Speaker 1: Second date of to day. There's a million websites where
Speaker 1: you can meet people to date now, Yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: not even an exaggeration almost any of them. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: you have the normal ones, but you also have things
Speaker 1: like hot Sauce Passions that is, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: need to get on its gluten free singles, and one
Speaker 1: called marry me already? Whoa Brook? Isn't that where you
Speaker 1: met your husband? Very funny, Jeffrey, Oh, that's right, yours
Speaker 1: was marry me now? Or I'm leaving this old Country
Speaker 1: buffet dot com? Well, whatever, whatever it was. We've heard
Speaker 1: a lot of unusual ones on the show, but yesterday
Speaker 1: we actually had another listener who emailed us saying he
Speaker 1: met a woman at another niche dating site, one that
Speaker 1: I didn't know existed. The guy's name is Troy, So, Troy,
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Hey, how are you? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm so curious. But first I want to know, is
Speaker 1: it your first niche dating site that you've ever ventured onto? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean I tried the regular dating sites a little bit,
Speaker 1: and this was my first time trying the more specific category. Okay,
Speaker 1: so tell us where you met your date. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: met on a virgins only Okay, virgins only, that's good,
Speaker 1: that's definitely niche. Okay that like none of that. People
Speaker 1: from Virginia are allowed on that dating. I mean, how
Speaker 1: do you know, how can you prove verify that you
Speaker 1: need to do like an examination? Oh no, I would
Speaker 1: assume this is an honor system, right, Yeah, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: an honor system. And I mean, being a virgin for
Speaker 1: a long time, it's not something I could imagine someone
Speaker 1: wanting to pretend to be if they're not. I could
Speaker 1: imagine a lot of guys wanting to pretend to be
Speaker 1: a version to meet some some you know. Anyway, So
Speaker 1: does that mean like in the future, it's totally off
Speaker 1: the table too until you get married or were you
Speaker 1: at with that? Okay, it's not like a religious thing,
Speaker 1: but it's like I was taught when I was young
Speaker 1: to save myself for that one person, someone special. Okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean I felt the same exact way up until
Speaker 1: I was seventeen, very different view having Catholic school. Dude,
Speaker 1: I was like, I girls, I want to kiss. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: we can't see how much you have changed or anything.
Speaker 1: So you matched with someone on Virgins Only. What is
Speaker 1: her name? Her name's Rebecca. Okay, Okay, so it did
Speaker 1: not go well at the beginning. Oh okay. Why we
Speaker 1: met up in a mall parking garage just to be
Speaker 1: around other people. You know, most people would pick like
Speaker 1: a coffee shop to be in public, nut like where
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna get kid, parking garage in a
Speaker 1: dark alley. Okay, So what happened, Well, it was going
Speaker 1: to just be like, well, both park our cars there,
Speaker 1: say Hi, make sure I'm not giving her getting my
Speaker 1: van vibes or whatever, and then what are the options
Speaker 1: of this? I think he's just being extra cautious. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then from there we'd like drive to like a restaurant.
Speaker 1: But that was a plan, right, but I locked my
Speaker 1: keys in my car. We had to wait in her
Speaker 1: car with until Triple A got there. Oh yeah, that's start.
Speaker 1: But it like worked out because we started talking and
Speaker 1: like really hit it off good, okay a Megan Lemonade. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because like, you know, I've talked I've talked to a
Speaker 1: couple of girls on the phone from Virgin Only, and
Speaker 1: like it's always weird because all it ever devolves into
Speaker 1: the conversation it's like talking about he covers virginity, it
Speaker 1: just ends up being weird. Yeah, I would assume that
Speaker 1: would be a real central talking pould you say, and
Speaker 1: why are you letting it define yourself? So I'm glad
Speaker 1: you have hobbies out of not doing that well. To
Speaker 1: be fair, like, when when it hasn't happened for you yet,
Speaker 1: you tend to think about it a lot. I'm sure
Speaker 1: you kind of build it up in your head. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So wait, what did you guys connect over? Yeah, so
Speaker 1: Rebecca didn't do any of that, like talking about virginity stuff.
