1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: The Jewel Show on demand. Hey Elena, Lena, So today's 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,120 Speaker 1: ridiculous Internet question it's the Jewel Show. Is what are 3 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: some red flags to look out for in a job interview? 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: We're starting right away with you, Elena. What is a 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: red flag in a job interview? For you? I would 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 1: have to say, just talking crap. I think it's just 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: a bad book and I feel like you really got 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: to get established before you go Stone Teach. Where were you, Elena, 9 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: when I was interviewing for a job at a restaurant 10 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: when I was about twenty two years old, Because that's 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: exactly what I did in my job interview and they 12 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 1: never called me back why I left? And I was like, man, 13 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: maybe I shouldn't have gone so hard on the restaurant 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: I worked for right now, like talking about how they're 15 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: all idiots and I'm so much better than there. I'm like, 16 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: I don't know if that impressed them or not, and 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: it obviously didn't. Thank you for your phone call. It 18 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: is time for ridiculous Internet questions. The world's most exciting 19 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: game show that's not a game show at all. We 20 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: just hop online and see what people are talking about, 21 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: and then we talk about it. With you. So if 22 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: you want to contestant, call us up right now eight 23 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: eight eight three four three one oh six one. That's 24 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: eight eight eight three four three one oh six one. 25 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 1: You can also text us at four one oh six 26 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: one and tell us what your answer is to today's 27 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: Ridiculous Internet question. And today's ridiculous Internet question is at 28 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: What are red flags to look out for in a 29 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: job interview? Victoria? Well, I've never interviewed anyone for a job, 30 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: but I've watched my mom do it, and I don't 31 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: like when people. I mean, I probably did it also, 32 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: but I don't like the people to say like um 33 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: or like so many times, like that's like a pet 34 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: peeve of mine. I don't know, and it could because 35 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: they're nervous. You're just judging. I don't like when they 36 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: do it a lot feeling judging. What are some red 37 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: flags to look out for in a job interview? Bennett? 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: I think a great thing to look out for if 39 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: you're going to be interviewed is if the person that's 40 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: interviewing you is organized, you know, if they're coming in 41 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: they're rushing papers all over the place. Also, look out 42 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: for like coffee stads, you know, when they have paperwork 43 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: and there's coffee all over the paperwork, it means one 44 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: they're disorganized and two they're always rushing around in high 45 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: anxiety jobs. So I don't want it. I just loved 46 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: that Bennett is casting judgment on somebody that's got coffee 47 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: spilled on their paper. But what people don't know is 48 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: behind the scenes this morning, Benett is having quiet. The 49 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: times aren't working, the camera is not working. It's organized 50 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: and all over the place. Calls right now eight three 51 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: four three one oh six one eight eight three three 52 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: one six one minute is having a rough morning? Text 53 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 1: in and give minutes on love four one oh six 54 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: one A rough spot today? Hey, Tiffany, h Hey, what 55 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: is a red flag that you look out for in 56 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: a job interview? So? I was the assistant director at 57 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: a childcare some years back and we had an applicant 58 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: on his resume like at the bottom you know where 59 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: you put like special qualification. He wrote, I'm hella legit 60 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: if you got this job, right? Yeah, I do have 61 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: gotten the job. We did actually call him in for 62 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: an interview and he should have been of the Lord 63 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: Tracie track suit. Well, ahually, how are you because I'm 64 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: a legit. Why not? That's thank you for your phone 65 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: called Tiffany calls up eight to eight three four three 66 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: one oh six one eight eight eight three four three 67 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: one oh six one. What is a red flag to 68 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: look out for in a job interview? Christian Grace? Now 69 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: a red flag to look out for in a job interview? Now, 70 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: I'm going in on the interviewee one time. Now. Granted 71 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: this did end up being an incredible job. I learned 72 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: a lot, but in the interview, I will never forget 73 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 1: this as long as I'm alive. The executive producer looked 74 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 1: at me and said, are you prepared for this? And 75 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, thanks so and she said this 76 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 1: job is the base that never ends. Your job will 77 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: never ever ever end. And I was like, okay, sure 78 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: took the job. She was not lying I was getting. 79 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: I'd get emails at three am. I'd have to be 80 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: on set at five am. I would get emails on 81 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: holidays at ten being like you misplaced a comma. Now 82 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: that's why I say I learned a lot because it 83 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: kept me all my toes. But watch you out in 84 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: a job interview. If they tell you that you're going 85 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: to work all the time they mean it. I've had 86 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: a job interviewer for someone who's basically told me they're 87 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: hard to work for. Oh God, I took a job, 88 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like, they were right. Yeah, that's my fault. 