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Speaker 2: I haven't been in a while because I'm going to

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Speaker 2: Urethra to the Inner Circle Urethra Family Extravaganza the Summit,

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Speaker 2: and I can't have my feet looking busted correct, well

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like, I can't wait.

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Speaker 2: Come on, I already got like finger toes, you know,

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Speaker 2: I can't. They gotta be they gotta be looking right.

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Speaker 2: But I got up sold big time yesterday. I haven't

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Speaker 2: been at this place, and it's very typical, like this

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Speaker 2: is what you want. I'm like, I don't think it

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Speaker 2: is like no, no, this is what you want. And

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Speaker 2: it's the gel like because they're usually buff the nails

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Speaker 2: and nobody cares about this. But I'm get we'll get

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Speaker 2: to the point why I'm making fun of myself. You

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Speaker 2: think they buff the nail to make it like shiny,

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Speaker 2: you know, but yesterday it had to be clear gel

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Speaker 2: and it's really.

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Speaker 1: It's really shiny. I can see it from over here.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Like if I crashed in the ocean, I could like

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Speaker 2: some in the coast Guard with these but like it's

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Speaker 2: too much. But I didn't I didn't want it. I

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Speaker 2: just wanted to. But like, you can't argue with these people.

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Speaker 1: No, that's what are you scared to say something?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Same? Did you guys read my topic?

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Speaker 4: I told you I haven't seen I haven't read that

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Speaker 1: Oh you did, ye, I haven't. I haven't read that

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Speaker 5: Like I go get a pedicure once a month. These

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I got my ask meat yesterday in

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Speaker 6: It still hurts and I'm cut, and I won't tell

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Speaker 1: It's U uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lady I go to sometimes in Arizona,

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Speaker 2: my mom, and she does downright. It's abuse pedietree surgery right,

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Speaker 2: Like she's ping nails out of some I mean, I'm

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Speaker 2: like the guy with the tooth in my nose, Like no,

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Speaker 2: I mean she found another nail somewhere. I'm like, lady,

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Speaker 2: what are you licenus to do this anesthesia for this time?

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Speaker 1: She peeled off like this whole thing and I jumped

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Speaker 6: And she laughed and goes, well, it wasn't mine, and

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Speaker 6: she ripped off like a whole hangmail.

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Speaker 1: I was like, lady, I'm bleeding, I'm gushing blood.

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Speaker 5: Like I go to a place that's I don't have

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Speaker 5: the same lady every time. You know, it's whoever is available.

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Speaker 5: So some ladies are super nice, and then some ladies

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing. I'm just here for

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Speaker 1: a pedicure. Just cut and shine them up and that's it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I told you guys, you have to speak up. No,

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Speaker 4: But it's always total It sounds so easy.

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Speaker 2: It was like really expensive too, Like I got the bill,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, okay, I did.

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Speaker 1: Did I get like new nails? Yeah? Right, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, no, like normally they just buff them, they

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Speaker 2: make them shining, and it's good enough.

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Speaker 1: I'm fine with that.

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Speaker 2: I want my stuff to look nice when i'm, you know,

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Speaker 2: walking around without my shoes.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the right thing to do.

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Speaker 2: And then yesterday it's like she's painting stuff on there

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Speaker 2: and drying them, putting under the thing. I'm like, what

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Speaker 2: are we doing? And now I could honestly basically went under.

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Speaker 1: She made it. She dried it under a thing. You

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Speaker 1: got the jail X nails.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you got the new hotness girl on same time,

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Speaker 1: I can see it's so shiny because she's like it

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, okay, but you could put him up

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Speaker 3: put them but I didn't, And yeah those are shiny.

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Speaker 1: I know your toes man.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you want to see yes, okay. Is the

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Speaker 2: point is I didn't. I don't argue with bad people.

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Speaker 2: Flame Like she's like, this is what we're doing. I'm

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Speaker 2: like okay, and then it was like it was like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, here's worse than a car wash. People look

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Speaker 2: I can't be walking around for a week in flip

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Speaker 2: flops not looking like that.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 2: You should see the wax job I got. Oh hell,

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Speaker 2: she made that dry, right, yeah he does? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what flavor wax did you choose? Not flavor flav

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Speaker 3: She didn't eat it off me for that, like scented whatever.

