1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest's two. 3 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 1: Point seventy piss Them. 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 3: Do you follow at Secret dot Los Angeles on Instagram? 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: You Instagram, so it's a good follow. 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 3: A lot of local recommendations here, and there is something 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 3: cool about living in southern California where you know what 8 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 3: you're talking about. When you say, for example, I gotta 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 3: go over the hill, it doesn't mean you gotta get old. No, no, no, 10 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 3: right where I grub. If you're over the hill, you're 11 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 3: over forty That was the mile marker, not here. 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 2: If you say over the hill, you're going to be 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 2: stuck on Coldwater Canyon or Laurel Canyon draffic. 14 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 3: Over the hill means which way from the valley to 15 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 3: the west side or the west side to the valley. Exactly, 16 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 3: I gotta get over the hill. Oh it's going to 17 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 3: take me an hour and a half. 18 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: Exactly. You don't have to go over the hill. I 19 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: gotta go over the hill. 20 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 3: Spend your whole day over the hill because you can't 21 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 3: get back and forth the hill. 22 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: Right right, you went over the hill today. I got 23 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: a pack a bag of going over the hill. 24 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 4: Not for going over the hill on the opposite of traffic. 25 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: Well, then you have to have the right schedule, right, 26 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 3: But how about when you are relieved that you want 27 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 3: your job is over the hill, and then you move 28 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 3: over the hill. 29 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: You no longer have to go over the hill to 30 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: get it to work. 31 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 3: So the other day they asked, what are some phrases 32 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 3: only people in LA would understand? 33 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: And it's so true. It's so true. Like when it rains. 34 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: What did people say when it rains? 35 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 2: Oh, we need it, we need it, right, yeah, matter what, 36 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: we need it. Oh we need it, we need it. 37 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: Yeah it's raining again, Yeah, but we need it. 38 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 4: We need it. 39 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: Do you are you checking? 40 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 3: How do you know we need it? Like we've had 41 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 3: a lot lately, but we still need it. 42 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, we need it. 43 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 5: Uh. 44 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: Here's another one that's so good. 45 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 3: That you're waiting for your friend to get to your 46 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 3: apartment and they're like here looking for parking. 47 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, me too. 48 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: Some people do it. 49 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 3: Like it's a short They just short it to l 50 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 3: LFP or something for parking. Oh so La, Oh, this 51 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 3: one's so good. We're coming at your house Sney at 52 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 3: three for a barbecue. And then you reply, bring a 53 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 3: jacket just in case it might get cold. 54 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 2: I honestly will probably get cold. 55 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 3: If it's not, I need a blazer. Why are we 56 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 3: dressing up? No, it might get cold? Yes, did you 57 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: feel that? 58 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: What is that? Laism? 59 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: Earthquake? 60 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 3: There's no second guessing? Did you feel that? And all 61 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: we do is google for earthquake? 62 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 63 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 3: I got an x May Gray or June Gloom this one. 64 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 3: I'm I'm burnt out on these two. Right, these are laisms, 65 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 3: so Myra said. She wrote to said, you know, Runyon, 66 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 3: that's a big laism right. Also, Jerry said to us 67 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 3: here listens geographically undesirable. That's something we use in something 68 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 3: California a lot because it's so spread out and laylah slash. 69 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 3: Ryan said she ate that outfit, ate it, which means 70 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 3: what it was great, crushed it crushed it look fantastic. 71 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 3: And you can tell someone one is from la when 72 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 3: they give you distance and minutes, as in how far 73 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 3: away do you live? Like thirty minutes but you would 74 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 3: just say like next door, but it's not it's thirty 75 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 3: minutes right, Or. 76 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 2: You can say I live I don't know, thirty minutes 77 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 2: without traffic, forty five minutes with traffic to. 78 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: What without traffic. Yeah, a lais, I love them so much. 79 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 3: If you want to add to those, reach out to 80 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 3: us eight hundred and five to two one two seven. 81 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: So this is a little bright lighted news. 82 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 3: I kind of started walking around with a pep and 83 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 3: my step about. 84 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 4: Excuse me. 85 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: You're a better person if you have this in your life. Hmmm, 86 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 3: sisters make you a better person. 87 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: Ooh, I love that. 88 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: I believe everybody your Scott's sister, right, Yes, we do. 89 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: You're better people because of your sisters. I think it's 90 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 3: even more better if that's the way of saying anything. 91 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's even better for guys. 92 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 2: I think so. 93 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: Still, you're a better man. 94 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 2: In his set because he has two sisters. He's going 95 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 2: to be such a good gentleman already is parents already 96 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: tell me that that he's so sweet that. I mean, 97 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: it's yes, I can go on run. 98 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 3: So they published this in the Journal of Family Psychology, 99 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 3: showing that sisters can actually make you a better person. 100 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 3: They say sisters boost your mental health and prove your 101 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 3: social skills and give you confidence to be more dependent. 102 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: They studied like foreignan families and sisters shielded teenagers from 103 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 3: feeling lonely, self conscious and fearful. 104 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: So if you're. 105 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 3: Thinking about having another one and you got a boy, oh. 106 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 1: Right, maybe you need to have a sister. 107 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 2: Exactly. 108 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 3: I don't want to ask the question I'm thinking about 109 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 3: so sistant. You ask if someone here were to have 110 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 3: a family, how many would they want? Oh? 111 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you ask how many kids do we 112 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 2: all want? I'm doing it like a broad question so 113 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: anybody can answer. 