Speaker 1: Nothing better than a Friday and a brand new episode. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and today it gets a little spicy. It's kind of fun.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are going to have
Speaker 1: some real strong opinions about the woman on the phone today, yeah,
Speaker 1: or the nickname that she's been given. Yeah, yeah, back too.
Speaker 1: Welcome to it. You have found the official place to
Speaker 1: find your Second Date podcast. It is Brooke and Jeffrey. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you're here. Before we get to it,
Speaker 1: we always love to highlight our listeners. So what are
Speaker 1: people saying? Kiky Ray said in all caps, Brooke, what
Speaker 1: is going on?
Speaker 2: You've started the stage in your life which is usually
Speaker 2: for people either.
Speaker 1: In church agreeing or older generations. Where did this come from?
Speaker 1: And why?
Speaker 3: I don't know?
Speaker 1: Now I'm in my head.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: I could be doing it. How do you know it's me?
Speaker 1: And how do you know it's not Jeff Maybe he
Speaker 1: has real feminine or action in the background.
Speaker 3: Yeah all right.
Speaker 1: Well second, I think I'm trying to be an active listener.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm trying too hard. I'll go back to caring less.
Speaker 1: I promise. All right, your brand new episode with all
Speaker 1: the hm hmm next, no, now, Broke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning second date updates.
Speaker 3: We don't normally ever do this, but I feel like
Speaker 3: today we have to issue a pre story warning to
Speaker 3: our own Jose belongos no because you scared. Well, the
Speaker 3: date that we're about to hear apparently involves one of
Speaker 3: Jose's all time favorite foods.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 4: I get help.
Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know, Jose, You're a food.
Speaker 3: You're gonna be really excited and tempted to ask a
Speaker 3: million questions about the meal that this woman ate.
Speaker 1: Tell us all the background and who did it best,
Speaker 1: and what country the origin.
Speaker 3: Is, what's spoon is the best to eat it with?
Speaker 3: But no, let's try to remember to focus on the
Speaker 3: date itself. I mean, right now, I'm thinking of all
Speaker 3: my favorite friend.
Speaker 1: I know, I just say he ordered chicken nuggets and.
Speaker 3: Wet, it's not what it is. And it's our listener
Speaker 3: who has requested our help today. So with that in mind, Abby,
Speaker 3: welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Hi guys, thank you.
Speaker 1: I may dislike you depending on what distracted Jose gets
Speaker 1: and it don't take it personal.
Speaker 3: Okay, yes, so before we even go down the food
Speaker 3: rabbit hole, let's just start at the top with the
Speaker 3: guy that you met. What's his name?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I met this guy named Carter. Carter.
Speaker 1: Where did we find him?
Speaker 2: I met him on bumble Actually, okay, nice?
Speaker 1: What did you like about him?
Speaker 2: So we bonded over a bunch of stuff. But my
Speaker 2: favorite thing about him is that he's a big foodie.
Speaker 1: Oh see, people like it, Brooke, I know, I know,
Speaker 1: I do like it when it's just you and I
Speaker 1: talking like everybody else would find our conversation boring.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So he enjoys food that's rare.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's food. It's good food. We're both like
Speaker 2: active people. I really enjoy like eating good.
Speaker 1: Dude. What a competition though, because you have two foodies,
Speaker 1: so it's like one of you is probably constantly trying
Speaker 1: to impress the other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your favorite one?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did you feel pressure to pick the perfect restaurant?
Speaker 2: So he actually picked it and it was, oh my god,
Speaker 2: it's so good. It was this like really nice like
Speaker 2: upscale Ramen place. O.
Speaker 3: J calm down, Okay, I love Romen.
Speaker 2: So I was very very excited.
Speaker 1: Okay, and did he know that already? Mean that's thoughtful, right,
Speaker 1: He's a foodie. He's finding the spot that is a
Speaker 1: cuisine you like or a type of food you like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So I was really excited to go for
Speaker 2: both the food and for him because I was eager
Speaker 2: to meet him.
