WEBVTT - Chiquis and Emilio: Part Two 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:10.119 Hey guys, Welcome back to Cheeky's and Chill podcast. So 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:12.800 yesterday we brought you part one of my relationship update 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:15.520 with my boyfriend Emilia. We talked about how we've managed 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:17.919 to make our relationship work for more than two years, 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:21.560 and we also talked about what it's like living together. Today, 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.000 we're jumping right into a topic. I get asked about 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:27.800 a lot my sexuality, so let's jump right into it. 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:29.440 This is Cheeky's and Chill. 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:40.200 I got a question. I don't know if I told 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:43.080 you on Dear Cheeky's some girl. She was really nice 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:45.400 about it. She's like, girl, I saw you on the 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:49.080 Snow podcast and you were just learning with Snow and 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:49.560 all this stuff. 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:50.479 Don't you have a boyfriend? 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.360 Does he get mad and all this stuff. When I 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.480 was asked that question, I said, oh shit, Like I 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.800 don't want it to come off like I'm being disrespectful 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.400 to my man, but I'm like, I think, because we've 0:00:59.400 --> 0:01:01.760 talked about it, you and I are on the same page. 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:04.160 I just I wanted to clear that up. And it's like, oh, 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:05.920 here I am kissing all kinds of girls, Like that's 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:07.480 not how it works, you know what I mean? Like, 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:10.640 I like, he knows me, and he's told me I 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:14.320 think it's very sexy. We've also talked about perhaps later 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:17.640 on eventually maybe. I don't know if I'm ready yet 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:19.720 for that or if I ever will be, but to 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.720 bring another chick, you know, into into it. You know, 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:24.840 we have talked about it, and we talked about it 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.039 when we were in Mexico City when I was gonna 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.440 go for the Lunario. We talked about it a little 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:33.080 deeper and I was like, I thought, Okay, shit, yes, 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:36.120 let's do this. He knows already. I have to choose her. 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:38.080 You can't know her name, you will never have her number. 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:40.680 We're gonna do our thing. We're gonna have fun. I've 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:43.240 never had a threesome, just just you know, putting it 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:44.800 out there. I don't know if Emilia has. He'll never 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:46.319 tell me. We're not gonna talk about it because he's 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:49.240 very reserved. But I've never been in a threesome, not 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:52.840 with two guys. Never, no type of threesome. But we've 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:55.880 talked about it, and he's been pretty open about that 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:57.800 being a possibility. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:58.280 Correct. 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:02.080 Yeah, And see that's because I think we're able to 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:05.240 talk about these things because of how the foundation that 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:10.040 we have, you know. And again, if I've ever agreed 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:12.920 to you or said I was open to it for me, 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:16.880 it's not, oh my god, I get another girl and 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:20.720 that's like it's for me, you know what I mean. 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.640 But like not to get like too deep in it. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:28.080 But the reason why I'm open to almost anything is 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:32.560 because I love you so much and I love experiencing 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:35.160 things with you, no matter what it is, anything new, 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:39.079 anything cool, like anything that where we enjoy it, if 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.160 we enjoy it and you enjoy it, like to me, 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:47.600 experiencing things with you is gives me such a big high. 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:51.640 And that's with any situation. It's not just this situation. 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:54.359 And if you're leaning towards it and you want to 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:56.840 try it, cool, and if you don't like it and 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.720 then we decide not to do it ever again, cool 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:01.359 or you want to do it once a month, cool, 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:03.400 whatever whatever you want. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:06.840 You know, it's guy, It's it's wow. 0:03:07.320 --> 0:03:10.440 It's all about talking and how we feel. And I 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:13.200 know this is just kind of a touchy, funny subject, 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:17.280 but that mentality is like my mentality across the board 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:19.519 for anything in our relationship, not. 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:22.600 Just that, So you'd be fine with the girl. Would 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:24.600 you be fine with having to three some with another guy? 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:29.760 That is a completely different topic. I knew different. No, 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:35.000 that's different. To be honest, probably no, okay, but that's 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:35.920 just Yeah. 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.800 We've talked about it guys. He has said no, and honest, 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.640 I'm gonna be I'm gonna be so honest. I don't 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:42.320 think I'd want to have it through some with another guy, 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:43.520 to be honest, that's just too much work. 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:44.200 I'm sorry. 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:46.880 Here it is. This is how, this is how I'll 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:49.680 break it down. You say you're fifteen twenty percent. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:51.920 Mm hmmm, Lesbiana, whatever you want to. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:55.040 Yes, whatever you want to call it. Yes, yeah, I 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:59.680 am zero percent. Oh okay on my end. So if 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:02.280 you have the desire to bring another girl, that works 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.480 for you, but bringing another dude for me that doesn't 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:04.960 work for me. 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:05.680 Okay. 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.920 So it's not like a double standard situation. It's more 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:10.600 of like what am I gonna do? You know what 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:11.680 I mean sort of thing? 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.240 Okay, Yeah, if you didn't my girls at all, I 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:16.560 wouldn't even like, why would I bring in another girl? 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.800 So you don't like girls, this conversation is happening because 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.400 you like girls as well? 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:24.560 Ye, yeah, exactly. Yeah, I totally get that. And like 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:27.320 I said, I'm the type of girl that enjoys going 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:29.599 to the strip club to go see other girls. I'm 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:31.040 not the type of girl that likes going to the 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:34.479 strip club to see boys. Like It's just I've always 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:36.760 been like that, like, oh, you know, like I went 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:39.359 to Thunder down Under in Vegas and that was cool. 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:41.200 It was you know, I was like, all right, cool, 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:41.960 but still not. 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:42.680 Really my thing. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:46.279 I love watching a woman and dance and do her thing. 0:04:46.400 --> 0:04:49.640 And he knows this, so yeah, that's why I'd be like, 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:52.040 I don't know, like i'd be a whole lot of work. 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:56.359 It's just I'm good, you know what I mean. So anyways, 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.400 I just wanted to ask because I'm sure people are like, well, 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:00.800 you know, you guys talking about three just talk about 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:01.440 a dude, you know. 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.000 But that was a very good explanation. I love that 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.880 in media. You're so smart. That's what I love about 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:05.480 this guys. 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:08.600 So okay, because I did get a little bit of 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:11.720 not backlash, people loved it. Like when I was at Snow, like, 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:13.600 we had a great fucking time. The chemistry was amazing. 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:15.800 She's like we're cancers, Like we get it, you know, 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:18.080 but I did like get a lot of people like 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:22.400 that were kind of I don't know, like talking not shit, 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:25.200 but we're like more concerned about our relationship. I want 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:26.640 to ask you, why do you think that is? Is 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:28.960 it just the world that we live in or is 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.560 it just because I have a boyfriend and it's public, 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:32.960 or like what do you think it is? 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:36.440 It comes from their insecurities. It comes because they think, oh, 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.520 what if my person did that? And they're not comfortable 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:40.920 with that. And it's probably from a lack of foundation 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.359 with our partner, you know. And I know this is 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.880 like most cliche thing to say, but it's like we 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.200 really can't worry about what they feel. And I think 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.920 with our foundation, the way our foundation is right now, 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:55.560 you can go on a podcast with a girl eat 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.320 like snow and you could have kissed her and everything 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:01.040 would have been fine because I know we have yeah, 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.839 and it doesn't affect that yeah. 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:04.320 Yeah. 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:07.800 And after that, I did think, you guys, and I'll 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:10.279 be honest, I was like, shit, like what if his 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:11.000 mom sees it? 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:12.599 What if she watches it? Because I've never had that 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:13.400 conversation with her. 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:15.400 I mean, I have a very good relationship with his mom, 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.280 and she's fucking she's a g Like we talk about everything, 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:20.720 you guys, I honestly love your mom and I love 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:21.200 your grandma. 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:22.240 But I did worry. 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:24.640 I didn't care about what anyone else thought, because my 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:26.960 siblings know who I am. I do worry a little 0:06:27.000 --> 0:06:30.040 bit about I thought about it afterwards, about my nieces 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:31.800 and nephews. There's a lot of kids that follow me 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:34.880 and your mom, you know, and your grandma. Like I said, 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:37.200 but like, at the end of the day, I'm very honest, 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:39.720 I'm very this is who I am, you know, and 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:43.080 you're my partner and more than anything, you know, And 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.279 it was no issue. We didn't it was fine, Like 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:49.600 he was completely fine. And I think that's what makes 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:55.640 this relationship so just so nice, so pleasant. It's like 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.760 I can literally talk to you about anything, you know, 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:04.240 even uncomfortable things guys, finances or just anything, and he 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.680 takes it so well. But I think because you've also 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:08.920 done the work. And that's one thing I wanted to 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.600 tell everyone. I don't know if guys a lot of 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:15.880 guys listen to my podcast, but don't be afraid men 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.320 to be vulnerable to shed some tears. 