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Speaker 3: They're all I believe it or not, I didn't get waxed.

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Speaker 3: And I also don't know that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I feel about the places to

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It's like a little room that they built with the

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Speaker 2: but do you like, is this is a professional operation?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I mean maybe I do a great job.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I've never gone that far to

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Speaker 2: have anything waxed. I can handle that part myself, you know,

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Speaker 2: just a little a little trimmy trim here and there.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. Okay, it doesn't sound desirable.

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Speaker 1: I see what do you see what? I relate heavily.

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Speaker 4: I have not got my toes in in a minute

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Speaker 4: because I'm actually scared of them because they always always

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Speaker 4: want my ass.

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Speaker 1: In the words of Kayla, Oh my god, it still hurts.

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Speaker 1: Went like three weeks ago.

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Speaker 6: Can they bring that hot towel over my skins?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's like four hundred It's like, yeah, they

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Speaker 2: get it out of like Mountain Kilimanjaro.

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Speaker 1: Or except hot water on then you put your foot

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Speaker 1: and is that too hot? No, it's fine. It was like,

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Speaker 1: oh so hard. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They always insist when you go to the nail place

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Speaker 2: on putting on that like really aggressive massage or chairs.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like wrong, and they love it. I

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Speaker 1: do to my bones. They're so proud of that thing. Man.

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Speaker 2: Every time they're like, no, you need this, and they're

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Speaker 2: pushing the pots. I'm like, but I don't. I really

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Speaker 2: It's amusement, but not a fun way.

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Speaker 1: You can't say anything. No, I want to say anything.

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Speaker 6: I literally unless I win in pain. Then they know

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Speaker 6: something hurts, and that happens often. But other than that,

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Speaker 6: they don't know. Okay, that's funny that.

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Speaker 1: You I know, we're all on the same page. That's easy,

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Speaker 1: that's funny. We should have just gone together because we should.

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Speaker 1: We should have.

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Speaker 2: And then I'm sitting in someone just said they talked

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Speaker 2: to you into a no chip petty. I'm like, they

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Speaker 2: didn't talk to me and anything. They just said this

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. They don't ask anymore. No, I didn't

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Speaker 1: see those things from outer space. Well that's good for vacation. No,

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Speaker 1: t You're good. That's what I mean. I mean you

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Speaker 1: are about it, cet. What if anything happens to me,

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Speaker 1: I'll be able to flag down the authorities from the sun.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I can also tell what time

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Speaker 2: it is just from the angle of this Around seven o'clock,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so I was telling you.

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Speaker 2: I spent like ninety dollars.

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Speaker 1: I spent dollars, That's what I didn't know. But I

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Speaker 1: want to your nails for free. But I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Normally it's like sixty five or something. I don't know

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Speaker 2: in the city. It's what it caused for both for

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Speaker 2: both manicure pedicant and yesterday was not.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what the hell before? Hell yeah much, But

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what I was doing. You know, it's

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Speaker 1: serious when they put you into the dryer the light.

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Speaker 2: I just wasn't in the mood argue with him, like

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Speaker 2: I just I didn't know, like, okay, sure do that whatever.

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Speaker 2: I just thought she'd go Buffy, Buffy, Buffy, you know,

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Speaker 2: what's that little thing? And then it's shiny for a

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Speaker 2: little while and everybody wins.

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Speaker 1: Scary. Man, it's a scary place. It's so scary.

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Speaker 2: And then the woman sitting next to me starts talking

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Speaker 2: things look like you could stick them in somebody's mouth.

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Speaker 2: That's what she said to me.

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Speaker 1: The lady next, yeah, and did you get her phone number? No? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: People say things stranger she did, and she's like, take off.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was a wild afternoon, it really was.

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Speaker 1: That's harassment. I was harassed.

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Speaker 2: The first the chair abused me, yea, this lady, and

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Speaker 2: then the lady abused me mentally, so physically mentally abused.

