WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Car Shopper Sleeper

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels second date update The actual date on today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update is crazy. All right, So this girl

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us she actually went car shopping with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>on their first date and he ended up buying her

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<v Speaker 1>a Car's not true. No, that's not true at all.

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<v Speaker 1>The car shopping part was true. I made up the rest.

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan is on the phone with us right now to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update. She wants us to call

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Graham today to find out why he

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<v Speaker 1>won't call her back. How are you, Morgan? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you, Jewel? So you went car shopping on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date? Huh? Yes, we did that. Actually sounds

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fun to me, of course. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>buy more cars in one year than anyone I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>met in my life? I like going on test drives.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think a girl would enjoy doing it. But Morgan,

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<v Speaker 1>how does somebody go car shopping on a first date. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we met at the gym, and we've been seeing each

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<v Speaker 1>other there for like two months, all right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was hoping he would ask me out, but he didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>so finally I was like, hey, man, let's go out sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>So this isn't like a brand new thing that you got.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys actually know each other pretty well. I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like we see each other, you know, a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>him in a week, and we always say hi and

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<v Speaker 1>have like at least a conversation. But you've never seen

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<v Speaker 1>each other outside of the gym. This would be your

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<v Speaker 1>first out of the gym experience together. Correct. Okay, when

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<v Speaker 1>you asked him to hang out, did he know that

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a date situation or did he think

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<v Speaker 1>you were going out as friends? I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>a date because what he said was the reason I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't asked you out is I don't have a car

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<v Speaker 1>right now. He's like, my car's in the shop. So well,

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<v Speaker 1>that had to feel good for you when you finally

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<v Speaker 1>got up the nerve to ask him out and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, I've been thinking about asking you out too. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So he doesn't have a car and you

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<v Speaker 1>offered to go buy him a car. That's very nice. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't buy him a car, but since he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have money, thought it would be nice to go car

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<v Speaker 1>shopping together. Okay, but it's nice skip drinks and the

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<v Speaker 1>normal date stuff and go to car shopping. I'd always

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would be like a fun that kid in

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<v Speaker 1>a good way of helping him out. Yeah. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>think that would be cool if I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>car and somebody and a girl asked me out and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, you don't really have any transportation.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to take you on the bus, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, well, that'd be fun to go car shopping.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take you out. I would think that that would

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<v Speaker 1>be a fun date actually, so long as you avoid

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<v Speaker 1>the drinks before the test drive. Yeah. Did he seem

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<v Speaker 1>to enjoy it? Yeah, we had a really great time,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was like a fun thing to do on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Is there anything that happened while you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were out looking at cars that you think was awkward

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<v Speaker 1>for him? Or the only thing that came to mind

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<v Speaker 1>is like once I introduced us as like a married couple,

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<v Speaker 1>they asked if we were you know, and I was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, where do yeah? And I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was hilarious And he did not laugh, So maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't Maybe he's like, oh man, that's just a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if that happened to you, Jewel, would you

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<v Speaker 1>think that this girl is automatically thinking marriage off the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. It depends how she did it. If you

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<v Speaker 1>looked at him while you were saying it and you're like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're a husband, and then why then I'd be a

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<v Speaker 1>little creeped out. Did he seem upset by that? Or no?

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say. Instead, he just looked really uncomfortable. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys kiss or anything. Get in the backseat

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<v Speaker 1>on one of those cars. Really give it a test drive,

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<v Speaker 1>you know the HU. Have you guys talked at all

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<v Speaker 1>since your date? I mean you were friends at the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming weirdly, I have not seen him at the

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<v Speaker 1>gym at all, but we have been texting like a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. But I definitely feel like he's blowing me off.

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<v Speaker 1>So he not good. He's responding to your texts. What's

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<v Speaker 1>he saying? Just like basic conversation like hello, I know

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<v Speaker 1>me too, whatever, So it feels like he's avoiding you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's blowing me up, but I can't be

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. So that's why I need your help. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him, get him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, and get your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>think guys, all right? Hang on point five looking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, if you're just joining us for the

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update, Morgan is on the phone. She wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call this guy named Graham. They apparently have been

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<v Speaker 1>jim buddies for a little while. She finally asked him out. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't have a car, so he didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her, but she said, let's go car shopping.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be fun, and that's how they spent their day together.

