WEBVTT - Ask Chiquis Anything Part 1

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, look at then. Welcome to cheek Ease and Chill.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your host cheek Ease, and I hope you all

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<v Speaker 1>are having a happy Monday. It's been a crazy month

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<v Speaker 1>for me already. My new book, Unstoppable was released a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks ago, and I've been on the road

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<v Speaker 1>on a book tour. It's been so beautiful seeing all

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<v Speaker 1>of you guys, seeing your faces, and today I will

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<v Speaker 1>be answering some of your questions. This episode is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be so much fun, you guys. So let's get into it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is chick eas and Chill. I'm really looking forward

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<v Speaker 1>to today's episode because it's a chance for me to

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<v Speaker 1>interact with you guys. A while back on Instagram, I

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<v Speaker 1>asked you guys to send your questions. Since there are

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<v Speaker 1>so many questions, we're going to split this in two episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>This will be part one, so let's do it. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>get into it. So let's start with question number one.

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<v Speaker 1>This comes from Karina. She says, I would like to

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<v Speaker 1>know how you got over the trauma in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, well, I have been through quite some bit

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<v Speaker 1>of trauma, you guys. But that's the thing I don't

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<v Speaker 1>see it as trauma. I see it as a way

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<v Speaker 1>to grow. I always thank God for every experience, for

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<v Speaker 1>every tear, for every smile, every morning, Oh my God,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for everything that I've had to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if it's hurt and it's been painful, it has

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<v Speaker 1>molded me and helped mold me into the woman I

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<v Speaker 1>am today. Not seeing it as something traumatic and something horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>but bringing out the positive in it, because there's always

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<v Speaker 1>something positive that comes out of a painful situation. And

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<v Speaker 1>then just keeping my eyes on the light at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the tunnel has always helped me. I say

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<v Speaker 1>that so much, but it's really what has helped me

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<v Speaker 1>my faith in God especial faceless dolorosos. To me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the best. If I can't give anyone um when they're

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<v Speaker 1>going through a loss, you know, of a loved one,

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<v Speaker 1>a loss of a relationship, a loss of even a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with your family members, whatever the case may be,

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<v Speaker 1>I always say, just get on your knees and pray

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<v Speaker 1>for strength and try to just keep telling yourself this

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<v Speaker 1>too shall pass. So that's the best advice that I

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<v Speaker 1>can give you. Okay, So question number two comes from

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<v Speaker 1>Alexandra she says, cheekys, what's your new outlook on marriage

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<v Speaker 1>and kids after divorce? Well, I believe in marriage, I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in love. I am I love to love and

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<v Speaker 1>to be loved. So when it comes to kids, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little more not hesitants at the word, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more careful. I guess I want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that the person that I'm gonna have kids

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<v Speaker 1>with is a good person. Obviously, we all have not

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<v Speaker 1>so good size of of ourselves. That's just how it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that for me, when it comes to children,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, they will this person be a good father?

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<v Speaker 1>Will they be there? What? What is their try record?

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<v Speaker 1>How are they with children? How are they with animals?

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it's like if they treat a dog right,

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<v Speaker 1>an animal that's helpless, they're gonna be great with kids,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So I see all of that because even

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<v Speaker 1>if the relationship with that person doesn't work, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know that I can lean on this person to

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<v Speaker 1>have a child with that. I like this person enough

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Okay, I'm gonna have to see you for

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of my life because we're going to share

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<v Speaker 1>a child. So that to me is so important. If not,

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<v Speaker 1>then even if I can't find that person or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the case may be, because this is just general you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but but if I can't find that person,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't mind saying, Okay, I'm and I have a

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<v Speaker 1>child by myself. You know, I'll go to a sperm

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<v Speaker 1>bank or something like that. I am with Emilia, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think you'd be a great father, of course, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just taking it slow when it comes to two children.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as marriage, I'm open to the idea. I

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be married. I want to be a bride.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved being a bride, and I wouldn't be opposed

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<v Speaker 1>to getting married again, to be honest, it's just finding

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<v Speaker 1>the right time. And they say, as he gave, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to be jaded in regards to that situation

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like everyone is different and not because

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<v Speaker 1>that situation my first marriage didn't work doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 1>my second can't. So yeah, that's my allok on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Question number three comes from Melissa. She asks are you

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<v Speaker 1>good at forgiveness? What would you tell anyone trying to

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<v Speaker 1>learn to forgive? Oh? Okay, this is good. I'm all

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<v Speaker 1>about forgiveness. You guys, I am good. I'm good with forgiveness.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say the way I see it is,

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<v Speaker 1>who am I not to forgive? I'm not perfect, I've

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<v Speaker 1>made mistakes. I want God to forgive me. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to forgive the person even if they haven't asked

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<v Speaker 1>for forgiveness, because again, you guys, forgiving someone is a

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<v Speaker 1>gift that you give yourself, not the other person. It's

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<v Speaker 1>something where you're like, I release myself from this pain,

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<v Speaker 1>and I also release you, and it just gives you

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<v Speaker 1>so much peace. It gives you this feeling of liberation

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<v Speaker 1>and not having to carry that pain around. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a huge unforgiveness. I think it really does make you

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<v Speaker 1>a happier person. And when you're holding onto resentment that

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<v Speaker 1>makes you sick, it really does. It causes even health issues,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, when we are holding onto resentment, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>important even for your health to forgive. That doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>you have to forget. You can work on for unforgetting,

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<v Speaker 1>but forgiveness is definitely key and knowing. Okay, I forgive you,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe I'm going to stay arms length the way

