WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Virgins Only

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to day. There's a million websites where

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<v Speaker 1>you can meet people to date now, Yeah, yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not even an exaggeration almost any of them. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you have the normal ones, but you also have things

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<v Speaker 1>like hot Sauce Passions that is, oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get on its gluten free singles, and one

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<v Speaker 1>called marry me already? Whoa Brook? Isn't that where you

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<v Speaker 1>met your husband? Very funny, Jeffrey, Oh, that's right, yours

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<v Speaker 1>was marry me now? Or I'm leaving this old Country

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<v Speaker 1>buffet dot com? Well, whatever, whatever it was. We've heard

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of unusual ones on the show, but yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>we actually had another listener who emailed us saying he

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<v Speaker 1>met a woman at another niche dating site, one that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know existed. The guy's name is Troy, So, Troy,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Hey, how are you? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so curious. But first I want to know, is

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<v Speaker 1>it your first niche dating site that you've ever ventured onto? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I tried the regular dating sites a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and this was my first time trying the more specific category. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so tell us where you met your date. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>met on a virgins only Okay, virgins only, that's good,

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<v Speaker 1>that's definitely niche. Okay that like none of that. People

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<v Speaker 1>from Virginia are allowed on that dating. I mean, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you know, how can you prove verify that you

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<v Speaker 1>need to do like an examination? Oh no, I would

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<v Speaker 1>assume this is an honor system, right, Yeah, yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>an honor system. And I mean, being a virgin for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, it's not something I could imagine someone

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to pretend to be if they're not. I could

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<v Speaker 1>imagine a lot of guys wanting to pretend to be

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<v Speaker 1>a version to meet some some you know. Anyway, So

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean like in the future, it's totally off

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<v Speaker 1>the table too until you get married or were you

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<v Speaker 1>at with that? Okay, it's not like a religious thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like I was taught when I was young

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<v Speaker 1>to save myself for that one person, someone special. Okay, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I felt the same exact way up until

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<v Speaker 1>I was seventeen, very different view having Catholic school. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I girls, I want to kiss. No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't see how much you have changed or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So you matched with someone on Virgins Only. What is

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<v Speaker 1>her name? Her name's Rebecca. Okay, Okay, so it did

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<v Speaker 1>not go well at the beginning. Oh okay. Why we

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<v Speaker 1>met up in a mall parking garage just to be

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<v Speaker 1>around other people. You know, most people would pick like

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee shop to be in public, nut like where

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm gonna get kid, parking garage in a

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<v Speaker 1>dark alley. Okay, So what happened, Well, it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to just be like, well, both park our cars there,

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<v Speaker 1>say Hi, make sure I'm not giving her getting my

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<v Speaker 1>van vibes or whatever, and then what are the options

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<v Speaker 1>of this? I think he's just being extra cautious. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then from there we'd like drive to like a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was a plan, right, but I locked my

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<v Speaker 1>keys in my car. We had to wait in her

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<v Speaker 1>car with until Triple A got there. Oh yeah, that's start.

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<v Speaker 1>But it like worked out because we started talking and

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<v Speaker 1>like really hit it off good, okay a Megan Lemonade. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because like, you know, I've talked I've talked to a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of girls on the phone from Virgin Only, and

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<v Speaker 1>like it's always weird because all it ever devolves into

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation it's like talking about he covers virginity, it

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<v Speaker 1>just ends up being weird. Yeah, I would assume that

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<v Speaker 1>would be a real central talking pould you say, and

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<v Speaker 1>why are you letting it define yourself? So I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>you have hobbies out of not doing that well. To

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<v Speaker 1>be fair, like, when when it hasn't happened for you yet,

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<v Speaker 1>you tend to think about it a lot. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of build it up in your head. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, what did you guys connect over? Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca didn't do any of that, like talking about virginity stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked it, you know, she just seemed normal and

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<v Speaker 1>we were just talking nicely. What TV shows we've watched,

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<v Speaker 1>what books we've read? You know, like, Okay, did the

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<v Speaker 1>day ever move anywhere beyond the front seat of her car? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So what Once Triple A got there, I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want to do? And she's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm like, do you want to just go

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<v Speaker 1>get food at my place? Oh? That is very favored, sir. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not when you're a virgin. It's noting's going to happen. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know generally I like cooking, so so it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>for me to go in a restaurant anyway, she said, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>And like, you know, being a virgin as an adult,

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<v Speaker 1>it's tough and I want to make moves, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to resist, so I try to take my mind

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<v Speaker 1>off it, you know. So we're we're at my place.

