Speaker 1: Hey guys, Welcome back to Cheeky's and Chill podcast. So
Speaker 1: yesterday we brought you part one of my relationship update
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend Emilia. We talked about how we've managed
Speaker 1: to make our relationship work for more than two years,
Speaker 1: and we also talked about what it's like living together. Today,
Speaker 1: we're jumping right into a topic. I get asked about
Speaker 1: a lot my sexuality, so let's jump right into it.
Speaker 2: This is Cheeky's and Chill.
Speaker 1: I got a question. I don't know if I told
Speaker 1: you on Dear Cheeky's some girl. She was really nice
Speaker 1: about it. She's like, girl, I saw you on the
Speaker 1: Snow podcast and you were just learning with Snow and
Speaker 1: all this stuff.
Speaker 2: Don't you have a boyfriend?
Speaker 1: Does he get mad and all this stuff. When I
Speaker 1: was asked that question, I said, oh shit, Like I
Speaker 1: don't want it to come off like I'm being disrespectful
Speaker 1: to my man, but I'm like, I think, because we've
Speaker 1: talked about it, you and I are on the same page.
Speaker 1: I just I wanted to clear that up. And it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: here I am kissing all kinds of girls, Like that's
Speaker 1: not how it works, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: I like, he knows me, and he's told me I
Speaker 1: think it's very sexy. We've also talked about perhaps later
Speaker 1: on eventually maybe. I don't know if I'm ready yet
Speaker 1: for that or if I ever will be, but to
Speaker 1: bring another chick, you know, into into it. You know,
Speaker 1: we have talked about it, and we talked about it
Speaker 1: when we were in Mexico City when I was gonna
Speaker 1: go for the Lunario. We talked about it a little
Speaker 1: deeper and I was like, I thought, Okay, shit, yes,
Speaker 1: let's do this. He knows already. I have to choose her.
Speaker 1: You can't know her name, you will never have her number.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do our thing. We're gonna have fun. I've
Speaker 1: never had a threesome, just just you know, putting it
Speaker 1: out there. I don't know if Emilia has. He'll never
Speaker 1: tell me. We're not gonna talk about it because he's
Speaker 1: very reserved. But I've never been in a threesome, not
Speaker 1: with two guys. Never, no type of threesome. But we've
Speaker 1: talked about it, and he's been pretty open about that
Speaker 1: being a possibility.
Speaker 2: Correct.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And see that's because I think we're able to
Speaker 3: talk about these things because of how the foundation that
Speaker 3: we have, you know. And again, if I've ever agreed
Speaker 3: to you or said I was open to it for me,
Speaker 3: it's not, oh my god, I get another girl and
Speaker 3: that's like it's for me, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But like not to get like too deep in it.
Speaker 3: But the reason why I'm open to almost anything is
Speaker 3: because I love you so much and I love experiencing
Speaker 3: things with you, no matter what it is, anything new,
Speaker 3: anything cool, like anything that where we enjoy it, if
Speaker 3: we enjoy it and you enjoy it, like to me,
Speaker 3: experiencing things with you is gives me such a big high.
Speaker 3: And that's with any situation. It's not just this situation.
Speaker 3: And if you're leaning towards it and you want to
Speaker 3: try it, cool, and if you don't like it and
Speaker 3: then we decide not to do it ever again, cool
Speaker 3: or you want to do it once a month, cool,
Speaker 3: whatever whatever you want.
Speaker 2: You know, it's guy, It's it's wow.
Speaker 3: It's all about talking and how we feel. And I
Speaker 3: know this is just kind of a touchy, funny subject,
Speaker 3: but that mentality is like my mentality across the board
Speaker 3: for anything in our relationship, not.
Speaker 1: Just that, So you'd be fine with the girl. Would
Speaker 1: you be fine with having to three some with another guy?
Speaker 3: That is a completely different topic. I knew different. No,
Speaker 3: that's different. To be honest, probably no, okay, but that's
Speaker 3: just Yeah.
