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Subject my wife needs to find something 12 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 2: to do. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty nine year 13 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: old married man, and when I got married, my wife 14 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: and I moved to my hometown. I think this is 15 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: the biggest mistake I've ever made in my life. My 16 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: mother is young because she had me when she was fifteen. 17 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 2: Because of that, she and my wife, who is twenty eight, 18 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 2: are best friends. I've known all my life that my 19 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: mother smokes weed, but it's clear to me now that 20 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 2: she not only smokes weed, she's a pro at it, 21 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 2: and she's got my wife smoking all the time. Don't worry, 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: it's legal here. But I still don't think it's what 23 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: they need to do all the time. Now that my 24 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: wife has a new job, she works from home two 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: days and she goes into the office three days. The 26 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 2: day she's in the office, there's only the older females working. 27 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 2: I just need her to make some friends real quick, 28 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 2: because I want to go to the gym alone, hang 29 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 2: with my potnas alone, and just go for a run 30 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 2: without waiting for her to get dressed and tie her 31 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 2: hair up. It's my fault, and I know moving away 32 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 2: from her friends and family would be hard, but she's 33 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 2: got an outgoing personality, so I am not sure. Why 34 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: is she so clinging now? The final straw was when 35 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 2: I wanted to go to the strip club and she 36 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 2: wanted to tag along. My cousin's wife wasn't going, and 37 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: neither were the other wives and girlfriends. She yelled and 38 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 2: screamed about being bored and feeling left out. I felt 39 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 2: so bad that I skipped the party to stay with her. 40 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: I hate that she hangs out with my mother, but 41 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 2: that's the only person that she can do stuff with. 42 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: After three years of marriage. Am I being mean and 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: selfish for not wanting to. 44 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: Be with my wife? Twenty four to seven what should 45 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: I do? 46 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 2: Okay, you're not being mean and selfish for not wanting 47 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: to spend twenty four to seven with your wife. I 48 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 2: get that, you know everybody needs a break and all 49 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 2: of that, but I see some issues here. One, you 50 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 2: don't like your wife's smoking weed with your mom. You 51 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 2: don't like her hanging out with your mom, and you 52 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: do want her to get her own friends so you 53 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 2: can have some space. Like I said, no, you don't 54 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: have to be with her twenty four to seven, but 55 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: moving your wife. 56 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: Think about this, Moving your wife to a city where she. 57 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 2: Only knows you and your mom, and then expecting her 58 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 2: to not want to be around you a lot. That's 59 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: pretty that's pretty crazy and unrealistic. I think you know, 60 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: you guys have to figure out a way where you 61 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 2: can both. 62 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: Get what you want. 63 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: You got to talk to her, you know, you got 64 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 2: to introduce her to some people. You know everybody. It's 65 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 2: your hometown. Why can't you introduce her? You said, she 66 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: has an outgoing personality, she can make her own friends. 67 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: Then you guys, can know, designate some date nights for 68 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 2: yourselves with some people your own age that don't smoke weed. 69 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: Since you have a problem with that, and you know 70 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 2: this is your hometown again. 71 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: You moved her there. 72 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 2: You said it was the biggest mistake you ever made, 73 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: So you have to make some necessary adjustments, you know. 74 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 2: That way she can get out of the house, if 75 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: she meets some new friends, you know, go to girls' night, 76 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: all that stuff. I think you have to be a 77 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: little more patient and understanding with your wife. And if 78 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 2: you don't like her smoking so much, we let her 79 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: know that too. And by the way, by the way, 80 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: this is a PostScript. Yes, black women have to tie 81 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 2: our hair down when we work out. 82 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: What you think. We got to preserve our edges. H 83 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: period period, Tommy, don't. 84 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,119 Speaker 4: Nobody want to stay in this old ass town y'all 85 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 4: living here? And that's the problem I got right there. 86 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 4: Don't nobody want to stay there? 87 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 3: Is boring? She bored, ain't nothing to do. 88 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 4: Yes, it was the biggest mistake you've ever made. You 89 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 4: need to get your wife back to it. Maybe wherever 90 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,839 Speaker 4: you all met, she's unhappy. Your wife is miserable right now, 91 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 4: so you need to fix it. Where your wife is. 92 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 4: Y'all ain't been married for three years. Y'all supposed to 93 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 4: be doing a lot of stuff together, hanging out together. 