1 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Smantha, and welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: I never told you production by. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 2: I hurt you, and we're back with a movie related topic. 4 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: I feel like that that's perfect for what I will 5 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: say is the beginning of fall. Yes, mainly because it's 6 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 2: actually kind of cool and that has been for the 7 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: past couple of days, meaning around sixties or seventies before 8 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 2: like ten. 9 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 3: So for us, it's huge, huge. 10 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 2: Okay, it's not hit beyond ninety, which is incredible for 11 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 2: the like August and in September. I know everybody's like, what, 12 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: but with that just feels like movie season, like when 13 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 2: you get to come in and watch the movies, and 14 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: some of these movies since it's like. 15 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 3: School related, high school related. 16 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: Even feels like on topic because yes, all the kids 17 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: are back to school and they've been back. 18 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 3: To school for like a month. 19 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry to y'all because that sounds awful and we're 20 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 2: not talking about the movie and I'm about to get 21 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: to it. But any I don't think we've actually watched 22 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: this for the show, and I'm kind of shocked by that. 23 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 2: I already talked about this yesterday. I had realize we've 24 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 2: never done this as a feminist movie, which is a 25 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 2: shame which I feel like we're gonna have to like 26 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: fix soon. But we were talking about the overall trope 27 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: of it, and we're talking about the mean girl trope, 28 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: and the mean girl trope has many names, and we're 29 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 2: gonna be referencing all the different names, and we will 30 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 2: be cursing a little bit because you know, they don't 31 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: like women and oftentimes degrade them in these tropes. We 32 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 2: know this, and I say they as in like filmmakers 33 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 2: and entertainers and all those people. So yes, we'll be 34 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: referencing the movie quite a bit, as it obviously has 35 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 2: a big impact. 36 00:01:56,160 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: Seriously, the title of the movie is mean Girl, So yeah, 37 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 3: and uh. 38 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: But first we want to note that mean girls goes 39 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 2: way back, like the actual idea of them, one specifically 40 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 2: noted from Jane Austen's classic Pride and Prejudice, which we 41 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: did cover. Hello Caroline Binkley. I feel like she is 42 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: an ultimate mean girl. She never does get a redemption 43 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: arc either, so the original mean girl. So let's start 44 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: with this question, Annie, do you have a favorite mean 45 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: girl or like a scenario of mean girls? Oh? 46 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: No, I remember when you suggested this I said, this 47 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: is like so out of what I but. 48 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: It's not because horror movies use this trope quite often. 49 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: They do, But I bet I classify it differently than 50 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: how I classify a mean girl. 51 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 2: Oh, because I would think bodies, bodies, bodies, mean girl. 52 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 2: But the mean girls there, which is we have that 53 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 2: whole like ousting of friendships and then like calling each 54 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: other out for not being around. 55 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: It's kind of this level of mingrel I would say more. 56 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: I'm sure I can't think of it in mind. 57 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: Well, Jennifer's Body is actually we're gonna mention that movie 58 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 2: and that is a mean girl movie as well, essentially, 59 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: so you know there's more than you think. The mean 60 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 2: girl has had evolution, an essential like growth and up dates. 61 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,119 Speaker 2: So with that, that's what we're seeing and a lot 62 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: of horror movies, Carrie, I'm mentioning that as well also 63 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 2: has which you. 64 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 3: Have watched that right? Oh my god. 65 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: I keep coming back to all the movies, Like every 66 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: time you tell me you haven't watched something, even though 67 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 2: you've already told me this, I'm in shock. But I 68 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: will also say I was also in shock when you 69 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: do tell me you've watched a movie I'm like, you 70 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 2: have seen that one death becomes her an enigma? You 71 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: are death becomes or you have watched that. We haven't 72 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: talked about that and those like that's two mean girls, 73 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: two alpha girls going after each other, which is even funnier. 74 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 3: But anyway, I digress. 75 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 2: There's a lot and I think I'm gonna put a 76 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: spoiler here because we are talking a little bit about 77 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: one of your favorite movies in Kanto and it's fairly new, 78 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: and we do kind of spoil a couple of things, 79 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 2: so FYI, that's coming towards the end. 80 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 3: So let's begin. What is a main girl exactly? 81 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 2: Here's how Victoria con Leon sorry if I've said that wrong, 82 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 2: describes them for VNHS Mirror dot com. In teen media, 83 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 2: the main girl is typically an antagonistic character, notoriously good 84 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 2: at tormenting. 85 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 3: The main character. 86 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 2: These girls are often portrayed as popular, vain, selfish, and manipulative, 87 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: always sporting the best style. They come from rich families 88 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: with an air of determined self assurance. 89 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: And from a wonderful article written by student Ivy Gen 90 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 1: for their school on Highlight dot Org. Here's how she 91 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: explains the mean girl quote. According to online entertainment magazine 92 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: The take. The mean girl is confident, cunning, and manipulative. 93 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 1: She often finds entertainment from humiliating others, but is still 94 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: seen as charismatic and alluring by her peers. On the surface, 95 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 1: she's the face of power and corruption. She personifies the 96 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: status quo of the social hierarchy with a click that 97 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: enforces her tyrannical nature. 98 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 3: What is that movie? 99 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: Though, we just watched Where's the Influencer going on the 100 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 2: bachelorette party? 101 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 3: This is again the mean girl. 102 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 2: We see like we don't understand why she's mean. I mean, 103 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 2: she was mean from the beginning and pushed heart over 104 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 2: the edge, but it ended up being a horror movie. 105 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 3: Yes, again, like, there's so many of these examples. She 106 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 3: has to humiliate her, she has to be right. 107 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 2: She's the one that has all the money, she does 108 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 2: all the things, buys the nice things. 