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Speaker 1: Welcome to Cheeky's and Chill. I'm your host Cheeky's and

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Speaker 1: I hope you all are having a happy Monday. It's

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Speaker 1: been a crazy month for me already. My new book,

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Speaker 1: Unstoppable was released a couple weeks ago, and I've been

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Speaker 1: on the road on a book tour. It's been so

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Speaker 1: beautiful seeing all of you guys see in your faces,

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Speaker 1: and today I will be answering some of your questions.

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Speaker 1: This episode is going to be so much fun, you guys.

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Speaker 1: So let's get into it. This is Cheeky's and Chill.

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Speaker 1: I'm really looking forward to today's episode because it's a

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Speaker 1: chance for me to interact with you guys. A while

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Speaker 1: back on Instagram, I asked you guys to send your questions.

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Speaker 1: Since there are so many questions, We're going to split

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Speaker 1: this in two episodes. This will be part one, so

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Speaker 1: let's do it. Let's get into it. So let's start

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Speaker 1: with question number one. This comes from Karina. She says,

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Speaker 1: I would like to know how you got over the

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Speaker 1: trauma in your life. Okay, well, I have been through

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Speaker 1: quite some bit of trauma, you guys, but that's a thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't see it as trauma. I see it as

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Speaker 1: a way to grow. I always thank God for every experience,

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Speaker 1: for every tear, for every smile. Every morning I'm like, God,

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Speaker 1: thank you for everything that I've had to go through.

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Speaker 1: Even if it's hurt and it's been painful, it has

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Speaker 1: molded me and helped mold me into the woman I

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Speaker 1: am today, not seeing it as something traumatic and something horrible,

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Speaker 1: but bringing out the positive in it, because there's always

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Speaker 1: something positive that comes out of a painful situation. And

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Speaker 1: then just keeping my eyes on the light at the

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Speaker 1: end of the tunnel has always helped me. I say

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Speaker 1: that so much, but it's really what has helped me.

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Speaker 1: My faith in Godo especial to me. It's the best

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Speaker 1: advice I can give anyone when they're going through a

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Speaker 1: lost you know, of a loved one, a loss of

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Speaker 1: a relationship, a loss of even a relationship with your

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Speaker 1: family members, whatever the case may be. I always say,

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Speaker 1: just get on your knees and pray for strength and

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Speaker 1: try to just keep telling yourself this too shall pass.

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Speaker 1: So that's the best advice that I can give you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So question number two comes from Alexandra. She says, Cheeky's

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Speaker 1: what's your new outlook on marriage and kids after divorce. Well,

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Speaker 1: I believe in marriage, I believe in love. I am

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Speaker 1: I love to love and to be loved. So when

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Speaker 1: it comes to kids, I'm a little more not hesitant,

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Speaker 1: that's the word. I'm just a little bit more careful.

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Speaker 1: I guess. I want to make sure that the person

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Speaker 1: just how it is. But I think that for me,

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Speaker 1: when it comes to children, it's like, well, they will

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Speaker 1: What is their How are they with children? How are

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Speaker 1: I can't find that person, I wouldn't mind saying, Okay,

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Speaker 1: be honest, it's just finding the right time. And although

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Speaker 1: important even for your health to forgive. That doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: And yes it's difficult, but if I forgive you for

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Speaker 1: It's going to be healthier for me, for my future,

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Speaker 1: now that we're on the topic of forgiveness, for those

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Speaker 1: called Forgiveness, both in Spanish and in English, so we

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Speaker 1: have betterdan and forgiveness and I talk all about forgiveness

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Speaker 1: and the journey of forgiving because it is not easy.

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Speaker 1: It's easier said than done. But I hope that my

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Speaker 1: So that was a good question. Thank you. Question number

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Speaker 1: so new music coming like now? Okay, we have, Giraman said,

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Speaker 1: we're working on the third single of the fourth album.

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Speaker 1: The fourth album comes out in April. God willing you

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Speaker 1: I love. I get so excited when I talk about music. Okay,

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Speaker 1: We're like, no, we want to travel, we want to

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Speaker 1: six is from Deya. She says, have you been able

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Speaker 1: really makes me miss my mama. There's Jenny Rivera, the

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Speaker 1: So I have to really sit down and watch it fully.

