WEBVTT - We Talk Back Replay* | "Seasonal D" 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:05.800 Talk, Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:11.160 an opinion. You talked, Oh. 0:00:11.560 --> 0:00:13.520 What's up y'all? Thank you for tuning in for a 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:16.760 new episode, and we talked back A show dedicated to 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:20.400 you dreamers and chasers and everybody else. 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:21.319 Yeah. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:25.480 Today anyway, it's your co host AJ Holiday. 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:28.160 Y'all, it's me Tan Bama. I love y'all once again. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:33.600 I love you, AJ girl. Thanksgiving just passed. 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:34.480 Did you eat a lot? 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:38.519 Girl? I ate everything wasn't nailed to the table. I 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.440 went down to Montgomery, Alabama, where my sister lives. She 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:46.280 hosted this year, and I was only supposed to make. 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.519 I set everybody up with what they were supposed to do, 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:53.160 and they agreed to it, right, So I made sure 0:00:53.200 --> 0:00:55.720 to make my lists very small of what I was 0:00:55.760 --> 0:00:57.960 supposed to do. I was supposed to make a potter 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:04.120 rice and some deviled eggs, no mac. Tanisha was insistent 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.520 that it was her house and she was making the 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:17.319 mac and cheese this year. Fine, whatever. Before I knew it, 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:21.600 I had done made the collar greens, dressing, rice and gravy, 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:30.400 some mashed potatoes and devil eggs, and I was helping 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:35.160 her with the mag shame. She tried to show your 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:40.560 mac up this year. She tried, she tried. It wasn't mine. 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:42.600 It was good, but it wasn't mine. You know what 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:46.320 I'm saying. You did anything for the weekend? Oh yeah, 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:51.000 we went to We went to the museum, the Legacy 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:55.360 Museum in Montgomery. It was very I ain't want to 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:57.760 be there. I ran through it. I ain't gonna lie. 0:01:57.800 --> 0:01:59.520 I ran through it. That ship was like little chap 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.040 of horrors. It was literally like as soon as you 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:07.880 walk in the museum, niggas heads on the ground. God. Yeah, 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.680 it was like they was in the ocean, the people 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:14.120 who jumped off the boats, so all their heads was 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.200 like down in the sand and they just was like 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:19.640 screaming and you can hear chains, and I was like, 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:22.239 I don't want to put myself through this. They had 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:26.560 like jars up. They literally had people go to the 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:30.360 places where we've known black people were lynched and dig 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:33.679 some of the sand from under the tree and put 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:36.320 it in the jar and bring it there. So she's 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.520 looked there like, oh, some of their DNA might be 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:41.639 in that sand. What is wrong with people? 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:46.080 Like listen, I believe in witchcraft period I might do 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:50.079 a little something something. That shit sounds crazy as hell 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:53.120 to me that y'all going to take remains from people 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.400 and bind them in a jar somewhere in a museum, 0:02:56.919 --> 0:03:00.720 y'all doing replications of people in the sand. 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:01.520 That is weird to. 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:03.079 That's just like when we went to Memphis and y'all 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:04.240 went to that goddamn museum. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:08.000 That's what I not. That's what I said. I do 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.520 not do none of that no more. It's just doesn't 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:13.280 I was like, do y'all feel good now like this? 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:16.320 I feel I feel sad. 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:19.600 I have so much more, greater things that we could 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:21.120 put in a museum about black people. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:26.200 I swear yeah. I was like, is this our legacy? 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:29.440 Because it's called the Legacy Museum, and what nothing but 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:32.280 black people there? So it's like, it's not our legacy. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:37.280 We're living our own trauma. I understand the importantness of 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.880 importance of knowing the history, but I don't feel like 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:43.120 that's for us. I think white people should go to 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:43.520 that ship. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.840 Yes, exactly, how they do to how they how the 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:51.040 Jewish people do to people when they step overstep their bounds. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.400 They send their ass to the damn the Holocaust museum. 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.320 That's what that's for. That's not for black people. Y'all 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.560 have done enough of ciphering our goddamn energy. Yeah, and 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:02.880 now you and I saw in the building circulating looking 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.440 at all this crazy. 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:08.760 Name, all this pain. So I ran through that ship, 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:16.400 waiting for everybody outside, I let I ran through that Yeah, 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:20.240 straight up, straight up, I ran through that motherfucker, I 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:24.200 said outside, wait on, niggas. I was like, I sit 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:30.479 out that bitch like somebody got a newport. That ship 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:35.599 almost driving me to smokepoorts after But then we went 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:38.520 down to the river boat and we saw the Harriet 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.440 and then the chair was out there. I got a 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:44.240 picture y'all have me holding the folded chair in the sky. 