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Speaker 1: been some amazingly bad things that have happened too. But

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Speaker 1: I say something else, Steve, He's stupid. I want everybody

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Jay, you're here with a segment called thick

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Speaker 1: book or thin book? Please explain or thin book. I

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Speaker 1: That's crazy. It is the barbershop, Brady, How you doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: My name, my name is Dennis Man. I got a

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Speaker 1: to a station here now now, now, come on here.

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Speaker 1: You know I do something to you which you want

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Speaker 1: You understand me. Understand Hold what I ain't got time.

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Speaker 1: Harpy Morning shown. Say oh, man, say bro my bad man. Hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: Turning in the chair with your hand which showed me junior.

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Speaker 1: Let me. Yeah, they be cutting, you know, maybe in

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Speaker 1: I'm say, Yeah, yeah, yeah, moving them Yeah, some female barber, Oh,

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Speaker 1: come on, hula hoop me. I love female barbers. This

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Speaker 1: is how I know. I had a bad hair cut

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Speaker 1: one time. I was at a white club and it

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Speaker 1: got y'all out, who cut your hair? You know? Coming

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Speaker 1: out more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. We're in the

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Speaker 1: middle of this segment called I'm Becoming My Parents, and

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Speaker 1: Jay and Steve Harvey are are letting us know that

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Speaker 1: they're saying things to the same thing. We haven't come

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Speaker 1: up with nothing new. You got one set. You got one.

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Speaker 1: Scratch on that wall is a scratch on yours? You

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Speaker 1: better say it. That's me now, a scratch on that wall.

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Speaker 1: There's scratch on ye ye, rank scratch on that wall.

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Speaker 1: That means you really want to scratch on you behind

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Speaker 1: that wall. How about this? I don't know if it

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Speaker 1: could be done, but I damn never got beat to

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Speaker 1: what I thought it was gonna come up. I will

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Speaker 1: beat all all the black hawk you're I will be

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Speaker 1: like all the black down that you standing in that frigerator.

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Speaker 1: Don't like your bought? What's got? What's the time living

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Speaker 1: on that? No? You gotta get in and get out.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Somebody needs to tell me why all

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Speaker 1: these lights is on? I need to know that. That's

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Speaker 1: my husband. Yeah, I need to know why all these

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Speaker 1: lightses on? Yeah? I love it. We're becoming our parents.

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00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 1: I'm tired called junior. Yeah, okay, this this is dedicated

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Speaker 1: to calling. This is Pat Boltner's love. Mama. Huh. If

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Speaker 1: you can humm me, you can hear men. Everybody to

449
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Speaker 1: make me crack. If you can hum, you can hear me. Oh.

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Speaker 1: Mama was a heavy, little heavy, you know, let heavy

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Speaker 1: on the stocky side. So this is her pattern. Don't

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Speaker 1: make me run after you, and she couldn't run anyway,

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Speaker 1: but don't make me run after you. You know you

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Speaker 1: didn't want that. Let me gonna walk back in take

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Speaker 1: this because it ain't gonna be nice. This one is

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Speaker 1: dedicated to Shirley's mama, Miss Helen. Sit down. Everyone has

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Speaker 1: seen you, you too, but yeah you did. Putting on

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Speaker 1: little show here that you get out of this room

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Speaker 1: looking in my mouth when I talk, because it ain't

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Speaker 1: nobody talking to you. This is this is grobl Yes, Ja, yes,

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Speaker 1: we are becoming our parent. Steve looking down my throat

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Speaker 1: wide talking what you got Steve, keep on, keep on

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Speaker 1: acting cute. See how cute your daddy? Thank you when

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Speaker 1: you get home from work? Who slick get in here,

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Speaker 1: slick on, cut out all this cute. Okay, your mama said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and your daddy hit Hall introduced with Steve with more

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Speaker 1: of today's headlines. All right, you got to introduce her, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Well you just did it. And Blazi gym and miss

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Speaker 1: and is here with more today's headline. Go ahead, miss Anne.

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Speaker 1: I will thank you very much. Everybody, Here we go.

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Speaker 1: This is a trip everyone. Lawsuits from various quarters are

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Speaker 1: being prepared this week and answered to President of Trump's

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Speaker 1: National Emergency declaration, Many wondering if there actually is some

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Speaker 1: urgent crisis, though at the southern border. Since the President

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Speaker 1: seemed to contradict himself, I could do the wall over

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Speaker 1: a longer period of time. I didn't need to do this,

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Speaker 1: but I'd rather do it much faster, and I don't

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Speaker 1: have to do it for the election. I've already done

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Speaker 1: a lot of wall for the election twenty twenty, so

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Speaker 1: he said he didn't have to do it anyway. Since

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Speaker 1: the emergency declaration allows Trump to siphon money off from

482
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Speaker 1: programs already okayed by the Congress to build that border wall,

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00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,760
Speaker 1: the result could be disappointment or even anger if money

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Speaker 1: is taken from a project that the army or that

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Speaker 1: a lawmaker promised to constituents. We'll see what happens there.

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Speaker 1: Senator Tammy Duckworth tells ABC's This Week that the whole

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Speaker 1: situations were of I don't want a type of government

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00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: in place where we're playing these tip for tat games.

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Speaker 1: It should be one where we serve the American people

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Speaker 1: by coming to a consensus and where we're headed. This

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Speaker 1: division is not acceptable for our form of democracy. However,

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Speaker 1: Trump advised, as Stephen Miller says, the President is ready

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Speaker 1: to defend his position by the way. Lawmakers in El Paso,

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Speaker 1: Texas were proved a resolution last week before the President

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Speaker 1: visited that border town that said quote, el Paso County

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Speaker 1: is disillusioned by President Trump's lies regarding the border and

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Speaker 1: our community all pass Those legislators say violent crime dropped

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Speaker 1: there by over sixty percent in the years leading up

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Speaker 1: to two thousand and seven, and that the wall wasn't

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Speaker 1: built there until a year later. The Mayor of Portland,

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Speaker 1: Oregon ted Wheeler calling for an investigation to the text

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Speaker 1: messages sent between a Portland police officer and the head

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Speaker 1: of the racist group called Patriot Prayer. According to the

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Speaker 1: Willamette Weekly, Lieutenant Jeff Naya allegedly conspired with Patriot Prayers

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Speaker 1: Joey Gibson to help the right wing group while it

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Speaker 1: continue to engage in several violent clashes with anti racist demonstrators,

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Speaker 1: and mayor calls the text messages disturbing. He has the

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Speaker 1: community members have long express concerns about polices of their

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Speaker 1: police pro right wing bias during demonstrations. Okay a court

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Speaker 1: in ABC News Chicago, cops want to talk to Journey Schmalett,

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Speaker 1: who says that he was the victim of that racist

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Speaker 1: and homophobic attack a few weeks ago. The report says

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Speaker 1: that two brothers considered persons of interest at one point

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Speaker 1: in the case, have been released from custody without charges

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Speaker 1: and that they're cooperating with the authorities. And now TMZ

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Speaker 1: says the case is going to be presented to a

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Speaker 1: grand jury next week. Looks like there's another teacher strike

518
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Speaker 1: in the horizon, this time schedule for Oakland, California. Tops

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Speaker 1: of the weekend box office a lead of Battle Angel.

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Speaker 1: We've made the biggest mistake of your life, underestimating who

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Speaker 1: I am. By the end of day, thirty six point

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Speaker 1: five million dollars. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show? All right, listen, guys. According to

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Speaker 1: a new study performed by giftcards dot Com, dating is

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Speaker 1: making us go broke. Dating is making us go broke? Okay,

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Speaker 1: really and yeah, that's what the survey said. This is

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Speaker 1: getting married. Well, this was a Paul Steve of over

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Speaker 1: a thousand people. It was revealed that single people are

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Speaker 1: spending an average of one hundred and forty six dollars

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Speaker 1: per month on dating. Way more than that isn't low.

