WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Organ Moaner

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels. Second d the guy on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today is living my dream. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he's a single dad. They've always wanted to be a

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<v Speaker 1>single dad. You don't want kids, ever, you hate children.

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<v Speaker 1>Being a single dad is great because you get all

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<v Speaker 1>the joys of having a kid or whatever. But you

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<v Speaker 1>only have to do it like every other weekend a

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<v Speaker 1>divorce dad, and then usually get a lot of McDonald's.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, because that's usually where you know, you do

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<v Speaker 1>the meet up to change kids and stuff, So you're

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<v Speaker 1>always getting McDonald's. So it's like children light, is what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying. Yeah, yeah, that's the way to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna do fatherhood. That's what i've heard. At

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<v Speaker 1>least his name is Kevin. Kevin, what's up? Hey, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys doing? It's pretty good? Is it as

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<v Speaker 1>romantic as he describes it, being a single dad? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say, I do try to throw in

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<v Speaker 1>some vegetables every once in a while. Yeah, well for them,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. But yeah, you get McDonald's at least twice

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<v Speaker 1>a month. That's fun. It's got to be done. Your

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<v Speaker 1>email said that you're a single dad, you don't date

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<v Speaker 1>very much. So you're really excited to go on this date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been quite a while actually, and you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm out of practice. I don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>how to do that anymore. Date. So the way I

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<v Speaker 1>met this girl was pretty cool. I was taking my

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<v Speaker 1>kids to the Natural History Museum. Never mind, Hey, forget

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<v Speaker 1>what I said about being a single dad. That sounds terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Dinosaurs and stuff, It's like perfect, Okay, never mind, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>back on board. Sounds great. All right, So you're at

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<v Speaker 1>the History Museum with your kids and that's where you

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<v Speaker 1>met her. Yeah, because we were part of a tour

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<v Speaker 1>and my kid asked me something about I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>remember now, it's something about dinosaurs and like, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was searching for the answer and I couldn't come up

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<v Speaker 1>for it. And Stephanie, that's this girl's name, she stepped

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<v Speaker 1>in and she like completely knew all these answers, and

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<v Speaker 1>of course both of my kids like totally fell for

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<v Speaker 1>her right there, and I thought that was pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got to talking a little bit and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I guess flirting. I think it was flirting.

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<v Speaker 1>I sue, if you guys went on it was flirting. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, I just don't recognize it anyways, So we

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<v Speaker 1>did start talking, and at the end of our time

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<v Speaker 1>in the museum, I told the kids to sort of

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<v Speaker 1>go over there for a minute. Yeah, you distracted them.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up in chiny? I did look at that, look

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<v Speaker 1>at those skeletons over there, and I pushed them that way. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then check out those bones over there. Daddy's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try to get a bone of his. God, how long

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<v Speaker 1>have you been waiting to work in a bone joke?

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<v Speaker 1>Three minutes? But I didn't tell her, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't normally do this, but I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>would like to go out with me. That's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound cute, nervous, and it sounds lovely. So I

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<v Speaker 1>got her number and we made a plan and where'd

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<v Speaker 1>you go. We went to this nice restaurant and we

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<v Speaker 1>were having a good time and then something sort of

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<v Speaker 1>awkward happened. Um, okay, how far into the date were

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<v Speaker 1>you when the awkward thing happened? Well, unfortunately, it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of at the beginning because we were waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>our table at the bar and we were ordering drinks

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<v Speaker 1>and the bartender carded us, which is kind of funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not twenty one. So I was flattered, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>and he took our IDs and then he had them

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<v Speaker 1>back to us, but he like switched them up, so

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<v Speaker 1>I had hers, she had mine. Okay, So what's awkward

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<v Speaker 1>about that? Because the picture on my ID is like

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<v Speaker 1>three years ago and I weighed at least ninety pounds

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<v Speaker 1>more than that I do now, okay, So did it

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<v Speaker 1>even look like you on your ID? I can barely

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<v Speaker 1>recognize myself in that ID? Yeah, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I got this big, ugly beard and I just

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<v Speaker 1>said it wasn't a good time. Okay. Why would that

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<v Speaker 1>be awkward though? I mean because she sort of looked

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<v Speaker 1>at it, and then she looked at me and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, is this you kind of you know? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like yeah, and I went into the whole

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<v Speaker 1>story about, you know, what was going on, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I mean, she just seemed sort of shaken

