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Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: William is on the phone today for a first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Jen

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and

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Speaker 2: maybe get him a second date. But first, William, how

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Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Jen Man?

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Speaker 3: At this point, it feels like forever. It's been weeks.

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Speaker 4: Okay, weeks.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on. Okay, but date. I mean, look,

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Speaker 3: I liked her. I like her. She's just one of

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Speaker 3: those chicks that just seem better than me, that would

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Speaker 3: help me become a better man. Okay, everything about her,

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Speaker 3: everything about her seems sophisticated.

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Speaker 4: Seems something. All right, we'll tell us about your date.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, like, you know, I was trying, you know,

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Speaker 3: as I said, she's kind of sophisticated, beautiful woman, very elegant,

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Speaker 3: and you know, so I wanted to do something nice

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Speaker 3: and I don't usually do nice things, go and do

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Speaker 3: nice things, and so I was like, oh, let's go

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Speaker 3: to the jazz bar. So it's kind of like a

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Speaker 3: little cute, little quait wine slash jazz bar, you know,

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Speaker 3: nice and dim and dark. And I was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is the vibe. If I can't win it with this,

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Speaker 3: then I don't know what else. Well then she's ordering stuff,

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Speaker 3: and you know, like I was thinking I would order,

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Speaker 3: but you know, she's the type of woman who was

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Speaker 3: just round the back like no, I want this, this

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Speaker 3: I like that. You know you're taking some charges too,

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Speaker 3: you know what you want. She ordered like a stracutery board.

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Speaker 3: I grew up on government cheese, so for me, black

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Speaker 3: cheese chopped up, you know, some bologney. She's ordering all

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Speaker 3: this stuff. I mean, honey, combs are coming out. There's

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Speaker 3: there's four different type of olives. I'm looking. I'm trying

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Speaker 3: to act like I'm cool. Oh yeah, I do this

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Speaker 3: every day. Get that baby, get this. It's totally fine.

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Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, like realistic, I'm like, well, crap,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know all this comes with a board of cheese.

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Speaker 3: Looking at the price too, like you know, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: just some cheese. I mean, look, I was enjoying it,

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Speaker 3: and you know, we have a great conversations. We're laughing.

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Speaker 3: I even caught her like looking at me and feeling

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Speaker 3: some type of way, and so I'm thinking, what good

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Speaker 3: the dinner's going. Well, we're enjoying the music. And you know,

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Speaker 3: you see you see those movies where the girl has

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Speaker 3: like the hair over their face and you just move

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Speaker 3: a smooth way. Yeah, that didn't happen. That happened. She

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Speaker 3: had like some mustard on her face. Just let me

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Speaker 3: just go ahead and wipe this off. You and I

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Speaker 3: can be smooth looking. I'll take care of you. Been

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Speaker 3: I didn't know the mustard was not mustard, it was makeup.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I wiped it off, and I was looking

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Speaker 3: at my thumb. I'm like, oh, that's my bustard. You know.

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Speaker 3: She was real cool about it. She didn't get embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: She was real cool about it.

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Speaker 4: So she just let you like touch her face though.

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Speaker 6: She just sat there and was like, he's coming in

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Speaker 6: to touch my face, and she was She didn't budge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I didn't really. I was so focused

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Speaker 3: she did have an issue with it, but she seemed

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Speaker 3: cool like after when she she laughed it off, and

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Speaker 3: we're still having a great time. And you know, day

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Speaker 3: the night, we gave her a hugain and you know,

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Speaker 3: I didn't get the kiss, but I definitely got the

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Speaker 3: So I called her, you know, being a good guy,

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Speaker 2: And did she say anything about meeting up again?

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Speaker 4: When you guys laughed, You know, I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, but at the same time, she said

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Speaker 3: she had a really really good time. Yeah. I was

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Speaker 3: already thinking about take her, meet her my mama eventually.

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Speaker 3: This type of you like, oh, I can bring her home.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll play a song come back, and

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Speaker 2: then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next friend,

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Speaker 2: will if your first day follow up, if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us. William is on the phone and he's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted by a woman named Jen. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, William,

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Speaker 2: why don't you break down your situation for us again

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Speaker 2: real quick.

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Speaker 3: I just had a quick date, you know. I took

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Speaker 3: a woman to a jazz wine bar, had a good time,

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Speaker 3: made some secutary, you know, and I wiped off some

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Speaker 3: mustard that that was on our face. And it wasn't mustard,

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Speaker 3: it was makeup. She laughed about it. She laughs about it.

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Speaker 3: We had a good time, like she said, she enjoyed herself,

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Speaker 3: gave me a great embracefle hug and that was it.

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 2: Well, are you ready for us to call her? I mean,

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Speaker 2: you liked her so much, he said, you to you're

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this is the energy.

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Speaker 4: All right, here we go. I'm gonna call her.

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, Hello, Hi, I'm.

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Speaker 4: You asking the gen please. This is Jen, Hi Jen?

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Speaker 4: How are you? This is a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 4: the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi Jen.