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Speaker 1: That's nearly seventeen hundred and fifty dollars a year. Admittedly,

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Speaker 1: people in a relationship only spent spend slightly less than that,

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Speaker 1: at one hundred and thirty nine dollars a month, and

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Speaker 1: married people get off the cheapest of all. If you

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Speaker 1: can call one hundred and thirty dollars a month cheap. Really,

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Speaker 1: if if you been in one hundred and thirty on

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Speaker 1: a date, that's your girl ain't got no ambition, she

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00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: ain't really try to do much that she ain't got

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Speaker 1: no goals for herself. For no one hundred and forty

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Speaker 1: a month a month on a date, man, that's just

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Speaker 1: the movies. Total good. But I'm just gonna have to

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Speaker 1: say this, then say, if we're spending one hundred and

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Speaker 1: forty six dollars a month on dating, First of all,

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Speaker 1: you need to make show you got jack one girl,

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Speaker 1: because did one forty six throw in your ass into something?

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Speaker 1: Yeah for thirty days? Yeah for thirty days. You you

547
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Speaker 1: really gonna have to make sure you got one good now. Secondly, man,

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Speaker 1: you got to really be thinking of something else to

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Speaker 1: do for it. Let's sing of it. Let's get out

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00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: of our age groups and think of it younger like millennials,

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Speaker 1: this is probably and how often do they? They may

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Speaker 1: be saying if you're going two dates and yeah, for

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Speaker 1: the millennials and for me, the movie it's the same.

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00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:07,439
Speaker 1: Pat damn popcorn don't change. So it has to save

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00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: up a lot for this day, right, that's one for Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's and that's just one day. Yeah, can't I say

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Speaker 1: this though, I mean, look, that is what it is. Yeah. Look,

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Speaker 1: you gotta spend money when you're dating, you do. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, every date can't be a Netflix and chill.

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Speaker 1: This ain't going with everybody. Come on, man, I'm very ambitious.

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Speaker 1: You got to set your wine and dyne money to

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Speaker 1: the side and get to wining and get you dyne. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, it ain't got to be that much sometimes, man, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Just hey, baby, let me pick you up. I'm gonna

565
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Speaker 1: do a little picnic. Get you sell some chicken. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and just gone somewhere, spread a tablecloth out and have

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Speaker 1: a picnic. Man, women would love that girl he threw

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Speaker 1: a picnic. What does the least amount of money you've

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Speaker 1: gone out on a date with churches about fi five dollars? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you've gone out on a date date with five dollars.

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Speaker 1: I met a girl one night in a club and

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Speaker 1: I had like eight dollars. Denny's was crossed the street

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Speaker 1: from Spats. We went to Denny's. The grand slam was

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Speaker 1: dollars ninety nine. Who would I let her eat the

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Speaker 1: dollars ninety nine? I had a greal cheese sandwich and

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Speaker 1: a whole lot of water. We'll have more of a

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Speaker 1: d Harvey Morning show. Yeah, right after this. You're listening show?

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Speaker 1: All right. Yahoo is reporting, guys, a new pole that

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Speaker 1: finds fifty nine percent of couples say that they suspected

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Speaker 1: their partner of cheating. If they suspected them, they would

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Speaker 1: discuss the matter with them rather than jumping to conclusions.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that again for the lates. Okay, fifty

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Speaker 1: nine percent of couples say that if they suspected their

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Speaker 1: partner of cheating, they would discuss the matter with them

585
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: rather than jump been too conclusions. Okay, cool, Let me

586
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Speaker 1: ask you a questions, Shirley and Callum, No, let me

587
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: ask you a question. Just listen to this question. If

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00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: you suspected your husband of cheating and it was not

589
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: on the internet, nobody knew, none of your co workers,

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00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: it was not It wasn't made public. If you suspected

591
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 1: your husband of cheating, would you bring it up calmly?

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Speaker 1: Would you bring it up with anger? How would you

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Speaker 1: do it? Probably? All of the above for me, without

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Speaker 1: the calm though you already nowhere. I'm coming bigger all

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00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: of that, All of the above for me, without the calm. Anger.

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00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,439
Speaker 1: If I suspected that not yet? No, Well, I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you had suspicions, you ain't have no proof. You ain't,

598
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Speaker 1: you ain't heard nothing, You ain't got no pictures, ain't no,

599
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: ain't on internet, and none of that. But Steve, you

600
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: know we have intuition. You know we have intuition. Disappointing

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00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: to you, mister Harvey, I don't know. I'm just trying

602
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 1: to see what y'all would do. I don't really And

603
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: and the word discussion I have a problem with. There

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00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: will be no discussion. Well all, you gonna just find

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00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: out on your own first, like little c s I,

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Speaker 1: And let me ask you a question. Suppose you discovered

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Speaker 1: that you were wrong about him and that he wasn't cheating.

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Speaker 1: What happens at that point, Oh, then I'm apologizing and

609
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: begging to his forgiveness, begging for his forgiveness and threatening

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00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: him he'd better not do it. You see what happens.

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Speaker 1: Yet God in his heart, you gotta do that. Yeah,

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00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: you apologize for your wrongdoingly, you know, make it up

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Speaker 1: to him. You know all of that. Wow, that's a man.

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Speaker 1: Any more questions, We're here for it. No, y'all's answers

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00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: is short and yeah and truthful, and there's no one.

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Speaker 1: There's no one in between, ain't no. You know that's

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Speaker 1: I don't like talking to y'all. Were you expecting something else?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I expected, but that wasn't it.

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Speaker 1: You've obviously been through this before. I'll tell you what

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Speaker 1: I found out. Though I'm fired out, I ain't fired

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Speaker 1: up to have a discussion. Once they find out, I'll

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Speaker 1: cheat this, it's all. You're ugly ass sitting up here.

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Speaker 1: Got the cheat? No, you did, But Junior, don't you

624
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Speaker 1: know that money changes things? Yeah? How you get the

625
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: nurse that was before? Look at you now see Tommy

626
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: saying dang Junior, like you can't believe Junior called himself ugly. Tommy,

627
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Speaker 1: You're ugly? No, I am not, and I gonna let

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Speaker 1: you bring stop doing that you go listen twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna do this. I'm not. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: the truth and truth thousand naden. Are you fine? No,

631
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Speaker 1: I'm not no fine, and I'm not off. But I

632
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: ain't just beenna, be hug little No, I'm not doing that. Dog,

633
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 1: you're not fine, and I'm not hugging. But listen to me.

634
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: If you're not fine, then by a lone ship, what

635
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: you think that is? Why didn't do that to him?

636
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why tell me to keep thinking he

637
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: cute but you're not cute. I didn't say I was cute.

638
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm not. Listen to me. Listen to me.

639
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 1: You look strang I'm decent. I don't look strang man.

640
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 1: You do not looks great. Trying to get a mirror

641
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: and look at yourself from the side, you're strange. I'm

642
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: not strange. I'm tell me you are. You look strange.

643
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: All everybody, all the men in our family, we're strange

644
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: looking from the side. Look't have phone with the time

645
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,399
Speaker 1: and when you accept it, tell me that he's never

646
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: going to accept that. You guys know that I'm not

647
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it all right, we're speaking of you're

648
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the

649
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,839
Speaker 1: top of the hour, right about four minutes after it's

650
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. But right now it is time for

651
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,839
Speaker 1: the Nephew, the King of Pranks, with today's prank phone call.

652
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: What you got, neph You ain't married? Huh you ain't married? An,

653
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm just like everyone ain't married. Watch me work running cat. Hello. Hello,

654
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Brian. Yeah, how are you doing? Brian?

655
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: My name is Daniel. Wanted to give you a call today?

656
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: You got a minute? Yeah, okay, listen, Um you're you're Brian? Um, Brian? Right?

657
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 1: You're married to uh to Alfhia Yeah? Hello hello yeah

658
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, that doesn't mean that's my wife's Yeah, okay,

659
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,280
Speaker 1: got a question for you. Hello. You guys been married

660
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,879
Speaker 1: going on nine years now, we've been married? Now, who

661
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,760
Speaker 1: is this? My name is Daniel? Were you um? Were

662
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: you guys married a Greater New Missionary Baptist Church in

663
00:46:27,239 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: the Sea? Yeah, yeah, yep, yep, that's the name of

664
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: that church. Yeah, great, bout nine years? Yeah that's right.

