1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Nothing better than a Friday and a brand new episode. Yeah. Yeah, 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: and today it gets a little spicy. It's kind of fun. 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are going to have 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: some real strong opinions about the woman on the phone today, yeah, 5 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: or the nickname that she's been given. Yeah, yeah, back too. 6 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: Welcome to it. You have found the official place to 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: find your Second Date podcast. It is Brooke and Jeffrey. Yeah, 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you're here. Before we get to it, 9 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: we always love to highlight our listeners. So what are 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: people saying? Kiky Ray said in all caps, Brooke, what 11 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: is going on? 12 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 2: You've started the stage in your life which is usually 13 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: for people either. 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 1: In church agreeing or older generations. Where did this come from? 15 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: And why? 16 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: I don't know? 17 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: Now I'm in my head. 18 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:40,919 Speaker 4: I know. 19 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: I could be doing it. How do you know it's me? 20 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: And how do you know it's not Jeff Maybe he 21 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: has real feminine or action in the background. 22 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: Yeah all right. 23 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: Well second, I think I'm trying to be an active listener. 24 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm trying too hard. I'll go back to caring less. 25 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: I promise. All right, your brand new episode with all 26 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: the hm hmm next, no, now, Broke and Jeffrey in 27 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: the morning second date updates. 28 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 3: We don't normally ever do this, but I feel like 29 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: today we have to issue a pre story warning to 30 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: our own Jose belongos no because you scared. Well, the 31 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 3: date that we're about to hear apparently involves one of 32 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 3: Jose's all time favorite foods. 33 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. 34 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 4: I get help. 35 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know, Jose, You're a food. 36 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 3: You're gonna be really excited and tempted to ask a 37 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 3: million questions about the meal that this woman ate. 38 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: Tell us all the background and who did it best, 39 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: and what country the origin. 40 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 3: Is, what's spoon is the best to eat it with? 41 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: But no, let's try to remember to focus on the 42 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 3: date itself. I mean, right now, I'm thinking of all 43 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 3: my favorite friend. 44 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: I know, I just say he ordered chicken nuggets and. 45 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: Wet, it's not what it is. And it's our listener 46 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 3: who has requested our help today. So with that in mind, Abby, 47 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 3: welcome to the show. 48 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: Hi guys, thank you. 49 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: I may dislike you depending on what distracted Jose gets 50 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 1: and it don't take it personal. 51 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 3: Okay, yes, so before we even go down the food 52 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 3: rabbit hole, let's just start at the top with the 53 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: guy that you met. What's his name? 54 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I met this guy named Carter. Carter. 55 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: Where did we find him? 56 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: I met him on bumble Actually, okay, nice? 57 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: What did you like about him? 58 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 2: So we bonded over a bunch of stuff. But my 59 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: favorite thing about him is that he's a big foodie. 60 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: Oh see, people like it, Brooke, I know, I know, 61 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: I do like it when it's just you and I 62 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: talking like everybody else would find our conversation boring. 63 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So he enjoys food that's rare. 64 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's food. It's good food. We're both like 65 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: active people. I really enjoy like eating good. 66 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: Dude. What a competition though, because you have two foodies, 67 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: so it's like one of you is probably constantly trying 68 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: to impress the other. 69 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your favorite one? 70 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 71 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: Did you feel pressure to pick the perfect restaurant? 72 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 2: So he actually picked it and it was, oh my god, 73 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: it's so good. It was this like really nice like 74 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 2: upscale Ramen place. O. 75 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 3: J calm down, Okay, I love Romen. 76 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 2: So I was very very excited. 