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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Welcome back to Cheeky's and Chill podcast. So

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Speaker 1: yesterday we brought you part one of my relationship update

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Speaker 1: with my boyfriend Emilia. We talked about how we've managed

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Speaker 1: to make our relationship work for more than two years,

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Speaker 1: and we also talked about what it's like living together. Today,

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Speaker 1: we're jumping right into a topic. I get asked about

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Speaker 1: a lot my sexuality, so let's jump right into it.

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Speaker 2: This is Cheeky's and Chill.

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Speaker 1: I got a question. I don't know if I told

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Speaker 1: you on Dear Cheeky's some girl. She was really nice

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Speaker 1: about it. She's like, girl, I saw you on the

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Speaker 1: Snow podcast and you were just learning with Snow and

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Speaker 1: all this stuff.

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Speaker 2: Don't you have a boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: Does he get mad and all this stuff. When I

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Speaker 1: was asked that question, I said, oh shit, Like I

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Speaker 1: don't want it to come off like I'm being disrespectful

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Speaker 1: to my man, but I'm like, I think, because we've

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Speaker 1: talked about it, you and I are on the same page.

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Speaker 1: I just I wanted to clear that up. And it's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: here I am kissing all kinds of girls, Like that's

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Speaker 1: not how it works, you know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 1: I like, he knows me, and he's told me I

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Speaker 1: think it's very sexy. We've also talked about perhaps later

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Speaker 1: on eventually maybe. I don't know if I'm ready yet

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Speaker 1: for that or if I ever will be, but to

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Speaker 1: bring another chick, you know, into into it. You know,

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Speaker 1: we have talked about it, and we talked about it

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Speaker 1: when we were in Mexico City when I was gonna

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Speaker 1: go for the Lunario. We talked about it a little

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Speaker 1: deeper and I was like, I thought, Okay, shit, yes,

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Speaker 1: let's do this. He knows already. I have to choose her.

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Speaker 1: You can't know her name, you will never have her number.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do our thing. We're gonna have fun. I've

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Speaker 1: never had a threesome, just just you know, putting it

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Speaker 1: out there. I don't know if Emilia has. He'll never

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Speaker 1: tell me. We're not gonna talk about it because he's

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Speaker 1: very reserved. But I've never been in a threesome, not

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Speaker 1: with two guys. Never, no type of threesome. But we've

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Speaker 1: talked about it, and he's been pretty open about that

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Speaker 1: being a possibility.

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And see that's because I think we're able to

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Speaker 3: talk about these things because of how the foundation that

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Speaker 3: we have, you know. And again, if I've ever agreed

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Speaker 3: to you or said I was open to it for me,

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Speaker 3: it's not, oh my god, I get another girl and

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Speaker 3: that's like it's for me, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: But like not to get like too deep in it.

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Speaker 3: But the reason why I'm open to almost anything is

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Speaker 3: because I love you so much and I love experiencing

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Speaker 3: things with you, no matter what it is, anything new,

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Speaker 3: anything cool, like anything that where we enjoy it, if

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Speaker 3: we enjoy it and you enjoy it, like to me,

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Speaker 3: experiencing things with you is gives me such a big high.

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Speaker 3: And that's with any situation. It's not just this situation.

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Speaker 3: And if you're leaning towards it and you want to

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Speaker 3: try it, cool, and if you don't like it and

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Speaker 3: then we decide not to do it ever again, cool

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Speaker 3: or you want to do it once a month, cool,

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Speaker 3: whatever whatever you want.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's guy, It's it's wow.

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Speaker 3: It's all about talking and how we feel. And I

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Speaker 3: know this is just kind of a touchy, funny subject,

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Speaker 3: but that mentality is like my mentality across the board

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Speaker 3: for anything in our relationship, not.

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Speaker 1: Just that, So you'd be fine with the girl. Would

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Speaker 1: you be fine with having to three some with another guy?