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't forgotten about this. But I forgive you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. And what I would tell someone

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<v Speaker 1>that's trying to forgive is just to see it that way,

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<v Speaker 1>to see it as this is a gift for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes it's difficult, but if I forgive you for

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<v Speaker 1>something that maybe you haven't even admitted to, something that

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't even recognized, it's gonna be healthier for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be healthier for me, for my future, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to give me those wings to just fly

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<v Speaker 1>and accomplish my dreams and my everyday goals. And now

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<v Speaker 1>that we're on the topic of forgiveness, for those of

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<v Speaker 1>you that don't know, I do have a book called Forgiveness,

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<v Speaker 1>both in Spanish and English, so we have better on

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<v Speaker 1>and forgiveness, and I talk all about forgiveness and the

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<v Speaker 1>journey of forgiving because it is not easy. It's easier

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<v Speaker 1>said than done. But I hope that my book can

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<v Speaker 1>give you even more insight on this topic. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was a good question, Thank you. Question number four comes

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<v Speaker 1>from de Jaa. I'm so sorry. I hope I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>pronouncing your I'm like butchering your name here, pronouncing it wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, but she wants to know when you

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<v Speaker 1>can expect new music. Oh nice question. Okay, So new

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<v Speaker 1>music coming like now? Okay, we have we're working on

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<v Speaker 1>the third single of the fourth album. The fourth album

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<v Speaker 1>comes out in April. God willing you guys help me

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<v Speaker 1>pray that we're able to finish the album because I've

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<v Speaker 1>been so busy with the book tour as well, so

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<v Speaker 1>um getting into the studio and getting all that done,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm such a perfectionist. It's been a little hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm hoping that April we will have a new album,

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<v Speaker 1>which would be my fourth album, you guys. So, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're working on singles, so yes, a lot of new

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<v Speaker 1>music this year, a lot of new music. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of ideas, you guys. I'm hoping to do

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the year, something very special project

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<v Speaker 1>that's very special to me. So once we get this one,

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<v Speaker 1>which is is the title of the album, then we

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<v Speaker 1>can work on this special music project that I have

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<v Speaker 1>in mind. I love. I gets so excited when I

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<v Speaker 1>talk about music. Okay, So question number five is also

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<v Speaker 1>from dejan Ay. I like that name, but hopefully I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pronouncing it correctly. Okay, So this time she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know in the past, you've mentioned not wanting to have

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<v Speaker 1>any kids, but more recently you've become more open and

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<v Speaker 1>even excited about the idea. What changed, you know what?

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<v Speaker 1>I think, for the first time in my life, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone that makes me feel excited about having kids

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like he would be a wonderful father

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what's important. Even though my unborn child, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't here physically, I think about this kid, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>girl or boy, and I'm like, I, if something happens

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<v Speaker 1>to me, what I feel comfortable leaving my child with

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<v Speaker 1>this person. I love his family. Um, they're really great.

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<v Speaker 1>His mom is amazing, his grandma is Honestly, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like God gave me a new family. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that sounds weird, but like, obviously, yes, a

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<v Speaker 1>new family, but I just I don't know. They're wonderful,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think that they would do a really good

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<v Speaker 1>job helping him raise my child as something were to

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<v Speaker 1>happen to me. So I think of that, and he

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<v Speaker 1>just makes me excited. I know he wants kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're having so much fun together that we're just right now.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, no, we want to travel, we want to

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<v Speaker 1>do all kinds of things. But guys, the truth is

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<v Speaker 1>that my mommy clock is kind of ticking. So to

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<v Speaker 1>make a decision kind of quickly, UM, just letting it be.

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<v Speaker 1>I've said it, you know before. I'm just letting it be.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not It's like I'm not wanting to, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not not wanting to. I hope that makes sense. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of open. So if it happens, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I just feel like it's the person that

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<v Speaker 1>i'm with that I'm like, Hey, if it happens, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be I'll be happy. I'll be like, all right, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's let's, you know, roll with the punches on

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<v Speaker 1>this one. So thank you for that question. Question number

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<v Speaker 1>six is from DAYA. She says, have you been able

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<v Speaker 1>to watch your mom's Monterey concert footage? Yes? In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>I have. Johnny is the one that has it in

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<v Speaker 1>his hands right now. We have a lot of plans

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<v Speaker 1>for that footage. It is I have not watched it

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<v Speaker 1>in detail. I think what's your question is is if

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<v Speaker 1>I've been able to watch it emotionally because that's when

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<v Speaker 1>she's saying her last song to me. That was the

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<v Speaker 1>last song that she basically dedicated to me publicly, and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like it was her way of saying, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry that she missed me. So if she wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>done that, you guys, I think I would have it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been a lot harder. It gave me piece

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<v Speaker 1>to know that my mom was thinking of me at

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<v Speaker 1>her last concert. We obviously didn't know it was her

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<v Speaker 1>last concert, but at her concert and I knew. I

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<v Speaker 1>knew we missed each other, and I knew it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a matter of time. So I have watched it.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time I watched it, of course I cry. It's

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<v Speaker 1>getting better for me to watch her and to listen

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<v Speaker 1>to her in interviews because I can listen to her

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<v Speaker 1>music without a visual, but once I get a visual,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to jump into the screen and hug her.