665
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: Why what's going on? What's asking me all these questions? Fuck? Okay,

666
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 1: do you remember the minister that officiated your actual wedding ceremony? Yeah? No,

667
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 1: uh right, yeah, okay, I got the right person. I

668
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure I had the right person, Brian.

669
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: So I'm I'm sorry if if it seemed a little

670
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: weird to you. Here's here's what's going on. We've just

671
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,319
Speaker 1: come up with a new discovery a lot of information

672
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:05,760
Speaker 1: that Reverend none of his credentials are true. Everything is false.

673
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: He's not a minister at all, he never was a minister,

674
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: and every single wedding ceremony that he officiated is basically

675
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: null and void. So and I hate to be the

676
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: bearer of bad news, but you and Alphea, even though

677
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 1: you think you've been married for nine years, you guys

678
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 1: are not married. No no, no no, no, no, no. You

679
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: gotta have the wrong person, because then then we got

680
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: we got married by nine years ago. And what I'm

681
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 1: telling you is he he never was ordained. He's never

682
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: been an ordained minister. He's not a minister at all.

683
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: So when he performed this ceremony, you're a wedding ceremony,

684
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,280
Speaker 1: he had no right to be doing that. You guys

685
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: are not are not married. You know, you guys have

686
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: been living in sin for nine years. Hold on, hold,

687
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: hold on that. Let me tell you something. I ain't

688
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: been living no man, my wife we have been married

689
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: for nine years. And that man he's a preacher. I'm

690
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 1: telling he's a preacher. I hear, I'm preach land Funday, Sir.

691
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: As of today, he has no right to be in

692
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 1: anybody's pulpit. He has no right to be officiating, whether

693
00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: it's weddings or funerals, no matter what it is, christenings

694
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: for children. He's not allowed to do that. And we

695
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: have officially stopped him from doing anything serving under as

696
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: being a pastor or a minister. We have stopped that.

697
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: But what I want you to know is that you

698
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 1: have been living in sin and you don't you We

699
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 1: want to try and get you guys married as soon

700
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: as possible, so you're not living in sin. Oh no, doc,

701
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,479
Speaker 1: I have been living in those sins. I have been

702
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: married for nine years. This woman ship been taking care

703
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 1: of me and my kids for the past Wait. Wait,

704
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 1: wait a minute, way, you guys have children. Yeah, yeah,

705
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: we have two two kids, two beautiful kids. Okay, then

706
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: those kids are bastard stafford on let me tell you something.

707
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: My kids ain't no baskets. What about your kids? Your

708
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 1: kids on basketts? No, sir, my kids, my kids were

709
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: born in wedlock. Your kids have been born out wedlocks.

710
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that man did my service, and he

711
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: is a preacher. He's a man after God's old heart himself.

712
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: He hasn't done everything that he come for me and

713
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: my family. He is a preacher. So I know it's

714
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: hard for you to to to swallow the truth, but

715
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: I want you to know, and I need you to

716
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: be able to tell out Fiel that you guys are

717
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: not married and not as of right now. Now no, okay, Solder. Now,

718
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: back in the olden days, but before all these all

719
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: these colleges and stuff came came about, you telling me

720
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: that they're men baking old days, that they weren't no preachers,

721
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: that they wasn't meant men after the cloth? Is that

722
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: what you're saying to me? What are you? What are you?

723
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: What are you? What are you getting at? Sir? What

724
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is back in the older days,

725
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 1: baking the twenties and thirties, they didn't have all these

726
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: colleges and all these degrees and stuff like these new

727
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: preachers got these days. That man now he was from

728
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: back then, and God called them and that's what they

729
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: went on too. And all the people that they married

730
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: back then they did the same thing today. You don't

731
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: need know the greed to say that you're a preacher.

732
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 1: You don't need no life to say you're a preacher.

733
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,359
Speaker 1: Me and my wife will been maried for nine years.

734
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:20,280
Speaker 1: My kids have been born in wedlock. We were married,

735
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: we were mad for my friends and family day was

736
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: all there, sir. The bottom line is that that you

737
00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: have been living in sin because you have not been

738
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: married with your wife for the last nine years. And

739
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:35,359
Speaker 1: your kids, I hate to say it, your kids are bastards.

740
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: Now on. Now I've told you, don't say nothing else

741
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: about my kids said, I ain't no custom, But don't

742
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: push me. My kids ain't no bassors. You understand me,

743
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: You don't get mad, sir. I'm trying to give you

744
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 1: the truth and try to get you in here and

745
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 1: get you married so you will not be living in

746
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 1: sin any more than what you are. I'm living in

747
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: no sins. Look now, you don't make me whoop your ass.

748
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: You understand man, My wife we have been married for

749
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: nine years. Don't shoot up here called me talking about

750
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 1: the way. Ain't man that that man ain't gonna feature

751
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: you understand? I get out of my phone. You that's

752
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 1: my life. Those are my kids. They have been born

753
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: in red lits. Do you understand, sir? Sir? I just

754
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: wanted to call and give you the information so that

755
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: you could probably stop living in sin. That's all I

756
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 1: wanted to do. I ain't living an none sin. That's

757
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: what I just told you. You ain't hitting me. I

758
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: ain't living a no sin. Maybe anyone that's living up

759
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 1: some sin. Now, you ain't got nothing else said to

760
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: me that man if Nevers nine years ago, they get

761
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: your ass on my phone, Sir, sir, So I have

762
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 1: one more thing, one more thing I'd like to say.

763
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing else to say to me. You

764
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: ain't get though ass off my dam's phone? Now, do

765
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 1: you understand me? I ain't got time for this publicly, sir?

766
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: Can I say one more thing? What you gotta say

767
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 1: on me? Now? So? I just wanted to let you

768
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: know that this is nephew tim Me from the Steve

769
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 1: Harpy Morning Show. Your wife and field got me to

770
00:51:54,960 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: break phone call you oh man, oh lordest dot yeah

771
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 1: uh do Yeah. I almost went in on you dot you.

772
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let me go down. Yeah, I'm gonna get

773
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: think put you up to this. Tha got me to

774
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: prank you. Man, wow man, oh man, hey man, you

775
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 1: all right with me? Brother? I got to ask you something. Man.

776
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,240
Speaker 1: One is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

777
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: show in the lands, the Steve harprom On the show Man.

778
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: You're stupid. Get them Steve, because it's you know, you

779
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: know something, Now, come on. You know some pastors ain't

780
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,919
Speaker 1: really past us, you know, but they'd be marrying people.

781
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: You know that going that happens a lot. You know.

782
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: They just then called themselves a minister and they are

783
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 1: minister and that's not high spo works. You know. You

784
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: gotta you know, you gotta shake your folk up. Every

785
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,760
Speaker 1: ninety I just shake up. That's how it is. Okay,

786
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 1: keep on. This is pranking. This is pranking in his

787
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: best Oh yeah, you're the king of it. Right, there

788
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: were nine. Then you got to shake some folks up.

789
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: I got a new little list I'm working on and

790
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: we're going forward. Who is it? You ain't even ask

791
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 1: me already, he punched, and then asked, yeah, I love that.

792
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 1: You knew he was gonna say. Yeah, all right, all right, listen,

793
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: coming up next, it is today's Strawberry Letter. You're listening

794
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show right now. It is time

795
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need some advice on relationships,

796
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: on work, on sex, on dating, on parenting, and more,

797
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,719
Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot

798
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Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Write Steve, tell them

799
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,399
Speaker 1: thank this absolutely correct, And you really don't have many

800
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: options cause miss Abbey has passed. Oh you mean, like

801
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: dear Abbey that used to have the column and the

802
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: wow she pays, So it's Yessa. In fact, I'll get

803
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: the paper. Yeah all right, Well, we could be reading

804
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, like we're gonna read

805
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: this one today. Come on there, buckle up, hold on tight.

806
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:15,240
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the Strong

807
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 1: Barry letter. Subject he wants me but not the children,

808
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: hear Stephen Shirley. I am a forty nine year old

809
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: female married to a forty nine year old man. We

810
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: have five children and five grandchildren. Here is the problem.

811
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: My current husband, He says, I have I have five

812
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: children and five grandchildren. Okay, oh, okay, Here is the problem.