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Speaker 1: I've seen my mom, you know, everywhere we went, they

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Speaker 1: would stop us, didn't matter where we were, to ask

423
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,560
Speaker 1: her for a picture. And I always saw it like,

424
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 1: these are the people that help my mom feed us,

425
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 1: you know, they buy her music, they buy her products,

426
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 1: and I was just always so grateful with them, and

427
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: that's how I feel now, even more so, I'm like,

428
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 1: you know what, they're asking for a picture for a reason.

429
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: You know, they probably watch the things that I do.

430
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 1: They're reading my books, they're listening to my podcast. Like

431
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: the least I can do is take a picture, so

432
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: I don't regret it. I feel like it's a beautiful

433
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,959
Speaker 1: way of helping others. And God has given me this

434
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Speaker 1: platform to do something positive and that's the way that

435
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Speaker 1: I see it. So thank you so much for that question. Iris.

436
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: Jocelyn o'choa asks, what's the biggest risk you've ever taken?

437
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 1: The biggest risk? I'm a risk taker. I'm all about

438
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,760
Speaker 1: taking risks. I feel like if you don't risk, there's

439
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: no gain, Like you have to be somewhat of a

440
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: gambler in life in order to achieve your goals in

441
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,720
Speaker 1: order to be successful. Now, I think the biggest risk

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00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: that I've taken, and I don't think I know, was

443
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: getting married because I knew and I had that hunch

444
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 1: and that feeling of he's not ready to be the

445
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: man that I need. But I still took the risk

446
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 1: and it was a costly painful risk. So I think

447
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 1: that one has been the biggest thus far and the

448
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: most painful. So, without giving too much detail, you guys

449
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: can read it in my book unstoppable. I have to

450
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: be honest. That's definitely the biggest Edgar asks. I would

451
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: like to know how you stay so positive and motivated.

452
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: Every day I wake up and I say that I

453
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: want to be a positive force in the world, and

454
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: anyone that is in my life and comes into my

455
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 1: life and watches my stories on Instagram, and I just

456
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: know that it's a part of my mission and it's

457
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 1: what makes me happy to make others happy, to make them,

458
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: you know, to inspire them. And the comments that I

459
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: get in my DMS stating that okay, I'm on the

460
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: right track makes me feel good. So every day it's

461
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 1: a choice that I make. It's in everyday choice guys,

462
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: like it is in marriage or your partner, like you

463
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 1: have to choose that person. Every day. You have to

464
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Speaker 1: choose to want to be better, you know, to have

465
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Speaker 1: a better body, which means you have to do certain things.

466
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 1: So it's a choice. Every single day is an opportunity.

467
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,959
Speaker 1: So to me, it's helped me because it makes me happy.

468
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Speaker 1: So I choose to say I want to be positive.

469
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 1: I want to be motivated, because if I feel positive,

470
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: if I am motivated, then I can motivate others. And

471
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: I need to be the better version of myself every

472
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Speaker 1: single day. So I choose myself, guys. I choose myself

473
00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: every day because by choosing myself, I choose you, guys.

474
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: Alfredo Martinez wants to know if you were to change

475
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Speaker 1: anything from the past, what would it be. Wow. I'm

476
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: the type of person that doesn't really like to regret anything.

477
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Speaker 1: I feel like everything helps you become who you are

478
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 1: meant to become in life. I think if I had

479
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Speaker 1: to change anything, to be honest, is opening up that

480
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Speaker 1: door of getting tattoos because I was so young when

481
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 1: I was eighteen when I got my first tattoo, and

482
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: then I kind of just liked it, and then now

483
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Speaker 1: I'm at an age where I'm like, oh, why did

484
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 1: I do that? So I think that's the only thing

485
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Speaker 1: that I would probably change. Other than that, even like

486
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: the situation with my mom and everything, It's taught me

487
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: so much that I don't know if i'd say i'd

488
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Speaker 1: necessarily change it. But something that I have a little

489
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: bit more control over is my body and what I

490
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Speaker 1: do to it. So I would probably say that because

491
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,119
Speaker 1: now I want to remove them all. To be honest

492
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Speaker 1: with you, my tattoo. Okay. Next question is from Chantal.

