1 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks so 2 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: much for joining us today. As always, I am so 3 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: excited to be with you today, Susan, how are you doing? 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: I feel the same because we love doing this. 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 3: Hey, make sure you've checked out all our latest episodes 6 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 3: because we have had some great guests, some great questions, 7 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 3: and we love hearing from you. 8 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: Do not do not pesco without answering asking us questions. 9 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: We love hearing from you. Today. We have I always say, 10 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: a very special guest, but she really is. She really 11 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 1: is a special guest. Please welcome from Grant season, Sarah Fina. 12 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: Sarah Fina, Welcome to Golden Hour. We're so happy to 13 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: have you. How are you today? 14 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 4: Thanks, guys, I'm so excited to be here. I've been 15 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 4: reading all day. I'm glad fans, I'm so excited. 16 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: Oh only you were a man and over sixty, we'd 17 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: be so excited. 18 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Honestly, say, she's as beautiful as she was. 19 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, thank you. Okay, Seraphina, A few questions. 20 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: First of all, Susance, right, you are absolutely stunningly beautiful. 21 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: And I got to say this, I think Grant has 22 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: had the most gorgeous women, and you're one of them 23 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: on his season. The poor guy must have just tortured him. 24 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 1: But you are lovely. 25 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 4: Thank you so much. Now I have to agree this 26 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 4: group of women, I mean every season, but this group 27 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 4: of women just like not only beautiful, but like so 28 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,839 Speaker 4: accomplished great jobs, like just like ten out of ten's 29 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 4: across the board, like such great women. 30 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so I have a question before we get started. 31 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: You live in New York City, you said the East Village. 32 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: Where are you from originally? 33 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 4: So, I was actually born in New York and then 34 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 4: my family moved to Connecticut when I was about to 35 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 4: tea and I went to college in New York and 36 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 4: then I moved to New York City maybe two three 37 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 4: years after college. So like, I'm very East Coast, very 38 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 4: in the accent. 39 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: Well, I'm actually from the same hometown as Juliana or 40 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: the exact same hometown. Did you go to Syracuse? 41 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 4: I did go to Syracuse. 42 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: I do my homework, and yeah, well I grew up 43 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 1: in Boston. And I just want to know, are you 44 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: a lacrosse fan because Syracuse has some great Okay. 45 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 4: No, but I'm a fan of their work. 46 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 2: And I thought about the pizza in New York. 47 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 4: No, no, no, okay. So one thing, and I said 48 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 4: this on my cri the pizza in New York is 49 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 4: not good. I don't think it's the best. The pizza 50 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:52,559 Speaker 4: is when the pizza in Newlanen in Connecticut is amazing, 51 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 4: like the best pizza. 52 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: They are pretty good pizza in Massachusetts too. 53 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 3: Trust is what I want to know in New York 54 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: or in Connecticut where you're saying it's good. 55 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: So there's many variations. There's like a thin cross. There's 56 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 4: also what I'm a really big pizza connoisseur, there's wood 57 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 4: oven pizza. Then there's like really thin slices. Also, if 58 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 4: you're ever in Stanford, Connecticut, there's a place called Quality 59 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 4: Grill and it's very very thin pizza. It's amazing. And 60 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 4: get the hot oil thinated. It's so greasy, like it's 61 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 4: dripping down your hands, Like if it's not dripping on 62 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 4: your hands, like it's not good pizza. 63 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, one other question before we get started. 64 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: I think your name is this beautiful. This is just 65 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 1: the preamble, Seraphina. We're gonna we're gonna get into it. 66 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: But where does your name come from? Because it's a 67 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: beautiful name so much. Tell me, like, where did that 68 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: come from? Parents? Is it a family name? 69 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 4: No, it's from a movie. It's a movie called Serafina. 70 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 4: It's also Italian, it's Greek, so it has like very 71 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 4: far roots. But yeah, it's like based off of a 72 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 4: movie that my dad saw, and then he picked my 73 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 4: name my sister's name from the same movie. 74 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: I guess, what's your sister's name. 75 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 4: My sister's name is Benta. 76 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, gorgeous. 77 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 4: So we all have like very we Yeah, school was hard, 78 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 4: middle hard. 79 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure they were like s A R A 80 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: F I N A No. 81 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it felt very different some of the when 82 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 3: you had to ask the answer the twenty questions I 83 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 3: was reviewing, and it's like, oh my gosh, we mentioned 84 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 3: so many ways. 85 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 2: The Devil Wears problem how many? Yes? 86 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: I love that movie. 87 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 4: Yeah so good. 88 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can relate to you. 89 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 2: And of course Mike Gas. 90 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 4: Oh yes, I can quote I can quote the Devil 91 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 4: product like Front to. 92 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: Die, all right, that was going to dig in. 93 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 4: I'm excited, Yeah, excited, I'm ready. 94 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: Okay, what was your dating life like prior to the show. 95 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 4: Non existent? I didn't. 96 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm telling you Susan. She and I are related. 97 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,679 Speaker 4: We are we are one in the same, non existent. 98 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 4: I hadn't had a boyfriend for six years. 