WEBVTT - Save A Horse, Ride A Cowboy, Marry A Farmer 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:14.560 Welcome back to I Do Part two. I'm one of 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:17.560 your celebrity mentors. It's Jenniferfessler from the Real Housewives of 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:21.000 New Jersey and co host of the podcast Two Jersey Jays. 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:24.279 Today is going to be fun. On this podcast, we 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:26.360 talk a lot about the chapter two of it all, 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:29.280 but today I'm going to be joined by two handsome 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:31.120 men who are trying to get it right the first 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:34.239 time around. Help me. Welcome John and Matt from the 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:36.760 new season A Farmer Wants a Wife to the podcast. 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:41.599 Hi guys, welcome, welcome, Thanks for having us, well, thank 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.200 you for coming. I have to say, the first thing 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:45.279 that occurs to me looking at the both of you is, 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.800 why would one choose to be a farmer when they 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:49.200 so obviously should be a model? 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:51.680 What are you thinking? 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:53.320 And probably I don't know if it would be easier 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.080 or not. It feels like it'd be easier than being 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:58.440 a farmer. But you're both gorgeous, and I mean you're 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.800 here and you're single looking for love. We're just so 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.800 excited to find out what is going on. Well, actually 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.600 wore my cowboy hat in your honor. I love it 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:11.440 out right right right, Thank you very flattering. Thank you. 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:14.279 So all right, let's get into all the upcoming season. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:18.199 A farmer wants a wife. We actually just talked about 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:21.680 this on a recent episode of the podcast. But did 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:25.520 you guys know that, according to a divorce attorney, farmers 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:28.440 are one of the professions least likely to cheat in 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:29.199 a marriage. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:30.679 Really, have you heard that? 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:33.800 Someone else told me that recently. I don't remember where 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:35.600 I heard that, but I definitely believe it. 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:38.040 Ladies, if you didn't want them because they're so good looking, 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:42.160 here's the thing, they're all so loyal. So top three 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:46.040 careers to not cheat accountant's, pharmacists, and farmers. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.520 Wow. Right, accountant surprises me too. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:52.680 My husband started out as an accountant. And if we're 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:56.600 going to be real here on the pod, didn't really 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:58.560 work out that quite that way for us. We're still together. 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:01.560 Oh you're the exception. I guess we were the exception. 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:05.880 Yes, yeah, but I think that's interesting. I mean, you 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:08.440 guys are still you're still young, but you really are 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:10.079 looking to settle down, both of you. 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:11.920 Yeah about young? 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:14.519 Wow, well, what are you thirty? I'm thirty. 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:15.280 I'm twice six. 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:16.880 You don't think that that's young. 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:22.320 No, I was proud. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:25.040 You guys bring this dynamic to the show. Yeah, you 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.800 became good friends, there four of you. 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:28.720 The first day I walked up on filming, I hadn't 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:31.079 met the guys in and immediately like, you're the oldest one. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:34.840 Okay, listen, I can't have this conversation. I'm fifty six 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:39.200 years old. So you guys have this among I appreciate that. Wow, 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.360 your baby. I have a twenty five year old son. 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:44.800 Oh really, I'm getting depressed. Let's move on. Tell me 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.680 a little bit about we're just going to start jump 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:50.600 right in. What kind of woman that you're looking for? 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.519 Let's go first, Go ahead, man, let's take this one 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:55.799 all right. You know, I'll say too that I was 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:58.040 pretty impressed on the show, like they really did care about, 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.800 like what you're looking for. It's not just based off 0:03:00.240 --> 0:03:01.000 and whatever, you know. 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:03.840 So the things that I you know, it's not just 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:04.880 looks that you're looking for. 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:09.160 No, I like looks, but the things that I had 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:12.760 said is like a you know, really family oriented Christian 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:16.959 and you know, just someone that likes to have fun 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:20.640 is my biggest thing, because I love just traveling and 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:22.359 doing things and being out with friends and all that 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:24.920 kind of stuff. So I've been with gals in the past, 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.400 I like don't enjoy that as much. And so that 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:28.440 creates problems there. 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:30.520 Because is it a travel thing or just not so. 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.799 Much travel, but just you know, being with friends, being 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.560 with my family. I just some girls, you know, they 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.320 just want to be just with you all the time. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:40.880 Red Flag girl doesn't have girlfriends or a lot of girlfriends. 