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Speaker 4: I'mina, I am Victoria and my name is Jubell. How

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Speaker 4: are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm okay, Hi? Hi?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean not not consistently, but I know who

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Speaker 3: you are.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hey, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: We're calling you today because we got an email about

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Speaker 2: you from somebody who does listen, probably a little more

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Speaker 2: than you. Okay, And we do a segment on the show.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you heard it before. It's called

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Speaker 2: the First Day follow Up. That's where if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then you end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, they can email us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,

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Speaker 2: And we got an email from a guy named William

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Speaker 2: who thinks that you're awesome, but you haven't called him

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Speaker 2: back since your date, and he's wondering if you would

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Speaker 2: tell us why.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, well no, So the date was great, We're

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Speaker 1: having a we're in a wonderful time jazz club, and

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Speaker 1: everything was cool until the shark shootery board came out

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Speaker 1: and he started to smell everything, like like deeply, every

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Speaker 1: single bite was it because.

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Speaker 6: He liked the senses, Like is it one of those

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Speaker 6: eat it and then you have a better appreciation for it.

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Speaker 8: I know what you're saying, but no, this is more

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Speaker 8: like quality control, Like we got we got this cheese thing,

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Speaker 3: It for for quality. Is the cheese, the.

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Speaker 4: Meat all his like for quality.

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Speaker 2: I'm just kind of confused, like picking up a piece

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Speaker 8: Like suspiciously, you know, like like one of the.

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Speaker 3: People who smell why the smaller like but but.

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Speaker 6: For lunchibles, like he didn't trust it. Then he's like

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Speaker 6: he didn't trust it exactly. He wasn't doing it to

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Speaker 9: Be funny, you know, but then when he didn't address

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Speaker 9: clear that he was. You know, there were Samcy cheeses

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Speaker 9: kind of blue cheese, and he he wanted to send

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Speaker 9: that back because it was moldy, you know, like it

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Speaker 5: I tried very calmly to like say, oh that you know,

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Speaker 3: Well, I supposed to that. I'm just gonna eat mold jen.

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Speaker 4: That's William. He's actually on the phone listening and wants

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Speaker 4: to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, So that's it. That's the reason why you've

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Speaker 3: been ghost to me because I won't eat moldy cheese.

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Speaker 3: I don't do that's fair.

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Speaker 8: We were at a five star wine bar, not a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a five star restaurant. They shouldn't be selling like

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Speaker 8: It did look a little suspicious.

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Speaker 3: It was melting. That's not good cheese supposed to it

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Speaker 3: comes hard in a block. It's supposed to be like that.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. All these different type of cheeses, I think

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Speaker 3: at least one would be right. I'm spending all this

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Speaker 3: was four different colors, some some had like strangers. It

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Speaker 3: made no sense. What was meltson? I doesn't even know

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Speaker 3: what like? It was all supposed to be like that.

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Speaker 3: You that's the breadsticks with him, and the in the

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Speaker 3: a different colored cheese or melts and cheese. It's a

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Speaker 3: And then the smell alone, the smell that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: I swear, I have sweaty sock to smell the same.

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Speaker 8: What maybe you just don't like cheese, because that is

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Speaker 8: what that is what the cheeses are supposed to look

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Speaker 3: I love cheese. Cheese is great, but it should come

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Speaker 3: in a plastic package or in a box.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, so is that the only reason you're ghosting?

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Speaker 2: Because you know he's not into those fancy, stinky cheeses.

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Speaker 1: I mean we were at we were at a restaurant

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Speaker 3: The cheese. It was fine, you know, I just I

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Speaker 3: don't I spent twenty dollars on all of them. I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to say, all those fancy cheeses, I don't be

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Speaker 3: knowing that my cheese is at the cheesecake factory. I

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Speaker 3: just we could go there again. Just give me another chance.

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Speaker 3: I'll stop smelling cheese. I was a little bit out

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Speaker 3: of my comfort zone. It that's just not the place

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Speaker 3: I do. I just really, really really wanted to impress you.

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Speaker 3: I really like you, and it just sucks that I

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Speaker 3: feel ghosted by you. So hopefully you give me another.

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Speaker 4: Champld you like another day with William will pay for it.

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Speaker 3: I go.

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Speaker 10: Look, we don't have to go anywhere that you're not comfortable.

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Speaker 10: I didn't ask to go to a jazz club. You

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Speaker 10: don't have to take me somewhere that you wouldn't normally go.

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Speaker 10: It's very sweet that you wanted to impress me, but

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Speaker 10: like you know, imprst me by being yourself. That's dating, okay,

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Speaker 10: William confidence?

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Speaker 3: You have no more confidence.

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Speaker 8: Man. You're either stewing it to me.

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Speaker 4: Or you're not.

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Speaker 3: Would you like to go with me to Buffalo Wow Wings?

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Speaker 3: Like sometimes? Yes, you got.

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Speaker 4: Another day, man, just don't get that blue dip with

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Speaker 4: your wings. Jules first date, fall up