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Speaker 3: That is a completely different topic. I knew different. No,

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Speaker 3: that's different. To be honest, probably no, okay, but that's

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Speaker 3: just Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We've talked about it guys. He has said no, and honest,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be I'm gonna be so honest. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I'd want to have it through some with another guy,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, that's just too much work.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Here it is. This is how, this is how I'll

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Speaker 3: break it down. You say you're fifteen twenty percent.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, Lesbiana, whatever you want to.

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Speaker 3: Yes, whatever you want to call it. Yes, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: am zero percent. Oh okay on my end. So if

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Speaker 3: you have the desire to bring another girl, that works

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Speaker 3: for you, but bringing another dude for me that doesn't

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Speaker 3: work for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So it's not like a double standard situation. It's more

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Speaker 1: of like what am I gonna do? You know what

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Speaker 1: I mean sort of thing?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, if you didn't my girls at all, I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't even like, why would I bring in another girl?

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Speaker 3: So you don't like girls, this conversation is happening because

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Speaker 3: you like girls as well?

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Speaker 1: Ye, yeah, exactly. Yeah, I totally get that. And like

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm the type of girl that enjoys going

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Speaker 1: to the strip club to go see other girls. I'm

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Speaker 1: not the type of girl that likes going to the

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Speaker 1: strip club to see boys. Like It's just I've always

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Speaker 1: been like that, like, oh, you know, like I went

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Speaker 1: to Thunder down Under in Vegas and that was cool.

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Speaker 1: It was you know, I was like, all right, cool,

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Speaker 1: but still not.

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Speaker 2: Really my thing.

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Speaker 1: I love watching a woman and dance and do her thing.

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Speaker 1: And he knows this, so yeah, that's why I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like i'd be a whole lot of work.

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Speaker 1: It's just I'm good, you know what I mean. So anyways,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to ask because I'm sure people are like, well,

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Speaker 1: you know, you guys talking about three just talk about

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Speaker 1: a dude, you know.

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Speaker 2: But that was a very good explanation. I love that

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Speaker 2: in media. You're so smart. That's what I love about

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Speaker 2: this guys.

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Speaker 1: So okay, because I did get a little bit of

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Speaker 1: not backlash, people loved it. Like when I was at Snow, like,

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Speaker 1: we had a great fucking time. The chemistry was amazing.

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Speaker 1: She's like we're cancers, Like we get it, you know,

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Speaker 1: but I did like get a lot of people like

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Speaker 1: that were kind of I don't know, like talking not shit,

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Speaker 1: but we're like more concerned about our relationship. I want

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Speaker 1: to ask you, why do you think that is? Is

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Speaker 1: it just the world that we live in or is

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Speaker 1: it just because I have a boyfriend and it's public,

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Speaker 1: or like what do you think it is?

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Speaker 3: It comes from their insecurities. It comes because they think, oh,

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Speaker 3: what if my person did that? And they're not comfortable

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Speaker 3: with that. And it's probably from a lack of foundation

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Speaker 3: with our partner, you know. And I know this is

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Speaker 3: like most cliche thing to say, but it's like we

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Speaker 3: really can't worry about what they feel. And I think

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Speaker 3: with our foundation, the way our foundation is right now,

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Speaker 3: would have been fine because I know we have yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And after that, I did think, you guys, and I'll

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Speaker 1: be honest, I was like, shit, like what if his

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Speaker 2: What if she watches it? Because I've never had that

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Speaker 1: I mean, I have a very good relationship with his mom,

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Speaker 1: and she's fucking she's a g Like we talk about everything,

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Speaker 2: But I did worry.

