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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with her radio. Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast.

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Speaker 1: I think you're gonna get a lot of podcasts from

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Speaker 1: us this week. We're having this big to do with

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Speaker 1: a lot of Bachelor Nation in Carmel, California. UM so

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Speaker 1: watch out for all those. But we couldn't leave you

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Speaker 1: without a recap podcast of episode two of exact seasons.

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Speaker 1: So here I am with my husband General. I'm feeling

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Speaker 1: in for Ben. It's a story of my life. I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm b b minus Ben Higgins. You know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. That's just because you feel like you

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Speaker 1: would have been like the third choice on your season

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Speaker 1: to become the Bachelor. Uh. Yeah, if they were ballsy

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Speaker 1: enough to go with Nick, which I still so you

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Speaker 1: think that you were the second place. I think you may.

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Speaker 1: You may have been a toss up. You were perfect

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Speaker 1: paradise lead material. Babe. Well, that's very sweet, and plus

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Speaker 1: I would have been a terrible Bachelor, especially at that

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Speaker 1: time in my life. You would have been way too Gilbert.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it would have been good TV, but I

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Speaker 1: would have been yet decisive, guilt ridden Uh. And I

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Speaker 1: would definitely have not ended up with the girl I

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Speaker 1: picked because I was waiting for you, exactly because bastelard

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Speaker 1: Nation had it destined that we would be together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and create Dawson having a birthday to our baby. We're

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Speaker 1: recording this on January one year old. We cannot believe

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Speaker 1: it's been a year. That's the fastest year of my life,

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Speaker 1: hands down craziness. Um. Yeah, you know how people are like,

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Speaker 1: the best year of your life. It definitely wasn't the

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Speaker 1: best year of our lives. You're saying that most people

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Speaker 1: think the first year of having I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: They always say who says that? People say it in

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Speaker 1: Instagram captions, that's Instagram captions. But you don't think it's

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Speaker 1: ever true. I think no, I don't think that's true

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Speaker 1: one ayota. I feel like every person because for the

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Speaker 1: first few months, I mean, when you meet a parent

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Speaker 1: who has four month old, that's the first thing you say,

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Speaker 1: I know what, I'm tired when you meet them, not

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Speaker 1: if you meet someone else who has a four year old. Yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 1: are you're sleeping? How you doing? Because of course you know, like, hey,

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Speaker 1: it's a struggle. No one says it's the best year

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Speaker 1: of life. I love Dawson more than anything I would

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Speaker 1: die for. Is our best He is our favorite part

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Speaker 1: of our lives. Yeah, he's our favorite human in the world.

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Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean that every moment with him is

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Speaker 1: just rainbows and butterflies. Yet. Are you loving every minute? No?

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Speaker 1: Of course not, and so no the first year. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like we are. I mean I hate that I

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Speaker 1: even have to like excuse it by saying, like, but

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Speaker 1: we just let you know we're so in love and

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Speaker 1: obsessed with him. No, we just got to do more

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Speaker 1: things with him together. We've talked about that. I want

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Speaker 1: to do that every day of our lives. I know

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Speaker 1: it's just hard. I I will. I feel confident that

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Speaker 1: this year will be a much better with Audrey slowing

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Speaker 1: down a little bit in terms of hopefully not business wise,

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Speaker 1: but with me having to be there so much. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: I can take a step back and you and I

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Speaker 1: can do more things together. And then also I can

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Speaker 1: have some sanity in my own life. You can have

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Speaker 1: sanity in your own life as well, So we have

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Speaker 1: like this, we haven't no idea what to do with

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Speaker 1: the kid at this age, So please send us things

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Speaker 1: to do, because obviously in the summertime in r Island,

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Speaker 1: plenty of things to do in the winter. What are

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Speaker 1: you suppsed to do with a kid? I don't think

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Speaker 1: there's anything you can with a one year old. You

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Speaker 1: can only do something for like an hour and a

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Speaker 1: half and then your days over. Yeah, but it's okay

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Speaker 1: because it's the highlight of my day and I think

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Speaker 1: it's the highlight of his day too. That's my point.

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Speaker 1: We could do anything. What can we do that? Anything? Like,

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Speaker 1: what tell me something we could I don't. I mean

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Speaker 1: I could think of something if I looked at an itinerary.

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Speaker 1: But we're in l A. We could go to the

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Speaker 1: San Diego Zoo. We're in l A. There's plenty things

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Speaker 1: to do in l A. Yes, it's all weather, depending

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Speaker 1: on what exactly. That's what I'm saying. What can we

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Speaker 1: is we could do that. But again, as a parent,

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Speaker 1: get a good hour. Your dire day is revolving around

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Speaker 1: their meltdowns, Like, Okay, how much time do we have

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Speaker 1: we've been pretty honest, like I don't love living in

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Speaker 1: Rhode Island. So yeah, it's a big problem, guys. Problem

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Speaker 1: at a problem. It's becoming more of a problem as

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Speaker 1: time goes on. I think it's getting worse. And it's

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Speaker 1: like encroaching on the two year point, which people say

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Speaker 1: once you hit two years you actually know whether you

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Speaker 1: weather gets better, it will help. I just don't think

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Speaker 1: that's the solve. That's not going to solve it. So

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Speaker 1: we got to figure out a way to solve this.

