WEBVTT - Never Been a Quitter, Until Now

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to untraditionally, La La, Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to untraditionally,

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<v Speaker 2>La La. I'm so excited to have tea Tea back.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome Tea.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back.

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<v Speaker 2>You're beck Adam, and we need to squash some shit.

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<v Speaker 1>What is being said now? I don't read anything well.

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<v Speaker 2>I think people are confused by the comfortability that this

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<v Speaker 2>family has, and I find it very important to let

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<v Speaker 2>the listeners know. Are we a weird family? Yes, the

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<v Speaker 2>dynamic is close. We are tight knit. We joke very inappropriately,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes about sex, sometimes about drug use, sometimes about.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, sex and drug use at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>Just uncomfortable topics that maybe some people wouldn't joke about,

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<v Speaker 2>especially in front of their families.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is very important.

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<v Speaker 2>That you guys know when I come home after doing

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<v Speaker 2>whatever with the opposite sex, I never in a million

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<v Speaker 2>years would share those moments with my fucking brother.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, is that what people think? People?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, people are like, why is why are they so

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable talking about this stuff in front of each other?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, because it's like mostly just made up

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<v Speaker 2>in my head, but like actual intimacy that I had

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<v Speaker 2>with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I would not with my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I share everything with my mom like she birthed me,

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<v Speaker 2>like she pushed me out of her body, So of

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<v Speaker 2>course I feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have to share things with your mom? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it weird? I don't don't with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know when Easton's talking to a girl, let

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<v Speaker 2>alone you guys, doing whatever it is he may or

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<v Speaker 2>may not be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>These vultures, these two vultures at home. You think I

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<v Speaker 1>would talk to tell anything to you two about women? Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I lie about going places when I'm going to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with a girl because it's easier to tell them

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going shopping with a buddy or to a movie

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<v Speaker 1>with a group of friends, then to go I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to a girl, and then go what's her Instagram? What

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<v Speaker 1>does she do? Where's she from? Yeah? No, so no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't tell anything about anyone I'm talking to to

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<v Speaker 1>now vultures at home.

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<v Speaker 2>But I make inappropriate jokes, whether it's with my family

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<v Speaker 2>on TV, to a group of strangers.

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<v Speaker 1>I make inappropriate jokes all the time, no matter who

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<v Speaker 1>is around. Because I'm sorry my dad, Yeah, my dad

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<v Speaker 1>was really made the most inappropriate jokes at the most

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<v Speaker 1>inappropriate times, and guess what, it was the best and

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<v Speaker 1>most funny moments that have ever been embedded in those

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<v Speaker 1>are all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember when you came down the stairs after he

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<v Speaker 2>died and everyone was crying, and you were like, why

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<v Speaker 2>is everyone so sad?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like someone died. Yeah, I go, so this, just

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<v Speaker 1>to put it that way, this is every my dad

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<v Speaker 1>has just passed. People are in the house and like

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<v Speaker 1>it was a grandiose entrance where you got to look

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<v Speaker 1>over and see down the stairs from their from their bedroom. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I walk down the stairs and everybody looks up

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<v Speaker 1>at me because nobody wants to go in there. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>wants to go in and see him except the the

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<v Speaker 1>you know, corner and all that. So I go down

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<v Speaker 1>the stairs and I go, guys, he's in there, still sleeping,

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<v Speaker 1>And not one person laughed. And I thought, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>misfire And like I say, wind loser, maybe wind loser, draw. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be said, wind lose or draw. And guess what,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that was a draw or a lose.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, you didn't take the w long story longer.

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<v Speaker 1>We're very inappropriate. But when it comes to real life,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sharing a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel more comfortable sharing it on like Vanderpump Rules

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<v Speaker 2>or I guess now the Valley in front of a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of people that just maybe watching. I We're weird.

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<v Speaker 2>We're weird, We're weird, we're weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. A lot is talking to a guy

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea, honestly, and tell my mother because she

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<v Speaker 1>goes she was outside in the main room because I

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<v Speaker 1>could hear her talking to him, and I think they

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<v Speaker 1>were talking of her.

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<v Speaker 2>An hour.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, who the hell is she talking to?

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<v Speaker 1>And then she said the name and I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, well, it just goes to show that you don't

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<v Speaker 2>listen to the podcast either.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, Okay, it's all good, anyway, let's move. Okay, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>We're weird. We got it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also sometimes think it's weird when someone's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I would never tell my mom that, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, that's strange. But I also like, that's your normal.

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<v Speaker 1>This is our normal. I'm gonna put it this way,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna end it right here. I've said it

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<v Speaker 1>before and I'll say it again. There's a time where

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are my family, and there's a time when

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are my friends. Yeah, and when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>I make the inappropriate jokes, you guys are my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I know where the line is and I know where

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<v Speaker 1>to stop and where I can, but that's where it stops. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're my friends and family. There's a fine line. So

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<v Speaker 1>there it is. I got it. Idiots.

