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Speaker 2: You know, she's She's a perfect amount because I'm a

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Speaker 3: Scrubbing in with beatilly An iHeartRadio podcast. Everybody we are

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Speaker 1: Why are we laughing just because like through osmosis.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we were just saying Tanya is like in

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Speaker 2: a really energetic mood. She's I think you've had more

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Speaker 2: energy today that I've seen you in the last week

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Speaker 2: since you've been doing your like jump start cleanse or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And I'm back on it.

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Speaker 4: But you know what's funny is so we do the

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Speaker 4: morning show before this, and I've been feeling in first

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Speaker 4: Disney because she's on an attorney leave, and I've been

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Speaker 4: taking pointers from Mark and from Ryan on different things.

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Speaker 4: And i just came off the show and I'm feeling

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she did a great job today.

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Speaker 2: She's crushing it.

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Speaker 3: It's huge.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's really massive, and so I'm glad that

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Speaker 3: Them to go all. I ate so much fast food

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Speaker 3: yesterday that I have like a pain in my ribs

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Speaker 1: Wow, Becca came in your choices. I ate so bad yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I was like, as opposed to when you eat.

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Speaker 3: Like when I say I ate bad, that is like

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Speaker 5: Breakfast, lunch and late lunch.

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Speaker 2: If I recall, yeah, yeah, it was like a winner.

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Speaker 3: Can you tell us what you ate?

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Speaker 2: I had Jack in the box for Breakfast's.

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Speaker 5: Going into detail though, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I had an egg and cheese croissant and a doctor pepper.

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, lunch is coming out. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I had some chips and salsa in between, just continued

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Speaker 2: my Sinco de Mayo celebrations, and then I had I

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Speaker 5: What do you trust the shoes?

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Speaker 3: Well, like chicken with.

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Speaker 2: Bones from fast food sounds scary, Like I love nuggets tenders,

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Speaker 5: Someone get that bonetural situation, then that's.

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Speaker 3: How my brain works.

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Speaker 2: So I just got a bunch of sides like mac

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Speaker 3: Wow with the PEPSI because they don't have doctor pepper.

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Speaker 2: And then my sister calls like an hour after I

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Speaker 3: Do you want anything, and I was like I could

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Speaker 2: I probably ended up getting there about two hours after KFC.

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Speaker 3: So then I had that, and.

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Speaker 2: Then I was like, oh, I'm not I go and

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Speaker 2: And then I got hungry, so I go in and

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Speaker 3: Oh somewhere in this.

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Speaker 2: I went and was like, I'm just gonna have a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the other thing, Like she doesn't even drink water, Like, literally,

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Speaker 4: I don't think you act. Maybe I've something you drink

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Speaker 1: No, not true.

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Speaker 2: Every time we go to the sauna, I have at

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Speaker 6: To dig into though. It doesn't make you feel good,

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Speaker 6: and I'm all for fast food, like once not four times? Right,

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Speaker 6: it doesn't make you feel good? Why do you do it?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: Yesterday I overdid it normally it doesn't. I might be like, oh,

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Speaker 4: But to get you to give you a little credit

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Speaker 4: when you're hungover, when I'm hungover, I just want bad food, right.

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Speaker 5: Your teeth are super clean, that's the good news.

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Speaker 2: My teeth are super clean. My body, the inside of

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Speaker 3: Sounds.

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Speaker 6: Do you guys remember will power? That word will power?

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Speaker 6: I don't have any I think that you don't.

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Speaker 5: The brushing works for me. When I want to be

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Speaker 1: I put my braces in and I just call it

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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is someone tweeted me and they were like,

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Speaker 2: And so I'm like, you.

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't be ashamed of what you like. I eat what

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's the thing. It's like, it's just the reality, right.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like someone hold me accountable.

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Speaker 6: What I'm wondering is does Teddy Mellancamp do that?

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Speaker 1: No chance?

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Speaker 3: Tanya says, there's no chance I could.

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Speaker 1: I could do it, couldn't last one.

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Speaker 6: So we need to get you somebody that forces you

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's anyone that can do it.

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Speaker 4: People like, oh, you're either you're in the pool out

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Speaker 6: From the version of Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 1: Well, I've told you I've offered my services.

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Speaker 6: Care what you say she needs somebody?

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Speaker 3: I don't care. I care more.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't feel like anyone has power over me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know this is going to take a miracle

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we can all.

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Speaker 3: Pray, everyone just pray for my like willpower.

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Speaker 1: But she's saying she's not gonna listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm too strong willed to listen to a willpower coach.

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Speaker 6: That's the conundrum.

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Speaker 3: Or what about whoa whoa?

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Speaker 1: What about a hypnosis?

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Speaker 4: Hypnotize you and right here on the show, and to not. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: they do this with smokers all the time, make you

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Speaker 4: And maybe they can like not they won't take it

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Speaker 4: don't crave doctor Pepper ever.

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Speaker 3: Again, No, I want none anymore.

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Speaker 5: You wouldn't want it would seem gross to here.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she can have anything she wants in moderation.

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Speaker 2: But that's the thing every aside from yesterday, the thing

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Speaker 2: It's not like I go to McDonald's and get three burgers,

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Speaker 3: It's like small. Still, I think you could do it

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Speaker 6: No, you're not going to deprive yourself. That's why people fail.

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Speaker 6: You need to be able to have a cookie.

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Speaker 2: I can't start with once a week. You'd have to

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Speaker 5: Could you cut down on the doctor pepper you think?

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Speaker 5: Soda is something people could take out that would dramatically.

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Speaker 2: But people are very easily offended. I mean I could

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Speaker 4: Somebody tweeted me and was so offended by what I said,

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Speaker 1: Put it in a little, nice little bos in your closet.

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Speaker 5: I have my teddy birth, my childhood in a box

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Speaker 1: From my child You don't need it on your bed.

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Speaker 6: That's fine. I accept that it's weird, but I'm totally

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Speaker 2: But this is what my tweets stemmed from.

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Speaker 6: Life Jackets or.

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Speaker 3: The people people that.

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Speaker 4: And like it's you know, I think that we try

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Speaker 6: And you look at Instagram and Facebook and you think

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Speaker 5: I was like, and now they're back together for a

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Speaker 4: It's like so I couldn't imagine them apart. Now that's

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Speaker 6: W we could call Ryan's sister Meredith. Were you at

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Speaker 6: You mean, yes, she gave me what is the greatest

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Speaker 6: Can anyone see if Meredith can, we can call Meredith.

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Speaker 6: I'll text you your number. Literally, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: We don't ruin it. Then, well, let's let me text

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Speaker 1: And she was not well. Yeah, she was not in

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Speaker 5: How did we feel about last week's episode? I hesitate

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Speaker 2: I honestly tried to sit down and watch it twice.

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Speaker 5: Guy, that's so sad.

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Speaker 1: Pretty bad.

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Speaker 4: I didn't think it was as terrible as the most,

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Speaker 5: The bar with the guy I don't know that he's coming.

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Speaker 3: You were intrigued by him.

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Speaker 1: I just like her flirting with anyone at this point, so.

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Speaker 2: Upset standard her so low that we're like work.

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Speaker 6: He will do.

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Speaker 5: On the phone there she is medith.

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Speaker 3: H'm Meredith.

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Speaker 2: Amy's bragging that you gave oh Tania, and.

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Speaker 6: People that don't know this is Ryan's sister Meredith, who

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Speaker 6: even to remember this. So, Meredith, do you remember we

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Speaker 7: I need you to refresh me.

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Speaker 8: What was my wisdom?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 6: So I asked you if you ever worried, So you

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Speaker 6: you remember what your answer was?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 7: And I like, come back to me.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna like paraphrase, so that you can share

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Speaker 3: You basically said, I I'll come back, okay.

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Speaker 6: So you basically told me, you said, I have so

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Speaker 6: much faith in the relationship, but you have a faith

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Speaker 6: in something like bigger that if he is isn't the

451
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Speaker 6: one for you, that that means something even better was coming.

452
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Speaker 6: And you, your brain couldn't even comprehend something better than him.

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Speaker 6: So you were like, I'm just I'm not insecure. I'm

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Speaker 6: totally confident in that in knowing that I believe he's

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Speaker 6: the one for me, and if for some reason he isn't,

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Speaker 6: that means God or whatever you believe in has something

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Speaker 6: better coming. And it was like gave me this sense

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Speaker 6: of peace that I can't even explain. Like I was

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Speaker 6: just like, yeah.

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 8: No, but no, you know what I think. With you know,

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Speaker 8: time and dating and the process i'd been in, I

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Speaker 8: just had reached that point where I, you know, you

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Speaker 8: tried with other guys, and you may try to fit

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Speaker 8: the peg into you know, the square peg in the

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Speaker 8: round hole, and then I.

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Speaker 7: Was just over it and just felt, you know, so many.

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Speaker 8: Things were aligning well with Jimmy, and it felt so right,

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Speaker 8: and I hoped that it was the right thing, but

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Speaker 8: knew at this point if it wasn't, you know, I

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Speaker 8: would live, it would move on, and you'd find the

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Speaker 8: right person. And things do work out when they're supposed to.

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Speaker 8: And I think in the end it did work out

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Speaker 8: with Jimmy, and you know, the timing was right, and

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Speaker 8: it took his time.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 8: I met him in two thousand and five, and I

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Speaker 8: didn't get together with him as a couple until twenty

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Speaker 8: thirteen and married him in twenty sixteen. So it took

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Speaker 8: it sweet time.

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Speaker 1: It's so nutty, Meredith. You give like the best advice.

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Speaker 8: Oh, Kanya, I see you.

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Speaker 6: We always say that in the Seacrest family, Meredith is

484
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Speaker 6: this old soul, like what hat where did she come from?

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Speaker 6: Because she just knows things and the way that night

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Speaker 6: I remember, however many years ago, I mean that must

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Speaker 6: have been twenty twelve because it was before you ever

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Speaker 6: been engaged, and I have felt like a piece from

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Speaker 6: that since then. I'm just like, oh, it's all gonna

490
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Speaker 6: be good because meredithy Crest.

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Speaker 4: Ryan's like, why do you I hang out with my

492
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Speaker 4: sister And I'm like, because she literally maybe like puts

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Speaker 4: me in this calm state of mind where I can

494
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Speaker 4: tend to just get really like panicky and I feel

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Speaker 4: like I spend a little time with you, And I'm like, oh.

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Speaker 6: Well, Tanya, tell Meredith and Becca any issues. You have

497
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Speaker 6: to tell them what, tell her what you're feeling, and

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Speaker 6: have her help you.

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Speaker 8: Right now, don know what's what's the latest?

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm better now, But last week I had

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Speaker 4: a little bit of a dip in I was just

502
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Speaker 4: feeling really overwhelmed and I kind of uh had a

503
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Speaker 4: guy that I thought was kind of trying to like

504
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Speaker 4: flirt and trying to date me, but he ended up

505
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Speaker 4: just trying to use me for work purposes, and it

506
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Speaker 4: just like me, It really like broke me down and.

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Speaker 1: I just was crying a lot on the air.