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Speaker 1: But this is obviously a conversation for another time. We

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Speaker 1: did want to do a little host chat, but this

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Speaker 1: is what I want to you guys. You guys, pressure

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Speaker 1: Jared out there, because there's a couple of things that

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Speaker 1: I want to do in the next I'm gonna say,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna give us two months to do these things, okay,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to help. Is this annoying to have

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Speaker 1: the audience accountable of having people pressure me into things?

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Speaker 1: This is great? Can't wait? Okay. So what I want

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Speaker 1: to do is I want to go to the Boston

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Speaker 1: Aquarium because that is these links because I went there

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Speaker 1: as a kid all the time, So like, I want

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Speaker 1: the pictures of me and Dawson side by side at

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Speaker 1: that age. And then I also want to go to

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Speaker 1: the Cheers bar and put him up on your shoulders

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Speaker 1: the way my dad and I should just do a

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Speaker 1: Boston trip. It's a Boston trip, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Boston trip, and then an ice skating date. And then

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Speaker 1: I want to go to Titanic and theaters with you?

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Speaker 1: Why with me? I thought you wanted to go see

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Speaker 1: with Lauren. I don't think you're gonna be able to

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Speaker 1: see with Lauren. That would mean like Lauren would have

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Speaker 1: to go next week to Rhode Island. All right, we'll

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Speaker 1: talk about that Titanic thing. If Superman the nineteen version

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Speaker 1: I don't even say that it's different. It's totally comparable

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Speaker 1: banter back and forth. This is just Jared's natural enjoyment too.

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Speaker 1: In life. He loves to be He just loves to

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Speaker 1: kind of argue. You do, It's not not Aaron Sorkin

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Speaker 1: lot of his dialogue is back and forth and misunderstanding

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Speaker 1: and disagreement and then confusion. I enjoy that type of talk.

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Speaker 1: This is his way to communicate and connect is by

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Speaker 1: just like going back and forth like a ping pong.

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Speaker 1: I love that of my favorite things. I know. Say,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people out there would probably interpret that

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Speaker 1: as like, oh, they're always annoyed, they're always going back

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Speaker 1: and forth. But like that's like kind of Jared's love language. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: someone who can keep up with me? Can I keep

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Speaker 1: up with you? Though? Sometimes I feel like I'm a

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Speaker 1: far worse arguer than you. Oh I am like you

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Speaker 1: are a Mr. Lawyer you are a lawyer. You can

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Speaker 1: are You're so good at being contrarian that like you

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Speaker 1: can truly argue a point that is not your own opinions.

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Speaker 1: So well, yeah, of course, yeah, because I don't have

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Speaker 1: opinions myself. You need to do I do, but I can.

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Speaker 1: I see everybody's sides of things. And that's why you

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Speaker 1: and Nick have a fun and also heated time together

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Speaker 1: can you can just go back and forth fighting about

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Speaker 1: something that you don't even believe in. You guys can

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Speaker 1: But what I was going to say is what I

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Speaker 1: do in my argument, not arguments, but in my just

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Speaker 1: I try to disprove yours. That is so true. You

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Speaker 1: definitely do. Do you do that intentionally? Like when you

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Speaker 1: But again, yeah, I mean I very similar to being

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Speaker 1: you have so many talents? Really could have pursued sound

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Speaker 1: being mellow guys, because he used to be like that's

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Speaker 1: or something, because when you're mellow, you're not actually just mellow.

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Speaker 1: It's always something is on your mind. Yeah, you live

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Speaker 1: in Audrey's Land in your head. Well, that's true. Doesn't

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Speaker 1: leave audrey Is when he's not there, He's still there

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Speaker 1: in his head, of course. I mean, any business owner

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Speaker 1: mean Audrey's does a very good bit is this, but

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like a failure by any stretch, but

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Speaker 1: such not a failure, like he's done such a good job,

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Speaker 1: as much as possible, but our overhead is very expensive.

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Speaker 1: If you've been to our establishment, first of all, thank

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Speaker 1: I thought so too, But I just want to hear

424
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 1: you say it. I would say Ben. I would honestly

425
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: say Ben too. Yeah. Ben on his season of course. Yeah,

426
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:28,920
Speaker 1: And um, I mean there's I'm sure there's. I can't

427
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: who's also recently, I don't know. Matt James didn't really

428
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 1: pull off that that moment when I loved some man.

429
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: If you guys remember Matt James prom had the biggest crush.

430
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: When I saw that, I was like this, yeah, because

431
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison's out front and he's like, you've never been loved.

432
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 1: I'm here to change that. And it was like what

433
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 1: a man? What it was like? It was it was

434
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: like a trailer for a movie. And I was like

435
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: this is exactly because of course Matt was the first

436
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: black Bachelor and so long, and they had this super

437
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: cool promo with what a Man, and like Harrison was

438
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: out front and he said that awesome line. It was

439
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 1: like you've never been in love, I'm here to change that.

440
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,359
Speaker 1: It was just like, that's exactly what the bachelor needs. Obviously,

441
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 1: I mean everything went off the rails after that. But um,

442
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: and then you know, since then obviously we have a

443
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:27,440
Speaker 1: Clayton and Zach and I don't know my so anyway, Okay, yes,

444
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: great answer, great answer. Okay, So then so we're at

445
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:36,240
Speaker 1: the fashion show. Victoria and Courtney were there there because

446
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 1: both of them honestly have that girl swag, which I'll

447
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 1: say is the bad bit energy. Right, they have a

448
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 1: girls swag. They're like borderline villainous on their seasons, but

449
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: they have like the similarity in which like they're super

450
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: hot and they have like twoed but they're also like girls.

