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Speaker 1: Welcome back Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thank you again

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Speaker 1: for joining us. We're so excited to be back.

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Speaker 2: And if you haven't caught up on our episode. So far,

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Speaker 2: we've had some incredible guests, check them out. We've discussed

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Speaker 2: the Bachelor finale, we had my neighbors Zach and Katie on,

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Speaker 2: We've had Joan on. We've already started answering a bunch

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Speaker 2: of fan questions.

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Speaker 3: So keep the questions coming.

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Speaker 1: And today we have an extremely special guest.

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Speaker 3: Oh my love, our dear friend Faith.

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Speaker 4: Faith.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for joining us today.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm so excited to talk to you. We got

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Speaker 4: to catch up. It's been a while. We get all

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Speaker 4: busy in our lives and you know, it's hard.

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Speaker 5: It is hard.

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Speaker 2: So I have a question right off the bat. I oh,

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Speaker 2: you know faith. You and I've talked about this a

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Speaker 2: little bit. The most fun thing, other than you know,

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Speaker 2: Gary proposing to me, Oh wait.

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Speaker 5: He didn't.

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Speaker 2: The most fun thing for me was doing the live

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Speaker 2: wedding and having a microphone in my hand on live TV.

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Speaker 2: I loved it. So tell me what it's like for

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Speaker 2: you as a radio host. I mean, you do live.

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Speaker 2: I know you tape some of them, but you've done

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Speaker 2: a lot of live gigs your music.

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Speaker 5: Tell me about it.

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Speaker 6: Well, I've always done live since I was eighteen years old.

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Speaker 6: It was always live up until last year when I said,

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Speaker 6: I really want to do it from home. You know so,

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Speaker 6: And part of the reason why I was doing it

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Speaker 6: from home is because I host three radio shows every

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Speaker 6: day and I was a full time musician, so I

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Speaker 6: literally couldn't do live shows or I'd be on from

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Speaker 6: I was always So it's just really hard, but yeah,

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Speaker 4: You know, I can't stand up, but they're remotes.

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Speaker 6: But you know, oh well, no, it's not that I

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Speaker 4: You know, hey, I'm live blah blah blah.

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Speaker 6: And then I was also a news anchor, so I

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Speaker 6: So my whole life has been like that and on live.

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Speaker 6: So it's not necessarily fun. It was just work, you know,

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Speaker 6: It's just what we did always since I was eighteen

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Speaker 4: You know, some of them were hilarious.

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Speaker 6: I remember, you know, the funniest times of my life

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Speaker 6: and something funny happens, you know, So yeah, good times.

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Speaker 3: But what about what about your dating life?

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Speaker 1: Did that interfere because you were out in public all

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Speaker 6: I some times it did, honestly. You know, I live

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, you know a lot of people

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Speaker 6: would say, how am I supposed to feel special to you?

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Speaker 6: Everyone loves you and you happen to love everyone. And

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Speaker 6: Of course, my listeners, my viewers are special to me.

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Speaker 6: They just are always will be.

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Speaker 2: So so I want to know, how did your family

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Speaker 5: What about your family, your kids? What everyone?

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Speaker 6: Well my kids were always one hundred percent supportive. You know,

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Speaker 6: so amazing. This community. I've been here since well, let's see,

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Speaker 6: I've done radio. I started in Salt Lake City, but

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Speaker 6: and I've always been huge advocate for nonprofit organizations that

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Speaker 6: So they were so incredibly supportive.

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Speaker 1: And I'm so comfortable in front of an audience, right

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well too comfortable.

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Speaker 3: When you came to the mansion, you.

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Speaker 6: Were all so, you know, because I didn't care really

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Speaker 6: what I wasn't on the show to do anything but

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Speaker 6: make a connection with Gary. So I really I didn't

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Speaker 6: focus was is this going to be the man I marry.

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Speaker 6: I knew this was a decision that could mean a

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Speaker 6: wanted to know if you know, if we were asking

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Speaker 6: I'm like, wow, I wish I would have cared a

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Speaker 6: little more about those ugly dresses I bought.

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Speaker 3: And you didn't look beautiful?

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Speaker 6: No, And I was like you Remember, we'd get ready

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Speaker 6: and I'd be like, I'll get me ready in ten minutes,

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Speaker 6: and everybody's like it's going to take me two and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, hand, you know, I don't know why I

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Speaker 6: Me are going to love me for who I am.

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Speaker 6: I didn't feel like I needed to impress the populace.

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Speaker 3: All right, I have a good question for you, pete O.