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Speaker 4: It's really embarrassing, but I really had a break down

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Speaker 4: and I just kind of felt like, what's wrong with me?

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Speaker 4: Why is this clicking? And what's taking so long? I

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Speaker 4: had one of those moments.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I would always say with you, Kanie, I feel

513
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Speaker 8: like so much is going on in your personal professional

514
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Speaker 8: life that's growing, and if you were too locked down

515
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Speaker 8: right now, you wouldn't be doing all that you're doing

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Speaker 8: right now. And when you're ready and your gates are

517
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Speaker 8: ready to open.

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Speaker 1: For that, it will.

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Speaker 8: But you're just so much positive things going on. I

520
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Speaker 8: would embrace that. I think certain stylos of your life

521
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Speaker 8: develop and they let the next thing come in when

522
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Speaker 8: it's ready.

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Speaker 1: So keep doing you certain silos of your life. That's good.

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Speaker 6: You know what.

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Speaker 4: Actually I was watching this YouTube video from Matthew Hussey

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Speaker 4: and he basically said that like the next six months

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Speaker 4: of your life. He's like, don't just live the next

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Speaker 4: six months of your life. Name the next six months

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Speaker 4: of your life, like, have a purpose behind the next

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Speaker 4: six months, And I was like, that's really interesting. So

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Speaker 4: I'm going to name the next six months of my

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Speaker 4: life the emancipation of t red.

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Speaker 5: Explain that.

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Speaker 4: Help help, like the liberation, my liberation from my insecurities.

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Speaker 1: Okay bye.

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Speaker 8: It takes time, but most times it's not gonna work out,

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Speaker 8: you know, to be honest, and when you kind of

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Speaker 8: like then when it does work out, it's surprised of

539
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Speaker 8: you and it's fabulous. So just keep keep trucking win

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Speaker 8: though that. I think a lot of times when it

541
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Speaker 8: doesn't work out, you're saved and you don't realize it

542
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Speaker 8: till later down the road. But you you know, in

543
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Speaker 8: time you look back here, I thank god that didn't

544
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Speaker 8: work out, right there. I have a lot of those.

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Speaker 1: Thank you well, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: We love you so I love you.

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Speaker 7: Bye bye, okay bye.

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Speaker 1: She really is the best I know.

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Speaker 3: We should have her on just like we sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like girl chat guest host.

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Speaker 1: We shouldn't next time she's in LA. She lives in Nashville, now.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, next time she's here.

553
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Speaker 1: But she comes here a lot.

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Speaker 3: Does she like getting a good night's sleep.

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Speaker 4: When she comes here, you know what she does because

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Speaker 4: i'd imagine because she's like by herself, you know, when

557
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Speaker 4: she travels, she doesn't have my husband.

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Speaker 2: Well, one of my favorite things to do, as we

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Speaker 2: have discussed, it's to sleep.

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Speaker 3: And I sleep better with my Bowlin brand sheets.

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Speaker 1: Ain't that the truth?

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Speaker 3: Ain't that?

563
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Speaker 6: What about with your Bowlin brand sheets and your clean room?

564
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Speaker 3: My room is still clean. I'm going two weeks on

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Speaker 3: my room.

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Speaker 4: Spot She's come back, she's come back from trips, and

567
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Speaker 4: I like will literally FaceTime her and I'll watch her

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Speaker 4: like unpack her suitcase and I'm like, I'm very proud

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Speaker 4: that you were unpacking your suitcase right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like, get home. I've never done this. Like

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Speaker 2: most of the time I get back, I get back

572
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Speaker 2: from a trip and my suitcase sits there for like

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Speaker 2: a month. I'm not even kidding, And I'm like, what

574
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Speaker 2: do I even what?

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Speaker 3: What do I even have?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Not anymore?

577
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Speaker 3: No, not anymore?

578
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Speaker 1: Keep in that room spotless.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so my room is clean.

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Speaker 1: You know what you did? You actually washed your sheets

581
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Speaker 1: last time I was there.

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Speaker 3: I did. I washed my sheets.

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Speaker 2: I try to wash them regularly, but of wash your well.

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Speaker 2: I have two sets of sheets, so I always like

585
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Speaker 2: to have the backup one ready so that if something happens,

586
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Speaker 2: I don't have to like go through the process of

587
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Speaker 2: washing them if.

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Speaker 5: What happens exactly, Like, no, I don't eat.

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Speaker 3: I do not eat in my bed. That's not in

590
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Speaker 3: my men. That's gross. I don't like that gross.

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Speaker 2: But like, sometimes Phoebe will come on my bed and

592
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Speaker 2: all of a sudden, just like she'll just pee and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I literally have to wash my sheets immediately.

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Speaker 1: On your bowl and branch sheet, yeah, and I have

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Speaker 1: to wash on this.

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Speaker 3: Shirt for that. Yeah. I get very angry at her

597
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Speaker 3: and she we have a stare down.

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Speaker 4: And because you should be like Phoebe, just because normal

599
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Speaker 4: sheets cost up to one thousand dollars, in my bowling

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Speaker 4: branch sheets don't cost as much.

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Speaker 1: Does not give you the right to pee on that exactly.

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Speaker 3: They are.

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Speaker 2: They do get softer as you wash them, just like

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Speaker 2: all sheets, but they start out that way. They're made

605
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Speaker 2: from pure organic cotton, so it's the good stuff.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they use sustainable and responsible methods of sourcing

607
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Speaker 4: and manufacturing, which you know, I love.

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Speaker 2: My favorite part about Bowlin branch. They donate a portion

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Speaker 2: of every sale to charity to help fight human trafficking,

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Speaker 2: and they have fair prices for all the consumers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and shipping is free and you can try them

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Speaker 4: for thirty nights. So if you don't love them, just

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Speaker 4: send them right back for a refund. But yeah, they're

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Speaker 4: not gonna Yeah, it's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: There's no risk and no reason not to give them

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Speaker 2: a try. To get you started right now, our listeners

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Speaker 2: promo code Becca. As we were talking about Bowlin Branch

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Speaker 2: and my cleanroom, we have a very special guest in

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Speaker 2: studio today, Sabrina soto Hi.

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Speaker 3: I walked into King in a Bed and like, what

626
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Speaker 3: a well, you really.

627
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Speaker 2: Walked into me talking about how I've kept my room

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Speaker 2: clean for two weeks since Tiny came over and helped

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Speaker 2: me clean and organize.

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Speaker 3: But that's what you do. Yeah, that's what I do

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Speaker 3: for a living.

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Speaker 2: I could have used you about you know, six months ago,

633
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Speaker 2: really needed you.

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Speaker 1: So let's try like twenty years ago.

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Speaker 3: Wait, how bad was her space? Like like a hoarder, Yeah,

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00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 3: but not it's it's a hoarder, but it's more like, okay,

637
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Speaker 3: so I get a lot of stuff, restuff.

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00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 1: It's a lazy horder, yeah, lazy well products.

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00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm like, I can't throw that away. Why

640
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,400
Speaker 3: do you have a garage sale or fight your friends

641
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 3: over and give them away? I have.

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Speaker 2: I have an office. It's called the gifting suite, so

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00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: I put everything in there. I'm coming over right, yeah, yeah, literally,

644
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Speaker 2: come over you can.

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Speaker 4: Which is interesting because it doesn't take that much time.

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00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 4: It's maybe fifteen steps from her bedroom the gifting suite,

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Speaker 4: and yet she can't get it from inside her room.

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Speaker 3: Because sometime gifting because sometimes there's products that I get

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, I want this, but I don't really

650
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Speaker 3: have room in my like routine for it. But it's

651
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Speaker 3: really good, so I don't necessarily want to put in

652
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Speaker 3: the gifting suite, so you're keep it in my room.

653
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 3: I hoard my products.

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Speaker 6: She's hoardery and She's very disorganized in that, like there's

655
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Speaker 6: just clothes everywhere, like piles and piles of clothes, and

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Speaker 6: I'm like, put it on a hanger and put it

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Speaker 6: in your closet. I gave up on her, but Tanya didn't.

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Speaker 1: I was like this because I didn't. I didn't. I

659
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Speaker 1: didn't make her do it. I just did it myself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but then she's got to keep it up and

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Speaker 3: I have, Oh you have, so, so this is thank you.

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Speaker 3: I travel a lot, and so I would when I

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Speaker 3: come home normally, I put my suitcase down and I

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Speaker 3: open it, and then it just stays there for like

666
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Speaker 3: a month, and while anything else, like if I'm trying

667
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Speaker 3: on clothes getting ready for an event or going out,

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Speaker 3: if it doesn't work, I just throw it on the

669
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: hearth of the suitcase. So your suitcase is kind of

670
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 3: like your drawer. Yeah, it's like a catch all right.

671
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 2: So then it gets really dark, and then I'm like,

672
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 2: where do I even begin at this point to get

673
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 2: it cleaned up?

674
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I'm having anxiety. I know. It gets dark.

675
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 2: Every ever since Tanya came and helped me, I feel

676
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 2: like clean.

677
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 3: I just feel like writer is better. I have a girlfriend.

678
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna name her, Oh name her, No, I can't,

679
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 3: but I went she's a professional organizer and I went

680
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 3: to her house and it was a mess, like a mess,

681
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: and I helped her clean it and she just feels

682
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: like her whole life has changed.

683
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 6: That's what I wanted to ask you, Sabrina, and to

684
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 6: talk to Beca specially, but all of.

685
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 3: Us is a Is this an intervention?

686
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:25,239
Speaker 6: A little A little bit. I mean the timing of

687
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 6: you coming in was quite perfect. I sent back a

688
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 6: note and I was like, this is heavan sent is

689
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 6: an organized space and a pretty space. And I'm not

690
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 6: saying expensive, but I'm just saying pretty or something you like.

691
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 6: Does that make you happier?

692
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 3: Absolutely? It makes your life easier. Everything has a space,

693
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 3: you know, Like you were saying, you get home from

694
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 3: a trip, you don't want to unpack because you see

695
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 3: chaos everywhere. But if you came home to a super

696
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 3: meticulously organized space, you would be more willing to unpack

697
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 3: and get it done because it just feels better. But

698
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 3: it's getting to that point of having a pretty space

699
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 3: is not easy for a lot of people. Even like again,

700
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Speaker 3: my friend who is a professional her whole, like, just

701
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 3: we all have too much, too much, we have too

702
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 3: much suff.

703
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 2: Your friend is a professional organizer.

704
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, in her house was a mess. This is crazy.

705
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 3: Yeah it was.

706
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 6: But that's like relationships. Those that cannot do teach, that's right.

707
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 6: It's like a lot of times the best advice comes

708
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 6: from the person that can't do it.

709
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: I don't trust those people though, I really don't. Like,

710
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 3: come on, if you can't even do it for yourself,

711
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 3: I'm gonna listen to you. No, no, hey, that is fascinating,

712
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 3: And here we are.

713
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 9: Here I am.

714
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Speaker 6: I think trading spaces shows that it doesn't have to

715
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Speaker 6: be super expensive.