813
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: My current husband is not the father of my children.

814
00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: I married this man when my children were young, so

815
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: he's been in their lives for a very long time.

816
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: My youngest son just graduated from high school and we'll

817
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:56,439
Speaker 1: be going away for college. So now my husband thinks

818
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: that we are done raising children and from now on

819
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 1: it will be us, the two of us. He has

820
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 1: said that that we don't have to worry about the

821
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: kids anymore because they are all grown and have their

822
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: own lives. So am I not supposed to? So am

823
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,439
Speaker 1: I not supposed to be involved with my children since

824
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: they are no longer living at home. My children range

825
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,399
Speaker 1: from ages thirty two to eighteen years old, and all

826
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: five of them live in different states. I want to

827
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: see them and my grandkids as often as I can.

828
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 1: In fact, I'd like to move closer to them. My

829
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: husband does not want anything to do with them, period.

830
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want

831
00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: them to visit us. He said that they don't need

832
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: to come for the holiday. What the hell? He really

833
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: thinks that because they are adults I am supposed to

834
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: forget that they exist. I understand that these are our

835
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: golden years and we should be enjoying quality time together

836
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 1: and traveling the world, but our travels should also include

837
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 1: trips to see my children. If he's really serious, I

838
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:01,280
Speaker 1: may have to spend my golden years alone. Stephen Shirley,

839
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:05,839
Speaker 1: can you please help me? Well, your letters started up nicely,

840
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:07,919
Speaker 1: so I'll put it like this. Your husband, I'm sure,

841
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: feels like he's done his job and it's over. These

842
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: were not his kids. He raised them anyway. He's been

843
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: in their lives since they were really young, so he's

844
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 1: done and not being their biological debt. Like I said,

845
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 1: the ties are cut. He has no connection really to them.

846
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: It seems he cut them off and his concentration is

847
00:56:28,560 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 1: now on you and you guys the future together. He

848
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: wants to live, he wants to live his life, you know,

849
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: and do all of those things. But now I think

850
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,280
Speaker 1: that he's being very unrealistic when he says the children

851
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,279
Speaker 1: he doesn't want the kids to come and see you,

852
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: or he doesn't want you to go see the kids.

853
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:48,839
Speaker 1: How is that? I mean, really, that's a bit unrealistic,

854
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: especially if it makes you happy to see your kids.

855
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 1: You're his wife. He should want to see you happy

856
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: and do those things that make you happy. I mean,

857
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: it's very unrealistic to say that. He really thinks that

858
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: because they're adults, you're supposed to forget that they exist. No,

859
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,720
Speaker 1: that's not the issue, and he knows that's not the issue.

860
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: They are grown and they are living their own lives.

861
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: That part is definitely true. But you guys got to

862
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: come to some kind of compromise in terms of when

863
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: you see the kids and when you go see the kids,

864
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 1: even if you just go by yourself, you have to

865
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 1: see your kids. These are your kids, Steve, you're a parent.

866
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: Now he wants me, but not the children. Okay, that

867
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 1: I can relate to. I don't want mine either, though, God,

868
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: and on any day between the seven of them, you

869
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 1: can come give folks just like that. So that much

870
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 1: I understand. But we are parents. You're forty nine, your

871
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 1: man's forty nine. You got five children and five grandkids.

872
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: He's not the father of the kids. Your youngest son

873
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 1: just graduated high school going away to college. So now

874
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: your husband think that we've done raising children and from

875
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 1: now on there to just be the two of us.

876
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: He has says that we don't have to worry about

877
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 1: the kids no more because they all grown and have

878
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: their own lives. Okay, are you kidding me? You really

879
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: think that's how it goes? Do you know that you

880
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: are a parent for life, for life. You may not

881
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 1: be a husband or a wife for life, but once

882
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: you become a parent, you're a parent for life. Now,

883
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: there are some good ones out there and they are

884
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 1: some bad ones out there. I got it, you, sir,

885
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: are about to turn into a bad one because you

886
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: don't get it. You are in your goal and years.

887
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: You said that late in the letter. Your kids are

888
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 1: from thirty two to eighteen. All of them live in

889
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: different states, and you want to see your kids and

890
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: your grandkids. Matter of fact, you want to move closer

891
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: to him. Your husband don't want nothing to do with them, pig.

892
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to visit them, and he doesn't want

893
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 1: them to visit us. He says, they don't need to

894
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: come for the holiday. That's what the lady type don't

895
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 1: need to come for the holidays. What the hell? What

896
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: the hell is right? Come on, man, are you for real? Bro?

897
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna just act like you never met these people

898
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: like you. You, they meant nothing. He going to college.

899
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:37,040
Speaker 1: I said, he gotta come home. He's not ready to

900
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: live on his own. And I got that. The kids

901
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: range from thirty two to eighteen. Man, do you know

902
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 1: how much advice they need? So how much help they need?

903
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: Financial support they need? Come on, man, that ain't how

904
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: this work. Man, you crazy? And he don't want them

905
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: to visit. He don't want them to come for the holidays.

906
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: What the hell he thinks that because they are adults,

907
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to forget the day exist. That's the craziest

908
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:06,800
Speaker 1: part of them. You gotta be nuts. It doesn't work

909
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: that way. It's crazy for you to think that. Come on, man,

910
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: I understand that these are our golden years. You ain't

911
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 1: be forty nine hell golden. But if that's how you

912
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 1: want to look at it, okay, cool, and we should

913
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 1: be enjoying quality time together and traveling the world. Plans

914
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: should also include trips to see my children. If he's

915
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 1: really serious, I may help spend my golden years alone.

916
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 1: We will be back in what you say, Steve, I

917
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: will all right. We will be back at twenty three

918
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: after with part two of Steve's response, too, he wants

919
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: me but not the children. Right after this, you're listening

920
01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 1: all right, Steve. Here we are part two of today's

921
01:00:56,520 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. The subject he wants me but not the children. Wow. Well,

922
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: the youngest one and graduated. The boy is five kids,

923
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 1: none of them he is now he going while they graduated.

924
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: They're gone. We threw with them. They out. He's saying, No,

925
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: they have their own lives. They're adults. They should be

926
01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 1: able to make it on their all. I want to

927
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 1: see my grandkids as offer I can. It's what the

928
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,920
Speaker 1: woman says. In fact, I want to move closer to him.

929
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want anything to do with them, period.

930
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: He don't want to visit them. He don't want them

931
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 1: to visit us. He said they don't need to come

932
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 1: for the holiday to him, and ladies said what to him, No,

933
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: we don't come for the holidays. What is Christmas about? Exactly?

934
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: He really thinks that because they're adults, I'm supposed to

935
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: forget they exist. I understand that these are golden years

936
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 1: and we should be enjoying quality time together and traveling

937
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: the world. But I traveled playing to the call trips

938
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: to see my children. He's really serious. I may have

939
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 1: to spend my golden years along Stephen Sherley, Can you

940
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 1: please help me? He wants to check out. In essence,

941
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 1: he wants to check out. He wants to say that

942
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: I've done my duty. I raised these kids to the

943
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 1: best of my ability. I've contributed, and now they're gone.

944
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: That's it. I'm chilling. I wish that was the case.

945
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 1: But honey, why don't you want to see the kids?

946
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: I mean, did something happened? We've already seen the kids. Well, yeah,

947
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 1: you've seen them since they were young. I mean, and

948
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: they live their own lives now. I saw all I

949
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: needed to see when they was here. I'm tired. I've

950
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,439
Speaker 1: been working, paying bill, putting kid to college, and were

951
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: covering up dream I bought that Born than Carbon machine

952
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: all that, and honey, we appreciated so much. But these

953
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 1: are my kids. I have to see them on the holidays.

954
01:02:50,240 --> 01:02:53,960
Speaker 1: That's what the holidays are. Four families. Holidays, Yes, family

955
01:02:54,160 --> 01:03:00,439
Speaker 1: like Thanksgiving, like Christmas, Like Thanksgiving like Christmas. We ain't

956
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 1: going down now. I've already made arrangements for them to

957
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: come here. They fend here here to the house. I'm

958
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 1: you know, getting the big Christmas tree and everything. They're

959
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: just got ready to We just got rid of the

960
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: damn boy. And what the hell you're inviting them back for?

