WEBVTT - Preparing for Parenthood Financially

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? B a Fam? It's Friday, which means you

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<v Speaker 1>know what time it is. It's time for the b

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<v Speaker 1>a qa A the b a qa? What to say?

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<v Speaker 1>the ba qaa? What's up? B a fam? If you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't tell, I am not in my usual playroom slash office.

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<v Speaker 1>Mommy has her own space this week. I'm feeling very fancy,

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<v Speaker 1>very cute. I'm actually in Houston. I don't know when

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<v Speaker 1>this show is going to air, but I'm here for Afrotech,

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<v Speaker 1>so very excited. I haven't been to afro Tech. I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to figure this out. Have I been to Afrotech?

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<v Speaker 1>Have I not been to afro Tech? If I have

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<v Speaker 1>been to Protech. It has been many years, but I

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<v Speaker 1>have known Morgan Devon, the founder of lavity, for over

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<v Speaker 1>a decade or known of her. I actually interviewed her

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<v Speaker 1>for a story when I was at Yahoo Finance a

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<v Speaker 1>gajillion years ago. But anyway, it's a great little full

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<v Speaker 1>circle moment. And if you can't tell by my Airbnb,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying really hard to hide it, but I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually you guys can see it on YouTube if I

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<v Speaker 1>pan the camera just the slightest amount. Wait for it,

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<v Speaker 1>wait for it. Listen, listen, listen, listen, Linda. Some things

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some air and some airbnb hosts just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't photograph the entire place. They they just photographed

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<v Speaker 1>the three the three walls that or I guess, most

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<v Speaker 1>appealing to the average viewer on the Internet. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you just got to kick a gamble on what that

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<v Speaker 1>fourth wall is gonna hold. And I gambled, y'all, And

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<v Speaker 1>some may say I won, and about what how much

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<v Speaker 1>did we lose? By? Forty six percent of us may

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<v Speaker 1>say that I lost. It doesn't matter. I'm here, it's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm safe, and we're gonna do b AQA. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>get into our first question. Oh wait, wait, wait, God,

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<v Speaker 1>without Tiffany here, I like, I forget our disclaimer all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I'm gonna get my ass sued on myself,

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<v Speaker 1>but at least I remember this time. Be a fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't sue me. Okay, please, No, this is b

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<v Speaker 1>a qa. We have I have God, this is so

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<v Speaker 1>awkward when I say we instead of I. Man, this

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<v Speaker 1>is b a QA, And I am not sure a

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<v Speaker 1>financial planner. I'm not your career coach. I am not

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<v Speaker 1>your investment advisor. I am just some lady on the

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<v Speaker 1>internet that, for some reason is so blessed to have

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<v Speaker 1>this platform. So take this for funzies, get your salt

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<v Speaker 1>shakers out, shake them on up, and let's go. Our

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<v Speaker 1>first question comes from a listener who wants to remain anonymous,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm just going to call her Carrie. Carrie says,

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<v Speaker 1>I am thirty eight and I recently found out I'm pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living in Washington, DC with my husband. We make

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<v Speaker 1>about three hundred thousand dollars per year. We have six

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<v Speaker 1>months of emergency savings and own a few rental properties.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't actually use that income. Okay, Carrie, come through. However,

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<v Speaker 1>I do not have any maternity leave at my job.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's the other. There's the foot dropping. My question

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<v Speaker 1>is what is your advice on how I should prepare

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<v Speaker 1>financially for baby? How much should I set aside for

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<v Speaker 1>my three months maternity leave while I don't have any income?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else that we should consider financially? Thank you? Okay, Stacey. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the name I gave you, Carrie. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot my own fake names. Carrie, Carrie, Carrie. Okay, So,

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<v Speaker 1>having just done this myself, I'm gonna take a guess

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<v Speaker 1>here and say that you probably work for yourself because

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<v Speaker 1>even you know, well, I'm just gonna say you work

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself. If you do work for an employer, they

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<v Speaker 1>are at least mandated to offer twelve weeks of leave,

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<v Speaker 1>just not paid. So maybe you are getting that twelve

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<v Speaker 1>weeks of leave, but you've got to pay your own way.

