1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,320 Speaker 1: All right. 2 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 2: Time now for a quick round of Ask the CLO 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 2: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. This one's 4 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 2: from Andy and Kelly, Andy Wrights. I own a small 5 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,239 Speaker 2: business that I've put all my savings into, so it 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: has to work. My wife decided she'd quit her job 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: to help me full time because she hated her job. 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 2: Not only is it frustrating to be around her twenty 9 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: four to seven, but the loss of our second source 10 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 2: of income is stressing me out. I want to be 11 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 2: honest with her about everything, so she will find another 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 2: job and give me some space. But I don't want 13 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: to offend her. This could ruin our marriage. How do 14 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 2: I handle this? 15 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: Well? Hold up dog. 16 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 3: That's going to be a little touchy one because she 17 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 3: hated her job, so she says she quit it to 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 3: work with you full time. She thought two would be 19 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 3: better than one, pursuing the dream. But the loss of 20 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 3: her income is stressing you out. But let me ask 21 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 3: you a question. Did you quit your job and put 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: all your money into a business too? 23 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, he did, and he's want to be around her 24 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 2: twenty four to seven. 25 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 1: See that's your real problem, though, That's it. 26 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 3: See that's the real problem, and we can't help you 27 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 3: with that because nothing I can tell you're gonna make 28 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 3: you want to be around her? Twenty four sevens nothing, 29 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 3: it's not ready to know. 30 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: Okay, tie that in. 31 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: Why don't you? 32 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 2: So? How does he handle it? What does he do? 33 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: What does he say? 34 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 3: Well, it's a little water over the damn situation now, 35 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 3: because y'all should have covered this before she quit. But 36 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 3: now that she could, now you're gonna ask her to 37 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 3: go find another job. And what that's gonna be is 38 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 3: go find some more another job to support my dream. 39 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 3: You do hear how this is gonna sound to her 40 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 3: that you can quit your job and be free. But 41 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 3: I can't quit my job to help us be free. 42 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: I got to go back to work. That's right, That's 43 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: what's finna happen. So I don't have a suggestion for you, 44 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: So good luck. 45 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Carlos and Indiana, we're moving on. I'm 46 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 2: a forty two year old married man with a twenty 47 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 2: seven year old pregnant side chick. She's having a baby. 48 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 2: He's forty two and married. She's twenty seven and pregnant. Okay, 49 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 2: she's having a baby. Shower in two weeks and this 50 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 2: is her first baby, so I want to be there 51 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: for her special day. My wife knows about the baby 52 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: and she's dealing with it in her own way, so 53 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,079 Speaker 2: I don't want to keep hurting her. If I go 54 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 2: to the shower, I'm sure pictures of me will be 55 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 2: all over Instagram. I'm trying to fix this mess by 56 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: keeping my baby mama calm while I work on getting 57 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: my marriage back on track. 58 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: What should I skip the baby shower? Well, let me 59 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: explain something to you. What come on? Tell me some time? 60 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 3: Stupid, don't no, you've made a statement in here that 61 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 3: cannot happen. You said, I'm trying to get my marriage 62 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: on track. You kill you to that baby shower? Boy, 63 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 3: that boy you're sitting up smiling. 64 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 2: But but his wife is dealing with it in her 65 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 2: own way. 66 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: God way, do you know the hell? The sheer? Hall? 67 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 3: You do put this woman through and now you're fit 68 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: to go to a baby shower? You know you do 69 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: know that Hall has a wave with it when you're 70 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: give it a woman, Hall, she got a wave of 71 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 3: it for you. 72 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: Now take care to that shower. See what happened? That's stupid. 73 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: But he wants to keep his marriage on track, and 74 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: then he wants to keep his baby mama colle to 75 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 2: you're an idiot, the girl if you don't call me 76 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: Linda Gates and get these papers, all right, Rice. 77 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 3: And Charlotte, excuse me one last day. Yeah, there's a 78 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: cause for me in the side. Chick hum, there's a 79 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 3: cause for that. They don't come with the full benefit package. 80 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 2: That's why he's not going to be at that shower. 81 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: A mess. That's horrible. 82 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 2: How was his wife dealing with this though in her 83 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 2: own way? 84 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 3: Where's all my money in my bank account? 85 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: All right? 86 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 2: Listen, that's all the time we have her c l O. 87 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.