99 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: Get out. 100 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 4: Yeah he dumped me? 101 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: Uhh, yeah, he's what's his name? What's his name? 102 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 4: I won't say his name. 103 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: I'm want to make his name up, John, You are 104 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: not doing him. 105 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 3: What do you think your experience on that show taught 106 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 3: you about you? 107 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:37,239 Speaker 1: Oh? 108 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 4: I say this all the time, but I feel like 109 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 4: my ability to be a lot more vulnerable. I feel like, 110 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 4: because I hadn't been in a relationship for so long, 111 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 4: I was so afraid to open up to people and 112 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 4: so afraid to, like, you know, take a chance. And 113 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 4: I think this is the biggest lead to faith. I mean, 114 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 4: you guys know, it's like you like someone, but he 115 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 4: likes twenty four other women. And I was so much 116 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 4: of myself and I shared things that I think a 117 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 4: lot of my friends at home didn't even know about me. 118 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 4: And I'm just so much more open now and so confident. 119 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 4: And then I felt so I feel like I felt 120 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 4: so confident going on to the show, and then after 121 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 4: I just like I gained such a new level of 122 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 4: confidence that I don't even think was possible. 123 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: Can I just say I really feel like I felt 124 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: that about you, and I think America felt that about you. 125 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: You seemed just you know, it's hard to be as 126 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: you know, it's hard to be yourself and let loose 127 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: and and be your authentic self. But I think you 128 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: really did a good job of it. 129 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, I mean so much. 130 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: So what was the most memorable moment for you? 131 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 2: Oh? 132 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 4: I feel like jumping off the bridge? 133 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 2: That was okay? 134 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: Was that bungee jumping? Right? 135 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 4: I guess, okay, so. 136 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 2: What it was? But that was scary. 137 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I had people reach out to me and 138 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 4: say that's not jumping, Like so, I don't know, but 139 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 4: I jumped off of I mean, she pushed. 140 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: I love it when you said I literally jumped off 141 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: a bridge for a guy. I love that. But I 142 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: have a question, did you when you jumped off? Like 143 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: was your next This is like totally off the subject, 144 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: but like was your next stable? Like I would be 145 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: so afraid that it didn't. 146 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 4: I don't even remember, I really don't. I just like, 147 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 4: so we were harnessed together like so I had to 148 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 4: hold on to him and then she pushed us off. 149 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 4: So like people are all like, like, did your heads 150 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 4: bump together? I was like, I don't think so. We 151 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 4: were in helmets too. 152 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: So I think it was fine. 153 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 4: I mean you were in I was so in love. 154 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: So were you in love at that point? Wait? Were 155 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: you in love at that point? 156 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 4: I think it was like there was a lot of adrenaline. 157 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 4: I think, like I say it like jokingly, but yes, 158 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 4: I think there was a lot of adrenaline. I think 159 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 4: I really started to have strong feelings for him at 160 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 4: this point, and I was just like, you know what, 161 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: like this is something that I don't think I will 162 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 4: ever do with someone again, or you know in this situation. 163 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: You mean you don't wake up saying you know what, 164 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: I think I'll jump off a bridge. 165 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, with a guy that's like dating exactly. 166 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 167 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 168 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 2: Let me ask you. 169 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 3: Were you surprised when you didn't get that rose that night? 170 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: Was it shocking or did you have a feeling? 171 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 4: No? I was absolutely shocked, so was I. Yeah. I 172 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 4: think things were going and what I felt were such 173 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 4: like a positive direction. And I had received so much 174 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 4: like affirmation from him leading up to the weeks and 175 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 4: then also just like leading up to going into hometown. 176 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 4: So I maybe you know, people are in my DM 177 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,679 Speaker 4: saying you should have known whatever, but in my heart 178 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 4: and I knew what I heard, And I mean, it 179 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 4: is it happened. Everything happens for a reason, but. 180 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 2: And you believed it. 181 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 3: But let's just touch base for one little mina on 182 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 3: the dms. Don't feel like you're the only one. Yeah, 183 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 3: I mean it's ugly. There's a lot of ugly people 184 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 3: out there, and it's just sad. 185 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 4: Yeah it is. And like that is also something I 186 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 4: learned from the show in terms of confidence. I've also 187 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 4: become just so much stronger because people will tell you 188 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 4: lesson right, so many things about yourself and like who 189 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 4: you are based off of fifteen minutes of like a month, 190 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 4: and it's like, Okay, I'm so sorry that you caught 191 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,040 Speaker 4: me at my worst moment after I'm like tired and 192 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 4: hungry and stress. And imagine being in a situation where 193 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 4: you really like someone and he's getting other people, like, 194 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 4: please tell me that you would you would have moments 195 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 4: where you're a little bit cranky, Like really. 196 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: Susan and I say all the time, Seraphina, we knew 197 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: pretty early on that Gary wasn't our guy there were buddy. 198 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: You know, we were friends. 199 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying we were in the friend zone really quickly. 200 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: So it allowed us to really be ourselves, have fun 201 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 1: with each other. You know, you weren't in that situation, 202 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: but when you were standing there, so I kind of 203 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: knew I was going home, like, yeah, I'd run. 204 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 2: Kay. Me and Nancy we thought we were all right. 