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<v Speaker 1>And especially when it's like the reality show and things

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<v Speaker 1>like that, it really makes me miss my mama. There's

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny Rivera, the artist, and I'm a huge fan of,

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<v Speaker 1>but then there is Dolores Jenne Rivera, who is my mama,

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<v Speaker 1>and her voice and her advice, and it's just that's

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<v Speaker 1>still a little hard for me sometimes. But with the

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<v Speaker 1>Monterrey concert, I think I just have to take off

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter cap and put on a business cap because

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<v Speaker 1>now we have business decisions to make in regards to

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<v Speaker 1>that concert. So I have to really sit down and

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<v Speaker 1>watch it fully. But it has gotten a little easier,

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<v Speaker 1>it has. The next question comes from yes see Flacky's

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<v Speaker 1>nine one. She's wondering if I'll make music with my sister.

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<v Speaker 1>She says it would be nice. Well, well, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so glad you asked me that question. We just had

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<v Speaker 1>a meeting and we have a huge plan my sister

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<v Speaker 1>and I to do something together and with someone else.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say yet because I wanted to be a

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<v Speaker 1>complete surprise, but it's long overdue, you guys, A song

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<v Speaker 1>with my sister Jackie and I. Jennica, if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know, has a beautiful voice too, My sister's kin sang.

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<v Speaker 1>I am a huge fan of their voices and Jackie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to convince Jennica to jump on this song

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<v Speaker 1>with us and this other person. So it's coming, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something that I've been wanting to do for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time with my sister Jackie. So yes, I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be really nice. Yes, Okay, So question number

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<v Speaker 1>eight is from Jasmine, She says Cheeky's. What's your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>nail in spo or color that never fails? She says

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<v Speaker 1>hers is red Girl. I love red, I love white,

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<v Speaker 1>I love French tip, and I am huge on almond shape.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like it just looks a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more natural. I love gel x versus like traditional acrylic nails.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I have my inspo. It all depends on

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in my life. But my everyday life,

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<v Speaker 1>Like right now, my nails are like a cloudy white

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like it goes with everything, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they last a little longer. So when I do something crazy,

0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel like men fallow. After like a week, I

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<v Speaker 1>get tired of it. So I'm like, I want to

0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:41.160
<v Speaker 1>change it. But I go on Pinterest, you guys, That's

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<v Speaker 1>like my secret. I love Pinterest. I go and I'm

0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:45.760
<v Speaker 1>like nail art and I just get my little inspo

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<v Speaker 1>on there. So I highly recommend that they have great

0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:50.640
<v Speaker 1>stuff on there. It just all depends on my mood.

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<v Speaker 1>During the summer, I love bright colors. I'm all about

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<v Speaker 1>bright pink, me on yellow, all that stuff. It just

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<v Speaker 1>all depends. I'm not afraid to just be like boom,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, be out there, be loud. But my every

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<v Speaker 1>day my go to is a cloudy white, a white white,

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<v Speaker 1>a black red and French tip. Believe it or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that question, by the way. Okay. Number nine

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<v Speaker 1>comes from Dora. Her question is, as a person who

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<v Speaker 1>has been judged incorrectly, how have you overcome those struggles

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the years? M hmm, this is this is a

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<v Speaker 1>good one. I have been judged incorrectly quite a bit

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<v Speaker 1>and it's very difficult. I think more so when I

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<v Speaker 1>was going through it. Um, even when they called me unfaithful.

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<v Speaker 1>That's something that really got to me because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a second, especially when it's not true. It is

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<v Speaker 1>when it really make gala that I'm like, dude, that sucks.

0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:42.160
<v Speaker 1>And even when it's like true and they say something like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's still like dude, what you don't even know the

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<v Speaker 1>full story? So where are you even giving an opinion?

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<v Speaker 1>But anyways, when I'm judged in correctly, I think what

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<v Speaker 1>has helped me now and I've learned is I need

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on the people that do know me. My siblings,

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<v Speaker 1>my significant other, my team that know me and deal

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<v Speaker 1>with me day by day and that they know that

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be capable of doing that, or they know

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<v Speaker 1>who I am. That gives me peace. I asked myself

0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:09.319
<v Speaker 1>every night and I'm like, did you do something good today?

0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:11.120
<v Speaker 1>How do you feel with yourself today? Is there's something

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to apologize about to the person or

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<v Speaker 1>just out loud and say, damn, I probably shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>cut that person off or anything. I do like a

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<v Speaker 1>self check every night, and that keeps you accountable, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It keeps you on your toes and saying okay, like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I want to be better tomorrow. For me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not you can judge me, especially if it's incorrectly,

0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:33.360
<v Speaker 1>like you don't even know me. I just check in

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<v Speaker 1>with myself and my way is my heart in the

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<v Speaker 1>right place. That's important, you guys, because you're always going

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<v Speaker 1>to get judged incorrectly and criticized, especially with social media.

0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:46.720
<v Speaker 1>You have to really be strong minded and emotionally. I

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<v Speaker 1>always say, have a hard shell, but a soft heart,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and just know it's part of life. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know you don't even know me at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, because if you knew me, you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be saying this. So that's what really has helped me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hope that helps you because if you're asking,

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<v Speaker 1>it's for a reason. Hope that helps. The next question

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<v Speaker 1>comes from the fan page edit ex cheek Ease. The

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<v Speaker 1>question is how is your relationship with Emilia? Going? Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for asking. Um, it's going good. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>He's he's a man of peace, guys. I've learned through

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship that I have been so used to drama

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<v Speaker 1>in my life that it's like now that I have peace.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that it got boring it because it hasn't,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just like kind of like I would catch

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<v Speaker 1>myself like thinking is it too good to be true?