Speaker 1: I liked it, you know, she just seemed normal and
Speaker 1: we were just talking nicely. What TV shows we've watched,
Speaker 1: what books we've read? You know, like, Okay, did the
Speaker 1: day ever move anywhere beyond the front seat of her car? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So what Once Triple A got there, I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: what do you want to do? And she's like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm like, do you want to just go
Speaker 1: get food at my place? Oh? That is very favored, sir. No,
Speaker 1: not when you're a virgin. It's noting's going to happen. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know generally I like cooking, so so it's easier
Speaker 1: for me to go in a restaurant anyway, she said, sure,
Speaker 1: And like, you know, being a virgin as an adult,
Speaker 1: it's tough and I want to make moves, but I'm
Speaker 1: trying to resist, so I try to take my mind
Speaker 1: off it, you know. So we're we're at my place.
Speaker 1: I put on Charlotte's Web on DVD. What did she
Speaker 1: say to that, I don't keep her off you? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I did that on purpose. You know, there's nothing
Speaker 1: sexy about Charlotte's Web. It's a good escape. I lose
Speaker 1: myself from the story. What was the vibe tho? I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I have just imagining if I was a virgin, I
Speaker 1: would still want like adult time. We had some adult
Speaker 1: time when the movie was over. Oh, she said she
Speaker 1: had to go and we had a kiss and that
Speaker 1: was nice. Did you go in or she make the
Speaker 1: first move? I think it was both. We like kind
Speaker 1: of upat each other, you know, yes, So after the kiss,
Speaker 1: I walked her to her car. And now it's been
Speaker 1: almost a week and she hasn't returned any of my texts.
Speaker 1: So I'm just trying to figure out where I went wrong.
Speaker 1: You know, it may not be something you did. But
Speaker 1: I mean, it is strange that she wouldn't call you
Speaker 1: back after a kiss. Yeahs could have been too much
Speaker 1: for her. I know it sounds funny but not enough.
Speaker 1: But well, the porridge too hot, there's the porridge too cold.
Speaker 1: We'll find out. We're going to play a song called
Speaker 1: Rebecca and we'll try and get your second date update
Speaker 1: Virgin edition. Okay, yeah, right after this, thank you. We're
Speaker 1: in the middle of a second date update with a
Speaker 1: great guy named Troy who met his date on a
Speaker 1: website for virgins only. He was telling us about how
Speaker 1: he's trying to take things slow, but of course everybody
Speaker 1: in studio thought it was hilarious because this group of
Speaker 1: heathens that I work with are so far from being virgins.
Speaker 1: They have no concept of how this could possibly work.
Speaker 1: I told you I remember being a teenager. That's not true.
Speaker 1: You have to remember, even as an adult, everybody takes
Speaker 1: dating at different speeds. Okay, Brook. Not everybody goes from
Speaker 1: hey you're cute on an app to making a reservation
Speaker 1: at a CD motel by the highway man, Why would
Speaker 1: I do that when I have the back of my car. Okay,
Speaker 1: on the highway if that's how you prefer to do it, Brooke.
Speaker 1: But after a rough start, Troy took his date Rebecca
Speaker 1: to his place, where they ate pizza together and they
Speaker 1: watched Charlotte's Web on DVD. They even ended the night
Speaker 1: with a nice little kiss before he walked her to
Speaker 1: her car. So, Troy, not as prude as you thought.
Speaker 1: You know what, I thought that was a big step
Speaker 1: for Troy, and Troy, I'm very supportive of you in
Speaker 1: your quest to find love. Thank you with a virgin
Speaker 1: you know virgin. You know the thing is, Troy, it
Speaker 1: may not be about you at all. It may just
Speaker 1: be that she has a lot of dates. Because you
Speaker 1: said that you have talked to quite a few women
Speaker 1: on this virgin only site, and she was the only
Speaker 1: normal one. I mean, chances are good all the other
Speaker 1: guys are feeling the same thing. Yeah, maybe you're right.
Speaker 1: I mean I've also heard people, you know, on the
Speaker 1: virgin only site. They questioned each other like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: not a virgin, You're just on here for whatever. It's
Speaker 1: like a bandwagon fan kind of right. Yeah, maybe she
Speaker 1: didn't think I was a virgin because I can appear sexy.
