WEBVTT - Just Us 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:21.160 Like the legend of the things all ends with the beginning? 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:25.320 What keeps the planet sitting? 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:27.120 Uh? 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:29.200 What's nothing again? 0:00:34.600 --> 0:00:41.360 Come too far to get back, So. 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:48.559 Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:52.800 I'm Mela. Sure it's Wednesday, be it and as hot 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:53.360 as fuck? 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:56.040 Yeah, it is super hot in l Are. 0:00:56.360 --> 0:01:01.880 We recorded my like outdoor dining room room situations. It's 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:06.600 not really insulated, and I have a feeling in the 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:07.959 next like two weeks. 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:09.680 We're gonna die. 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:12.600 Wait, did we not do this last summer? We did, 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:16.600 but we were hot. No, we were gone the oh. 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:18.920 We were gone and July we missed that part. But 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:20.720 then we came back in August and then we recorded 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.640 some in my room. I think because it was hot. Yeah, 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:24.760 so it's hot. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:28.640 How's your week going so far? 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:35.000 It's going it's going good. I think retro grade has me. 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:38.640 I don't know, emotional. Oh no, the nipples keep coming out. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:42.160 Go on YouTube because see some nipple action. 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:47.080 Check out our YouTube. This is our last YouTube a 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:47.600 little do you. 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:49.040 I don't even know if you guys know this, but 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:51.880 we actually record our episodes, so you can actually go 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:54.880 watch this episode on our YouTube channel. 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Like we don't give you 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:28.680 enough already. 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:32.400 There's also a little secret Facebook page situation happening on 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.880 over there, so yeah, check us. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:35.680 Out on Patreon. 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:42.040 Okay, so before we started recording, Erica was just telling 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.720 me the tea and I said, just just stop there. 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.440 Let's uh, let's get this sun. 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:48.360 Well okay, so I didn't watch the whole video, but 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:52.520 my girlfriend Jennifer from Stockholm, Yeah, she messaged me this 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:58.560 clip of April. What's her all name O Marion's baby daddy, 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:01.840 big daddy, baby mama, Oh my god, and she was 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:04.120 going on a rant about like her pussy is good 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:06.600 and that like the game wants to fuck her he 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:09.800 texts her on Mother's Day. No, and that likes the 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:14.200 pussy too. Oh no, y'all can't fuck rich niggas because like, 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:16.359 I didn't watch the whole thing because I could I 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.480 couldn't deal with that, and she kept like patting her 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:22.200 pussy and grabbing it and being like, yeah, you want 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:23.960 this pussy and if you're not eating it, then get 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:25.039 the fuck away. No. 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:27.400 Yeah, like okay, so I. 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:30.000 Know, and she looked sober, which I was like more. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.320 It was literally my second question, my second question, like 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:35.080 the think she's on drugs. I don't know, but you 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:36.839 know what, let me take that back. I'm sure people 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:38.920 tune into all sixty episodes and they're like, are they 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:46.120 on drugs? Yes? Yes, but I saw okay, So everybody knew. 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:51.440 Everybody who's following the Shade Room knew that she had 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:54.080 like kind of there were some instances with her Little 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:57.200 Fizz on live and then recent instances I showed you 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.240 like them just hanging out, was them hanging out, and 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.400 then this was re one was so sketch. So first 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:04.680 of all, you know, the tour ended, and I told 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:07.080 you that ended because it's over. It ended because it's over. 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:09.840 But prior to the tour, there are rumors that Little 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.080 Fizz and her had something going on. So I guess 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:14.599 you must have came home from the from the tour 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:18.320 and then she is on Live. Oh my god, it's 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.559 so mortifying, and she's like, come here, just come here. 