77 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: Okay, and did he know that already? Mean that's thoughtful, right, 78 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: He's a foodie. He's finding the spot that is a 79 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 1: cuisine you like or a type of food you like. 80 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So I was really excited to go for 81 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: both the food and for him because I was eager 82 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: to meet him. 83 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 3: So nice. So what was it like when you finally 84 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: met up? 85 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 4: Oh? 86 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 2: My god, so great. So I walk in and he 87 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 2: just smiles this big smile. It's just like a like 88 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: a nice, genuine smile that's like, Hey, I'm good looking, 89 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 2: but I don't really know it. I'm just happy to 90 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 2: see you. 91 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 3: Got all that from his smile. 92 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, how does he not know he's good looking from 93 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: his smile? 94 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? He was just really friendly. He's also really well dressed. 95 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 2: Like the past couple of dates I've been on, people 96 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: are showing up in like T shirts and sweatpants and stuff, 97 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I actually like shaved my legs for this. 98 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 3: He's got good clothes, a good smile. But what about 99 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 3: like your connection? How is his personality? 100 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,799 Speaker 2: I really liked his personality. So we got to talking 101 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: and he actually was telling me about his job, which 102 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 2: I still don't fully understand, but he works in it. 103 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, you just yeh nod your head when 104 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 1: anybody says I right. 105 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: Moving on next topic of conversation, we're. 106 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, computers, okay, And like he was telling me 107 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 2: this story about like how when his mom asked what 108 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 2: he did at his job, he kind of just told 109 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 2: her that he like runs the internet. I thought was 110 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 2: really funny and charming because he wasn't saying it's a 111 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 2: brag or anything. I mean, it's just his mom, but like, yeah, 112 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: he's like when those posts go viral, like it's me 113 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 2: that's deciding, like when they got. 114 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: Good because we have some favors to ask him when 115 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 1: we get him on the second, we need some more 116 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: viral content. 117 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's Joe, internet. 118 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 3: Guy who's really really good with food, he's good with tech. 119 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,359 Speaker 3: He's handsome, but he doesn't even know it fashionable. 120 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: Was there any red flags on the date, like something 121 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: that you did. 122 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 2: Wrong or I feel like no, Like I definitely remember 123 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 2: talking to him about me moving. I just recently moved. 124 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 3: Oh but you're at your destination. You're not moving somewhere 125 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 3: else correct? 126 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah no, no, no, well. 127 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 3: That should be good because then he can show you 128 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 3: new places in the city. 129 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 4: That's what I've figured. 130 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: Like that's kind of why I brought it up too, 131 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 2: because I did enjoy the restaurant so much, so we 132 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: were just bonding over that and like how moving sucks 133 00:05:58,600 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 2: and that kind of thing. 134 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 3: How did you two leave it at the end of 135 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 3: the night. 136 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 2: Oh, so listen to this. So at the end of 137 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 2: the night, there was a table next to us who 138 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: was not very nice to the waiter. They were just 139 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 2: like really high maintenance, and he was being so kind 140 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: to our waiter, like just asking where he's from, just 141 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 2: like being really bubbly and like joking with him and stuff. 142 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 2: And the people next to us leave without leaving a tip. 143 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: No. 144 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he takes money out of his wallet and 145 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,559 Speaker 2: puts it on the table next to ours. 146 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: Why this guy is all green flags, That's. 147 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 2: What I'm saying, Like, I don't I don't understand at all. 148 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: And on top of that, we left the restaurant were 149 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 2: walking around the neighborhood because like, I didn't really want 150 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 2: to go home yet because I was having such a 151 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 2: good time. He gave me a kiss. It was a normal, 152 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 2: like nice sweet good night kiss, left it that said 153 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 2: we'll be in touch. I was so elated that I 154 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 2: was just like, nothing can go wrong. 155 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 1: Here, dude, and that's such a good to the end 156 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: of like a perfect first date when you're just on 157 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:08,039 Speaker 1: this high. That feels so good, right, it was totally 158 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: like a rom com Common. 159 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 3: I almost like that, Okay, something's gotta be up if 160 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: it went as well as she's saying it when and 161 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 3: there's no communication since, we got to help figure that 162 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 3: out for her. So when we come back, we'll reach 163 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 3: out to Carter and figure out what is wrong with 164 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 3: this guy once and for all. There's got to be something. 