Speaker 1: We've talked about it guys. He has said no, and honest,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I'm gonna be so honest. I don't
Speaker 1: think I'd want to have it through some with another guy,
Speaker 1: to be honest, that's just too much work.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: Here it is. This is how, this is how I'll
Speaker 3: break it down. You say you're fifteen twenty percent.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, Lesbiana, whatever you want to.
Speaker 3: Yes, whatever you want to call it. Yes, yeah, I
Speaker 3: am zero percent. Oh okay on my end. So if
Speaker 3: you have the desire to bring another girl, that works
Speaker 3: for you, but bringing another dude for me that doesn't
Speaker 3: work for me.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So it's not like a double standard situation. It's more
Speaker 1: of like what am I gonna do? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean sort of thing?
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, if you didn't my girls at all, I
Speaker 3: wouldn't even like, why would I bring in another girl?
Speaker 3: So you don't like girls, this conversation is happening because
Speaker 3: you like girls as well?
Speaker 1: Ye, yeah, exactly. Yeah, I totally get that. And like
Speaker 1: I said, I'm the type of girl that enjoys going
Speaker 1: to the strip club to go see other girls. I'm
Speaker 1: not the type of girl that likes going to the
Speaker 1: strip club to see boys. Like It's just I've always
Speaker 1: been like that, like, oh, you know, like I went
Speaker 1: to Thunder down Under in Vegas and that was cool.
Speaker 1: It was you know, I was like, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: but still not.
Speaker 2: Really my thing.
Speaker 1: I love watching a woman and dance and do her thing.
Speaker 1: And he knows this, so yeah, that's why I'd be like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like i'd be a whole lot of work.
Speaker 1: It's just I'm good, you know what I mean. So anyways,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to ask because I'm sure people are like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, you guys talking about three just talk about
Speaker 1: a dude, you know.
Speaker 2: But that was a very good explanation. I love that
Speaker 2: in media. You're so smart. That's what I love about
Speaker 2: this guys.
Speaker 1: So okay, because I did get a little bit of
Speaker 1: not backlash, people loved it. Like when I was at Snow, like,
Speaker 1: we had a great fucking time. The chemistry was amazing.
Speaker 1: She's like we're cancers, Like we get it, you know,
Speaker 1: but I did like get a lot of people like
Speaker 1: that were kind of I don't know, like talking not shit,
Speaker 1: but we're like more concerned about our relationship. I want
Speaker 1: to ask you, why do you think that is? Is
Speaker 1: it just the world that we live in or is
Speaker 1: it just because I have a boyfriend and it's public,
Speaker 1: or like what do you think it is?
Speaker 3: It comes from their insecurities. It comes because they think, oh,
Speaker 3: what if my person did that? And they're not comfortable
Speaker 3: with that. And it's probably from a lack of foundation
Speaker 3: with our partner, you know. And I know this is
Speaker 3: like most cliche thing to say, but it's like we
Speaker 3: really can't worry about what they feel. And I think
Speaker 3: with our foundation, the way our foundation is right now,
Speaker 3: you can go on a podcast with a girl eat
Speaker 3: like snow and you could have kissed her and everything
Speaker 3: would have been fine because I know we have yeah,
Speaker 3: and it doesn't affect that yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And after that, I did think, you guys, and I'll
Speaker 1: be honest, I was like, shit, like what if his
Speaker 1: mom sees it?
Speaker 2: What if she watches it? Because I've never had that
Speaker 2: conversation with her.
Speaker 1: I mean, I have a very good relationship with his mom,
Speaker 1: and she's fucking she's a g Like we talk about everything,
Speaker 1: you guys, I honestly love your mom and I love
Speaker 1: your grandma.
Speaker 2: But I did worry.
