1 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels second date update The actual date on today's 2 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: second date update is crazy. All right, So this girl 3 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: emailed us she actually went car shopping with a guy 4 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: on their first date and he ended up buying her 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: a Car's not true. No, that's not true at all. 6 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: The car shopping part was true. I made up the rest. 7 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: Morgan is on the phone with us right now to 8 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: do a second date update. She wants us to call 9 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: a guy named Graham today to find out why he 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: won't call her back. How are you, Morgan? I'm good? 11 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: How are you, Jewel? So you went car shopping on 12 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: your first date? Huh? Yes, we did that. Actually sounds 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: kind of fun to me, of course. How did you 14 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: buy more cars in one year than anyone I've ever 15 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: met in my life? I like going on test drives. 16 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: I don't think a girl would enjoy doing it. But Morgan, 17 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 1: how does somebody go car shopping on a first date. Well, 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: we met at the gym, and we've been seeing each 19 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: other there for like two months, all right, and I 20 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: was hoping he would ask me out, but he didn't, 21 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: so finally I was like, hey, man, let's go out sometimes. 22 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: So this isn't like a brand new thing that you got. 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: You guys actually know each other pretty well. I mean yeah, 24 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: like we see each other, you know, a couple of 25 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: him in a week, and we always say hi and 26 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: have like at least a conversation. But you've never seen 27 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 1: each other outside of the gym. This would be your 28 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: first out of the gym experience together. Correct. Okay, when 29 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: you asked him to hang out, did he know that 30 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: it was like a date situation or did he think 31 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: you were going out as friends? I think it was 32 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: a date because what he said was the reason I 33 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: haven't asked you out is I don't have a car 34 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: right now. He's like, my car's in the shop. So well, 35 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 1: that had to feel good for you when you finally 36 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: got up the nerve to ask him out and he 37 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: was like, hey, I've been thinking about asking you out too. Yeah. Yeah, 38 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: all right. So he doesn't have a car and you 39 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: offered to go buy him a car. That's very nice. No, 40 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: I didn't buy him a car, but since he didn't 41 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: have money, thought it would be nice to go car 42 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: shopping together. Okay, but it's nice skip drinks and the 43 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: normal date stuff and go to car shopping. I'd always 44 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: thought it would be like a fun that kid in 45 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: a good way of helping him out. Yeah. I actually 46 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: think that would be cool if I didn't have a 47 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: car and somebody and a girl asked me out and 48 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: I was like, well, you don't really have any transportation. 49 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to take you on the bus, and 50 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: she's like, well, that'd be fun to go car shopping. 51 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: I'll take you out. I would think that that would 52 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: be a fun date actually, so long as you avoid 53 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: the drinks before the test drive. Yeah. Did he seem 54 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 1: to enjoy it? Yeah, we had a really great time, 55 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: Like it was like a fun thing to do on 56 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 1: a date. Is there anything that happened while you guys 57 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: were out looking at cars that you think was awkward 58 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: for him? Or the only thing that came to mind 59 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: is like once I introduced us as like a married couple, 60 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: they asked if we were you know, and I was like, oh, yeah, 61 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: that you know, where do yeah? And I thought it 62 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: was hilarious And he did not laugh, So maybe that 63 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: wasn't Maybe he's like, oh man, that's just a little crazy. 64 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: I mean, if that happened to you, Jewel, would you 65 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: think that this girl is automatically thinking marriage off the 66 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: first date. It depends how she did it. If you 67 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: looked at him while you were saying it and you're like, yes, 68 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: we're a husband, and then why then I'd be a 69 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: little creeped out. Did he seem upset by that? Or no? 70 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say. Instead, he just looked really uncomfortable. Oh yeah, 71 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: did you guys kiss or anything. Get in the backseat 72 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: on one of those cars. Really give it a test drive, 73 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: you know the HU. Have you guys talked at all 74 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: since your date? I mean you were friends at the gym, 75 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: I'm assuming weirdly, I have not seen him at the 76 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: gym at all, but we have been texting like a 77 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: little bit. But I definitely feel like he's blowing me off. 78 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: So he not good. He's responding to your texts. What's 79 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: he saying? Just like basic conversation like hello, I know 80 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: me too, whatever, So it feels like he's avoiding you. 81 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: I think he's blowing me up, but I can't be 82 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: for sure. So that's why I need your help. Okay, 83 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him, get him 84 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: on the phone, and get your second date update. Okay, 85 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: think guys, all right? Hang on point five looking jubil 86 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: in the morning, if you're just joining us for the 87 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: second date. Update, Morgan is on the phone. She wants 88 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: to call this guy named Graham. They apparently have been 89 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: jim buddies for a little while. She finally asked him out. Unfortunately, 90 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: he didn't have a car, so he didn't want to 91 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: go out with her, but she said, let's go car shopping. 92 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: It'll be fun, and that's how they spent their day together. 93 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: She says that everything went well except for one kind 94 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: of awkward moment where she pretended that the two were 95 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: married to the car salesman and he seemed a little 96 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: weirded out by that. But other than that, everything seemed cool. 97 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: And now they've talked a little bit. But it's obvious 98 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: that he's avoiding her. Morgan, are you ready to give 99 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,679 Speaker 1: him a call and find out if he is actually 100 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: avoiding you? Yes? I am ready, all right? Anything else 101 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: you can think of that might have caused him to 102 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: not want to see you again? No, everything was really great. 103 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: It was really natural and fun and like I was 104 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: thinking about it, and that was pretty harmless. Like he 105 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: wasn't upset. It wasn't that big of a deal. Okay, 106 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: you haven't seen him at the gym at all. No, 107 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: I will say it's someone who's dated, like everybody at 108 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,679 Speaker 1: my gym. If you get somebody to change their gym schedule, 109 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 1: then you might have done You've done something wrong. All right, Morgan, 110 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna Dallas phone um right now, 111 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay, Hello, 112 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: how can I speak to Graham? Please? This Graham? Graham? 113 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil 114 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: in the morning like the radio. Yeah, just like the radio. 115 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: How are you doing fine? I'm calling you because you 116 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: recently went out on a date with one of our 117 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 1: listeners and they've been trying to get a hold of you. 118 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. I think so, Morgan. Yeah, 119 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: why aren't you calling Morgan back? Uh? This is kind 120 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: of weird, Like I don't feel like it's any of 121 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: your business. Really, Well, it kind of is my business 122 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: because Morgan actually asked me to call you and find 123 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: out if you're avoiding her. Well I'm not. I'm not. 124 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: You're not avoiding her. I mean I've been texting her 125 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: and stuff. I don't know. Okay, but she says, she's 126 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: been trying to see if you'll go out on another 127 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 1: date with her, and you've been very unresponsive. And then 128 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,559 Speaker 1: she also hasn't seen you at the gym, so she's 129 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: confused and feels like you don't want to see her again. 130 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: That's not true. I mean I want to see her 131 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: again for sure. I'm in a bit of a situation 132 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: right now that just prevents me from pursuing it at 133 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: the moment. Okay, is it the car situation? She told 134 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: you about my car situation? Yeah, she just told us 135 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: that she asked you out on a date at the 136 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: gym and you said you couldn't go out because you 137 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: didn't have a car at the time. Was in the shop, 138 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: and so you went car shopping together, which sounds like 139 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 1: a fun date. Yeah, that's why I'm asking. Is it 140 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 1: because you don't have a car? Well, no, that's no, 141 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: all right, So between me, I do have a car, 142 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: it's not that. So you lied it about the car. 143 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: Well I didn't. Yeah, well I kind of had to 144 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: because you guys, you know, if you keep this between us, 145 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: the deal is that at the moment, I'm like kind 146 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: of locationally up in the air. Are you living in 147 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: your car. Yes, oh, all right that Hey, I'm sorry 148 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: to hear that. Man, I'm temporarily staying in my car 149 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: because I had a really focused job like four months ago. 150 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: So I quit and I couldn't find anything right away, 151 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: and then rent was zoo and I had to you know, 152 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: leave my spot, and so it basically came down to 153 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: the fact that it was like, you know, I want 154 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: to go on a date with Morgan, but literally everything 155 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: I own is in my car, so it's kind of weird, 156 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: like show up and be like, hey, welcome to my home. Okay, 157 