89 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: I think. Biggest red flag It wasn't really a red 90 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: flag in a job interview, but the worst job interview 91 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: I've ever had it was in radio. I had been 92 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: in radio for a few years and I got a 93 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: chance to interview on the Kid Cratic Show, which is 94 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: a big syndicated radio show as well. I flew all 95 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: the way there to where they're at interview for it, 96 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 1: right and right before I was supposed to go on 97 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: air for my audition with the show, he pulled me 98 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: aside and he's like, hey, man, so your demo tape 99 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 1: that you sent out, love it, love it, but it's 100 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: a little edgy for us. Oh so you know, I 101 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: know that's kind of what you're known for us being 102 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: like that. But you can't do any of that when 103 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: you go on air with us right now, okay. And 104 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: so I was like, okay, so what do I do? 105 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 1: What I do? It was the most awkward and worst 106 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: performance on radio I've ever had in my whole life. 107 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: And there was like, there's like twenty people on that 108 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: show and they're all just looking at me like, huh, 109 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: this is the guy we flew across the country. Huh. 110 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: It's terrible. I was supposed to stay there for like 111 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: another eight hours and have more interviews. It was so bad. 112 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: After they turned the microphones off, I just was like, 113 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: I'll see you guys later, thank you for your time, 114 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: and I grabbed my stuff and left and they were 115 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 1: all like, yep, the Jebel Show on demand. It's another 116 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: Jewbil Phone frame Mornings on the twenties. Hello, Hello, Hi, 117 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: this is Pete Eekens. I'm calling from apartments. I was 118 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: looking for a lane. This is lane. Yes, this is her. 119 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: Are you telling about that outlet that I put in 120 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: a request about a month ago? Yes I am, yeah, yeah, 121 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: I am calling about that, and I want to let 122 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: you know that, Um, we identified the problem with the 123 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 1: electrical in that room in your house. Okay, did you 124 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: fix it? Well? That is also the other reason that 125 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,799 Speaker 1: I'm calling our maintenance guy, Gary, really good guy, tries 126 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: his best, but he's not an electrician. Um, so okay, 127 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: it was m He decided to try to do the 128 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 1: wiring wired a few things wrong, and tea tiny little 129 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: electrical fire happened in that room. Yeah, say, there was 130 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: a little bit of a fire in there, so we 131 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: had to go in there and put it out. I 132 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: just want to keep Do you know what's in that room? 133 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: That is my sneaker room. There's over one hundred and 134 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: twenty sneaker containers all aligned where around that outlet was. 135 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: And I've been complaining to you guys for over a month, 136 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,679 Speaker 1: and now you send me someone who doesn't know anything 137 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: about and now you're telling me there was a small 138 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: electric How small are we talking about? Ye, well it was, 139 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: you know, not a bigger one. They do run hot, though, 140 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: so I guess the best way to describe it as 141 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: a few of the shoes on your shoe rack got 142 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: a little melty. Do you understand the value? The cost 143 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: of all my sneakers is over eight thousand dollars. It's 144 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 1: taking me five years to collect. This is why I 145 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: keep them in my containers. They're not just shoes. You 146 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: had someone, first of all, who had nothing to do 147 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: with the electric. We're not even certified. Gary were licensed, Yeah, Gary, 148 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: Gary's not licensed. No, it's a very nice guy, but 149 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: he's not licensed. Therefore, you, the company, the apartment complex 150 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: has to replace everything that I've lost, and that is 151 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: I'm way ahead of you. Okay. We did realize that 152 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: you lost a lot of shoes in your on your 153 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: shoe rack there with the fire, and the room is 154 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: going to be redone and everything. Don't worry about that. 155 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: No cost to you, obviously, but we did already get 156 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: ahead of that. We saw that there was a bunch 157 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: of shoes that got melted into a big ball of rubber, 158 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: and oh my god. So since we I just want 159 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: to let you know when you get home you might 160 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: be excited about this because when you get home, there's 161 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: an envelope on your kitchen counter because we had to 162 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: go into the apartment to put out the fire and 163 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Don't worry, they're working on getting it 164 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: all cleaned up right now. But anyway, there is an 165 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: envelope on your counter with a fifty dollars gifts certificate 166 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: to DSW Famous Footwear and there's one hundred and fifty 167 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: dollars gift certificate to pay Lesshue Source so you can 168 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: replace them all. Are you? Are you playing? When we 169 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 1: right now? Welcome tell me one hundred and fifty dollars 170 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: to pay lists, which, by the way, Paylers doesn't exist anymore. 171 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: And second of all, fifty dollars to DSW when I'm 172 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: telling you that my shoes alone, all of them, were 173 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: worth over eight thousand dollars, our collector's shoes. And if 174 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: you haven't heard me for the tenth time, I have 175 00:08:56,360 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: over eight thousand dollars worth of shoes. I have now 176 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 1: been ruling. Do you know Precious Moments dolls, the little figurines? 177 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: What does that have to do with my sinkers? I 178 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: just am trying to kind of see your side there. Well, 179 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: at home, I have over forty five Precious Moments figurines, 180 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: So that's really sad that you have that. And you 181 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: even said that out loud. So if your home caught 182 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: fire and your Precious Moments all mel sitting, bro, you 183 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: would you be upset? I would be very upset. And 184 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: I also just wanted to offer you as a replacement. 185 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: You can have my collection of Precious Moments figurines. They're 186 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: kind of non Precious Moments collections. Okay, I want my 187 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: eight thousand dollars. I want whoever is above you right 188 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 1: now Okay, well, there's nobody above me because this is 189 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: actually Jewel from The Jewel Show doing a phone prank 190 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: on you. And I don't work at your apartment building. 