WEBVTT - “AM I WASTING MY TIME?” 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.480 Hello, everybody, Welcome to the Therapy Gecko podcast. I'm Lyle 0:00:04.120 --> 0:00:07.280 and I have I am a gecko and I'm talking 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:09.440 to people on the phone. And I used to not 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:11.720 record intros to the podcast. I used to just get 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:15.040 right into them. And a lot of the reason for 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:19.160 the for that is that often I think intros are stupid. 0:00:19.200 --> 0:00:21.919 I thinks are a waste of time. I hate when 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:26.440 I fucking click on a podcast and it has like 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:29.800 three minutes of like today, my guest is whatever, and 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:34.360 then it's got like a little little little like intercuts 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:37.239 of like parts of their conversation, you know what I mean. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:39.800 It's like, just if we could just start the podcast 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:43.840 at the point when the people are are talking without 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:48.440 a whole intro, and you probably sit through ads right 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:50.760 when you're listening to this, so it's like you had 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:52.440 to see you had there. First there was a bunch 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:56.400 of ads, and then there's like a whole podcast, and 0:00:56.440 --> 0:01:02.400 then there's like a whole intro to the podcast. And 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:06.000 then by the time you actually you know, get into 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.800 the interview or whatever the podcast you're listening to is, 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.920 you're forty five minutes in. Already your commute is over. 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.200 It's time to go to work. You know, the laundry 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:20.960 has been folded, you know, your run is over right, 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.319 whatever it is you were doing. So that's why I 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:31.480 don't like, you know, big long Rambley podcast intros where 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:35.560 people just trail off and talk about nothing. You know, 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:39.600 I hate when people do that. All right, let's get 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:43.080 into the phone calls. Hello, Hi, what is your name? 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:49.040 Obi? I actually saying there's like, I'm from Czech Republic, 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.720 So it takes a long time before I can hear 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:58.760 and I can respond. So I hope that's not a problem. 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:00.720 Is that how I don't know if that's how cell 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:01.440 phones work. 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:09.040 Yeah, that's yeah. I well, I've been seeing there's like 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:14.600 one second before I respond to or I feel like it. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.200 Maybe it's not. I'm not really genius. 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.519 No, you don't have to be. Hey, listen, you don't 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.840 have to be a genius to be doing this, to 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:28.040 be doing whatever it is we're doing. That's okay, Wait 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:28.519 a minute. 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:31.560 Yeah, I'm kind of tweaking right now. I'm not gonna lie. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.080 You're kind of tweaking. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:39.080 Yeah, yeah, I'm you know, I'm on the spot. 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:43.200 There's no you're not on the you are not on 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:46.920 the spot. You are on This is nothing. There is 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:50.400 no spot, there is no there's no stakes to this. 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.000 You were when you're when you if you you know, 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:58.400 like when you take the bar exam, you're on the spot, right, 0:02:58.480 --> 0:03:01.240 But this is not anything. This isn't it. This isn't 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:06.079 a job interview, This isn't it's not a bar exam. 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:09.160 This isn't even it's not it where, it's not a date. 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.920 It's not anything. This is no this is there's no 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:15.560 stakes to this. This is just whatever. 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:19.360 It's Yeah, I mean yeah, I feel like the stakes 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:21.760 are like when you try to call in so many 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.120 times as I do, then it's kind of you know, 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:29.840 I invested so much time and stuff. Oh there's going 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:30.320 to be all right. 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:35.119 Uh oh well all right then let's let's go down 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:35.600 that road. 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:35.840 Right. 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:39.040 You said you invested a lot of time into calling 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:43.080 this show. You say, yeah, why do you? 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:45.560 Why do you not so much? 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:47.960 But how much time do you think you invested in 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:48.640 calling this show? 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.480 Maybe like two hours? 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:58.920 Okay, So for the past two hours you've been calling, 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:00.640 calling the phone number of it over again. 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:05.160 No, no, no, like when I added up like multiple streams, right. 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:10.120 Okay, So it's been a two hour investment in total. 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:14.080 Yeah, I guess. 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:17.280 And this I'm gonna say, this conversation that we are 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:22.960 having right now, the stakes you're telling me, the stakes 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:27.280 of this conversation right now is that this conversation is 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:31.560 the the r OI the return on investment of two 0:04:31.839 --> 0:04:39.840 whole hours of your life? Yeah, okay, is there any other? 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:41.400 Is there anything else at stake? You believe? 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:45.240 No? 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:46.960 No, drively no, okay? 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.400 What is two hours? What is two hours of your 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:54.200 life worth to you? Uh? 0:04:55.640 --> 0:05:04.000 Probably like two hundred setub shorts to hundred what YouTube shorts? 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:05.760 You know, like TikTok about on YouTube? 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:10.400 Two hundred YouTube shorts? Oh yeah, I guess, yeah yeah, sure, yeah, 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:14.919 you could watch two hundred YouTube But what's the return 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.680 on investment in of that? What's the what do you 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.640 get after watching two hours of YouTube shorts? 0:05:24.240 --> 0:05:32.200 Oh? I just not that much right there? Stuff on there? 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:38.279 Yeah? Yeah, return I'm sorry I keep talking over you 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:38.680 go ahead? 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.120 No? Oh, no, you go ahead. 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.360 Return on the idea of return on your investment is 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:52.360 an interesting concept. I fully believe in it. I believe 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:57.520 that my my day to day life is heavily influenced 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:02.000 by returns on previous investments. I have made with with 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:10.839 my time in both a lot of in both ways 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:16.280 that are extremely positive and extremely negative. Like I've spent 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:20.680 a lot of time I've I wonder, I'm really I'm 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:22.480 trying to calculate over the course of my life how 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:27.440 many hours I've spent eating ice cream. It's probably a lot. 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:29.480 And as. 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.719 Can I ask you, when you eat ice cream, do 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:38.000 like fully just eat ice cream and do nothing else, 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:42.800 or do like do multiple things? Because I can't imagine 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:46.280 do you really just eat ice cream and fully experience it. 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:50.039 You bring up an interesting point, which is that, Okay, 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.719 when I'm calculating my total ice cream eating time, is 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:55.680 it the is it? I'm gonna go ahead and say 0:06:55.680 --> 0:07:00.760 that if I'm holding the spoon and I am in 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:05.560 the process of either digging the ice cream out or 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:09.080 putting it in my mouth or it's in my mouth, 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.480 I'm gonna say that that's all ice cream time. But 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.160 if I like take a little bite of ice cream 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:16.000 and then I put it down and I, you know, 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:18.880 talk to someone for a second that that I don't 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:20.840 count that as ice cream time. I'm going to count 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:25.119 it just as yeggs the time that is spent either 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:29.400 in the process of well, shit, I mean of ROI, right, 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:34.280 Like this is everything is ROI. Everything is because you know, 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:37.960 I had to walk to the store to buy and 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:39.960 buy the and I had to go find the ice 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:41.080 cream and I had to buy it and I had 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:45.600 to bring it to my house. That's all ice cream time. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:50.360 So how much time have I invested in the procurement 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:54.640 and consumption of ice cream? 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:59.440 Well, but but I think they're like two things you 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:04.760 are doing, Like you physically go to the store, right, 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:08.920 but you can also, like I don't know, listen to music. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:11.640 So how do you come to time? Because you're doing 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:12.880 multiple things at once. 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:15.560 So this gets me to my ultimate point, which is 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:19.960 that and actually I want to be careful with this 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:23.560 because I don't fully agree with what I'm about to say. Uh. 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:26.960 Part of me thinks that, like the whole idea of like, uh, 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:37.640 wasted time is kind of stupid because like, what what's 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.040 the art? Like when you're eighty years old, right, it's 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:44.719 like you just you just keep your time. You keep 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:47.160 being like, well, what's this time going to lead up to? 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.960 And you do that forever and then you die. So 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:53.920 it's like when do you actually the point the point 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:57.440 of the time was in the time itself, not necessarily 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:59.959 what the time led up to. By the way, I 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:03.640 don't fully believe that, but it's a it's an idea. Yeah, 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:06.439 I mean, I don't fully believe that because my again, 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:09.640 my day to day life, part of the A lot 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:11.520 of the time and my day to day life that 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:16.800 I fully enjoy is is created. The situations for me 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:20.880 to enjoy that time were created because of ways in 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:24.079 which I spent my time in the past. So I 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:26.760 don't fully believe that. But also, if you live but 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.040 if you live only by r o I and you 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:34.760 only live by what's the return on investment of every 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:38.120 fucking second of my day? Then you die without then 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:39.880 what did you what were you ever doing? 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:44.280 Yeah, it's pretty stupid. Yeah. 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:50.560 So so again that's why this conversation has no stakes 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:55.160 because and also even if it's even if we're gonna 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:58.199 live in ROI land, it's like two hours of your time. 