716
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 3: Well, I mean all of my shows that I've done,

717
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 3: even all of my HGTV shows were budget shows. So

718
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 3: I mean my first show, get It Sold, I had

719
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 3: three thousand dollars for the entire house including the backyard

720
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 3: and kurb appeal, So that wasn't a lot. But yeah,

721
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 3: trading space is two thousand dollars for one room and

722
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 3: two days to get it done.

723
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Speaker 6: And what does Becka need to do the most?

724
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 3: I need to come to your house.

725
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 2: I need, I need you to organize my office space. Gifting,

726
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 2: Sweeteney is just a revamp.

727
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna take everything, and that's why I'll organize it.

728
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 3: I'll be like, you can organize take whatever you want.

729
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 4: I think you need is like bins and then like

730
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 4: label each Maybe that's what bins and label each bin.

731
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 3: Like you need to go to the container store everyone,

732
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 3: she says, the container store.

733
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 4: Let's just order it online, get them sent to you

734
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 4: and go about it that way. I think that would

735
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 4: really help, and then.

736
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 3: We can make it a segment on your YouTube. I

737
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 3: would love that. Was watching your makeup tritorial today. Gorgeous

738
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 3: every day. But I know it like I get sent

739
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff too, from home to core companies,

740
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: and it is it's like it's a lot. Sometimes thoughts

741
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 3: is come in. I'm like, what am I gonna do

742
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 3: with one pillow? I When something comes in, I give

743
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 3: it away within a few days. Otherwise it piles up. Wow.

744
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 2: Well that's why I mean. I have my two younger

745
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: sisters live with me, and they they'll still come into

746
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 2: my room and take like something that I like my stuff.

747
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, there was a room full of stuff you

748
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 3: could take.

749
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: I love Becca's gifting suite. I got this back from it.

750
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 9: I like that.

751
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 3: I like the giving.

752
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 2: There's just a lot of good things in there that

753
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: if we got to organize, I could really I could

754
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: do like giveaways. I could do donations. I could do

755
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: like a lot of stuff.

756
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 3: Should do giveaways all the time on Instagram. I know

757
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 3: I need help just getting it there. How far do

758
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: you live from here? I live in Brentwood. Oh so fancy.

759
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 3: I live down the street in Studio City. This is great.

760
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll just like have a nice lunch and organize your.

761
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 3: Perfect If you bring me wine, I'll do it. I'll

762
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 3: bring you wine. You can have anything in the gifting suite.

763
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: It's quite fun.

764
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 4: Like I'm not gonna lie. I literally like it's this

765
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 4: soth gonna sound so sick. Weirdly got like a high

766
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Speaker 4: off of like.

767
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Speaker 1: She was turning her room around.

768
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Speaker 3: Is your house super like organized? Yeah?

769
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 4: Like I have like a space for like my hair

770
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 4: ties and my you know what I mean. Like I

771
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 4: like have all that, and.

772
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 3: I'm like the older I'm getting. I think that I'm

773
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 3: becoming like creepy organized, Like I'm clean.

774
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I go from a trip, my bag's unpacked

775
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 4: within an hour. Stuff's already in the laundry. Like I

776
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 4: like to keep it moving.

777
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 3: Like me, it's like sleeping, sleeping with the enemy. That's

778
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 3: my house. Like I'm starting to face stuff in my refrigerator.

779
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 3: It's not right. So I don't want you to be

780
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 3: me because I think I'm a little overboard. But it's

781
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 3: nice to be.

782
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 6: Are you single married?

783
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 3: Sorry to ask that, but just tell me I am divorced.

784
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 6: But congratulations, thank you. That's when I say to people

785
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 6: now and they're divorced, because it's like they're happy.

786
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 3: About I am divorced. He is happily married with the child.

787
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 3: But I just had a baby two years ago.

788
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

789
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 3: And I've been with the same guy for ten years,

790
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,479
Speaker 3: but we're not married. Do you That was a very

791
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 3: complicated answer.

792
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 6: I loved every second of it. Do you live together?

793
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: Yes, we do.

794
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 6: So tell these ladies about that combining.

795
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: He is he messy or is he like he is

796
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: sleeping with the enemy style?

797
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 3: Now he's become more organized, but he is like he's

798
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 3: one of those people where it looks nice on the outside,

799
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 3: but when you open up his closet, it's a hot mess.

800
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: And that's not good.

801
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 4: You know what's interesting is I have this has crossed

802
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 4: my mind that like I'm getting a little too like

803
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 4: meticulous about things that like I worry that when I

804
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 4: do find somebody the little things he does, like the

805
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 4: little things my boyfriend used to do, like leaving his

806
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 4: shavings and the sink, like it didn't really bother me.

807
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 1: Now I think I would literally like have a pantay.

808
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 2: Wait, I am not even like OCD or anything, and

809
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 2: that would gross me out.

810
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're little hairs. I don't have little hairs. Where

811
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 3: did these little hairs come from?

812
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: But it's not they're little, yeah, but they're all like

813
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: they weren't like all over there.

814
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 3: Although they're like shaving stuff and it's like everywhere on

815
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:29,720
Speaker 3: the sink.

816
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, do it outside.

817
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 5: But no matter what guy you're married, there's going to

818
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 5: be stuff about him that drives you insane.

819
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 2: No question, I'm gonna be very there's gonna be a

820
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 2: lot of things about me that will be annoying.

821
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 3: So I'm fully aware.

822
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 4: Like I don't like when my laundry basket even gets

823
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 4: three fourths full, Like I keep it keep it really low.

824
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 3: Okay, I want to ask you three your top three

825
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 3: tips for those listening who can't who you can't personally

826
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 3: go like, you're gonna come help me. What are three

827
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,240
Speaker 3: tips that you would give for people to stay organized?

828
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 3: To get rid of stuff that you don't use. Really,

829
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 3: if you don't love it, get rid of it. If

830
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 3: you haven't touched it in a year, get rid of it.

831
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 3: And that goes for clothes, it goes for furniture that

832
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 3: might be like a lot of people I find by

833
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 3: sets of furniture and even though that big club chair

834
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 3: doesn't fit, they keep it because it's a set. Like,

835
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,399
Speaker 3: don't feel free to get rid of pieces in a set.

836
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 3: Definitely get rid of stuff and then paint repaint a room.

837
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, Yeah.

838
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 4: One thing that I do when I'm getting rid of

839
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 4: stuff in my closet is i will because a lot

840
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 4: of people have like some sort of attachment issue to

841
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 4: their clothing. So I'll like say one memory I had

842
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 4: in that outfit, and then I'll just put it in

843
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 4: the in the pile.

844
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 3: You have a whole ceremony to get rid of a tap.

845
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 3: It's really hard for me for some reason. You don't

846
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: have kids, do you, No? No? Yeah, So like you'll say.

847
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 4: Like one memory and then I'll put it in the

848
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 4: in the salvation army pile and send it on its

849
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 4: way to make more memories of somebody.

850
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 6: Really now, Also very important for Tanya is Brett Tudor

851
00:35:58,880 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 6: straight and sing?

852
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 3: He is straight?

853
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 6: Oh my god? Where does he live?

854
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 3: He's here now right?

855
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 6: Do you think he would like one of them?

856
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 3: He is awesome? Yes? Look him up right now. Anybody

857
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 3: who's listening, look up Brett Tutor.

858
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 6: And is he the one that drives around in his

859
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 6: like air street stream?

860
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 3: You guys, I may do the author hot, it's t

861
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Speaker 3: U t o R right.

862
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 6: T U t o R. He's everybody listening, look him up?

863
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,840
Speaker 6: So and I knew he's He's going to.

864
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 3: Be at my house next Saturday if you want to

865
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: stop by. I actually tried to set him up with

866
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 3: a friend of mine.

867
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 6: Well do you think you could mention tan back at him?

868
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 3: Absolutely right now?

869
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, just him right now, little hair. As you were mentioning,

870
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 5: we should.

871
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 6: Maybe even call him.

872
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 2: Wait, this is Tanya's this. He kind of looks like

873
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 2: he has a tim tebow.

874
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 3: Look to him, I know a little bit like Brett Eldridge. Wait,

875
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 3: who likes him more? Because I can't.

876
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 5: I was very you.

877
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: Lob it out to him for him to choose.

878
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 6: Well, right, they should both come over. Let's play it

879
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 6: real casual. They both come over.

880
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 3: Is this a dating show I'm having in my house?

881
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,759
Speaker 6: Well just a small one, sure, okay, and then they

882
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 6: come over and we just see.

883
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 3: Who he vibes with. Okay, but ladies, good outfits, good hair.

884
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 3: Do you like him?

885
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

886
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 3: He's cute? Right? Yeah, he's single? Yeah? What is?

887
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 1: He runs around America on a airstream?

888
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 3: He well, his air, No he doesn't, that's not what

889
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 3: he does. He's an actor, musician, carpenter, and he's a survivalist, right,

890
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 3: survivalist something like experts mm a fighter. So that means

891
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 3: he's like I love these things duntman and was a

892
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 3: member of you guys Singles Beyond Me. Oh, you're very kind.

893
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 3: Where do we begin?

894
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: What sign? When's his birthday?

895
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 3: I don't know?

896
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 5: What are you doing?

897
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 3: I love when we do.

898
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: Sodiac is?

899
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 3: I have no idea.

900
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 6: I need to call him.

901
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 3: Can I call him on air? Yeah? Okay, God, I

902
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 3: hope he doesn't wait, but.

903
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 6: He's gonna love it. I saw that guy on TV.

904
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 3: He loved him.

905
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 7: I'm calling him hello.

906
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 3: Oh okay, Hi, Where do we start?

907
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 6: I just start?

908
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,720
Speaker 3: We're I'm on a podcast and there's two lovely, single,

909
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 3: gorgeous ladies here, and they asked me if you were single,

910
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 3: and of course I said, yes, what is going on

911
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 3: with you? Well not, of course, you're right, it is

912
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: a shot, of course they were. Actually it was Hi,

913
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 3: I'm Becca.

914
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: By the way, it was a very exciting moment of

915
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 2: saying is he single?

916
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 3: And she said yes.

917
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 2: It's like a Eureka moment, and that's Tanya.

918
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is sort of like we're going to

919
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 3: do a dating show.

920
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're I just have some a few questions for you,

921
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 2: the first one being what is your sign?

922
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: What's your birthday?

923
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 3: Oh? Sorry, what your birth What your birthday is the

924
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:58,959
Speaker 3: same as what your Is that bad?

925
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 5: The tiny has already made.

926
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 3: To do that?

927
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: Does that mean I could learn that?

928
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 3: I don't know what it means. It means nothing, Brett.

929
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: How we're just we're just you know, he's tall.

930
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 3: How tall are you?

931
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 9: Brett?

932
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

933
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 6: Where were you born?

934
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 7: And raised? H?

935
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 3: Sothern gentlemen.

936
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 6: One food for the rest of your life?

937
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 3: If you could only eat one one food, what would

938
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 3: be really telling to be?

939
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, oh Brett, I'm gonna have to coach

940
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 9: you on these too.

941
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 5: That's I think that's good.

942
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: But he's healthy, he likes the healthy.

943
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's that's good. Yeah, yeah, it's delicious.

