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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you listen to.

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Speaker 2: On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 1: Got up early this.

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Speaker 3: Morning and I texted Mark an article that just seem

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Speaker 3: has been a couple of days, and it was about.

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Speaker 1: Jump starting your sex life.

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Speaker 4: I'm laughing because the article that you sent him was

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Speaker 4: from was it.

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Speaker 2: The Washington Journal?

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Speaker 1: A Wall Street Journal? Wall Street?

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Speaker 4: Sorry, Wall Street Journal, And Mark does not have an

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Speaker 4: account for that, so.

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Speaker 1: I get this.

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Speaker 2: So he may have actually purchased a subscription just to

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Speaker 2: get this.

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Speaker 3: It's really they have great articles, Mark, and you should

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Speaker 3: be reading about the price of gas anyway. So there

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Speaker 3: was an article, a big, big article in one of

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Speaker 3: the sections about the pandemic. A lot of people found romance.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people then came out of it and

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Speaker 3: stopped their romance. They stopped having sex.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, wait, they fell in love during the pandemic.

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Speaker 1: They just a lot of So there's different groups, right.

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Speaker 3: Some people had no privacy, so they did, and other

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Speaker 3: people had just each other so they did. But the

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Speaker 3: point of this article was if your sex life has

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Speaker 3: stalled coming out of the pandemic, what do you do?

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Speaker 1: What do you do?

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Speaker 5: Because we got busy again. It's like during the pandemic.

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Speaker 5: You have no plans, so you just have all the sex?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you?

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Speaker 3: If you do, have to take a step back, slow

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Speaker 3: yourself down, and realize that it's important to do some

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Speaker 3: simple things.

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Speaker 1: So what struck me was one this expert says, I

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Speaker 1: found this fascinating.

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Speaker 3: Experts says, get with your partner and talk about a

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Speaker 3: sex scene in a movie that you found provocative or erotic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it.

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Speaker 3: Talk about it, and then role play it, relive it,

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Speaker 3: act it out the whole scene. I love that Sysney's

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Speaker 3: nodding Tony fell over.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's good because my mind went to Bridgerton

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Speaker 5: and I'm like, I hadn't want to like that.

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Speaker 1: You can't judge the person's scene. We're not going to

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Speaker 1: be in it, you know.

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Speaker 6: What I mean?

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Speaker 1: But you think about it. Okay, that's that's fun.

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Speaker 3: They also talk about how it's so important to set

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Speaker 3: the moodh the location, the lighting, the candles, And this

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Speaker 3: was the thing that stood out in the mood section

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Speaker 3: was you don't want to get yourself excited. You want

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Speaker 3: to calm yourself down. Good good romance is a calm,

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Speaker 3: slow scene. True can be different. Now you could also

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Speaker 3: you know, burn yourself with a candle, be careful. But

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Speaker 3: they were saying like, don't like relax, take it slow,

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Speaker 3: enjoy it, whereas the human bodies and the heart races

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Speaker 3: are getting excited.

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Speaker 2: Right, you don't want to endy quickly.

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Speaker 3: There are other things. Oh yeah, there are other things

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Speaker 3: and some stuff that I'll just let you read like

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Speaker 3: I'm reading it now.

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Speaker 4: It's important though, you know, especially like if you've got kids.

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Speaker 1: It really you got to set aside the time and

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Speaker 1: make it.

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Speaker 2: You really do.

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Speaker 4: May can stand out, I know, because you get into

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Speaker 4: these rhythms of just like not not make not sitt

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Speaker 4: in the mood, not making it exciting, not.

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Speaker 2: You just like you're doing it, and you're just like

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Speaker 2: pound and go a little bit. Man, we don't use

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Speaker 2: those choice of words.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know is that you don't really say that,

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Speaker 1: do you.

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Speaker 3: That's not even a term the expression or words people say. No,

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Speaker 3: that's not what people say. They said pound and go

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Speaker 3: like getting.

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Speaker 5: Quit it, okay, go Oh my god, I've never heard that.

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Speaker 1: You and Robbie say that we need to be aware.

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Speaker 2: Of you guys. Do no, my god, could you imagine?

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Speaker 3: No? I cannot imagine. I don't want to imagine I'm

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Speaker 3: here not to I'm actually here not to imagine.

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Speaker 5: Do you remember I offered my Remember when I offered

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Speaker 5: my bed, my apartments. Is need for you and Michael

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Speaker 5: to have sexy time?

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Speaker 7: I know?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, just where to leave

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Speaker 1: their house and go to yours?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so they had privacy because we had no privacy.

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Speaker 1: Really weird, you know. I would think that you're there

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Speaker 1: in her room.

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Speaker 2: It would be so strange.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think Michael, that's weird for Michael.