Speaker 1: I didn't care about what anyone else thought, because my
Speaker 1: siblings know who I am. I do worry a little
Speaker 1: bit about I thought about it afterwards, about my nieces
Speaker 1: and nephews. There's a lot of kids that follow me
Speaker 1: and your mom, you know, and your grandma. Like I said,
Speaker 1: but like, at the end of the day, I'm very honest,
Speaker 1: I'm very this is who I am, you know, and
Speaker 1: you're my partner and more than anything, you know, And
Speaker 1: it was no issue. We didn't it was fine, Like
Speaker 1: he was completely fine. And I think that's what makes
Speaker 1: this relationship so just so nice, so pleasant. It's like
Speaker 1: I can literally talk to you about anything, you know,
Speaker 1: even uncomfortable things guys, finances or just anything, and he
Speaker 1: takes it so well. But I think because you've also
Speaker 1: done the work. And that's one thing I wanted to
Speaker 1: tell everyone. I don't know if guys a lot of
Speaker 1: guys listen to my podcast, but don't be afraid men
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable to shed some tears.
Speaker 2: To say I go to therapy.
Speaker 1: Those are all things that I love about you, Emilio,
Speaker 1: and I think more men need to be more like you.
Speaker 2: I just wanted to tell you that, thank you.
Speaker 3: I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: So I know we kind of mentioned finances, and you know,
Speaker 1: that's always, I think, difficult to talk about in any relationship,
Speaker 1: even with friends. It's just it's a touchy subject. But
Speaker 1: I think we're pretty good because Emilio holds his own
Speaker 1: Emilio pays his bills. Emilio is very very responsible, and
Speaker 1: I love that. And another thing that I absolutely love
Speaker 1: is that, ever since the beginning, every time we go
Speaker 1: out to eat, even if it's like a mcdont drive
Speaker 1: through or a nice fancy meal, Emilia has always been
Speaker 1: really good about taking care of me.
Speaker 2: And I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: Like it's very rare when I pay, and if he
Speaker 1: lets me, that's one thing, But when there is something like,
Speaker 1: for instance, you know he pays here at the house,
Speaker 1: you know, he's a here, here's my portion. He's never
Speaker 1: missed it. But I also I'm like, hey, can you
Speaker 1: give me a little bit for this right? And you've
Speaker 1: been very like, okay, don't trip he apple pays me
Speaker 1: real quick. But it is sometimes I get worries because
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want him to think that I'm
Speaker 1: like taxing him or but I don't really even have
Speaker 1: to do that, Like it just comes out of you though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean my natural inance think is to take
Speaker 3: care of you, like that is what my goal is
Speaker 3: in my life, is to take care of my woman,
Speaker 3: take care of our home, take care of everything in
Speaker 3: our lives. But also again back to conversations, like we
Speaker 3: have these conversations about these things, these tough conversations. You know,
Speaker 3: I've felt comfortable for the first time I'm in my
Speaker 3: life to share with a partner, like, hey, these are
Speaker 3: my fantasies, this is how much I make a year,
Speaker 3: this is I'm fully transparent, and I think it's great
Speaker 3: that we've been able to get to this point. And
Speaker 3: also I just like to you know, I want to
Speaker 3: make sure that I pull my weight and be fair.
Speaker 3: For me, I love being fair. I don't want either
Speaker 3: side to ever feel unappreciated or you know, just not
Speaker 3: feeling good about about that. And uh, I think we
Speaker 3: do a very good job at just balancing everything. And again,
Speaker 3: it just comes down to just talking. You just have
Speaker 3: to talk to your partner and be like and be
Speaker 3: open and honest, like, hey, this is how it's looking,
Speaker 3: this is where you know I could use help, or
Speaker 3: I can I can help out or whatever that is.
Speaker 3: But when it comes to the things that a man
Speaker 3: does for a woman, I'll always do that for you.
Speaker 2: No, Yeah, you do. You do a really really good job.
Speaker 1: And does it I don't know if, like in the
Speaker 1: beginning or now we're in between, did it make you
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable that I make more money than you, because
Speaker 1: for me, I feel like you make pretty good money.
Speaker 1: Obviously I do all kinds of different things. But has
Speaker 1: it ever bothered you?