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<v Speaker 1>So regardless of the reason, that is tough. But I

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<v Speaker 1>fully identify with it because I've of course had my

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<v Speaker 1>son a little over a year ago, my second baby,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the time I was an entrepreneur, so it

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<v Speaker 1>was my first time bankrolling my own maternity leave, and

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<v Speaker 1>ah man, it's way more stressful because you just don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to calculate the finances as much into having a

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<v Speaker 1>baby when you, of course are working for an employer

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, well, I'm just going to get my

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<v Speaker 1>same paycheck, you know, or close to it. So the

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<v Speaker 1>first challenge is to understand what your monthly your monthly

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<v Speaker 1>expenses are going to be and how much of that

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be contributed from you. So it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you and your husbands have a healthy savings account, you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to need at least three months of that savings

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<v Speaker 1>right to cover your essentials over the next few months.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would also take a look at your insurance policy.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure that you've got really good benefits, family benefits,

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<v Speaker 1>especially for those post natal care visits that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to have baby well visits now because of Obamacare, Thank

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord, protected at all costs. There are really generally

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<v Speaker 1>good benefits for baby and moms. Let's see. But the

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<v Speaker 1>early expenses of having a baby is not the baby

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like for at least in my experience, the early

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<v Speaker 1>expenses is how much of the smart, fiscally responsible things

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<v Speaker 1>that you would do when you're not going on zero

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<v Speaker 1>hours of sleep, when your partner is not also going

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<v Speaker 1>on zero hours of sleep. You guys have the benefit.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you this is your first baby, so

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<v Speaker 1>you don't also have another little one to chase around,

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<v Speaker 1>which can elevate the exhaustion and stress to a higher degree.

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<v Speaker 1>But still you're not going to be your best version

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself. I mean, you're going to be this brand new,

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<v Speaker 1>incredible mother, which is of course an amazing version of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>But in terms of like the same choices that you

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<v Speaker 1>would have made pre baby. You'll find out on your own,

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<v Speaker 1>but they tend to change. We all think we know

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<v Speaker 1>everything and then you have a baby and it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I really would like to order? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Taco Bell at ten thirty in the evening,

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<v Speaker 1>even though it's like thirty dollars with fees going to

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<v Speaker 1>be to Tacos, Like, we just make these choices, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I would leave whatever room and the budget you

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<v Speaker 1>have right now for like groceries, you know, the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like even the types of groceries that you're buying,

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<v Speaker 1>just factor in more delivery. You can also go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and ask friends and family instead of baby gifts, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>give you gift cards to Uber Eats or door Dash

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<v Speaker 1>or any of those services. Another thing to consider, not

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<v Speaker 1>even like, especially if you're an entrepreneur, is that three

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<v Speaker 1>months is not enough for like a proper give. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just about bonding with the baby. Three months is

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<v Speaker 1>just simply not enough for us as women to get

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<v Speaker 1>back to our base level. It's hard to under it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to understate the massive amounts of changes your body

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<v Speaker 1>is going through to create this human life, and then

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<v Speaker 1>when that human life leaves your body and goes out

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<v Speaker 1>into the world, your body has to recover. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a trauma, Okay, it is a beautiful trauma, and we

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<v Speaker 1>love it, right, we love it. However, you are going

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<v Speaker 1>to need lots of time to recrup rate. And I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't I don't just mean physically, although that is

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<v Speaker 1>true if it's your first baby, you're still relatively young,

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<v Speaker 1>like you might bounce back quote unquote faster, but the

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<v Speaker 1>mental toll, the psychological toll, trying to juggle, even if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't run your own business, but just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>juggle a nine to five with motherhood. Childcare expenses are wild.

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<v Speaker 1>You live in Washington, d C. So I know that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that, So I hope you have a childcare plan.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would say, whatever you think you need for

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<v Speaker 1>three months of income, I would just do fifty percent more.

