Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels second date update The actual date on today's
Speaker 1: second date update is crazy. All right, So this girl
Speaker 1: emailed us she actually went car shopping with a guy
Speaker 1: on their first date and he ended up buying her
Speaker 1: a Car's not true. No, that's not true at all.
Speaker 1: The car shopping part was true. I made up the rest.
Speaker 1: Morgan is on the phone with us right now to
Speaker 1: do a second date update. She wants us to call
Speaker 1: a guy named Graham today to find out why he
Speaker 1: won't call her back. How are you, Morgan? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you, Jewel? So you went car shopping on
Speaker 1: your first date? Huh? Yes, we did that. Actually sounds
Speaker 1: kind of fun to me, of course. How did you
Speaker 1: buy more cars in one year than anyone I've ever
Speaker 1: met in my life? I like going on test drives.
Speaker 1: I don't think a girl would enjoy doing it. But Morgan,
Speaker 1: how does somebody go car shopping on a first date. Well,
Speaker 1: we met at the gym, and we've been seeing each
Speaker 1: other there for like two months, all right, and I
Speaker 1: was hoping he would ask me out, but he didn't,
Speaker 1: so finally I was like, hey, man, let's go out sometimes.
Speaker 1: So this isn't like a brand new thing that you got.
Speaker 1: You guys actually know each other pretty well. I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: like we see each other, you know, a couple of
Speaker 1: him in a week, and we always say hi and
Speaker 1: have like at least a conversation. But you've never seen
Speaker 1: each other outside of the gym. This would be your
Speaker 1: first out of the gym experience together. Correct. Okay, when
Speaker 1: you asked him to hang out, did he know that
Speaker 1: it was like a date situation or did he think
Speaker 1: you were going out as friends? I think it was
Speaker 1: a date because what he said was the reason I
Speaker 1: haven't asked you out is I don't have a car
Speaker 1: right now. He's like, my car's in the shop. So well,
Speaker 1: that had to feel good for you when you finally
Speaker 1: got up the nerve to ask him out and he
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I've been thinking about asking you out too. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right. So he doesn't have a car and you
Speaker 1: offered to go buy him a car. That's very nice. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't buy him a car, but since he didn't
Speaker 1: have money, thought it would be nice to go car
Speaker 1: shopping together. Okay, but it's nice skip drinks and the
Speaker 1: normal date stuff and go to car shopping. I'd always
Speaker 1: thought it would be like a fun that kid in
Speaker 1: a good way of helping him out. Yeah. I actually
Speaker 1: think that would be cool if I didn't have a
Speaker 1: car and somebody and a girl asked me out and
Speaker 1: I was like, well, you don't really have any transportation.
Speaker 1: I don't want to take you on the bus, and
Speaker 1: she's like, well, that'd be fun to go car shopping.
Speaker 1: I'll take you out. I would think that that would
Speaker 1: be a fun date actually, so long as you avoid
Speaker 1: the drinks before the test drive. Yeah. Did he seem
Speaker 1: to enjoy it? Yeah, we had a really great time,
Speaker 1: Like it was like a fun thing to do on
Speaker 1: a date. Is there anything that happened while you guys
Speaker 1: were out looking at cars that you think was awkward
Speaker 1: for him? Or the only thing that came to mind
Speaker 1: is like once I introduced us as like a married couple,
Speaker 1: they asked if we were you know, and I was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: that you know, where do yeah? And I thought it
Speaker 1: was hilarious And he did not laugh, So maybe that
Speaker 1: wasn't Maybe he's like, oh man, that's just a little crazy.
Speaker 1: I mean, if that happened to you, Jewel, would you
Speaker 1: think that this girl is automatically thinking marriage off the
Speaker 1: first date. It depends how she did it. If you
Speaker 1: looked at him while you were saying it and you're like, yes,
Speaker 1: we're a husband, and then why then I'd be a
Speaker 1: little creeped out. Did he seem upset by that? Or no?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say. Instead, he just looked really uncomfortable. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: did you guys kiss or anything. Get in the backseat
Speaker 1: on one of those cars. Really give it a test drive,
Speaker 1: you know the HU. Have you guys talked at all
Speaker 1: since your date? I mean you were friends at the gym,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming weirdly, I have not seen him at the
Speaker 1: gym at all, but we have been texting like a
Speaker 1: little bit. But I definitely feel like he's blowing me off.
