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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Meloncamps and camera Judge. Hi, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy

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Speaker 1: Mellencamp and Tambra Judge. Hey, Teddy, Hi, Hi. We are excited.

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Speaker 1: We have to get right to business today because we

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Speaker 1: have newbie Rachel Fuda from Real Housewives of New Jersey

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Speaker 1: joining us and we can't wait to ask her all

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Speaker 1: of the juicy question me, my second New Jersey newbie

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Speaker 1: i've met in two days. You know what, You're on

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Speaker 1: a Jersey mission. You're really you know what, You're gonna

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Speaker 1: take my Teddy Walter's title. And maybe Tamra Tattles. There

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Speaker 1: is a Twitter Tamra Tattles. It always used to give

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Speaker 1: me the business. I feel like I know everybody thought

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Speaker 1: it was me in the very way, like, oh, we

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Speaker 1: gotta ask Rachel about her fen stuff, her fin stuff.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hold on, hold on, hold on, way are

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Speaker 1: you hi? How are you guys? Were good? How are you? Um?

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Speaker 1: You know, trying to stay awake with three kids and

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Speaker 1: you know, so job it's a lot. How old is

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Speaker 1: your youngest? She just turned one? Yeah? God, you born

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Speaker 1: and you had a rock and bod right after she

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Speaker 1: was born. Thank you. I appreciate that, but I literally

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Speaker 1: cannot take any credit for that. That was just pure stress. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So first and foremost, we we are hard on newbies,

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Speaker 1: and no, no, no, no, no, no no, don't say we

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Speaker 1: Oh are you kidding me? Teddy? I feel like you're

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Speaker 1: just hard on people in general. Came at me right

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Speaker 1: with a walk. You didn't miss a beat with that.

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Speaker 1: I actually and it was actually tam was actually yeah,

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Speaker 1: I said, somebody stole your walk, Teddy. It's so fun album.

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Speaker 1: Tam Ross says the ship and then somehow it comes

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Speaker 1: out through me and it looks like I'm yeah, we

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Speaker 1: have we have, we have different assholeisms. Can you tell

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Speaker 1: us a little bit about how you originally got on

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Speaker 1: the show? How that all started? Right, No, it's through Melissa,

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Speaker 1: so I guess technically both. But um, we moved to

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Speaker 1: Franklin Lakes and Jayden and Gina were on the same

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Speaker 1: football team, and Melissa and Joel had just been building

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Speaker 1: their house and they moved back in town and stuff,

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Speaker 1: so we met through the kids. But um, frank trains

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Speaker 1: Britt and I for a bikini bodybuilding competition. So that's

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Speaker 1: how I met Britt and Frank at the gym, So

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Speaker 1: that's how I know. Doris. What year did you do

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Speaker 1: your finness competition? Oh? My god, A long time ago?

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Speaker 1: Like how long ten years ago? Oh I did? When

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Speaker 1: like six years ago? Did you? It is the hardest thing,

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Speaker 1: I swear. It's mentally so challenging. Forget about like the

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Speaker 1: physical stuff, because your body only goes as far as

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Speaker 1: your mind pushes it. Right. Yeah. For me, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: so much the actual the working out part two three

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Speaker 1: hours a day, like I've always worked out, But it

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Speaker 1: was the diet. And when I say diet, like you

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Speaker 1: eat a lot, you eat a lot and you limit

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Speaker 1: I mean I had no carbs at all. Turns it end.

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Speaker 1: But that's the hardest part for me. You were filming

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Speaker 1: during your competition, right yeah, and no drink that. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how the hell you did that. My kids

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Speaker 1: were like, mom, please never do that again. Like you

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Speaker 1: were so angry all the time. I don't worry one great. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the no carbs thing really affects you, like you don't

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Speaker 1: realize it, but like you're tired, you're cranky. It's all

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Speaker 1: like the horrible things that you don't want to be

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Speaker 1: in a person just you become so fast, Rachel. We

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Speaker 1: recently had Melissa on the pod and she said that

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Speaker 1: she is closest with you from the cast. What do

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Speaker 1: you think Do you think that's time or do you

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Speaker 1: think you get what do you think the reason is

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Speaker 1: for that? So I think there's a couple of different

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Speaker 1: things here. John and Joe, my husband John, are super close.

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Speaker 1: Like I'll just go downstairs on any given Tuesday afternoon.

