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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Steve, Good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad to hear that you're good.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I realized that you think you're being ghosted

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Speaker 1: by this woman, Maggie, and so we kind of need

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Speaker 1: the backstory.

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Speaker 2: How did you, guys meet?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on and

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Speaker 1: how those went and where things are.

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Speaker 2: Now, why you think you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Well, first, we haven't been on any dates.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of why I'm calling a date before a date.

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Speaker 4: I get Yeah, I gotta ghosted before a date. As ever,

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Speaker 4: he happened before.

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Speaker 3: I know it might be the first.

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Speaker 2: Well I know, I'm sure it's happened. Yeah. Well, but

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Speaker 2: what's your story though?

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Speaker 3: Oh kay? Well no, I just I saw her on

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Speaker 3: a dating app. She's really cute, it was beautiful, ask

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Speaker 3: for her number. We chatted for a little while, and

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Speaker 3: then boom, she just ghosted and gone never talked to

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Speaker 3: me again. So I'm calling to kind of figure out

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Speaker 3: what's the story if you can maybe help me out

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Speaker 3: with that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I mean, it's does happen on the

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Speaker 1: dating apps? Because I feel like the whole game is

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Speaker 1: what's the next match? I mean appeals to the same

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Speaker 1: part of your brain as gambling. I read this whole

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Speaker 1: article about it, like you just keep going back to

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Speaker 1: see what's next. The only thing I can compare it

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Speaker 1: to you is if you grew up in the nineties

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Speaker 1: and you had AOL. This is a very old reference,

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Speaker 1: but do you remember the excitement of dialing into the

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Speaker 1: internet for it to go. You've got mail, you had

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Speaker 1: a message, or a little bit further along, if you

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Speaker 1: had aim when signed on right and it would open

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Speaker 1: the door, close the door, or you'd come back from

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Speaker 1: class and like people had left you messages in there.

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Speaker 1: It was very exciting, you know, and I feel like

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Speaker 1: it's the same thing on these dating apps. However, let's

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Speaker 1: see if that's what happened or something else. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call Maggie right now. We're gonna have you on the

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Speaker 1: phone as well, ask some questions.

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Speaker 2: At some point.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome a jump in on the call, and hopefully

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Speaker 1: we can get you guys set up on your first

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Speaker 1: date and we'll pay for it. All right, Look at

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Speaker 1: uh hi is this Maggie? Yes, it is Maggie, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show, The

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Speaker 1: Morning Radio Show. The whole crew is here. I do

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now, and I do need your permission to continue

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Speaker 1: with the call. Can we chat for just a second? Sure, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: guy named Steve. Now, Steve says he met you on

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Speaker 1: one of the dating apps and you, guys, I guess

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Speaker 1: messaged and maybe text it a little bit, but you

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Speaker 1: never met because he says you disappeared.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember chatting with this guy?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, yeah, no I remember chatting with him. Basically,

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Speaker 5: the only time Steve ever asked anything about me was when.

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Speaker 2: He got my number. Really okay, so the whole conversation

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Speaker 2: was about.

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Speaker 5: Him, and then yeah, it was just like the entire

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Speaker 5: conversation was like pulling teeth, Like it was just me

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Speaker 5: asking questions and him.

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Speaker 4: Giving like one word answer back.

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Speaker 2: And I just took that as a sign and so

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Speaker 2: I was just I was just done with him.

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Speaker 1: So you gave him your number, hoping that that would change,

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Speaker 1: But then it just sort of continued on on the

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Speaker 1: text and it was just like okay, just boring conversation. Basically,

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Speaker 1: you're like, I'm not I'm not going to take the

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Speaker 1: time to meet this guy if it's going to be

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Speaker 1: like this in person.

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Speaker 3: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: I forgot you.

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Speaker 1: Mentioned that Steve is here. I'm very forgetful about that Steve.

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Speaker 1: So you didn't ask her anything about her? I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's like one O one. It's got to be a

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Speaker 1: volley more than that.