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:49.520 Like why ya YadA, like I've heard of me like that. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:54.080 That made me feel better, girl, that ship is wild 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.599 no longer. It ain't over. So then that night to 0:04:56.600 --> 0:05:05.880 the club called Infusions something like that. Montgomery. These niggas 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:08.680 do not dance. The only type of dance they do 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.520 is line dancing. Bitch. When a song they and they 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.720 got line dances that don't nobody know about out that 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:18.440 motherfucker to songs, I'm like, damn, who came up with 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:22.200 this and then motherfuckers was honky talking baby they was 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:26.560 but any other thing. Don't nobody dance? It was weird. 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.800 Only line dancing. That's the only dancing I seen them do. 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:33.200 So you've seen some niggas of gold teeth line dancing, 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:44.600 line dancing like a mom shit had seventeen steps up. Well, 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:46.520 I think it about you. We need to post that 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.159 video were supposed toly was doing that? 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:49.679 Mia up to me a dance? 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:51.800 Oh I tried to learn that shit over. 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:55.560 We can't too, No, girl, I ain't got enough coordination 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.440 or brain cells for that shit. Man, I need space 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:01.680 for other things too much to remember. 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:03.479 Child. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:07.240 So this weekend, So this weekend I went to Charleston 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:13.120 and the Thanksgiving Thanksgiving wasn't nothing major. It's just we 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:16.400 barely cooked food for real, man, really, and I really 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.000 don't need to eat anyway. She cooked like turkey wings 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.600 and shit, I made a mac, so I had mac 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:22.480 and calagreens. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.760 That's it. But and. 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:30.039 Friday night, so our schools are high schools, they had 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:35.720 like alumni games, like basketball games. Four high schools. It 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:36.920 was lit. 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:37.839 And then. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.320 The high schools that I went to in West Ashley, 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:47.360 they had like an alumni party Saturday night, so that 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:50.800 was nice to see people I hadn't seen in years. 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:54.160 Acting stupid, acting up. 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:55.919 And then we went to a little hood spot after that, 0:06:56.320 --> 0:07:00.680 so it was a little outside weekend for the most part. 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:05.200 I ain't see no my fucking heads in the sand. Right, 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.800 you went to a black school, I said, I said, 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:09.960 we went to a black school. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.640 We don't have a well, I guess you could. You 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:16.160 might consider North Charleston High School a black school. Yeah, 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:18.200 North Charlston would be a black school. But no, I'm 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.800 from West Ashley, so the schools was mixed. So the 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:23.480 two high schools we had St. Andrews and Middleton, they 0:07:23.520 --> 0:07:26.560 ended up merging my last year of high school, well 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:29.520 last two years of high school. But they always was 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.680 like rivals, so they played against each other. Then No 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:36.800 Choleston Downtown played against each other, and then the winners 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:37.640 had to play each other. 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:40.320 So it was cool. You. I feel like black schools 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:43.520 always get together for some shit. My school was predominantly white. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:47.160 I ain't seen the motherfucker since I graduated. We had nothing. 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:48.720 It's so weird that. 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:52.320 Yeah, we didn't go to all all white schools or 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.800 all black schools. But only the black people was outside 0:07:54.800 --> 0:07:58.840 for these things, So maybe maybe the game was only 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:01.360 maybe we're the only one that actually put these stuff together. 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.040 Because I'm gonna tell you, I feel like I mentioned 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:04.880 this before when we did our ten year high school 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:07.640 re union, I didn't realize how racist the white people 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:10.360 were that we went to school with. When I tell you, 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:14.520 like the black people planned the reunion, it was really really, 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:17.720 really nice, top notch, even if the principal of school came. 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:20.760 But like I said, we came from two different high schools, 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.960 so Middleton was more of the honky tongue school, you 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.760 know what I'm saying. The Snandrews, like we all raised together, 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.320 the black and white people. The white people from Middleton 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:33.680 were so racist when we were planning this goddamn reunion. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:35.440 They're like, I don't know any of these people. They 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:36.640 went and had them a beach day. 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:36.920 Girl. 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:38.640 They didn't even come to the reunion. 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:45.280 Well, welcome to South Carolina. So ooh, girl, isn't it anyway? 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:46.360 That was my weekend? Child. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.959 Let's take a break right quick and get into this 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:49.600 stupid internet news. 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:55.520 All right, y'all, we back and Kingly disaster. 0:08:55.600 --> 0:09:03.680 What we know all y'all seen King and t I 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:05.400 arguing over the weekend. 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:08.959 Tiny too oh, Tiny was there too? Right? 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:11.040 I can't hear a little voice in the background, just 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:18.559 that that fucking spoiled as bratt. Okay, it's gonna come 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:20.280 a day when you got to put hands on one 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:23.160 of your kids, at least one, it's gonna give you hell. 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:27.280 And he's that metal kid. He is one of the children. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:33.920 He is entitled. He's just not a nice young man period. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:36.680 He's not nice to his parents. How he presents on 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.920 social media. It's just not becoming. They named him King. 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:43.400 That's where they fucked up. He probably already got a 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:49.640 complex about superiority to people with that name ship. They 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:53.400 need to like cut him off financially so he can 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:54.479 be humbled. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:57.320 I think no, I don't think they need to. I 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:59.000 think he needs to go to therapy. I went to 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:01.320 his page because I have I had a theory in 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:03.840 my mind about what was going on with him, and 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:05.480 I do think he has some mental health that she 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.679 was going on. I went to this page and this 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:10.720 is I went further back than the last few days, 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:12.840 so I can see, like what his comments usually look like. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.360 The amount of people that was calling that boy ugly 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:21.240 and saying little weird things about him was overwhelming. And 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.680 it's just me looking at it. Yeah, right, So imagine 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:28.240 being the recipient of these comments daily when. 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:31.079 You just try to live Breathe he has. 0:10:31.200 --> 0:10:34.920 He definitely has a complex, multiple of them, and the 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:38.120 Internet play a big role in that. Yeah, Like, and 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.120 how do you while everybody you know he looks different, 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.360 We're just going to say that he does look different. 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:46.280 Right. I don't think the drags. 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:49.160 Help, you know, he may me just get a little 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:50.440 regular color haircut. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.360 But I think, all right, So I think these young 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:58.560 people have like social anxieties that we didn't have, and 0:10:58.720 --> 0:11:00.880 you know, not in the amount that has it. And 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.280 I really think that they be hiding under that hair 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:04.960 and that's why they grow it down in their face 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:08.480 so they can hide under it. Why is your hair 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.800 in your face like that? I think it's the place 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:13.800 to hide. Absolutely. So. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.600 Now me, if that were my child, we'd be going 0:11:16.640 --> 0:11:22.600 to therapy because now your TI's son, right, You're trying 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:25.680 to now, you know, have your own separate identity from 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.920 your parents, and look how you're being received by the world. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:32.120 But I think cutting him off from money and excess 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:36.319 is a form of therapy because he wants to. It's 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:42.000 an exercise because you feel like you struggle and may 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:44.439 I won't say he don't have no traumas, because just 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:47.680 because you have money doesn't mean that you don't see 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.560 trauma growing up. Right, we all have things that happen 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:54.720 to us, whether we're poor or rich. But you want 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:57.920 to be hood so bad, I'm gonna give you an 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:01.560 opportunity to feel it in a away in a significant way. 0:12:01.600 --> 0:12:02.240 Not just yeah. 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.720 But then their son might end up in prison. They 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:06.559 might he might end up in prison. You know what 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:09.440 I'm saying, trying to get it out the mud in 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:11.560 the band, you know what I'm saying, Like, if I 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:14.400 have the means, I'm never gonna make my child struggle. 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:16.839 Absolutely not. I'll try to. 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:19.240 If he if he gonna end up in jail because 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:23.080 you cutting off his money, he go in jail with money, 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.400 what's the train of thought that's gonna make you go 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:28.720 do some dumb ship like that that you wouldn't do 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:30.800 it with the money. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:32.480 I don't know, I just could. I just want to 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:34.880 do that. I don't think that that's to me. That's 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.400 not where I was starting And I think the Internet 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:39.800 wants to see that. I think people want to see 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:43.840 him have nothing right because we we elevate people and 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:44.480 then we all not. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:45.160 And I say we. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:47.800 I'm talking about the collective because this is never my mind, 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:50.439 my state of mind, and when I think about people 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:53.319 like black people love to elevate a motherfucker and also 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:56.240 simultaneously be the person to bring them down. It's not 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:59.079 my job to humble anybody. It's not any any one 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:00.080 of our jobs to hum. 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:03.160 No, it's his parents job, That's what I'm talking about. 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:05.120 It's his parents' job. And I think they missed the 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:07.520 mark with that with him, Like he needs to learn 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.439 some humility, but all other. 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:13.440 Kids are good, all other kids like he needs to 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:17.360 learn balance. But there's something else at played. That's what 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:20.520 I'm saying. It's not just about him wanting to be bad. 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:23.840 He's acting out for Okay, So here's what the document says. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:25.199 It says a lot. 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:28.560 They were at the Falcons game, so he's embarrassing in them, 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:32.880 embarrassing them at a fucking football game. Shit win Sideways, 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:36.480 King started arguing with his parents. Voices intentions continue to 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:39.000 rise as two sides yell at each other so what 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:41.000 it says is that a crowd of people can be 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:44.440 heard teasing King saying he had a silver spoon in 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:47.400 his mouth, but he barked back, yelling it wasn't true. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:50.520 His mother attempted to remind him of his wealthy upbringing 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:53.360 as a child. Toddy then mentioned that the only reason 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.760 King loved going over to his grand grandmother's house was 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.720 not so that he could run around with his hood 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:03.000 raft friends, but because he because she allowed him to 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:09.120 suck and spacify into leave as well. The nineteen year 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:12.160 old appeared to be offended, claiming that his parents were 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.120 trying to hide the fact that he was really in 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:17.160 the streets doing all the things, and the two of 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:21.240 them tried to stare him away from At one point, 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:22.680 TI could be her yelling. 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:25.120 Nigga, nigga, you ain't. 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.560 You are an embarrassment to your family. 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:29.080 You are an embarrassment. 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:32.720 Later, King of so your exactly Later, King appeared to 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:37.600 pose an obscured photo from behind a car wheel. He 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.720 added the next text, I stand on business, don't give 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:43.120 a fuck who you are. 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.440 So you feel like this nigga who stands on business 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:48.400 don't give a fuck who you are? Probably in the 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.640 car that his parents had provided him should not be 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:57.800 taught given an exercise in getting money for yourself. 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:59.680 And even his own daddy clan in him. It says 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.080 early this month t I couldn't help but clown his 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:11.000 son King Harris over the latter's new teeth. What. During 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:14.080 an appearance on the Baller Alert Show, King was asked 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:16.800 about his newly white and teeth those are not just 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:19.240 newly white. And he went to somebody cheap to get 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:22.280 them chip lit things big. 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:28.000 And because I don't seen a lot of people come 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.520 back with him, begins teeth in their mouth. And you 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:31.760 gotta act like you don't. 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:35.680 Notice when I know, hold on when you just said that, 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:39.040 you gotta act like you don't notice when they tell you. 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:43.640 I know so many people who got them things in 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:46.520 their mouth, and I can't help but stare at them 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:46.960 when they talk. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:49.600 You gotta act like you don't see that ship about 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:51.760 to jump out their face. Yah. 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.040 So more of the story is he needs ask well, 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.240 but he also needs their man. He going through it. 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:03.920 He going through it. He needs therapy, and he needs 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.440 some financial humility exercises. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:11.160 Nah, I don't think that's the way, but anyway. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:16.400 A long couple with therapy, that they have to come 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:18.960 from a dark angry place. It ain't gonna come from 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:22.280 a dark angry place like what cut you off? No, 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:27.760 it's like more like we want you to experience life 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:31.360 without the financial help that that your family provides you, 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:34.920 so you can understand how privileged you really have been, 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:40.520 because there's a disconnect somewhere. It don't have to be 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.880 it don't. I ain't say put him on the street, 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:46.760 but he might end up there. 