205 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 1: So when you went, when you were standing there at 206 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: the roast ceremony, literally, what was going through your mind? 207 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: Were you like, I've got this on what was going 208 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: through your head? 209 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 4: Okay, So we were in a castle in Scotland and 210 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 4: we so for many people who don't know, it's like 211 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 4: when you have rose ceremonies, like you kind of stay 212 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 4: there for a little bit. You stand there. 213 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's long. 214 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 4: And it's like it's so cold because it was night 215 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 4: and I think it was like it was like maybe 216 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 4: like thirty degrees. You know, I have no sleeves. So 217 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 4: I'm just like, oh, like I can't wait to get 218 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 4: my rose. I can just go back to bed. I 219 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 4: was like, oh, I had laundry. I was like, I'm 220 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 4: going to do my laundry in the morning. I also 221 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 4: like I didn't do my nail so I usually have 222 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 4: my nails sent for every row ceremony. I didn't have 223 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 4: nails on. I was like, I'll just do it like 224 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 4: right before I go to my hometowl and like whatever 225 00:10:56,600 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 4: I was so is breaking. I'm so in. 226 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 3: Mind when you didn't get it, like were you? Oh God, 227 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 3: I gotta walk up there, I gotta say goodbye. 228 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 4: And I was just like, so, it's a feeling where 229 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 4: you can't explain. I felt like my bubble popped. I 230 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 4: was like, oh, okay, I'm going home, but like not 231 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 4: in the way that I thought I was. So, yeah, 232 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 4: that was really hard. It's an it's a surreal moment, 233 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 4: Like I had no idea, no idea at all. 234 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: How have things been for you since the show? 235 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 4: So good? Like I just came off for a trip 236 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 4: with a few of the girls, Priess and I. It 237 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 4: was her birthday a week ago. We went to Miami. 238 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: Who else was there? 239 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 4: Was there Miami? It was me, Prisa Kelsey and then 240 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 4: Ali Joe. I know you guys met with Ali Joe 241 00:11:55,360 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 4: also and love then love love, love love, And then 242 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 4: I feel like Ali Joe's such your vibe, Like I'm 243 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 4: sure you have the best time. 244 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, were the. 245 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,840 Speaker 4: Click and then we so in the same breath. We 246 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 4: went to La for Afar, and then Priest and I 247 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 4: then went to Chicago to see Dina, and then Latia 248 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 4: was also there, so like a really big girl's beak. 249 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: So wait, I love this because Susan and I, Susan, 250 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 1: Nancy and I are really good friends, and Joan and 251 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: Less like there's a group of us that we really love. 252 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: But it sounds like your group is even bigger. Who 253 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 1: are your more girls? 254 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 4: So I would say, uh, Letia, Dina, Prisa, I love Bailey, 255 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 4: I love Zoe, I've grown to love Ali Joe. We 256 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 4: just like kind of connected more in La and then 257 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 4: then Miami, Like just like so I feel like I 258 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 4: can go down the list. I feel like with every 259 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 4: single girl I can like there's something that I would say, 260 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 4: like the people that I talk to mainly every day 261 00:12:57,679 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 4: or like those girls. 262 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: Oh it's don't you love the friendships? Like did you 263 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: ever expect that? 264 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 4: No? I did not expect to click with so many girls. Oh. 265 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 4: Also Alicia, I loved her since day one. She was 266 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 4: like also a girl that like I connected with day one. 267 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 4: I just I love that thank a lot. 268 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,960 Speaker 3: Of courage when you're accept it, Okay, I'm going on 269 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 3: the show. I know nobody yeah yeah with the outside 270 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:27,479 Speaker 3: world and in your mind that first night is like whoa. 271 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, and then those girls like just become your family. 272 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 4: It was like, I'm sure you guys know. It's like 273 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 4: when you're in the house, you're like, where's Alicia? I 274 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 4: need to see. Like it's just like you get breakfast, yeat, 275 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 4: and you wake up together, you go to sleep together, 276 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 4: like the group dates are honestly like oh yeah, grand stare. 277 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 4: I know that that's bad, but it's like, oh yeah, great, 278 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 4: come on. 279 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 3: You have any regrets, anything, what you've done that you 280 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 3: would have changed from the show, anything that you wish 281 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 3: you could take back. 282 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 4: Nothing like even. 283 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: I swear to god, it's the Northeast thing. We are 284 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: who we are. We don't regret who we are. We 285 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: don't explain who we are. You just see what you 286 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: see is what you get right exactly. 287 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 4: And I think that's the main thing. It's like I 288 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 4: said this the other day, it was like I feel 289 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 4: like people don't get East Coast humor like banter. 290 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:15,200 Speaker 1: I live in Austin, Texas, where everybody is so southern 291 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 1: and hell did she come from? So trust me? I 292 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: need to move back to the Northeast. Okay, wait, I 293 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: am a really important. 294 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 2: Damn Yankees, damn ye. 295 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: Okay, would you go on that shore in Paradise? 296 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 4: I would? I am not like I don't have a boyfriend, 297 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 4: but I would go for one person? 298 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: Yes, who still still Tea. 299 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 4: I can't tell you, guys. I feel like I want 300 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 4: to keep it a secret for now. I'll tell you guys, like. 301 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: Okay, yes, listen, if we get to go, we don't 302 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: know we can make it happen. 303 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 4: We need to like all link up together. 304 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: I can so each other. 305 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 3: We haven't been invited yet, so if it is the case, 306 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 3: you need to tell us, we'll make sure he's there. 307 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 4: Okay, perfect? Perfect? 