1 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: Queen Sugar is the critically acclaimed drama series on Owned 2 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: from Academy Award nominated filmmaker Eva du Varney and executive 3 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: producer Oprah Winfrey. Queen Sugar is a visually stunning family 4 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: drama that is as powerful as it is poetic and 5 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: the very definition of prestige TV. Season one is now 6 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: streaming only on Hulu so you can catch up before 7 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: the two nights season premier events starts on Tuesday, June 8 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: at nine Central only on Owned, and if you missed 9 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: the premiere, you can watch it anytime anywhere on the 10 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: watch Own app. Guess that time. Buckle up and hold 11 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it fire you all right, guys, 12 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: you're ready for this one. Listen up. Subject. It never 13 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: lasts that long. It never lasts that long. Dere's DearS 14 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am forty five years old, have been 15 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: married for twelve years. I have a very good relationship 16 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: and this is the happiest I've ever been, except there's 17 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 1: one problem. My husband has issues in the bedroom and 18 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: it has been going on for five years now. We 19 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: have been to every kind of doctor and he's tried everything. 20 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 1: No matter what he tries he cannot last more than 21 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: a minute. There is no second time around because he 22 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: barely can make it through the first round. When we're finished, 23 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: he falls asleep while I'm still up and frustrated. At times, 24 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: I feel so neglected because I missed that up close 25 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: and personal feeling. It's to the point where I'm fantasized 26 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: about other people. I don't want to cheat on my husband, 27 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: but it seems he has just accepted that it at 28 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: it is what it is. This is so frustrating to me. 29 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: What should I do? Help me? Okay, so you're saying 30 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: via grass ce Alice, what's the other one? Le levitra? 31 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,959 Speaker 1: None of them work, None of this, none of this 32 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 1: stuff worth because you said you went to every kind 33 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: of doctor. He's tried everything. I mean, really, I thought 34 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: I thought viagra worked for you guys. Well, I don't know. 35 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's a mental thing. Sometimes it's some sort of 36 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: mental block um and it's not physical. So so maybe 37 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: you guys need to get some sort of counseling, some 38 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: sort of therapy or something to see what's going on 39 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: in his head. Okay, and I meant it just how 40 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: you took it. But but the real issue, but the 41 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: real issue is really his endurance level. I mean one 42 00:02:55,560 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: minute and done one and done? What? No, No, I'm 43 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: happy with that. Everyone's disappointed after just a minute. Uh. 44 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: And then the fact that you know, he just goes 45 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: to sleep like he did the darn thing. He just 46 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: goes to sleep, and and he doesn't seem to have 47 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: a problem with it. But I bet he does, you know, 48 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: I bet it does bother him. And I I understand 49 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: that you're disappointed. I say, don't give up, though, because 50 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: this is your husband. You guys have been together for 51 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: twelve years. Uh, you know there has to be something 52 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: you can do about it. Keep going to doctors, don't 53 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: stop until you really find out what the problem is. 54 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: Because there is a problem. Yeah, you gotta go. Yeah, Jay, 55 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: well obviously, And I hate to burst her bubble to 56 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: her like he hadn't done that yet anyway, And she's 57 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: not gonna want to hear what I have to say, 58 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: because I a minute is all he can stand of 59 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: you really, That's that's basically what he's said. What if 60 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: he wanted more than a minute, he would be there 61 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: more than a minute. Let me let me tell what 62 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Don't you have relatives? That you can't 63 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: stand to be around that damn long you gotta go. 64 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: This is how he feels about her. A minute. He's 65 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: running a thirty second man, He's given you an extra 66 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: thirty seconds off of his He's been together twelve years. 67 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 1: Twelve years? What twelve strong minutes? Love? She's just a greedy, 68 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: selfish woman. What's the man? And honestly, it's a strong minute? 69 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: It in a week minute. This is a strong wow, 70 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: strong a minute and yourselfish. That's what I'm saying. She's selfish. Okay, 71 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 1: so you're putting it back on her. Put a good minute, 72 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: a minute, Jay, strong minute. She didn't say it was strong. 73 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 1: If they go to sleep, it was strong. Do you 74 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: have to have been strong in order to go to sleep? 75 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: You're not on this side. Okay, I'm not a man. 76 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm not a minute man. You got that right. But 77 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: but but weren't the weren't a minute man? An incredible 78 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: group and resolution their wall and told you wouldn't be 79 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: what it is, sir. This is a prime example of 80 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: a woman being so selfish, selfish, selfish, it's all about her. 81 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: Do you know how many things would incredible have been 82 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: done in in a minute? That would they made Owen's 83 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: juice in a minute? Minute made didn't you got minute? 84 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: You got minute rice? One minute? In one minute you're 85 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: eating rice. Look at that, and one minute you can 86 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: you can fry an egg in one more minute's cooking 87 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: tonight when you get up and go thresh your teeth. 88 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: You you you're standing there for one minute and you 89 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: get it all done su the minute. The greatest is 90 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: her fault. Really, let me tell you, let me tell yourself. Yes, 91 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why. It's up on a minute. 92 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 1: But some of the greatest virtuals, some of my greatest 93 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: commercials on TV doing SMA boat or what one one minute? Yeah? Now, yeah, Shirley, 94 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: you know why because if she wants all this time 95 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: and all that, she should start by herself and wait 96 00:06:57,040 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: till the last minute to brand him. Yeah that in 97 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: the song six minutes, six minutes, he comes in at 98 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: the last minute. Okay, since we're doing music right now, Carlin, 99 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: wo did what did missy Elliott say? What does she say? 100 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: I don't won't know? One minute? Man, Okay, thank you, 101 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: thank you? Think you think again? Would be with miss 102 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: Lee more than a minute. You're not gonna put it 103 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: out there at O J. I hate you, JA. I 104 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: hate you right now. I hate you for saying that 105 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: out in the hell. Yeah, his opinion does not reflected 106 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: the view of the rest of this morning show. Have 107 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: you finished? I'm just saying I'm not mad. And when 108 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: you watch the news, don't you get a one minute update? 