1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,119 Speaker 2: Y'all know what. I don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 1: At all at all. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 3: So given them a. 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 4: Million bus things and it's. 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 3: Boozy they listening to to. 7 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 4: I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you. 8 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: Love you. 9 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 4: Gotta turn. 10 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 5: Got to turn up turn I probably got to turn out, 11 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 5: turn out, turn al the monk. 12 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: Come come out. 13 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 2: You'll think that I sure will. Good morning everybody. You 14 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 2: are listening to the voice, come on dig me now, 15 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man 16 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 2: o man o man. Hey, you know today, I just 17 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: want to say something that I don't think I've ever 18 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: shared this way before. The The title is very simple, 19 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 2: and that is it's been worth it to me, you 20 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: know I I just I just kept thinking that this morning, 21 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: that it's all been worth it to me. And what 22 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 2: I mean by that is this relationship that I have 23 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: with my heavenly father, it's been worth it to me. 24 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 2: I can't even tell you the value that it has 25 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:13,119 Speaker 2: had in my life. I can't tell you how it's 26 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 2: helped me to understand not only my purpose, but to 27 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: better understand my past. That's critical, man, because I'm grateful 28 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: for that, because so many people can't get beyond their 29 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 2: past and event a set of circumstances, some calamity that 30 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: besets them. Maybe it's been grief something, but it ties 31 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 2: so many people up. It's been so worth it to me. 32 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: It is, man, it's been worth having someone to go 33 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 2: to when no one else was there. Do you understand 34 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: what I'm saying? It has? It has given me a 35 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: place to go when no one else has been there. Oh, 36 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 2: hey man, we pulling for you. Hey man, hanging there, 37 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: Hey man, keep your head up. All of that. But 38 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 2: I gotta tell you, man, you get yourself in some 39 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: circumstances and situations in this thing called life, when no 40 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 2: one can help you but God, When the only person 41 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: that could possibly understand or know what you're feeling is God. 42 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: The only person that will sit there with you through 43 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 2: it all and understand everything about it has been God. 44 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 2: It's been worth it to me, Man, It's it's been 45 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 2: worth it to me. It's been the biggest improvement in 46 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: my life. I mean, man, as I look back over 47 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: my life, man, forming a strong bond with God has 48 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: been the most beneficial thing to me. You know, these 49 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 2: things you read in your in your in in writings 50 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 2: in the Bible or or whatever you're reading. You know, 51 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,679 Speaker 2: when you when you read scriptures and things of that nature. 52 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: It it's it's been around a long time. It holds 53 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 2: so much truth to it. I mean, man, it's like, 54 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 2: how could this have been written so long ago and 55 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:42,599 Speaker 2: still pertained directly to today? I mean that that's amazing. 56 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 2: That is amazing to me. 57 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 3: That. 58 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 2: I mean, that has to be God at work to 59 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: have written something so complete, so dead on point that 60 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: if you read it today it means exactly what pertains 61 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 2: to today. That's amazing, man. That's why my spiritual walk 62 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 2: it's just worth it to me. And I keep saying 63 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 2: it's worth it, because if you're sitting out there and 64 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: you tripping like I was tripping, deciding, nah, let me 65 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 2: do it. I got a few more things I want 66 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 2: to do. Couple more girls I want to holler at, 67 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 2: couple more things I want to get into. I got 68 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,480 Speaker 2: a cup more deals I want to do. I got 69 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: a little bit more dirt. I want to roll up 70 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 2: on me a little bit. First. For a while, man, 71 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: I wish I had known, I really wish I had 72 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 2: understood exactly what forming a relationship with God would do 73 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 2: for me it's been at worth Every person who out 74 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 2: there who hate know me, that don't even know me, 75 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 2: it's because I have a relationship with him that I'm 76 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: fine with that. I don't care for it, but it 77 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: ain't gonna stop me though, See, because I know for 78 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 2: a fact that haters make you greater. I know for 79 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 2: a fact that haters validate your mere existence. I know 80 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: for a fact that half of them is out of 81 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 2: envy and jealousy because of something you're doing that they 82 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 2: wish they could do or they won't credit for, so 83 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 2: they just nah, I ain't anything all that bam, And 84 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: now you just all over the place with people. Man, 85 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 2: I'm so grateful for this relationship that it has not 86 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: allowed outside influences that do not have my best interest 87 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 2: at heart to throw me off course. It has just 88 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 2: been worth it. And if you're sitting out there and 89 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:51,559 Speaker 2: you're wondering about the benefits of it, I can't even 90 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:55,239 Speaker 2: tell you what it's like to know that when bad 91 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: things are happening to me, the calming peace that I 92 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: feel that I know that that's gonna be all right too, 93 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: that I know that this too shall pass, that I 94 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: know in my heart of hearts man, that there's got 95 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 2: to be a reason for this, and if I can 96 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: just hang on in there, he gonna unfold that from 97 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 2: me and he gonna let me see it. But the 98 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: number one thing I always know is I'm gonna survive 99 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: this one too, that this too shall pass. It has 100 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: been worth it to me, man, to have this thing 101 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 2: called faith, which is the belief in things that you 102 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 2: cannot see, and to know man along the way that, 103 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 2: oh my goodness, man, even though I don't know what's next, 104 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 2: or even I'm not really sure about the next step, 105 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,559 Speaker 2: I do know for a fact that Samoa is coming. 106 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: I do know for a fact. It is a fact 107 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 2: that God will take care of me. It is a 108 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: fact that he will never ever leave me or desert me. 109 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 2: If I just stay here where I'm supposed to be. 110 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: He's coming. The Calvary's coming over the hill. He coming 111 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 2: over the hill. And when he come over that hill, 112 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 2: he gonna wipe out all this mess down here that's 113 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 2: trying to hurt me. That I don't have to worry 114 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: about my enemies anymore, that my enemies that are all 115 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: around you can surround me. You can shoot all the 116 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 2: arrows you want now it's not to say that none 117 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: of them ain't gonna come close. And I ain't gonna 118 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 2: say that, you know, I ain't gonna be a little 119 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: under some pressure, a little nervous about being shot at 120 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: so hard. But at the end of the day, I 121 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: know this for show. Ain't none of them gonna stick 122 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 2: in me. You can shoot them, but ain't none of 123 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:43,439 Speaker 2: them gonna stick in me. No matter what you do, 124 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: no weapon formed against me. Nothing you can't. You can't 125 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 2: do nothing with me. Man, I'm so cool. It's been 126 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: worth it for me. 127 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: Man, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 128 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, provide us and provide 129 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 2: us orchestra conductors. Those of you who own a major 130 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 2: fortune five hundred company, if you are a billionaire, if 131 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: you have been involved in a space program in any way, 132 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: if you have ever dreamed of landing on the moon, 133 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 2: I'm talking to you this morning. My message to you 134 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 2: is simple. Without God, you are nothing. So come on 135 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 2: over here with the rest of us and realize that, 136 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 2: and we can all get along the whole lot better. 137 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 2: Without God, you are nothing. I don't care what you become, 138 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,839 Speaker 2: what you aspire to be. If you don't have God, man, 139 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 2: it ain't worth a heel of beans? Wow, ain't God good? 140 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 2: I thought he was? Didn't you think so too? Can 141 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 2: you can be? Can you be convinced any otherwise? Nope? 142 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 2: Let's do it. Then Welcome to the riot. J Aus 143 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 2: Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica and the legend 144 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 2: that is Nephew Thomas Jr. Still out pray for Junior. 145 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 2: Anybody today, got something you want to ask, or what's 146 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 2: on your mind or anybody, you'll go ahead call it because. 147 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: If money wasn't an issue, and what would you do 148 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 1: with your time? 149 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 2: Fast? Fish and golfy doing that anyway? Yeah, but I'd 150 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 2: be doing a lot more of it because it wouldn't 151 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 2: be in here. 152 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: Yep, that's it, just fishing and golf all day, every day. 153 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 2: If money wasn't an issue. Yes, I go on eight 154 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 2: week yacht trip eight week and eight week yacht trip 155 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 2: every year, eight weeks four months on the water Croatia 156 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:29,719 Speaker 2: south of France, French trivial Spain. I do that and 157 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 2: they didn't get off the boat. No, play some more 158 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 2: golf and fish good at golf. Let's be honest and 159 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 2: I see all these catch Kevin Hart challenging everybody. You know, no, 160 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 2: he's not good. 161 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 6: But boy, you talk about Croatia in the south of France. 162 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 6: I remember when you just went to. 163 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: Vegas and that was fabulous to you. 164 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 2: Talk about that. The Lord made me see my ways 165 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 2: a little bit better. He said, oh, you continue this, 166 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 2: you will not be going to heaven. And it didn't 167 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 2: take me long to figure that out. 168 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:15,439 Speaker 1: Uh huh uh huh. 169 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 2: So yeah, I had to cut Vegas out. I don't 170 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: know that much at all. I would like to go 171 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 2: back this year. Maybe that's maybe I'll go to Vegas 172 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:22,679 Speaker 2: this year. 173 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, all right, So we got it, traveling, golfing, 174 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:28,959 Speaker 5: and fishing. 175 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. What else is there? All right? 176 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 6: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we 177 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 6: will hear from the nephew as he runs that prank 178 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 6: back right after this. 179 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 2: Y y. 180 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,680 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 181 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 5: An education is a transformation every day. 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Let me tell you something, Kirk kak 198 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 7: all right, k Kirk Kirk is in shape. 199 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: You think you're challenging. 200 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: The answer is no. 201 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: Carla, Oh, thank you certainly. 202 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: Now wait a minute now, said longing to give him 203 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: the answer. Right, I could do. 204 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 2: Fifty nine stop, I could do fifty nine stop. Thank you. Okay. 205 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 7: This is for the praise dancers out there. Are you 206 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 7: praise dance? Let's come on, come on, here we go. 207 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: Cat down. 208 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 8: Hello, this is the day that the Lord has made. 209 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 8: Let us rejoice and be glad. And how you doing? 210 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 8: I'm looking for Uhia, so tia. This is brother Puller 211 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 8: from the church. 212 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: How are you? 213 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 9: Oh, I'm with my brother for how are you? 214 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 8: I'm good, I'm good. We wanted to give you a 215 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 8: call about the about the praise dancing that's at the church. 216 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 8: First of all, I wanted to really show you how 217 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 8: much you're doing a great job over there with the 218 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 8: praise dancers and you you definitely do a great job 219 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 8: on every third. Tell you that you guys actually perform. 220 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 8: Everybody seemed to really like it. 221 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 9: Well, thank you, thank you. What can I do for 222 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 9: you today? 223 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 8: There's a bit of a situation with you know, it's 224 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 8: been brought to our attention. We actually had a small gathering, 225 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 8: a little meeting about it and wanted to I've been 226 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 8: elected to actually give you a fall. I'm kid brother Puller, 227 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 8: uh huh and and who had a meeting uh some 228 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 8: of the brothers at the church and uh passed to 229 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 8: actually sat in for a moment on it. And I 230 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 8: was actually elected to actually just give you a call. 231 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 8: Nothing that I don't think we can't get rectified and 232 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 8: and you know, move on smoothly as. 233 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 3: We normally do. 234 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 8: But I just think it's we wanted to reach out 235 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 8: to you and kind of make you aware of it. 236 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 8: If it's if you don't mind, okay, And what. 237 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 10: Things are those? 