1 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: Hold on, look at then. Welcome to cheek Ease and Chill. 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: I'm your host cheek Ease, and I hope you all 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: are having a happy Monday. It's been a crazy month 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: for me already. My new book, Unstoppable was released a 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, and I've been on the road 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: on a book tour. It's been so beautiful seeing all 7 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: of you guys, seeing your faces, and today I will 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: be answering some of your questions. This episode is gonna 9 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 1: be so much fun, you guys. So let's get into it. 10 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: This is chick eas and Chill. I'm really looking forward 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,519 Speaker 1: to today's episode because it's a chance for me to 12 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: interact with you guys. A while back on Instagram, I 13 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: asked you guys to send your questions. Since there are 14 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: so many questions, we're going to split this in two episodes. 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: This will be part one, so let's do it. Let's 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: get into it. So let's start with question number one. 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: This comes from Karina. She says, I would like to 18 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: know how you got over the trauma in your life. 19 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: Oh okay, well, I have been through quite some bit 20 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: of trauma, you guys. But that's the thing I don't 21 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: see it as trauma. I see it as a way 22 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: to grow. I always thank God for every experience, for 23 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: every tear, for every smile, every morning, Oh my God, 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: thank you for everything that I've had to go through. 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: Even if it's hurt and it's been painful, it has 26 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: molded me and helped mold me into the woman I 27 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: am today. Not seeing it as something traumatic and something horrible, 28 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: but bringing out the positive in it, because there's always 29 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: something positive that comes out of a painful situation. And 30 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: then just keeping my eyes on the light at the 31 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: end of the tunnel has always helped me. I say 32 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 1: that so much, but it's really what has helped me 33 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: my faith in God especial faceless dolorosos. To me, it's 34 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: the best. If I can't give anyone um when they're 35 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 1: going through a loss, you know, of a loved one, 36 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: a loss of a relationship, a loss of even a 37 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 1: relationship with your family members, whatever the case may be, 38 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: I always say, just get on your knees and pray 39 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: for strength and try to just keep telling yourself this 40 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: too shall pass. So that's the best advice that I 41 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: can give you. Okay, So question number two comes from 42 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 1: Alexandra she says, cheekys, what's your new outlook on marriage 43 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: and kids after divorce? Well, I believe in marriage, I 44 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: believe in love. I am I love to love and 45 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: to be loved. So when it comes to kids, I'm 46 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: a little more not hesitants at the word, I'm just 47 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: a little bit more careful. I guess I want to 48 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: make sure that the person that I'm gonna have kids 49 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 1: with is a good person. Obviously, we all have not 50 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: so good size of of ourselves. That's just how it is. 51 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: But I think that for me, when it comes to children, 52 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: it's like, well, they will this person be a good father? 53 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: Will they be there? What? What is their try record? 54 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: How are they with children? How are they with animals? 55 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: For me, it's like if they treat a dog right, 56 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: an animal that's helpless, they're gonna be great with kids, 57 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 1: you know. So I see all of that because even 58 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: if the relationship with that person doesn't work, I want 59 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: to know that I can lean on this person to 60 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: have a child with that. I like this person enough 61 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: to say, Okay, I'm gonna have to see you for 62 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: the rest of my life because we're going to share 63 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: a child. So that to me is so important. If not, 64 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: then even if I can't find that person or whatever 65 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: the case may be, because this is just general you guys, 66 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: you know, but but if I can't find that person, 67 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind saying, Okay, I'm and I have a 68 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: child by myself. You know, I'll go to a sperm 69 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: bank or something like that. I am with Emilia, and 70 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: I think you'd be a great father, of course, but 71 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm just taking it slow when it comes to two children. 72 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: As far as marriage, I'm open to the idea. I 73 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: I want to be married. I want to be a bride. 74 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: I loved being a bride, and I wouldn't be opposed 75 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: to getting married again, to be honest, it's just finding 76 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: the right time. And they say, as he gave, I 77 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: didn't want to be jaded in regards to that situation 78 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: because I feel like everyone is different and not because 79 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: that situation my first marriage didn't work doesn't mean that 80 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: my second can't. So yeah, that's my allok on it. 81 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: Question number three comes from Melissa. She asks are you 82 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: good at forgiveness? What would you tell anyone trying to 83 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 1: learn to forgive? Oh? Okay, this is good. I'm all 84 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: about forgiveness. You guys, I am good. I'm good with forgiveness. 