94 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 4: And of course yes, men want to do some things 95 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 4: by themselves sometimes got that part, but you need to 96 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 4: make You need to right now focus on your wife 97 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 4: and make your wife happy. That's what you need to do. 98 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 4: And quit dropping off at mama house and get high 99 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 4: or whatever. Eat she come back, she got the munchies 100 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 4: when you pick it up. You ought to be tired 101 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 4: of that. And don't know, man want to take their 102 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 4: wife to the strip club with them? What kind of 103 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 4: fun is that? It's not okay? So I know you 104 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 4: want to have your man time, do your thing, but 105 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 4: you the first. Right now, you need to make sure 106 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 4: your wife is happy. All right, happy wife, happy life. 107 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 4: Get your wife straight, make sure she good now. But 108 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 4: it ain't no young people in the town that y'all living, 109 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 4: because it got to be a town. Then the town 110 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 4: that y'all living, you need to move. 111 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 3: You think about it. 112 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 4: Well, I don't know if you moved home because mama there. 113 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 4: I don't know what this is. But but what kind 114 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 4: of time is everybody smoking weed over there? What is 115 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 4: it just your mama didn't know that's just smoking all this? 116 00:04:59,480 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: Why is your mother? 117 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: I'm an smoke an all on this weed. Why is 118 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 4: that your mama can roll weed with one hand? 119 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: I mean, what is this? 120 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 4: Because you say she's a professional act they I mean 121 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 4: your mama just rolling them, just rolling enough, you know, 122 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 4: I mean, I mean, I mean, honestly, take some time 123 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 4: and make sure your wife is straight. 124 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 3: That's the most important thing. Men. 125 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 4: Men, gotta make sure your wife is straight. And your 126 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 4: wife is happy. That's the most important thing. And I 127 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 4: promise once she's happy, you happy. Make your wife happy. 128 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 4: That's it at time, all right? Thinking that for you, junior, 129 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 4: that's not how I see this. My wife needs to 130 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 4: find something to do. 131 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't see it like that time. I mean, 132 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 5: that's a great answer. Well come on, come on now, 133 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 5: let me just tell you right now. The problem is 134 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 5: in this whole letter is you're gonna have to start 135 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 5: smoking some weed. 136 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to because. 137 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 3: You happen too many problem. 138 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 5: The reason why you see all the problems because you 139 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 5: ain'ate high. See, I've been around people that's been high. 140 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 5: They always slow. You see anybody high. Fact asked, it's 141 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 5: gonna take her a while to get ready because she 142 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 5: she gotta wrap those Yes. 143 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 3: That is your mama and your wife they gonna smoke together. 144 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 5: Let me tell you the thing she's clinging because people 145 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 5: that's high are touchy Philly people. They go, yeah, they 146 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 5: won't be clinking. I know you're try of hearing this 147 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 5: and it sounds slow. Bye bye bye bye bye bebe 148 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 5: bebe by. 149 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 3: You know, listen to me. 150 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: Bee oh oh that thought babee. 151 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna have part two. 152 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 3: Stop. 153 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: Strawberry Letter respons is coming up at twenty three minutes 154 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: after the hour. Today's strawberry letter subject my wife needs 155 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 2: to find something to do. We'll get back into it 156 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: right after this. You're listening hard morning show. All right, guys, 157 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 2: we're gonna recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is my 158 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 2: wife needs to find something to do. Twenty nine year 159 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: old married man wrote this letter. His wife is twenty eight. 160 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 2: They've been married for three years. When they got married, 161 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: he said it's the biggest mistake of his life. He 162 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: moved his wife to his hometown, so she has no 163 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: people to hang out with because she doesn't know anybody, 164 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: no one her own age. She hangs out with his 165 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 2: mom and who had him when she was fifteen. So 166 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: his mom smokes weed all the time. So now the 167 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: mom smokes weed with the daughter with his wife, her 168 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: daughter in law, and he doesn't like it. 169 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: He absolutely does not like this. 170 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 6: Guys, So the wife wants to hang out all the 171 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 6: time twenty four to seven, he says, with him with 172 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 6: the husband, and you know, he's tired of it. 173 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 2: He wants his own space. He wants to go to 174 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 2: the gym by himself, but he has to wait on 175 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 2: her to get dressed and tie her hair up. 176 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: You know. 177 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 2: He says, she needs to get her some friends. He 178 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 2: said the final s job was when she wanted to 179 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: go to the strip club with him and he didn't 180 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: want to do that. None of his other friend's wives 181 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 2: or girlfriends wanted to go. So he's wanting to know 182 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 2: is he being mean and selfish for not wanting his 183 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 2: wife with him? Twenty four to seven? And what should 184 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 2: he do? So, junior, you want to finish your answer. 185 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 5: You were saying that, tell this young man your mama's 186 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 5: forty four years old. 187 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 3: There is no age range for smoking weed. 188 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 5: It brings people sixty to eighteen together it They don't care. 189 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 3: It's weed. 190 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 5: Okay, now you're gonna have to start smoking some weed 191 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 5: because you're just not going to wait. 192 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: Because you just where he is. 193 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's legal. 