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Speaker 1: He's drinking espresso with my two and a half year

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Speaker 1: old on his lap. They're very, very very close. Um.

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Speaker 1: But I also think that like the boys being close,

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Speaker 1: like Jayden and Gino, and we also have a lot

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Speaker 1: in common, like she is, she's fun, she likes to

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Speaker 1: go out just like have a good time. It's about

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Speaker 1: the fashion, the hair, the makeup. We just have a

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Speaker 1: lot in common. So I just feel like I gravitated

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Speaker 1: towards her just so naturally, just you know, forget about

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Speaker 1: does she also have a fence to or only you?

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Speaker 1: I think only me? Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait?

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Speaker 1: Do you have a mist? And I need to know

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Speaker 1: all about this? Rest in pre piece of Brabo lover one, two, three, four, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so okay, I have the log in so I can stalk.

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Speaker 1: I deleted it because I'm like this enough, Like you

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Speaker 1: just need the fanatics. This in the world of Instagram anymore.

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Speaker 1: This is like it's so stupid and so embarrassing, and

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Speaker 1: like now I'm just gonna creep a confidence with my

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Speaker 1: verified Instagram will check or whatever it is, TikTok, Like

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Speaker 1: that's it. So I had an old Instagram page that

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Speaker 1: was Rachel Dell, which is like part of my maiden

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Speaker 1: last name before I got married, and there was nothing

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Speaker 1: on there. I deleted everything. It wasn't following anyone nothing.

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Speaker 1: So when things like during the season started happening, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: all right, why slights, Like keep an eye on what

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Speaker 1: everybody's doing. So I changed the name and like just creeped,

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Speaker 1: like I swear to god, I never posted a comment.

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Speaker 1: I never did anything. But I forgot to untag myself

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Speaker 1: from all the damn pictures that I took, so there's

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Speaker 1: like pictures of me and no, it's a complete rookie

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Speaker 1: move because I clearly I've never had a finstone before.

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Speaker 1: So I now I'm like just minding my own business

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Speaker 1: and I see this thing. It's like, oh, Rachel, like

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Speaker 1: Bravo fan whatever, And I'm like, first of all, there's

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Speaker 1: something wrong with being a fan of any show on Bravo.

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Speaker 1: But it's like it was almost like it was trying

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Speaker 1: to like be weaponized to be used against me. They're

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Speaker 1: trying to make you a creepy fan. It's so weird.

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Speaker 1: I used it to creep on my castmates and it

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Speaker 1: backfired horribly for me. But I'm willing to own it,

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Speaker 1: So I guess it's not that embarrassing, right if I

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Speaker 1: was denying it. Who specifically do you think you creeped on?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can just use your context clues from

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Speaker 1: the season of who I was probably creeping on. But

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Speaker 1: to be honest, a lot of these girls have so

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Speaker 1: many followers they weren't paying attention to me, probably looking

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Speaker 1: at their stories anyway. So okay, so you wanted to

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Speaker 1: look at their stories, but you didn't want them to

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Speaker 1: know you were looking at their stories? Yeah, like commenting

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Speaker 1: comment like me, no, like no, you are so, But

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Speaker 1: why couldn't Why couldn't you have done this on your

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Speaker 1: regular and stuff? Because I am verified, and I feel

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Speaker 1: like when I look at who looks at my stories?

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Speaker 1: I scroll and I only pay attention. I can only

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Speaker 1: see really the check marks, right, because it's like something

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Speaker 1: that sets everybody apart. So I don't these are you?

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Speaker 1: These are the girls you don't like on the show

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Speaker 1: you know, just having some problems with I just want

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Speaker 1: I get it. It's like when you break up with

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Speaker 1: a guy and then you create in stats to still

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Speaker 1: be able to see his page, but he doesn't actually

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Speaker 1: know that you you care enough to jail. No, I

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Speaker 1: like you use your best friends log in Like same

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Speaker 1: same idea here. No, I don't know. I had it.

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Speaker 1: I had somebody just sent me a video of somebody

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Speaker 1: that a story? Am I gonna she gonna know? I'm

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Speaker 1: so I get it. I get it. I know it's

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Speaker 1: exactly what I'm talking about. And then the big scheme

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Speaker 1: of things, who gives a shit exactly? Well, that's now

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna creep a confidence. I don't watch everybody,

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Speaker 1: But did you have a dog or a flower as

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Speaker 1: your profile picture? Nothing? Nothing, there was nothing you should

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Speaker 1: put a should put a nose. I should put a nose.