85 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: I have to say the way I see it is, 86 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: who am I not to forgive? I'm not perfect, I've 87 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: made mistakes. I want God to forgive me. So I'm 88 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: going to forgive the person even if they haven't asked 89 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: for forgiveness, because again, you guys, forgiving someone is a 90 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: gift that you give yourself, not the other person. It's 91 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: something where you're like, I release myself from this pain, 92 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: and I also release you, and it just gives you 93 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: so much peace. It gives you this feeling of liberation 94 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: and not having to carry that pain around. So I'm 95 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: a huge unforgiveness. I think it really does make you 96 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:11,239 Speaker 1: a happier person. And when you're holding onto resentment that 97 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:16,679 Speaker 1: makes you sick, it really does. It causes even health issues, 98 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: you guys, when we are holding onto resentment, so it's 99 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: important even for your health to forgive. That doesn't mean 100 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 1: you have to forget. You can work on for unforgetting, 101 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: but forgiveness is definitely key and knowing. Okay, I forgive you, 102 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: but maybe I'm going to stay arms length the way 103 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: because I haven't forgotten about this. But I forgive you 104 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And what I would tell someone 105 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: that's trying to forgive is just to see it that way, 106 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: to see it as this is a gift for myself. 107 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: And yes it's difficult, but if I forgive you for 108 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: something that maybe you haven't even admitted to, something that 109 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 1: you haven't even recognized, it's gonna be healthier for me. 110 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: It's gonna be healthier for me, for my future, and 111 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: it's going to give me those wings to just fly 112 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: and accomplish my dreams and my everyday goals. And now 113 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: that we're on the topic of forgiveness, for those of 114 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: you that don't know, I do have a book called Forgiveness, 115 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: both in Spanish and English, so we have better on 116 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: and forgiveness, and I talk all about forgiveness and the 117 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: journey of forgiving because it is not easy. It's easier 118 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 1: said than done. But I hope that my book can 119 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: give you even more insight on this topic. So that 120 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: was a good question, Thank you. Question number four comes 121 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: from de Jaa. I'm so sorry. I hope I'm not 122 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 1: pronouncing your I'm like butchering your name here, pronouncing it wrong. 123 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but she wants to know when you 124 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 1: can expect new music. Oh nice question. Okay, So new 125 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: music coming like now? Okay, we have we're working on 126 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 1: the third single of the fourth album. The fourth album 127 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: comes out in April. God willing you guys help me 128 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: pray that we're able to finish the album because I've 129 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: been so busy with the book tour as well, so 130 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: um getting into the studio and getting all that done, 131 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: and I'm such a perfectionist. It's been a little hard. 132 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: But I'm hoping that April we will have a new album, 133 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: which would be my fourth album, you guys. So, and 134 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: we're working on singles, so yes, a lot of new 135 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: music this year, a lot of new music. I have 136 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: a lot of ideas, you guys. I'm hoping to do 137 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: at the end of the year, something very special project 138 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: that's very special to me. So once we get this one, 139 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: which is is the title of the album, then we 140 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: can work on this special music project that I have 141 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: in mind. I love. I gets so excited when I 142 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: talk about music. Okay, So question number five is also 143 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: from dejan Ay. I like that name, but hopefully I'm 144 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: pronouncing it correctly. Okay, So this time she wants to 145 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: know in the past, you've mentioned not wanting to have 146 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: any kids, but more recently you've become more open and 147 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: even excited about the idea. What changed, you know what? 148 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: I think, for the first time in my life, I'm 149 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: dating someone that makes me feel excited about having kids 150 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: because I feel like he would be a wonderful father 151 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: and that's what's important. Even though my unborn child, you know, 152 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: isn't here physically, I think about this kid, you know, 153 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: girl or boy, and I'm like, I, if something happens 154 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,239 Speaker 1: to me, what I feel comfortable leaving my child with 155 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: this person. I love his family. Um, they're really great. 