Speaker 3: It's never bothered me, and honestly, I embrace it. I
Speaker 3: think it's cool that my you inspired me to hustle more.
Speaker 3: You push me and everything that you do it it
Speaker 3: makes me want to work harder. And if you let
Speaker 3: that be an insecurity and it makes you shut down
Speaker 3: and it makes you not want to work harder, then
Speaker 3: that's that's the problem that you know. That's personal exactly,
Speaker 3: And I think it does a great thing for me
Speaker 3: and it motivates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I will say that I've never felt like
Speaker 1: my career or who I am or what I make
Speaker 1: or what I have, it's never made you feel like
Speaker 1: from what you've shown me like insecure, if anything, like
Speaker 1: you celebrate me. And I've never like I've had that,
Speaker 1: but not really, not not at this level where it's dude,
Speaker 1: go and and you know, be some. And at first,
Speaker 1: like some of my sexy outfits were just like hey,
Speaker 1: like your tits, you know, or like, okay, like now
Speaker 1: I put on nipple covers. Like those are things that
Speaker 1: we went through where I was like, oh, he likes
Speaker 1: me being sexy, but there are certain things where he's like, hey,
Speaker 1: if you're going to be sexy, make sure you cover
Speaker 1: your you know, have your undies on or have your
Speaker 1: your nipple covers.
Speaker 2: But it's like you've always just embraced hey.
Speaker 1: Or he's wanted to take me to do collabs with
Speaker 1: his friends and it's like, let me help you grow,
Speaker 1: let me, you know, upgrade you in certain ways. And
Speaker 1: I love that because I just feel like empowered to
Speaker 1: just be the best me in my career. So that's
Speaker 1: been great too. And even though he knows, okay, she
Speaker 1: can pay it herself, he's always like, hey, let me
Speaker 1: take care of it and I love that.
Speaker 2: And he'll buy groceries.
Speaker 1: He'll be like, oh, you know, I got some groceries
Speaker 1: like without me having to ask him. So it's been awesome.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very important for me to feel like you
Speaker 3: feel like you have a partner who wants the best
Speaker 3: for you, and because I don't ever want to hold
Speaker 3: you back from anything in your life. And that's very
Speaker 3: important for me. And like I said, and even even
Speaker 3: like that's a that's that's the that's a great example
Speaker 3: I like to use when I talk to you, my
Speaker 3: friends or my therapist, even about your you know, your outfits.
Speaker 3: In the beginning, some of them made me feeluncomfortable. But
Speaker 3: then I was able to come to you and be like, hey,
Speaker 3: look this makes me feel this. I don't know what
Speaker 3: the answer is. Maybe just do it ten more times
Speaker 3: and maybe I'll feel better. I don't know, but here
Speaker 3: are some things that will help me feel better. And
Speaker 3: it made the process easier. Now I I don't care,
Speaker 3: you know, as long as nipples are flying around everywhere, cool,
Speaker 3: I do your thing.
Speaker 1: We compromised, Yes, yeah, we compromised. At first, I was like, well,
Speaker 1: this is my show, this is what I'm gonna wear
Speaker 1: like I was. That's one of the things where I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, that's my job, don't mess with that.
Speaker 1: But then I had to like wait. I'm like wait,
Speaker 1: he's still a man and I'm still his girl. Because
Speaker 1: I'd be like, well, I'm gonna go home with you anyway.
Speaker 1: He's like, what's the big deal. He's like, yeah, but
Speaker 1: your nips are hard, you know, We're like, at least
Speaker 1: cover them, so we compromise, and that's what it is, compromising.
Speaker 2: Another thing that I love is the.
Speaker 1: Fact that Johnny, well, Johnny lives with us. You guys,
Speaker 1: Johnny lives here. He's lived with me since forever. He's
Speaker 1: he's my baby boy. Emilio knows that. When Johnny was
Speaker 1: talking about moving out, I don't know, like six months
Speaker 1: ago something like that, right, and Emilio was like why,
Speaker 1: Like he was just like why, Like it's gonna be weird,
Speaker 1: like why are you moving out?
