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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Scrub dub dub in the tub, tub Tub.

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Speaker 2: It's a Dear Bonya episode. Tis we are here to answer? Oh?

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Speaker 3: No, fear Bonya is here.

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Speaker 4: It's also a super Bowl episode, the last episode before

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Speaker 4: the super Bowl.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you if we know the Scrubbers, they

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Speaker 3: really care aboutpisode.

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Speaker 4: I think, Yeah, what's the plan? What are you guys doing?

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Speaker 4: Big Chiefs Eagles game?

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be driving back from Oh do.

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Speaker 4: You think time? You will make it home in time

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Speaker 4: to watch the super Bowl at three thirty Pacific time.

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Speaker 2: I actually don't know if we'll be back.

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Speaker 3: Wow, how do you not know?

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Speaker 4: Well? Customs takes it?

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Speaker 3: Oh does he know anything?

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Speaker 4: Know anything? The airport?

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Speaker 3: Who knows stuff?

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, I think it just depends on.

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Speaker 4: Leave.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, the tail one depends on when we leave.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. Is Robbie doing anything for the

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Speaker 2: for thee.

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Speaker 4: I should hang out with a Robbie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah No, I don't. I don't think he's doing anything

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Speaker 3: for the super Bowl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, well, were we'll be coming back that day.

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Speaker 3: Cool, but like, are we coming back morning or midday

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Speaker 3: or night?

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Speaker 2: Kind of up to us?

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Speaker 4: That's fun.

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Speaker 3: How is it up to us?

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Speaker 2: It's just up to us?

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Speaker 3: So it's an airbnb.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: Wait, who don't you have.

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Speaker 4: To checkout times?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Check, but you can kind of choose like when

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Speaker 2: you wanna head home, if that makes sense. Gotcha what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying? Are you all rooting for anyone? Are we

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Speaker 2: just like hoping that.

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Speaker 4: I don't care? I don't. I mean, I don't want

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Speaker 4: the Chief to win again, but I can't room for

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Speaker 4: the Eagle Soles fans are just kind of notoriously obnoxious.

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Speaker 4: Like there's a viral video of a woman going to

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Speaker 4: an Eagles game a couple of weeks ago in the

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Speaker 4: other team's jersey and they were yelling the sea word

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Speaker 4: at her from all around her, and I just feel

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Speaker 4: like I can't root for those folks. So I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm just going to enjoy the game and hope that

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Speaker 4: it's a nice game, and I'm going to enjoy the commercials.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to enjoy Kendrick Lamar and just enjoy the

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Speaker 4: holiday of it.

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Speaker 3: I'm over commercials.

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Speaker 4: Why they're so fun?

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Speaker 3: You know what. I'm over them.

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Speaker 4: I've been watching them in advance. That's how into them.

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Speaker 3: I'm so nineteen eighty two.

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Speaker 2: Why are they having them in advance? Right right?

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Speaker 4: That happens almost every year now for some reason, they're

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Speaker 4: all on YouTube before the actual game, which I don't

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Speaker 4: get why they do that, but they.

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Speaker 2: Do that pisses me off.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Why did they do that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but I really enjoy get to see it.

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Speaker 4: I enjoy. I'm telling you right now, David's Backham.

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Speaker 2: One is enjoy it because we need to enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: The day of the fair enough, that's weird. Why spend

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Speaker 2: all this money because feel it? I'm with you, hype

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Speaker 2: going anyways? Okay, well who are you rooting for the Eagles? Oh? Strong?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Why is that?

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Speaker 3: Robbie likes them? So my association. I have no idea.

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Speaker 4: There are two teams that have had a lot of

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Speaker 4: success recently, and I like the underdogs. I got it

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Speaker 4: had been fun of the Bills in there or the Commanders,

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Speaker 4: because neither one of them is won in decades, so

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Speaker 4: that would have been neat. But we get what we get.