944
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:46,240
Speaker 6: You obviously haven't had.

945
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 8: A good one.

946
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should go to the Brentwood Farmer's Market.

947
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 3: I've actually never had an you know what else, I've

948
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 3: never had a doctor pepper, and I know you're a

949
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 3: best I've never had one. I don't even know what

950
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 3: it is.

951
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: Doctor pepper is basically poisoned.

952
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 2: Every friend of maybe except for Tanya there. They've like

953
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 2: started drinking soda again because of me. Wow, They're like,

954
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 2: how do you feel about soda?

955
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 8: I don't have any emotions, so people should I think

956
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 8: doesn't like that?

957
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 2: I know it's I don't know.

958
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 6: How do you feel about cute blondes?

959
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:28,919
Speaker 1: Are you close with your family? I am?

960
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 5: I am?

961
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,360
Speaker 3: Yeah you are? You just posted a picture of you

962
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 3: and your mom and your sister. I think not too

963
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 3: long ago. Yeah.

964
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 6: How old are you?

965
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 9: Brett?

966
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: Oh? Perfect?

967
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 6: Do you want children?

968
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

969
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 6: Okay, this isn't done. Guys, great Brett, I've sold all

970
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 6: your life wrong.

971
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 3: We just surpassed the Bachelor.

972
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 6: Look, Brena can vouch for Tanya and back up. I

973
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 6: was gonna throw both of them at you, but I

974
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 6: think we've selected Tanya. But you can choose. It's totally fine.

975
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 3: I appreciate that, right, I'm so sorry I'm doing this

976
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:11,720
Speaker 3: to you.

977
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 6: Oh it's that he's going to drive that airstream trailer,

978
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 6: your airstream to my house.

979
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 3: I don't even think you could park that at my place.

980
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 7: No, I don't.

981
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 9: I don't want to. I don't ever bring it to Hollywood,

982
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 9: Las time.

983
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 6: I brother to Hollywood.

984
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 8: Stressful, you can't park it. I can't park a bicycle

985
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 8: in Hollywood.

986
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 3: Good, good, true, true. Okay, I'll send you. Do you

987
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 3: like Malibu? Yeah, he's a Malibu. Yeah, he lives in Malibu.

988
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 6: He's in the booth and these girls live in Brentwood.

989
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 6: It's like logistically perfect, Wow, it.

990
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 9: Is, except I'm in an RV park. It's not.

991
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 6: A million dollar r V parks. Fine, So everybody feels great.

992
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,240
Speaker 3: Right, I'll see you next week and I'll text you pictures.

993
00:41:55,280 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: Now, what pa, This is called scrubbing in.

994
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 6: Scrubbing in, So that's Becatilly and you can google her,

995
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 6: and that's Tanya rad and they're both very googleable and

996
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 6: have over one hundred thousand Instagram follow.

997
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 3: Us important things in life. Please don't google me.

998
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 4: I just realized that somebody googled me, and like, the

999
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 4: first thing that popped up was my date that Ryan

1000
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 4: sent me on with that long time.

1001
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: Don't Instagram.

1002
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: Just go to her Instagram.

1003
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 6: You're engaged to Tanya Rad. I won't even her last

1004
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 6: name is Roddy Savievich, but it's fine. She's gonna take

1005
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 6: your name, so it's totally fine.

1006
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:34,240
Speaker 5: Google Tanya Rad you'll find.

1007
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 1: Her, and.

1008
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:45,760
Speaker 6: Please already testing it, and please ignore her terrible text game.

1009
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 6: She's very bad at texting. It's a fay amy stop.

1010
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 6: I'm making this, you're making things not happen. Is an

1011
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,720
Speaker 6: amazing text She's not good. She's good texting, but in person.

1012
00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 6: Ten out of ten.

1013
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 3: Thank you, Brett.

1014
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 9: Well, I'm excited for the Okay, thank you Brett, thank

1015
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 9: you friend.

1016
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 3: Fun. I feel like I'm like promoting Sister Wives, not

1017
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 3: trading spaces. I think I'm promoting the wrong show.

1018
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: Do you know what he usually probably does? What he

1019
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 1: looks like. He has a good body.

1020
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 2: He probably got it from doing Beach Body on demand.

1021
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: I think so too.

1022
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, God, Beach Body on Demand is something that

1023
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 2: we've talked about several times on the show.

1024
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, because they have such a wide variety of effective workouts.

1025
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 4: Because some days you have twenty minutes, some days you

1026
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 4: have an how or some days.

1027
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: You have two hours. Whatever your day allows, there's a

1028
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: workout for you.

1029
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, they had.

1030
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 2: This is a company behind P ninety x, Insanity, twenty

1031
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: one Day Fix, three week yoga Retreat, and so many more.

1032
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: I actually have a friend that just did twenty one

1033
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 1: Day Fix.

1034
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 3: Oh, how'd it go?

1035
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: Really great? I think she's doing another one.

1036
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 3: Great.

1037
00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 2: There's super trainers that a lot of you know know

1038
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 2: like Seawan t Shalne Johnson, Tony Horton, hundreds of effective

1039
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: workouts for all fitness levels.

1040
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 3: Sabrina, what do you do for a workout? I do

1041
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 3: hot yoga?

1042
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 2: Okay, hot yoga is something I have not attempted yet

1043
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 2: because we go to a sauna regularly.

1044
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, we just we just sit there. Does it work? Yeah?

1045
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 2: Well, I mean we sweat a lot, But I'm in

1046
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 2: my head, I'm like, I couldn't do a yoga workout

1047
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 2: while I was And you.

1048
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: Get used to it, and it's also not as hot

1049
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: as we do it.

1050
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 3: Tell me about the sauna thing. Should I be doing it? Yes? Absolutely?

1051
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 4: And if sna is really good for inflammation, do I

1052
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 4: look in flats? No, but your inside might be like

1053
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 4: my insides are.

1054
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 3: Definitely it does.

1055
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: The house is like your internal inflammation.

1056
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 7: Okay.

1057
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 3: You know what I did the other day was cryotherapy.

1058
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 3: Oh I want to do that too. It's ridiculous. Did

1059
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 3: you feel a difference?

1060
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 5: Yes, this is when you walk into a booth and it's.

1061
00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 3: A people How long? Only two and a half minutes?

1062
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1063
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 3: Wow? But is it paint?

1064
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 5: Like?

1065
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 3: Is it bad while you're in there? At the end,

1066
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 3: it starts getting a little painful, like your legs feel

1067
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 3: like they're gonna fall. That you should do it and

1068
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 3: you should instagram live it.

1069
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:12,959
Speaker 1: I want to do it.

1070
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 2: I want to know what how you feel instantly different?

1071
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 3: I had so much energy for like twenty four hours.

1072
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: Oh, we are doing this tomorrow.

1073
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 3: Let's do it. I need energy. Okay, back to beach body.

1074
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1075
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 2: So they do have yoga that you can do from

1076
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 2: your home. The workouts are short as ten minutes, or

1077
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 2: you can go up to an hour or two if

1078
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: you have the time.

1079
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 4: And you can watch them on your computer. Your tablet,

1080
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 4: your smartphone, your Roku, your Apple TV. I mean there's

1081
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 4: really like nowhere you can't watch it.

1082
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1083
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: A bunch of our listeners on the Facebook group.

1084
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 3: Have tried it.

1085
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that have a really great result.

1086
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1087
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 2: I was gonna say we've seen great results just from

1088
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 2: them talking about it. Right now, our listeners can get

1089
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: a special free trial membership. When you text Beca to

1090
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,360
Speaker 2: thirty thirty thirty, you will get full access to the

1091
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 2: entire platform for free. All of the workouts they have,

1092
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 2: nutrition plans. You'll get all of that and the support

1093
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:05,479
Speaker 2: all totally free.

1094
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 3: Again.

1095
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 2: Just text Becca that's b e Cca to thirty thirty

1096
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: thirty and do it now one more time. Text thirty

1097
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 2: thirty thirty.

1098
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 3: And type Becca. Had to really pull that one road.

1099
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was worried.

1100
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 3: How you're going to get that done? I want it?

1101
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 3: Can we do an email with Sabrina?

1102
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 5: Okay, balding boyfriend is a good.

1103
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 3: Oo oh okay, wait for it, wait for it. Hey,

1104
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 3: we got something. Okay, where is that? I used to

1105
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 3: date a guy who was balding, and what he would

1106
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 3: do is he would cut pieces of his hair and

1107
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 3: then sprinkle it on the balding spot. Yeah, he did,

1108
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 3: and I found the bag. It was like he had

1109
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 3: a ziplock baggy of trimmings and he's a sprinkling. No,

1110
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 3: that's true. What did he have glue? He would like

1111
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 3: say and then sprinkle. Did you know other than finding

1112
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 3: the bag? What did you know? I kind of knew.

1113
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 3: It was looked a little weird. It looks like messy.

1114
00:46:59,640 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 7: No it was.

1115
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 3: That's a messy because he had he shaved his head,

1116
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 3: so it was just like weirdly placed hair and then

1117
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 3: forget it. It was weird.

1118
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 2: Okay, well that is something, but Heidi, some of Mark

1119
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 2: do you want to read?

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Speaker 5: I'd be honest the reason I write in and I

1121
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 5: hope you can mention this on the podcast. I have

1122
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 5: a balding and nearly bald boyfriend. I'm twenty six, he's

1123
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 5: twenty four.

1124
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 5: We were college teammates in cross country and trap. We

1126
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 5: have such an undeniable friendship which grew into love. He's

1127
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 5: the example I'd want my future kids to have as

1128
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 5: a father. He's extremely hard working, adventurous and takes care

1129
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 5: of me. The problem, since the age of twenty one,

1130
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,760
Speaker 5: his hair really started to go. It's something I can't

1131
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 5: help but notice, and I see guys with full heads

1132
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 5: of hair, and I think, man, if only, but you

1133
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 5: can't have it all. Eventually, all looks fade and I

1134
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 5: choose the person he has a million times over any

1135
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 5: appearance factor. I almost care more than he does, which

1136
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 5: I think is the issue. I've even told him I

1137
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 5: think he's much cuter with a hat on. What's wrong

1138
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 5: with me?

1139
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 3: Don't say that to him.

1140
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 5: He has no say in this. But when you're in

1141
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 5: your early twenties and have less hair than most fifty

1142
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 5: years out there, it's tough to find him as attractive

1143
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 5: as the guy I started dating five years back. Do

1144
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 5: you know other people who have this problem? When you

1145
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 5: just pull the trigger? When do you just pull the

1146
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 5: trigger and shave it? Also? How do I tell him

1147
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 5: about hurting his feelings that I think it might be

1148
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 5: time to just shave it. I'd never leave him for this,

1149
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 5: and I see us together long term, trying to navigate

1150
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 5: the situation, and I hope others can relate. Look as

1151
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 5: a guy who's losing my hair, it doesn't get any easier.

1152
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 5: I can't even imagine when you're twenty four. I'm in

1153
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 5: a perfectly appropriate age to be losing my hair and

1154
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 5: it sucks. Shave it, so it's saving for him. And

1155
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 5: remember that it sucks for him.