109 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 3: This is the mean girl. 110 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: And we'll come back to Ivy's article because she has 111 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: a very great insight on the theory on the mean 112 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 2: girl trope and its evolution. And I was so impressed 113 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 2: with her. I think she is her high school newspaper essentially. 114 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 2: It was like, but it's good so I'm gonna use it. 115 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 2: I love it, and her writing was wonderful, So good 116 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 2: on you, Ivy. But first, let's talk about the origins 117 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 2: of the mean girl and how it has been used 118 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: throughout our entertainment history and just history in general sociology. 119 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: Mean girls have been around for the entirety of the 120 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: existence of humans, it has, but the term itself didn't 121 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 2: come around until two thousand and two, when author Rosalind 122 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 2: Wiseman coined the term in her book Queen Bees and Wannabes. 123 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 2: And for a bit of background on that, Wiseman, who 124 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 2: was originally a martial arts teacher, I believe she does 125 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 2: have a degree in political science. 126 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 3: She taught young women. 127 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 2: She wrote this book, which pushed her into the world 128 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: of being an author and public speaker. And as we 129 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 2: were researching the topic, we didn't exactly find what catapulted 130 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 2: her to that world necessarily, like there wasn't just an 131 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 2: aha moment. But she does often talk about how she 132 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 2: witnessed the constant social cycles within girl circles. 133 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 3: So here's a bit from her Wikipedia page. So take 134 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 3: this with a green salt. 135 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 2: After hearing the young girls questions about social issues they 136 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 2: faced and watching them become empowered by martial arts. Wiseman 137 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 2: was inspired to begin working in the youth empowerment and 138 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 2: leadership building. After spending over a decade speaking with girls 139 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: about the social issues they face, including boys, clicks, gossip, 140 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: social hierarchy, and self image, Wiseman wrote Queen Bees and Wannabes. 141 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 2: The book gives suggestions on how parents can better understand 142 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: and help their daughters navigate the social atmosphere of what 143 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 2: Wiseman refers to as quote girl world. Since his release 144 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: in two thousand and two, it has become a New 145 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 2: York Times bestseller and was the basis for the two 146 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: thousand and four film Mean Girls. And though the actual 147 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: trope again has been around forever. So let's just like 148 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 2: we know, we've we know what it is without giving 149 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 2: it me like the name right because you can look 150 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: at the movie carry which apparently any hasn't seen, no, 151 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: and it is the epitome of mean girls for real 152 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: or even children's classics. The parent trap. There's like, even 153 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 2: though they're not truly mean girls, they. 154 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,119 Speaker 3: Are mean girls to each other. At first they bully 155 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: each other. 156 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 2: I don't understand, although again this falls into the more 157 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 2: lovable misunderstood mean girl trope, which is part of the 158 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: evolution of the mean girl that we're going to talk 159 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: about later. The term came after the coining within this 160 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 2: self help book. And by the way, the author has 161 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 2: written many more books and including advice for adult mean 162 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: girl situations like in the workplace. Also, I believe they 163 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 2: are on the third edition of the original book so 164 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 2: as to keep up with the times and the changes. 165 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, new movie too. 166 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 167 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: Also, I just realized I've seen the rage carry two. 168 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: Just does that make me want to flip the table? 169 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 2: So you need to stop talking. 170 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 1: Because there was a song in there I liked. 171 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 3: I'll give you that. I'll give you that, Okay. Anyway. 172 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: Wiseman often uses titles like Queen Bee and alpha Girls 173 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: to categorize the mean girls, and throughout the book and 174 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: in her classes and seminars, she's really classified the different types. 175 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: In one reference, she would use the term really mean 176 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: girls are RMG's as a reference for alpha girls. Here's 177 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: a bit from a two thousand and four New York 178 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: Times article titled girls Just Want to Be Mean, where 179 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: they talk about having an apology day and one of 180 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: Weisman's classes quote the girls whom Weisman variously calls the 181 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: alpha girls. The RMG's really mean girls are the queen 182 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: bees are the ones who are supposed to own up 183 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: to having backstabbed or dumped a front, but they are 184 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,679 Speaker 1: also the most resistant to the exercise and the most 185 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: self justifying. The girls who are their habitual victims or 186 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: hangers on. The wannabes and messengers in Weisman's lingo, are 187 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: always apologizing anyway. 188 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 2: Right, And within the article they talk a bit more 189 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: about Wiseman herself, as well as a great reference to 190 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 2: again one of our favorite Heathers. We've mentioned a lot 191 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 2: of movies in here that we have watched. 192 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you know, just listen to for those. Here's 193 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 3: a quote. 194 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 2: Wiseman, who is thirty two and hip and girlish herself, 195 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: has taught this class at many different schools, and it's 196 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 2: fair to say that although she loves girls, she does 197 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 2: not cling to sentimental notions about them. She is a feminist, 198 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 2: but not the sort likely to ascribe greater inherent compassion 199 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: to women or girls as a group than two men 200 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:38,679 Speaker 2: or boys. 201 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 1: More. 202 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 2: Her style is the analysis of the feminist historian Elizabeth 203 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 2: Fox Genoviz, who has observed that quote, those who have 204 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 2: experienced dismissal by that junior high school girls clique could 205 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 2: hardly with a straight face claim generosity and nurture as 206 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: a natural attribute of women. 207 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 3: Together. 208 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: Weiseman and I once watched the movie Heathers, the nineteen 209 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 2: eighty nine black comedy about a triad of vicious queen 210 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 2: bees who got their come uppance, and she found it 211 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 2: quote pretty true to life. The line uttered by Winona 212 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 2: Writer as Veronica, the disaffected non Heather of the group, 213 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: struck her as particularly apt. I don't really like my friends. 