451
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 1: They could be girls girls. It's really they're complicated but

452
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 1: overall well liked. Okay, I can't really speak too much

453
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,199
Speaker 1: on the bad bitch energy. Something I would say that

454
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: they're both really good choices to demonstrate bad bitch energy. Now,

455
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 1: taj One is a little bit random there because I

456
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: always just think of Tajuan being hilarious and sweaty and paradise.

457
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: But she was definitely there because she had some sort

458
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: of interest in Zack. And yeah, so at the after party,

459
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: oh at first off, when they're when they're doing their

460
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: struts down the runway and they're trying to like prove

461
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:37,679
Speaker 1: their bad bitch energy. I think everybody was fine, but

462
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 1: I would have been the most cringe ever on that

463
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: and I'm so glad I didn't have that date. Well,

464
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,479
Speaker 1: I love you very much, but I'm not sexy like

465
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: you and I have are. You're very sexy, she says this,

466
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 1: And that's really nice. You know, you don't have bad

467
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: bitch energy. But that's not or I would maybe you do.

468
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 1: I had had bad bitch energy in the bad Lands

469
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: and that was it. Well, my point being, it's like

470
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: I don't have bad bitch energy, Like I'm not that

471
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: you have big dick energy. This is the clevent. I

472
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 1: don't know. I think i'm somewhat but I'm not like

473
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 1: you have swag. But that's like a whole other level

474
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 1: of carrying yourself. But it's not like, listen, I'm very

475
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: confident myself. But like if me and um, who's a guy,

476
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. I can't think of anybody

477
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: from Bachelor franchise. I guess Peter Cross because he's always

478
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: a very hottest he's one of the hottest him and

479
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: I walked into a room. Yeah, it's still comparison. Everybody's

480
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: looking at Peter and not me, Like, yeah, he's good looking,

481
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: but Jesus Christ, you know, but I'm fine with that.

482
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 1: That's okay. But my point being is that listen, of course,

483
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: when you walk into everybody's looking at you, but like

484
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,439
Speaker 1: if you're talking about like who gives off more in

485
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: my opinion, bad bitch energy, lack of better world. That

486
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: makes sense. Yeah, but that's what everybody loves you for

487
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: because you are he's incredibly beauty, beautiful and sexy and confident,

488
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: but also who will trip on hers and like laughing

489
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 1: cry at herself. It's miss congeant geniality exactly, thank you. Okay, So,

490
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: but I don't really remember any girl like standing out

491
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: there right, Like there's no girl that like dominated that competition.

492
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: What I remember is just a cat actually crawling like

493
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: a cat and then I remember somebody at the bar

494
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 1: doing the tequila shots and then kissing. Yeah, I remember,

495
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: and then then okay, so then fast forward to the

496
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 1: night of he has a really nice conversation with what

497
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: is her name? She got the rose? Yeah, Katherine, what

498
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: did you say? No one remembers anybody's names? How can

499
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: we actually has the cast list in front of her,

500
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: and it's just impossible. I'm trying to. I mean, we four,

501
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: you know, like the names of week four, and I

502
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: know Christina's name. Oh I thought was Christine though. Anyway,

503
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: so Katherine gets the rose. She has a nice conversation

504
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 1: with him about just like what she's looking for. She's like,

505
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't want a best friend. I want I don't

506
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: just want a life partner, like I want a love. Right,

507
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: these are the conversations I see again. I'm just not

508
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: she wants a life partner, but she also wants more

509
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: than just that. She wants the love. I know. But

510
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: this is the moment that reminds me of why I

511
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 1: like The Bachelor's not. I love the show more than anything,

512
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: but like watching it with my negativity in my mind,

513
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh God, these people who are talking back

514
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: and forth and I probably had the same conversations with

515
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: you were the ultimate like that. It's hilarious is that

516
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: you're so jaded and cynical when you talk about it.

517
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: They know each other a little over day and they're like,

518
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: we have pretty much. They were like, we have so

519
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: much in common. We both want, you know, life partners,

520
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: and there's like cool, I know it's not deep, guys,

521
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: like they sound like the way that they say things

522
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: sounds so deep. And I know a lot of the

523
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: conversations cut out rightfully, so because guys, there's it's an

524
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 1: hour and twenty minutes each week, and these people talk

525
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 1: for a long time. So fortunately there's gonna be a

526
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: lot of conversation that's just left the side. So I'm

527
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: sure that there was more in depth conversation, more talking

528
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: about each other, learning about each other, figuring things out, flirting,

529
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: all that good stuff. But Babe, it's hilarious how you

530
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: are so cynical when you were like the most romantic,

531
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: like vulnerable man there. You were like the most romantic.

532
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: Do you remember this? Yeah, you were the mushiest man ever. Yes,

533
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 1: of course, I'm still when it gets like once we

534
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: start narrowing down and there's you know, not that there's

535
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: not really feelings now, but like real, like holy feelings. Yeah,

536
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: that's more fun and more mushy. I think where I

537
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 1: think I'm just so jaded from so I'm saying, you

538
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: stay together. That's what I need. I need more couples

539
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: to stay together. But babe, but when you were there,

540
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: you like leaned in fully, see, like, how do you

541
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: make fun of these people? Because that's our job right now?