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<v Speaker 1>I put on Charlotte's Web on DVD. What did she

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<v Speaker 1>say to that, I don't keep her off you? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did that on purpose. You know, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>sexy about Charlotte's Web. It's a good escape. I lose

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<v Speaker 1>myself from the story. What was the vibe tho? I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I have just imagining if I was a virgin, I

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<v Speaker 1>would still want like adult time. We had some adult

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<v Speaker 1>time when the movie was over. Oh, she said she

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<v Speaker 1>had to go and we had a kiss and that

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<v Speaker 1>was nice. Did you go in or she make the

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<v Speaker 1>first move? I think it was both. We like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of upat each other, you know, yes, So after the kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>I walked her to her car. And now it's been

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<v Speaker 1>almost a week and she hasn't returned any of my texts.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just trying to figure out where I went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it may not be something you did. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is strange that she wouldn't call you

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<v Speaker 1>back after a kiss. Yeahs could have been too much

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<v Speaker 1>for her. I know it sounds funny but not enough.

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<v Speaker 1>But well, the porridge too hot, there's the porridge too cold.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out. We're going to play a song called

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca and we'll try and get your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>Virgin edition. Okay, yeah, right after this, thank you. We're

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a second date update with a

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<v Speaker 1>great guy named Troy who met his date on a

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<v Speaker 1>website for virgins only. He was telling us about how

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to take things slow, but of course everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in studio thought it was hilarious because this group of

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<v Speaker 1>heathens that I work with are so far from being virgins.

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<v Speaker 1>They have no concept of how this could possibly work.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you I remember being a teenager. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to remember, even as an adult, everybody takes

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<v Speaker 1>dating at different speeds. Okay, Brook. Not everybody goes from

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<v Speaker 1>hey you're cute on an app to making a reservation

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<v Speaker 1>at a CD motel by the highway man, Why would

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<v Speaker 1>I do that when I have the back of my car. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>on the highway if that's how you prefer to do it, Brooke.

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<v Speaker 1>But after a rough start, Troy took his date Rebecca

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<v Speaker 1>to his place, where they ate pizza together and they

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<v Speaker 1>watched Charlotte's Web on DVD. They even ended the night

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<v Speaker 1>with a nice little kiss before he walked her to

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<v Speaker 1>her car. So, Troy, not as prude as you thought.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I thought that was a big step

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<v Speaker 1>for Troy, and Troy, I'm very supportive of you in

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<v Speaker 1>your quest to find love. Thank you with a virgin

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<v Speaker 1>you know virgin. You know the thing is, Troy, it

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<v Speaker 1>may not be about you at all. It may just

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<v Speaker 1>be that she has a lot of dates. Because you

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<v Speaker 1>said that you have talked to quite a few women

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<v Speaker 1>on this virgin only site, and she was the only

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<v Speaker 1>normal one. I mean, chances are good all the other

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<v Speaker 1>guys are feeling the same thing. Yeah, maybe you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've also heard people, you know, on the

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<v Speaker 1>virgin only site. They questioned each other like, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not a virgin, You're just on here for whatever. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a bandwagon fan kind of right. Yeah, maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think I was a virgin because I can appear sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're good. Yeah, I mean he's given me

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<v Speaker 1>a Donna's five. I don't know, or maybe I think

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<v Speaker 1>one of you says a Donna said, the other one

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<v Speaker 1>just goes for ye who knows. Maybe she went out

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<v Speaker 1>with another guy who put on finding Nemo and that

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<v Speaker 1>one did it for so may. Oh my god, there

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<v Speaker 1>are so many Disney fans on this website, are there anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Troy. We're just gonna die Rebecca's phone number

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna get your second date. Update. You ready

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<v Speaker 1>to do this? Yeah? She's definitely the coolest and if

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<v Speaker 1>I screwed us stuff, I just want to know what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to know. Yeah, for sure. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get you another date. I think so too. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dial the phone number right now here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Rebecca? Yeah, Hi Rebecca. My name is Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a moment to talk with us? Wait, I

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<v Speaker 1>am sorry, Wait, who are you a kids? We're a

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<v Speaker 1>morning radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Is me Brooke is here? Jose Alexis I don't listen

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<v Speaker 1>to radio so I don't know. Hi, Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a little shocking. Yeah. Well, we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called a second Date Update. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where if you go out with somebody and afterwards, if

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<v Speaker 1>they're not calling you back, you can email our show

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll reach out to that person for you to

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<v Speaker 1>try and figure out the reason why they're ghosting. And

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<v Speaker 1>so recently you went up with a guy who had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time with you and now he's having a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time getting in touch. His name's Troy. Oh yeah, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember, And he did admit to us that

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<v Speaker 1>the date didn't go flawlessly, that there was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a hiccup when he locked his keys inside

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<v Speaker 1>of his car, and so you ended up going back

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<v Speaker 1>to his place watching Charlotte's Web eating pizza, which, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, we made fun of him for the Charlotte's

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<v Speaker 1>Web thing. I don't know how you felt about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Careful with the Wii. It sounds like he told you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about what we did, But did he tell

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<v Speaker 1>you where we met? Yeah? No, I mean he said

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys matched on a website for virgins only. Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe he told you that, But okay, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to be embarrassed of. Everybody has a different niche but

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<v Speaker 1>they're into Yeah, I know. I guess it's not a

