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Speaker 1: I love when you guys writing some questions, comments and concerns.

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Speaker 1: So I see a few anonyms on here, which makes

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Speaker 1: me excited. We'll start with Echo Brave eighty six. I'm Italian.

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Speaker 1: I'm interested in how the high school football works in

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure exactly what that question means. Do you

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Speaker 1: can you disseminate what that means? How much time I

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Speaker 1: Or how do high schoolers balance study time and high

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Speaker 2: Just go pone A not inmcatibility to study time?

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Speaker 1: Don't do that with your face. I know you and

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Speaker 1: I are going to do this whole podcast next next week.

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Speaker 2: This tape. We should get the tape. Do you think

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Speaker 2: it works? He guys, no, tail of the tape if

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Speaker 1: How about these people? How about these people are like,

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Speaker 1: I don't do botox anymore. I just use the tape.

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Speaker 2: No knock it off. That's a that's a lot. That's

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Speaker 1: To come back as soon as I get my headphone here,

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Speaker 1: Echo bravy. You know we're going to do We're not

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Speaker 1: based on Emily griffin book Something Borrowed?

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Speaker 2: No, this is what she would do. They're at the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 2: I would never do that part. Okay, you guys.

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Speaker 1: Aaron and this lipstick that she reminds me of my

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Speaker 1: I don't know the dot dot dot dot technique on lipstick.

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Speaker 1: Ttok oh god, I did You're not anymore?

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Speaker 2: No anyout? Okay Anonymous.

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Speaker 2: You'd be like, I need the fuck. No, we're not

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Speaker 2: Like, I've given you seventy five good ones.

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Speaker 1: They're right there on Instagram, Okay, seventy five seventy five,

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Speaker 2: I just swear to God, serious season desist. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Any who back to you, Anonymous, tell your girlfriend to

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Speaker 2: Don't be weird.

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Speaker 1: Like before, you just have to take like that juice

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Speaker 1: weird about it, keep it moving whatever. Send us a picture. Yeah, exactly. Okay, gal,

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to see your new eyebrows.

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Speaker 2: I'm at the car wash. I'll take one of everything,

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Speaker 2: and we thank you.

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Speaker 1: How we we are so sorry, so sorry, I say,

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