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:42.760 It is. Yeah, that's interesting. 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:48.160 Yeah, in my experience, been pretty good indication of no. 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:49.320 I think that's so interesting. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:50.960 Yeah, which, you know, teach their out. You don't have 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:51.720 to do that but. 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:55.200 For you, for me, because I'm not to make it 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:57.280 about me, but I like to do that. But like 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:59.920 I am a very social person and my husband really 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:03.040 never was. But for some reason it worked. I could 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:05.600 kind of brought them over to the dark side. But yeah, 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:08.640 I guess maybe easier to start out with someone that's 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:10.800 like you, likes to go out, likes to mix it 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:13.040 up a little bit. Bavel what about you? What are 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:13.560 we looking for? 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:15.840 I mean, going into the show, I was really looking 0:04:15.840 --> 0:04:17.760 for somebody who would just be a great mother, you know, 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:21.120 somebody who's nurturing and caring, also support me through and through. 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:25.080 So that I could do the same for her. But 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.599 going through the show and you know, coming out of 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:30.000 it after like kind of being reflective in the OTF, 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.840 which is what we call the interviews, the side of interviews, 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:36.479 I kind of just decide on somebody, you know, I 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.480 want somebody who I can just really get along with 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:41.160 in the end, because that's all that really matters. That's 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:42.400 who you're going to be spending the rest of your 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.440 life with. So if you really can't get along with 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:45.320 that person. 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:48.200 Then yeah, no, I think it's that's absolutely true. But 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:50.120 I'm going to say to you both that all of 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:51.840 what you're saying, I mean I think that a lot 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:54.960 of girls can fit the bill right what you're describing, 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:57.800 likes to have fun and someone you can get along with. 0:04:58.200 --> 0:04:59.560 So I got to get we're going have to get 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:04.240 a little deep for right, Christian very true sost to you. 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:08.479 Both of you or someone someone open to it religious, 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:12.520 we're both okay, So I mean that's helpful, right, so 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.240 that at least we can narrow it down a little bit. 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:17.480 Anything else you can give me though, and maybe even 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:21.560 after filming, like specifics, I really I realized that I 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:24.640 like girls with whatever long dark hair, or I like 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:27.400 girls that love Would you bond with any of these 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:29.320 girls specifically over something I like? 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:32.400 I really like girls that don't like me as much. 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:38.760 It's a horrible it is not let me tell you something. 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:42.680 You came to the right place because I don't like No, 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:46.040 because I used to work for this. I used to 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.080 work for these women that wrote a book called The Rules, 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:49.680 and the Rules is all about how to play hard 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:52.159 to get. This is going back when I was your age. 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:54.520 I worked for these people and there's this whole philosophy 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:56.920 on it that I actually subscribe to and I try 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.200 to get my daughters to subscribe to it as well. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:02.760 Is men just love the chase it is. I don't 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:05.040 know if that's a good thing, a bad thing, if 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:07.120 it's feminist, if it's not. But I just think that 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:10.120 most men want what they don't think they can have. 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:13.400 And I think that's super nature eneral. 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:17.120 Yeah, but yeah, I could definitely see that with men, 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.880 especially when I mean personally, when I was younger, I 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:22.200 definitely had that. 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:25.200 Yeah, it's changed for me, definitely. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.040 Changes older and older. 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:28.240 Really Yeah, Yeah, when I was like early you know, 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.400 early twenties, whatever you want to say, that really was 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.360 like that, but then as time has gone on, it's like, okay, 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.760 kind of like some of that, but not not too 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:36.760 much because. 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:38.800 Not you you want a bitch, but like you want 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:40.320 someone who's not how I. 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:42.920 Was going to say it, but yes, yeah, but just 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:46.120 you know, it's just as soon as you are with 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:47.960 someone and it's like right off the bat, they're just 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:49.120 infatuated with you. 0:06:49.080 --> 0:06:50.400 And I'm kind of stay turn off. 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:52.240 It is for me unfortunately, and I hate to say 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.000 that because it's flattering, and like. 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:56.360 You, I know what it is. 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:58.159 Do you watch need it? No? 0:06:58.240 --> 0:06:59.120 I really watch TV. 