493
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: She says, how do you and your siblings manage to

494
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: not let arguments create riffs or damage your relationship as siblings.

495
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: I love that question, and any siblings out there that

496
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: are listening, I recommend for you guys to make it

497
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: your mission, and sometimes it could be a mission impossible

498
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 1: to keep yourselves united. My mom is something that Minkulgo,

499
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: something that she embedded in me every almost every single day.

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Speaker 1: I could you not. I want you and your siblings

501
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: to be different from me and my siblings. I don't

502
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: want you guys to fight. And it is your duty

503
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 1: and your responsibility as the eldest to keep you guys together.

504
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: And that's what I've done. And I think because I

505
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: have that so present that I'm like, Okay, the best

506
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Speaker 1: way that I can honor my mom's legacy is by

507
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Speaker 1: taking care of her most precious jewels, her most precious treasures,

508
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,479
Speaker 1: which are my siblings. And I feel like that's how

509
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Speaker 1: I'm honoring her, and I'm honoring all her hard work

510
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: and everything that she had to sacrifice for us is

511
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: by keeping us together. And it's just wanting to be

512
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Speaker 1: better and wanting that relationship and not allowing as the eldest.

513
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: And you don't have to be the eldest to do this.

514
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 1: You could be the youngest, the middle child, it doesn't matter.

515
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 1: It's saying, you know, wait a second, no matter what happens,

516
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 1: we cannot let anybody come between us. Of course we're

517
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 1: going to argue. Of course we're going to disagree, but

518
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: we let's agree to disagree sort of thing like, Okay,

519
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: we're all different, but at the end of the day,

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00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: we have the same goal, which is being together, which

521
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: is being good for our parents, because Guando nossicosas so

522
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 1: it's doing it for a better good, being close to

523
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: your sibbings. So I hope that helped. Italy Barrasa Lopez

524
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: wants to know what I order at Starbucks. She says,

525
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Speaker 1: I would like to know more about your Starbucks with

526
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: low sugar or sugar free. She says, she's trying to

527
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 1: make a change. Oh my god, that's wonderful that you're

528
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: trying to make a change. It's the small changes that

529
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: make a big difference, like saying, Okay, I'm not gonna

530
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: eat I'm gonna do sugar free sugar like you're doing

531
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: now like this is great. I'm really really happy for you.

532
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 1: So what I order is a keto drink. It is

533
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: an iced coffee, a splash of heavy whipping cream, two

534
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:29,120
Speaker 1: pumps of sugar free vanilla, and one packet of Stevia

535
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: iced and you could do this. I like it ice

536
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: better than hot. But that is what I get at Starbucks.

537
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: So and if you don't like heavy whipping cream, always

538
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: asks for a splash because if not, zetbas on, you

539
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: can ask for a little bit of almond milk as well.

540
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: I don't like anything too sweet, so that's why I

541
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: do two pumps of sugar free vanilla and one Stevia packet.

542
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, try that. Let me know what you think. Okay,

543
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: send me a DM girl. Okay, So, so says, what

544
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Speaker 1: would the cheeky of the present day say to a

545
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: cheeky's who is fifteen years old? Ooh, my goodness, you

546
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: got me on this one. Okay, let me think back. Ooh,

547
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: at fifteen I was going through quite a bit actually

548
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: with my mom. My mom wasn't talking to me for

549
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: two months. That was the very first time she had

550
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: shut me out of her life. Was when I was fourteen,

551
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: turning fifteen. So for my fifteenth birthday, you, guys, I

552
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: didn't get a happy birthday for my mom. I talk

553
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: about it in my book Forgiveness. If you guys want

554
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: to go and you catch the full story. But anyways,

555
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: ooh ah, what would I tell her? To be more honest?

556
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: That's what I would tell her, that little bee. I

557
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 1: would tell that little Cheeky's be more honest. Be straight

558
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: up again. Honesty is the best policy, guys, I could have.