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:22.880 Like he's out of the frame and she's liked, just 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:25.880 come over here. So then he reluctantly gets in the frame. Girl, 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.000 it looks like he was like, bitch, please, why the 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:30.320 fuck are you doing this place? And she's like, we 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.760 could do whatever we want. Live your life, just live 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.479 your life. And he was like like threw up the 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.719 peace sign and like exited stage lap and then she 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:40.560 immediately turns the camera to her kids. 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.080 I was like, it was just kids were there. 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:45.880 The kids were there, like it's just you know what, 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:48.520 that's so confusing for them. It's just confusing in general 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:52.520 because it's probably like Uncle Fizz. But also I don't know, 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:54.440 it seems to us it seems like they're fucking and 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:57.080 obviously they are because she said little Fizz thinks this 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:58.120 pussy's good too, right. 0:05:58.040 --> 0:05:59.440 She was wilding out. 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:02.320 I don't know if it's because she needs attention, she 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:05.560 got a project coming out sometimes like all. 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:08.320 This, Like I really thought she was classy. I thought 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:11.600 she was on the show. I mean, obviously she's not. 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:13.960 She's like she's something's going on. 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.320 Okay, let me ask you this, because this is a 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:23.760 good topic. Do you think that it's okay to pursue 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:27.240 something romantically with someone you have chemistry with if we 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:35.320 dipress record on her, despite despite if they've maybe have 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:39.440 relationships with like someone like your baby daddy or an 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.560 old friend or a friend, Like, what do you think 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:45.920 the roles are on that? Because obviously I think live 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.120 your life, much like April said, because we can't really 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.920 help the chemistry we have with people. 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:51.760 Blah blah blah. 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:54.320 But in that in that space when there's kids involved, 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.560 the bandmates who just came out to toward each other, 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.479 and I don't know if I should say this, but 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:03.839 I went to the B two K tour photo shoot 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:11.440 and for very random reasons, and I peeped. I peeped 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:12.440 the tension in the room. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:14.200 They've been talking. 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:16.560 No, not literally, not for the like the first half 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:19.840 hour of the shoot, so you know, no, and you 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:24.440 could tell like eventually like they were like happy to 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:25.960 be there, and the tensions kind. 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.960 Of they're just you're purely doing this for the money. 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:30.600 Nothing purely for the money, because I knew people were 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:34.240 going to come out, but I did I did feel like, 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:34.760 I feel. 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:38.920 So bad for these boys. They've been there, They've been abused, 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.000 and that's why they are the way they are. That's 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.760 why they all, each of them collectively have and separately 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:45.360 have issues. 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:47.760 True, I think j Book is the most. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:52.080 Sane, probably, but Jirasby is fu o Maria. 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.280 I also, I mean, what do you think about it? 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:56.000 Maria? I mean I don't. I don't. I mean I 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:59.520 would say he's probably maybe the Maybe he's kept it 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:02.360 together a little better because he's been successful and he 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:05.080 was the pampered pooch of the group. They made sure 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:06.680 that he was taking taken care of. 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:07.960 I felt that as a shoot too. 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:09.120 Should I talk about this? 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:14.240 But yeah, I mean that's that's obvious. That's obvious observation. 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:19.040 Jammila's map, who let her on the show? More talking 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:20.520 about beauty. 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:24.280 I don't say my government on here, bitch. They can 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:27.400 go on Instagram. Your instagram is jammyla map. 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:32.000 It's a map of that. 0:08:32.200 --> 0:08:36.880 Always really gonna throw him? 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:39.880 Do you think so? You think Fitz has problems? He 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:40.959 seems so sweet. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:44.480 They all got issues. Look, Chris Stokes as a predator, 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:47.280 and I know that's firsthand. No, I know, well not 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.920 first hand, secondhand because my cousin was signed to him, 0:08:50.040 --> 0:08:52.959 oh right, and has a whole history with all those guys. 