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<v Speaker 2>If we are a little aggressive on this podcast today,

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<v Speaker 2>if you guys follow me on social media, Easton and

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<v Speaker 2>I decided to give up the vape. Now this was

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<v Speaker 2>not something that I wanted to do. I gave it

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<v Speaker 2>up because I told you guys that I am having

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<v Speaker 2>work done on my upper body. You guys think I'm weird,

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<v Speaker 2>so god forbid I say the word job in front

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<v Speaker 2>of Easton. Anyway, they told me that I had to

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<v Speaker 2>give up the vape.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did dragged my ass into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well it's it's horrendous for you and we all know this.

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<v Speaker 2>And the way Easton smokes it, you would think he's

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<v Speaker 2>smoking a blunt, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>He doublechokes and it is just like puff the magic.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not how the vape works. So of course I

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<v Speaker 2>dragged him into it. And I'm telling you what I

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<v Speaker 2>have been tweaking. I got okay, one pound bag of

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<v Speaker 2>popcorn jelly beans and devoured them in less than forty eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Hours, so those were gone the way I was shoe

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<v Speaker 1>gone like this. Literally, it was the most annoying.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, who am I chewing this gum like

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<v Speaker 2>a cow with cud?

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<v Speaker 1>It was awful. It's still is awful, Eastan. How's it

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<v Speaker 1>going for you? And the better days? I've ripped Mom's

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<v Speaker 1>head off a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 2>Your head Lisa is taking the brunt of it, for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>She's being dragged.

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<v Speaker 1>To filth, but it's just on points. There was something

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<v Speaker 1>that I said to her the other day and she

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<v Speaker 1>goes like this. She stops dead in her truck.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes, Oh, what you just said might make me cry,

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<v Speaker 2>And I felt so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, and I doubled down. We both doubled down.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went to Palm Springs this weekend, you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And we went with my older brother and my nephew

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<v Speaker 2>because he had a lacrosse tournament in Palm Springs. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm driving out day one of this tournament and there's

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<v Speaker 2>three lanes of traffic right one's coming from this way.

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<v Speaker 2>One's coming from just straight down the middle and then

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<v Speaker 2>opposite direction of me, and it's like they're flagging people

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<v Speaker 2>when it's each line's turn. It is now my turn

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<v Speaker 2>in this fucking Hyundai comes out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>She's beautiful vehicle. She was going.

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<v Speaker 2>She was going all of like maybe maximum three to

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<v Speaker 2>five miles an hour, but she was aggressive and completely aggressive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was easton.

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<v Speaker 2>I looked over and she was like literally ready to

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<v Speaker 2>side swipe me. She was gonna side swipe me before

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<v Speaker 2>she ever let me go in front of her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm lived. It was a long day at the lacrosse tournament.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a wonderful day. I had a great day.

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<v Speaker 2>I had the best time, so says in the back

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<v Speaker 2>talking and like that also made me upside because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>my kid is.

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<v Speaker 1>On this side of the car.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious, but there are cops around, Okay, So initially

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, because now we're stacked right like she makes

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<v Speaker 2>it through the line, we pull out, I'm right in

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<v Speaker 2>front of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Traffic is stopped.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm getting out of the fucking car and

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<v Speaker 2>I am beating her window until she starts to record

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<v Speaker 2>me and I get canceled. That's where my head's at, right,

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<v Speaker 2>That's how livid I was. There's a cop there, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, like the way her car is driving, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like gasp, It's like okay. And I even said, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, fucking ease up, my mother, watch my language.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, Laurenie, you're escalating it more. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I I kept it under control by just flipping her

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<v Speaker 1>off and honking at her. Well, no, I hadn't done

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<v Speaker 1>that yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I get through three lights until we're finally home free

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<v Speaker 2>out of Lacrosse Territory, where there's cops at every stop sign,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm certainly not going to get out when there's

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<v Speaker 2>the popo right there.

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<v Speaker 1>But you guys, I was in rare form, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a confrontational person. Really, I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 2>When I say that, I mean physically, oh, mentally, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>go Mentally I'm a confrontational but when somebody slaps, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not shy away from conflict.

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<v Speaker 2>Unless you get But recently I have been taking a beat.

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<v Speaker 1>Right the vape tested the beat. There's the beat. So

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<v Speaker 1>we get through Lacrosse Territory. I'm on her x we

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<v Speaker 1>come to a tee and you either go left or right.

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<v Speaker 1>She sto for the cars. We're making a right hand turn,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, fuck it. I lay on my horn

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<v Speaker 1>and start flipping her off for a really long three seconds,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe ten. And then that's where I like coming from.

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<v Speaker 1>Like usually i'm the driver and they're usually yelling at

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<v Speaker 1>me the way I was yelling at Lauren. I know

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the right for this, because she give it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd just gotten an accident, by the way, not a

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<v Speaker 1>great one, not a bad one. I took the easy one.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna talk about that, by the way. But coming

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<v Speaker 1>off an accident that I just came from, and then

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<v Speaker 1>her saying we almost got it, I'm like, okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>were going three miles an hour. It could have been worse. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>your child is in the car. She probably none wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have felt it. But she is fucking lipping her off.