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<v Speaker 1>Like let me ruffle some feathers real quick so we

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<v Speaker 1>can argue. But I stopped that because that does not

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<v Speaker 1>get you anywhere, you guys. But it's helped me understand

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about myself. He's just such a peaceful dude,

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<v Speaker 1>easy going, no semite, nada. He's just so freaking chill

0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:53.000
<v Speaker 1>that he chills me out. We're a great balance. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's going really well. I have nothing to complain

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<v Speaker 1>about at all. To be honest, he works he does

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<v Speaker 1>his thing, he lets me do my thing. He is

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<v Speaker 1>very good at explaining things to me, and he's so patient.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh it's just a very different relationship for me, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest. So I really appreciate you asking because it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's going. It's going really good. It really is. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't complain. He's a great guy. He's a great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Amelia. Okay. The next question comes from

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<v Speaker 1>Peaches Grandad one X. The question is which sibling do

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<v Speaker 1>you have the closest relationship with. Okay, So, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to say Jennica. I'm close to all my siblings, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like my best friend is Jennica, like overall,

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<v Speaker 1>not just because she's my sibling, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I can speak to her about everything and anything, and

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<v Speaker 1>she is very direct and very honest, and sometimes I'm like, dang,

0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:59.000
<v Speaker 1>you're such an a hole, But um, she's very wise

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<v Speaker 1>beyond her years. So her and I are really really close.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, like, sister, what do you think about this?

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<v Speaker 1>And and and when she has she confides in me,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think because that also, I feel the same

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<v Speaker 1>way with her. But again, I can honestly say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>close with all my siblings. We can talk about anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They can come and talk to me about anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>can go and talk to Jackie. She gives a great

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<v Speaker 1>advice too. So they're all I'm close to them in

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<v Speaker 1>different ways. But I would have to say, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being honest, and you guys know I'm honest, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be with Jennica. So yeah, siblings. I hope you guys

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<v Speaker 1>don't get hurt, but they already know. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>we all kind of go to Jenica. Mikey does, Johnny does,

0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:37.159
<v Speaker 1>Jackie does, or Jackie comes to me. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but we all kind of go to Jenica. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>question number twelve, Johnny wants to know what the right

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<v Speaker 1>way to deal with a breakup baby. A breakup the

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<v Speaker 1>right way. There is no right way, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just something that can help you. Is I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you broke up with the person it was

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<v Speaker 1>a mutual agreement or they broke up with you. A

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<v Speaker 1>breakup is always hard, and you just have to know

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<v Speaker 1>that it is a process and you need to trust

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<v Speaker 1>the process. Don't rush anything. I don't recommend onlo that

0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:13.680
<v Speaker 1>was just that's just temporary. If you go and you

0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:17.320
<v Speaker 1>start something with someone else, it can come in backfire.

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<v Speaker 1>So give yourself time to heal first of all, and

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<v Speaker 1>with this person, do the pros and cons list, which

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<v Speaker 1>means what are their qualities and what ior what are

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<v Speaker 1>their faults? You know, and outweigh that. That always helps

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<v Speaker 1>you just see things and say, Okay, what is this

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<v Speaker 1>person causing me? Did they did they cause me more

0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:38.040
<v Speaker 1>pain or more happiness? And regardless of the situation, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that it's just trusting the process and praying yourself

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<v Speaker 1>through it. I always bring up prayer and God because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what's helped me through everything in my life. And

0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.880
<v Speaker 1>heartbreak sucks and I know it does. And it's just

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<v Speaker 1>embracing the pain and taking deep breaths and saying, Okay,

0:18:54.000 --> 0:18:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be a fine, everything's gonna be okay, breathing

0:18:57.520 --> 0:18:59.719
<v Speaker 1>through it. That's the best advice that I can give you.

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<v Speaker 1>And give yourself. Give yourself some time, don't rush into anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And if your heart is hurting, johnnyso I really really do,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's it's it's not it's not easy. So I

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<v Speaker 1>feel you. I feel you. Only says here, she's reminding

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<v Speaker 1>me of one of my sayings that I love all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Remember, Johnny, pain is a pastor promotion. This pain,

0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:24.720
<v Speaker 1>too shall pass, and it's going to bring someone better

0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:28.760
<v Speaker 1>in your life if you learn the lesson that you're

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<v Speaker 1>meant to learn behind this breakup. Okay, this next question

0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:39.600
<v Speaker 1>comes from Yvette. Okay, so she's asking why things ended

0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:42.240
<v Speaker 1>between my ex and I, my ex husband and I,

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<v Speaker 1>And UM, why do I feel and why did I

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<v Speaker 1>say that he's a devil in disguise? I don't know

0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:50.840
<v Speaker 1>when I said at you, guys, I don't think I

0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:53.280
<v Speaker 1>said it about him. I said it about someone that

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<v Speaker 1>came after our separation, which you, guys, if you have

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<v Speaker 1>the book and you read it. If not, go read it.

0:19:59.000 --> 0:20:01.119
<v Speaker 1>I talk about um the devil and disguise, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I said it about about him, per se.

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<v Speaker 1>Things ended for many reasons, guys. Um, there's not one

0:20:09.240 --> 0:20:13.399
<v Speaker 1>actually one main main reason. But it all boils down

0:20:13.440 --> 0:20:17.320
<v Speaker 1>to lies. I don't care how big, how white, how black.

0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:19.800
<v Speaker 1>The lie is a lie is a lie, and I

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<v Speaker 1>prefer in ugly, the ugly truth then a disguised lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I can't, I just I cannot with that.