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.680 But she's also a female, right, she's a female. 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.319 But she lived in those houses. They all live in 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.360 Ranch Cuckamonga. In these houses was happening like they're all 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:02.400 they lived, like literally they had they had rented like 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.400 three houses next door each other. They're all living in 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.440 these houses, and she was living in one of them. 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:09.840 I would go visit her too out there, and I 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:11.880 mean during the time, it seemed amazing, like there's so 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.120 we're fifteen, we can do whatever the fuck we want. 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:14.720 To run a house. 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:17.680 We're swimming, we're having pool parties, were drinking. Actually they 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:19.240 didn't really drink like that. They were actually kind of 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.160 cookie cutter because they were too busy doing other weird 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:25.080 fuck shit with Chris Stokes, you know. So you know, 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.640 I just feel like I feel bad for them now. April, 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:29.400 I don't know. She wasn't part of that. She just 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:31.880 acting crazy. Do I think No, To answer your question, 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:37.079 I think that there are there's you. There are so many. 0:09:36.960 --> 0:09:37.920 People in this world. 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:42.360 You're telling me this one like the only connection you 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:46.400 could make, Like I would be like if I if 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.320 you were to go, like if you were to go 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.880 start dating my baby bitch, I would fuck you up. 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:53.440 I know you wouldn't, but I'm just saying, but that's 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:54.800 essentially what it is, right. 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:56.360 Right, right, you know what I mean, Like like, yeah, 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.000 like you're gonna go fuck somebody. 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:00.640 Like you couldn't find nobody else, someone not in my 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:04.040 own group. It's magical connection, right right, I don't know. 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.520 And then it's like it can't be that magical if 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:09.199 like he's obviously not being public about it and you are, 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.160 like I just you know know what I get from it. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.040 And this is my own uh novella I thought of 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:15.560 in my head. 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:17.679 I think that. 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:21.320 He O Marion hurt her really really really really badly. 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:27.480 Maybe there was some ship, some some ship that he did. 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.480 Yeah, maybe he one of her friends or. 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:35.800 Red handed and some weird ship. And this is how 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.680 this is how like she's in reaction to that, she's like, 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:40.800 fuck you in the boat you rowed in on but 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:41.439 you have But. 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.480 The thing is like your kids, yeah, the kids and 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:45.240 the kids, and like I know they're young, but they 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:47.000 can go back and look at this ship. And also 0:10:47.320 --> 0:10:49.680 like the fact that you're doing it in front of them. 0:10:50.120 --> 0:10:52.559 It's like I get like we're in this space right 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:56.559 now where it's like like women were feeling more empowered 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:58.520 than ever right and like we're doing what we want 0:10:58.559 --> 0:11:01.080 to do, We're saying what we want to say. But 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:03.760 there comes a point where I'm like, this shit is 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:07.160 just irresponsible to a point, Like I get being free 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:11.120 and dudes talk about their dicks all day long and 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:12.520 what they do with them, and then when a woman 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.040 wants to talk about what she's doing with her pussy, 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:14.680 it's a problem. 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:15.960 But I just feel like. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.240 This is just sin line. It's just like there needs 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:22.400 to be some finesse, there needs to be some eloquence, 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:24.640 but that yeah, I just I get it, Like don't 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:26.480 don't make us all look bad? Is that what you're 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:26.960 trying to say. 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.600 I just feel like it's just tacky and also calling 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:31.320 out all the men that apparently want to have sex 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:32.720 with you or that you have had sex with. It 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:34.280 was kind of unclear, like I think she said she 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:36.920 fucked the game and that he still wants this pussy, 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.199 and then he's texting around Mother's Day because she's a 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:42.599 good mother and that she tried naming basketball players, she 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:46.120 started naming other rappers shared naming Asap. She named Asap. 