238 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 8: Well, sister Tania, has any of the praise dancers before 239 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 8: they became praise dancers? 240 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: Was was? 241 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 8: Was any of them strippers? 242 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 9: I beg your pardon. 243 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 8: Was any of the praise dancers that at the church 244 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 8: that you have on the praise team right now? Was 245 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 8: any of them strippers in the past. 246 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who 247 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 9: you are, and I don't really understand this line of questions. 248 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 8: Like I said, I'm brother full I don't think we've met. 249 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 8: But uh, like I said, I've been elected to give 250 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 8: you a call now. It seems what happened is this 251 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 8: past week when you all actually danced, it seemed like 252 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 8: a couple of the girls was actually gi rating doing 253 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 8: the praise routine. 254 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 9: Say what gyrating? Brother Phullow, I don't know who you 255 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 9: are and I don't know what you saw. None of 256 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 9: my girls with gy rating, they would dancing for the Lord. 257 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 9: And I think if you look through your Lord's eye, 258 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 9: perhaps you would see them better instead of maybe you 259 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 9: were looking through the girating eye. No, see a couple 260 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 9: of the girls. We can pull them out, a couple 261 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 9: of them half stript girl tendencies up and then because 262 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 9: some of them has been tristrimp girl's dydnancy. You know what, sir, 263 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 9: I think we need to complete this call. Perhaps I 264 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 9: need to call Bishop and speak to him myself, because 265 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 9: you know, I don't know what you do all day, 266 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 9: but I have a real job and I'm sitting here 267 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 9: holding a conversation in my office about gyrating strippers in 268 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 9: the church. Are you kidding me? 269 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,360 Speaker 8: Well, listen, now here's a couple other things that they're 270 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 8: talking about. Some of the girls see or real ask 271 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 8: you when you all are performing and they want to 272 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 8: see it, maybe you can, you can? I don't know. 273 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 8: Maybe I don't know if y'all need to grip or 274 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 8: whatever that y'all don't. Y'all don't put lotion on it. 275 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 8: We're not sure what that is. As well as the 276 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 8: totnail pology. Everybody has three, four, five different designs and 277 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 8: everything is it? Anyway y'all can be in unison with 278 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 8: your toenail policy. But the most important thing heal the 279 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 8: ji rating doing the dance routine. 280 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 9: I don't know what your feet look like. I don't 281 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 9: need you calling me talking to me about my girls 282 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 9: their feet, their nail polished. Perhaps your mass should be 283 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 9: on Jesus instead of on them, how about that? Oh no, 284 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 9: from my mind, I don't have time. I don't have time. 285 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 9: Want some mind to be on Jesus. When somebody's shaking 286 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 9: the butt at the church, that's the problem. You know what. Look, 287 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 9: I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a work tone. 288 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 9: You're gonna make me curse up here and let me 289 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 9: tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I will deal 290 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 9: with pastor. If he has something to say with me, 291 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 9: he can say it to me personally. But I'm done 292 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 9: with this conversation. 293 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 8: Are you gonna deal with the jy rating? Is what 294 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 8: we want to know? 295 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 9: Maybe you know what? 296 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 8: It just hit me. 297 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 9: Maybe you're one of the ones that's doing the gy rate. Look, 298 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 9: let me tell you something. My girls ain't doing no 299 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 9: jot rating, and neither am I. Now I am done 300 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 9: with this conversation. Do you understand you? 301 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 3: But listen I'm done. 302 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 9: Are you done with this rating? That's what we want 303 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,920 Speaker 9: to stop so we can We can't praise the Lord 304 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 9: if the booty is a. 305 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 8: Shake, you know what? Shirt? 306 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 10: Look, I gotta go to work. 307 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 9: I gotta go now again. I don't know what your 308 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 9: issue is. It sounds to me like you have an 309 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 9: issue with joy rating booties. I I heard so much 310 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 9: joy rating booties on one conversation in my entire life. 311 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 9: Now my mind is set on Jesus. I don't know 312 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 9: what your mind is said on. 313 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 8: Well, sister, tell you before you was a praise dance 314 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 8: a ministry over the ministry, did you ever use to strip? 315 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, I didn't do no stripping. Now that you want 316 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 9: to do any stripping, what did your mamma do any stripping? 317 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 9: You heard what I said? 318 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 10: How are you asking somebody call? 319 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 9: You would ask you if your mamma get some stripping? 320 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 4: How you like that? 321 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 8: You know what I want to know? When is the 322 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 8: next rehearsal? Then the way I can come and pick 323 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 8: out who it is that's doing this time. 324 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 9: You don't have you don't have any buses at my rehearsal. 325 00:19:58,040 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 9: I don't want to see you at my rehearsal. 326 00:19:59,640 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 2: I don't. 327 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 9: I don't want to see any part for you in 328 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 9: my orse if I said you near one of my girls. 329 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 9: That's why I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me? 330 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 9: You need to find out who's doing that job. 331 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 2: Thing. 332 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 9: You need to say your buddy, y'all And I'm glad y'all. 333 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 9: Ain't dancing when the wait is being pass because ain't 334 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 9: no telling how you act with them ones coming through that, 335 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 9: you know what? That's it, that's it. You call me 336 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 9: disrespecting me. 337 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 3: I'm at what. 338 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 9: I can't even have this more, you know what. Don't 339 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,959 Speaker 9: call me no more. Don't look at my girls no more? 340 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 9: Man fast coming dow to church and see what I 341 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 9: got for. I want to know if you gonna stop 342 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 9: the job rating woman. 343 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 2: Moving? 344 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 9: Who ain't you talking to like that? You're supposed to 345 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 9: be a minus saying yeah? Lets them die? Listen and 346 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,000 Speaker 9: tell you now, I'm getting ready to get well. I 347 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:43,919 Speaker 9: got one more pain to say to you, fold you lead. 348 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,680 Speaker 9: You ain't got a thing to say to me. I 349 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 9: said I was dealing, and I said I got one 350 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 9: more pain to say? 351 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 3: Is you listen? You know what? 352 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 9: Man, get off my phone I'm gonna say it anyway. 353 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 9: This is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 354 00:20:56,200 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 9: Your entire praise and ministry congregation and all you girls 355 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 9: got me to prank phone called you. 356 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 3: Oh I'm a for real. 357 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:15,120 Speaker 9: Oh, I'm got a person on the radio. Oh hey, 358 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 9: I got one thing. You tell you what is the 359 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 9: maddest radio show in the land. 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All right, this run's 385 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 6: from Kelly and New Haven. Kelly writes, my girlfriends and 386 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 6: I are going on a cruise. One of the girls 387 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 6: can't afford a cabin by herself, so she asked if 388 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 6: I'd room with her. I said absolutely not, and now 389 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 6: she's mad. Why do broke people try to make you 390 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 6: feel guilty when they can't use you? 391 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 1: Well, see out there. 392 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, the line that you said, why 393 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 2: do broke people feel as though make you feel guilty 394 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 2: or true, and never want to let him use you. 395 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 2: I didn't really care for that line because I think 396 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 2: we've all been in the position where we were unable 397 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 2: to do something. Now, look, y'all got a group of rights. 398 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 2: Everybody's not equally. Y'all decided y'all wanted to take a cruise. 399 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 2: When they started looking at the cruise. First you say, hey, 400 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 2: let's all take the cruise. Then y'all say, well, how 401 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 2: much is it? Then somebody come back and say everybody 402 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 2: can get it in this and then the other. Then 403 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 2: the girl come back and says, wow, I really can't 404 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 2: afford to do that by myself. Could I room with you? 405 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 2: And we split a room? And you said absolutely not, 406 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 2: which I understand, yeah, as a grown person, because you know, 407 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 2: I don't nobody want to share room, share a bathroom. 408 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 2: The crew's bathrooms ain't big. Now, cabins ain't big. I 409 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 2: don't know. I don't care. Why. How the picture is 410 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 2: they show you online with a paneloramic lens. Okay, Oh, 411 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 2: it's got that couch over there, and got that wall 412 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 2: over there, that balcony out there. No, all of us 413 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 2: in the same place, that wall, balcony and couch is 414 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 2: all in the same spot, So I understand. 415 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: You saying no, Yeah, she got kind of mean with it. 416 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 7: Share a cabin and don't they want to be able 417 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 7: to I mean, somebody might be coming back to the 418 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 7: cabin in the evening. 419 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 2: You never know. They want to know a privacy. We 420 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 2: hadn't put that in there yet. But let's just talk 421 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: about bath just. 422 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:20,959 Speaker 5: Now. 423 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 6: He takes in someplace else, you know this state. All right, 424 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 6: we're moving on here. 425 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 2: You know, try to remember that you ain't always been 426 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 2: as fortune as yourself. Now that doesn't mean you have 427 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 2: to room with her. Yeah, she might just make all 428 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 2: of y'all chip in and you know, and give her 429 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 2: enough that what she's short and help her get over 430 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: Yeah you can. You can't go, That's all that is? 431 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: Okay, what. 432 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 3: All right? 433 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 4: Don't call. 434 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: We're moving on to Carter, Greensboro. 435 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,879 Speaker 6: Carter writes, My wife made pasta Sunday, and before we ate, 436 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 6: she puts some aside. She told me if it was 437 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 6: a welcome gift for our new neighbor. The man is 438 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 6: single and fairly decent looking, so she's not going over there. 439 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 6: Why is she trying to welcome him? Because my wife 440 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 6: a neighbor, and he's kind of cute. 441 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 2: It's the welcome dish. Take him since forget. 442 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: She puts some of my dinner though aside for him. 443 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, for not not bad. Look at dudes. So 444 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 2: you know he's probably hungry and everything. Okay, so you 445 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 2: if he ain't hungry, she should want to find out. 446 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, you have no problem with this. Then 447 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: it sounds like I got yellow problem. 448 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,239 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, nothing over it. He ain't bought nothing over here. 449 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: You agree with her husband? 450 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, don't you the one knew in the neighborhood 451 00:26:59,240 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 2: what you got for? 452 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 1: That's not how it works. 453 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want us to watch your house as 454 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 2: a part of the neighborhood, watch what you got. 455 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're supposed to welcome the new neighbor. Not that 456 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 5: new neighbor welcome? 457 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 2: Why is it her? 458 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: Where are the other neighbors? 459 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 2: Put a neighbor on the other side of the house. 460 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 1: All right, we get your point. 461 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 6: Moving on to Jamison in Detroit, Jamison writes, when my 462 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 6: girlfriend and I met, she was in an open marriage. 463 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 6: She's divorced now, and her ex husband accuses me of 464 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 6: ruining their marriage. Isn't that how open marriage works. They 465 00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,879 Speaker 6: were both having sex with others. So now, how is 466 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 6: it my fault? How is that my fault? 467 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:52,200 Speaker 2: Hey, bru, listen to mean man. If y'all participate in 468 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 2: this stuff once again this year, I'm not gonna do it. 469 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:01,879 Speaker 2: What stop writing us with these abnormals situation acting like 470 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,120 Speaker 2: is normal and want us to give you an immediate response. 