Speaker 1: So he not good. He's responding to your texts. What's
Speaker 1: he saying? Just like basic conversation like hello, I know
Speaker 1: me too, whatever, So it feels like he's avoiding you.
Speaker 1: I think he's blowing me up, but I can't be
Speaker 1: for sure. So that's why I need your help. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him, get him
Speaker 1: on the phone, and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: think guys, all right? Hang on point five looking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning, if you're just joining us for the
Speaker 1: second date. Update, Morgan is on the phone. She wants
Speaker 1: to call this guy named Graham. They apparently have been
Speaker 1: jim buddies for a little while. She finally asked him out. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: he didn't have a car, so he didn't want to
Speaker 1: go out with her, but she said, let's go car shopping.
Speaker 1: It'll be fun, and that's how they spent their day together.
Speaker 1: She says that everything went well except for one kind
Speaker 1: of awkward moment where she pretended that the two were
Speaker 1: married to the car salesman and he seemed a little
Speaker 1: weirded out by that. But other than that, everything seemed cool.
Speaker 1: And now they've talked a little bit. But it's obvious
Speaker 1: that he's avoiding her. Morgan, are you ready to give
Speaker 1: him a call and find out if he is actually
Speaker 1: avoiding you? Yes? I am ready, all right? Anything else
Speaker 1: you can think of that might have caused him to
Speaker 1: not want to see you again? No, everything was really great.
Speaker 1: It was really natural and fun and like I was
Speaker 1: thinking about it, and that was pretty harmless. Like he
Speaker 1: wasn't upset. It wasn't that big of a deal. Okay,
Speaker 1: you haven't seen him at the gym at all. No,
Speaker 1: I will say it's someone who's dated, like everybody at
Speaker 1: my gym. If you get somebody to change their gym schedule,
Speaker 1: then you might have done You've done something wrong. All right, Morgan,
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna Dallas phone um right now,
Speaker 1: see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay, Hello,
Speaker 1: how can I speak to Graham? Please? This Graham? Graham?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the morning like the radio. Yeah, just like the radio.
Speaker 1: How are you doing fine? I'm calling you because you
Speaker 1: recently went out on a date with one of our
Speaker 1: listeners and they've been trying to get a hold of you.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. I think so, Morgan. Yeah,
Speaker 1: why aren't you calling Morgan back? Uh? This is kind
Speaker 1: of weird, Like I don't feel like it's any of
Speaker 1: your business. Really, Well, it kind of is my business
Speaker 1: because Morgan actually asked me to call you and find
Speaker 1: out if you're avoiding her. Well I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 1: You're not avoiding her. I mean I've been texting her
Speaker 1: and stuff. I don't know. Okay, but she says, she's
Speaker 1: been trying to see if you'll go out on another
Speaker 1: date with her, and you've been very unresponsive. And then
Speaker 1: she also hasn't seen you at the gym, so she's
Speaker 1: confused and feels like you don't want to see her again.
Speaker 1: That's not true. I mean I want to see her
Speaker 1: again for sure. I'm in a bit of a situation
Speaker 1: right now that just prevents me from pursuing it at
Speaker 1: the moment. Okay, is it the car situation? She told
Speaker 1: you about my car situation? Yeah, she just told us
Speaker 1: that she asked you out on a date at the
Speaker 1: gym and you said you couldn't go out because you
Speaker 1: didn't have a car at the time. Was in the shop,
Speaker 1: and so you went car shopping together, which sounds like
Speaker 1: a fun date. Yeah, that's why I'm asking. Is it
Speaker 1: because you don't have a car? Well, no, that's no,
Speaker 1: all right, So between me, I do have a car,
Speaker 1: it's not that. So you lied it about the car.
Speaker 1: Well I didn't. Yeah, well I kind of had to
Speaker 1: because you guys, you know, if you keep this between us,
Speaker 1: the deal is that at the moment, I'm like kind
Speaker 1: of locationally up in the air. Are you living in
Speaker 1: your car. Yes, oh, all right that Hey, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to hear that. Man, I'm temporarily staying in my car
Speaker 1: because I had a really focused job like four months ago.