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: So you haven't been You haven't been avoiding Morgan because 158 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: you don't want to see her. You've been avoiding her 159 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: because the situation that you're in right now doesn't feel 160 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: ideal to be dating somebody and might not be that 161 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: attractive to her exactly. Yeah, you know, and I'm guessing 162 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: that's why you're not at the gym is because you 163 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: can't afford the membership right now. Well, like, I mean, 164 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: the gym is actually the one thing that I do 165 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: have because I use it to like shower and like 166 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: make myself presentable, and you know, I've actually I just 167 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: know when Morgan goes so I try to like avoid 168 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: those times. Do you feel like she's not gonna want 169 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: to see you if she found this information out? She 170 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 1: seems like she's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, I mean, I 171 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: know she's really nice. She's like definitely one of the 172 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: coolest people I've met in a really long time. But 173 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: I just like I don't want to up, So I 174 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: don't think you have to worry too much. I dated 175 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: a guy that lived in this car. Didn't end well, 176 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: but I still dated. Yeah, Like, I mean, my situation 177 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: is going to change, and when it does, and I'm 178 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: gonna really pursue this, Like she's a great girl and 179 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: I just don't want to start off on a bad foot. Well, 180 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: then what can I tell her then? Because she had 181 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: us call you because she wanted to find out if 182 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 1: you're avoiding her. If I just tell her, hey, he's 183 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: not avoiding you. Just trust me, Just hang out for 184 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: a little while and he'll be back, that's gonna sound 185 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: kind of weird. Don't you think you should just be 186 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: honest with her and see what she says. I mean, 187 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: I guess I don't know, but I'd rather like tell 188 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: her myself, you know, perfect, I can actually make that 189 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: happen for you, Graham, because she's actually on the other 190 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: line listening. Serious. Yeah, I gotta go, you guys, I 191 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 1: hold up a second, Graham. We just need like one 192 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 1: second with you. Graham. Hello Morgan. Wait, I'm so confused 193 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: that which had happened. I'm pretty sure he hung up 194 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: on us. I mean, I'm guessing he's probably embarrassed or something. 195 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I want to get him back on the phone, though, 196 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: because I want you guys to talk. Yeah, I mean, 197 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: I'd love to talk to him about it. Did you 198 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: know that he lived in his car? No? I mean, 199 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: but to be fair, like, I only see him the 200 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: jim So yeah, does it bother you? Um? I have 201 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 1: questions about it for sure. All Right, I'm gonna try 202 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 1: to get him back on the phone. See if we 203 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: can talk to him. Okay, Okay, Hello Graham. Yeah. Sorry, 204 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: I thought I had a job offer calling on the 205 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: other line, but it wasn't. Oh well, I was in 206 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: the middle of telling you that Morgan was on the 207 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: phone and wanted to talk to you. Morgan. Hello, Hey Morgan, 208 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? How are you? I'm okay? 209 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: I guess so I had no idea yeah, well that 210 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: was kind of the point. I was hoping it would 211 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: say that way. But Quinn, you could have told me 212 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: you're living out of your car, like I would have understood. Yeah, 213 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I just I didn't want 214 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 1: to like mess anything up before we even got started 215 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: with anything, you know. I I don't know. I just 216 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: wanted to be able to like do nice things and 217 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: like take you places and you know, start off on 218 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: the right foot rather than tiny to be like some 219 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: kind of weird thing that like we have to like 220 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: overcome together right at the beginning. That's totally understandable. And 221 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: so do you want to get a job? Are you 222 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: looking for a job? Like what's your deal? Yeah, I 223 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 1: mean I've been looking every day. You know. It's like 224 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: that's my job right now, is getting a job. You know, 225 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: it's just not that easy right now. And I'm you know, 226 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: if you if you could just give me like two 227 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:49,840 Speaker 1: more weeks, I'm going to have something by then. I 228 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: have a couple of leaps coming through right now, and 229 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: I'll be back on my feet then. And I don't know, 230 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 1: I would just hate to like ruin this before anything 231 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: even had a chance to happen. Yeah, Graham, now that 232 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: you guys got this out of the way, I will 233 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: pay for you guys to go on a second date, 234 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: would you. I mean, you might as well go out 235 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: with Morgan again, especially now that she knows what she 236 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: knows and you guys can talk a little more in 237 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: depth about the situation. Yeah, it's out there. Yeah, I 238 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: want to. I want to. I just hope she will. Okay, 239 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, Graham, why do you have 240 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: to wait like two weeks until you get a job. 241 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: I will pay for you guys to go on a 242 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: second date. I mean, yeah, Graham, and then you guys 243 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: kild decide what you want to do about your situation 244 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: when you go out. But would you like to go 245 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: out with her? Absolute? Yeah? Morgan? Do you want to 246 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: go out with Graham again? Graham? Like, I like you, 247 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,319 Speaker 1: and I would love to hear more about your situation, 248 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: and I'm totally down to hang out with you and 249 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: go on a date with you. It's gonna be so 250 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: easy to get her back to your place. I mean, 251 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: that's awesome. I really didn't expect to be that cool 252 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: about it, and I'm just glad to hear that. It's 253 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: like a huge relief. There you go, successful second date date. 254 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: We'll send you guys out again and you can have 255 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: a good time. Graham, I want to let you know 256 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 1: it's your lucky day to day. Yeah, because not only 257 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: am I sending you on a second date with Morgan, 258 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna go ahead and adopt you. You can 259 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: come stay at my place if you'd like. I think 260 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: I'd rather stay in my car in the morning. Today's 261 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: a second date update might have actually just changed somebody's life. 262 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety 263 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: two point five if you missed today's brand new second 264 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: date update. This girl Morgan wanted us to call Graham 265 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: because he'd been avoiding her. Turns out that Graham, when 266 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,079 Speaker 1: we got him on the phone, doesn't have a house. 267 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 1: He's in between places right now because he quit his 268 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 1: job and can't afford rent, so he's living in his car, 269 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 1: and that's why he was avoiding her, because he was 270 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: embarrassed of that cool. At the end of it, she 271 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: gave him a second chance. He wanted to go with 272 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: him again. She didn't she could look past that. But 273 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: I say that it could change his life because we're 274 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,439 Speaker 1: getting so many text message in at seven eight five 275 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: nine two with job opportunities for Graham, and that's what 276 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 1: he was saying. He quit because he couldn't take his 277 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:08,920 Speaker 1: job anymore that he was doing because it was terrible, 278 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: and so he's been looking for a new job and 279 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: he was going to try to find a job and 280 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 1: then hopefully ask her out on a date when he 281 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: could afford to take her out and could afford to 282 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: have a place to take her back to. But everybody 283 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: texting us at seven eight five nine two is offering 284 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: Graham a job. I'm going to go ahead, awesome and 285 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: get all these together, give it to him, and then 286 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: I'll leave it up to him to get in contact 287 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: with you guys. But really appreciate that you guys are awesome. 288 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: We have the best listeners. Yeah, Like we joke around 289 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: a lot and stuff, but when it comes to like 290 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: semi serious stuff like this, don't they know that we're 291 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: supposed to be all coldhearted? Yeah, feel that station. This 292 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: is not what we do. This is uncharted territory for us. 293 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: It's really weird charitable things. But yeah, thank you guys 294 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: very much. I think Graham will obviously appreciate it. And 295 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: hopefully he can get a job out of the deal 296 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: and the two of them can start a relationship or 297 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 1: at least go out and enjoy each other's company a 298 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: little bit. But I will get all the job offers down. 299 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: Keep him coming. If you want to try to interview 300 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: him for a job and you're interested in that at 301 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: seven eight five nine two, I'll give it to him 302 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: and see if he can get in contact with you 303 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: and we'll get an update. I'll stay in contact with 304 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: Graham and see if we can find out if he 305 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: actually gets a job out of the deal, and then 306 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: if he does, I want ten percent because I helped 307 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: him find that job. Kind of a fine receipt. Look, 308 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: we're charitable to a point, all right, I'm not an idiot. 309 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: Have limitation, all right. Remember if you want a second 310 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: date update, ILL have to do his email the show 311 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: Brook and Jewell at moving nine two five dot com.