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Speaker 1: Can you ever consider going back and dating an X?

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Speaker 6: You know, No, I don't really have any xes that

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Speaker 6: I have time for or would want to be with again,

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Speaker 6: not that I can think of it.

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Speaker 2: Is there any circumstance that you know that you could

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Speaker 2: imagine that you would change your mind on that?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 6: If you would have asked me this maybe eight years

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Speaker 6: ago or six years ago, I would say yes, But

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Speaker 6: not now.

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Speaker 5: And that's because she dated the X again and it

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Speaker 5: didn't work out.

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Speaker 6: No, No, it's because you.

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Speaker 5: Oh that would you take Gary again?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't. I don't think I would. And you

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Speaker 4: know you want to know why.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, the world wants to know. Fairly, we all

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Speaker 5: want to know me.

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Speaker 4: No, I think you know. I love Gary.

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Speaker 6: I thought there was something so different about and that

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Speaker 6: I totally appreciated, and honestly speaking, we were pretty dark

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Speaker 6: compatible in a lot of ways.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, you know, I've just decided in this moment.

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Speaker 6: As much as I felt for him, my intuition would

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Speaker 6: lead me to believe still, you know, we'll text every

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Speaker 6: now and then, you know, so, yeah, I mean, I'll

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Speaker 6: always be there. We had that shared experience, right, all

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Speaker 6: of us did, right, So we're bonding for life. I

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Speaker 6: still text him, I'm still talk today. Yeah, yeah, And

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Speaker 6: I think that's important that we all do that, because

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Speaker 6: wasn't it honestly quite an adventure and for Leslie and

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Speaker 6: me and Teresa too, I think it was even so

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Speaker 4: We just got to talk. You know.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel as if you got caught up in

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Speaker 4: If I did, or he did, if you did, if

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Speaker 4: I did. Uh, No, it wasn't like that at all.

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Speaker 6: I feel like I really was there for that purpose,

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Speaker 6: I probably could have Mary Gary and we'd probably be,

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Speaker 6: you know, pretty darn happy. I guess knowing that, what

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Speaker 6: I know now that I think he really comes from

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Speaker 6: you know, Like I feel like he made a decision

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Speaker 6: out of the logical choice and not his heart. And

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Speaker 6: I lead my whole life with my heart. My heart

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Speaker 2: I think for Joan, it's going to be a whole

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Speaker 2: different thing when you're the lead. And I think, you know,

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, oh yeah, definitely. You know people want reality TV.

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Speaker 6: Well that's the truth. Reality happens. Everything can be beautiful,

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Speaker 6: it can be magic and be fairyland, and you know what,

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Speaker 6: sometimes it just doesn't work out.

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Speaker 4: And that is reality. And that doesn't mean you give up.

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Speaker 6: That means you you know, you learn from it, you

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Speaker 6: understand it, you give it grace, and you move forward

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Speaker 6: with something different. But here's the reason why I think

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Speaker 6: Joan will be great. It is because she's coming in fresh.

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Speaker 6: She didn't go through heartache, she didn't go through being

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Speaker 6: on the show for so long she was out. You know,

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Speaker 6: it's all fresh and new and you she'll be fine,

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Speaker 6: you know where I think, you know, both Leslie and

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Speaker 6: the weight, or at least I'm speaking for myself. I

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Speaker 6: feel the weight of the show. I feel the weight

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Speaker 6: of the turmoil of the emotional.

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Speaker 3: Sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so with that in mind, faith, With that in

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Speaker 2: mind that you know you're moving forward. Who are you

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Speaker 2: dating anyone? Are you on dating apps?

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Speaker 6: Way?

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Speaker 1: Since you've been on reality TV? Do you think dating

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Speaker 1: is harder?

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Speaker 6: No, it's it's the same. It's I know everybody in

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Speaker 6: this town. I you know, the people that get a

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Speaker 6: hold of me tend to be in their thirties and

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Speaker 6: they've obviously got mommy issues or something because they're.

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Speaker 4: Good, good looking thirty year olds. And I'm like, well you.

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Speaker 6: But aside from that, no, nobody dms me. You know,

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Speaker 6: I'm still waiting for Daryl Hall or Lenny Kravits.

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Speaker 5: So you're not on any Dady naps jump.

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Speaker 2: I know, my friend, you're both beautiful with you're both

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but.

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Speaker 6: I said, you need to know how important it is

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Speaker 6: Yes, but I needed I needed to have him know

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Speaker 4: Think, right, It was something to die in something.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: If I'd fallen in love with Gary, I have two

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Speaker 6: Oh, I would have spent I would have shared time.