Speaker 3: So nice. So what was it like when you finally
Speaker 3: met up?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: My god, so great. So I walk in and he
Speaker 2: just smiles this big smile. It's just like a like
Speaker 2: a nice, genuine smile that's like, Hey, I'm good looking,
Speaker 2: but I don't really know it. I'm just happy to
Speaker 2: see you.
Speaker 3: Got all that from his smile.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how does he not know he's good looking from
Speaker 1: his smile?
Speaker 2: Yeah? He was just really friendly. He's also really well dressed.
Speaker 2: Like the past couple of dates I've been on, people
Speaker 2: are showing up in like T shirts and sweatpants and stuff,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, I actually like shaved my legs for this.
Speaker 3: He's got good clothes, a good smile. But what about
Speaker 3: like your connection? How is his personality?
Speaker 2: I really liked his personality. So we got to talking
Speaker 2: and he actually was telling me about his job, which
Speaker 2: I still don't fully understand, but he works in it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, you just yeh nod your head when
Speaker 1: anybody says I right.
Speaker 3: Moving on next topic of conversation, we're.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, computers, okay, And like he was telling me
Speaker 2: this story about like how when his mom asked what
Speaker 2: he did at his job, he kind of just told
Speaker 2: her that he like runs the internet. I thought was
Speaker 2: really funny and charming because he wasn't saying it's a
Speaker 2: brag or anything. I mean, it's just his mom, but like, yeah,
Speaker 2: he's like when those posts go viral, like it's me
Speaker 2: that's deciding, like when they got.
Speaker 1: Good because we have some favors to ask him when
Speaker 1: we get him on the second, we need some more
Speaker 1: viral content.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's Joe, internet.
Speaker 3: Guy who's really really good with food, he's good with tech.
Speaker 3: He's handsome, but he doesn't even know it fashionable.
Speaker 1: Was there any red flags on the date, like something
Speaker 1: that you did.
Speaker 2: Wrong or I feel like no, Like I definitely remember
Speaker 2: talking to him about me moving. I just recently moved.
Speaker 3: Oh but you're at your destination. You're not moving somewhere
Speaker 3: else correct?
Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, no, well.
Speaker 3: That should be good because then he can show you
Speaker 3: new places in the city.
Speaker 4: That's what I've figured.
Speaker 2: Like that's kind of why I brought it up too,
Speaker 2: because I did enjoy the restaurant so much, so we
Speaker 2: were just bonding over that and like how moving sucks
Speaker 2: and that kind of thing.
Speaker 3: How did you two leave it at the end of
Speaker 3: the night.
Speaker 2: Oh, so listen to this. So at the end of
Speaker 2: the night, there was a table next to us who
Speaker 2: was not very nice to the waiter. They were just
Speaker 2: like really high maintenance, and he was being so kind
Speaker 2: to our waiter, like just asking where he's from, just
Speaker 2: like being really bubbly and like joking with him and stuff.
Speaker 2: And the people next to us leave without leaving a tip.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he takes money out of his wallet and
Speaker 2: puts it on the table next to ours.
Speaker 1: Why this guy is all green flags, That's.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, Like, I don't I don't understand at all.
Speaker 2: And on top of that, we left the restaurant were
Speaker 2: walking around the neighborhood because like, I didn't really want
Speaker 2: to go home yet because I was having such a
Speaker 2: good time. He gave me a kiss. It was a normal,
Speaker 2: like nice sweet good night kiss, left it that said
Speaker 2: we'll be in touch. I was so elated that I
Speaker 2: was just like, nothing can go wrong.
Speaker 1: Here, dude, and that's such a good to the end
Speaker 1: of like a perfect first date when you're just on
Speaker 1: this high. That feels so good, right, it was totally
Speaker 1: like a rom com Common.
Speaker 3: I almost like that, Okay, something's gotta be up if
Speaker 3: it went as well as she's saying it when and
Speaker 3: there's no communication since, we got to help figure that
Speaker 3: out for her. So when we come back, we'll reach
Speaker 3: out to Carter and figure out what is wrong with
Speaker 3: this guy once and for all. There's got to be something.