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:02.040 I I returned to the question what's two hours of 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:02.400 your time? 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:12.000 With yeah, uh, well I don't think I could copelate it. 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:16.960 Okay, right now, all right, So there's no mistake with this, 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:20.600 there's no reason to be nervous there's no way that 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:23.440 you could funck this up. This is just whatever it was. 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:26.640 There's no this doesn't need to pay off to anything. 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:30.679 That's true. 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:32.600 For me. 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:34.120 I'm just a huge then. 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:37.920 For me, thank you. I appreciate that, and thank you 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:41.000 for having this conversation with me. I'm actually I'm gonna 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:43.959 actually say two things that are related to that are 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:46.520 meta related to the conversation that we're having right now. 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:55.480 For me, this conversation has multiple rois. One is I 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:57.560 want this to I want this to be an engage 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:04.840 in conversation for a variety of reasons, mainly because there's 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.840 a bunch of people who listen to this podcast and 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:12.200 I want I want the I want the podcast to 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:19.959 be an enjoyable listen for those people. And then two 0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:24.199 so and so, I and so. Actually I'm operating on 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:29.559 both levels at this point because I get multiple returns 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.679 on my investment of time and having this conversation with 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:36.840 you right now and recording this podcast in many ways. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:42.520 You know, I do this for a living, so this 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:46.120 is this is my job. We have this conversation right now. Wait, sorry, 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:47.319 I don't want to cut you off, but I want 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:50.360 to just I's just my job to have this conversation 0:11:50.480 --> 0:11:56.600 right now. Yeah, I like and then ah, And there's 0:11:56.720 --> 0:12:06.360 roy inherent to that. There is ROI inherent to you know, 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:14.160 building like you know, listenership to a thing. There's lots 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:17.520 of you know, benefits that that can bring, I think, 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:19.679 to one's life. There's lots of challenges that can bring 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:22.280 to one's life with benefits. But I'm also operating on 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:26.080 the other level, which is that I in the moment 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:29.480 that we are having this conversation, like the time itself, 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:35.120 I am enjoying. I'm enjoying getting to work out the 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.720 ideas that I'm currently working out. As I'm on the 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:40.480 phone with you right now, I'm getting to talk to 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:42.520 a guy from the Czech Republic. I would have never 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:46.800 gotten to talk. Really, there's no reason that you and 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:51.000 Mi's life would have ever crossed paths had it not 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:56.760 been for like the fact that I'm talking to you 0:12:56.840 --> 0:13:01.320 right now. Is the ROI of previous decisions that I 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:05.720 made that are leading to this that leads to this podcast, 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:07.400 that leads to you discovering this, that lead to you 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.559 calling me. But also again, in the moment, I'm enjoying 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:14.079 having this conversation with you, so it's working on many 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:17.960 levels right now, this is this conversation is beneficial to 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:21.600 me in both the present and the future. 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:25.400 Can I just can go ahead? 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:26.319 Go ahead please? 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:31.840 I think this cozation. Yeah, this conversation is really I 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:37.280 just realized when you were talking this conversations it has 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:39.440 no space because they should go down a rabbit hole. 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:45.000 It just you know, everything is kind of like beneficial 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:48.520 in some way. You know, there's like a million things 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:53.880 you always like, I don't know, I can practice my English, 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:58.079 or I'm just happy I can talk to somebody, or 0:13:58.160 --> 0:14:04.120 you know, like it's really pointless two name or the 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:07.080 benefits oh you know. 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:14.640 Right right, No, yeah, no, you're right. The having this 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:20.040 conversation is just inherent. There's no this doesn't need to 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:22.000 be like a payoff to something. And by the way, 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:26.880 it's funny I'm having what was I gonna say? By 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:30.400 the way, I'm the king, I'm like, I actually I've 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:37.600 had a I had somebody say this to me. I 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:39.680 was I was dating someone and she said to me, 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:43.120 you seem like you only want to do things, or 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:48.200 like you mainly want to do things where you see 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:52.400 like like an ROI to them where like they compound 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:55.120 into things, and I am like that, and I have 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:58.080 a I have lots of parts of my brain that 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:00.120 are like that, where I only really want to do 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:03.600 things where I feel like they'll benefit me in the future. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.040 That's what I aspire to I in my actual life, 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:10.520 I do so I do lots of things that that 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:15.360 detriment my future, like eat a lot of ice cream, 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:18.160 but I enjoy them in the present. But then, but 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:20.880 I'm like, I'm enjoying talking this out to you right 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:25.600 now because I think that that mindset of I only 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:31.040 want to do things that compound for the future is helpful. 0:15:31.360 --> 0:15:33.480 But I don't think if you if you're always thinking 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:35.280 like that one hundred percent of the time, I think 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:41.440 you miss a lot of the point of doing anything. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:45.720 You know, So that's why I'm enjoying. I'm like to 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:50.680 challenge my own trying to challenge my own way of existing. 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:55.720 I mean it all comes down to, like I think, 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:59.720 I think what you're saying a lot is like ignorance 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:02.080 is a less if you don't think about it, you 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:07.600 just you do what you want, like you're not controlled 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:13.119 by the return of the investments, and you don't do things. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:16.880 Yeah, I think there's a health I think, I think, 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:21.360 I think the I think it's optimal to have a 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:23.240 I think it's about balance. I think you gotta have 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:27.600 a balance of both, right, Like you wanna do you wanna? 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:30.760 Because if you just fuck off all the time and 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:33.200 just yeah all the time and nothing ever matters, then 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:36.680 you didn't. You amounted to nothing, which was fine too. 0:16:37.600 --> 0:16:39.760 There's no no law that you have to just. 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:43.920 Short term and long term gratification. You know what do 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:45.880 you want? You have the truth? 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:54.920 I guess yeah, I mean yeah, I think yeah. I've 0:16:54.960 --> 0:17:02.760 always I've always try to yeah, do like long trying 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:04.359 to do things that like I'm like, I like, like 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:09.159 I want to build things, you know, like like you like, 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:11.600 I want to do things that compound so that my 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:14.359 life is better in the future. But if you're only 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:16.480 if that's what you're only doing, and you're only doing 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:19.760 things because they compound into the see, that's the best. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:22.240 See Like this, this conversation I'm having with you right now, 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:26.239 it's a perfect example of the perfect balance because this 0:17:26.280 --> 0:17:29.680 conversation I'm having with you right now, I am enjoying 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:37.119 having it in the moment, and it it compounds for 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:37.760 the future. 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:41.560 I guess it's a wingmen. 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:45.920 Do you feel like are you enjoying having this conversation 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:47.240 in the moment that we're having it? 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:51.919 Yeah? I do, like sure, okay, good. 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:56.760 Do you feel like this is compounds into your future 0:17:56.800 --> 0:18:02.040 in any way, shape or form. 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:08.080 Yeah, I mean we are exchanging ideas. Yes, so you 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:12.080 know that's always good to have a perspective. Now, yeah, 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:17.600 maybe sometimes when I think about situations and somehow I can, 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:20.920 you know, take this conversation up in my memory and 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:25.200 have another perspective. I think that's a good thing. 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:30.879 Yeah, you're practicing English. That's good. 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:33.560 Yeah, I'm sorry my English is pretty that right. 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:35.800 No, No, I don't, it's not I don't. I don't 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:37.920 think English. I only said that because you said that. 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:39.320 I don't think your English is bad at all. 0:18:42.560 --> 0:18:48.879 Yeah, yeah, I haven't. I haven't spoken English for a 0:18:48.920 --> 0:18:54.719 long time, so I just listen like youtobe and stuff, 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.440 read books, but I don't speak that much. 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:04.560 Where do you do you live in Prague? 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:06.800 Do you know in second language? 0:19:07.520 --> 0:19:08.720 Do I know a second language? 0:19:09.600 --> 0:19:09.800 Oh? 0:19:10.040 --> 0:19:13.359 No, hold I'll answer, I'll answer. 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:16.600 You speak Spanish when you were in Mexico cit. 0:19:17.119 --> 0:19:21.879 Yeah, I I I I know a little bit of Spanish, 0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:28.879 although my Spanish has has atrophied. I know, like ten 0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:32.880 phrases of Japanese maybe, yeah, like I know, like ten 0:19:32.920 --> 0:19:40.920 phrases of Japanese. I'm going to Tijuana on Friday. I'm 0:19:40.960 --> 0:19:46.520 filming a video I'm excited about. Remember the Uh I 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:48.040 don't know, I don't know how often you listen to 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:52.280 the podcast, but like back in December, I had a 0:19:52.280 --> 0:19:59.400 phone call with this guy who uh like leads these 0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:03.000 like break dancing sessions in Tijuana. 0:20:03.359 --> 0:20:05.560 Oh yeah, I remember. 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:09.040 Yeah, okay, yeah, so you listen. I know I saw 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:10.879 on that. On that phone call, he says to me, 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:12.200 He's like, yo, let me know if you ever want 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.640 to come to one and in and in it. I'm 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:18.320 like I'm like, yeah, maybe that would be cool someday. 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:20.399 And so I was just kind of sitting around and 0:20:20.400 --> 0:20:23.480 I'm like, wait, I'm gonna I should actually go do that. 0:20:25.640 --> 0:20:26.359 So I'm gonna do that. 0:20:26.680 --> 0:20:29.879 Yeah, I mean a lot of people tell you that 0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:31.560 now they do. 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:34.440 Yeah, I want to start making I want to yeah. 0:20:34.560 --> 0:20:34.760 Yeah. 