194 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 5: You got to go down to the dispensary and get 195 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 5: you a bag yourself, because I'm telling you they're not Finnah. 196 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 5: Stop now, nobody's high as ever fast they move slow. 197 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 3: Ain't nobody high moving fast? They high? 198 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 5: So therefore, a young man, you're gonna have to just 199 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 5: start smoking some weed. 200 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 4: Coet, frame me that dime bag off the kitchen counter 201 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 4: and see. 202 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what he's gonna have to do to thing. 203 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 1: All right, you're going too far. It is legal there, 204 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: but come on, not everywhere. So that's that's your response. 205 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 5: You're that you're don't understand them because he's not high. 206 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 5: Your mama and your wife is sitting in the living 207 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 5: room smoking and they. 208 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 3: Laughing, and you don't know why they laughing. You know, yes, smoking. 209 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 2: He don't say she's too cleany, though he doesn't. 210 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 5: He's just sureley what I told you. People that are 211 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 5: high are touchy Philly people. They're gonna be clinking. I 212 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 5: know he's tired of hearing this, Babe. 213 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 3: What you're doing? Man, Babe, They look at me, look 214 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 3: at me. 215 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 5: Look at me, look at me. Bab ain't not sexy. Huh, 216 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 5: bab ain't not sexy to you? Ask your mama. 217 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 3: Look at your mama. Your mama looks sexy too. You 218 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 3: understand none of this? Jr? Can we take her? Why 219 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 3: she high? Can we take her to the Magic City? 220 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 4: Is it okay? 221 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 3: Let me tell you why she wants go? Strip clup 222 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:01,040 Speaker 3: it through a fit? 223 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 5: Because where is most of the weed atpsy. 224 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: Weed and wings? I thought it was known for wings. 225 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 5: Let me she's gonna get hunger get Yeah, and the 226 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 5: reason why the other wives didn't go because they don't 227 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 5: smoke wheed. 228 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 2: Oh, but she says she's feeling bored. She's feeling left out. 229 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 2: That's what the wife is saying. She's bored. 230 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 3: His mama is a bad influence. 231 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: But that's all, yeah for sure. Yeah, but that's her 232 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: best friend. They're best friends. She has no other friends. 233 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: So what should she do? 234 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 3: They're not gonna stop smoking. I know that. To move? 235 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you go back out of town, move right now. 236 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 3: I'm tell you right now. 237 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 5: He can move, but she's not leaving his mom. No, 238 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 5: I'm moving. You go ahead, babe, babe, you go ahead. 239 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 5: He moves back, babe, May you move me and mama 240 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 5: be right here, me and. 241 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 3: Your mama then planted some seeds in the backyard. Well 242 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 3: you stopped. I'm sorry. 243 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 2: I just think once she gets other friends, I think 244 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: it's her husband's hometown. He needs to introduce her to 245 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 2: some people. He knows everyone there. She only knows him 246 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 2: and his mom and maybe a couple of the people 247 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 2: in the office when she goes in a couple of 248 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 2: days a week or three times a week. 249 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: So he says, she has to get. 250 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 4: To town, and he's had the biggest city. 251 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 2: He did say the biggest mistake he ever made was 252 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: moving his wife to his hometown. You go, but he 253 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 2: made it seem like it was because his mom lived 254 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 2: there and she smoked weed. And now they're best friends. 255 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: And his wife just got a new job. So you 256 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: want them to move? 257 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 4: I do, I do, And I don't know about her 258 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 4: new job. I'm her to be happy. Get a transfer, 259 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 4: they hide and all the cities across the country they hired. 260 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 3: She find a job somewhere else. 261 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 4: Let's find be happy, getting not his city, away from 262 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 4: your mama with this weed. 263 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 3: Let's get away from this. Let me tell you right now. 264 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 5: Though they smoke all the time, twenty four hours a day, 265 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 5: all the time. 266 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 3: That means your mama got that fire. Who yo, mama 267 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 3: got the good stuff, big quarter, big firm, No mama 268 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: bringing it. 269 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 2: He did say, not only does my mom smoke weed, 270 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 2: but she's a pro add it. And she got my 271 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 2: wife smoking all the time. He did say that in 272 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 2: the letter. 273 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: He did. 274 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but why does it take her so long to 275 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 2: get dressed? Why when they're trying to go to the gym? 276 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 3: Go see her take a minute. 277 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 2: Herself the leggings and the top and go I can't 278 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 2: all right? 279 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: All right, well, all right, I guess you're gonna have 280 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: to move or something. 281 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 3: All right. 282 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: Get us up on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM to 283 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 2: comment on today's Strawberry Letter. 284 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter. 285 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: Podcast on the fry iHeartRadio app coming up next to his. 286 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. 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