542
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 1: We're not making fun you are. Yeah, we're poking fun. Yeah, oh,

543
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure that in back in two thousand and fifteen

544
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: when we were on the show, there was nobody making

545
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: fun of us, nobody poking fun about how ridiculous, of course.

546
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: But I also think that sometimes people look back and

547
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: and you know, say, oh wow, this person for two

548
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,239
Speaker 1: days and we're already saying like we had some You know,

549
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,719
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're looking for the same thing I am.

550
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: Of course, you guys were all looking for the same thing.

551
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: You know. I would love the person to go on

552
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 1: the show and be like, I'm not looking for a husband.

553
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: They could be they'll lie, you know what I mean,

554
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: But like, no one's going to go on the show.

555
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't think maybe there has been, and say, I'm

556
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 1: not I don't want to husband or a wife. You know,

557
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of dating around. But you seem awesome

558
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: and I'd love to get to know any more. But like,

559
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: I don't know how serious of a relationship I want

560
00:29:55,640 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: to be in right now that let's move on to

561
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: ta Juan asking to stay. Yeah, Tajuan, she's so. She

562
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: wasn't her funniness. She wasn't her funniest. She was on Paradise. Baby.

563
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: You know that she's been on Paradise wise, no, I know,

564
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: but if she came back I wish they brought her

565
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: back on Paradise. That seems much more of a conducive

566
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 1: environment to her. Remember, she's too hot, she won't you

567
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: can give her, like give her the boom boom room

568
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: that we were in, give her a c you know,

569
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: I think that's pretty funny. They should like come up

570
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: with some contraction that she contraction that she wears in

571
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: her head with sands and make it really because here

572
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: I just felt it was out of place because it

573
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: felt forced because she came on and then she said, oh,

574
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: Zach is really cute and funny, and if he asked

575
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: me to stay, I wouldn't say no, and then fast

576
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: forward to the night portion she was like, I'm just

577
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: gonna ask him to stay. So okay, So you just

578
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: want to stay a because you want to pursue things

579
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: with Zach who you've known for two minutes, and of

580
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: course he's good looking. He's the Bachelor, the Bachelor, the Bachelor.

581
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 1: So it just felt like she was trying to get

582
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: on the season and uh, which is totally fine, Hey

583
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: go for it. But I just feel bad because I

584
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: just I don't want to see her shoot her shot

585
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: and get shot down and then her never be on

586
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 1: the Bachelor franchise again. So I would have rather seen

587
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: her make an appearance on Paradise and kind of data

588
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: around for a little while. But how funny is um

589
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: just the reaction that we always get during moments like

590
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: this from the girls who are sitting back ending like

591
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: we sacrificed so much to be here, and she is

592
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: taking thirty minutes of our time by trying to like

593
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: woo him. I know. Especially it's probably the person who's

594
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: saying that who has the little job title it says

595
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: content creator on there, like you sacrificed so much don't

596
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: make fun of our jobs. I'm not. I'm saying the

597
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: point is, you're not. If we got invited. If that's

598
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: a job for us, that's a job opportunity, not sacrificing anything.

599
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, of course, it's just but it's you know,

600
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: it's that bachelor mindset where you're like, oh, we were,

601
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: It's it's the it's like the first kids at camp.

602
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: I don't know how to describe it. We're like, no, no, no,

603
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: this is our thing. This is not your thing. You

604
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: can't come late. This just doesn't belong to you. It's like, okay,

605
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: everyone relacks. Yeah, it's off, guys. If you don't remember correctly,

606
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: you have only been there for two days. So if

607
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: this girl enters right now, it's not like you've been

608
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: part of this club that's so exclusive. But we know

609
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: that that's the way it goes. We're making fun of it,

610
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 1: but that's just the way it goes, And when you're

611
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: actually there, it does seem like the most annoying thing

612
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: you could ever it's the end of the world. Oh yeah,

613
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: Jared had to deal with it with Nick. That the

614
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: most dramatic of all the middle of the season entrances

615
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: it's truly the middle of the season and he finished second. Unbelievable.

616
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: That guy. Okay, So then we go onto the one

617
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: on one with Christina. Christina is um. She looks like

618
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: so many famous people in one she looks like Lauren Conrad, Um,

619
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: Kelly Pickler, another American idol, Laurena Elena, and she also

620
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: looks like there's some other person that she looks like.

621
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: She looks a little bit like Christine Taylor. Anyway, she

622
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: looks like a lot of people. I don't know any

623
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: of those. These memes are like going around all over.

624
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: So I had to mention everybody knows that she's like

625
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: the utmost celebrity look like, she's very pray. Everyone knows everyone, Yeah,

626
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: everyone knows. Everyone knows. So she's twenty six, she has

627
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: a six year old, a kindergartener, and Bailey Bailey. Yeah. Um.

628
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: So the big thing about this day is that she's

629
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: going to have to reveal to him she has a daughter,

630
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: and it might shake him up. But I think she's

631
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: telling him so early. It's not like, you know, it's

632
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: no big deal. Yeah, unless he thinks it's a big deal,

633
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: I guess. But the first well, we'll talk about in

634
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: a second for you, Let's also say, of course it's

635
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:15,360
Speaker 1: of course is a big deal. To have a child

636
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: and to be dating somebody with a child's a whole

637
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: differ because Okay, I'm not you. You know you also

638
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: have a daughter involved. I would have to be a stepfather.