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Speaker 5: No, like a hotel at thinking about it, Like all

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Speaker 5: your spare jackets in that closet, I don't have you

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Speaker 5: got everywhere?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and the posters of all those guys, that's just weird.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't have that in my home.

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Speaker 8: Your old.

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Speaker 1: Dress is hanging there?

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Speaker 2: What do you guys think? I am shot collector.

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Speaker 3: a wedding gown is a waste of finance.

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Speaker 4: I'm with you, Ryan, if you create a budget for yourself,

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Speaker 4: I think it could be.

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Speaker 2: It could be done in a budget friendly way.

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Speaker 5: I could never wrap my head around spending thousands of

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Speaker 5: dollars on a dress I wear once.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 3: It's like fairy fairy tale dress. You can't even write,

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Speaker 3: You can't do anything with it.

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Speaker 1: No, after some people.

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Speaker 2: Look at it as a once in a lifetime situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, once in lifetime waste of money.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, if you look at it like that, then

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Speaker 4: you can say the whole weddings is waste of money.

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Speaker 3: Well I do. I trust me, guys. I've had a

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Speaker 3: lot of talks about it. A lot, all right, So

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Speaker 3: what are the brides are?

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Speaker 1: Now? Tubs?

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Speaker 3: The new trend brides are not wearing white wedding gowns.

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Speaker 3: They're going for chic black.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 4: When I got married, there was no doubt in my

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Speaker 4: mind I was wearing a white dress or ivory technique.

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Speaker 4: But I had like the look in my head already.

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Speaker 4: I wanted the long had the long veil, very dramatic

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Speaker 4: all that, but now brides are going towards these black

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Speaker 4: wedding dresses. And actually Google trends had high searches for

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Speaker 4: black wedding dress over the past twelve months, and the

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Speaker 4: last specifically was it was basically searched more than anybody

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Speaker 4: searching for white wedding dress. I wonder, why isn't that interesting.

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Speaker 4: Christine from Selling Sunset wore a black wedding dress and

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Speaker 4: her twenty twenty wedding.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that she was like the trendsetter of

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Speaker 2: the whole thing, but.

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Speaker 1: Started watching that show with the volume off.

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Speaker 2: Why I watched an episode two? Oh, get in on

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Speaker 2: the drama.

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Speaker 1: She just pretty people. I need the drama, the background.

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Speaker 4: It has evolved from I don't know what season it is,

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Speaker 4: now six or something, but it has evolved from season one,

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Speaker 4: like the fashion. It's a fashion show now like all

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Speaker 4: it's all designer, all all fashion.

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Speaker 3: Aren't the bride saying black is chic and I can

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Speaker 3: use it again, I can get more bang from my block.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess so.

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Speaker 4: And it's something that you could essentially wear again somewhere else.

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Speaker 4: But I'm a traditionalist at heart. For me, it was

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Speaker 4: a white wedding dress, and that's that's just what I wanted.

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Speaker 5: I did have this idea recently where I think I

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Speaker 5: anyone else was a white dress. I want everybody in

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Speaker 5: black and white. No, that was not gonna fly for me.

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Speaker 1: You guys want to settle this now.

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Speaker 4: Well that it's your wedding, you can do whatever you want.

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Speaker 4: Someone should have been a white Some actually did show

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Speaker 4: up in a white dress in my wedding, and I remember,

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Speaker 4: and I'm just like, I like.

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Speaker 1: The black dress trend. I do. I think to me,

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Speaker 1: it's just like something different and you can wear it again.

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Speaker 2: You know, but you can't really wear it again.

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Speaker 1: It's like you can you cut it off and do

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Speaker 1: a whole little thing.

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Speaker 2: You could wear that gown like that to another like

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Speaker 2: black chat.

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Speaker 1: I got a dress cutter, guy, you'll change the dress

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Speaker 1: chain so old look.

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Speaker 2: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Jackie, thank you for listening to us. Appreciate you calling

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Speaker 3: in red Chok. So you need some advice? What's the

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Speaker 3: category I do?

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Speaker 9: So?

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Speaker 7: It is work work related all right.

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Speaker 9: So I've been in my position for about a year now,

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Speaker 9: it's about to be your next month. Loved it, worked

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Speaker 9: really hard for it to get it, pushed really hard

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Speaker 9: hard to get it. So I got it super happy,

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Speaker 9: Like I said, almost a year. But for the past

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Speaker 9: four five months, I want to say, things have godeaus

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Speaker 9: really toxic at work. The environment has been really stressful.

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Speaker 9: Definitely has taken a toll on me. I do have

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Speaker 9: some heart problems issues are flare ups how they want

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Speaker 9: to call it, just flare ups, and those have been

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Speaker 9: happening quite more often related, so they're not They've told

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Speaker 9: me it's not. I've been to two different cardiologists and

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Speaker 9: one has actually asked me like, oh, do you think

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Speaker 9: maybe because of work? But I don't know, Like something

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Speaker 9: inside me is like okay, I definitely don't want to

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Speaker 3: Been yeah, is there more to the story.