114 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 6: I actually tell Robbie because he doesn't have sisters. 115 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 4: He just has one brother. That came out great, great, 116 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 4: I know, And he's sisters. 117 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: He came out great too. 118 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, he has one sister and one brother. 119 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: I get it. 120 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. 121 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 4: So I'm like, he needs a daughter? 122 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 1: Is that so? Just? Oh? Since Siny brought it up, 123 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: so what's happening? 124 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 2: Can I also bring something else up that I really 125 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: wanted to bring up last week, But I didn't want 126 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 2: to go that route either, because it's so like taboo 127 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 2: to ask these types of questions. Type of thing you 128 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: asked when Tanya was telling me that she was having 129 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: vivid dreams, I had very vivid dreams when I was pregnant. 130 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: I just want to put that out there. 131 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, I heard, I heard, I heard it. I remember 132 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 3: you telling me that. I didn't say anything either, but 133 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: I think we all thought it word bubble. 134 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 1: Ah. 135 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: Oh well we're not actually trying yet. 136 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: You don't know that, Okay, I don't want to hear anything. 137 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. Wait, so let's go back to this. 138 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,239 Speaker 2: It's like the mental health boost of like the sisters 139 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 2: that like are great. 140 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 4: For and I think sisters like they take care of 141 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 4: the family more. Yeah, you go back. 142 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: You can like always rely on them and get advice. 143 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: I love it. 144 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: So thank you, Meredith Seacrest. 145 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 4: And Jeanette, thank you, and Tina. 146 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: There you go. You guys should all meet one day. Now. 147 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: What's the prom here system? 148 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 2: That's not a problem. I just brought it to Tanya's attention. 149 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 2: I'm mortified and she's mortified now because I was like, dude, 150 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 2: what's up with you changing your contact info like every day? 151 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 2: And she's like what, I'm like, you've changed your picture 152 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 2: at least like four or five times. Your name went 153 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 2: from like Tanya rat I don't even know. She was like, 154 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 2: you see all those changes? And I was like, it 155 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 2: alerts my phone every single time we interact time. 156 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: Did you not know that. 157 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 6: No, I had no idea, and I'm like, I changed 158 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 6: because I'm going through all of my like name changing 159 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 6: and so I wanted to update my contact whatever card 160 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 6: in my phone, and so I like changed the name 161 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 6: to like it was Tanya body, sobby beach, I changed 162 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 6: it to Tanya rad Yadagar. But then the wasn't showing upright, 163 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 6: so that I changed Tanya Yadagar. And then I changed 164 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 6: it to like a weird suggested photo that they gave 165 00:06:59,560 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 6: for me. 166 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 4: I didn't like it, so then I changed it to 167 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 4: like another photo. 168 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 6: She's gone there like six headshots, and then I felt 169 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 6: like a selfie on there, and probably was like, maybe 170 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 6: make it a little more professional. 171 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 4: So I literally think I changed the name and the photo. 172 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: So what did you settle with? Where are we? 173 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 6: And now it's Tanya Yadagar And it's like an old 174 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 6: headshot that I took here at iHeart, like four years 175 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 6: ago or something. But I didn't know that it alerted 176 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 6: people every time I changed it, And I'm so embarrassed now. 177 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 2: And how many contacts you have, like thousands. 178 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: It's like when y'all send me a message and then 179 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: it says deleted message. I wonder what I missed? What 180 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 3: did you delete? Why'd you send and then take it away? 181 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 182 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 4: There, this is a PSA. If you are changing. 183 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: Your should's being simulcast? 184 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 4: Yes, oh I'm so embarrassed it happens. 185 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: Are you going to stick with the four year old headshot? 186 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 2: No? 187 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 4: I want to change it, but I look like a 188 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 4: four year old headshot. 189 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 2: It looks very current. 190 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 4: Okay, thank you and needed that. 191 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 3: Well, then that's why we came in this morning. Let's 192 00:07:58,480 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: put it in front of you to make you feel 193 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 3: good about it. 194 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 2: I'm just like, what are we going to change today? 195 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? I can't wait to see later. All right. 196 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 3: So I don't know if you guys are whoever's in relationships? 197 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 3: Everybody but me, MICHAELA. All right, listen up. So this 198 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 3: is something you should pay attention to. You say these 199 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 3: phrases to your significant other. One they say that if 200 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: you do, it's going to destroy your relationship. One is 201 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 3: stop being so sensitive. 202 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 2: Ooh, that's like calling somebody crazy. 203 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 3: I don't think I've ever said that. Another is saying 204 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 3: you're fine when you're not really fine. I think we 205 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 3: all do that, innocent, and another one that I think 206 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 3: we probably all do is do whatever you want. 207 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 1: I don't care. 208 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: I mean that. 209 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 4: No, I say that a lot when I actually really 210 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 4: don't care. Like, what do you want for dinner? 211 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 6: I actually whatever you want because I actually don't care. 212 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 2: Harsh. 213 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know how to read you. 214 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 4: I'm totally serious. 215 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 2: Yeah that scares me. 216 00:08:59,000 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. 217 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 3: It sounds harsh. Do what you want because I really 218 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 3: don't care. Yeah. 219 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 2: Like saying I don't care is so no everyone to do. 220 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: I'm fine, It'll mean all right. 221 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 3: Today's quote don't cling Quote of the day. Don't cling 222 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 3: to a mistake. It's just because you spent a long 223 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 3: time making it. It's a kiss why at two point 224 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 3: seven Kiss FM? All right, Tanya, let's get to the headlines. 