639
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: Like you know, there's obviously have you quite hevy you know, uh,

640
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: circumstances there. What the big deal part is? Like, she

641
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: shouldn't even be nervous about telling him. Well, I know,

642
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: we understand she's doing the right thing. I think for

643
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: us when we said it's not a big deal, because

644
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 1: in our heads she's doing the right thing by telling

645
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: early on and not waiting until the suspense builds and

646
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, it's which people have done before.

647
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 1: People have done it before. Okay, So they go on

648
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 1: a helicopter to his childhood home, which is like an Anaheim,

649
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 1: so pretty close. It's probably like twenty minute of helicopter run,

650
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes maybe, and they get to his doorstep and

651
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: he's like, look, this is my whole family, and my

652
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: whole family is here, and it's classic. Most memory liated

653
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: to this with Maddie and Peter and they always make

654
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: it to be like such a big deal, like it's

655
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 1: the most nerve wracking thing, like, oh my god, I

656
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: meaning a family already, of course the big deal. But

657
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 1: you were making fun of this last night. I was

658
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: making fun of it because, uh, you said that the

659
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: show makes family overrated. Of course they do, because anytime

660
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: because rape before hometowns, like, oh, is he like I

661
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm ready to involve my family or

662
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if like I'm ready for him to

663
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,720
Speaker 1: meet my family, or I don't know if he's ready

664
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 1: to meet my family, and it's like this big thing,

665
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 1: and it's like I've I've always thought the whole family

666
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: aspect was overblown. I mean, I'm sure everybody has their

667
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: own dynamic and it could be circumstances which makes you

668
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: nervous about somebody bringing someone into your family, which of

669
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: course I understand, and you know, everybody has their own situation.

670
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: But I guess for you know, in my own experience

671
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: or the experience with my friends and family or people

672
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: that I know that have been the show most of

673
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: the you know, the time, when you're meeting someone, it's like,

674
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: of course, like a big deal. You want them to meet,

675
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: but like it's always been so overblown, Like I don't

676
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: know if I'm ready to bring my family into it.

677
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: Like we're talking about you've been on you've been hanging

678
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 1: out with this person for so long, if you are

679
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: close with your family, like what's just have them meet them?

680
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,959
Speaker 1: I I don't understand. Kids are a different story, because

681
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: when you bring kids involved that then you're talking about

682
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: a parental figure, which changes the game. But in terms

683
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: of like meeting the parents or the cousins, Eiggs, I've

684
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: always thought the exact same thing, and I'm like, my

685
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: wacky for that. But then of course they must think

686
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: the Bachelor must think the exact same thing and just

687
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:46,280
Speaker 1: overblow fantasy or whatever it's called, because on the first

688
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 1: one on one, they're like, Oh, we're just gonna Zack,

689
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: do you mind just bringing this girl who you've known

690
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 1: for one day, who you to meet your entire family? No,

691
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: of course not. I think that they think that people

692
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,720
Speaker 1: in the audience are gonna be like, oh my god,

693
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: how terrifying it must be to meet somebody's family on

694
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: the first date. Actually, it's probably one of the least

695
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: ner racking dates you could have on The Bachelor because

696
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: you're like enter this like warm environment where there's so

697
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: many people and you're chatting with everyone for like five

698
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,359
Speaker 1: minutes instead of having a sit down in the middle

699
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: of a silent room. Yeah right, And you and I

700
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,879
Speaker 1: you only had one serious relationship and you were young

701
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: before me, and then like I never really had a

702
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: serious relationship, so it wasn't like I had to like

703
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: introduce my parents do a lot of people. But I

704
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: also don't think it would be like a big deal

705
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: have been like, oh, so and I was coming over tonight,

706
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, Hi, Hi, nice to meet you. You know,

707
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 1: would have been like they're meeting the parents. I guess

708
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: like that sometimes happens if you live far away and

709
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: then you like bring so and so home for the

710
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: first time. But I just don't think it's like as

711
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: big of a deal as always presented to be. I

712
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: would agree, Okay, So Jared wants to move on. She

713
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: sits down and she tells him that she has a kid,

714
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: and he is like a little bit nervous blustered by it.

715
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: I guess, I don't know. They showed him kind of

716
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: getting up from the table and then coming back. I

717
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: don't know, but uh, he said that he wanted to

718
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 1: learn more about Yeah, I don't know. I think he

719
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 1: was just taking in the moment. He seemed a little nervous.

720
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,320
Speaker 1: He probably just really liked her and was imagining the future,

721
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden it was like, oh crap,

722
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a step down if I end up

723
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, talking about kids is so difficult. I

724
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 1: don't know, it's hard to I don't mean for parents

725
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: to do it. I just mean for us as outsiders

726
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 1: talking about you know, a single parent bringing up the

727
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: fact that they have a child, or someone being introduced

728
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 1: to really talk about this. Well, no, it's not a right,

729
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: but more it's just like for me, I always feel

730
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 1: awkward about it because you know, with parents or adults,

731
00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 1: there's one thing you can poke fun it's meant to

732
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: be funny and laughter. But with kids, it's just there's

733
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 1: so much more um heaviness to the situation that I

734
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: always just feel so awkward even giving my opinion about it,

735
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: like what's right, what's wrong, how he handled himself, how

736
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: she handled herself, so on and so forth. I think,

737
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I think that everything went the

738
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: way it went, and I think it went well, and um,

739
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:26,760
Speaker 1: it's all we have to say about it. No, I don't.