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Speaker 4: We don't get upset. We enjoy bad food. And watch it.

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Speaker 2: One thing about me, All I want is a good game,

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Speaker 2: A good, safe, fun game.

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Speaker 3: Do you Yeah you have No, you're not pooling pooling

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Speaker 3: for anyone?

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Speaker 2: No, Like I won't have feelings, I won't have feelings.

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Speaker 2: I won't have strong feelings either way.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh, I usually never do.

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Speaker 2: I think it'd be I think it'd be fun if

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Speaker 2: the Eagles won, just because the Chiefs are so dominant

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Speaker 2: and like they always come back and win it, so

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Speaker 2: I think there'd be something fun about that. But I

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Speaker 2: also am like, good for them another win, put it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the best team. Again. I know nothing about football,

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Speaker 3: but for the best team, then like, good on them

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Speaker 3: for winning all the time.

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Speaker 2: There's the thing, right, the better you are when you

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Speaker 2: get to the top, the more haters you have.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, teams get better every like, Yeah, draft, better draft

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Speaker 3: whatever that means. Yeah, draft better shower, better train.

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Speaker 2: They're probably dirty. They're probably not winning because they're just

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Speaker 3: I don't know what goes into all of it. All

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Speaker 3: I'm saying is why must we punish the Chiefs for

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Speaker 3: being the.

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Speaker 4: Best the People's Choice store two years in a row.

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Speaker 2: Exactly right, and people were probably so sick of it.

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Speaker 2: Probably we got booted out of that nomination, right.

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Speaker 3: And like you can't fault us for being the best.

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Speaker 2: Actually we got nominated one more year.

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Speaker 4: Were the chiefs of that category Chamberlain.

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Speaker 2: Of the podcast in the Chamberlain one that year, el right.

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Speaker 2: And then after call her daddy came, I said it

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure she's ever won it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. Yeah, I don't know either.

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Speaker 3: I may say scrubbing into better?

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Speaker 4: Did they even do the People's choice the words this year?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I feel like I only saw the country one.

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Speaker 3: I saw it get announced, and then I was trying

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Speaker 3: to find out who was nominated. I could not find

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Speaker 3: any information about it whatsoever. Yeah, alright, p.

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Speaker 2: Should we do one? Should we get into our dear bonya?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Yes, here we go. This is from anonymous back in

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Speaker 4: time your market Easton. I need all the help with

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Speaker 4: this one. I'm twenty seven, I'm married with two kids,

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Speaker 4: but I'm very close to my twenty year old niece

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Speaker 4: since we're close in age. I became the cool aunt

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Speaker 4: there for her during her teen years. Two years ago,

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Speaker 4: I helped her leave a toxic first love, which allowed

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Speaker 4: her to enjoy college, join a soro already, and focus

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Speaker 4: on herself. Well that's Christmas. She introduced her a new

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Speaker 4: serious boyfriend, which raised some concerns red flags. He doesn't

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Speaker 4: He doesn't go to church, he's a bartender. She didn't

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Speaker 4: even drink before this. He wants to move her two

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Speaker 4: hours away, and he has no real goals in life.

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Speaker 4: I voiced my concerns. She brushed them off. She said

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Speaker 4: he's a good guy. He treats her well. Over the

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Speaker 4: past month, she has changed, going out more. She even

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Speaker 4: missed her nursing school entrance exam. I know she's caught

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Speaker 4: up in the moment, especially with her roommates getting engaged

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Speaker 4: she'll look back in five years and regret wasting time

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Speaker 4: on this guy. How do I approach this again and

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Speaker 4: help her see he's not the one before it's too late.

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Speaker 2: Anonymous cool ant. I think you know the answer that

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Speaker 2: we're all going to give you, which is that you

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Speaker 2: cannot control who she is dating or ends up with.