1156
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 3: But you know, plucks are really good these days. Oh

1157
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 3: Like back in the day they look like ants were

1158
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 3: staple to your head, but now they look better, like

1159
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 3: more realistic.

1160
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 5: But I feel like, shouldn't the message be to embrace

1161
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 5: who you are and not have surgery to shave the

1162
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 5: problems that you see.

1163
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:50,720
Speaker 3: No, all of this is fake, all of it. Okay.

1164
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 3: I woke up like this.

1165
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 4: My hours my boyfriend. I was twenty five or we

1166
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 4: were like twenty four, so it was about the same

1167
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 4: he was. We were like twenty three twenty four, and

1168
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 4: he was started losing his.

1169
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 3: Hair where on the back or in the front.

1170
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 4: It started like in the back and it started to

1171
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 4: like maneuver its weight, like he was getting a what's

1172
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 4: it called cul de sac?

1173
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 3: Is that what they're called?

1174
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, And we were young, twenty three twenty four, and

1175
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 4: I would just constantly like I literally thought he was

1176
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 4: hot with or without it, Like I would constantly say,

1177
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,919
Speaker 4: you're so hot, just shave it, like you could pull

1178
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 4: off bald like nobody's business, like you're I just was

1179
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 4: constantly telling him how hot he was.

1180
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:26,839
Speaker 2: I mean, and if you don't want to show, I mean,

1181
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 2: there is the option of hair plugs. I have friends,

1182
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 2: I have guy friends who have done it and it

1183
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: looks amazing.

1184
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I too too. I have friends. But I also

1185
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 3: dated a guy a long time ago in my twenties

1186
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 3: who had the bad hair plugs and I just couldn't

1187
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 3: stop staring at his head.

1188
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, you're all dating a guy and you think

1189
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 6: he's all hot with this full head of hair, and

1190
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 6: then he tells you it's plugs that seen you.

1191
00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 3: Guys, I have extent. I can't. I can't be to

1192
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 3: a judgmental that's not.

1193
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 5: I think that's pretty normal for women to have extensions.

1194
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 2: Oh, I mean that would be a little advice for her.

1195
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 5: What's her advice for her in this situation?

1196
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 3: Sha, shave it, And I say, like build him up.

1197
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me even with or without the hair.

1198
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, because like a confident bald guy is actually super hot.

1199
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: So they've always said they have better penises.

1200
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 6: Well not sorry, they have a stronger sex drive. That's

1201
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 6: a nice bald men. Yeah, you've never heard that.

1202
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 3: Bald men made that up.

1203
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 6: No, that's been around since the eighties.

1204
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 3: The only thing about the guy in twenty four is

1205
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 3: if they have children, is that going to then you know,

1206
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 3: if she has little boy, is he going to be bald?

1207
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 5: Just think about that too, Say it's your mother's father

1208
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 5: and she's.

1209
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 6: My concern for her and you guys should comment is

1210
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 6: that she's concerned about it and it's bothering her. That

1211
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 6: makes me wonder if there's she's not as attracted.

1212
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,839
Speaker 4: To me, No, because like it would bother me how

1213
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 4: much it upset him?

1214
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

1215
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 4: I swear like hand to Bible, I did not think

1216
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 4: anything less. Like I literally was like, you're so hot.

1217
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: You could be hot with or without hair. It never

1218
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 4: bothered me, but I could see how like torn up

1219
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 4: it made him. That it made me feel bad for him,

1220
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 4: and I just wanted to help.

1221
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's where.

1222
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 4: She's coming from, just like wanting to help him because

1223
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 4: she sees how frustrating it is.

1224
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,399
Speaker 3: You know they have like those those caps, you could

1225
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 3: those red light caps too. Maybe she should get in

1226
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 3: one of those for his birthday? Am I giving bad advice?

1227
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:27,759
Speaker 5: I think we want to encourage her to in him

1228
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 5: to be right, and.

1229
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 6: Then this lock bag full of hair trimmings is always

1230
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 6: a backup option.

1231
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, can you imagine finding that? Yes? I can, because

1232
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 3: I did. It's so gross. I hope he's listening right now.

1233
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,280
Speaker 3: What I don't miss you? The opposite.

1234
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 2: Our hashtag normally is hope he's not listening, but you

1235
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 2: said he no, hope he's listening.

1236
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 3: I do. I hope whoever he's dating right now is

1237
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 3: listening to.

1238
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 5: I think also the message is all looks faate if

1239
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 5: you're going to be together forever, that's gonna happen to

1240
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,720
Speaker 5: both of you that you're gonna have to beyond.

1241
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 3: Have you seen her?

1242
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 6: Dare you Mark? I'm gonna look hot forever?

1243
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 5: Okay?

1244
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 3: Yes, it was amazing.

1245
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: My knee started doing something.

1246
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's like their faces on them.

1247
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, when did that happened to?

1248
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 3: Okay, Sabrina, I feel like we've got everywhere. Can you

1249
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 3: tell people what you are doing right now? I am

1250
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,720
Speaker 3: on the reboot of Trading Spaces, which is the best

1251
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,880
Speaker 3: home decourse show ever. That's so and so. My episode

1252
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 3: airs this Saturday on TLC. Yay, yes, and I'll be

1253
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 3: doing I'll be watching live and Brett's gonna come over

1254
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 3: and watch. He's on the show with he's on my episode.

1255
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 3: So oh fun?

1256
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 2: Okay, So wait, TLC Saturday.

1257
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 3: Trading Space is Saturday eight o'clock. Unless you have direct TV,

1258
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 3: then it's complicated. You see your local listings, yes, check

1259
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 3: your local listings. Are you gonna do some cooking for

1260
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 3: me when you come over? And I love to cook?

1261
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 3: Band of wine. I know I'm reading all about you

1262
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 3: right now, you've been cooking. I love Cuban food, So

1263
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 3: I'll cook. I'll cook, and I'll organize. Just make sure

1264
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 3: you have a bottle? How many? How many bottles? Crazy?

1265
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 3: I don't care anything with a quirk? There we go

1266
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 3: like this girl, No twist off? Okay, no box or

1267
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 3: no box please?

1268
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being here. So much fun.

1269
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 2: I know we went all over the place, but.

1270
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 3: Very non sequitor. I love it.

1271
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm so excited about Tanya and Brett. It's gonna be

1272
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 2: a mat I know they're so cute.

1273
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 4: Tutor, Tutor, I literally know nothing about him other than

1274
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 4: the fact he's a libro.

1275
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna let that go for right now.

1276
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 3: You're with a bald guy forever and you let that go.

1277
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 3: But you're not gonna let a libra go.

1278
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,760
Speaker 2: She's she's like been acting like she's super into Horoscope slately,

1279
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 2: so we just let her do her.

1280
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:54,760
Speaker 6: We let her do.

1281
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 3: All right.

1282
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you so much for being Saturday, don't forget Yeah,

1283
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 2: Saturday TLC eight o'clock. Yes, trading spaces.

1284
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you so much.

1285
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 3: Perfect, thank you for being here.

1286
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: She's so cute, so cute.

1287
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 3: That was so fun.

1288
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 2: I love like just a girl's girl, come in here,

1289
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 2: have chat about anything and it works.

1290
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 3: You know.

1291
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: I love a girls girl.

1292
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's speaking of girls, girl, let's talk about Fat

1293
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:20,839
Speaker 2: Fit Fun.

1294
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: Okay.

1295
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 2: I have seen a lot of girls on the Facebook

1296
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,879
Speaker 2: group talking about ordering fat Fit Fun boxes and being

1297
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 2: like how are they and everyone's commenting being like it's great.

1298
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,280
Speaker 2: So I'm glad everyone's getting excited about.

1299
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,919
Speaker 5: Gabriye, Elizabeth, you got a bonus at work fat Fit

1300
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 5: Fun annual subscription.

1301
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 3: I look at that. Great spend for your bonus.

1302
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's like you just get a present every

1303
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 4: couple of months and.

1304
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 3: It just shows up and you kind of forget about

1305
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 3: it and then it's there and it's like, wow, yeah,

1306
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 3: treat yourself.

1307
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,360
Speaker 1: Look at all these little things I get to like explore. Yeah.

1308
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 2: So It's time for the rest of you to get

1309
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 2: on board. The spring Fat Fit Fun Box is available now.

1310
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 2: Hurry before it sells out. Fatfit Fun is a season

1311
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 2: subscription box. We talk about it. You get it four

1312
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 2: times a year. It's It retails at forty nine to

1313
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,760
Speaker 2: ninety nine but has a value of over two hundred dollars.

1314
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 2: Some of the contents in the spring box. We have

1315
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 2: the Andersen Lily candle, which I want to say my room,

1316
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 2: My room always smells good.

1317
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 3: I think it's just a nice perfume.

1318
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:21,760
Speaker 1: You never have an odor that's bad.

1319
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 3: That's great. Even when it's messy, my room still smells nice.

1320
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 5: It's such a nice You never have an odor that's.

1321
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 2: Bad yeacause, yeah, my room, even with if it's messy

1322
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: and there's clothes everywhere.

1323
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 3: It's smells delightful.

1324
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1325
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 2: But since it's been clean, I light a candle and

1326
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 2: it has like an ambiance to it.

1327
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:40,240
Speaker 3: I love a good candle.

1328
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:40,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. Same.

1329
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 2: There's the free people buy Understated leather eye masks.

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Speaker 5: Did you guys see the thing about Kendall Jenner and

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Speaker 5: Casey musk Graves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure did Well did you see.

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Speaker 3: The girl in our group?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Oh yeah, she was the

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Speaker 5: girl that started the whole thing. She lit the fuse

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Speaker 5: on that.

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Speaker 2: I'm my biggest fear is having a like tweeting a

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Speaker 2: celebrity and then like dragging me. I mean, I don't

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00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 2: think she didn't get dragged. She was like very just

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Speaker 2: like oh, that's not what happened. Kendall wasn't like rude,

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00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 2: but like me tweeting, not that I would ever, but

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Speaker 2: tweeting something bad to Chrissy Teagan and then.

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Speaker 1: Her just like taking your tweet, twighting it, and.

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Speaker 3: Then everyone comes after me. So scary.

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Speaker 5: So the story goes that Kendall Jenner posted a picture

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Speaker 5: of her on New York City roof tap and in

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Speaker 5: the background was a billboard for Casey Musgraves. It looks

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00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 5: like it was blurred out. Yes, so our girl, Hannah tweeted,

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Speaker 5: is something line the lines of check this out. You

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00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 5: blurred way to blur whatever she said, you blurred out

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Speaker 5: Casey Musgraves.

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Speaker 1: It really does look blurred.

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Speaker 5: It does. Here, Let's get her on the line.

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Speaker 2: Because she said she didn't post the photo. Someone else

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Speaker 2: posted and blurred.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It was weird.

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Speaker 2: Hannah, Hi, Hi, Hannah, Hi, Tania Mark Easton, how are

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Speaker 2: you guys?

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Speaker 3: Good? How are you?