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Speaker 9: No, that's just other than that. It's so my husband

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Speaker 9: and I work for the same company, and he lived

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Speaker 9: and breathed for this company. Totally get it. Been there

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Speaker 9: for so many years and when I've tried to talk

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Speaker 9: to him about it. It's it kind of gives me

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Speaker 9: more of a management perspective, but I'm like, wait, I

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Speaker 9: kind of need my husband perspective right now.

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Speaker 3: So I've talked to a lot of people over the

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Speaker 3: last few years that made a pivot to do something happy.

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Speaker 3: They're not standing for They value themselves more so than

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Speaker 3: being in a toxic or difficult work environment. The question

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Speaker 3: is can you pivot into something where you can still

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Speaker 3: cover your finances?

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Speaker 9: And that's what I've thought about as well. I've thought about,

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Speaker 9: you know, if it's just the position, like can I

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Speaker 9: go back to my previous position kind of you know, financially, yes,

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Speaker 9: we can do it. But then I'm like, okay, just

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Speaker 9: until that happens, I don't want to leave all the

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that can make sense.

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Speaker 1: But I look, if you.

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Speaker 3: Can get out of a toxic situation, you will add

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Speaker 3: years to your life and it will make you happier.

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Speaker 3: The question is when can you do it and what's

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Speaker 7: Jackie, thank you so much. You guys appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: We all do this.

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Speaker 3: And it never occurred to us that it might be

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Speaker 3: They always ask you mom's maiden name, first, pet's name,

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Speaker 3: a producer on the morning show. Yes, And I just

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Speaker 10: Go ahead, Ruby, Yeah, So my brother has a new

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Speaker 2: Oh and for different guys. Yeah, three different guys guys.

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Speaker 1: Like we don't know. Everyone's like that, what did you

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Speaker 3: And then as a older older brother, I don't really care.

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Speaker 3: But it sounds like the inflammatory part is, wait, this

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Speaker 1: And life is short and is he happy?

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Speaker 3: Is he my mom always says if my chickens are happy,

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Speaker 3: I can't ask too many questions.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean that's literally what my mom says too.

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Speaker 10: She's just like if he's happy, like that's all that matters, right.

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Speaker 1: True, So well, I think we vote for his happiness.

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Speaker 1: And we played this one out. Let's play this out.

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Speaker 10: You know, he did tell her he's like we haven't

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Speaker 3: This is this is subtle, nice and subtle. Well, good luck,

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Speaker 3: but ye keep us posting on that route. Dating apps, Look,

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Speaker 3: As you may know, and if you've never heard it,

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Speaker 3: before Tanya is living, breathing, proof of bumble Hinge, Tinder

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Speaker 3: match dot com, farmer John dot com, whatever it is.

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Speaker 2: That Farmer's only, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, farmers only dot com.

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Speaker 3: Then it works. She met the love of her life

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Speaker 3: soon to be fiance. On and on and on, and

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Speaker 3: I want to get ahead of myself.

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Speaker 2: Let's not get ahead of ourself, Robbie on Hinge, that's true.

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Speaker 3: I did not realize, and Cisney, you did some research

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you a deal breaker. Oh we go out

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Speaker 3: I find that not great even as a first date.

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Speaker 3: I want to share that. Who would say no?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Like people do like you from friends, even if

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Speaker 1: So some people don't want to I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe they don't want to order to have any issues

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Speaker 2: So a picky eater is a deal breaker for.

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Speaker 3: You A picky eat Now, I'm a picky eater sometimes stupid.

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Speaker 1: So is there, Well tell me about that there's a

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Speaker 4: Now, Well, no, that this is like just specifically targeted

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Speaker 4: if you're vegan, there's a dating app for that. Religions obviously,

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Speaker 2: Love, a sisnanty epiphany. It happened last.

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Speaker 4: Night and I said, I think that these targeted dating

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Speaker 4: Therefore, you're limiting yourself from maybe meeting the love of

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Speaker 1: But so I have a couple thoughts here.

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Speaker 5: Like we share a soul, like we are literally meant

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Speaker 1: So have you talked about what religion you will raise

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Speaker 1: your kids to be?

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Speaker 9: Not?

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Speaker 2: Really? Right now, we celebrate both. Oh my god, all

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Speaker 2: I hear is the l That's all I hear. It's

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Speaker 2: all I hear.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even hear. What are we talking about? Is

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Speaker 1: that what.

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Speaker 11: Fry?