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Speaker 1: I didn't care about what anyone else thought, because my

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Speaker 1: siblings know who I am. I do worry a little

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Speaker 1: bit about I thought about it afterwards, about my nieces

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Speaker 1: and nephews. There's a lot of kids that follow me

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Speaker 1: and your mom, you know, and your grandma. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: but like, at the end of the day, I'm very honest,

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Speaker 1: I'm very this is who I am, you know, and

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Speaker 1: you're my partner and more than anything, you know, And

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Speaker 1: it was no issue. We didn't it was fine, Like

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Speaker 1: he was completely fine. And I think that's what makes

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Speaker 1: this relationship so just so nice, so pleasant. It's like

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Speaker 1: I can literally talk to you about anything, you know,

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Speaker 1: even uncomfortable things guys, finances or just anything, and he

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Speaker 1: takes it so well. But I think because you've also

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Speaker 1: done the work. And that's one thing I wanted to

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Speaker 1: tell everyone. I don't know if guys a lot of

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Speaker 1: guys listen to my podcast, but don't be afraid men

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Speaker 1: to be vulnerable to shed some tears.

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Speaker 2: To say I go to therapy.

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Speaker 1: Those are all things that I love about you, Emilio,

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Speaker 1: and I think more men need to be more like you.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to tell you that, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: So I know we kind of mentioned finances, and you know,

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Speaker 1: that's always, I think, difficult to talk about in any relationship,

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Speaker 1: even with friends. It's just it's a touchy subject. But

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Speaker 1: I think we're pretty good because Emilio holds his own

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Speaker 1: Emilio pays his bills. Emilio is very very responsible, and

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Speaker 1: I love that. And another thing that I absolutely love

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Speaker 1: is that, ever since the beginning, every time we go

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Speaker 1: really good about taking care of me.

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Speaker 2: And I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Like it's very rare when I pay, and if he

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Speaker 1: lets me, that's one thing, But when there is something like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean my natural inance think is to take

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Speaker 3: care of you, like that is what my goal is

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Speaker 3: in my life, is to take care of my woman,

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Speaker 3: take care of our home, take care of everything in

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Speaker 3: our lives. But also again back to conversations, like we

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Speaker 3: this is I'm fully transparent, and I think it's great

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Speaker 3: For me, I love being fair. I don't want either

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Speaker 3: do a very good job at just balancing everything. And again,

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Speaker 3: it just comes down to just talking. You just have

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Speaker 3: this is where you know I could use help, or

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Speaker 3: I can I can help out or whatever that is.

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Speaker 3: But when it comes to the things that a man

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, you do. You do a really really good job.

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Speaker 1: And does it I don't know if, like in the

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Speaker 3: It's never bothered me, and honestly, I embrace it. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very important for me to feel like you

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Speaker 1: We compromised, Yes, yeah, we compromised. At first, I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I talk to people.

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Speaker 1: I ask questions again, I want information. And he learned

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Speaker 2: Only you can do this and even your grandma. We

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Speaker 2: We learned that we were both conceived in a vehicle.

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Speaker 1: Classy, yes, very class very classy. Great job mother. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm a pre cum baby, you guys. Isn't that awesome?

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Speaker 2: He confirmed it. Oh, you need to buy me sees candies.

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Speaker 3: Okay, please, yes, I will surprise you sees candies.

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Speaker 1: Same here, Oh you're gonna I love you?

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Speaker 2: So we're just.

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Speaker 1: just kind of makes me a little nervous. But I

434
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Speaker 1: I that's me just overthinking, you know, and over analyzing.

435
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Speaker 1: But I think i'd be a wonderful mother, like I

436
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Speaker 1: just and now I'm more curious to see and it helps.

437
00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 1: Before I thought I wanted a guy that had kids

438
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Speaker 1: so that I didn't feel the pressure of having kids,

439
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Speaker 1: And I don't feel pressure about you. Like I've told you,

440
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Speaker 1: like what if I can't what if I just can't conceive?

441
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Speaker 1: And you said that you're totally fine with it. I mean,

442
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Speaker 1: I we don't know if that'll change later, but you

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Speaker 1: make me want to be a mother like you, and

444
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Speaker 1: the fact that you haven't had kids, I want to

445
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Speaker 1: be able to experience that with you for the first

446
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Speaker 1: time together. You know that excites me. I think we

447
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Speaker 1: do a freaking amazing, phenomenal job raising a child together.

