whole proposal, so I started frantically deleting some old

1249
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: files to make room, but it was too late. My

1250
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 1: phone ran out of orange just as my best friend's

1251
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: girlfriend said yes. Ah, that is terrible. Right at the moment,

1252
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 1: I was devastated. I had let my best friend down

1253
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: and missed out on capturing such an important moment in

1254
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: his life. I felt terrible and didn't know how to

1255
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: make it up to him. In a moment of desperation,

1256
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 1: I decided to try to recreate the proposal photos with photoshop.

1257
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: I figured that I could just show my best friend

1258
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 1: some pictures of the moment and it might make up

1259
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 1: for the fact that I had missed the actual proposal.

1260
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 1: I mean, no, but maybe man's a wizard with photoshop.

1261
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe. But things only got worse from there. My

1262
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 1: best friend saw the fake photos and and soil they

1263
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 1: were fake, and I was furious. Oh no. He accused

1264
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: me of trying to manipulate and deceive him, and he

1265
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: said that our friendship was over.

1266
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 3: Oh.

1267
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 1: I was heartbroken. I only meant to try and make

1268
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: things right, but instead I had made things even worse.

1269
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:54,240
Speaker 1: I realized that honesty is always the best policy, and

1270
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 1: that sometimes it's better to admit our mistakes rather than

1271
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 1: try to cover them up. I apologized to my best

1272
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: friend and egg for his forgiveness, but he wouldn't hear it.

1273
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 1: He was too hurt and angry to consider forgiving me,

1274
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 1: and he said that our friendship was over. Forgod, I

1275
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 1: was devastated. Losing my best friend was one of the

1276
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: hardest things I've ever had to deal with, and I

1277
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 1: learned the hard way that our actions have consequences, and

1278
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: sometimes it's too late to make things right.

1279
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 4: I shouldn't have done the fake photo, but like he

1280
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 4: was just caught up. It just happened to him.

1281
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: But John, there's an update, Oh snap. I wanted to

1282
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,000
Speaker 1: privee an update to my previous story. After my best

1283
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 1: friend found out about the fake proposal photos I had

1284
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 1: created in photoshop, he was furious and the friendship was over.

1285
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: I was heartbroken and apologized him, but he wouldn't hear it,

1286
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 1: and things have only gotten worse since then. My best

1287
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 1: friend's family found out about the fake photos and they

1288
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: have been calling and texting me NonStop angry about what

1289
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: I did. They're saying that I'm an awful person and

1290
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: that I don't deserve to be friends with their son.

1291
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I feel terrible about

1292
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 1: what happened, and I want to restore my friendship with

1293
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,680
Speaker 1: my best friend, but I also don't want to deal

1294
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: with the constant criticism and judgment from his family. Should

1295
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: I try to keep making things right or just end

1296
01:01:58,680 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: the friendship and move on?

1297
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 4: Give give it the old college effort, Give it one more,

1298
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 4: try to see if it works. But this is a

1299
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 4: tough situation.

1300
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: It might you might you might be, you might be

1301
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:12,959
Speaker 1: out of luck's sun. But real question, John Ai or human?

1302
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:15,720
Speaker 1: I still think this is plausible, So I'm gonna go

1303
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 1: human ai DN. Karen's claiming she owns this house, but

1304
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: there's only one problem. I own it, So should I

1305
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,439
Speaker 1: call the cops? So? I am a fourteen year old

1306
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: male and my family recently moved into a house in

1307
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: a new Agh state. Oh you know what's fancy when

1308
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: it's not a house, it's in a state. Papa all

1309
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 1: this issue. State had a park that was massive. My

1310
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: house is on the main road of the state and

1311
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 1: its garage is on the other side on another road,

1312
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 1: and we are close to the park. About two months ago,

1313
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 1: they hosted an opening ceremony for the park. A lot

1314
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: of people came. People from the surrounding areas came as well. Well. Me,

1315
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: my brother and my parents left our house and walked

1316
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 1: down to the park. Due to all the traffic, there

1317
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: were people to manage it. Okay, so I'm a little confused.