191 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 1: Your buddy Jason set you up. No, no, wait, wait stop, 192 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: are you serious? Yes? He told us that you have 193 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 1: a huge sneaker collection and thought you'd freak out if 194 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: it was ruined. I literally need I literally need a 195 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: change of underwear right now. No, no fire, your sneakers 196 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: are saying, Oh, I gotta believe it. Now, let's go 197 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 1: home and changing my underwear. Then Jebil Show on demand. Chris, 198 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: and I'd like to countdown that you did that one time? 199 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: Which one was it? When? Did it? Did it a 200 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: couple of times ago? Can you count us down today 201 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 1: from two to one? Two to one? Dose, No, yes, 202 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: let's guid I didn't expect Spanish me for a look, 203 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 1: but let's do it. This is the j and N 204 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: the Jubil News Network for Wednesday, January eleventh, twenty twenty three. 205 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: This is J and N the Jubil News Network, where 206 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: we take the news as seriously as we take our bills. 207 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 1: If there's a story out there and you need to 208 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: know about it, we'll get around to it at some point. 209 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: Just trust us. Maybe I'm jebil Fresh and one of 210 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: the richest women in the world is single again. Oh 211 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:03,800 Speaker 1: King of the Amazon Jeff Bezos his ex wife McKenzie Phillips, 212 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 1: who got divorced and then gave away half of her 213 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: money that she got from the divorce with Jeff Bezos 214 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: and is still the second or third richest woman in 215 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: the world, just got a divorce from the broke that 216 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: she married after Jeff Basos. Wow. Yeah, sucks for handle 217 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: again seriously. And you know wherever he's gonna be living 218 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: now that they're getting a divorce, I guarantee he's gonna 219 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:23,079 Speaker 1: have to stock it with some items he's got to 220 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: buy from Amazon. So double yeah. That is everything reminds 221 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: me of her. This is the JNN, the Jewel News Network. 222 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: We don't have any traffic helicopters, but we do have 223 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: a reporter named Bennett who is doing his own version 224 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: of the helicopter across from me right now. Oh yeah, 225 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: sit it on over to him. It's Benny. I've always 226 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: wanted to be rich, but now I'm aspiring to be 227 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: a new level of rich. Okay, Miss Janet Jackson is 228 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: going on to a Ludacris later this summer, and I 229 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: cannot wait to see her. She's doing some promo for 230 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: the tour and she was asked during an interview if 231 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: she ever had hot Cheetos, and honestly, she seems low 232 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: key ended. Here's what she said, hot cheetah. Okay, nobody's no. 233 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: I don't even know how. You really don't know what 234 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: how cheetos are. Oh really, I bet she that's good. 235 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: Chee hot cheetah. No, thank you? Right, So, yeah, she 236 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: was a little key offended, but then she later compared 237 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 1: it to popcorn with hot sauce, so you know, Chicago. 238 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: But she's been rich since she was five, so she 239 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: probably doesn't touch anything like hot Cheeto, Starburst, Starbucks. Like 240 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: she doesn't know what anything is. So take me out 241 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:39,959 Speaker 1: and bring me back to life, because I want to 242 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: be as rich as her. What is it? She says 243 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: at the end, Oh really, I bet that's good. I 244 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: bet you that's good. I saw a tweet where someone 245 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: said that's exactly what someone says who has no intention 246 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: of right ever trying her. I bet you that's so 247 00:12:57,800 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: oh so good. Yeah, we interviewed Jenna I forgot about that. 248 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: It was like two years ago, and she was so nice, 249 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 1: so nice. I used to make fun of the Jacksons 250 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: and go, there's no way that she's that innocent sounding. 251 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: But then you know, we're doing the interview and she 252 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: came on the phone and she was like cheetah, Like, man, 253 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: they are that nice. This is the Jane and the 254 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: Jewel News Network, where the reporters are drunker than the 255 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: drunks they report about. Oh yeah, for our next drunk reporter, 256 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: let's send it out over to Christian Gray. Snow, I'm 257 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 1: on location in Texas where if you're out here doing 258 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: some sex thing, but where people? And I say that because, 259 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: according to Valley Central dot Com, and officer was dispatched 260 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: to a scene where a victim had been stabbed. The 261 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: man who had been stabbed told police that he had 262 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: been talking to a woman they met on Snapchat. They 263 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: taught for a few weeks before she eventually lured him 264 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: over with the promise of a good time. You know 265 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Once the man arrived, he noticed there 266 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: was a suspicious man standing out front. He got the 267 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: kind of the creep, so he left. She started calling 268 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: him over and over again. I was like, no, come back, 269 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: come back, come back, It's totally fine, it's totally fine. 270 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 1: Against his better judgment, he went back. When he got out, 271 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: he was jumped by four man, four all of which 272 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: attacked him. One ended up obviously stabbing him. He was 273 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: stabbed multiple times. They robbed him, took his iPhone, took 274 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: his wallet. Basically turns out this is an elaborate organized 275 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: robbery that this woman and another man had been setting 276 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 1: up using their friends. The woman and the other man, 277 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: named Francisco Martinez Junior, have been charged with aggravated robbery 278 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: and placed on bonds of two hundred and ten thousand dollars. 279 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: So trust your gut, and you know that almost happened 280 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: to me one time. This is why the people to 281 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: say just sleep with your friends. You know, stranger's great advice, 282 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: and that's the kind of advice you get on the JA, 283 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: exactly as I feel like Snapchat has always been sketchy. 