Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second d the guy on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today is living my dream. Oh
Speaker 1: he's a single dad. They've always wanted to be a
Speaker 1: single dad. You don't want kids, ever, you hate children.
Speaker 1: Being a single dad is great because you get all
Speaker 1: the joys of having a kid or whatever. But you
Speaker 1: only have to do it like every other weekend a
Speaker 1: divorce dad, and then usually get a lot of McDonald's.
Speaker 1: I see, because that's usually where you know, you do
Speaker 1: the meet up to change kids and stuff, So you're
Speaker 1: always getting McDonald's. So it's like children light, is what
Speaker 1: you're saying. Yeah, yeah, that's the way to do it,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna do fatherhood. That's what i've heard. At
Speaker 1: least his name is Kevin. Kevin, what's up? Hey, how
Speaker 1: are you guys doing? It's pretty good? Is it as
Speaker 1: romantic as he describes it, being a single dad? Well,
Speaker 1: I have to say, I do try to throw in
Speaker 1: some vegetables every once in a while. Yeah, well for them,
Speaker 1: I guess. But yeah, you get McDonald's at least twice
Speaker 1: a month. That's fun. It's got to be done. Your
Speaker 1: email said that you're a single dad, you don't date
Speaker 1: very much. So you're really excited to go on this date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's been quite a while actually, and you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm out of practice. I don't really know
Speaker 1: how to do that anymore. Date. So the way I
Speaker 1: met this girl was pretty cool. I was taking my
Speaker 1: kids to the Natural History Museum. Never mind, Hey, forget
Speaker 1: what I said about being a single dad. That sounds terrible.
Speaker 1: Dinosaurs and stuff, It's like perfect, Okay, never mind, I'm
Speaker 1: back on board. Sounds great. All right, So you're at
Speaker 1: the History Museum with your kids and that's where you
Speaker 1: met her. Yeah, because we were part of a tour
Speaker 1: and my kid asked me something about I don't even
Speaker 1: remember now, it's something about dinosaurs and like, and I
Speaker 1: was searching for the answer and I couldn't come up
Speaker 1: for it. And Stephanie, that's this girl's name, she stepped
Speaker 1: in and she like completely knew all these answers, and
Speaker 1: of course both of my kids like totally fell for
Speaker 1: her right there, and I thought that was pretty cool.
Speaker 1: So we got to talking a little bit and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I guess flirting. I think it was flirting.
Speaker 1: I sue, if you guys went on it was flirting. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: thank you, I just don't recognize it anyways, So we
Speaker 1: did start talking, and at the end of our time
Speaker 1: in the museum, I told the kids to sort of
Speaker 1: go over there for a minute. Yeah, you distracted them.
Speaker 1: What's up in chiny? I did look at that, look
Speaker 1: at those skeletons over there, and I pushed them that way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then check out those bones over there. Daddy's gonna
Speaker 1: try to get a bone of his. God, how long
Speaker 1: have you been waiting to work in a bone joke?
Speaker 1: Three minutes? But I didn't tell her, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't normally do this, but I asked her if she
Speaker 1: would like to go out with me. That's so cute.
Speaker 1: You sound cute, nervous, and it sounds lovely. So I
Speaker 1: got her number and we made a plan and where'd
Speaker 1: you go. We went to this nice restaurant and we
Speaker 1: were having a good time and then something sort of
Speaker 1: awkward happened. Um, okay, how far into the date were
Speaker 1: you when the awkward thing happened? Well, unfortunately, it was
Speaker 1: kind of at the beginning because we were waiting for
Speaker 1: our table at the bar and we were ordering drinks
Speaker 1: and the bartender carded us, which is kind of funny,
Speaker 1: and you're not twenty one. So I was flattered, I guess,
Speaker 1: and he took our IDs and then he had them
Speaker 1: back to us, but he like switched them up, so
Speaker 1: I had hers, she had mine. Okay, So what's awkward
Speaker 1: about that? Because the picture on my ID is like
Speaker 1: three years ago and I weighed at least ninety pounds
Speaker 1: more than that I do now, okay, So did it
Speaker 1: even look like you on your ID? I can barely
Speaker 1: recognize myself in that ID? Yeah, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like I got this big, ugly beard and I just
Speaker 1: said it wasn't a good time. Okay. Why would that
Speaker 1: be awkward though? I mean because she sort of looked
Speaker 1: at it, and then she looked at me and she
Speaker 1: was like, is this you kind of you know? And
Speaker 1: I was like yeah, and I went into the whole
Speaker 1: story about, you know, what was going on, and I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, she just seemed sort of shaken
Speaker 1: up by that. I mean, I don't look like that anymore.