156 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: His mom is amazing, his grandma is Honestly, I feel 157 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: like God gave me a new family. To be honest, 158 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: I know that sounds weird, but like, obviously, yes, a 159 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: new family, but I just I don't know. They're wonderful, 160 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: so I think that they would do a really good 161 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 1: job helping him raise my child as something were to 162 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: happen to me. So I think of that, and he 163 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: just makes me excited. I know he wants kids, but 164 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: we're having so much fun together that we're just right now. 165 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:48,599 Speaker 1: We're like, no, we want to travel, we want to 166 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: do all kinds of things. But guys, the truth is 167 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,959 Speaker 1: that my mommy clock is kind of ticking. So to 168 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: make a decision kind of quickly, UM, just letting it be. 169 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 1: I've said it, you know before. I'm just letting it be. 170 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm not It's like I'm not wanting to, but I'm 171 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: not not wanting to. I hope that makes sense. I'm 172 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: just kind of open. So if it happens, and I 173 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: don't know, I just feel like it's the person that 174 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 1: i'm with that I'm like, Hey, if it happens, I'll 175 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: be I'll be happy. I'll be like, all right, cool, 176 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 1: let's let's let's, you know, roll with the punches on 177 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: this one. So thank you for that question. Question number 178 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: six is from DAYA. She says, have you been able 179 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: to watch your mom's Monterey concert footage? Yes? In fact, 180 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: I have. Johnny is the one that has it in 181 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 1: his hands right now. We have a lot of plans 182 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,599 Speaker 1: for that footage. It is I have not watched it 183 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: in detail. I think what's your question is is if 184 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: I've been able to watch it emotionally because that's when 185 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,599 Speaker 1: she's saying her last song to me. That was the 186 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: last song that she basically dedicated to me publicly, and 187 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: I felt like it was her way of saying, I'm 188 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: sorry that she missed me. So if she wouldn't have 189 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: done that, you guys, I think I would have it 190 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: would have been a lot harder. It gave me piece 191 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 1: to know that my mom was thinking of me at 192 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: her last concert. We obviously didn't know it was her 193 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: last concert, but at her concert and I knew. I 194 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: knew we missed each other, and I knew it was 195 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: just a matter of time. So I have watched it. 196 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: Every time I watched it, of course I cry. It's 197 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: getting better for me to watch her and to listen 198 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: to her in interviews because I can listen to her 199 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: music without a visual, but once I get a visual, 200 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,079 Speaker 1: I just want to jump into the screen and hug her. 201 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: And especially when it's like the reality show and things 202 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: like that, it really makes me miss my mama. There's 203 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 1: Jenny Rivera, the artist, and I'm a huge fan of, 204 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: but then there is Dolores Jenne Rivera, who is my mama, 205 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: and her voice and her advice, and it's just that's 206 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: still a little hard for me sometimes. But with the 207 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: Monterrey concert, I think I just have to take off 208 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: my daughter cap and put on a business cap because 209 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: now we have business decisions to make in regards to 210 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: that concert. So I have to really sit down and 211 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: watch it fully. But it has gotten a little easier, 212 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:10,319 Speaker 1: it has. The next question comes from yes see Flacky's 213 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 1: nine one. She's wondering if I'll make music with my sister. 214 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: She says it would be nice. Well, well, well, I'm 215 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: so glad you asked me that question. We just had 216 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 1: a meeting and we have a huge plan my sister 217 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: and I to do something together and with someone else. 218 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: I can't say yet because I wanted to be a 219 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: complete surprise, but it's long overdue, you guys, A song 220 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: with my sister Jackie and I. Jennica, if you guys 221 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: didn't know, has a beautiful voice too, My sister's kin sang. 222 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: I am a huge fan of their voices and Jackie. 223 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to convince Jennica to jump on this song 224 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: with us and this other person. So it's coming, you guys. 225 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: It's something that I've been wanting to do for a 226 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: long time with my sister Jackie. So yes, I agree, 227 00:11:56,280 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 1: it would be really nice. Yes, Okay, So question number 228 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: eight is from Jasmine, She says Cheeky's. What's your favorite 229 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: nail in spo or color that never fails? She says 230 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: hers is red Girl. I love red, I love white, 231 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: I love French tip, and I am huge on almond shape. 232 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: I just feel like it just looks a little bit 233 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: more natural. I love gel x versus like traditional acrylic nails. 