Speaker 1: I think you're good. Yeah, I mean he's given me
Speaker 1: a Donna's five. I don't know, or maybe I think
Speaker 1: one of you says a Donna said, the other one
Speaker 1: just goes for ye who knows. Maybe she went out
Speaker 1: with another guy who put on finding Nemo and that
Speaker 1: one did it for so may. Oh my god, there
Speaker 1: are so many Disney fans on this website, are there anyway?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Troy. We're just gonna die Rebecca's phone number
Speaker 1: and we're gonna get your second date. Update. You ready
Speaker 1: to do this? Yeah? She's definitely the coolest and if
Speaker 1: I screwed us stuff, I just want to know what happened,
Speaker 1: and I want to know. Yeah, for sure. I think
Speaker 1: we'll get you another date. I think so too. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm dial the phone number right now here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: is this Rebecca? Yeah, Hi Rebecca. My name is Jeffrey
Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: You have a moment to talk with us? Wait, I
Speaker 1: am sorry, Wait, who are you a kids? We're a
Speaker 1: morning radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Is me Brooke is here? Jose Alexis I don't listen
Speaker 1: to radio so I don't know. Hi, Okay, this is
Speaker 1: gonna be a little shocking. Yeah. Well, we do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called a second Date Update. That's
Speaker 1: where if you go out with somebody and afterwards, if
Speaker 1: they're not calling you back, you can email our show
Speaker 1: and we'll reach out to that person for you to
Speaker 1: try and figure out the reason why they're ghosting. And
Speaker 1: so recently you went up with a guy who had
Speaker 1: a great time with you and now he's having a
Speaker 1: hard time getting in touch. His name's Troy. Oh yeah, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: do you remember, And he did admit to us that
Speaker 1: the date didn't go flawlessly, that there was a little
Speaker 1: bit of a hiccup when he locked his keys inside
Speaker 1: of his car, and so you ended up going back
Speaker 1: to his place watching Charlotte's Web eating pizza, which, to
Speaker 1: be honest, we made fun of him for the Charlotte's
Speaker 1: Web thing. I don't know how you felt about that.
Speaker 1: Careful with the Wii. It sounds like he told you
Speaker 1: a lot about what we did, But did he tell
Speaker 1: you where we met? Yeah? No, I mean he said
Speaker 1: that you guys matched on a website for virgins only. Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I can't believe he told you that, But okay, nothing
Speaker 1: to be embarrassed of. Everybody has a different niche but
Speaker 1: they're into Yeah, I know. I guess it's not a
Speaker 1: popular one though. Yeah, that is true. What do you mean,
Speaker 1: it's just not really widely accepted if, like, you know,
Speaker 1: I say I don't want to use my opportunity before marriage,
Speaker 1: they think it's kind of weird. So okay, So, which
Speaker 1: is why you would be on that dating website, right,
Speaker 1: because you can find other people who understand where you're
Speaker 1: coming from. And that's what Troy said that he was into.
Speaker 1: He wants to find a girl who's on the same
Speaker 1: page as him, right, and he is, but he's like
Speaker 1: extreme on a virgin scale. He's at ten though. No kiss.
Speaker 1: I told him that, you like, just because you're a
Speaker 1: virgin doesn't mean that you don't want an adult night.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that you don't want sparks, like you
Speaker 1: still want those things, right, And I mean he's really
Speaker 1: good cook and I did think that like the movie
Speaker 1: he chose was really sweet. Yeah, I did get a
Speaker 1: kiss at the hint of the night, but I only
Speaker 1: got the bottom lip. What, Like it was a miskiss. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it was on purpose, like he only kissed me with
Speaker 1: the bottom lip. Well, I'm trying to figure out what
Speaker 1: you're describing, right, Yeah, exactly like a poud like just
Speaker 1: stuck out his bottom lip and just just kissed with
Speaker 1: that one lip. Everyone in the stair right now I
Speaker 1: was sticking out their bottom lip just to see what
Speaker 1: it would look like. That kiss kills the mood. Though,
Speaker 1: Why would he do that? It's not like he couldn't.