740
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: Then there's not like a lot of thoughts that I

741
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 1: have about this episode, you know, there's not like lots

742
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 1: of The last one was a group date we never

743
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 1: saw exactly made us feel super weird. We're like, wait,

744
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: do we miss something because it went to night portion. Yeah,

745
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, it's night And then you

746
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: saw online that they did chop out the daytime, so

747
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: it was probably just her timing reasons. Yeah, they just

748
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: couldn't fit in the episode. Yeah, and that's where we

749
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 1: see the Gabby sitch um good for Bachelor's but they

750
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: don't think it was good, not even good enough, but

751
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: just exactly they're gonn taking something out juicier and left

752
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: a group data and that no one cares about because

753
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: you know, we don't care a lot about the group

754
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: day activity. I don't really think the group day activity

755
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: during the day usually tells you much about somebody. No,

756
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: I mean, the only time the group tape is good

757
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: is when people are just like crying or fighting against

758
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: each other. You know, it's so much better with not

759
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 1: when it's like an athletic thing. The only time. It's

760
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 1: good when it's athletic is most of the time, because

761
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: it's it's I will say, watching the show, it is,

762
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 1: I like, I don't I think it's different right because women,

763
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I'm just more okay seeing

764
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: men like tear each other down physically, dude, not physically,

765
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 1: like emotionally mentally, just being like you suck blah blah blah,

766
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: like accusatory and you know, because it's a guy, like whatever, Yeah,

767
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: you're like not taking their feelings seriously. I guess. So

768
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. It sounds not politically, I'm kidding, relaxed, Okay.

769
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 1: So Gabby is kind of the center point of this

770
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: group day evening portion because she just again feels like

771
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 1: she's left out, she's behind the game. She has this

772
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: moment with him where she feels super awkward. Anything to

773
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: say about that awkward moment, Like she just didn't feel

774
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: comfortable in her skin, right, Yeah, I didn't feel comfortable

775
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,479
Speaker 1: in her skin, and then he didn't kiss her, which

776
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 1: she felt super insecure about. It's so funny how um

777
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: these girls are so open and talking about Zack in

778
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: some areas, but then want to be so closed off

779
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: in others, like the after credit scene, we see these

780
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 1: girls talking literally about sticking their tongue in Zack's mouth.

781
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: It's not Zack's mouth, babe, but no, they were talking

782
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 1: about Zach. Well, sure, how did you kiss with tongue there?

783
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: But I think it was more of a general conversation.

784
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 1: It was a gen conversation, but they were specifically they

785
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,879
Speaker 1: were they were girls talking specific about Zach, multiple girls.

786
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: My point being is that like, yeah, you know, it's

787
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: like they're always like, oh, I don't I don't want

788
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: to hear him jealous. But then you know, did you

789
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 1: stick your tongue in his mouth? If you're curious, because

790
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 1: then that that makes you figure out where you are

791
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: in the competition, don't you think? Of course a little bit,

792
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 1: because if Zach didn't stick is tongue in my mouth,

793
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,200
Speaker 1: I'd be like, dude, on don I'm not getting Rose

794
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: this week? Yeah I know, but that means he's probably

795
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: more into it. Yeah, I get it anyway. So okay,

796
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: so there was well, she got all flustered and then

797
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: what was her name again? Gabby? Gabby? But then she

798
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: redeemed herself wonderfully at the Rose ceremony. Yeah, but before

799
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: the rose ceremony she didn't get the rose and she

800
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: went off crying by herself and was very upset, and

801
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: I felt insecure once again. I just wanted to point

802
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: that out because it is so uh interesting to me

803
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: still to this day that the Bachelor and bachelorettes will

804
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: always have that moment before they hand out a group

805
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: date rose where they'll sit down and go through almost

806
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 1: everybody but not everybody, being like Ashley, we had a

807
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: really good time tonight. You know, we really opened up

808
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: and it was a great it was just a great conversation,

809
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: you know, and then it would be like, you know, Natalie,

810
00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: it was just you know, you you showed me some

811
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: things tonight that just felt great and blah blah blahlah blah,

812
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: and it's like, whoever he doesn't talk about it is

813
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 1: gonna feel like a complete piece of crap. And it's

814
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: so weird that he's just going through all these women

815
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: and just explaining to each one in front of everybody

816
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 1: else how their moment was so special to him, which

817
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 1: is sweet one on one, but I don't know, I

818
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: always felt so weird about that because I'm like, bro,

819
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: you do know, that there's like, I get it's TV.

820
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, you do know that, like every you're

821
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't make I don't know how it makes somebody

822
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: feel so special when literally the girls sitting next to him,

823
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: he makes them feel so special as well. And I

824
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 1: get it. It's the Bachelor, that's the show, but it's

825
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: just more prevalent in those moments. Okay, I got that.

826
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: So Gabby in the Rose ceremony was great. She really

827
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: kept her cool. I think totally redeemed herself and the

828
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 1: peanut butter cup thing was actually probably enough the bors

829
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: maneuver he loves Race's did a little lady in the

830
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: tramp thing and then it led to a kiss, but

831
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: she didn't like actually kiss him, which is why I

832
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: like that. Did he kiss her? They k like he

833
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: kissed her. It wasn't like she was like going to

834
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: use she She used the Ladian tramp thing as like

835
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 1: an entrance point, but didn't like go all the way

836
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 1: in and let him actually go all the way in,

837
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: which was really great and I'm happy for her. The

838
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 1: other moment during the cocktail hour was with Brianna and

839
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 1: his body language towards Brianna is wacky. Not into her.