214 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 2: It's just like there are people I work with and 215 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 2: our job is being popular. 216 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: And the article gives a bit more factual context on 217 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: the mean girls and why we may have been inundated 218 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: with so much mean girl content in the nineties and 219 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: two thousands. Quote. This focus on the cruelty of girls is, 220 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: of course something new. For years, psychologists who study aggression 221 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 1: among school children looked only at its physical and overt 222 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: manifestations and concluded that girls were less aggressive than boys. 223 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: That consensus began to change in the early nineties after 224 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: a team of researchers led by a Finnish professor named 225 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: kaj Yorquist started interviewing eleven and twelve year old girls 226 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: about their behavior toward one another. The team's conclusion was 227 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: that the girls were in fact just as aggressive as boys, 228 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: though in a different way. They were not as likely 229 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,079 Speaker 1: to engage in physical fights, for example, but their superior 230 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: social intelligence enabled them to wage complicated battles with other 231 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: girls aimed at damaging relationships or reputations, leaving nasty messages 232 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: by cell phone or spreading scurrilous rumors by email, making 233 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: friends with one girl as revenge against another, gossiping about 234 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: someone just loudly enough to be overheard. Turning the notion 235 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: of women's greater empathy on its head byor quests focused 236 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: on the destructive uses to which such emotional attunement could 237 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: be put. Girls can better understand how other girls feel, 238 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: as he puts it, so they know better how to 239 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: harm them. 240 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 2: I will say that just triggered me to a middle 241 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 2: school incident on the playground or friends where we were 242 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 2: separated and one person wasn't invited. 243 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 3: To a birthday party. Oh, just like I had that moment. 244 00:12:54,280 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 4: Jeez, So I'm not completely wrong about this whole That 245 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 4: was always a girl's girl, if you did something wrong, 246 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,559 Speaker 4: I was like mad at you, like if you did 247 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 4: something really wrong. 248 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 2: But outside of that, Nah, but yeah, I just had 249 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 2: this moment wow or Maria, Sorry Maria. So the article 250 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 2: goes on to highlight other studies that came soon after. 251 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 2: Here's something that was written in relation to Rachel Simmons' 252 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 2: work titled Odd Girl Out The Hidden Culture of Aggression 253 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 2: and Girls. In her book The twenty seven year Old, 254 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: Simmons offers a plaintive definition of a relational aggression. Unlike 255 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 2: boys who tend to bully acquaintances or strangers, girls frequently 256 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 2: attack within tightly knit friendship networks, making aggression harder to 257 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,559 Speaker 2: identify and intensify the damage to the victims. Within the 258 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 2: hidden culture of aggression, girls fight with body language and 259 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 2: relationships instead of fists and knives. In this world, friendship 260 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 2: is a weapon, and the sting of a shout peals 261 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 2: in comparison to a day of someone's silence. No gesture 262 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 2: more devastating than back turning away. Now, Simonist insists, is 263 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 2: the time to pull up the rock and really look 264 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 2: at this seeding underside of American girlhood beneath a facade 265 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 2: of female intimacy, she writes, lies a terrain traveled in secret, 266 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 2: marked with anguish and nourished by silence. 267 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 3: She's not completely wrong. 268 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and again this. 269 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 2: Kind of also reminds me of a New Girl episode 270 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 2: where the two jests and CEC don't talk to each other, like, 271 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 2: they don't actually fight, but they do passive aggressive things, 272 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 2: but they know they're in a fight, and no one 273 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: else knows that they're in a fight, right, And then 274 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 2: when they actually get physical with each other, they feel 275 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 2: better and you screamed at each other, they released it 276 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 2: all and their friends again. 277 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 3: But I'm like, that doesn't typically happen. 278 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 2: When that happens, friendship usically just over right by that 279 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: point anyway. And though it isn't mentioned in the article 280 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: about how the patriarchy and misogyny are big influences within 281 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 2: this relative aggression that they have termed this type of actions, 282 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 2: they do go on to look into other ages and 283 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 2: emotional factors for the reactions. And I don't think we're 284 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 2: the only ones who thought about this. Here's another quote 285 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 2: from the CEC online dot Com article. It says, to 286 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 2: get into the discourse of it all, the popular mean 287 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 2: girl trope is a caricature feeling internalized misogyny in all 288 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 2: of us. Ironically, she's often written by men. As much 289 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 2: as we know that she is an exaggerated and unrealistic 290 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 2: movie character, she's so ingrained in our minds that it 291 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 2: feels like surely some of her must be real and 292 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 2: must be present in real women. Hollywood has pulled this 293 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 2: long con on us over decades in an act of 294 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 2: what we would now call next level gaslighting. This archetype 295 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 2: made us feel bad for not being unrealistically beautiful, rich, 296 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 2: or thin. But more than that, did it encourage an 297 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 2: era of bullying that caused more damage than anyone could 298 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: have expected. These movies told us that being mean is 299 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: what made you popular. We can't help but wonder what 300 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 2: this did for the psyche of teenagers growing up. So 301 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 2: just coupling the two ideas about, okay, this is how 302 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 2: you win a war is by being mean to a group, 303 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 2: like gaging up on someone, versus also seeing that in 304 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: Hollywood films, as well as not realizing this is only 305 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 2: helping one set of peoples and it's not women or 306 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 2: marginalized peoples. But I found that very interesting that none 307 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 2: of the earlier works really talks about it. I also 308 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 2: want to go ahead and talk about the fact the 309 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 2: way they describe Wiseman's feminism as very like low key, 310 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 2: almost to the point of saying I'm not feminists, but 311 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 2: type of conversation I was like, oh okay, oh okay. However, 312 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: Wiseman did continue to make additions to keep up with 313 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: the changes of the times. So what we were talking 314 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 2: about when we were talking about her theories was the 315 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 2: two thousand and four edition and the self helpic did 316 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:06,400 Speaker 2: have an impact again in the trope itself, literally being 317 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 2: the reason that the movie Mean Girls was even thought 318 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 2: of by Tina Fey, who actually did consult a bit 319 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 2: with Wiseman. I don't know though, if she took a 320 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 2: lot of that advice Tina Fey. I think she took 321 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,120 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff out and did her own thing. 