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<v Speaker 1>up by that. I mean, I don't look like that anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>If anything, I would feel like she'd be impressed that

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<v Speaker 1>you were improving yourself and doing what you needed to

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<v Speaker 1>do to feel good about yourself. Yeah, me too, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's generally been the reaction. It's good for you losing

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<v Speaker 1>weight and getting healthier again. And that actually made her angry,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, and I never asked. I mean I assumed

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<v Speaker 1>that she was a single mom as well, that you

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<v Speaker 1>met at the History Museum. No no, no, no no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't have kids. But oh she doesn't have kids. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't have kids, but I mean that was one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that I thought was really cool, is like,

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed really cool with my kids. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>got along with them really well, you know, at the museum.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm biased, but my kids are pretty cool and

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<v Speaker 1>they were entertaining her. So that seemed like it was

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be a problem, which is a huge deal. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be differ, Frint if you let her know

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<v Speaker 1>that you had kids on the date and she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that going into the date. Didn't you be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's not calling back because of that, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not it. She she totally got along with them.

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<v Speaker 1>So so how did the date end? Well, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>we finished dinner and I was walking to her to

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<v Speaker 1>her car and I said good night. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a really great time and I tried to give

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<v Speaker 1>her a hug, just a hug, and she sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like backed away and backed away from a hug. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And did she say anything about it. I've made some

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<v Speaker 1>joke about like what like too fast or something, and

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<v Speaker 1>she sort of said yeah, and then she said, well, okay, bye,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she left. I mean, dare you think I'd

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<v Speaker 1>hug you on the first day. I mean, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try to kiss her. But anyways, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I am super confused because, you know, I called her,

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<v Speaker 1>left her message and told her I had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks I'm a creep or something. I couldn't quite tell, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I called her and I texted her, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just there's just nothing, no response, no response at all.

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<v Speaker 1>It sucks. It's like your first foray back into dating,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're you get tonight a hug. I know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like it started out so great at the museum

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<v Speaker 1>and then so I guess I'm asking you guys, like

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think happened? Like what is it? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super confused. Well, yeah, the dating game has changed a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>People don't hug anymore. You can get a disease that way. Yeah, yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't know that. We already figured out. No need

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<v Speaker 1>to make the phone call. No, I have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>what it could be. Well, we'll play a song, comeback,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, Okay, hold on brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second if you're just joining us for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin is on the phone and he wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Stephanie. We think the reason Stephanie's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back is because Kevin decided to do the

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<v Speaker 1>unthinkable in his life and get healthy. Oh yeah, lost

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch way started eating better, feels better than he

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<v Speaker 1>ever has before. Except now, sure you can run more,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't run after love. Can you can't catch love?

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<v Speaker 1>Can't run that first Kevin, I was trying. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed the first part. Kevin told us about the

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<v Speaker 1>date that he went on. They went out and had dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and the bartender asked them for their IDs at one point,

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<v Speaker 1>and he showed his ID and he looks a lot

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<v Speaker 1>different in his ID because how many pounds heavier were you?

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<v Speaker 1>Ninety pounds heavier, substantial and so he's lost a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of weight. And after that point her mood toward him changed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's almost like she got angry at you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't get angry. You know. I thought the date

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<v Speaker 1>work really well actually after we got over that initial

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<v Speaker 1>id thing and I thought it was fun until you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she receives to hug me at the end. Yeah, getting

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<v Speaker 1>shut down for a hug to me. Would say she

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of angry with you about something. Maybe. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's what I need you guys to find out

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<v Speaker 1>for me. All Right, Well, I'm gonna doll her phone

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<v Speaker 1>number right now, see if we can get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and find out what happened. Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Stephanie. Yes, Stephanie, Hey, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, who's this Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. It's a radio show. What is this in

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<v Speaker 1>regards to? Well, it's in regards to an email that

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<v Speaker 1>we got into the show, and the email was about you.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, well, you recently went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a guy, named Kevin. Yeah I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Who wants to know? Kevin does because he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date send us an email because now you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling it back, and wanted to see if we

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<v Speaker 1>could figure out if something went wrong. All right, Is

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<v Speaker 1>this that gonna take a long time because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I only want to talk about this. No, we can