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<v Speaker 1>So it really does boil down to the lying because

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<v Speaker 1>when you lie in a relationship, it really brings out

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<v Speaker 1>insecurities that makes you rethink everything, and a person that

0:20:39.960 --> 0:20:43.719
<v Speaker 1>you're with should make you feel confident and secure and

0:20:43.720 --> 0:20:47.040
<v Speaker 1>and and emotionally stable. You guys are supposed to help

0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:49.280
<v Speaker 1>each other and give each other that, So if someone's

0:20:49.280 --> 0:20:51.480
<v Speaker 1>not doing that and and pulling in their bargain of

0:20:51.520 --> 0:20:54.720
<v Speaker 1>the deal, it just makes everything lopsided and it brings

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<v Speaker 1>up a lot of different things. So lying is a

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<v Speaker 1>no no. Guys in relationships, just be straight up, like

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<v Speaker 1>straight up like here. It is the good of the

0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:06.840
<v Speaker 1>bad and the ugly. So that's to make it short ish.

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<v Speaker 1>Lying was a huge thing, and then you will get

0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:12.159
<v Speaker 1>the details in my book Unstappable, So I recommend you

0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:17.240
<v Speaker 1>read that Unstappable or Invincible in Espanol. I just wants

0:21:17.280 --> 0:21:21.080
<v Speaker 1>to know if I've ever regretted being a public figure

0:21:21.080 --> 0:21:25.120
<v Speaker 1>because of the lack of privacy and constant cheeseman. No, honestly,

0:21:25.520 --> 0:21:28.399
<v Speaker 1>I have never felt that way. I've never felt like

0:21:28.440 --> 0:21:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I regret the path that I'm on. I feel like

0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I am definitely on the path that God wants me

0:21:34.119 --> 0:21:37.040
<v Speaker 1>to be on. Because this wasn't necessarily my plan, My

0:21:37.119 --> 0:21:41.080
<v Speaker 1>whole life. It's just something that happened, and choices that

0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:44.800
<v Speaker 1>I made obviously created this destiny. But no, I think

0:21:44.840 --> 0:21:46.960
<v Speaker 1>it's it's someone just asked me the other day, like

0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:52.280
<v Speaker 1>chickens doesn't bother you like and publico, And I'm like,

0:21:52.760 --> 0:21:55.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, I've learned to also switch that. There are

0:21:55.520 --> 0:21:57.320
<v Speaker 1>times when I'm like literally in the middle of eating

0:21:57.320 --> 0:21:59.480
<v Speaker 1>a taco and and they come and ask for a picture,

0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:02.159
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I haven't even finished chewing my you know,

0:22:02.240 --> 0:22:05.040
<v Speaker 1>my food, and like my finger smelled like cilantro and acho,

0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 1>and you know, I'm like kind of like, uh, sometimes

0:22:07.560 --> 0:22:12.800
<v Speaker 1>I feel like more prudent when coming to ask for

0:22:12.840 --> 0:22:15.359
<v Speaker 1>a picture, but I never say no to a picture,

0:22:15.960 --> 0:22:18.520
<v Speaker 1>and I just see it as it's a blessing. And

0:22:18.560 --> 0:22:21.040
<v Speaker 1>I I've seen it this this way since I was little,

0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:23.520
<v Speaker 1>since I've seen my mom, you know, every where we went,

0:22:23.560 --> 0:22:26.240
<v Speaker 1>they would stop us, didn't matter where we were, to

0:22:26.280 --> 0:22:28.520
<v Speaker 1>ask her for a picture. And I always saw it like,

0:22:28.560 --> 0:22:30.920
<v Speaker 1>these are the people that help my mom feed us,

0:22:31.640 --> 0:22:33.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, they buy her music, they buy her products,

0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:35.639
<v Speaker 1>and I was just always so grateful with them, and

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:38.000
<v Speaker 1>that's how I feel now. Even more so, I'm like,

0:22:38.040 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what, they're asking for a picture for a reason.

0:22:40.640 --> 0:22:42.199
<v Speaker 1>You know, they probably watched the things that I do.

0:22:42.240 --> 0:22:44.280
<v Speaker 1>They're reading my books or listen to my podcast. Like

0:22:44.280 --> 0:22:46.520
<v Speaker 1>the least I can do is take a picture, so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't regret it. I I feel like it's a

0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:54.720
<v Speaker 1>beautiful way of helping others, and um, God has given

0:22:54.720 --> 0:22:56.920
<v Speaker 1>me this platform to do something positive and that's the

0:22:56.960 --> 0:22:58.640
<v Speaker 1>way that I see it. So thank you so much

0:22:58.680 --> 0:23:03.679
<v Speaker 1>for for that question. Iris Jocelyne Ochoa asks what's the

0:23:03.720 --> 0:23:08.000
<v Speaker 1>biggest risk you've ever taken? The biggest risk? I'm a

0:23:08.119 --> 0:23:10.240
<v Speaker 1>risk taker. I'm all about taking risks. I feel like

0:23:10.280 --> 0:23:12.800
<v Speaker 1>if you don't risk, there's no gain, Like you have

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<v Speaker 1>to be somewhat of a gambler in life in order

0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:19.640
<v Speaker 1>to achieve your goals in order to be successful. Now,

0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:21.639
<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest risk that I've taken in and

0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:26.199
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I know was was getting married because

0:23:26.440 --> 0:23:28.719
<v Speaker 1>I knew and I had that hunch and that feeling

0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:33.119
<v Speaker 1>of he's not ready to be the man that I need.