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Speaker 2: And I think that the more that you push and

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Speaker 2: try to out of this relationship, the more she's gonna

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Speaker 2: pull away from you. I think your best option is

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Speaker 2: to be there for her while she navigates this, because

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Speaker 2: she's most likely going to come to terms with the

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Speaker 2: things that aren't healthy, and you want to be able

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Speaker 2: to be a support system for her, even though you

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Speaker 2: don't agree.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you can't. You've already tried to

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Speaker 3: do it once and if she wasn't receptive. I just

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Speaker 3: feel like there's something about getting involved with people's relationships

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Speaker 3: that can go very south, because I feel like if

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Speaker 3: I think you just have to be there for her.

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Speaker 3: You can still like raise your flags without having to

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Speaker 3: like have a come to Jesus conversation. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 3: think you do it that way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not your circus, not your monkeys, yeah, not your clowns.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: And I do think if she comes to you and

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Speaker 2: think you can go. I think you deserve better. I

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Speaker 2: think you can say it, but still be a safe

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Speaker 2: anything that's going on. So I think you stay as

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Speaker 2: a support system, be there for her, let her know

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Speaker 2: that you love her. And she's gonna have to figure

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Speaker 2: it out the hard way unfortunately.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and when she does, you'll be there for her.

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Speaker 3: Yes you will, Yes, you will.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we have a shout out. Hey beca Tanya Mark

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Speaker 4: and Easton, my childhood bff and I are Day one listeners.

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Speaker 4: I wanted a shout out Emily who got engaged today.

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Speaker 4: We love listening to you guys, and we like to

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Speaker 4: discuss things as if we're all one big friend group.

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Speaker 4: Even though we're spread out through southern California. This podcast

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Speaker 4: brings us together. Tanya Wedding planning advice. Now Emily gets started.

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Speaker 4: We love you guys so much. Love Caroline and Lizzie. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and they included a picture there. I believe this is

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Speaker 4: Emily and her fields.

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Speaker 2: The picture rainbow And there's a rainbow and they're under

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Speaker 2: like a really cute little umbrella. And she's holding flowers

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Speaker 4: A dog, dog with a beg.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really cute.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations Emily. What's your advice, Tanya?

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Speaker 3: So my advice to you is this, Emily, buckle up.

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Speaker 3: I'm kidding. Uh. I think what you need to decide

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Speaker 3: is if you want to do a full blown wedding

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Speaker 3: or if you want to do something small intimate. I

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Speaker 3: feel like really having that honest conversation with yourself and

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Speaker 3: then just like starting from A to Z bad advice.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, like, like what's the first Like, in hindsight,

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Speaker 2: do you wish you had done anything different in the

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Speaker 2: planning process? Do you think, yes, finding a wedding planer

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Speaker 2: was like crucial right off the bat, someone that you

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Speaker 3: I think, in hindsight I would have done a lot different.

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Speaker 3: But I think that deciding between the big and the

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Speaker 3: small wedding is like the key. I didn't realize how

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Speaker 3: hard it is for me to like plan stuff until

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like, I didn't realize that, Like I

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Speaker 3: I love it intimate groups. I've never had to plan

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Speaker 4: And we have our best friends. Our best best friends.

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Speaker 3: With you, anonymous, fine new friends.

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Speaker 1: Don't remember.

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Speaker 2: We'll look back on this.

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Speaker 3: People that are so nonchalant about germs, keep your germs

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Speaker 2: Oh all right, that was a groundbreaking moment that Tanya

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Speaker 3: That's a fine wine.

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Speaker 2: We have an opportunity here, a simple life opportunity.

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Speaker 2: We set friends because no one else I didn't say friends.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, well we got some response to that. And

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Speaker 4: How funny would that be? Northern Michigan farm country, very

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Speaker 4: cold at the moment. Would love nothing more. You're welcome

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing. Please, none of us other than Tanya

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Speaker 3: First of all, with all due respect Kana, I did

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Speaker 2: Know, do it up.