448
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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we do a great job with our

450
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Speaker 3: dogs already.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we do. And you're great. You're a great dad,

452
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Speaker 2: a great dog dad. So I think we do it.

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Speaker 2: We'd be a good duo for sure, Yes, to raise

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Speaker 2: our human being.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully he or she will be very very smart, because

457
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Speaker 1: you're very smart, pretty wise. You know, you're you're very

458
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Speaker 1: book smart, and I'm pretty street smart. And why smarting,

459
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Speaker 1: you're pretty smart too, you know he's okay, no, he's

460
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Speaker 1: pretty straet smart. Guys, he's a g he's gangster. Okay,

461
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Speaker 1: He's probably gonna be like, why did you say gangster? Anyways, Oh, marriage,

462
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Speaker 1: what have we talked? We've talked about marriage kind of

463
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Speaker 1: sort of right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we've And that's what like I like

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Speaker 3: about our relationship that we can have these conversations and

466
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Speaker 3: we don't expect them to go a certain way or

467
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Speaker 3: have this pressure. I've never wanted to put pressure on

468
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Speaker 3: you about marriage, but we've had multiple conversations throughout our

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Speaker 3: relationship about it. I think it's important to gauge where

470
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Speaker 3: your partner is and how they see where you're at,

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Speaker 3: how they see the next few years, the next few months.

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Speaker 3: I think it's important to know. It gives you reassurance.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like that conversation of marriage has grown

474
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Speaker 3: so much in these two and a half years.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. It's evolved.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's evolved because obviously when him and I first met,

477
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Speaker 1: I wasn't divorced yet.

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Speaker 2: I actually didn't.

479
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Speaker 1: I wasn't officially divorced until June of last year, so

480
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Speaker 1: that was very tough, and I just had like a

481
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Speaker 1: bit of a sour chaste in my mouth about it all,

482
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Speaker 1: and I just kind of wanted to detox from that

483
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Speaker 1: situation and that experience. But I've always been kind of

484
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Speaker 1: like open, like I'm like, okay, like I wouldn't mind

485
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Speaker 1: getting married. And then now that we've talked about it,

486
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Speaker 1: and now that I see the type of man that

487
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Speaker 1: you all and us living together and everything, like, it's hey,

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Speaker 1: I think that it'd be cool, you know.

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Speaker 2: And it's not like this.

490
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Speaker 1: Before I would see it like, oh, you don't need

491
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Speaker 1: that piece of paper to show or to prove the

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Speaker 1: love that you have for each other, you know, And

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Speaker 1: you put it perfectly. The other day we're like, yeah,

494
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Speaker 1: like we're fine the way we are. But it's more

495
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Speaker 1: of a what did you say, a spiritual commitment?

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Speaker 3: A spiritual commitment, yes, I as much as the legal

497
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Speaker 3: and the paperwork whatever, that isn't as important to me

498
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Speaker 3: as you know. We went to a wedding together and

499
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Speaker 3: I saw one of my really good friends just be

500
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Speaker 3: so emotional as his wife was walking to the altar.

501
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Speaker 3: And what it means to a man to make that

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Speaker 3: commitment in front of God, in front of your family

503
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Speaker 3: and all your friends. I think that's the most like

504
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Speaker 3: ge shit you can do in your life. And when

505
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Speaker 3: I saw that Instantly, I was like, I want this

506
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Speaker 3: with her. I want to make that commitment to her.

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Speaker 3: And I think it wraps everything, the foundation, everything that

508
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Speaker 3: we have in our relationship. It just wraps and covers

509
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Speaker 3: it in a nice little presence. And that's how I

510
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Speaker 3: see it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when you explained it that way, I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I get it. Okay, cool, Yeah, for sure. It's crazy

513
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Speaker 1: because in a way, like I had seen it that way,

514
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Speaker 1: but then I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think it was just the experience I had just

517
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Speaker 1: kind of fogged or it all for me, you know

518
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Speaker 1: a little bit.