Speaker 1: So I quit and I couldn't find anything right away,
Speaker 1: and then rent was zoo and I had to you know,
Speaker 1: leave my spot, and so it basically came down to
Speaker 1: the fact that it was like, you know, I want
Speaker 1: to go on a date with Morgan, but literally everything
Speaker 1: I own is in my car, so it's kind of weird,
Speaker 1: like show up and be like, hey, welcome to my home. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you haven't been You haven't been avoiding Morgan because
Speaker 1: you don't want to see her. You've been avoiding her
Speaker 1: because the situation that you're in right now doesn't feel
Speaker 1: ideal to be dating somebody and might not be that
Speaker 1: attractive to her exactly. Yeah, you know, and I'm guessing
Speaker 1: that's why you're not at the gym is because you
Speaker 1: can't afford the membership right now. Well, like, I mean,
Speaker 1: the gym is actually the one thing that I do
Speaker 1: have because I use it to like shower and like
Speaker 1: make myself presentable, and you know, I've actually I just
Speaker 1: know when Morgan goes so I try to like avoid
Speaker 1: those times. Do you feel like she's not gonna want
Speaker 1: to see you if she found this information out? She
Speaker 1: seems like she's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, I mean, I
Speaker 1: know she's really nice. She's like definitely one of the
Speaker 1: coolest people I've met in a really long time. But
Speaker 1: I just like I don't want to up, So I
Speaker 1: don't think you have to worry too much. I dated
Speaker 1: a guy that lived in this car. Didn't end well,
Speaker 1: but I still dated. Yeah, Like, I mean, my situation
Speaker 1: is going to change, and when it does, and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna really pursue this, Like she's a great girl and
Speaker 1: I just don't want to start off on a bad foot. Well,
Speaker 1: then what can I tell her then? Because she had
Speaker 1: us call you because she wanted to find out if
Speaker 1: you're avoiding her. If I just tell her, hey, he's
Speaker 1: not avoiding you. Just trust me, Just hang out for
Speaker 1: a little while and he'll be back, that's gonna sound
Speaker 1: kind of weird. Don't you think you should just be
Speaker 1: honest with her and see what she says. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know, but I'd rather like tell
Speaker 1: her myself, you know, perfect, I can actually make that
Speaker 1: happen for you, Graham, because she's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening. Serious. Yeah, I gotta go, you guys, I
Speaker 1: hold up a second, Graham. We just need like one
Speaker 1: second with you. Graham. Hello Morgan. Wait, I'm so confused
Speaker 1: that which had happened. I'm pretty sure he hung up
Speaker 1: on us. I mean, I'm guessing he's probably embarrassed or something.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I want to get him back on the phone, though,
Speaker 1: because I want you guys to talk. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'd love to talk to him about it. Did you
Speaker 1: know that he lived in his car? No? I mean,
Speaker 1: but to be fair, like, I only see him the
Speaker 1: jim So yeah, does it bother you? Um? I have
Speaker 1: questions about it for sure. All Right, I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: to get him back on the phone. See if we
Speaker 1: can talk to him. Okay, Okay, Hello Graham. Yeah. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I thought I had a job offer calling on the
Speaker 1: other line, but it wasn't. Oh well, I was in
Speaker 1: the middle of telling you that Morgan was on the
Speaker 1: phone and wanted to talk to you. Morgan. Hello, Hey Morgan,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? How are you? I'm okay?
Speaker 1: I guess so I had no idea yeah, well that
Speaker 1: was kind of the point. I was hoping it would
Speaker 1: say that way. But Quinn, you could have told me
Speaker 1: you're living out of your car, like I would have understood. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I just I didn't want
Speaker 1: to like mess anything up before we even got started
Speaker 1: with anything, you know. I I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: wanted to be able to like do nice things and
Speaker 1: like take you places and you know, start off on
Speaker 1: the right foot rather than tiny to be like some
Speaker 1: kind of weird thing that like we have to like
Speaker 1: overcome together right at the beginning. That's totally understandable. And
Speaker 1: so do you want to get a job? Are you
Speaker 1: looking for a job? Like what's your deal? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I've been looking every day. You know. It's like
Speaker 1: that's my job right now, is getting a job. You know,
Speaker 1: it's just not that easy right now. And I'm you know,
Speaker 1: if you if you could just give me like two
Speaker 1: more weeks, I'm going to have something by then. I
Speaker 1: have a couple of leaps coming through right now, and
Speaker 1: I'll be back on my feet then. And I don't know,
Speaker 1: I would just hate to like ruin this before anything
Speaker 1: even had a chance to happen. Yeah, Graham, now that
Speaker 1: you guys got this out of the way, I will
Speaker 1: pay for you guys to go on a second date,
Speaker 1: would you. I mean, you might as well go out
Speaker 1: with Morgan again, especially now that she knows what she
Speaker 1: knows and you guys can talk a little more in
Speaker 1: depth about the situation. Yeah, it's out there. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: want to. I want to. I just hope she will. Okay,
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, Graham, why do you have
Speaker 1: to wait like two weeks until you get a job.