308 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: Oh no, Susan, you and I, you and I can 309 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: make this happen. We're gonna make it happen for you, 310 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: Sarah Fava, you deserve it. 311 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 4: No, I want a redemption. I want to find my love. 312 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 4: I want this to be a good excuse. 313 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, can I just say I'm older than you, 314 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: so get in line behind me. I want the same thing. 315 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 4: We'll help each other. We'll help each other. 316 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 2: Date since the show. 317 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been on dates. Yeah, I've been. 318 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: Did you get a lot of dms? 319 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 4: No? I did not get a lot of dms. I 320 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 4: get damn from like college girls like love you guys 321 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 4: like where are like the athletes? Where? Like where are 322 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 4: the business Like I want those yems. 323 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: You know, New York is a hard place to meet men. 324 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: You know that. My daughter used to work in New 325 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: York and she left because she said, and you know, 326 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: she's happily married now, but she said it was really 327 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: hard to get men that were serious about dating in 328 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: New York. 329 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. There was an article that was like New York 330 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 4: is the toughest place to date in the country. Yeah, 331 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 4: number one, worst place. 332 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: Well you can add you can add fan Francisco Virginia. 333 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 2: Regarding the show again, what. 334 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 3: Is your take in a word or a sentence or 335 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 3: two of the finale? 336 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was just going to ask for that. No, 337 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 1: that's exactly what I tell us. 338 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 4: Jaw dropping is what I will say about the finale. 339 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 4: I Meandia is like Latire's my girl, Like everyone will 340 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 4: know that. But I also love Juliana. I think it's like, yeah, 341 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 4: I think it's twofold. It's like what the internet is like. 342 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 4: And this goes back to social media. It's like we 343 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 4: need to like lift we can lift someone up without 344 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 4: knocking someone down. 345 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: Wait say that again. Say that again for everyone to hear. 346 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 4: We can lift someone up without knocking someone down. We 347 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 4: can always root for Letia. 348 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's for that clapping for that. 349 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 4: It doesn't mean that we you know, like down. I'm 350 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 4: kind of make it appropriate, but like, you know, go 351 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 4: down on a relationship that is Juliana and Grant. You 352 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, we can still be 353 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 4: I am like Lysia's number one fan. I'm such a 354 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 4: big supporter of her, but I will never say anything 355 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 4: bad about Juliana and her relationship. 356 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 2: She's adorable. 357 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:28,160 Speaker 3: But for me watching the show and following, we thought 358 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 3: it was like. 359 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean obviously, yeah. 360 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 3: Julianna is always a front runner in my eyes because 361 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:37,439 Speaker 3: I loved her, But I really thought and I was 362 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: a little bit shocked. 363 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 2: I guess. 364 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 4: I think a lot of people were shocked, and like 365 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 4: I'm trying to you know, but I think a lot 366 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 4: of people were shocked. 367 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know what I have to say, And 368 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 1: I've said a million times in compatriinations. Sick of hearing 369 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: it like I was always for Juliana just because we're 370 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: from the same hometown in Massachusetts. Haven't said that. We 371 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: all know that the way you get an edit and 372 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: what goes on behind the scenes, right as viewers, we 373 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: only see what they want us to see. And so 374 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: you and I and Susan, we all know there's lots 375 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:15,919 Speaker 1: of conversations off camera. There's lots of things that happen, right, Yeah, 376 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: And I really feel like I should be so lucky 377 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 1: to have two men in love with me at the 378 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: same time. 379 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 4: But honestly, I'll. 380 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 1: Take one, but I think it's You're absolutely right, they're 381 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: both lovely girls. But you're all lovely girls. You are women, 382 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: not girls. You're women, and you all deserve love. 383 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: And it is part of the shoe. 384 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 4: You will find it, Yeah, we will find it. And 385 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 4: then one thing I want is sand Latia piece for 386 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 4: just like anyone that's saying anything about her about the 387 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 4: way that she handled things. First of all, she handled 388 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 4: things perfectly. She shood up for herself, and then she 389 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 4: also spoke her mind, as hurt as she was and 390 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 4: as blindsided just she was in that moment. I've never 391 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 4: seen someone articulate themselves and their feelings so beautifully. 392 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: And gracefully and gracefully. 393 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 4: And I would love to see it if like you 394 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 4: felt validated the entire time, and you felt so confident 395 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 4: going into an engagement, I would love to see how 396 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 4: you handle that situation. Anything say anything about her online? 397 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 4: Please put yourself in your hurt right, Oh. 398 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:20,800 Speaker 3: God, I'm snapping against about me in a bikini. 399 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: Put them in that heat. 400 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sapina, Let me just say I have to. I've 401 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: said this, you know, we've interviewed some of the women 402 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: from from Grant season. I don't know if it's just 403 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: that I'm getting old and sappy or what the hell 404 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 1: is going on here, but I am and I'm being 405 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: honest because people who know me know I'm Northeastern. What 406 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: I think I am blown away and by your maturity, 407 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: your gracefulness, your understanding, your empathy of what other women 408 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: have gone through, it is it just is so heartwarming 409 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 1: to see women who have grown up in a very 410 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: different time than Susan and I grew up just having 411 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 1: this amazing ability to understand. 412 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 2: Not only that, the way you handle the hard parts. 