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<v Speaker 1>popular one though. Yeah, that is true. What do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not really widely accepted if, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I say I don't want to use my opportunity before marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>they think it's kind of weird. So okay, So, which

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<v Speaker 1>is why you would be on that dating website, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because you can find other people who understand where you're

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<v Speaker 1>coming from. And that's what Troy said that he was into.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to find a girl who's on the same

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<v Speaker 1>page as him, right, and he is, but he's like

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<v Speaker 1>extreme on a virgin scale. He's at ten though. No kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>I told him that, you like, just because you're a

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<v Speaker 1>virgin doesn't mean that you don't want an adult night.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't mean that you don't want sparks, like you

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<v Speaker 1>still want those things, right, And I mean he's really

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<v Speaker 1>good cook and I did think that like the movie

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<v Speaker 1>he chose was really sweet. Yeah, I did get a

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<v Speaker 1>kiss at the hint of the night, but I only

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<v Speaker 1>got the bottom lip. What, Like it was a miskiss. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was on purpose, like he only kissed me with

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<v Speaker 1>the bottom lip. Well, I'm trying to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>you're describing, right, Yeah, exactly like a poud like just

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<v Speaker 1>stuck out his bottom lip and just just kissed with

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<v Speaker 1>that one lip. Everyone in the stair right now I

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<v Speaker 1>was sticking out their bottom lip just to see what

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<v Speaker 1>it would look like. That kiss kills the mood. Though,

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<v Speaker 1>Why would he do that? It's not like he couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't know how. It's just that he I asked

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<v Speaker 1>if everything was okay, but he explained that, like he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to kiss with both lips until like he

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<v Speaker 1>knew that we had a future. Oh okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>are you joking? I'm not joking at all that. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>that's stupid. I don't mean to be me. But why

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<v Speaker 1>one limping up the other? What is the bottom is okay?

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<v Speaker 1>But not the top? That doesn't make any sense. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's contact. I mean, you've heard of just the tip.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just the limp the same. And it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even just that, Like he takes it to the extreme

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<v Speaker 1>in another way, like where he walked me to my

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<v Speaker 1>car and I thought he was going to hold my hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I was totally fine with that, but he like linked

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<v Speaker 1>pinkies with me instead. Oh well yeah, legit, Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>like giving too much to me to hold my entire hand,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. It's just kind of to

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<v Speaker 1>the extreme. Okay, you're saying that he's extra virgin. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Well, it's just so crazy because he's, like

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<v Speaker 1>he said, he wasn't waiting till marriage. He's just waiting

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<v Speaker 1>to the right person. Well, I don't know. Maybe there's

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there's more logic to this than we're realizing. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's one way to find that out, and that's by

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<v Speaker 1>letting you know, Rebecca that Troy has actually been on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and he wants to talk. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>he needs to hear this, Rebecca. Do not feel bad, Troy.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there? Hey, Rebecca? Hi? Oh, I wanted you

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<v Speaker 1>to know I'm interested without doing too much. Um, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I was. I'm just a little confused about the

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<v Speaker 1>bottom lip kiss, not the holy hands. Like I understand,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're virgins and we're gonna stay that way, but

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<v Speaker 1>kissing with the both lips and holding hands, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>completely different thing. No, I know, I just wanted it

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<v Speaker 1>to go the second date and maybe the third date,

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<v Speaker 1>to give you the top one before you know, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did why just say kiss her? Like, why not just

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<v Speaker 1>wait for the kiss until the second or third date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a totally normal thing. Nobody wants just the bottom lip.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's too fast. Pump the brakes. I'm saying, no kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>No kiss is better than just the weird, lobberly slobbering lips.

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree, no kiss. She's gonna start thinking I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>interested at all, and then that falls apart. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>you were interested, but you threw me off with the

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<v Speaker 1>whole kissing me at the bottom lipping, the pinky thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the pinky thing, cook, I want to defend myself, the

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<v Speaker 1>pinky thing. I went for your whole hand I missed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no, this is good. So you would have

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<v Speaker 1>given her more of your fingers if it was possible.

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<v Speaker 1>If we just that sound bite, it would really mean

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying you would have gone for the full handhold. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted. I meant to, but it just like missed

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<v Speaker 1>and it got one finger. At that point, I'd rather

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<v Speaker 1>just keep it cute than like keep you know, be

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<v Speaker 1>weird if you keep moving your hand around. And I mean, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>did you find anything sexy about him? He's very nice

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<v Speaker 1>and he is very attractive, and he's very intellectual, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I mean, I do. I just was really thrown

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<v Speaker 1>up because you know what if something did happen and

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<v Speaker 1>did take off, and do I have to wait like

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<v Speaker 1>months for an actual full mouth kiss, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Okay, so this is sounding pretty good right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd like to ask Rebecca, would you be willing

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on one more date? We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it, I think yes, Oh yes, thank you, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for clarifying. And I'm glad. I'm very happy right now. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a virgin's only success, my first ever broke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.