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:19.480 To say I go to therapy. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:21.560 Those are all things that I love about you, Emilio, 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.520 and I think more men need to be more like you. 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:26.760 I just wanted to tell you that, thank you. 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:27.680 I appreciate that. 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:38.040 So I know we kind of mentioned finances, and you know, 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.240 that's always, I think, difficult to talk about in any relationship, 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:44.480 even with friends. It's just it's a touchy subject. But 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.920 I think we're pretty good because Emilio holds his own 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:51.440 Emilio pays his bills. Emilio is very very responsible, and 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:54.960 I love that. And another thing that I absolutely love 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:57.880 is that, ever since the beginning, every time we go 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.800 out to eat, even if it's like a mcdont drive 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:03.680 through or a nice fancy meal, Emilia has always been 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:05.440 really good about taking care of me. 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:06.480 And I appreciate that. 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.560 Like it's very rare when I pay, and if he 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:12.640 lets me, that's one thing, But when there is something like, 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:14.880 for instance, you know he pays here at the house, 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:18.640 you know, he's a here, here's my portion. He's never 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:21.120 missed it. But I also I'm like, hey, can you 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.320 give me a little bit for this right? And you've 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:25.480 been very like, okay, don't trip he apple pays me 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.200 real quick. But it is sometimes I get worries because 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:29.400 I'm like, I don't want him to think that I'm 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.760 like taxing him or but I don't really even have 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:34.040 to do that, Like it just comes out of you though. 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.080 Yeah, I mean my natural inance think is to take 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:40.679 care of you, like that is what my goal is 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:42.520 in my life, is to take care of my woman, 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:45.360 take care of our home, take care of everything in 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:49.800 our lives. But also again back to conversations, like we 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.920 have these conversations about these things, these tough conversations. You know, 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.320 I've felt comfortable for the first time I'm in my 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:59.000 life to share with a partner, like, hey, these are 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:00.920 my fantasies, this is how much I make a year, 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:05.920 this is I'm fully transparent, and I think it's great 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:08.200 that we've been able to get to this point. And 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:10.360 also I just like to you know, I want to 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:14.040 make sure that I pull my weight and be fair. 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:16.480 For me, I love being fair. I don't want either 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:22.680 side to ever feel unappreciated or you know, just not 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.640 feeling good about about that. And uh, I think we 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:30.120 do a very good job at just balancing everything. And again, 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:32.720 it just comes down to just talking. You just have 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.080 to talk to your partner and be like and be 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:37.520 open and honest, like, hey, this is how it's looking, 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:41.160 this is where you know I could use help, or 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:44.400 I can I can help out or whatever that is. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:47.960 But when it comes to the things that a man 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:52.520 does for a woman, I'll always do that for you. 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:54.480 No, Yeah, you do. You do a really really good job. 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:56.760 And does it I don't know if, like in the 0:09:56.760 --> 0:10:00.160 beginning or now we're in between, did it make you 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:04.319 feel uncomfortable that I make more money than you, because 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:06.640 for me, I feel like you make pretty good money. 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:08.760 Obviously I do all kinds of different things. But has 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:09.720 it ever bothered you? 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:13.439 It's never bothered me, and honestly, I embrace it. I 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:16.120 think it's cool that my you inspired me to hustle more. 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.920 You push me and everything that you do it it 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:23.880 makes me want to work harder. And if you let 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:26.960 that be an insecurity and it makes you shut down 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:29.719 and it makes you not want to work harder, then 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:34.359 that's that's the problem that you know. That's personal exactly, 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:38.720 And I think it does a great thing for me 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:40.240 and it motivates. 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:42.600 Yeah, And I will say that I've never felt like 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:45.120 my career or who I am or what I make 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:48.520 or what I have, it's never made you feel like 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:50.920 from what you've shown me like insecure, if anything, like 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:55.000 you celebrate me. And I've never like I've had that, 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:57.880 but not really, not not at this level where it's dude, 0:10:57.960 --> 0:11:00.840 go and and you know, be some. And at first, 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:02.720 like some of my sexy outfits were just like hey, 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:04.880 like your tits, you know, or like, okay, like now 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:06.880 I put on nipple covers. Like those are things that 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:08.920 we went through where I was like, oh, he likes 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:11.200 me being sexy, but there are certain things where he's like, hey, 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:14.400 if you're going to be sexy, make sure you cover 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.800 your you know, have your undies on or have your 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:17.800 your nipple covers. 