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Speaker 1: You're right. I think exactly what I should do if

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a lady. Maybe I'm making a bravel over one, two, three,

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Speaker 1: four five, and I'll make a nose. Okay, so from it,

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Speaker 1: we'll take over the account for you, Teddy will Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, oh god, it's the opposite. I throw myself

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Speaker 1: under the bus. But my next question is when we

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Speaker 1: were talking about the newbies, Tam just met Jim Fessler,

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Speaker 1: who she loved um. She was in Orange County with

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Speaker 1: her husband. Her reaction was a little bit question right

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Speaker 1: there me. Rachel's like, wait, you guys are right, I

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Speaker 1: told me I was cracking up to her the entire time.

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Speaker 1: She's so funny. She is one of the funniest people.

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Speaker 1: But she just has like a good heart. She's a

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Speaker 1: good soul. She just yeah, like I just love being

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Speaker 1: around her. I absolutely we are so stunning, stunning, and

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Speaker 1: you and Danielle seemed to be getting along so far.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that will last throughout the season? No?

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Speaker 1: Does it ever last? I mean, let's see what happens.

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Speaker 1: you get to know Jackie any better than what we're seeing?

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Speaker 1: Because for us seeing like you know, I'm watching it,

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Speaker 1: not feeling one hundred percent because she knows she's not

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Speaker 1: in the same situation she was years past. But do

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Speaker 1: you think she was threatened by you guys, or did

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Speaker 1: you treat her differently? Or she I think actually said

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Speaker 1: herself that, like she came into this season with you know,

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Speaker 1: like we were all trying to take her job. Because essentially,

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Speaker 1: I guess we were right. So she's owns that. But

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Speaker 1: I did get to know her much better, you know,

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Speaker 1: a lot of respect for her. She's battled a lot

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Speaker 1: She's very well spoken. So I did smart, Yeah, very

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Speaker 1: very very smart. So some you know, it was very

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Speaker 1: nice to get to know her on a more personal level.

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Speaker 1: It was unfortunate that that's how we kind of started

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Speaker 1: off the season, but it was like whatever, It was

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Speaker 1: no big deal to me. I kind of saw it

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Speaker 1: for what it was, like you just said, Teddy, So

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going to like hold it again, star, like whatever,

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Speaker 1: like I'm new here, I'm probably taking your job. And

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Speaker 1: so it was Danielle and Jen so whatever. But she's

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Speaker 1: shining now and I think that it was a good

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Speaker 1: step because now she's focusing on her book and I

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Speaker 1: see her all over Instagram promoting her book and she's

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Speaker 1: really happy. So I'm happy for her. She has a

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Speaker 1: lot of positive things going on right now. In the

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Speaker 1: book is a labor of love for her. I mean,

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Speaker 1: she wrote every single word in that book, and not

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Speaker 1: many people can say that, especially in the housewife world,

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Speaker 1: right every ninety percent of them have got out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I could never write a book. Camera can't even read.

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Speaker 1: We can't even read our headlines half the time, like Teddy,

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Speaker 1: like a big old shit show. And that's why the

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00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 1: reunion is so important. I do agree, But there's a

426
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 1: lot of things that have transpired off camera that we

427
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 1: will that will be brought out at the reunion that

428
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 1: I think it'll make a lot more sense to everybody.

429
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: I hate the off camera stuff. I hate it, I know,

430
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,439
Speaker 1: but then well we will find out about it with this.

431
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 1: That's what happened in Beverly Hills. There's so much off

432
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:29,919
Speaker 1: camera stuff and I feel like it just ruined it.

433
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 1: It does. I think it makes it. It makes it spotty,

434
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: like it makes this like the story doesn't there's story? Yeah, right, yes,

435
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: Multiple housewives have been accusing Marge of collecting dirt on everybody.

