1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Rich on Facebook, Steve writes, Hey Steve, about two years 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: ago my mom passed away and that was devastating for 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: all of us. Now, however, it sure looks like my 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: pops has bounced back. As of late. He's been out 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: and about with a way younger, fine woman that can't 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: be more than twenty five years old at the age 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: of sixty eight. I can't blame my pops for shooting 8 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: his shot and scoring, and he's done pretty well taking 9 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: care of his money. All that said, Pop said he's 10 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: bringing over his new boo for Christmas. Now, my sisters 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: are not happy about her, and they said she is 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: going to blank around and find out. But I just 13 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: want to keep you. But I just want to keep 14 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: the peace for Christmas. And oh what gift should I 15 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: give her? 16 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: Well, probably need to get a helmet because the sisters 17 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: this snake Daddy proud though Now I don't don't hurt 18 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 2: daddy feelings. Well, the girls don't care. The girls. First 19 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 2: of all, two problems here you ain't they mama? And 20 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 2: number two, why do you want our daddy and you 21 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: younger than us? Yes? Sad, they probably gonna be about 22 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: the same age because you know he's forty three years older. 23 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: So chances are these kids is older than her. Yeah. 24 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: The girl, she gonna feel the raft man, Yeah, all 25 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 2: the people his age is sick. Yeah, he wants something. 26 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: And what does she want with him? 27 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 2: His money? M m yeah, because he's eatn have done 28 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 2: good by hisself, and you know he probably kept himself 29 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 2: in shape. And you know he gonna bring the girl 30 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 2: by for Christmas. Ain't nothing y'all can do about it. 31 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: They just got yeah. 32 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're gonna mess up your relationship with your 33 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: father because you're gonna make him have to pick between 34 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: y'all and he gonna go with this young girl. Now, 35 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: all you gotta do is treat a pleasant. 36 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just be kind. 37 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 2: You do look like if you want to get a gift, 38 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 2: get us some get up. 39 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: What kind of gift? Well, it's. 40 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: Wonder woman. You don't get us some character, give us 41 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 2: some sneakers with some lights on them. 42 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: That's funny. 43 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 2: See all right, some fresh notebooks. 44 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: I think we might have time for one more. My 45 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: parents always encouraged me to work hard for what I wanted. 46 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: Over the weekend, my sister and I were talking about 47 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: Christmas plans and talking about tightened budgets for the holidays. 48 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: When she blurted out, thank god Mom and Dad took 49 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: care of school for me, I was like, what, While 50 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: I'm not hurting financially and am happy where I am 51 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: in life, but but come on, I worked my behind 52 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: off to go to college God loans and am finally 53 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: close to paying them off, and my parents just paid 54 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: for my sister's college education. I'm mad about this, so, 55 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: Uncle Steve, I can't decide if it makes me angry 56 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: or hurts my feelings more. Do I bring it up? 57 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: No, you don't have to bring it up. Your parents 58 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 2: knew that your sister wasn't you. If your parents treated 59 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 2: all their children equally in the same your sister probably 60 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 2: wouldn't even be in college because your sister don't have 61 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 2: the same makeup that you have, and they recognize that 62 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 2: and so they pay it for it. Right, you know, 63 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 2: just understand and thank God that you are who you are, 64 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: and don't and don't and don't and and don't get 65 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: mad because your blessing is you. You had the skill 66 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 2: set in the mindset to do it. Now you're gonna 67 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: block your blessing by hating because she got because because 68 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: they paid for her what so mm hmm, she is 69 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: not you and recognize it. 70 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: They both have a college education. Yeah, that's the blessing too. 71 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 2: You know, you almost got these loans paid off and 72 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 2: you did it yourself. That's an accompliment. So instead of 73 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: being mad at your parents, be proud of yourself. Thank 74 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 2: God for Daddy brought you through. Wow, it's amazing how 75 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 2: people block the blessing by looking at Instead of looking 76 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 2: at what you have, you focus on what you don't have. 77 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, blessing, good part, right, great advice, Thank you, So 78 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: don't bring it up. Please. Coming up at twenty minutes 79 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 80 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve 81 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.