WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Ramen Common

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing better than a Friday and a brand new episode. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and today it gets a little spicy. It's kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people are going to have

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<v Speaker 1>some real strong opinions about the woman on the phone today, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or the nickname that she's been given. Yeah, yeah, back too.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to it. You have found the official place to

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<v Speaker 1>find your Second Date podcast. It is Brooke and Jeffrey. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad you're here. Before we get to it,

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<v Speaker 1>we always love to highlight our listeners. So what are

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<v Speaker 1>people saying? Kiky Ray said in all caps, Brooke, what

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<v Speaker 1>is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>You've started the stage in your life which is usually

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<v Speaker 2>for people either.

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<v Speaker 1>In church agreeing or older generations. Where did this come from?

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<v Speaker 1>And why?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know?

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm in my head.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I could be doing it. How do you know it's me?

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you know it's not Jeff Maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>has real feminine or action in the background.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well second, I think I'm trying to be an active listener.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm trying too hard. I'll go back to caring less.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise. All right, your brand new episode with all

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<v Speaker 1>the hm hmm next, no, now, Broke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning second date updates.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't normally ever do this, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>today we have to issue a pre story warning to

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<v Speaker 3>our own Jose belongos no because you scared. Well, the

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<v Speaker 3>date that we're about to hear apparently involves one of

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<v Speaker 3>Jose's all time favorite foods.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 4>I get help.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know, I know, Jose, You're a food.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna be really excited and tempted to ask a

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<v Speaker 3>million questions about the meal that this woman ate.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us all the background and who did it best,

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<v Speaker 1>and what country the origin.

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<v Speaker 3>Is, what's spoon is the best to eat it with?

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<v Speaker 3>But no, let's try to remember to focus on the

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<v Speaker 3>date itself. I mean, right now, I'm thinking of all

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<v Speaker 3>my favorite friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I just say he ordered chicken nuggets and.

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<v Speaker 3>Wet, it's not what it is. And it's our listener

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<v Speaker 3>who has requested our help today. So with that in mind, Abby,

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<v Speaker 3>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi guys, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I may dislike you depending on what distracted Jose gets

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<v Speaker 1>and it don't take it personal.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yes, so before we even go down the food

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<v Speaker 3>rabbit hole, let's just start at the top with the

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<v Speaker 3>guy that you met. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I met this guy named Carter. Carter.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did we find him?

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<v Speaker 2>I met him on bumble Actually, okay, nice?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you like about him?

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<v Speaker 2>So we bonded over a bunch of stuff. But my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite thing about him is that he's a big foodie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh see, people like it, Brooke, I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I do like it when it's just you and I

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<v Speaker 1>talking like everybody else would find our conversation boring.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, So he enjoys food that's rare.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it's food. It's good food. We're both like

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<v Speaker 2>active people. I really enjoy like eating good.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude. What a competition though, because you have two foodies,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like one of you is probably constantly trying

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<v Speaker 1>to impress the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what's your favorite one?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel pressure to pick the perfect restaurant?

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<v Speaker 2>So he actually picked it and it was, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>it's so good. It was this like really nice like

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<v Speaker 2>upscale Ramen place. O.

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<v Speaker 3>J calm down, Okay, I love Romen.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was very very excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and did he know that already? Mean that's thoughtful, right,

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<v Speaker 1>He's a foodie. He's finding the spot that is a

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<v Speaker 1>cuisine you like or a type of food you like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly. So I was really excited to go for

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<v Speaker 2>both the food and for him because I was eager

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<v Speaker 2>to meet him.

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<v Speaker 3>So nice. So what was it like when you finally

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<v Speaker 3>met up?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>My god, so great. So I walk in and he

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<v Speaker 2>just smiles this big smile. It's just like a like

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<v Speaker 2>a nice, genuine smile that's like, Hey, I'm good looking,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't really know it. I'm just happy to

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<v Speaker 2>see you.

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<v Speaker 3>Got all that from his smile.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, how does he not know he's good looking from

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<v Speaker 1>his smile?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? He was just really friendly. He's also really well dressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the past couple of dates I've been on, people

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<v Speaker 2>are showing up in like T shirts and sweatpants and stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I actually like shaved my legs for this.

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<v Speaker 3>He's got good clothes, a good smile. But what about

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<v Speaker 3>like your connection? How is his personality?

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<v Speaker 2>I really liked his personality. So we got to talking

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<v Speaker 2>and he actually was telling me about his job, which

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<v Speaker 2>I still don't fully understand, but he works in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, okay, you just yeh nod your head when

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<v Speaker 1>anybody says I right.