284 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: It was sketchy. And if you're working for sex on Snapchat, Yeah, 285 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: I've met someone and they're like, yeah, come over, come 286 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: oncome over. I do not trust that at all. And 287 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: if it was on Snapchat or crregslist, definitely, and then 288 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: just you know too, when your gut is telling you 289 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: get out of here. Man, it ain't worth. It ain't 290 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: no sect in the world worth. Just out of high 291 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: school and I I had met this girl at the mall. 292 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: We made plans to meet up at this park and 293 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: I went to the park to meet her and I 294 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: just had like a bad feeling about her. Right she was, 295 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: there was just something I didn't feel right. I showed 296 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 1: her to the park and there was these four dudes, 297 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: four dudes very similar, Like, was this the same girl? Yeah, 298 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: it might have been. Now she's got a snapchat. But 299 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: I started walking up to her and then I saw 300 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: the dude come over and I was like, no, man, 301 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: I'm getting out of it. And then they started chasing me. 302 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,720 Speaker 1: I got in the car and left and I was like, dude, yeah, 303 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: but notice I didn't trust my gut either. I still 304 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: come walking over to her. Man, guys are too easy 305 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: to rob. This is the JNN, the Jubile News Network. 306 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: Remember you can listen to the j and N this 307 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: same time every single weekday morning. It's the JNN, and 308 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: congrats you just got newsed in the face. Remember you 309 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: can follow the show on social media. At the Jewel Show, 310 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: follow all of us individually. I'm at Jubal Fresh, I 311 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 1: met Vir Room, I'm at ben A Knows, I'm a Christian. 312 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: Gray snow the Jebel Show on demand First day follow up. 313 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: There is on the phone today for a first date 314 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: follow up, and he's not getting a call back from 315 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: a woman named Kira that he went on a date with, 316 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: and that's why Oscar has reached out to us to help. Well, Hello, Oscar, 317 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: what's up? Man Marning? Hey, thanks guys, thanks for your help, 318 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 1: thanks for being ghosted. I guess, um, before we get 319 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 1: into the date and everything, how long has it been 320 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: since you last talked to Kira. Uh, let's see, it's 321 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: been uh been almost a week now. And how many 322 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: times you tried to reach out to hers since your date? Um, 323 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: honestly I've texted four times. First, tell us about the date, like, 324 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: how was it? The date was great? Um, you know, 325 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 1: it wasn't wasn't anything super exciting. You know, we just 326 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: sped up, had some drinks and we did end up 327 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: going back to my place. Oh, that was a really 328 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: good time to say that, he said, nothing exciting. Followed 329 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,760 Speaker 1: up by that, Yeah, which one is well, I mean, yeah, 330 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: where we where we went wasn't super exciting, but at 331 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: the end was pretty exciting. I guess that was for 332 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: me anyway. Best. All right, so you guys ended up 333 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:10,439 Speaker 1: hooking up after the date. Yeah, you know, all that 334 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 1: went great and uh, you know, at the at the 335 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: end of the night, end of the date, who you know, 336 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: we both agreed that we wanted to keep it going, 337 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 1: keep seeing each other. And I don't know, you know, 338 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: I felt like it just I felt like it really 339 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: went great. I think that there could be a future 340 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: with this girl. I mean, it's it's kind of early 341 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: to say, but but I mean really good first aid. 342 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 1: And you know, I did want to move at her pace. 343 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: You don't make sure that, you know, like sexy time 344 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 1: getting the way or anything like that, but uh, you know, 345 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 1: I guess I did kind of feel like I wanted 346 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: a little bit more moving forward, like, you know, mentally, 347 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 1: emotionally that that kind of thing, because into her actually, 348 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: you know, she's really cool, like on a radio station. 349 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: With the situation. Normally, in my experience, when I've got 350 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: out on a date and if it's nothing special, we 351 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: go to dinner and then we end up how you 352 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,919 Speaker 1: did at the end of your date. Normally that's a 353 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: good date, right. I don't know why i'd be getting 354 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 1: ghosted exactly, unless that's all they wanted, that's it. If 355 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: it was just for like a hook up and like 356 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: one and done, I'm in and now very good point. Yeah, 357 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: so what do you think? I mean? Yeah, the really 358 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: the only thing I can think of is, I mean, 359 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: like I said, we didn't have some breaks first, and 360 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: we didn't get hammered or anything. But I might not 361 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: have been you know, totally at my bath. Maybe there's 362 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: something you're forgetting. Oh not really, I mean we didn't 363 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 1: drink that, you know, not to forget anything. But and 364 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: it could just be that I maybe I texted too 365 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: much before I should have it, and like came on 366 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: too strong or like clinging or something. And I don't 367 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: know that's That's really all I can think of is 368 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: maybe my personality was a little floppy at the end 369 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:10,439 Speaker 1: of the night, or or just coming off as cleaning 370 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 1: after the fact. So gott to be one of those 371 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: two things. All I can think though, did you do 372 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: something that you would consider cleaning? I'm kind of maybe 373 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: texting too much no, not that I can think of. 374 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: What were you texting or just normal or were you like, 375 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: come back please, I'm crying and I need you back 376 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 1: here to hold me. Yeah. No, nothing desperate or crazy 377 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: like that, but just you know, definitely wanting to, you know, 378 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: just letting her know that I wanted to, you know, 379 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 1: continue to see her and get to know her better. 