413 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 3: Thank you both to the person and you let her 414 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 3: know what was happening in your world. 415 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. This is nice see but 416 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 2: you did it, very nice, very. 417 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, guys. That means so much. Yeah. 418 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,360 Speaker 4: I think like it's so important to understand that we, 419 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 4: at the end of the day, are not characters on 420 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 4: a television show. We are real human beings and like 421 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 4: we're going through emotions and we're putting ourselves out there 422 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 4: for your entertainment. So it's like, have grace. 423 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: But that's the thing, that's the thing for me, Saraphena 424 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:48,440 Speaker 1: who said it. On the one hand, we are there 425 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: for entertainment and on the other hand, we are real 426 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 1: people with real emotions, and both can be true at 427 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: the same time. 428 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 4: Exactly, yeah, exactly. 429 00:20:56,359 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 1: So I have a funny question now because because I 430 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: just Okay, so people compare you a lot to charity 431 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: and think you I want to hear what's the dal 432 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 1: what tell me about that? 433 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 4: And we love and I love her. So we took 434 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,959 Speaker 4: a video we like we. Katie Bigger also took an 435 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 4: Instagram story and so many dms of everyone being like, 436 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 4: you guys look like twins. And I've I've heard it 437 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 4: like before I went on the show during the show, 438 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 4: like it's a complied it is. 439 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,160 Speaker 1: Well, it's a compliment to both of you. Wait, it's 440 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 1: a compliment to both of you because you're both equally beautiful. 441 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 1: How tall are you, Sarafina, I'm so you're okay. So 442 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 1: Charity is a lot shorter, I know, and and Charity 443 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: and I did, uh we am ceed Teresa and Gary's 444 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 1: wedding along with Jesse Palmer and they oh no, when 445 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: they were iconic in that when they said you're going 446 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 1: to do it with Charity, I said, and I didn't 447 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: know Charity very well at the time, and I went, 448 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 1: you mean that tiny, gorgeous thing, you're gonna make me 449 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: stand next door pocket? Yeah exactly. I mean like I'm 450 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 1: almost five eight and she's like, you know, four six. 451 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 3: I mean, do you remember going to Dancing with the 452 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 3: Stars when she was performing and we got the huger. 453 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 2: I said, oh my god, I feel like I'm going 454 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: to break her. 455 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 4: I was like, I didn't realize how tiny she was. 456 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:22,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, just I mean, it's a compliment. Let me 457 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: just say to both of you, because you're you're both 458 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: absolutely stunningly beautiful women. 459 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 4: Much I love you, guy, this is so fun. 460 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 3: We have what we call the question of the Day, 461 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 3: and then we have some advice and we'd like you 462 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 3: to give your point of view. 463 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: Right go with the question of the day is goday is. 464 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 3: Do you think going through someone's phone is ever justified? 465 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 2: And why or why not? 466 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 4: No, I don't going I don't think going through someone's 467 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 4: phone has ever justified. I always say, like, first of all, 468 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,199 Speaker 4: if you are dating someone that you feel like you 469 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 4: have to go through their phone, like that's something someone 470 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:15,719 Speaker 4: that you should not be dating on what. Yeah, Like, 471 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 4: I don't think I've ever gone through a boyfriend's phone 472 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 4: because I felt like I've never had to, So yeah, 473 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 4: I would say, don't go through their phone. I don't 474 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,640 Speaker 4: want anyone going through mygphone. But I don't have anything 475 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 4: to side, so I don't know. 476 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 2: Have you ever gone through a phone gap? 477 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,199 Speaker 1: Yep, one time. I will tell you only one time. 478 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 1: And he gave me reason to believe that there was 479 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: something going on. We were on a trip and I 480 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 1: said he said something. Anyway, he gotten in the shower 481 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: and I picked up his phone and there were all 482 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: these messages on a dating app and I didn't say 483 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: thing to him at the time, but that was the Well, 484 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: actually I did when we got home and he said, well, 485 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 1: they reached out to me. I didn't him, and and 486 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 1: that to me was the beginning of the end. I 487 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: mean I broke up with him, like, you know, a 488 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: few weeks later, but I just felt it. And I 489 00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,479 Speaker 1: guess what I would say is, if you feel it, 490 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: you really don't need to confirm that. 491 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. 492 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 1: You remember, I was married out of the cradle, so 493 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know this. 494 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 4: Was And when you do it and see it, it's like, yeah, yeah, 495 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,919 Speaker 4: why hurt your own feelings. 496 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,880 Speaker 1: Just you know, show them the door and move on. 497 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 4: Exactly. 498 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, what about you, Susan, have you done it? 499 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 2: I definitely have and for good reason. 500 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: And that was exactly. 501 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 3: These are some of the most commonly asked questions, and 502 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 3: we want to know your advice for our listeners. 503 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 2: I'll start with the first one. 504 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 3: For women that suspect their partner is cheating. 505 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 4: For women who suspect their partner's cheat, if you have 506 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 4: that inclination, he probably is. But like advice, like what 507 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 4: they should do, I would probably say, confront them, like 508 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 4: if you really feel in your heart, like there's nothing 509 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,159 Speaker 4: more than a woman's intuition. So it's like, if you 510 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:19,399 Speaker 4: feel that way, confront them and never say if he 511 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 4: is cheating is what I will never want never say because. 