Speaker 2: What the hell? And I just love the relationship that
Speaker 2: you guys have. Dude. Johnny will text Emilio and say, hey, dude,
Speaker 2: I love you. They call each other.
Speaker 1: Johnny calls you doctor Black, right, yeah, doctor doctor Black.
Speaker 1: Why I don't know you guys.
Speaker 3: But I don't know. Maybe it's an avenger thing.
Speaker 1: I have no idea it's an avenger Yeah, And then
Speaker 1: they went to Korean barbecue the other day alone. I
Speaker 1: was out of like I was out of town right working,
Speaker 1: and dude, you have no idea, Like I tell him
Speaker 1: all the time, I'm like, oh, the fact that my
Speaker 1: siblings love you, that both my brothers, because Mikey and
Speaker 1: him are the same age. Actually Mike's a little bit
Speaker 1: older than you. So at first Mikey was a little
Speaker 1: bit like, uh, you know, like weird about it. And
Speaker 1: then now he's like, they go bike riding together, and
Speaker 1: like they just have this bromance or whatever you call it.
Speaker 1: My sisters love you. So it's just I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's so nice, so nice.
Speaker 3: I feel very welcome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all love you, and your family has been great.
Speaker 1: And that's another thing, you guys. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: just I don't know what I would do, like if
Speaker 1: I didn't get along with my suegra And she's just
Speaker 1: so dope. She's what fifty one, so she's very young.
Speaker 1: And we drink together and we went to Vegas together
Speaker 1: and she dances on the floor and she's just she's great.
Speaker 1: I mean, Emilio, you know how I am, you, guys.
Speaker 2: I talk to people.
Speaker 1: I ask questions again, I want information. And he learned
Speaker 1: a lot of things about his mom and about how
Speaker 1: he was conceived through me because I'm there, like having
Speaker 1: this conversation with his mom and he's like, what the hell,
Speaker 1: I've never seen the side of my mom.
Speaker 2: Only you can do this and even your grandma. We
Speaker 2: sit there and like fucking shoot the shit all the time. Yeah,
Speaker 2: He's like, what the hell?
Speaker 3: And what did we learn?
Speaker 2: We learned that we were both conceived in a vehicle.
Speaker 1: Classy, yes, very class very classy. Great job mother. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so he was conceived in a vehicle. It was a
Speaker 1: one time thing. Me too, my mom the day she
Speaker 1: lost her virginity. I don't know if I told you, guys,
Speaker 1: is I was conceived in a Monte Carlo. Is it
Speaker 1: called Monte Carlo? Monte Carlo? Yeah? Those at a drive
Speaker 1: in movie theater. And my dad never finished.
Speaker 2: I'm a pre cum baby, you guys. Isn't that awesome?
Speaker 2: I'm a precumbaby. I was meant to be here, y'all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine if I was a full like you know yeah, yeah, no, man, chiss,
Speaker 1: I'd be a freaking I don't know. But anyways, so
Speaker 1: we were both conceived in a vehicle and yeah, and
Speaker 1: then we went to the Philippines. I was, of course
Speaker 1: asking his dad all kinds of questions. I was like, so,
Speaker 1: I want to hear your side of the story. And
Speaker 1: he started laughing. He was so shy, but it all
Speaker 1: it was all you know, connected, and he had the
Speaker 1: same story kind of right.
Speaker 3: Yep, he confirmed it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he confirmed.
Speaker 3: I was like, dude, that's what my mom you're talking about.
Speaker 2: He confirmed it. Oh, you need to buy me sees candies.
Speaker 3: Okay, please, yes, I will surprise you sees candies.
Speaker 2: Please. That's like my thing.
Speaker 1: Now, before it was flowers he would bring Honestly, he
Speaker 1: brings me flowers just because a lot. Now it's sees candies,
Speaker 1: like it's just like a box of chocolates or both.
Speaker 1: But I love that and that's a thing. Like I
Speaker 1: tell him, I'm like, babe, don't stop doing these cute
Speaker 1: little things. And I do cute things for him too.