225 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 3: What's happening this morning? Kiss FM Headlines with Tanya rad Well. 226 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 6: Demonstrators marched in downtown LA this weekend as part of 227 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 6: rage against the regime rallies held across the nation. Stateer Brothers, 228 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 6: workers and union leaders are calling for a boycott of 229 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 6: the supermarket Chains Pasadena store today after months of contract 230 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 6: negotiations have gone nowhere. Police have arrested the man suspected 231 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,959 Speaker 6: of shooting the person who drove into a crowd outside 232 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 6: an East Hollywood nightclub earlier this month. 233 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: And heads up. 234 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 6: A heat wave is expected to start Wednesday and last 235 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 6: through Saturday. 236 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 4: The peak is expected. 237 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 3: On the let me grab Brie here about our coworker 238 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 3: may need to everybody to jump in for some advice. 239 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 1: Prey, good morning, How are you hey? 240 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 7: I'm good, How are you great? 241 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 3: We're doing well things. How can we help you this morning. 242 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 1: Brit. 243 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm kind of in an awkward situation. So my 244 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 7: coworker set me up with her son, and she's like 245 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 7: a friend. She's seen a lot of my sort of 246 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 7: dating ups and downs, and I think she like felt 247 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:36,199 Speaker 7: like she was solving my singleness. But I we've gone 248 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 7: on two dates and I don't like her son at all. 249 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 7: And yeah, I just felt like the vibe wasn't there 250 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 7: at all. And I don't know what to do, because. 251 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: How do you tell your coworker that you don't like 252 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: her kid? 253 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, I just don't want to make it weird with her. 254 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: Can you tell more about her son and what you 255 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: don't like? 256 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:10,319 Speaker 7: Yeah, there's nothing like he's he's nice and everything. I 257 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 7: just like don't feel the vibe there at all. 258 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 3: And she thought you would feel a vibe. Why, like, 259 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: what was the reason that she thought, you guys would think. 260 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 7: I don't. I mean, I consider her to be a friend, 261 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 7: but he's just he's like not my type and we 262 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 7: don't really have anything in common. And I'm also I'm 263 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 7: just not attracted he. 264 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 2: Is attracted to you, or he's giving you vibes that 265 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 2: like he's into you. 266 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, he's been like yeah, he keeps asking to 267 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 7: go out again. And like my coworker, his mom said 268 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 7: that he keeps telling her like that he's so happy 269 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 7: that she connected us. And I don't know what to do. 270 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 7: I got laugh or not. 271 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:55,439 Speaker 8: I don't know what. 272 00:11:55,840 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: There's only one path and that's through here, and here's 273 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 3: the truth, and it's legit. Okay, love your son, love 274 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 3: working here, love our relationship. It just doesn't feel comfortable 275 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 3: for me to be thinking about dating your son while 276 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 3: we're working together. It just complicate potentially complicates things. I mean, 277 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 3: if things go well, if things don't go well, I 278 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 3: just don't think it's the right idea. I don't think 279 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 3: it's necessarily what I'm looking for, full stop, deal with 280 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 3: the response might be a little awkward, and move on. 281 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: That's the only way to deal with it. 282 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 4: I don't think that's gonna work. 283 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 2: She starts off by saying, I love your son. That's 284 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 2: kind of misleading. 285 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 3: I love the idea that you set me up with 286 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 3: your son. However, I just don't think this is the 287 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 3: right path while we work together. 288 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 1: Who knows what's going to happen. You're allowed to say 289 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: if it goes. 290 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 6: I mean, this is very, very no, because then she's 291 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 6: gonna say, well, why didn't you do that before I 292 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 6: set you up with him? 293 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 4: Why did you send me down this the lies lie. 294 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: You just need to come clean and be like, hey, 295 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 2: I just don't find the connection. But he seems like 296 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: a great guy. 297 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: But you've got to have a pathway through and nip 298 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: it in the butt. 299 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 3: Otherwise you're gonna be doing something you don't want to do, 300 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 3: and it's gonna get really bad. If you kick the 301 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 3: can on this and have to get out of it 302 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 3: after she thinks you're into her son, that's going to 303 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 3: be really bad. 304 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 7: I just don't I don't want to insult her by 305 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 7: saying I don't like your son, and. 306 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,439 Speaker 9: You saw that we're not a match. 307 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 4: No, say the vibes line. Vibes don't Lie. 308 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: I just think we're better off as friends. We're not 309 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: a match. 310 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 3: But don't wait on this, don't sleep on it. All right, Bret, 311 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 3: thank you very much. 312 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 1: Good luck? Yeah, thanks whatever, Just be direct. 313 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 4: Setting up coworkers is very tricky. 314 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 1: I don't think it's a great idea. 315 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I've tried to do it a 316 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 4: couple of times. 317 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 2: It could work, it could not work. My sister set 318 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 2: me up with Michael, but I guess it wasn't her coworker. Yeah, 319 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 2: then I don't know. 320 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. 321 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 3: And if it went bad like then it's a problem here. 322 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 3: Then you blame Tanya because she said you with Michael 323 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 3: anywhere at work every day. 324 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: They didn't work out. 325 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 6: Well, if you're mature adults, you're not going to bring 326 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 6: the grudge into work. 327 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: Have you met us. 328 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 2: Our middle name is grudge. No, it's not. 329 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: Well, we're not mature, give us that. So you've got 330 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 3: the main room here, and then you get the back room. 331 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 3: The back room is the next gen. That's the next 332 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 3: generation of superstars here, all right. It's a hot bed 333 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 3: of talent back there. 