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Speaker 2: But right now it's both so like passover and Easter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think that's good though, And I think you know,

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Speaker 4: when you go specific into let's say, you only want

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Speaker 4: to date somebody that's listens to the same exact music

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Speaker 4: as you, I feel like that's boring in a weird way.

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Speaker 2: Like I met Michael.

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Speaker 4: He was all classic rock and alternative music, and I

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Speaker 4: was popping E.

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Speaker 3: D M.

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Speaker 4: And I like converted him and he I enjoyed listening

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Speaker 4: to his music and he enjoyed.

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Speaker 1: Because all styles of music, I like.

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Speaker 2: All genres of music.

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Speaker 3: Look, I think these dating apps specific or broad. It

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Speaker 3: just depends on what it is you're looking for and

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Speaker 3: what you find your deal breakers. But I guess the

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Speaker 3: more there are out there, the more opportunity is to

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Speaker 3: meet somebody. Because it just happened right here in front

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Speaker 3: of our very own eyes, with our Tanya, both her

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Speaker 3: and Robbie Matt Hall one or two point seven Kiss FM.

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Speaker 3: It's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan in Siciny, This

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Speaker 3: is from a man in Culver City. I got a

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Speaker 3: call from an unknown number. A woman said, your husband

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Speaker 3: is cheating on you and hung up. I asked him

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Speaker 3: about it, and he swears he's not cheating and it's

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Speaker 3: just spam. I mean, that is stirringly bothersome. So Amanda,

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Speaker 3: thank you for coming on. Did you recognize the woman's voice?

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Speaker 7: No? No, she just said it so fast and I

484
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Speaker 7: hung up immediately.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't make any sense that somebody random would call and

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Speaker 3: say that to you.

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Speaker 2: Did you try calling the number back?

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Speaker 7: You couldn't. There's no carl Id so there wasn't any

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Speaker 7: nothing to call back current.

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Speaker 11: No number.

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Speaker 3: All right, So that happens, and it spooks you, of course, right,

493
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Speaker 3: you're rattled by it. Now you go to your husband,

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Speaker 3: walk us through what you said and what he said.

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Speaker 12: I mean, I told him exactly what happened, right, I said,

496
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Speaker 12: I just got this unknown number and this lady just

497
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Speaker 12: said your husband's cheating on you? What the hell is

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Speaker 12: going on? And he was I mean, he looks shocked, right,

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Speaker 12: But then it was like swore up and down that

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Speaker 12: he wasn't cheating.

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Speaker 7: Said it's probably just spam, like you know, and I

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Speaker 7: was like, why would this be spam?

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Speaker 12: There was like us, it wasn't a scam, right, So like,

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Speaker 12: what do you mean? And he said like, oh, well,

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Speaker 12: they're probably just making sure it's a real number, you know,

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Speaker 12: you picked up, and so now you're just gonna get

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Speaker 12: a bunch of telemark your car, carls and that was

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Speaker 12: like he that was it, that was all.

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Speaker 7: He didn't want to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't buy it.

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Speaker 3: We're about to call Amanda's husband. So a phone rings,

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Speaker 3: unknown number, she answers, and a woman on the other

513
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Speaker 3: end says, your husband is cheating on you and hangs up.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think that's random.

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Speaker 4: Hmm be could I mean, this could be like the

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Speaker 4: start of a scam or something like maybe that number

517
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Speaker 4: calls back and then you're trying to get more information.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But then her husband says, oh, don't worry about it.

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Speaker 1: It's fine. Well it's not fine, but well, don't worry

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Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, it's spam.

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Speaker 3: All right, man, I need you to say, Ryan, you

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Speaker 3: my permission to call, and then your husband's name.

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Speaker 7: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna call him right now. Be very quiet, stay

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Speaker 3: on the line. You're gonna hear everything. Don't say a

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Speaker 3: word until we tell him he's on the air.

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Speaker 1: All right, Good? Luck.

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Speaker 11: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, is this Jacob?

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Speaker 11: Uh?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Hie.

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Speaker 2: My name is Lauren. I'm calling from Lolo's Flowers.

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Speaker 4: We actually deliver in the Culver City area and like

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Speaker 4: on the West Side, and we're offering local residence today

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Speaker 4: a promotion.

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Speaker 11: Oh my god, Okay, I told my wife I'm not cheating.

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Speaker 4: I I just want to know if you wanted to

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Speaker 4: send free roses to anybody that.

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Speaker 11: You keep stop stop stop stop stop stop Ryan's roses

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Speaker 11: on kids at That is Brian there too.

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Speaker 3: Hi, your voice is being broadcast in the radio. I

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Speaker 3: need you to know that we have your wife, Amanda

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Speaker 3: on the line. Jacob, you know how this goes? So, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's this is us. Amanda's on the phone. She told

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Speaker 3: us everything. So who are you cheating with?

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Speaker 9: What?

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Speaker 6: I know?