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<v Speaker 1>So if that is fifteen thousand dollars, then make it

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<v Speaker 1>twenty two five hundred. And that for me, is just

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<v Speaker 1>giving you extra wiggle room for the what if. It's

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<v Speaker 1>also giving you some wiggle room for what if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to get back at it after just three months?

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<v Speaker 1>What if you want more flexibility. What if you decide

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<v Speaker 1>you're not ready to send the kid to daycare or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever childcare you have planned. I mean to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>in an ideal world, as a new mom, I would

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<v Speaker 1>this may sound insane, but have a year's worth of

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<v Speaker 1>income banked. It's completely unrealistic for so many parents out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. But in an ideal world, and you

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<v Speaker 1>are a woman of means, I see what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>You have this great income, you guys are saving, You've

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<v Speaker 1>got your rental property income that you haven't been touching.

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<v Speaker 1>If at least you know you've got it there, you

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<v Speaker 1>have some security and safety when it comes to making

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<v Speaker 1>the best choices for you where you're at psychologically, and

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<v Speaker 1>then also for your baby and spending time with them.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know myself, I think I've talked about it

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<v Speaker 1>on the show. How I prepared financially for my three

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<v Speaker 1>months of leave. I set aside three months three and

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<v Speaker 1>a half months basically of income. However, it wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>the baby that caused some issues, but I had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of health crises in my family and was doing

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more traveling, and also underestimated the mental toll

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<v Speaker 1>of that postpartum period, combined with having another child to

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<v Speaker 1>look after who I of course, you know, love deeply

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<v Speaker 1>combined with try and write a book, combined with trying

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<v Speaker 1>to run a business, combined with family drama. And I

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't able to produce at the level that I

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<v Speaker 1>had anticipated. So I say all that to say, more

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<v Speaker 1>is more, Okay, So if you have more, I would

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<v Speaker 1>be setting aside at least enough to cover you while

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<v Speaker 1>you're gone. Oh and this is the other thing I

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<v Speaker 1>forgot to say, but if you're someone who's running your

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<v Speaker 1>own business, I would double I know that again it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds a little aggressive, but getting back to work after

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<v Speaker 1>three months off for an entrepreneur some depending on what

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<v Speaker 1>your business is like. It's not just like turning on

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<v Speaker 1>a switch and all of a sudden money may start

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<v Speaker 1>coming back in. You may need to get back out there,

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<v Speaker 1>start warming up clients and running sales funnels or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is that you're selling, and you know, getting back

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<v Speaker 1>out there to get to where and you may not

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<v Speaker 1>be working full time, So be real with yourself in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of how long it will take you to ramp

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<v Speaker 1>back up to earning what you need minimum to support

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<v Speaker 1>your lifestyle. And then you may decide, Okay, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a little bit more set aside. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's all I got, Carrie. I wish you

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<v Speaker 1>so much luck and enjoy, enjoy and enjoy. There's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>like there's nothing like there's first few months as a mama,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just it gets different. I mean, I will

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<v Speaker 1>say it gets better in a lot of ways. Less challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's always challenging, but I mean it's never

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<v Speaker 1>going to be the way it is when they're just

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<v Speaker 1>a little bean and you can just they just lay

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<v Speaker 1>in your chest like a little loaf of warm bread

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just like the best feeling. And I hope

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<v Speaker 1>that you have a healthy delivery. I hope that you

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<v Speaker 1>are well cared for, be you know, get that husband

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<v Speaker 1>advocating for you, and make sure that the doctors are

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<v Speaker 1>listening to you and paying attention. Unfortunately, in this country,

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<v Speaker 1>being a black woman in labor is a risk factor,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just wish, I wish the most for you

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<v Speaker 1>and that little baby and your growing family. And thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for sending in a question. All Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I will be right back with one more question. Stay tuned,

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<v Speaker 1>ba fam. All Right, VAFAM. I am back and I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a question from email brand a Vision podcast at

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<v Speaker 1>gmail if you want to get your answer your questions answered.