512 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: I interesting, Yeah, you would not forgive a cheater. 513 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 4: I would not forgive a cheater because it's just like 514 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 4: going down the line, I feel like I would continue 515 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 4: to feel more insecure. I would be like, Okay, well 516 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 4: is he still cheating? Like is he still seem like yeah? 517 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 4: It just like I wouldn't feel good in my heart. 518 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 4: And I'm so big on like a love story and 519 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 4: like when I have children, I want my children to 520 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 4: know like this was the most secure relationship I've ever 521 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 4: been in my life. And like, I just you know, 522 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know if I feel good 523 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 4: being like, yeah, you're bad cheated when we were fifteen. 524 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so so even if you had kids and 525 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: you found it you cheated on you. Once he's out 526 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 1: the door, Oh, if. 527 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,959 Speaker 4: We have kids, I feel like it's a little bit different. 528 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 4: But yeah, I think the kids would definitely change things. 529 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 4: And I would be like yeah, yeah, but I would 530 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 4: say at my age now, I don't think I would 531 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 4: just like I don't think I would continue your boyfriend 532 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 4: as a cheater. 533 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and good for you. 534 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 3: You made a statement Seraphina that if you think they 535 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 3: usually are, but they're such insecure women that will think 536 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 3: the worst and they're really not. 537 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 2: So yeah, you know, small percentage. 538 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're feeling something, you got to look into it. 539 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 4: A thousand percent, I would say, always just you know, 540 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 4: do your digging all right? 541 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: Well, how about advice for this for friends that really 542 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: disliked their best friends boyfriend. 543 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 4: Friends that dislike their best friend's boyfriend. Like if I 544 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 4: were the friend and I hated my best friend's boyfriends. Oh, 545 00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 4: I've been in that position so many times. Yeah. The 546 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 4: thing is, it's like I'm a very much like if 547 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 4: you like it, I love it kind of person. Like 548 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 4: if you love this man and like he is good 549 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 4: to you, like, go for it, like I will never 550 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 4: stop it. But if he's a bad person to everyone, 551 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 4: including you, like you need to dump him, because like 552 00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 4: you're telling your friend that, yes, I would say if 553 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 4: he is like if he is a terrible person to her, 554 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 4: I will one thousand percent say like this is not 555 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 4: the person for you, Like you need, you need and 556 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 4: you deserve so much better. But if it's just like 557 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 4: you know I don't like him in terms of like 558 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,880 Speaker 4: like I don't like the way he's the two dresses, 559 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,399 Speaker 4: or like something bugs me, Like you know what, go 560 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 4: for it, like that's your man, Like yeah, I don't 561 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 4: have to live with him. 562 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: Yeah wow. 563 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 3: Okay about for young girls that are trying to figure 564 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 3: out who their real friends. 565 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,679 Speaker 4: Are, Oh, go so hard. 566 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: That's how. 567 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 2: I can tell you. 568 00:27:54,400 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 1: Wait, that's just called growing day. Yes, you kind of advice, 569 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: aftere no. 570 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 4: And I've learned so much through life, and I would say, 571 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 4: like even I have gained lifelong friends from girls I've 572 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,719 Speaker 4: known for two months from the show, and it's in 573 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 4: comparison as my friends that I've known for fifteen years. 574 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 4: It's the friends that like if you call them at 575 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 4: three in the morning, they won't answer and be there 576 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 4: in a second. Like those are like the kind of 577 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 4: friendships I value so much. And like girls you can 578 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 4: like pick up the phone with talk through anything I say, 579 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 4: Like sometimes they're like, oh, they're friends for different reasons, 580 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 4: and like I don't have close friends for different reasons. 581 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 4: I have friends that like I go out with them, 582 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 4: I call them. I have friends that I breathe on 583 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 4: the phone with, like we have nothing to say, but 584 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 4: we're just like we're on the phone, just breathing next 585 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 4: to each other. And yes, and like you as you mature. 586 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: Except your phone off that night. But go ahead, sir. 587 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 4: Really you know you're side. But as you mature, you 588 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 4: really weed out who are good good friends? Like very easily. Yeah, 589 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 4: you don't need fifteen friends. You can have three really 590 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 4: good friends. 591 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 3: And you can yeah I know a million acquaintances they 592 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 3: call friends, but you can yet real friends on the hands. 593 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, I agree. 594 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: Wow, all right, how about this one for young people 595 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: trying to date but they keep falling in a rut, 596 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: into a rut you know. Yeah, that's called let me 597 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 1: let me simplify that. Old people young people exactly, young people, 598 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: old people dating the same kind of person, looking for 599 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: all the wrong people in all the wrong places. 