165 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 1: Maybe the Internet went down and he's just been really 166 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: busy fixing it. 167 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, he's getting it back up and running, and 168 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 3: we're gonna find out what's going on with your second 169 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 3: date update Ramen Common Edition Jef like, yes, it kind 170 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 3: of hurt me to We'll do it right after this. 171 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 172 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: Second date updates. 173 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 3: Interesting situation happened on a first date recently between our 174 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 3: listener Abby and the guy she was having dinner with, Carter. 175 00:07:57,840 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: What was interesting? I mean it sounds like they had 176 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:00,239 Speaker 1: a great time. 177 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I seemed to be showing green flags all night long, 178 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 3: and even when he spotted another table nearby that left 179 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 3: without putting down a tip, he pulled out cash from 180 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 3: his own wallet and paid on behalf of those rude customers. Wow, 181 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 3: that's what everybody said. Wow, what amuzing gool? Flag? But 182 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 3: I want to pose a question that Brooke always asks me. 183 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: What's that? 184 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 3: Who on Earth carries cash on their person anymore? I'll 185 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: tell you who. Drug dealers, street magicians who put their 186 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 3: top hat down for tips, and conspiracy theorists who don't 187 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 3: trust banks or digital forms of currency. So there you go. 188 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 3: That's three possible red flags for you right there. 189 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: Abby, I'd say two and a half in that list. 190 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 3: Okay, is it possible that Carter is a secret drug dealing, 191 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 3: street magic, conspiracy theorist? 192 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 2: Hmmm, I mean anything is possible. I guess, But I 193 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: really didn't have that mine. 194 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: He did disappear, and he does lie to his mom 195 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 3: that he controls the internet, So remember flags. 196 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: Drug would say that that's right. 197 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 3: So I don't know. We'll find out what's really going 198 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 3: on with him if he picks up the phone that 199 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 3: I'm going to dial it right now? You ready to 200 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 3: do this, Abby? 201 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 4: I'm ready. Let's do it, all right, let's do it? Hello? 202 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 3: Oh hey, is this Carter. 203 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 4: Uh yeah, is this Carter? 204 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: He's typing? Can you hear that? 205 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 4: Oh? 206 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:33,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, typewriter? 207 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: Are you at worse a typewriter? That can't be a typewriter? 208 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 4: Who am I speaking with? 209 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 3: Sorry? This we're a radio show. We're called Brook and 210 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, and we don't want to 211 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 3: like derail your day, but we're really hoping to talk 212 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 3: to you. If anything, we want to rail your day. 213 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 3: A radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 214 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: We're also on the internet podcast. We have great YouTube 215 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: has the internet? 216 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 3: If he's on a typewriter, I don't even remember. 217 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, how do you know this about me? Man? 218 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 3: I mean we heard about it from a girl that 219 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 3: you went on a date with recently, a listener to 220 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 3: our show and someone that really liked you, a girl 221 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 3: named Abby. 222 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know what to say. 223 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, could you just stop working for like, literally 224 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: three minutes. 225 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 3: We won't take you too much of your time, but 226 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 3: we're doing something called a second date update. 227 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 4: Let me say this first, real quick coldal for a second, 228 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 4: all right, go ahead. 229 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: No, we don't want to get in the way of 230 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 3: your work, but we do want to get some answers 231 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 3: for Abby about if there's a reason why after your date, 232 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 3: you haven't really been talking to her very much. 233 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 4: I don't know if she wants me to share with 234 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 4: you why. 235 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 3: Actually, no, she does, which is why she reached out 236 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 3: to our show. She's going to hear whatever the reason 237 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 3: might be, even if it might make her look bad. 238 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 3: She just wants to know. 239 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 4: So after the date, I was kind of on this 240 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 4: on this high, and I shared her picture with a 241 