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Speaker 1: It's Kiki's court, all right, then is here? Take it away,

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Speaker 1: judge Kik.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get into the courtroom.

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Speaker 3: It says Kiki.

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Speaker 2: Am I wrong for getting a DNA test on my

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Speaker 2: daughter because I didn't believe she was mine. My wife

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Speaker 2: and I have been together for ten years, married for

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Speaker 2: for years we were faced with struggles. But back in December,

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Speaker 2: we were finally blessed with our baby girl. I was

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Speaker 2: and had no success. To make matters worse, when my

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Speaker 2: my own mother started making comments about how she didn't

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Speaker 2: really look like us at all, different hair texture, eye color,

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Speaker 2: and more. Eventually, my mom suggested that I buy an

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Speaker 2: at home DNA test and test my daughter without telling

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Speaker 2: my wife. Thankfully, the results confirmed she is mine, and

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Speaker 2: I felt a huge sense of relief and was ready

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Speaker 2: to move on with our lives. But last week, my

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Speaker 2: DNA test in our recent purchase history, and now she's

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Speaker 2: not speaking to me, She's sleeping in the gas room

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Speaker 2: and says that our trust is forever broken. It really

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Speaker 2: wasn't a trust thing for me, but more of my

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Speaker 2: anxiety just getting the best of me. Am I wrong

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Speaker 2: for doing what I felt was necessary to make me

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Speaker 3: Judge Kicky would say, Oh.

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Speaker 4: You da are wrong.

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Speaker 3: You are so wrong, my boy, you are wrong. Oh

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Speaker 3: you're wrong.

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Speaker 1: You know, I gotta be smarter about hiding the evidence

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Speaker 1: of I am a you know what you got to do,

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Speaker 1: but people can't find out about you, Cald like you

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Speaker 1: share the Amazon.

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Speaker 3: What are we doing?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a technically single woman, but even yes,

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Speaker 2: I am Jason, Like if.

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Speaker 3: I was sitting where he's asleep.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we find out that Big Tip works all night,

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Speaker 1: which is why there's no chance that he'll hear any

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a smart man.

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Speaker 2: But I would never do something like this, and I

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Speaker 2: talk about it with my partner, like, I feel, what

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Speaker 1: Supposed to say? Kiki, Like, hey just said I don't

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Speaker 1: think this kid looks like me. I'm pretty sure that

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Speaker 1: somebody else inseminated you.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean like I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that you can have that comp I

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Speaker 1: mean that that wouldn't that be worse than just doing

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna do it, do it well, bro.

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Speaker 2: You can't do it on the same wallbrings account like

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Speaker 2: you should have you know you have somebody else by you,

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Speaker 2: but actually ban something. You should be able to talk

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Speaker 2: to your partner about this, like if you're having insecurities,

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Speaker 2: if you're having doubts, if there's something going on, you

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Speaker 2: we fix this?

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Speaker 3: Can we figure it out?

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Speaker 2: But to do this behind her back, and then you

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Speaker 2: Y'all over your DNA testing my child. Oh my Yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm sleep in the guest room. You better be glad

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Speaker 2: you're still alive.

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Speaker 5: Yes, babies don't look like anybody, Like, I'm so such

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Speaker 5: a mad people are like this baby looks more like

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Speaker 5: babies look like babies. Okay, you're gonna look at a

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Speaker 5: baby and be like this doesn't look like me, Like

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Speaker 3: Baby it's a baby. They need to cook like grown.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I mixed on this, you guys, So I'm supposed

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Speaker 1: you cheated on me and created a baby. Or if

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Speaker 1: I'm this crazy in my mind Loki like Cabasa, then

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Speaker 1: I just go figure it out on my own and

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Speaker 3: You are okay with this. It's gonna end.

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Speaker 1: It would potentially end the relationship to sit down and

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Speaker 1: because you're insecure.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, no.