559
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: That argument that I had with my mom was so silly.

560
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: It was all because I wasn't I didn't communicate. Communication

561
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: is key in every relationship, and I didn't communicate to

562
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: my mom that we had gotten out of school early,

563
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: and that that I was gonna go across the street

564
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: to have a hamburger and she's a cheeseburger and fries

565
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: with my friends. May say way, boys, so May said way.

566
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: You know, I should have called her and said, hey, Mom,

567
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: I didn't know I had forgot we're getting out early.

568
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go across the street. She thought I had

569
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: deceived her, and I did. In a way. I should

570
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: have let her know, so be more honest. For sure,

571
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: I would be like, you know, just just be communicate girl,

572
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: It'll keep you out of trouble. So I'll tell I'll

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00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 1: tell that. Cheeky's that every day because Jesus. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: good question. So I diego g A d o why

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00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: he says, He says his question number twenty one. Which

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Speaker 1: prayer do you do when you feel you can't handle

577
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: things anymore? Who? Okay? So it's it's not a prayer,

578
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: but it's the serenity prayer. Well, I guess it is

579
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: a prayer, but it's not like in the Bible. It's

580
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Speaker 1: a serenity prayer. And it goes like this God grabbed

581
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Speaker 1: me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

582
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: the courage to change the things that I can, wisdom

583
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: to know the difference. That helps me so much in

584
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: times of tribulation and pain. Also, I don't know the

585
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: Bible verse, but I know what it says, I can

586
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: do all things through Christ, who strengthened me. That's one

587
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: that my mom always use. So those two are my

588
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 1: go to prayers. So I really like that question. Thank

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00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: you so much for asking. Hopefully it helps you. I

590
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: am Armando J asks will you ever make a full

591
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 1: English album? Oh? I love these questions. Guys. Okay, yes,

592
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'll do a full English maybe

593
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,479
Speaker 1: an English EP which consists of five songs. Maybe I

594
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 1: will do a full album. I don't know, but there

595
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: are plans of doing English music. I want to do

596
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: something very different, like guys. You guys don't even know

597
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: what kind of music. It's so different how I think

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Speaker 1: this is my boss b Armando. It's my boss b Yes,

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00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: I love you. Papa by the way, Okay, he's like

600
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: O G. He's from Dallas, so shout out to him.

601
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: But I do think that it's gonna happen. I just

602
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: don't know when. I want to kind of give my

603
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: Spanish music sometime, but it would be completely different, like

604
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: you guys would be like what yeah, so I don't

605
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: want to say what, but just think of in dry

606
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: shad Erica Erica Bardu like oh oh, it gets me excited. Lumma,

607
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: I think hi, this is one of my boss bees

608
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: as well, La Chiki or Jane i'mlu wow, Joe Braro

609
00:32:43,200 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: high Silla is La Lasa Labia, A Chikischi. The mastermind

610
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: is Janee NOI Chiki's we went. Okay, guys, thank you

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00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: so much for taking the time to write me and

612
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: ask me your questions. A lot of you wrote in

613
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: just to show your support and that means the world

614
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: to me. You guys. So before I let you go,

615
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm going to leave you with this motivational quote. It

616
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: is kind of a quote, but I want to give

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00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: you guys a little bit of the device now that

618
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: we're on this, like ask Cheeky's question stuff. I used

619
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: to have this quote on the wall in the bathroom

620
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: of my salon and it said today, commit an act

621
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: of kindness. So I want to tell you guys to

622
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: do the same. Commit an act of kindness every single day,

623
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: start today if you can. It could be as simple

624
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: as opening up the door for someone helping an elderly lady.

625
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: If you see her putting her groceries in her car,

626
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: maybe offer her some help. I don't know. Send someone

627
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: like in edible Arrangement out of nowhere, someone that you

628
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: were thinking about. Doesn't have to be nothing crazy big.

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00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 1: Send someone that you love or someone you haven't talked

630
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: to in a long time. Send them a little message

631
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: of hope. Hey, comemotas thinking of you, praying for you.

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Speaker 1: Just I wanted to give you guys that advice. I

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