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:03.280 I can't these two. I can't. How how did you 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.560 guys end? Yes, it's Bravo. Well, there's a couple on 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:08.960 it right now and she is just way too upfront 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:12.320 with in terms of how she feels and wanting to 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:14.960 get serious too soon. But anyway, no, I think that's 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:16.960 that's really interesting. So girls that play a little hard 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:17.280 to get. 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:20.200 Yeah, well, I think the unfortunate thing about well, I 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:23.440 wouldn't say unfortunate, but the interesting thing about this show 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.840 is we filmed it all in one month, so you know, 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:28.600 by the end of it, people either had to come 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.040 out of their show, like that right, or stay reserved. 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.480 So it's okay, interesting to see how everybody kind of 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:35.560 plays out after having that discussion. 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:39.720 Yeah, it's really like read six months compressed at the 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:41.160 one dating, you know, because. 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:41.960 You've got to get right into it. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.360 You're talking about like really serious. So I'll never do 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:45.480 that like in a normal. 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:49.200 Dating situation, right, No, that's very true. So interesting. I'm 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:51.800 just picturing what I would tell my daughter if she 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:53.560 was going on like I would definitely tell her to 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:55.080 play hard to get. But how do you do that 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:56.480 in a month when you're supposed to get to know 0:07:56.520 --> 0:08:00.000 everyone and get your cards out on the table. All right? 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.120 So what kind of marriages do you guys come from? 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.600 Tell me a little bit about your parents. Have they 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:06.640 ever been parents? Still together? 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:11.040 My parents would? They've been together forty six years? I think, wow, 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:12.400 never even considered it. 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.160 Forty six years. They started young. 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:18.320 Yeah, my dad's early seventies and my mom's getting close 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:18.800 to seventy. 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:20.400 You have boost too, sisters. 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:22.600 There's four of us. I'm the youngest and. 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:24.880 You're the youngest, right, Okay, coming together now? Got it? 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:28.440 Very strong, Maria and they very strong? Happy, Yes, Niver, 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:33.280 fight come on, I swear. Really, Oh my god, I 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:34.679 feel bad for the girl you end up with. 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.680 It's tough to compare. But my dad's still gets upset 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:40.559 she's gone for more than a day or two. 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.120 Really, that's very cool. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.120 Yeah, I love that. I know it's getting rid of 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.120 these days. So that's it's really cool to come from that. 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:50.320 That seems like quite a fairy tale marriage. 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:51.880 Yeah, really, it really is. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:55.600 Well, my parents are is probably more I wouldn't no, 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:58.400 not no offense to you, but like more realistic in 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:01.439 the sense they do fight obviously, but they always make 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:03.040 up before bed. That's one of the big things. 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:03.400 Really. 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:07.679 Yeah, and they've been together for multiple years as well. 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:12.920 I come from six siblings, so I think that was 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:15.600 one of the biggest He is a glue that held 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:17.199 our whole family to better. Is just having a lot 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:18.000 of siblings. 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:21.880 You guys grew up one of you in California. Yeah, 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:23.640 I can't say it, abyss. How do you say it? 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:24.760 San Louis obispo? 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:27.760 You say's slow for sure, San Leuis obispo. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.079 Slow is a good abbreviation people, so. 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:33.080 Slow, okay, And then Saint Louis Saint Louis right, Yeah, 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:36.080 So I'm just picturing these marriages and these lives and 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:39.160 these kids, and it all seems very wholesome and very 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:42.439 small towns. I don't know that much about San Louis. 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.320 It is like fifty thousand people, so it's smaller, but 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.439 it's a college of town. There's a lot of stuff 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:49.640 going on there still so of good mix of both. 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.600 Okay, I'm just trying to If I say the Walton, 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:54.079 do you won't even know what I'm talking about, right, 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:55.240 Oh my. 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:57.480 God, the Walton. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:59.920 It was a show that I watched about this fan 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.160 and they lived on a farm, and they would so 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:06.840 wholesome and whatever. So you lived. It sounds to me 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:10.880 like even though different states sort of similar worlds may 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:11.640 be very country. 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:14.280 Yeah, yeah, it seems like it, you know, the country 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:14.640 for me. 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:18.360 Actually not very countryport or really not that way. Oh 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:22.920 they're not okay, yeah, okay, yeah. And in these towns though, 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:25.480 you guys, I'm picturing you dating a lot. I'm picturing 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:28.080 you guys, neither one of you having a problem meeting girls. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:31.760 Well, it's you know, I wouldn't consider Saint Louis a 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:34.160 small town, but right people like to consider it a 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:39.040 big small town. Everybody knows everybody. The one question you 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:41.240 asked when find out somebody's from Saint Louis is what 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:41.959 high school did. 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:42.240 You go to? 0:10:42.440 --> 0:10:44.920 Really, and then you can immediately gauge who they knew, 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.400 where they came from, what realiation they usually are. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.480 Yeah, so that's you. That's where I grew up. 0:10:50.559 --> 0:10:52.480 See, I didn't picture. I know, I wasn't really talking 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.679 about Saint Louis. If you guys lived in very small 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:56.880 like I say, I'm from Houston, I'm only from Sugarland, 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:59.960 like there's it's just sort of small, like but Californ 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:02.200 in Saint Louis so not small small but no. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:02.600 Yeah. 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.240 The thing with the reason I'm on Farmer wants a 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:07.440 Wife is because my mom grew up on a farm 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:09.800 that's been our family for five generations about an hour 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:13.480 and a half south of Saint Louis, and my grandfather 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:15.079 still lives there, and I go down there and help 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:17.600 them out where I can, and you know, ultimately want to. 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:18.520 Live that lifestyle. 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:19.800 Cool. 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.160 So she was in the city and met my dad 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:25.560 on a Fourth of July party and then she stuck around. 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:26.080 Yeah. 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:28.320 So dating apps, tell me about your experience. How do 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:30.480 you use them? What's your experience been. 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.360 I don't know how to put it down into one word. Interesting. 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:38.440 Yeah, Tender and Bumble. We're definitely younger apps that I used, 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:40.440 like high school, college and stuff like that. 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.720 And then I kind of moved just towards airing it 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:43.560 down on the Hinge. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:47.080 Yeah, but I haven't had Hinge for like, you know 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:51.400 and a half two years now, so why it just 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:54.160 started to get ridiculous. You know, nobody was actually really 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:56.200 on there to date. You know, it's just more of 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.640 a let's go get a drink and hook up. 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:02.840 Yeah, so okay, interesting, but it was fun. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:03.760 it sounds fun. 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:08.040 And I've virtually never had any dating apps. I think, 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:10.480 like when Tender first came out, like I don't know, 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:12.360 ten years ago, I had it for like a week 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:17.200 or two. Okay, but just not my style whatsoever. I 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:19.280 just I think I'm really social. I love being out 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:21.840 and like beating girls and like that's fun, like the 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.240 experience of it or the thrill, you know, like walking 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:25.880 up to a random girl at a bar like that 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:26.560 kind of stuff. 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:28.800 I mean, I have to tell you, I'm looking at 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.360 you guys, and I'm picturing that I don't know who 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:33.800 couldn't you go on Farmer Wants a White Like I 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.320 would think that you're both overwhelmed with dates, like I 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:40.280 can't imagine, like girls are just they must have gone crazy. 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:41.040 Well, I don't know. 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:42.560 This is also on video, so you guys are going 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:44.920 to see what I'm talking about. But I've never seen 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:51.640 two more adorable boys and sweet with good families. 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:54.520 Yeah, yeah, were very blessed. I think of the both 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:55.160 of us, you know. 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:59.480 Yeah, yeah, I have a daughter. Okay, we'll talk after 0:12:59.480 --> 0:12:59.839 the show. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:00.720 To go on the show. 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:02.800 Oh yeah, yeah, she's not leaving me. She's not leaving 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:16.120 New Jersey. Tell me a little bit about you know, 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.080 getting on the show. Were you excited to meet all 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:20.600 these women like you must have been a little intimidating 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:24.480 all at once, real life women, real life dates. You know, 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:25.319 we're you nervous? 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:29.360 Yeah, extremely. We walked into this big great room where 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:32.000 we had will just see the ladies for the first time. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:35.079 Were that it was everybody is everybody mid twenties, early thirties. 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:38.319 Yeah, you got to mine were yeah, yeah, kind of 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:38.959 got to ask. 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:39.560 That's what name you did? 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:41.000 Well, because it's funny because I got I have a 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.360 question for you guys a little bit. I was gonna 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:44.839 ask a little bit later, but why not just jump 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:46.559 right in? Have you ever dated older women? 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:50.120 Yeah, couple within the same like year. 