1318
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: Is Opie own this park?

1319
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 4: Show? Dang Opie? Is Opie is actually Vanderbilt in disgust? Yeah, bro,

1320
01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 4: it's like Elon musk.

1321
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: Regler shoe buying my estate. Once we get there, we

1322
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 1: see a car parked in our driveway. My dad is

1323
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 1: calm six sir for deer, but he doesn't like stuff

1324
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: like this, like park cars. Oh god. Me and my

1325
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: brother eighteen years old go up to one of the

1326
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: workers and tell him that the car and there wasn't

1327
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: ours and we don't want it there. WUKA remove this

1328
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 1: vehicle from the prefaces. Excuse me, Jesus is blocking my

1329
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 1: walking pr The worker tells us he saw the people

1330
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 1: park there and kind of remembers what they look like.

1331
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,520
Speaker 1: We tell him that it would be good if they

1332
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 1: sounds like a mob boss. We tell him that we

1333
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 1: good if they got that car moved, take care of it, Jeeves, Yeah,

1334
01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: by any means, well, we will take care of it.

1335
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 1: We wouldn't want nothing to happen to that guy. It

1336
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,959
Speaker 1: would be a shame if someone were to remove it

1337
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: from the premisey. About twenty minutes later, we see him

1338
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: walking up to the car with a lady and her son,

1339
01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: who looked him out to be nigh hope. He is

1340
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: literally just dunking on this pregnant mother, fricking like getting

1341
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: this Toyota Camra impounded while it's parked on his.

1342
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 5: Though.

1343
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 1: She walks up there and we see her starting to

1344
01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 1: get angry. Naturally, we walk up to see what's happening.

1345
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 1: This is the conversation that happened. Karen, I don't understand

1346
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 1: why you want me to move my car. I live

1347
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 1: here in the park. I'm hopeless pleased to make me

1348
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 1: move worker will they say that you don't? And I

1349
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: don't see why they would bring this issue here unless

1350
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: it was true, Karen, arm, lay're clearly lying. I live here,

1351
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: my brother, Ma'm please, I live here, and you would

1352
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: have the keys to the house please move your car,

1353
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: Karen ball complete and honor bull. I have lived here

1354
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:24,720
Speaker 1: for one year and have watched this park be built.

1355
01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: Our house was finished five months prior to this. Our

1356
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 1: states it could never be my brother. Okay, then then

1357
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: what two cars are inside the garage? Then, Karen? A

1358
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 1: Volkswagon your masta, my brother, No, it's a Bugattian a

1359
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 1: road Royce. You poor Usoo.

1360
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 4: Now I'm kidding, nive, but still wow, so so humble.

1361
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 4: We have men of the earth.

1362
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: Karen, that's not true. I'll open the garage and show you.

1363
01:05:56,200 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 1: As she scuffles through her handbag, my brother opens the garag.

1364
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 1: My brother, Yeah, that's the evidence. See that the Karen

1365
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 1: is lying worker. It's Kayla and not your house. Karen,

1366
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: please move along. She gets in her car and leeves

1367
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: while looking angry. We didn't think to call the cops

1368
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: because nothing made her happen, but it was funny to

1369
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: see her lying ass, her lying poor ass get proven wrong. Yeah.

1370
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: First of all, John is OP the a hole for

1371
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 1: kicking Karen out of the parky? You know, let me

1372
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: think about it. What you think, guys, But in the comments,

1373
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 1: what do you think of OPI I know we painted

1374
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 1: him kind of as an app to us. Kind of

1375
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:43,919
Speaker 1: sounds like a rich what do you think I'm gonna

1376
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give it to Karen.

1377
01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 4: What I love is the delicious audacity to not only

1378
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 4: be like, first I live here.