471 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 2: We don't know how you supposed to act. We ain't 472 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 2: in no open marriage. We ain't sleep with nobody that's 473 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 2: in an open marriage though that ain't really post to go. Now, 474 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 2: if this man decides he's gonna whoop your about his 475 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 2: wife again, there's nothing we can do, nor do I care. 476 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 2: I think you got one coming if you ask me. Okay, 477 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:36,240 Speaker 2: all these women in this world, man, you do not 478 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 2: have to sleep with a married oneman. You don't have 479 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 2: to though, this is true. Now, if she offers it 480 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 2: to you and you want to go that route, then 481 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 2: this will come with it. 482 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 6: Now, Okay, excess and things, okay, all right, all right, 483 00:28:54,880 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 6: thank you, celo. Last one, last one Jewel and Youngstown 484 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 6: Jewel Rights. I saw my sister's husband hugged up with 485 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 6: another woman, and I waved so he'd know I saw him. 486 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 6: I called my sister and she said she doesn't believe 487 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 6: me and stopped speaking to me. Why does she allow 488 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 6: her husband to openly cheat on her? 489 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 4: Wow? 490 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 2: Wow? 491 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:20,479 Speaker 7: Bro? 492 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 2: I mean, why does she allow her husband to openly 493 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 2: cheat on her? Okay, first of all, I don't know. 494 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 2: Number two, she said she don't. She don't believe you. 495 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 2: You know, it's some people that live their life with 496 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 2: their head in the same It's some people right here 497 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 2: believe what they want to believe so they can so 498 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 2: they can think what they want to think and have 499 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 2: what they think they want to have. You got to 500 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 2: leave people alone like that. Yeah, you called your sister. 501 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 2: I understand it. It's your sister. I understand that's your sister. 502 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 2: So you called her. She didn't believe it. 503 00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 1: She stopped, she didn't. 504 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 2: Stop speaking you, and I'd have told you ain't nothing 505 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 2: wrong with us. You saw him hugged up with somebody else. 506 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 2: I didn't, and I don't believe you. Yeah, because your 507 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 2: sister wants to have a healthy, loving marriage and she 508 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 2: ain't gonna let nothing, including you, mess that up. 509 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 1: You're right, thank you. Clo. 510 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 6: Oh well, uh, coming up at the top of the hour, 511 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 6: we will have some entertainment news for you. 512 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show. 513 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 6: Legendary music industry mobile Clive Davis died on Monday. Davis 514 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,719 Speaker 6: reportedly passed away peacefully at his home in Manhattan following 515 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 6: a recent hospitalization for upper respiratory issues. He was ninety 516 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 6: four years old. Clive Davis leaves an incredible indelible mark 517 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 6: on the industry the music industry with a career spanning 518 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 6: over fifty years, and he was known as quote the 519 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 6: man with the Golden ears. He served as president of 520 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 6: Columbia Records before going on to found Arista Records and 521 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 6: Jay Records. While shaving the careers of generations of superstars, 522 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 6: he discovered, signed, and mentored iconic stars like Whitney Houston, 523 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 6: Janis Joplin, Aretha Franklin, and Alicia Keys. Celebrities and artists 524 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 6: shared heartfelt tributes to Clive Davis, celebrating his vision, kindness, 525 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 6: and unmatched ear for timeless songs. Steve, had you ever 526 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 6: met Clive Davis? 527 00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 2: But I don't think I have no remember. Of course 528 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 2: I would have known if I did. 529 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:45,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah music icon Yeah, I pee yep, switching 530 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 6: gears Now, jay Z. 531 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have seen this. 532 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 6: Jay Z is receiving backlash across social media and in 533 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 6: the black community after announcing that he has partnered with 534 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 6: Target to release an exclusive titious annivers revinyl of his 535 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 6: debut album Reasonable Doubt, right in the middle of an active, 536 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 6: widespread Black consumer boycott of Target. 537 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: Why Yeah Yeah. 538 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,760 Speaker 6: Critics feel that by using his massive cultural leverage to 539 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 6: drive traffic into Target stores, jay Z is undermining a 540 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 6: collective community action and prioritizing a corporate paycheck over social solidarity. 541 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 6: Many people express disappointment in the collaboration and compared it 542 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 6: to jay Z's past partnership with the NFL during Colin 543 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 6: Kaepernick's protests. On the other hand, some commenters came to 544 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 6: Jay's defense, pointing out that other major artists have engaged 545 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 6: in similar deals and argue that the backlash is a 546 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 6: case of selective outrage for jay Z. 547 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 1: What do you think about it, Steve. 548 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 2: I don't know. This is the first I'm understanding what 549 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 2: the deal was. I've heard he had struck a deal 550 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 2: with Target. This is the first time I've heard it. Okay, 551 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 2: I ask you all the question because I don't know. 552 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 2: The boycott of Target is still going on. Yeah yeah, yeah, 553 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 2: uh huh yeah. First of all, let me say this, 554 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 2: the deal with the NFL was not to undercut the 555 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 2: Colin Kaepernick deal. The deal with the NFL has actually 556 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 2: been a good deal for us as a culture. Super 557 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 2: Bowl halftime has never been this way, ever, ever, until 558 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 2: jay Z took over, It's never looked this way. But 559 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,040 Speaker 2: you know, once again, for those who love you, no 560 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 2: explanation necessary. For those that's gonna hate you, no explanation acceptable. 561 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. This is the first I'm hearing of 562 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 2: the Target deal. Oh, I don't know. And it really 563 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 2: don't seem like that big a deal that you're releasing 564 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 2: your album on vinyl and now I don't care. 565 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: Well yeah, again, that's not the point. 566 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 6: That's the point, the fact that he did it at 567 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 6: Target with the boycott's still going on. 568 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: You know, he struck a deal with Target. 569 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 6: They say it's just for to get a check, and 570 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 6: you know, he's ignoring the boycott and what the black 571 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 6: community is doing. 572 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 2: That's basically I mean, that's not good in terms of 573 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,320 Speaker 2: for us, especially celebrities. Man, we've got to just gotta 574 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 2: stay mindful. We have to stay mindful. And now if 575 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 2: a white person did this, it wouldn't be nothing. No, 576 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 2: it wouldn't be nothing. But we are held accountable by 577 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 2: each other, to each other, even when we ain't accountable 578 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 2: by each other or to each other. Do you understand 579 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. We are the most harsh critics of ourselves. 580 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 2: But then once so oftentimes some people as criticizing ain't 581 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 2: doing nothing. Ain't doing nothing. So as a celebrity, you 582 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 2: have to be mindful that we are responsible for the 583 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 2: actions of one another as black people, and they are 584 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,719 Speaker 2: going to They are going to watch your every move 585 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 2: and hold you accountable to their standard even if they 586 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 2: don't have it. Ain't that Chus's crazy, Uh huh. 587 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 8: Yeah. 588 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,359 Speaker 6: But so we'll see how this, how this goes, how 589 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 6: his album sells, you know, on the thirtieth anniversary at Target, 590 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 6: because there is you know, like we said, an active 591 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,359 Speaker 6: boycott still going on, and yes it is is still See. 592 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 2: I didn't know I thought Jamal Bryant had called a 593 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 2: boycott off. 594 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 6: I thought, well, I think he did, but then you know, 595 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,600 Speaker 6: he got criticized for that and then it's back on. 596 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,720 Speaker 6: Now I remember there was some there was some issue 597 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,839 Speaker 6: about you know, he came and said it was over. 598 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 6: That was earlier this show. 599 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, cool, all right, y'all tell me this right now. 600 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 2: So I'm going to wear what all are we boycotting. 601 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 1: Target? 602 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 2: Family? Dollar Target? For sure, I'm not going now. 603 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: I think it's Dollar General it was. 604 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:05,320 Speaker 2: I ain't going now. Oh really, no, I'm not crossing 605 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 2: that pickey line baby. 606 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,320 Speaker 1: Dollar General in particular, dollar store. 607 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 2: Dollar, stick, dollar worth, dollar, a half dollar, a quarter. 608 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 2: I'm not going in now. One of them are staying 609 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 2: with y'all. 610 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 1: You need a list, what you're saying, You need a 611 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,879 Speaker 1: list so you'll know where to go. Because I get 612 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 1: the balloons for the birthday. 613 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 2: Bo let me know when y'all listen, let me know 614 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 2: when y'all boy Cotton waffle House. That's I'm waiting on 615 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 2: that one right there. And here's another big one. Let 616 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 2: me know when y'all boy Cotton BUCkies. No, because I 617 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 2: just went there. If you really want to prove something 618 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 2: to me, let me know when your boy cotton Amazon. 619 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 5: That app Now, we ain't gonna hold that line that 620 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 5: got cross that pickle. 621 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 6: All rights coming up, Thank you guys, coming up at 622 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 6: twenty minute. 623 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 1: We'll get you that list. 624 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:12,280 Speaker 6: Steve coming up at twenty minutes after legendary singer Peebo 625 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 6: Bryson's homegoing celebration was held on Monday, we'll talk about 626 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 6: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 627 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 6: Morning Show. Hey, listeners, A leave has a question for you. 628 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 6: Do you remember what it felt like when back pain 629 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 6: didn't take over your day? You'd bend, twist, sit, stand 630 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 6: without even thinking about it. Well, that feeling didn't go 631 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 6: anywhere thanks to A leave. With just one dose, A 632 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,600 Speaker 6: leave gives you long lasting back pain relief for up 633 00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 6: to twelve hours, so you can get back to moving 634 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 6: the way you used to feel. A leave use as 635 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:57,920 Speaker 6: directed for minor aches and pains. On Monday, late legendary 636 00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 6: singer Peebo Bryson was given a private, invitation only homegoing 637 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 6: service by his family at Annio Baptist Church in Atlanta, 638 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,720 Speaker 6: and the service was live streamed worldwide for Peboat's fans. 639 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 6: Ruben Studdard, who frequently toured with Peebo, honored him by 640 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 6: singing a rendition of Donny Hathaway's classics, Someday We'll all 641 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:22,720 Speaker 6: be free Regina Bell and BB Winings gave musical tributes 642 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 6: to Pebo as well. Pebo Brison passed away earlier this 643 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 6: month following a stroke. Sadly, he was seventy five years old. Now, Steve, 644 00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,000 Speaker 6: I wanted to ask you, do you remember the last 645 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 6: time we saw Peebo? He was in our studio in 646 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 6: La back in twenty eighteen. 647 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,720 Speaker 1: Remember he was releasing some new music. 648 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 2: And boy, right there, he's one of my favorite n Yes, 649 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 2: I've seen Peebo. Lie you oo the sky. 650 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 1: I'm so into you. 651 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,280 Speaker 2: I'm sospy. 652 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:59,359 Speaker 1: I want to read to little higher beautiful voice. Yes, nice, great, 653 00:38:59,440 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: great boy. 654 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 2: The doctor j of ron B. 655 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: Explain that to people who don't know. 656 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,879 Speaker 2: Doctor j back in the day was the highlight reel 657 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 2: of the ABA NBA. Doctor Julius Irvin was a highlight reel. 658 00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 2: And I've heard Peobo Bryson say, I'm the doctor j 659 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 2: of n B. He's a highlight real. 660 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: His voice was incredible, beautiful. 661 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:35,520 Speaker 2: Top five male vocalists, Oh for sure, absolutely yeah. Like 662 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 2: no voice tone for me, It's Luther mm hm okay. 663 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:48,440 Speaker 2: Then it was Marvin okay, voice tone tied for third 664 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 2: m okay. Pbo Bryson berry White. 665 00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 1: You're in there with the great man. Your list is 666 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,680 Speaker 1: conn Yes, what yes. 667 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:07,400 Speaker 2: Sir, play with me. I know what I'm talking about. 668 00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,960 Speaker 1: Four and five time another. 669 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:17,520 Speaker 2: In five Ronald Isley, Yes, say okay sir. And Eddie 670 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 2: LeVert Yes sir, Okay, outstanding. 671 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 1: That's your singers. 