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<v Speaker 1>get you off the phone pretty quickly. He just wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know because he really enjoyed going out with you.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that he thought you had a really good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's tried to call you and text you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he's getting nothing in. I can save you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time. Just tell him I'm not interested. Okay, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you don't have a lot of time right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But he seems like a really nice guy. He hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>been on a date. Yeah, yeah, okay, sure he's not

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<v Speaker 1>a nice guy. Uh No, no he's not. What really?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he came off as like an awesome guy who

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<v Speaker 1>has some kids, and yeah, yeah, that's why I thought

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<v Speaker 1>initially that's why I decided to go out with them,

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<v Speaker 1>but I found out that that was not the case.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he do? Look, I don't really want to

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<v Speaker 1>do this, Um, I'm just not interested in Kevin. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I don't only want to go into it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But you said so you sound upset at Kevin. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Well now is the perfect time to at

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<v Speaker 1>least state your case, yeah, and get it off your chest.

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<v Speaker 1>And if Kevin's doing something that you think is terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>now's your opportunity. Need to tell Kevin whatever you want. Okay. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So we were at the bar and we were getting

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and we got carded, and there was this mix

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<v Speaker 1>up with the IDs. He got my ID, I got

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<v Speaker 1>his ID and I took a look at it, and

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<v Speaker 1>his ID was the huge turn off right away? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that because so he told us that your attitude sort

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<v Speaker 1>of changed after he saw the ideas. Are you saying

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<v Speaker 1>because he was ninety pounds heavier? No? No, that that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't it. Oh my god, because I always had so

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<v Speaker 1>many mean words about you in my head if that

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be the case. No, no, no, that

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<v Speaker 1>that was not the case. But I noticed that he's

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<v Speaker 1>not an organ donor, okay, And and that's terrible. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? He's that's incredibly selfish. That's the reason. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to allow him agin because he hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>elected to donate his organs after he dies. That's exactly why.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I don't appreciate you laughing about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very serious, all right. Well that's how Zay laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>He laughed at everything, So it's fine. I don't appreciate it. Honestly, though,

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<v Speaker 1>to me, it does seem kind of trivial to not

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with a person again because they're

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<v Speaker 1>not an organ downer. Look, I would understand if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like a young guy I didn't know better.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is a guy who has kids. He has

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<v Speaker 1>two kids, and like one organ can save up to

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<v Speaker 1>eight lives. I mean, it's it's not just not just

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<v Speaker 1>one to one, you know. So I the thought of

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<v Speaker 1>someone not wanting to do that and not wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>even take the chance of saving that many people, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's incredibly selfish. Yeah, I mean, okay, I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an organ downer. I think it's important for me, but

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has a different reason. And you didn't even give

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<v Speaker 1>him a chance to expect. I don't care. He should

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<v Speaker 1>he should know that, and he should he should look

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<v Speaker 1>for the box and check it. I don't care. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no excuse for that. In my mind, he needs

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<v Speaker 1>to understand the consequences of not checking that. Why didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you just talk to him about it if you were

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<v Speaker 1>that passionate about this, cause, look, you're not listening to me.

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<v Speaker 1>The point is, like, I shouldn't be the one to

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<v Speaker 1>have to explain this to him. He's an adult. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to date a guy who needs a mom

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him that. Okay, he should know that. I'm um. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you're really fired off about this, are you? Yeah? I am.

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<v Speaker 1>You can tell him. I think he's a scumbag for

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<v Speaker 1>not being an organ doner. I'm never going to date

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<v Speaker 1>him again. Wow. Okay, Well how about this, Stephanie. What

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<v Speaker 1>if you just tell him that I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that I don't want to talk to him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's too bad because he's actually on the other line,

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<v Speaker 1>who wants to talk to you? What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's the whole point of this was so

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<v Speaker 1>we could get you two on the phone together. He's listening. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Hey, Stephanie, I don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you Kevin. Wow. Look, I feel like I need

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<v Speaker 1>to at least have the opportunity to defend myself here.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm being accused of some horrible being

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<v Speaker 1>saw him. Yeah, because you are listen. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>anything against organ donors. Okay, I think it's why are

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<v Speaker 1>anyone I don't know? I? Because I did? I must

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<v Speaker 1>have missed the box or what's good enough reason, Kevin?