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Speaker 2: And then I was physically abused yet again. And then

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Speaker 2: whatever I got, baby, and then someone's saying why I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't pay for somebody I didn't ask for Well, I

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Speaker 2: guess I didn't ask for it, but I did say

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Speaker 2: okay because I don't know what. I also don't know

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Speaker 2: what she said, so it was just like, no, this

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Speaker 2: is what you want. I'm like, okay, I mean whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, It's fine. Treat yourself king.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you go on a vacation, get your nails, did

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Speaker 5: I guess, get yourself a new bathing suit, and everything

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Speaker 5: gets oh you know, I did you?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 8: I did?

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Speaker 1: Where do you get bathing suits?

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Speaker 2: And I'm also starving myself to look as as as

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Speaker 2: fit as I possibly can.

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Speaker 1: You're swimming in your clothes?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Also yeah, are they island girls?

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Speaker 2: Uh no, No, anyway, that's what happened. But that's interesting though,

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Speaker 2: that you guys that you had the same experience because

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Speaker 2: I didn't. I haven't gotten that far yet. I have

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Speaker 2: anime your ideas yet.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm a strong independent woman, but I cannot

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Speaker 6: say a damn word to these women.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I will bend over and take what they give to

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Speaker 1: me and smile.

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Speaker 2: I used to go to the same place. It was

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Speaker 2: right down the street from my house, and the woman's

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Speaker 2: name was Mary. That wasn't her name, but we call

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Speaker 2: it that Mary was. That's another thing, too, is I

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Speaker 2: would be happy knowing what their actual names are. Like

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Speaker 2: this particular woman was from I believe Vietnam. Her name

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Speaker 2: was not Mary, but I would like to have called

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Speaker 2: her by her actual name. But they all like yesterday

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Speaker 2: was Jennifer, Mary, Sally, Jenny, and I'm like, no, but

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Speaker 2: it's not like what come on? And I realized your

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Speaker 6: And it was a stupid fight. Stupid and it happened

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Speaker 6: Yeah you guys are both tall too, but yeah, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: But it's just like you know, for the like.

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Speaker 6: The rest of our friends, I want it to be

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Speaker 1: Like we we are like each other's social media stuff, Okay, we.

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Speaker 6: Are, Like she sent me a TikTok, which I think

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Speaker 6: so you sent me a TikTok it's online.

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Speaker 6: It's twenty twenty three, like how you say, like hey,

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Speaker 6: and I feel like that's her in her way, like

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Speaker 1: But again, like for me, it's very.

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Speaker 6: Uncomfortable because like I don't do elephants in the room,

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Speaker 6: Like I just don't, like I'm a communicator. And it's

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Speaker 1: But yeah, so I'm like, Okay, then you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: And here's and here's where I think you you can get.

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Speaker 2: You can get what you're looking for in return. It's

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Speaker 2: and see how much effort she put towards puts towards

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Speaker 2: I think how you can get because I've had to

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Speaker 2: I have to reach out and take the L.

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Speaker 1: And what I always look for.

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Speaker 2: After that is that what effort are you putting in

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Speaker 2: So it's like now I know, now I know where

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Speaker 2: don't even necessarily have to apologize. I think you can

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Speaker 1: Let's let's fix it right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then if she then goes back to engaging

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Speaker 6: To be honest, like, that's not even a fear of mine,

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Speaker 1: I've just been struggling with Like it would be nice.

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Speaker 6: To feel like someone like it's bothering them so much

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Speaker 1: She's sent you a TikTok? Do it so confused? Are you?

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Speaker 7: Are you the friend who like you want we got

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Speaker 7: can you just move past it?

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Speaker 1: Like nothing Heck, we don't have to have like a

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Speaker 6: But it's very uncomfortable for me to have something huge

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Speaker 6: how do I pretend like that didn't happen?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. That's so you need to have that car.

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Speaker 1: She needs to sit down you. I don't need to

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Speaker 1: sit down. I don't.

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Speaker 6: I just didn't want to be the first one to

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Speaker 6: Like I don't want to be the first one to like,

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Speaker 6: I don't know. It just would be nice to feel

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Speaker 1: She sent you a ticket, right, I know I might.

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Speaker 1: You know that means she watched it. She thought about you.

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Speaker 1: She's like she's curating content. Right, respond to your TikTok?