322 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 2: Did talk to Wiseman, but kind of like just okay, cool, thanks, 323 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: type of situations. 324 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, from what I've read, I don't think she likes 325 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 3: a new version. 326 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 327 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 2: That's what that's why, just just just the just the 328 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 2: quick kess of I've not seen that. With that background, 329 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 2: let's talk about the Mean Girls the main inspiration actually 330 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 2: comes from the classic Heathers. Uh. Yes, we did this 331 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 2: feature as one of our first movies. I remember it well, 332 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 2: being on your beach house watching it on your small TV. Yeah, 333 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 2: because you had bought it from me on DVD, and 334 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, let's do this. But like we said before, 335 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 2: the mean girls have been around way before this, but 336 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 2: this was kind of the quintessential beginning. And again what 337 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: Wiseman took as examples, but like, yeah, they're the fairy tale. 338 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 2: Cinderella is about meingirls, her wicked stepsisters and her mother. Yeah, hey, 339 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: meanirl theme. They were real mean to her, but she, 340 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:36,639 Speaker 2: you know, succeeded without them, and they just there's different 341 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 2: versions of what happens to them, but it's not nice. 342 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 2: But Heathers, yes, as a staple when it comes to 343 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:44,120 Speaker 2: the best example. Here's a bit from the teenmagazine dot 344 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 2: com about meingirls. I can't talk about the mean girl 345 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 2: trope without first mentioning Heathers, the nineteen eighty nine cult 346 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 2: classic that simultaneously became the blueprint for the archetype and 347 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 2: defied the somewhat sexist expectations of teenage girls. Heathers show 348 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 2: the consequence this is not just of mean girls' actions themselves, 349 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 2: but of societal misunderstanding of teens and angst, while poking 350 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 2: fun of the characters and the subject matter with hilarious 351 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 2: self awareness. 352 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: So in the typical story, we have a girl often 353 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 1: seen as innocent or an outsider, are both, who are 354 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 1: pitted against another girl and her posse. This posse is 355 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: seen as popular and cool, and they dictate the social 356 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: hierarchy in their territory. And again with another reference to 357 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: the Heathers, hears a bit more about the leader, or 358 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: as Wiseman may call her, the Alpha from that CEC 359 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 1: Online article quote. We know her so well. She's gorgeous, 360 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 1: she's wealthy, she's smart, she drives boys crazy, and above all, 361 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: she's the absolute worst. She's the popular mean girl in 362 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:50,880 Speaker 1: every teen movie we grew up watching, and she's completely 363 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 1: made up. Despite her not existing, this archetype has stuck 364 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: around for decades, still being used today in movies, series 365 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: and reality TV, so implanted in our minds that we're 366 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 1: convinced that her real life incarnation must be out there 367 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 1: somewhere waiting to pounce and make us feel bad. Despite feminism, 368 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: pop culture and representation making so many progressive strides. Why 369 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: is the popular mean girl so indelible and why the 370 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: hell was she created in the first place. What is 371 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 1: it that makes this character so quintessentially her? She's stereotypically beautiful, 372 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: of course, but she's also really mean. From one of 373 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: her first iterations embodied by Heather Chandler and Heathers to 374 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 1: Chanelle number one in screen Queens, she's tall, skinny, white, 375 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,479 Speaker 1: and she has Salan quality hairstyling every day despite being 376 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: in high school. She's also always rich, and not in 377 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 1: a quiet luxury kind of way. We'll see ostentatious shots 378 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: of her family's massive suburban house, her fancy car, often 379 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: convertible sports cars it was the nineties, her huge bedroom 380 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: in bed, and most obviously, her incredible wardrobe. 381 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:01,719 Speaker 2: Right, And we're not really talking about the depth of 382 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 2: how most of the mean girls at the beginning were 383 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 2: white and very rich and very sexual or seen as 384 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 2: very sexual. We're not really talking about that part at 385 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 2: this point. 386 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 3: We should. 387 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 2: I think I've just ran at it with time or 388 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 2: so we'll come back to that maybe at a different 389 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 2: point when we talk about other tropes. I'm sure, but yeah, 390 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 2: that is something to be seen, although there is conversations 391 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: about how more and more people of color have been 392 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: put as the mean girls. Asian girls I've seen as 393 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 2: being put in this as the mean girl, rich, small, 394 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: all those things and sexually active obviously, and it seems 395 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 2: like that's kind of the filler, like, oh, you want 396 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:44,640 Speaker 2: more people of color. 397 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 3: We'll put them in this role. Then it will shake 398 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 3: it up. 399 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 2: And yeah, just for fun, because I love it, We're 400 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 2: gonna talk a little bit more about the Heathers and 401 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 2: really how it brought into in an age and generation 402 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 2: of mean girls and again their importance. 403 00:21:58,840 --> 00:21:59,880 Speaker 3: And this is from gain. 404 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:04,640 Speaker 2: Rent, though it has appeared in many, many iterations since. 