672 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, keep on asking what Six? Go to teams six, 673 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:37,759 Speaker 2: H R and B voices Six I'm leaving somebody out 674 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 2: when I go. I gotta go with Uncle Charlie. 675 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. 676 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,800 Speaker 2: Seven I have to go with my greatest male vocalist 677 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 2: I ever heard, ever heard, whose voice is. 678 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 1: Al Come on now, come on now, that's my favorite favorite. 679 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 1: That's my favorite. 680 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 2: That's all I got for you. 681 00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: Coming up, okay, coming up. 682 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 6: In thirty four minutes after the hour, women tried to 683 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,399 Speaker 6: sell her boyfriend's designer shoes and found out they were fake. 684 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 6: We'll find out what happened right after this. You're listening 685 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is a case of what 686 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 6: would you do in this situation? 687 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,400 Speaker 1: Okay? This was on Reddit guys. 688 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 6: A Marylynd couple have been dating for eight months, and 689 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 6: they're known for being a cute and trendy couple that 690 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,880 Speaker 6: wear nothing but designer clothes and shoes. They moved in 691 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 6: with each other last month, and to make room for 692 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,280 Speaker 6: all of his girlfriend's shoes, the boyfriend offered to donate 693 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 6: seven pairs of his shoes to a local charity, but 694 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 6: the girlfriend didn't take the shoes to a charity. She 695 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,120 Speaker 6: decided to take the shoes to a consignment store instead, 696 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 6: thinking they would be worth some money. She was very 697 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 6: prized to find out that all of the shoes are 698 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,759 Speaker 6: designer fakes. She considers this a deal breaker, and what 699 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 6: would you do in this situation? 700 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 1: So they broke up. She that was a deal breaker 701 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 1: for her. 702 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 2: Well, that's because she's what's the word of materialistic, and 703 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 2: that's how she is. She's basing everything on materialist, what 704 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,800 Speaker 2: you have, you know, how we are, what we appeared 705 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,799 Speaker 2: to be and all like that. And so I say, 706 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 2: it's good riddance. 707 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:32,480 Speaker 1: So she thought they were designer shoes until then. She 708 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 1: she didn't know. 709 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he probably he might have wanted her for 710 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:38,440 Speaker 2: the same reason. 711 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 1: For her her gear. Wow, very very. 712 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:53,719 Speaker 2: Uh fragile existence like that shallow. Yeah, that's just so 713 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 2: crazy to me, man, But that's what they do. I say, 714 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 2: good Riddings though, Homie, you got you you you dodge 715 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:02,480 Speaker 2: your bullet. 716 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,960 Speaker 6: So what would you have done though in this situation? 717 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,800 Speaker 6: I mean, she should have taken him to charity, like 718 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 6: you said. 719 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 1: She didn't do that. She was trying to get some 720 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,359 Speaker 1: money out of the deal. What would you have done? 721 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 2: I'm gonna take up the Canal Street with me and 722 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:25,880 Speaker 2: show her how to say something. She buying that cardia 723 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 2: for and you can get a Carterior. 724 00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 1: It's a silver lining. 725 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:36,400 Speaker 2: Relax, I said about this brightening when you could just 726 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 2: get a lean bright. 727 00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:39,320 Speaker 1: Watch. 728 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 2: I like to see. Yeah, And like Tommy said, you 729 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 2: got fake it till you make it. Man, you ain't 730 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 2: there yet, you know. 731 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 1: So there's nothing wrong with rock and knockoffs. 732 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,839 Speaker 2: Right, I mean, but he should have been honest with her. 733 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,080 Speaker 6: Well, I mean they've been dating for a months. Yeah, 734 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,320 Speaker 6: it seems like it would have come up at some point, 735 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:03,960 Speaker 6: but maybe not. 736 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 2: Well he said, hey, look, I'm gonna make room for 737 00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,719 Speaker 2: your clothes, Gonna take these shoes down here to the 738 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 2: thrift store. She trying to make money, gonna take it 739 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 2: to a consignment store. 740 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, but that was a nice gesture in 741 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,719 Speaker 6: and of itself for him making room for her in 742 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,960 Speaker 6: his life, you know, with this, with this. 743 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,960 Speaker 2: He had been honest, Tell me where that come from? 744 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 1: You're mad that? 745 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:28,880 Speaker 7: And for what? 746 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 2: What are we talking about? These shoes for an already 747 00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 2: bought literally from the Dollar General. But why but why 748 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 2: do you have to? Okay? 749 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:48,920 Speaker 5: So honesty is also well it's kind of withholding information 750 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 5: to right. 751 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, So why why are you mad? 752 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 2: I'm confused? 753 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 5: Act mad as me for saying that he could have 754 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 5: told her, because that's you know, just giving information, you 755 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 5: know where it comes from from? 756 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 7: Him? 757 00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:07,600 Speaker 1: What this food? 758 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,719 Speaker 2: Where did that come from? He on this radio show. 759 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 2: He's gonna have to decide, is he nephew? Thommy? 760 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:17,239 Speaker 3: Was he? 761 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:23,799 Speaker 2: Thomas Miles? We didn't have toast, We did not hide 762 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:31,879 Speaker 2: Thomas min Aga. Thomas Miles gets on your nerves. Directive delivererate. 763 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 1: How did he say it, Steve? How did he say it? 764 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:41,040 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, man, why couldn't she have been honest? 765 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:46,320 Speaker 1: What crazy? 766 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:49,280 Speaker 2: SA's no time for honesty. 767 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,799 Speaker 1: He was already lying about the designers? 768 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 2: Or didn't say it? 769 00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:55,879 Speaker 10: Here? 770 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:57,319 Speaker 1: Baby, take these shoes down. 771 00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 2: They're not real? 772 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,399 Speaker 1: God almost to take them down to the thrift show Wow. 773 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:06,120 Speaker 6: All right, well, coming up next, it is a prank 774 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,760 Speaker 6: phone call with the very honest, all of a sudden 775 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 6: nephew Tommy or is it Thomas Miles. 776 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: We'll find out right after this. 777 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 2: They're not Gucci's, they're gouty. 778 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:24,360 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up 779 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:25,760 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. 780 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 6: It is my Strawberry letter for today and the subject 781 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 6: is put your money where your mouth is. Okay, we'll 782 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,080 Speaker 6: get into that, find out what that's all about, and 783 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 6: just a few yeah, put your money where your mouth is. 784 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 6: But right now it is time for the nephew and 785 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:42,399 Speaker 6: today's prank phone call. 786 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 7: What you got for his neph I got a nice 787 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,319 Speaker 7: little tea spoon and stupid for your nice little tea 788 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 7: spoon and stupid, let me give it to you. And 789 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,000 Speaker 7: this is a nephew, Tommy speaking. Just a clarity to that. 790 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 7: This is Tommy right, Oh, that's not a tea spoon. 791 00:46:59,520 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 3: What is it? 792 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 2: See? Oh? 793 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: A lot of this right here is my roommate Bennie. 794 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 3: Think a listen my sweeter Devin. Yeah, okay, hey man, 795 00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 3: this is Chris. I live above you. I ain't ever 796 00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,920 Speaker 3: met you before, but you you you have you been 797 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,640 Speaker 3: calling the leasing office about uh, complaining on me about 798 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,239 Speaker 3: I'm making too much noise of way. 799 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,080 Speaker 10: Yeah, man, I'm not bad, bro. I was trying to 800 00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:26,480 Speaker 10: catch you. 801 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 8: Man. 802 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 10: I could never uh, I could never catch you at home. 803 00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:29,919 Speaker 9: Man. 804 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 3: It's just like you know, bro, I work at night. 805 00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 3: I work at night. Yeah. 806 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, you're saying. I said I work in a day, 807 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,319 Speaker 10: but I can't sleep at night, bro, cause I don't 808 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,160 Speaker 10: know what's going on in your apartment. I'm saying, I 809 00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,080 Speaker 10: ain't trying to be in your business. I'm not trying 810 00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:41,840 Speaker 10: to be in your business. 811 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:42,080 Speaker 2: Player. 812 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,399 Speaker 10: I just can't get sleep at night, man, because it'll 813 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,520 Speaker 10: be a lot of noise, a lot of noise, a 814 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 10: lot of talking. And what you do is your business. 815 00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:48,880 Speaker 3: Bro. 816 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:50,879 Speaker 10: I'm just saying, man, please. 817 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:53,480 Speaker 3: Man, but you ain't have to go to the leasing office. Man, 818 00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,600 Speaker 3: all you had to do. You know what's all thatt me? 819 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 3: You ain't you know? They got me written up, like 820 00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,640 Speaker 3: you know, one more complain on me, they're gonna put 821 00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 3: me out of something. 822 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 10: Well. Yeah, like I said, though, I was trying to 823 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,279 Speaker 10: get I was trying to find you. You know what 824 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,359 Speaker 10: I'm saying. But we I guess we miss each other 825 00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,880 Speaker 10: because you work at night. I'm working to day, so 826 00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 10: you know when you going, I'm coming, and when I'm coming, 827 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,359 Speaker 10: you gone. You're saying, Brian's trying to start us. I'm 828 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,440 Speaker 10: just trying to, you know, go to work and pay 829 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 10: my pay my bills. Man, I'll be. 830 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 3: At work at night. Man, you know what I'm saying. 831 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:23,239 Speaker 3: I'm trying to get my hustle on, like you trying 832 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 3: to get to a long door. 833 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 10: Hold on, hold on, Okay, okay, let's make it make sense. 834 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:27,919 Speaker 3: Bru. 835 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 10: If you at work at night, somebody in your somebody 836 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 10: in your apartment talking loud than. 837 00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 8: Them keeping me up square business. 838 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 3: Okay, you got a roommate or all? Nothing. I ain't 839 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:39,319 Speaker 3: got no. 840 00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:44,200 Speaker 10: Roommate, man, Benny, somebody in there talking loud, holding a conversation. 841 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 10: It's like two people in there talking loud every night. 842 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 3: And no, that's brother Benny. Man, Benny be talking. 843 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 10: Okay, you say you ain't got no room mate? Who 844 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 10: who is Benny? Who is Benny? 845 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 3: Benny? Is my bird my parents? That's Benny Be talking. 846 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 10: Like man, me die this and mine? Why why wait 847 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 10: a minute? You trying to tell me a bird? 848 00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,879 Speaker 3: That was journey man, I don't have bity ten years. 849 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 3: That's my bird. 850 00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,799 Speaker 10: Byrns don't even live at long. So so now I'm 851 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,840 Speaker 10: up at night. I'm just to work because because bird, 852 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 10: that's what you want. That's what you called me to 853 00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,400 Speaker 10: tell me. Bard, I called you. 854 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 3: To tell you. You ain't got to be putting these 855 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,600 Speaker 3: complaints on me. Man, It's like, but I'm not. I'm 856 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,360 Speaker 3: going that night. That's Benny talking. Man. 857 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:31,719 Speaker 10: Then Betty in tell no, hold on, no, Penny, wait 858 00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,319 Speaker 10: a minute, hey, look, I'm telling you now do something 859 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,279 Speaker 10: with the byrn then or that gotta be some consequences 860 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 10: and repercussions. I'm talking about some fried chicken around it. 861 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,759 Speaker 3: A man, Penny is like a family member to me. 862 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 10: Bird too, can Sam the chicken on the call, flay Box, 863 00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 10: Kentucky Chicken churches all that. 864 00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 3: So Brian, hey man, you don't tell me nothing bad 865 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 3: about my bird. Okay, brother, you know what, maybe me 866 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,560 Speaker 3: and you need to square off in front of each 867 00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,839 Speaker 3: other because you don't you don't disrespect Benny Man. 868 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,919 Speaker 10: All right, all right, you tank you something? 869 00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:02,359 Speaker 2: All right? 870 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 3: All right? 871 00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 10: I bet that be on my table when I get home. 872 00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:09,040 Speaker 10: If it's a bird, then I bet that be all 873 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 10: my gonna table. 874 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,120 Speaker 3: Man, ain't from the city and disrespect me and try 875 00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 3: to tell me what you're gonna do to my bird. 876 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,800 Speaker 3: But you ain't gonna do nothing. Stupid to bet it? 877 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:18,480 Speaker 10: Tell you what I tell you? What see you can 878 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 10: date you a holler right now? What you gonna work tonight? 879 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,320 Speaker 10: I bet you bet it. I'll bet that tomorrow. I 880 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,640 Speaker 10: bet you we be singing and good tomorrow. 