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Speaker 2: See, he could have came to her and said, you know,

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Speaker 2: my mind is something wing on with my mind after

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Speaker 2: having this baby. We've been through so many struggles, like

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Speaker 2: help me ease my mind, wife, you know, but.

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Speaker 3: What damage does this do?

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Speaker 1: It? If he's just confirming what he already wants to know,

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Speaker 1: like what is it? What damagees really take? I mean,

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Speaker 1: either way, either way he's saying I don't trust my wife,

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Speaker 2: But you can't trust now. I can never trust you

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Speaker 2: or your mama. I don't know what y'all will do.

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Speaker 2: You know now you're forever. I'm always looking at you

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Speaker 2: with a side eye because you had this whole operation

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Speaker 1: You just gotta be smarter about it. Oh, we just

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Speaker 1: gotta not get caught, is what just says. If you're

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Speaker 1: if you've got insecurities and you want answers, and you

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Speaker 1: and you make sure you never get caught. That's it,

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Speaker 1: Oh my Lanta eight five five five five, Well, because

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Speaker 1: like I don't I don't know if you're gonna live

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Speaker 1: with this. If you are, if you believe this and

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Speaker 1: you have no evidence, no evidence whatsoever, and this is

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Speaker 1: And I sit down, I say, Kiki, is that kid mine?

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Speaker 1: I want a DNA test. I'm saying, you're a cheer

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Speaker 1: for no reason.

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Speaker 2: No, because you know you could say postpartumn man, go

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Speaker 2: through postpartum two.

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Speaker 3: Stop it.

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Speaker 2: You know you could, Like I'm just saying, he would

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Speaker 2: have to me, you could have blamed on your mental health,

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Speaker 3: But the fact that you're out here, you cheater.

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Speaker 1: Even if my mental health is off, which my mental

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Speaker 1: health is always off, and you knew that when I

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Speaker 1: when we got when we hotel, call me.

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Speaker 2: A cheated to my face now behind my back? Okay, Colleena,

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Speaker 2: what would you do if Poppy did this?

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Speaker 7: Well, I'm taking a grave at the cemetery because Dad

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Speaker 7: is like, I'm already postpartum, already going through everything. I

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Speaker 7: cooked this baby for nine months, and you're accusing me

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Speaker 7: of that. Sometimes I look at my daughter, though I

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Speaker 7: don't even know if she's mine, because she looks nothing

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Speaker 7: like me, even like just like her beautiful, like you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, like, are you even my baby?

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Speaker 7: But I might have to but if Hoby ever asked

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Speaker 7: me that, or him and his mother went behind my back,

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Speaker 7: I don't. I don't even know what's worse, to be honest,

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Speaker 7: I don't know if you're going behind my back room

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Speaker 7: just straight up telling me I want a DNA tyst.

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Speaker 1: You cannot get caught. If you're going to do this,

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Speaker 1: you cannot get caught. That's what this comes down to,

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Speaker 1: is you just simply cannot get caught. Hey, Chloe, Hey,

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Speaker 1: Hi Chloe, Welcome to Keiky's Court. On The Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: I did a situation a dude is insecure because he

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Speaker 1: doesn't think that his kid is his. And so despite

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Speaker 1: the fact that he has no evidence of her cheating whatsoever,

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Speaker 1: he wins, and he and his mom went and had

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Speaker 1: a DNA test to prove that in fact, the kid

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Speaker 1: out because he was a dummy and he bought it

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Speaker 3: Dummy. But what do you think?