405 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 2: The earliest example of mean girl tropes as we know 406 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 2: it today it came from the nineteen eighty eight movies 407 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 2: or nineteen eighty nine Heathers. Heathers had had a sort 408 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 2: of renaissance lately because of the surging popularity of the 409 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 2: musical adaptation, but the original movie was kind of a 410 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 2: cult classic for a long time. The mean girls in 411 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 2: questions are the Heathers themselves, three teenage girls all named 412 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 2: Heather who ruled the school as a group Heather Chandler 413 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 2: is the head and is the ultimate pinnacle of the 414 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 2: mean girl, so much so that basically everyone who came 415 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 2: after was based on this model. She, along with other girls, 416 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 2: is fundamentally motivated by status in social hierarchy, whether that's 417 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,439 Speaker 2: gaining it or maintaining the capital she already has. That's 418 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 2: kind of the definition of the mean girl. She's confident, ambitious, 419 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,679 Speaker 2: and cunning, but she uses these traits to uphold power 420 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 2: and manipulate others into doing her bidding, thereby keeping her 421 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 2: as the bee. Is also important to the trope that 422 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 2: other people want to be her, and Heather Chandler's social 423 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 2: status is so coveted by others that it literally has 424 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 2: deadly consequences in the stories and oftentimes in horror stories. Interestingly, 425 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 2: some would call the mean girl trope the Heather trope. 426 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 2: Like I was like, oh yeah, that makes sense. According 427 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 2: to an article titled the Heather Trope? 428 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:23,679 Speaker 3: What is it? 429 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 2: And how do you write this character? We're not giving 430 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 2: you advice how to write, by the way, just talk 431 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 2: about head apart they write. A Heather is a character 432 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,360 Speaker 2: trope that describes the popular person of the high school. Typically, 433 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 2: a Heather is a female character who is traditionally beautiful 434 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: and is desired by both men and women. A character 435 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 2: who falls into the heather trope is often complex and 436 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 2: driven by desire to keep up a well manicured appearance. 437 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 2: Similar to the mean girl, the Heather can come off 438 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 2: as a mean spirited even if they're trying to be nice. 439 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 2: This is due to the audience's perception of these types 440 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 2: of characters, which leads to a later understanding of the 441 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:05,359 Speaker 2: characters complexities that make them feel the need to appear 442 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,600 Speaker 2: a certain way. 443 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: And it continues quote. The heather trope appeals to the 444 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,480 Speaker 1: female desire to be understood and accepted as they are, 445 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: rather than what they appear to be. It is a 446 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 1: trope that can often be misunderstood and misrepresented, creating a 447 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: character that is mean just because they're pretty. 448 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's a little bit different in the wanting 449 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,080 Speaker 2: to be accepted part. They actually go on to use 450 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 2: Dinnifer from Jennifer's Body Again, we watched that one too 451 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 2: as an example of this and also as an example 452 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 2: of taking down the patriarchy. 453 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 3: So they use the mean girl trope to take down 454 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 3: the man. I'm like, okay, that's that's that's. 455 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 2: An appropriate way. Yeah, I approve it this way, so 456 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 2: I'm definitely the feminist that the other articles referring. Now, 457 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 2: one of the things we didn't talk about with Weisman's 458 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 2: books and classes is her breakdown of these groups, which 459 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 2: is often seen again within like Heathers and Mean Girls 460 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,360 Speaker 2: and other classic films. But it is understood that part 461 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 2: of the downfall and the catalyst within the mean Girl 462 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 2: slash girls trope as the battle to become the RMG 463 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 2: or the alpha. And I love that this word was 464 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 2: in usage for mean Girls and now have become more 465 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 2: popular for like the referencing on a strong male leader. 466 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: But back to the GameRant dot com article, they continue 467 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: to break down how the group is seen within different movies. 468 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: Quote Heather's itself is a satire and more of an 469 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 1: indictment on society for forcing young girls to get to 470 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 1: this point more than anything else, but the fundamental tropes 471 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,159 Speaker 1: it presented became staples of ten movies into the nineties 472 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 1: and two thousands. Mean Girls presented a more modern version 473 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: of the trio from Heathers from the head mean girl 474 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: Heather Chandler and Regina George to the jealous Lackey Heather 475 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,360 Speaker 1: Duke and Gretchen Wieners to the dumb one who might 476 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,879 Speaker 1: secretly be the nicest of the trio, Heather McNamara and 477 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 1: Karen Smith. The bearz of the plot of Mean Girls 478 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,960 Speaker 1: is similar to Heathers as well. The protagonists Veronica Slash 479 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,679 Speaker 1: Katie befriends the popular girls and thinks they've cracked the 480 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: code of social status, only to find that the world 481 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: of the mean Girl is much darker than they thought, 482 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: and they don't like how it changes them. 483 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 2: Yes, after they get called out, of course, So the 484 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,919 Speaker 2: RMG or the Alpha or alpha because a lot of 485 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 2: them call them the Alpha or Queen B is the 486 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: antagonist and I'm saying this with a capital A. The 487 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 2: antagonist and is the epitome of power or of evil 488 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 2: or both. And here's a bit from TV tropes dot org. 489 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 2: The Alpha is living, breathing evidence that popular is evil, 490 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 2: from stealing your crush to humiliating you in front of 491 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 2: the whole school. There is no low she won't stoop 492 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,879 Speaker 2: to in order to oppress her dorky classmates and assert 493 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 2: herself as the queen. She will often win Homecoming Queen 494 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,880 Speaker 2: or prom Queen in a landslide vote or not, that's 495 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:04,360 Speaker 2: their takedown, and oftentimes she's the authority of the cheerleading 496 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 2: squad and decides who's on and off the squad. After all, 497 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 2: who needs a coach? 498 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 3: Hello'e bring it on. 499 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: And they continue quote. She's also usually the sign of 500 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 1: a wealthy and influential family, the star of the school 501 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: or head sister of the influential college sorority house, thus 502 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 1: providing her a network of local celebrity, influence and wealth 503 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 1: to exploit. She's also quite the seductress, even going so 504 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: far as to bear her midriff as a method of intimidation, 505 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:36,640 Speaker 1: and consequently all the boys fight amongst themselves, sometimes literally, 506 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: to be her oppressed boyfriend. And to top it off, 507 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: she's also very good looking. All this leaves her with 508 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: the belief that she can do whatever she likes without consequences. Unfortunately, 509 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 1: she's often right. The powers that be are not immune 510 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: to her family's wealth, connections and influence, and they can 511 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,640 Speaker 1: and will be corrupted or coerced into overlooking her bad behavior. 512 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,680 Speaker 1: Her natural enemy is the loser heroine. Whenever their eternal 513 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,560 Speaker 1: jealousy fueld struggle over possessions, boyfriends, and status is sparked, 514 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 1: aew quarter will neither be asked for nor given. 