436
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: Do you think she has dirt on you? Um, I

437
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 1: don't really know if I have dirt to collect, but

438
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 1: if if I do, she probably has it. I think

439
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 1: I think a lot of the time and Margaret is

440
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 1: like one of those people that you just talk to

441
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 1: and it just comes out like she's so easy to

442
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: talk to. I don't know, even though necessarily that she

443
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: just collects dirt. I think it's just like regular conversations

444
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: and she just like knows a lot of stuff. I

445
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: don't know if she's going and I love her, Yeah,

446
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 1: we love her. I love her. I think she's a

447
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: great housewife. I don't see her as the one sitting

448
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: behind the scenes going, Okay, who can I call to

449
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: see if I can get information. I think if you've

450
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: been on the show for a long time, people love

451
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: to send you information for sure. It's what you do

452
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: with that information. Even being on just for six episodes,

453
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: people send me stuff. But I'm like, I don't even

454
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: want to know this, Like don't tell me, don't I

455
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: don't want to know, Like ignorance is bliss. But I

456
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,400
Speaker 1: like to go back to your point, Teddy, I don't

457
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 1: think she's a digger. I think a lot of it

458
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: just is coming to her naturally. She knows a lot

459
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: of people, Like I'm always surprised when she says, oh

460
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,439
Speaker 1: I know someone say I'm like, oh, really, like I

461
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: know them too, Like she knows everyone, that woman. It's crazy, Well,

462
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: who do you think a bigger diggers then Jen or Teresa?

463
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: What do you mean digger like digs in? Because they've said,

464
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: you guys have said or some people said on the

465
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: show that it's actually Teresa feeding information to Jen and

466
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: then Jen's like her workhorse. To be honest, at this point,

467
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: with all the stuff that's going down, I don't really

468
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: even know anymore. They're so like, it's so messy. It's

469
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: so messy. I don't know even what the intentions are.

470
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what the point of it is. I

471
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: don't get any event where it's coming from. I feel

472
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: like it's just grown into this monster of like, what

473
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: what are we doing for? What? Why is this happening?

474
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 1: So I don't really know even how to answer that question.

475
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: I have my own opinion, don't don't answer it my opinion,

476
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: but you don't have to answer. They're trying to get

477
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: one of them off. They're trying to either get Melissa

478
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: or Teresa off, and people are going to push to

479
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,160
Speaker 1: the death until that happens. But I think we need both.

480
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:58,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I will don't show without both. I do too.

481
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: I think I need both. But I I think that

482
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: we need some resolution, like we need some and you

483
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 1: know what, Timmer, I actually think, as as a friend

484
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: of Melissa and Joe's, and John would agree with me,

485
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: I hope for their own stake that they can have

486
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: some type of resolution to all of their problems. It is,

487
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: it's so it's just so sad to watch happen like

488
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: it is Joe and Tarifa. They're the only two in

489
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 1: their family. So when you really think about it and

490
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: you put yourself in their position, like they have no

491
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 1: one else, I really do. I hope as their friend,

492
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: they can come to some type of, you know, mutual

493
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,439
Speaker 1: understanding that they're just not on the same page. But like,

494
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: let's just move forward. And I think if one was

495
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: removed from the show, it's only going to make their

496
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: family even farther apart. Oh that'll be I actually agree, like, yeah,

497
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: way worse the nail mcffin. I want. I want to

498
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 1: see therapy sessions with the families. I actually suggested that

499
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 1: significant others to not be a part of it for

500
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:58,719
Speaker 1: a little bit, like just put those two together I

501
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: agree and let them figure it out. To me, it's

502
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: not about Melissa and Teresa. It's really got to be

503
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: about Joe and Teresa because they're the siblings. Melissa or

504
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: Louie can say whatever they want, but at the end

505
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: of the day, if those two don't have a real

506
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: conversation and it's through their spouses, they're never going to

507
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: come to any resolution. I agree. I think they need

508
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: to just the two of them need to sit in

509
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: the room, have a mediator and just put it all

510
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: out on the table, like gloves off. Let's have like

511
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 1: a deep conversation and get it all out there. I

512
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 1: actually agree with that. Do you think you could be

513
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: the mediator? I don't think you are right. They need

514
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 1: like maybe Margaret psychotherapist. No way, Oh my god, could

515
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: you imagine? I actually think Margaret would would be a

516
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: good mediator and other circumstances. Maybe not with Teresa, not

517
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: with us. Yeah, no, I agree. So where do you

518
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:53,919
Speaker 1: think you like want next season to go? I am

519
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: just I need to make it through the reunion, Like

520
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I'm not even like at next season.

521
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, how do I even navigate a reunion?

522
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: At this point. So next season, I have no clue.