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<v Speaker 1>Just honky hovered the if this is the steering wheel,

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<v Speaker 1>she's fucking over it, just nern and I go, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you fucking doing? I go, you're fucking escu what

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want. And these are the type of these

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<v Speaker 1>women right here, this these bitches, these bitches. Mom and sister,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, they fucking yell at me. They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>why would you do that? You're gonna escalate it, and

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<v Speaker 1>now people have guns and you don't know what they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do. And so I'm yelling at her like fucking stop,

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna fucking come out, and She's like, that is

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<v Speaker 1>half the thought I wanted to do. I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get out the fucking car and bang on the door.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh, were you. Let's fucking escalate

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<v Speaker 1>it further. And I told her, I said, if that

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<v Speaker 1>door would have opened, I would have jumped. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have fucking wrinkled your neck. And I just said, breathe

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<v Speaker 1>and I had have typed in the nearest bape because

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<v Speaker 1>no assault is worth not hitting a vape. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>but guys, I'm going through it because I'm now getting

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<v Speaker 1>yelled at by my mom, going she just needs to

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<v Speaker 1>get it out. She's not vaping.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm thinking we're getting in like I've seen this,

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<v Speaker 3>We're not on a good end. They get out with

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<v Speaker 3>a bet and ship and I'm thinking, oh, we had

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<v Speaker 3>a child.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know. It wasn't a proud moment. I made

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<v Speaker 1>an amend I wrote her a note. I spat a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit on the mic, but I will say the

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<v Speaker 1>key thing that Lisa is taking the brunt is her

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<v Speaker 1>just dead mindless in the car as we are just

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at each other going through it. She didn't move

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<v Speaker 1>and she just goes. I'm very proud of you guys

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<v Speaker 1>for not hitting the veil, and that right there almost

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<v Speaker 1>made me want to hit my mother. Fuck moving on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I may hit the vabe. She's doing well.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm new to sobriety again, you know, working on it,

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<v Speaker 1>little relapse. We're staying strong today. Baby. In Easton's sobriety journey.

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<v Speaker 2>It's fourth time to the charm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna drink tomorrow and tomorrow. I'm gonna drink tomorrow, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because tomorrow never comes. Yeah for real.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, but I don't know about you, but

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<v Speaker 2>I get so annoyed with people when they're like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you gotta get up the babe, it's so bad

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<v Speaker 1>for you is they're like sipping a odd casoda. The

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<v Speaker 1>fuck up. I'm not kidding you, guys. I'm cussing on

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<v Speaker 1>this pot. I know, but I can't promise you with

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<v Speaker 1>me giving up the vape. There's just like one thing

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<v Speaker 1>at a time. Right now it's the vape. Then it'll

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<v Speaker 1>be my mouth. How much What do you mean you've

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<v Speaker 1>given up the oh? Saying that? Can I ask you

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<v Speaker 1>a question? Yeah? How many? How many months of sobriety

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<v Speaker 1>do you have? Now? Honestly, let's let's look.

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<v Speaker 2>You have been counting days, which is weird because in

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<v Speaker 2>the program we count days, but you are doing things

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<v Speaker 2>slightly differently this round than you have in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And here's the thing. People count days, And to

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<v Speaker 1>people who count days, I love that count days for you.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, if this is a forever thing, so why

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<v Speaker 1>do I need to know what day it is? Totally?

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that, you know. Yeah, So it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>why count Why look at it and be like it's

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<v Speaker 1>only been or wow, I've made it this far. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's just a forever thing. So like today is today,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a sober day, just like tomorrow will be.

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<v Speaker 1>And what day is it? Don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you're just as shy. You're two days shy of

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<v Speaker 2>five months sober.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, y'all applaud myself that I will say, like this

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<v Speaker 1>one is very different. I'm very honest with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was in the car and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I may need a bad You don't know. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>good obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom is like she I don't know if she

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<v Speaker 2>has an addictive personality, like she gave up alcohol a leaders.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she does.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's my mom hasn't had a sip of

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<v Speaker 2>alcohol since I got sober. She stopped drinking a year

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<v Speaker 2>after I got sober, and she kind of just did

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<v Speaker 2>it out of.

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<v Speaker 1>Solidarity. Yeah, support, she did, support for her kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I think her addiction is more towards like

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<v Speaker 2>she loves chips and sweets, and I try to tell her, like,

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<v Speaker 2>not a great.

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<v Speaker 1>Call, let's start, let's do this. We shouldn't be having ape.