881 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 3: Many man, Hold on a minute, man, wait a minute. Dog, 882 00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,920 Speaker 3: what you can't do and start talking about what you're 883 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 3: gonna do to my bird now? And told you you 884 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,359 Speaker 3: found for going to the leasting office calling me out, 885 00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:38,279 Speaker 3: and now you're on the phone. I'm trying to work 886 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 3: this out with you, and now. 887 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 10: You ain't tied to work right now. First time you 888 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 10: you call me and tell me that it's a bird 889 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:50,040 Speaker 10: holding a conversation with itself. I'm I'm a stupid right now. 890 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:55,120 Speaker 10: I'm on the stupid even continue this conversation. Why taking 891 00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:56,000 Speaker 10: me out by night? 892 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 3: Are you serious? Man? 893 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 8: Man? 894 00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,200 Speaker 3: Really you're on some in rooms or something. 895 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:02,799 Speaker 10: Man, say man, this bruh. Listen whatever it is, if 896 00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,439 Speaker 10: it is a bird or recording whatever, if you gotta 897 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,879 Speaker 10: do something with it. I was a bird, man, I'm 898 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 10: gonna be sowing suck, and if this is a bird, 899 00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:11,840 Speaker 10: I'm gonna really a bird. 900 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 3: It's spinny, man, it's spinny. You know. All you had 901 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,320 Speaker 3: to do was come to me and we could have 902 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 3: hed lived like me. 903 00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,600 Speaker 10: Hold on, hold on, hold on, okay, okay, okay, we're 904 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:21,839 Speaker 10: gonna have it like me. And then, first off, least 905 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:23,839 Speaker 10: in office wouldn't give me your name. What's your name, 906 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:24,399 Speaker 10: my man? 907 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:24,759 Speaker 3: Chris? 908 00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:29,280 Speaker 10: Okay, Chris, I'm different. There we go, there we go. Listen, dolls. 909 00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 10: I ain't for the past three months. You know what 910 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:35,360 Speaker 10: I'm saying. I ain't really been getting no sleep because 911 00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 10: of this bird. You say it's a bird. I don't 912 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,760 Speaker 10: believe that. But a bird a bird? 913 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:46,279 Speaker 3: Come on, doll, that's doing for ten years. 914 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 4: We take the work. What it is. 915 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 10: I don't care, figure something out, but whatever going on 916 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,279 Speaker 10: up there with you and your bird need to come 917 00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 10: to an immediate house or it's gonna be nowt. 918 00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,759 Speaker 3: Hey man, hey man. What you can't do is threaten 919 00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:01,719 Speaker 3: me what's going on in my household? 920 00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:05,160 Speaker 10: Man? Look here, you and Bennett, Bennie, Lennie, whatever the 921 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,560 Speaker 10: name is, you need to do something with that that's 922 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 10: gonna be some real shure. Now, why not going back 923 00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 10: and forth with you about this? You keep telling me 924 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:14,280 Speaker 10: something about a bird. 925 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 3: It's a bird. What's the problem with it? What's the 926 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 3: problem understanding that people have pet birds? 927 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 7: Say? 928 00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 10: Man, I don't give them if you have a pet bird. 929 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,600 Speaker 10: But really, this talk all night long? 930 00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:25,120 Speaker 9: How do you? 931 00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:25,520 Speaker 10: How do you? 932 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 8: How do you? 933 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,319 Speaker 3: Never come? 934 00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 9: Don't never shut up? 935 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what Benny told 936 00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:32,800 Speaker 3: me to tell you? Though? Can I tell you what 937 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:33,480 Speaker 3: Benny told me? 938 00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:33,799 Speaker 4: Way? 939 00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 8: Wait? 940 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 10: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait White 941 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 10: Chris White, White, Brother, I don't want to hear what 942 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:42,520 Speaker 10: the bird told you to tell me? 943 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,200 Speaker 3: Can I tell you what Benny told me to tell you? What? What? 944 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,640 Speaker 3: What the bennyy told me to tell you? This? That? 945 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,919 Speaker 3: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 946 00:52:54,239 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 3: You just got prayed by your boy, Sean. Did I 947 00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 3: get your man? 948 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,080 Speaker 10: Got me dog? You got me man? 949 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 3: That guy. 950 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 10: I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna 951 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 10: have to I'm gonna have to wait till this dude 952 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:18,879 Speaker 10: get homed out and talk to him. 953 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 4: I ain't talk so. 954 00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:23,120 Speaker 10: Much this shoot about this from some passing burnt. I 955 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,400 Speaker 10: don't know what stand man. I may God, I'll be 956 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:29,880 Speaker 10: up all night and I'm saying I'm missing I'm missing 957 00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,960 Speaker 10: my sleep. I'm missing you know what I'm saying. I'm 958 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,879 Speaker 10: missing y'all in the morning because I'm brobably hitting the snow. 959 00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:37,320 Speaker 3: But I got one more thing to ask you, what 960 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:39,960 Speaker 3: is what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest 961 00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 3: radio show in the land. 962 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:43,759 Speaker 10: Oh man, Steve Hardy Morning Show. 963 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:45,200 Speaker 3: We never mis sung. 964 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:57,160 Speaker 7: Staying on stupid. You're staying on stupid business. That's how 965 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 7: you do it. Too much. Quit letting Thomas Miles talk 966 00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,000 Speaker 7: because evidently don't nobody like him. You got to stay 967 00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:08,680 Speaker 7: stupid at all times around here. It's in the contract. 968 00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:11,359 Speaker 7: Stay stupid at your job. 969 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 1: What are you talking to yourself? Yeah? Yeah, right there, 970 00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,080 Speaker 1: right there, confirmation y'all. 971 00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,040 Speaker 2: Don't do that, y'all. Don't talk to y'all. Yeah yeah, 972 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 2: but when we talk to ourselves, it's the same person 973 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:31,239 Speaker 2: you all on the microphone on that y'all. 974 00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 1: Don't never have a meeting with y'all, slf A whole meeting. 975 00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:37,800 Speaker 2: Yes, so you can do that, y'all, y'all don't understand 976 00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,640 Speaker 2: you could do that when it's two different people. 977 00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's the key. 978 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:42,759 Speaker 2: Yet, how does the meeting go? 979 00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:45,759 Speaker 7: It starts sound kind of rough because nobody wants to 980 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 7: agree on anything. Thomas don't like Tommy. Yeah, they just 981 00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,520 Speaker 7: don't get along. And whether it is Thomas made Tommy 982 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,720 Speaker 7: and Tommy is getting all the spotlight and Thomas gets nothing. 983 00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,560 Speaker 7: You see what I'm saying, fathers and mothers, Thomas that 984 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:03,760 Speaker 7: he don't get to shine and Tommy gets to shine, 985 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 7: and it's it's just yes, little. 986 00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,920 Speaker 1: Thomas to be hating on Tommy. Is that what I'm here? 987 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,000 Speaker 2: But he's but he but he made tom You see 988 00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:18,000 Speaker 2: what I'm saying, but Thomas. But Thomas forgets that. Thank you, 989 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 2: Thomas forgets that it is a him that's problem. 990 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:31,200 Speaker 1: You jump in, got to go all right? 991 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:32,440 Speaker 2: Thank you? 992 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,080 Speaker 6: I know coming up next my strawberry letter subject put 993 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:38,080 Speaker 6: your money where. 994 00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 1: Your mouth is. 995 00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,719 Speaker 6: We'll get into it right after this. Hey, listeners, A 996 00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,759 Speaker 6: leave has a question for you. Do you remember what 997 00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,960 Speaker 6: it felt like when back pain didn't take over your day? 998 00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:54,200 Speaker 6: You'd bend, twist, sit, stand without even thinking about it. Well, 999 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 6: that feeling didn't go anywhere thanks to a leave With 1000 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 6: just one dose, A leave gives you long lasting back 1001 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,359 Speaker 6: pain relief for up to twelve hours, so you can 1002 00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:07,640 Speaker 6: get back to moving the way you used to feel. 1003 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,320 Speaker 6: A leave use as directed for minor aches and pains. 1004 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 6: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1005 00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:24,800 Speaker 6: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on dating, relationships, work, sex, parenting, 1006 00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 6: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to stevevarvfm dot 1007 00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:32,480 Speaker 6: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 1008 00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,239 Speaker 6: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 1009 00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,840 Speaker 6: to read this one right here, right now. You never know. 1010 00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:38,760 Speaker 1: It could be yours. 1011 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,440 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time. 1012 00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:44,320 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry Letter, 1013 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:45,160 Speaker 2: all right. 1014 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 6: If you thank you? Subject put your money where your 1015 00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:52,120 Speaker 6: mouth is. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty two year 1016 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 6: old engaged female and I got into a heated argument 1017 00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,480 Speaker 6: with my fiance's mom and told her to put up 1018 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,480 Speaker 6: or shut I told her to put her money where 1019 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 6: her mouth is or stop talking down to me. I've 1020 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,880 Speaker 6: tried to fit in with his family, but I'm ready 1021 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 6: to give up. I was raised by my aunt, and 1022 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:15,040 Speaker 6: I have worked since I was fifteen years old. I 1023 00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 6: put myself through cosmetology school and I opened a salon 1024 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:21,600 Speaker 6: with my best friend. And it's in the hood that 1025 00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:24,760 Speaker 6: I grew up in. I'm doing lovely now, but my 1026 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 6: fiance's mom won't let me forget where I came from. 1027 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,880 Speaker 6: The funny thing is she's from the same area of 1028 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:34,160 Speaker 6: town and she was a teen mom. She got a 1029 00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,960 Speaker 6: scholarship to a community college and was blessed to get 1030 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:40,280 Speaker 6: a good job and a great husband. It's fine for 1031 00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,240 Speaker 6: her to change her life around, but she keeps beating 1032 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,200 Speaker 6: me down because my process is slower than hers was. 1033 00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,360 Speaker 6: I have asked my fiance repeatedly to tell his mom 1034 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 6: to stop messing with me, but he thinks it's not 1035 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:56,960 Speaker 6: that bad. I teach cosmetology class, I do nails on 1036 00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:01,080 Speaker 6: the side, and i'm a notary all to for my wedding. 1037 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 6: I told her if my side hustles are embarrassing to 1038 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 6: her family, then maybe she could help pay for the 1039 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,240 Speaker 6: wedding and I'll quit one of my side jobs. 1040 00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 1: My fiance said I. 1041 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,920 Speaker 6: Should ignore his mom, but I can't when all she 1042 00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,440 Speaker 6: does is make me feel like the little girl that 1043 00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,560 Speaker 6: went to school without nice clothes like the other kids. 1044 00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 6: If she's so concerned, why won't she pay one of 1045 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,280 Speaker 6: her bougie party planners to help me out? 1046 00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,240 Speaker 1: I am so stressed out? Why does he allow his 1047 00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 1: mom to do this to me? 1048 00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, you are right. Your man should check his 1049 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:36,800 Speaker 6: mom for speaking to you like that. And you can't 1050 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:40,400 Speaker 6: let her disrespect you either. You lashed out at her, 1051 00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,720 Speaker 6: but had your man stepped up on your behalf, you 1052 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,120 Speaker 6: wouldn't have to tell her to shut up or put 1053 00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,320 Speaker 6: her money where her mouth is. You got to set 1054 00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:52,560 Speaker 6: boundaries respectfully with her. Maybe she needs to be reminded 1055 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 6: that her background and your background are very similar. 1056 00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:57,800 Speaker 1: She made it out and did. 1057 00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,800 Speaker 6: Well for herself, so why can't she give you that 1058 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:04,160 Speaker 6: same grace while you're grinding and figuring things out. Yeah, 1059 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:07,400 Speaker 6: your process may be taking longer, but you're still doing what. 1060 00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:08,080 Speaker 10: You have to do. 1061 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,120 Speaker 6: The other thing is to try not to let what 1062 00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 6: she says and her little digs and all of that. 1063 00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,040 Speaker 6: Try not to let that get under your skin because 1064 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:17,880 Speaker 6: what you've done is phenomenal. 1065 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:18,880 Speaker 1: You've gone to. 1066 00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:23,280 Speaker 6: School, you have a salon, you do your side hustles 1067 00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:25,200 Speaker 6: you have nothing to be ashamed of. 1068 00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,800 Speaker 1: You're a hard worker, You've got three jobs. 1069 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 6: What you need is support from your man and his 1070 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:34,080 Speaker 6: family instead of the putdowns from his mom. So I 1071 00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:36,480 Speaker 6: say that if he doesn't pick aside and let his 1072 00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:40,040 Speaker 6: mom know that she's out of order respectfully, then you 1073 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,280 Speaker 6: need to reevaluate your relationship. 1074 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 1: Is he really the man for you? 1075 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:45,480 Speaker 5: Steve? 