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:36.320 A lot of people are like, hey, come here and 0:20:36.400 --> 0:20:41.200 let's do this this ship and I'm like, uh uh, 0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:42.760 that's kind of that's what that's my new arc. I 0:20:42.840 --> 0:20:44.920 want to make more videos like that because I made 0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:48.679 that video about being in being depressed in Japan, where 0:20:49.280 --> 0:20:51.240 you know, I met up with with with my my 0:20:51.320 --> 0:20:54.720 boy Jason, who called it into the show and I'm like, oh, 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:56.840 that's I like that format of video. I think that 0:20:57.000 --> 0:20:59.080 is fun. So I'm gonna go into Tijuan. I'm gonna 0:20:59.080 --> 0:21:04.520 do that ship. But uh, I want to Okay, I 0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:07.600 just want to go ahead, Google ahead, you say some Yeah. 0:21:07.600 --> 0:21:11.360 I just wanted to say, I think this podcast wouldn't 0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:18.240 work if you weren't traveling the world, like I think 0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:22.159 it brings so much to like, you know what you 0:21:22.200 --> 0:21:26.280 are talking about, like when different cultures, people with different 0:21:26.320 --> 0:21:29.560 cultures talk to you, you are like open. I think 0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:34.399 if you sat on your ass all the time, it 0:21:34.400 --> 0:21:40.119 wouldn't work. This podcast so good that you you travel 0:21:40.160 --> 0:21:40.400 a lot. 0:21:40.480 --> 0:21:46.520 I think interesting. Well, and I'm trying to think about 0:21:46.560 --> 0:21:52.120 that because I don't you know, that's an interesting thing 0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:57.080 to say, and I agree with it to a point. 0:21:56.800 --> 0:22:01.200 But I think maybe not like it wouldn't work in 0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:01.920 this scale. 0:22:02.080 --> 0:22:09.480 I think I think that I do think that traveling 0:22:11.280 --> 0:22:14.080 and like going around and talking to people and stuff 0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:23.240 is a is a good education in like, uh, yeah, 0:22:23.280 --> 0:22:25.359 I think it is a good education. But I also 0:22:25.600 --> 0:22:31.119 I don't think you need it. There's all these New 0:22:31.200 --> 0:22:33.760 York Times articles. I mean, I like doing it because 0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:40.520 I it's exciting, and I like I crave, I crave 0:22:40.720 --> 0:22:46.880 constant stimulation. I think that's an ADHD thing, or maybe 0:22:46.920 --> 0:22:55.080 it's just a me thing. I don't know, but I yeah, yeah, Oh, 0:22:55.119 --> 0:22:56.240 you go ahead, you're gonna say. 0:22:56.040 --> 0:23:00.399 Some Yeah, I'm just I was going to say, no, 0:23:00.560 --> 0:23:04.040 I don't know that much about you, but I think 0:23:04.040 --> 0:23:08.000 a lot of those things you'd say, like ADHD. I 0:23:08.000 --> 0:23:11.639 think it just you know, we are so over stimulated 0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:16.919 in the world. Oh it's not really no, like adhd ah, 0:23:17.000 --> 0:23:20.200 But that's a different conversation. I don't I don't know. 0:23:21.680 --> 0:23:24.200 I I see what you mean. There's uh, what's that. 0:23:24.280 --> 0:23:26.160 There's a Dave. I think it's like, no, it's it's 0:23:26.160 --> 0:23:29.280 not Dave Chappelle. It's Michael Ja. Michael Cha has that 0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:34.800 joke where he's like, uh, this kid doesn't have ADHD. 0:23:34.840 --> 0:23:38.840 He's got titties in his pocket, you know, because of 0:23:38.880 --> 0:23:49.000 the phone. Anyway, Yeah, anyway, oh yeah, traveling, I don't know. 0:23:49.040 --> 0:23:53.119 You can you can there's somebody you can learn ship 0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:55.440 on the internet. You can listen to podcasts, you can 0:23:57.000 --> 0:23:57.800 do all kinds of ship. 0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:04.560 I'm well, can I say just from my perspective or experience, 0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:10.840 I don't travel on like to other countries almost like 0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:14.320 I traveled once or twice in my life. But I 0:24:14.359 --> 0:24:18.040 think I'm still open in new cultures. Yes, but it's 0:24:18.080 --> 0:24:19.800 not the same. I think it's not the same when 0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:23.240 you weren't there because the Internet is so you know, 0:24:23.800 --> 0:24:28.720 it's not real if you get me, like, I know 0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:32.200 it's saying Internet is not real, it's pretty stupid, but 0:24:35.080 --> 0:24:39.119 I mean it's not like like seventy percent of things 0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:42.640 on internet are fake, right, So you get you don't 0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:47.960 get the right perspective or the experience that you would 0:24:48.320 --> 0:24:52.440 when actually being there and talking to people or experiencing 0:24:52.520 --> 0:24:58.280 their food or you know, just the behavior. Like I 0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:05.760 guess if someone whence to I don't know, to Japan 0:25:06.040 --> 0:25:10.919 and made the block just walking in the city, I 0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:15.240 don't get the experience of actually woking. It's totally different thing, 0:25:20.200 --> 0:25:20.480 you know. 0:25:25.480 --> 0:25:29.560 I again, I like travel a lot because it's, uh, 0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:32.359 it's just fun and stimulating and I like getting to, 0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:35.879 you know, meet new people and do and you know, 0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:37.480 when I die, I want to be able to look 0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:40.280 back on my life and uh, you know, be able 0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:44.879 to say that I had, you know, exciting experiences and whatnot. 0:25:44.920 --> 0:25:48.600 But I don't in terms of like, in terms of 0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:53.200 like learning about the human experience. I think I think 0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:59.359 that your understanding of the human experience is not I 0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:02.439 don't think you have to travel far and wide for it. 0:26:02.600 --> 0:26:05.160 I mean, like you like, okay, so you don't travel, right, 0:26:05.160 --> 0:26:10.440 but like I assume you have you know, I'm gonna 0:26:10.440 --> 0:26:16.119 assume you have like parents and maybe siblings and friends, 0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:20.040 and you go to the store and you do all 0:26:20.080 --> 0:26:24.240 these things, and it's like you can you know, just 0:26:24.240 --> 0:26:32.520 just living on regular ass life and examining it and 0:26:33.480 --> 0:26:37.159 you know, having relationships with other people and attempting to 0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:44.880 navigate the world. And you know, but when. 0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:47.920 You say, I think there's a problem when you say 0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:53.679 navigating the work, because you know, the work is so 0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:59.280 vast and different on other places that I mean, I 0:26:59.280 --> 0:27:02.840 can navigate the world maybe in chic Republic, but I 0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:05.760 would be completely or not completely, but I would be 0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:10.680 lost even in America because the culture is really different. 0:27:11.720 --> 0:27:16.240 Ye hm, yes, But I mean to be honest with you, 0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:22.080 like the Yes, cultures are different, but a lot of 0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:27.400 ship's the the same. I mean like yeah, yeah, I mean, 0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:29.280 well okay, right actually here, I mean let me, let me, 0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:34.240 let me do this right, like like do you have 0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:37.879 a do you have like a what's what's your romantic life? 0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:43.840 Like, Oh, I I will be getting married, I think 0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:44.480 this summer. 0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:46.479 You're getting married this summer? 0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:49.879 Yeah hopefully? 0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:51.240 Why hopefully? 0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:56.080 Oh well, it's not a setting stone, it I guess. 0:27:56.920 --> 0:28:03.320 I mean you're not doing the classic marriage where you know, 0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:07.320 I propose and we have the ceremony and stuff. You're 0:28:07.359 --> 0:28:11.159 just gonna go to the city hall and get married. 0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:16.600 Cool. How long have you been with your fiance your girlfriend? 0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:25.919 Well, like together romantically, it's been a year and a half. 0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:29.880 But I've known her for like ten years, I guess. 0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:35.960 Okay, And how did that relationship go from like platonic 0:28:36.040 --> 0:28:36.640 to romantic? 0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:48.040 Well, there was some romantic tension spark or how do 0:28:48.080 --> 0:28:52.640 you call it, like all the time, I guess, but 0:28:53.960 --> 0:28:59.920 realized really far apart and saw each other just one 0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:07.280 fear for fourteen days, and like we grew older and 0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:11.120 we started seeing each other more and yeah, then I 0:29:11.160 --> 0:29:11.920 got her pregnant. 0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:16.200 WHOA Okay, I have a lot of questions to ask 0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:18.959 about your life, but just to tie back in what 0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:23.560 we were just talking about, is, okay, so you have 0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:27.800 this you had this thing right with this girl where 0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:30.480 you maybe liked each other and there was maybe just 0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:35.320 spark and you know, like you have your you have 0:29:35.400 --> 0:29:37.360 your love story with this lady. 0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:41.400 Yeah, I mean it was not maybe, but yeah yeah, 0:29:41.480 --> 0:29:42.240 yeah love story. 0:29:42.480 --> 0:29:47.320 Okay, So well, okay, but this this experience of like 0:29:47.760 --> 0:29:50.560 a guy and a girl know each other for a 0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:56.080 long time and then maybe they get together, maybe they 0:29:56.280 --> 0:30:01.000 don't know, they fucking h coover, they love each other, 0:30:01.040 --> 0:30:03.680 and then maybe oh he gets their pregnant, and then 0:30:03.960 --> 0:30:10.000 this story, this your life story, that story is happening 0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:15.000 like that. That's just that's a human story. That's not 0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:20.400 like that's probably happened in Japan, Korea and America and 0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:24.200 Australia and all over Europe. Like that story like that, 0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:29.160 like the like the like the human things like like 0:30:30.200 --> 0:30:34.520 I know, and like like searching and like the search 0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:39.760 for personal meaning and like familial relationships. These are these 0:30:39.760 --> 0:30:42.520 aren't things you you discovered by traveling. These are things 0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:45.960 you discovered by just like living and then you kind 0:30:45.960 --> 0:30:49.920 of discover them by like talking to other people about 0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:53.080 their lived experience. But a lot of like the truly 0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:59.880 human uh ship is is cross cultural, I think. 0:31:01.080 --> 0:31:04.360 Yeah, I mean these are feelings, right, so feelings are 0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:09.680 definitely human like in every every culture, I guess, same. 0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:18.440 Right, yeah? Yeah, Like, so you're you're educated in you're 0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:25.280 educated in this field of romance, not because you not 0:31:25.440 --> 0:31:27.600 because you try, not because you went on a crazy 0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:30.880 cool trip to Japan, but because you fucking lived your 0:31:31.000 --> 0:31:34.360 life and then you pull from the actual the life 0:31:34.400 --> 0:31:38.080 that you lived to then give you a greater perspective 0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:40.600 on the lives that other people might be living. And 0:31:40.640 --> 0:31:42.640 you didn't have you didn't have to leave the Czech 0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:43.400 Republic to do that. 0:31:45.200 --> 0:31:49.479 Yeah, yeah, you're right, You're right, Yeah, But but I 0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:53.760 cannot Well I could talk to you about this or 0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:59.880 to anyone, right, but mmm, how do I how do 0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:04.560 Maybe I couldn't talk to about what the feeling is 0:32:04.920 --> 0:32:09.360 walking to in Japan in summer where it's really hot 0:32:09.400 --> 0:32:13.440 and humid on the busy street, right, That's what I mean. 0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:20.400 But yeah, but even like yeah, but even like in 0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:23.920 even like in that Japan walking video that I made 0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:27.240 like that video is not about Japan. That video is 0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:32.880 about like, ah go the videos that video is about 0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:41.800 like my just my own fucking spirally ah thoughts, and 0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:43.880 I could I could have fucking done that. You know, 0:32:43.920 --> 0:32:46.520 I could have had those thoughts. 0:32:46.800 --> 0:32:49.760 I'm gonna I'm gonna be honest when I said, when 0:32:49.760 --> 0:32:54.560 I said it, I didn't remember that video from you. 0:32:54.720 --> 0:33:01.360 I just was saying, random scenario. It's I'm a new concept. 0:33:02.080 --> 0:33:07.360 You know, sure, sure, but but okay, like but I. 0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:12.880 Think I'm kind of spiraling about this. Cann just just say, 0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:16.040 just going to go away from it. 0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:18.360 It's not like you know, yeah, oh by the way, 0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:20.720 hold on, just so you know, I'm not uh. I 0:33:20.760 --> 0:33:22.480 hope you don't feel like I'm attacking you. I'm not 0:33:22.560 --> 0:33:27.040 at all. I'm just uh no, you're giving your your 0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:32.400 You're you've been, You're a great springboard for I'm enjoying 0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:37.360 these ideas that were were exchanging. I'm not attacking. I 0:33:37.360 --> 0:33:40.440 don't want I don't you say, because you say you're spiraling, No, no, no. 0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:42.600 I I enjoyed this very much. Even if you were 0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:47.640 attacking me. It's all right. I know. 0:33:47.840 --> 0:33:51.080 I'm just I'm just in real time I'm in real 0:33:51.200 --> 0:33:59.360 time thinking about the things that you're saying. Let me think, well, yeah, 0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:05.960 because like, well, yeah, the idea of I don't know. 0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:08.239 I think you get an education just by like living 0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:16.160 your fucking life, you know, whatever happens to you. 0:34:16.280 --> 0:34:19.280 Yeah, I mean, let's let's let's agree to disagree. 