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:50.200 He might not even have the wherewithal to create something 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:54.000 out of nothing, you know what I'm saying. But because 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:56.520 he has been so privileged and spoiled, like you know what, 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:57.560 I like, that's he. 0:16:57.640 --> 0:17:01.800 Ain't kid give him like take He probably still live 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:05.080 at home. I mean I don't. We don't know how 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.240 he living or what the setup is. You know, she's 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:11.159 only nineteen years old. He's only nineteen years old. I 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:15.080 doubt that he's got his own place. So it an't 0:17:15.080 --> 0:17:20.040 way he got to pay rent nowhere. Just a kid, 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:24.040 He's just a kid. Parents, That's what I'm saying, giving 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:26.919 their kids allowance all the time, And why is it 0:17:26.960 --> 0:17:32.680 any different for king when they misbehaved, they get cut 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:34.920 off from their allowance. I don't understand why it's any 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:40.920 different from him for him. 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.760 M I feel I have a lot of I think 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:43.280 I have a lot of empathy for King because I've 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:45.720 seen how people be talking to him and then you're 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:48.360 at a football game and people chanting shit. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:49.520 At you, like what the fuck? 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:54.720 Like, why is that even happening? How did he cause 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:56.399 that to happen? Did he cause it to happen? Or 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:59.320 was he's talking shit to somebody? Like why is that happening? 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:05.240 I think it's been his social media persona that he gives, 0:18:06.160 --> 0:18:09.920 entitled little ship. That's what he gives. 0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:15.600 All right, let's move on from King a little badass. Anyway, 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:18.880 We're gonna pray finally, we love you, my young boy. 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:23.800 Y'all listen, if you are on dating websites hinge, uh, 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:26.720 plenty of fish. 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:28.400 What's the other one? I know? You know, I'm dam 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:31.720 give me another talking about you know. I know, because 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:36.640 I ain't got no money. There's hinge plenty of fish, tender, 0:18:37.440 --> 0:18:39.080 there's rayah. 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:42.919 That's how I want to get on, riya bitch, get on. 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.399 No, they won't let me on. I don't think I 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:48.080 think it's on Riyah. I deleted that app. I got 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:50.720 mad because it's been months the. 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:58.440 Fuck so black people think, oh yeah, black people meet. 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:06.439 So apparently there's this thing called food Digger. This article 0:19:06.480 --> 0:19:11.440 says food Digger scam. Beware of new scam on dating 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:13.919 apps like tender Bumble and Hinge. 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:14.840 Y'all. 0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:20.119 So apparently the restaurants, the restaurants are using bots and 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:25.720 they're on these dating websites. They are courting women and 0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:30.919 men via the app setting up dates. You get to 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:34.600 the restaurant waiting on your date. Your date never shows. 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:37.399 Your mindset is like, well shit, I'm here already, let 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:42.960 me go ahead and eat. The date unfollows you, unmatches 0:19:43.000 --> 0:19:46.760 with you on the dating app, and now you're spending 0:19:46.800 --> 0:19:49.359 money at least, you know, food and a couple of 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:53.240 drinks because now you're depressed. They need a fucking ass fud. 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:56.239 Listen, and you sitting at the Cheesecake Factor like I 0:19:56.240 --> 0:20:01.600 didn't even want to come here, the basket of prowd bread. 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:08.919 That's fucked up. That's real, fucked up people is just 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:11.320 doing anything for money right now, y'all just have to 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:15.120 be careful out here, because when the restaurants is date 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:17.600 fishing you to get you to come in there and 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:19.600 eat is crazy. 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:23.480 Yeah, like what like I would have never ever, like 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:27.200 who the fuck is in their marketing department that thought 0:20:27.240 --> 0:20:27.960 about that shit? 0:20:28.880 --> 0:20:31.479 Like imagine Red Loss to be a real charming with 0:20:31.520 --> 0:20:34.160 you in the app so you can go have cheddar 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:41.760 bag biscuits. It's crazy, Red Loss of Like, so where 0:20:41.760 --> 0:20:47.600 are you from? Bro? 0:20:47.840 --> 0:20:48.680 That's crazy. 0:20:49.280 --> 0:20:50.560 That's fucking crazy. 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:56.640 They need their ass what so the restaurants to like say, 0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:59.560 for instance, what you like to eat? 0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:01.160 So what you like to eat? 0:21:05.320 --> 0:21:07.959 But they're not like on the apps as Red Lobster 0:21:08.080 --> 0:21:08.960 like they're on the app. 0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:12.479 I'm just saying it's really Red Lobster, but it's a person. 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:18.320 It's a buy right. Yep. That's terrible. I really love people. 0:21:18.440 --> 0:21:20.720 I really love Red Lobster. We should meet there. 0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:26.320 Did you see that video of Red Lobster had like 0:21:26.400 --> 0:21:27.680 some maggots. 0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:29.640 In the food? Oh no, let's gross. 0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:32.320 Yeah yeah, I like a lot of them too. I 0:21:32.440 --> 0:21:35.359 like a lot of maggots. I don't really like eating 0:21:35.400 --> 0:21:38.399 out no more. Man, everything the price of everything is 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:41.160 going up and then equality is going down. 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:46.479 But yeah, but in the same breath, the food I 0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:48.600 remember when it used to be cheaper to go to 0:21:48.640 --> 0:21:51.199 the grocery store than to go out to eat. And 0:21:51.280 --> 0:21:53.600 that is the case, y'all. 0:21:53.640 --> 0:21:57.959 So did I know everybody pretty much watched Squid Squid Games? 0:21:58.040 --> 0:21:59.520 I think what year was that. 0:21:59.640 --> 0:21:59.960 Was that the. 0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:05.880 It was? It was like right before right when Coach started. Yeah, 0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:07.880 twenty twenty maybe twenty twenty one. 0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:10.720