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Speaker 2: But you have you ever felt like that before for

520
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Speaker 2: anyone else?

521
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Speaker 3: Never before you. When I thought of marriage, it was

522
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Speaker 3: this weird, fake fantasy of me and a home with

523
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Speaker 3: someone in like twenty thirty years. But now it's like,

524
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Speaker 3: I've never been so sure about someone else in my

525
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,919
Speaker 3: entire life. I've never felt so confident. This is my person.

526
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Speaker 3: This is a person that I could actually give my

527
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Speaker 3: all too and feel comfortable and feel safe doing it.

528
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Speaker 2: Okay.

529
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Speaker 1: So I mean if we got married right now, right now,

530
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Speaker 1: like after this podcast, we go toa like our local

531
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: you know court, you would be fine with having this

532
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 1: one Kouchi. Maybe another one if we decide to have

533
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 1: a three somme later. But this set of boobs, this heart,

534
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 1: this person for the rest of your life.

535
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,360
Speaker 2: Are you? Are you like you're thirty one years old? Dude,

536
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 2: you're thirty one.

537
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Speaker 1: You're gonna be You're not even thirty one yet, You're

538
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: going to like you are very confident in that, like

539
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: you are one hundred percent.

540
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Speaker 3: I'm craving that. That's what I want.

541
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Speaker 1: That's a nice word, craving that. Ooh yeah, well he's

542
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: craving now. Okay, we'll come over here. He's in the

543
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Speaker 1: office right now.

544
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 3: There's a wall between us, just the wall.

545
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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

546
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Speaker 1: Okay, Well that's it guys. That's what we have for

547
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Speaker 1: you today. I hope you enjoyed this episode.

548
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Speaker 2: Did you have fun?

549
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 1: My love?

550
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Speaker 3: I had a blast. I love I love talking to you.

551
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 3: And it's like, what's really great for Obviously everyone doesn't

552
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 3: listen to us every day, but like we talk like

553
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 3: this to each other every day. Yeah, we have these

554
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 3: conversations all day from the moment we wake up to

555
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:01,880
Speaker 3: the moment.

556
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: And blaw sleep.

557
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

558
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we just have a blast doing it and

559
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 3: it's and it's it's that's our foundation.

560
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we're just on the same page, and

561
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: that's the most important thing. It's that we both want

562
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: the same things. And even if it sometimes it looks

563
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: a little different, but it's at the ultimate ultimately it's

564
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 1: the same thing, you know, the same goal, same same destination.

565
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: But thank you so much for being on such a

566
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: pleasure speaking to you. You're very cute, very handsome, and

567
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: share your social media platform for people that want to

568
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: follow you. Girls, don't set them dms, do not go there,

569
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 1: do not disrespect me, but go ahead and follow him

570
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 1: so you could see. You could see how creative and

571
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Speaker 1: how talented he is.

572
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I love to post you. I love

573
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 3: showing you off, and you're so cute, and I take

574
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 3: pictures of you all day every day, and.

575
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Speaker 2: I just he does some ugly ass pictures too. He

576
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Speaker 2: thinks they're so cute. Might erase that you won't eraise them?

577
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 3: Oh no never. So what's there?

578
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 2: So what's what's your your handle?

579
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 3: It is my name at Emilio Sanchez, and I hope

580
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 3: you guys can go see my work and see what

581
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 3: I create. I take pride in it. I have fun

582
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 3: doing it. My passion and uh it's what brought me

583
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 3: to you, and uh I'm grateful for it.

584
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Speaker 1: Okay, well, babe again, thank you so much. I had

585
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Speaker 1: a great time. I hope you all enjoyed this episode

586
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: and can learn a little something from us. We're not perfect,

587
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: of course, we're still learning. We're just happy to be

588
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 1: on this journey together and we wanted to share some

589
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Speaker 1: things as I know a lot of you had a

590
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: lot of questions. Thank you so much, wishing you.

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Speaker 2: All the best, Los qiro, love and light to all

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