234 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: And when I have my inspo. It all depends on 235 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: what's going on in my life. But my everyday life, 236 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: Like right now, my nails are like a cloudy white 237 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: because I feel like it goes with everything, and then 238 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: they last a little longer. So when I do something crazy, 239 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: I feel like men fallow. After like a week, I 240 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:38,719 Speaker 1: get tired of it. So I'm like, I want to 241 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: change it. But I go on Pinterest, you guys, That's 242 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: like my secret. I love Pinterest. I go and I'm 243 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: like nail art and I just get my little inspo 244 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: on there. So I highly recommend that they have great 245 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: stuff on there. It just all depends on my mood. 246 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 1: During the summer, I love bright colors. I'm all about 247 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,760 Speaker 1: bright pink, me on yellow, all that stuff. It just 248 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: all depends. I'm not afraid to just be like boom, 249 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: you know, be out there, be loud. But my every 250 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: day my go to is a cloudy white, a white white, 251 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: a black red and French tip. Believe it or not. 252 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: I like that question, by the way. Okay. Number nine 253 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: comes from Dora. Her question is, as a person who 254 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: has been judged incorrectly, how have you overcome those struggles 255 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: throughout the years? M hmm, this is this is a 256 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 1: good one. I have been judged incorrectly quite a bit 257 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: and it's very difficult. I think more so when I 258 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: was going through it. Um, even when they called me unfaithful. 259 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: That's something that really got to me because I'm like, 260 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: wait a second, especially when it's not true. It is 261 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: when it really make gala that I'm like, dude, that sucks. 262 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: And even when it's like true and they say something like, 263 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,320 Speaker 1: it's still like dude, what you don't even know the 264 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: full story? So where are you even giving an opinion? 265 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: But anyways, when I'm judged in correctly, I think what 266 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: has helped me now and I've learned is I need 267 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: to focus on the people that do know me. My siblings, 268 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: my significant other, my team that know me and deal 269 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: with me day by day and that they know that 270 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be capable of doing that, or they know 271 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: who I am. That gives me peace. I asked myself 272 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: every night and I'm like, did you do something good today? 273 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: How do you feel with yourself today? Is there's something 274 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: that you need to apologize about to the person or 275 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: just out loud and say, damn, I probably shouldn't have 276 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: cut that person off or anything. I do like a 277 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: self check every night, and that keeps you accountable, you guys. 278 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:25,160 Speaker 1: It keeps you on your toes and saying okay, like okay, 279 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 1: well I want to be better tomorrow. For me, it's 280 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: like I'm not you can judge me, especially if it's incorrectly, 281 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: like you don't even know me. I just check in 282 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 1: with myself and my way is my heart in the 283 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: right place. That's important, you guys, because you're always going 284 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 1: to get judged incorrectly and criticized, especially with social media. 285 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: You have to really be strong minded and emotionally. I 286 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: always say, have a hard shell, but a soft heart, 287 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: you know, and just know it's part of life. And 288 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: you know you don't even know me at the end 289 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: of the day, because if you knew me, you wouldn't 290 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: be saying this. So that's what really has helped me. 291 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: And I hope that helps you because if you're asking, 292 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: it's for a reason. Hope that helps. The next question 293 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: comes from the fan page edit ex cheek Ease. The 294 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: question is how is your relationship with Emilia? Going? Thank 295 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: you so much for asking. Um, it's going good. Honestly, 296 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: He's he's a man of peace, guys. I've learned through 297 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: this relationship that I have been so used to drama 298 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: in my life that it's like now that I have peace. 299 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: It's not that it got boring it because it hasn't, 300 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: but it's just like kind of like I would catch 301 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: myself like thinking is it too good to be true? 302 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: Like let me ruffle some feathers real quick so we 303 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: can argue. But I stopped that because that does not 304 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: get you anywhere, you guys. But it's helped me understand 305 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: a lot about myself. He's just such a peaceful dude, 306 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: easy going, no semite, nada. He's just so freaking chill 307 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: that he chills me out. We're a great balance. Um, 308 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: So it's going really well. I have nothing to complain 309 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: about at all. To be honest, he works he does 310 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: his thing, he lets me do my thing. He is 311 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 1: very good at explaining things to me, and he's so patient. 312 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: Uh it's just a very different relationship for me, to 313 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: be honest. So I really appreciate you asking because it's 314 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: it's going. It's going really good. It really is. I 315 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: can't complain. He's a great guy. He's a great guy. 316 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: Shout out to Amelia. Okay. The next question comes from 317 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: Peaches Grandad one X. The question is which sibling do 318 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: you have the closest relationship with. Okay, So, I have 319 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: to say Jennica. I'm close to all my siblings, but 320 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: I feel like my best friend is Jennica, like overall, 321 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: not just because she's my sibling, but I feel like 322 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: I can speak to her about everything and anything, and 323 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: she is very direct and very honest, and sometimes I'm like, dang, 324 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: you're such an a hole, But um, she's very wise 325 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: beyond her years. So her and I are really really close. 