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<v Speaker 1>This question came from Crystal, who says, Mandy, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for the episode Not America. To me. It helped me

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<v Speaker 1>with my ongoing anxiety since November fifth. You're welcome, Crystal

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<v Speaker 1>helped me with my anxiety to being able to come

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<v Speaker 1>here and just pour out my heart to y'all and

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<v Speaker 1>let you know what I was feeling in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Crystal says, sometimes I feel like so many of us

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<v Speaker 1>have our heads in the sand about what's to come.

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<v Speaker 1>It will not be like twenty sixteen. It will be

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<v Speaker 1>so much worse. For the sake of my and my

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<v Speaker 1>family's sanity, I really want to leave this country. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not alone, Crystal, so many people have been feeling the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you guys do an episode explaining what could happen

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<v Speaker 1>with our money and investments. I remember what my great

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<v Speaker 1>grandmother said about life during the depression. It wasn't a

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<v Speaker 1>depression for black folks. She said, we were used to

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<v Speaker 1>not having anything. Part of that not having was also

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<v Speaker 1>not having money in banks and stocks because we weren't

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to during that time. However we do now. Many

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<v Speaker 1>of us have our lives tied up in iras, mutual funds, banks,

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<v Speaker 1>and stocks. If those things were to crash or something similar,

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<v Speaker 1>how do we ever recover in a system that is

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<v Speaker 1>against us? What do we do? Also? I can't help

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<v Speaker 1>but think about the Handmaid's Tale and how women weren't

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<v Speaker 1>able to access their money in banks. Can you guys

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<v Speaker 1>help with any guidance? Thanks for all you do, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Crystal Baby? What I love about this email is that

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<v Speaker 1>our email inbox. You know what I'm going to give you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>free rein because sometimes we need a place to deposit

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<v Speaker 1>all of our worst fears when our partners are sick

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<v Speaker 1>of hearing this doom scroll and dooms you know, ID

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<v Speaker 1>eight And that's really what anxiety is about. It's about

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<v Speaker 1>anticipating an outcome that we can't really predict and often

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<v Speaker 1>can't control. But I think it's useful sometimes to just

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<v Speaker 1>purge all of the what ifs. Okay, But then I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to just leave them over there because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to serve you, Crystal. And like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>so many of us are feeling the same thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you wrote this email that was only a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days from when I'm recording my answer. And I

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<v Speaker 1>can feel the ache, I can feel the desperation, I

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<v Speaker 1>can feel the fear really behind what you're talking about here,

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<v Speaker 1>the handsmade tale Handmaid's Tale reference, like those memes are

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<v Speaker 1>going crazy. They have been ever since, you know, twenty sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even before. I can also feel like you're focusing

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<v Speaker 1>or trying to focus on something that you actually can control,

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<v Speaker 1>which is your finances to a certain extent, right And

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<v Speaker 1>I think the best thing I can offer you right

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<v Speaker 1>now is a reminder of the safety the one am

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<v Speaker 1>I looking for the guardrails that are in place so

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<v Speaker 1>that your investments and your savings and your earnings arecatively safe,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, depending on what happens in the economy. So

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<v Speaker 1>let me just start with the banks. So I can't

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<v Speaker 1>imagine any of you guys are saving your money anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>besides an FDIC insured bank account. If you are saving

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<v Speaker 1>your money anywhere except for if FDIC insured bank account,

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<v Speaker 1>listen up right now. With FDIC insurance, your money is

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<v Speaker 1>federally protected up to two hundred and fifty thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>per individual per account. Okay, So let's say you and

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<v Speaker 1>your partner have you each have a separate bank account

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<v Speaker 1>you're at, you know, at a institution like you both

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<v Speaker 1>get that two hundred and fifty thousand dollars worth of coverage.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to post a link just to remind y'all

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<v Speaker 1>of FDIC insurance how it works, how to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>your bank is FDIC insured. But that should give some

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<v Speaker 1>peace of mind now it is federally insured and at

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<v Speaker 1>a time when crystal for sure you ain't trust in

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<v Speaker 1>this government. I will note that the cap on that

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<v Speaker 1>federal deposit insurance that ount has risen under democratically elected