961
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 1: They don't think we won't them. Well, he has to

962
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: have somewhere to go when he's out of school for

963
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: Christmas break school, aren't we? He downed that one of

964
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: the men in National school. But he I want him

965
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: to come home. I missed them. I carried them for

966
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: nine months. This is my blood. See, you raised and

967
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 1: the kids to be none but chumps right here. He's

968
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: a great kid. He's in college now, great kid. Were

969
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: let him feed for silf gond make it. You know

970
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna get a job. Wow, I don't understand.

971
01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: I mean, you were so good with them when they

972
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 1: were young and helping me raise them. Now all of

973
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:58,120
Speaker 1: a sudden, it's like, who are there? I don't know?

974
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 1: You just outing the day? What do you mean you

975
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 1: were counting the day till they got out this house?

976
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 1: But you were so good. They call you daddy, You're

977
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 1: not even there. She never gonna call me daddy called.

978
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 1: They can't find that. Well, you know, I just wanted

979
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 1: to let you know that I really appreciate that you

980
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 1: were there for me, there for my kids. I know

981
01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:27,200
Speaker 1: you do. Baby, I appreciate now I won't you be

982
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 1: here for me? Well, I am here for you, but

983
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm also all you all the time. All that the

984
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 1: mom days over with? No, the mom days are never

985
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 1: over with. They is they don't. No, they're not they No,

986
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 1: they're not called. You keep inviting them back leaving where

987
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:48,720
Speaker 1: they had. Girls. These are my kids and this is

988
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 1: my house too. They're coming home for the holidays. Okay,

989
01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 1: I put my foot down. Get here. Were you fighting

990
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,440
Speaker 1: them back over for the holidays? It's being here. We

991
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: ain't gonna we ain't gonna be able to put a

992
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: tree up. We're gonna put a tree up right over there, Bud,

993
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: When are you you put a tree up over there?

994
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 1: And then all these people coming to the house, we

995
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 1: will be decorated. It's just five kids and five grandkids

996
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 1: and there's about ten people. Look at the little room. Well,

997
01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 1: then maybe we need a bigger house because I'm not

998
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: getting rid of my kids. Bigger house. Yes, it's a

999
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:34,040
Speaker 1: bigger house, girl, the girl, we can finally out all

1000
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: the people out of here here. We need a bigger house.

1001
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 1: It's just for a few days during the holiday's Honey,

1002
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 1: we don't want to sing Christmas Carol? Yeah, no, matter

1003
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: of fact, I won't just how stage saying side so

1004
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: they they already outgrowed it. And who's gonna we need

1005
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 1: a bigger house? Who's gonna help me cook? That's what

1006
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 1: we love doing that, me and the girls cooking together well,

1007
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 1: preparing Christmas dinner and Thanksgiving dinner. Huh, you ain't help.

1008
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 1: We're gonna stop your damn Joe, the woman that you

1009
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:11,080
Speaker 1: don't try to slide in. If you can cook, we're

1010
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 1: gonna end the damn woman in the letter can cut

1011
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 1: even the letter try to slide in? And who's gonna

1012
01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: help you cook? That we've been trying to find out

1013
01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: s two thousand. I don't know what the little Mexican man,

1014
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 1: what nest the black dude? Sr you Steve? Are you

1015
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:34,959
Speaker 1: still the man in the letter? Make up your mind.

1016
01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 1: I'm not man in the letter, but what you try

1017
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 1: to slide in with a cooking compliment by yourself and

1018
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: I don't even let you do it. The surely you

1019
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: can't cook. Who's gonna help me cook? Anybody? I'm speaking

1020
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:55,919
Speaker 1: as the woman in the letter husband who hates kids now, like, no, damn,

1021
01:06:57,800 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 1: and why is that? What did they do to you

1022
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: that I don't know about? Because it seems like to

1023
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 1: me you were getting along fine with them because you

1024
01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 1: was never there. Oh, you never knew what was going

1025
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: on behind them? Gold what are they gang up on

1026
01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: you or something? Say you're not having that one night

1027
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: and that board to eighteen year old boy. He caught

1028
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 1: me on my side and he climbed up, only he

1029
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 1: was choking me. Oh wow, Yes, she didn't go about honey,

1030
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 1: this is gonna be so much fun. Come on now

1031
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:34,600
Speaker 1: for a few days. No, okay, I can I can't

1032
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: do it. Okay, I can't messle my holidays. What am

1033
01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: I supposed to say when they ask me where's their dad?

1034
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,800
Speaker 1: Where's dad? And that you know they call you dad,

1035
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:50,120
Speaker 1: where's daddy? What am I supposed to say? You ain't

1036
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing called they ain't gonna be in here?

1037
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 1: All right, We gotta go, We gotta get out of here.

1038
01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 1: Email us or Instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry

1039
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:01,600
Speaker 1: letter at Steve Harvey. F emmer, you can go to

1040
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: my girls surely coming out more of the Steve Harvey

1041
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:09,200
Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Show.

1042
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 1: All right, here we go with something funny. So Steve,

1043
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 1: now what does this? Women always beat men at arguments.

1044
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 1: We know this, but they do because they do things

1045
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:26,639
Speaker 1: that men don't do and are incapable of doing. Here's

1046
01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: some reasons that you'll never win an argument. How about

1047
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,679
Speaker 1: the first one you need to understand and above all else.

1048
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 1: They don't forget what nothing? They don't forget a dub gone,

1049
01:08:46,400 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: you let it go? She said, I forgive you, but

1050
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: she banked all that information. Women have the biggest hard

1051
01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 1: drive in their brain created IBM. Ain't got nothing on

1052
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 1: a woman's hard drive. Baby with sports that. Yeah, you

1053
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: can't erace their hard drive. It's locked in forever. Remember

1054
01:09:13,400 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 1: your nineteen ninety eight that when I got that number

1055
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: of your pocket, it was kind of number that your member.

1056
01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 1: It was another You know what we do? We delete information? Right? Yeah?

1057
01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: Oh you bet. The men get it off our phone, computer,

1058
01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:32,560
Speaker 1: everything they don't they don't delete. Why do we do that?

1059
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 1: That's stupid. It's called evidence, babies. I'll tell you another

1060
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:45,320
Speaker 1: thing they got. They got a picture or ever, Yes,

1061
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 1: even if it ain't a photograph, it's a mental image.

1062
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 1: They got you. You know, women come off and don't

1063
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:59,759
Speaker 1: say here's another one, and don't say you didn't say something.

1064
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 1: You're right you didn't say it, but your text And

1065
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 1: guess what you're dumb ass forgot here? It is right here,

1066
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 1: I got it. I saved you. Here's another reason women

1067
01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:19,759
Speaker 1: always win it, because women don't care if you answer

1068
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:23,280
Speaker 1: or pick up their phone. They don't. They don't know.

1069
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:26,200
Speaker 1: They don't. You know why because all you gonna find

1070
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 1: it's pictures of shoes, recipes, baby pictures and hand styles.

1071
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 1: You're right with me, exact no ever did on the

1072
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 1: damn no, no, ain't look at it three seven six five.

1073
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: I don't have any Here's another reason you can't win

1074
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,280
Speaker 1: an argument because they can see who you call it

1075
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: on your phone from a mile away. They can. I

1076
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 1: don't damn what kind of protective screen you got on there?

1077
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,759
Speaker 1: The black one that you can't see from the side,

1078
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 1: So who is she scary? Here's another reason you can't remember.

1079
01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:26,920
Speaker 1: You can't win an argument why because they remember exact dates,

1080
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 1: exact dates, with the details with your head, what you

1081
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 1: was eating, what car you was in, ye, where you

1082
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:47,639
Speaker 1: was sitting, breathe it out Jay breathe it out. Another

1083
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 1: reason you can't win an argument with a woman. You're

1084
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 1: ready without even setting it up. They laughed for each

1085
01:11:56,800 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 1: of time. They don't have to caller? Where was I yesterday?

