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Speaker 1: by the phone? It's the Fred Show. Liz, good morning,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 2: Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Program?

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Speaker 2: Huh that sounds serious the program?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw I say it sometimes. But what's going

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Speaker 1: on with this guy? Noah? We want to help you

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Speaker 1: out on waiting by the phone. You feel like maybe

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Speaker 1: you're being ghosted? Tell us kind of everything. How did

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Speaker 1: you guys meet? I want to hear about any dates

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Speaker 1: you've been on, any details you want to share, and

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Speaker 1: we're going to try and figure this out.

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Speaker 3: Right, thank you.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, I met Noah through this indoor volleyball league.

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Speaker 2: We both joined this winter, one of them, one of

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Speaker 2: the sports like social club companies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Sure, I just kind of wanted.

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Speaker 2: To do something active being that it was colder outside

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Speaker 2: and uh not for nothing, but I heard there were

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Speaker 2: a lot of single men there, so why not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, people do that with volleyball. They have like softball leagues.

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Speaker 1: You can sign up for soccer stuff. Yeah right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it's all just guys is like being active, but

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Speaker 1: let's face it, people trying to get some Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, fade right, it's all good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a little too lazy for that. But still

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Speaker 1: I got to go kick a ball to meet some

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, no, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: But then you can go you can go to the

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Speaker 2: trivia meet groups.

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Speaker 1: I mean also'd have to leave the house for that,

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Speaker 1: but I just I'm just hoping one day A doordask

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Speaker 1: driver is the hottest person I've ever seen, male or

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Speaker 1: female at this point, just whatever, okay, Yeah, and engaging

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Speaker 1: in his doordask career. Okay, so you you joined on

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Speaker 1: a door.

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Speaker 2: To ask Side note, have you been getting male names

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Speaker 2: and then a female shows up? Or female names and

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Speaker 2: then a male shows up?

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Speaker 3: You keeps hopping to this?

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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you? Yeah, that actually makes me a little

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Speaker 1: nervous side note because it's like, well, then, who whose

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Speaker 1: account is this registered? Like why can't you deliver? Who

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Speaker 1: is the person who actually is showing up? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: He asked the guy the other day and he said

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Speaker 2: it was his.

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Speaker 1: Mom's Oh wow, like why were you ya? Okay, so

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Speaker 1: you you joined this league to meet a person, and

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Speaker 1: then what happens?

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Speaker 2: I mete a person? I met Noah And it was

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Speaker 2: after a few weeks there, and we started talking about

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Speaker 2: getting a drink after volleyball, and uh we did, and

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Speaker 2: I think it went really well. So I know it

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Speaker 2: went really well because we planned a second date, which

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Speaker 2: and dinner and that went really really well. So we

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Speaker 2: went back to his place, we had some fun, and

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Speaker 2: then uh Noah built the arc and rode away into

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Speaker 1: Okay, So after two days and a hookup. You never

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Speaker 1: heard from him again. He never called or test I

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Speaker 1: mean typical okay, and you reached down and it was more.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry to cut you off. It was kind of

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Speaker 2: more of like a fade away. It wasn't just like

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Speaker 2: a disappear. The messages got shorter and shorter and then

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Speaker 2: eventually stopped. So I don't know what the deal is.

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Speaker 2: This was not like a random thing. We like really

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Speaker 2: got to know each other and then hooked up. It

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Speaker 2: wasn't like one of those things where we just kind

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Speaker 1: Huh. All right, well, and after two dates and all

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Speaker 1: the rest of it. So here's what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Noah in just a second. You'll be

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Speaker 1: out and set you up on another date that we

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Speaker 1: pay for. Hey, Liz, I'm here, all right, let's call Noah.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you went on a couple of dates. You

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Speaker 1: like sort of sports social things. You guys were being

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Speaker 1: active together, which is so exciting and which it makes sense.

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Speaker 1: I see why people you know, meet that way, especially

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Speaker 1: when it's cold. Some kind of indoor event makes sense.

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Speaker 1: You meet this guy, you go on two dates. The

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Speaker 1: last date you hooked up, you thought everything was really

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Speaker 1: this man since then. You feel like he's ghosting you.

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Speaker 1: You want to know why. That sums it up pretty well.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: All right, well let's call him now. Good luck, Liz.

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Speaker 3: Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Noah?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 1: No, hey a, Hi, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can which have for just

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Speaker 1: a second? You can hang up anytime, I guess, yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Liz, who

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Speaker 1: I guess you met. You were playing sports together, the

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Speaker 1: door volleyball, and you went on a couple of dates.