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:20.600 But it's like you've always just embraced hey. 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:22.960 Or he's wanted to take me to do collabs with 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:24.840 his friends and it's like, let me help you grow, 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.520 let me, you know, upgrade you in certain ways. And 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.920 I love that because I just feel like empowered to 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:34.640 just be the best me in my career. So that's 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:37.840 been great too. And even though he knows, okay, she 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:40.160 can pay it herself, he's always like, hey, let me 0:11:40.160 --> 0:11:41.560 take care of it and I love that. 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:42.680 And he'll buy groceries. 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:44.199 He'll be like, oh, you know, I got some groceries 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:47.880 like without me having to ask him. So it's been awesome. 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:51.880 Yeah, it's very important for me to feel like you 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.640 feel like you have a partner who wants the best 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:58.200 for you, and because I don't ever want to hold 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:00.880 you back from anything in your life. And that's very 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:04.280 important for me. And like I said, and even even 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.880 like that's a that's that's the that's a great example 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.240 I like to use when I talk to you, my 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:14.640 friends or my therapist, even about your you know, your outfits. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:18.920 In the beginning, some of them made me feeluncomfortable. But 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.320 then I was able to come to you and be like, hey, 0:12:21.360 --> 0:12:24.360 look this makes me feel this. I don't know what 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:27.000 the answer is. Maybe just do it ten more times 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:30.040 and maybe I'll feel better. I don't know, but here 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:33.480 are some things that will help me feel better. And 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.480 it made the process easier. Now I I don't care, 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:40.440 you know, as long as nipples are flying around everywhere, cool, 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:41.600 I do your thing. 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:45.040 We compromised, Yes, yeah, we compromised. At first, I was like, well, 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:46.679 this is my show, this is what I'm gonna wear 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:48.240 like I was. That's one of the things where I 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.600 was like, hey, that's my job, don't mess with that. 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:52.360 But then I had to like wait. I'm like wait, 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.720 he's still a man and I'm still his girl. Because 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:56.199 I'd be like, well, I'm gonna go home with you anyway. 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:58.240 He's like, what's the big deal. He's like, yeah, but 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.439 your nips are hard, you know, We're like, at least 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:03.239 cover them, so we compromise, and that's what it is, compromising. 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:12.640 Another thing that I love is the. 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.680 Fact that Johnny, well, Johnny lives with us. You guys, 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:17.079 Johnny lives here. He's lived with me since forever. He's 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:20.599 he's my baby boy. Emilio knows that. When Johnny was 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:22.760 talking about moving out, I don't know, like six months 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:25.640 ago something like that, right, and Emilio was like why, 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.240 Like he was just like why, Like it's gonna be weird, 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:29.360 like why are you moving out? 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:32.440 What the hell? And I just love the relationship that 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:35.880 you guys have. Dude. Johnny will text Emilio and say, hey, dude, 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:36.959 I love you. They call each other. 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:40.360 Johnny calls you doctor Black, right, yeah, doctor doctor Black. 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:41.439 Why I don't know you guys. 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:43.880 But I don't know. Maybe it's an avenger thing. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.560 I have no idea it's an avenger Yeah, And then 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.040 they went to Korean barbecue the other day alone. I 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:50.880 was out of like I was out of town right working, 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.440 and dude, you have no idea, Like I tell him 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:56.360 all the time, I'm like, oh, the fact that my 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.680 siblings love you, that both my brothers, because Mikey and 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:01.960 him are the same age. Actually Mike's a little bit 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:04.440 older than you. So at first Mikey was a little 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:07.080 bit like, uh, you know, like weird about it. And 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:10.200 then now he's like, they go bike riding together, and 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:12.600 like they just have this bromance or whatever you call it. 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.000 My sisters love you. So it's just I don't know, 0:14:15.040 --> 0:14:17.200 it's so nice, so nice. 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:18.240 I feel very welcome. 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:21.920 Yeah, we all love you, and your family has been great. 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:24.960 And that's another thing, you guys. Oh my god, I 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:26.840 just I don't know what I would do, like if 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:28.840 I didn't get along with my suegra And she's just 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.920 so dope. She's what fifty one, so she's very young. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:35.240 And we drink together and we went to Vegas together 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.480 and she dances on the floor and she's just she's great. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.200 I mean, Emilio, you know how I am, you, guys. 