0:23:33.680 --> 0:23:36.159
<v Speaker 1>But I still took the risk and it was a

0:23:36.280 --> 0:23:41.000
<v Speaker 1>costly painful risk. So I think that one has been

0:23:41.040 --> 0:23:45.480
<v Speaker 1>the biggest thus far and the most painful. So without

0:23:45.600 --> 0:23:48.280
<v Speaker 1>giving too much detail, you guys can read it in

0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:51.840
<v Speaker 1>my book Unstoppable. I have to be honest. That's definitely

0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:57.000
<v Speaker 1>the biggest Edgar asks. I would like to know how

0:23:57.080 --> 0:24:00.560
<v Speaker 1>you stay so positive and motivated. Every day I wake

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:03.960
<v Speaker 1>up and I say that I want to be a

0:24:03.960 --> 0:24:06.639
<v Speaker 1>positive force in the world, and anyone that is in

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:09.159
<v Speaker 1>my life and comes into my life and watches my

0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:11.480
<v Speaker 1>stories on Instagram, and I just know that it's a

0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:13.560
<v Speaker 1>part of my mission and it's what makes me happy

0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:16.119
<v Speaker 1>to make others happy, to make them, you know, to

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:18.159
<v Speaker 1>inspire them. And the comments that I get in my

0:24:18.240 --> 0:24:20.359
<v Speaker 1>d m s stating that okay, I'm on the right

0:24:20.400 --> 0:24:22.879
<v Speaker 1>track makes me feel good. So every day it's a

0:24:22.960 --> 0:24:25.760
<v Speaker 1>choice that I make. It's an everyday choice, guys, like

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:27.879
<v Speaker 1>it is in marriage or your partner, Like you have

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:31.080
<v Speaker 1>to choose that person every day. You have to choose

0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:33.600
<v Speaker 1>to want to be better, you know, to to have

0:24:33.640 --> 0:24:35.639
<v Speaker 1>a better body, which means you have to do certain things.

0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 1>So it's a choice. Every single day is an opportunity.

0:24:38.720 --> 0:24:41.879
<v Speaker 1>So to me, it's helped me because it makes me happy.

0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:44.200
<v Speaker 1>So I choose to say I want to be positive.

0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:47.879
<v Speaker 1>I want to be motivated because if I feel positive,

0:24:48.320 --> 0:24:51.480
<v Speaker 1>if I am motivated, then I can motivate others. And

0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I need to be the better version of myself every

0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 1>single day. So I choose myself, Guys. I choose myself

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:59.680
<v Speaker 1>every day because by choosing myself, I choose you, guys.

0:25:06.240 --> 0:25:09.840
<v Speaker 1>Alfredo Martinez wants to know if you were to change

0:25:09.880 --> 0:25:14.680
<v Speaker 1>anything from the past, what would it be. Wow. Um,

0:25:14.720 --> 0:25:17.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm the type of person that doesn't really like to

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:21.560
<v Speaker 1>regret anything. I feel like everything helps you become who

0:25:21.600 --> 0:25:24.719
<v Speaker 1>you are meant to become in life. I think if

0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:27.880
<v Speaker 1>I had to change anything, to be honest, is opening

0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:33.199
<v Speaker 1>up that door of getting tattoos because I was so

0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:35.560
<v Speaker 1>young when I was eighteen when I got my first tattoo,

0:25:35.600 --> 0:25:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and then I kind of just liked it, and then

0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 1>now I'm at an age where I'm like, oh, what

0:25:39.119 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 1>did I do that? So I think that's the only

0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:43.440
<v Speaker 1>thing that I would probably change. Other than that, even

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:45.800
<v Speaker 1>like the situation with my mom and everything, It's taught

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:47.560
<v Speaker 1>me so much that I don't know if i'd say

0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I'd necessarily change it. But something that I have a

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:52.359
<v Speaker 1>little bit more control over is my body and what

0:25:52.400 --> 0:25:54.960
<v Speaker 1>I do to it. So I would probably say that

0:25:55.760 --> 0:25:57.679
<v Speaker 1>because now I want to remove them all to be

0:25:57.760 --> 0:26:02.439
<v Speaker 1>honest with you, my my tattoo. Okay, next question is

0:26:02.520 --> 0:26:07.320
<v Speaker 1>from Chantal. She says, how do you and your siblings

0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:10.480
<v Speaker 1>managed to not let arguments create riffs or damage your

0:26:10.520 --> 0:26:14.600
<v Speaker 1>relationship as siblings? I love that question, and any siblings

0:26:14.600 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 1>out there that are listening, I recommend for you guys

0:26:18.520 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 1>to make it your mission, and sometimes it could be

0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:28.119
<v Speaker 1>a mission impossible to keep yourselves united. My mom is

0:26:28.160 --> 0:26:32.439
<v Speaker 1>something that mink, something that she embedded in me. Every

0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:35.480
<v Speaker 1>single almost every single day, I kild you not. I

0:26:35.560 --> 0:26:38.040
<v Speaker 1>want you and your siblings to be different from me

0:26:38.280 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>and my siblings. I don't want you guys to fight.

0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:44.199
<v Speaker 1>And it is your duty and your responsibility as the

0:26:44.240 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 1>eldest to keep you guys together. And that's what I've done.

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:49.879
<v Speaker 1>And I think because I have that so present that

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Okay, the best way that I can honor

0:26:51.680 --> 0:26:53.760
<v Speaker 1>my mom's legacy is by taking care of her most

0:26:53.800 --> 0:26:57.600
<v Speaker 1>precious jewels, her most precious treasures, which are my siblings.