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:50.559 She had to throw that one in just because for 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:51.360 ships and giggles. 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:53.960 I'm like, it's just sad that that she thinks that 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:57.679 that's that's validating her. Oh, you can't fuck rich niggas. 0:11:57.679 --> 0:12:03.960 Bitch rich niggas, cheat, richgas industry niggas. All niggas are dumb, 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:06.640 so it doesn't really matter. You're not bragging on anybody now, 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:08.480 And I don't know, are you any richer? 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:11.400 Because it right And I really don't believe in Like, 0:12:11.640 --> 0:12:15.120 if someone creeps in your dmsh like, why out them, 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:17.840 you know, unless you're like sending unsolicited dick picts. Even 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.360 then I just think I think that's tacky. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.679 If Michael B. Jordan DMS, I'm outing. 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.040 Him everybody because everyone gets what happened. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:30.320 He didn't get the message. But actually, over Michael D, 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:31.000 Michael B. 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:32.080 Whatever the name is. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.040 If KOFE creeped in. 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.959 My idea, I would tell I would screenshot it and tell. 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:38.720 All my friends. 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:41.199 I would tell the putt it on Instagram stories. 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:42.800 Only reason that not tagging him. 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:45.600 Yeah, I don't want him to think that I'm telling 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.160 everyone ruined my chances. 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:49.120 Actually, I wouldn't tell. I wouldn't put on instgram stories, 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:50.200 but I would send a mass text. 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:52.120 I made up with Chris Brown like ten years ago, 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:55.640 and I haven't stopped telling anyone who brings them up, like, 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:57.480 oh I left Chrispin like, oh I made out with 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:59.640 him ten years ago. 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:01.400 It was a new Chris Brown song. Oh really, I 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:02.200 laid out with him. 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:06.079 I haven't stopt bragging about it since even after. 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:08.960 Wasn't it passionate? It was good, but was like a 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:11.720 passionate kiss. It was like a slutty like, like just 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:13.040 another slut kiss? 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:15.240 Or was it like I was straddling him? 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:16.120 To me? 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:21.040 It was passionate to him, and my eighteen year old 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:22.000 self thought. 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:22.640 It was passionate. 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:25.080 No, I'm just kidding. 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:26.719 This is not bragging rights at all. 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:29.439 It was very Was he you were eighteenth time? And 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:30.319 I think he was underage? 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:35.240 Oh? No, the fuck, I'm just going to jam this episode. 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:36.720 I'm just talking so much shit. 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:41.960 It's kissing illegal. Please don't press me. That's terrible, Please 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:42.880 don't press charge. 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:47.640 I was twenty, he was eighteen. 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:51.000 Oh my goodness, I. 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:51.960 Was speaking of Chris Brown. 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.600 Did you hear about you know his controversy about him 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:56.199 saying he likes black girls with good hair. 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:59.160 Yeah, I thought it was I mean, child, I'm so 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:01.520 sick of fighting. I don't even but that was my thing. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:02.880 It's like, what's good hair? 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:05.480 But like if you're a black girl who thinks so, 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:07.640 you don't you think you don't have good hair? Like 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:10.199 I get the whole the conversation of black girls and 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:12.760 good hair, don't. I'm not I hate that term. I'm 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:18.280 not like disvaluing, like disvalidating like people that like what 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.000 it means, because I get I get exactly what it means. 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.080 But we don't know how he I mean, we probably will. 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:25.000 I doubt he meant it in a smart way, but 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:28.440 who cares. I just don't care enough about Chris Brown's 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:32.520 preference of hair I care to complain about it. Like 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:35.280 I'm not buying that fucking album. So you know whatever, 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.280 If I catch up with them, I'm going to try 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:39.360 and get another makeout. My hair is. 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:41.840 Good on both fronts. 