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Speaker 1: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: When you're growing up, you hear people say phrases like

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Speaker 2: Rome wasn't built.

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Speaker 1: In a day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, A for effort, it's the thought that counts.

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Speaker 1: Just like I'm Jeff Well, I never realized.

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Speaker 2: It's just grown up's way of politely telling you you failed,

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Speaker 2: but you tried. And today I would like to give

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Speaker 2: an A for effort to our listener Ricky, because even

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Speaker 2: though he is not getting a call back, he did

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Speaker 2: put a crazy amount of effort into his post date

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Speaker 2: show of appreciation.

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Speaker 1: And Ricky, you know what, at least you tried.

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Speaker 2: You keep trying by contacting us, so you're not giving

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Speaker 2: up and I do respect that.

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Speaker 1: So Ricky, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. Guys.

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Speaker 4: Okay, key, I mean what an intro? How are you feeling?

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Speaker 4: You're feeling really confident?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 3: Tucked you up like, well, I was confident and everything

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Speaker 3: seemed great. I'm wavering.

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Speaker 2: I'll say that, okay, Okay, it's sending your email that

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Speaker 2: this girl that you went out with is Leanne. And

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Speaker 2: before we get to the extra effort that you put

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Speaker 2: in after the day, because only I know what that is.

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Speaker 2: Right now, obviously you must have had a pretty good

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Speaker 2: time with her, because I'm guessing you don't do this

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Speaker 2: for everybody.

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Speaker 3: No, I certainly don't.

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Speaker 4: Okay, did you meet Leanne on a dating website?

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Speaker 3: Yes? We did, meeting on a dating app. That's just

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Speaker 3: the way to these days scene.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what'd you like about her? What stood out?

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Speaker 3: Well? One of the things that I thought we really

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Speaker 3: connected on is that we're both cat people, so you know,

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Speaker 3: we have really great conversation. And it was just good

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Speaker 3: vibes the whole time, lots of laughs. It was very

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Speaker 3: what I thought was natural.

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Speaker 1: Where were you bonding? What date did you choose to do?

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Speaker 3: So? We did a cooking class? It was an Italian scene.

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Speaker 4: That's cute. Was that your idea?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was. And she was very hyped about it too,

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Speaker 3: So I thought we were in great shape just to

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Speaker 4: Learning something new together, Like you'd like that, write Alexis,

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Speaker 4: can we make mac and cheese?

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Speaker 5: I met?

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Speaker 4: You need that, don't you, Alexis, Yeah, that's actually what

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Speaker 1: Cool idea.

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Speaker 2: But isn't that like more of an established couple's thing

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Speaker 2: like you thought?

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Speaker 3: You know, it's funny you say, because it did seem

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Speaker 3: like a lot of the people that were in the

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Speaker 3: definitely saw some rings in there, so I would guess

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Speaker 3: they were married.

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Speaker 5: Maybe.

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Speaker 4: Why would that be a big deal. I mean, you're

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Speaker 4: in a room with married people. We're not scary, you know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how that would affect your date.

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Speaker 3: Other than I would say in the beginning, you know,

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Speaker 3: they kind of did like a meet and greet with everyone.

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Speaker 3: We had to say we were on the first date.

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Speaker 3: And I'm pretty sure we would do only one thumb.

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Speaker 4: Because then and married old people are like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: you guys are so.

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Speaker 1: They want to help the guys like run run.

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Speaker 4: Came back.

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Speaker 2: It's just what guys say to other guys. But it

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Speaker 2: sounds like you had a good time with her.

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Speaker 3: We really did. We had lots of fun. It was

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Speaker 3: really it was just we were laughing like the whole time.

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Speaker 4: That's okay. So and now are we talking about what

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Speaker 4: he did after? Is that where we're at? Like, it

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Speaker 4: sounds like the date was fantastic.

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Speaker 1: What he made Is that important?

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Speaker 4: No? Like a bullet AI it does it? Does it matter?

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Speaker 2: I think it's a fair question. What did you end

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Speaker 2: up making with leanne.

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Speaker 3: We ended up making a cheery suit.

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Speaker 4: Coffee can like the lady fingers.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now I'm realizing it really wasn't that important to

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Speaker 1: Probably Okay, some foodies out there that are happy.

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Speaker 2: I asked, that's the one question you're allowed for the second.

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Speaker 2: All right, after you made your tiarramasseur together, how did

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Speaker 2: the night or the date end?

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Speaker 3: It was classic first date end. We gave a hug,

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Speaker 3: said goodbye and excited to see you soon.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, that sounds also positive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just kidding. Well, okay, good reviews on the

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Speaker 1: date part.