1086
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:16,280
Speaker 1: At my house? Immediately watching we have to we're watching

1087
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 1: the Atlanta Housewise, I gotta call Jay Hunk. I was

1088
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 1: with you and I got to say something. And here's

1089
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 1: the other reason you can't win, because they have one

1090
01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 1: put down that no man has ever been able to top.

1091
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,800
Speaker 1: Here is to put down they use. Stop acting like

1092
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 1: some little old girl, except they don't use girl. Does

1093
01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: she just called me after that? You're shaking to the car.

1094
01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:58,280
Speaker 1: You can't come back like right now, you just stuck

1095
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:02,560
Speaker 1: on that. I'm acting like some little old girls. But

1096
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 1: they don't say girls. But they don't say girls. Now

1097
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 1: you open here. All you hear that? We went again

1098
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: that argument. You ain't got no more points. Actually you

1099
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: was winning the argue. We know how to shut it down. Wow, man, Yeah,

1100
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 1: because they don't come back, You got no comeback. But

1101
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 1: let me tell you something, ladies, Yes, you should never

1102
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:38,639
Speaker 1: say that to your man. I've never because because words

1103
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:42,600
Speaker 1: cut really deep, and once you cut a man so

1104
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 1: deep how do you fix that? And I know women

1105
01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:49,880
Speaker 1: who have used that on their man a lot, and

1106
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's hard to come back for that,

1107
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:57,759
Speaker 1: because men I come back for that is well okay,

1108
01:13:57,800 --> 01:14:01,240
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I know. Somebody don't think I'm

1109
01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 1: the little girl, yeah, because what that's that's the ultimate

1110
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:09,880
Speaker 1: insult for man. You're just a little old girl. Man

1111
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 1: can't come back from that. And when you do that

1112
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 1: to a man, you damage when you say tom ouch, yeah, yeah,

1113
01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:30,720
Speaker 1: that one hurt, right, Just how your woman really feel

1114
01:14:30,760 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 1: about you. What's bad is when you see a guy

1115
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 1: get done in public like oh, I don't when you

1116
01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: see his lady do that to women public like that

1117
01:14:43,360 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: hurt women see that women women don't like. Yeah, women

1118
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,799
Speaker 1: don't like to see a woman belittling her man in public.

1119
01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: We don't. I'm seeing it. You ain't gonna leave me,

1120
01:14:56,240 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 1: I've seen it. Yeah, you acting a little all right? Hello,

1121
01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:11,200
Speaker 1: you're listening show. Well, it's time for something funny and Jay,

1122
01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 1: this is about stuff you say to your neighbors under

1123
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 1: your breath. Please explain. This has to do what we

1124
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:19,120
Speaker 1: see our neighbors all the time. We're not that fond

1125
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 1: of them. Sometimes so we speak, but under our breath

1126
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:27,519
Speaker 1: was saying little things, a little little insulting thing like, hey, hi,

1127
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 1: do you need to keep jack keeping it? Keeping it?

1128
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:46,439
Speaker 1: One hundred? You got one jack Jay? How are you doing?

1129
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:58,080
Speaker 1: Are you my man? You need some curtains? How you doing?

1130
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 1: Franklin's good to see it. Hope that boys stay home

1131
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:15,640
Speaker 1: this time. It takes vacations. Let's see us. Come on,

1132
01:16:15,840 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: nephew Perkins, how are you good? Good? You should do

1133
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 1: something with that damn boat you've been having restriction? I done, Skennedy, Hey,

1134
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: I done across the street us damn dawn kill? How

1135
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 1: you guys doing the jake too? Stupid ass kids have

1136
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 1: with Yeah. Stuff we say to our neighbors under got

1137
01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 1: to be sick. Come on, Smith's good to say it

1138
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 1: all right now. I wouldn't be pushing my mom a deadlows.

1139
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 1: She got to do something. Three hey, how are you good? Good?

1140
01:17:32,160 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 1: She can stop your fat as wire from swimming naked on?

1141
01:17:38,080 --> 01:17:49,280
Speaker 1: Probably the hell out my dog missing? Yeah? How you

1142
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:51,640
Speaker 1: got folk claws on block and don't know no more?

1143
01:17:54,400 --> 01:18:00,320
Speaker 1: Four cards head yard is a mess. Stuff we say

1144
01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:05,880
Speaker 1: to our neighbors under our breath, Come on, ski well us, boy,

1145
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,880
Speaker 1: I see you have a good one the day. So

1146
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 1: glad that he cut my grass. He killed my flowers.

1147
01:18:21,160 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 1: He spoke to me and cut my grass. Wow, that's bad.

1148
01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:38,639
Speaker 1: That's dragon right, Hey Johnson, it's good to see y'all.

1149
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:41,360
Speaker 1: All right now, man, no, now we good? We good?

1150
01:18:42,000 --> 01:18:44,800
Speaker 1: Say right now, I know a baby when to eat paper.

1151
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:48,120
Speaker 1: I know that baby eat paper. You gotta tell me

1152
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:51,680
Speaker 1: no more. I know that baby eats pipers. Baby, he's

1153
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:59,160
Speaker 1: smart at all. Now you't gonna bring them now? Were good? Stuff? Mathday? Stuff?

1154
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:04,320
Speaker 1: We say to our names under my breath. Tommy, go Leonard, Hey,

1155
01:19:05,479 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 1: nice day to day? Good good? Wasn't good last night?

1156
01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 1: Damn police? Know you said you called them? Stuff? We

1157
01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: say to our neighbors under our breath. Herman, how y'all doing?

1158
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 1: Tell me y'all put y'all mommy in a hole? Say that. Yeah,

1159
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:53,360
Speaker 1: black people don't do that. Hey, mister mit Jo, what's

1160
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 1: going on? Yeah? I'm good. You don't see that dog

1161
01:19:56,880 --> 01:20:05,759
Speaker 1: doing your y'all. You just don't see you don't stuff?

1162
01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:09,439
Speaker 1: We say to our neighbors under our breath, We stop curtains.

1163
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:14,880
Speaker 1: Ain't Casien's going on? All right now? Ain't the end

1164
01:20:15,560 --> 01:20:21,840
Speaker 1: that that damn line. He ain't killing that way too much. No,

1165
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 1: I don't even know how they touched both their stomached.

1166
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 1: All right now, I'm good man, Come on, nephew. Stuff.

1167
01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:36,439
Speaker 1: We say to our neighbors under our breath, Kindly, kindly,

1168
01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 1: y'alls looking good, looking real good, and come over with

1169
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:44,560
Speaker 1: this lyne though you come over, I'm telling you that

1170
01:20:44,720 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 1: you know what damn you know, you know my si,

1171
01:20:48,040 --> 01:20:58,080
Speaker 1: you know your damn side. That property line means something invisible,

1172
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:01,679
Speaker 1: but it means something, you know what, lin Man, that's

1173
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:06,160
Speaker 1: my line. All right, I think we have time for

1174
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:09,080
Speaker 1: two more Jay, and then Steve. Close it out. Stuff.

1175
01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:13,280
Speaker 1: We say to our neighbors under our breath. Let's go, hey, Hey,

1176
01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 1: what's going. Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. I'm good. Who

1177
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:28,800
Speaker 1: whip that night? You gotta do a fun yeah? Okay, yeah,

1178
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:32,720
Speaker 1: come on, Steve, close it out? Stuff we say to

1179
01:21:32,800 --> 01:21:37,720
Speaker 1: right right out Sydney. Hey, could invite me over to

1180
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 1: Little Stinks, Barbet and everything. I know, I know you

1181
01:21:48,360 --> 01:22:01,160
Speaker 1: ran out of room. I love it. You're listen Steve

1182
01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, here we are, and it's time

1183
01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 1: for another edition of comedy Roulette. Jay, Please explain before

1184
01:22:11,000 --> 01:22:17,000
Speaker 1: I explain tonight Alex Thomas at the j Spid Comedy Tusda.

1185
01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 1: I love Alex. It's great, dude's funny. Only comedian I

1186
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 1: know the words gloves. Why I don't like d Here

1187
01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:31,920
Speaker 1: we do you take U four subjects, put them on

1188
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:36,559
Speaker 1: a wheel, spun the wheel, wed stop. We all four

1189
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:38,599
Speaker 1: of us will do the damn thing. That's how good.