0:34:19.360 --> 0:34:25.200 Now it's good, it's uh wait, no, I don't want 0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:26.879 to I don't want to agree to disagree. I want 0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:28.279 to hear your disagreements. 0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:34.719 I told you already. But I think my like of 0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:41.080 knowing English or English vocabulary, I can't really express myself 0:34:41.120 --> 0:34:45.040 that much. So I don't know. I would rather just 0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:49.839 go from that topic because I don't think I can 0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:51.800 really say my mind on that. 0:34:53.360 --> 0:34:57.520 You know, So you're having a child. 0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:01.640 Yeah, I have a child. 0:35:03.480 --> 0:35:07.839 I have almost one year old other Oh holy shit, 0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:13.800 yeah wow, how's that? 0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:22.840 I mean, it's well, it's a right, parenthood is amazing, 0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:33.120 but it's not either definitely. Well, I'm twenty one, my 0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:41.040 girlfriend is nineteen, so you're kind of young parents. I'm 0:35:41.080 --> 0:35:47.000 still in school. My girlfriend is also in school, so 0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:54.040 we have some troubles with the time management and making money. Right, 0:35:55.080 --> 0:35:59.400 But I don't know, I always wanted to be a father. 0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:06.360 So I'm really enjoying it, but it's not idea, right. 0:36:08.600 --> 0:36:09.000 Mm hmm. 0:36:10.760 --> 0:36:13.160 Well, I could go on a rant, but I don't know, 0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:19.400 I mmm if if it's constructive or not. 0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:24.799 I would love to hear your rent. Uh. 0:36:25.280 --> 0:36:30.680 Well, well, I'm twenty one, and you know I always 0:36:31.000 --> 0:36:36.240 wanted to child before before I got my girlfriend pregnant. 0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:44.440 I thought about, like, if I had two lives, in 0:36:44.600 --> 0:36:48.440 one I would like to try to be a young parent, 0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:53.160 and in the other one, I would, you know, do 0:36:53.280 --> 0:36:57.479 it the traditional way, I guess, And then I got 0:36:57.800 --> 0:37:05.200 kind of new choice, and but yeah, I am really 0:37:05.360 --> 0:37:10.880 enjoying it, but it was it's trually stressful because I 0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:16.160 don't work full time and money is kind of tight, 0:37:18.040 --> 0:37:22.719 especially in this economy, I guess, right, But yeah, so 0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:25.080 it's it's it's stressful a lot. 0:37:27.160 --> 0:37:30.680 Of yeah. 0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:34.240 Mhmm. 0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:38.359 You said in one life, you said, if you had 0:37:38.400 --> 0:37:41.520 two lives, you would do one as a young father, 0:37:42.320 --> 0:37:46.440 and then in the other one you would do it 0:37:46.560 --> 0:37:49.879 the traditional way, which which I said, the traditional way 0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:53.839 to you is like, you know, waiting a little more. 0:37:58.200 --> 0:38:01.920 I think the traditional way is like to finish school, 0:38:02.000 --> 0:38:05.560 get a good job, financial stability, and then have a child. Right, 0:38:06.160 --> 0:38:06.560 mm hmm. 0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:11.040 Well, I'm curious what made you want to what made 0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:12.200 you want to be a young dad? 0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:24.920 I well, because I felt like being a father is 0:38:26.800 --> 0:38:30.080 how do you said? Like, that's the only thing in 0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:35.000 my life that I want to do pretty much, like 0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:39.160 it's my dream. Yeah, my dream. Hmm. 0:38:40.239 --> 0:38:42.520 How is it playing out for you? Have you have 0:38:42.680 --> 0:38:47.000 you do you feel? Do you feel good about about 0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:52.080 living your dream? Uh? 0:38:52.560 --> 0:38:55.600 Yeah, I mean it's my dream, right, So I really 0:38:55.719 --> 0:39:00.560 love it, Like being a father is amazing. I enjoy 0:39:00.600 --> 0:39:04.480 it every day. I love my daughter and she's she's amazing. 0:39:04.960 --> 0:39:09.200 But no, I know, there's really not a bad I 0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:14.960 really love it, like it's great. The only thing that's, like, 0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:24.120 I guess not optimal is the money situation, right, But 0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:27.560 everything else I just thought it. I'm with my with 0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:30.800 my girlfriend, which is love of my life. 0:39:32.760 --> 0:39:41.399 So that's great, that's great, that's wonderful. How is she doing? 0:39:41.520 --> 0:39:42.279 Yeah? Is she? 0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:44.120 Is she happy? Is she doing good? 0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:53.239 Yeah? I would say she's happy. Well, now, we had 0:39:53.280 --> 0:40:00.360 the finals, so it was kind of stressful. But you know, 0:40:00.520 --> 0:40:05.360 life is well, like if you don't I feel like, 0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:08.480 if you want to live a comfortable life, you will 0:40:08.560 --> 0:40:13.800 never achieve anything or like, mmm, you know you know 0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:16.279 what I mean, Like if you don't step out of 0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:21.680 your comfort zone, you just stay stuck. So that's my 0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:22.759 point of view on that. 0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:23.759 Yeah. 0:40:24.760 --> 0:40:36.879 Yeah, yeah, no, but we're really cool, Like we're gonna 0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:37.799 get married, right, so. 0:40:39.800 --> 0:40:42.640 H you're happy? 0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:50.160 Mm hmm. How do you are you? What's your family situation? 0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:50.480 Are you? 0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:53.120 Is your Are you cool with your dad and your 0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:55.000 mom and like you have siblings and stuff? 0:40:57.040 --> 0:41:02.200 Yeah? Well, uh, I am very cool with my parents, 0:41:03.239 --> 0:41:09.440 Like I love them. They're amazing. They they help us 0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:13.080 a lot, like my father, Like they are not together. 0:41:14.200 --> 0:41:17.759 I would say divorced, but they never got married, so 0:41:18.560 --> 0:41:24.360 I guess separate. Uh, but they are cool. I have 0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:28.880 one brother, you could say half a bad brother. I 0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:32.719 guess it's only from my mom's side, but I feel 0:41:33.239 --> 0:41:36.239 it's he's my like my real brother. I know him 0:41:36.400 --> 0:41:43.080 on My life is amazing mm hmm. Yeah. I My 0:41:43.200 --> 0:41:46.200 family is great. I just wish I could talk to 0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:51.560 them more, like see them, because now really is really 0:41:51.680 --> 0:41:52.320 far apart. 0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:58.400 Mm hmm. Do you do you have a Do you 0:41:58.440 --> 0:41:59.920 have a lot of friends where you live? 0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:08.360 Yeah? I have, Like I have a group of friends 0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:13.319 m hm. And I have some friends in school. But yeah, 0:42:13.400 --> 0:42:16.520 I don't know. I don't know how much friends is 0:42:16.560 --> 0:42:18.160 a lot or how much friends is. 0:42:19.840 --> 0:42:20.080 Few. 0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:25.040 I have just a good amount of friends, I would 0:42:25.080 --> 0:42:27.960 say I have. I don't have much time because, like 0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:30.120 I said, I go to work and I study and 0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:35.000 I'm a new parent. But I don't have that much time. 0:42:35.560 --> 0:42:38.319 But I'm trying to keep in touch with them. 0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:44.560 Yeah, man, you're a pretty you're you're you're, you're a 0:42:44.600 --> 0:42:48.799 pretty incredible guy. Man, that's you're you're. That's a lot. 0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:52.160 That's a lot to juggle. That's a that's an incredible amount. 0:42:52.560 --> 0:42:57.239 No, I don't. No, I hate when someone says that 0:42:58.600 --> 0:43:00.759 because I respect that. 0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:03.480 I respect that, I really expect that. 0:43:04.200 --> 0:43:09.239 I really don't think I'm, you know, doing anything remarkable. 0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:14.080 Like I spent a lot of my time fucking watching 0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:18.239 YouTube shots. If I was amazing, I wouldn't. I would 0:43:18.280 --> 0:43:24.000 do something more productive, and you know, this is the 0:43:24.120 --> 0:43:28.279 life that I pretty much chose. So no much, not 0:43:28.480 --> 0:43:31.680 much remarkable about that, right. 0:43:33.640 --> 0:43:39.080 Okay, can I can? I all right, wait, I don't. Okay, 0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:43.279 Here's I'm not. I don't want to because you hate 0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:46.000 when people say you're remarkable. I'm I don't want to 0:43:46.080 --> 0:43:50.759 like like dick ride you or anything, but can I 0:43:51.200 --> 0:43:56.480 want to explore I want to explore this. If we may, 0:43:57.360 --> 0:43:58.960 you won't spiral, But I. 0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:03.600 Wait, so no I would. I'm sorry because I would 0:44:03.640 --> 0:44:07.400 really like to talk about this more. But my thoughts 0:44:08.400 --> 0:44:10.560 I just can't put them in words in English. But 0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:11.360 I'm really trying. 0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:13.560 Well, well, okay, well, by the way, you're doing great. 0:44:13.600 --> 0:44:16.280 You don't your your English is great. I'm just curious 0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:16.600 about this. 0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:19.479 What why? 0:44:21.680 --> 0:44:23.800 Okay? I get if? Why does it do? 0:44:24.800 --> 0:44:24.880 Well? 0:44:24.920 --> 0:44:27.399 I guess A A, do people tell you a lot 0:44:28.320 --> 0:44:32.400 that you're amazing? And then B why does it bother 0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:33.680 you when people tell you that? 0:44:37.680 --> 0:44:37.879 Yeah? 0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:46.520 Well yeah, people say it like my friends say it sometimes. No, 0:44:46.680 --> 0:44:48.839 well they said it, they say it like once, right, 0:44:49.200 --> 0:44:52.480 they don't say it every day. But I guess it 0:44:52.560 --> 0:44:56.120 bothers me because you know, I don't feel like I'm 0:44:56.160 --> 0:45:01.560 doing anything amazing and it you know, I just get 0:45:01.640 --> 0:45:05.680 to if everyone says you're amazing while you're not, you're 0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:07.120 just never going to improve. 0:45:07.920 --> 0:45:14.560 I feel like, no, well yeah, yeah, yeah, I absolutely 0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:19.880 know what what that feels like. Uh, because yeah, if 0:45:19.920 --> 0:45:22.640 everyone says you're amazing and right, because there's a weird 0:45:22.760 --> 0:45:27.800 this is a fucking this is a classic thing. Is 0:45:28.040 --> 0:45:29.879 uh if everyone says you're amazing. 0:45:29.680 --> 0:45:34.160 And it's pretty pretty uh normal human experience, you could say. 0:45:34.400 --> 0:45:38.800 Yeah, if you start walking around thinking, well, hey, I'm amazing, 0:45:39.640 --> 0:45:43.640 you know, then you just get what Then you're you're right, 0:45:43.719 --> 0:45:48.480 you're not gonna improve. But then the opposite sucks too, 0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:50.799 right because you don't want to write if you think 0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:52.960 if you walk around all the time thinking that you're amazing, 0:45:53.120 --> 0:45:55.359 you're not gonna improve. But then if you walk around 0:45:55.400 --> 0:45:58.640 all the time being like I suck, then you're just 0:45:58.680 --> 0:45:59.560 gonna hate your life. 0:46:00.160 --> 0:46:04.520 So yeah, I don't think I suck. I just think 0:46:04.600 --> 0:46:08.760 I'm not remarkable. Like you said, I think I'm pretty normal. 0:46:09.000 --> 0:46:13.960 Chill guy, what is what does that mean? What is like? 0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:18.840 Okay, see, your friends have told you. They maybe they 0:46:18.840 --> 0:46:20.920 don't tell you every day, but they have told you before. 0:46:20.960 --> 0:46:23.279 Your friends, people in your life have told you what 0:46:23.480 --> 0:46:27.000 you're doing by not only working and going to school, 0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:31.360 but also you know, being a partner and being a 0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.240 father and you know being a loving kid, Like everything 0:46:34.280 --> 0:46:38.360 you're doing is remarkable. So people have told you that 0:46:38.600 --> 0:46:42.680 what it like what is remarkable to you? Like, because 0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:46.840 clearly you have an idea or like a bar for 0:46:47.080 --> 0:46:52.000 what incredible or remarkable looks like, and that you're not there. 0:46:52.120 --> 0:46:52.480 What is that? 0:46:52.680 --> 0:46:54.840 Where's that bar at? Where does it look like? 0:46:58.280 --> 0:47:04.399 Well? I don't know what I would put the bar 0:47:05.760 --> 0:47:09.640 like on someone I don't know, but for me, I 0:47:09.760 --> 0:47:15.160 guess I would be amazing if you know, I didn't flag. 0:47:15.440 --> 0:47:20.480 I feel like I flack a lot. Is that I mean, 0:47:21.920 --> 0:47:25.759 like I thought I mentioned many times in this conversation 0:47:25.840 --> 0:47:28.720 YouTube shorts because that's the thing that's on my mental 0:47:28.800 --> 0:47:33.560 lot because I really spend I think, too much time there, 0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:38.439 which is not a productive time and I could really 0:47:38.520 --> 0:47:42.000 spend it on something else, like I don't know, learning 0:47:42.480 --> 0:47:46.279 or just being present, cleaning my room or something like that, 0:47:47.400 --> 0:47:53.080 and instead of doing that, I choose the instant gratification 0:47:53.719 --> 0:47:59.120 like I mentioned, and you know, just flag and then 0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:02.000 I feel bad. So I don't think there's you know, 0:48:02.880 --> 0:48:06.000 that's not remarkable, right when you do something you don't 0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:08.480 want to do and you still do it because you're 0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:12.000 like it feels good at the moment. 