380 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 1: And what was the last thing she said to you. 381 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 1: I can't remember exactly, just that you know, had a 382 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: great time, and you know, I hope that we could 383 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 1: do it again. I think I still hope we can 384 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 1: do it again. And you saith like definitely here for 385 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 1: sure or something. I don't know. I'm kind of facing 386 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: on that, but it was, you know, general good goodbye. 387 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: And she straight up she hasn't responded to anything, any 388 00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: of your text nothing. It's just straight up ghosted right 389 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, I've had nothing since then. Okay, all right, 390 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 1: well we'll see what we can figure it out for you. 391 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: We'll play a song come back, and then call her 392 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 1: and get your first date follow up next. Right in 393 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 1: the middle of your first date follow up, if you're 394 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: just joining us, Oscar is on the phone and he's 395 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a woman named Kira. He said that 396 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: their date was pretty normal. They went out to eat 397 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 1: dinner and stuff, pretty average, but they did end up 398 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:23,360 Speaker 1: hooking up at the end of the date back at 399 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: his place. So that means to me that she definitely 400 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: liked the dinner. Right, Normally, that doesn't happen if you 401 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:33,239 Speaker 1: hate the dinner. And Oscar can't figure out why he's 402 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: getting ghosted. Has been over a week now. He's reached 403 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: out to her four times since she left his house 404 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 1: after they field the deal. Yeah, thank you, Bennett. He 405 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: hasn't heard from her, so he doesn't know why. He 406 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: thinks maybe he came on too strong. Maybe he was 407 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,720 Speaker 1: a little too drunk and didn't come on strong enough, 408 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: if you know what I mean. And he can't seem 409 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:53,479 Speaker 1: to figure it out. So we're gonna help him out. 410 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna get her on the phone and find out 411 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: what the reason isn't see, we can get him another 412 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: date because Oscar, you said you really liked her, right, Oh, shoot, 413 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 1: like more than just a hookup, Like you could see 414 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 1: yourself hooking up with her for at least a couple 415 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,160 Speaker 1: of months, if not the unforeseeable for its future. Definitely 416 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,400 Speaker 1: thinking that potential. All right, okay, cool, Well we'll call 417 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: her right now and we'll see if you can figured 418 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 1: out for you. Ready, let's do it. Hello, A speak 419 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: to Kara please, I'll get the turt Hey, Kia, how 420 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: are you. My name is Jubil and I host the 421 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 1: radio show called The Jewel Show, and I'm Victoria from 422 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: the same show. I'm Bennett from The Jewil Show, and 423 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: so we're all from The Jewel Show. It's a radio 424 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: show and I don't know if you listen to it 425 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: or not, but Hi, yeah, Hi, we're calling you because 426 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,160 Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show called the First 427 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 1: Date follow Up. That's where if you go out on 428 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: a date with somebody and end up ghosting them, they 429 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,959 Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and 430 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: ask why you're ghosting them. So we're on the phone 431 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: with you because we got an email from somebody who 432 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: listens to the show about you. Oh, okay, thanks, May 433 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: I do? Yes? Who are you ghosting? Yeah? You should. 434 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: I mean I went on a date recently over the weekend, 435 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: like almost a week ago. I'd say, um, nothing, nothing 436 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: went bad or anything like. It was a great date. 437 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 1: And okay, we went to a barn and I was good. 438 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:36,199 Speaker 1: Was his name was it Oscar? Yeah? Absolutely it was. 439 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: So Oscar did tell us about your date. He thought 440 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,400 Speaker 1: that like you were really into it too, And then 441 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: he said, after you left his house, nothing, he hasn't 442 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 1: hear anything from you, and he wants to know why. Well, 443 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 1: I guess it's kind of payback. What do you mean payback? Yeah? 444 00:22:54,960 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: Payback for what? WHOA? Okay, So I texted him the 445 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: next day and then I texted him again the date 446 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: after and he never responded. So I mean he technically 447 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:11,919 Speaker 1: ghosted me first. Yeah, I thought when he texted me 448 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: when he finally did text me back, like it just 449 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 1: felt like he wanted a booty call or something. So 450 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: I just was gonna ghost him back. Sounds fair, but 451 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: I'm confused. Yeah, I'm confused as well. So you left, 452 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,679 Speaker 1: he didn't text you, so you didn't text him, but 453 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: he didn't text you, but just not right after, right, 454 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 1: I text him like the next day after the date, 455 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,199 Speaker 1: and then like another day after just this, you know, 456 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: if I guess if he was so interested, and then 457 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: he finally text me back like maybe a couple of 458 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,919 Speaker 1: days after that. Okay, we talked to him you know, 459 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,200 Speaker 1: and from his story, from his side of things, that 460 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: sounded to me it sounded like he texted you right away. Yeah. Yeah, 461 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 1: he said he texted you four times. I don't know 462 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 1: about that. I got I got it after my like 463 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: the next day, and I don't know. So you texted 464 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 1: him first and he didn't text you for a couple 465 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 1: of days. Yeah, yeah, I mean that's how it felt. 466 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: Maybe I got the timeline wrong on when he texted you, 467 