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Speaker 7: I'm great, Thank you so much for calling. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: No, we're so excited to talk to you. This is

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Speaker 3: so funny.

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Speaker 2: I was just saying, my my nightmare is tweeting a

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Speaker 2: celebrity and then.

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Speaker 3: Then retweeting me.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: The fans come after.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. It was it was like, first of all, I

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00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 7: don't even follow Kendall, so I was not expecting anything

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00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 7: like that. It was within fifteen minutes. I was like,

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Speaker 7: what did I just do?

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Speaker 5: What did you do?

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00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 7: What?

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00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 5: Was the initial tweet that you put out.

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh. Okay, So I looked at Casey Musgrave's

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00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 7: Insta story and she had posted the picture and then

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00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 7: she zoomed in on the I guess blurt out part.

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Speaker 7: You guys know the situation, right, yeah, yeah, the picture. Okay.

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Speaker 7: So so anyways, I just, you know, dramatically, took a

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Speaker 7: screenshot of the picture and tweeted that I just what

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Speaker 7: did I even say?

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Speaker 5: I over here the fact that Kendle Jenner blurred out

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Speaker 5: Casey Muskraves in the background, I'm done.

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Speaker 7: I'm done. Yeah, you know, like melodramatically. So anyways, that

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00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 7: was in like fifteen minutes. I got a retweet a

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Speaker 7: notification and I was like, oh my god, what is

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00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 7: that like a fake shout or yeah, So anyways, it

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00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 7: was all downhill from there.

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00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 5: But like like major news services posted yes a story.

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Speaker 7: Everywhere, Oh my god, I know, within like an hour.

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Speaker 7: And I had a friend who was like oddly featured

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00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 7: on Buzzy one time, so she was like consoling me

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00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 7: through the whole thing, was like, yeah, bus people have

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00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 7: it within two hours and I'm like, there's no way.

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Speaker 7: And then I realized I'm like, well, it's Kendall Dinner.

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00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 7: So she's like twenty seven million followers or something. So

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Speaker 7: I was like, oh my god, I'm screwed. Wow, oh

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00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 7: my god. Yeah. So anyways, I just wasn't expecting that,

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Speaker 7: and thankfully, like the earlier articles like didn't really put

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Speaker 7: my name or my old tweet on there, but then

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Speaker 7: the ones that I saw later were like my name,

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Speaker 7: my picture, everything's lastered everywhere.

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Speaker 3: Are you are people still saying stuff today?

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Speaker 7: Oh, like still commenting on the tweet and stuff?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I'm getting a lot of I've never had

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Speaker 7: haters before, so welcome.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I will give you credit though, because I have really

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Speaker 4: looked closely at this photo and the billboard is.

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Speaker 3: Blurred, clearly ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is blurred. No, I don't understand how anyone's

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Speaker 1: saying it's not blurred.

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Speaker 7: I know. I think, well a lot of people are

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Speaker 7: saying like, well, of course I have to do that

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Speaker 7: because no free ads, which obviously I understand that, but

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Speaker 7: my point was like crop it out or something like that.

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Speaker 7: So obvious. So anyways, but.

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Speaker 3: I agree, like, I'm sorry, sorry, they probably are weird

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Speaker 3: about like no free I'm sure christ Jenner's not letting anything.

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Speaker 3: The advertised some money.

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Speaker 1: Photo, like what are you advertising the sky?

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Speaker 2: Like what I'm saying is clearly this isn't me in

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01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 2: her album. She should have done like just colored it

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Speaker 2: black or something exactly exactly.

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Speaker 7: And another thing I thought was funny was well, first

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Speaker 7: of all, just Kendall's full tweet back at me, how

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Speaker 7: she was like I was working all day, and which

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't mean to like mock her, but

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Speaker 7: I'm sure she was working all day. But I just

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01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 7: I guess I was stupid and assume she edited it.

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01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 7: Of course she doesn't edit her own photos, you know,

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Speaker 7: So yeah, I kind of had my an edit edited tweet.

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01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 7: After that, I was like, I should have said this,

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01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 7: because now I'm getting like people thinking I was that

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Speaker 7: serious about this.

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Speaker 5: Kendall said, Yo, I was working all day and didn't

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Speaker 5: edit this photo. Casey is literally my fing fave Space cowboy.

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01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 5: I miss you. Keep it to yourself, follow your arrow Bangers.

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01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 5: Ask any one of my homies. I die for her.

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Speaker 7: I loved it, she said, yo and homies in the

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01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 7: same tweet. That was my favorite part.

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Speaker 5: Wow, have you gotten a ton more followers out of this?

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01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:17,440
Speaker 7: Uh? No, not really. I was like, it's just not

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01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 7: I'm not mad about that. It would be kind of weird. Followers,

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01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 7: and I had a lot of people like congratulations, and

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01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 7: I'm like, this is my this is my fifteen minutes congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Congratulations as you responded.

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01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: And you like semi caused a like semi feud.

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01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 7: Yes, I know. Oh my gosh, Hollywood.

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01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks to Hannah.

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Speaker 7: That's the first thing I said. I'm like, do Kendall's

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01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 7: dinner and I have beef?

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01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 3: Now that's so good. Well, thanks for taking the time

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01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 3: to talk to us about it.

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01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, thanks for this is like the most random thing ever.

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01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 7: I just I just took to the Facebook group and

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01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 7: I was like, guys, what did I just do? I

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01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 7: was not expecting everyone to freak out as much as

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Speaker 7: I did. But I'm really excited about that.

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01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 3: Well, you know, we're all the Facebook group is all there.

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01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 3: We're there for each other.

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01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, tiny, exactly, exactly, the good.

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01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 4: Times and the bad times, through the up and the down,

1477
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 4: the highs and the lows, the.

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Speaker 3: Rounds and the squares. There you have it, all right,

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Speaker 3: We'll have a good day, all right you guys. Bye?

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Speaker 3: All right.

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01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 5: Here are the emails I tell you want us to

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Speaker 5: get to you. Last week, we can't get to apologies.

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Speaker 5: This is from Devon. I'm twenty three years old. I've

1484
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 5: been singled my whole life, and I have always struggled

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01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 5: with body image. Growing up. I was always told that

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01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,440
Speaker 5: boys would only like me if I was skinny and

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01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 5: dressed pretty. Me being the stubborn person I am set

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01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 5: out to prove everyone wrong by not caring about my

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01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 5: body in the slightest. Recently, I've started going to the gym,

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01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:45,480
Speaker 5: not for anyone else, but to have a better lifestyle

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01:02:45,520 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 5: for myself. But it's really gotten me thinking about if

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Speaker 5: the things that were instilled in me since I was

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01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 5: a kid are actually true? Do guys really only care

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01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 5: about what type of body you have? Also, i just

1495
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 5: want to say that I love this podcast so much

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01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 5: and I'm so thankful it exists. Becca, you have been

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01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 5: one of my role models since you were in the

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01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 5: first season with The Bachelor. I also love the friendship

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01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 5: between you two. It just makes me heart happy and

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Speaker 5: also makes me laugh out loud most of the time.

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Speaker 5: That is very kind.

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01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 2: That was very Devon, so sweet. I want to There's

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01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,680
Speaker 2: this girl on Instagram that I follow her name's Jenna Kutcher,

1504
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 2: and she posted a photo that kind of went viral

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01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 2: with her husband and he is literally like washboard abs,

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01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 2: like fit, super fit, and then she is just like

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01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:31,800
Speaker 2: a I don't even know an average sized girl and

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01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 2: she's beautiful, and she posted a photo in their bikinis

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01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 2: and it went viral because they said, I don't even

1510
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 2: remember what the type the headlines were.

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01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 3: Do you remember?

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01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 6: It was something where people were once again shaming, saying

1513
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 6: she wasn't hot enough for him.

1514
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:48,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, saying that is too hot for her, that type

1515
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 2: of thing, and so she has taken on. So then

1516
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 2: of course people came to her defense, and so they

1517
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 2: called him mister six pack, and they basically said that

1518
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:02,640
Speaker 2: he was too hot for her. Right, And so she

1519
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 2: obviously went viral and people were angry that that was

1520
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 2: even a headline and that it was even a thing.

1521
01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 2: But she is all about self love on her page

1522
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 2: now and posts real photos of herself and she's beautiful

1523
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 2: and has like everything she posts, I'm like, wow, she's

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01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 2: just you know, it almost makes you mad that that

1525
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 2: was even something that she had to.

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01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 3: Read about herself.

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01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, However, I think it has given her a platform

1528
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 2: to reach out to so many people who might have

1529
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:32,680
Speaker 2: felt the same way.

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Speaker 4: I think that it's like, I don't think guys are

1531
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 4: attracted to skinny women are necessarily like a certain type

1532
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 4: of body. But I think that there's something with your mentality.

1533
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:49,280
Speaker 4: And if you're not comfortable at the weight you are

1534
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 4: at right now, you're going to project that.

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01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

1536
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 4: So it's your projection of the way that you feel

1537
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 4: about yourself. It's not necessarily the number on the scale.

1538
01:04:57,720 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 4: And I learned a lot about this when I went

1539
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 4: through this program with Teddy, to be honest, because I

1540
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 4: never felt like I was overweight, but I was never

1541
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 4: comfortable in my body at the weight that I was.

1542
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:11,960
Speaker 4: So when I went through this program, I noticed a

1543
01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 4: shift in the way that I dealt with men, Like

1544
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 4: I would never like I was never the girl that

1545
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 4: would go out and like have like that would never

1546
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 4: have a guy just like approached me at a bar.

1547
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 4: Does that make sense? Like I would be the one that, like,

1548
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 4: you know, did something funny or like went up to

1549
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 4: the guy or something. And like, I was noticing that

1550
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 4: that change happening as I started feeling better about myself,

1551
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 4: and it wasn't necessarily about the number on the scale.

1552
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 4: But it was like almost like I felt like I

1553
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 4: was in control of like my body and I was

1554
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 4: feeling better. And so I think if you're like, it's

1555
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 4: not necessarily your weight, Devin. Is what I'm trying to

1556
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 4: say is if you don't feel comfortable at this weight,

1557
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 4: you're going to project that and you're not going to

1558
01:05:49,560 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 4: attract the men that you want to attract. If you

1559
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 4: feel good about yourself and you don't want to lose

1560
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 4: weight and you like the where you're at, then be

1561
01:05:57,040 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 4: confident in that and and really feel good about the

1562
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 4: position and the spot that you're in your life, and

1563
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 4: that will shine through. I swear it's like such a

1564
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 4: mental game.

1565
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: It's not on the scale.

1566
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 3: I agree.

1567
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 2: I mean, I like, genuinely, I think even by all

1568
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 2: standards of what size is, I am a small person

1569
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,680
Speaker 2: genetically like that's even I eat terrible or whatever. But

1570
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 2: there I know that I there are times where I'm

1571
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 2: bigger than I want to be, and it's more like

1572
01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 2: I don't feel good because I know I can be

1573
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 2: better if I put an effort or tried, and I

1574
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 2: don't feel as confident. But I also think that It's

1575
01:06:35,680 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 2: so much more of how you think of yourself internally,

1576
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 2: I guess, and how you feel like are you doing

1577
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 2: the best that you can?