0:48:13.920 --> 0:48:17.560 Hm hmm, yeah, I have, like I actually I have 0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:23.640 so many thoughts on that okay, but your your child. 0:48:27.040 --> 0:48:35.560 Yeah yeah, that's kind of complicated situation, but it's getting 0:48:35.640 --> 0:48:41.600 fixed soon. So well, I know, okay, let me tell you, 0:48:43.200 --> 0:48:46.719 let me get you kind of different into this. I know, 0:48:48.120 --> 0:48:52.560 like people are going to freak out. But yeah, let's 0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:56.800 say I got my girlfriend pregnant when she was eighteen 0:48:57.320 --> 0:48:58.120 and I was plenty. 0:48:59.640 --> 0:48:59.759 Uh. 0:49:01.160 --> 0:49:05.320 By the way, like the content, like the age you 0:49:05.400 --> 0:49:09.279 can consent to sex in my country is fifteen, so 0:49:11.640 --> 0:49:12.480 it's all right. 0:49:15.320 --> 0:49:18.040 When she was and you were twenty. 0:49:19.800 --> 0:49:22.880 Yeah, well no, I was actually nineteen. 0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:28.600 Sorry, okay, all right, I was nineteen and she was eighteen. 0:49:28.640 --> 0:49:32.040 We are a year and a half and I was 0:49:32.120 --> 0:49:37.360 still nineteen. Yeah, ok so, and she is still she 0:49:38.080 --> 0:49:42.520 was still finishing high school because like high high school 0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:47.000 school system in Czech Republic is you study high school 0:49:47.040 --> 0:49:48.839 till you were like eighteen nineteen. I don't know how 0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:55.400 it's in America. So she is still yeah, yeah, she 0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:58.120 is still finishing. She was still finishing high school. She 0:49:58.280 --> 0:50:01.680 was in her first year and in sure publicly do 0:50:01.960 --> 0:50:06.120 four years. Well, there are different types of high school education, 0:50:06.280 --> 0:50:12.160 but I guess the tradition like it's four years, and 0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:16.560 she was doing her third year she was studying. So 0:50:17.000 --> 0:50:21.480 she actually had to finish high school for one year 0:50:21.719 --> 0:50:28.960 while our daughter was you know, she was born last summer, 0:50:29.400 --> 0:50:33.840 and then this whole year she had to still finish 0:50:33.920 --> 0:50:39.480 high school, and so she had to stay at her 0:50:40.320 --> 0:50:46.080 grand grandparents' house. And I'm actually studying in a different city, 0:50:46.360 --> 0:50:50.799 like half across the Czech Republic. I would say, it's 0:50:50.880 --> 0:50:56.560 a five hour ride by train. So I wasn't capable 0:50:56.640 --> 0:51:04.239 of going like spending with them all the time, all 0:51:04.320 --> 0:51:08.640 the time, the whole week. So I went to work 0:51:08.719 --> 0:51:13.680 and studied like on weekdays like Monday, Tuesday to Friday, 0:51:15.440 --> 0:51:20.200 and and I went back on the weekends on. So 0:51:20.480 --> 0:51:24.200 that's been last year. But now she finished high school 0:51:24.880 --> 0:51:33.640 with the nice grades and we will live together now, hm. 0:51:37.239 --> 0:51:44.320 So she so you were studying while she was taking 0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:49.120 care of the baby with her grandma and finishing up 0:51:49.440 --> 0:51:52.600 her shit, and then you're doing your ship and now 0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:55.640 the plan is, okay, we're all going to live together. 0:51:57.520 --> 0:52:00.600 Yeah. Yeah, Well I was visiting, like think I was 0:52:00.680 --> 0:52:07.800 coming back every weekend. Yeah, okay, okay, like we are together, 0:52:07.960 --> 0:52:10.839 you know, just it just sucked because I wasn't. 0:52:10.920 --> 0:52:13.160 No, I mean, look, I get you gotta you gotta 0:52:13.239 --> 0:52:15.560 you gotta, you gotta go to school, you gotta get 0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:17.960 an education. You're doing what you gotta do for the family, 0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:20.000 and then coming back on the weekends to be with 0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:20.520 the family. 0:52:21.440 --> 0:52:24.200 Yeah. I mean I I when I when I heard 0:52:24.280 --> 0:52:26.400 that we are going to have a baby, I my 0:52:27.080 --> 0:52:30.319 immediate thought was, Okay, I'm gonna quit school and start 0:52:30.360 --> 0:52:37.520 working full time. But well, we talked together and with 0:52:37.760 --> 0:52:42.239 her parents and my parents, and we decided that it 0:52:42.320 --> 0:52:45.400 would be the best if I finished the school because 0:52:45.560 --> 0:52:50.880 I'm studying electrical engineering, and the salary really really spikes 0:52:50.920 --> 0:52:56.799 when you finish school, like her university, you know. Yeah, 0:52:57.800 --> 0:52:59.719 so it's like an investments. 0:53:00.320 --> 0:53:02.600 Yeah. No, you're blessed as fuck to have. 0:53:04.920 --> 0:53:04.960 It. 0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:08.080 Sounds like your families, like your family and her family 0:53:08.840 --> 0:53:12.160 are like being extremely helpful and being like, all right, 0:53:12.239 --> 0:53:15.320 will you know, we'll help you guys out so that 0:53:15.480 --> 0:53:17.600 you can you don't have to drop out and fucking 0:53:17.880 --> 0:53:19.640 go to work and you can finish school and she 0:53:19.760 --> 0:53:22.719 can finish school. And it's nice. It's nice to you 0:53:22.760 --> 0:53:23.920 have family to help you out with. That's you. 0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:27.480 Yeah, I mean, yeah, you're a family view of each other, 0:53:28.320 --> 0:53:31.719 you know. I mean, I think Czech Republic is a 0:53:31.800 --> 0:53:36.000 little bit more family oriented than let's say, America. 0:53:36.800 --> 0:53:40.520 Yeah, we were talking about like traveling, and shit is America. 0:53:42.080 --> 0:53:44.560 And it's funny when you you know, what is so 0:53:44.800 --> 0:53:47.400 dumb is And maybe maybe it's just me. I'm not 0:53:47.480 --> 0:53:49.680 I'm not gonna project on other Americans. I'm just gonna 0:53:50.480 --> 0:53:52.680 I'm not gonna speak on behalf of other Americans. I'm 0:53:52.719 --> 0:53:56.000 just gonna throw myself under. That is when I when 0:53:56.239 --> 0:53:59.160 growing up in America, I think I just always thought 0:53:59.400 --> 0:54:04.719 like like like just America as the default, you know 0:54:04.800 --> 0:54:11.120 what I mean, it's a stupid American thing of like 0:54:11.239 --> 0:54:13.680 you grew up in America and you think that like 0:54:13.800 --> 0:54:16.000 the way that I don't know if this happens everywhere, 0:54:16.160 --> 0:54:18.080 but like you, you just when you grow up, you 0:54:18.280 --> 0:54:21.239 think that the way that you grow up and the 0:54:21.360 --> 0:54:25.080 culture that you live in. Sorry, I'm gonna stop projecting. 0:54:25.280 --> 0:54:27.400 I thought that the way I grew up and the 0:54:27.480 --> 0:54:32.920 culture that I lived in was just how everyone is. 0:54:34.120 --> 0:54:36.960 And then and then yes, I get older and I 0:54:37.960 --> 0:54:41.400 travel more and I learn more, and I realize that 0:54:41.480 --> 0:54:48.640 it's not the case. And yes, individualism is a strongly 0:54:48.760 --> 0:54:54.440 American thing. It's like we have our own cars, and 0:54:54.560 --> 0:54:59.560 you can't you cannot ever tell us what the fuck 0:55:00.280 --> 0:55:04.759 we can do because we're we are free. And then 0:55:04.800 --> 0:55:06.480 you've got to other countries and it's like, you know, 0:55:06.680 --> 0:55:12.360 I mean, people people have like like I think, like adults, 0:55:12.480 --> 0:55:15.640 like being being like twenty seven and living with your 0:55:15.840 --> 0:55:23.520 family is I think a way more of a No, 0:55:23.680 --> 0:55:26.480 it's like a very non American thing, but it's like 0:55:26.640 --> 0:55:30.680 very normal. I believe in like Europe for like, you know, 0:55:31.040 --> 0:55:35.000 I think it's but Europe and like other countries. 0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:40.200 To have you don't get the house well okay, yeah, 0:55:40.360 --> 0:55:42.080 just so you don't get the wrong idea. It's not 0:55:43.160 --> 0:55:45.960 you're not the Czech Republic. It's not like I didn't 0:55:46.080 --> 0:55:50.280 mean to say all some oriented maybe like India or something. 0:55:50.480 --> 0:55:53.480 It's not like well, if you're twenty seven and you're 0:55:53.520 --> 0:55:55.880 living in a parents house, it's weird. 0:55:55.840 --> 0:56:01.360 Here too, so interesting. I thought it's maybe it's. 0:56:01.680 --> 0:56:08.000 I don't know, I know, sorry, go ahead, go ahead, yeah, 0:56:08.080 --> 0:56:11.640 I just I just don't think it's as much of 0:56:13.280 --> 0:56:18.719 capitalism like influence here. It's just more family oriented. Like 0:56:18.840 --> 0:56:24.960 people are generally much poorer here than America. I would say, 0:56:25.080 --> 0:56:29.000 so we like to you know, don't chase money, but 0:56:29.239 --> 0:56:32.760 like relationships, I guess maybe more. 0:56:34.160 --> 0:56:40.839 That makes a lot of sense. I'm talking totally out 0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:42.439 of my ass here, but I feel like, yeah, there's 0:56:42.440 --> 0:56:47.680 definitely maybe it's like Latin American countries or something like that, 0:56:47.719 --> 0:56:50.040 where it's like it's very common to have like three 0:56:50.160 --> 0:56:53.320 generations in one household. I also thought that was like 0:56:53.360 --> 0:56:54.360 a European thing. 0:56:55.080 --> 0:56:55.600 But uh. 0:56:57.360 --> 0:57:01.920 Yeah, America is like, you know, you gotta get you 0:57:01.960 --> 0:57:04.959 gotta fucking do your own ship. 0:57:05.440 --> 0:57:13.240 Yeah, you you have like do what your anime? Not really, 0:57:13.960 --> 0:57:16.480 but no, okay, I think I think America. 0:57:16.760 --> 0:57:21.800 You know, you you like when you look at the 0:57:21.880 --> 0:57:27.959 person you the first thing you like, they're like power 0:57:28.040 --> 0:57:30.840 level is how much money they are making like that 0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:35.120 that that's what makes them, you know how they say it, 0:57:36.960 --> 0:57:39.920 U like a great person if he has a lot 0:57:39.960 --> 0:57:40.320 of money. 0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:43.400 I think in America, yeah, that's where that's the where 0:57:43.440 --> 0:57:44.560 the value judgment is. 0:57:46.240 --> 0:57:49.080 Yeah yeah, right, yeah, yeah, that's what I meant. It's 0:57:49.160 --> 0:57:52.000 not like that in Czech Republic. I would say, I 0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:54.400 think that's that's the main difference there. 0:57:56.400 --> 0:57:58.760 Tell me more about that. That's interesting, Like the value 0:57:59.080 --> 0:58:01.000 like the value judge is about. 0:58:02.600 --> 0:58:09.600 Yeah, yeah, yeah, like I told you many, many of 0:58:09.760 --> 0:58:14.920 my information that I take in about American culture, let's say, 0:58:15.080 --> 0:58:18.160 is from the internet, because I've never been to America, right, 0:58:18.720 --> 0:58:23.160 and I don't even have any friends from America. But 0:58:24.240 --> 0:58:27.120 you know, I maybe I look at some video and 0:58:28.800 --> 0:58:33.560 there's a guy that I don't know. Like let's say, 0:58:34.240 --> 0:58:36.760 maybe I don't want well, I don't want to get 0:58:36.800 --> 0:58:42.760 into that, but let's say maybe Andrew tight when when 0:58:42.880 --> 0:58:47.280 he he makes a lot of money, of course, but 0:58:47.600 --> 0:58:51.120 like he is coming people in my opinion, Okay, but 0:58:51.560 --> 0:58:54.200 let's say in the sake of the argument, someone is 0:58:54.280 --> 0:58:57.600 making a lot of money, but he's coming people or 0:58:57.800 --> 0:59:04.280 like doing some shady things. In America, you I think 0:59:04.360 --> 0:59:12.360 Americans tend to overlook the you know, shady business. It 0:59:12.640 --> 0:59:16.400 just depends on how much money he's making. But in 0:59:16.520 --> 0:59:20.640 Chech Republic, you know, he would say he's not really cool. 0:59:21.200 --> 0:59:24.400 Or that's maybe my perspective on it too. Like I 0:59:24.440 --> 0:59:26.640 don't wanna, I don't want to speak on behalf of 0:59:27.080 --> 0:59:29.560 Czech Republic people, you know. 0:59:30.520 --> 0:59:35.120 I mean, look, but I mean, look, we uh we 0:59:35.240 --> 0:59:40.120 elected the fucking guy with the Golden tower. Yeah, yeah, 0:59:40.600 --> 0:59:42.480 so I don't think I don't think I don't think 0:59:42.520 --> 0:59:46.400 what you're saying. Back it up. We elected a dude 0:59:46.800 --> 0:59:50.960 who has multiples made of gold with his name on 0:59:51.080 --> 0:59:55.240 them in gold, and we were like, we were like, yep, 0:59:55.360 --> 0:59:58.480 that's that. That's awesome. We did, we did look at that. 0:59:58.600 --> 1:00:01.439 We did look at the Golden Tower and go, that's 1:00:01.720 --> 1:00:05.360 that's super awesome. That's that's sick. So yes, you're right, 1:00:05.640 --> 1:00:07.760 Uh those are I think those are not? 1:00:09.120 --> 1:00:09.320 Yeah. 1:00:09.400 --> 1:00:09.760 No, And. 1:00:11.320 --> 1:00:11.920 You know, like. 1:00:14.280 --> 1:00:18.480 Yeah, when I think when you ask American like kids 1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:25.000 or like maybe young adults or how we say, uh, 1:00:25.120 --> 1:00:29.120 you ask them like what do what do they want 1:00:29.200 --> 1:00:31.840 to do in life? I think a lot of them 1:00:31.920 --> 1:00:36.400 say just to make a lot of money, and you know, 1:00:36.760 --> 1:00:42.760 they just I think it's it's not like it's not 1:00:43.160 --> 1:00:43.400 like that. 1:00:43.600 --> 1:00:46.320 Into Republic interesting, you know. 1:00:46.760 --> 1:00:51.439 We say maybe some specific thing, not just making money. 1:00:52.120 --> 1:00:52.280 You know. 1:00:53.960 --> 1:00:59.080 I feel like everything I'm about to say is completely 1:00:59.840 --> 1:01:05.200 anecdotal and might be because I'm in a bubble. I mean, 1:01:05.200 --> 1:01:07.600 I guess We're all in bubbles, but like I I 1:01:07.720 --> 1:01:12.360 have I have I feel like in America this is 1:01:12.520 --> 1:01:15.600 like a generational ish thing. Like I feel like more 1:01:16.160 --> 1:01:22.600 like more people in like younger generations are like trying 1:01:22.760 --> 1:01:31.919 to find like meaning for themselves outside of work and shit, 1:01:32.360 --> 1:01:37.040 where like, you know, our parents were like I don't know, 1:01:37.080 --> 1:01:39.680 they had they had, they had different, theyse grew up different, 1:01:39.680 --> 1:01:43.320 I think. I think. Yeah, the our generation, I think 1:01:43.520 --> 1:01:48.200 is more interested in like trying to find meaning instead 1:01:48.240 --> 1:01:52.080 of our parents' generation, which was like, Okay, I'll just 1:01:52.160 --> 1:01:55.760 go do this job and I'll do it forever and 1:01:55.880 --> 1:01:58.080 it'll pay the bills and that's just how it works. 1:02:03.640 --> 1:02:11.480 Yeah. Yeah, Well you could say when you're you are 1:02:11.560 --> 1:02:14.280 looking for a meaning instead of looking to you know, 1:02:16.200 --> 1:02:18.400 just to survive, you're doing pretty good now. 1:02:20.320 --> 1:02:26.320 Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, no, that's a yeah, definitely, I 1:02:26.360 --> 1:02:28.560 think I think so too. Yeah. No, if you know, 1:02:28.640 --> 1:02:31.360 if you're able to, like I think, if you're if 1:02:31.400 --> 1:02:36.160 you're in a position where you're able to ponder, you're 1:02:36.200 --> 1:02:39.040 doing great. I was looking this up recently. I was 1:02:39.080 --> 1:02:42.240 thinking about this, like all the all the like I 1:02:42.240 --> 1:02:44.000 don't know about all, but like a lot of the 1:02:44.600 --> 1:02:50.560 the like major philosophers were rich, like fucking like Descard 1:02:50.760 --> 1:02:58.080 and Marcus Aurelius and uh fucking I think Plato. I 1:02:58.200 --> 1:03:00.520 was looking this up, like they're all rich because like 1:03:00.640 --> 1:03:05.200 sitting around pondering the meaning of life requires you to 1:03:06.560 --> 1:03:10.120 not be in survival mode. That's why all those motherfuckers 1:03:10.160 --> 1:03:12.760 were rich or like it came from like nobility or something. 