1076 00:59:46,840 --> 00:59:50,360 Speaker 2: This is a prime example of a person who has 1077 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:54,000 Speaker 2: reached what they think is a level of success and 1078 00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:58,160 Speaker 2: in order to feel successful, have to mock and put 1079 00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:02,440 Speaker 2: down others who are not as successful. See that as 1080 01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 2: some people who absolutely think that by blowing out your 1081 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:10,760 Speaker 2: candle it makes theirs brighter. There are people who exist 1082 01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:13,680 Speaker 2: like that. Your mother in law is one of them. 1083 01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,080 Speaker 2: The sad part of it is your future mother in 1084 01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:20,640 Speaker 2: law's one of them. Is your fiance keeps telling you 1085 01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 2: to ignore it. It's okay, handle it. No, it's not, 1086 01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 2: And you too, better get on the same page quickly, 1087 01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:33,960 Speaker 2: because in marriage, when you get married, when you get married, 1088 01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 2: your wife becomes number one, your husband becomes number one. 1089 01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 2: It's I know a lot of people who are married 1090 01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:43,720 Speaker 2: that said, no, my wife ain't in front of my mama. 1091 01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:48,480 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, bro, but that's how I go. That's how 1092 01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:52,240 Speaker 2: it's supposed to go, because in order for you to 1093 01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:56,200 Speaker 2: have a successful family, you have got to make this 1094 01:00:56,400 --> 01:01:01,800 Speaker 2: woman feel some type of security, to trust in you 1095 01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,520 Speaker 2: that you will lead her in the family in the 1096 01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 2: right direction, that you will protect them at all costs. 1097 01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:13,400 Speaker 2: But in the practice period, if you're not being protected, ladies, 1098 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,600 Speaker 2: what makes you think when you get married you're going 1099 01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,959 Speaker 2: to be protected. Look, I'm just talking off the letter 1100 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:24,280 Speaker 2: right now. A big part of women's choosing a man. 1101 01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:32,000 Speaker 2: Oftentimes it's not only for love, but women want to 1102 01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:37,200 Speaker 2: feel safe and secure. Women want that, and fellas, it 1103 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,880 Speaker 2: ain't no need of you getting mad because that's what 1104 01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 2: she wants. Because a lot of women would love to 1105 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,520 Speaker 2: have a man that makes them feel safe and protected 1106 01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,000 Speaker 2: because man, so they ain't got to do that too. 1107 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,640 Speaker 2: Oh okay, I got to sleep with you, I gotta 1108 01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,280 Speaker 2: help you pay these bills, I gotta have his baby, 1109 01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:01,919 Speaker 2: I gotta raise his kids. And now all I want 1110 01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 2: you to do is at least make me feel safe 1111 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 2: and protected. And when a woman don't get that, man, 1112 01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:13,880 Speaker 2: I mean dog, come on, because that's one of the 1113 01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,680 Speaker 2: main things that men do. If you don't do nothing 1114 01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:25,040 Speaker 2: else as a man. Protection and provision is key factor. 1115 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 2: Key factor, protection and provision. It's like a lion's pride. Yeah, 1116 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:37,800 Speaker 2: the women do a lot of work and a lot 1117 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:39,720 Speaker 2: of the hunting and raising of the cubs, but that 1118 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:44,480 Speaker 2: male line protects the territory and protects them from other lions. 1119 01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,400 Speaker 2: That's their job. They ain't the most of the food, 1120 01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:49,280 Speaker 2: can get all in the way, and they want sex 1121 01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,840 Speaker 2: when you don't want to, but they're over there. The 1122 01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 2: rest of it is they do in their job. All right, 1123 01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 2: that's in a lion's pride. I got that, but I 1124 01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:57,440 Speaker 2: ain't through. 1125 01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:00,320 Speaker 6: Hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming 1126 01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,440 Speaker 6: up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today Strawberry 1127 01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,800 Speaker 6: letter subject is put your money where your mouth is. 1128 01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:10,120 Speaker 6: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1129 01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:19,440 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your favorite beet series are now 1130 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:24,160 Speaker 6: on Paramount Plus. In Diarra from Detroit, and overworked teacher 1131 01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,439 Speaker 6: finds herself drawn into a cold case. Catch up before 1132 01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:31,120 Speaker 6: the new season premieres July twenty ninth. Then and Ruthless, 1133 01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 6: a woman works to free herself from a religious cult. 1134 01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:38,400 Speaker 6: Watch now before the new season arrives June thirtieth plus. 1135 01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:42,520 Speaker 6: Iva Marcil returns as Madam, a woman who fights to 1136 01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:46,120 Speaker 6: retain control of her exotic male dancers in the final 1137 01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:49,440 Speaker 6: season of All the Queen's Men, now streaming at to 1138 01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:53,480 Speaker 6: Paramount plus dot com. To get started, All right, come on, Steve. 1139 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,760 Speaker 6: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is put your 1140 01:03:57,840 --> 01:03:58,960 Speaker 6: money where your mouth is. 1141 01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:02,320 Speaker 2: The letters about this thirty two year old young lady 1142 01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 2: who has a fiance, but the problem is his mother 1143 01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:10,560 Speaker 2: is always talking down to her, criticizing everything she do, 1144 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 2: where she live, where she stay, what she do when 1145 01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:16,920 Speaker 2: his mother is from the same side of town. Now, 1146 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:21,440 Speaker 2: this girl was raised by her aunt. She's been working 1147 01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,040 Speaker 2: since she was fifteen. She didn't get to wear nice 1148 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:26,919 Speaker 2: clothes at school. She done set up here and self 1149 01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 2: educated herself. She owns a salon with her best friend 1150 01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:33,440 Speaker 2: in the neighborhood that they grew up in. She teaches 1151 01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:37,240 Speaker 2: cosmetology class, she does nails on the side, and she's 1152 01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:40,600 Speaker 2: a notary. She's doing all of this to pay for 1153 01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 2: the wedding that she really wants. Now, the boy's mama 1154 01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,280 Speaker 2: ain't putting in no money on the wedding, but steady 1155 01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,840 Speaker 2: criticizing everything she do. She has gone to the boy 1156 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,480 Speaker 2: to ask her, hey, can you tell your mama? He say, 1157 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,560 Speaker 2: ignore her. Then she go to him again. He say 1158 01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:59,560 Speaker 2: it ain't that bad. Say wait a minute, man, hold up, home, 1159 01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:04,160 Speaker 2: up home, hold on. So Shirley said something in the 1160 01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,240 Speaker 2: letter that maybe you need to do. You want to 1161 01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 2: know if you'll get along with this family and it's 1162 01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:11,640 Speaker 2: not working for you with being out with this family, 1163 01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:14,640 Speaker 2: maybe you should consider your relationship. And I think you 1164 01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 2: have to because one of the key components that a 1165 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 2: woman would love to have in a man, a woman 1166 01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:23,160 Speaker 2: would love to feel safe and protected. And we've gone 1167 01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:25,800 Speaker 2: over this man, because if a woman got to do 1168 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:27,480 Speaker 2: all this, if a woman got to go to work, 1169 01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,760 Speaker 2: if a woman got to cook, if a woman's chipping 1170 01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:33,120 Speaker 2: in with your bills, if a woman got to have 1171 01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:38,160 Speaker 2: these babies and raise these babies, could you not at 1172 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:42,800 Speaker 2: least make me feel safe and protected? How that's asking 1173 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:46,560 Speaker 2: too much? I don't think so. When the two factors 1174 01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:50,400 Speaker 2: that a man must do is protect and provide. If 1175 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,200 Speaker 2: you're not doing that, fellas, what are you here for? 1176 01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:56,600 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, man, I just finished up a Minerry camp 1177 01:05:56,680 --> 01:05:58,000 Speaker 2: with two hundred and fifty boys. 1178 01:05:58,800 --> 01:05:59,000 Speaker 8: Man. 1179 01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:01,200 Speaker 2: When we first talked talking and I told the man 1180 01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:03,520 Speaker 2: that you're supposed to pay for the first date, boy, 1181 01:06:03,680 --> 01:06:06,320 Speaker 2: some of them little boys flipped out, Hell, no, we 1182 01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:10,000 Speaker 2: go Dutch, mister Harvey. I'm not paying for no girl 1183 01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:11,200 Speaker 2: eating no food with me? 1184 01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:12,360 Speaker 3: What? 1185 01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:17,520 Speaker 2: Wow, hey, man, what where y'all getting this from? So 1186 01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:22,120 Speaker 2: we spend an hour an hour talking about the responsibilities 1187 01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:25,520 Speaker 2: of just being a young boy. Why you pay for 1188 01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:28,960 Speaker 2: a girl's time in her presence? Why is your job 1189 01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:30,960 Speaker 2: to protect and provide? Well, I go through this with 1190 01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:34,680 Speaker 2: fifteen seventeen year old boys. The problem is some of 1191 01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:37,880 Speaker 2: these fifteen seventy year old boys, mister Steve Harvey manriying camp. 1192 01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,160 Speaker 2: Now they thirty three, and you finna marry one ONEm 1193 01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:45,760 Speaker 2: and ain't nobody told him that's his job. Well, I 1194 01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 2: feel sorry for you, sister, but let me first of 1195 01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:50,640 Speaker 2: all commend you. You are doing a great job. You 1196 01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:54,040 Speaker 2: have done an amazing job. You have educated yourself, you 1197 01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,960 Speaker 2: own a business with your best friend, you are to 1198 01:06:57,040 --> 01:06:59,360 Speaker 2: become a notary, You do nails on the side, you 1199 01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:03,040 Speaker 2: teach a college mythology class. I mean you're doing great. 1200 01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:08,800 Speaker 2: Her mama tripping his mama tripping because she looking at 1201 01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:11,640 Speaker 2: you because she remember when she was in that position. 1202 01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,560 Speaker 2: But then guess what, she want to keep talking down 1203 01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:20,320 Speaker 2: to you so she could feel better about herself. There 1204 01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:22,400 Speaker 2: are people in this world like that now that if 1205 01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:24,080 Speaker 2: you go on to your man twice and he ain't 1206 01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:27,320 Speaker 2: gave you no help or relief, when y'all get married, 1207 01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,960 Speaker 2: when is to help in relief coming. Maybe he's incapable 1208 01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:34,800 Speaker 2: of the help and relief. Now it seems like you're 1209 01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:37,000 Speaker 2: gonna marry him anyway, because you hustling real hard to 1210 01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 2: pay for this web. What is he doing? What do 1211 01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,480 Speaker 2: I ain't heard you say we saving our money for 1212 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,480 Speaker 2: the wind. You're trying to save the money to pay 1213 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:50,200 Speaker 2: for this wedding that you won't What is he doing? 1214 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:55,120 Speaker 2: I'm about to give up. If I were you, I 1215 01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:59,320 Speaker 2: would go to him. This is a solution for this. Say, hey, listen, 1216 01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:02,000 Speaker 2: I've come you several times about you helping me with 1217 01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,560 Speaker 2: your mom. You're telling me to ignore it, and you're 1218 01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:06,960 Speaker 2: telling me it ain't that bad. So here's what I 1219 01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:09,320 Speaker 2: want to do. I'm starting to have second thoughts about 1220 01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:12,680 Speaker 2: moving forward. I say, let's put this whole wedding on 1221 01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:16,360 Speaker 2: pause and let's put this relationship on pause because I 1222 01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,799 Speaker 2: need a break because I'm under a lot of stress 1223 01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,400 Speaker 2: right now. And then start crying. 1224 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:26,839 Speaker 1: Tears, work boy. 1225 01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:31,439 Speaker 2: Start crying. Every man that's got a woman when she 1226 01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:35,560 Speaker 2: sheds tears, we know we got to do something. And 1227 01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:38,960 Speaker 2: you start finding out who you got. And maybe it's 1228 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:41,439 Speaker 2: time for you to find out who you have because 1229 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:43,599 Speaker 2: he may not be who you think it is. Let 1230 01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:45,320 Speaker 2: me tell you some ladies. If you cried in your 1231 01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:47,800 Speaker 2: man and he don't give it, if you cry in 1232 01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:50,080 Speaker 2: front of your man and he don't give it you, 1233 01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:55,040 Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, you either in some mess 1234 01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 2: or you about to get in some mess. And all 1235 01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:01,280 Speaker 2: the men out there, ye, man, I don't mean nothing. 1236 01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:03,080 Speaker 2: My girl cry all the time. I'm not fitting to 1237 01:09:03,160 --> 01:09:08,360 Speaker 2: react to that. Wow, you have to fix it, thog. 1238 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:12,759 Speaker 2: That's how I check. So that's why I'm with it. Man. Lady, 1239 01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:14,960 Speaker 2: I didn't really go over the letter too much because 1240 01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:18,040 Speaker 2: I think it's worthless because she is who she is 1241 01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 2: and she not gonna change. But you don't have to 1242 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:28,000 Speaker 2: marry her boy who obviously for some reason allows his 1243 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,439 Speaker 2: mother to get in everything. If you think she in it, 1244 01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:33,800 Speaker 2: now wait till you get married. She gonna be in 1245 01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:35,640 Speaker 2: the same circle, because y'all supposed to have a two 1246 01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:38,320 Speaker 2: handed circle. It's gonna be three of y'all hold in hand, 1247 01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:42,000 Speaker 2: and he gonna be doing whatever she say do. You 1248 01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:44,920 Speaker 2: might not be marrying or Mama's boy. I'm just saying. 1249 01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,720 Speaker 6: Poster comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM 1250 01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:52,360 Speaker 6: on Instagram and Facebook, and check out check out the 1251 01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:55,720 Speaker 6: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never 1252 01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:59,320 Speaker 6: Sounded So Good. You can download it today now coming 1253 01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,439 Speaker 6: up at four six minutes after the hour. 1254 01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:02,439 Speaker 2: It is Steve. 