515 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,640 Speaker 2: So with all those details, we have to ask, why 516 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 2: does the mean girl trope work and has it grown 517 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 2: with the times. Maybe it's not the fact that it worked, 518 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 2: but with a sense of entertainment and foretales like Cinderella, 519 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 2: Heathers and Carrie. 520 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,400 Speaker 3: More of it's about justice. 521 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 2: Like having the deadly ending that brings a bit of 522 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,159 Speaker 2: satisfaction in the story that that vengeance, And as the 523 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 2: time has changed, we see a bit of a shift 524 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 2: into the lovable alpha or the reginas who's able to 525 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 2: release their anger and finally be themselves. 526 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, here's some thoughts on the mean girl and 527 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: what we as a society may see about them. From 528 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 1: Women's Republic dot net quote. Contrary to her male counterpart, 529 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: the jock bully, who is usually dumb and lacks a 530 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: promising future, the mean girl is full of potential. She 531 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 1: believes herself and is aware of her own intelligence. Her 532 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: personality drives these positive characteristics to a hyper competitive extreme 533 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,959 Speaker 1: and makes her a skilled, yet cruel and devious ruler. 534 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: The core of the mean girl's character is often deep 535 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: insecurity and anger. She is guided by her rage and 536 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: her cynical and deep understanding of the world. Rachel mcadam's 537 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: portrayal of Regina George captures this eloquently in Regina's meltdown 538 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: after finding out that Katie was deceiving her all along, 539 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: or in the regular rude outburst she has towards her mom. 540 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,719 Speaker 1: The mean girl is really just an angry girl in 541 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: need of boundaries and guidance. Unable to deal with her emotion, 542 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: she projects her anger into selfishness and protects herself from 543 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: the outside world, climbing the social hierarchy. The mean girl 544 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: is well aware of how society works. Instead of fighting 545 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 1: these structures, she upholds them because at least that way 546 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,040 Speaker 1: she can end up on top. 547 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 2: Right and the writer goes into more detail of what 548 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 2: makes a good mean girl. She writes, a successful portrayal 549 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 2: of Meingirlo trope should include a motive to the meanness. 550 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 2: Sharpey Evans wanted to start on Broadway. Regina George was 551 00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 2: addicted to the power of being influential and saw her 552 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 2: own self worth in popularity. Blair Waldorf relied on her 553 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 2: status to achieve her dreams. The mean girl needs a 554 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 2: backstory to make her authentic. Explaining her behavior simply on 555 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 2: the basis of her gender is sexist and unsatisfying. Her 556 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 2: life also isn't all is cut out to be. Regina 557 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 2: George is on a constant diet to maintain her figure. 558 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 2: Cheryl Blossom lost her brother and closest friend, Rosalie hale 559 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 2: A Low Twilight hates being a vampire the foundation of 560 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 2: her existence. The mean girl is smart, she has a 561 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 2: signature look, and most importantly, she exues desirability on several levels, 562 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 2: which remains even after her downfall. So we know that 563 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 2: we have to have mean girls for some of these 564 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,720 Speaker 2: movies and hopefully they come back together with like, oh 565 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 2: it wasn't a competition hopefully or you know, taking down Man. 566 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 3: One of those. 567 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: So the mean girl must be the feminine representation as well. 568 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 2: So here's some interesting thoughts from Madison Huizinga, I'm so 569 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 2: sorry if I said that wrong, and what she wrote 570 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 2: in her substack about mean girls. So mingirl is always 571 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 2: hyper feminine. She embodies feminine stereotypes on steroids, immaculate faces 572 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 2: of ultra glamorous makeup, victorious secret push up bras, be 573 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 2: dazzled notebooks, luscious waterfalls of the care, manicured nails, and 574 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 2: an undying obsession with fashion. Mean girls of the nineties 575 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 2: and early two thousands looked like they got caught in 576 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 2: a Claire's thunderstorm, followed by a limited to tornado. 577 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: What a reference? What a reference? And she continues in 578 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: her writing quote, the cookie cutter characterization of a hyper 579 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 1: feminine mean girl and an unfeminine protagonist is not an accident. 580 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: There's a reason why this formula has thrived for decades, 581 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 1: the same reason why young boys are reprimanded for preferring 582 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: to play with dolls and wear skirts, while young girls 583 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: are more often praised for not being afraid to get dirty, 584 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,600 Speaker 1: playing in the mud, and stuck with the label tomboy. 585 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 1: In a patriarchal society, femininity is viewed at best as 586 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 1: acute deficiency and at worst as evil. Obviously, America has 587 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 1: moved past witch trials, yet the disdain for femininity persists 588 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 1: in slighter ways, less boisterous, but loud enough to permeate 589 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: the consciousness of media consumers of all genders. Four years teen, 590 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,120 Speaker 1: rom coms have disseminated the message that if girls want 591 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 1: to be viewed as intelligent, interesting and in the end 592 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 1: worthy of an equally smart and steady boyfriend. They ultimately 593 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: need to abandon their overly feminine qualities. Eliminate your vocal fry, 594 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: wipe off the lip gloss, Prove that you're the exception, 595 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 1: the brilliant needle in the haystack of ditsy girlishness to 596 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 1: be seen as having any kind of substance. Prove you're 597 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: not like most girls. To prove your significance. 598 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 2: Right, and it isn't too surprising to know that it 599 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 2: is the opposits that have to fight that the enemy 600 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 2: would be the outsider. We would add to that the 601 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 2: layers of makeover tropes, the betting trope. You know, dude 602 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,240 Speaker 2: will definitely have sex with the unpopular girl who was 603 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 2: hot all along, but they don't have sex, and instead 604 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 2: he the dude, gets a redemption arc because at the 605 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 2: last minute he decided that's not a nice idea. But 606 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,800 Speaker 2: even without those types of tropes, we would still have 607 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 2: the pretty girl versus the not as pretty girl, or 608 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 2: so we're told that, you know, her curly hair makes 609 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 2: her unpretty? 610 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 3: Or glasses am I right? Am I right? 