1:03:16.400 --> 1:03:18.120 Yeah, that that makes a lot of sense. 1:03:18.160 --> 1:03:28.680 I think interesting. Interesting? What the fuck else was I was? I? 1:03:28.920 --> 1:03:33.560 Were we talking about? See this whole? You know, it's crazy. 1:03:33.680 --> 1:03:37.520 This conversation started with you thinking that this was going 1:03:37.560 --> 1:03:39.680 to be a waste or no, not a waste. No, 1:03:39.840 --> 1:03:41.360 you didn't say that. What did you say? 1:03:41.800 --> 1:03:42.040 You were? 1:03:42.120 --> 1:03:42.600 You were? 1:03:42.840 --> 1:03:50.240 You were you were afraid that this conversation would be 1:03:50.400 --> 1:03:54.880 a waste? I think is that accurate to say? And 1:03:54.960 --> 1:03:56.800 then and we've been and look at this, We've been 1:03:56.880 --> 1:03:59.240 talking for at least an hour. 1:04:02.040 --> 1:04:02.600 It's crazy. 1:04:04.200 --> 1:04:09.720 Man. Well look I don't I think think Yeah, for sure, 1:04:09.800 --> 1:04:11.920 for sure, I know you hate this and it's almost 1:04:12.120 --> 1:04:14.720 mean of me to do it knowing that you hate it. 1:04:15.520 --> 1:04:17.360 But I'm going. 1:04:17.960 --> 1:04:23.000 But I do think that you you I'm very I'm I'm. 1:04:24.640 --> 1:04:25.040 What is it? 1:04:26.680 --> 1:04:32.680 I'm I'm I'm warmed. I don't know if warms. I 1:04:32.720 --> 1:04:36.200 don't know if warm is the right word, but I'll 1:04:36.280 --> 1:04:47.080 use warmed by your noble intentions and uh that your 1:04:47.600 --> 1:04:50.080 persistence in pursuing them. You know you want to be 1:04:50.160 --> 1:04:54.080 a good, loving dad. I can tell that you are, 1:04:55.640 --> 1:04:58.320 and well if I can U. 1:05:00.520 --> 1:05:06.800 Yeah again, I just don't know whether what how? Oh wait, 1:05:07.120 --> 1:05:12.960 how did you say it humble? Did you say humble? Did? 1:05:13.080 --> 1:05:15.880 I didn't say humble? I didn't say I mean you are? 1:05:16.600 --> 1:05:20.720 Oh wait, no, what you say my intentions were? 1:05:22.040 --> 1:05:23.960 I think your intentions are that you want to be 1:05:24.120 --> 1:05:26.560 a good dad and provide for your kids. 1:05:27.320 --> 1:05:30.680 No, but you know what kind of intention you said 1:05:30.720 --> 1:05:31.880 some some words. 1:05:32.240 --> 1:05:34.680 I'm sorry you had noble? 1:05:34.760 --> 1:05:38.840 You know your noble? Yeah, noble, I'm sorry. No, I 1:05:39.040 --> 1:05:41.240 I don't know where that's what came from, because I'm 1:05:41.280 --> 1:05:44.320 just doing what I want, like it was my dream. 1:05:44.680 --> 1:05:49.360 If my dream was I don't know, making a million dollars, 1:05:49.760 --> 1:05:52.680 I would try to make a million dollars. Yeah, there's 1:05:52.720 --> 1:05:53.680 no nobility in that. 1:05:54.680 --> 1:05:57.440 Sure, sure, sure, I'm just doing you know what? 1:05:57.720 --> 1:05:58.000 You know what? 1:05:58.400 --> 1:06:01.920 By the way, everything you're saying is right. You just 1:06:03.080 --> 1:06:06.840 you just so happened for whatever, you know what? You 1:06:06.920 --> 1:06:08.280 know what, I'll give you know what, I'll give this 1:06:08.400 --> 1:06:10.720 back to you. What's your name again? Did you even 1:06:10.760 --> 1:06:12.440 give me your name or any name? 1:06:13.520 --> 1:06:15.560 I think guys said some bullshit like ob. 1:06:16.000 --> 1:06:23.400 Okay, ob you know what, you know what? Sure, Obi, 1:06:23.720 --> 1:06:30.040 you just so happened, for whatever cosmic fucking reason to 1:06:30.200 --> 1:06:33.120 be born in a body, in a brain where the 1:06:33.320 --> 1:06:37.880 neuron the chemicals in your brain, and this stimuli you 1:06:38.080 --> 1:06:43.920 encountered over the course of your life, uh deterministically led 1:06:44.520 --> 1:06:53.600 to by happenstance. Your dreams are something that are traditionally 1:06:54.360 --> 1:06:59.840 uh uh seen as noble, and that is just a 1:07:00.120 --> 1:07:03.480 that's a that's a fact. Yes, you had you got 1:07:03.600 --> 1:07:08.920 lucky that your dream is something noble because if your 1:07:09.000 --> 1:07:12.360 dream was I guess that you wanted to make a 1:07:12.440 --> 1:07:16.560 billion dollars and and invade the rest of Europe and 1:07:16.680 --> 1:07:20.920 make Czech Republic the world leader, and you wanted to 1:07:21.000 --> 1:07:22.680 kill a bunch of people, and that was what you 1:07:22.760 --> 1:07:24.560 really wanted to do, you probably would be doing that. 1:07:25.320 --> 1:07:30.520 And it's there's really no cosmic reason why why that 1:07:31.120 --> 1:07:34.560 didn't end up being your dream instead of raising a 1:07:34.640 --> 1:07:35.320 nice family. 1:07:37.800 --> 1:07:41.439 Yeah, okay, I I kinda I kind of take it back. 1:07:41.840 --> 1:07:46.080 I think you wrong, But because if if I if 1:07:46.200 --> 1:07:48.640 I wanted to kill a million people, I don't think 1:07:48.720 --> 1:07:52.440 I would do that. No, my consciousness wouldn't let me. 1:07:52.760 --> 1:07:54.320 Maybe I'm a little nice guy. 1:07:55.480 --> 1:07:59.000 Yeah, yeah, but your consciousness wouldn't let you. But your consciousness, 1:07:59.200 --> 1:08:01.120 but that's because you're who you are, and you're not, 1:08:02.080 --> 1:08:07.520 you know, Hitler. I don't know. I'm spouting a lot 1:08:07.600 --> 1:08:12.120 of deterministic Yeah, I hope. 1:08:12.240 --> 1:08:13.360 So I'm not the Hitler. 1:08:13.560 --> 1:08:16.560 Yeah, yeah, I don't think you're hit I'm gonna, you 1:08:16.640 --> 1:08:19.519 know what, forget every forget everything. You know what, why 1:08:19.520 --> 1:08:21.559 don't we make that the new bar? I mean, why 1:08:21.600 --> 1:08:23.080 don't we make that your bar? Can you not? 1:08:23.320 --> 1:08:23.760 Can you not? 1:08:24.360 --> 1:08:28.760 Can you not accept my observation of you as remarkable 1:08:29.320 --> 1:08:32.320 based based on the fact that you're not Hitler? 1:08:35.560 --> 1:08:39.600 Yeah, okay, okay, I'm remarkable before that, remarkable. 1:08:39.080 --> 1:08:42.719 For not being Hitler. We're all remarkable for not being Hitler. 1:08:43.720 --> 1:08:44.720 We can tell you, we can do that. 1:08:45.080 --> 1:08:48.280 But some people could be a little bit nicer to 1:08:48.360 --> 1:08:48.680 each other. 1:08:49.720 --> 1:08:53.160 Yes, that's true Hitler, and so could and you know what, 1:08:53.320 --> 1:08:57.040 Hitler could have been a little bit nicer too, but 1:08:57.160 --> 1:08:57.960 it's too late for him. 1:08:58.040 --> 1:08:59.880 Yeah he could. I think that was some space. 1:09:00.120 --> 1:09:05.360 Yeah, where's Hitler's cott? Do you believe in reincarnation or 1:09:05.560 --> 1:09:09.160 like in uh that like consciousness can't go away like 1:09:09.240 --> 1:09:13.200 it has to like reappear in some form. 1:09:16.080 --> 1:09:25.360 Oh well, well, I believe in heaven. But yeah, no, 1:09:25.520 --> 1:09:29.360 I believe in heaven. But the energy in the universe 1:09:29.479 --> 1:09:30.320 is finite, right. 1:09:31.200 --> 1:09:35.960 Right, So what so whatever was going on in Hitler's brain, 1:09:36.080 --> 1:09:38.679 whatever that was, that's is that. I wonder if that's somewhere. 1:09:44.360 --> 1:09:51.439 Yeah, I hope it's not. Maybe it got maybe it 1:09:51.479 --> 1:09:54.280 got well, actually, can I can I ask you a question? 1:09:54.760 --> 1:09:54.960 Yeah? 1:09:57.400 --> 1:10:03.920 Just off topic, you know, I okay, I don't know 1:10:04.000 --> 1:10:09.800 how to how to say it, so maybe, but okay, 1:10:09.920 --> 1:10:12.560 I really wanted to buy your hoodie but it's not 1:10:12.680 --> 1:10:15.680 on stock? Will it ever be on stock? Like the. 1:10:17.280 --> 1:10:23.400 The A the R, the Trivian Trivian Gecko hoodie. 1:10:23.640 --> 1:10:27.120 Yeah, the green, the green one Green. Yeah, it's really amazing. 1:10:27.200 --> 1:10:28.559 It's like the best one there. 1:10:32.880 --> 1:10:34.960 No, I think we only haven't. I don't really, I haven't. 1:10:37.160 --> 1:10:41.040 I think it's only what I haven't paid any attention 1:10:41.240 --> 1:10:43.880 to my merch store in a while, but I think 1:10:43.920 --> 1:10:45.479 it's only in white. I think we ran out of 1:10:45.560 --> 1:10:47.519 the green. I think I because I use like a 1:10:47.600 --> 1:10:51.360 print on demand service and so whatever. The guy in 1:10:51.439 --> 1:10:55.080 the warehouse that I use has at the time is 1:10:55.160 --> 1:10:57.200 typically what he prints us. I think it's only in white. Well, 1:10:57.200 --> 1:10:59.280 you don't like the white I think the white school. 1:11:01.080 --> 1:11:04.240 Yeah, I think what is cool. But you know my 1:11:04.360 --> 1:11:08.400 problem with white is it's such a general color. Everybody 1:11:08.439 --> 1:11:12.439 has white, but not many people have the green one, 1:11:12.680 --> 1:11:15.559 like the light green color on their hoodie. It's amazing. 1:11:17.479 --> 1:11:22.320 So you know, just my point. I think that's an 1:11:22.520 --> 1:11:23.479 amazing goody. 1:11:24.160 --> 1:11:27.479 Okay, maybe I'll try to get white. Great, How what 1:11:27.680 --> 1:11:30.000 is it are you able to? What is shipping like 1:11:30.120 --> 1:11:32.160 for you? When you go to that thing and you 1:11:32.240 --> 1:11:34.040 put in your thing? It must that must cost a 1:11:34.080 --> 1:11:34.519 lot of money. 1:11:34.640 --> 1:11:38.439 Yeah, well, well I can I can try it. Well, 1:11:38.520 --> 1:11:42.000 I mean I would. I would try to get it 1:11:42.080 --> 1:11:44.360 for my birthday. You know, it's kind of extensive for 1:11:44.800 --> 1:11:48.960 chick Republic. But yeah, I mean it's it's. 1:11:48.800 --> 1:11:51.320 All right, it's not that much. You know what. 1:11:53.560 --> 1:11:58.800 Seven, I'll send you one. No way I want to 1:11:58.800 --> 1:12:01.040 send you. I don't think let me I have to. 1:12:01.120 --> 1:12:03.280 I'm gonna message Mike. I'm gonna message I have a 1:12:04.800 --> 1:12:07.439 I have a guy who does my merch. I'll message him. 1:12:08.000 --> 1:12:09.599 I'll ask her if you could send over a comp 1:12:09.760 --> 1:12:13.200 order to to sec to the Czech Republic. How do 1:12:13.280 --> 1:12:14.160 we get in contact? 1:12:15.080 --> 1:12:17.600 No way, bro, no way you want you want to? 1:12:18.360 --> 1:12:19.200 Do? You have Instagram? 1:12:21.920 --> 1:12:25.960 Yeah? I'm not using it, but I have it, so okay. 1:12:26.720 --> 1:12:30.639 Send me an Instagram d M. Yeah. 1:12:31.560 --> 1:12:33.920 Yeah. By the way, I I think I sent you 1:12:34.000 --> 1:12:37.080 an email, but I send it to the fucking wrong 1:12:37.200 --> 1:12:39.799 email address, to your work email address. 1:12:39.920 --> 1:12:43.640 I'm wait. Hold, I can't send you the green one. 1:12:43.680 --> 1:12:45.120 I don't have any of those. But I can send 1:12:45.120 --> 1:12:45.760 you a white one. 1:12:48.760 --> 1:12:51.720 That's all right. I mean it's a free bro. I'm 1:12:51.760 --> 1:12:53.080 so excited for anyone. 1:12:54.160 --> 1:12:59.960 Okay, all right, if I hold on, I just logistically, logistics, 1:13:00.960 --> 1:13:03.160 I haven't actually I haven't actually fucked around with my 1:13:03.640 --> 1:13:06.960 merch star and a while. Logistically if I could send you, 1:13:07.720 --> 1:13:11.160 I know for a fact. Okay, let me let me 1:13:11.200 --> 1:13:13.320 all right, hold on, let me let me readjust my promise. 1:13:14.360 --> 1:13:15.599 I can I just say something. 1:13:17.040 --> 1:13:17.320 Ahead? 1:13:17.560 --> 1:13:21.560 Can I just you know, just an idea. I'm not 1:13:21.640 --> 1:13:26.120 trying to be ungrateful or anything. If it's possible, Yeah, 1:13:26.439 --> 1:13:28.599 could you maybe try to sign it? And I give 1:13:28.640 --> 1:13:31.880 it to my girlfriend because she is a big friend too. 1:13:31.960 --> 1:13:35.000 I showed I showed her to showed her the podcast 1:13:35.040 --> 1:13:37.840 and she really likes it. I mean, it would be 1:13:37.880 --> 1:13:40.599 amazing gifts. Okay, it's okay. 1:13:40.720 --> 1:13:45.200 If I would, I happily I would do that for you. 1:13:45.600 --> 1:13:48.320 But all of the these are all in Ohio. 1:13:50.760 --> 1:13:52.719 It's all right, it's all right then, No, it's okay, 1:13:53.120 --> 1:13:53.400 thank you. 1:13:53.520 --> 1:13:55.000 Sorry, I wish, I wish I could do that for you, 1:13:55.080 --> 1:13:56.000 but they're all in Ohio. 1:13:56.840 --> 1:13:58.600 I think I will give it to her anyway, or 1:13:59.040 --> 1:14:02.519 wish her who is so do Okay, I'm. 1:14:02.360 --> 1:14:04.000 Gonna here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna try to 1:14:04.040 --> 1:14:08.680 give you. I don't again the logistics of the merch't 1:14:09.280 --> 1:14:11.920 try to send you the white thing. If I can't, 1:14:11.960 --> 1:14:18.080 I promise you I will send you some form of merch. 1:14:18.920 --> 1:14:22.240 I'm gonna I'm gonna try to make it the white one. 1:14:23.160 --> 1:14:24.720 But if I can't, I will. I'm gonna send you 1:14:24.800 --> 1:14:28.280 some ship with sending an Instagram DM withies and ship. 1:14:28.920 --> 1:14:33.439 Yeah, I will send you after the call, because you 1:14:33.520 --> 1:14:36.880 know I'm not telephoning through internet. I don't want to 1:14:36.920 --> 1:14:37.400 suck it up. 1:14:37.800 --> 1:14:39.080 Sorry, what were you gonna say? 1:14:39.200 --> 1:14:42.280 Yeah, but I just wanted to say, even if you 1:14:42.360 --> 1:14:45.759 don't do if you can do it, just the intent 1:14:46.120 --> 1:14:47.679 really made my fucking day. 1:14:48.880 --> 1:14:50.679 And you know what, and you know what the best 1:14:50.760 --> 1:14:53.599 part is is if if it works out, I'm gonna 1:14:53.640 --> 1:14:55.920 try to do it. I just gotta make sure logistically 1:14:55.960 --> 1:14:57.600 I can do it. But the cool thing is is 1:14:57.600 --> 1:15:00.680 that if you were if it works out, is that 1:15:01.280 --> 1:15:03.600 you have a you have a you if if it 1:15:03.640 --> 1:15:06.360 works out, if I can send it to you, because again, 1:15:06.400 --> 1:15:08.040 I would hate if I could promise you this. And 1:15:08.120 --> 1:15:10.720 then my guy in Ohio was like, no, it's a 1:15:11.000 --> 1:15:13.400 ship to the I promise you. I will try. But 1:15:13.520 --> 1:15:18.640 if it works out then and you hold it, you 1:15:18.760 --> 1:15:20.599 get to you'll, well, it'll be sick because you can 1:15:20.640 --> 1:15:26.960 be like I have a I'm physically holding you'll, because 1:15:27.000 --> 1:15:32.080 you'll be like this sweatshirt is worth exactly two hours 1:15:32.120 --> 1:15:32.679 of my time. 1:15:35.320 --> 1:15:38.200 Oh my god, that's fucking true. There it is. 1:15:39.479 --> 1:15:44.559 The sweatshirt is is this is how much two hours 1:15:44.600 --> 1:15:46.880 of my time is worth? Is worth this? 1:15:47.439 --> 1:15:49.840 And you know what, you know what the coast of 1:15:49.920 --> 1:15:53.439 the fucking hoodie would be like two times, but I 1:15:53.520 --> 1:15:56.280 would make in my job for two hours. That's crazy. 1:15:57.720 --> 1:15:59.599 Really, how much the fucking cost to send a thing 1:15:59.720 --> 1:16:01.759 to uh? The Czech Republic? 1:16:02.880 --> 1:16:06.400 No, not even not even the shipping, like how much 1:16:07.680 --> 1:16:12.280 the check Republic isn't Yeah, yeah, the checker Czech Republic 1:16:12.360 --> 1:16:18.400 isn't really you know, the richest country. So you know, 1:16:19.080 --> 1:16:24.000 dead hoodie would cost me five hours of my time. 1:16:24.640 --> 1:16:25.280 That's crazy. 1:16:27.160 --> 1:16:29.160 That's crazy, isn't it. Yeah? 1:16:29.200 --> 1:16:32.640 And so okay, I don't yeah, so when okay, I 1:16:33.000 --> 1:16:35.559 just want to say, I don't fucking I don't get 1:16:36.240 --> 1:16:40.559 how the fucking Americans can get can go broke bro 1:16:41.240 --> 1:16:45.800 like because these things cost the same you know here 1:16:45.880 --> 1:16:46.360 in Czech. 