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Speaker 11: Look, I'm not cheating.

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Speaker 1: But the other woman called your wife and.

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Speaker 11: No, no, okay, look, I know she thinks that I'm

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Speaker 11: cheating and that sucks, but I try to assure her,

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Speaker 11: and now I will try to assure you that I

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Speaker 11: am not. She got some random called that doesn't mean anything.

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Speaker 1: Why would a random call say that?

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Speaker 2: And why are you so angry?

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Speaker 1: And you're very aggressive?

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Speaker 11: Jacob, y, Look I'm just I'm sorry. I'm just frustrated. Okay, Look,

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Speaker 11: it could have been a wrong number, a scam, I

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Speaker 11: don't know, a prank. There are a million explanations for this,

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Speaker 11: but I'm telling you I am not cheating, and I'm

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Speaker 11: sorry she got you.

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Speaker 7: Involved in this, So I think I know who it is.

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Speaker 11: Wait wait, what are you.

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Speaker 1: Saying, Amanda? Who do you think it is? That's new

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Speaker 1: news to us.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: I didn't want to say anything because I didn't I

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Speaker 12: didn't I didn't want it to be true.

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Speaker 11: But like.

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Speaker 7: Jacob, it sounded like Trina.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, who's Trina?

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Speaker 2: Who's Trina?

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Speaker 9: Mean?

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Speaker 12: Trina is Jacob's ex girlfriend and they dated right before

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Speaker 12: we get together, and she has always hated me, and

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Speaker 12: I mean she would like absolutely nothing more than break

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Speaker 12: us up.

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Speaker 7: She is, so hold on.

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Speaker 3: That changes the score here, Amanda. If it was Trina,

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Speaker 3: she could be doing that just to rattle you. And

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Speaker 3: he's not cheating. So now you've got me on the fence.

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Speaker 9: Oh.

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Speaker 12: I just I didn't want to say anything because I

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Speaker 12: didn't like to be true.

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Speaker 13: Right, Like, how horrible I thought.

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Speaker 3: But if she's never liked you or wanted him to

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Speaker 3: be happy, with you, then it is likely that she

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Speaker 3: could be just making that up.

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Speaker 7: I really don't think it's true, and she yeah, absolutely is.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, all right, you follow her on Instagram?

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Speaker 1: So like, yeah, why don't do you speak with Trina? Jacob?

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Speaker 11: What you do?

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Speaker 1: You are you communication with Trina? Jacob?

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Speaker 11: No, I'm not hold on you follow on Instagram?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, Jacob, Look, I know this is weird, but like,

597
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Speaker 12: let's take a cheap breath.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Like, I know this is.

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Speaker 12: Weird, but like obviously we got to Like I didn't

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Speaker 12: know how else to bring this up.

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Speaker 7: I didn't know what to say to you, So like,

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Speaker 7: I mean, have you have you seen her? Has she

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Speaker 7: shown up?

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Speaker 11: Look? I ran into her a few weeks ago? All right, Well,

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Speaker 11: oh hold on, hold on a second. I was parking

606
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Speaker 11: my car on the street and she was walking by,

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Speaker 11: and I and said, hey, it was no big deal.

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Speaker 7: Why didn't you tell me? I was it?

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Speaker 12: Why didn't you tell me?

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Speaker 11: Because I know you hit her and I didn't want

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Speaker 11: to ruin your day And it was nothing. It was

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Speaker 11: absolutely nothing, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, So Jacob, you ran into her, and now Trina

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Speaker 3: from that it's calling and saying your husband cheating because

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Speaker 3: she wants you back?

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Speaker 1: Is that the case?

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Speaker 11: I mean, maybe I don't. I don't know who exactly

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Speaker 11: called and who left the message, but it's very possible.

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Speaker 3: All right, here's what's going to happen. I think the

620
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Speaker 3: three of you guys need to get on the phone.

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Speaker 3: Let's just get right to Trina and you give her

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Speaker 3: a piece of your mind and let her say what

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Speaker 3: she needs to say and then evaluate what's going on here.

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Speaker 3: But it's just like I mean, it's possible Jacob ran

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Speaker 3: into her, didn't tell you about it, and she does

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Speaker 3: not want you guys to be together and would call him.

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Speaker 3: Say that, it's very plausible. Thank you, Amanda, Thank you Jacob.

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Speaker 1: Good luck. Why don't two point seven kiss of him?

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Speaker 11: Where?

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Speaker 2: Ryan says, So.

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Speaker 1: Here's the deal, Amna, Jacob married.

632
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Speaker 3: Amanda says, I think my husband's cheating because a woman

633
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Speaker 3: called from an unknown number and said your husband's cheating

634
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Speaker 3: and hung up. Well, Amanda, and tell me she recognized

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Speaker 3: the voice to be his ex girlfriend. So it was

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Speaker 3: his ex girlfriend because Jacob didn't tell Amanda he had

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Speaker 3: just run into her the other day.