611 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 1: As Huizinga writes quote, and somehow the pendulum manages to 612 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: swing to the other extreme, too, conceiving a swarm of 613 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 1: opposing but related identity issues. If girls don't conventionally groom 614 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: or adorn themselves like the stereotypical woman, if they abandon makeup, 615 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 1: long hair, and dresses, they're often seen as less of 616 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: a girl. Sometimes they're asked if they are even girls 617 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: at all. As conceptions of gender are inextricably tough, hied 618 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 1: up with appearances, and so a balancing act fit for 619 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,400 Speaker 1: the circus emerges. Girls quickly learn to be tightrope walkers, 620 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: walking the fine line between being a socially acceptable, conventionally 621 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,160 Speaker 1: attractive woman, but not being so girlish that they're seen 622 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 1: as stupid, unserious, or caddy, perhaps also while trying to 623 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 1: figure out the person they want to be for themselves, 624 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: apart from the media influence, if that's even possible to discern. 625 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 1: The stress of this balancing act bolsters an already thriving 626 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: culture of competition among women. When the patriarchy only allows 627 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: a small fixed number of pedestals of power for women, 628 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: they must fight each other for them, leading to a 629 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:45,840 Speaker 1: flourishing cesspool of internalized misogyny. Rather than targeting this energy 630 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: towards dismantling the patriarchy, the source of this issue. Girls 631 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: express hatred toward other girls, their designated opponents. Instead of 632 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 1: using some of this energy to uplift other girls, they 633 00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 1: direct it towards trying to be the exception to It's 634 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,799 Speaker 1: a cure, a spot on the prize pedestal, be it 635 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: a gateway to a higher pinging job, a boyfriend, or 636 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 1: just healthy self worse. 637 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 3: Right, And I feel like she kind of took what 638 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 3: we were saying at the beginning. How we didn't. No 639 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:13,799 Speaker 3: one was addressing that part. 640 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 2: Everybody was just addressing, Oh, mean girls could be mean 641 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 2: they can. 642 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 3: We understand this, But why in this scenario? 643 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 2: And yes, the usage of mean girl to propel the 644 00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,720 Speaker 2: narrative that women can't be friends is not something new 645 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:33,920 Speaker 2: in the foil. Not like most girls, Trope is placed 646 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 2: to make sure that the friendship seems near and possible. 647 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 2: Huizinga devines this. Not like most girls, Trope as the 648 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 2: protagonist in our story. Unlike mean girls, she is pleasant 649 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: and shows compassion to friends and strangers. She is often 650 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 2: smart or talented in some secretive way, perhaps notably bookish, artistic, 651 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 2: or athletic. When one of these hidden talents is uncovers, 652 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 2: she peaks the interest of another prominent character, typically the 653 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 2: attractive boyfriend and of the mean girl, or at least 654 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:07,080 Speaker 2: the interest strikingly not like most girls, defining uh stable 655 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 2: trait is the complete opposite of the mean girls. She 656 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 2: is decidedly not feminine. She either subtly dresses more plain 657 00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 2: and boyish than the mean girl, more pants less pink, 658 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:21,800 Speaker 2: or downright rejects fashion and makeup altogether, deeming it unnecessary 659 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,839 Speaker 2: or trivial. Her hair is either thrown up in a 660 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 2: practical ponytail or stuffed into a knotted bundle atop her 661 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 2: scalp rather than holding a handbag. She can be found 662 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 2: roaming the hallways with her nose stuck in a book, 663 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 2: clumsily bumping into fellows students. Yeah, this is uh, she's 664 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 2: she's all that, for sure, you've never seen that. I 665 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 2: don't think you're missing much on that one. 666 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 5: But like glasses, like the Hollywood movie, the glasses, the overalls, 667 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 5: her hiding and like like and then her Uh. 668 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,280 Speaker 2: I want to say, they're implying that he he's autistic, brother, 669 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 2: but I don't think he is. I can't figure out 670 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 2: what they're because he's He rollers skates and decides to 671 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,919 Speaker 2: put pepper on everybody's lunch and people make fun of him. 672 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, but yes, that's that one. But yeah, okay, 673 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 3: I still I do. 674 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 2: The usher scene, the dance, the bad dance scenes. What 675 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 2: pops into my head. This has become the age of 676 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,360 Speaker 2: women supporting women, and so the idea of mean girls 677 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 2: have had to catch up to us essentially, and since 678 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 2: then we've had that big conversation with mean girls asking 679 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 2: are you okay? No, really, are you okay? You know, 680 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,280 Speaker 2: truly trying to get to the bottom. 681 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,919 Speaker 1: Many would argue that the mean girl isn't actually mean, 682 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 1: but angry and misunderstood. In fact, going back to the 683 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,880 Speaker 1: student we mentioned Avy Jen who wrote about mean girls, 684 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 1: she talks about the empowerment in evolving a female anger quote. 685 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: Not only are emotion expressed through behind the scenes manipulation, 686 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 1: but oftentimes violent passion. Regina George's outbursts and the conclusion 687 00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:09,919 Speaker 1: of mean Girls exemplified this. A woman can rage over 688 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 1: reputation and money, exemplified by the character Runata Kline and 689 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: Big Little Eyes, showing that these outbursts may be a 690 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 1: last resort for women to achieve what they covet. The 691 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 1: mean girl's trope to me is not about a character's personality, privilege, 692 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 1: or materialistic tendencies, but rather the individual and societal factors 693 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,440 Speaker 1: behind a character's actions, words, or emotion. 694 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,240 Speaker 2: And she isn't the only one who sees the evolution 695 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,399 Speaker 2: of a mean girl. Perhaps they would call it an 696 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 2: update of it, maybe not. Gweta writes in her twenty 697 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 2: twenty four movie Web article. The importance here is that 698 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 2: the trope has gotten a touch up, growing from the 699 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 2: self centered young woman who does not have much of 700 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,120 Speaker 2: a reason to be as hateful as she is to 701 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 2: a young woman who has dealt with her own hardships 702 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 2: and feels that she is justified in how she reacts 703 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 2: to things. This may not seem like a huge shift 704 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 2: on the outside, but it really is. When keeping the 705 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 2: character up to date, girls are becoming more complex and 706 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 2: relatable in the sense that audiences can sympathize with what 707 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 2: they've been through, even if they do not fully condone 708 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 2: how the young women handle things. In the present, the 709 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,840 Speaker 2: trope is still at the forefront of many teen movies 710 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,280 Speaker 2: and shows, and a lot of the time, they receive 711 00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 2: the spotlight to show how no one can really be 712 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 2: considered quote good or bad. There is a gray middle 713 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 2: ground where this trope now resides. With this shift in 714 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,839 Speaker 2: this trope, they are able to fall in love, have 715 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 2: genuine friends who do not stick with them due to 716 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 2: their status, and become someone who is actually likable. 