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<v Speaker 1>She says that everything went well except for one kind

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<v Speaker 1>of awkward moment where she pretended that the two were

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<v Speaker 1>married to the car salesman and he seemed a little

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<v Speaker 1>weirded out by that. But other than that, everything seemed cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And now they've talked a little bit. But it's obvious

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<v Speaker 1>that he's avoiding her. Morgan, are you ready to give

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<v Speaker 1>him a call and find out if he is actually

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<v Speaker 1>avoiding you? Yes? I am ready, all right? Anything else

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<v Speaker 1>you can think of that might have caused him to

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<v Speaker 1>not want to see you again? No, everything was really great.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really natural and fun and like I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about it, and that was pretty harmless. Like he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't upset. It wasn't that big of a deal. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't seen him at the gym at all. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say it's someone who's dated, like everybody at

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<v Speaker 1>my gym. If you get somebody to change their gym schedule,

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<v Speaker 1>then you might have done You've done something wrong. All right, Morgan,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm gonna Dallas phone um right now,

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I speak to Graham? Please? This Graham? Graham?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning like the radio. Yeah, just like the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing fine? I'm calling you because you

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<v Speaker 1>recently went out on a date with one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners and they've been trying to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm talking about. I think so, Morgan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>why aren't you calling Morgan back? Uh? This is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird, Like I don't feel like it's any of

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<v Speaker 1>your business. Really, Well, it kind of is my business

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<v Speaker 1>because Morgan actually asked me to call you and find

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<v Speaker 1>out if you're avoiding her. Well I'm not. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not avoiding her. I mean I've been texting her

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. I don't know. Okay, but she says, she's

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to see if you'll go out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with her, and you've been very unresponsive. And then

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<v Speaker 1>she also hasn't seen you at the gym, so she's

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<v Speaker 1>confused and feels like you don't want to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not true. I mean I want to see her

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<v Speaker 1>again for sure. I'm in a bit of a situation

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<v Speaker 1>right now that just prevents me from pursuing it at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. Okay, is it the car situation? She told

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<v Speaker 1>you about my car situation? Yeah, she just told us

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<v Speaker 1>that she asked you out on a date at the

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<v Speaker 1>gym and you said you couldn't go out because you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have a car at the time. Was in the shop,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you went car shopping together, which sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a fun date. Yeah, that's why I'm asking. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't have a car? Well, no, that's no,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So between me, I do have a car,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not that. So you lied it about the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I didn't. Yeah, well I kind of had to

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<v Speaker 1>because you guys, you know, if you keep this between us,

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<v Speaker 1>the deal is that at the moment, I'm like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of locationally up in the air. Are you living in

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<v Speaker 1>your car. Yes, oh, all right that Hey, I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>to hear that. Man, I'm temporarily staying in my car

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<v Speaker 1>because I had a really focused job like four months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So I quit and I couldn't find anything right away,

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<v Speaker 1>and then rent was zoo and I had to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>leave my spot, and so it basically came down to

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that it was like, you know, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a date with Morgan, but literally everything

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<v Speaker 1>I own is in my car, so it's kind of weird,

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<v Speaker 1>like show up and be like, hey, welcome to my home. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you haven't been You haven't been avoiding Morgan because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to see her. You've been avoiding her

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<v Speaker 1>because the situation that you're in right now doesn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>ideal to be dating somebody and might not be that

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<v Speaker 1>attractive to her exactly. Yeah, you know, and I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you're not at the gym is because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't afford the membership right now. Well, like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the gym is actually the one thing that I do

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<v Speaker 1>have because I use it to like shower and like

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<v Speaker 1>make myself presentable, and you know, I've actually I just

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<v Speaker 1>know when Morgan goes so I try to like avoid

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<v Speaker 1>those times. Do you feel like she's not gonna want

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<v Speaker 1>to see you if she found this information out? She

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<v Speaker 1>seems like she's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>know she's really nice. She's like definitely one of the

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<v Speaker 1>coolest people I've met in a really long time. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just like I don't want to up, So I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you have to worry too much. I dated

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that lived in this car. Didn't end well,

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<v Speaker 1>but I still dated. Yeah, Like, I mean, my situation

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<v Speaker 1>is going to change, and when it does, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna really pursue this, Like she's a great girl and

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't want to start off on a bad foot. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then what can I tell her then? Because she had

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<v Speaker 1>us call you because she wanted to find out if

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<v Speaker 1>you're avoiding her. If I just tell her, hey, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not avoiding you. Just trust me, Just hang out for

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<v Speaker 1>a little while and he'll be back, that's gonna sound

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird. Don't you think you should just be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with her and see what she says. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't know, but I'd rather like tell

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<v Speaker 1>her myself, you know, perfect, I can actually make that

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<v Speaker 1>happen for you, Graham, because she's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line listening. Serious. Yeah, I gotta go, you guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>hold up a second, Graham. We just need like one

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<v Speaker 1>second with you. Graham. Hello Morgan. Wait, I'm so confused

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<v Speaker 1>that which had happened. I'm pretty sure he hung up

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<v Speaker 1>on us. I mean, I'm guessing he's probably embarrassed or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I want to get him back on the phone, though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I want you guys to talk. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to talk to him about it. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>know that he lived in his car? No? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but to be fair, like, I only see him the

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<v Speaker 1>jim So yeah, does it bother you? Um? I have

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<v Speaker 1>questions about it for sure. All Right, I'm gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>to get him back on the phone. See if we

