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Speaker 2: Now she wants to leave me. So here's what I did.

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Speaker 2: Uh did you feed her actually shredded baby chickens?

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Speaker 1: You know you were like, hey, I was a liar.

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Speaker 1: Let me become a truther. Let me make myself honest. Also, though, like,

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Speaker 2: Just like I saw this video on Reddit of just

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Speaker 2: what was it? Food? Ink? I mean, all those all

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Speaker 2: those food documentaries, Like, dude, they messed me up.

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Speaker 1: If you want to stop eating fast food, that's all

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Speaker 1: because they came out we're popular and.

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Speaker 2: Business. Yeah, baby, just can't beat that. That deal. Can't

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Speaker 2: beat that shredded baby chicks. Boy, No amount of animal

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Speaker 2: suffering will stop Americans from eating those delicious burgers. Capitalism. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So, I male twenty six, have been dating my girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: female twenty four for almost a year. I've been a

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Speaker 1: vegetarian for two years, but my girlfriend, she doesn't eat

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Speaker 1: many things because she just finds them disgusting. Like just

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Speaker 2: Wait, the smell of vegetables. Cwcumbers?

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Speaker 1: What broccoli? Spare ay, there's a little stanky.

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Speaker 2: And those are delicious. I love broccoli.

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Speaker 1: I love broccoli. I love brissels, sprouts, spare ears. I

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Speaker 1: love all this smell bro this smellier the veggie. Oh.

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Speaker 2: When I was in Chile, there was a cheese cheesemam,

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Speaker 2: and he said, the smellier the cheese, the better. The

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Speaker 2: squeaz between the knees, between your knees.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know if that's the kind of squeeze

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Speaker 2: It is it should be? It is? Okay, okay, good

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Speaker 2: to know. Now.

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Speaker 1: I haven't talked to her much about vegetarianism because I

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Speaker 1: So at least he's being chill. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now, yeah, he's a chill of vegetarians. That one of

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Speaker 2: those vegetarians that just like waves it in your face. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Until the last time we were at McDonald's together. She

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Speaker 1: almost everything on the menu. She's more in sallads besides

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Speaker 1: the cucumbers. Yeah, he says, literally, she's more into the

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Speaker 2: She likes the two piece chicken mcnugga, the four piece

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Speaker 2: chicken McNugget, the thirty two piece chicken MG. Very diverse palate,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, in quantity diverse. Don't anything

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's it's it's pretty impressive, honestly. Honestly, Now,

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Speaker 1: I bought a veggie burger and fries while she treated

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Speaker 2: Well, twenty packs big, right, I mean that's that's a

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Speaker 2: lot of nugs. I don't know, I don't really go

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Speaker 1: I didn't eat a chicken nugget for like since I

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Speaker 2: Like, I just literally haven't any updates, you know, nothing.

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Speaker 2: I think it's probably improved since the two thousand and three. Yes,

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Speaker 2: you could eat twenty twenty chicken nugget. How much is

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Speaker 2: a normal amount of chicken nugget? See how many chicken

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Speaker 2: nuggets do you? Yeah, that is a question, you fat slurry. Yes. Now.

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Speaker 1: The afternoon was going well overall until she suddenly just

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Speaker 2: Else for me.

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Speaker 1: Well, they haven't possible impossible, so really, Oh, I didn't

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Speaker 1: know that. I think it must be what he's eating,

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Speaker 2: Maybe there we go.

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Speaker 1: I was slightly irritated by this because she has never

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Speaker 2: Eat like grass. At least I don't at least I

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Speaker 2: love those glass eating eights. Not just kidding? What are

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Speaker 1: Yeah, bitch, let me trying to speak your language. I

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Speaker 2: At least I don't do that like you're doing right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, after a long day, just kick to get my beer.

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Speaker 2: And watch animals get tortured. I love America. It's a

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Speaker 1: Guns, beer and shredded baby chicky's in a nugget. Nothing

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Speaker 1: I continued to explain to her that chicken nuggets from

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Speaker 2: But then they but then they keep getting caught. That's awesome. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Sam's out here, he's he's uh oh god, uh he's

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Speaker 1: he's an agent for Kim Jong And yeah, he's been

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Speaker 2: great guy. It what a dude, man. He definitely eats

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Speaker 1: Upon my explanation, she ended up choking and I was

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Speaker 2: I tried to de escalate the situation. It's crazy that

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Speaker 2: Wrapped up pretty nicely. It wrapped up pretty nicely. Uh.

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Speaker 2: I feel like definitely the girlfriend is the a hole.