Speaker 1: If anything, I would feel like she'd be impressed that
Speaker 1: you were improving yourself and doing what you needed to
Speaker 1: do to feel good about yourself. Yeah, me too, and
Speaker 1: that's generally been the reaction. It's good for you losing
Speaker 1: weight and getting healthier again. And that actually made her angry,
Speaker 1: I guess, and I never asked. I mean I assumed
Speaker 1: that she was a single mom as well, that you
Speaker 1: met at the History Museum. No no, no, no no, no,
Speaker 1: she doesn't have kids. But oh she doesn't have kids. No,
Speaker 1: she doesn't have kids, but I mean that was one
Speaker 1: of the things that I thought was really cool, is like,
Speaker 1: she seemed really cool with my kids. I mean, she
Speaker 1: got along with them really well, you know, at the museum.
Speaker 1: And I'm biased, but my kids are pretty cool and
Speaker 1: they were entertaining her. So that seemed like it was
Speaker 1: not going to be a problem, which is a huge deal. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it would be differ, Frint if you let her know
Speaker 1: that you had kids on the date and she didn't
Speaker 1: know that going into the date. Didn't you be like, well,
Speaker 1: maybe she's not calling back because of that, right, No,
Speaker 1: that's not it. She she totally got along with them.
Speaker 1: So so how did the date end? Well, okay, so
Speaker 1: we finished dinner and I was walking to her to
Speaker 1: her car and I said good night. You know, I
Speaker 1: had a really great time and I tried to give
Speaker 1: her a hug, just a hug, and she sort of
Speaker 1: like backed away and backed away from a hug. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And did she say anything about it. I've made some
Speaker 1: joke about like what like too fast or something, and
Speaker 1: she sort of said yeah, and then she said, well, okay, bye,
Speaker 1: and then she left. I mean, dare you think I'd
Speaker 1: hug you on the first day. I mean, I wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna try to kiss her. But anyways, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I am super confused because, you know, I called her,
Speaker 1: left her message and told her I had a great time.
Speaker 1: And I mean, in the back of my mind, I'm thinking, wow,
Speaker 1: she thinks I'm a creep or something. I couldn't quite tell, right,
Speaker 1: So I called her and I texted her, and I'm
Speaker 1: just there's just nothing, no response, no response at all.
Speaker 1: It sucks. It's like your first foray back into dating,
Speaker 1: then you're you get tonight a hug. I know, it
Speaker 1: was like it started out so great at the museum
Speaker 1: and then so I guess I'm asking you guys, like
Speaker 1: what do you think happened? Like what is it? I'm
Speaker 1: super confused. Well, yeah, the dating game has changed a lot.
Speaker 1: People don't hug anymore. You can get a disease that way. Yeah, yeah, sorry,
Speaker 1: you didn't know that. We already figured out. No need
Speaker 1: to make the phone call. No, I have no idea
Speaker 1: what it could be. Well, we'll play a song, comeback,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, hold on brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second if you're just joining us for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: Kevin is on the phone and he wants to call
Speaker 1: a girl named Stephanie. We think the reason Stephanie's not
Speaker 1: calling him back is because Kevin decided to do the
Speaker 1: unthinkable in his life and get healthy. Oh yeah, lost
Speaker 1: a bunch way started eating better, feels better than he
Speaker 1: ever has before. Except now, sure you can run more,
Speaker 1: but you can't run after love. Can you can't catch love?