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<v Speaker 1>can talk to him. Okay, Okay, Hello Graham. Yeah. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I had a job offer calling on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line, but it wasn't. Oh well, I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of telling you that Morgan was on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and wanted to talk to you. Morgan. Hello, Hey Morgan,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm good? How are you? I'm okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so I had no idea yeah, well that

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of the point. I was hoping it would

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<v Speaker 1>say that way. But Quinn, you could have told me

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<v Speaker 1>you're living out of your car, like I would have understood. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I just I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like mess anything up before we even got started

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<v Speaker 1>with anything, you know. I I don't know. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be able to like do nice things and

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<v Speaker 1>like take you places and you know, start off on

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<v Speaker 1>the right foot rather than tiny to be like some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of weird thing that like we have to like

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<v Speaker 1>overcome together right at the beginning. That's totally understandable. And

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<v Speaker 1>so do you want to get a job? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a job? Like what's your deal? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I've been looking every day. You know. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>that's my job right now, is getting a job. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not that easy right now. And I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you if you could just give me like two

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<v Speaker 1>more weeks, I'm going to have something by then. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a couple of leaps coming through right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be back on my feet then. And I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I would just hate to like ruin this before anything

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<v Speaker 1>even had a chance to happen. Yeah, Graham, now that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys got this out of the way, I will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for you guys to go on a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>would you. I mean, you might as well go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Morgan again, especially now that she knows what she

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<v Speaker 1>knows and you guys can talk a little more in

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<v Speaker 1>depth about the situation. Yeah, it's out there. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to. I want to. I just hope she will. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is, Graham, why do you have

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<v Speaker 1>to wait like two weeks until you get a job.

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for you guys to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. I mean, yeah, Graham, and then you guys

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<v Speaker 1>kild decide what you want to do about your situation

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<v Speaker 1>when you go out. But would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her? Absolute? Yeah? Morgan? Do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Graham again? Graham? Like, I like you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would love to hear more about your situation,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm totally down to hang out with you and

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date with you. It's gonna be so

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<v Speaker 1>easy to get her back to your place. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. I really didn't expect to be that cool

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and I'm just glad to hear that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a huge relief. There you go, successful second date date.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll send you guys out again and you can have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time. Graham, I want to let you know

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<v Speaker 1>it's your lucky day to day. Yeah, because not only

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<v Speaker 1>am I sending you on a second date with Morgan,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm gonna go ahead and adopt you. You can

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<v Speaker 1>come stay at my place if you'd like. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather stay in my car in the morning. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update might have actually just changed somebody's life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five if you missed today's brand new second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. This girl Morgan wanted us to call Graham

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<v Speaker 1>because he'd been avoiding her. Turns out that Graham, when

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<v Speaker 1>we got him on the phone, doesn't have a house.

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<v Speaker 1>He's in between places right now because he quit his

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<v Speaker 1>job and can't afford rent, so he's living in his car,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why he was avoiding her, because he was

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed of that cool. At the end of it, she

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<v Speaker 1>gave him a second chance. He wanted to go with

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<v Speaker 1>him again. She didn't she could look past that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I say that it could change his life because we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting so many text message in at seven eight five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two with job opportunities for Graham, and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying. He quit because he couldn't take his

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<v Speaker 1>job anymore that he was doing because it was terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he's been looking for a new job and

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to try to find a job and

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<v Speaker 1>then hopefully ask her out on a date when he

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<v Speaker 1>could afford to take her out and could afford to

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<v Speaker 1>have a place to take her back to. But everybody

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<v Speaker 1>texting us at seven eight five nine two is offering

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<v Speaker 1>Graham a job. I'm going to go ahead, awesome and

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<v Speaker 1>get all these together, give it to him, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I'll leave it up to him to get in contact

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<v Speaker 1>with you guys. But really appreciate that you guys are awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>We have the best listeners. Yeah, Like we joke around

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<v Speaker 1>a lot and stuff, but when it comes to like

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<v Speaker 1>semi serious stuff like this, don't they know that we're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be all coldhearted? Yeah, feel that station. This

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<v Speaker 1>is not what we do. This is uncharted territory for us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really weird charitable things. But yeah, thank you guys

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<v Speaker 1>very much. I think Graham will obviously appreciate it. And

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully he can get a job out of the deal

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<v Speaker 1>and the two of them can start a relationship or

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<v Speaker 1>at least go out and enjoy each other's company a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. But I will get all the job offers down.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep him coming. If you want to try to interview

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<v Speaker 1>him for a job and you're interested in that at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eight five nine two, I'll give it to him

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<v Speaker 1>and see if he can get in contact with you

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll get an update. I'll stay in contact with

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<v Speaker 1>Graham and see if we can find out if he

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<v Speaker 1>actually gets a job out of the deal, and then

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<v Speaker 1>if he does, I want ten percent because I helped

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<v Speaker 1>him find that job. Kind of a fine receipt. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>we're charitable to a point, all right, I'm not an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>Have limitation, all right. Remember if you want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, ILL have to do his email the show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewell at moving nine two five dot com.