1190
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:41,840
Speaker 1: Well spun the wheels, spun the wheels, spun it around,

1191
01:22:42,040 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: all right. Number one? That doesn't look like no fall

1192
01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: down not to me? Okay. Number two? How you got

1193
01:22:51,439 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 1: a sixty inch wide screen and no place to sit?

1194
01:22:56,479 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 1: Number three? How you've got weed money but you don't

1195
01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 1: have any gas money. Let's do that, all right. And

1196
01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:10,080
Speaker 1: here's the last one. Hold on to your valuables because

1197
01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 1: blank is coming over. People, all right, James Spinnett, Wait

1198
01:23:25,200 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: a minute, all right, this is where it stopped. Guys.

1199
01:23:31,280 --> 01:23:37,240
Speaker 1: That doesn't look like no fall down not to men. Yeah,

1200
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:43,840
Speaker 1: that don't look Let no like no, don't that don't

1201
01:23:43,880 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: look like fall down down? How you get a knot

1202
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:50,200
Speaker 1: in the front and the back of your head, don't

1203
01:23:50,240 --> 01:23:56,200
Speaker 1: look that's not a fall down. Wow, you ain't been

1204
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:59,719
Speaker 1: to the skate ring in twenty years. You're talking about

1205
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 1: you fail, no like, no fall down? Not to me

1206
01:24:05,920 --> 01:24:10,160
Speaker 1: if that's if that's a fall down? Why is it

1207
01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:14,560
Speaker 1: a knuckle prints across your fead? Why that's something that

1208
01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 1: don't make sense? Though? Dog, you fell on somebody's hand. Well,

1209
01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:24,240
Speaker 1: that don't look like no fall down, not to me. See,

1210
01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:30,680
Speaker 1: hows got them teeth prints around? How he do that?

1211
01:24:31,400 --> 01:24:37,960
Speaker 1: Ying his mouth? So that's a fall down? Not okay?

1212
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 1: Why isn't choke marks around your neck? So you mean

1213
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 1: to tell me that the redness of it you talk

1214
01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:54,720
Speaker 1: about to find it, they're like an infection to me, though,

1215
01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:02,120
Speaker 1: that look like no fall down. That so you're trying

1216
01:25:02,160 --> 01:25:06,439
Speaker 1: to tell me you fell on one eye and that's

1217
01:25:06,479 --> 01:25:10,559
Speaker 1: why that one's black. You fell on but both eyes

1218
01:25:10,680 --> 01:25:13,439
Speaker 1: is even. So I don't understand. I ain't nothing hurt,

1219
01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:17,280
Speaker 1: but that one eye just explained? This to me look

1220
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 1: like your phone. So let me get this right, all right?

1221
01:25:21,800 --> 01:25:29,719
Speaker 1: You fail? Then all your teeth fell out all I'm done,

1222
01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:39,519
Speaker 1: last one, every last fell out your mouth. You one

1223
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:41,439
Speaker 1: way in the back, all the way in the back.

1224
01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 1: Then you frown. Put them put all them teeth in

1225
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:56,200
Speaker 1: a zip block. Bad all right, well, thank you guys.

1226
01:25:56,280 --> 01:25:58,519
Speaker 1: That is comedy roulette for today. We'll be back with

1227
01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:01,439
Speaker 1: more of the Steve hard Morning Show right after this.

1228
01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:05,960
Speaker 1: You're listening to show. We're in the middle of this

1229
01:26:06,080 --> 01:26:10,519
Speaker 1: segment called I'm Becoming my parents, and Jay and Steve

1230
01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 1: Harvey are are letting us know that they're saying things

1231
01:26:13,479 --> 01:26:15,559
Speaker 1: to the same thing. We haven't come up with nothing new.

1232
01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:18,479
Speaker 1: You got one, Steed, you got one. Scratch on that

1233
01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:21,479
Speaker 1: wall is a scratch on your hand? You better say it?

1234
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:26,240
Speaker 1: That mean now for a scratch on that wall. Scratch

1235
01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:35,800
Speaker 1: on yeah, yeah, scratch on that wall. That means you

1236
01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:37,840
Speaker 1: really want to scratch on you behind If you scratch

1237
01:26:37,880 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 1: that wall, play how about it. I don't know if

1238
01:26:42,800 --> 01:26:45,160
Speaker 1: it could be done, but I damn never got beat

1239
01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:47,360
Speaker 1: to what I thought it was gonna come up. I

1240
01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:52,439
Speaker 1: will beat all all the black hawk you you said

1241
01:26:52,520 --> 01:26:59,360
Speaker 1: that I will be all the black don't know you

1242
01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 1: can go down that You standing in that refrigerator dough

1243
01:27:04,439 --> 01:27:13,560
Speaker 1: like you bought. So what's I got it? What's the

1244
01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:16,840
Speaker 1: time living on that? No, you gotta get in and

1245
01:27:16,880 --> 01:27:22,720
Speaker 1: get out. I like it. Somebody needs to tell me

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Speaker 1: why all these lights is on. I need to know

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Speaker 1: that that's my husband. Yeah, I need to know who

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01:27:32,520 --> 01:27:38,240
Speaker 1: all these lights is on. Yeah, I love it. We're

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Speaker 1: becoming our parents. I'm tired called Julian. Yeah, okay. This

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Speaker 1: this is dedicated to Carl. This is Pat Bolton's love mama. Huh.

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Speaker 1: If you can hum me, you can hear me. Man

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01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:08,720
Speaker 1: about to make me cry. If you can, you can't

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01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 1: hear me. Oh, this is the mama was a heavy,

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Speaker 1: little heavy, you know heavy. I'm gonna stock aside. So

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Speaker 1: this is her pattern. Don't make me run after you,

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01:28:23,920 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 1: and she couldn't run anyway, but don't make me run

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Speaker 1: after you. You know you didn't want that. Let me

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01:28:33,240 --> 01:28:36,080
Speaker 1: gonna walk back and take this because it ain't gonna

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01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:41,120
Speaker 1: be nice. Make a run. This one is dedicated to

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Speaker 1: Shirley's mama, Miss Helen. Sit down. Everyone has seen you

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Speaker 1: and you do it too. You do everybody putting on

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01:28:59,439 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 1: a little shot that get out of this room. Looking

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01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:11,759
Speaker 1: in my mouth when I talk, because it ain't nobody

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01:29:11,920 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 1: talking to you. This is this is grouble folk. Yes, Ja, Yes,

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01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:27,639
Speaker 1: we are becoming our parent Steed looking down my throat

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01:29:27,720 --> 01:29:34,720
Speaker 1: wide talking what you got Steve, keep on keep on

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01:29:34,960 --> 01:29:38,720
Speaker 1: acting cute see how cute your daddy thank you to

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01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:44,559
Speaker 1: get home from work. Who slick, get in here, slick

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01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:51,719
Speaker 1: the cut out. All is cute? Okay, your mama said yeah,

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Speaker 1: and your daddy hit home, right Steve coming up closing remarks,

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, Steve,

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01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:05,000
Speaker 1: last break of the day, take us home with something good.

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Speaker 1: Closing remarks, Well, let's go. I think I should keep

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Speaker 1: it on the upswing for everybody again. I want to

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01:30:17,760 --> 01:30:19,840
Speaker 1: just talk to you about what it really takes to

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Speaker 1: make it, what it really takes to make it. Now. Look,

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01:30:26,360 --> 01:30:30,720
Speaker 1: I can, oh, you know, sit here and tell you

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01:30:30,760 --> 01:30:34,320
Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff that you know, sound like I'm

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01:30:34,400 --> 01:30:38,040
Speaker 1: really into public speaking, and I know all of what

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01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:41,679
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, and all is here in YadA, YadA YadA.

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01:30:41,800 --> 01:30:44,439
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, what people really

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01:30:44,520 --> 01:30:49,840
Speaker 1: want is real simple things that they can do to

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01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:54,040
Speaker 1: make it. People want to be successful, man, they really do.

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01:30:55,160 --> 01:30:58,360
Speaker 1: They don't They don't want to not know what it's

1285
01:30:58,439 --> 01:31:02,880
Speaker 1: like to be happy, to be free, to be successful.