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<v Speaker 3>Moving on next topic of conversation, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, computers, okay, And like he was telling me

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<v Speaker 2>this story about like how when his mom asked what

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<v Speaker 2>he did at his job, he kind of just told

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<v Speaker 2>her that he like runs the internet. I thought was

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<v Speaker 2>really funny and charming because he wasn't saying it's a

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<v Speaker 2>brag or anything. I mean, it's just his mom, but like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's like when those posts go viral, like it's me

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<v Speaker 2>that's deciding, like when they got.

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<v Speaker 1>Good because we have some favors to ask him when

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<v Speaker 1>we get him on the second, we need some more

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<v Speaker 1>viral content.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's Joe, internet.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy who's really really good with food, he's good with tech.

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<v Speaker 3>He's handsome, but he doesn't even know it fashionable.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any red flags on the date, like something

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<v Speaker 1>that you did.

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<v Speaker 2>Wrong or I feel like no, Like I definitely remember

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<v Speaker 2>talking to him about me moving. I just recently moved.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh but you're at your destination. You're not moving somewhere

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<v Speaker 3>else correct?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, no, no, well.

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<v Speaker 3>That should be good because then he can show you

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<v Speaker 3>new places in the city.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I've figured.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's kind of why I brought it up too,

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<v Speaker 2>because I did enjoy the restaurant so much, so we

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<v Speaker 2>were just bonding over that and like how moving sucks

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<v Speaker 2>and that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you two leave it at the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so listen to this. So at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the night, there was a table next to us who

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<v Speaker 2>was not very nice to the waiter. They were just

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<v Speaker 2>like really high maintenance, and he was being so kind

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<v Speaker 2>to our waiter, like just asking where he's from, just

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<v Speaker 2>like being really bubbly and like joking with him and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And the people next to us leave without leaving a tip.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so he takes money out of his wallet and

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<v Speaker 2>puts it on the table next to ours.

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<v Speaker 1>Why this guy is all green flags, That's.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm saying, Like, I don't I don't understand at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And on top of that, we left the restaurant were

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<v Speaker 2>walking around the neighborhood because like, I didn't really want

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<v Speaker 2>to go home yet because I was having such a

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<v Speaker 2>good time. He gave me a kiss. It was a normal,

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<v Speaker 2>like nice sweet good night kiss, left it that said

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<v Speaker 2>we'll be in touch. I was so elated that I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like, nothing can go wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, dude, and that's such a good to the end

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<v Speaker 1>of like a perfect first date when you're just on

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<v Speaker 1>this high. That feels so good, right, it was totally

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<v Speaker 1>like a rom com Common.

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<v Speaker 3>I almost like that, Okay, something's gotta be up if

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<v Speaker 3>it went as well as she's saying it when and

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<v Speaker 3>there's no communication since, we got to help figure that

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<v Speaker 3>out for her. So when we come back, we'll reach

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<v Speaker 3>out to Carter and figure out what is wrong with

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<v Speaker 3>this guy once and for all. There's got to be something.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the Internet went down and he's just been really

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<v Speaker 1>busy fixing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, he's getting it back up and running, and

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna find out what's going on with your second

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<v Speaker 3>date update Ramen Common Edition Jef like, yes, it kind

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<v Speaker 3>of hurt me to We'll do it right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting situation happened on a first date recently between our

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<v Speaker 3>listener Abby and the guy she was having dinner with, Carter.

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<v Speaker 1>What was interesting? I mean it sounds like they had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I seemed to be showing green flags all night long,

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<v Speaker 3>and even when he spotted another table nearby that left

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<v Speaker 3>without putting down a tip, he pulled out cash from

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<v Speaker 3>his own wallet and paid on behalf of those rude customers. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what everybody said. Wow, what amuzing gool? Flag? But

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<v Speaker 3>I want to pose a question that Brooke always asks me.

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<v Speaker 1>What's that?

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<v Speaker 3>Who on Earth carries cash on their person anymore? I'll

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<v Speaker 3>tell you who. Drug dealers, street magicians who put their

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<v Speaker 3>top hat down for tips, and conspiracy theorists who don't

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<v Speaker 3>trust banks or digital forms of currency. So there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>That's three possible red flags for you right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Abby, I'd say two and a half in that list.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, is it possible that Carter is a secret drug dealing,

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<v Speaker 3>street magic, conspiracy theorist?

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<v Speaker 2>Hmmm, I mean anything is possible. I guess, But I

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<v Speaker 2>really didn't have that mine.

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<v Speaker 3>He did disappear, and he does lie to his mom

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<v Speaker 3>that he controls the internet, So remember flags.