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<v Speaker 1>Look for the box and check it. It's not that

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<v Speaker 1>hard who Okay, I take your point. I just we

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<v Speaker 1>should give me a little slacks here. Okay, Kevin, you

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<v Speaker 1>you have kids? Okay, you have kids? Exactly happened to

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<v Speaker 1>your kids? Excuse me? I have two kids who I

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<v Speaker 1>love more than anything, and they're also a handful okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I gotta be on my toes. And maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>was frazzled or whatever. I'm sure they were with me

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<v Speaker 1>at the D and V. And that could have been

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<v Speaker 1>why I didn't check the box. It's not because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>some weird monster who won't give my organs away. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to need to be more responsible and think

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<v Speaker 1>about why didn't shoot? Why didn't you say anything? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I should want to tell you to be an organ donor.

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<v Speaker 1>You should know that yourself. You're a grown man. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to be an organ donor. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you had told me that at dinner, I would have said,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wow, I didn't realize that I wasn't. I will

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<v Speaker 1>get right on that. Oh that's so convenient, Kevin. You're

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<v Speaker 1>saying that because you want to date me again so

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<v Speaker 1>you can sleep with me. He said, he's not an

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<v Speaker 1>organ donor. Actually, actually, Stephanie, I can put your mind

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<v Speaker 1>at ease because I really really don't want to date you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I definitely don't want to sleep with you. Oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>stephan you realize you're coming off is a bit crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Your code off is that naggy Okay, you've been nagging

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<v Speaker 1>me the whole time, and is if I have to

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<v Speaker 1>defend my position on standing up for honestly the whole

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<v Speaker 1>human way, I have to do that. What Wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, are you saying that because I forgot

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<v Speaker 1>or I missed a check a box? People have died

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<v Speaker 1>because of me not checking a box. Maybe not yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but someday you're going to kill somebody. Whoa, whoa, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna kill somebody because I yeah, because I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to donate an organ. What are they're gonna die of

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<v Speaker 1>a o heart. I don't understand how does that kill someone?

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<v Speaker 1>Just because you don't take a weapon and kill somebody

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make you not a murderer. I mean, Stephanie, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you may have a good point somewhere in there, but

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<v Speaker 1>you need to be less aggressive about it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are being ignorant and I don't even want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you guys about this. Can I ask

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<v Speaker 1>you one more question? Please? What do you want? I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>You're taking up enough of my time already. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask you if you'll go out with Kevin

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. We will pay for it whatever. Smart.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't appreciate this. Hey, Kevin, Yeah, yeah, she hung up.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh that's a tasman. I mean you should be an

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<v Speaker 1>organ donor though. I will gladly go down and register

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<v Speaker 1>as an organ donor, but not because of stephany, because

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the right thing to do. Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even know that. I wasn't all right well until

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<v Speaker 1>you do that, Kevin. In my book, You're a murderer

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<v Speaker 1>Morning text message in at seven eight five nine too,

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<v Speaker 1>it says Kevin didn't just dodge a bullet. He dodged

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<v Speaker 1>a nuclear bomb. Good for him. Talking about today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update if you missed it, this dude, Kevin wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named Stephanie. She wasn't calling back

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<v Speaker 1>after their date, and he thought, for some strange reason,

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<v Speaker 1>she was angry at him for losing weight, because there

0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:21.400
<v Speaker 1>was a moment where they had to take out their

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<v Speaker 1>IDs and a picture in his IDs like ninety pounds heavier.

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<v Speaker 1>Once she saw the id, she became cold to him,

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't know why. It was hard to believe

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe somebody would be angry at him for losing

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of weight, and it wasn't that. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that on his license he wasn't listed as

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<v Speaker 1>an organ donor and she went as far to call

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<v Speaker 1>him a murderer. Did she lost it? Man, I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>if Stephanie dies, I do not want her angry kidneys. No.

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<v Speaker 1>That didn't keep those things away from me. And the

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<v Speaker 1>worst part to me was like he was like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even notice, Like I totally would be. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine with being an organ doner. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with it. She's like, whatever, you just want

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<v Speaker 1>people to die. Somebody texted in it of an eight

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<v Speaker 1>five nine tune said, can you imagine if they got

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<v Speaker 1>married and he didn't recycle one day? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she might actually be a murderer on that day. I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is is, if you do have a

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<v Speaker 1>really strong stance on something like that, that's not how

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<v Speaker 1>you communicate it, how you get people on your side.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask him about it. I don't know. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second date update, all you have

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<v Speaker 1>to do is email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back, even if they're

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<v Speaker 1>a murderer and don't want to be an organ donor

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five