326 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: I think, like, sister, what do you think about this? 327 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: And and and when she has she confides in me, 328 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: So I think because that also, I feel the same 329 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 1: way with her. But again, I can honestly say I'm 330 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: close with all my siblings. We can talk about anything. 331 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: They can come and talk to me about anything. I 332 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: can go and talk to Jackie. She gives a great 333 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 1: advice too. So they're all I'm close to them in 334 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,719 Speaker 1: different ways. But I would have to say, if I'm 335 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: being honest, and you guys know I'm honest, it would 336 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: be with Jennica. So yeah, siblings. I hope you guys 337 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,200 Speaker 1: don't get hurt, but they already know. And I think 338 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: we all kind of go to Jenica. Mikey does, Johnny does, 339 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 1: Jackie does, or Jackie comes to me. I don't know, 340 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: but we all kind of go to Jenica. Okay, So 341 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: question number twelve, Johnny wants to know what the right 342 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 1: way to deal with a breakup baby. A breakup the 343 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: right way. There is no right way, to be honest, 344 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 1: it's just something that can help you. Is I don't 345 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: know if you broke up with the person it was 346 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,040 Speaker 1: a mutual agreement or they broke up with you. A 347 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 1: breakup is always hard, and you just have to know 348 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 1: that it is a process and you need to trust 349 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 1: the process. Don't rush anything. I don't recommend onlo that 350 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: was just that's just temporary. If you go and you 351 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: start something with someone else, it can come in backfire. 352 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,239 Speaker 1: So give yourself time to heal first of all, and 353 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: with this person, do the pros and cons list, which 354 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,880 Speaker 1: means what are their qualities and what ior what are 355 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: their faults? You know, and outweigh that. That always helps 356 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: you just see things and say, Okay, what is this 357 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: person causing me? Did they did they cause me more 358 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: pain or more happiness? And regardless of the situation, I 359 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: think that it's just trusting the process and praying yourself 360 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 1: through it. I always bring up prayer and God because 361 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 1: that's what's helped me through everything in my life. And 362 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 1: heartbreak sucks and I know it does. And it's just 363 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: embracing the pain and taking deep breaths and saying, Okay, 364 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a fine, everything's gonna be okay, breathing 365 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,719 Speaker 1: through it. That's the best advice that I can give you. 366 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 1: And give yourself. Give yourself some time, don't rush into anything. 367 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: And if your heart is hurting, johnnyso I really really do, 368 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 1: because it's it's it's not it's not easy. So I 369 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 1: feel you. I feel you. Only says here, she's reminding 370 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: me of one of my sayings that I love all 371 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: the time. Remember, Johnny, pain is a pastor promotion. This pain, 372 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: too shall pass, and it's going to bring someone better 373 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: in your life if you learn the lesson that you're 374 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: meant to learn behind this breakup. Okay, this next question 375 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 1: comes from Yvette. Okay, so she's asking why things ended 376 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: between my ex and I, my ex husband and I, 377 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 1: And UM, why do I feel and why did I 378 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: say that he's a devil in disguise? I don't know 379 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: when I said at you, guys, I don't think I 380 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: said it about him. I said it about someone that 381 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: came after our separation, which you, guys, if you have 382 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: the book and you read it. If not, go read it. 383 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: I talk about um the devil and disguise, but I 384 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: don't think I said it about about him, per se. 385 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: Things ended for many reasons, guys. Um, there's not one 386 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: actually one main main reason. But it all boils down 387 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: to lies. I don't care how big, how white, how black. 388 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: The lie is a lie is a lie, and I 389 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: prefer in ugly, the ugly truth then a disguised lie. 390 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,719 Speaker 1: I just I can't, I just I cannot with that. 391 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: So it really does boil down to the lying because 392 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: when you lie in a relationship, it really brings out 393 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 1: insecurities that makes you rethink everything, and a person that 394 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:43,719 Speaker 1: you're with should make you feel confident and secure and 395 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: and and emotionally stable. You guys are supposed to help 396 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 1: each other and give each other that, So if someone's 397 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 1: not doing that and and pulling in their bargain of 398 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: the deal, it just makes everything lopsided and it brings 399 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 1: up a lot of different things. So lying is a 400 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 1: no no. Guys in relationships, just be straight up, like 401 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: straight up like here. It is the good of the 402 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: bad and the ugly. So that's to make it short ish. 403 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: Lying was a huge thing, and then you will get 404 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,159 Speaker 1: the details in my book Unstappable, So I recommend you 405 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 1: read that Unstappable or Invincible in Espanol. I just wants 406 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: to know if I've ever regretted being a public figure 