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01:31:06,439 --> 01:31:13,800
Speaker 1: They want a simpler how should I put this? They

1287
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:16,920
Speaker 1: want somebody to explain it to them and simplify it.

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01:31:17,120 --> 01:31:23,160
Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say, well, guess what, I

1289
01:31:23,280 --> 01:31:25,920
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm the person that's qualified to make

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01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:29,559
Speaker 1: it the simplest. But let me tell you what I do. Though,

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Speaker 1: If you want to be happy in this life, if

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01:31:32,479 --> 01:31:35,320
Speaker 1: you want to be successful, you're gonna have to develop

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01:31:35,400 --> 01:31:38,160
Speaker 1: a couple of things. Now here's the thing that I

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01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:42,880
Speaker 1: want you to understand. Most people have what it takes

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01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:47,960
Speaker 1: to be successful, but if it does not start with

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01:31:48,200 --> 01:31:52,760
Speaker 1: the belief that you can be successful, you can never

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01:31:52,920 --> 01:31:56,439
Speaker 1: bring out the qualities in you of success. Listen to

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01:31:56,560 --> 01:32:00,760
Speaker 1: me again. Everyone has it in them to be successful,

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01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:05,679
Speaker 1: but if you don't bring them out, and that starts

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01:32:05,760 --> 01:32:09,439
Speaker 1: with the belief. If you don't have the belief that

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Speaker 1: you can be somebody, that you're worthy, that you're qualified,

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01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:19,320
Speaker 1: that you're capable. If you don't start with that basic belief,

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01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:24,439
Speaker 1: it can never happen. So first things first, in order

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01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:27,759
Speaker 1: to be successful and happy in this world at whatever

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01:32:27,920 --> 01:32:30,920
Speaker 1: level you're talking about, happiness, success is for you, it

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01:32:31,080 --> 01:32:34,479
Speaker 1: has to start with the belief that it is for you.

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01:32:37,360 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 1: I believe that I should be successful. I believe that

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01:32:43,280 --> 01:32:46,640
Speaker 1: God wants me to be prosperous. I believe that he

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01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:50,320
Speaker 1: comes to give you life and give you life more abundantly.

1310
01:32:51,479 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 1: But you've got to develop some things, man, And the

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01:32:55,040 --> 01:32:58,120
Speaker 1: way to develop them is start with the belief and

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01:32:58,400 --> 01:33:02,320
Speaker 1: hang on to the belief so strong that these attributes

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01:33:02,439 --> 01:33:08,640
Speaker 1: develop themselves. Resilience. If you believe hard enough that you

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01:33:08,840 --> 01:33:13,400
Speaker 1: can be successful, that you can be happy, it will

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01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:17,200
Speaker 1: automatically start to cultivate this thing that's in all of us.

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01:33:17,479 --> 01:33:22,439
Speaker 1: It's called resilience. All y'all got it. Everybody got it.

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01:33:23,280 --> 01:33:28,800
Speaker 1: You are resilient people, All of us are resilient. Hell,

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01:33:28,880 --> 01:33:33,000
Speaker 1: if you can survive the projects, you resilient. If you

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01:33:33,080 --> 01:33:37,799
Speaker 1: can survive public schools, you resili If you can survive

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01:33:37,920 --> 01:33:41,560
Speaker 1: walking through gang neighborhoods because you still want education, you

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01:33:41,720 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 1: resili If you manage to get yourself a high school

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01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:50,000
Speaker 1: diploma or a GED, you are resilient. And the more

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01:33:50,120 --> 01:33:54,600
Speaker 1: belief you have, the more of these attributes you can develop.

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01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:57,840
Speaker 1: You got to be tough. You know how you get tough.

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01:33:58,120 --> 01:34:00,600
Speaker 1: You got to believe that you tough. You got to

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01:34:00,640 --> 01:34:03,240
Speaker 1: believe that you can hang in now when all is

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01:34:03,320 --> 01:34:06,040
Speaker 1: against you. That's how you get tough. You get tough

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01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:09,000
Speaker 1: because you keep facing the test and you keep passing them.

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01:34:09,439 --> 01:34:12,160
Speaker 1: But all of that, you came past the tests unless

1330
01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:16,479
Speaker 1: you believe you can. Y'all, don't hear me. All of

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01:34:16,600 --> 01:34:21,800
Speaker 1: you have an inner strength. Listen to me, man, Don't

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01:34:21,840 --> 01:34:25,120
Speaker 1: you know even a homeless person has an inner strength.

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01:34:26,240 --> 01:34:30,040
Speaker 1: What is it that gets a person to live under

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01:34:30,200 --> 01:34:33,479
Speaker 1: bridge or live in a refrigerator box or live in

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01:34:33,600 --> 01:34:36,880
Speaker 1: some of these homeless encountments. Do you know what really

1336
01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:40,719
Speaker 1: makes them live there? Because they have an inner strength.

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01:34:41,720 --> 01:34:45,600
Speaker 1: It's still some fiber of them that's telling them to

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01:34:45,760 --> 01:34:50,479
Speaker 1: hold on. Because if it wasn't, everybody would just get

1339
01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:53,600
Speaker 1: rid of the self. Everybody would end it. But you

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01:34:53,720 --> 01:34:55,800
Speaker 1: know why people don't end it because you really do

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01:34:56,000 --> 01:35:01,599
Speaker 1: have an inner strength. It takes something to be homeless.

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01:35:03,280 --> 01:35:05,720
Speaker 1: Everybody can make a mistake, man, and wind yourself up

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01:35:05,760 --> 01:35:08,880
Speaker 1: in a situation. For homeless people have an inner strength.

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01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:12,360
Speaker 1: They have a toughness. It's tough being homeless, man. They

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01:35:12,479 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 1: have a resilience because for some reason they just won't

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01:35:16,640 --> 01:35:20,120
Speaker 1: give up. And even though we judge them when we're

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01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:22,920
Speaker 1: driving by, look at them sitting on that corner just

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01:35:23,040 --> 01:35:27,360
Speaker 1: asking for money. They didn't gave up. No, no, it's

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01:35:27,400 --> 01:35:31,240
Speaker 1: another form of giving up. But I'm telling you, even

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01:35:31,320 --> 01:35:34,280
Speaker 1: in your darkest moments and your lowest points in your life,

1351
01:35:34,920 --> 01:35:38,840
Speaker 1: you have resilience, toughness, inner strength. I got news for you.

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01:35:39,400 --> 01:35:43,080
Speaker 1: It can help develop your faith because if you believe

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01:35:43,320 --> 01:35:46,600
Speaker 1: hard enough. The Bible says that faith is a substance

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01:35:46,920 --> 01:35:51,519
Speaker 1: of things hope. For that simply means that when how

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01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:55,040
Speaker 1: you develop faith, it's really the essence of it's is hope.

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01:35:55,320 --> 01:35:56,800
Speaker 1: Do you remember when you was looking you hope you

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01:35:56,920 --> 01:35:59,400
Speaker 1: got a bike for Christmas and you went out there

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01:35:59,439 --> 01:36:03,000
Speaker 1: one year to Christmas and the bike was under the tree.

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01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:06,080
Speaker 1: You remember when you used to hope you graduate from

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01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:09,640
Speaker 1: high school? You mess around and got a diploma. Did

1361
01:36:09,720 --> 01:36:12,880
Speaker 1: you remember hoping one day you get a job and

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01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:16,679
Speaker 1: now you're working. Faith is a substance of things hopeful.

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01:36:18,120 --> 01:36:20,640
Speaker 1: But if you keep hoping hard enough and believe that

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01:36:20,760 --> 01:36:26,240
Speaker 1: something can happen eventually, that hope turns into faith. You

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01:36:26,320 --> 01:36:28,400
Speaker 1: got to have dreams and visions so big that it

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01:36:28,520 --> 01:36:32,760
Speaker 1: dwarfs all your fears. This is how you make it.

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Speaker 1: I hope you got what I'm saying today. All right,

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Speaker 1: drop it, baby, drop it, have a break. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: It's President's Day, everybody for all. Steve every contests no

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Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For

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Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.