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<v Speaker 2>And I tell her this, But I also had to

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<v Speaker 2>explain to her, like Easton is basically a handful of

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<v Speaker 2>days months sober. I'm seven years in and I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>giving up the vape. So I understand that the vape

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<v Speaker 2>is not good for any of us. But I will

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<v Speaker 2>be damned if Easton starts gittering saying I need something

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<v Speaker 2>I and he picks up a drink instead. I would

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<v Speaker 2>much rather him say you know, I need this for

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<v Speaker 2>now because the the vape really got me through really

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<v Speaker 2>tough times going out with friends, going even you know,

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<v Speaker 2>something as simple as filming a show, and the amount

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<v Speaker 2>of pressure in those moments where everyone else is like

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<v Speaker 2>I need to have a drink. In this moment, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>get me to my purse. I need to smack the vape.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I mean, I don't know. I don't go

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<v Speaker 1>out really at all. If I do, I go with

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<v Speaker 1>like close friends who know that, like I'm sober. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's just something. Even when I go out, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I have a red Bull or something, but it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like hitting the vape. It's I don't know. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys sip in Aquila soda and you guys getting that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like I I get something from it as well.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like for people to come up to me though,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like, dude, giving up the vape, It's like

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<v Speaker 1>it gets better. It's like, oh, really, are you fucking

0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.080
<v Speaker 1>drunk right now? It gets better. I know you want

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<v Speaker 1>to I want to hit him. I want to fucking

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm like chan jaw and then smack it

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like you don't know. I'm aggressive a vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm gonna do well today. It's gonna be great.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have a great day.

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<v Speaker 2>I know a lot of people were writing in for

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<v Speaker 2>like tips and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a tip. I what is your tip for? It? Sprite?

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<v Speaker 1>Just something, oh, just having something to drink at all times,

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<v Speaker 1>just a little can of something.

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<v Speaker 2>I like I said, went heavy on the jelly bellies,

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<v Speaker 2>heavy on the gum.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you know what else I started doing.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, when I wanted to hit the babe and

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<v Speaker 2>I started tweaking, I would take a big breath in

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<v Speaker 2>and hold it for like kind of a while and

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<v Speaker 2>then let it out and I feel a little lightheaded.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's not the best way to do it, but

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<v Speaker 2>it did cure.

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<v Speaker 1>The one thing, can I be honest. The one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I do is I'll find just a quiet area

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<v Speaker 1>and I just breathe for yeah, five minutes. I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>focus on my breathing just and I don't hold in

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<v Speaker 1>crazy like I'm not like Infra eight hold for six

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<v Speaker 1>out for eight, like. I just find my breathing rhythm

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm comfortable, and I just breathe and then I

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<v Speaker 1>figure out, and there's just a time where I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm good and go yeah, out of time

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<v Speaker 1>to myself, just breathing through moments.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a lot of football happening though, and that's

0:18:12.880 --> 0:18:14.520
<v Speaker 2>when Easton and I do our best work with the.

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<v Speaker 1>Vape, don't we. Yeah? Can I be honest? Yeah? Always

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<v Speaker 1>I was. I was playing video games with my friends

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<v Speaker 1>last night. I was worried about you last night.

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<v Speaker 2>When you said I'm gonna play video games, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is when he's gonna tweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I was tweaking, but I told him. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I quit the vape and I was like, sod, just

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<v Speaker 1>to let you motherfuckers now I'm going to be a dickhead,

0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:35.920
<v Speaker 1>do you They're like all right. The amount of times

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<v Speaker 1>Easing called me and my mom bitches this weekend was like,

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<v Speaker 1>stupid batches. I love them to go.

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<v Speaker 2>You know who that sounds like you've never seen, Oh

0:18:44.600 --> 0:18:48.040
<v Speaker 2>g rony. But Sonya's dating this really young guy frenchie.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like and he's They're laying in bed and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they want to know who you are, and

0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.960
<v Speaker 2>he's like all of these bet cheds.

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<v Speaker 1>Have seen it. I think I have because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>kidding you. There's something like I've seen, because it's something

0:19:01.800 --> 0:19:06.000
<v Speaker 1>that's it literally is like these are my bitches, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't come up with that, Like I heard.

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<v Speaker 2>It, but it got to the point where you were

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<v Speaker 2>dropping it in front of Dreyson, like our sweet seventeen

0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:15.960
<v Speaker 2>year old nephew and I my sweet older brother who

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<v Speaker 2>like would never tell us to stop doing anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It got I was like, Easton, you got you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>real it in. You gotta real it in. People gotta know.

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<v Speaker 1>People gotta know what I don't know. Know your mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>know what you can and cannot say. I can't say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting there. I cannot say what I was saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I was tweaking out. I'm understanding. Yes, there are some

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<v Speaker 1>things that I'm writing down in my good old book

0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:47.200
<v Speaker 1>of goodies. There was there was a I'll say about

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<v Speaker 1>that there.

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<v Speaker 2>Were fates all over the house in Palm Springs. I

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<v Speaker 2>kept finding that in freaking urs.

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<v Speaker 1>So my mother walked in on me with one and

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what to do with it. I felt

0:19:58.760 --> 0:20:01.320
<v Speaker 1>like I was like my mom was like, you hit it.

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<v Speaker 2>You had a guilty look, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>think it was a look of contemplation.