840
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 1: His head was straightforward and he just didn't want to

841
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: turn his head left. It was weird Jared. He wasn't

842
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 1: making any eye contact. And then it wasn't even like

843
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: he showed disinterest in her, particularly in the earlier part

844
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 1: of the episode, like he kissed her on the group date.

845
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: I think it was probably when she was trying to

846
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: bring up, um, why do I want to call her

847
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: Lauren because she looks like Lauren Lena, but Christina. He

848
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: was so Christina the week prior, goes oh my god,

849
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 1: you know, something like about the America's roa, oh my god,

850
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: I hate you, which is literally what we all say.

851
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 1: And I would have taken that as a compliment because

852
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 1: it meant that she was jealous, but also in jelous

853
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: jealous and like a not so serious way, oh my god,

854
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 1: I hate you. How many times do we say oh

855
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 1: my god, I hate you in a way like that

856
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 1: in girl culture? You know, Oh yeah, I'm saying guy

857
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: culture like, yeah, exactly, but yeah, I I when she

858
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: when they flash, I'm glad they flashed back to it

859
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of these times and yes,

860
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,280
Speaker 1: it was this bachelor moment exactly, but we had evidence

861
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 1: right there. They wanted us to know that it was ridiculous. Yes,

862
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: I would agree, and she was just trying to create

863
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: herself to be a victim. Uh yeah, I mean it

864
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: definitely came off that way. Um. He had had nothing

865
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 1: that he wanted to say to her, though. He truly

866
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: was like, it's almost it almost felt like he saw

867
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: the comment like and he was like, there's no way

868
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: you're taking that seriously, And um, yeah, I felt bad.

869
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: What's her name, Christina, Christina, Christina? Where she felt she

870
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. That was

871
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: she has a Southern accident, right, that was terrible. That

872
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: was so bad of me. What you're trying try doing

873
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 1: a Southern accidents? Just sorry, I'm sorry. Anyway, she kept

874
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: saying I'm sorry, and uh I felt really bad because

875
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you know, maybe okay, Brianna. You know

876
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: I would have been like, oh my god. I was

877
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: like truly, you know, I said I hate you, like,

878
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: oh my god, I hate you, but at least take

879
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 1: it the wrong way. She sat her down, they talked

880
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,439
Speaker 1: about it. It should have been over because it was like, hey,

881
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: I did not mean that. It was clear that she

882
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: didn't mean it that way. She apologized a million times.

883
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: It felt felt very genuine. So it's like, okay, let's

884
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 1: just all move on. It was taken out of context whatever,

885
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 1: who cares. But then Brianna was like, well, I need

886
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: to see actions, and it's like, okay, I don't agree

887
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: with that. And then she goes to Zach or Zach

888
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: and her sit down and then she wants so badly

889
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 1: to tell him about this moment. It's like, Brianna, why

890
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: do you feel so compelled? Do you think that she's

891
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: a bad seed? Do you think she's a bad person?

892
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: Do you think Zach shouldn't be with her? No? No, no no,

893
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: I guess I'm asking you. Does she think that? Christine? Yeah, Like,

894
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: why do you feel the need to tell Zack about

895
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: this moment? I mean, it's I don't know, it's just

896
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: and I understand that you feel a little insecure or

897
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 1: you're just feeling not you're a st right now. But unfortunately,

898
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,319
Speaker 1: I that's just kind of the concept of the show.

899
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: You're surrounded by you know, we all felt this way.

900
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,919
Speaker 1: You're surrounded by just beautiful people who are successful people.

901
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: You're competing for one person. It just brings out a

902
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 1: lot of insecurities, and it's really not, you know, the

903
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 1: most conducive for you to feel your utmost confident, at

904
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: least for me, so I can understand where Brown is

905
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 1: coming from. At the same time, like, don't try to

906
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,560
Speaker 1: villainize someone else. I think Zach was like, this girl

907
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: for the second time this week is coming up to

908
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 1: me being like I'm not okay I think Zack yet,

909
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 1: And he's like, okay, I'm over. I want somebody at this.

910
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: If you're not okay right now, how are you going

911
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 1: to be in a couple of weeks. I think he

912
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: was just like, all right, I'm done with the Debbie

913
00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: Downer tude. Yeah. I think he probably just thinking, like

914
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: a lot of us were thinking that, like listen, if

915
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: this is getting to you, if that type of thing

916
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: is getting to you, maybe this is not the best

917
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: environment for you, which is totally understandable because its not

918
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 1: the best environment for everybody. Um, but you know it

919
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: might be best if just you know, you'll leave, or

920
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:03,320
Speaker 1: maybe it's actually sent her home. I don't really know.