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Speaker 3: I could do it, make my own everything.

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Speaker 4: We all dispute it still, we don't think you could

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Speaker 3: I would not leave the house.

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Speaker 2: You need a lot of puffers.

443
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but my house is going to be so huge, right,

444
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 3: aren't the houses big?

445
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 2: I'm sure you.

446
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 4: Could potentially, Yeah, barns are big.

447
00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,080
Speaker 3: Yeah. Could you imagine so much space? How many that

448
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 3: his towers?

449
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,680
Speaker 2: I could have every room.

450
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 3: Every room could have its own midst, Every room.

451
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,239
Speaker 2: Could have its own lettuce tart. Okay, so you're not

452
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:08,400
Speaker 2: interested in going to the.

453
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,160
Speaker 3: Farm again, Let me repeat myself. What if Robby came,

454
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Speaker 3: If Robbie were to want to move to a farm

455
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Speaker 3: with me, I.

456
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Speaker 2: Just want you to go for a I just want

457
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 2: to experience you in your simple life era on a farm.

458
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:29,960
Speaker 2: You and Robbie Beverly Hills nine o two one oh.

459
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Speaker 4: Three feet on the ground like to the Upers. Yeah,

460
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 4: that'd be a pretty good show.

461
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 2: That would be a great show I'd watch.

462
00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 4: Well. I hope Robbie gets a job in northern Michigan.

463
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 3: No, I'm not saying no. Okay, Okay, We're.

464
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 2: Gonna revisit this.

465
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

466
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Speaker 4: We also got a lot of response to the talk

467
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 4: of Danny Austin. Again, this is a big one, Jamie says,

468
00:21:55,720 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 4: Hi Beck at Tonya, Mark and Eastern. Actually, sorry, I apologize.

469
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Speaker 4: I just want to start off by saying I'm a

470
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Speaker 4: Day one listener. Love listening to you since the beginning,

471
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 4: and it's kept me busy on my long drafts to work.

472
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 4: I look forward to it every week and the two

473
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 4: days a week now makes my heart so happy. I

474
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 4: also followed Danny. She's very open and I love it.

475
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 4: I have a four year old. I had fertility challenges.

476
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 4: I love being pregnant, but it's so different for everyone.

477
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 4: Labor is completely different, and my best advice is don't

478
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 4: have so many expectations, have an idea of a birth plan,

479
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 4: but also go with the flow, as anything can happen.

480
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 4: I love being a mom. It has its challenges as

481
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,199
Speaker 4: anything does, and it's not easy, but you figure out

482
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 4: how it works with your lifestyle. Kids are amazing. I

483
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 4: am someone who loves the infant stage, but every stage

484
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,120
Speaker 4: has its challenges. It's such an exciting time to start

485
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 4: thinking about it. Don't let us stress you out. Do

486
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,400
Speaker 4: what works for you. And once you're a mom, it's

487
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:43,920
Speaker 4: the same and you have to listen to your gut.

488
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 4: Excited for your wedding. Tanya, you guys are the best.

489
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 2: I love the infant stage too, that's my favorite stage.

490
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 2: Like the babies I've been around, like they're not walking yet,

491
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 2: but they can hold their head up. That stage where

492
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 2: they're like chunky and like kind of babbling, that's like

493
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 2: the best to me cause when they start walking up

494
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 2: to chase them everywhere, and that seems like back pain.

495
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 4: An old bossom had said to me. Once you set

496
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 4: them down and they don't stay where you set them down,

497
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 4: that's when things start to go real fast. And I've

498
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 4: found and of course I'm on the other end of

499
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 4: it now, but boy, once they can drive goodbye, that's

500
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 4: pretty much your time as their parent is done. They're

501
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 4: gonna live with you for a few more years, but

502
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 4: you're never gonna see them, and that's gonna be that

503
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 4: that independence is really a major change because at first

504
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 4: you're like, oh, this is great, I don't have to

505
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 4: drive her to dance, Like I bet I drive my

506
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 4: youngest daughter to dance seven times a week. Well, no,

507
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 4: because I got to go there end backs. We're probably

508
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 4: talking ten to twelve times a week. I drive to

509
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 4: the dance center and back, and the dance center and back.