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 1: but he made it sound like he had texted you 468 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 1: a bunch and you didn't answer at all or text 469 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: him because I think I even asked him if you 470 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: texted him and he said no, maybe you guys have 471 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: the wrong number. Well I hope not. Now I feel bad. Yeah, 472 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 1: I'm just confused. We'll just talk to Oscar about it, Kira, 473 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: because Oscar is actually on the phone listening and wants 474 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: to talk to you. Maybe he can help us figure 475 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: this whole thing out. Oh okay, Oh my god, No, 476 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: it's feels a little awkward. Yeah, I mean it's been 477 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: feeling awkward for a minute, so might not make it 478 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 1: more awkward, right, Hey, curious, sorry on the spot. Hey, 479 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: I mean it's okay, it's I guess we're clearing the 480 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 1: air now, right, Yeah, I guess. I hope everything's going well. Yeah, 481 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 1: well yeah, I mean I I thought the date went well. 482 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 1: I figured, you know, we would see each other again. 483 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: I just I don't know if we got our wires 484 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 1: crossed or what happened. But um, I totally text you. 485 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 1: I definitely wanted to, you know, see you again. You 486 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: never texted me. I definitely, I definitely would have seen that. 487 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: No way. I texted you like the day after, like 488 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: in the morning after, just to you know, catch up 489 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 1: or you know, chit chat or something. I swear I did. 490 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: I say I texted the day after, and like one 491 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 1: day after that, I swear I didn't get any text 492 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 1: from you because like I didn't want to text you 493 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: too fast and come off of like desperate or weird 494 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 1: or anything, because I don't know. I guess, oh, I 495 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: was just I was just in my own head. And 496 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 1: and then like and then after a few days, I 497 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: was like, okay, like I'm going to reach out. It's 498 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: been long enough. And then like you never texted me 499 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 1: at that point, and I was like, oh god, I 500 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: don't know, yeah, see, I see you weren't responding to me. 501 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: So I wonder. I swear I'm looking at the text 502 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 1: message spread right now, and I mean, there's nothing here 503 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: for me. You totally ghosted me. No, you ghosted me. 504 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: That's why I ghosted you. I swear you did not 505 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: text me back. I'm you're looking at it right now. 506 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 1: I've got no text from you because I texted four 507 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: times and you're saying you only got one mic or 508 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 1: the course of the week. Yeah, just I only got 509 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 1: one from you. So I swear that. I swear if 510 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,880 Speaker 1: you were ghosting me because I didn't get a response 511 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: back until a few days later. Was anybody's phone like 512 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: shut off? Maybe you didn't pay your bill in the 513 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 1: last few days, ran out of minutes, and that's why 514 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: these messages kind of like got lost. I don't know, 515 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: I don't get it. Let me, let me pull it 516 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: up again. Let me look at me phone, Oscar, what's 517 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: your number again? I'm just going to take it in 518 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: because I didn't save you as a contact yet. I'm 519 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:09,880 Speaker 1: just gonna look for it. Okay, it's the oh oh whip? 520 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: What does that? What does that mean? Funny story? Um, 521 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: it looks like so I had someone working on my house, 522 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: and your numbers are almost to achieve exactly the same 523 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: by like one or two numbers, and I no wonder 524 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: your text to me. It was confusing because I didn't 525 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: text you. I texted the workers. Oh awkward. Oh okay, 526 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 1: so just let me make sure I got this, so 527 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: you didn't save me as a contact, and then you 528 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:48,199 Speaker 1: did text be the next day, but you texted somebody 529 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:52,880 Speaker 1: that was working on your house by mistake. Yeah, yeah, 530 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 1: I guess that's what I did. I'm sorry, and I mean, 531 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,879 Speaker 1: I guess that's why I felt like you were just 532 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:07,399 Speaker 1: texting for a booty call. Okay, yeah, that's right. Like 533 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,200 Speaker 1: the text message I received back was so confusing because 534 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 1: it was like, do you need me to come over 535 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: there now or something like that, and I'm like what no, Um, 536 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: all right, well um Kia, would you like to go 537 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 1: out with Oscar again now that you know what happened 538 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: that he wasn't ghosting you. We'll pay for it, yes, yes, 539 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: of course, sweet, that's great. Here. I can't wait to 540 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: see you again. And please save my name in your phone. 541 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, Jewils, Dirty Little Secret. Hey, 542 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewels Show? And you texted 543 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: us at four one, six one and said you had 544 00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: a dirty little secret. So we're calling you back to 545 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: ask what your dirty little secret is. Good morning, Why, 546 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,239 Speaker 1: what's up? Good morning? How's it going? Can you tell 547 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: us your dirty little secret? Now? Yes? Okay, So my 548 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 1: dirty little secret is that I actually have never paid 549 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: for anything from a vending machine. And if you want another, 550 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 1: are two ways to achieve this tack. The first one 551 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 1: is that you can take a piece of string to 552 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: a dollar bill and just pull it right back out 553 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 1: after it's done job. But if that doesn't work, I 554 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: know this is what they don't want you to know 555 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: about this or this one isn't for everybody. But I 556 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 1: have a very long, skinny arm and they look cool 557 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: and normal, but they do this job and I can 558 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: get things. I can get my full elbow up into 559 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: the machine. I mean my ful level of my full 560 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: shoulder up into the machine, and not just like bottom 561 