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Speaker 2: But we still don't know if it was the ex

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Speaker 2: but it is a high probability.

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Speaker 3: It makes a lot of sense. Now, the ex Trina

641
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 3: never wanted Amanda and Jacob to be together. Trina sees

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Speaker 3: Jacob it's top of mind, so she calls and says

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Speaker 3: that to Amanda. So the question is, did Jacob do

644
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Speaker 3: anything wrong here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he kept seeing you wrong, He kept something from

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Speaker 2: his wife.

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Speaker 1: He ran into his ex arbitrarily and didn't tell her.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like you maybe should mention that.

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Speaker 11: Well.

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Speaker 3: Also, maybe when his wife Amanda goes to him and says, hey,

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Speaker 3: I got this weird call exactly, I could say, oh,

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Speaker 3: that's you know who doing you know what?

653
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Speaker 1: Because she doesn't want you know what you know.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, So he is covering something up. He had a

655
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Speaker 4: chance to actually be honest with her, but he didn't.

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Speaker 1: But Amanda wasn't honest with us.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, but she doesn't owe us anything.

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Speaker 3: No, but it would have been nice to know that

659
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Speaker 3: she thought it was the ex girlfriend. So I'm just

660
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Speaker 3: trying to figure out he's Jacob cheating or not. Tasha,

661
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Speaker 3: good morning, and Pacoimic, go ahead. You heard Ryan's roses.

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Speaker 3: You're on with us?

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Speaker 7: I did. Yeah. So here's the thing.

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Speaker 8: If I had a checklist to confirm whether or not

665
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Speaker 8: someone's a cheater. I mean, he checks all the boxes

666
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Speaker 8: like not.

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Speaker 3: Well, he's very very aggressive and defensive about oral of it.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely, That's one of the things is the angry with

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Speaker 8: being contructed, check anger and then yeah yeah, and then

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Speaker 8: also hiding information from the girlfriend that's suspicious as well.

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Speaker 8: That's the check for me because the exact same thing

672
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 8: happened to me and my ex. The whole thing went down,

673
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 8: he asked he somehow ran into her, but then kept

674
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 8: it from me, and then I find out that they're

675
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 8: hanging out a lot more and start hooking up.

676
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: So maybe he did. Maybe he didn't just run into her.

677
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: Maybe they were hanging out, and maybe Trina is telling

678
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 3: the truth because she wants to split them up this one.

679
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know, but Jacob's.

680
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 3: Yelling in his yeah reactions like.

681
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 8: Exactly a red flags for sure, red flag for sure?

682
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: All right, Tasha, thanks for calling. So she'd been through it.

683
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: Tasha had been through it and it turned out that

684
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 3: he was doing something.

685
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

686
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: I mean, the fact that there's an ex lingering when

687
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 2: you're married is so.

688
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 3: Annoying and also right no matter how this pans out,

689
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: that's all bad.

690
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, like move on, But you know it's interesting. Tell

691
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 5: me this X right, not a part of their lives.

692
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 5: But obviously she's so focused on this X.

693
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: Can't let it go, can't let it go.

694
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:15,719
Speaker 3: But it's so toxic and destructive for the X, and

695
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 3: she's bringing it into their world as well.

696
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 5: When she doesn't need to be there. But it's because

697
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 5: it's on top of her mind. She's like bringing it in.

698
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: All right, Avery, good morning, how are you doing?

699
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 7: Good morning?

700
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 6: I'm okay, how are you doing?

701
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 3: We are hanging in there. We are definitely hanging in there.

702
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 3: So tell me what's happening in Northwood? You're dating someone

703
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:38,719
Speaker 3: in your friend group?

704
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

705
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 11: Okay.

706
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 6: So I have this group of friends. It's like seven people,

707
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 6: like four girls including me, and then three other guys.

708
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 6: And oh my gosh, we're so close, like we've been

709
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 6: friends ever since college. And we you know, we maybe

710
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 6: don't like hang out every day like we used to,

711
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 6: but we still get together like at least two or

712
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 6: three times a month, and I just I love them

713
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 6: so much. They're like my family. And one of the

714
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 6: guys in the group, like we kind of realized that

715
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 6: we had feelings for each other, and so we started

716
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 6: dating and it was great, like it was perfect for it,

717
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 6: you know, at least the first six months, and we

718
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 6: were so happy. Everybody was so happy for us, you know,

719
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 6: they kept saying we were the perfect couple. Everyone was like,

720
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 6: oh my god, you're like the Monica and Chandler, you know,

721
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 6: of our group, and they were just like so excited

722
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:29,480
Speaker 6: for us. And I thought it was I thought it

723
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 6: was really, you know, that was it, that it was

724
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 6: great that we were going to be together. But then

725
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 6: the last few weeks things have been like a little

726
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 6: bit rocky. And then a few days ago he said

727
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 6: that he actually wants to start seeing other people. And

728
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Speaker 6: I'm just so I was so devastated. I really I

729
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 6: thought he was the one I was gonna be with.