0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:09.000
<v Speaker 1>It was do I do I? So one of the

0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:11.080
<v Speaker 1>nights I was driving down and I was like, okay,

0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:12.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't need this because I'm gonna wake up and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not hitting it. I'm gonna throw it away. So

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<v Speaker 1>I took a big old head and my my addicted

0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:20.120
<v Speaker 1>ass was like, I'm not gonna throw it away. I'll

0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:22.600
<v Speaker 1>throw it in the bag just in case. So I

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<v Speaker 1>threw out my duffel bag forgot about it, and then

0:20:26.200 --> 0:20:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I was going through my socks and did you get

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. Just the feelings were all crazy. I don't

0:20:32.680 --> 0:20:34.840
<v Speaker 1>know what I was feeling, but it was wild because

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<v Speaker 1>like I found it, and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>do I hit it? Do I tell my my Do

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<v Speaker 1>I tell my homie that I found one? Yeah? My

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<v Speaker 1>vape p hopy. That's why I was called. I was like,

0:20:45.560 --> 0:20:47.040
<v Speaker 1>do I show her? Do I just hit this and

0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:48.719
<v Speaker 1>fucking be a piece of shit? What do I do?

0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:52.320
<v Speaker 1>And then my mother walks in and I found a head.

0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I just rat it on myself because I was so

0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:57.359
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I found of had she goes you

0:20:57.440 --> 0:20:59.200
<v Speaker 1>hit it? Didn't you? I was like, now now smile

0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:01.840
<v Speaker 1>now smile. Let's give in mind you guys, we are

0:21:01.960 --> 0:21:06.119
<v Speaker 1>thirty two and thirty five. Okay. I thought I hadn't

0:21:06.160 --> 0:21:08.359
<v Speaker 1>been like yeah, but she like she caught me on

0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:10.120
<v Speaker 1>her Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll like spill on the couch and be like, oh

0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:13.199
<v Speaker 2>my gosh, my mom was gonna kill me. And I'm like, no,

0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:15.359
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't be a good couch in.

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<v Speaker 1>My whole house. Just spray this ship with dik coke.

0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm dumbing the whole can on the couch. Mom does

0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:24.520
<v Speaker 1>that just on an accident. It's just a tub of

0:21:25.000 --> 0:21:27.520
<v Speaker 1>nice oily peanut butter. But to each their own.

0:21:28.480 --> 0:21:30.640
<v Speaker 2>No, but you did come out, and so we threw

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<v Speaker 2>it in just the regular trash can in the house.

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<v Speaker 1>No found we really, That's what I told you. I

0:21:39.560 --> 0:21:42.200
<v Speaker 1>found him in every pocket. Yeah, do you have another? One?

0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:46.920
<v Speaker 1>To two green ones? And then a water moon.

0:21:47.240 --> 0:21:49.439
<v Speaker 2>And I was tweaking so hard that I had to

0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:52.040
<v Speaker 2>throw it in the dumpster outside that was filled with

0:21:52.800 --> 0:21:55.640
<v Speaker 2>so this is dirty diapers, just to not think about

0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:57.640
<v Speaker 2>pulling it out anymore. And I still thought about pulling

0:21:57.680 --> 0:21:59.640
<v Speaker 2>it out tightly.

0:21:59.720 --> 0:22:03.719
<v Speaker 1>The has me the dirty diver. I would have just

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:06.000
<v Speaker 1>taken that thing out.

0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:24.120
<v Speaker 2>So I wanted to tell you, it makes me sad

0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:25.520
<v Speaker 2>how little I talk about Sosa.

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<v Speaker 1>She talks and I always talk about her.

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<v Speaker 2>To you guys, but when I get on the podcast,

0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm always talking about Ocean, which is great,

0:22:34.880 --> 0:22:37.560
<v Speaker 2>but I have to explain something. It may not make

0:22:37.640 --> 0:22:42.280
<v Speaker 2>sense to you guys, but maybe, uh, I mean, obviously,

0:22:42.359 --> 0:22:44.400
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of things within my family that don't

0:22:44.440 --> 0:22:45.200
<v Speaker 2>make a lot of sense.

0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I want to say this.

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<v Speaker 2>There is at this point in time with Sosa and

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<v Speaker 2>her age.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not a lot going on.

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<v Speaker 2>There's not only that, but I feel such a tremendous

0:22:59.280 --> 0:23:05.880
<v Speaker 2>amount of peace being her mom. Does that make sense? Yeah,

0:23:06.280 --> 0:23:08.400
<v Speaker 2>not that I don't feel peace being Ocean's mom.

0:23:08.520 --> 0:23:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I but there's more. There's more fear for Ocean because

0:23:13.600 --> 0:23:18.240
<v Speaker 1>of she's older. There's there's there's bullying that can start,

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.440
<v Speaker 1>there's so and so wasn't nice.