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: row stuff. I'm talking. I'm talking checks mixed, I'm talking 562 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: tips and oreos. Okay, I have questions. Did you say 563 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: you put your whole arm in all the way to 564 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,400 Speaker 1: your shoulder all the way? I mean I can I 565 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: can't get the good does that hurt. It's not comfortable, 566 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 1: but it's it's what's called worth it. I just won't. 567 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: I'm just not going to pay a dollar fifty if 568 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: I know how to get in there. It's funny you 569 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,719 Speaker 1: say worth it, because I was getting ready to say, 570 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: ain't nothing worth a dollar and fifty say it ain't 571 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: worth about losing my arm? I can tell you that, Well, 572 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: you got to hut the right arm and sort of 573 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: the boneless situation going on. Are you saying I know 574 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: how to give it? No? No, no no, I'm sure you're 575 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: a beautiful art, but you got to try it. Okay, okay, 576 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 1: the string with a dollar bill? So does that mean 577 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: you like punch a hole in your dollar bill and 578 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 1: you put it in with the string, and then how 579 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 1: does that pull? I'm sorry, I'm trying to think. I know, 580 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 1: you can just tape it like you don't even have 581 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 1: to punch a hole. You can just like put you know, 582 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: two pieces of tape onto the string and then to 583 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: put it in like you're paying normally, and then once 584 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 1: it goes in, just sort of gently take it back out. 585 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 1: But some machines are a little too aggressive and and 586 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 1: this isn't going to work. Okay, good to know I'm 587 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: writing this down. Yeah. Yeah, it's been When I was 588 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: a kid at the Boys and Girls club where all 589 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 1: the bad kids go, um oh yeah I had. There 590 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 1: was like one one guy at the club that knew 591 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: how to do the same thing. He would steal all 592 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 1: the stuff at the bottom of the vending machine, so 593 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: we would always go to him to get our stuff. 594 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 1: But then one time he got caught and he couldn't 595 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: get his arm out quick enough, so he got into 596 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 1: big trouble and like he went down for everybody snack 597 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: that year. So when his arm was dark, y'all didn't help. 598 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: Y'all just let we ran. I would have done the 599 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: same thing. I'm like, I'm out of here. You're on 600 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 1: your own. So have you ever got calt? Well, I 601 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: almost got caught one time, but I just told him 602 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: that my cookies had gotten stuck, and so I was actually, 603 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: you know, more of a hero in that situation. I 604 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: could have let my eyes fill with tears, which is 605 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: kind of natural by that point because I had been 606 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 1: in there for a little minute. Yeah. The fun fact, 607 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 1: did you know that like a lot of people die 608 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: from vending machines. I do. Yeah, there's an alarming amount 609 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: of people that die from vending machines every year. How 610 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 1: they fall on them maybe probably brother trying to do that. 611 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: Their snacks get caught, and you know when you buy 612 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 1: something from the vending machine and like your snack falls 613 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: or like the little rings go, but it doesn't like, 614 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 1: oh of your snack and you're like dang. Some people 615 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 1: like they shake the machine and it falls on thee yes. 616 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's horrible. It feels like my parents 617 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: set up an intervention for me. So I was stock, Wait, 618 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna die? Nd there's just over two on average, 619 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: there's just over two vending machine deaths per year. Wow. 620 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: Well yeah, girl, you could be one of those. Don't 621 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: be okay, I mean this almost makes you want to 622 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,719 Speaker 1: change my ways, but it's really it's hard. I'm actually 623 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: headlines now. She died for a dollar and fifty cent 624 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: bag of chips. It's not worth what kind of chips 625 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: did you? Okay? If it were Deritos were considering a 626 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: cool ranch, Oh you might die from the arden, Saucess. 627 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: Thanks for telling us, Thanks for telling us your dirty 628 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: little secret, of course, Thank you, guys. The Jewel Show 629 00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 1: on Demand I didn't expect to start talking about what 630 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 1: I'm about to talk about with a laugh. It's the 631 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 1: Jewels show, gosh, And why am I laughing? Because our 632 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:29,760 Speaker 1: listeners are hilarious, Our listeners are awesome, and sometimes our 633 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: listeners are coldhearted and me and mean and like, honestly 634 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: like to me, this stuff is funny. Right. When you 635 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: do this job, people will support you and people will 636 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,280 Speaker 1: rip on you no matter what you do. I just 637 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: shared that I want to take a moment to talk 638 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: about me finding out that my mom passed away. And 639 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: the first text message that comes in thank you for 640 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,719 Speaker 1: the laugh. I mean that from the bottom of my heart, 641 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: because it's weird to go on a show where we 642 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: mayn't really joke around and go, hey, I want to 643 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: talk about me finding out that my mom passed away. 644 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 1: And I say finding out because she died on December 645 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: twenty eighth, and I didn't find out until days and 646 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: days and days later. But anyway, text message that made 647 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 1: me laugh right before we did this, said Jewel, nobody 648 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 1: wants to hear about your family problems. Play doctor Phil 649 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: on your own time. What were you thinking sending a 650 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 1: message like that? What were you thinking? Wow? I'm not 651 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 1: trying to play doctor Phil. I just like to talk 652 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,359 Speaker 1: about my life. I've always been honest and open on 653 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 1: the air and in public about my life, and I 654 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 1: have no problem talking about it. So, yeah, you know, 655 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: I cut off contact with my immediate family years ago 656 00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 1: because I grew up in a very abusive household, narcissistic father, 657 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,240 Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. Unfortunately, that meant I also 658 00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,840 Speaker 1: had to say to my mom, Hey, if you're in 659 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 1: that household, I just can't have a relationship because it's 660 00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: hard for me. So my mom was the only person 661 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 1: and that I was closest with in my immediate family. 