407 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 1: because of the lack of privacy and constant cheeseman. No, honestly, 408 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 1: I have never felt that way. I've never felt like 409 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: I regret the path that I'm on. I feel like 410 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: I am definitely on the path that God wants me 411 00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: to be on. Because this wasn't necessarily my plan, My 412 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: whole life. It's just something that happened, and choices that 413 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: I made obviously created this destiny. But no, I think 414 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: it's it's someone just asked me the other day, like 415 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: chickens doesn't bother you like and publico, And I'm like, 416 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: you know, I've learned to also switch that. There are 417 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: times when I'm like literally in the middle of eating 418 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: a taco and and they come and ask for a picture, 419 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I haven't even finished chewing my you know, 420 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: my food, and like my finger smelled like cilantro and acho, 421 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm like kind of like, uh, sometimes 422 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: I feel like more prudent when coming to ask for 423 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: a picture, but I never say no to a picture, 424 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 1: and I just see it as it's a blessing. And 425 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: I I've seen it this this way since I was little, 426 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: since I've seen my mom, you know, every where we went, 427 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: they would stop us, didn't matter where we were, to 428 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: ask her for a picture. And I always saw it like, 429 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 1: these are the people that help my mom feed us, 430 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: you know, they buy her music, they buy her products, 431 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,639 Speaker 1: and I was just always so grateful with them, and 432 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: that's how I feel now. Even more so, I'm like, 433 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: you know what, they're asking for a picture for a reason. 434 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 1: You know, they probably watched the things that I do. 435 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: They're reading my books or listen to my podcast. Like 436 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: the least I can do is take a picture, so 437 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,199 Speaker 1: I don't regret it. I I feel like it's a 438 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: beautiful way of helping others, and um, God has given 439 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: me this platform to do something positive and that's the 440 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,640 Speaker 1: way that I see it. So thank you so much 441 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 1: for for that question. Iris Jocelyne Ochoa asks what's the 442 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: biggest risk you've ever taken? The biggest risk? I'm a 443 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: risk taker. I'm all about taking risks. I feel like 444 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 1: if you don't risk, there's no gain, Like you have 445 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,200 Speaker 1: to be somewhat of a gambler in life in order 446 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,640 Speaker 1: to achieve your goals in order to be successful. Now, 447 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: I think the biggest risk that I've taken in and 448 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 1: I don't think I know was was getting married because 449 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,719 Speaker 1: I knew and I had that hunch and that feeling 450 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 1: of he's not ready to be the man that I need. 451 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: But I still took the risk and it was a 452 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 1: costly painful risk. So I think that one has been 453 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 1: the biggest thus far and the most painful. So without 454 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: giving too much detail, you guys can read it in 455 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: my book Unstoppable. I have to be honest. That's definitely 456 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: the biggest Edgar asks. I would like to know how 457 00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: you stay so positive and motivated. Every day I wake 458 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: up and I say that I want to be a 459 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 1: positive force in the world, and anyone that is in 460 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,159 Speaker 1: my life and comes into my life and watches my 461 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: stories on Instagram, and I just know that it's a 462 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 1: part of my mission and it's what makes me happy 463 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: to make others happy, to make them, you know, to 464 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 1: inspire them. And the comments that I get in my 465 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 1: d m s stating that okay, I'm on the right 466 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 1: track makes me feel good. So every day it's a 467 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: choice that I make. It's an everyday choice, guys, like 468 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 1: it is in marriage or your partner, Like you have 469 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: to choose that person every day. You have to choose 470 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: to want to be better, you know, to to have 471 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 1: a better body, which means you have to do certain things. 472 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: So it's a choice. Every single day is an opportunity. 473 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 1: So to me, it's helped me because it makes me happy. 474 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 1: So I choose to say I want to be positive. 475 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: I want to be motivated because if I feel positive, 476 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: if I am motivated, then I can motivate others. And 477 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 1: I need to be the better version of myself every 478 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: single day. So I choose myself, Guys. I choose myself 479 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 1: every day because by choosing myself, I choose you, guys. 480 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 1: Alfredo Martinez wants to know if you were to change 481 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 1: anything from the past, what would it be. Wow. Um, 482 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,679 Speaker 1: I'm the type of person that doesn't really like to 483 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: regret anything. I feel like everything helps you become who 484 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,719 Speaker 1: you are meant to become in life. I think if 485 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,880 Speaker 1: I had to change anything, to be honest, is opening 486 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 1: up that door of getting tattoos because I was so 487 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: young when I was eighteen when I got my