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Speaker 1: Do you believe you should live with your soon to

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Speaker 1: be lifelong partner before you get married. A lot of

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Speaker 1: hard positions on this, Tanya Yes.

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Speaker 2: So Bachelor alum Daisy Kent, with whom we fell in

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Speaker 2: love with during Joey grass a Day's season of The Bachelor,

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Speaker 2: she is officially moving in with her boyfriend Thor, so

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Speaker 2: she posted on social media. Me and Thor are now roommates.

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Speaker 2: We'll see how that goes. The two of them moved

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Speaker 2: into a home in Las Vegas, but it really divided

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Speaker 2: the internet. So some people were saying, do not move

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Speaker 2: in with him because it will only prolong the phase

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Speaker 2: where he asks you to marry him. And then other

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Speaker 2: people are saying, it's smart to live together and see

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Speaker 2: how you live before you make that huge commitment. As

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Speaker 2: much as I agree that you should see how you

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Speaker 2: live together, I think you can still keep some place

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Speaker 2: that is yours in case things hit the fan. But

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Speaker 2: people are very divided on this, telling her like, do

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Speaker 2: not move in with him, because he will proposed to

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Speaker 2: you in a timely manner.

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Speaker 1: So this guy, FYI, if you've never seen him, he

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Speaker 1: does not like he should be named Thor.

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Speaker 3: He's not that guy. It's like if I were named Thor.

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Speaker 2: That's a very bold name, Thor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a big thing to live up too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to talk about this because I actually do

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Speaker 1: believe you need to live with that person before you

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Speaker 1: get married. People are you think you know them, They

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Speaker 1: are different when you live with them. You need to

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Speaker 1: see how you feel with them in your space, in

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Speaker 1: your bathroom, in your bed, what their habits are. Some

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Speaker 1: you can change, some you cannot. My mother is a traditionalist.

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Speaker 1: For the first I don't know ten years of my twenties,

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Speaker 1: when I would bring a girlfriend home for Christmas, separate rooms. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I turned thirty something and I said, mah, she said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: said I think I'm coming for Christmas this year. She

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Speaker 1: said great, I said, but I got to stay in

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Speaker 1: the same room as my girlfriend. So she changed so

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Speaker 1: thirty at thirty three years old, she figured she's going

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Speaker 1: to take what she can get, right, Like, I can't

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Speaker 1: be thirty three thirty five and sleep in separate places.

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Speaker 1: It's a long weekend. You need to have a little fun.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I can't oh with your parents though. Yeah, well there's

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Speaker 1: a really you know, you'd be very quiet.

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Speaker 3: I know, I remember those days.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like I'm with you because I feel

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Speaker 2: like you learn a lot about someone, Like there's only

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Speaker 2: so much you can tell a person, like, oh, I

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Speaker 2: like to have the dishes done before we go to sleep.

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Speaker 2: But when you live it, it's like a totally different thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta live it for I'd say a year,

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Speaker 1: you get six months, Yeah, a year.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's true, sany.

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Speaker 4: We did not live together when we dated, but when

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Speaker 4: we got engaged, he slowly started moving stuff in within

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Speaker 4: that year of our engagement, so I kind of got

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Speaker 4: a glimpse, Like.

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Speaker 3: He put stuff in drawers and cabinets. Yeah, like he

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Speaker 3: like of his apartment. Lease.

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Speaker 4: I think maybe you know, eight months still to go

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Speaker 4: to the wedding, and so he can.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's basically moved in. Look, I understand both ways.

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Speaker 1: My advice for someone who's never been married or may

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Speaker 1: never get married, live with them.

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Speaker 3: Before you get married, Live with them before you get married.

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Speaker 2: Are you hard to live with?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I wonder if he's a.

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Speaker 3: Heart Yeah, well it depends. What how do you define hard? Leang,

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Speaker 3: you leave.

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Speaker 4: Your socks all rolled up in areas of the room

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Speaker 4: and the bathroom over the place willing to meet in

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Speaker 4: the middle.

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Speaker 3: Well, can I answer? I mean, I know it's not

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Speaker 3: my socks.

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Speaker 1: My underwear stays trapped in my sweatpants and you have

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Speaker 1: to pull apart.

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Speaker 4: My gosh, speaking of that, Michael does the same thing.

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Speaker 4: And the other day I'm filming a video for my

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Speaker 4: Instagram and I didn't even catch it until I've already

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Speaker 4: posted the video. His dirty boxers are in the background

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Speaker 4: of my video, and I'm like, can you like, like,

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Speaker 4: all his stuff is everywhere in the bathroom, So go.

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Speaker 3: Take a look.

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Speaker 4: You can see his boxers right there.

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Speaker 3: He needs to grow out of boxers as well, box breeze,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Well, the hybrids are more important right now the stage

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Speaker 1: of life.