730
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 6: I was imagining this whole future with him. But I mean,

731
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 6: I mean that's not even the point. Like now I

732
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 6: don't know how to even be around our friends because

733
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 6: if he's going to be there, I don't know how

734
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 6: to act around him. So I feel like it's either

735
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,319
Speaker 6: who's my whole group of friends or just like try

736
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 6: and pretend to be normal while he talks about his

737
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 6: days and his new girlfriend.

738
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Speaker 1: Avery. It's so interesting because at the onset here I

739
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: was really excited. Yeah, because I think it's.

740
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Speaker 3: Great to have that friendship and then the electricity of

741
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 3: some intimacy afterwards because you already know each other right,

742
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,800
Speaker 3: and then until it goes wrong and then it's really

743
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 3: really awkward. My guidance would be, you don't want to

744
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 3: cut out your friends. You want to be in a

745
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 3: friend group, and it's probably going to be difficult. I mean,

746
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 3: maybe the friend group is sensitive to your dynamic while

747
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 3: it's fresh, and they don't create any awkward moments, and

748
00:34:56,360 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 3: certainly hopefully he doesn't broadcast is other dates and other people,

749
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 3: just to give you some time. But I think when

750
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 3: you look back, eventually you'll be happy you stayed with

751
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 3: the friends, and hopefully you'll still be friends with him.

752
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 6: Thank you. I hope so I hope that he and

753
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 6: I are able to be friends again. Eventually.

754
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 4: It's just going to take time and then you're gonna

755
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 4: start dating somebody new, and that's gonna be exciting.

756
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: It's not always that way. It is broken for long,

757
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: long periods.

758
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 2: Of time, seven years.

759
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 4: As soon as you find somebody, it's going to be

760
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 4: a lot better.

761
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: Ye, thank you, good luck and sorry you're going through it,

762
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 3: but we all felt that way.

763
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: You take care.

764
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 6: Thank you so much, you two.

765
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Speaker 1: I was so excited. I was like, Oh, your days

766
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: in the friend group. That's like the dream I know.

767
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: And then crash and burn.

768
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:52,760
Speaker 1: That's dating.

769
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 3: Let me jump right into Annie, who has been on

770
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 3: hold here for a minute. Annie and Hawthorne, how.

771
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: Are you hi? How are you doing well?

772
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 3: So you're calling seeking a little advice from us?

773
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 13: Yes, so I have an issue. My friend is pregnant,

774
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 13: but she wants me to be happy about it, and

775
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 13: I'm not.

776
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 3: Hold hold on, hold on, Yeah, I just want to

777
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 3: make sure I understood. Your friend is pregnant. Yeah, and

778
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 3: you're unhappy about that, right?

779
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: Why can you tell us why?

780
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 13: Yeah? The dad is married and he wants nothing to

781
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,800
Speaker 13: do with the baby. When she told me this news,

782
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 13: I was shocked because I literally had no idea she.

783
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 9: Was even dating anybody.

784
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 13: And then yeah, and then she was like, oh, yeah,

785
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 13: the dad's married and he wants nothing to do with it.

786
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 13: So it's all me, you know, like in a girl power,

787
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 13: like modern woman type of way. But when she told me,

788
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 13: I was so shocked, and then I was sad for

789
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 13: the kid to not know his dad, and sad for

790
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 13: the other woman who's being cheated on. And so I mean,

791
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 13: I don't know. I just focused on the negatives. And

792
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 13: then she got really mad at me, and now she

793
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 13: is barely speaking to me.

794
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: So I think i'd be mad at you too.

795
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 10: Yeah.

796
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 4: I'm like, if then there's any time to be like

797
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 4: there and support your friend.

798
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 3: It's like, this is the time. And you shouldn't be

799
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 3: unhappy about her being pregnant. And I mean, I don't know,

800
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 3: unhappy is the right word. Maybe you're concerned about certain

801
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 3: things that you don't have control over, and it sounds

802
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,720
Speaker 3: like neither does she at this point.

803
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like you have to be there for her.

804
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: But I mean I can't imagine. I mean, Sisney, you

805
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 3: could speak this. But you know, someone in your circle

806
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,439
Speaker 3: gets pregnant. That's such a blessing. If you think about

807
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 3: what a blessing that is. Anny to be unhappy about

808
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 3: it seems really unfair.

809
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's an innocent baby coming into this world.

810
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 13: That's yeah, that's a fact.

811
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: So you know, do you have kids, Annie.