0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:00.320
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like that's how I'm honoring her, and

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:02.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm honoring our her hard work and everything that she

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:07.640
<v Speaker 1>had to sacrifice. For us is by keeping us together,

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 1>and it's just wanting to be better and wanting that

0:27:12.640 --> 0:27:15.840
<v Speaker 1>relationship and not allowing as the eldest um. And you

0:27:15.840 --> 0:27:17.159
<v Speaker 1>don't have to be the eldest to do this. You

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 1>could be the youngest, the middle child, it doesn't matter.

0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:21.840
<v Speaker 1>It's saying, you know, wait a second, no matter what happens,

0:27:21.960 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 1>we cannot let anybody come between us. Of Course we're

0:27:26.080 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 1>going to argue. Of course we're going to disagree, but

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:31.200
<v Speaker 1>we let's agree to disagree sort of thing like, Okay,

0:27:31.240 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 1>we're all different, but at the end of the day,

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 1>we have the same goal, which is being together, which

0:27:36.080 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>is being good for our parents. Because so it's doing

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:47.960
<v Speaker 1>it for a better good being close to your sip things.

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:53.439
<v Speaker 1>So I hope that helped. Evalia Barrassa Lopez wants to

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:57.760
<v Speaker 1>know what I order at Starbucks. She says, I would

0:27:57.840 --> 0:28:00.439
<v Speaker 1>like to know more about your Starbucks to rings with

0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:03.959
<v Speaker 1>low sugar or sugar free. She says, she's trying to

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:07.200
<v Speaker 1>make a change. Oh my god, lah, yeah, um, that's

0:28:07.240 --> 0:28:08.760
<v Speaker 1>wonderful that you're trying to make a change. It's the

0:28:08.800 --> 0:28:11.200
<v Speaker 1>small changes that make a big difference. I saying, Okay,

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:14.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna I'm gonna do sugar free sugar like

0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 1>you're doing now, Like this is great. I'm really really

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:19.399
<v Speaker 1>happy for you. So what I order is a Keto drink.

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 1>It is an iced coffee, a splash of heavy whipping cream,

0:28:24.560 --> 0:28:28.600
<v Speaker 1>two pumps of sugar free vanilla, and one packet of

0:28:28.600 --> 0:28:31.239
<v Speaker 1>Stevia iced and you could do this. I like it

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:34.119
<v Speaker 1>iced better than hot, but that is what I get

0:28:34.440 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 1>at Starbucks. So and if you don't like um heavy

0:28:38.080 --> 0:28:40.000
<v Speaker 1>whipping cream, always ask for a splash, because if not,

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 1>you can ask for a little bit of almond milk

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:46.080
<v Speaker 1>as well. I don't like anything too sweet, so that's

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 1>why I do two pumps of sugar free vanilla and

0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 1>one Stevia packet. But yeah, try that. Let me know

0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:54.840
<v Speaker 1>what you think, Okay, send me a damn girl. Okay,

0:28:55.000 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 1>so says what would the cheeky ease of the present

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:04.360
<v Speaker 1>day say to a cheekis who is fifteen years old?

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:08.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, you got me on this one. Okay,

0:29:08.160 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 1>let me think back. Oh fifteen, I was going through

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:14.880
<v Speaker 1>quite a bit actually with my mom. My mom wasn't

0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:16.480
<v Speaker 1>talking to me for two months. That was the very

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.080
<v Speaker 1>first time she had shut me out. Of her life

0:29:19.360 --> 0:29:23.560
<v Speaker 1>was when I was fourteen turning fifteen. So for my

0:29:23.600 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 1>fifteenth birthday, you guys, I didn't get a happy birthday

0:29:26.200 --> 0:29:28.720
<v Speaker 1>from my mom. I talked about it in my book Forgiveness.

0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:30.240
<v Speaker 1>If you guys want to go and you know, catch

0:29:30.280 --> 0:29:33.320
<v Speaker 1>the full story. But anyways, Oh, what would I tell her?

0:29:34.160 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 1>To be more honest? That's what I would tell her,

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:40.120
<v Speaker 1>that little be I would tell that little cheek ees um,

0:29:40.280 --> 0:29:44.600
<v Speaker 1>be more honest, be straight up um again, Honesty is

0:29:44.640 --> 0:29:48.400
<v Speaker 1>the best policy, guys, I I could have. That argument

0:29:48.440 --> 0:29:50.760
<v Speaker 1>that I had with my mom was so silly. It

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 1>was all because I wasn't I didn't communicate. Communication is

0:29:53.720 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>key in every relationship, and I didn't communicate to my

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:59.760
<v Speaker 1>mom that we had gotten out of school early and

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 1>at I was gonna go across the street to have

0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:06.040
<v Speaker 1>a hamburger and cheese, a cheeseburger and fries with my friends.

0:30:06.560 --> 0:30:08.960
<v Speaker 1>May say way boys, and say let me say a way,

0:30:09.000 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, lad, I should have called her and said, hey, Mom,

0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know I had forgot we're getting out early.