Speaker 1: I will pay for you guys to go on a
Speaker 1: second date. I mean, yeah, Graham, and then you guys
Speaker 1: kild decide what you want to do about your situation
Speaker 1: when you go out. But would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with her? Absolute? Yeah? Morgan? Do you want to
Speaker 1: go out with Graham again? Graham? Like, I like you,
Speaker 1: and I would love to hear more about your situation,
Speaker 1: and I'm totally down to hang out with you and
Speaker 1: go on a date with you. It's gonna be so
Speaker 1: easy to get her back to your place. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's awesome. I really didn't expect to be that cool
Speaker 1: about it, and I'm just glad to hear that. It's
Speaker 1: like a huge relief. There you go, successful second date date.
Speaker 1: We'll send you guys out again and you can have
Speaker 1: a good time. Graham, I want to let you know
Speaker 1: it's your lucky day to day. Yeah, because not only
Speaker 1: am I sending you on a second date with Morgan,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna go ahead and adopt you. You can
Speaker 1: come stay at my place if you'd like. I think
Speaker 1: I'd rather stay in my car in the morning. Today's
Speaker 1: a second date update might have actually just changed somebody's life.
Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety
Speaker 1: two point five if you missed today's brand new second
Speaker 1: date update. This girl Morgan wanted us to call Graham
Speaker 1: because he'd been avoiding her. Turns out that Graham, when
Speaker 1: we got him on the phone, doesn't have a house.
Speaker 1: He's in between places right now because he quit his
Speaker 1: job and can't afford rent, so he's living in his car,
Speaker 1: and that's why he was avoiding her, because he was
Speaker 1: embarrassed of that cool. At the end of it, she
Speaker 1: gave him a second chance. He wanted to go with
Speaker 1: him again. She didn't she could look past that. But
Speaker 1: I say that it could change his life because we're
Speaker 1: getting so many text message in at seven eight five
Speaker 1: nine two with job opportunities for Graham, and that's what
Speaker 1: he was saying. He quit because he couldn't take his
Speaker 1: job anymore that he was doing because it was terrible,
Speaker 1: and so he's been looking for a new job and
Speaker 1: he was going to try to find a job and
Speaker 1: then hopefully ask her out on a date when he
Speaker 1: could afford to take her out and could afford to
Speaker 1: have a place to take her back to. But everybody
Speaker 1: texting us at seven eight five nine two is offering
Speaker 1: Graham a job. I'm going to go ahead, awesome and
Speaker 1: get all these together, give it to him, and then
Speaker 1: I'll leave it up to him to get in contact
Speaker 1: with you guys. But really appreciate that you guys are awesome.
Speaker 1: We have the best listeners. Yeah, Like we joke around
Speaker 1: a lot and stuff, but when it comes to like
Speaker 1: semi serious stuff like this, don't they know that we're
Speaker 1: supposed to be all coldhearted? Yeah, feel that station. This
Speaker 1: is not what we do. This is uncharted territory for us.
Speaker 1: It's really weird charitable things. But yeah, thank you guys
Speaker 1: very much. I think Graham will obviously appreciate it. And
Speaker 1: hopefully he can get a job out of the deal
Speaker 1: and the two of them can start a relationship or
Speaker 1: at least go out and enjoy each other's company a
Speaker 1: little bit. But I will get all the job offers down.
Speaker 1: Keep him coming. If you want to try to interview
Speaker 1: him for a job and you're interested in that at
Speaker 1: seven eight five nine two, I'll give it to him
Speaker 1: and see if he can get in contact with you
Speaker 1: and we'll get an update. I'll stay in contact with
Speaker 1: Graham and see if we can find out if he
Speaker 1: actually gets a job out of the deal, and then
Speaker 1: if he does, I want ten percent because I helped
Speaker 1: him find that job. Kind of a fine receipt. Look,
Speaker 1: we're charitable to a point, all right, I'm not an idiot.
Speaker 1: Have limitation, all right. Remember if you want a second
Speaker 1: date update, ILL have to do his email the show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewell at moving nine two five dot com.