334 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you never know where they go from here. 335 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 3: Oh, they're busy doing what we did for a long time, 336 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 3: answering the phones, getting the guests up in the elevator 337 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 3: on time, arguing with roommates, then moaning each other back 338 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 3: and forth. 339 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: What's that new one, ze? 340 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not new. 341 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 4: It's kind of new newish. 342 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 2: It's not newer than Venmo. 343 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think I have Venmo. I don't have Zello. 344 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 3: I got people like you can just sell me bro. 345 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 346 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 2: Well, oh my gosh, wow. 347 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: Zelle started twenty sixteen. Guys, that was like. 348 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 2: Yesterday, ten years rendered Venmo. 349 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: Start nineteen eighty four. 350 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 2: No, they're really, they're pretty well. 351 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:27,200 Speaker 1: Bring all this up? 352 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 3: Is Fonzie Alfonso? Also remember the back room club, and 353 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 3: he needs advice and there's nothing better than us giving advice, 354 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 3: especially on topics that we don't know so much about, 355 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 3: or giving advice that we can't abide by. But Phonsie, 356 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 3: what is the problem. 357 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 10: Yeah, so, I mean, okay, so look, long story short, 358 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 10: I have two friends, right they it's it in life. 359 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: Oh no, I have way more. 360 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 5: You know. 361 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 2: Sometimes that sounds peaceful. 362 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 10: Honestly, Yeah, I mean I am pretty I am larner 363 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 10: most of the time because it worked. 364 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 2: But anyways, joined the club on that unpack it unpack 365 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 2: it all right. 366 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 10: Here, Oh my gosh. Okay, So then, okay, I have 367 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 10: two friends, a guy and a girl. They were they're 368 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 10: my friends from college. They dated for like six years, right, 369 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 10: they were a six year relationship. Uh, they broke it 370 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 10: off recently, and long story short, it was just tricky 371 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 10: for me because with both of the friends, like you know, 372 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 10: sometimes couples get like really codependent and they just isolate 373 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 10: a lot. But then post breakup, Like long story short, 374 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 10: what happened was they the girl like she was like, 375 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 10: we're really good friends now, like we get along pretty well, 376 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 10: and she was always a more outgoing one. But my friend, 377 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 10: the guy in the in the relationship, he was very introverted, 378 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 10: very kind of like almost very isolation. 379 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 2: Is so now he's like out of mind. 380 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 10: Yeah, And so the I guess my question is should 381 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 10: I reach out because the thing is a post breakup, 382 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 10: Like I heard the news from the from my female friend, 383 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 10: but then like my homie like never reached out to me. 384 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 10: And and also I was just kind of reflecting on 385 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 10: it this weekend. I was like, man, he was not 386 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 10: a great friend in the sense that like I always 387 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 10: had to go out to meet up with him and 388 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 10: like always reach on his terms, and it was really 389 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,959 Speaker 10: it was kind of frustrating. But then the only thing 390 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 10: that complicates this is just the fact that, like I 391 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 10: started hanging out with his ex recently and I started 392 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 10: catching feelings. 393 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 3: Oh well, you didn't tell me this is juicy now 394 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 3: all kinds. 395 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 10: Of advice until I hear that, I know, So so 396 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 10: are you? 397 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 1: Are you really? 398 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 3: Is he really not a good friend or did you 399 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: create a little that narrative because you liked Look, he 400 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,199 Speaker 3: seemed like a good guy until you start to like 401 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:41,760 Speaker 3: his ass. 402 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 10: No, no, no, no, look, okay, we were good friends 403 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 10: during college. But the thing is, though, like postgrad, like 404 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 10: it was just like, oh hey, cool, I'll see you 405 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 10: guys whenever we can hang out, right and then but 406 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,719 Speaker 10: it was always like why do I have to be 407 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 10: the one to go hang out with you and then I'll. 408 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: Reach out to me? 409 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 10: Yeah, And it was just always kind of like I 410 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,159 Speaker 10: felt at times like I was like one sided. But 411 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 10: when we did hang out, we got along really well. 412 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 3: So let me ask you, see, if you got if 413 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 3: you ended up dating this female friend his ex, would 414 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 3: you feel guilt or would you feel not guilt. 415 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 10: In a sense Okay, So I would feel guilt that 416 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 10: I didn't. Really I feel guilty because like, first of all, 417 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 10: it's like, okay, cool, Like I haven't talked to him forever, 418 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 10: and now maybe the next life update you're gonna hear 419 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 10: is that I'm dating your ex. 420 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a tricky one. 421 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,199 Speaker 3: I don't think it hurts to reach out to him 422 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 3: to say, bro, I'm just checking in, how you doing, 423 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 3: and then still let the natural evolution. 424 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: Of you and this other woman evolve. 425 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 3: I mean, that might be the best way to do this, 426 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 3: because at least you get that off you're consciously reach 427 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 3: out to him to just check in. 428 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: I honest, what would you. 429 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 2: It's tricky because what if he tells you, oh my gosh, 430 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 2: I'm so heartbroken and I wish I could get back 431 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 2: together with her and I still love her, and and 432 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 2: now're like, ooh, well I kind of like her now. 433 00:18:58,520 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing. 434 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 10: And it's like, I know, if once I tell him, hey, 435 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 10: you know, this might be you know, yeah, you can't. 436 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 4: You gotta you can't be friends with him anymore. 