523
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening with like with casts, who's

524
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: coming back, who's not. Like I got it one step

525
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 1: at a time, especially with this group, because I swear

526
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: like I said it, Melissa coughs, and like the world

527
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: blows up into flames, like it's like the smallest thing,

528
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: Like things are so sensitive right now that the tiniest

529
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 1: things that are going on are being blown out of proportion.

530
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: You mean between Melissa and Teresa just in general, like

531
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: the whole cast, Like you know, I said this, and

532
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 1: it gets blown up. It just all becomes so it's

533
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: become so toxic. So as far as next season is concerned,

534
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: I really have to see, like where my relationships go

535
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: with the cast to figure out what that looks like

536
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: for a next season. Did you have fun during the filming?

537
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: I did. We had a lot of fun together. We

538
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: really did. And that's kind of why it's even more

539
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: sad that we're at where we're at, because we all

540
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: had fun with each other as a group. We were

541
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 1: big casts this years, I think nine of us. So

542
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: with that being said, we had a blast. I mean,

543
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: Ireland was so much fun. I cannot wait for you

544
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: guys to see that I can shore. Oh my god,

545
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 1: the shore was a blast, Like we just had a

546
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: great season and then it went like this and it

547
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: hit the fan. And if you were to pick your spot,

548
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: like if you were to guess by how the rest

549
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 1: of the season goes, this doesn't give anything away other

550
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,479
Speaker 1: than just how juicy it's going to be personally for you.

551
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: Where would you place yourself on the couch? First, second, third,

552
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: fourth spot? I mean, listen, I'm humble. I'm not gonna

553
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: be like I'm right the first spot, like I got it.

554
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm probably like number three off the off the core,

555
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: one person after you. That's what you're thinking, No, Like,

556
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just assuming in my head it would

557
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: probably be Melissa, Margaret and then me because they're not

558
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: gonna you know, Oh you think Melissa would be in

559
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: front of Margaret. Yeah, closest to Andy? You mean? Yeah? Okay,

560
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: I personally think Teddy started trying to figure it out

561
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: and it's months away. I have my hold on. Let

562
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: me get what is your dress gonna look like? That's

563
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: what I want to know. Are you I don't are

564
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: you going to wear an un we know it hurts.

565
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: Just don't weary in a comfortable dress. You're sitting there

566
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: all day long. Okay, I will definitely take your advice

567
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: on that. Um, I will last question that I have

568
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: and then Tam, I don't know if you have anything else,

569
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: but um, if you could ask one question at the

570
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: reunion that you want an answer to, what is it? Like?

571
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: What is everyone's intentions with all the toxicity? What's the point?

572
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: What's the point besides getting each other off a show

573
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: or try to manipulate casting, Like, what's the point what

574
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: are we doing here? Yeah? Well that's what I want

575
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: to know. That's the hard thing about that question, though,

576
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: is you're making a TV show. That's what you're doing.

577
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: Yead off the show. But also there I believe in

578
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 1: that Teddy by the way, like we are making a

579
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: TV show, but when it gets to the level that

580
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: it's gotten to, we're not. This is not about TV anymore.

581
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: What it's happening off camera? Yeah, that's their assassination because

582
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: I do happen to agree with you, like obviously, like

583
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: you know, we gotta throw shade, we gotta we have

584
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: to repeat things that we hear, like we're making a show.

585
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: I get it, but it's we've graduated here and it's

586
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: not it's not good. Yeah, yeah, that's sad, I know.

587
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: And I don't think we fully understand because we're not

588
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: in it. So we I mean, we've seen the interviews

589
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: and we do well just part Yeah, I'm sure we will.

590
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: It will make sense. It will make sense. I think

591
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: we can already feel. I mean, there hasn't been a

592
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: setting that hasn't blown up other than on the the

593
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: charity softball thing. But other than that, every scene there's

594
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: been a fight. Oh yeah, and I would say that's

595
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: pretty consistent for the entire season. Do you ever cry

596
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: about your kids? No, I'm not a crier, but although

597
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: I feel like lucky and I'll let me rephrase that,

598
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: I wasn't a crier until I had kids, and then, like,

599
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just cried. I cried more frequently,

600
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: but now I didn't. How old was your baby when

601
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: you started filming? I want to say seven and a

602
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: half weeks old. Oh my god, Oh my god. That's hard.