662 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: I never really got to know her, and she never 663 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 1: really got to know me. But she was the one 664 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 1: person that I had as a kid who when he 665 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 1: wasn't around, she was a different person. Yeah. I don't 666 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:24,400 Speaker 1: have many memories of her without her brushing her tears 667 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: off as allergies. But the good ones that I do 668 00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 1: have was whenever she had to take me to the dentist, 669 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: because then it was just me and her and she 670 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 1: would like listen to me and actually take the time 671 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 1: to talk to me. I don't have any of those 672 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 1: memories too, but I cut off contact with him. So 673 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 1: I heard from my cousin who still talks to me. 674 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,560 Speaker 1: She reached out to me and said, hey, I won't 675 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: let you know that your mom bats away. It's weird 676 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 1: because I knew this moment would come. Last time I 677 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: talked to my mom was actually in counseling because I 678 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: had stopped talking to my father and she still wanted 679 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 1: a relationship, and I had to have the conversation. And 680 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 1: the conversation was going to be, Hey, if you want 681 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 1: to leave this man, absolutely, If not, I just can't. 682 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 1: And at the end of it, she made her choice 683 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 1: and I had to make a tough choice. And it 684 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: was so weird to get that news the way that 685 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: I did. It's just been tough to process. You know. 686 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: It shook me like it like I never had before. 687 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I know people out there you've lost a 688 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 1: loved one and you know how it is. Now I 689 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: know how it is, and I think the way that 690 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about it, and what I wanted 691 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 1: to say was that my mom was brilliant. She taught 692 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,959 Speaker 1: me to be curious always, and she taught me to 693 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:52,360 Speaker 1: be passionate about life and learning. And my mom was 694 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:59,240 Speaker 1: also an incredibly broken woman who lived her entire life 695 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 1: not living up to her potential. A gifted writer like 696 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 1: her words were beautiful. She's the reason that I love writing, 697 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: and she taught me a lot about it, and she 698 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 1: had amazing theories and points of view on life that 699 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:18,359 Speaker 1: she would not share out loud around most people. And 700 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:19,919 Speaker 1: I was like, well, what's the way that I could 701 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 1: honor her? Because I didn't really get to have the 702 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 1: relationship that I wanted with my mom, and I thought 703 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: that the way to honor her would just be to 704 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: share it with the people that have actually been there 705 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,239 Speaker 1: for me. You guys listeners who have listened to me 706 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: forever and just say that, don't waste your potential. I 707 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 1: look at wasted potential in life as one of the 708 00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: saddest things ever, especially when it's taken from you by 709 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 1: someone else. My mom always wanted to be a published writer. 710 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: She was a genius. It was never seen by the 711 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 1: world at all. So if you're listening to me right now, 712 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 1: and you're in any situation where you feel like you're 713 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 1: not living to your full potential, and you know you 714 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: that there's something you want to do but you're not 715 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,240 Speaker 1: doing it for a reason that you are in control 716 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,759 Speaker 1: of and thing you can leave. I'm just asking you 717 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 1: to hunar my mom's memory by not wasting your potential. 718 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 1: I know it's scary and I know it's hard, but 719 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: the only thing you really have in this world is 720 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,879 Speaker 1: you and live your life the way that you want 721 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: to and live to your full potential. Otherwise you might 722 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: have a short published looking son talking about you years later, going, Man, 723 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 1: the saddest thing is the world never got to hear 724 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 1: my mom's beautiful words and know how beautiful her mind was. 725 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 1: I want to say something to you. This is Christian, 726 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,879 Speaker 1: by the way, and as someone who is new, I've 727 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,839 Speaker 1: moved here and just see how so many people love 728 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: you and celebrate you and your mom's gifts are celebrated 729 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 1: through you after a lot of people, and so whatever 730 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,439 Speaker 1: you get down, don't ever forget that. Thank you man. Yeah, 731 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 1: I look at that. I'm like, well, the parts of 732 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 1: me that I like I got from my mom, I 733 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,279 Speaker 1: absolutely no, yea, And those are the parts you want 734 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:06,280 Speaker 1: to share with the world. Yeah, thank you. So hug 735 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,360 Speaker 1: your loved ones today. Parents, talk to your kids today, 736 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 1: just ask them something about themselves, Like that was the 737 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,280 Speaker 1: biggest thing my mom different me as a kid, nobody 738 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: cared and she did when she could. So just live 739 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,839 Speaker 1: to your potential and try to operate from a place 740 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 1: of compassion. And I'll find out what my mom's last 741 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 1: words were and I'll share those two. Hopefully they're not 742 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 1: clean your room again. Oh, I had to make a joke. 743 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 1: She would have laughed. I know. Also, she wasn't very 744 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 1: strict on charge, so she shoul probably wouldn't say that. 745 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 1: The Jebel Show on demand