510
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 4: It's a lot. And so oh she can drive herself.

511
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 4: I don't do that anymore. Oh my gosh, you gonna

512
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: be so much time. But then you realize there is

513
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 4: so much quality time spent in that car together. Those

514
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 4: are good conversations. That is bonding going out in that car.

515
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 4: And when that's gone, you realize how little bonding you

516
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 4: do other than that. Right, you're just kind of in

517
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 4: the house together. You're not having those conversations every day

518
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 4: that you had in the car. So when my oldest

519
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 4: started driving, that was the real adjustment. Like, oh, man,

520
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 4: I miss her and she's still here in the house

521
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 4: with me, but I miss her because those conversations are gone.

522
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 2: It's depressing.

523
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 4: And now she's in college crying.

524
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 2: No, but that's depressing.

525
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like you put all this work.

526
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: In and then you just get a car there out.

527
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 4: You remember what it is you that.

528
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 2: When oh, when I got my car and I had

529
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:40,880
Speaker 2: my CD, uh like envelope that had Oh my god, man,

530
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: they'll never know.

531
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Speaker 3: They'll never know. They just sy bill cover. I did

532
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 3: not have a cover hot, pink, fuzzy.

533
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Speaker 4: It's so funny to watch her because I have to

534
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 4: be with her, because she's got a permit busher sits down,

535
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 4: plugs in that phone, puts on the playlist she wants,

536
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 4: hits media on the dashboard, puts on the sunglasses, just

537
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 4: those mirrors, and she's it's so great, It's really great.

538
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 3: So cute.

539
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 4: All right, Michaele's fighting the number eighteen? Did we? Oh hey,

540
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 4: scrubbing and pot. I wanted to write in a stand

541
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Speaker 4: up for my favorite number. I know there's been some

542
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 4: back and forth on Tanya's favorite number being eighteen? Are

543
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 4: we anti that? I don't remember as being anti eighteen?

544
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 2: I think we were just like, why right?

545
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 4: I want to write and let you know that not

546
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 4: only is my birthday the same as Tanya's July eighteen,

547
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 4: cap my favorite number has been eighteen my whole life,

548
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 4: and I'm twenty four. The number Eighteen has always been

549
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 4: very good to me, and I always seem to show

550
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 4: up in most random places. I recommend one hundred percent

551
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 4: having eighteen is your favorite number and you should never change.

552
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,959
Speaker 4: Love the pod, Tanya, stay with eighteen. It'll treat you well.

553
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 2: Thank you.

554
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 3: And you know why I love eighteen because eight plus

555
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 3: one equals nine and it's the year of the nine.

556
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Speaker 2: Okay, the change next year your pipe. You know what's

557
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 2: so crazy is that eighteen is such a huge number

558
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: in my family because that was my brother in law's

559
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 2: number when he played to LS. So it was like

560
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 2: all my nephews, you know, that's like eighteen. There's such

561
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: a thing around eighteen. So I'm I'm very familiar with

562
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 2: the passion around eighteen. It just didn't make sense for you.

563
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 2: It's still My birthday is on the eighteen.

564
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 3: That's it. I love the number eight infinity it never ends.

565
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 4: And you and Robbie are going to be together for

566
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Speaker 4: one infinity one eight eighteen.

567
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 3: We're getting not married on the eighteenth.

568
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: No one you didn't know at that point.

569
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right.

570
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 2: This is a yeadatatious favorite number.

571
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, thank you, Caitlin.