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:42.000 I talk to people. 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:46.200 I ask questions again, I want information. And he learned 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:48.240 a lot of things about his mom and about how 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.360 he was conceived through me because I'm there, like having 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:53.560 this conversation with his mom and he's like, what the hell, 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:55.160 I've never seen the side of my mom. 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.920 Only you can do this and even your grandma. We 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.880 sit there and like fucking shoot the shit all the time. Yeah, 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:01.800 He's like, what the hell? 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:03.080 And what did we learn? 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:06.440 We learned that we were both conceived in a vehicle. 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:12.640 Classy, yes, very class very classy. Great job mother. Yeah, 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:14.840 so he was conceived in a vehicle. It was a 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.280 one time thing. Me too, my mom the day she 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.040 lost her virginity. I don't know if I told you, guys, 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:21.280 is I was conceived in a Monte Carlo. Is it 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:24.200 called Monte Carlo? Monte Carlo? Yeah? Those at a drive 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:27.760 in movie theater. And my dad never finished. 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:30.440 I'm a pre cum baby, you guys. Isn't that awesome? 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.680 I'm a precumbaby. I was meant to be here, y'all. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:39.040 Yeah, imagine if I was a full like you know yeah, yeah, no, man, chiss, 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:41.480 I'd be a freaking I don't know. But anyways, so 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:43.760 we were both conceived in a vehicle and yeah, and 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:45.960 then we went to the Philippines. I was, of course 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:47.800 asking his dad all kinds of questions. I was like, so, 0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:49.840 I want to hear your side of the story. And 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.720 he started laughing. He was so shy, but it all 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:55.760 it was all you know, connected, and he had the 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:57.240 same story kind of right. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:58.800 Yep, he confirmed it. 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:00.000 Yeah, he confirmed. 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:02.440 I was like, dude, that's what my mom you're talking about. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:07.400 He confirmed it. Oh, you need to buy me sees candies. 0:16:07.520 --> 0:16:11.080 Okay, please, yes, I will surprise you sees candies. 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:13.120 Please. That's like my thing. 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:15.880 Now, before it was flowers he would bring Honestly, he 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:20.680 brings me flowers just because a lot. Now it's sees candies, 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.960 like it's just like a box of chocolates or both. 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:25.360 But I love that and that's a thing. Like I 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:27.720 tell him, I'm like, babe, don't stop doing these cute 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.120 little things. And I do cute things for him too. 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:31.320 I leave them notes like we do cute things for 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:33.000 each other, and I want to do more cute things 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:35.280 for him, like maybe buy him some like joints or 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:39.360 something like things that he likes, but like donuts. Oh yeah, donuts. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:42.040 I gotta be like a little cuter because you're pretty cute. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:43.360 So that's a thing. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.360 That's another thing you guys, anyone that's listening, it doesn't 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.320 matter if you've been with a person five, ten years, 0:16:47.360 --> 0:16:51.320 two years, keep doing that cute shit that made the 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:53.920 person fall in love with you. Date night is so important, 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.040 even if you have kids, find someone to babysit your kids, 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:58.720 go on date night like you, guys have to rekindle 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:00.120 and keep that flame going. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.160 Well yeah, I mean that's something that you've said broout 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:07.959 a relationship, especially in the beginning where you worry like 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.159 or is this just a facade? Are you doing this 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:13.119 just to make me fall in love with you? Or 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:14.479 are you going to do this in two years? Are 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:16.800 you can do this in five years? And two and 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:20.240 a half years later, I am the most in love 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:23.959 with you that I've ever been and it just grows. 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:27.520 It grows every day, and the goal is to find 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:30.119 someone that grows with you, Like in five years, I 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:32.320 want to love you ten times more than I do today, 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:36.920 and then ten and fifteen and like it's sad when 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:41.040 people are together and they're just not willing to love 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:45.560 each other openly, and it's just you fall out of love. 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:49.160 And I don't, at least on my end, I'll always 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:51.919 do what I need to do to show you that 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:52.560 every day. 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:56.199 Same here, Oh you're gonna I love you? 0:17:56.320 --> 0:17:56.600 Yeah. 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:58.520 I mean, I think it's just like we said earlier, 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:02.640 it's choosing that person and being willing. It's an everyday thing. 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:06.520 It's like today, I want to be a good partner today. 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.200 I want to make my person smile. Today, I want 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:11.240 to be the best version of myself or my partner. 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:13.439 Like it's just every day because every day is different 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:16.000 and not getting ahead of ourselves. I mean a lot 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:18.680