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Speaker 1: buffet dot com? Well, whatever, whatever it was. We've heard

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Speaker 1: I'm so curious. But first I want to know, is

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Speaker 1: so tell us where you met your date. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: met on a virgins only Okay, virgins only, that's good,

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Speaker 1: that's definitely niche. Okay that like none of that. People

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Speaker 1: So you matched with someone on Virgins Only. What is

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Speaker 1: to do this? Yeah? She's definitely the coolest and if

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Speaker 1: is this Rebecca? Yeah, Hi Rebecca. My name is Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: You have a moment to talk with us? Wait, I

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Speaker 1: because you can find other people who understand where you're

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Speaker 1: Why would he do that? It's not like he couldn't.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know how. It's just that he I asked

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Speaker 1: are you joking? I'm not joking at all that. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: that's stupid. I don't mean to be me. But why

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Speaker 1: it's contact. I mean, you've heard of just the tip.

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Speaker 1: This is just the limp the same. And it wasn't

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Speaker 1: I was totally fine with that, but he like linked

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Speaker 1: the extreme. Okay, you're saying that he's extra virgin. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he needs to hear this, Rebecca. Do not feel bad, Troy.

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Speaker 1: Are you there? Hey, Rebecca? Hi? Oh, I wanted you

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Speaker 1: bottom lip kiss, not the holy hands. Like I understand,

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Speaker 1: like we're virgins and we're gonna stay that way, but

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Speaker 1: completely different thing. No, I know, I just wanted it

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Speaker 1: did why just say kiss her? Like, why not just

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Speaker 1: That's a totally normal thing. Nobody wants just the bottom lip.

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Speaker 1: No kiss is better than just the weird, lobberly slobbering lips.

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Speaker 1: the pinky thing, cook, I want to defend myself, the

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Speaker 1: pinky thing. I went for your whole hand I missed.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, this is good. So you would have

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Speaker 1: you're saying you would have gone for the full handhold. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it got one finger. At that point, I'd rather

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Speaker 1: just keep it cute than like keep you know, be

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Speaker 1: weird if you keep moving your hand around. And I mean, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: did you find anything sexy about him? He's very nice

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Speaker 1: so I mean, I do. I just was really thrown

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Speaker 1: I mean. Okay, so this is sounding pretty good right now,

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Speaker 1: and I'd like to ask Rebecca, would you be willing

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Speaker 1: to go out on one more date? We will pay

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Speaker 1: for it, I think yes, Oh yes, thank you, thank

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Speaker 1: you for clarifying. And I'm glad. I'm very happy right now. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's a virgin's only success, my first ever broke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.