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.600 That's not older within the same year. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:56.960 You just said, yeah, like I was ninety nine, so 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:59.520 like usually within ninety nine, ninety eight, ninety seven. 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:02.040 Got it. I'm meant older, like old or older. Now, 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:04.319 I think maybe put that, you know what. I think 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:07.080 maybe our producers wanted me to ask, just to like 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:10.679 humiliate myself, like I'm not looking for a long time, 0:14:11.440 --> 0:14:12.319 very cute. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:17.360 But she's all specifically yeah, specifically, No, it's we're like 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:17.920 four years. 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:19.280 I think that does not count. 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:21.000 You guys have never dated older? 0:14:21.160 --> 0:14:26.320 Okay, so all right, let's just talk also a little 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:29.920 bit about the fact that you are farmers. And I'm 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.640 thinking that it's that part of why it's you know, 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:36.480 been hard to you know, maybe nail something down get 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:38.200 because you're so busy with your farming. 0:14:39.400 --> 0:14:42.120 I would not say that for me. I can't speak 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:44.440 for John, but I do live in somewhat of a 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:46.320 smaller area and I did grow up and there's one 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:49.120 high school there, and so when I was like early 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:52.240 twenties at college, ten too, So there's like new girls 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:54.280 moving into the area all the time, so like there's 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.480 way more opportunities. But then now that I'm like thirty 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:59.720 or almost thirty one, it's like, okay, well college girls 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:03.480 are too young, yeah and so, and it's like, all right, 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:06.720 who actually lives here and is like you know, so 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:08.880 that starts to really narrow it down. And then you know, 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:11.320 I either grew up with them already or dated them 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:12.360 before my friend. 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:13.920 Did, or so that's interesting. Huh. 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:17.200 Yeah, So this opportunity came up, and it's like, well, 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.000 you could meet someone from like my gals were from 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:21.120 all over the country. 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:25.360 So so do you are you looking also for someone 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:28.560 who will be into the farming lifestyle whatever that is. 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.280 So, I know, Matt and I talked about this a lot. 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:35.080 We're not like the lifestyle, yes, but. 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.000 What's the lifestyle in terms of like. 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:38.760 Wyat yeah quiet. 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.440 It was traditional so much aimed at the work. Like 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.200 a lot of people on the show, we were focusing 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:47.480 on like the farm work, ye, like the living, like 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:51.960 living in the country, you know, raising my children in 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:53.920 those types of areas, and like the big thing for 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:56.520 us is like I really love all of our neighbors. 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:59.120 Like all the other neighbors are families who farm and 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:02.200 ranch and a really good people and so like, you know, 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:04.640 the kids my nephews go to school, if like they're 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.320 these neighbor kids that they all play with and it's 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:07.360 like just such a good life. 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:10.040 You know, you have like nine nieces and. 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.800 Nephews and a god daughter and like twenty other kids 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:14.720 that think I'm on their uncle. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:17.560 Do you like maybe you've got like some biological clock 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:22.400 thing going on here, Like the kids thing is, yeah. 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:24.280 I want kids pretty quick. Once I get married, it's 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:25.880 going to be we're going to start rifleing. 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:27.760 Yeah, but I want to, you know, kids, since I 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.600 was really always wanted to be a dad. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:34.520 Really it's very cool. So you guys are just right 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:38.320 for the picking. I'm okay, So anyway nice because I 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:41.040 mean you both could be I don't know. I know again, 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:43.600 I've got a son your age around your age, and 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:46.920 he has zero interest. He's just having himself a good 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:50.080 old time. He's not like thinking eventually, I know he 0:16:50.160 --> 0:16:51.080 wants that we'll enjoy. 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:51.760 Why you got it? 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:53.560 Yeah, I will say, like one thing. So up moved 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:54.520 to Austin, Texas for. 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:57.200 A bit I graduated from your tea, did you Okay. 0:16:56.840 --> 0:16:58.320 So you know what it's like there? Then yeah, But 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:01.240 I moved there, and I I felt way younger all 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.000 of a sudden, because there's a lot of people, like, 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:05.760 you know, older than I am that are still single 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:07.960 and like going out and there all stuff. So like, 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:10.719 all of a sudden, thirty is like pretty young in 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:11.520 that scene. 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:12.360 Like thirty is really young. 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:15.600 Yeah, but like comparatively so yeah yeah. And then but 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.080 when I'm back home, it's like it's totally different. So 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.360