603
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: I've never like, I think my daughter was two when

604
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: I started filming. And it was manageable, but it was

605
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: definitely hard because I was used to being a stay

606
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: at home mom. Did you have a job prior to

607
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: that or were you mainly at home with the kids

608
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 1: And so no, it's like I mean John and I

609
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: was helping him run our business. So I was doing

610
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: that from home where I used to be in the

611
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: office so much. So we're basically a parking management staffing.

612
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: So we've staffed like concierge for apartment buildings. We provide

613
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: um car dealerships with like the staff that does the

614
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: service on your cars. We do valet parking for restaurants

615
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: and hotels, m we have our hands and a few

616
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: different things. Yeah, so I helped John run the company,

617
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: but when I had my two and a half year old,

618
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 1: I had to you know, work from home and it

619
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: was part time. So it was tough to manage. After

620
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: I had a second baby and I you know, got

621
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: on the show, I'm like what, like what am I doing?

622
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: What am I doing? I was like, you know, not

623
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: even sleeping through the night yet. So in these scenes

624
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: like the um Jen Fessler's brunch in the backyard, like

625
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: at these events, I am so dead and some of

626
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: these events and I'm like I can't even participate in

627
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: this conversation, like I had. I'm like, I'm drink a

628
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: monster a five hour energy this this is my best

629
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: you've got And you're not the mom that has like

630
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: three nannies at home either. No, you don't have like

631
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: the night nurse and that, No, you have to go

632
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: all night long and which I'm like would be no. Wait, Teddy,

633
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: you were pregnant. I was checking it my last season

634
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: and that was no alcohol on that show. Is really

635
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: you want to talk about challenging? That is yeah for me?

636
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 1: My god, yeah. I mean it's very different to podcast.

637
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: Here was my Alca celtzer and water and talk shit.

638
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: It's a whole different ballgame to be pregnant eight months

639
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: traveling to other countries. But it is would be hard

640
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: because I'm a really emotional and anxious post baby. Did

641
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: you have postpartums? I had extremely bad postpartum anxiety with

642
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: my two and a half year old, like life altering anxiety.

643
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: And then after I had Juliana, my baby baby, I

644
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: had all the same anxiety. But I think that I

645
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: had so much change going on in my life at

646
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 1: the time that I wasn't reading as like postpartum anxiety.

647
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: It was just like my life is just chaos right now,

648
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: But reflecting back, it was absolutely had to do with

649
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: just having a baby. I mean I was like literally

650
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 1: in diapers. I think during you know, the beginning of

651
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: the season, I was like still bleeding. I had a

652
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 1: C section, so I couldn't even like lift my kids yet.

653
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: H God, are you going to any more babies in

654
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: the future? To be honest, we talk about it all

655
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: the time. I have five Embryos'll talk about it on

656
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: the show. Yes, I know. I think you guys like

657
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: ripped me a little bit that you were bored of, like,

658
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: my are we going to have a baby storyline? Did

659
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 1: you guys know you didn't? I think I think there's

660
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: no This storyline has been on every Housewive show because

661
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: it get back to every woman. Yeah, I have different

662
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: I had if I feel the same, like there is

663
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: a lot of challenging things happening. Until I went on

664
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 1: the show and openly said I had miscarriages, I didn't

665
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 1: realize how many women had miscarriages or part of anxiety.

666
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,839
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's overwhelming. I think, like, I'm only

667
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: I'll be thirty two next month, so this is a

668
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: very real place for me to be in life. Trying

669
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: to figure out like if we are going to have

670
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: more babies. I just like I don't want to be

671
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: pregnant again, Like I just don't like it's not some time. No,

672
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: I want to be done young, Like I don't want

673
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: to be doing this stuff like in ten years. Like

674
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 1: I just want to like pop my kids out and

675
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: close the shop, like let's finish this. But it's you know,

676
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,760
Speaker 1: I look at my kids and I love them so much.

677
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 1: It's like why not. Our family definitely doesn't feel complete.