437 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you cut him out. He's already kind 438 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 2: of not in your life to cut you out. 439 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 3: I guess he kind of got you out by not 440 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 3: reaching out, So yeah, what are you supposed to do? 441 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 9: Yeah? 442 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:18,479 Speaker 10: Yeah, And so that's why I'm like, okay, you know what, 443 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 10: like I could reach out, but then also like, okay. 444 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: I'll just like that. I think I think she doesn't 445 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 1: tell you have the right idea here, Yeah, I mean, 446 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel I feel. 447 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, the first time experiences with the stress of life, 448 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 3: it may end up that she's the one for you. 449 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:35,560 Speaker 3: And you guys have a great story actually, and you 450 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 3: know each other already as friends. 451 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 6: And don't like bro's come and go uh yeah, Well 452 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 6: isn't it the other way around? 453 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 3: Well, I think bros don't reach out and talk about 454 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 3: their feelings as much, that's for sure. 455 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,199 Speaker 10: Yeah, And that's definitely a struggle of his. I mean, 456 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 10: whenever his you know, he. 457 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 3: Definitely got to be worse as this story went on, 458 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 3: as you liked her more. That is the takeaway, right, 459 00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 3: it doesn't feel bad, don't reach out to him. Let's 460 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 3: see where it goes with her. And by the way, 461 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 3: you kept telling me, that's a long story short. That's 462 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 3: not a long story short. It's time for Ryan's roses 463 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 3: Carla cisanin Tanya in north Ridge. 464 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: Check it out. 465 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 3: So I found out in November that my husband has 466 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 3: been cheating on me for most of our marriage. We're separated. 467 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 3: He claims he has completely broken it off and is 468 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 3: trying to be a better man. 469 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,919 Speaker 1: I want to be a Ryan's. 470 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 3: Roses to get a status update. If he sends it 471 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 3: the roses, I will file for divorce. Well, this is 472 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 3: this is the moment then, Carla, thanks for coming on. 473 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 3: We already know what most people are trying to find out. 474 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 3: You're separated right now. 475 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 11: Yeah, we're currently separated. 476 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: And with plans to get back together. 477 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 11: Well, I mean I feel like I feel like this 478 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 11: is kind of what I need. That's the closure on. 479 00:20:55,880 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 11: I mean, he tells me that they're not talking, it's 480 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 11: been broken off. Like, I have no reason not to 481 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 11: trust him. So I just if we have a child together, 482 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 11: and I want I want my daughter to have a father. 483 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 3: But I just say something, Carla. I don't mean to 484 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 3: cut you off here, but I just want to tell 485 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,719 Speaker 3: you something. If you have no reason to not trust him, 486 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 3: this is a bad idea because if he finds out 487 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 3: you're testing him like this and it goes well, I 488 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 3: think he's going to be upset. 489 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 4: Well, he can be upset, Okay. 490 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: And I didn't say Tanya, I said, Carlo. 491 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, and your daughter is always going to 492 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 2: have a father. Do you want him to be your husband? 493 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 4: Yes, exactly. 494 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 11: I I just don't I don't even. I just don't know. 495 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 11: I'm just I'm emotional. I'm beside myself. 496 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Carla, I just want I wanted to 497 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 3: state what I think could go wrong, but we're going 498 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 3: to do it. So do you find out about this 499 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 3: affair he had at the beginning before your separation. 500 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 1: I'm curious to know. 501 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 11: I went through his phone. He had a deleted things, 502 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 11: but they were still in his crash. So that's what 503 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 11: started everything. Yeah, it was huge blow up. But yeah, 504 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 11: he swears they're not together at all. And basically he 505 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 11: like blocked her and deleted everything when we had the 506 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 11: blow up, and she actually quit her job, so I 507 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,119 Speaker 11: know that she doesn't work with him anymore. 508 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 3: So well, don't do anything. Just stay right there, just 509 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 3: don't don't move. Coming up next, we will call your husband. 510 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 1: It's kiss. 511 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,719 Speaker 3: It's Ryan's Rose about to call Carla's husband in Northridge. 512 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 3: So here's the deal. He had an affair. She found 513 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,439 Speaker 3: out they separated. She wants to work it out. She 514 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 3: wants to make sure he's broken that off before they 515 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 3: really try to get back together. 516 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 1: They've got a daughter. I think by calling him and 517 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: testing him. 518 00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 3: This way, she says, she said the words to me, 519 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 3: I have no reason to doubt that he has not 520 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 3: to cut it off. So she believes he's cut it off, 521 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 3: but she really wants to make sure through Ryan's roses, 522 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 3: she already knew he cheated. She wants to make sure 523 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 3: it's over before they get back together with their daughter. 524 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 3: That's what this is about, Siny. 525 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 2: It's crazy. 526 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 3: So, Carl, we're gonna call him right now. What is 527 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 3: the woman's name? The other woman he had the affair 528 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,160 Speaker 3: with that you know about that? He says, he's cut off. 529 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: What's her name, Renee? 530 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,640 Speaker 3: If you hear her name, you are getting a divorce. 531 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 3: If he's been lying, then you're done. This is it 532 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 3: lastra God? Okay, Carl, it be very quiet. We're gonna 533 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 3: offer him some roses. We want to find out who 534 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 3: he sends them to. 535 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: Is that you? Is it her? 536 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 3: Who's the top of mind? It's roses romantic like he 537 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:51,439 Speaker 3: should be thinking of you. 538 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,280 Speaker 1: He doesn't. We have a problem. He does. 539 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 3: We might have a problem. Still, let's see who can 540 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 3: find out. Be very quiet until we tell him he's 541 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 3: on the air. Okay, here we go, good luck. 542 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 7: I think Hello? 543 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 2: Hi, can I see to Danny please? 544 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? 545 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 2: Hi, my name is Eli d I'm calling from Floral Vibes. 