0:23:20.680 --> 0:23:24.640
<v Speaker 2>But it's more about the split households of me really yeah, okay,

0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:30.200
<v Speaker 2>me sending her there and having no communication on that

0:23:30.280 --> 0:23:32.720
<v Speaker 2>side of things, and when she comes back to my

0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:36.159
<v Speaker 2>house kind of having to maneuver her back on the

0:23:36.240 --> 0:23:41.320
<v Speaker 2>right path. And yeah, there's just a lot that goes

0:23:41.440 --> 0:23:44.520
<v Speaker 2>through my mind and a lot of uncertainty. Uh, And

0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:46.439
<v Speaker 2>it's probably so that I that I make up in

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<v Speaker 2>my head the uncertainty because there's a pretty clear cut agreement.

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<v Speaker 2>But with so so there it's just peace on every level.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sure she gets older that's going to change.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would like to start filling you guys in

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<v Speaker 2>more about like what she's doing, because I have to

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<v Speaker 2>be honest. There's another reason why I go back and

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<v Speaker 2>forth on a third kid. I already feel like I'm

0:24:12.680 --> 0:24:16.320
<v Speaker 2>not giving both of my kids the proper amount of attention.

0:24:17.000 --> 0:24:18.919
<v Speaker 2>Ocean and where she's at in life right now, I

0:24:18.960 --> 0:24:24.159
<v Speaker 2>feel gets most of my attention and sometimes Sosa, I

0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:25.840
<v Speaker 2>don't even want to say, fades into the background. But

0:24:25.880 --> 0:24:27.640
<v Speaker 2>she's just so chill, and she's here all the time,

0:24:27.640 --> 0:24:30.320
<v Speaker 2>and she's not in school. You know, Ocean, I'm having

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<v Speaker 2>to like plan play dates and okay, you want to

0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:35.960
<v Speaker 2>do gymnastics, let's figure that out. She's asking for this,

0:24:36.080 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 2>she's wanting to do that. Oh my god, we have

0:24:37.640 --> 0:24:42.280
<v Speaker 2>to apply for schools. It's just much more attention that

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<v Speaker 2>I that I must give, and I need to give

0:24:43.720 --> 0:24:46.520
<v Speaker 2>it to Sosa as well, which we're finding the balance.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's going to get that attention and due to

0:24:49.560 --> 0:24:53.360
<v Speaker 1>the other thing. It's like sosays she love.

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:57.200
<v Speaker 2>She loves lu yes, and she's learned that a dog

0:24:57.280 --> 0:25:00.720
<v Speaker 2>says wolf. The horse we're still working. She always says

0:25:00.760 --> 0:25:02.439
<v Speaker 2>mu when I say no, horse says may. And then

0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:03.159
<v Speaker 2>she says Nate.

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:07.040
<v Speaker 1>Loves Bosh says she can get. She's getting. She can

0:25:07.119 --> 0:25:09.440
<v Speaker 1>like she needs a little help, but she can get

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<v Speaker 1>up on the couch. She knows how, she knows how

0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:13.119
<v Speaker 1>to get down the stairs. She knows how to go

0:25:13.160 --> 0:25:15.120
<v Speaker 1>up this stairs. A little wonky on her feet. Yeah,

0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:17.120
<v Speaker 1>like we're you have to be there, but like, honestly,

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.440
<v Speaker 1>there's just not there's what are you talk about?

0:25:19.520 --> 0:25:22.840
<v Speaker 2>That's actually not that's not true. There to talk about,

0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:27.040
<v Speaker 2>and there was something that happened. Keep in mind, she

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:30.119
<v Speaker 2>loves saying t T. She is obsessed with him right

0:25:30.160 --> 0:25:31.720
<v Speaker 2>now and it makes my heart so warm.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her.

0:25:32.560 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 2>But we were outside, uh the other day, and they

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 2>were playing on the basketball court Ocean and Sosa, and

0:25:39.800 --> 0:25:43.119
<v Speaker 2>I was a little bit worried about her playing on

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<v Speaker 2>the basketball court because it's she's a little wonky on

0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:49.640
<v Speaker 2>her feet. Anyway, I didn't want to be a hovering

0:25:49.720 --> 0:25:52.480
<v Speaker 2>parent so I back off a little bit and I'm

0:25:52.760 --> 0:25:54.880
<v Speaker 2>bending down at eye level and I'm a few feet

0:25:54.880 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 2>away from Sosa and she's looking at me, and Ocean

0:25:57.840 --> 0:26:01.160
<v Speaker 2>comes around the corner and she jumped onto my back,

0:26:01.359 --> 0:26:04.880
<v Speaker 2>and I just I make this noise, you know, when

0:26:04.880 --> 0:26:06.520
<v Speaker 2>someone kind of like hits you in the back.

0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:09.080
<v Speaker 1>It's like when you're breathing in and somebody hitch you

0:26:09.080 --> 0:26:12.000
<v Speaker 1>in your Yeah, Sosa.

0:26:13.080 --> 0:26:19.680
<v Speaker 2>Starts crying, like the look on her face, starts running,

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:25.919
<v Speaker 2>waddling up to me, is hitting Ocean as she cries

0:26:26.000 --> 0:26:29.680
<v Speaker 2>and pushing her off of me. Once Ocean gets off

0:26:29.680 --> 0:26:35.040
<v Speaker 2>of me, Sosa collapses into me, arms wrapped around my neck.