Speaker 1: I leave them notes like we do cute things for
Speaker 1: each other, and I want to do more cute things
Speaker 1: for him, like maybe buy him some like joints or
Speaker 1: something like things that he likes, but like donuts. Oh yeah, donuts.
Speaker 1: I gotta be like a little cuter because you're pretty cute.
Speaker 2: So that's a thing.
Speaker 1: That's another thing you guys, anyone that's listening, it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter if you've been with a person five, ten years,
Speaker 1: two years, keep doing that cute shit that made the
Speaker 1: person fall in love with you. Date night is so important,
Speaker 1: even if you have kids, find someone to babysit your kids,
Speaker 1: go on date night like you, guys have to rekindle
Speaker 1: and keep that flame going.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, I mean that's something that you've said broout
Speaker 3: a relationship, especially in the beginning where you worry like
Speaker 3: or is this just a facade? Are you doing this
Speaker 3: just to make me fall in love with you? Or
Speaker 3: are you going to do this in two years? Are
Speaker 3: you can do this in five years? And two and
Speaker 3: a half years later, I am the most in love
Speaker 3: with you that I've ever been and it just grows.
Speaker 3: It grows every day, and the goal is to find
Speaker 3: someone that grows with you, Like in five years, I
Speaker 3: want to love you ten times more than I do today,
Speaker 3: and then ten and fifteen and like it's sad when
Speaker 3: people are together and they're just not willing to love
Speaker 3: each other openly, and it's just you fall out of love.
Speaker 3: And I don't, at least on my end, I'll always
Speaker 3: do what I need to do to show you that
Speaker 3: every day.
Speaker 1: Same here, Oh you're gonna I love you?
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just like we said earlier,
Speaker 1: it's choosing that person and being willing. It's an everyday thing.
Speaker 1: It's like today, I want to be a good partner today.
Speaker 1: I want to make my person smile. Today, I want
Speaker 1: to be the best version of myself or my partner.
Speaker 1: Like it's just every day because every day is different
Speaker 1: and not getting ahead of ourselves. I mean a lot
Speaker 1: of people want to know if we've talked about marriage,
Speaker 1: if we plan on having children, and as far as
Speaker 1: having children, I could say, you guys, you guys know
Speaker 1: my situation, like the things with my ovaries and my
Speaker 1: sists and endometriosis and all this stuff and IVF. I
Speaker 1: haven't been on birth control since I met Emilio, literally
Speaker 1: the day I met him.
Speaker 2: So we're just.
Speaker 1: Doing our thing, you know what I mean. That's another
Speaker 1: thing like in that department we're great. We have fun,
Speaker 1: and I'm just I think we're just practicing and letting
Speaker 1: things be right when it comes to kids. It's not
Speaker 1: like I'm like, oh no or oh yes, it's just
Speaker 1: we're just flowing.
Speaker 3: I think it's also growing on you. I think it's
Speaker 3: growing on you.
Speaker 2: I have had a little baby fever lately.
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, I would love to see what a
Speaker 3: little human with your eyes, your little fays, how that
Speaker 3: would look. I think you would. I think you would
Speaker 3: be the best mom ever. And I think he would
Speaker 3: be so high. I think it unlocks a whole new
Speaker 3: thing in your life that you just have no idea
Speaker 3: what it feels like. And I feel like it would
Speaker 3: bring me so much joy for sure.
Speaker 1: And I think I'm low key afraid of that.
Speaker 3: Of course.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's just something where if I love my siblings as
Speaker 1: much as I love them, and I worry about them
Speaker 1: still to this day, I'm like, oh my god, loving
Speaker 1: a little human that comes out of me like it
Speaker 1: just kind of makes me a little nervous. But I
Speaker 1: I that's me just overthinking, you know, and over analyzing.
Speaker 1: But I think i'd be a wonderful mother, like I
Speaker 1: just and now I'm more curious to see and it helps.