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:14.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go across the street. She thought I had

0:30:14.800 --> 0:30:16.960
<v Speaker 1>deceived her, and I did. In a way, I should

0:30:17.000 --> 0:30:19.120
<v Speaker 1>have let her know, so be more honest. For sure,

0:30:19.120 --> 0:30:21.640
<v Speaker 1>I would be like, you know, just just be communicate girl,

0:30:22.080 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 1>It'll keep you out of trouble. So I'll tell I'll

0:30:24.800 --> 0:30:28.360
<v Speaker 1>tell that chee is that every day because Jesus. Okay,

0:30:28.400 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 1>so good question. Soy diego g a d o y

0:30:34.000 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 1>he says, He says, his question number twenty one. Which

0:30:36.440 --> 0:30:39.480
<v Speaker 1>prayer do you do when you feel you can't handle

0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 1>things anymore? Oh? Okay, So it's it's not a prayer,

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:48.720
<v Speaker 1>but it's the serenity prayer. Well, I guess it is

0:30:48.760 --> 0:30:50.400
<v Speaker 1>a prayer, but it's not like in the Bible. It's

0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:54.120
<v Speaker 1>a serenity prayer. And it goes like this, God grant

0:30:54.200 --> 0:30:57.080
<v Speaker 1>me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

0:30:57.240 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 1>the courage to change the things that I can, and

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:04.480
<v Speaker 1>wisdom to know the difference. That helps me so much

0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>in times of gribulation in pain. Also, I don't know

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 1>the Bible verse, but I know what it says, I

0:31:12.360 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 1>can do all things through Christ who strengthened me. That's

0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:18.840
<v Speaker 1>one that my mom always use. So those two are

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 1>my go to prayers. So I really like that question.

0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:24.320
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for asking um. So hopefully it

0:31:24.320 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>helps you. I am Armando j asks will you ever

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:37.080
<v Speaker 1>make a full English album? I love these questions, guys. Okay, yes,

0:31:37.480 --> 0:31:40.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'll do a full English maybe

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:43.440
<v Speaker 1>in English EP which consists of five songs. Maybe I

0:31:43.480 --> 0:31:46.160
<v Speaker 1>will do a full full album. I don't know, but

0:31:46.280 --> 0:31:48.960
<v Speaker 1>there are plans of doing English music. I want to

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:53.120
<v Speaker 1>do something very different, like guys. You guys don't even

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:56.520
<v Speaker 1>know what kind of music. It's so different how I

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:59.800
<v Speaker 1>think this is my boss, b Armando, it's my boss.

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:02.280
<v Speaker 1>P Yes, I love you, Papa by the way, Okay,

0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh g he's from Dallas, so shout out

0:32:04.880 --> 0:32:08.000
<v Speaker 1>to him. But I do think that it's gonna happen.

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I just don't know when. I wanna kind of give

0:32:11.400 --> 0:32:14.760
<v Speaker 1>my Spanish music sometimes, but it would be completely different,

0:32:14.880 --> 0:32:18.240
<v Speaker 1>like you guys would be like what yeah, so I

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:21.160
<v Speaker 1>don't want to say what, but just think of in

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:26.400
<v Speaker 1>dr red Erika Ericaba do like oh oh, it gets

0:32:26.440 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 1>me excited. Lumma think Romo, Hi, this is one of

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 1>my boss pieces as well. Leta or Jane, I'm luis

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:51.719
<v Speaker 1>them wow, Gjobrafiro in um Saves is Luckily La la

0:32:51.840 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 1>fuerza chio the mastermind is j We went Okay, guys,

0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:13.640
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for taking the time to write

0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:16.080
<v Speaker 1>me and ask me your questions. A lot of you

0:33:16.120 --> 0:33:18.960
<v Speaker 1>wrote in just to show your support and that means

0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 1>the world to me, you guys. So before I let

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:24.800
<v Speaker 1>you go, I'm going to leave you with this motivational quote.

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:26.640
<v Speaker 1>It is kind of a quote, but I want to

0:33:26.640 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>give you guys a little bit of advice now that

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 1>we're on this like ask cheekies questions stuff. I used

0:33:31.600 --> 0:33:35.000
<v Speaker 1>to have this quote on the wall in the bathroom

0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:38.280
<v Speaker 1>of my salon and it said today, commit an act

0:33:38.360 --> 0:33:40.240
<v Speaker 1>of kindness. So I want to tell you guys to

0:33:40.280 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 1>do the same. Commit an act of kindness every single day,

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>start today if you can. It could be as simple

0:33:45.720 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 1>as opening up the door for someone helping an elderly lady.

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:52.320
<v Speaker 1>If you see her putting her groceries in her car,

0:33:52.480 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe offer her some help. I don't know. Send someone

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:58.240
<v Speaker 1>like inedible arrangement out of nowhere. Someone that you were

0:33:58.240 --> 0:34:01.280
<v Speaker 1>thinking about. Doesn't have to mean nothing crazy big. Send

0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:03.760
<v Speaker 1>someone that you love or someone you haven't talked to

0:34:03.800 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 1>in a long time. Send them a little message of hope. Hey,

0:34:07.640 --> 0:34:11.640
<v Speaker 1>almost us thinking of you. Praying for you. Just I

0:34:11.680 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 1>wanted to give you guys that advice. I think it's

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:15.560
<v Speaker 1>super important to always commit an act of kindness every

0:34:15.560 --> 0:34:18.200
<v Speaker 1>single day because it's paying it forward and I don't know,

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 1>I just felt in my heart to do that, So

0:34:20.880 --> 0:34:23.720
<v Speaker 1>do it. And with that being said, thank you guys

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:27.480
<v Speaker 1>so much for listening to another episode. And like I said,

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 1>we'll be airing a part two of your questions very soon,

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<v Speaker 1>so don't forget to listen to Cheeks and Chill every

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