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Speaker 2: You go back and forth, Maggie.

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Speaker 4: I even asked you what you were in.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's nice. Ask what neighborhood she's in? What a guy?

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Speaker 2: What a great question?

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Speaker 4: Is that?

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Speaker 3: It?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, you know, Maggie, you're beautiful and you don't really

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Speaker 3: have to be that interesting the truth.

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Speaker 1: Really, what do you mean how do you know she's

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Speaker 1: not interesting? You never asked her any questions.

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Speaker 3: I don't really need to. I mean I kind of

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Speaker 3: you know, women aren't that interesting.

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Speaker 1: Really, bro, it's a it's all making sense to me,

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Speaker 1: and I am bro. Why first of all, what are

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Speaker 1: you talking about? And second of all, why so you're

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Speaker 1: only out for for looks? I guess you're you're going

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Speaker 1: to date women and be with them, according to you,

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Speaker 1: simply because look what for sex.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to be that smart, just you know, really, honestly,

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Speaker 2: what do you need?

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Speaker 3: And Maggie, you're beautiful, but you did say quite a bit.

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Speaker 4: You'd write like a monologue, and then I would.

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Speaker 2: Write back, god line, you'd have to read.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Let's get to know each other first, yes, So.

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Speaker 2: What are you looking for then? Like what I mean?

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Speaker 1: If you find all of the women kind uninteresting, what's

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Speaker 1: the point?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 4: I tell you they're not that funny either.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Maggie, tell me a joke.

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Speaker 4: That you don't have to have.

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Speaker 2: No, she doesn't have to tell you.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I'm very entertaining though.

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Speaker 1: You're talking said several women right here who are interesting

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Speaker 1: and funny, Like, what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: Have one of them tell me a joke.

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Speaker 3: Interesting because.

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Speaker 2: They don't have to. What are you supposed to have

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Speaker 2: a knock knock joke for you? So you can get

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Speaker 2: a little woody right.

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Speaker 4: Knock knock jokes? I haven't gone out of style.

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Speaker 3: I would like to hear one.

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 2: This is some small d energy right now from from Steve.

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Speaker 2: I mean, so what do you want with women? If

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Speaker 2: you think they're uninteresting? They're not funny. I mean, what

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Speaker 2: do you want from that? Are you even talking about?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 3: Do you want?

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Speaker 5: A man?

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Speaker 2: It's pretty obvious, right, so you want a man?

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Speaker 4: I asked you what you wanted man, and it's pretty obvious.

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Speaker 1: It sounds it sounds like you want a man because

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Speaker 1: you know women are not interesting or funny, so maybe

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Speaker 1: you just a date man?

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Speaker 2: What's wrong with I actually don't know. If the gays

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Speaker 2: want you, then Dad, I speak for all gays and

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Speaker 2: we don't thank you. I mean, what is wrong with you? Anyway?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter, Maggie. I'm not going to give this

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Speaker 1: guy anymore time. I can completely understand why you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: have wanted to go out with him, but I am

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Speaker 1: sorry you had to talk to him again.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you can make fun of me and say all

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Speaker 4: you want.

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Speaker 3: At the end of the day, I'm man, I still

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Speaker 3: had me.

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Speaker 2: I was talking about her.

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Speaker 3: Oh you have me.

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Speaker 1: I was talking to her. But oh that's good. So

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Speaker 1: she's only basically a receptacle for you, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: That's that's all she does. Wow, I don't know what's

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Speaker 1: confusing about that. But Rinnie, I'm really sorry you had

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Speaker 1: to be subjected to this man again.

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, I dog the bullet, So thank you.

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Speaker 1: And stop with writing those novel texts you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, like more than one or two lines because

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Speaker 1: you're not interesting or funny.

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Speaker 2: Don't forget it, Maggie, what hell? Look always here? Yeah

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Speaker 2: we're done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah we were doing this for you, by the way,

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Speaker 1: but anyway, see whatever, Maggie, good luck to you. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for your time.