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Speaker 2: Now let's get to the extra effort that you put

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Speaker 2: in afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, like I said earlier, we had both kind of

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Speaker 3: connected on being cat people.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So the next day I sent her flowers and I

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Speaker 3: sent her a note. No, we're not sending live animals.

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Speaker 1: What does the cat have to do with it?

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Speaker 3: So I wrote the note, But I wrote the note

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Speaker 3: as if I was the cat, right, the note coming

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Speaker 3: from the cat, just.

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Speaker 4: Like your cat or so.

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Speaker 3: I got a copy right here, I'll read it for you.

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Speaker 1: Copy Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Think he means like you printed a what is it?

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Speaker 3: Laminated? It starts off by saying meow, because that's.

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Speaker 1: How cat's thank you for a romantic start.

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Speaker 3: Like it's your feline friend, mister Djanga, and that's her

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Speaker 3: cat's name, yes, mister Djanga. And so I said, I know,

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Speaker 3: I know, my paws are surprisingly good at typing, but

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Speaker 3: I had to send you a note because I miss

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Speaker 3: you so much.

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Speaker 1: This is.

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Speaker 4: And why would her cat miss her?

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Speaker 3: I basically said, so when you're at work, the house

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Speaker 3: is in the same without you, your laugh and those

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Speaker 3: delightful treats. You sneak me when you think no one's looking.

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Speaker 3: So can you come home soon so I can hear

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Speaker 3: about your date with Ricky's.

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Speaker 4: That was awesome? So what did she say when she

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Speaker 3: Well, I didn't get much from her, So what was

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Speaker 3: Thanks for the note and the flowers? Really nothing else?

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Speaker 1: Like wow, you I mean.

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Speaker 4: She's not good with words, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: Like some people don't text a lot or have a

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Speaker 3: Felt like a middle school butt out hug, you know,

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Speaker 3: like we were in trouble and we're supposed to be dancing,

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Speaker 3: but you know it was it just so very reluctant.

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Speaker 2: Well okay, I mean kind of just like middle school.

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Speaker 2: You're coming to us to go to her to ask

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Speaker 1: Back and report to you.

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Speaker 2: Do that. That's right, We're gonna do the telephone thing

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Speaker 2: in real life.

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Speaker 1: A piece of paper to hind a jet circle.

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Speaker 4: Yes or no.

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Speaker 1: I'll get to that later.

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Speaker 2: First, we got to come back and do your second

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Speaker 2: date update when we call Leanne right after.

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Speaker 1: This second date update, Guys, I.

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Speaker 2: Hate that my mind went here, but I just thought

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Speaker 2: of the worst case scenario for when we make this call.

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Speaker 2: We dial the phone rings, it gets picked up, and

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Speaker 2: in the background you hear Leanne's muffled voice screaming for help.

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Speaker 4: Why what's wrong?

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Speaker 5: How could she know?

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Speaker 2: Then her cat, mister Jenga, comes on the line and says, hello,

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Speaker 2: Leanne can't come to the phone right now, Jeff, She's

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Speaker 2: kind of tied up.

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Speaker 4: It's the cat.

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Speaker 2: Leave a message, unless this is Ricky, in which case,

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Speaker 2: if you're looking for a date, I left something in

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Speaker 2: my lit.

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Speaker 4: Box just for you, Jeff, why would.

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Speaker 1: I said?

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Speaker 2: It's the worst case scenario, not the most likely scenario.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Mister Jenga is not gonna turn against lovely Leanne. Okay.

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Speaker 4: They're like BFFs. It's anything mister Django would be telling

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Speaker 4: Leanne you're too good.

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Speaker 2: For this guy, unless Leanne likes the guy so much

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Speaker 4: Mister Jinga's jump these things.

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Speaker 2: Happy in the dating the world every single day, and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us and you don't know what

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about.

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Speaker 4: It would be likely.

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Speaker 2: Our listener, Ricky had a clever idea after their meet

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Speaker 2: up to send Leanne flowers and a note written from

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Speaker 2: her cat in a playful way, basically.

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Speaker 1: Saying, I miss you. Come home and tickle my belly

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Speaker 1: and then.

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Speaker 4: Tell me about how your cute date was.

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Speaker 2: Right, So, anyway, she's not responding as well as Ricky

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Speaker 5: That.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to help him figure out if something else happened,

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Speaker 2: if there's a reason for why, right.

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Speaker 4: Right, Can you think of anything, Ricky that went weird

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Speaker 4: on your date? Because it all sounded so good.

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Speaker 3: I cannot think of anything else. I really did think

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Speaker 3: it was a great date.