1379
01:06:51,320 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 1: Second I let me let me open it like you

1380
01:06:57,200 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: don't have it? N she got a bluff justice? Yes,

1381
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 1: speaking of justice, Yeah, I got a sweet just story

1382
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: for you. All right, let's see it. I don't care

1383
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: if it's emotional abuse. I will destroy my daughter's bedroom door.

1384
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? So?

1385
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 4: I forty female, have three kids, Maggie fourteen female, Levi

1386
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 4: twelve male, and Charles ten male. Levi and Charlie share

1387
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 4: a bedroom and Maggie has her own room as the eldest.

1388
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 4: Hant my only girl living living large over there, big

1389
01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 4: all on your roll with. Maggie's a great kid. She

1390
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 4: has her homework, helps the chores without too much complaint,

1391
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 4: doesn't bug her brothers too much. The issue is that

1392
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 4: she will not stop slamming her bedroom door.

1393
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 1: That sounds like such a mom thing. Yeah, like like

1394
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 1: sometimes they'll close the door and it'll be a little loud,

1395
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 1: you know, like, sweetheart, please stop slamming your door. Can

1396
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: you please stop slamming it. I'm like, Mom, I'm just

1397
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 1: closing my door, and she's like, excuse me, don't talk

1398
01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 1: back to me.

1399
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 4: When she gets up to use the bathroom at night,

1400
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 4: she slams her bedroom door on her way out and

1401
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 4: back in on purpose.

1402
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: Ah, she wants everyone dead here, poops, that's right here?

1403
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 4: Speakiness, Yeah, without a care in the world. When she

1404
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 4: gets up in the morning or goes to bed at night,

1405
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 4: she slams it. Pretty much anytime she enters her exits

1406
01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:17,719
Speaker 4: her room, the door gets slammed, and it's only her door.

1407
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 4: None of the other doors in the house do this.

1408
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 1: Maybe it's the door you ever thought about that? Mom?

1409
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: Maybe you gotta maybe you gotta fix your door. Maybe

1410
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,639
Speaker 1: you gotta put pads on the door. Wow, mom, wait,

1411
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: wait a gaslight? Me? Yeah, wait, a gaslight?

1412
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:29,479
Speaker 5: My door?

1413
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: Come on?

1414
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 5: No?

1415
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,920
Speaker 4: No, no, actually shakes the walls and frequently wakes up

1416
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:34,799
Speaker 4: everyone else.

1417
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 1: In the house. Is she like a power lifter? She's like.

1418
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 4: Her brother's room shares the wall with hers, and our

1419
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,439
Speaker 4: bedroom is directly above there. We talked to her about

1420
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 4: it and asked her very politely to please be more

1421
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,360
Speaker 4: mindful about it. Because it's disturbing the rest of us.

1422
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,679
Speaker 4: But it's in one ear and out the other.

1423
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:53,800
Speaker 1: Teenage is what are you gonna do? What are you

1424
01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 1: gonna do?

1425
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 4: Except maybe you sleep up, except you wake up with

1426
01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:00,439
Speaker 4: a doorknob in your bed. Now, we tried being more

1427
01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:02,879
Speaker 4: forceful about it, saying that if she wants to continue

1428
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 4: to slam her door, there will be consequences. Do you

1429
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 4: think she's doing this on purpose like she can't be,

1430
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 4: or is she like secretly angry?

1431
01:09:10,360 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: I don't I feel fifty to fifty. I think I

1432
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,559
Speaker 1: think she might be. That's I could see that being

1433
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:17,799
Speaker 1: a little thing. Still nothing changes.

1434
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 4: It all came to a head the other night when

1435
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 4: she got up to use the bathroom and all four

1436
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 4: of us were woken up by the slaming. I have

1437
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 4: to be up at five am for work, and I'd

1438
01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 4: had enough of them, and I've had I have to

1439
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 4: be up at five am for work, and I'd had

1440
01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 4: enough of broken sleep. So I came downstairs and knocked

1441
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:40,599
Speaker 4: on her door. She opened it and said, oh.