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<v Speaker 1>or democrat. They've all been democratic. What am I trying

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<v Speaker 1>to say? Democratic presidents of Democrats. I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>Obama who pushed it to two hundred and fifty max.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's where it's been. So is there a chance

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<v Speaker 1>that the Department of Treasury under a Trump reign may

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<v Speaker 1>lower that? I would say so, I don't. I would

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<v Speaker 1>hope not, because all those Litley economy voters who voted

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<v Speaker 1>for him, they did it for the economy right. And

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<v Speaker 1>FDIC insurance was specifically introduced to prevent another bank crisis,

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<v Speaker 1>and it absolutely came in handy during the two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and eight crisis. I think it was at that time

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<v Speaker 1>that the insurance level was raised under Obama to the

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<v Speaker 1>two fifty, so you have that. So your investment should

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<v Speaker 1>be covered or likely are covered under Security Investment Protection cover,

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<v Speaker 1>which is going to protect any funds that are held

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<v Speaker 1>within a brokerage that suddenly fails. And what I want

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<v Speaker 1>to distinguish here is that no investing always comes with risk.

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason they say that is because even SIPC

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<v Speaker 1>coverage does not protect you from losses that you might

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<v Speaker 1>incur from swings in the market or downturns in the market.

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<v Speaker 1>Downturns in the market, however, come with the territory of investing,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why having an investing strategy is so so

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<v Speaker 1>important and it's why here at Brand Ambition, we are

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<v Speaker 1>big on y'all finding a financial advisor who can at

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<v Speaker 1>least even if it's a one time sit down, based

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<v Speaker 1>on your time horizon, based on your tolerance for risk,

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<v Speaker 1>based on any goals that you have, short, medium, long

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<v Speaker 1>term goals. They will help you develop an investing strategy

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<v Speaker 1>where you're going to make sure that you're not over

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<v Speaker 1>leveraging yourself. You're not getting in a situation where market's

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<v Speaker 1>downturned and all of a sudden your shirtless and have

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<v Speaker 1>nowhere to live now. I highly if you're someone who

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<v Speaker 1>has an IRA for a one k, you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>just investing, maybe in a wroth on the side or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very unlikely that even with a market downturn, you

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<v Speaker 1>would have all your money tied up in that account.

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<v Speaker 1>But a financial advisor can make sure. It can make

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<v Speaker 1>sure again put in place some guardrails that you can

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<v Speaker 1>control that will at least give you peace of mind

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<v Speaker 1>that Okay, let's say you're really worried about the stock market,

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<v Speaker 1>so you want to You're really not tolerant of any losses.

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<v Speaker 1>They will keep you up at night. You will go

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<v Speaker 1>into an anxiety spiral. You can't cope, so you want

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<v Speaker 1>to have more of your money in cash. This is

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<v Speaker 1>also a strategy that the older you get, the more

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<v Speaker 1>the more it makes sense to have less money tied

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<v Speaker 1>up in the market and more money in cash reserves.

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<v Speaker 1>CDs like those types of deposit accounts that have that

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<v Speaker 1>fall under that FDIC insurance guideline and are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be solid. So anyhow, the point is you'll develop a

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<v Speaker 1>strategy that is in line with your risk tolerance and

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<v Speaker 1>how much time you want to be investing for. But

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<v Speaker 1>let's if you're doing it on your own, then I

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<v Speaker 1>would double check your investments and just make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not too over indexed in stocks. The goal rule

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<v Speaker 1>of thumb is to take the number one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>subtract your age from it, and that will give you

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<v Speaker 1>your stock to bonds ratio. So I'm thirty seven, so

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<v Speaker 1>ostensibly that means I should have sixty three percent of

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<v Speaker 1>my portfolio in stocks and thirty seven percent in bonds.

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<v Speaker 1>And I personally am invested in some growth funds, like

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<v Speaker 1>some passive passive investment funds that are automatically shifting my

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<v Speaker 1>investments over time. And then I do have some accounts

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<v Speaker 1>that are just held in a Vanguard brokerage account. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. I have a pretty high tolerance

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<v Speaker 1>for risk, especially because I'm on the I'm younger, I

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<v Speaker 1>have what thirty something years of investing before traditional retirement age,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I am completely invested in stock index funds ETFs.