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Speaker 4: I don't blame you for that. I mean his recap

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Speaker 4: was lovely, sounded like a great night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, let's just call Leanne and see if she

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Speaker 2: has an answer, or if mister Jenga picks up the

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Speaker 2: phone and is holding her hostage.

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Speaker 1: It could happen.

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Speaker 4: I hope could talk.

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Speaker 6: It would be crazy.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like mister Jinga would have the

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Speaker 4: accent you used. I thought that was spot on, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Let's figure it out. I'm dialing her number right now

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Speaker 1: here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, is this Leanne?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 4: She doesn't sound like she sounds like she's in distress,

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Speaker 4: like she didn't want to answer that.

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Speaker 5: The cat Leanne.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, go on.

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Speaker 1: You're on a radio show right now. We're called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: A Leah, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: H I'm sorry, what what is this about?

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Speaker 4: That cat's got her tongue? Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: We're doing this segment here called a second Date Update,

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Speaker 2: because we're trying to help one of our listeners get

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Speaker 2: in contact with you after you went out with him once.

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Speaker 1: It's a guy named Ricky.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow in a good way like wow yeah or wow.

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Speaker 1: Or like uh like we did talk to Ricky.

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Speaker 6: About it and he talked to you, Oh my god,

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Speaker 6: oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: Is that a cute. It sounds like you guys had

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Speaker 4: a great date night.

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Speaker 2: That's how we know what your number is, so that

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Speaker 2: we could reach out, because he said that you guys

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Speaker 2: went to a cooking class together. You guys made tira

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Speaker 6: It was a nice date.

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Speaker 2: Well, if that's the case, then why are because he

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Speaker 4: Yeah, is he reading it wrong? No?

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Speaker 6: Not necessarily, it was nice. It was just what happened

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Speaker 4: But what was scary about that?

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Speaker 1: You don't actually think your cat like wrote it?

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Speaker 6: He matched the handwriting perfectly.

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Speaker 6: We talked about where I worked, but I never gave

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Speaker 2: Okay, you were freaked out that he figured out exactly

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Speaker 6: No, No, I did not tell him where he worked,

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Speaker 4: It was just it was a boundary that was crossed

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Speaker 6: Exceedingly crossed.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I don't think that he realizes that at all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't mean to creep you out in any way.

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Speaker 2: I think he was just trying to do something nice

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Speaker 2: But Ricky is on the other line of this call, which.

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Speaker 4: Does does it sound?

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Speaker 6: What are you joking right now?

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Speaker 1: Which I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I wish we were. Didn't know that this was a

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Speaker 4: sit situation, Ricky. I'm here, Ricky bro and b I here,

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Speaker 3: I'm not watching her.

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Speaker 6: Guys, what is going on?

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Speaker 2: Well, why don't we let Ricky step in here and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you, guys, I appreciate you going to bat for me,

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Speaker 4: Know, and maybe, I mean maybe he did your work,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so but in your mind, Leanne, is that

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Speaker 5: I do think.

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Speaker 2: I do think part of it was like he was

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Speaker 3: It's not very romantic to send stuff after I tell

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you also told him the name of your cat, right,

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Speaker 4: he didn't like sell.

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Speaker 3: I am?

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Speaker 4: I am?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it just didn't feel like a love story for me.

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Speaker 3: Just too much.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe maybe you just need to hear since here apology. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you know, like sometimes that can fix it, right, Ricky.

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Speaker 2: Ricky, can you get mister Janga to write an apology

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Speaker 3: He's already writing the note that sweet at work, neat handwriting.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but Ricky, I mean, you get what she's saying, right, Bowie.

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Speaker 3: And I honestly didn't mean to creep you out in

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Speaker 6: Okay, take you.

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Speaker 2: Normally at this point, we would offer to send you

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Speaker 2: I mean, I could still put that offer out there

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna hang out with mister Janet a night.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: He only needs one male companion in her life, the.

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Speaker 2: Is you want to ask mister Jega permission if it's

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Speaker 4: See what he says.

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's there's a little bit of hope here.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't want to press her too much.

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Speaker 4: But fancy fees.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so cute. I was kind of on his side

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Speaker 4: No, maybe a cat hatering broking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I really hope that she takes some time to just

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Speaker 1: And then five minutes later we're putting her on the spot, like,

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Speaker 1: We need to answer. You can tell she was like

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Speaker 4: Let me just process a scared little kid cat she was.

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Speaker 2: right now, she might be a little bit more time alright,

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Speaker 1: I hope she decides to go out.

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Speaker 5: With him again.

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Speaker 4: Yeah sure, I mean, cat guys, how could they ever

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Speaker 1: Okay, turn it on the guy. Well, if you ever

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Speaker 1: want to help with your love life, email the show.

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Speaker 2: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and

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