1255 01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:06,160 Speaker 1: You fillin in for Junior today, right which all we talk? 1256 01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:09,880 Speaker 6: Okay, all right, right after this you're listening to the 1257 01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:18,080 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your favorite Beet series are now 1258 01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:22,759 Speaker 6: on Paramount Plus. In Deerra from Detroit, an overworked teacher 1259 01:10:23,040 --> 01:10:26,080 Speaker 6: finds herself drawn into a cold case. Catch up before 1260 01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:29,719 Speaker 6: the new season premieres July twenty ninth. Then and Ruthless, 1261 01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:33,120 Speaker 6: a woman works to free herself from a religious cult. 1262 01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:37,000 Speaker 6: Watch now before the new season arrives June thirtieth plus. 1263 01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:41,120 Speaker 6: Eva Marcel returns as Madam, a woman who fights to 1264 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:44,679 Speaker 6: retain control of her exotic male dancers in the final 1265 01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:48,040 Speaker 6: season of All the Queen's Men, now streaming, head to 1266 01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:51,880 Speaker 6: Paramount plus dot com to get started. It It's time 1267 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,320 Speaker 6: now for sports talk with the guys. 1268 01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:59,360 Speaker 2: Hey, so listen, I was preparing some sports but I ain't. 1269 01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:05,920 Speaker 2: I ain't gotten Tommy take it away. All right, let's 1270 01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:08,160 Speaker 2: talk about it. You know, it's summertime. 1271 01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:10,160 Speaker 7: So what we what we like to look at is, 1272 01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:12,760 Speaker 7: you know, we're waiting on the basketball just finished and 1273 01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:13,880 Speaker 7: football is coming. 1274 01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:16,040 Speaker 2: But this is that drought. This is that drought. 1275 01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:18,720 Speaker 7: Fortunately we got World Cup going on, so we're a 1276 01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 7: little enthused about that. But I got another one for you, 1277 01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:24,640 Speaker 7: uncle that I don't really understand this sport. Maybe you 1278 01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:25,920 Speaker 7: can shed some light on it. 1279 01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:28,280 Speaker 2: And I don't know how. I'm pulling up to see 1280 01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:31,040 Speaker 2: how much they make power was slapping. 1281 01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:36,519 Speaker 7: Yeah, they just standing there just slapping the cowboys sugar 1282 01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:37,759 Speaker 7: honey ice out. 1283 01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:38,240 Speaker 4: Of each other. 1284 01:11:39,439 --> 01:11:41,360 Speaker 1: I know, you really scared me with that one. 1285 01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:47,479 Speaker 7: They just stand there in front of each other, theay 1286 01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:49,280 Speaker 7: three three hundred pound men. 1287 01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:52,120 Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry, women do it too. Yeah. And then 1288 01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:56,439 Speaker 2: they got weight classes they yeah, and they have a 1289 01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 2: men's division and a women's division. Some of the women 1290 01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:01,800 Speaker 2: don't need to be in it because they can't slap 1291 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,960 Speaker 2: it all. But it's some women in there who were 1292 01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:07,680 Speaker 2: that will knock yo. 1293 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:11,680 Speaker 1: Okay, what what is the trick to it? What is 1294 01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:13,600 Speaker 1: the what do you have to do to win it? 1295 01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:17,160 Speaker 2: I think what it is? You fairly you slap somebody 1296 01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:17,720 Speaker 2: m h. 1297 01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:21,640 Speaker 7: And they if they fall, they got they got so 1298 01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:24,040 Speaker 7: much time to get back up and stand back up 1299 01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:27,160 Speaker 7: and be ready. Now if you can't get back up, 1300 01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:28,080 Speaker 7: then of course you're. 1301 01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:29,720 Speaker 1: Out right flap out. 1302 01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:35,800 Speaker 2: You have to continue. Last man standing wins around. Sometimes 1303 01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:39,000 Speaker 2: they slap and and nobody falls. 1304 01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:40,240 Speaker 1: What are the rules? 1305 01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:43,040 Speaker 2: Like they have judges too. It was it a good 1306 01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:46,000 Speaker 2: slap like you can like if you try to bounce 1307 01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:49,160 Speaker 2: on your toes or your foot, that's a flaw. That's 1308 01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:52,400 Speaker 2: a fault that don't count. But you've already been slapped now, 1309 01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:56,880 Speaker 2: so you know he stood on his toe and knocked 1310 01:12:56,920 --> 01:13:00,320 Speaker 2: that you and flavor Sometimes like when some people get hit, 1311 01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,920 Speaker 2: you can see like fried chicken in the air. That's 1312 01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:07,439 Speaker 2: when you done got the taste slapped out. Okay, so 1313 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,120 Speaker 2: you can see it. You see a chicken and just 1314 01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:10,960 Speaker 2: get again. 1315 01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:15,560 Speaker 1: Did it reach way back or way tother side. But 1316 01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:20,240 Speaker 1: oh oh the way okay, and. 1317 01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:23,040 Speaker 2: They have they have mouthpiece in their mouth, great. 1318 01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:25,639 Speaker 1: Slap their teeth out. 1319 01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:31,920 Speaker 2: And for very little moneymine winter they get knocked us. 1320 01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, somebody gonna fall cause when you fight the 1321 01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:37,720 Speaker 2: big dude to be playing, when you get up in 1322 01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:38,880 Speaker 2: there with him, you're going down. 1323 01:13:40,320 --> 01:13:42,680 Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you? H What is it called 1324 01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:43,559 Speaker 1: power slapping? 1325 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:44,000 Speaker 2: All right? 1326 01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:47,440 Speaker 1: Uh? Now that's a crash. 1327 01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:50,880 Speaker 6: Coming coming up. At the top of the hour, a 1328 01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:54,160 Speaker 6: man is avoiding his wife after she hurt his feelings. 1329 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:57,760 Speaker 6: He needs some advice. Right after this, you're listening to 1330 01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:04,759 Speaker 6: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. So this is from Freddie 1331 01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:08,840 Speaker 6: and Alexandria. Freddie says, I had a disagreement with my 1332 01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:11,840 Speaker 6: wife on the way to church, and she told me 1333 01:14:12,080 --> 01:14:15,920 Speaker 6: that she didn't need me, I needed her. I didn't 1334 01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:18,160 Speaker 6: sit with her that day, and I caught a ride 1335 01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:21,800 Speaker 6: home with a neighbor. I haven't cooked for a solid week, 1336 01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:25,000 Speaker 6: and I've let the grass grow tall in the front yard. 1337 01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,360 Speaker 6: I didn't run to her the other day when she 1338 01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:30,000 Speaker 6: yelled about seeing a spider in the kitchen, and I 1339 01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:34,080 Speaker 6: definitely haven't participated when she tried to have sex I'm 1340 01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,880 Speaker 6: still not over it, but I'm going to have to 1341 01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:39,360 Speaker 6: cut the front yard at some point. How do I 1342 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:41,599 Speaker 6: get my wife to respect me more. 1343 01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 2: Terrible when a man don't cut a yard, you may 1344 01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:50,679 Speaker 2: when a man don't have sex. 1345 01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:57,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, just because she said he needed a man for real? 1346 01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, he is. Well, let me say this, man, I 1347 01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:05,600 Speaker 2: think you need to sit down and go listen to me. 1348 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:10,080 Speaker 2: And because this is what people don't understand. Words have power, 1349 01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:12,920 Speaker 2: and you got to watch how you talk to your 1350 01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:16,400 Speaker 2: mate because you can't get the words back and you 1351 01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:20,080 Speaker 2: can forever damage a person. Man, I don't need you, 1352 01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 2: you need me? 1353 01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:22,280 Speaker 3: What? 1354 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:24,680 Speaker 2: So he said, all right, cool, I'm gonna show you 1355 01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:28,599 Speaker 2: you don't need me, okay, and he just started doing 1356 01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:30,320 Speaker 2: some stuff that she needs. 1357 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:33,799 Speaker 1: On the way to church, they had this argument. 1358 01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:36,280 Speaker 2: But I think you all need to sit down and 1359 01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:38,720 Speaker 2: have a conversation and say this is what's happening here. 1360 01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:42,640 Speaker 2: I just feel completely disrespected. How can you talk to 1361 01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:45,120 Speaker 2: me that way and expect me to be the same. 1362 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:48,880 Speaker 2: You're tearing away at the fire of who I am. Now, 1363 01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:50,880 Speaker 2: this can be built back, but we're gonna have to 1364 01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:53,320 Speaker 2: We're gonna have to go from here. Now, let me 1365 01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:58,120 Speaker 2: ask you something. What doing this argument? Did you say 1366 01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:04,519 Speaker 2: to her? See? So when y'all sit down, make sure 1367 01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:07,760 Speaker 2: you let her tell you what she heard, and then 1368 01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:12,120 Speaker 2: you tell her what you heard, because oftentimes I hear 1369 01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:15,840 Speaker 2: what you say, but I heard something different, and that 1370 01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:18,760 Speaker 2: could be the case right here. So you're gonna have 1371 01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,000 Speaker 2: to sit down and talk it out though. 1372 01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:23,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it can't go on too much farther because 1373 01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:24,919 Speaker 1: this is crazy. 1374 01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:26,800 Speaker 7: Right. 1375 01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:28,760 Speaker 2: He didn't care des quite a bit. Huh. I'll tell 1376 01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:29,400 Speaker 2: you get care. 1377 01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:34,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, all right, we have time for another one, Steve. 1378 01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:37,560 Speaker 6: This is from Anita and Juliette. Anita says, I was 1379 01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:40,519 Speaker 6: on a date and it was so hot outside that 1380 01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:45,080 Speaker 6: I kept wiping sweat from my forehead. Apparently I rubbed 1381 01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:49,320 Speaker 6: so hard that I shifted my wig and didn't realize it. 1382 01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:52,840 Speaker 6: An old black lady walked by and motioned for me 1383 01:16:53,160 --> 01:16:56,000 Speaker 6: to come over to her. She pulled my wig around 1384 01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:58,880 Speaker 6: and told me I needed some powder because I was 1385 01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:02,240 Speaker 6: looking oily. My date saw it and heard her, and 1386 01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:05,160 Speaker 6: he said the woman was out of line. I took 1387 01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:09,840 Speaker 6: it as a grandmotherly gesture. Was Granny being shady or sweet? 1388 01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:12,600 Speaker 2: No, she was being sweet. She know you're sitting up 1389 01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:16,160 Speaker 2: there looking like a food wig off. You'd have wiped 1390 01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:17,479 Speaker 2: all the base off your head. 1391 01:17:17,560 --> 01:17:18,679 Speaker 1: You ain't the same color. 1392 01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,680 Speaker 2: Your forehead ain't the same color now you now your 1393 01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:24,200 Speaker 2: side burn that was on your wig is now I 1394 01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:26,280 Speaker 2: got the little quelque in the front. You set up 1395 01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:27,639 Speaker 2: there looking like Michael Jackson. 1396 01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:28,320 Speaker 10: Yeah. 1397 01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:35,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, the old lady was being very healthful. Yes, but 1398 01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:38,759 Speaker 2: yeah we know that little curl coming down in forehead. 1399 01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:42,880 Speaker 2: That's cause you done wiped your wig, your side burn 1400 01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:48,120 Speaker 2: in the front of your head. Now, yeah, man, and 1401 01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:50,320 Speaker 2: the dude he told me that. Now the dude is 1402 01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:53,320 Speaker 2: just trying to you know, trying to make it like 1403 01:17:53,400 --> 01:17:55,960 Speaker 2: it okay, you know any baby, she just she out 1404 01:17:56,000 --> 01:17:58,400 Speaker 2: a line talking to you like that. Now it's just 1405 01:17:58,479 --> 01:18:00,720 Speaker 2: an old black lady going be coming here. 1406 01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:02,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, let me let me help you. 1407 01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:07,600 Speaker 2: Here getting his bathroom and spread it and make up 1408 01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:09,679 Speaker 2: our so you the say and color, Yeah. 1409 01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:10,840 Speaker 1: That's all that was. 1410 01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,599 Speaker 5: It was uh huh wow. 1411 01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:18,679 Speaker 2: How is the way this world not work out? People? 1412 01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:20,560 Speaker 2: Just take your pitch and post it. Look at this 1413 01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:21,960 Speaker 2: food I saw at the restaurant. 1414 01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:26,600 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but make sure I'm glad that the 1415 01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:27,639 Speaker 1: grandmother was there. 1416 01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:29,640 Speaker 2: So she could do this. Thank you. 1417 01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,520 Speaker 1: She sure she deserves gratitude. 1418 01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 6: Coming up in twenty minutes after, we'll have more of 1419 01:18:39,520 --> 01:18:41,880 Speaker 6: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1420 01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:47,280 Speaker 1: Take it hot, It was hot. You're listening to the 1421 01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:48,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1422 01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:56,160 Speaker 6: All right, So Steve, today is you and Marjorie's twentieth 1423 01:18:56,479 --> 01:19:04,920 Speaker 6: wedding anniversary. Yeah, congratulations, congratulations, congratulations. This is a massive achievement, 1424 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:08,080 Speaker 6: of course, and it is to be celebrated with platinum 1425 01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:12,280 Speaker 6: as the gift. The traditional gemstone is the emerald and 1426 01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:16,200 Speaker 6: the associated flower is the day lily or astor. Now 1427 01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:20,880 Speaker 6: that's the traditional way to celebrate. But tell us the 1428 01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:25,200 Speaker 6: ball out, Steve Harvey, Way, what did you do this year? 1429 01:19:25,320 --> 01:19:27,719 Speaker 2: She got all that sort getting. 1430 01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:34,720 Speaker 1: Platinum or uh huh click a m. 1431 01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:37,880 Speaker 2: This year is a really quite different ough, to be 1432 01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:41,360 Speaker 2: honest with you. The first year, we haven't gone anywhere, 1433 01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 2: and it's for a sad reason because she's still grieving 1434 01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:49,760 Speaker 2: her father with her mother. I had to cancel all 1435 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,680 Speaker 2: the plans and stuff. Let them stay together because right 1436 01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:56,240 Speaker 2: now her mother don't want her to leave because you know, 1437 01:19:56,360 --> 01:19:59,519 Speaker 2: it was just the three of them. It was her mother, 1438 01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:04,000 Speaker 2: her brother, and Marjorie. That's it, and so you know 1439 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:06,280 Speaker 2: it's gonna be a little bit different today. But I 1440 01:20:06,400 --> 01:20:09,040 Speaker 2: do have a surprise for her, but I can't tell 1441 01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:12,280 Speaker 2: you because we're on the radio, right okay, and we own. 1442 01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:16,479 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna do what I could do. You know 1443 01:20:16,640 --> 01:20:18,720 Speaker 2: this year it's gonna be great anyway. Man, When you've 1444 01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,000 Speaker 2: been together for a while and you don't done everything, 1445 01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:22,960 Speaker 2: you know, it's the little things that count. 