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Speaker 1: he's a single dad. They've always wanted to be a

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Speaker 1: Can't run that first Kevin, I was trying. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Stephanie. Yes, Stephanie, Hey, Stephanie,

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Speaker 1: this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. What is this in

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Speaker 1: I only want to talk about this. No, we can

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Speaker 1: But you said so you sound upset at Kevin. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And if Kevin's doing something that you think is terrible,

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Speaker 1: now's your opportunity. Need to tell Kevin whatever you want. Okay. Um,

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