first tattoo, 488 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: and then I kind of just liked it, and then 489 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 1: now I'm at an age where I'm like, oh, what 490 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: did I do that? So I think that's the only 491 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 1: thing that I would probably change. Other than that, even 492 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: like the situation with my mom and everything, It's taught 493 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: me so much that I don't know if i'd say 494 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: I'd necessarily change it. But something that I have a 495 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: little bit more control over is my body and what 496 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: I do to it. So I would probably say that 497 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,679 Speaker 1: because now I want to remove them all to be 498 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:02,439 Speaker 1: honest with you, my my tattoo. Okay, next question is 499 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: from Chantal. She says, how do you and your siblings 500 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 1: managed to not let arguments create riffs or damage your 501 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: relationship as siblings? I love that question, and any siblings 502 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: out there that are listening, I recommend for you guys 503 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 1: to make it your mission, and sometimes it could be 504 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 1: a mission impossible to keep yourselves united. My mom is 505 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 1: something that mink, something that she embedded in me. Every 506 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: single almost every single day, I kild you not. I 507 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: want you and your siblings to be different from me 508 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: and my siblings. I don't want you guys to fight. 509 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,199 Speaker 1: And it is your duty and your responsibility as the 510 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 1: eldest to keep you guys together. And that's what I've done. 511 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 1: And I think because I have that so present that 512 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, the best way that I can honor 513 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: my mom's legacy is by taking care of her most 514 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: precious jewels, her most precious treasures, which are my siblings. 515 00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's how I'm honoring her, and 516 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 1: I'm honoring our her hard work and everything that she 517 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 1: had to sacrifice. For us is by keeping us together, 518 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 1: and it's just wanting to be better and wanting that 519 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: relationship and not allowing as the eldest um. And you 520 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,159 Speaker 1: don't have to be the eldest to do this. You 521 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 1: could be the youngest, the middle child, it doesn't matter. 522 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: It's saying, you know, wait a second, no matter what happens, 523 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: we cannot let anybody come between us. Of Course we're 524 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: going to argue. Of course we're going to disagree, but 525 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 1: we let's agree to disagree sort of thing like, Okay, 526 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: we're all different, but at the end of the day, 527 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: we have the same goal, which is being together, which 528 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: is being good for our parents. Because so it's doing 529 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 1: it for a better good being close to your sip things. 530 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:53,439 Speaker 1: So I hope that helped. Evalia Barrassa Lopez wants to 531 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: know what I order at Starbucks. She says, I would 532 00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,439 Speaker 1: like to know more about your Starbucks to rings with 533 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,959 Speaker 1: low sugar or sugar free. She says, she's trying to 534 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: make a change. Oh my god, lah, yeah, um, that's 535 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 1: wonderful that you're trying to make a change. It's the 536 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: small changes that make a big difference. I saying, Okay, 537 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm gonna do sugar free sugar like 538 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: you're doing now, Like this is great. I'm really really 539 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: happy for you. So what I order is a Keto drink. 540 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: It is an iced coffee, a splash of heavy whipping cream, 541 00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: two pumps of sugar free vanilla, and one packet of 542 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,239 Speaker 1: Stevia iced and you could do this. I like it 543 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 1: iced better than hot, but that is what I get 544 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 1: at Starbucks. So and if you don't like um heavy 545 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 1: whipping cream, always ask for a splash, because if not, 546 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: you can ask for a little bit of almond milk 547 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 1: as well. I don't like anything too sweet, so that's 548 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: why I do two pumps of sugar free vanilla and 549 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: one Stevia packet. But yeah, try that. Let me know 550 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: what you think, Okay, send me a damn girl. Okay, 551 00:28:55,000 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: so says what would the cheeky ease of the present 552 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 1: day say to a cheekis who is fifteen years old? 553 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, you got me on this one. Okay, 554 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: let me think back. Oh fifteen, I was going through 555 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: quite a bit actually with my mom. My mom wasn't 556 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: talking to me for two months. That was the very 557 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: first time she had shut me out. Of her life 558 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: was when I was fourteen turning fifteen. So for my 559 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 1: fifteenth birthday, you guys, I didn't get a happy birthday 560 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 1: from my mom. I talked about it in my book Forgiveness. 561 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 1: If you guys want to go and you know, catch 562 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: the full story. But anyways, Oh, what would I tell her? 563 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 1: To be more honest? That's what I would tell her, 564 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: that little be I would tell that little cheek ees um, 565 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: be more honest, be straight up um again, Honesty is 566 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: the best policy, guys, I I could have. That argument 567 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 1: that I had with my mom was so silly. It 568 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: was all because I wasn't I didn't communicate. Communication is 569 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: key in every relationship, and I didn't communicate to my 570 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: mom that we had gotten out of school early and 571 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: at I was gonna go across the street to have 572 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: a hamburger and cheese, a cheeseburger and fries with my friends. 