678
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: I will say that I definitely feel something's missing. Okay,

679
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna have another one? How did that? Kids react

680
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 1: to filming? So? Obviously Juliana was too small. Jaden, my

681
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: sixteen year old, was so nervous. I didn't even know

682
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: though we filmed. We like our first like family dinner,

683
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: and he did so good and after he's like, mom,

684
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:32,439
Speaker 1: I was shaking. I'm like you were, and he's like, yes,

685
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: did I do? Okay, I'm like you did great. Hunt

686
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 1: Like we just like talked, you know, like real life stuff,

687
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: and he's like no, Like I like I need to

688
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 1: get used to this. So it took him like a

689
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 1: couple of times, but he didn't It didn't read as

690
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: nervous to me at all whatsoever. But he adjusted pretty quickly.

691
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: He's such a good kid. He's so well spoken. And

692
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: Gigi cracked me up because she loved having people in

693
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: the house, so she would be staring at the camera

694
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: and being like hi, guys, like waving at him because

695
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: they're all so nice, you know, they become like a

696
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: part of your family. I feel like that's a few

697
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: four year olds do They just want to look at

698
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: the camera and touch the camera and point at the camera. Yeah. Well,

699
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: and it's fun, like there's a bunch of people in

700
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 1: the house and there's lights everywhere, and you know, everyone's

701
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: staring at you. Yeah. And then just what one you know,

702
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: shady question before we go, which we always play, I

703
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: make camera play. She cannot stand it. Um, it's a

704
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: little f Mary. We don't have to say kill. We

705
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: can say never see again. But from the other husbands

706
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 1: or boyfriends on Jersey, you can't pick your own f

707
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: mary never see again or kill. Oh my god, you guys,

708
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: I'm going to marry Jeff Bessler. Oh we don't even

709
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: know him yet. I know, yeah you did, okay, so Mary, Jeff,

710
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: because I don't want to any of them. I don't

711
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: you have to, okay, just to hand job, hand job

712
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: a hand job? I mean Evan. Oh yeah, that's a

713
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: good one. I forgot about even he that's like an

714
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:11,439
Speaker 1: easy one, right, yeah, okay, to pick the never see

715
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: again or murder Um. I did enjoy all the guys,

716
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: and I have me thinking who what did I want

717
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: to be around? Who did Margaret pick? You didn't make

718
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 1: her do this? Yeah, so I don't. I don't make

719
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: people do that, did I? I don't think. I don't know.

720
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I like to play card until I

721
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: comes out and everyone's gonna be like, oh hell wait,

722
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: hold on, when is OC coming out? Because it's been

723
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: way too long. I wish I knew. I wish I knew.

724
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: I think it's coming close. I feel like it's been forever.

725
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 1: When do you guys end? You know? Because I feel

726
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,239
Speaker 1: like we're going to come on right when you guys end? No,

727
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: I actually don't know for sure, but I'm assuming, like

728
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: may ish, Yeah, how many episodes do you guys usually do?

729
00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: About twelve episodes? Right? Twelve? Thirteen? Well park, well park? Yeah,

730
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: but I would imagine there was yeah, and there was

731
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: so much to happen this season. I can't imagine that

732
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: there won't be more. Oh, you're probably gonna have a

733
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: three episode for you. Oh we did make Margaret. You

734
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: made Margaret do it, but you did it with housewives

735
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,720
Speaker 1: outside of her franchise house husband. You did it between

736
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: Lenny and someone of that nature. Oh yeah, do you

737
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 1: watch Miami? Yes, I'm so behind, but I happen to

738
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: love Miami. The reunion last night was so good that

739
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 1: you guys have to catch up. Don't tell me anything,

740
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,959
Speaker 1: it is so beyond, but I need to just ask

741
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: you in closing, are you team Alexeia or like, are

742
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,959
Speaker 1: you for Alexeia? Are you four? I think she needs

743
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: me up to date to know because it's each week. Well,

744
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: I made it. I'm on, Like, I just watched um, Like,

745
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 1: what was that party? The engagement party? Nicole's engagement party.

746
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: Oh so you're behind, You're quiet behind? Okay, I'm quite

747
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call. I think Alexia is a great housewife.

748
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: I think she she's top tier, and I think Nicole's

749
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: great too. I mean, if you're asking me between a

750
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: Lexy Nicole, I definitely I definitely picchnicle me too. We

751
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: love Nicole. Alrighty, thank you so much. You can find

752
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: Rachel on Instagram, um, but follow her actual one. I

753
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: knew you were gonna say that. I knew it. We guys.