Speaker 1: Before I thought I wanted a guy that had kids
Speaker 1: so that I didn't feel the pressure of having kids,
Speaker 1: And I don't feel pressure about you. Like I've told you,
Speaker 1: like what if I can't what if I just can't conceive?
Speaker 1: And you said that you're totally fine with it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I we don't know if that'll change later, but you
Speaker 1: make me want to be a mother like you, and
Speaker 1: the fact that you haven't had kids, I want to
Speaker 1: be able to experience that with you for the first
Speaker 1: time together. You know that excites me. I think we
Speaker 1: do a freaking amazing, phenomenal job raising a child together.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we do a great job with our
Speaker 3: dogs already.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we do. And you're great. You're a great dad,
Speaker 2: a great dog dad. So I think we do it.
Speaker 2: We'd be a good duo for sure, Yes, to raise
Speaker 2: our human being.
Speaker 3: I agree.
Speaker 1: Hopefully he or she will be very very smart, because
Speaker 1: you're very smart, pretty wise. You know, you're you're very
Speaker 1: book smart, and I'm pretty street smart. And why smarting,
Speaker 1: you're pretty smart too, you know he's okay, no, he's
Speaker 1: pretty straet smart. Guys, he's a g he's gangster. Okay,
Speaker 1: He's probably gonna be like, why did you say gangster? Anyways, Oh, marriage,
Speaker 1: what have we talked? We've talked about marriage kind of
Speaker 1: sort of right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we've And that's what like I like
Speaker 3: about our relationship that we can have these conversations and
Speaker 3: we don't expect them to go a certain way or
Speaker 3: have this pressure. I've never wanted to put pressure on
Speaker 3: you about marriage, but we've had multiple conversations throughout our
Speaker 3: relationship about it. I think it's important to gauge where
Speaker 3: your partner is and how they see where you're at,
Speaker 3: how they see the next few years, the next few months.
Speaker 3: I think it's important to know. It gives you reassurance.
Speaker 3: And I feel like that conversation of marriage has grown
Speaker 3: so much in these two and a half years.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. It's evolved.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's evolved because obviously when him and I first met,
Speaker 1: I wasn't divorced yet.
Speaker 2: I actually didn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't officially divorced until June of last year, so
Speaker 1: that was very tough, and I just had like a
Speaker 1: bit of a sour chaste in my mouth about it all,
Speaker 1: and I just kind of wanted to detox from that
Speaker 1: situation and that experience. But I've always been kind of
Speaker 1: like open, like I'm like, okay, like I wouldn't mind
Speaker 1: getting married. And then now that we've talked about it,
Speaker 1: and now that I see the type of man that
Speaker 1: you all and us living together and everything, like, it's hey,
Speaker 1: I think that it'd be cool, you know.
Speaker 2: And it's not like this.
Speaker 1: Before I would see it like, oh, you don't need
Speaker 1: that piece of paper to show or to prove the
Speaker 1: love that you have for each other, you know, And
Speaker 1: you put it perfectly. The other day we're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like we're fine the way we are. But it's more
Speaker 1: of a what did you say, a spiritual commitment?
Speaker 3: A spiritual commitment, yes, I as much as the legal
Speaker 3: and the paperwork whatever, that isn't as important to me
Speaker 3: as you know. We went to a wedding together and
Speaker 3: I saw one of my really good friends just be
Speaker 3: so emotional as his wife was walking to the altar.
Speaker 3: And what it means to a man to make that
Speaker 3: commitment in front of God, in front of your family
Speaker 3: and all your friends. I think that's the most like
Speaker 3: ge shit you can do in your life. And when
Speaker 3: I saw that Instantly, I was like, I want this
Speaker 3: with her. I want to make that commitment to her.
Speaker 3: And I think it wraps everything, the foundation, everything that
Speaker 3: we have in our relationship. It just wraps and covers
Speaker 3: it in a nice little presence. And that's how I
Speaker 3: see it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you explained it that way, I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I get it. Okay, cool, Yeah, for sure. It's crazy
Speaker 1: because in a way, like I had seen it that way,
Speaker 1: but then I didn't.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think it was just the experience I had just
Speaker 1: kind of fogged or it all for me, you know
Speaker 1: a little bit.