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Speaker 1: Take our bed?

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Speaker 2: I just want to know if anybody is on this app.

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Speaker 2: Someone told me about it yesterday. It's called field.

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Speaker 3: F E E L D.

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Speaker 2: I guess it's like it's described as for single people

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Speaker 2: casual sex. Is I had a glib lifestyle choice, but

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Speaker 1: So I guess this is like an app. We're basically

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Speaker 1: a hookup.

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Speaker 2: It's like a very direct, explicit, intentional hookup app of

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Speaker 2: all different kinds. You just I don't know. You can

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Speaker 2: like join couples, you can do stuff like virtually. I'm

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Speaker 2: just curious if anyone's on this because I wondered sort

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Speaker 2: of how it works.

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Speaker 1: He's making love an option. Yeah, I just clicked on it. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not on it. I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's you said, good for branding.

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Speaker 2: If I'm on a hookup at I don't know the

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Speaker 2: pressure out you're single, not get to judge. I'm not

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Speaker 2: going on there, and I'm not worried about judgment. But

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Speaker 2: I just I'm curious if anyone is and like how

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00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:46,919
Speaker 2: it works. I'm always fascinated by these hookup as.

440
00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:46,960
Speaker 1: One way to find out friend.

441
00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have people call it five five, five, nine,

442
00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,000
Speaker 2: one one three five and tell me about it.

443
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:51,320
Speaker 1: I don't.

444
00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:55,000
Speaker 2: I'm no, No, I had I had my whole days

445
00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,000
Speaker 2: And I'm not even saying your hoe if you do that.

446
00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,600
Speaker 2: But I'm sure from the outside looking in, that's what

447
00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:03,160
Speaker 2: people think about people who are just simply looking for

448
00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,760
Speaker 2: that sort of interaction. But it's been happening in the

449
00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,360
Speaker 2: gay community forever of time, since the dawn of time.

450
00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,040
Speaker 2: So I don't I don't think if you're I don't

451
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:12,600
Speaker 2: think you're a hoe.

452
00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,159
Speaker 1: If you're sex positive, No, you're only a hoe if

453
00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:16,639
Speaker 1: you're a home wrecker. That's the only time I use

454
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Speaker 1: that word. Okay, I just want to be clear. I

455
00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:19,919
Speaker 1: don't point, I don't think that.

456
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Speaker 2: But what I guess I meant to say, and I'll

457
00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,440
Speaker 2: correct myself, is my days of chasing just that.

458
00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,359
Speaker 1: Are are probably over. Really, So what you're chasing today

459
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:31,440
Speaker 1: love making?

460
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Speaker 8: Really?

461
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Speaker 1: You got ten days only start chasing fast? Yeah, you

462
00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,440
Speaker 1: don't have much on Wait the month ends on the

463
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Speaker 1: twenty four.

464
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Speaker 2: Let me have.

465
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Speaker 1: Let me have my full fifteen sixteen days around here.

466
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,520
Speaker 2: Honestly talking, it seems like he's having a whole separate

467
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:50,960
Speaker 2: conversation most of the time.

468
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Speaker 1: That's right, Okay.

469
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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for thank you. Yeah, take it away.

470
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Speaker 2: Peanut butter is good. Hey, Sam, yep, Sam, you've been

471
00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:07,560
Speaker 2: on this what is it called field?

472
00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,320
Speaker 1: Yes? I have okay, and so are you? What is

473
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 1: your profile? You a single man?

474
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,440
Speaker 8: I was at the time. Yeah, okay, so I'm actually

475
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 8: I'm actually dating something now.

476
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,200
Speaker 2: But so you were on this thing, and so how

477
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:23,360
Speaker 2: does it work, Like, do you put in the did

478
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 2: you indicate the categories that you're interested in?

479
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,919
Speaker 8: Yes, I mean it's it's it's literally tender. It actually

480
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:31,560
Speaker 8: was called when it first came out, it was called

481
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Speaker 8: three Ender, and I think they've probably had a season

482
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:38,359
Speaker 8: desist from Tinder on that, but they ended up rebranding

483
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 8: its field. And the funny story is, I actually I

484
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 8: found it because my ex's a little freak and I

485
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,639
Speaker 8: found in fact that she was meeting people and this

486
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,520
Speaker 8: is the app that she was meeting people on.

487
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,160
Speaker 2: So okay, so you it looks like all the other

488
00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:58,360
Speaker 2: dating apps, except it's explicitly for.

489
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Speaker 8: That, no pretenses, Like I feel like tenders become I mean,

490
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,159
Speaker 8: you can find a hook up there, but I mean

491
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 8: there's people all looking for dating, and not to say

492
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 8: you can't find somebody on this app and end up

493
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 8: dating them, but it's it's very direct and it's.

494
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Speaker 2: Purpose and so you say on there, like I want

495
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 2: to join a couple, I want just to hook up,

496
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Speaker 2: I want you just you just put it right out.

497
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Speaker 8: There categorize you can you can filter and categorize what

498
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 8: you're looking for, and it'll only show you that and

499
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Speaker 8: only showed you to what you're looking for. So it's

500
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 8: it's a little uh direct in that sense, I guess.

501
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it says a dating app for the curious. Mm,

502
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:40,920
Speaker 1: so whatever did you meet the PERSONA? What you say? Single?

503
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:42,000
Speaker 1: You should be on there.

504
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Speaker 7: I'm curious, freaky just entered the I'm not curious. Are

505
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 7: sure I am single? That's a fact.

506
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Speaker 2: I'm curious to know what people are curious. I want

507
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 2: to go on there simply to see what's going on.

508
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 2: But I also I don't know if that starts. You know,

509
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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if that's the best branding for the program.

510
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: Well did you meet the person you're dating right now

511
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 1: from this app?

512
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 5: Yes?

513
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 8: Actually?

514
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 5: See I love how you were getting cheated on through

515
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 5: this app and then you went on the app and

516
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 5: then found a new relationship.

517
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 8: So after I broke up, let me about Yeah, are.

518
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Speaker 1: You guys monogamous? We are not? Okay?

519
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Speaker 2: Shut out for I don't know if I could do

520
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Speaker 2: that of the many things I mean capable of, I

521
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 2: don't know that I could. I no, no, no, I

522
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 2: can't explicitly share like I can't. I you okay, Sam,

523
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 2: thank you man. I appreciate you call it ha a

524
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Speaker 2: good day. I'm I'm not trying to crack you, Klein.

525
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 2: But the truth of the matter is or reveal for

526
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 2: that matter. But like, just because they're dancing with their

527
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 2: clothes on doesn't mean that off the stage that they're

528
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Speaker 2: not capable of monogamy and like a functioning relationship.

529
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Speaker 6: But you would die if you saw your girl dancing

530
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Speaker 6: for another guy.

531
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Speaker 2: But I know what that is, and you're right, I

532
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,159
Speaker 2: don't want it. But I also know that it's bs,

533
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 2: which is why I don't go to those places and

534
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 2: pay for those dances, because I don't need the feigned attention.

535
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 2: I want the real, genuine attention. What's data stripper that

536
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:10,919
Speaker 2: I don't know? For the good stories.

537
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 5: A lot of times they're you won't go to these

538
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 5: establishments or pay for dances, but you want to.

539
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: They want I get free stuff. Wait, well I don't.

540
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 2: I guess I don't see it though being in a relationship,

541
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 2: I think it's an exchange of all kinds of things, including.

542
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: So to no. No.

543
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 2: What I want is someone to genuinely like me of course,

544
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: and want to do whatever with me because they choose to,

545
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 2: not because I'm sitting there with a twenty. Because let's

546
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 2: face it, when you're at the adult establishment, they're not

547
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 2: necessarily allowed to be selective, entirely selective. In fact, sometimes

548
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 2: from what I understand talking to some strippers, they'll go

549
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: for the old guys or the ugly guys or whatever

550
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 2: because they have the most money. But when you choose

551
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: to be in a relationship with someone, then you're there

552
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 2: because you choose to be.

553
00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 1: There's a big difference.

554
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: For me. I need that feedback of someone who's there

555
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 2: because they want me right, not because they want thirty dollars.

556
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,959
Speaker 7: So you want to support the business, right man.

557
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: Show next right here? Okay, tell them about it. Yeah,

558
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: they talk better than excited. These are the radio blogs

559
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: on the fredge.

560
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:23,880
Speaker 2: Looks like we're writing in our diaries, except we say

561
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 2: them aloud.

562
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 1: We call them blogs.

563
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Speaker 7: Yes, you're ready, I'm so ready away sitting on ready,

564
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 7: dear blog.

565
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Speaker 1: You know what sitting on ready? I'm ready to go? Well,

566
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Speaker 1: not dear blog.

567
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 7: Yesterday I went to the doctor right because you guys know,

568
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 7: I shut up. Yeah, man, I don't know Rufio. I'm

569
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 7: sick now, Like I don't know. I think it's because

570
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 7: of you.

571
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: You're you're sick now, I'm sick because of you.

572
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 7: I understand, God, I understand. It's gonna go all the

573
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 7: way around. Hopefully you just miss pollin it. That's the

574
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 7: only person I'm worried about all. I don't want anyone

575
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 7: to be sick.

576
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 1: It sucks.

577
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I I went to the doctor to try

578
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 7: to get that fixed or whatever, and you know, shout

579
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 7: out to the doctor. And I don't know if this

580
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 7: happens to everybody when you go, but for some reason,

581
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 7: when they get to asking you all these questions, I'm

582
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 7: giving honest answers, but in my soul, I feel like

583
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 7: I'm lying. Like she's like, do you smoke? Everybody knows

584
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 7: I don't smoke. I'm like not everybody, yes. But then

585
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 7: when she asked me, I said no. And then I

586
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 7: was almost like, well I can. I'm want to call

587
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 7: somebody in Barra like girl, like tell her I don't smoke.

588
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 7: I just feel like I'm lying about everything. Are you pregnant?

589
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 7: I'm like, nah, no, that ain't true. So I'm like no.

590
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 7: But then in back of my mind, I'm like I

591
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 7: might be pregnant, Like why am I? You know, It's

592
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,439
Speaker 7: just like it's weird feeling, and I'm like does this

593
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 7: happen to everybody?

594
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 1: Or am I crazy? Well? I am lying about the

595
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:43,199
Speaker 1: amount of drinks I have.

596
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, I do lie at the doctor the drink part,

597
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 6: But the pregnancy question always throws me because I like

598
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 6: know for a fact that I'm not, but I'm like,

599
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 6: am I?

600
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 7: And I had to have like X rays done, so

601
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 7: they made me sign a paper to and share that

602
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 7: I'm not pregnant, and I'm really like thinking like maybe

603
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 7: I am right, maybe I am about to have a baby.

604
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,959
Speaker 7: It's it's crazy the stuff that went through my mind yesterday.

605
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 7: I'm just like why do I feel like I'm lying?

606
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 7: Even with the drinking, Like I'm like, I only drink

607
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 7: socially and I swear I'm like I don't need rehab,

608
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 7: Like it's just weird.

609
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:13,919
Speaker 8: Now.

610
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 2: What I I would say if you go into a

611
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 2: whole thing with them about how you don't need rehab straight,

612
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: that's probably they're gonna they're gonna check.

613
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: You in undred percent.

614
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 6: What I do do, though, is like I'm very uncomfortable

615
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 6: like with people like paying me more attention than I'm

616
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:30,479
Speaker 6: paying them.

617
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: So I do ask the question. I like, they'll be like, well,

618
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: how are you what are you in for? I'm like

619
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: how are you?

620
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 8: You know?

621
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 1: And I turned it back around and they're like, man, like,

622
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: this is my.

623
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 7: Job, right, And I was trying to make small talk,

624
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 7: like I'm trying to cry jokes.

625
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: She's like, none of this is funny.

626
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 6: I try to do comedy jams and make them laugh

627
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 6: like they're like stop.

628
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 1: It was just such an awkward experience. Was it a

629
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: real doctor? Was it on an iPad? Excuse me? She

630
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: was a very much a real doctor.

631
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 4: Her name was my hologram guy know.

632
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 1: An actual human. I didn't answer a question.

633
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,719
Speaker 7: And she googled it, and I was like, no, excuse me,

634
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 7: wait wait wait wait wait, you saw her google?

635
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: Well, she pulled out her phone.

636
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 7: She said hold on and then she went on her

637
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 7: I'm like, she googling what I'm asking her and then

638
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 7: she's like.

639
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 1: You know who I am? Did you listen to the friends?

640
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 2: Which was another thing, Joe.

641
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: No, I wasn't making it. They called me Kiki right.

642
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 7: They're like they opened the door, they swinging, They're like,

643
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 7: kykie we're ready for you, and I'm like looking around

644
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 7: the waiting room like I hope nobody can.

645
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 4: I'm like you too.

646
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:39,199
Speaker 1: It was a lot going on.

647
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 7: And another thing I did at the doctor yesterday was

648
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 7: make sure to send big tim selfies of me, like

649
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 7: with the full little breathing mask on, like in the

650
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 7: in the hospital room, because yeah, you gotta play up

651
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 7: the sympathy thing, like, you know, like I'm sick and

652
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 7: he's at work, so he doesn't know that I'm going

653
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 7: to the urgent care, so he's like, is everything okay?

654
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 7: And I had to play that up too, So he's

655
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 7: working overtime right right, but I'm almost it, So yeah, breathing.

656
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 2: I went to the doctor a bunch of years ago,

657
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: and I don't think I had anything too embarrassing going on.

658
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 2: I think it was just in like a routine physical.

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Speaker 2: But you know, the nurse comes in and does most

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Speaker 2: and I just say most of it, but a lot

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Speaker 2: of it like blood pressure and ask all the questions

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Speaker 2: and everything else. And then she's like, okay, all right,

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Speaker 2: well the doctor will be right. And I've never met

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Speaker 2: this guy before. It was my first time going. I'm

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Speaker 2: like okay, So I sit there you know, for however

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Speaker 2: long in five minutes, and the guy opens the door, Hey, Fred.

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Speaker 1: Nice to see you.

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Speaker 2: He hadn't even looked at me yet, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: but my name is Christopher. So like she went out

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Speaker 2: in the hallway and said, oh my god, that's the guy.

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Speaker 2: So thank god that like I wasn't like oozing from

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Speaker 2: my nether regions or something, because like, but then he

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Speaker 2: kind of corrected himself quickly because he realized what he

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Speaker 2: had done. But I'm like, I know there's a thing

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Speaker 2: called hippa, but I don't really believe it. I don't

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Speaker 2: like I think if anything was really really wrong with me,

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Speaker 2: like truly embarrassingly wrong, I would go to another state. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I think I would fly in an airplane like Montana

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Speaker 2: and have them look at it.

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Speaker 1: There because it is their license risk it.

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Speaker 2: But if I were like dripping from somewhere, God forbid,

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Speaker 2: and I go in there and then guy walks in, Hey, Fred,

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Speaker 2: how's it dripping, And I'm like, no, not often, not

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Speaker 2: regularly good. If it did, I would go to Montana

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Speaker 2: and have it looked at.

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Speaker 1: What I listened to you on the iHeart app right

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Speaker 1: and right.

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Speaker 2: And now she's a friend of mine, but doctor Sonya

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Speaker 2: my dermatologist. She I didn't know she was a listener.

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Speaker 2: And literally, I'm literally I'm naked on the table and

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Speaker 2: she has a magnifying glass in her hand, and she's

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Speaker 2: going around and looking at absolutely everything. And at some

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Speaker 2: point she stops and goes, hey, are those waiting by

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Speaker 2: the Phone's real? No, like my balls are hanging out.

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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you though, for going to the dorm. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: now she's my friend and whatever. But do you still

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Speaker 1: see her now that you guys are friend? Yeah? And

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Speaker 1: I told her she's married like everything.

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Speaker 2: But I told her like, I'm like, you see me naked,

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Speaker 2: take her clothes off, like we gotta make this seat.

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Speaker 1: She's she didn't go for that, but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was kidding. I was kidding. But fair is fair,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. I obviously all my friends naked,

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Speaker 2: but if used to n me, come on. Making an

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Speaker 2: email to entertainer at fourteen to night