1:16:46.160 --> 1:16:49.439 Republic and they're in America, but you make ten times 1:16:49.520 --> 1:16:52.559 our salary. Bro, how do you how do people get 1:16:52.600 --> 1:16:53.120 broke bro? 1:16:53.760 --> 1:16:59.680 Well? Because well, well, well, yeah, I mean if you well, well, like. 1:16:59.760 --> 1:17:04.160 I mean this hard, I understand the food is yeah, well. 1:17:04.600 --> 1:17:09.760 Like like the sixty like well okay, so like like yeah, 1:17:09.960 --> 1:17:13.360 like sixty dollars to buy a hoodie on the internet, 1:17:14.200 --> 1:17:18.320 is I think that's about right for America. But like 1:17:18.800 --> 1:17:21.439 if well, I mean, I mean, the short answer is 1:17:21.720 --> 1:17:26.160 is that Americans make more money compared to I think 1:17:27.760 --> 1:17:29.960 this is a question for an economist and not a 1:17:30.080 --> 1:17:32.760 dumb ass who uses the who just googles shit and 1:17:32.840 --> 1:17:35.479 watches YouTube videos. But I think the short answer is, 1:17:35.840 --> 1:17:39.200 like we make more money in comparison to the rest 1:17:39.240 --> 1:17:43.840 of the world, but also because uh, you know, we 1:17:44.000 --> 1:17:46.680 just everything is more expensive in America, you know. I 1:17:46.760 --> 1:17:48.320 mean like when you like you go to Japan and 1:17:49.000 --> 1:17:51.760 they make everything there is cheaper, but they make less money. 1:17:51.800 --> 1:17:54.280 And I think that's that's how I think that's how 1:17:54.320 --> 1:17:54.679 it works. 1:17:54.880 --> 1:17:55.040 You know. 1:17:55.160 --> 1:17:58.080 I assume. I assume that if somebody made a bunch 1:17:58.120 --> 1:18:02.120 of American dollars, right and then moved to the Czech Republic, 1:18:02.920 --> 1:18:06.559 their money would go farther versus if you took your check. 1:18:07.160 --> 1:18:08.800 I don't know what. I don't know what is it 1:18:08.840 --> 1:18:11.080 a rupie or whatever you guys got and you move 1:18:11.160 --> 1:18:12.720 to and you go to America, it's like, oh, my 1:18:12.800 --> 1:18:13.920 ship is worthless. 1:18:17.640 --> 1:18:20.720 Yeah, you know, I understand because of living is much higher, right, 1:18:21.040 --> 1:18:23.960 but you know, things like this they cost the same. 1:18:24.160 --> 1:18:26.360 Like if I want to buy PS five, it will 1:18:26.560 --> 1:18:29.640 it will cost me ten times more in uh, you know, 1:18:29.840 --> 1:18:33.200 time than everage American you know. 1:18:35.240 --> 1:18:38.080 Way interesting. Wait, but a PS so like if you 1:18:38.200 --> 1:18:45.040 go to like if you go wait ship, Yeah, if 1:18:45.040 --> 1:18:46.560 you buy like everything. 1:18:46.280 --> 1:18:50.439 On Amazon, everything on everything with you if you want to. 1:18:50.439 --> 1:18:52.720 Buy if you want to buy a PlayStation five on 1:18:52.840 --> 1:18:54.840 Amazon in the Czech Republic and you go to like 1:18:54.920 --> 1:18:58.240 Amazon dot c H or c z K or whatever 1:18:58.320 --> 1:19:02.719 the fuck it's does it cost the same as pretty 1:19:02.800 --> 1:19:05.200 much American dollars. 1:19:07.080 --> 1:19:15.960 Yeah, damn, you know that's just my rent that I 1:19:16.000 --> 1:19:19.439 don't know how American people get broke, because, yeah, I 1:19:19.560 --> 1:19:22.680 understand the cost of living, it's much higher. But you know, 1:19:22.800 --> 1:19:26.280 these luxury you could call it luxury things the cost 1:19:26.280 --> 1:19:26.800 of the same. 1:19:27.760 --> 1:19:31.760 Mhmm. Yeah, I guess, I guess, I guess, yeah, I 1:19:31.760 --> 1:19:33.600 guess that's true. I guess. Yeah, we have we have 1:19:33.720 --> 1:19:36.519 access to Yeah, if your Americans have access to more 1:19:38.560 --> 1:19:43.040 two more luxuries. But like our our basic like like 1:19:43.080 --> 1:19:46.760 what what do you pay? How much is like you 1:19:46.800 --> 1:19:48.400 don't live in Prague, right, you live in like. 1:19:49.400 --> 1:19:52.800 We're part of No No No practice, Like two times 1:19:52.880 --> 1:19:54.960 more expensive than everybody else in Chicken Public. 1:19:55.240 --> 1:19:58.720 Okay, I don't like so like wherever you live right, 1:19:58.840 --> 1:20:01.160 like where you were, like the location that you're calling 1:20:01.240 --> 1:20:02.840 me from. How much is how much would like a 1:20:02.920 --> 1:20:04.679 one bedroom apartment cost per month? 1:20:06.960 --> 1:20:10.519 Oh? Wait? One bedroom? Okay, I'm just in the process 1:20:10.680 --> 1:20:15.280 of like getting two bedroom apartments Okay, wait, wait, wait, 1:20:15.680 --> 1:20:19.160 what do you mean by one bedroom because we have 1:20:19.479 --> 1:20:23.599 like one room and okay. 1:20:23.640 --> 1:20:25.920 Well forget about Like, okay, you're you're in the process 1:20:25.920 --> 1:20:27.760 of looking for a two better apartment. How much does 1:20:27.800 --> 1:20:28.160 that cost? 1:20:29.760 --> 1:20:33.439 Two two bedroom? But it's like two rooms and a kitchen. 1:20:36.439 --> 1:20:38.320 It's not like I don't know what two bedroom means 1:20:38.439 --> 1:20:43.280 because like there are no two beds, there's just two rooms. 1:20:49.600 --> 1:20:53.519 Well what well, okay, yes, it's two rooms and a 1:20:53.600 --> 1:20:57.400 kitchen one bed Yeah, okay, how much is. 1:20:57.439 --> 1:21:03.639 That that would cost a like twenty twenty thousand crowns 1:21:04.000 --> 1:21:08.760 and one daughter is twenty five so maybe you can 1:21:08.880 --> 1:21:13.400 round it up like nine hundred eight hundred dollars for 1:21:13.439 --> 1:21:13.760 a month. 1:21:15.560 --> 1:21:18.320 Okay, check crown to us D. It's it's twenty thousand 1:21:18.400 --> 1:21:19.360 crowns to USD. 1:21:20.000 --> 1:21:22.240 Yeah it's yeah, it's twenty yeah. 1:21:22.439 --> 1:21:25.840 Yeah, it's like a two room ish. Okay, so two 1:21:25.960 --> 1:21:29.920 rooms and a kitchen is twenty thousand crowns a month? 1:21:31.880 --> 1:21:33.040 Yeah pretty much. 1:21:36.439 --> 1:21:39.320 Oh yeah, it's about nine hundred and ten bucks a month. 1:21:40.160 --> 1:21:44.040 And you're in like the you're in like a non 1:21:44.360 --> 1:21:47.639 major city in the Czech Republic. 1:21:47.800 --> 1:21:52.040 Yeah, I am in a major city, but you know, 1:21:52.360 --> 1:21:55.640 Czech Republic is like, you're not You're not in like 1:21:55.920 --> 1:21:59.920 the cities aren't. Really I'm not in a rural area. 1:22:00.280 --> 1:22:02.000 I mean just I'm just in city. 1:22:02.080 --> 1:22:05.360 You know, you're in a normal ass city. You're not 1:22:06.400 --> 1:22:09.639 You're not in like ass fuck country farm. 1:22:09.760 --> 1:22:12.639 Okay, okay, I'll tell you how it is. It's Prague, 1:22:13.520 --> 1:22:18.000 and then it's all like every city, it's practice just 1:22:18.240 --> 1:22:21.840 the main like the most expensive one, and then all 1:22:21.880 --> 1:22:24.760 this all the others are pretty much the same pretty much. 1:22:25.040 --> 1:22:26.920 Okay, Well, I'm trying to think of like what I'm 1:22:26.920 --> 1:22:30.559 trying to think of like the American Like I'm trying 1:22:30.600 --> 1:22:33.600 to like, do I compare this to like you know, 1:22:34.479 --> 1:22:39.960 some randoms, well or do I? Or do I compare 1:22:40.040 --> 1:22:43.560 this town to like Saint Louis, Missouri, you know, like 1:22:43.720 --> 1:22:46.840 a it's not like the most major city. It's like 1:22:46.880 --> 1:22:47.280 a place. 1:22:48.320 --> 1:22:53.879 Well okay, okay, let me tell you. I'm living in Bruno, 1:22:54.040 --> 1:22:57.400 which is the second largest city in Czech Republic. But 1:22:57.600 --> 1:23:01.639 if you google how much population he is in Berno, 1:23:01.760 --> 1:23:04.280 it's like the smallest city in America. 1:23:07.560 --> 1:23:09.880 Hold on, I'm actually genuine this fast. I like, I like, 1:23:10.080 --> 1:23:20.120 I like, uh think about this stuff. What berno check Listen, 1:23:20.400 --> 1:23:23.640 you guys gotta get some fucking this city this this 1:23:23.760 --> 1:23:26.639 city's name needs more vowels in it. The city's name 1:23:26.640 --> 1:23:27.519 has too many concepts. 1:23:27.720 --> 1:23:30.559 If you don't have much vowels, is it's a. 1:23:30.680 --> 1:23:33.200 Vowel A E, I O U. Okay, all right, it's 1:23:33.200 --> 1:23:37.000 got one vowel. But yeah, this city needs a couple 1:23:37.080 --> 1:23:41.720 more vowels in it. Okay, this is bro okay, all right, 1:23:41.840 --> 1:23:45.120 this is all right, all right. As a population of 1:23:46.400 --> 1:23:52.000 around four hundred thousand, Okay, what's the population of Saint Louis, Missouri. 1:23:52.280 --> 1:23:53.320 Saint Louis. 1:23:55.880 --> 1:23:58.960 Population Actually four hundred thousand, isn't it? Okay? 1:23:58.960 --> 1:24:04.800 All right, So Saint Louis, Missouri has less people than 1:24:04.840 --> 1:24:05.439 where you live. 1:24:06.200 --> 1:24:07.320 Really, yeah, to. 1:24:07.360 --> 1:24:09.639 Say, Lot's Missouri's got about two hundred and eighty one 1:24:09.760 --> 1:24:14.360 thousand people. Lois, Missouri is smaller than where you live. 1:24:14.520 --> 1:24:18.920 Where you live, you can get what I think. We're 1:24:18.960 --> 1:24:22.240 both on the same page about is a two bedroom apartment. 1:24:22.320 --> 1:24:24.000 I don't know what. I don't know if the I 1:24:24.000 --> 1:24:27.479 don't know if two bedroom apartment means something different to 1:24:27.920 --> 1:24:29.479 you in the Czech Republic than it does in the 1:24:29.600 --> 1:24:30.160 United States. 1:24:30.240 --> 1:24:33.519 But well, because when you say bedroom, like, are there 1:24:34.080 --> 1:24:38.040 like two beds or just two like rooms? 1:24:38.080 --> 1:24:41.880 You can look at a two bedroom apartment would look 1:24:42.000 --> 1:24:46.280 like it has two rooms and then it made up. 1:24:46.400 --> 1:24:49.400 Maybe it has a hallway, and then it has like 1:24:49.560 --> 1:24:53.320 a living room, and then maybe like a tiny kitchen. 1:24:56.120 --> 1:24:59.920 So that's kind of bigger. I think that would cost 1:25:00.040 --> 1:25:01.360 twenty five thousand. 1:25:01.560 --> 1:25:07.280 In all right, twenty five thousand. That's twenty five thousand, 1:25:07.439 --> 1:25:09.360 all right, twenty five thousand, all right, So it would 1:25:09.400 --> 1:25:14.919 cost around twelve hundred bucks for a two better apartment 1:25:15.720 --> 1:25:16.479 in a major city. 1:25:16.760 --> 1:25:17.200 What is. 1:25:19.280 --> 1:25:19.320 What? 1:25:19.920 --> 1:25:20.160 Hmm? 1:25:21.160 --> 1:25:22.880 I feel like I want to say a two better 1:25:22.920 --> 1:25:27.000 an apartment. Let's look this up. Let's go on, Zilo. 1:25:27.080 --> 1:25:28.560 I don't know why this is fun. I mean, this 1:25:28.720 --> 1:25:29.439 is interesting to me. 1:25:29.680 --> 1:25:33.000 I'm actually pretty interested. Then it's to pick. Yeah, it's again, 1:25:35.120 --> 1:25:38.400 let's no, it's to me, it's very interesting because I 1:25:38.520 --> 1:25:41.360 think about this all the time, like, yeah, how bad 1:25:41.560 --> 1:25:45.360 of living situation is in America? Because everybody says pretty bad? 1:25:45.960 --> 1:25:47.400 So I just want to compare. 1:25:47.800 --> 1:25:50.000 All right, Saint Louis, Missouri. All right, let's do this. 1:25:50.160 --> 1:25:57.360 Hold on Saint Louis, Missouri. Uh, Saint Louis simmo. Okay, 1:25:57.439 --> 1:25:59.400 here we go. All right, a right, this is this 1:25:59.520 --> 1:26:04.280 is like fuck all right for rent all we're gonna 1:26:04.280 --> 1:26:14.040 do beds, two bedroom all right, maximum fourteen hundred bucks. 1:26:15.200 --> 1:26:17.880 All right, oh shaka, you know what, it's kind of 1:26:18.800 --> 1:26:23.479 really yeah, you can you can get a two bedroom apartment. 1:26:23.560 --> 1:26:28.679 Hold on, all right, I'm looking at zillo right now. Yeah, 1:26:28.720 --> 1:26:30.800 there's places in Saint Louis, Missouri you can get a 1:26:30.840 --> 1:26:32.920 two bed like look, this is a nice two bedroom 1:26:32.920 --> 1:26:37.200 apartment for wow, like one thousand bucks a month. This 1:26:37.400 --> 1:26:43.920 is here's one for twelve hundred one point alright. So 1:26:44.040 --> 1:26:48.760 the cost, yes, so the cost of living. Yeah, if 1:26:48.800 --> 1:26:51.760 what you're telling me is true. And yeah, what you 1:26:51.880 --> 1:26:54.920 tell me is true. And the cost of a two 1:26:55.000 --> 1:26:59.280 bedroom apartment in the second largest city in Czech Republic 1:27:00.280 --> 1:27:05.080 is twelve hundred dollars a month. That from this very 1:27:05.520 --> 1:27:10.120 quick Zillow search, it looks like you can get pretty 1:27:10.200 --> 1:27:14.120 much the same thing in Saint Louis, Missouri, which has 1:27:15.600 --> 1:27:17.360 seventy five percent of the population. 1:27:19.960 --> 1:27:25.160 Okay, and I just want to say that yearly, the 1:27:26.760 --> 1:27:29.920 average check salary is like twenty. 1:27:29.680 --> 1:27:34.679 K twenty thousand dollars a month. 1:27:38.360 --> 1:27:38.720 A year. 1:27:39.080 --> 1:27:45.240 Yeah, that sucks. That sucks for you guys at the 1:27:45.240 --> 1:27:45.919 Czech Republic. 1:27:47.600 --> 1:27:50.320 Yeah, Bro, what the fuck? I didn't even know how 1:27:50.439 --> 1:27:51.400 fucking vent it is. 1:27:52.960 --> 1:27:55.760 That's crazy. Is it really cost to that and that? Wait? 1:27:55.920 --> 1:28:00.759 So you so the average salary in what is it? Bruno? 1:28:04.320 --> 1:28:04.439 Bro? 1:28:04.720 --> 1:28:08.120 Oh love Bruno, I don't know what average Wait. 1:28:08.640 --> 1:28:12.640 The average salary in bro Is is twenty thousand. Is 1:28:12.920 --> 1:28:16.640 the equivalent of twenty thousand dollars. The average salary and 1:28:16.680 --> 1:28:19.519 bro is the equivalent of twenty thousand dollars a year, 1:28:21.080 --> 1:28:22.240 two US a year. 1:28:24.360 --> 1:28:26.479 Yeah, yeah, pretty much. Yeah, and then the. 1:28:26.600 --> 1:28:31.400 Cost of a two better apartment is twelve hundred a month. Yeah, 1:28:32.200 --> 1:28:36.960 that's the same. Yeah, that's crazy. 1:28:37.840 --> 1:28:38.479 I don't know what. 1:28:38.640 --> 1:28:40.400 I don't know what the don't know what the average 1:28:40.439 --> 1:28:44.080 salary is in I don't know what the average salary 1:28:44.160 --> 1:28:47.160 is in Saint Louis, Missouri, but it's absolutely got to 1:28:47.160 --> 1:28:49.639 be more than twenty thousand dollars a year. 1:28:51.880 --> 1:28:54.680 Yeah, I mean if you are I guess if you 1:28:54.760 --> 1:28:59.160 are like good in America, you you make like one 1:28:59.240 --> 1:29:09.640 hundred K, you'll know, like you're pretty comfortable. No, I 1:29:09.720 --> 1:29:13.040 don't know. I sometimes I listen today for ends Day 1:29:13.360 --> 1:29:15.280 and that's the conclusion I came to. 1:29:20.240 --> 1:29:27.320 Interesting. Yeah, that's crazy, I guess. Uh yeah, yeah, that's 1:29:27.360 --> 1:29:29.519 pretty crazy. That's crazy. That's crazy for you guys. 1:29:31.400 --> 1:29:37.040 So I'm telling you how are Americans getting broke? Bro wow? 1:29:42.960 --> 1:29:46.200 Oh wait, okay wait tell me this. Okay, twenty thousand 1:29:46.240 --> 1:29:49.000 dollars a year? What's your guys? Do you guys? What's 1:29:49.000 --> 1:29:50.240 your guys healthcare situation? 1:29:52.600 --> 1:29:56.760 Yeah? Well yeah, I mean yeah, that's true. These things we. 1:29:56.840 --> 1:29:58.360 Have, like you guys do you guys? Do you guys 1:29:58.360 --> 1:29:59.439 are pretty healthcare? 1:30:01.040 --> 1:30:04.479 Oh well, we paid in our Texas, but it's it's 1:30:04.720 --> 1:30:08.600 cheaper than the US deferently, you know, your healthcare is 1:30:08.720 --> 1:30:09.320 fucking scam. 1:30:09.960 --> 1:30:13.800 So yeah, we we either either you get either you 1:30:13.840 --> 1:30:17.880 have to pay for healthcare, like I pay like like 1:30:18.000 --> 1:30:20.759 I'm self employed, so I paid like just three hundred 1:30:21.680 --> 1:30:24.000 some like three hundred and twenty dollars a month for 1:30:24.400 --> 1:30:29.320 just healthcare. And then if you have a job usually. 1:30:29.920 --> 1:30:33.320 Yeah, and I just and yeah, and then we have 1:30:33.479 --> 1:30:34.160 free schools. 1:30:34.720 --> 1:30:36.959 Yeah wait wait do you guys have free university? 1:30:38.800 --> 1:30:39.000 Yeah? 1:30:39.080 --> 1:30:41.880 Yeah, yeah, there we go. This is you know, until 1:30:41.960 --> 1:30:46.840 you were like twenty five, you know, even a free university. 1:30:47.280 --> 1:30:50.320 So you're gonna graduate with an electrical so you're gonna 1:30:50.360 --> 1:30:53.800 so you're gonna graduate with an electrical engineering degree with 1:30:54.600 --> 1:30:55.240 zero debt. 1:30:57.720 --> 1:30:59.920 Yeah, I mean that's well why I'm doing it, right, 1:31:00.040 --> 1:31:02.639 Because if I just take like, I don't know, five 1:31:02.760 --> 1:31:05.880 years off, then I have to pay it. But if 1:31:05.920 --> 1:31:08.639 you don't take any any years off and after high 1:31:08.680 --> 1:31:12.200 school go straight into UNI and you finish it with 1:31:12.439 --> 1:31:14.360 no like delays you, it's free. 1:31:17.760 --> 1:31:21.920 Well, how do American Well, actually a couple things. Well, 1:31:21.920 --> 1:31:25.040 all right, I mean this, sorry, go ahead, you go ahead. 