546 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:23,919 Speaker 2: How are you doing this morning? 547 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 5: Are good? 548 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: Great? 549 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 2: We're fairly new on Nord Off here in the Northridge area. 550 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,919 Speaker 2: You know where that Vaughn's Shopping center. 551 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 5: Is, Yeah, I think so. 552 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 553 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 2: We have a little little tiny store there, and we're 554 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 2: offering a free promotion. It's a free dozen red roses 555 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 2: that you can send anybody that you'd like, since you're 556 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 2: a local resident. They're absolutely free. We're just trying to 557 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 2: promote our business. We ask if you're pleased with our arrangements. 558 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,919 Speaker 2: You refer to your friend's family, leave a Yelp review, 559 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 2: things like that. Is that something you'd be interested in? 560 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 2: They are free? 561 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 8: What I never heard of anything like those? 562 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 2: Hey, it's a three dozen red roses. So it's very simple, 563 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 2: just a small, cute little arrangement. You can send them 564 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 2: to anybody that you'd like, we can start with the 565 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 2: name of the person and write a note and have 566 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,400 Speaker 2: them out by lunchtime today. 567 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 8: Wait, so I want a three dozen roses? 568 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: Yes exactly. 569 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 8: Is this some kind of scam or something? I mean, 570 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 8: just be straight. You trying to steal my identity? 571 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 2: No, I definitely not. But we're just trying to promote 572 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,679 Speaker 2: our business, like I said, and gain more customers. So 573 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 2: if you do like our arrangement, come back as a 574 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 2: customer one day, and then at that point we will 575 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 2: charge you. Really okay, Yeah, is there anybody you want 576 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,120 Speaker 2: to send them to? We can start with the name. 577 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 8: Now you just send them to me. 578 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 2: Send them to you. Okay, Well, we can write the. 579 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 8: Card, okay, yeah, just I guess you write Renee. It's Renee. 580 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 2: Oh it's for Renee. Okay, great? And then what would 581 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 2: you like to put on the card? 582 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 8: I don't really need to note or anything. And I 583 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,160 Speaker 8: can just give her the flowers at big. 584 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 1: Deal, gotcha? 585 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 3: Okay, Dandie, your voice is being broadcast on the radio. 586 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,199 Speaker 3: We have your wife, Carla, who you're separated from with 587 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 3: at the time, right now on the line. I'm going 588 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 3: to let her tell you what she's right now, correct, yeah. 589 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 11: Yeah, thank you so much, Ryan, thank you so much. 590 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 11: You know what, it's funny, It is so funny. When 591 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 11: the phone was ringing, I was literally just like praying 592 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 11: that you would send these roses to that. 593 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 5: Wait. Wait, no, wait, what's going on? What's happening here? 594 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 11: Honestly, I'm going to really enjoy telling her husband. I'm 595 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 11: going to ruin her marriage the same way that she's 596 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 11: the same way that she's not going to grow up 597 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 11: with father running around. 598 00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 5: Hold on, hold on, hold on, Okay, No, do not 599 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 5: tell her husband? 600 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 11: Why? 601 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: Why to you? Bro? 602 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're lying to her. She's not gonna listen to 603 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 3: what you're you're gonna do. 604 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 8: No, no, you don't understand. 605 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: Don't I do understand you? 606 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 7: Kid? 607 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 5: No, no, no, kid, you don't understand you have. 608 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 3: A Kidnny, you don't have anything to say here. 609 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 1: I mean you lied. 610 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 3: You told your wife you were finished with this relationship, 611 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 3: to get back together with your kid and Carla, and 612 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 3: you were lying to her. 613 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: She's done, bro, listen to you? 614 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 11: Do you wait? Is this kid your kid? 615 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 5: No? It's not mine. 616 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 11: Oh you know what, I don't even believe anything you 617 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 11: say at this point. 618 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: I don't believe it. Either all right. Look, look, Carla, 619 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 1: this is clean. 620 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 5: I can't believe you guys did this. 621 00:27:50,520 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 3: Danny's oh come, oh you did this, Calma, this Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny. Boy, Carla, 622 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 3: you have exactly what you want. It's clean, it's clear 623 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 3: to cut. It's done, Danny. I don't need you to 624 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,399 Speaker 3: say much. This is what she came and wanted to know. 625 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 3: She came and want to know if you were lying 626 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 3: to her. And she said, if you're lying, you're getting 627 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 3: a divorce. 628 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: And you are. And that's what's happening. 629 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 3: And Danny goodbye, bye bye, Carla. 630 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 2: Carla, I'm so sorry. 631 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 11: I'm not I'm like my heart is racing. But at 632 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 11: the same. 633 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 3: Time, I guess you're right because this guy was going 634 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 3: to play you and you were gonna get heart broken again. 635 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 3: Now there is a clean cut. There's a clean cut. 636 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 3: Good luck to you, Carla, and you and your daughter, 637 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 3: and thank you for reaching out to us. I know 638 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 3: it's gonna be difficult, but good luck. 639 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 11: Thank you. Guys. 640 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 1: Well, I have questions about this scenario. We come back 641 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Seacrest. 642 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 3: It's one of two point seven becaucept them. Let's go 643 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 3: back to Carlin, Danny and Ryan's roses. Does everybody have 644 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 3: a minute, I'm here. So he had an affair, she 645 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 3: knew about that. That's not why she got on Ryan's roses. 646 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 3: She got on to Ryan's roses because they're separated. And 647 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 3: he says he's done with that affair. He's becoming a 648 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 3: better man, and that's over. And that is a chapter 649 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 3: that it is a book that has closed, right, That's 650 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 3: what they always And she wanted to know for fact evidence. 