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Speaker 6: I would have spent six months whatever, you know, I

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00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 6: would have done that. I just needed him to know.

443
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,480
Speaker 6: And I felt compelled at the time to tell him,

444
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 6: I'm not going to be the play pickleball with you

445
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,920
Speaker 6: every weekend, and I'm going to be riding my horse

446
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,919
Speaker 6: and singing in my band and that will like all

447
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 6: those Yeah, And I didn't want to just pick up

448
00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 6: and leave and live in Indiana or the rest of

449
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:11,760
Speaker 6: my life. That's what I was trying to tell him,

450
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 6: so that we would have to share.

451
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,120
Speaker 5: I don't think anyone so I'm not serious.

452
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 2: I don't think there's one of us who would have

453
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 2: picked up our lives and moved to anywhere. I'm being serious,

454
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 2: to any state and not and not have time with

455
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,360
Speaker 2: our families and our friends. There's I just don't think

456
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 2: that would happen. Yeah, I have a question, since you

457
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 2: clearly have great advice, what advice would you give the

458
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 2: guys that are about to date Joan.

459
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 6: You know, the advice, honestly that I would give them

460
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 6: is that you've got one chance to be as transparent

461
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:56,360
Speaker 6: as possible. Tell them the bad things about you, tell

462
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 6: them the things that you think could be barriers, like.

463
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Speaker 4: Really, this is it?

464
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Speaker 6: I mean, get it all out there, find out if

465
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 6: you're yeah, like there is I'm just unapologetically myself. I

466
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 6: really don't know how to be any different, nor do

467
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 6: I want to be. I just think it's important to

468
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 6: be completely transparent so that you know, they get to

469
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 6: know the real you.

470
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,640
Speaker 2: But let's be honest, guys, it's not like it's not

471
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Speaker 2: like a typical dating experience where you have hours you know,

472
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: it's like, okay, here's your ten minutes go.

473
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Speaker 5: I mean you don't.

474
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Speaker 2: So it's I think to be to be your authentic

475
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 2: anyone's authentic transparent self.

476
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Speaker 5: Uh, you know, it would be would be hard. It

477
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 5: would be hard, I think.

478
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Speaker 6: Okay, but let me just really quickly address that, because

479
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Speaker 6: I do think that even though there is a little

480
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 6: bit of a time you're kind of it's not like

481
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 6: you're casually dating some guy for a year. You're getting

482
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 6: into the nitty gritty. I mean, you're really honing in,

483
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 6: so you've already jumped past all these little superficial things

484
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 6: if you play your cards right. But if you're not

485
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 6: yourself and you're not really transparent, you're not really searching,

486
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 6: and you're just worried about how you look on TV.

487
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 6: You're going to waste all that time.

488
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 4: You know.

489
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 6: It's like if your one chance to be yourself, be

490
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 6: it or you will regret it. I think, Okay, what

491
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 6: was your question, Susan?

492
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Speaker 1: So if they decide to have a golden paradise, would

493
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 1: you be in?

494
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know.

495
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 6: It depends on where it is because I hate the heat.

496
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 6: I had heat exhaustion. I love these warm but if

497
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 6: it's super hot, I don't think I can handle because

498
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 6: I'm really aphady.

499
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 2: She will not be moving to Florida with Auntasha.

500
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 6: If it's Yeah, but I mean I think I don't know.

501
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 6: You know, something's got to have purpose and meaning for me.

502
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 6: So unless there's a really good chance that maybe I'm

503
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 6: going to find the man of my dreams, I really

504
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 6: I've got this full life.

505
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 3: Well isn't that what the show is about?

506
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 6: Me? Well?

507
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but again, Susan, stop trying to talk her into it.

508
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: If she doesn't go, it's one more for you and me.

509
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,360
Speaker 2: Stop already.

510
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: Don't you wish we could go on Jone's season to

511
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,360
Speaker 1: check out the men that might be on that show.

512
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: I've had business cards printed I'm going to drop them

513
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 2: all over. If I get to go, there's going to

514
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 2: be they're gonna be in the kitchen where you know,

515
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 2: on the golf course, wherever, wherever, in the bathroom because

516
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: that's where the guys will be. I'm going to serious,

517
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 2: I got it all planned time.

518
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 6: Well, what they should do is they should take all

519
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 6: the rejections, you know, from both seasons, and let us.

520
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 4: At least share the phone numbers for Heaven's sake or like.