Speaker 2: But you have you ever felt like that before for
Speaker 2: anyone else?
Speaker 3: Never before you. When I thought of marriage, it was
Speaker 3: this weird, fake fantasy of me and a home with
Speaker 3: someone in like twenty thirty years. But now it's like,
Speaker 3: I've never been so sure about someone else in my
Speaker 3: entire life. I've never felt so confident. This is my person.
Speaker 3: This is a person that I could actually give my
Speaker 3: all too and feel comfortable and feel safe doing it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: So I mean if we got married right now, right now,
Speaker 1: like after this podcast, we go toa like our local
Speaker 1: you know court, you would be fine with having this
Speaker 1: one Kouchi. Maybe another one if we decide to have
Speaker 1: a three somme later. But this set of boobs, this heart,
Speaker 1: this person for the rest of your life.
Speaker 2: Are you? Are you like you're thirty one years old? Dude,
Speaker 2: you're thirty one.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be You're not even thirty one yet, You're
Speaker 1: going to like you are very confident in that, like
Speaker 1: you are one hundred percent.
Speaker 3: I'm craving that. That's what I want.
Speaker 1: That's a nice word, craving that. Ooh yeah, well he's
Speaker 1: craving now. Okay, we'll come over here. He's in the
Speaker 1: office right now.
Speaker 3: There's a wall between us, just the wall.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well that's it guys. That's what we have for
Speaker 1: you today. I hope you enjoyed this episode.
Speaker 2: Did you have fun?
Speaker 1: My love?
Speaker 3: I had a blast. I love I love talking to you.
Speaker 3: And it's like, what's really great for Obviously everyone doesn't
Speaker 3: listen to us every day, but like we talk like
Speaker 3: this to each other every day. Yeah, we have these
Speaker 3: conversations all day from the moment we wake up to
Speaker 3: the moment.
Speaker 1: And blaw sleep.
Speaker 2: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we just have a blast doing it and
Speaker 3: it's and it's it's that's our foundation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we're just on the same page, and
Speaker 1: that's the most important thing. It's that we both want
Speaker 1: the same things. And even if it sometimes it looks
Speaker 1: a little different, but it's at the ultimate ultimately it's
Speaker 1: the same thing, you know, the same goal, same same destination.
Speaker 1: But thank you so much for being on such a
Speaker 1: pleasure speaking to you. You're very cute, very handsome, and
Speaker 1: share your social media platform for people that want to
Speaker 1: follow you. Girls, don't set them dms, do not go there,
Speaker 1: do not disrespect me, but go ahead and follow him
Speaker 1: so you could see. You could see how creative and
Speaker 1: how talented he is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I love to post you. I love
Speaker 3: showing you off, and you're so cute, and I take
Speaker 3: pictures of you all day every day, and.
Speaker 2: I just he does some ugly ass pictures too. He
Speaker 2: thinks they're so cute. Might erase that you won't eraise them?
Speaker 3: Oh no never. So what's there?
Speaker 2: So what's what's your your handle?
Speaker 3: It is my name at Emilio Sanchez, and I hope
Speaker 3: you guys can go see my work and see what
Speaker 3: I create. I take pride in it. I have fun
Speaker 3: doing it. My passion and uh it's what brought me
Speaker 3: to you, and uh I'm grateful for it.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, babe again, thank you so much. I had
Speaker 1: a great time. I hope you all enjoyed this episode
Speaker 1: and can learn a little something from us. We're not perfect,
Speaker 1: of course, we're still learning. We're just happy to be
Speaker 1: on this journey together and we wanted to share some
Speaker 1: things as I know a lot of you had a
Speaker 1: lot of questions. Thank you so much, wishing you.
Speaker 2: All the best, Los qiro, love and light to all
Speaker 2: of you, mesos. This is a.
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