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<v Speaker 1>Drug would say that that's right.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know. We'll find out what's really going

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<v Speaker 3>on with him if he picks up the phone that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to dial it right now? You ready to

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<v Speaker 3>do this, Abby?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm ready. Let's do it, all right, let's do it? Hello?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh hey, is this Carter.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh yeah, is this Carter?

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<v Speaker 1>He's typing? Can you hear that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, typewriter?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you at worse a typewriter? That can't be a typewriter?

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<v Speaker 4>Who am I speaking with?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry? This we're a radio show. We're called Brook and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, and we don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>like derail your day, but we're really hoping to talk

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<v Speaker 3>to you. If anything, we want to rail your day.

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<v Speaker 3>A radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We're also on the internet podcast. We have great YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>has the internet?

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<v Speaker 3>If he's on a typewriter, I don't even remember.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, how do you know this about me? Man?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we heard about it from a girl that

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<v Speaker 3>you went on a date with recently, a listener to

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<v Speaker 3>our show and someone that really liked you, a girl

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<v Speaker 3>named Abby.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, could you just stop working for like, literally

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<v Speaker 1>three minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>We won't take you too much of your time, but

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<v Speaker 3>we're doing something called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me say this first, real quick coldal for a second,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we don't want to get in the way of

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<v Speaker 3>your work, but we do want to get some answers

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<v Speaker 3>for Abby about if there's a reason why after your date,

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<v Speaker 3>you haven't really been talking to her very much.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if she wants me to share with

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<v Speaker 4>you why.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, no, she does, which is why she reached out

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<v Speaker 3>to our show. She's going to hear whatever the reason

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<v Speaker 3>might be, even if it might make her look bad.

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<v Speaker 3>She just wants to know.

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<v Speaker 4>So after the date, I was kind of on this

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<v Speaker 4>on this high, and I shared her picture with a

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<v Speaker 4>few of my coworkers after the date, you know, and

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<v Speaker 4>some red flags came up.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean red flags that you didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>on the date? You're trusting someone it didn't work out

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<v Speaker 1>with with her?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait was it an ex? I thought it was just

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<v Speaker 1>so much.

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<v Speaker 4>This person didn't date her. He just kind of knows

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<v Speaker 4>about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, knows what about her?

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<v Speaker 3>What information did you get?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it seems that she's been engaged like four times, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and has broken them off each time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's that can be good if it's not meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be a marriage, I mean better than getting married.

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<v Speaker 3>And then, yeah, what's a red flag to you about that?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean she's going through these relationships, what could

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<v Speaker 4>possibly be wrong that she didn't continue. I mean, my

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<v Speaker 4>friend called her the ring reaper.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so rude. I'm dying to know why she turned

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<v Speaker 1>down the proposally, like what happened? I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>why she accepted in the first place. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not her fault she's getting proposed to.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know the nature of any of these previous

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<v Speaker 3>engagements and breakups that she's gone through before?

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<v Speaker 4>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's not fair. Like I have a girlfriend who's

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<v Speaker 1>gotten engaged a couple of times, and like two of

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<v Speaker 1>the times the guy was cheating on her.

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<v Speaker 3>What would you want her to do the marriage? But

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<v Speaker 3>four times, I mean that is a lot to like

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<v Speaker 3>get engaged and not go through it because maybe she

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<v Speaker 3>has a bad picker too, or.

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<v Speaker 1>She gets time she's really wanted. I've never been engaged

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<v Speaker 1>to four times.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't want to marry her. There's a reason for that.

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<v Speaker 1>A good package.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, something, I mean, clearly something is going on. Aren't

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<v Speaker 3>you curious to know what that is?

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<v Speaker 2>Carter?

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<v Speaker 4>I have to protect myself from all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's risk it. Because she's actually on the line right

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<v Speaker 3>now waiting to talk to my gun.

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<v Speaker 4>Please tell me you're joking.

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<v Speaker 3>No, we don't do jokes on this show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Carter, that name is insane and I literally don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know what to say. You're taking advice from people

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<v Speaker 2>who know people who know people who call me by

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<v Speaker 2>a silly, like juvenile name. They don't even know anything

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<v Speaker 2>about me.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you saying you haven't been engaged four times?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I have? But also, I wasn't going

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<v Speaker 2>to bring that up on a first date number one

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<v Speaker 2>and number two. If you really liked me that much,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you would have like confronted me about it rather

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<v Speaker 2>than ghosting me.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, Abby, Whether or not it's justified for Carter, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a red flag that you've been engaged four times and

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<v Speaker 3>broken off all four of them. And maybe if you

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<v Speaker 3>could just like tell us more about it, it would

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<v Speaker 3>help him get some clarity whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really want to disclose this but on the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>But okay, so I was engaged four times to the

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<v Speaker 2>same guy.