600 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 4: I've been there, that was me twenty two to like yesterday, 601 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 4: I'm getting No, I have been there where it was 602 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 4: like I would go on dates with people and the 603 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 4: next day like they just wouldn't call me back, or 604 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 4: like you know, they just weren't looking for relationship, they 605 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 4: weren't serious about something. It goes back to like as 606 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 4: you grow up and as you mature, you don't give up, Like, 607 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 4: never give up on trying to find someone. You're going 608 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 4: to have to go through his bad dates to figure 609 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 4: out exactly what you want. 610 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: How many bad dates? How many? 611 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 4: Oh, you're going to go through like hundreds, Like yeah, 612 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 4: you're going to go through so many. And like some 613 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 4: people are lucky, like they go on one like hinge 614 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 4: date and then the son. 615 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: Yeah I know people like that. 616 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, but like I yes, And what I will say 617 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 4: is that, like I like that I've been on so 618 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 4: many dates because one, I have so many funny stories 619 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 4: to like tell people. And too it's like, you know what, 620 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 4: I had fun. I went to dinner with a guy. 621 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 4: I laughed. I can entertain. I'm the date sometimes like 622 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 4: I have fun. I'm laughing, I'm having. 623 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 1: And you know what that's important? 624 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I have a. 625 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 4: Free dinner whatever, like I didn't have food to my friends. 626 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: I love it all right. We we have gotten to 627 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 1: know you a little better. That's your nation has gotten 628 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: to know you a little better. But now we want 629 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 1: to open the floor up to you. Do you have 630 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: any questions for us, advice for us? What do you? 631 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: You know? This is your time, so you know us. 632 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 2: You don't know us, but you know. 633 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, who do you guys want to see on 634 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 4: the beach if you were. 635 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 2: To go. 636 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: The guy that you want. 637 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 4: That you want. No, we're not going to fa the guy. 638 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 1: Wait, stop, stop the presses right now. If I am 639 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: lucky enough to go on the beach, let me assure 640 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: you I am not going for anyone who is the 641 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 1: age of my children. Let's just be clear. Okay, you 642 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 1: never know, you never Oh no, trust me, I know 643 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 1: there is Wait, Seraphina, there's three things in life you 644 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 1: can count on death taxes, and I never will date 645 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 1: anyone younger than my children. Okay, we got that done. Good. 646 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 4: It's so funny that. 647 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 2: Any other questions, like because we don't have one for that. 648 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 1: We don't. I don't. 649 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 4: I would say, what advice do you guys have for me? 650 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 4: I feel like it? It is hard, especially like when 651 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 4: you I'm reaching like a milestone birthday coming up, and 652 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,840 Speaker 4: it is a little bit scary because a lot of 653 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 4: my friends are married or engaged, and like, how do 654 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 4: you feel like you're not falling behind in life? 655 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 3: You're not in the same moment as them, that's all. 656 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 3: And this young lady, your world just started. Yeah, when 657 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 3: you turn thirty, something happens. I believe inside of us, 658 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 3: that's where you're confidence, and you're educated, and you have 659 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 3: life experiences better than most people walk in because you 660 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 3: know how many women were on that show. Yeah, you 661 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 3: got to know you. You know who you are, and you 662 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 3: should be proud. 663 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 2: Of who you are. 664 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's great advice. My advice to you, Saraphina, 665 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: and I gave this to all three of my children. Yeah, 666 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: do the things that you love, the activities, whatever it is. 667 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: Build yourself. Make yourself a strong, competent, interesting, lovable, which 668 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: you are. Do all those things that you love, and 669 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: the right people will come into your life. 670 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 4: I've been realizing that it's like one of myself. I 671 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 4: am the batter people are coming into my life. 672 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 3: I get it when I was your age when thinking back, 673 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 3: like oh my god, if I'm thirty, I need to 674 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 3: start a family. But there is no special age, and 675 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 3: you find usually find somebody when you're least expecting. 676 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 2: I know you said that it's hard. 677 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: We argue about this. I don't know that I buy. 678 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 4: That hard no, but I do. I do believe that 679 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 4: because so many of my friends they're like they've been 680 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 4: in ruts and like they are just like I give 681 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 4: up on dating and then like someone just comes in 682 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 4: and it does happen. I do believe that. 683 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,000 Speaker 1: Well, I'm still waiting, so you know, let me go 684 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: open my door so I can get in easier wall. 685 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: Do you think it's tough to date in New York 686 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:59,360 Speaker 1: because my daughter who met her husband when she was 687 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: thirty one, I think and the same thing. She was like, 688 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 1: what's wrong with me and my daughters? As pretty as 689 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 1: you are and successful in all those things, but she 690 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 1: just hadn't met the right guy. And you know, she 691 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,359 Speaker 1: said New York. She was living in New York at 692 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: the time, working. She said, Mom, it's impossible here because 693 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 1: even if you're on a date and the guy likes you, 694 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,880 Speaker 1: he's like like a mosquito, you know, he's looking at 695 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: the person that the next person that walks by going, oh, 696 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: you know, I'm in the candy store. I mean, do 697 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 1: you find that to be true? 698 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 4: Yes, I think it's really hard to day in New 699 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 4: York because I think there are just so many more options. 700 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 4: It's like you meet people who, yeah, it's like work. 701 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,799 Speaker 4: There's like dating apps, there's happy hours, there's events, like 702 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 4: it's just like it's a pool for them. So it's like, 703 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 4: and you know, it's not just guys, it's girls too, 704 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 4: but I feel like it definitely is a little bit 705 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 4: more of the men. Yeah, it's really really hard. 706 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 1: Would you ask a man out, Seraphina? Would you ask 707 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: a guy? 708 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 4: I have not met a guy that I wanted to 709 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 4: ask out in a while, but I would ask the guy, Am, Yes, 710 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 4: I will. 711 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 2: Damn. 712 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 1: Who do we know that we can hook her up with? 713 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,759 Speaker 3: Well, I think she's on the right road and the 714 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 3: goodness is going to come to her. I hope knowing 715 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 3: yourself and love yourself be happy within. Yeah, and so 716 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 3: many people make the wrong choices thinking they're okay he 717 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 3: is and they end up divorced or you know, wasting 718 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 3: years that life realizing you're not the one, You're not 719 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 3: my person. 