Speaker 1: Can't run that first Kevin, I was trying. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you missed the first part. Kevin told us about the
Speaker 1: date that he went on. They went out and had dinner,
Speaker 1: and the bartender asked them for their IDs at one point,
Speaker 1: and he showed his ID and he looks a lot
Speaker 1: different in his ID because how many pounds heavier were you?
Speaker 1: Ninety pounds heavier, substantial and so he's lost a lot
Speaker 1: of weight. And after that point her mood toward him changed.
Speaker 1: It's almost like she got angry at you. I mean,
Speaker 1: she didn't get angry. You know. I thought the date
Speaker 1: work really well actually after we got over that initial
Speaker 1: id thing and I thought it was fun until you know,
Speaker 1: she receives to hug me at the end. Yeah, getting
Speaker 1: shut down for a hug to me. Would say she
Speaker 1: was kind of angry with you about something. Maybe. I
Speaker 1: guess that's what I need you guys to find out
Speaker 1: for me. All Right, Well, I'm gonna doll her phone
Speaker 1: number right now, see if we can get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out what happened. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Stephanie. Yes, Stephanie, Hey, Stephanie,
Speaker 1: this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, who's this Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. What is this in
Speaker 1: regards to? Well, it's in regards to an email that
Speaker 1: we got into the show, and the email was about you.
Speaker 1: What do you mean, well, you recently went out on
Speaker 1: a date with a guy, named Kevin. Yeah I did.
Speaker 1: Who wants to know? Kevin does because he told us
Speaker 1: about your date send us an email because now you're
Speaker 1: not calling it back, and wanted to see if we
Speaker 1: could figure out if something went wrong. All right, Is
Speaker 1: this that gonna take a long time because I don't
Speaker 1: I only want to talk about this. No, we can
Speaker 1: get you off the phone pretty quickly. He just wants
Speaker 1: to know because he really enjoyed going out with you.
Speaker 1: He said that he thought you had a really good time,
Speaker 1: and he's tried to call you and text you, and
Speaker 1: I guess he's getting nothing in. I can save you
Speaker 1: a lot of time. Just tell him I'm not interested. Okay, Oh,
Speaker 1: I know you don't have a lot of time right now.
Speaker 1: But he seems like a really nice guy. He hadn't
Speaker 1: been on a date. Yeah, yeah, okay, sure he's not
Speaker 1: a nice guy. Uh No, no he's not. What really?
Speaker 1: Because he came off as like an awesome guy who
Speaker 1: has some kids, and yeah, yeah, that's why I thought
Speaker 1: initially that's why I decided to go out with them,
Speaker 1: but I found out that that was not the case.
Speaker 1: What did he do? Look, I don't really want to
Speaker 1: do this, Um, I'm just not interested in Kevin. I
Speaker 1: don't I don't only want to go into it. Okay,
Speaker 1: But you said so you sound upset at Kevin. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I am. Well now is the perfect time to at
Speaker 1: least state your case, yeah, and get it off your chest.
Speaker 1: And if Kevin's doing something that you think is terrible,
Speaker 1: now's your opportunity. Need to tell Kevin whatever you want. Okay. Um,
Speaker 1: So we were at the bar and we were getting
Speaker 1: drinks and we got carded, and there was this mix
Speaker 1: up with the IDs. He got my ID, I got
Speaker 1: his ID and I took a look at it, and
Speaker 1: his ID was the huge turn off right away? Is
Speaker 1: that because so he told us that your attitude sort
Speaker 1: of changed after he saw the ideas. Are you saying
Speaker 1: because he was ninety pounds heavier? No? No, that that
Speaker 1: wasn't it. Oh my god, because I always had so
Speaker 1: many mean words about you in my head if that
Speaker 1: was going to be the case. No, no, no, that
Speaker 1: that was not the case. But I noticed that he's
Speaker 1: not an organ donor, okay, And and that's terrible. Are
Speaker 1: you serious? He's that's incredibly selfish. That's the reason. Yes,
Speaker 1: you don't want to allow him agin because he hasn't
Speaker 1: elected to donate his organs after he dies. That's exactly why.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't appreciate you laughing about that.