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<v Speaker 1>Things like that. About the market in general, no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what president has been in power. The research is clear,

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<v Speaker 1>the data is clear that the stock market tends to

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<v Speaker 1>bounce back and on the whole even with different even

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<v Speaker 1>with wars and different presidents at different presidencies and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds of natural disasters and all of that. The

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<v Speaker 1>market does have these times when it goes down, but

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<v Speaker 1>it tends to go back up, down and up, down

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<v Speaker 1>and up, down and up. And it's really hard unless

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, if you're looking at the stock for X,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, I'm sure that has gone up and down

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<v Speaker 1>since Elon Musk has infiltrated the Republican Party and the

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<v Speaker 1>White House. Now you'll also see, you know, the stock

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<v Speaker 1>market I think surged after Trump came into office. And

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<v Speaker 1>like it's no question that Wall Street businesses, business owners,

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<v Speaker 1>big billionaires, big money, they wanted Trump to win because

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing is they anticipate he's going to make

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<v Speaker 1>taxes lower for them, that he's going to make it

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<v Speaker 1>easier for them to remove regulations and barriers that stop

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<v Speaker 1>them from doing the business things that they want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>like Elon Musk building his rockets in random desert land

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<v Speaker 1>and national wildlife reserves in Texas and not wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>have to deal with regulations that say you can't knock

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<v Speaker 1>down that poor bird nest and other you know, So

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<v Speaker 1>a base of Jeff Bezos, for example, like this is

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<v Speaker 1>just an example. He may say, like, oh, under Biden's

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<v Speaker 1>Biden's administration, we paid this crazy tax on cardboard because

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<v Speaker 1>of how much card were we put into the world.

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<v Speaker 1>So under Trump, maybe like Trump will reduce that cardboard tax.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not a real example, it's completely made up. And

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe the Amazon stock will surge because they anticipate

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<v Speaker 1>that Trump is going to make things juicier, make the

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<v Speaker 1>profits for Amazon higher, and so they're reacting to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Markets are very emotionally reactive because they are not just

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<v Speaker 1>driven by robots. They're driven by human beings and our behavior,

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<v Speaker 1>and that can go up and down and swing and swing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want you to worry a little bit less

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<v Speaker 1>about how the market's reacting in these small windows of time,

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<v Speaker 1>these pockets of time where a big event has happened,

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<v Speaker 1>like an election, like I said, a natural disaster, any

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like regulatory changes that may happen at the

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<v Speaker 1>federal level that can impact businesses or impact goods and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that, Like I want that to sway your

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<v Speaker 1>investing strategy less because you have to assume shit's always

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<v Speaker 1>going to be hit in the fan at some point

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<v Speaker 1>in America, right like, it's just how the world works.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit gon't hit the fan, and that will impact markets

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<v Speaker 1>in a negative way. However, you also have to think

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<v Speaker 1>about the other reality, which is that the data. This

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<v Speaker 1>is not just me making it up. The data shows

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<v Speaker 1>the stock market bounces back. When we are investing, we

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<v Speaker 1>are making a bet and we are taking the risk

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<v Speaker 1>that on the long term we're going to come out ahead. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't sit here and guarantee that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>come out ahead. I at this point in time, have

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<v Speaker 1>chosen to stick with the data shows, and the data

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<v Speaker 1>has shown that long term investors win. That when you

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<v Speaker 1>put your money in the market and you just park

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<v Speaker 1>it and you let it rock for a few decades,

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<v Speaker 1>you will tend to come out on top. And that

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<v Speaker 1>is what we need right now. Inflation, even though it's down,

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<v Speaker 1>is still higher than it has been. We have to

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<v Speaker 1>hedge against the rising cost of goods. We have to

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<v Speaker 1>hedge against how expensive life is going to be thirty