572
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Speaker 4: Hello friends, So I wrote in before and had you

573
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Speaker 4: guys categorize the original grays interns as Tanya's or Becca's

574
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Speaker 4: And it was fun. So now let's do friends much

575
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 4: like Becca. Friends is my comfort show. I go to

576
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 4: bed watching it on Nick at night every night. So

577
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 4: who is a Tanya and who is a Becca? I

578
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 4: can't wait to hear your take. Thanks for all that

579
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:58,919
Speaker 4: you do, the four of you. I could not be

580
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 4: more obsessed with Mark. They know that's nice. Bring me

581
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 4: The four of you bring me so much much needed

582
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 4: stress free happiness.

583
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: By the way, do you know what Robbie said to

584
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 3: me the other day? What So when we got our dog.

585
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 3: Becca is one of my best friends. She named her

586
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 3: dog Phoebe. Pauline is another one of my best friends.

587
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 3: She named her dog Joey. I was like, we have

588
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 3: a Phoebe and a Joey. We need to name our

589
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 3: dog a friend's character. Whichever one right, And they were like,

590
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: he was not into it. And then we landed on Sunny,

591
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 3: which is like, she's totally a sunny girl. But yesterday

592
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 3: Robbie looks at her, he goes, she does look like

593
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 3: a Rachel.

594
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 2: She's so.

595
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 3: It was so it was the best opportunity.

596
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 2: I had to let you do it, you how to

597
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: do because it was your dog and whatever. But I

598
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: was like, she is a Rachel.

599
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 3: She is a Rachel. She is pristine, she's gorgeous.

600
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 2: She has a lot of anal gland issues though, like

601
00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 2: a Rachel, such a Rachel thing, Rachel Greens.

602
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 3: And sometimes with the wrong haircut, it gets a little dicey.

603
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 2: Rachel Green doesn't have a single bad haircut the entirety

604
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: of friends.

605
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, she does in the beginning eight Yeah, in the

606
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 3: beginning years. When it's like, but is.

607
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 4: The pre Rachel, right, are you saying pre Rachel?

608
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 3: No? No, she was Rachel at the time. Rachel Rachel,

609
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 3: the like short one. I'm just saying.

610
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 4: Rachel.

611
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 2: She's definitely a Becka.

612
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 4: How about Monica Geller, Tanya? How about Phoebe Tanya? How

613
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 4: about Chandler Bing?

614
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: I think Beca the sarcasm, Yeah, okay. And Joey's you

615
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: so I always when I watched the show, there's things

616
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 2: that Joey, Phoebe and Monica dor say and I'm like,

617
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: that is so, Tanya. I think Monica's energy to me

618
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: is the most you like her like passion and like

619
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 2: how she like screams things when she's excited. That's so

620
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 2: you to me.

621
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

622
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 2: Sometimes Phoebe does things where I'm like, that is just

623
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 2: Tanya trying to come up with a word, you know,

624
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: that vibe. Yeah, and then Joey does things sometimes just

625
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 2: randomly where I'm like a huzzled, like I would say,

626
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 2: like ten percent Tanya.

627
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 3: So you're Rachel. Because Rachel's just the perfect one. I

628
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 3: feel like you're like the perfect one.

629
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 2: I'm not the perfect one.

630
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 3: You are, though, don't you think she's the perfect one.

631
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 2: I'm not the perfect Yeah.

632
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like teacher's pet.

633
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 2: You're totally teacher's pet.

634
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 3: I'm like the opposite of teacher's pet. You guys come on.

635
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 2: Everything by the book. You're literally like show up for

636
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 2: anything and everything you're asked to do with like.

637
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 3: Because I have to. We're all get booted out of you. Rachel.

638
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 3: Let me tell you it's.

639
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 4: The in school. I bet you were a major teacher.

640
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, mister Martinez, finitely have a favorite student and

641
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 4: it was you.

642
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 3: Yes, definitely. Okay, But I'm saying now in life.

643
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 4: Does that change that much?

644
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 2: Yes.