1442
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 1: Bam, I'm getting to see.

1443
01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 4: She said it with such attitude it took a lot

1444
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,840
Speaker 4: of self control not to start yelling at her. I

1445
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,640
Speaker 4: told her as calmly as I could that if she

1446
01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:57,080
Speaker 4: slammed that door one more time, she was going to

1447
01:09:57,120 --> 01:10:00,720
Speaker 4: come home and find it gone dang, pulling out the

1448
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 4: big guns.

1449
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:04,759
Speaker 1: To replace it with some fancy or something. Yeah.

1450
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:09,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a mystical guarden. Come on, foxy mama. She

1451
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 4: proceeded to yell at me to leave her alone, and

1452
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:13,120
Speaker 4: then slammed it.

1453
01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:14,639
Speaker 1: Leave me alone, mom.

1454
01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:17,639
Speaker 4: Then she slammed it five times in a row as

1455
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 4: hard as she could.

1456
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: That's a teenager thing to do. Dude, that's that's like, Oh,

1457
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: you don't like when I slammed this door.

1458
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 5: You know? Like that?

1459
01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 4: Well, the next day, Friday, she went to school, and

1460
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 4: my husband and I both had the day off, so

1461
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:38,600
Speaker 4: we took the door off the frame man and installed

1462
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 4: a curtain rod and a nice heavy curtain over the

1463
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:43,640
Speaker 4: door instead. I love how she's like dressing up this

1464
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 4: curt like, oh, it's a nice velvet deep daylight, blacking proof,

1465
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:51,560
Speaker 4: soundproof velvet curtains delicious.

1466
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:54,799
Speaker 1: The color compliments the room so top of the line.

1467
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: She came home and freaked the f out. She said

1468
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 1: that we're being emotionally abusive. I don't know why. That's

1469
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:06,679
Speaker 1: funny and taking away her right to privacy. You're abusive

1470
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 1: of that door, baby goodness, she'd be an abusive in

1471
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:15,840
Speaker 1: that door for way too long. Has had enough stop it.

1472
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: She sulked all weekend and won't talk to us. Now.

1473
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:22,080
Speaker 4: My mother says that I'm the a hole because I overreacted,

1474
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 4: but she doesn't have to deal with the house shaking.

1475
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 1: I love how her own mom is like getting into

1476
01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:33,719
Speaker 1: just a mom Yeah, solving here.

1477
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to add that we completely respect each

1478
01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 4: other's privacy in our house, which is why we hung

1479
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 4: up a heavy curtain and.

1480
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 1: Made sure that very heavy. Yeah, so, oh you got

1481
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 1: just just freaking just two tons. She can still train

1482
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: for the door to closing Olympics with that curtain, don't

1483
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:54,120
Speaker 1: you worry. It's like it's like, you know, the rope exercises.

1484
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 4: We even put little velcrow pieces on the wall so

1485
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 4: the curtain can stay in place. She still has her

1486
01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:04,599
Speaker 4: physical privacy, which she is absolutely entitled, but she can't

1487
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 4: slam a piece of fabric. We also never and still

1488
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 4: don't just go into a room unannounced, and we still

1489
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:13,479
Speaker 4: knock on the wall to ask permission to enter. We've

1490
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 4: told her that will happily put her door back once

1491
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 4: she agrees to respect the no slamming rule. Edit to

1492
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,719
Speaker 4: add the curtain is an industrial type of that block

1493
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 4: sound and light.

1494
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:25,640
Speaker 1: It's probably like the one that we have here. The

1495
01:12:25,720 --> 01:12:27,960
Speaker 1: curtain is only meant as a temporary measure.

1496
01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 4: As soon as she agrees to stop slamming and be

1497
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 4: respectful of the shared space, we'll put it.

1498
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 1: Right back on.

1499
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 4: And the door isn't broken or malfunctioning in any way.

1500
01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 4: There's just no draft causing it to swing shut.