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Speaker 2: For sure. Oh yeah, yeah, I mean like she's the

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Speaker 2: Shoes go on feet, Like, come on, okay, he's your

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Speaker 1: Like, I think she's gonna have a diet that any

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Speaker 2: A good diet thumbs up for, or at least a

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Speaker 2: we'll see you soon. Am I the a hole for

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Speaker 1: Come on, man, that's that's that's egregious. That's egregious gregious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's an idea I have. I feel like something

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Speaker 2: Like that's the ideal ideal. Yeah, yeah, yeah, dude, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know. You're really mulling on this one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because it's something I was thinking about it. I really

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Speaker 2: just don't know how finance. I guess I should do

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Speaker 2: more research on this, because I mean i've but also,

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Speaker 2: like I actually ask my parents. I wonder what they did,

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Speaker 2: because my mom worked part time for doing architecture for yeah,

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Speaker 2: like as long as I've known it. Now she has

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Speaker 2: a full time architecture jobs post post us going off

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Speaker 2: to college, but yeah, she was always working during that time,

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Speaker 2: and so like I see, like that's my examples like

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Speaker 2: my mom was always working. My dad was like the

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Speaker 2: main breadweater, but my mom was always working and doing stuff.

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Speaker 2: We'll figure it out. We'll figure it out. We'll figure

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Speaker 2: it out for sure. Yeah, we got a few years.

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Speaker 2: We got a few years. The next day, I went

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Speaker 2: and returned the sneakers and took the money back. He

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Speaker 2: got home in the evening and lost it when I

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Speaker 2: found out I returned them. He said he couldn't believe

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Speaker 2: how petty and childish I was to actually do this.

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Speaker 2: I explained I was just correcting my mistake. He tried

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Speaker 2: to contact the store and was told the sneakers were

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Speaker 2: already sold. He got even angry with me, but I

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Speaker 2: told him that he accused me of stealing from him

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Speaker 2: when I was just trying to do a nice gesture

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Speaker 2: for him. He yelled that I had a lot of nerve,

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Speaker 2: calling what I did a nice gesture while using his

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Speaker 2: money to do it. I told him he had no

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Speaker 2: right to yell at me. After I corrected my mistake

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Speaker 2: and gave back the money, he accused me of stealing.

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Speaker 2: He threw a fit, then went out with his friends

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Speaker 2: and came home late at night, still not talking to me,

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Speaker 2: Did I mess up? Maybe I shouldn't have purchased them

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Speaker 2: knowing they weren't on the list, but I just wanted

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Speaker 2: him to have those sneakers and thought I was doing

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Speaker 2: a nice gesture.

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Speaker 1: Bro, if this is how your your significant other reacts

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Speaker 1: to you buying sneakers, leave, Yeah that is that's a heck,

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Speaker 1: that's a fucking mess of a life right there. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And this he seems so over like seems so controlling,

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Speaker 2: so like just over the top about everything.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like, you know, if I do something

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Speaker 1: else in a different area, that's like slightly wrong if

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Speaker 1: he has the same reaction, Like think about all the

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Speaker 1: things that could like trigger him to go crazy.

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Speaker 2: Nope, Yeah, yeah you should nope out of there. Nope

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Speaker 2: the heck out hell Yeah. Also, I like to like

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Speaker 2: read one of the the the comments yes, because I

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Speaker 2: think it like summarizes some of the things that we

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Speaker 2: don't like about this. So yeah, let's see it. So

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Speaker 2: not the asshole with that said something else to add,

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Speaker 2: get the hell out of there. I lost count of

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Speaker 2: how many red flags are running the short story, But

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Speaker 2: just to recap, you have zero knowledge of and input

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Speaker 2: into your family's financial situation. By design, you have to

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Speaker 2: get pre approval for an action as mundane as grocery shopping.

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Speaker 2: Acting even slightly independently was met with extreme anger and accusations.

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Speaker 2: When you try to defend yourself, you were darvoed and berated. Again,

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Speaker 2: acting independently, even to correct a mistake was met with

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Speaker 2: an equal amount of anger the entire ordeal. You were

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Speaker 2: kept emotionally unstable and purposely left with no resolution possible.

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Speaker 2: My god, it's like Lebron and Serena hooked up and

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Speaker 2: had a super baby and the sport they played was

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Speaker 2: abuse ball. Oh and also darvo is deny attack, reverse

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Speaker 2: victim and offender short version technique abusers use to make others,

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Speaker 2: includingly think they are the wrong party effectively creates a

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Speaker 2: shield for the abuser that is hard to articulate for

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Speaker 2: the abused.

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Speaker 1: Interesting, I'll learn something new every day. That's the list.

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Speaker 1: They summed it up perfectly. It's like this guy's insane.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is really bad. Also a lot so this

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Speaker 2: common is saying. Also a lot of people emphasize that

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Speaker 2: it's his money. That thing right, it's not his money.

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Speaker 2: If both of you are working, you just happen to work.

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Speaker 2: At a state as a stay at home mom, And

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Speaker 2: I think I agree with.

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Speaker 1: That, yeah, that you had like if if one person's

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Speaker 1: not working, what are they going to do go on

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Speaker 1: the streets and beg like they need money to do it,

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Speaker 1: and like she's doing one of the task, you're doing

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Speaker 1: one of the tasks, like and it's a team. It's

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Speaker 1: not like, oh my gosh, like how did like you

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Speaker 1: decided to get to join with this person to go

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Speaker 1: through life together.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, I wonder what his spending

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Speaker 2: habits are because like this this guy sounds like a hypocrite.

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Speaker 1: This guy is buying like blow up dolls and doritos.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love how that's like the first thing blow

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Speaker 2: up dolls and doritos. Anyway, uh out, So you