1446 01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:27,280 Speaker 6: All right, Congratulations up there, we find me and my 1447 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:28,439 Speaker 6: girl find kicking. 1448 01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:29,800 Speaker 2: All right. 1449 01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:32,400 Speaker 6: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up. 1450 01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,200 Speaker 6: We'll play around it, would you rather right after this 1451 01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:38,320 Speaker 6: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1452 01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:45,759 Speaker 7: Everyone thinks the price of gas right now is crazy. 1453 01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:48,800 Speaker 7: You know what's not crazy the price of Paramount Plus. 1454 01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:50,680 Speaker 7: It's just ninety nine cents per a month for the 1455 01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:54,439 Speaker 7: first two months. Stream The news series Dunton Ranch, Kelly 1456 01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:56,840 Speaker 7: Riley and Cole House a return, and this time they're 1457 01:20:56,960 --> 01:21:00,120 Speaker 7: taking on Texas. Catch new seasons of fan favor it 1458 01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:03,599 Speaker 7: shows like The Agency starring Michael Fastbender and Don't Forget 1459 01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,960 Speaker 7: Live Sports. Paramount Plus is the home of the UFC 1460 01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:09,599 Speaker 7: Paramount Plus ninety nine cents per month for the first 1461 01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:11,280 Speaker 7: two months stream Now. 1462 01:21:12,120 --> 01:21:14,360 Speaker 6: Time now for a round of would you rather? Would 1463 01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:17,839 Speaker 6: you rather playful teasing or sensual touching? 1464 01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:22,560 Speaker 2: Playful teasing? What is playful fee yea, yeah, Shirley, what 1465 01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:22,920 Speaker 2: is that? 1466 01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:24,879 Speaker 1: Playful teasing? 1467 01:21:25,160 --> 01:21:25,320 Speaker 3: You know? 1468 01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:27,160 Speaker 1: If you you know how, we do it a lot 1469 01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:29,519 Speaker 1: on this show. We tease each other. No we don't 1470 01:21:29,600 --> 01:21:33,400 Speaker 1: playing well, yeah we do. Yeah we don't. 1471 01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:34,719 Speaker 2: Surely no we don't. 1472 01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 8: We do. 1473 01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:42,080 Speaker 6: We tease each other all the time, okay. Or sensual touching, 1474 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:43,320 Speaker 6: that's what you do. 1475 01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:47,880 Speaker 2: That's why you can't do the vers see that we 1476 01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:54,560 Speaker 2: do sensual touching on that No, what day is that? 1477 01:21:55,640 --> 01:21:59,680 Speaker 2: It is what sensual touching for that. 1478 01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:02,680 Speaker 1: It's not about the show. It's what you'd rather do, 1479 01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 1: what you prefer in your life. 1480 01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:08,479 Speaker 6: And you know whatever you want to just tease someone 1481 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:10,960 Speaker 6: or you want to sens you will touch them. 1482 01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:15,400 Speaker 2: That I want to be touched to, right, But that's 1483 01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:17,680 Speaker 2: central gonna lead to some of them just gonna say that. 1484 01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:22,320 Speaker 1: You just can't do that, all right? 1485 01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:28,720 Speaker 6: Would you rather go on a dream vacation or get 1486 01:22:28,960 --> 01:22:31,000 Speaker 6: one cosmetic procedure done? 1487 01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:36,599 Speaker 2: Dream vacation? Why I'm gonna get done? 1488 01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I would like to know. What would 1489 01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:39,800 Speaker 1: you get done? 1490 01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:40,000 Speaker 7: Now? 1491 01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:43,439 Speaker 2: I can't get this. It's too late, it's too late. 1492 01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:44,920 Speaker 2: We we. 1493 01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:51,800 Speaker 1: Just work with what you have. 1494 01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:52,200 Speaker 9: Now. 1495 01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:58,360 Speaker 1: You had an opportunity to get a six pack plastic surgery. 1496 01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:00,800 Speaker 2: Hold on that, take to heal. 1497 01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:05,240 Speaker 1: That's a lot of work, six weeks whatever, however long it. 1498 01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:05,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1499 01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:12,240 Speaker 1: So no, if you're quiet, I'm gonna mess up the operation. 1500 01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:15,040 Speaker 2: Couse to heal. I'm gonna need some ice. 1501 01:23:14,920 --> 01:23:18,360 Speaker 1: Cream to make you feel better. 1502 01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:22,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, get through with your surgery. Look up? Oh yeah, 1503 01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:26,599 Speaker 2: six pack? Two days later? What happened? A rocket roll 1504 01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:27,400 Speaker 2: six pack? 1505 01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:29,040 Speaker 1: You messed up the room? 1506 01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:31,320 Speaker 2: Yea have changed. 1507 01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:34,120 Speaker 1: Because because he needed the ice cream to sue him? 1508 01:23:34,479 --> 01:23:34,840 Speaker 9: All right? 1509 01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:39,000 Speaker 6: Would you rather live in a mansion with a hoarder 1510 01:23:40,080 --> 01:23:42,599 Speaker 6: or would you rather live in an apartment alone? 1511 01:23:44,240 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 1: You know what a hoarder horder? 1512 01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:49,479 Speaker 2: Okay, stuff everywhere. You just kind of barely can get 1513 01:23:49,479 --> 01:23:50,280 Speaker 2: through the house. 1514 01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:54,040 Speaker 1: But it's a mansion, though, Yeah, but you don't. 1515 01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:59,840 Speaker 2: Hold it all over it though, you didn't all over 1516 01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:03,639 Speaker 2: I live with a partial hoarder anyway. 1517 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:05,639 Speaker 1: What's a partial hoarder? 1518 01:24:06,200 --> 01:24:08,200 Speaker 2: All leap shoes and bags in here? I know, gonn 1519 01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:09,879 Speaker 2: here will We can't wear all these. 1520 01:24:09,760 --> 01:24:13,200 Speaker 6: So I really lope we hoard now, No bags of 1521 01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:15,559 Speaker 6: shoes do not count as hoarding, all right? 1522 01:24:15,720 --> 01:24:17,880 Speaker 2: Oh, yes you do? They do? 1523 01:24:19,280 --> 01:24:24,599 Speaker 6: Oh they do not, they do not. All right, Thank 1524 01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:27,639 Speaker 6: you guys. That's today's round. Would you rather coming up next? 1525 01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:29,920 Speaker 6: It is our last break of the day, and we 1526 01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:32,200 Speaker 6: will close out the show with the one and only 1527 01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:33,960 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey right after this. 1528 01:24:34,439 --> 01:24:36,920 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1529 01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:44,559 Speaker 5: An education is a transformation every day. The Third Group 1530 01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:49,040 Speaker 5: Marshall College Fund transformed lives through scholarships, professional development, and 1531 01:24:49,160 --> 01:24:53,439 Speaker 5: career advancement opportunities. 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Apply, donate, or partner with us today 1541 01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:27,720 Speaker 5: at TMCF dot org. 1542 01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:30,560 Speaker 6: All right, guys, here we are our last break on 1543 01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:32,960 Speaker 6: the day, our last break of the day and on 1544 01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:35,719 Speaker 6: the day, I guess for this show anyway, thank. 1545 01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:37,920 Speaker 1: You for listening. As always, Steve, you have some closing 1546 01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:38,720 Speaker 1: to take us out. 1547 01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:42,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I was talking to carl off Ed. 1548 01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:47,080 Speaker 2: We were talking about, oh something like I'll give you 1549 01:25:47,120 --> 01:25:50,479 Speaker 2: an example. Early in the day, we were talking about 1550 01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:56,040 Speaker 2: it's my anniversary and they said it was your twentieth anniversion. 1551 01:25:56,120 --> 01:26:00,200 Speaker 2: I said, yeah, I remember this my nineteenth. But you know, 1552 01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:05,479 Speaker 2: whatever I say, it don't matter, because the people who 1553 01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:08,680 Speaker 2: want to troll are going to say what they want 1554 01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:12,200 Speaker 2: to say, regardless he lying about his anniversary day. I 1555 01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:14,639 Speaker 2: don't think they together anyway, because he got the number 1556 01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:17,040 Speaker 2: on blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. So Carlo 1557 01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,519 Speaker 2: was asking me and she said, Steve, does that ever 1558 01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:23,160 Speaker 2: really bother you? And now, let's be honest. I'm a 1559 01:26:23,280 --> 01:26:27,439 Speaker 2: human being, so of course when you hear lies about 1560 01:26:27,479 --> 01:26:29,920 Speaker 2: you that's on the internet. Yeah, it bothers you because 1561 01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:34,360 Speaker 2: you're a human being. But do I take time to 1562 01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:39,519 Speaker 2: address it one percent? Absolutely not? Does it bother me? 1563 01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:43,799 Speaker 2: I'm a human being because it does trouble you sometime. 1564 01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:46,680 Speaker 2: Go man, where they get that from? Why would they 1565 01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:52,679 Speaker 2: say that? Why don't take care of what happened to us? Well, 1566 01:26:52,720 --> 01:26:56,360 Speaker 2: we stop pulling for each other. Do you know how 1567 01:26:56,439 --> 01:27:00,240 Speaker 2: hard it is to be successful as a person? Now 1568 01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:04,920 Speaker 2: throw in the added factor that you happen to be black. 1569 01:27:06,240 --> 01:27:07,960 Speaker 2: Throw that on top of it. Do you know how 1570 01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:11,760 Speaker 2: hard it is to be successful just for anybody? I 1571 01:27:11,800 --> 01:27:14,120 Speaker 2: don't care what color you are. Then throw in the 1572 01:27:14,200 --> 01:27:17,800 Speaker 2: added factor. Now throw in the other added factor that 1573 01:27:17,960 --> 01:27:22,519 Speaker 2: along your way, that your biggest haters are contributed to 1574 01:27:22,640 --> 01:27:26,160 Speaker 2: your downfall or pulling on the willingness to bring you down. 1575 01:27:27,320 --> 01:27:30,840 Speaker 2: Are the people that's the same color as you. That's 1576 01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:36,280 Speaker 2: crazy to me, That is absolutely crazy to me. We 1577 01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:41,600 Speaker 2: are the last people on earth that need another roadblock. 1578 01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:47,080 Speaker 2: We the last one that needs another deterrent. How much 1579 01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:51,400 Speaker 2: we got to do, man, and we have got to 1580 01:27:51,560 --> 01:27:54,839 Speaker 2: do better as a people. We really do for one another. 1581 01:27:56,840 --> 01:28:00,439 Speaker 2: You know. Look, somebody asked me the opinion about Kevin 1582 01:28:00,479 --> 01:28:03,880 Speaker 2: Hart's roast and all this here. I've done one roast 1583 01:28:04,040 --> 01:28:06,160 Speaker 2: in my career. I've been asked to do a lot. 1584 01:28:06,280 --> 01:28:08,720 Speaker 2: I wasn't asked to do Kevin's roast. I'm not saying that, 1585 01:28:09,360 --> 01:28:11,240 Speaker 2: but I've been asked to do a lot of roasts 1586 01:28:11,240 --> 01:28:14,400 Speaker 2: Shaquille O'Neill's all this a lot of people, and I 1587 01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:20,040 Speaker 2: just don't do them because I don't like that. I 1588 01:28:20,120 --> 01:28:23,559 Speaker 2: don't like that genre of comedy where we just sit 1589 01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:27,960 Speaker 2: up and just tag at each other like ravenous dogs, 1590 01:28:29,680 --> 01:28:33,160 Speaker 2: and then it's supposed to be funny and then you 1591 01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:37,519 Speaker 2: got to sit there in a chair and just take it. 1592 01:28:38,840 --> 01:28:41,960 Speaker 2: I just don't see that. And you know, man, I 1593 01:28:42,160 --> 01:28:46,240 Speaker 2: just always try to use my platform in a positive way. 1594 01:28:46,840 --> 01:28:49,000 Speaker 2: I try to use this four hours on this radio 1595 01:28:49,160 --> 01:28:53,520 Speaker 2: show to uplift, to be spiritual, to be a reminder, 1596 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:54,280 Speaker 2: to be kind. 1597 01:28:54,320 --> 01:28:54,439 Speaker 4: Now. 1598 01:28:54,479 --> 01:28:56,439 Speaker 2: You know, we say some crazy stuff on this show 1599 01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:59,760 Speaker 2: from time to time, but it's either done in light 1600 01:28:59,840 --> 01:29:02,559 Speaker 2: of humor or something like that. And do we cross 1601 01:29:02,600 --> 01:29:06,240 Speaker 2: the line. I think to some people we do, but 1602 01:29:06,400 --> 01:29:10,000 Speaker 2: we're not intentionally trying to be jacked up. I really 1603 01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:12,960 Speaker 2: really want you to just laugh and have a good time. 1604 01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:13,639 Speaker 8: Now. 1605 01:29:13,920 --> 01:29:17,080 Speaker 2: Is that oftentimes at the expense of someone, Yeah, because 1606 01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:18,080 Speaker 2: that's what comedy is. 1607 01:29:18,240 --> 01:29:18,400 Speaker 3: Man. 1608 01:29:18,960 --> 01:29:21,920 Speaker 2: Comedy sometimes would be an ective expense. But if you're 1609 01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:24,519 Speaker 2: not trying to be mean spirited. You can still do it. 1610 01:29:25,320 --> 01:29:27,160 Speaker 2: But I just think man, that we as a people, 1611 01:29:27,200 --> 01:29:29,960 Speaker 2: we've done enough, We've gone through enough. What else we 1612 01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:33,960 Speaker 2: got to prove? So we got an administration now that 1613 01:29:34,120 --> 01:29:38,800 Speaker 2: has destroyed DEI in this country. So in my mentoring camp, 1614 01:29:39,360 --> 01:29:41,960 Speaker 2: they used to see in the twenty five soldiers and 1615 01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:46,880 Speaker 2: a little check. Donald Trump became president and hired Elin 1616 01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:51,599 Speaker 2: Musk to come through with DOGE. He cut our ALLDI program. 1617 01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:54,280 Speaker 2: So they looked at my program and considered it a 1618 01:29:54,400 --> 01:29:59,639 Speaker 2: DEI program because it's mostly black kids. So they removed 1619 01:29:59,680 --> 01:30:03,760 Speaker 2: the sol and they removed the funding. But let me 1620 01:30:03,800 --> 01:30:08,160 Speaker 2: tell you how effective this program is. The twenty soldiers 1621 01:30:08,600 --> 01:30:10,880 Speaker 2: that normally come, that have been coming for years, and 1622 01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:13,840 Speaker 2: the new ones that wanted to volunteer, they got together 1623 01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:18,679 Speaker 2: and they took their leave of absence during the same 1624 01:30:18,760 --> 01:30:22,040 Speaker 2: week as my mentoring camp and they came down there volunteered. 1625 01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:24,960 Speaker 2: Now we lost the money, but we didn't lose the 1626 01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:31,559 Speaker 2: men because they cared. White soldiers, black soldiers, because they cared. 1627 01:30:32,560 --> 01:30:35,920 Speaker 2: Did you hear me? I said, white soldiers and black 1628 01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:38,400 Speaker 2: soldiers because they cared. Now I'm gonna get out of 1629 01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:40,280 Speaker 2: here and help Steve Harvey Ott. I heard about that 1630 01:30:40,439 --> 01:30:46,559 Speaker 2: program is Great White and Black. So if we as 1631 01:30:46,640 --> 01:30:50,519 Speaker 2: black people are going to be successful and are going 1632 01:30:50,640 --> 01:30:55,320 Speaker 2: to become the best that we can be, it would 1633 01:30:55,840 --> 01:30:59,960 Speaker 2: behoove us to be a bit more supportive of one another. 1634 01:31:01,400 --> 01:31:04,000 Speaker 2: I got you trying to get clicks because you need 1635 01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:07,719 Speaker 2: some money. But when you make money at the expense 1636 01:31:07,800 --> 01:31:11,240 Speaker 2: of other people, you're going to suffer with that money. 1637 01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:14,960 Speaker 2: I promise you you will that, ain't Steve Harvey. That's 1638 01:31:15,040 --> 01:31:18,719 Speaker 2: the Lord, God Almighty. Do unto others as you would 1639 01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:22,720 Speaker 2: have them do unto you. Forgive us our trustpasses as 1640 01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:25,560 Speaker 2: you would forgive those who trustpass against you. If you 1641 01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:28,800 Speaker 2: ain't got no forgiveness in your conversation, if you ain't 1642 01:31:28,840 --> 01:31:31,880 Speaker 2: got no encouragement in your game, ain't none come in 1643 01:31:31,960 --> 01:31:34,080 Speaker 2: your way. I wish we would do better. 1644 01:31:34,240 --> 01:31:34,400 Speaker 8: Man. 1645 01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:38,320 Speaker 2: That's something for us to think about, because I'm not 1646 01:31:38,439 --> 01:31:41,360 Speaker 2: gonna tell nobody down on my show over and over 1647 01:31:41,439 --> 01:31:44,439 Speaker 2: and over. I'm just not gonna do it. Y'all have 1648 01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:45,400 Speaker 2: a great day to day. 1649 01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:46,960 Speaker 1: Talk to God. 1650 01:31:47,040 --> 01:31:48,880 Speaker 2: He would absolutely love to hear from you. 1651 01:31:58,280 --> 01:31:59,559 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests. 1652 01:31:59,600 --> 01:32:03,200 Speaker 6: No purchase necessary, voidware prohibited Participants must be legal US 1653 01:32:03,320 --> 01:32:06,639 Speaker 6: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 1654 01:32:06,760 --> 01:32:11,200 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit steveharveyfm dot com. You're listening 1655 01:32:11,479 --> 01:32:13,320 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.