1578
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 5: Like?

1579
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 3: Are you are you being the best that you can be?

1580
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 3: I think that's kind of where I was at when

1581
01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 3: I like lost my mojo for a sec.

1582
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like totally lost it because I just wasn't

1583
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 2: feeling good about myself. Like I didn't feel like I

1584
01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 2: could walk into a room and approach a guy, you know,

1585
01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 2: or be approached or Yeah.

1586
01:06:59,200 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 3: It was like.

1587
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 2: Totally a mental thing because I'm sure on the outside

1588
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 2: everyone's like what, like why, Like like I would post

1589
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 2: a picture and people would be like you, surely you

1590
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 2: have your mojo back, and like it's not about that,

1591
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 2: It's about like how I'm feeling mentally.

1592
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is something we deal with at home because

1593
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 5: I'm raising daughters, and you don't want daughters worrying about

1594
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 5: their weight and being as skinny as possible. But they're

1595
01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 5: going to get a lot of that because they're just

1596
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 5: at school and that's how people talk and blah blah

1597
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 5: blah blah blah, and so we're very very aware of that.

1598
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:27,640
Speaker 5: We never want to talk about somebody losing weight or

1599
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 5: talking about any of that sort of thing. So you

1600
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 5: my wife never would say like, oh I got to

1601
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 5: lose weight. She would never say that around the kids

1602
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 5: because you don't want that mentality getting into their head.

1603
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 5: So I think the message for my daughters is the

1604
01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 5: same as the message for Devin. You want to be

1605
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 5: as healthy as you can be. You want to be

1606
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 5: the best you you can be, and you want to

1607
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 5: be so super confident in yourself, and then there's going

1608
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 5: to be someone out there for you because that confidence

1609
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 5: is attractive, and guys like, oh manner of different people.

1610
01:07:51,320 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 5: There's there's no shape or size that is only attractive to.

1611
01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 1: Man's pie is another man very exactly right.

1612
01:07:58,840 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, she is like.

1613
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 4: Some guys like a big butt, some guys like some

1614
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 4: guys like no butt, some guys like big thighs something.

1615
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, totallybody Like.

1616
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 3: The movie I Feel Pretty with Amy Schumer, you know,

1617
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 3: the new one that just came out.

1618
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, why did you look at me like.

1619
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 3: You'd never heard of it? Like it wasn't relatable?

1620
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:18,719
Speaker 1: Because why does it have to do with this?

1621
01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 2: Because she she is like having this moment and then

1622
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,839
Speaker 2: she becomes where she's like super confident and the Michelle

1623
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 2: Williams brother or whatever is like interested in her. It's like,

1624
01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 2: I'm not, I'm like, did I watch a different Yeah,

1625
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 2: it's her confidence that nothing about her physical appearance change.

1626
01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 3: It was like her confidence that change. Why are you

1627
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 3: get it?

1628
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:46,560
Speaker 6: But haven't you guys ever taught your like haircut or

1629
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 6: you get like a rat outfit and it totally changes

1630
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 6: your whole attitude and suddenly like it's the same thing

1631
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 6: that when you like someone, people start picking up on

1632
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:58,719
Speaker 6: you because you're like, you're so hot this hot dude

1633
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 6: likes me, and then everybody like you and you're like,

1634
01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:01,840
Speaker 6: I've done for you.

1635
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: I haven't actually thinking about changing my hair.

1636
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 5: I brought it to an abrupt halt to what.

1637
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 4: I don't know, just like my hair has been like

1638
01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 4: blonde and long forever it has.

1639
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:15,920
Speaker 5: Since I've known you. Yeah, so what are you thinking?

1640
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:16,759
Speaker 5: Short and brown?

1641
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:21,120
Speaker 6: If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

1642
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:23,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I was thinking maybe some like some

1643
01:09:23,720 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 4: like red or like strawberry blonde.

1644
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 3: No, did we know? Did we wrap up what we

1645
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:29,559
Speaker 3: said to Devin?

1646
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 5: I think okay, yeah, okay, this is from Meghan. I

1647
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:35,120
Speaker 5: love the podcast and I've loved Becca ever since The Bachelor,

1648
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 5: and I love Tanya just as much and I think

1649
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 5: I am her. I've recently been really worried about relationship

1650
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 5: with my best friend. We're both twenty in college but

1651
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 5: about three hours apart. I've always been the more needy friend,

1652
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 5: and she understands that. I just feel like recently I've

1653
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 5: been putting in a lot of extra effort to reach

1654
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:52,559
Speaker 5: out to her and stay connected, and she hasn't been

1655
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:55,640
Speaker 5: reciprocating that back. I don't know if school is just

1656
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 5: really keeping her busy right now, if there's something wrong.

1657
01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 5: We haven't seen each other in two months. We faced

1658
01:09:59,840 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 5: time the only day, but only for fifteen minutes with

1659
01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 5: our other best friend, and it just didn't seem the same.

1660
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 5: Is this normal or is something wrong? Please help love

1661
01:10:08,160 --> 01:10:10,320
Speaker 5: you guys so much. You both are an inspiration and

1662
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 5: light in my life. Megan.

1663
01:10:12,760 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 4: I think there's seasons to life, and there's seasons to

1664
01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 4: relationships and seasons to friendships. And I think that like

1665
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:21,919
Speaker 4: for me, my best friends that I had in college,

1666
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 4: they're all married and having children, and they're in a

1667
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 4: different phase of life than I'm in right now, and

1668
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 4: so I used to talk to them every single day

1669
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:31,439
Speaker 4: and I don't talk to them every single day anymore,

1670
01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 4: but they're just as important to me and my life

1671
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 4: as they were when we were twenty and nineteen. But

1672
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,759
Speaker 4: our relationship is just so different now, you know, because

1673
01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 4: we're in different phases of our lives. And I think

1674
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:44,040
Speaker 4: that's just kind of that's what happens. And I think

1675
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 4: that you know, it's okay because you'll all come there's

1676
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 4: still gonna be your life and you're going to come

1677
01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 4: back together.

1678
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 1: But it ebbs and.

1679
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 5: Flows, Relationships evolve, evolve, and.

1680
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 4: I think that's what's happening, and you just kind of

1681
01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:58,599
Speaker 4: have to move with it, you know, like the fact

1682
01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 4: that this is happening, Like it's okay. She's still going

1683
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:03,320
Speaker 4: to be in your life, like I guarantee you, but

1684
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 4: your relationship is gonna shift a little bit, and that's fine.

1685
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,720
Speaker 5: It's like any relationship. If you're not getting back what

1686
01:11:07,760 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 5: you're putting into it, it's an issue and it may

1687
01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 5: be time to move on, and that's okay, right. Not

1688
01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 5: every friendship is for life, and maybe this will be right,

1689
01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:17,639
Speaker 5: maybe it won't. We'll find out.

1690
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:21,360
Speaker 2: Right, it's hard, I think you you, especially when one

1691
01:11:21,400 --> 01:11:26,920
Speaker 2: person's like grieving it more I think it obviously is harder,

1692
01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:30,799
Speaker 2: but I think you there's I've learned, Like I almost

1693
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:33,360
Speaker 2: feel like the most the more recent years of my life,

1694
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 2: it's been more there's a time and as we're all

1695
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,280
Speaker 2: growing and moving, some people are coming in and then

1696
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 2: some people they're there for that season you like needed them,

1697
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:46,760
Speaker 2: and then they move on and you move on and

1698
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 2: it's nothing.

1699
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:50,640
Speaker 4: I remember when you started dating Robert seriously and I

1700
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 4: was like, oh, so, like she's not gonna like have

1701
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,720
Speaker 4: as much time for me. And it's true because you

1702
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 4: do go through that, you know what I mean, Like

1703
01:11:57,920 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 4: when one person gets a relationship, like they spend a

1704
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:01,559
Speaker 4: lot out of their time with their significant other, and

1705
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 4: it's like something that I had it was like more

1706
01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 4: about me than her, you know what I mean.

1707
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:07,920
Speaker 6: She still like that though, because I no, she wasn't,

1708
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 6: but I.

1709
01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:10,599
Speaker 4: Still like it was like something I had to come

1710
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:12,080
Speaker 4: to terms with in my in my head, I was like,

1711
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 4: that's okay, you know what I mean, She's not gonna

1712
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 4: be get my back and call whenever.

1713
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 2: I Fortunately for Robert, he felt more like I gave

1714
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 2: more of my time to my friend.

1715
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, listen, I'm being pulled in.

1716
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 2: A bunch of different directions here, so you didn't have.

1717
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:30,559
Speaker 3: To worry about that, all right.

1718
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:33,000
Speaker 5: Mackenzie and North Carolina has a dilemma. She says, my

1719
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,799
Speaker 5: best friend since fourth grade went through a pretty bad breakup.

1720
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 5: I've tried to console her and give her uplifting advice,

1721
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 5: but while doing this, she said some very mean and

1722
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:43,240
Speaker 5: hurtful things about my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend

1723
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:45,920
Speaker 5: eight years. We're high school sweethearts. My best friend said

1724
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 5: things about how we would not be good parents for

1725
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 5: our future children and so forth. I just don't know

1726
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 5: what to do. She's my oldest friend and I is

1727
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 5: talking with her, but it hurts me to think she

1728
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:56,800
Speaker 5: feels that way about me any advice. We're both twenty five.

1729
01:12:57,240 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 3: Why does she think they'll be bad? They're not good?

1730
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:02,040
Speaker 1: I think that's to HERT is projecting.

1731
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 5: Yes, I think she's jealous because now her thing fell

1732
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:08,720
Speaker 5: apart and Mackenzie's things seems perfect. Another thing I keep

1733
01:13:08,760 --> 01:13:10,519
Speaker 5: bringing my daughter's back. Another thing we teach them is

1734
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 5: when people are mad, they see things they don't mean.

1735
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:16,200
Speaker 3: Hurt people hurt people hurt. Yeah, yeah, so good.

1736
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's her situation right now. I think I think,

1737
01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:21,719
Speaker 5: I mean, there may be something there that she feels

1738
01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 5: that way, but I think you got to look past it.

1739
01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 4: But I think honestly, communication and transparency are like the

1740
01:13:27,320 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 4: biggest things in relationships, romantic or friendships or family, Like

1741
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 4: you need to be if it's hurting your feelings. I

1742
01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,240
Speaker 4: know she's going through a breakup and she's dealing with

1743
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 4: a lot right now, but you need to tell her

1744
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 4: that it's hurting her feelings because otherwise it's just going.

1745
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 5: To keep body fine. And I think if you do,

1746
01:13:42,960 --> 01:13:43,920
Speaker 5: she'll apologize.

1747
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: I think so too.

1748
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:47,000
Speaker 2: Tani tells me a lot of times if I'm hurting

1749
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 2: her feelings, which hasn't happen a lot because I answer

1750
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:50,560
Speaker 2: every FaceTime.

1751
01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:51,479
Speaker 1: Call, yeah even really good.