521
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 5: Called Golden Paradise. Well is it?

522
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 6: But I mean, even without having it being on TV,

523
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 6: can't we just all like have a little dating network, Like.

524
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 3: Remember Kathy, we said, give us the list of the applicants.

525
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 5: Let us see what the waiting we're still waiting.

526
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 4: At. I don't know, I don't know. I think about it.

527
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: What's the best piece of dating advice you ever received?

528
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: Think about it for a minute, the best advice you've

529
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 1: ever received, now that you're well, I.

530
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 6: Don't know that it's anything that I received, but I

531
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 6: would How about what I wish I would have known

532
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 6: a long time ago.

533
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 3: What nobody told you, Nobody gave me the abs.

534
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 6: No, just just something that I realized that when you're

535
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 6: looking for a relationship instead of looking for what can

536
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 6: this person be to me? How much am I in

537
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 6: love with them? I think creating an environment where you

538
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 6: think so highly and have so much respect, admiration, genuine

539
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 6: care and love for this person that you want to

540
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 6: support them in their life journey. Like, I just think

541
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 6: that in relationships in general, people start going, well, this

542
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,959
Speaker 6: person has this and she'll do this, and he'll do this,

543
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 6: or you know, we've got that spark, that chemistry. But

544
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 6: but when you're really willing to because what is this

545
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 6: union really about? It's really about supporting that other person

546
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 6: in their life journey and helping them to be happy

547
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 6: and grow and develop and be all they.

548
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 4: Can be and to be that.

549
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 6: Well and just wondering if they can really be do

550
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 6: that for you as well. So it's really like a

551
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 6: partnership where you're trying to help each other through life,

552
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 6: and it's more about that than just the you know,

553
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 6: whisked me off my feet and you.

554
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 5: Know, right, yeah, I think that's that's called that's called.

555
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: Well, it's just that's we're at a certain age where

556
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 2: we know the value are important.

557
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, instead of in my past, I always went for

558
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 6: the chemistry. And that's because and and you know, well

559
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:54,439
Speaker 6: we know what it's because. But I mean in that

560
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,199
Speaker 6: for that reason, I always had, you know, very chemistry

561
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 6: oriented type relationships, right, very little of anything else, you know, no,

562
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 6: no real good substance except for my husband.

563
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 4: I would say that was more okay?

564
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 3: As our friend.

565
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: Do you have any specific dating advice for us?

566
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 6: Oh, my goodness, I heard you're dating too, by the way, Susan. Okay, well,

567
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 6: any dating advice for you?

568
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, have.

569
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 6: The utmost enough respect for yourself that you're willing to

570
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 6: walk away from anyone.

571
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 4: That doesn't give you the respect that you deserve.

572
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 2: That's I think that's fabulous advice for both of us.

573
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: But it's getting too serious here, Faith, Do you want

574
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: to play a game?

575
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 4: All right?

576
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 5: It's a game.

577
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 2: You're gonna love it. It's a relationship. Would you rather game? Okay,

578
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 2: so I'm gonna you're never.

579
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 5: Going to do fine? Faith, I was a teacher. Everyone

580
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 5: gets an a.

581
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 4: No eating ice cream? No eating ice cream?

582
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: No, no, no, none of the never, none of that,

583
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: none of that, all right? Would you rather tell your

584
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 2: partner what you want and get the gift you want

585
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 2: or have them surprise you with something of their choosing.

586
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 5: What would you rather?

587
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 3: That's the hard one.

588
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: If it were my husband and I would definitely tell

589
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 1: them what I want.

590
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 3: But if it was.

591
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 6: Let's say, yeah, it kind of depends on how clued

592
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 6: in the guy is or if it's just you know,

593
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 6: absolutely doesn't know.

594
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I do.

595
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 6: I like surprises, so and I think when you get

596
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 6: a surprise, it kind of tells a little bit about

597
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 6: how they perceive you.

598
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 4: So it's interesting to find that part out.

599
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 3: Very good point.

600
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 6: I love.

601
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: Okay, your date, be late, but look great, or on

602
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: time and look dishoveled and.

603
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 4: Exhausted if the other person, if that date was your date,

604
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 4: if my guy, okay, yeah.

605
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 6: Just shoveled it. Whatever is fine, be on time. Don't

606
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 6: make me wait on you. I don't know anybody wait on.

607
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 5: Yeah.

608
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: Well again, these are all levels of lateness. If the

609
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 2: guy's an hour late because he had to wash and

610
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 2: fluff his hair and starts his shirt.