812
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 13: No, I don't, So maybe.

813
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 3: You look at it, maybe you look at a little differently,

814
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 3: and then Sisney would look at it. But I still

815
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 3: think that to be unhappy that this happened to her

816
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 3: is not being the best probably friend you can be

817
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:08,439
Speaker 3: to her.

818
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 13: So I should throw a baby shower.

819
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: Then well, you don't have to go there right now.

820
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 4: But I just think at this point, talk to her,

821
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 4: try to see where her head's at. And I think

822
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 4: her making a joke about you know, him not being

823
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,760
Speaker 4: in the picture right now and her being a single

824
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 4: mom and how it's going to be all her and

825
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 4: laughing about it. I think that's her way of coping

826
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 4: with the reality of how hard this is going to be,

827
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 4: and she really needs a friend.

828
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well, thank you, thanks for calling any you.

829
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 13: Take care, thank you.

830
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like that mother to be needs friends, needs

831
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 3: a close friend that she can lean on.

832
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 4: Not only that your hormones are going crazy when you're pregnant,

833
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 4: you're just she needs a lot of support.

834
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837
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Speaker 14: the most La driving habits now and if you're on

838
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Speaker 14: the freeway.

839
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Speaker 1: Check this out. Every city has bad drivers.

840
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 3: Boston, New York like they could be aggressive in terms

841
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,640
Speaker 3: of on the roads driving, so can we. But there

842
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: are some la isms that I find here, so many

843
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,280
Speaker 3: to me. The one thing I see all the time

844
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 3: is car in the left turn lane, their lights red

845
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 3: and five cars still turn left through the internet.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I do that.

847
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: And then do you pull up and honk a them on?

848
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 2: On the other side, I'm the one that catches the

849
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,720
Speaker 2: red turn left.

850
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Speaker 3: If six cars go through when they're not supposed to,

851
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,439
Speaker 3: do you roll up and then lay on the horn.

852
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: I do that as well. So I'm a hypocrite when

853
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 2: it comes to the left.

854
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: I think most people are the same. I think most

855
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: people play both sides of that. One so true. The

856
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: other is changing lanes without signals.

857
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 2: That's dangerous. Yeah, I don't do that.

858
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: I always.

859
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,439
Speaker 2: I even signal in our parking structure. You guys, it's

860
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 2: so there's no percent.

861
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: I don't know where do you do it.

862
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: It's a habit.

863
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 4: It's just engraved in my brain. If I'm gonna go left,

864
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Speaker 4: I put on my signal.

865
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 3: That's good, you're doing ten and two good driving. They say,

866
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 3: Another laism is tailgating. That is because I don't I

867
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 3: hate to do that, but that's because there's no space.

868
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 3: We're all so close to each other all the time. Anyway,

869
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 3: What fascinates me is the speed at which we can

870
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 3: move so close to each other.

871
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 4: Sometimes on the freeways, I know, and it's a panic

872
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 4: I think with the tailgating, because if you leave too

873
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 4: much space, then you get cut off and another car

874
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 4: goes in front of you.

875
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 2: So you have to keep the perfect distance.

876
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 3: But if you get yeah, if you get too close.

877
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 3: I mean, I sometimes my exit's com I played this

878
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 3: game in my head. Okay, the exits a mile out,

879
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 3: but the traffic's moving slow on the right, so I'm

880
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 3: gonna go far left. I'm going to try and speed

881
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 3: up to get to that exit faster. But now I

882
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: got to cut four lanes over to get to the exit.

883
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 3: So I'm that guy.

884
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Speaker 2: Sometimes where I hate doing that.

885
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Speaker 3: I just sometimes you just you're like, two lanes are slow,

886
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 3: so you want to get around. But then you like,

887
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, you're playing that video game in your

888
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 3: mind where the exits approaching your speed, the exit speed

889
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 3: plus the lanes you got to get across.

890
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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm not fun to ride with.

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Speaker 2: I'm told, are you like a bad scary driver?

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Speaker 3: I'm just a They say I'm a gunner, like my

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00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 3: mom says, you gun it. You'd like to gun it

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Speaker 3: and then break hard. You gun it and then break hard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're like jerky y, I'm jerky.

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Speaker 1: I'm jerky. I like it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not trying to scar anybody. I don't think

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Speaker 3: it's that scared. But I like to speed up and

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00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 3: then I'll slow down, speed up, slow down.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 5: I wonder if that has to do with more than

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Speaker 5: you're driving.

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Speaker 1: Probably not, but in your mind maybe.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like you have a tendency to want to speed

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Speaker 5: up and then you want to slow down because you

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Speaker 5: get scared.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's that deep.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't either.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just want to get there and I'm

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Speaker 3: frustrated I can't get there fast enough. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think there's something there.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well get back to me.

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