Speaker 1: Maybe the Internet went down and he's just been really
Speaker 1: busy fixing it.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, he's getting it back up and running, and
Speaker 3: we're gonna find out what's going on with your second
Speaker 3: date update Ramen Common Edition Jef like, yes, it kind
Speaker 3: of hurt me to We'll do it right after this.
Speaker 1: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Second date updates.
Speaker 3: Interesting situation happened on a first date recently between our
Speaker 3: listener Abby and the guy she was having dinner with, Carter.
Speaker 1: What was interesting? I mean it sounds like they had
Speaker 1: a great time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I seemed to be showing green flags all night long,
Speaker 3: and even when he spotted another table nearby that left
Speaker 3: without putting down a tip, he pulled out cash from
Speaker 3: his own wallet and paid on behalf of those rude customers. Wow,
Speaker 3: that's what everybody said. Wow, what amuzing gool? Flag? But
Speaker 3: I want to pose a question that Brooke always asks me.
Speaker 1: What's that?
Speaker 3: Who on Earth carries cash on their person anymore? I'll
Speaker 3: tell you who. Drug dealers, street magicians who put their
Speaker 3: top hat down for tips, and conspiracy theorists who don't
Speaker 3: trust banks or digital forms of currency. So there you go.
Speaker 3: That's three possible red flags for you right there.
Speaker 1: Abby, I'd say two and a half in that list.
Speaker 3: Okay, is it possible that Carter is a secret drug dealing,
Speaker 3: street magic, conspiracy theorist?
Speaker 2: Hmmm, I mean anything is possible. I guess, But I
Speaker 2: really didn't have that mine.
Speaker 3: He did disappear, and he does lie to his mom
Speaker 3: that he controls the internet, So remember flags.
Speaker 1: Drug would say that that's right.
Speaker 3: So I don't know. We'll find out what's really going
Speaker 3: on with him if he picks up the phone that
Speaker 3: I'm going to dial it right now? You ready to
Speaker 3: do this, Abby?
Speaker 4: I'm ready. Let's do it, all right, let's do it? Hello?
Speaker 3: Oh hey, is this Carter.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, is this Carter?
Speaker 1: He's typing? Can you hear that?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, typewriter?
Speaker 1: Are you at worse a typewriter? That can't be a typewriter?
Speaker 4: Who am I speaking with?
Speaker 3: Sorry? This we're a radio show. We're called Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, and we don't want to
Speaker 3: like derail your day, but we're really hoping to talk
Speaker 3: to you. If anything, we want to rail your day.
Speaker 3: A radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: We're also on the internet podcast. We have great YouTube
Speaker 1: has the internet?
Speaker 3: If he's on a typewriter, I don't even remember.
Speaker 4: Yeah, how do you know this about me? Man?
Speaker 3: I mean we heard about it from a girl that
Speaker 3: you went on a date with recently, a listener to
Speaker 3: our show and someone that really liked you, a girl
Speaker 3: named Abby.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, could you just stop working for like, literally
Speaker 1: three minutes.
Speaker 3: We won't take you too much of your time, but
Speaker 3: we're doing something called a second date update.
Speaker 4: Let me say this first, real quick coldal for a second,
Speaker 4: all right, go ahead.
Speaker 3: No, we don't want to get in the way of
Speaker 3: your work, but we do want to get some answers
Speaker 3: for Abby about if there's a reason why after your date,
Speaker 3: you haven't really been talking to her very much.
Speaker 4: I don't know if she wants me to share with
Speaker 4: you why.
Speaker 3: Actually, no, she does, which is why she reached out
Speaker 3: to our show. She's going to hear whatever the reason
Speaker 3: might be, even if it might make her look bad.
Speaker 3: She just wants to know.
Speaker 4: So after the date, I was kind of on this
Speaker 4: on this high, and I shared her picture with a
Speaker 4: few of my coworkers after the date, you know, and
Speaker 4: some red flags came up.