0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 2>Mom saw the whole thing. Mom starts crying because it

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:41.080
<v Speaker 2>just you know, and I hate to go to a

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 2>dark place, a dark place this time, but I'm like this,

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:52.600
<v Speaker 2>not even eighteen months old. My daughter looked at me

0:26:52.800 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 2>and thought that I was being hurt.

0:26:55.440 --> 0:26:59.000
<v Speaker 1>And that's a dark place. That's how incredible that like

0:26:59.080 --> 0:27:05.679
<v Speaker 1>at that age you're instilled with protecting. Well, yeah, that's

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 1>just it's incredible to see because honestly, I've never really

0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 1>seen you see it in like mammals and like wildlife

0:27:12.280 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>that they just like drop the kid out and they're like,

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:17.720
<v Speaker 1>all right, start walking. Yeah, you know that I've seen,

0:27:17.800 --> 0:27:21.280
<v Speaker 1>but like, I've never seen a baby instilled with that

0:27:22.160 --> 0:27:23.160
<v Speaker 1>and seen it. I wish I had.

0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:25.199
<v Speaker 2>Well, now, I think you kind of understand because I'm

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:28.160
<v Speaker 2>addicted to twenty twenty in dateline. But when police are

0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:30.919
<v Speaker 2>talking about, you know, something horrific that happened, and they

0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:32.919
<v Speaker 2>start getting choked up when they talk about how the

0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:37.960
<v Speaker 2>child thought everything, and you know that's just in our

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:40.040
<v Speaker 2>like of course, you sit there and you're like, oh

0:27:40.080 --> 0:27:44.640
<v Speaker 2>my gosh, that's devastating. But to watch my sixteen month

0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:50.040
<v Speaker 2>old look at me as if I was being hurt

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 2>and already feel that and go into protection mode at

0:27:53.680 --> 0:27:57.120
<v Speaker 2>such a young age, it was like like I said, mom,

0:27:57.160 --> 0:27:59.160
<v Speaker 2>will tell you the story right now and start crying.

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'll cry about everything.

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:04.280
<v Speaker 1>But well no, I just I could. I mean yeah,

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I could get teary aid right now because you think

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 1>of like yeah, I mean the dark things, but like

0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 1>the family, the ups family, like the little kids, Like

0:28:12.600 --> 0:28:15.720
<v Speaker 1>there's seeing the little boy I think he was four,

0:28:15.840 --> 0:28:19.679
<v Speaker 1>like ripping his little brother off because he didn't want

0:28:19.960 --> 0:28:22.159
<v Speaker 1>him to see his mom and dad like that. So

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:26.360
<v Speaker 1>it's just like it's crazy. H really is wild. It's

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:26.919
<v Speaker 1>so wild.

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I want to be better about sharing stories about Sosa.

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:34.880
<v Speaker 1>That's that's one of the other story. She bunked her head.

0:28:35.560 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 2>She did a short time after she was running and

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 2>fell and went to catch yourself.

0:28:39.680 --> 0:28:41.920
<v Speaker 1>But the booty kind of you know, when the butt

0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:45.040
<v Speaker 1>goes up a little bit and the hands. So she's

0:28:45.080 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>got like this bruise on her nogget. By the way,

0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 1>you guys just came in the house big.

0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 2>Old when when you're a kid, and I'm sure all

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:56.240
<v Speaker 2>of you know this, but for any of my parents

0:28:56.240 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 2>out there, when they fall, it is so triggering and traumatizing.

0:29:02.000 --> 0:29:06.240
<v Speaker 2>But here are things to look for because you immediately

0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:09.640
<v Speaker 2>go into panic, especially when it's the head. You obviously

0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:11.920
<v Speaker 2>want them to be screaming. You want them to be

0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 2>screaming the moment that they stop screaming. If it happens quickly,

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:20.680
<v Speaker 2>be on the look at. Also look at their pupils

0:29:21.160 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 2>because if they're dilated, that's something that you should definitely

0:29:25.840 --> 0:29:28.360
<v Speaker 2>be getting medical attention for. So what I did was

0:29:28.480 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 2>she continued to scream. She calmed down after a while,

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 2>but I put a flashlight because it was kind of dark.

0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Put a flashlight in her eyes, and they obviously like

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 2>retracted into is that the word into very small pupils,

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:43.160
<v Speaker 2>and then I take them off and then they went back.

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>Huge when it's dark, and then when it's light, there's.

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:47.640
<v Speaker 2>Say, you just want to make sure that those are

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 2>still still working and keep an eye on them, keep

0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:51.719
<v Speaker 2>them up for I get my kids up for an

0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:52.720
<v Speaker 2>hour after they hit their.

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 1>H Also, you can, I mean, I don't know how old,

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>because usually they're not going to follow. But you're supposed

0:29:58.240 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>to move the light because if they're flickery, you're supposed

0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 1>to you should be able to steadily look side to side.

0:30:06.240 --> 0:30:09.120
<v Speaker 1>If your eyes like flick Yeah, that also is like

0:30:09.160 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 1>an indicator that something could be wrong. I'm pretty sure

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>that's the test. Okay, Well, I like all of these tests.

0:30:15.160 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 2>One times Ocean dropped sous into the wall after I

0:30:17.880 --> 0:30:19.840
<v Speaker 2>had told her a million in one time, so don't

0:30:19.880 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 2>pick the baby up. Don't pick the baby up. Smashes

0:30:22.400 --> 0:30:25.600
<v Speaker 2>her head into the wall. It's like scraped up big

0:30:25.640 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 2>goose egg. I took her to urgent care. I actually no,

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:35.440
<v Speaker 2>I took her to the er in Palm Springs, and

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:38.400
<v Speaker 2>it was so interesting because they were not interesting. It

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 2>actually made me very happy. Multiple doctors coming in asking

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:45.400
<v Speaker 2>me what happened, and then they checked her entire body

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 2>and moved all of her limbs. I was so confused

0:30:48.280 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 2>by that, and then I realized, I'm sure that these

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 2>people have seen some shit and they have to make

0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:55.800
<v Speaker 2>sure that, like my story's adding up and that this

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:59.600
<v Speaker 2>is not a situation that they need to come in

0:30:59.760 --> 0:31:02.959
<v Speaker 2>ve to gate. No, I was very appreciative that they

0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:06.800
<v Speaker 2>were doing. Yes, right, Yeah, how did we go from

0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 2>like vaping to like child protective.

0:31:08.520 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Services Because we're not vaping, so we're everywhere. If I

0:31:13.120 --> 0:31:15.239
<v Speaker 1>had the vape i'd be right on target, right on

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 1>target today in every group moving on very quickly.

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 2>Did you see that Brooklyn Beckham is like coming out

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 2>against his family.

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm taking notes right now from him. No, I

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:42.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't see that. I mean I saw it, but like

0:31:42.160 --> 0:31:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I was, like, what the hell is going on in

0:31:43.800 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 1>that family? That's so terrible?

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:48.720
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think the white I could imagine has not

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:50.080
<v Speaker 2>is not great.

0:31:50.920 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Who knows, I'm not in the family. This is just

0:31:52.600 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 1>what I've gathered. Tell me that you've gathered, because I've

0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>gathered nothing.

0:31:56.160 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 2>And what I've gathered is he got married to this

0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:07.400
<v Speaker 2>rich woman. The family, Yeah, her family is rich Victoria

0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 2>and the dad do not connect with this woman while

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:11.880
<v Speaker 2>this is now his wife, and so there's a rift.

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 2>But now he's speaking out because the family has never

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 2>truly said, like what exactly the problem is. They just

0:32:18.440 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 2>don't see each other, they're never together. But now David

0:32:23.600 --> 0:32:29.959
<v Speaker 2>Beckham's no, his assistant, his old assistant has come forward

0:32:30.040 --> 0:32:34.800
<v Speaker 2>saying like the truth always comes out, and I just

0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 2>feel bad.

0:32:35.880 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 1>I just feel real bad because every single.

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:44.240
<v Speaker 2>Person on the planet has some sort of complicated relationship

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:49.280
<v Speaker 2>with somebody in their family inner circle, and it's enough

0:32:49.600 --> 0:32:54.520
<v Speaker 2>of a freaking headache and heartbreak without adding the microscope

0:32:54.760 --> 0:32:57.600
<v Speaker 2>of the entire freaking world and the press wanting to

0:32:57.640 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 2>know every single detail of everything.

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot where I'm like, just let them beef.

0:33:04.480 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Just let them beef.

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:09.360
<v Speaker 2>So that's where get along with the fucking wife. Yeah,

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 2>but sometimes you can't get along with the see you

0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 2>next Tuesday. Not sure if she is one.

0:33:14.320 --> 0:33:18.400
<v Speaker 1>I could see it being the other way around.

0:33:18.720 --> 0:33:21.320
<v Speaker 2>By the way, though, the wife's face is giving see

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>you next Tuesday and the best way possible.

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:27.120
<v Speaker 1>No, she is so stunning. Where's she from?

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:29.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but she's got this cute little nose.

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:32.640
<v Speaker 2>He's like powdy little lips and these like sexy cat eyes.

0:33:32.680 --> 0:33:36.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh my gosh, you're really hot. If I

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:39.000
<v Speaker 2>were Brooklyn, I too would turn against my family.

0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm finding mine. Sorry, don't you dare say that?

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, thank you for listening to another chaotic episode

0:33:47.320 --> 0:33:50.840
<v Speaker 2>of Untraditionally La La. If you are anyone you know

0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:54.480
<v Speaker 2>is struggling with the vape, we see you, you are heard,

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 2>and we are wishing you the best of luck.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you, guys. Bye Mack