Speaker 1: It's very serious, all right. Well that's how Zay laughing.
Speaker 1: He laughed at everything, So it's fine. I don't appreciate it. Honestly, though,
Speaker 1: to me, it does seem kind of trivial to not
Speaker 1: want to go out with a person again because they're
Speaker 1: not an organ downer. Look, I would understand if you know,
Speaker 1: he was just like a young guy I didn't know better.
Speaker 1: But this is a guy who has kids. He has
Speaker 1: two kids, and like one organ can save up to
Speaker 1: eight lives. I mean, it's it's not just not just
Speaker 1: one to one, you know. So I the thought of
Speaker 1: someone not wanting to do that and not wanting to
Speaker 1: even take the chance of saving that many people, to me,
Speaker 1: that's incredibly selfish. Yeah, I mean, okay, I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: an organ downer. I think it's important for me, but
Speaker 1: everybody has a different reason. And you didn't even give
Speaker 1: him a chance to expect. I don't care. He should
Speaker 1: he should know that, and he should he should look
Speaker 1: for the box and check it. I don't care. Okay,
Speaker 1: there's no excuse for that. In my mind, he needs
Speaker 1: to understand the consequences of not checking that. Why didn't
Speaker 1: you just talk to him about it if you were
Speaker 1: that passionate about this, cause, look, you're not listening to me.
Speaker 1: The point is, like, I shouldn't be the one to
Speaker 1: have to explain this to him. He's an adult. I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to date a guy who needs a mom
Speaker 1: to tell him that. Okay, he should know that. I'm um. Wow,
Speaker 1: you're really fired off about this, are you? Yeah? I am.
Speaker 1: You can tell him. I think he's a scumbag for
Speaker 1: not being an organ doner. I'm never going to date
Speaker 1: him again. Wow. Okay, Well how about this, Stephanie. What
Speaker 1: if you just tell him that I don't want to
Speaker 1: tell him that I don't want to talk to him. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well it's too bad because he's actually on the other line,
Speaker 1: who wants to talk to you? What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the whole point of this was so
Speaker 1: we could get you two on the phone together. He's listening. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Hey, Stephanie, I don't want to talk
Speaker 1: to you Kevin. Wow. Look, I feel like I need
Speaker 1: to at least have the opportunity to defend myself here.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm being accused of some horrible being
Speaker 1: saw him. Yeah, because you are listen. I don't have
Speaker 1: anything against organ donors. Okay, I think it's why are
Speaker 1: anyone I don't know? I? Because I did? I must
Speaker 1: have missed the box or what's good enough reason, Kevin?
Speaker 1: Look for the box and check it. It's not that
Speaker 1: hard who Okay, I take your point. I just we
Speaker 1: should give me a little slacks here. Okay, Kevin, you
Speaker 1: you have kids? Okay, you have kids? Exactly happened to
Speaker 1: your kids? Excuse me? I have two kids who I
Speaker 1: love more than anything, and they're also a handful okay,
Speaker 1: and I gotta be on my toes. And maybe I
Speaker 1: was frazzled or whatever. I'm sure they were with me
Speaker 1: at the D and V. And that could have been
Speaker 1: why I didn't check the box. It's not because I'm
Speaker 1: some weird monster who won't give my organs away. Well,
Speaker 1: you need to need to be more responsible and think
Speaker 1: about why didn't shoot? Why didn't you say anything? Because
Speaker 1: I should want to tell you to be an organ donor.
Speaker 1: You should know that yourself. You're a grown man. Yes,
Speaker 1: I would love to be an organ donor. And if
Speaker 1: you had told me that at dinner, I would have said,
Speaker 1: oh wow, I didn't realize that I wasn't. I will
Speaker 1: get right on that. Oh that's so convenient, Kevin. You're
Speaker 1: saying that because you want to date me again so
Speaker 1: you can sleep with me. He said, he's not an
Speaker 1: organ donor. Actually, actually, Stephanie, I can put your mind
Speaker 1: at ease because I really really don't want to date you,
Speaker 1: and I definitely don't want to sleep with you. Oh well,
Speaker 1: stephan you realize you're coming off is a bit crazy.