Speaker 1: What do you mean red flags that you didn't see
Speaker 1: on the date? You're trusting someone it didn't work out
Speaker 1: with with her?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 1: Wait was it an ex? I thought it was just
Speaker 1: so much.
Speaker 4: This person didn't date her. He just kind of knows
Speaker 4: about her.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, knows what about her?
Speaker 3: What information did you get?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it seems that she's been engaged like four times, okay,
Speaker 4: and has broken them off each time.
Speaker 1: Well, that's that can be good if it's not meant
Speaker 1: to be a marriage, I mean better than getting married.
Speaker 3: And then, yeah, what's a red flag to you about that?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean she's going through these relationships, what could
Speaker 4: possibly be wrong that she didn't continue. I mean, my
Speaker 4: friend called her the ring reaper.
Speaker 1: That's so rude. I'm dying to know why she turned
Speaker 1: down the proposally, like what happened? I want to know
Speaker 1: why she accepted in the first place. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: not her fault she's getting proposed to.
Speaker 3: Do you know the nature of any of these previous
Speaker 3: engagements and breakups that she's gone through before?
Speaker 4: I have no idea.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not fair. Like I have a girlfriend who's
Speaker 1: gotten engaged a couple of times, and like two of
Speaker 1: the times the guy was cheating on her.
Speaker 3: What would you want her to do the marriage? But
Speaker 3: four times, I mean that is a lot to like
Speaker 3: get engaged and not go through it because maybe she
Speaker 3: has a bad picker too, or.
Speaker 1: She gets time she's really wanted. I've never been engaged
Speaker 1: to four times.
Speaker 3: Don't want to marry her. There's a reason for that.
Speaker 1: A good package.
Speaker 3: Yeah, something, I mean, clearly something is going on. Aren't
Speaker 3: you curious to know what that is?
Speaker 2: Carter?
Speaker 4: I have to protect myself from all this stuff.
Speaker 3: Let's risk it. Because she's actually on the line right
Speaker 3: now waiting to talk to my gun.
Speaker 4: Please tell me you're joking.
Speaker 3: No, we don't do jokes on this show.
Speaker 2: Hi, Carter, that name is insane and I literally don't
Speaker 2: even know what to say. You're taking advice from people
Speaker 2: who know people who know people who call me by
Speaker 2: a silly, like juvenile name. They don't even know anything
Speaker 2: about me.
Speaker 4: Are you saying you haven't been engaged four times?
Speaker 2: You know what I have? But also, I wasn't going
Speaker 2: to bring that up on a first date number one
Speaker 2: and number two. If you really liked me that much,
Speaker 2: maybe you would have like confronted me about it rather
Speaker 2: than ghosting me.
Speaker 3: Listen, Abby, Whether or not it's justified for Carter, it's
Speaker 3: a red flag that you've been engaged four times and
Speaker 3: broken off all four of them. And maybe if you
Speaker 3: could just like tell us more about it, it would
Speaker 3: help him get some clarity whatever.
Speaker 2: I didn't really want to disclose this but on the radio.
Speaker 2: But okay, so I was engaged four times to the
Speaker 2: same guy.
Speaker 1: She's in one of those toxic yo yo relationships. No,
Speaker 1: everybody's been in one of those.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I'm listening. So why didn't you guys go
Speaker 4: through with the commitment?
Speaker 2: Then it was a very long term relationship. I was
Speaker 2: not in a place to be engaged and there was
Speaker 2: some infidelity on my side of it.
Speaker 3: Wait, but you cheated?
Speaker 2: Yeah, And to be honest with you, it's just because
Speaker 2: I was scared to be engaged. I was too young.
Speaker 2: I wasn't ready for commitment like that.
Speaker 3: But then you kept getting re engaged.
Speaker 1: Why did he keeps you? Guys? It sounds like it
Speaker 1: was a really toxic situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And how do you know all four times that
Speaker 2: I was engaged, I cheated and it was because I
Speaker 2: was engaged.