1:31:26.479 --> 1:31:29.439 Let me tell you this. Maybe this will blow your mind. 1:31:31.360 --> 1:31:31.960 This is not. 1:31:34.680 --> 1:31:39.639 It's just my experience or how I see things into Republic. 1:31:39.720 --> 1:31:44.280 But I think other than you know, how do you 1:31:44.400 --> 1:31:50.000 say it, like borrowing money for the house or you know, 1:31:50.160 --> 1:31:53.799 to buy a house. Other than that, I think ninety 1:31:53.880 --> 1:31:59.080 to eighty percent of people into Republic were never in debt. 1:32:00.439 --> 1:32:01.479 Other than that, who. 1:32:04.120 --> 1:32:07.559 Like that? That isn't really a thing here. They don't 1:32:07.600 --> 1:32:09.960 have credit cards pretty much, no one has a credit 1:32:10.080 --> 1:32:11.639 card into the Republic. 1:32:12.200 --> 1:32:13.920 You guys don't have credit cards. In the Czech Republic. 1:32:15.120 --> 1:32:19.519 We have, we have them, but nobody uses them because 1:32:19.880 --> 1:32:24.880 into Republic there aren't really any benefits to credit cards. 1:32:24.920 --> 1:32:27.840 I know you have some benefits. They don't. They don't 1:32:27.920 --> 1:32:31.760 offer any so nobody is actually using them. Everybody has 1:32:31.840 --> 1:32:34.360 a debit card, nobody car. 1:32:35.000 --> 1:32:36.759 Do you have like a credit score? 1:32:38.880 --> 1:32:43.240 No, that's not a thing here, I and I that's 1:32:43.640 --> 1:32:46.640 one of the biggest American stemps. No, like credit card? 1:32:46.760 --> 1:32:47.360 What the fuck is that? 1:32:48.479 --> 1:32:50.760 Well, okay, hed American score. But well, we have a 1:32:50.800 --> 1:32:51.240 couple of things. 1:32:51.360 --> 1:32:55.479 Is one, Yeah, college is Yeah, I can see it now. 1:32:55.800 --> 1:33:02.800 Yeah, college is really fucking expensive. Health if you if 1:33:02.840 --> 1:33:05.560 it's not part of a if you don't have like 1:33:05.640 --> 1:33:09.719 a really good employer sponsored plan, healthcare is really expensive. 1:33:09.760 --> 1:33:11.800 And then also like a lot of a lot of 1:33:12.640 --> 1:33:15.559 plans like don't come with ship, like dental. And also 1:33:15.600 --> 1:33:19.040 even if you have a plan like like that, like 1:33:19.479 --> 1:33:21.760 doctors will just be like, yo, we also did this 1:33:21.880 --> 1:33:24.280 ship and that call and that wasn't in your insurance, 1:33:24.520 --> 1:33:28.840 so you got to pay for this, you know, like 1:33:28.960 --> 1:33:30.840 fuck it. I think a lot of insurance plans don't 1:33:30.840 --> 1:33:33.360 cover ship. And then also here's a big one. Here's 1:33:33.400 --> 1:33:33.840 a big one. 1:33:35.680 --> 1:33:36.000 What is it? 1:33:36.160 --> 1:33:40.760 Bro broneal what's his name is? Place that's with no 1:33:40.960 --> 1:33:42.200 with no fucking vowels in it. 1:33:44.280 --> 1:33:45.400 Well, uh what what? 1:33:49.120 --> 1:33:50.200 What where do you live again? 1:33:50.640 --> 1:33:50.760 Bro? 1:33:52.080 --> 1:33:59.920 Yeah, okay, I'm looking at Burno. I see a picture 1:34:00.240 --> 1:34:06.880 of a big fat fucking hold on, hold on, b 1:34:07.400 --> 1:34:13.280 are no, No, it's not a cock. We have got 1:34:13.720 --> 1:34:16.040 we got a big fat fucking what do you guys have? 1:34:16.320 --> 1:34:18.120 Hold on? Sorry? 1:34:18.760 --> 1:34:19.080 So this. 1:34:22.200 --> 1:34:28.000 Uh oh a big fat tram. You gotta tram. You 1:34:28.080 --> 1:34:34.000 gotta something, you know, you know what we got we got. Well, 1:34:34.000 --> 1:34:36.760 you guys got trams. If you're an American and you 1:34:36.880 --> 1:34:41.080 don't live in like in in in like yeah, if 1:34:41.120 --> 1:34:43.639 you live in Saint Louis, Missouri, you gotta have a car. 1:34:44.320 --> 1:34:46.519 You have health and you gotta go. You got my 1:34:46.720 --> 1:34:54.200 car insurance, you know if you take a fucking Saint Louis. 1:34:54.640 --> 1:34:58.040 Like here's the all of all of all of like 1:34:58.200 --> 1:35:02.360 the major like Americans it is. They all have like 1:35:03.520 --> 1:35:05.479 public transportation, it's just shitty. 1:35:09.040 --> 1:35:11.519 But like, how can a subway be shipped? Bro? 1:35:13.439 --> 1:35:16.120 How can a subway be How can a subway be shitty? 1:35:18.479 --> 1:35:18.679 Yeah? 1:35:19.120 --> 1:35:23.559 A subway, A subway. A subway can be shitty if 1:35:23.640 --> 1:35:27.559 it doesn't go to a lot of places and if 1:35:27.600 --> 1:35:36.360 it's unreliable, or if it's dangerous. Yeah, okay, okay, like 1:35:37.000 --> 1:35:39.680 that's like that's a that's a huge it's a very 1:35:39.760 --> 1:35:45.440 European thing to have like safe, reliable, expansive public transportation 1:35:46.120 --> 1:35:49.280 that's cheap, whereas like we all have to well well 1:35:49.360 --> 1:35:52.080 I'm I mean one of the reasons York City is 1:35:52.120 --> 1:35:54.720 because they have public transportation and I hate having a car. 1:35:54.920 --> 1:35:55.240 But like. 1:35:57.080 --> 1:36:00.360 In yeah, in pretty much every American stuff, I think 1:36:00.439 --> 1:36:00.960 it's uh. 1:36:02.880 --> 1:36:07.120 It's needed to say that gas is very much cheaper 1:36:07.200 --> 1:36:07.799 in America. 1:36:09.320 --> 1:36:10.719 The gas is cheaper in America. 1:36:12.560 --> 1:36:16.840 Yeah, yeah, because uh, you know, you have you just 1:36:17.479 --> 1:36:21.880 you're kind of the gas country. No, like you have 1:36:24.400 --> 1:36:29.320 like you know, gas is just really much more expensive 1:36:29.400 --> 1:36:36.879 than Czech Republic in comparison to you know, like the salary. Definitely. 1:36:37.479 --> 1:36:39.200 Yeah, it depends where you live, Like if you live 1:36:39.240 --> 1:36:46.599 in like gas in California is is insane. Uh, but yeah, 1:36:46.600 --> 1:36:51.280 gas in Saint Louis is. Uh. I don't know. I 1:36:51.280 --> 1:36:53.120 don't know why I'm talking about gas in Saint Louis. 1:36:53.120 --> 1:36:55.880 I have no idea, but yeah, I mean there's trade Yeah, 1:36:55.920 --> 1:36:59.680 that's the thing is there's like there's trade offs with 1:37:01.960 --> 1:37:04.400 a lot of the ship because you know, Americans because yeah, 1:37:04.400 --> 1:37:06.599 Americans are always like, We're always looking at Europe being 1:37:06.760 --> 1:37:09.880 like Americans always looking at Europe being like, damn, you 1:37:09.920 --> 1:37:14.280 guys have free health care and free like education and 1:37:14.360 --> 1:37:17.360 free public transport, and then you guys are looking at 1:37:17.439 --> 1:37:20.479 us being like, damn, you guys got PlayStation five. That's 1:37:20.479 --> 1:37:21.000 pretty sick. 1:37:25.200 --> 1:37:28.320 Yeah. Well, I don't want to be dead guy, but 1:37:28.560 --> 1:37:34.679 I think the well the public perception of America around 1:37:34.720 --> 1:37:38.960 the world went to it's really really worse than it 1:37:39.160 --> 1:37:42.479 was maybe like ten twenty years ago. I feel like 1:37:42.720 --> 1:37:46.439 nobody is really thinking about America as a dream country anymore. 1:37:46.920 --> 1:37:49.600 I don't want to be like, I don't want to 1:37:49.640 --> 1:37:53.640 shoot on you, but it's just how it feels like 1:37:53.720 --> 1:37:53.920 to me. 1:37:54.720 --> 1:37:58.760 No, you're not you ain't you ain't you ain't saying 1:37:58.840 --> 1:38:04.720 nothing that's blowing anyone's mind. Yeah, but I don't know, 1:38:04.840 --> 1:38:08.200 we had like whatever I was watching some I was 1:38:08.240 --> 1:38:11.439 watching some YouTube video that's like it depends on what 1:38:11.520 --> 1:38:14.320 your bar is, you know. I mean, we're we're living 1:38:14.400 --> 1:38:18.679 pretty fucking good compared to like, you know, there's plenty 1:38:18.680 --> 1:38:20.360 of there's plenty of countries that you can look at 1:38:20.400 --> 1:38:22.160 and say that we're living pretty good. Compared to them. 1:38:22.320 --> 1:38:26.080 But I don't know who's living the best. I've no, 1:38:26.680 --> 1:38:27.360 I've been to. 1:38:29.760 --> 1:38:37.560 You know the best. Yeah, definitely the Nordic countries. No, 1:38:38.240 --> 1:38:45.640 the Nordic countries like three, Sweden, uh, Norway, Norway. I 1:38:45.760 --> 1:38:55.160 think they have like they I think, Davis, I know. 1:38:55.479 --> 1:38:56.880 Yeah, Denmark's doing pretty good. 1:38:58.280 --> 1:38:59.000 Yeah den Mark. 1:39:01.160 --> 1:39:03.439 Yeah, how come everyone's not like, Oh I gotta moved, 1:39:03.439 --> 1:39:04.400 I gotta go to Denmark. 1:39:07.040 --> 1:39:13.560 Well everyone is. They have immigrant problems. Everybody is doing it. 1:39:14.080 --> 1:39:18.360 You know that was That's not like the original idea, 1:39:18.360 --> 1:39:19.960 I guess. Yeah. 1:39:23.360 --> 1:39:27.280 Well, well, I just have. 1:39:27.360 --> 1:39:35.560 To say I am I really enjoyed this conversation. I 1:39:35.680 --> 1:39:40.040 really wanted to talk to about everything Irish. I'm so 1:39:40.280 --> 1:39:40.920 I'm so happy. 1:39:41.920 --> 1:39:43.640 I'm very happy I got This was great. This was 1:39:43.840 --> 1:39:46.200 I really enjoyed having this conversation. I feel like it was. 1:39:47.560 --> 1:39:52.080 We learned a lot about we learned about we got meta, 1:39:53.080 --> 1:39:58.240 we learned about Saint Louis, we talked about life. This 1:39:58.400 --> 1:40:00.680 is great. This was one for the books. This is 1:40:00.720 --> 1:40:03.960 one for the books. Obi. You said your name was yeah. 1:40:06.200 --> 1:40:10.360 Yeah, yeah, you remember my name? That's crazy? 1:40:11.479 --> 1:40:13.280 All right, Well, I well, I forgot it over the 1:40:13.320 --> 1:40:18.240 course of an hour and then I remembered it. Okay, Obi, 1:40:18.320 --> 1:40:21.680 send me a fucking Instagram message with all your like 1:40:22.800 --> 1:40:24.439 you're where you want me to, where you want me 1:40:24.479 --> 1:40:28.040 to attempt to send this hoodie and then I'm gonna 1:40:28.040 --> 1:40:28.760 I'll do my best. 1:40:32.640 --> 1:40:36.559 Yeah, all right, thank you very much, bro. 1:40:39.479 --> 1:40:44.160 Good luck. I still think, uh, I think all right, 1:40:44.280 --> 1:40:46.439 whether or not you will take the cop I think 1:40:47.240 --> 1:40:50.599 you are doing. I think what I think. The life 1:40:50.640 --> 1:40:54.200 you are living is impressive, going to school and working 1:40:55.040 --> 1:40:57.479 and being a dad. It's hard. It's not easy being 1:40:57.560 --> 1:41:06.840 a young dad. It's not easy for your partner, girlfriend, fiance, whatever, either. 1:41:07.680 --> 1:41:13.400 So good luck to you guys, uh, and I will 1:41:14.400 --> 1:41:17.160 I will see you around the universe. Obi. Is there 1:41:17.200 --> 1:41:17.519 anything else? 1:41:17.560 --> 1:41:17.680 Why? 1:41:17.680 --> 1:41:19.120 I say to the people that you before we go, 1:41:22.200 --> 1:41:22.840 just two. 1:41:22.760 --> 1:41:25.680 Things, one for you, one for the audience for you 1:41:26.880 --> 1:41:30.679 we have. Actually, I hope you will visit Chica public 1:41:30.760 --> 1:41:35.080 sometimes because I know you were here, but I don't 1:41:35.120 --> 1:41:38.479 think on your trip. You've tried our spin off on coke. 1:41:38.920 --> 1:41:42.160 It's called Cofola, and I think it's better than coke, 1:41:42.280 --> 1:41:44.840 so you should definitely try it. You can even get 1:41:44.880 --> 1:41:51.120 it draft in like the pups. Uh. So imagine draft 1:41:51.240 --> 1:41:53.439 Coca cola. Yeah. Yeah. 1:41:54.080 --> 1:41:57.600 You know what's funny about you saying this is that 1:41:58.160 --> 1:42:01.800 is here sing that there's a drink that's better than 1:42:01.880 --> 1:42:05.360 coca cola is something that I would fly to another 1:42:05.439 --> 1:42:06.800 country to experience. 1:42:08.600 --> 1:42:11.519 Yeah, no, I think, but it's better when you get 1:42:11.560 --> 1:42:14.639 to the draft in a pub. You need to get 1:42:14.680 --> 1:42:17.679 the draft in pubs from like the better. It's amazing. 1:42:18.120 --> 1:42:23.320 Wait they have they have coca cola. They have what 1:42:23.479 --> 1:42:27.560 is it called again, cofola? 1:42:27.840 --> 1:42:31.960 Okayo f or how they said O l. 1:42:32.640 --> 1:42:37.759 A And there are pubs are these like like side 1:42:37.880 --> 1:42:39.639 there there's a and you can go to a pub 1:42:39.720 --> 1:42:41.120 and you can get this on draft. 1:42:43.479 --> 1:42:46.800 Yeah, in most pubs you can, and like I would say, 1:42:46.880 --> 1:42:51.400 like seventy eighty percent pubs, you can get it in 1:42:51.520 --> 1:42:52.920 Prague definitely. Yeah. 1:42:53.600 --> 1:42:58.600 Do they have a cherry version, No, we are not. 1:43:00.080 --> 1:43:03.519 You know, Americans have a lot of different types of 1:43:04.000 --> 1:43:07.080 maybe coke and stuff, but we have just Cofola original 1:43:07.200 --> 1:43:11.640 on draft. We have versions in mals but bottled, but 1:43:12.320 --> 1:43:15.240 just get the draft one. I'm swear it's the best. 1:43:19.120 --> 1:43:21.599 Okay, what about do they have do they have diet version? 1:43:23.479 --> 1:43:23.519 No? 1:43:24.840 --> 1:43:29.400 They have one version, the original. 1:43:30.360 --> 1:43:35.000 I literally I literally I I might actually do this someday. 1:43:38.120 --> 1:43:41.160 Yeah, I hope. And if you do, you know how 1:43:41.200 --> 1:43:44.160 everybody says, hit me up and maybe I can transfer 1:43:44.240 --> 1:43:47.800 it to you in Prague when you do your show. 1:43:48.560 --> 1:43:49.800 Okay, okay, good. 1:43:50.200 --> 1:43:52.320 I know my English is not the best, but maybe 1:43:52.320 --> 1:43:54.280 I can get you someone better than me. 1:43:54.680 --> 1:43:57.599 Actually, that's ob obi Obi. I want you to know something. 1:43:58.080 --> 1:43:59.920 If I thought your English was shitty, I would have 1:44:00.040 --> 1:44:01.519 hung up on you an hour and a half ago. 1:44:03.520 --> 1:44:05.439 Yeah that's okay, thank you. 1:44:07.439 --> 1:44:08.680 Oh wait, you had something you wanted to say to 1:44:08.720 --> 1:44:09.200 the audience. 1:44:11.080 --> 1:44:17.080 Yeah, to the audience. Treat everybody how you want to 1:44:17.120 --> 1:44:18.440 be treated yourself. 1:44:20.600 --> 1:44:21.080 Beautiful? 1:44:21.800 --> 1:44:25.680 Thank you, O be good luck, lobb you all, bye bye. 1:44:30.680 --> 1:44:33.720 That was a night. That was a meaty call. That 1:44:33.880 --> 1:44:38.960 was a meaty call. That was good. I enjoyed that. 1:44:40.160 --> 1:44:43.479 I enjoyed that very much. We that we that spanned 1:44:43.840 --> 1:44:52.120 a large let's spanned a long time. That was a 1:44:52.160 --> 1:44:56.760 good phone call. Shout out to Obi, shout out to 1:44:56.840 --> 1:45:02.160 the Czech Republic. It's interesting hearing other people's perceptions of 1:45:02.240 --> 1:45:04.000 America and like, you know, I don't know what life 1:45:04.120 --> 1:45:12.160 is like in uh other countries and shit, you know, yeah, 1:45:12.200 --> 1:45:13.800 that's a good call. Do I don't know if I 1:45:13.840 --> 1:45:16.280 have anything else to say. I feel like we I 1:45:16.320 --> 1:45:18.000 feel like we left that one all out. I feel 1:45:18.040 --> 1:45:19.400 like we let that all out on the table. 1:45:19.479 --> 1:45:19.599 Oh. 1:45:19.800 --> 1:45:22.040 I have one other thing to say, which is that 1:45:23.400 --> 1:45:25.240 you know, this is a fun fact that the area 1:45:25.360 --> 1:45:28.240 code he called from there was a check area code. 1:45:29.000 --> 1:45:30.360 Guess what the check area code is? 1:45:31.479 --> 1:45:31.720 You know what. 1:45:31.800 --> 1:45:33.280 I'm not even you know what. I'm not even gonna 1:45:33.320 --> 1:45:36.520 say it. I'm not gonna say it on the podcast. 1:45:36.680 --> 1:45:40.040 I'm just gonna let you, guys, just if you want, 1:45:41.560 --> 1:45:43.280 if you want to be if you want to if 1:45:43.280 --> 1:45:44.600 you want to look at you, if you want to 1:45:44.640 --> 1:45:49.400 look at your phone or computer and say nice, go 1:45:49.479 --> 1:45:53.840 ahead and search up what the country code is for 1:45:53.960 --> 1:45:58.400 the Czech Republic. And that's all I'll say. Thank you 1:45:58.479 --> 1:46:02.519 for listening. Be Get goes on the line, taking your 1:46:02.600 --> 1:46:04.080 phone calls every night. 1:46:04.280 --> 1:46:06.200 Never peak, cant goes doing the ride. 1:46:06.280 --> 1:46:09.360 He's teaching you his housing, your life, but he's not 1:46:09.640 --> 1:46:10.960 really an expert.