1501
01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 1: So called one eight hundred gurden in order for three

1502
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:45,880
Speaker 1: easy pavements of nineteen ninety nine. So your house is

1503
01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 1: slam free. Yeah, I want to know what everyone else

1504
01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: they to put it in the cots, But like I

1505
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: feel like just get like some foam to stop the

1506
01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 1: or something to make that's my question. Like there must

1507
01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:00,320
Speaker 1: be besides rue, like removing the whole door us be

1508
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 1: a way to like make the door a little softer

1509
01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 1: upon clothes. Then there's probably a reason, like like like

1510
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: get to the source, like why, Like what's what is

1511
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 1: wrong that you feel the need to slam all these doors?

1512
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:14,960
Speaker 1: I don't give an about your daughter. She's worthless compared

1513
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: to my miracle baby. I want to take out of

1514
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:22,599
Speaker 1: the wedding boning on a daily basis, and daw something

1515
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 1: comes of it. What about how about think about the children?

1516
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:28,560
Speaker 1: Don't miracle get it on the first try? Wow, you

1517
01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: know I don't care. How muny. It's not a miracle

1518
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 1: if you did it one hundred times and then it comes. Oh,

1519
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. By twenty seven. Female older brother and

1520
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:40,599
Speaker 1: sister in law, both mid thirties, just welcome their first

1521
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 1: child a year and a half ago after years of trying. Ooh,

1522
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 1: year a lot dugging. Oh until this sin on his

1523
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 1: member is taed from his flesh. Oh sheh. After many

1524
01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 1: failed attempts, sister a lot was told that she wouldn't

1525
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 1: be able to conceive do to a medical condition she had.

1526
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:06,679
Speaker 1: Then they finally got pregnant. So miracle. Since having my niece,

1527
01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 1: the baby has been the center of attention at every

1528
01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:15,879
Speaker 1: family gathering since she's been born, Birthdays, weddings, family get togethers,

1529
01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: you name it, she's the center of it. Oh my god. Now,

1530
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. L O ve love my niece.

1531
01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 1: But it can be but but it can be a

1532
01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 1: little too much. When my sister in law goes on

1533
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 1: and on how long they tried to conceive, how many

1534
01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:36,760
Speaker 1: positions they tried, good house you, her husband thrust it

1535
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:41,120
Speaker 1: inside of her. I call this one the miracle maker. Yeah,

1536
01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: oh yeah, baby, it's getting America. Call me a cream

1537
01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 1: filled donut, because man, it was like the semen c

1538
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:52,920
Speaker 1: in there and they talk about how long they try

1539
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:56,720
Speaker 1: to conceive, complications, they've had, miscarriages, et cetera. Like a

1540
01:14:56,760 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 1: little too much info. Many family members have commented on

1541
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 1: how it's a bit excessive, just a little bit, but

1542
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 1: no one has said anything because they don't want to

1543
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 1: sound like an entitled asshole. Got anyway, I'm getting married

1544
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: in the spring, and my brother and sister in law

1545
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 1: approached me last weekend about having my niece be the

1546
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: flower girl. Now, my fiance, thirty five male, has two children,

1547
01:15:17,640 --> 01:15:20,559
Speaker 1: ten male and six female from his previous marriage. His

1548
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 1: son is one of the grooms men, while his daughter

1549
01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:25,760
Speaker 1: had asked to be our flower girl when we told

1550
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,519
Speaker 1: them the news that we were getting married a year ago.

1551
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 1: Is it's something she's always wanted to do? Though of

1552
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 1: course we said yes, those they're nice people. So I

1553
01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:35,360
Speaker 1: explained this to my sister in law when she asked

1554
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: me about my niece. She asked if my stepdaughter can

1555
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 1: just carry my niece with her, and I was just

1556
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:44,320
Speaker 1: like a little pack. You know, you get your babies

1557
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 1: and the one and your flowers in the other. You

1558
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:51,559
Speaker 1: got two, you got you got two hands to get hold. Wow,

1559
01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:54,599
Speaker 1: come on, come on, I said, I don't think she'd

1560
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:58,840
Speaker 1: be comfortable with that, considering she's six, and it's like, like,

1561
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:02,240
Speaker 1: how the baby carry baby? Why don't you. She then

1562
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 1: started going off about how my lack of effort to

1563
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:10,280
Speaker 1: incorporate my niece is disgusting her and I should honor

1564
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 1: her in some way since I know how long and

1565
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 1: hard and steamy and sexy they had tried for my niece.