645
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 4: The people that are in charge here that aren't big

646
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 4: fans of yours. I feel like that's on them. It's

647
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 4: not because you haven't been a proper teacher's pet, like

648
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 4: you're some sort of rebel or something.

649
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 3: No, no, I'm not saying I'm a rebel. I'm just saying

650
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 3: Becca is the favorite.

651
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 4: Well, I don't know how. I haven't seen Beck interact

652
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 4: with an authority figure.

653
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

654
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 2: Who are who? And I'm saying, like, who are you

655
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 2: saying I'm the favorite? To like, who are you saying? No?

656
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 4: No?

657
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: Oh yes, yes something there, thank you, thank you? AnyWho?

658
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 3: Becca is the Rachel in that regard. And then now

659
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 3: I do see the Chandler, the sarcasm, the funny quips

660
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 3: like quick on his toes, that side of Chandler. Now,

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Speaker 3: Ross Geller is an interesting one. Who is he?

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Speaker 2: Ross's Robbie? I see so much of Robbie when Ross

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Speaker 2: does certain things you do?

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Speaker 3: Yes, well, first of all, that's not the game. It's

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Speaker 3: Tanira back up.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, Ross might be a combo yeah, because

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I really identify with Ross.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I identify with him, but he's my

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Speaker 3: favorite character.

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Speaker 2: The show is based around him. So I was Robbie

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Speaker 2: at Ross there's certain things that he does, you know

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Speaker 2: how Ross when Robbie's want to say something goes like that.

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Speaker 5: Ross. Oh my god, when Robbie's tried to explain something

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Speaker 5: and he starts and he's like yeah, like he's thinking,

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Speaker 5: so he like makes this sound what are you are

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Speaker 5: you kidding? He was, yeah, you'll notice it, okay, but

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Speaker 5: it's like he's thinking of what just how to answer.

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Speaker 2: So it's like Ross Rousse will do it sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really funny. I would say. I would say Ross, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: well I think yeah, Russell's bonnya you'll know.

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Speaker 3: Now I'm going to pay attention.

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Speaker 4: I've never noticed that when you take one more break,

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Speaker 4: we have a very sweet email on the other side.

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Speaker 1: Great, her truth is ready, I think coming back from

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Speaker 1: the break.

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Speaker 3: That's right, I'm gonna go get it put in tomorrow. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations.

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Speaker 4: By the way, if we discussed the fact that her

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Speaker 4: dentist is a thousand miles.

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Speaker 2: From here, yeah, it's strange.

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Speaker 4: It's a deep Orange County and the.

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Speaker 3: Orange County it's La County. It's the La County. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: up until Long Beach.

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Speaker 2: Someone who changes dentists every time I go because I

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Speaker 2: always think I'm going to find someone who makes it

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Speaker 2: less miserable, and it's just that the dentist is miserable. Sounds,

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Speaker 2: it's everything. But I'm like, there's got to be someone

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Speaker 2: in the LA region close in the Beverly Hills region

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Speaker 2: you live. Probably Oh, her lights, not her internal lights,

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Speaker 2: but her out well.

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Speaker 3: We're internal lights. Next, Like, I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like you could find the best dentists in the

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Speaker 2: world in your zip code.

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Speaker 3: First of all, it's not about the best dentist. There

706
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Speaker 3: are so many good dentists. However, this dentist is my uncle.

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Speaker 3: So it's like I can go on if I book

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Speaker 3: an a point, you know, with our schedule. If I book

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Speaker 3: him on like a Tuesday or whatever and I can't

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Speaker 3: make it, I just text them and say, hey, I

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Speaker 3: can't make it. Can I come Thursday. I can't do

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Speaker 3: that with a normal dentist.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't realize it was your uncle.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, be at the wedding, Okay, I can't.

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Speaker 2: Wait to meet him. Yeah, I'm looking for might be

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Speaker 2: able to do it touch up if you need.