Speaker 1: He doesn't know how. It's just that he I asked
Speaker 1: if everything was okay, but he explained that, like he
Speaker 1: didn't want to kiss with both lips until like he
Speaker 1: knew that we had a future. Oh okay, all right,
Speaker 1: are you joking? I'm not joking at all that. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: that's stupid. I don't mean to be me. But why
Speaker 1: one limping up the other? What is the bottom is okay?
Speaker 1: But not the top? That doesn't make any sense. It's
Speaker 1: it's contact. I mean, you've heard of just the tip.
Speaker 1: This is just the limp the same. And it wasn't
Speaker 1: even just that, Like he takes it to the extreme
Speaker 1: in another way, like where he walked me to my
Speaker 1: car and I thought he was going to hold my hand.
Speaker 1: I was totally fine with that, but he like linked
Speaker 1: pinkies with me instead. Oh well yeah, legit, Like that's
Speaker 1: like giving too much to me to hold my entire hand,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's just kind of to
Speaker 1: the extreme. Okay, you're saying that he's extra virgin. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right. Well, it's just so crazy because he's, like
Speaker 1: he said, he wasn't waiting till marriage. He's just waiting
Speaker 1: to the right person. Well, I don't know. Maybe there's
Speaker 1: maybe there's more logic to this than we're realizing. And
Speaker 1: there's one way to find that out, and that's by
Speaker 1: letting you know, Rebecca that Troy has actually been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and he wants to talk. Oh no,
Speaker 1: he needs to hear this, Rebecca. Do not feel bad, Troy.
Speaker 1: Are you there? Hey, Rebecca? Hi? Oh, I wanted you
Speaker 1: to know I'm interested without doing too much. Um, I
Speaker 1: guess I was. I'm just a little confused about the
Speaker 1: bottom lip kiss, not the holy hands. Like I understand,
Speaker 1: like we're virgins and we're gonna stay that way, but
Speaker 1: kissing with the both lips and holding hands, it's a
Speaker 1: completely different thing. No, I know, I just wanted it
Speaker 1: to go the second date and maybe the third date,
Speaker 1: to give you the top one before you know, like, okay,
Speaker 1: did why just say kiss her? Like, why not just
Speaker 1: wait for the kiss until the second or third date.
Speaker 1: That's a totally normal thing. Nobody wants just the bottom lip.
Speaker 1: But that's too fast. Pump the brakes. I'm saying, no kiss,
Speaker 1: No kiss is better than just the weird, lobberly slobbering lips.
Speaker 1: I disagree, no kiss. She's gonna start thinking I'm not
Speaker 1: interested at all, and then that falls apart. I knew
Speaker 1: you were interested, but you threw me off with the
Speaker 1: whole kissing me at the bottom lipping, the pinky thing,
Speaker 1: the pinky thing, cook, I want to defend myself, the
Speaker 1: pinky thing. I went for your whole hand I missed.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, this is good. So you would have
Speaker 1: given her more of your fingers if it was possible.
Speaker 1: If we just that sound bite, it would really mean
Speaker 1: you're saying you would have gone for the full handhold. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wanted. I meant to, but it just like missed
Speaker 1: and it got one finger. At that point, I'd rather
Speaker 1: just keep it cute than like keep you know, be
Speaker 1: weird if you keep moving your hand around. And I mean, Rebecca,
Speaker 1: did you find anything sexy about him? He's very nice
Speaker 1: and he is very attractive, and he's very intellectual, and
Speaker 1: so I mean, I do. I just was really thrown
Speaker 1: up because you know what if something did happen and
Speaker 1: did take off, and do I have to wait like
Speaker 1: months for an actual full mouth kiss, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Okay, so this is sounding pretty good right now,
Speaker 1: and I'd like to ask Rebecca, would you be willing
Speaker 1: to go out on one more date? We will pay
Speaker 1: for it, I think yes, Oh yes, thank you, thank
Speaker 1: you for clarifying. And I'm glad. I'm very happy right now. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: it's a virgin's only success, my first ever broke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.