921
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 1: All right, Well, too fast forward to the end the

922
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: Rose ceremony, Cat Victoria, Jay and Kimberly are the ones

923
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: that are going home. And I think the only person

924
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,360
Speaker 1: that we kind of really remember from this group is

925
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: Cat because she gave off Ramona from the Housewives energy. Yeah,

926
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: she had some means. Yeah, she's just like a character

927
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: and you knew she kind of would be when she

928
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: was on after the Final Rose. But definitely not a

929
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: Zach girl, you know like that. No, he doesn't't even

930
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: think you like, do you think the leader of the

931
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: clubhouses right now? I think Christina and Catherine and then

932
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,279
Speaker 1: Greer career was the first Impression Rose. So people who

933
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: are getting roses early, it's pretty predictable, but I think

934
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 1: that those are probably going to be your top three. Ish,

935
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: I'm right there with you. Yeah, I'm sure you know

936
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: exactly what I'm talking about. I mean, I knew who

937
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: they are. All right, Well, we have just a few

938
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: hot topic this week, one including Greer that you may

939
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: have already heard of. We will talk about that right

940
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: after this, all right, babe, did you know our first

941
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: headline that Greer the first Impression Rose Getter apologizes this

942
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: week for defending black face in the past. I did

943
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: see something like this, I didn't, Okay, So I'm going

944
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: to read this directly because I want to get the

945
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: facts you know perfectly out there. So it's less than

946
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: twenty four hours after that Monday Night episode that Greer

947
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: Blitzer Um apologized for past racism online. She says, the

948
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 1: journey to love is filled with lessons, and these lessons

949
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:55,280
Speaker 1: are also made on our journey of growth. In my past,

950
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: I have made some uneducated, ignorant, and frankly wrong comments

951
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: on my social media counts. She's twenty four, by the way,

952
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: Um from Texas. In particular, I use misguided arguments on

953
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 1: Twitter to defend a student who was dressed in black

954
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 1: face as Tupac for Halloween. I am deeply sorry to

955
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: those that have hurt, especially those within the black community,

956
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 1: not because these screenshots have resurface, but because I ever

957
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: shared these harmful opinions at all time and age. You

958
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 1: do not excuse my actions. But this is not a

959
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: reflection of who I am today. So basically, she was

960
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:38,879
Speaker 1: in a picture. She in the picture. Well, Reddit did

961
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: the finding, so Reddit users they found screenshots of her

962
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: supporting a fellow teenager who was under fire for wearing

963
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 1: black face and a Tupac shirt at a party. The

964
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: students involved didn't even know what black face was. So

965
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: my point exactly, this wasn't intentionally racist act. This is

966
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 1: what she said on Twitter a couple of years ago.

967
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: Um she said she did not pain herself black because

968
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: she felt superior to black people. Putting white powder on

969
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 1: your face isn't okay either. That didn't make the news,

970
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: did it. I apologize if this offended you, but you

971
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: must understand it was not intentionally supposed to be perceived

972
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 1: that way at all. And then this two past Tuesday,

973
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:27,919
Speaker 1: she said she in her statement that she um does

974
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: not stand by or condone the damaging opinions and behaviors

975
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: that I share at that stage of my life and

976
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 1: will forever regret making those offensive remarks. There we go.

977
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: That's I was going to say, There we go. I mean,

978
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: just let's not defend black face, she apologized. So what

979
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:51,240
Speaker 1: else are we gonna do? That's good, she apologized. So

980
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 1: she did not do black face. She did not. She

981
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: defended her friend who was at the party with her

982
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: or I don't even know if she was at the

983
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: party he or she was. At the point is she

984
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: was defending her friend online for people saying that, yeah,

985
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: black face was wrong. Yeah, she did not participate in

986
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: it herself. Okay, yeah, I mean just don't. But what

987
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: are we doing if there's people online who were saying

988
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: black face is bad? I mean, this is probably a

989
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 1: couple of years ago to Yeah, I think it was

990
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: two thousands. I can't. I don't want to give a year.

991
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 1: It was during high school. It was during high school.

992
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: Tick high school, and she's pretty young. But anyway, point is, yeah,

993
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 1: point is obviously you should know that black face is bad,

994
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: and she apologized exactly. Um And the other big headline

995
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: this week, there's two of them. One is Christina, the

996
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: girl that we've been talking about all episode long, how

997
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 1: did cameo? And Taylor Swifts fifteen music video? That's super cool.

998
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: She wasn't really young because she's twenty six now, and

999
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: that song, that video came out when I was twenty one,

1000
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 1: So what's the wow? Why I'm freaking old? It was

1001
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 1: like thirteen years ago. So the thirteen years ago, yeah,

1002
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: she was well, I don't know, it was thirteen years ago.

1003
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: She's twenty six, so she could have been like thirteen,

1004
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: that's I know. And the fifteen is obviously about your

1005
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 1: high school life. So yeah, and our final headline is

1006
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: that Raven Gates and Adam Gotstock are expecting a second baby.

1007
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:34,799
Speaker 1: She's due in July, and we don't know how they're

1008
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: gonna do it. Yeah, they're they're they're gonna be a

1009
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:40,879
Speaker 1: year and a half apart. She's over three months. She's

1010
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 1: out of here. Yeah, yeah, she she found out in November.

1011
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:48,479
Speaker 1: I know they were definitely trying. They wanted this people.

1012
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: They're probably incredible parents too. Raven. I just cannot get

1013
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 1: over just like the sweetness she is. I could listen

1014
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 1: to her talk all day long. Like she sends me

1015
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: a voice memos sometimes and I'm like, can you just

1016
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: like narrate my life. She's the sweetest voice and just

1017
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: like you can tell, it's not just the voice, it's

1018
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 1: like truly her insides. Yeah, Raven's a good one. Yeah. Alright, Well,

1019
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: congratulations to them. Congratulations, and we are going to sign

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Speaker 1: off now. We love you guys, Thank you so much,

1021
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening, and stay tuned to

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Speaker 1: all of our other podcasts this week live from Carmel, California,

1023
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Speaker 1: by follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

1024
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,319
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