720 00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:32,560 Speaker 1: I do think positive attracts positive. I really, you know 721 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 1: people say that to. 722 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,040 Speaker 2: Me, Kathy. I love what you're saying. 723 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: I do people. I've that's one thing that I always 724 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 1: have been positive. But you know, I went through a 725 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 1: tough time when my husband died. But I've realized that 726 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:50,400 Speaker 1: if you put out that positive vibe more positivity comes. 727 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: Oh I hate that question. I hate that expression. 728 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 2: That's what you're saying. I mean, I've been preaching it 729 00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:58,919 Speaker 2: so since day I metver. 730 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 1: Just yeah, whatever, you know who's with the guy and 731 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 1: who is and give me a break. 732 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 2: But that's not necessarily the end all. 733 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 3: But you know what, great I love you get that 734 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 3: invite right to us. 735 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, trust we you know we if we get 736 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: to go like, we don't want to sit there and say, now, 737 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: let let us tell you what you need to do 738 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: to get the guy. However, you tell me who you 739 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,879 Speaker 1: want and I'll club him if he doesn't ask you why. 740 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 4: That's so happy? 741 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 1: You know, any guy with a brain in his head, Well, 742 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:42,439 Speaker 1: Grant has a brain in his head. I'm just saying, 743 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: you are a lovely person the right guys you know, 744 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 1: and you're you're a successful, smart woman. Revel in that. 745 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 4: Thank you. Yeah, I feel good things coming for me 746 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 4: this year. I'm like, very positive about it. 747 00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 2: Yes, number the three so definitely going to be a 748 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 2: good Yes? 749 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:01,800 Speaker 4: Yes? 750 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: What wait what I like odd numbers? Three, five seventy nine. 751 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,799 Speaker 1: Well, I'm so glad that you like odd numbers. What 752 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 1: does that have to do with our good life for coming. 753 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 2: Because thirty three. 754 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: That just means her good life is coming. 755 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,360 Speaker 2: Well, it's about her today, gaes. 756 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 1: Three, I'm lost. Are you talking about the three of us? Looked? 757 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: I thought she was talking about twenty twenty five? What 758 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:31,680 Speaker 1: are you? Okay, Susan here we like. 759 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:32,439 Speaker 2: That as well. 760 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, everything going for your baby? 761 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? 762 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: All right, Well, Sarah, if I show up at Paradise, 763 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,879 Speaker 1: you'll know me. I'll be the girl in the very 764 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 1: large one piece bathing suits. 765 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 4: I'm so say it is you know what. 766 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:49,839 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for joining us today. 767 00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 3: We really really love getting to know you and I 768 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:53,359 Speaker 3: can't wait to get to know more. 769 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: And wait, can we just give a shout out to 770 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: her mom? 771 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,839 Speaker 2: We want to call us leader and tell us who 772 00:37:58,880 --> 00:37:59,839 Speaker 2: this guy is. 773 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 4: Well, I'll message you, guys, I'll send you pictures and mom. 774 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, your mom, Velma listen, Velma, if you're listening, which 775 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 1: I hope you are, you did a great job with 776 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: this girl. She's beautiful, smart and on My hat is 777 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: off to you. 778 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 2: Thank you. 779 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,720 Speaker 4: She's gonna love to hear that. Thank you, guys. 780 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 1: Okay, we love getting to chat with you. We thank you, 781 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,399 Speaker 1: and we thank our audience for listening to us, all 782 00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:29,560 Speaker 1: of our listeners, be sure please follow Bachelor Happy Hour 783 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: if you enjoyed today with Sarah Fina. We've got a 784 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,479 Speaker 1: lot of other great episodes coming out that come out 785 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: every week. You don't want to miss them. But you 786 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 1: gotta follow us. 787 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 3: Yes, and submit your questions because that's what we talk 788 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 3: about when we have our special guests, and even when 789 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 3: we don't have guests, we give advice good or bad. 790 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 3: But the best part is when you guys send us 791 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:55,439 Speaker 3: back information on what you did and how it came out. 792 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: How do they do it, Susan, how do they send 793 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 1: us comments and question. 794 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 3: The Bachelor Nation dot com slash Golden Hour or you 795 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,840 Speaker 3: can damn us on Instagram at Bachelor. 796 00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 1: Happy Okay, all I have to say is if we 797 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,800 Speaker 1: get to go to Paradise, think think of the questions 798 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 1: and the comments that will be coming our way, and 799 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,359 Speaker 1: it'll be worth the ticket if I have to pay 800 00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 1: for it myself. In the meantime. In the meantime, till 801 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:24,360 Speaker 1: it happens or doesn't happen. 802 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 2: If we're not invited, we're crashing it. 803 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, Serafina, we're gonna I know you're gonna have to 804 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna give you our phone numbers, you're gonna tell 805 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 1: us where and when you are, and we're gonna be 806 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 1: there right in the meantime till we find out where 807 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,560 Speaker 1: Sarapena is going to be. Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours 808 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 1: Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app, or wherever you listen 809 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: to podcasts. Until next time, have a great week.