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<v Speaker 1>She's in one of those toxic yo yo relationships. No,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's been in one of those.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, I'm listening. So why didn't you guys go

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<v Speaker 4>through with the commitment?

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<v Speaker 2>Then it was a very long term relationship. I was

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<v Speaker 2>not in a place to be engaged and there was

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<v Speaker 2>some infidelity on my side of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, but you cheated?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And to be honest with you, it's just because

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<v Speaker 2>I was scared to be engaged. I was too young.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't ready for commitment like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But then you kept getting re engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did he keeps you? Guys? It sounds like it

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<v Speaker 1>was a really toxic situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And how do you know all four times that

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<v Speaker 2>I was engaged, I cheated and it was because I

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<v Speaker 2>was engaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you reiterating this?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to be honest with everyone here. And

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<v Speaker 2>to go even further, two of them happened at the altar,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm not proud of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Cheated on the altar?

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<v Speaker 2>You stopped the official God, No, I just broke it

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<v Speaker 2>up while I was up there.

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<v Speaker 1>Around whoever your maid of honor is must have had

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<v Speaker 1>such a headache, dishonor girl?

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<v Speaker 3>That is all right?

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<v Speaker 1>That is messy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is messy. And you know what, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>on faithful to fiance's carter. But I guarantee you I

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<v Speaker 2>have never cheated on a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>There we go propose Carter, and you're good.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not asking you to get engaged or to get

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<v Speaker 3>married or anything. We're just asking if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>go on one more date with Abby. You do a

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<v Speaker 3>foody date again, forget about all this, and if you are,

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<v Speaker 3>we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Carter, I just really liked you. I thought we really

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<v Speaker 2>hit it off. I have never felt this confident in

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<v Speaker 2>a first date before. I think it would be stupid

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<v Speaker 2>not to try it again. And I promise you it

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<v Speaker 2>will not be a cheating situation. If you don't propose

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<v Speaker 2>to meet tomorrow, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know if you're going to find a more honest

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<v Speaker 1>person at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, what do you think? We're running short on time?

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<v Speaker 3>What is his friends get to say?

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<v Speaker 4>He says, yes, Yeah, I think I'm going to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>Your pressure.

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<v Speaker 4>Carter.

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<v Speaker 3>You just rejected the ring Reaper? How could you?

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<v Speaker 1>Which is not a very fitting name. It was the

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<v Speaker 1>same ring I think over and over again.

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<v Speaker 3>The Ring Reaper.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm gonna put my junken of vice and

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<v Speaker 4>hit it with a hammer right now. Yeah, I'd rather

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<v Speaker 4>do that than go back.

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<v Speaker 1>Out with Oh okay, well, Abby, you found out that

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<v Speaker 1>he's into some things that maybe you want the red.

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<v Speaker 3>Flag, Abby. I'm sorry that that didn't work out, but

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<v Speaker 3>we appreciate you being honest, like extremely honest with everyone. Honest.

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<v Speaker 3>If we've ever had a guest, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that would be I don't know the best approach,

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<v Speaker 2>but apparently people don't like real life. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what happened to me. That's my story, and it's true.

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<v Speaker 3>There's always a chance that you can get engaged to

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<v Speaker 3>him a fifth time.

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<v Speaker 4>Soights around just getting engaged in one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>And Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>We are not getting a lot of yeses lately, have

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<v Speaker 3>you guys noticed.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we're trying.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, there it is. And you would think

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<v Speaker 3>that a woman with a name like the Ring Reaper,

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<v Speaker 3>who's a self confessed serial cheater, would get a yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I on this show, she just cheated on the one guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, over and over serially. But yeah, apparently I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That he wasn't cheating too. I mean that just sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like a hot mess.

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<v Speaker 3>Times have changed and some dudes out there have developed

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<v Speaker 3>a sense of standards. Don't like it. I do not

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<v Speaker 3>like where the world is headed right now. This is

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<v Speaker 3>my plea to all men. Go back to being superficial

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<v Speaker 3>and clueless. That was our sweet spot. We were good

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<v Speaker 3>at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was glad that he gave us like five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of him not typing. Yeah, that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a big sacrifice for him to do. But

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, we're gonna keep trying for all the

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<v Speaker 3>daters out there. Our job is to defend the listener,

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<v Speaker 3>regardless of how bad it makes us look, right Brooke, Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I doing this for over a decade.

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<v Speaker 3>No, whatever, we can't get any yeah, so make sure

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<v Speaker 3>you can find all of our second dates so they're

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<v Speaker 3>up wherever you get your podcast. Just search Brooke and

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<v Speaker 3>Jeffrey in the Morning.