651 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 3: She believed him, but she wanted to know for the 652 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 3: fact that it was over before they got back together 653 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 3: and try to make things work with their daughter, of 654 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 3: course also in the picture. And so we called him 655 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 3: and he was still he sent the roses to the 656 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 3: other woman. So he was lying saying I want to 657 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 3: get back with you, but he's still seeing the other woman. 658 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 3: My question is, so they're getting a divorced. My question 659 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 3: is that's what she said. My question is, could you 660 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 3: learn that your spouse had an affair, separate and ever 661 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 3: ever trust them again to come back and be with 662 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 3: you and give them a second chance. I'm just note, Tanya, 663 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 3: I think it depends. 664 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 6: Wow, if I found out about the affair myself. No, 665 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 6: if my I guess it would be my husband if 666 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 6: he had the affair and came and told me himself. 667 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 4: I don't know. 668 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: What do you mean? You don't know? 669 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 3: This is like a get out of jail free card 670 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 3: you're giving your husband right now. 671 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 1: You don't know. You shouldn't say it. 672 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 2: Married for two weeks? 673 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, what is going on with you over there? 674 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 3: I just ordained myself to marry you, and now you're 675 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 3: all of a sudden get my hall time. 676 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 4: First of all, I have. 677 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 6: First of all, there's no part of me that ever 678 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 6: I married the most loyal man on the planet. 679 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 4: Like I would. 680 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 6: You're asking me a question and I'm giving you an answer, 681 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 6: and you don't like to hear it, then ask someone else. 682 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't want to hear that I ordained I 683 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 3: married you. Now I got to go through this process 684 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 3: in my head. Raselli, good morning in Harper City. 685 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 12: How are you hey, I'm doing much better than some 686 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 12: other folks, I think. 687 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 3: Well you can call us by name, so listen, Annascelli. 688 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 3: I think you have a good point here and from 689 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 3: what I read on the call screen, But go ahead 690 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 3: and make your point about Carla finding out about the 691 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 3: fact that her husband is still cheating on her. 692 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 12: Listen, Carla, I just want to congratulate you. You won. You 693 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 12: finally you're free. Right, you will be lied to, and unfortunately, 694 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,560 Speaker 12: I'm sorry it took this happening for you to reconfirm 695 00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 12: what you thought was to be true. But listen, you're 696 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 12: better off now, you know, and I know you were 697 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 12: reluctant to, you know, split up the family, but you're 698 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 12: better off. Do you know what I mean? Don't You 699 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 12: don't need a two parent home. You also don't need 700 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 12: someone who's going to continuously lie to you. So in 701 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 12: the grand scheme of things, you won. 702 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,480 Speaker 3: I agree, she'll she'll look at back at this and 703 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 3: there's no second guessing you have. I mean a lot 704 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 3: of times in life you say to yourself, I just 705 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 3: need clarity. I'm prepared or not prepared, but at least 706 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 3: with clarity, I know what I'm dealing with. I can't 707 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 3: handle what I don't understand, what I don't know. I 708 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 3: can try to handle what I have clarity with. And 709 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 3: that's where we are, and that's what happened, and that's 710 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 3: what right now. 711 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 12: Yeah, you want a partner that you can like trust 712 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 12: and you know, have honest, crazy conversations about and it 713 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 12: shouldn't have to take this behind the scenes to get 714 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 12: to this point. You want someone that's and only that. 715 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 12: But let's just say like he you know, he apologizes 716 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,320 Speaker 12: and he actually means it. Whatever, Like there's always going 717 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 12: to have there's always going to be some sort of 718 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 12: second doubt. So even if she were to go back, like, 719 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 12: you're not going to feel good. 720 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 5: We both know that. 721 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 12: So look, just call it what it is you want 722 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 12: and you're free now to just it's going to suck, 723 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 12: but you know, start the process of moving forward. 724 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 3: Licensed therapist are A Selly from Harbor City on the 725 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 3: line right now. 726 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: Thank you for calling. 727 00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 12: Thanks, yeah, just you know, given my two cents. But yeah, 728 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 12: I wish, I wish, I wish you the best for 729 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 12: sure and the baby. 730 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, take good care and thanks for that. Clarity. You 731 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: can handle clarity, you can't handle ambiguity. 732 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 3: M deep but two point seven kiss FM. Tanya had 733 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 3: a little drama on a flight recently. 734 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,719 Speaker 6: Okay, well, I'm interested on where you stand on this 735 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,959 Speaker 6: because it wasn't It didn't happen to me, but it 736 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 6: happened to the the row in front of me on 737 00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 6: this flight, So there's always somebody who's next to the window, 738 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 6: and then there's somebody who's in the middle, and then 739 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 6: there's somebody who's in the aisle. 740 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: Right, what do you request? 741 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 4: I prefer the window because I, yeah. 742 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 6: I lean up against I don't want people like rummaging 743 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 6: all over me if they have to go to the bathroom. 744 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,000 Speaker 4: I'd rather just like hold my pee and like. 745 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 1: What, oh, yes that was you answered it? Go ahead, yeah. 746 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 6: So but the woman in front of me, we were 747 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 6: taking off on like a very early flight, and it 748 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 6: was like kind of still dark out, and so they 749 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 6: asked everybody to like lower their shade so that if 750 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 6: people wanted to sleep or whatever, just keep it dark. 751 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 6: And the woman in the aisle wanted to sleep, and 752 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 6: so and the woman in the in the with the 753 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,200 Speaker 6: window opened her window. And so the woman in the 754 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 6: aisle asked the guy if the flight attendant if he 755 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 6: could ask the woman to lower her shade, and she 756 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,279 Speaker 6: like got into it with the flight attendant, saying like 757 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,279 Speaker 6: I want to read and I'm on the window, and 758 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 6: she wouldn't shut down her window, and I was like 759 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 6: it to me, it felt so rude because I feel 760 00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 6: like it has to be like a row consensus. 