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<v Speaker 1>to forty years from now, when we're retiring, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>when we're going to be taking We're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>taking withdrawals from our investment account and our money needs

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<v Speaker 1>to stretch. Okay, especially for women longer, because we're amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>right and we have longer to support ourselves on those

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<v Speaker 1>investment incomes, So longevity and stretching those dollars. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>people are obsessed with, you know, hedging against inflation, because

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<v Speaker 1>at least if I'm going to guarantee that my money

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<v Speaker 1>is going to grow at a faster rate than the

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<v Speaker 1>cost of everything grows, then there's a good idea. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a good chance that I will have enough to sustain

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<v Speaker 1>my lifestyle in retirement and I won't have to go

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<v Speaker 1>and cut back and you know, end up relying solely

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<v Speaker 1>on like Social Security checks, which are usually super small

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<v Speaker 1>and underwhelming. Okay, Crystal, I first of all, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for being so candid, and thank you for your really

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<v Speaker 1>kind words about last week's episode in the wake of

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<v Speaker 1>the election. Thank you for putting words to I think

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the fears, and I think your email

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<v Speaker 1>is not the only one that I got with a

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<v Speaker 1>similar type of question, But yeah, it really encapsulates like

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<v Speaker 1>our fear, and I just want to remind y'all that

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<v Speaker 1>the fundamentals of stock market investing have not changed. We

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<v Speaker 1>have done multiple episodes about strategies around like being an

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<v Speaker 1>everyday investor in investing for retirement, so hopefully you can

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<v Speaker 1>check them with those out, I'll probably do some future

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<v Speaker 1>episodes just about the market post twenty twenty five, because

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<v Speaker 1>of course we're heading into a new year and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>heading into a new season of my life. Like even

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<v Speaker 1>here sitting talking about my investments, I'm like, well, shit,

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<v Speaker 1>I made these choices when I was twenty four. This

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<v Speaker 1>is over a decade later. Maybe I should be making

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<v Speaker 1>some changes. So these are really good questions to have, Crystal,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for sending them to me. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys want your questions answered on the podcast, feel free

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<v Speaker 1>to hit me up Brand Ambition Podcast at gmail dot

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<v Speaker 1>com or you can email, or you can DM me

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<v Speaker 1>at Brand Ambition Podcast on ig All. Right, BA fan,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to read a review. This comes from listener

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<v Speaker 1>Maria three Borha, Mandy and Tiffany I App. We love y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been listening to BA for about two years and

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<v Speaker 1>I love all the education, laughs, community encouragement and love

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<v Speaker 1>that you ladies bring to the table. I just finished

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Mandy's latest episode, and I want to say

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<v Speaker 1>that you, my dear, have put in Oh. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>read this yet. Oh. I just want to say that, you,

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<v Speaker 1>my dear, have put into words all of my feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I am grateful that this is a safe space not

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<v Speaker 1>only for you, but for all of us, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you are able to articulate our sentiments. Thank you, ladies

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<v Speaker 1>for the work you both do. But more than anything,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for just being there on my happy days,

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<v Speaker 1>but more importantly on my emotional days. God, thank you, Maria.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to say. I got a couple more I'll read just

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<v Speaker 1>people who've responded to last week's episode, because I just

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say thank you because I'm literally I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing the show for y'all, so to hear that it

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<v Speaker 1>matters is just keeps me going. Thank you you. C

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<v Speaker 1>KH says, thank you so much for your encouragement. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>podcast was much needed. You ladies always show up for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Aliyah Medici says, you're the best. Mandy, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your latest episode and for your bravery and dedication and grit.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you love you all to b A Fam. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see you next week. Coming to you three times.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a juicy interview with Can I say yet?

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<v Speaker 1>Who Are? I'll give you a hint now, if I

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<v Speaker 1>sing a song, you're gonna think it's one of the girls.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not one of the artists, okay, but it's someone

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<v Speaker 1>related to them. I'm a survive I ain't gonna live up,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna stop. I'm all survive it. Yeah, yeah, bye,

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<v Speaker 1>b A Fam.