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Speaker 8: I don't know, Like, honestly, I think probably you should

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Speaker 8: go because there's like so many things that are wrong

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Speaker 8: in this situation. For me, one, you say that all

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Speaker 8: I had to do it because my anxiety was so bad. Okay, So, like,

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Speaker 8: if you struggle with mental health, you should be talking

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Speaker 8: needed to buy the paternity test. Second issue, what is

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Speaker 8: mom in law doing? Like, there are things that you

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Speaker 8: like to say, and then there are things that you

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Speaker 8: don't say, and it seems like mom in law is

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Speaker 8: a little bit of a hater. And there's just like

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Speaker 8: some things you just don't tell your kids about their

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Speaker 8: other partner, you know, like if my mom has some

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Speaker 8: keep them to yourself and let's keep it moving. But

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Speaker 8: I feel like this is also pretty severe where you're like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: What ye what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Chloe saying no, I'm glad you called, Thanks for listening,

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I'm a thinker, you know. I let

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say, you know, this would hopefully be one

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Speaker 1: over something that I know is ridiculous, I've got two choices.

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Speaker 1: I can either it's either mind ever matter where I control,

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Speaker 1: I control it. And I said, this is ridiculous, and

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Speaker 1: I have to talk to myself and say Hey, hey, Fred,

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Speaker 1: this is like you're crazy person and this is a

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Speaker 1: cannot do that, I don't need to torture you and

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Speaker 1: sit down and accuse you of being a bad person.

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Speaker 1: I get answers on my own.

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Speaker 3: And get caught. I already said, don't get caught.

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Speaker 4: How could you live with yourself if you did that

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Speaker 4: in secret?

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Speaker 8: Though?

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Speaker 1: See, I could live with myself a lot better than

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Speaker 1: think cheated cheated because I'm a crazy person.

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Speaker 4: But if you don't really think I cheated, then why

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Speaker 4: do you need the test?

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Speaker 1: You've never had a thought that just was unreasonable, that

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Speaker 1: just didn't add up.

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Speaker 4: Of course I have, but I would share that. I wouldn't.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't get my book jest.

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Speaker 1: Like, I know that if I really have no evidence

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Speaker 1: of you cheating, and I sit you down and I

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Speaker 1: accuse you of cheating, that isn't quite the accusation when

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Speaker 1: I know I'm a crazy person, So I can put

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Speaker 1: my mind to rest. Mine is rested. Oh you just

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Speaker 1: can't get caught, Okay, Oh someone said you were lying? Here,

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Speaker 1: hold on a second, kick, you say, oh, kick you

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Speaker 1: out here lying like a living room rug wanted it.

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Speaker 1: Gotta be upfront about it. See, I don't think that's

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Speaker 1: an answer. I simply don't think that's that. It's not

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Speaker 2: You're right, I'm lying. I want him to go sneak

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Speaker 3: What is mama? Yeah, nothing exactly.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I can't want him to be honest.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying any of this is good, but I

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Speaker 3: That's not fair to my partner.

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Speaker 4: But you can do it without saying someone cheated. You

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Speaker 4: could say, hey, i'm having these thoughts. I know they're

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Speaker 4: maybe it's not mine.

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Speaker 3: That means another dude put his stuff in.

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Speaker 4: Their No, you could say, I know you didn't cheat,

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Speaker 3: If I didn't think you'd cheated. That we don't need

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Speaker 1: This one is one that's going to be tough to

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Speaker 1: I think that's equally hurtful, maybe more hurtful. Wow, and

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Speaker 1: you could also a lot of people were suggesting that

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, just get hurt. Just hey, my mom, I

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Speaker 1: I couldn't get her to shut up. I couldn't po Polly, Hi, Polly,

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Speaker 1: my niece. My niece is not yet, doesn't have an

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Speaker 3: What would you do here? What? What's what? How do

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Speaker 3: you get around this? What? What do you say? What

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Speaker 6: I mean, I would leave. Honestly, this sucks because they've

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Speaker 6: But the mother in law is a bigger problem than

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Speaker 6: She's probably getting in her son's head, like, honestly, that's.

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Speaker 6: So I think she has to go because there's a

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Speaker 8: It seems like, yeah, be honest, my.

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Speaker 1: you know, I hope is that's crazy? You know, like,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know there's a point of no return here. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree. Either way he would have been he

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Speaker 1: You know, thank you, Polly, I appreciate it. Have a

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Speaker 1: good day you too.

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