109 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: That's sometimes as all it takes you women. Some of 110 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: you women need to start by yourself and wait till 111 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: the last minute and bring us j You know you're 112 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: the youngest one in the group. I want to hear 113 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: from Junior when we come back, and you too. Oh wow, 114 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: we'll be back in what minute? Yeah, imagine that. I 115 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: was just kidding. I was just kidding. Now we will. 116 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: We will be back with part two of the Strawberry Letter. 117 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: This is crazy. Uh it never lasts that long, is 118 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: the subject. We will be back. Queen Sugar is the 119 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: critically acclaimed drama series Unowned from Academy Award nominated visionary 120 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: filmmaker Ava du Vernay, the director of Selma and Thirteen 121 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: and Knive producer Oprah Winfrey. Queen Sugar is a visually 122 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: stunning family drama that is as powerful as it is poetic, 123 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: and the very definition of Prestige TV. In a game 124 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: changing move, a team of all female directors were brought 125 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: on to create the first season, and season two will 126 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: be no different. Queen Sugar follows the three Borderline siblings, Charlie, 127 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: Nova and Ralph Angel as they struggle to move forward 128 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: with their lives while striving to honor the legacy of 129 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: their father following his unexpected passing. Together, they must learn 130 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: to rely on each other as they navigate what it 131 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: means to be family. Season one is now streaming only 132 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: on Hulu so you can catch up on all thirteen 133 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: episodes before the two nights season premiere event starts on Tuesday, 134 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: June nine, Central only on Own, and if you miss 135 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: the premiere, you can watch it anytime anywhere on the 136 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: watch on app Alright, coming up at forty one after 137 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: the hour, j Anthony Brown's Man in the Street, But 138 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: right now, it's part two of the Strawberry Letter. The 139 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: subject is it never lasts that long? Can I just 140 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: take a minute? When minute? No? No? I mean I 141 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: just need to get minute to apologize for the miss 142 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 1: Elliott Joe, But I meant I meant no harm. But 143 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: I would hardly be longer than a minute. Okay, okay, 144 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: that's her song in the back of alright, did nobody 145 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 1: else go off? I mean, no job after this, and 146 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: you can't go back. I can't go back, you can't 147 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: go back. So yeah, alright, apology accepted. This is written. 148 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: This letter was written, never lasted that long by a 149 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: forty five year old woman. She's been married for twelve years. 150 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 1: Very good relationship with her husband. Happiest she's ever been, 151 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: she said, except for there is one problem, and the 152 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 1: problem is that her husband has issues in the bedroom, 153 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: which means he never lasts longer than one minute. One minute, 154 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:15,199 Speaker 1: that's it, one and done, one and done. After that, 155 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: he falls asleep, and he doesn't he doesn't see anything 156 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: wrong with that. And she feels very neglected. This is 157 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: from the white She wants to know what she should do. 158 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: Uh Jay and Tommy seemed to feel that she's just very, 159 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:33,079 Speaker 1: very selfish, very Tommy even said, yes, yes, but it's 160 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: usually longer than after a minute. Tommy, what do you 161 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: need to sleep for after a minute? Right now? Why 162 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: are you sleep after a minute? I've done some great 163 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: work in a minute. Okay, I've done some great work. 164 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: All right, let's hear, let's hear from the young one 165 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: in the group, or I'm an add owner with Tommy 166 00:11:55,400 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: Jay saying that you you have one minute. There's also 167 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: one other elephant that's missing. It's not only he's selfish 168 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: and she's selfish, but these are actually two ugly people 169 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: sleeping together. Exactly what you say that because he going 170 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: straight to sleep after a minute, and she's bet a 171 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: saddened by the other people. People don't want to see you. 172 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 1: Not only is thinking she's selfish, these are two other people. 173 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: Why do we care how long they say slay? I 174 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:34,319 Speaker 1: tell you because they rode in because they asked that 175 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: one thing. I do understand you when to sleep? Whoever 176 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: he's sleeping thinking about he is telling their answer only 177 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: for a minute. You know the you know the bad 178 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: part about having a clock in the room. You'll be working, 179 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: you think you're working right, and you look at the 180 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: clock and it ain't move at all. Ting about making 181 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: I'm you've been in a wow. I tried to make 182 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: it through four songs. That's a long time from their work. 183 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: That's one phone. That's seven minutes. Loua Van dropped. Our 184 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 1: house is not a hole. I to top that try rappers, delation, rapperence, delight. 185 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: That's not a romantic songs, all right. So she wants 186 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: to know what should she do. I say, therapy, counseling, 187 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: whatever it takes to get to that point. Because you 188 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: want to save your marriage. I mean they've been in 189 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: the marriage for twelve years. Twelve long years. You should 190 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: just really cheat and yeah, yeah, she doesn't want to cheat. 191 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: Find your side piece and don't get paid out the way. 192 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: Right now, are you really looking for some time time? 193 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: Listen if you have issues, if you if you have 194 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: relationship problems and you want advice because you're talking nonsense 195 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: and your minute was up because your minute was up. 196 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: You only had a minute, all right, and uh anyway, yeah, 197 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: so okay, go to my Instagram at my Girls Shirley 198 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: to comment on today's letter. It never lasts that long. 199 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.