573 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 1: May say way boys, and say let me say a way, 574 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: you know, lad, I should have called her and said, hey, Mom, 575 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 1: I didn't know I had forgot we're getting out early. 576 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go across the street. She thought I had 577 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: deceived her, and I did. In a way, I should 578 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: have let her know, so be more honest. For sure, 579 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: I would be like, you know, just just be communicate girl, 580 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: It'll keep you out of trouble. So I'll tell I'll 581 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: tell that chee is that every day because Jesus. Okay, 582 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 1: so good question. Soy diego g a d o y 583 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: he says, He says, his question number twenty one. Which 584 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: prayer do you do when you feel you can't handle 585 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: things anymore? Oh? Okay, So it's it's not a prayer, 586 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: but it's the serenity prayer. Well, I guess it is 587 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: a prayer, but it's not like in the Bible. It's 588 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 1: a serenity prayer. And it goes like this, God grant 589 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 1: me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, 590 00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: the courage to change the things that I can, and 591 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: wisdom to know the difference. That helps me so much 592 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: in times of gribulation in pain. Also, I don't know 593 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 1: the Bible verse, but I know what it says, I 594 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: can do all things through Christ who strengthened me. That's 595 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: one that my mom always use. So those two are 596 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: my go to prayers. So I really like that question. 597 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for asking um. So hopefully it 598 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: helps you. I am Armando j asks will you ever 599 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: make a full English album? I love these questions, guys. Okay, yes, 600 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'll do a full English maybe 601 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: in English EP which consists of five songs. Maybe I 602 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: will do a full full album. I don't know, but 603 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 1: there are plans of doing English music. I want to 604 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: do something very different, like guys. You guys don't even 605 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 1: know what kind of music. It's so different how I 606 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: think this is my boss, b Armando, it's my boss. 607 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: P Yes, I love you, Papa by the way, Okay, 608 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: he's like, oh g he's from Dallas, so shout out 609 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: to him. But I do think that it's gonna happen. 610 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 1: I just don't know when. I wanna kind of give 611 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: my Spanish music sometimes, but it would be completely different, 612 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: like you guys would be like what yeah, so I 613 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: don't want to say what, but just think of in 614 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 1: dr red Erika Ericaba do like oh oh, it gets 615 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 1: me excited. Lumma think Romo, Hi, this is one of 616 00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: my boss pieces as well. Leta or Jane, I'm luis 617 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:51,719 Speaker 1: them wow, Gjobrafiro in um Saves is Luckily La la 618 00:32:51,840 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: fuerza chio the mastermind is j We went Okay, guys, 619 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking the time to write 620 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 1: me and ask me your questions. A lot of you 621 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 1: wrote in just to show your support and that means 622 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: the world to me, you guys. So before I let 623 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: you go, I'm going to leave you with this motivational quote. 624 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 1: It is kind of a quote, but I want to 625 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: give you guys a little bit of advice now that 626 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 1: we're on this like ask cheekies questions stuff. I used 627 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 1: to have this quote on the wall in the bathroom 628 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: of my salon and it said today, commit an act 629 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 1: of kindness. So I want to tell you guys to 630 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: do the same. Commit an act of kindness every single day, 631 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 1: start today if you can. It could be as simple 632 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: as opening up the door for someone helping an elderly lady. 633 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: If you see her putting her groceries in her car, 634 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 1: maybe offer her some help. I don't know. Send someone 635 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: like inedible arrangement out of nowhere. Someone that you were 636 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: thinking about. Doesn't have to mean nothing crazy big. Send 637 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: someone that you love or someone you haven't talked to 638 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: in a long time. Send them a little message of hope. Hey, 639 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 1: almost us thinking of you. Praying for you. Just I 640 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 1: wanted to give you guys that advice. I think it's 641 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 1: super important to always commit an act of kindness every 642 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: single day because it's paying it forward and I don't know, 643 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,600 Speaker 1: I just felt in my heart to do that, So 644 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,720 Speaker 1: do it. And with that being said, thank you guys 645 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 1: so much for listening to another episode. And like I said, 646 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,359 Speaker 1: we'll be airing a part two of your questions very soon, 647 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 1: so don't forget to listen to Cheeks and Chill every 648 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 1: Monday until next time, los Amo. This is a production 649 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: of My Heart Radio and Mike podcast Network. 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