611
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 5: No thank you.

612
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: But you know, if he's if he's ten minutes late

613
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: because he was out playing golf and he ran late

614
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 2: and getting home getting in the shower, I mean.

615
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: You gotta be a little It depends on the circumstance exactly.

616
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, all right.

617
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: How about this one, faith, would you rather be able

618
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 2: to read your date's mind or have your date be

619
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: able to read your mind?

620
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 4: I think I'd rather be able to read there.

621
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 5: Read my mind either way.

622
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 4: Well, you know, the funny thing is I am so readable.

623
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 4: I cannot lie. I mean, stuff has written so well

624
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 4: on my face.

625
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 6: I you know, I'll be in a situation somebody will

626
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 6: immediately look at me and go, what what were you?

627
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 4: What just crossed your face? You know, I can't hide anything.

628
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 4: I don't, I can't, so yeah, I have like a neon.

629
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 4: So yeah, me too.

630
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 3: Well, I think I have to close my eyes because

631
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 3: my eyes.

632
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 2: I want to be able to read my date's mind

633
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: because I want to know what's going on besides, you know,

634
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,719
Speaker 2: air between the ears. I want to know what they're thinking,

635
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: and I want to be able to have my thoughts

636
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: like my thoughts.

637
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, it feels so good to be understood. So it'd

638
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 6: be nice to see that they understood us, you know,

639
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 6: and to read their mind.

640
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 3: Okay, how about this one?

641
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: Be with someone who likes going out more or someone

642
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: who likes staying in more.

643
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 6: Staying in I spent too much of my life in public.

644
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 6: I just really am not going out person.

645
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: What about you, Susan, I'd have to say a little

646
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: bit of both, you know me, I like to go out,

647
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: but I like staying home.

648
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I like to go out a lot.

649
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: I love music, life, music and going to great restaurants,

650
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: are going for a great hike. But why can't you

651
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: do both on the same date?

652
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

653
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think if I if I wasn't out so

654
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 6: much doing music and playing. You know, it's like when

655
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 6: I get a weekend, there time to stay home.

656
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 4: I really want to stay home, and I don't get

657
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 4: to do it a lot.

658
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: But all right, so you're going to close you up

659
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 2: on the couch. All right, here's the next one for you.

660
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 2: Do you want to celebrate lots of little relationship milestones

661
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,880
Speaker 2: or one anniversary a year?

662
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 4: Lots of little one, lots of little ones.

663
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 2: Wait, we didn't say present, Susan, for every little anniversary.

664
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 6: Tell me why you still like each other. It's like,

665
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Speaker 6: I know, for me, it's like I used to love.

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Speaker 4: When I was in love. I didn't have to be

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00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 4: doing anything.

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00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 6: I was just excited to get home from work and

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00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 6: sit out on the patio and dinner together and have.

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Speaker 4: A glass of wine and that. Yeah, it's just fun

671
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 4: like that.

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Speaker 6: I get excited to spend time with the person and

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Speaker 6: I love. It's just like we didn't have to be anywhere,

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00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 6: we could be doing nothing, and that's the feeling that

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Speaker 6: I miss, is like just that companion that it's like

676
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 6: just jump in the car and go get a coffee.

677
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 6: Let's you know, let's take just being together with somebody.

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00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 6: Love is such a magical feeling, right.

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00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: So you're so so that you're saying, if I'm hearing

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00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 2: you correctly, just celebrating uh day to day life as

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00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: opposed to the contractual it's our first anniversary.

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Speaker 5: Do you want to sign up for.

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00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 4: A second yearn't? I don't do those things.

684
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: How would you like to date someone who's older than

685
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: you or date someone who's younger?

686
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 4: Done both?

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00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 6: And I usually tend to go with older, but not

688
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 6: too older nowadays, maybe just a few years younger. But

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00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 6: you know, I've done my My old boyfriend was eight

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00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 6: years younger than me, and he looked older. But you know,

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00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 6: I think at this age I would I might feel

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00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 6: pretty insecure. I don't think I could date a younger

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00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 6: guy and know that they could have someone who's faith.

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Speaker 2: You're absolutely gorgeous. You could date a younger guy and

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00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 2: you just fine. Girlfriend, I don't know what do you

696
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 2: what would you? Would you date a guy younger?

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Speaker 3: It depends on the guy. It didn't matter to.

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00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 4: Me, and it depends on how young. That's Trueue, that's true.

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00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 2: I would love to date a guy, you know, who

700
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 2: is four or five years younger than I, just because

701
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: of my energy level and the things I like to do.