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 4: few of my coworkers after the date, you know, and 242 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 4: some red flags came up. 243 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: What do you mean red flags that you didn't see 244 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: on the date? You're trusting someone it didn't work out 245 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 1: with with her? 246 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 4: You know? 247 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: Wait was it an ex? I thought it was just 248 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: so much. 249 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 4: This person didn't date her. He just kind of knows 250 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 4: about her. 251 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: Oh okay, knows what about her? 252 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 3: What information did you get? 253 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, it seems that she's been engaged like four times, okay, 254 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 4: and has broken them off each time. 255 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: Well, that's that can be good if it's not meant 256 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: to be a marriage, I mean better than getting married. 257 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 3: And then, yeah, what's a red flag to you about that? 258 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 4: Well, I mean she's going through these relationships, what could 259 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 4: possibly be wrong that she didn't continue. I mean, my 260 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 4: friend called her the ring reaper. 261 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: That's so rude. I'm dying to know why she turned 262 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: down the proposally, like what happened? I want to know 263 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 1: why she accepted in the first place. I mean, it's 264 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 1: not her fault she's getting proposed to. 265 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 3: Do you know the nature of any of these previous 266 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 3: engagements and breakups that she's gone through before? 267 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 4: I have no idea. 268 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not fair. Like I have a girlfriend who's 269 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: gotten engaged a couple of times, and like two of 270 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: the times the guy was cheating on her. 271 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 3: What would you want her to do the marriage? But 272 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 3: four times, I mean that is a lot to like 273 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 3: get engaged and not go through it because maybe she 274 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 3: has a bad picker too, or. 275 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: She gets time she's really wanted. I've never been engaged 276 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: to four times. 277 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 3: Don't want to marry her. There's a reason for that. 278 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 1: A good package. 279 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, something, I mean, clearly something is going on. Aren't 280 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 3: you curious to know what that is? 281 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 2: Carter? 282 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 4: I have to protect myself from all this stuff. 283 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 3: Let's risk it. Because she's actually on the line right 284 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 3: now waiting to talk to my gun. 285 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 4: Please tell me you're joking. 286 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 3: No, we don't do jokes on this show. 287 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 2: Hi, Carter, that name is insane and I literally don't 288 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 2: even know what to say. You're taking advice from people 289 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 2: who know people who know people who call me by 290 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 2: a silly, like juvenile name. They don't even know anything 291 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 2: about me. 292 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 4: Are you saying you haven't been engaged four times? 293 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 2: You know what I have? But also, I wasn't going 294 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 2: to bring that up on a first date number one 295 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 2: and number two. If you really liked me that much, 296 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 2: maybe you would have like confronted me about it rather 297 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 2: than ghosting me. 298 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 3: Listen, Abby, Whether or not it's justified for Carter, it's 299 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 3: a red flag that you've been engaged four times and 300 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 3: broken off all four of them. And maybe if you 301 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 3: could just like tell us more about it, it would 302 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 3: help him get some clarity whatever. 303 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 2: I didn't really want to disclose this but on the radio. 304 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 2: But okay, so I was engaged four times to the 305 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 2: same guy. 306 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,599 Speaker 1: She's in one of those toxic yo yo relationships. No, 307 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: everybody's been in one of those. 308 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I'm listening. So why didn't you guys go 309 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 4: through with the commitment? 310 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: Then it was a very long term relationship. I was 311 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 2: not in a place to be engaged and there was 312 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: some infidelity on my side of it. 313 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 3: Wait, but you cheated? 314 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, And to be honest with you, it's just because 315 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: I was scared to be engaged. I was too young. 316 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: I wasn't ready for commitment like that. 317 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 3: But then you kept getting re engaged. 318 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: Why did he keeps you? Guys? It sounds like it 319 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: was a really toxic situation. 