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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally, La La, Hello, gorgeous, Welcome back to untraditionally,

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Speaker 2: La La. I'm so excited to have tea Tea back.

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Speaker 2: Welcome Tea.

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Speaker 1: I'm back.

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Speaker 2: You're beck Adam, and we need to squash some shit.

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Speaker 1: What is being said now? I don't read anything well.

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Speaker 2: I think people are confused by the comfortability that this

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Speaker 2: family has, and I find it very important to let

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Speaker 2: the listeners know. Are we a weird family? Yes, the

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Speaker 2: dynamic is close. We are tight knit. We joke very inappropriately,

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Speaker 2: sometimes about sex, sometimes about drug use, sometimes about.

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Speaker 1: Oh, sex and drug use at the same time.

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Speaker 2: Just uncomfortable topics that maybe some people wouldn't joke about,

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Speaker 2: especially in front of their families.

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Speaker 1: But it is very important.

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Speaker 2: That you guys know when I come home after doing

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Speaker 2: whatever with the opposite sex, I never in a million

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Speaker 2: years would share those moments with my fucking brother.

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Speaker 1: Okay, is that what people think? People?

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Speaker 2: Yes, people are like, why is why are they so

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Speaker 2: comfortable talking about this stuff in front of each other?

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, because it's like mostly just made up

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Speaker 2: in my head, but like actual intimacy that I had

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Speaker 2: with someone.

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Speaker 1: I would not with my mom.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I share everything with my mom like she birthed me,

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Speaker 2: like she pushed me out of her body, So of

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Speaker 2: course I feel comfortable.

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Speaker 1: Do you have to share things with your mom? No?

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Speaker 1: Is it weird? I don't don't with you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know when Easton's talking to a girl, let

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Speaker 2: alone you guys, doing whatever it is he may or

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Speaker 2: may not be doing.

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Speaker 1: These vultures, these two vultures at home. You think I

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Speaker 1: would talk to tell anything to you two about women? Guys.

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Speaker 1: I lie about going places when I'm going to hang

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Speaker 1: out with a girl because it's easier to tell them

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Speaker 1: I'm going shopping with a buddy or to a movie

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Speaker 1: with a group of friends, then to go I'm talking

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Speaker 1: to a girl, and then go what's her Instagram? What

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Speaker 1: does she do? Where's she from? Yeah? No, so no,

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Speaker 1: I don't tell anything about anyone I'm talking to to

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Speaker 1: now vultures at home.

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Speaker 2: But I make inappropriate jokes, whether it's with my family

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Speaker 2: on TV, to a group of strangers.

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Speaker 1: I make inappropriate jokes all the time, no matter who

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Speaker 1: was really made the most inappropriate jokes at the most

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Speaker 1: inappropriate times, and guess what, it was the best and

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Speaker 1: most funny moments that have ever been embedded in those

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Speaker 1: are all the things.

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Speaker 2: I remember when you came down the stairs after he

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Speaker 2: died and everyone was crying, and you were like, why

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Speaker 2: is everyone so sad?

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Speaker 1: It's like someone died. Yeah, I go, so this, just

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Speaker 1: to put it that way, this is every my dad

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Speaker 1: has just passed. People are in the house and like

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Speaker 1: it was a grandiose entrance where you got to look

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Speaker 1: over and see down the stairs from their from their bedroom. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And I walk down the stairs and everybody looks up

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Speaker 1: the stairs and I go, guys, he's in there, still sleeping,

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Speaker 1: And not one person laughed. And I thought, oh, no,

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Speaker 1: misfire And like I say, wind loser, maybe wind loser, draw. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that was a draw or a lose.

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Speaker 1: But you know, you didn't take the w long story longer.

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Speaker 1: We're very inappropriate. But when it comes to real life,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sharing a lot.

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Speaker 2: I feel more comfortable sharing it on like Vanderpump Rules

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Speaker 2: or I guess now the Valley in front of a

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Speaker 2: We're weird, We're weird, we're weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't care. A lot is talking to a guy

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Speaker 2: An hour.

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Speaker 1: I was like, who the hell is she talking to?

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Speaker 1: And then she said the name and I was like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, well, it just goes to show that you don't

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Speaker 2: listen to the podcast either.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Okay, it's all good, anyway, let's move. Okay, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: We're weird. We got it.

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Speaker 2: But I also sometimes think it's weird when someone's like,

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Speaker 2: I would never tell my mom that, and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, that's strange. But I also like, that's your normal.

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Speaker 1: This is our normal. I'm gonna put it this way,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna end it right here. I've said it

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Speaker 1: before and I'll say it again. There's a time where

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Speaker 1: you guys are my family, and there's a time when

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Speaker 1: you guys are my friends. Yeah, and when you guys

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Speaker 1: I make the inappropriate jokes, you guys are my friends.

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Speaker 1: I know where the line is and I know where

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Speaker 1: you're my friends and family. There's a fine line. So

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Speaker 1: there it is. I got it. Idiots.

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Speaker 2: If we are a little aggressive on this podcast today,

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Speaker 2: if you guys follow me on social media, Easton and

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Speaker 2: I decided to give up the vape. Now this was

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Speaker 2: work done on my upper body. You guys think I'm weird,

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Speaker 2: so god forbid I say the word job in front

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Speaker 2: of Easton. Anyway, they told me that I had to

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Speaker 1: So I did dragged my ass into it.

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Speaker 2: Well it's it's horrendous for you and we all know this.

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Speaker 2: And the way Easton smokes it, you would think he's

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Speaker 1: He doublechokes and it is just like puff the magic.

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Speaker 2: It's not how the vape works. So of course I

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Speaker 2: have been tweaking. I got okay, one pound bag of

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Speaker 2: popcorn jelly beans and devoured them in less than forty eight.

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Speaker 1: Hours, so those were gone the way I was shoe

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Speaker 1: gone like this. Literally, it was the most annoying.

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Speaker 1: It was awful. It's still is awful, Eastan. How's it

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Speaker 1: going for you? And the better days? I've ripped Mom's

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Speaker 2: Your head Lisa is taking the brunt of it, for sure,

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Speaker 2: She's being dragged.

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Speaker 1: To filth, but it's just on points. There was something

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Speaker 2: She goes, Oh, what you just said might make me cry,

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Speaker 1: Oh, and I doubled down. We both doubled down.

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Speaker 2: So we went to Palm Springs this weekend, you guys.

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Speaker 2: And we went with my older brother and my nephew

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Speaker 2: because he had a lacrosse tournament in Palm Springs. So

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Speaker 2: when it's each line's turn. It is now my turn

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Speaker 2: in this fucking Hyundai comes out of nowhere.

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Speaker 1: She's beautiful vehicle. She was going.

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Speaker 2: She was going all of like maybe maximum three to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was easton.

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Speaker 2: I looked over and she was like literally ready to

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Speaker 1: I'm lived. It was a long day at the lacrosse tournament.

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Speaker 1: It's a wonderful day. I had a great day.

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Speaker 2: I had the best time, so says in the back

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Speaker 2: I'm curious, but there are cops around, Okay, So initially

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Speaker 1: Traffic is stopped.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm getting out of the fucking car and

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Speaker 2: That's how livid I was. There's a cop there, and

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Speaker 1: Like, like the way her car is driving, like it's

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Speaker 1: I I kept it under control by just flipping her

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Speaker 1: But you guys, I was in rare form, like I'm

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Speaker 2: When I say that, I mean physically, oh, mentally, I'll

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Speaker 2: go Mentally I'm a confrontational but when somebody slaps, I.

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Speaker 2: Unless you get But recently I have been taking a beat.

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Speaker 1: Right the vape tested the beat. There's the beat. So

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Speaker 1: we get through Lacrosse Territory. I'm on her x we

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Speaker 1: Like usually i'm the driver and they're usually yelling at

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Speaker 1: were going three miles an hour. It could have been worse. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm always talking about Ocean, which is great,

434
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 2: but I have to explain something. It may not make

435
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 2: sense to you guys, but maybe, uh, I mean, obviously,

436
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 2: there's a lot of things within my family that don't

437
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 2: make a lot of sense.

438
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: I want to say this.

439
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:52,119
Speaker 2: There is at this point in time with Sosa and

440
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,640
Speaker 2: her age.

441
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: There's not a lot going on.

442
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:59,200
Speaker 2: There's not only that, but I feel such a tremendous

443
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:05,880
Speaker 2: amount of peace being her mom. Does that make sense? Yeah,

444
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,400
Speaker 2: not that I don't feel peace being Ocean's mom.

445
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: I but there's more. There's more fear for Ocean because

446
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: of she's older. There's there's there's bullying that can start,

447
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: there's so and so wasn't nice.

448
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 2: But it's more about the split households of me really yeah, okay,

449
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 2: me sending her there and having no communication on that

450
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 2: side of things, and when she comes back to my

451
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 2: house kind of having to maneuver her back on the

452
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: right path. And yeah, there's just a lot that goes

453
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 2: through my mind and a lot of uncertainty. Uh, And

454
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 2: it's probably so that I that I make up in

455
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 2: my head the uncertainty because there's a pretty clear cut agreement.

456
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 2: But with so so there it's just peace on every level.

457
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: And I'm sure she gets older that's going to change.

458
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 2: But I would like to start filling you guys in

459
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 2: more about like what she's doing, because I have to

460
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 2: be honest. There's another reason why I go back and

461
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 2: forth on a third kid. I already feel like I'm

462
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: not giving both of my kids the proper amount of attention.

463
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 2: Ocean and where she's at in life right now, I

464
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 2: feel gets most of my attention and sometimes Sosa, I

465
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 2: don't even want to say, fades into the background. But

466
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 2: she's just so chill, and she's here all the time,

467
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: and she's not in school. You know, Ocean, I'm having

468
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 2: to like plan play dates and okay, you want to

469
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: do gymnastics, let's figure that out. She's asking for this,

470
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: she's wanting to do that. Oh my god, we have

471
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 2: to apply for schools. It's just much more attention that

472
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 2: I that I must give, and I need to give

473
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 2: it to Sosa as well, which we're finding the balance.

474
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: Well, she's going to get that attention and due to

475
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 1: the other thing. It's like sosays she love.

476
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 2: She loves lu yes, and she's learned that a dog

477
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 2: says wolf. The horse we're still working. She always says

478
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 2: mu when I say no, horse says may. And then

479
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,159
Speaker 2: she says Nate.

480
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: Loves Bosh says she can get. She's getting. She can

481
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: like she needs a little help, but she can get

482
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: up on the couch. She knows how, she knows how

483
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: to get down the stairs. She knows how to go

484
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 1: up this stairs. A little wonky on her feet. Yeah,

485
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,120
Speaker 1: like we're you have to be there, but like, honestly,

486
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: there's just not there's what are you talk about?

487
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: That's actually not that's not true. There to talk about,

488
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 2: and there was something that happened. Keep in mind, she

489
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 2: loves saying t T. She is obsessed with him right

490
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 2: now and it makes my heart so warm.

491
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: I love her.

492
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 2: But we were outside, uh the other day, and they

493
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 2: were playing on the basketball court Ocean and Sosa, and

494
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 2: I was a little bit worried about her playing on

495
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 2: the basketball court because it's she's a little wonky on

496
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 2: her feet. Anyway, I didn't want to be a hovering

497
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 2: parent so I back off a little bit and I'm

498
00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 2: bending down at eye level and I'm a few feet

499
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: away from Sosa and she's looking at me, and Ocean

500
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 2: comes around the corner and she jumped onto my back,

501
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 2: and I just I make this noise, you know, when

502
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 2: someone kind of like hits you in the back.

503
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: It's like when you're breathing in and somebody hitch you

504
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: in your Yeah, Sosa.

505
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:19,680
Speaker 2: Starts crying, like the look on her face, starts running,

506
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:25,919
Speaker 2: waddling up to me, is hitting Ocean as she cries

507
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 2: and pushing her off of me. Once Ocean gets off

508
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 2: of me, Sosa collapses into me, arms wrapped around my neck.

509
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: Mom saw the whole thing. Mom starts crying because it

510
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: just you know, and I hate to go to a

511
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 2: dark place, a dark place this time, but I'm like this,

512
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: not even eighteen months old. My daughter looked at me

513
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 2: and thought that I was being hurt.

514
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: And that's a dark place. That's how incredible that like

515
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 1: at that age you're instilled with protecting. Well, yeah, that's

516
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: just it's incredible to see because honestly, I've never really

517
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: seen you see it in like mammals and like wildlife

518
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: that they just like drop the kid out and they're like,

519
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: all right, start walking. Yeah, you know that I've seen,

520
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: but like, I've never seen a baby instilled with that

521
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 1: and seen it. I wish I had.

522
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 2: Well, now, I think you kind of understand because I'm

523
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 2: addicted to twenty twenty in dateline. But when police are

524
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 2: talking about, you know, something horrific that happened, and they

525
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 2: start getting choked up when they talk about how the

526
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: child thought everything, and you know that's just in our

527
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: like of course, you sit there and you're like, oh

528
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 2: my gosh, that's devastating. But to watch my sixteen month

529
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 2: old look at me as if I was being hurt

530
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 2: and already feel that and go into protection mode at

531
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 2: such a young age, it was like like I said, mom,

532
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 2: will tell you the story right now and start crying.

533
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I'll cry about everything.

534
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: But well no, I just I could. I mean yeah,

535
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: I could get teary aid right now because you think

536
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: of like yeah, I mean the dark things, but like

537
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: the family, the ups family, like the little kids, Like

538
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: there's seeing the little boy I think he was four,

539
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: like ripping his little brother off because he didn't want

540
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: him to see his mom and dad like that. So

541
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 1: it's just like it's crazy. H really is wild. It's

542
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 1: so wild.

543
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 2: Anyway, I want to be better about sharing stories about Sosa.

544
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 1: That's that's one of the other story. She bunked her head.

545
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 2: She did a short time after she was running and

546
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 2: fell and went to catch yourself.

547
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: But the booty kind of you know, when the butt

548
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: goes up a little bit and the hands. So she's

549
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: got like this bruise on her nogget. By the way,

550
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: you guys just came in the house big.

551
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 2: Old when when you're a kid, and I'm sure all

552
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 2: of you know this, but for any of my parents

553
00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 2: out there, when they fall, it is so triggering and traumatizing.

554
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 2: But here are things to look for because you immediately

555
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: go into panic, especially when it's the head. You obviously

556
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: want them to be screaming. You want them to be

557
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: screaming the moment that they stop screaming. If it happens quickly,

558
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 2: be on the look at. Also look at their pupils

559
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: because if they're dilated, that's something that you should definitely

560
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 2: be getting medical attention for. So what I did was

561
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 2: she continued to scream. She calmed down after a while,

562
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 2: but I put a flashlight because it was kind of dark.

563
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 2: Put a flashlight in her eyes, and they obviously like

564
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: retracted into is that the word into very small pupils,

565
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 2: and then I take them off and then they went back.

566
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: Huge when it's dark, and then when it's light, there's.

567
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: Say, you just want to make sure that those are

568
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: still still working and keep an eye on them, keep

569
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,719
Speaker 2: them up for I get my kids up for an

570
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: hour after they hit their.

571
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: H Also, you can, I mean, I don't know how old,

572
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: because usually they're not going to follow. But you're supposed

573
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: to move the light because if they're flickery, you're supposed

574
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: to you should be able to steadily look side to side.

575
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: If your eyes like flick Yeah, that also is like

576
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: an indicator that something could be wrong. I'm pretty sure

577
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: that's the test. Okay, Well, I like all of these tests.

578
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 2: One times Ocean dropped sous into the wall after I

579
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 2: had told her a million in one time, so don't

580
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: pick the baby up. Don't pick the baby up. Smashes

581
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 2: her head into the wall. It's like scraped up big

582
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: goose egg. I took her to urgent care. I actually no,

583
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 2: I took her to the er in Palm Springs, and

584
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: it was so interesting because they were not interesting. It

585
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 2: actually made me very happy. Multiple doctors coming in asking

586
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 2: me what happened, and then they checked her entire body

587
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: and moved all of her limbs. I was so confused

588
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: by that, and then I realized, I'm sure that these

589
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 2: people have seen some shit and they have to make

590
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 2: sure that, like my story's adding up and that this

591
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 2: is not a situation that they need to come in

592
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,959
Speaker 2: ve to gate. No, I was very appreciative that they

593
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 2: were doing. Yes, right, Yeah, how did we go from

594
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: like vaping to like child protective.

595
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 1: Services Because we're not vaping, so we're everywhere. If I

596
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,239
Speaker 1: had the vape i'd be right on target, right on

597
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 1: target today in every group moving on very quickly.

598
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 2: Did you see that Brooklyn Beckham is like coming out

599
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: against his family.

600
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm taking notes right now from him. No, I

601
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: didn't see that. I mean I saw it, but like

602
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: I was, like, what the hell is going on in

603
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: that family? That's so terrible?

604
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 2: Well, I think the white I could imagine has not

605
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: is not great.

606
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: Who knows, I'm not in the family. This is just

607
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: what I've gathered. Tell me that you've gathered, because I've

608
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: gathered nothing.

609
00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 2: And what I've gathered is he got married to this

610
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 2: rich woman. The family, Yeah, her family is rich Victoria

611
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: and the dad do not connect with this woman while

612
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: this is now his wife, and so there's a rift.

613
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: But now he's speaking out because the family has never

614
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 2: truly said, like what exactly the problem is. They just

615
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 2: don't see each other, they're never together. But now David

616
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:29,959
Speaker 2: Beckham's no, his assistant, his old assistant has come forward

617
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 2: saying like the truth always comes out, and I just

618
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: feel bad.

619
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: I just feel real bad because every single.

620
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: Person on the planet has some sort of complicated relationship

621
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 2: with somebody in their family inner circle, and it's enough

622
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: of a freaking headache and heartbreak without adding the microscope

623
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 2: of the entire freaking world and the press wanting to

624
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: know every single detail of everything.

625
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: It's a lot where I'm like, just let them beef.

626
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: Just let them beef.

627
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 2: So that's where get along with the fucking wife. Yeah,

628
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 2: but sometimes you can't get along with the see you

629
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 2: next Tuesday. Not sure if she is one.

630
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: I could see it being the other way around.

631
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: By the way, though, the wife's face is giving see

632
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: you next Tuesday and the best way possible.

633
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: No, she is so stunning. Where's she from?

634
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 2: I don't know, but she's got this cute little nose.

635
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 2: He's like powdy little lips and these like sexy cat eyes.

636
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, you're really hot. If I

637
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: were Brooklyn, I too would turn against my family.

638
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: I'm finding mine. Sorry, don't you dare say that?

639
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 2: You guys, thank you for listening to another chaotic episode

640
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 2: of Untraditionally La La. If you are anyone you know

641
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 2: is struggling with the vape, we see you, you are heard,

642
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: and we are wishing you the best of luck.

643
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Speaker 1: Love you, guys. Bye Mack