1752
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 4: But if if she does do something that like unintentionally

1753
01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 4: hurts my feelings, I will tell her and she'll be like,

1754
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,719
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, like I didn't mean that or whatever,

1755
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 4: but I'm getting it off my chest so that way,

1756
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:05,520
Speaker 4: not like fester. It's not festering. Wellthy yeah, yeah.

1757
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 3: Don't let it fester.

1758
01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 2: Tell her that you're hurt and that you're trying to

1759
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:11,599
Speaker 2: be there for her and talk it out, because this

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01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:13,280
Speaker 2: isn't worth losing your friendship over.

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01:14:13,479 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 5: This is good. We're rabid firing these This is Caroline.

1762
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 5: She's a senior in college and taking a victory lap

1763
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,599
Speaker 5: and not graduating un till December. I don't really understand that, but.

1764
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:23,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally, that's everybody had to take.

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01:14:23,600 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 5: An extra semester. Just yeah. This semester, I was in

1766
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 5: a chem class and I crushed hard on my lab TA.

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01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 5: Usually ta's are graduate students. Yeah, but he's still in

1768
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 5: his undergrad and as a senior as well. He's so nice,

1769
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 5: really cute, one of the smartest people I've ever met.

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01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 5: We've had a couple of good conversations in the class.

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01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:40,200
Speaker 5: I saw I'm downtown one night, but we just said hi.

1772
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:42,840
Speaker 5: The semester rented Friday, so he's not officially in my

1773
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 5: TA anymore. I rarely crush on people. This is the

1774
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 5: first guy in a long time I've felt interested in.

1775
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:49,599
Speaker 5: I don't know what to do now is it worth trying?

1776
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:51,640
Speaker 5: And if it is, how do I drop the handkerchief?

1777
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:53,640
Speaker 5: What's my next move? I love all of you in

1778
01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 5: this podcast so much. I couldn't get through my week

1779
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 5: without it. Thank you, Caroline.

1780
01:14:57,760 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 1: Sliding to the DM.

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01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 6: You think, so I go for it, totally go for it.

1782
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:04,880
Speaker 4: It was on my bucket list in college to get

1783
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 4: with the TA. TA isn't a teacher too, By the way,

1784
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:09,120
Speaker 4: it's like you never know unless you try.

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01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I said, Caroline, shoot your shot, and I think

1786
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:11,839
Speaker 5: DMS maybe.

1787
01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 9: Is the way to go.

1788
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: You can you can never.

1789
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 3: Oh, no, here it comes. What is it going to be?

1790
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 3: You can never? That was the start.

1791
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 1: You can never walk unless you crawl first.

1792
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:26,599
Speaker 5: Okay.

1793
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 1: I had to think about it because I was gonna

1794
01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: say shoot your foot.

1795
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, go for it.

1796
01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the DM is the way to go.

1797
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: Don't you think, is it?

1798
01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1799
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 5: I guess what other options do you have at this point?

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01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 5: If he's not in your life. You can't just hope

1801
01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 5: to run into him somewhere.

1802
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:46,080
Speaker 3: You couldn't just old school it, like, well, no she

1803
01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:47,920
Speaker 3: runs into him. Say go up, And.

1804
01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 1: Where do you run into a TA?

1805
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:50,080
Speaker 2: Like?

1806
01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 6: I never ran into my ta's Starbucks, like on campus anywhere.

1807
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 5: Never.

1808
01:15:54,360 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 1: That's just like leaving it to fate. I say, yeah,

1809
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:58,320
Speaker 1: I go get him, Yeah, Tiger.

1810
01:15:58,120 --> 01:15:59,599
Speaker 3: Go get your man. Girl.

1811
01:16:00,560 --> 01:16:03,600
Speaker 6: Should she d m him her photos or whatever that

1812
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:08,400
Speaker 6: is that you say? Oh, that's on your phone. Did

1813
01:16:08,439 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 6: she say, are you the TA that's been texting me?

1814
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 3: Oh?

1815
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, yah, wait yeah.

1816
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:13,960
Speaker 3: Oh right.

1817
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: You could be like, wait, did we match on Bumble.

1818
01:16:21,200 --> 01:16:21,599
Speaker 8: Not mad?

1819
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 1: Actually?

1820
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:27,639
Speaker 5: Oh man, oh before we go I put something together.

1821
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:29,320
Speaker 1: Oh I saw that, and I actually quite like.

1822
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,840
Speaker 5: Somebody on Facebook ask the question what do you do

1823
01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:35,479
Speaker 5: while you're listening to Scrubbing In? And so people respond.

1824
01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:38,320
Speaker 5: So I wanted to give a shout out to Elna Bombwaald,

1825
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,479
Speaker 5: who is right now cleaning mats at the Yoga Yoga studio.

1826
01:16:42,400 --> 01:16:44,840
Speaker 5: Shout out to Amanda Foldy, who is currently walking her

1827
01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:48,640
Speaker 5: dogs as she listens to us. Kristin Lewis is on

1828
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:50,479
Speaker 5: her way to visit her fiance. He lives an hour away.

1829
01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:52,280
Speaker 5: She drives it every week and right now she's listening

1830
01:16:52,320 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 5: to our show while she does that.

1831
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:53,720
Speaker 1: I love that.

1832
01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 5: Heidi Lawton Herbert, She's on her morning Runner. She's smiling,

1833
01:16:57,080 --> 01:16:58,920
Speaker 5: which makes the other runners think she's flirting with them.

1834
01:16:58,960 --> 01:16:59,360
Speaker 8: But she's just.

1835
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 4: Smiling because I need to listen to podcasts when I run.

1836
01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 4: That might actually be a game changer.

1837
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:07,880
Speaker 5: Townly Neil, I love the name Townly, by the way,

1838
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:13,080
Speaker 5: that is such a great She's in the shower right now, townly, Yeah,

1839
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:16,600
Speaker 5: scrubb don't forget to condition scrubbing. And to all of

1840
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:19,639
Speaker 5: you driving right now, Kaylie, Jennifer, Cassie, Britney, so many

1841
01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 5: more say listen while driving, thank you so much for scrubbing.

1842
01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 3: That was so fun.

1843
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 7: I have went really quick.

1844
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 3: I want to share. I got hit up by Emily

1845
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:31,720
Speaker 3: Elizabeth Dufo over the weekend and she said sometimes she

1846
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 3: puts her scrubs on to listen.

1847
01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:34,759
Speaker 5: Oh, it was very delightful.

1848
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:38,719
Speaker 4: Oh, by the way, before we say goodbye, I actually

1849
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:41,760
Speaker 4: scrubbed in this week. Oh yeah, So Sistney had her

1850
01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,160
Speaker 4: twins and I went in. I went to the nick

1851
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 4: you to see Maxon and they had they made me

1852
01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 4: scrub in for one full minute. They have like a

1853
01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:52,240
Speaker 4: countdown clock, and I scrubbed my hands with hot water

1854
01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 4: and you have to do it the whole minute long.

1855
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 4: And they even have little toothpicks for my nails underneath

1856
01:17:56,960 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 4: my nails. So I really got the full scrubbing inexperience.

1857
01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:04,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never done that before. You're like more of

1858
01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 3: attending than Yeah.

1859
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 4: I'm basically like, wow, you really went with like the

1860
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:14,960
Speaker 4: I've been watching Rewatching season one, so that's what's fresh?

1861
01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 5: Go watch The Greatest Showman. It's so great. You would

1862
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 5: love it so much because you went without Meanwhile, watch it.

1863
01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 4: Because here's the thing Mark, I like to I'd like

1864
01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:30,760
Speaker 4: to have my TV on when I fall asleep, so

1865
01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:32,920
Speaker 4: I either watch like Grays on Me or Friends. Just

1866
01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:36,240
Speaker 4: it's like it's light and it makes me laugh. So

1867
01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:39,400
Speaker 4: it's not like I'm watching I can't watch The Greatest

1868
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:42,040
Speaker 4: Showman before I'm about to fall asleep because they'll miss it.

1869
01:18:42,200 --> 01:18:43,680
Speaker 1: That makes sense. Where it Grays on me, I can

1870
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 1: just pick up and leave off wherever.

1871
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:47,760
Speaker 3: You need to watch The Greatest Showman. I do so good.

1872
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:49,840
Speaker 3: I watched it on the plane the other day too.

1873
01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 3: It's just so good. I hate say goodbye, but it's

1874
01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 3: that time.

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01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 1: Don't do it, I have to know.

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01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:03,479
Speaker 2: Thank you so much to Sabrina Soto for coming in.

1877
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:06,679
Speaker 2: Don't forget to watch Trading Spaces on TLC this Saturday

1878
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 2: at eight pm.

1879
01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:09,800
Speaker 5: Shout out to Janna Kramer. I wanted to mention she

1880
01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:12,240
Speaker 5: has a new podcast in the iHeartRadio Family.

1881
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, wind Down with Jana Kramer right.

1882
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 5: Her first episode is out now and it's check it out,

1883
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:19,479
Speaker 5: especially if we have kids. You should check it out.

1884
01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:21,280
Speaker 5: It's a great mom podcast.

1885
01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1886
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 2: She was on our show, yeah a couple of months

1887
01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 2: ago and people loved her. So now she has her

1888
01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 2: own show, so check that out. Yeah, it's time to

1889
01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 2: say goodbye.

1890
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:34,080
Speaker 1: We're going to do some cryot therapy.

1891
01:19:34,400 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 3: We're going to cry out therapy.

1892
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm potentially getting set up with them, but I will

1893
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:38,680
Speaker 1: talk about that next.

1894
01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 3: I'm excited about this, not this guy. Oh why haven't

1895
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:43,960
Speaker 3: I heard of this?

1896
01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 1: I'll tell you it's a little too soon to smoke

1897
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:46,639
Speaker 1: the gun.

1898
01:19:47,640 --> 01:19:50,720
Speaker 5: Can's wait to smoke the for me?

1899
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:52,439
Speaker 1: No, I'm getting set up.

1900
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:54,720
Speaker 3: No, but I'm saying it's too soon for you to

1901
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 3: tell me.

1902
01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 1: No, I can tell you what I'm saying. Well, why

1903
01:19:58,160 --> 01:19:59,240
Speaker 1: wait till the next podcast.

1904
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:01,000
Speaker 3: We'll talk about why.

1905
01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 2: I don't know about it yet.

1906
01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: It just happened just now this morning.

1907
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:07,000
Speaker 5: Okay.

1908
01:20:08,280 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 3: Thank you for all the emails. Thank you for all

1909
01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:15,360
Speaker 3: the posts on our Facebook group. We love you so much.

1910
01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:17,839
Speaker 2: If you want to send in an email that's scrubbing

1911
01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:21,439
Speaker 2: in at iHeartMedia dot com, send them our way.

1912
01:20:21,479 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 3: We love them.

1913
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:25,680
Speaker 2: Thanks Tanya for being here as always.

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01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 7: You know.

1915
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 1: Thanks Mecca for sure being such a light.

1916
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 3: We love you all.

1917
01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 2: I hope you have an amazing week doing whatever you're doing.

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01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 2: Time you want to call it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Still alive, Oh thirteen, nineteen th