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Speaker 1: You remember, Liz, I do, Okay, so she called us

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Speaker 1: that it's oh well, hold on, I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: tell you where we're at here. She called us and

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Speaker 1: liked you a lot, told us about the couple of

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Speaker 1: dates that you guys have been on, but says that

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Speaker 1: you haven't reached out since. And so I'm just curious

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Speaker 1: and maybe you maybe you knew what I was going

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Speaker 1: to ask, But you know, why is that? Are you

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Speaker 3: I think it? First of all, let's just start here.

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Speaker 3: It's insane that you guys are calling me, first off,

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Speaker 3: and secondly, especially for her. Oh she's we We did

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Speaker 3: we went out a few times, we had some fun.

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Speaker 3: And then you know, uh, you know, something kind of

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Speaker 3: really pultn't my finger on it. And then finally, you know,

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Speaker 3: for you know, for a long time, and all of

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Speaker 3: that this best friend of hers is her ex boyfriend. Now,

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Speaker 3: these two spend time together, they go to family things together,

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Speaker 1: Okay. So so Noah, you're getting to know Liz. You

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Speaker 1: guys are going on these dates. And she keeps referring

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Speaker 1: to this best friend of hers and all the different

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Speaker 1: I guess if it's me and I hear that they're

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Speaker 1: and family stuff. If I'm being really honest, I just

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like it sounds like, you know,

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Speaker 1: pretty intimate. If you have if you have a romantic

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Speaker 1: would assume you would date that person. Well, it turns

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Speaker 1: out they did. They date, but they still do all

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Speaker 1: these things eleven years, eleven years and so even years

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so she's got this guy in her life that

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Speaker 3: does everything with her. What does she need Noah for?

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Speaker 1: Oh? My god, what does she need Noah for? In

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Speaker 1: the third person, I would I agree, what does she

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Speaker 1: need Noah for? And here to answer that question is Liz.

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that Liz is here.

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Speaker 3: Liz.

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Speaker 1: You left Ali the ex Ele. That is a very

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Speaker 1: honest reaction. You left out the eleven year relationship dude

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, first of all, I can't believe

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Speaker 2: how insecure Noah is. I mean, a girl can't be

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Speaker 2: close friends with a guy. I mean, first of all, well, well,

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Speaker 2: I have so much to say. I can't even believe

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Speaker 2: he's freaking out about this. It's so crazy. I mean,

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Speaker 2: me and me and my ex are not meant to

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Speaker 2: always love each other. You know, He's always going to

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Speaker 2: for many years, and we just we tried the dating

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Speaker 1: It's not for us.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I bet a hundred bucks that he would

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Speaker 1: Conversations, Well, I mean, honestly, if it was a woman

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Speaker 1: concern would be the same. I mean, what we're talking.

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Speaker 2: About in vegetable standards.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. What we're talking about here is

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Speaker 1: one point romantic, and it sounds like it's everything and

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Speaker 1: you're saying, but the sex, but it sounds like it's

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Speaker 1: every bit as intimate as it was. And so another

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Speaker 1: would be my job, and that dude's not going anywhere,

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Speaker 1: and you're talking about it so openly. I guess I

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Speaker 1: can see the reservations.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like, I just I understand to a degree.

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Speaker 2: But it's just like something you got to get over.

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Speaker 2: Like they'll meet, they'll hang out, and he'll realize this

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Speaker 2: guy is not done, and.

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Speaker 1: He'll realize run the best friend. Yeah, that that's going

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Speaker 1: to be in your bed by ten pm? Because why

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Speaker 1: are you sharing?

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Speaker 1: I'm gay and I don't sleep in a back with

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Speaker 1: many of the why your bad at girl?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know struggles for cuddles, man? You know

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Speaker 2: what I mean?

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Speaker 1: It is physical? In fact, I would argue that's more

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Speaker 1: intimate than other things that you could do in bed.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I live.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if it's a man or a woman.

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Speaker 1: It's more what are you gonna like, why is this

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Speaker 2: That's an it's my best friend. I mean, if you

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Speaker 1: Green You can have best friends that don't cuddle with

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's literally like sleeping with my dog.

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Speaker 1: it's also a dog. It's not a human being who

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Speaker 2: but I feel like, I don't know. I feel I'm

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Speaker 2: The guys are going if you know about this right too,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it would ever work out if

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Speaker 2: Matt you that you didn't approve anyway, So.

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Speaker 1: No, so Matt, Matt gets the best friend, gets to

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Speaker 2: He didn't get to make the decision.

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Speaker 1: But he gets a vote in who you dated? Oh boy,

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Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend gets a vote in who you date next? Well,

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Speaker 1: he's in bed with you. Look, I mean, if it

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Speaker 1: Maybe you could eat Mad, do the interview, go through

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Speaker 3: Pull for my body.

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Speaker 1: Oh more clear. Wow, that's aggressive, that's okay. So that's

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Speaker 1: a no for Noah. All right, Look, I wish you

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