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.280 Actually, I think I think honestly now it would go 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:46.000 all the way. 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:47.480 You'd go all the way. 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.360 You tried then and I was too scared. 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:49.960 Oh you did it. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.720 Yeah, he pulled his dick out. It was nice? 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:53.800 Was it big? Yeah? 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:54.440 It was it skinny? 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.240 I remember I think we saw I think didn't we 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:57.600 have a dick pic? And it was kind of skinny. 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:58.560 He had like a torpedo dick. 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:00.640 No, I don't remember being skinny ever, being nice. But 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:03.479 I was also like twenty. 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:04.880 So but you were also having sex then. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:05.960 Yeah, so I remember being big. 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:07.840 So well, why did you do it? Are you scared? 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:08.680 I was with two others? 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:09.240 You were scared? 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:09.560 I know. 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:10.640 I was with two other girls. 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.320 I didn't really know. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:15.200 And we were we were holding up signs at his concert. 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:17.800 No no, like no like we were like there was 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.120 an opening act. I forgot what the fucking group is now, 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.480 but we were we were supposed to be stage girls 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:25.000 holding up signs for opening acts. So we were backstage 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:27.360 and I had ran into a friend from LA This 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.360 is in Atlanta, and he was like, oh, Chris asked 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:30.920 about you, but I told him you weren't like that, 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:32.360 and in my head I was like, wow. 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:35.280 Oh he loved he loves a skinny small for a girl. 0:15:35.480 --> 0:15:37.280 So when I went, I went on the tour bus 0:15:37.280 --> 0:15:39.520 with him because I went to pee. The two girls 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:41.160 I didn't really know were out there, and so was 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:42.440 my friend who just told him. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:43.000 I wasn't like that. 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:48.200 So I was like, fuck, I want to disappoint my friend. 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:51.320 I don't know these too bititious. So I after I 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.040 went on the tour bus, I like made I pulled dick. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.720 I was like, oh no, just take my number because 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:57.240 I was shiny, classy, even though I wasn't. Later I 0:15:57.280 --> 0:15:58.800 asked the girls, like, did it look bad? 0:15:58.840 --> 0:15:59.360 I was in there? 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:02.520 These fucking hate he ass bitches, We're like kind of. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:05.880 I was like, the want to be in there. 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:09.360 I should have sat on it real quick. But you know, Chris, 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:15.480 if you're listening, I told all thousands of our followers, 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:17.720 you have a big one so hollow. 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:19.640 It could be our Zaddy of the wheel. 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:21.680 As we're talking about, oh my god, we should have 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:22.440 a Zaddy of the week. 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:23.040 We should. 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:26.000 But this, this is a funny conversation, isn't it ironic? 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:32.640 After we're saying out unclassy, I'm classy, bitch. Oh yeah. 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:34.600 By the way, by the way, he made out with 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:36.120 Chris Brad and pulls tack out. 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:38.400 And if you're listening, we'd like to go all the 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:45.080 way now, oh ship, Okay, we need to grow up 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:46.280 is what the fuck needs to happen. 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:48.880 Well, we're not over here grabbing our pussies on on 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:52.160 live talking about this is good, this right here. But 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:53.960 she was like, I need to see the video. It 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:57.120 was so aggressive. Wait I think I was like, dang, girl, 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:00.880 do you think it's drugs? I do? You don't know? 0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:02.640 She looked fine, but who knows. I don't know what 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:04.880 she's she has a wine line. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:07.119 She's real loose. 0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:07.560 I don't know. 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:09.040 Oh. 0:17:09.119 --> 0:17:14.399 Also, speaking of guys, she fucked acept Rocky was on 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:17.560 that list. And as everyone knows, or if you don't know, 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:20.840 acept Rocky is having some legal troubles in Sweden. We 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:22.320 all know we don't want to get in legal trouble 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:24.560 anywhere out of the US or at all. If you're black, 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:29.120 you don't want to get trouble anyway, period. But apparently there's 0:17:29.359 --> 0:17:33.160 they're treating him poorly. There's feces everywhere. He's so mad, 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:40.399 and everybody's preaching said literally it's unlivable. Oh my god. 