702
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: But you know what, girls, I like a man similar

703
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: to my age because we come from the same error.

704
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: We have histories that similar family things.

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00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 5: And what do you think five years is a generation?

706
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 4: For God's years? Five years?

707
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 5: It is easy.

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00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 4: Five years is doing.

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00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 5: I mean we're not talking black and white TV to

710
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 5: color here. We'll just I had.

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00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 4: Five years? Is doable? Five years? All right?

712
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 5: Last last one for you? Your date?

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00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: Do you want your date be someone who only texts

714
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 2: or who only calls?

715
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 4: Oh, we have to choose one or the other.

716
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 6: I would say, if I am I am I in

717
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 6: love with them, then they call, then call.

718
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 4: But if I'm not so sure, then text.

719
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 5: Interesting.

720
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's funny.

721
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 3: I'm in the middle of the road. I need both.

722
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 5: Well, you know, Susan, you know what's going to happen.

723
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: She's going to be texting and calling while you and

724
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: I are in paradise looking for love.

725
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 5: That's what's happening.

726
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 2: You're coming, Faith, you guys, this this podcast. We are

727
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 2: generation where we are. It's all about positivity. Do not

728
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 2: say those things. Faith, You are lovely, you are wonderful.

729
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 2: There you have a great life. This is our best chapter, baby,

730
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: It's our last and best and longest after.

731
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 6: Actually, actually i'll be I'll be sixty two in August.

732
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: Whoa, Oh my gosh, stop the press.

733
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 3: Okay, we don't feel for you a way.

734
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 6: Yes, by the way, you both look absolutely tremendous. You

735
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 6: look reallyous. So is to ask a few questions, sure, luke,

736
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 6: y'all have been so busy. How are you asking it?

737
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,839
Speaker 6: Because it's always that thing where you know, the more

738
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 6: energy you expend, the more you get, and if you

739
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 6: have a little free time, you start to get kind

740
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 6: of lazy, right, I think?

741
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 4: So you guys have been going gangbusters? How you holding up?

742
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 3: It's it's a lot, but I'm loving it, many of them.

743
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 6: It.

744
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like this all my life though.

745
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have a lot of energy. I'm loving it.

746
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:23,959
Speaker 4: Yeah.

747
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 6: And and because this is new to you, doing a

748
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 6: podcast something that I've kind of done that on my

749
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 6: whole life thing.

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Speaker 4: Have you loved it?

751
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 6: I mean, because you guys are at the new the

752
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 6: newness part of it where it's so fun and yeah,

753
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 6: that's awesome.

754
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 3: I mean talking to people, no brainer.

755
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:42,280
Speaker 5: Listen.

756
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: I would consider moving to the Tri City area if

757
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,880
Speaker 2: you could get me a live news anchor, gig.

758
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 5: It's never too late.

759
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 2: I want a microphone in my hand again, Jesse Palmer,

760
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 2: move over.

761
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 4: Oh that's hilarious. It's a it's funny that you know,

762
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 4: you guys because I remember the early years of radio.

763
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. Well, we would just have so much fun.

764
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,720
Speaker 4: It was a blast, you know. So Yeah, I'm glad.

765
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 4: I'm glad you guys are experiencing the good parts of life.

766
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 4: Thank you, so happy for you both.

767
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: Life is a mix of ups and down and I

768
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 2: can't that's fun.

769
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 3: I can't thank you enough for coming on here today

770
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 3: and share with really. I love you, we love we

771
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 3: see you in paradise.

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00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: Hint hint, Bachelor World, We're going to have a paradise.

773
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I'm sure going to miss her

774
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 2: that she's not going to be there. I'm taking her

775
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 2: her first word.

776
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 4: But I'll bring it home.

777
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 5: I'll bring home a little trinket. Faith, I'll bring home

778
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 5: a little trinket.

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00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 3: We'll get you a couple of phone numbers.

780
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 4: And yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

781
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 3: But again, thank you for joining us.

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00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: And that does it for today's episode of Bachelor Happy

783
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour, and thanks again.

784
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 3: We just love that with you.

785
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: We can't wait than Faith, We can't wait to have

786
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: you back soon. And thank the rest of you all

787
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 2: for joining us. And be sure to follow Bachelor Happy

788
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:06,400
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Speaker 2: and you don't want to miss even one.

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00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,920
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792
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:18,080
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793
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,880
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00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,200
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795
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:30,160
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Speaker 5: Hope you're all having a great week. See you next time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah,