WEBVTT - Should we all be eating fried chicken in bed?? with Michael Urie... (S4 E14 "All The Glitters") 0:00:01.639 --> 0:00:04.840 Hi, I'm Kristin Davis, and I want to know, are 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:10.080 you a Charlotte? All right, you guys, we're already in it, 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:13.760 but let me just form holy say, we're very excited 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.960 today because we have Michael Yuri. I am the biggest fan, 0:00:17.480 --> 0:00:21.360 his biggest fan, ugly Betty. But we were also, I 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:23.880 feel like working during that phase, though maybe not because 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:27.159 you had pat the movies, Thank you so much, so 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:29.640 I was not one hundred percent like I would see it, 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:31.680 you know what I mean and think like, oh, how 0:00:31.720 --> 0:00:36.240 fresh and amazing and interesting and different, and then couldn't 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:37.879 be a bigger fan of shrinking. 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:40.400 I mean, I love. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:44.800 It so much from episode one through the last season 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:46.760 and I'm just so happy it's going to continue because 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:47.680 I was a little worried. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:51.000 Well, I know, it seemed and it hadn't. 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:53.159 Bill said Bill Lawrence, the creator. Hadn't He said that 0:00:53.200 --> 0:00:56.360 it would only be three or two or whatever was three? 0:00:57.200 --> 0:00:57.440 Three? 0:00:57.880 --> 0:00:59.640 Like that was the idea was three, And that's what 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:00.720 they told from the beginning. 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:03.280 Oh no, I mean we didn't have like a guarantee 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:05.800 for three or anything like that. 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:08.240 But you knew it would only be like it would. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:10.040 Three. 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:12.880 And then the first one be this, It's gonna be this, 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:16.920 and then sometime during three we started to get the 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.360 sense that like maybe there would be more. But it's 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:21.160 kind of a it's a bit of so we've we're 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:22.400 jumping in time. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:24.600 Two years. 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:27.399 Well that's interesting, a little bit of a new story. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:28.200 It's a little bit of. 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:29.640 A new cast members. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:36.119 There are like major not not new main cast. There 0:01:36.160 --> 0:01:41.679 are some new new new people, okay, and things are 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:46.240 it's it's very different. Well, I don't know what I 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:50.640 can I don't know. But the easy one is my 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:53.160 baby is now a toddler. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.480 Fantastic, that one so quick, that went so quick, I. 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:59.120 Know, show this is tough. That poor little acts got fired. 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:02.560 Well, that little, tiny little baby doesn't know that they 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.040 have fired, so it's all right. But that baby was cute. 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:07.720 Oh beautiful, Yeah, oh my god. 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.600 Yeah, And do you remember the episode where she's first 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:13.920 born and we passed the baby down to Harrison and 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:17.000 it's that beautiful, Oh my god, the baby and he 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:19.320 goes he goes ride. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.399 And this guy like a single tear. 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:26.480 I know that baby. How how that baby knew that 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:30.640 something magical was happening. Yeah, when my daughter was one, 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:34.440 I did The Best Man with James Earl Jones on Broadway, 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:38.840 and she would come to the theater, especially if we 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:42.200 had like double shows in between, and she would play 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:45.560 in the dressing room with makeup brushes and whatnot, and 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:48.480 we would always do a vocal warm up together and 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:53.520 he would come yes, and he would come okay, like insane, 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.000 you know what I mean. Like my whole thrill was 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:59.080 just to be around him and watch him and like, 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.120 you know, so up every every moment. So we'd be 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:08.080 doing that, you know, you know, all the things and 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:11.920 jim up exactly and he would shake. He would do 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.280 like the physical warm ups and stuff. But he was older, 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:14.520 you know. 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:15.480 It's very impressive. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.920 He played the old president like the former president. 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.880 Yes, so perfect, so perfect and amazing. Do you want 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:24.000 to hear one more story before I connect. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:24.960 To your story? 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:25.480 Okay, great. 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:27.320 So one thing that he would do with that I 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:28.200 found super interesting. 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:30.840 They built a dressing room for him on the first 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.720 floor so that he just could very easily come and go, 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:36.200 and we would go in there to hang with him 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:38.640 after the show, because like, whoever came would want to 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:40.520 see him and it would be like a little social hour. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:42.840 But he was a little bit shy, you know, So 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.120 he he loved to have us around and you know 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:48.120 kind of like if he felt really comfortable he might 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:50.920 tell stories and whatnot. But you know, he would take 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:53.440 some getting getting warmed up or whatever with people. 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.000 So we would go in there. It was really fun. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:04:03.080 He would write copious notes every performance about his own work, 0:04:04.080 --> 0:04:07.480 what he had tried and what had worked, versus what 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:11.520 had not worked, versus like what he wanted to try tomorrow, 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:15.560 like crazy things, and you just be like James, like 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.560 what what I mean? He could just walk out there 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:20.120 and do nothing and it would be amazing, you know 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.240 what I mean, But like he would change it up 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:25.960 like you never knew what was gonna happen. Oh my god. Yes, 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:30.839 Like sometimes one time in particular, he just decided to 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:35.280 just not go for the laughs, which he can do right, 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:37.679 he's Digital Jones. So it was like a different show 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.120 and all of us were just like what what what's happening? 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:42.400 I mean not when he was on right, like John 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.760 Staymils and I just did what we did. We weren't gonna, 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:46.920 we weren't gonna we didn't have a lot else other 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.799 than the last right, we were gonna go for the last, 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:51.600 but James just decided one night that he didn't want 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:53.960 the last, and I said to him, like why, like 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:57.400 what happened? So I just wanted to do something different. 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.440 I can't even go deep enough. I just thought, I 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:04.640 just I think he felt like maybe it was too 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.359 much laughing or you know, too going for the comic. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.960 You could probably get a laugh with like just anything again, 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:11.280 totally like nothing. 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.320 But then one time this was also interesting that I'm 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.479 going to go back to what you said. He I 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.520 had this line and now I can't remember what it was, 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:23.640 but I played, you know, a southern wife, like a 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:26.359 like a mover and a shaker wife, right like I 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:28.080 was married to just Demos and I wanted him to 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.760 be the nominee and blah blah blah blah, and like 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.280 possibly an evil character, but of course I didn't play 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:35.360 her as such, right, I just played that she loved 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:37.799 her husband and she really wanted to succeed in whatever. 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:39.679 Don't judge a characters, right. 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:43.599 Right, right, So, but you could also see how both 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.760 of us might have been slightly evil, but we weren't 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:47.960 going to play it that way. And I had one 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:51.279 line and it would always get a laugh, and I would. 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:55.039 I think it was something I said jokes about, like 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.400 sex and stuff, which you know, it was set in 0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:00.520 the sixties, right, so like it was some what I 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:04.360 was like, you know, pushing the boundary or whatever, and 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:09.440 I said something contraception, contraception, That's what it was. And 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:11.839 I you know, I had my Southern accent, so it 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:15.600 was kind of sing songy. And one day James Earl 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:18.200 Jones had said something to the stage manager who would 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:23.320 give us the notes as is normal, about that line, 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:28.080 and the stage manager said to me, you know, maybe 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.880 you want to try it without the sing song or whatever. 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:34.400 And I was like, and then he said, well, it 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:37.440 wasn't my suggestion. With James, I was like, what, oh God, 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:40.840 so exactly right. And I mean I would hang with 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:43.160 him backstage like for a long time and we would 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:46.080 talk about all kinds of things, acting and not acting whatever, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.360 and my daughter and you know, adoption and all all 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:51.720 different kinds of things. And he said, I said, James, 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:55.520 why why do you want me to to do that too? 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:59.200 What are you saying? You said, oh, sold that you 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:02.200 could try it to And I was like, okay, well 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:07.960 then no laugh, okay, no laughing all in my head, Michael, 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:10.160 you understand. So then I felt really bad and I 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:14.000 was like, James, I can't do it. I'm really sorry. 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:18.360 I just got to do my thing because I'm not 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:23.440 like you. I can't you know. Like he literally would 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:29.240 just analyze like every intonation of his own performance. 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:31.080 It was very, very fascinating. 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:32.360 So how did he take you? 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:36.560 He was like okay, Darling, Darling Shore Totally he was 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:40.320 like okay, of course, you know. He was very very sweet, 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:42.760 but he was also just like searching, you know, he 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.440 was always searching for like what would be better. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:47.120 It was super lazy. 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:48.840 So this is what I was gonna say about my daughter. 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.840 So Gemma would come and we would when we went 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:52.920 down to do the vocal warm up, it would be 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:54.600 time for her to go, right because she was little, 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:55.720 she had to go home and go to bed with 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.400 the nanny and he would be there and he would 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:00.320 always just be so fascinated with theirs. She was a 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:03.120 very beautiful little baby, and he would want to hold her, 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.960 and I would give her to him and she would 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.240 just be like what is happening? Like you could just 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:10.720 see her eyes because of the voice, right, because you 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:13.200 can feel the voice right in his chest, you know, 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:16.200 and she just looked slightly scared. She did not know 0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:18.640 he was Darth Vader. Bil later she'd be very scared 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:20.600 of Darth Vader, right of course, right, she. 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:21.280 Did not know that yet. 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:25.800 She was one years old, yes, knows now knows now, 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:31.640 but somehow something about animation. She never could relate to 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:33.680 the fact that it was actors that she might have met, 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:35.400 even if you tell her over and over again, she 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.400 doesn't know for she She's fourteen now, so now she 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:38.760 gets over. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:44.160 I thought animation they were just people like in costumes, Like, 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.960 I didn't understand how that it's so confusing. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:49.920 For kids, right, but I mean it's also so magical 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.920 for kids because they don't they don't have any you 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:56.000 know whatever, preconceived notions. So anyway, I think she understood 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:58.480 that someone really special was holding her, but she was 0:08:58.520 --> 0:08:59.000 also just. 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.559 Slightly scared of the intensity, do you know what I mean? 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:04.360 So I have really adorable pictures where he looks just 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.240 so relaxed, like when you hold a baby and you're 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:08.520 just so relaxed, you know, and she just looks like 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:12.240 what it Oh, it's really cute, though. 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:14.760 What does she think of that? Now? Does she I mean, 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.439 she doesn't remember, but does she like she's amazed. 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:19.040 I think she's amazed. 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:19.600 So many people. 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:20.559 She's met a. 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:21.120 Lot of people. 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:24.720 Yeah, I don't know that she even really I've really 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:29.520 tried not to, you know, you know, they're like real 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:31.840 people to her, right, So like Sarah and Cynthia, she 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.360 knew them before she knew how we knew each other, 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:37.559 you know what I'm saying. So we didn't talk about 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:40.120 the other that much. The movie went back to work, 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.680 and one time on the plane, I've told the story 0:09:42.679 --> 0:09:44.959 before on the podcast, but on the plane, one time 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:46.560 she saw someone in front. 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:47.400 Of her had the movie on. 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:48.120 Oh my gosh. 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:50.480 She was like six or seven, I feel like, and she. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:54.480 Was like, Mommy, that looks like you. And I'm like, yeah, eight, 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:57.880 And I'm like, oh no, it's a weird way for 0:09:57.920 --> 0:09:58.400 her to see it. 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.439 But like it was a movie and nothing, nothing crazy 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:00.760 was going. 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:01.559 To happen, you know what I mean. 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:04.320 No nudy scenes, I don't think so. 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:06.640 I don't think so, not that I can think of. No, No, 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.520 because the movie, no, the movie is the marriage that 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:13.560 doesn't happen, you know, the wedding that doesn't Yeah, that 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:16.199 movie the first movie, the first movie and the second movie. 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.440 I don't think there's any nude either because we're running around, 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.480 you know, Morocco slash. 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:23.120 Maybe maybe Kim is dude. I don't know. 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:24.280 I don't think so, I don't know. 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:25.440 Good questions, Michael. 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:30.800 But anyway, it was the movies, yes, exactly exactly. But 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:32.960 it was good because then I feel like it's a 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:35.559 healthy way to go for the kids. That it's not 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:41.800 so much about you know, fame or whatever. It's more 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:43.199 about they're just people that. 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:45.119 Are in our lives, Mommy's friends. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:46.880 Exactly exactly, which is great. 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.000 So but that's how wild that you must have seen 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.760 people watching you on planes before I have. 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.080 I mean just I just flew back from Toronto and 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.720 both Sex and the city and and just like that 0:10:58.240 --> 0:10:59.839 was on the plane and I was like, oh no, 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:03.480 I have to like hide when I go to the bathroom. 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.040 I mean, there's a good problem to have, of course, 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:08.440 but like it was really early and I had gotten 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:10.600 off work really late at night, and I was like, 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:14.959 oh lord, this is when I'm not and you're trapped. Yeah, 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:16.319 it's not great. What do you do? 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:21.880 It's happened one time I was in like I was 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:24.280 in this Christmas movie that had just come out, and 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:25.160 it was Christmas time. 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:26.240 I was traveling Christmas. 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:28.319 It had just come out, and I was sitting in 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:32.520 a like a lounge at the airport and my partner 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.160 was across from me and he was like, oh, my god, 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.200 turn around right, and somebody was watching it on their 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:42.199 laptop right behind my God. And then I was at 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:46.079 a restaurant in Palm Springs a few weeks ago and 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:48.920 it was empty. It was just up us and one 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:51.520 other table and they stood it talking about shrinking. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:52.520 Wow. 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:53.400 Did they see you? 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:55.760 No, they had no idea. It was anecdotal. 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:58.959 It was they were a very serious conversation. I could 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:00.319 tell there it was like a breakup or something. And 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:02.240 they're like, maybe that part is shrinking. When they went 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:03.839 boop the boop thing, and I was like. 0:12:03.760 --> 0:12:06.480 Oh my god, they're talking about Wow, that's me. 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:08.360 And then Ryan was like, you gonna turn around. 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:15.960 I was like, I was very serious, so embarrassing. But 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.800 then also you feel like you have to hide sometimes 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:19.400 I feel like I need to I need. 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:22.000 To hide a little bit. And I'm sure this happens 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:22.079 to you. 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:27.800 Sometimes people People get very excited if they've like just 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:31.000 seen you or like or like they think it's a 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:35.000 really big deal that like I was just watching you totally, 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:38.160 and I get that it's a big deal for them, 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:43.200 but it's hard to like be excited, like sure, sure, sure, 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:46.080 things that you can watch me are available at all times. 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:48.800 Totally such a surprise to me. 0:12:49.320 --> 0:12:50.080 That's true, though. 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:55.560 I also understand from the point of view of like 0:12:57.200 --> 0:13:00.920 the reality that it feels like these people are in 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:03.200 your living room and or your bed, which is where 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:06.680 I watch shrinking on my iPad, right, so it's very intimate. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:07.120 You know. 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:11.920 I saw Harrison when Sara Jessica got her Lucile Ball 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:14.320 of Work and Harrison was there with Kali Mirin, which 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:16.240 was so great, you know, And when I had to 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.000 go up and speak, I was like, Harrison's looking at me. 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:20.200 Oh my god, it's just so much pressure. And now 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:21.960 there's a room full of people look at me, right, 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:23.960 but you can just see Harrison. He's just directly in 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:25.800 front of you, and he's just looking at you, and 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:26.880 it's just pressure, you know. 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:28.880 And I know the man, but like it's pressure. 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:30.800 Okay, you're scared, you know what I mean. 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:32.120 You're like, he's looking I want to do. 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:35.400 Really well, because Harrison's looking at me and Helen, like 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:39.080 Helen and Harrison next to each other, literally just staring 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:42.000 at me, right, So I'm like breathing. I'm breathing. And 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:44.920 then we were kind of like sandwich together, people were 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.360 mingling or whatever. And I had, you know, possibly the 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:51.640 night before or two nights before, watched an episode of Shrinking. 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:54.040 I feel like, you know, it does you feel very 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:57.320 connected from that, and he's playing a character with Parkinson's. 0:13:57.320 --> 0:14:01.000 My father had Parkinson's really really severely for five years, 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:01.520 I guess. 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:04.040 Before he passed away. And it's so great. 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:07.160 The storyline and what he's doing and the writing and 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:08.480 you know, all of it is so great. And of 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:11.520 course he's just great anyway, right, but it's just so 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:15.160 great that that that that he's giving us this you 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:16.960 don't say, so of course I felt I had to 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.120 say something, and I think I might have said I 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:22.560 just was watching, you know. So I also understand from 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:26.720 a fan perspective, like it's weird because they're so alive. 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:28.840 You you are so alive. 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:31.160 I was literally just watching you. I mean, like, there 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:32.479 you go. And I felt. 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:37.160 That, right, it's weird. It's interesting. 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:38.040 I know. 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:39.880 I know, so you never I guess you never quite 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:42.080 get over it. But I always feel like I want 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.160 to give you know, when people come like strangers come up, 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.360 I want to give them something like right, I want 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:46.720 them to. 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:50.720 Feel yes, you know, like, yes, that part's hard. 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:54.000 That's hard. Yea, how I'm sorry that I. 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:56.320 Write in that moment you don't know what to give them. 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:59.880 Sometimes people are like just crazy, like you know, they're 0:14:59.920 --> 0:15:02.160 like I need this from you or I you know, 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:03.400 that's that's hard. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.120 And I do think it's important to have, you know, 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:10.200 some agency about it, you know, like you might be 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.640 in a hurry, you might be you know, you're allowed to, 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:14.640 you know, have those things like if I'm with the kids, 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:16.600 I'm like, please, please do not ask me to stop 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:18.720 for a picture, because I have to be with these kids. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.200 I can't be like sorry, kids, I gotta go over 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:21.640 here and do this. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:21.960 I can't. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:22.440 I can't do it. 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:24.480 I can't do it. I feel so bad about it though. 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:27.720 Yeah, or I'm buying emodium, you know what. 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:31.280 I yeah, I do regular life things. Yeah, it is hard. 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:33.960 In pharmacies. I've had that as well. I was at 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:35.960 a pharmacy in New York and I don't know what 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:38.080 I was thinking because it was on the Upper east Side, 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:40.280 but for whatever reason, that was where my doctor called 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:42.480 it in and I'm I should never go to the 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:44.960 Upper east Side, do you know what I'm saying? Ever, 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:47.720 Like it's just bad, you know what I mean. So 0:15:47.760 --> 0:15:51.200 I'm standing there and it's taking a long time and 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:54.320 people come in that place that literally I know from 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:57.000 like thirty years ago, and I'm just dying. I wasn't 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:58.760 getting the embarrassing. I was just like, this is like 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:02.480 so personal and weird, and like people are talking to 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.200 me about people from like thirty years ago, and I'm 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:05.760 trying to remember who they're talking about, and I'm like, 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:07.960 oh my god. And then people are recognizing us because 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.240 we're talking and I'm just like dying and just. 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:13.840 Like please God, are you you know out of here? Right? 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:15.280 But what are you going to do? I mean, you 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.680 don't want to It's hard because I think part of 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.480 what's hard is that you don't want to disappoint people. 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.760 Well exactly, yeah, you want to be everything they want 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.040 from yes and more. They are genuinely happy, right, I 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:28.080 see you, But it's. 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:30.680 Hard to know how to be that in the moment 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:32.000 in life. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:35.240 One time I was in New York and you know 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:39.080 how my character on Shrinking says, everything goes my way? 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:41.240 Yes, oh no. 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:46.400 I was in New York and I was rushing. I 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:48.080 was I was, oh, oh, I know what it was. 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.120 I had to write an email. I didn't want to 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:54.400 write oh. And I was on my way somewhere and 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:56.040 I had ten minutes, and I was like, do it 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:57.600 now or I should be thinking about all night. So 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:59.320 I sat on a bench by the sid I was 0:16:59.320 --> 0:17:01.320 getting on the subway. I sat by on a bench by 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:03.920 the subway. I was like, do it right now, write 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:07.800 this email. And I'm writing the email and I'm I'm 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:10.359 almost finished. I'm about to hit send. I'm starting to 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:14.159 be relieved, and I get shit on by a bird 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:17.240 that must have been dying because it was. 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:20.960 The most like on my shirt. 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:21.680 Oh my god. 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:25.120 And I was like what I and what do I do? 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.480 I didn't send it. I hadn't sent I'm covered in poop. 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:32.879 And I would go to like an ice cream truck 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:35.399 and I say, could you please give me I've just 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:37.240 been shotn by a bird, because you please give me 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:40.040 some napkins And they're like okay, here and the napkin, like, 0:17:40.600 --> 0:17:42.760 you know, like it must have been like a glob 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:47.320 and it touched the napkin, it like got ten times low. 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.680 It was disgusting, and so I had to go home. 0:17:50.920 --> 0:17:52.040 I was like, I have to go change. 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.320 I can't possibly go out now, I have to go 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:57.919 change emails not sent. And I'm walking home feeling just 0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:01.920 like New York has just really on me. Yeah, and 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:11.520 somebody walks behind goes everything goes my way, you know what, Actually. 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:23.520 That's kind of a door. That's true. All right, So 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:28.119 my Hyundai hot take for all the glitters, I'm gonna 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:31.560