761 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 4: It's not just your window, it's the whole Rose window. 762 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 2: Why didn't she just ask the lady? Why did she 763 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 2: have to ask the flight attendant to ask the lady. 764 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 6: I didn't hear, but I'm guessing she probably did and 765 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 6: she said no. 766 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,839 Speaker 3: But there are two types of people, right, Yeah, they're 767 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 3: the challengers and they're the acquiescers. 768 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 1: I'm an acquiescer. 769 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 4: I don't I don't know what that means. 770 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 3: Please right, I'm going to do you have no problem 771 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 3: absolutely trying to Sorry, Yeah, I'm sorry. 772 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 773 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 3: I don't even think about that, like I'm not challenging it. 774 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,439 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm so sorry. I'm that person. I don't 775 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 3: want to get into that. I don't want the same 776 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 3: thing in a relationship. I don't want the confrontation. I 777 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 3: don't want to have the talk. 778 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,319 Speaker 6: I just want to say, are we good and we're 779 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 6: gonna learn your lesson? 780 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 4: You just say it's all good, then like that's going 781 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:16,799 Speaker 4: to come up again. 782 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 3: We learned throughout I actually have learned in a relationship 783 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 3: to say, can we not be awkward after this conversation 784 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 3: and have the conversation. Can we not make this awkward 785 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 3: and then have the conversation. It kind of diffuses the 786 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 3: uncomfortableness afterwards because you usually get them to agree not 787 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 3: to be awkward. 788 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 2: That's good. 789 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 790 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:35,920 Speaker 2: Are we good now? 791 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 11: No? 792 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: No, no, that's yeah. 793 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 3: All we can we be good after this and here's this, 794 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 3: but after this, sister, just be good. 795 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it kind of works. 796 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 2: I agree. 797 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 1: Jenna, how are you this morning? 798 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 9: I'm good. How are you? 799 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 1: Okay? Thanks? So you're calling about you're getting married? 800 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 9: Well, not quite, but ever since I saw that you 801 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 9: officiated Tanya's wedding, I wanted to call and ask if 802 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:00,800 Speaker 9: you at a officiate mine. 803 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 3: Well, listen, first of all, this is a really new 804 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 3: business for me. It's kind of a startup operation officiating weddings. 805 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 3: I'm honored that you would even consider me to officiate 806 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:12,920 Speaker 3: your wedding. 807 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:14,359 Speaker 1: Jenna. What's your last name? 808 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 9: Oh it's Smith. 809 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 3: Jenna Smith. Okay, Well, I was trying to get to 810 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,080 Speaker 3: know you. I'm gonna officiate your wedding with Tany and Roberts. 811 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 9: Well, I thought you could say your signature line at 812 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 9: the end of the ceremony. That's what really got me thinking. 813 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 9: I thought that would be great. 814 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 3: Yes, seacrest out, So we worked backwards from you. Yeah, well, Jenna, 815 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,720 Speaker 3: tell me about your fiance. 816 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 9: Well that's the issue is I'm still single right now, 817 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 9: so I was just to lock. 818 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 3: You in my officiating caounter is going to get booked 819 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 3: up after Toyn and Robbie. 820 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,839 Speaker 9: Exactly right. 821 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 3: I think that's great, and you're on the same, basically 822 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 3: the same pace. I'm at here with this whole thing. 823 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 3: So well, I will remember you, Jenna Smith, and as 824 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:09,240 Speaker 3: the months years go by, I will reserve a spot 825 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,959 Speaker 3: for me to officiate wedding and by then I've probably 826 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,759 Speaker 3: have done some more because it just has to be 827 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:13,319 Speaker 3: a best man. 828 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: My who wedding game's upped after Tanya and Robbie's. 829 00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,399 Speaker 4: I think it's also up in your out to other 830 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 4: game too. 831 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 3: I don't see that, but I appreciate the vote of confidence. 832 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 1: Jenna. Good luck meeting. 833 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 3: Your fiance and I look forward to the wedding one day. 834 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: All right, plan, aren't you? 835 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,600 Speaker 6: It's always good to be prepared, manifesting at its finest. 836 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 3: Ye, all I have to do is seecrest out. It's 837 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 3: gonna be an easy gig for me by Jenna. 838 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 2: Perfect thing maybe that's the selling point. When she meets 839 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 2: a dude, she's like, hey, and by the way, I 840 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 2: already have the guy that couldn't do our wedding. 841 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,360 Speaker 3: You know that's not gonna lass if that's the selling anyway, 842 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,319 Speaker 3: if you'd like to be officiate your wedding, please reach out. 843 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,439 Speaker 3: It's one eight hundred and five to seven. 844 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 6: You can just go officiating all these weddings now possessive, yes, possession. 845 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,359 Speaker 2: There's a lot of people that have this business out 846 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:03,839 Speaker 2: of this and all they do is officiate wedding. 847 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 3: And I had to put in time to get my 848 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,280 Speaker 3: official license to marriage. 849 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:09,880 Speaker 2: Okay, it takes three minutes to get that. 850 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 3: Take me excuse me, Tech savvy did not take me 851 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 3: three minutes. My batteries dead had charged my iPad, not the. 852 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,320 Speaker 1: Log in. Yeah, Tubbs had to get involved. 853 00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 3: It's not just a four minute process, you guys. 854 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I'd like to really use what I've. 855 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 6: Get some use out of it. Yeah, it lasts for 856 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,959 Speaker 6: I think like a long time. 857 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 3: It lasts definitely longer than a sunflower blooming. That's it 858 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 3: for us today, Kiss FM. We're back tomorrow with some 859 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 3: more action, including a second date update. 860 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 1: Thanks, guys, have a good one. Yes it's kiss. Thanks 861 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,480 Speaker 1: for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. 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