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Speaker 3: A touch up. Yeah, my tooth is my wedding gift.

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Speaker 2: That's a good one.

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Speaker 3: Like I was like, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Quite aposse, you have your aesthetition there, your dentist truly

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Speaker 4: your coming to Khanya rolled deep.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my dentist is my dad's best friend, so like so.

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Speaker 4: Not actually your uncle.

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Speaker 3: He's not my real uncle, but like basically my uncle.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right, this is very sweet.

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Speaker 4: This is also another example of how people find us

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Speaker 4: random ways they find us. I guess I assume it's

728
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Speaker 4: all all people in knew Becca from the Bachelor and

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Speaker 4: people in Nutania from the radio show Hi Beca, Tanya

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Speaker 4: and Easton and Mark. I've been listening to the podcast

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Speaker 4: for two point five years now. I originally listened to

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Speaker 4: it after Becca and Haley became public. I wanted to

733
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Speaker 4: know who the girl who stole lesbian Jesus's heart.

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Speaker 3: Was, Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: And if she seemed like a girl who was going

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Speaker 4: to be good to our sweet and swaggy Haley.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: And I gained so much more. Not only did I

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Speaker 4: learn about Becca and the wonderful when that she is,

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Speaker 4: but I was introduced Tanya, who is hilarious and unapologetically herself,

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Speaker 4: as well as Markernis. There were some of the sweetest

742
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Speaker 4: guys and have the best one liners the entire scrubbing

743
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Speaker 4: group with a smile in my face. Every week I

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Speaker 4: laugh and I learn so much from you all. The

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Speaker 4: podcast truly changed my life, and I will say this

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Speaker 4: to anyone who will listen. I am forever grateful. I

747
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Speaker 4: was originally emailing you all because I'm dealing with a

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Speaker 4: broken heart, but I don't think there's a point in

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Speaker 4: asking for advice when I know the answer. I've been

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Speaker 4: wanting to email you all for over two years because

751
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: I genuinely loved the podcast. So as long as you

752
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 4: all read this, I'll be happy.

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Speaker 2: Laura, Laura, we love you.

754
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Speaker 3: About the girl who stole Swaggy Hailey. Sweet Swaggy Haley's heart.

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Speaker 2: Sweet Swaggy really sums Haley up honest perfectly perfume like.

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Speaker 3: Haley.

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Speaker 4: But it sounds like she came to the show with

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Speaker 4: a little bit of a chip on her shoulder, Like, well,

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Speaker 4: let's see who this is. She can't be good enough

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Speaker 4: for our Look how the one that she is?

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Speaker 3: I love that Harper?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who.

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Speaker 3: Risen Harper?

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Speaker 2: Her husband is shared?

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Speaker 4: Oh right, yeah, right, right right, Oh that's right. She

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Speaker 4: came with a chip on her shoulder.

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Speaker 3: Let me hear her.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing, that's so cute.

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Speaker 1: Laura.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry you're going through a broken heart, but I

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Speaker 2: hope that our silly podcast can bring you some joy

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Speaker 2: while you're navigating it.

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Speaker 4: You can do so much better than that person, exactly.

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Speaker 3: And you know what a broken heart just means that

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Speaker 3: it can be put back together, and you're going to

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Speaker 3: put it back together, right because you're gonna love again.

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Speaker 3: You will, and that person will take care of that heart.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, exactly. We love you, Laura. That was so

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Speaker 2: nice to the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Yeah all right.

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Speaker 2: Well, next time we're back, we will be discussing, uh

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Speaker 2: the super Bowl. Will Taylor Swift come out with Kendrick

783
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Speaker 2: Lamar for Bad Blood? Stay tuned.

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Speaker 3: We will will still be here, That'll be gone, that'll

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Speaker 3: be gone.

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Speaker 2: Say goodbye because they will never see her again.

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Speaker 4: Have fun this weekend