Speaker 1: Why are you reiterating this?
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to be honest with everyone here. And
Speaker 2: to go even further, two of them happened at the altar,
Speaker 2: and I'm not proud of it.
Speaker 3: Cheated on the altar?
Speaker 2: You stopped the official God, No, I just broke it
Speaker 2: up while I was up there.
Speaker 1: Around whoever your maid of honor is must have had
Speaker 1: such a headache, dishonor girl?
Speaker 3: That is all right?
Speaker 1: That is messy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is messy. And you know what, I've been
Speaker 2: on faithful to fiance's carter. But I guarantee you I
Speaker 2: have never cheated on a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: There we go propose Carter, and you're good.
Speaker 3: We're not asking you to get engaged or to get
Speaker 3: married or anything. We're just asking if you want to
Speaker 3: go on one more date with Abby. You do a
Speaker 3: foody date again, forget about all this, and if you are,
Speaker 3: we would pay for it.
Speaker 2: Carter, I just really liked you. I thought we really
Speaker 2: hit it off. I have never felt this confident in
Speaker 2: a first date before. I think it would be stupid
Speaker 2: not to try it again. And I promise you it
Speaker 2: will not be a cheating situation. If you don't propose
Speaker 2: to meet tomorrow, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know if you're going to find a more honest
Speaker 1: person at this point.
Speaker 3: You know, what do you think? We're running short on time?
Speaker 3: What is his friends get to say?
Speaker 4: He says, yes, Yeah, I think I'm going to pass.
Speaker 1: Your pressure.
Speaker 4: Carter.
Speaker 3: You just rejected the ring Reaper? How could you?
Speaker 1: Which is not a very fitting name. It was the
Speaker 1: same ring I think over and over again.
Speaker 3: The Ring Reaper.
Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna put my junken of vice and
Speaker 4: hit it with a hammer right now. Yeah, I'd rather
Speaker 4: do that than go back.
Speaker 1: Out with Oh okay, well, Abby, you found out that
Speaker 1: he's into some things that maybe you want the red.
Speaker 3: Flag, Abby. I'm sorry that that didn't work out, but
Speaker 3: we appreciate you being honest, like extremely honest with everyone. Honest.
Speaker 3: If we've ever had a guest, yeah.
Speaker 2: I thought that would be I don't know the best approach,
Speaker 2: but apparently people don't like real life. I mean, that's
Speaker 2: what happened to me. That's my story, and it's true.
Speaker 3: There's always a chance that you can get engaged to
Speaker 3: him a fifth time.
Speaker 4: Soights around just getting engaged in one of them.
Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: We are not getting a lot of yeses lately, have
Speaker 3: you guys noticed.
Speaker 1: No, we're trying.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, there it is. And you would think
Speaker 3: that a woman with a name like the Ring Reaper,
Speaker 3: who's a self confessed serial cheater, would get a yes.
Speaker 1: I on this show, she just cheated on the one guy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, over and over serially. But yeah, apparently I know.
Speaker 1: That he wasn't cheating too. I mean that just sounded
Speaker 1: like a hot mess.
Speaker 3: Times have changed and some dudes out there have developed
Speaker 3: a sense of standards. Don't like it. I do not
Speaker 3: like where the world is headed right now. This is
Speaker 3: my plea to all men. Go back to being superficial
Speaker 3: and clueless. That was our sweet spot. We were good
Speaker 3: at it.
Speaker 1: I was glad that he gave us like five minutes
Speaker 1: of him not typing. Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3: That was a big sacrifice for him to do. But
Speaker 3: you know what, we're gonna keep trying for all the
Speaker 3: daters out there. Our job is to defend the listener,
Speaker 3: regardless of how bad it makes us look, right Brooke, Sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I doing this for over a decade.
Speaker 3: No, whatever, we can't get any yeah, so make sure
Speaker 3: you can find all of our second dates so they're
Speaker 3: up wherever you get your podcast. Just search Brooke and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.