Speaker 1: Your code off is that naggy Okay, you've been nagging
Speaker 1: me the whole time, and is if I have to
Speaker 1: defend my position on standing up for honestly the whole
Speaker 1: human way, I have to do that. What Wait a minute,
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, are you saying that because I forgot
Speaker 1: or I missed a check a box? People have died
Speaker 1: because of me not checking a box. Maybe not yet,
Speaker 1: but someday you're going to kill somebody. Whoa, whoa, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna kill somebody because I yeah, because I'm not going
Speaker 1: to donate an organ. What are they're gonna die of
Speaker 1: a o heart. I don't understand how does that kill someone?
Speaker 1: Just because you don't take a weapon and kill somebody
Speaker 1: doesn't make you not a murderer. I mean, Stephanie, Wow,
Speaker 1: you may have a good point somewhere in there, but
Speaker 1: you need to be less aggressive about it. I think
Speaker 1: you guys are being ignorant and I don't even want
Speaker 1: to talk to you guys about this. Can I ask
Speaker 1: you one more question? Please? What do you want? I'm done.
Speaker 1: You're taking up enough of my time already. I just
Speaker 1: want to ask you if you'll go out with Kevin
Speaker 1: on a second date. We will pay for it whatever. Smart.
Speaker 1: I don't appreciate this. Hey, Kevin, Yeah, yeah, she hung up.
Speaker 1: Huh that's a tasman. I mean you should be an
Speaker 1: organ donor though. I will gladly go down and register
Speaker 1: as an organ donor, but not because of stephany, because
Speaker 1: I think it's the right thing to do. Look, I
Speaker 1: didn't even know that. I wasn't all right well until
Speaker 1: you do that, Kevin. In my book, You're a murderer
Speaker 1: Morning text message in at seven eight five nine too,
Speaker 1: it says Kevin didn't just dodge a bullet. He dodged
Speaker 1: a nuclear bomb. Good for him. Talking about today's second
Speaker 1: date update if you missed it, this dude, Kevin wanted
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Stephanie. She wasn't calling back
Speaker 1: after their date, and he thought, for some strange reason,
Speaker 1: she was angry at him for losing weight, because there
Speaker 1: was a moment where they had to take out their
Speaker 1: IDs and a picture in his IDs like ninety pounds heavier.
Speaker 1: Once she saw the id, she became cold to him,
Speaker 1: and he didn't know why. It was hard to believe
Speaker 1: that maybe somebody would be angry at him for losing
Speaker 1: a bunch of weight, and it wasn't that. It was
Speaker 1: the fact that on his license he wasn't listed as
Speaker 1: an organ donor and she went as far to call
Speaker 1: him a murderer. Did she lost it? Man, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: if Stephanie dies, I do not want her angry kidneys. No.
Speaker 1: That didn't keep those things away from me. And the
Speaker 1: worst part to me was like he was like I
Speaker 1: didn't even notice, Like I totally would be. He's like,
Speaker 1: I'm fine with being an organ doner. I don't have
Speaker 1: a problem with it. She's like, whatever, you just want
Speaker 1: people to die. Somebody texted in it of an eight
Speaker 1: five nine tune said, can you imagine if they got
Speaker 1: married and he didn't recycle one day? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she might actually be a murderer on that day. I mean.
Speaker 1: And the thing is is, if you do have a
Speaker 1: really strong stance on something like that, that's not how
Speaker 1: you communicate it, how you get people on your side.
Speaker 1: Ask him about it. I don't know. Remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second date update, all you have
Speaker 1: to do is email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back, even if they're
Speaker 1: a murderer and don't want to be an organ donor
Speaker 1: ninety two point five