754
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: I'm also like, did you know that I'm actually like

755
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: almost TikTok famous? By the way, what what Okay, I'm

756
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: gonna start calling yourself an icon and allegend like Tarama

757
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: calls herself. I do not call myself that. Where have

758
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 1: you ever said that? Oh my god, no, she says,

759
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm iconic. It was no, I did not. It wasn't.

760
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't like, oh I'm iconic. It was joking, I know,

761
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: but we pull your tits over there. There's also like

762
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: a little bit of truth to every just kidding about like, well,

763
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: let it was somebody somebody called me an icon or

764
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 1: we were talking about how people are like queen icon

765
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: legend when they send messages to you. You'll get it,

766
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: but you've taken out of content. I mean, this is

767
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: coming from somebody who's TikTok famous. Now, so tell us

768
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: how you did it. Yes, guys, It's like it's literally

769
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: a crapshoot. It's like, okay, just make a video. And

770
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: maybe you'll get a million views on it. There's no

771
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 1: method to the madness, at least I don't think. I

772
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: just keep posting and posting and posting, and like if

773
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 1: you throw you know what at a wall, something will

774
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: eventually stick. And now I'm like, I feel TikTok pressure

775
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: that I now have to create content constantly because that's

776
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,959
Speaker 1: what TikTok is to be relevant. So now I'm gonna

777
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: look up right now. Now, I'm like, hold on, We've

778
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: got a little bit of time here to it's like

779
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 1: millennial like you know, my son, mom stuff, like more

780
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: personality stuff, because I feel like Instagram is so like

781
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: it's like perfect little squares of like the best moments

782
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: of your life, and I feel like TikTok is a

783
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 1: little bit more like you could see people's personalities. I

784
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 1: am following you. I've got that there is a you

785
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: like that one? Bam? I do? Is it a transition?

786
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: Do see? Because I almost bought that dress recently. It's

787
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: a good dress. That's a good good You're gonna have mine.

788
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna wear it again. We should just rotate

789
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: the house clothes. It's so sad. It is such a

790
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 1: waste of money. I know, I know, but we appreciate

791
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: you so much. We love watching you. We can't wait

792
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 1: for it to get uh, you know, even even juicier,

793
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: even juicier. Do you have any really big fight that

794
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: you regret this season? I don't regret anything. I think

795
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: I stayed true to who I am and my character,

796
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: So I don't regret. I don't regret anything. That's what

797
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 1: I always say. One that you thought like, maybe I

798
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: could have lived without doing that, or I mean no,

799
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: I didn't really know. No, she's she's like, no, I'm

800
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 1: TikTok famous. I can say and do whatever I want.

801
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 1: There's no door, asshole. I love listen. Maybe maybe I

802
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: will feel differently after I see you know, the episodes,

803
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: because I mean I would you right, like you see

804
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 1: something from somebody else's perspective that you didn't think of

805
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 1: how they received what you said. So yeah, I mean

806
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: I said what I thought and I felt good. We

807
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 1: can't wait. Makes a good housewife. Well, guys, make sure

808
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 1: to follow Rachel over on Instagram and TikTok because um

809
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: and keep tuning into Jersey. We know that we are

810
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: hooked and so are you. Guys. Yes, and thank you

811
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 1: for being one of the best newvies. You guys all

812
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: three on that cast. I was I was telling Jenda,

813
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, you guys are like the best newvies ever.

814
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: Thank you. If we need it was a much thank you.

815
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: It was a much needed refresh the show. I feel

816
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 1: like needed it. Yeah, a little bit of lightness, airiness,

817
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 1: young families. Again, thank you. We've received so much five feedback,

818
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: all three of us. Only that can happen on Orange County.

819
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: We've gone through so many movies, so so many. I know,

820
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: I know, I can't wait for your new season. I'm

821
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: excited to watch. I'm just so you know, I'm an

822
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 1: asshole on it. You okay, like you had to come

823
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: you had to come in like guns blazing. I'm a

824
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: little friend. But it's okay. I'll survive. It's okay. So

825
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: why she doubles down and is super nice on the pod.

826
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 1: So I look like a bigger asshole as if I'm

827
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: not a bigger balance. It's about balance, right, Like, you

828
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 1: can't be you can't be an a hole everywhere. You're

829
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: my ying to my yang Teddy. I thank you for

830
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: having me nice meeting you. Rachel. Can't wait to be

831
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: a person. Good bye, I know, hopefully soon. Bye guys,

832
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: yea bye