717 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:34,839 Speaker 3: This is a. 718 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,640 Speaker 2: Positive change to the formerly shallow trope, and we cannot 719 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 2: wait to see what becomes of it in the future. 720 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,879 Speaker 1: Or we have movies that break the stereotype pretty early on, 721 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 1: such as inn Encanto as the latter days. Sat geeks 722 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: dot com article writes about the sisters Mirabella and Isabella, 723 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,800 Speaker 1: who seem to have nothing in common and Mirabell seeing 724 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,840 Speaker 1: Isabella as the standard of the perfect, powerful daughter, but 725 00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:00,080 Speaker 1: we quickly learn that isn't the case. Here's a quote. 726 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,359 Speaker 1: The room is covered in flower blossoms and Isabella's bed 727 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: is suspended from the ceiling by vines. She controls. It's 728 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,960 Speaker 1: the girliest thing since the original My Little Pony series, 729 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,279 Speaker 1: only somehow less subtle. She tries to throw Mirabel out 730 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 1: via vines when Mirabel starts challenging her about being perfect, 731 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 1: temporarily giving up on the hug my sister to save 732 00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:23,160 Speaker 1: the family plan. It's when Isabella starts to truly get mad, 733 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 1: not flippantly annoyed, but actually mad that she accidentally makes 734 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: a cactus. The two sisters look surprised at the spiny 735 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: addition to the room, and then Isabella breaks out into song. 736 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,040 Speaker 1: Apparently with all her power, all she'd ever done was 737 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 1: make flowers and vines grow. She had no idea she 738 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,279 Speaker 1: could affect other plants or make something that's not a 739 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,239 Speaker 1: traditionally pretty flower. This is where the mean girl trope 740 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,399 Speaker 1: spins on its head when we get insight into Isabella's 741 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 1: so called perfection. She feels like she has to be 742 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:54,799 Speaker 1: because that's what's best for the family right. 743 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 2: And here we don't see the mean girl trope being 744 00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 2: used as the antagonist, but more of the revelation for 745 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 2: both the hero in her family to a problem that 746 00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 2: has to be solved in order to save all of them. 747 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 2: And as the article continues once again, and Kanto flips 748 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 2: this trope over by having Isabella conjure plants with colorful pollen, 749 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,919 Speaker 2: which he then voluntarily gets on her clothes and her hair, 750 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 2: ruining her pretty pink dress. In the end of the song, 751 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,800 Speaker 2: her and Mirabel are covered in color from the plants, 752 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 2: a complete mess and smiling happily. The sisters finally embrace 753 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 2: in the mess they've made, allowing each other to be 754 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 2: their imperfect cells and loving each other for it instead 755 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,200 Speaker 2: of in spite of it. Isabella ruining her dress on 756 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,799 Speaker 2: purpose shows her breakneck growth as a character. She's not 757 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:40,880 Speaker 2: trying to be perfect and is now embracing all the imperfections, 758 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 2: which allows her to have a relationship with her sister, 759 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 2: who is considered the black sheep of the family. So 760 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 2: a great example of what can be done and why 761 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 2: it's necessary for the plot without making it sexist and gross, 762 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 2: and as Aditi Marty writes in her article tie, can 763 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 2: we move on from the mean girl trope? As a 764 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 2: depiction of hyper competitiveness between women in this swaddle dot 765 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 2: com quote, waves of feminists have attempted to discern and 766 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:13,040 Speaker 2: work towards why women compete with each other and how 767 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 2: they can work together instead. Their work ranges from the 768 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 2: shine theory, which posits women's ability to befriend and learn 769 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 2: from other women, to upholding kindness as a deeply underrated 770 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 2: feminist way of life. This work is both possible and 771 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 2: shows gradual results because they consider women's hyper aggressiveness and 772 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 2: competition as a reaction to societal forces rather than innate. 773 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,799 Speaker 2: This shift has yielded results. Mean girls on screen now 774 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 2: come with nuance, background stories and motivations because the audience 775 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 2: will simply not accept women are caddy negative, preppy and 776 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:50,000 Speaker 2: competitive female characters now come with backstories. Cheryl Blossom and 777 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,400 Speaker 2: Riverdale are friendless for their competitive nature. Sharpey evans in 778 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,440 Speaker 2: high school musical and are often redeemed as worthy of love. 779 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 2: Again Rosalie Hill Twilight Series. I love it, and you 780 00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,839 Speaker 2: know what, I think it's working. I think this kind 781 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,240 Speaker 2: of ideal is working in the fact that the audience 782 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:10,760 Speaker 2: is demanding more because again there's great films in children's 783 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 2: movies like Encanto that bring a different level to the trope, 784 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:18,319 Speaker 2: which does uphold kindness as they write. But yes, there 785 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,359 Speaker 2: is a lot to be said about the evolution of 786 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,359 Speaker 2: the mean girl and a lot of work to be 787 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 2: done again, like the whole sexual like the mean girl 788 00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,719 Speaker 2: needs to be sexual experience and sexual as a part 789 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 2: of being cool. Interesting way of going and I know 790 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 2: there are a lot that we may not have tackled, 791 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,879 Speaker 2: and there are so many other references we haven't touched on, 792 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,240 Speaker 2: but it is interesting to see how these dated tropes 793 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 2: have evolved as time passes, and hopefully here's to see 794 00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,080 Speaker 2: more encouraging adaptations of the mean girl, which honestly probably 795 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,160 Speaker 2: should be renamed by now, but they you know whatever. 796 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:53,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do think it's interesting that because women are 797 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,200 Speaker 1: so expected to be so nice that mean girls have 798 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: a lot of fans at a lot of the more 799 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,000 Speaker 1: recent one and have a lot of fans. 800 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 2: And we didn't really go into the queer Yeah, heard 801 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,879 Speaker 2: of it again, ran out of time because I feel 802 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 2: like that might be just a Monday mini honest. 803 00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: Well, something to look forward to. 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