320 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, And how do you know all four times that 321 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 2: I was engaged, I cheated and it was because I 322 00:14:59,200 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 2: was engaged. 323 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 1: Why are you reiterating this? 324 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to be honest with everyone here. And 325 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: to go even further, two of them happened at the altar, 326 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 2: and I'm not proud of it. 327 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 3: Cheated on the altar? 328 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: You stopped the official God, No, I just broke it 329 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 2: up while I was up there. 330 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: Around whoever your maid of honor is must have had 331 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: such a headache, dishonor girl? 332 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 3: That is all right? 333 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: That is messy. 334 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is messy. And you know what, I've been 335 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 2: on faithful to fiance's carter. But I guarantee you I 336 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 2: have never cheated on a boyfriend. 337 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: There we go propose Carter, and you're good. 338 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 3: We're not asking you to get engaged or to get 339 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 3: married or anything. We're just asking if you want to 340 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 3: go on one more date with Abby. You do a 341 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 3: foody date again, forget about all this, and if you are, 342 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 3: we would pay for it. 343 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 2: Carter, I just really liked you. I thought we really 344 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 2: hit it off. I have never felt this confident in 345 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 2: a first date before. I think it would be stupid 346 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 2: not to try it again. And I promise you it 347 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 2: will not be a cheating situation. If you don't propose 348 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 2: to meet tomorrow, I. 349 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: Don't know if you're going to find a more honest 350 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: person at this point. 351 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 3: You know, what do you think? We're running short on time? 352 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 3: What is his friends get to say? 353 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: He says, yes, Yeah, I think I'm going to pass. 354 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: Your pressure. 355 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 4: Carter. 356 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 3: You just rejected the ring Reaper? How could you? 357 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: Which is not a very fitting name. It was the 358 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 1: same ring I think over and over again. 359 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 3: The Ring Reaper. 360 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna put my junken of vice and 361 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 4: hit it with a hammer right now. Yeah, I'd rather 362 00:16:58,920 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 4: do that than go back. 363 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: Out with Oh okay, well, Abby, you found out that 364 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: he's into some things that maybe you want the red. 365 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 3: Flag, Abby. I'm sorry that that didn't work out, but 366 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 3: we appreciate you being honest, like extremely honest with everyone. Honest. 367 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 3: If we've ever had a guest, yeah. 368 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 2: I thought that would be I don't know the best approach, 369 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 2: but apparently people don't like real life. I mean, that's 370 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: what happened to me. That's my story, and it's true. 371 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 3: There's always a chance that you can get engaged to 372 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 3: him a fifth time. 373 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 4: Soights around just getting engaged in one of them. 374 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the morning. 375 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 3: We are not getting a lot of yeses lately, have 376 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 3: you guys noticed. 377 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: No, we're trying. 378 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, there it is. And you would think 379 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 3: that a woman with a name like the Ring Reaper, 380 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 3: who's a self confessed serial cheater, would get a yes. 381 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: I on this show, she just cheated on the one guy. 382 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, over and over serially. But yeah, apparently I know. 383 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 1: That he wasn't cheating too. I mean that just sounded 384 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: like a hot mess. 385 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 3: Times have changed and some dudes out there have developed 386 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 3: a sense of standards. Don't like it. I do not 387 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 3: like where the world is headed right now. This is 388 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 3: my plea to all men. Go back to being superficial 389 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 3: and clueless. That was our sweet spot. We were good 390 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 3: at it. 391 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: I was glad that he gave us like five minutes 392 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: of him not typing. Yeah, that's true. 393 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 3: That was a big sacrifice for him to do. But 394 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 3: you know what, we're gonna keep trying for all the 395 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: daters out there. Our job is to defend the listener, 396 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 3: regardless of how bad it makes us look, right Brooke, Sure. 397 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I doing this for over a decade. 398 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 3: No, whatever, we can't get any yeah, so make sure 399 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: you can find all of our second dates so they're 400 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 3: up wherever you get your podcast. Just search Brooke and 401 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.