1566
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:21,679
Speaker 1: Oh god, now I may sound like an a hole

1567
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 1: for doing this. I kind of got fed up and

1568
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:26,599
Speaker 1: snapped and said, incorporate my niece. How by the time

1569
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 1: the wedding comes around, Jill be two years old. The

1570
01:16:29,439 --> 01:16:32,680
Speaker 1: entire family already knows your story. And how long and

1571
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: hard and sexy and deep you guys tried for her.

1572
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:38,639
Speaker 1: What more do you expect me to do to honor her?

1573
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:43,400
Speaker 1: She started crying and said that clearly I don't love

1574
01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 1: my one and holy niece, and I'm letting her down.

1575
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:48,960
Speaker 1: I said, of course I love my niece. Obviously she's

1576
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 1: going to be involved in pictures and stuff, and I'm

1577
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 1: not going to let my step daughter down by giving

1578
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:55,839
Speaker 1: my niece a roll. She's too young to remember anyway,

1579
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 1: that two year old of blank slate shit. You don't

1580
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 1: know where eyes going and tap into those memories. Yeah,

1581
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 1: remember that little flower girl memory? Pull that out chat

1582
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 1: GPT when I was two. Also, she's not even the

1583
01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:10,720
Speaker 1: flower girl. She's being held by the flower girl. It's

1584
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:17,679
Speaker 1: like a useless position, some position. Yay, I am flower girl. Well,

1585
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 1: now sister in law and my brother are pissed off

1586
01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:22,400
Speaker 1: with me for not letting my niece be flower girl

1587
01:17:22,640 --> 01:17:24,559
Speaker 1: and are running around telling the rest of the family

1588
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 1: I don't love my niece. My mom had been trying

1589
01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: to stay neutral, but thinks my stepdaughter would understand if

1590
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:31,320
Speaker 1: I explained to her I need to give that role

1591
01:17:31,360 --> 01:17:33,760
Speaker 1: to my niece. I'm firm in my decision, and my

1592
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 1: fiance is thankful that I didn't let his daughter down.

1593
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:38,920
Speaker 1: So am I the a hole for not allowing my

1594
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: niece to be the flower girl? People in the comments,

1595
01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 1: let us know what you think right now. But John,

1596
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:45,680
Speaker 1: it's your decision, you know. I think I think we

1597
01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:47,559
Speaker 1: got to double down here. Oh pee, let me tell

1598
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,520
Speaker 1: you something. Hell, your love is worthless.

1599
01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,599
Speaker 4: I don't care who you found and how they make

1600
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 4: you feel. I care about this miracle baby, and only

1601
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:58,880
Speaker 4: the miracle. Much more interesting, much more so, much more fascinating. Wow,

1602
01:17:59,080 --> 01:18:02,559
Speaker 4: pounding it for years, sounding for a year, I mean

1603
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:05,560
Speaker 4: that is pretty fascinating. That is that is what positions

1604
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,439
Speaker 4: did you record it? Did you record the moment of reception,

1605
01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:10,439
Speaker 4: you know, conception, getting my.

1606
01:18:11,880 --> 01:18:14,480
Speaker 1: Weddings and miracle babies? That's right? Definitely.

1607
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:16,720
Speaker 4: This woman is the a hohole like I just it's

1608
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 4: just it just blows my mind how people can think

1609
01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 4: like this.

1610
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:21,879
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's insane. It's insane. You know, it's insane.

1611
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 1: The story's over, oh so yeah,