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:44.359 You know, of course, I don't want accept Rocky to 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:46.440 be in jail. Oh, she's back on love and hip hop, 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:48.800 that's why. Oh so she's trying to cause a scene 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:49.840 she's trying to be. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:56.680 I think that why he's in jail, and the reason 0:17:56.720 --> 0:17:57.359 he's in jail. 0:17:57.480 --> 0:17:59.919 I think it was like he did he throw someone's 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:02.000 or his security guard hit somebody and then he. 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:03.320 Threw their phone or something. 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:05.040 Yeah, he threw a phone. 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:05.639 Is that what it was? 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:08.040 I think of something like that about a gun too. 0:18:08.160 --> 0:18:08.600 I don't know. 0:18:08.640 --> 0:18:12.680 I don't know that much about yourself, Rocky. I just I, oh, look, 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:17.439 he saw it. He didn't say anything. Okay, So the 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:20.440 people are like calling to action civil rights people for 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:21.920 on his behalf. 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:23.280 But I didn't know this. 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:24.840 But a long time ago, I guess he had an 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:30.680 interview and said some shit basically like the black struggle. 0:18:30.280 --> 0:18:31.160 Doesn't apply to him. 0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:34.280 He basically lives in Soho, he lives in Beverly Hills. 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:37.040 He'd be in the studio and what happens in Ferguson 0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:40.119 doesn't pertain to him. He's not he doesn't have to 0:18:40.119 --> 0:18:42.280 be some fucking activists. 0:18:41.760 --> 0:18:42.840 You just need to speak on it. 0:18:43.640 --> 0:18:46.440 And now I feel like, fuck him. 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:52.200 Leave them in Sweden, Whereas I feel like, Okay, first 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:53.800 of all, that interview was a while ago. I think 0:18:53.800 --> 0:18:55.480 he got a lot of backlash for it and obviously 0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:57.719 had to come out and say fix it or whatever 0:18:57.840 --> 0:19:01.159 I think, but which obviously doesn't necessarily mean that he 0:19:01.560 --> 0:19:04.200 doesn't feel meant it. But I feel like we can't 0:19:04.240 --> 0:19:07.000 abandon our black brothers just because they're uneducated. 0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:08.680 That's the whole problem. If that was the case. 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:12.199 Do you know how many people wouldn't be wouldn't be 0:19:12.240 --> 0:19:14.600 wouldn't apply to this movement? You know what I mean? 0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:17.960 There's so many people that only care when something's happening, 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:18.840 you know what I mean? 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:21.480 And so I just I don't feel like. 0:19:22.960 --> 0:19:24.600 I would. I don't agree with you. 0:19:24.640 --> 0:19:26.119 I wouldn't be like, fuck him, I mean, I. 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:27.880 Mean, I don't think if I don't think if he 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:30.560 had doesn't deserve to be there, he should stay. I'm 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:33.600 not into anything unjust, but I just have a problem 0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:36.679 with our community period. I feel like we should be 0:19:36.680 --> 0:19:39.920 more conscious of who we who we put on a pedestal, 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:42.720 who we put in certain positions. I think that like 0:19:43.720 --> 0:19:46.680 young black boys and girls are very impressionable. I think 0:19:46.760 --> 0:19:48.840 the ship people are rapping about right now is done 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:52.360 as fuck. I think, you know, Molly Park is set. 0:19:53.200 --> 0:19:55.760 You know, there's just things that like we should be 0:19:55.800 --> 0:19:58.560 more conscious and especially suddenly ha ha ha, you're in 0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:01.479 this position, But five minutes ago you didn't, I mean 0:20:01.520 --> 0:20:02.919 a couple of years ago, you didn't care to give 0:20:02.960 --> 0:20:05.960 a fuck about someone else's death, or you know, like 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:08.080 we at the end of the day, we have in common. 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:10.880 But also, he's not asking people to support him. 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:12.440 People are just doing it, you know. 0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:14.800 I mean, of course he would expect them to, but 0:20:15.000 --> 0:20:16.440 that's just because he's a sap Rocky. 0:20:16.440 --> 0:20:17.760 People are gonna come out and support him. 0:20:18.119 --> 0:20:20.680 And also and also people are always looking for they 0:20:20.720 --> 0:20:22.200 even have cause to support. 0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:26.000 But even as Kim Kardashian to help him. 0:20:27.000 --> 0:20:29.800 With legal services, he did. 0:20:30.760 --> 0:20:32.360 I don't want to lie. I mean, I actually think 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:36.800 what Kim is doing is pretty cool. I wasn't laughing. 0:20:36.880 --> 0:20:38.199 She's done. 0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:39.119 I agree. 0:20:39.160 --> 0:20:43.160 I will say though, personally, as someone who has experienced 0:20:44.520 --> 0:20:50.280 their baby daddy being in a foreign jail overseas, I 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:53.600 think what annoys me about this situation, and maybe I'm 0:20:53.640 --> 0:20:56.560 taking it too personally, is that when this ship was 0:20:56.600 --> 0:20:59.840 going on for us and Freddie's not a sap Rocky, 0:20:59.880 --> 0:21:02.760 but people know who he is. No, there were no posts, 0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:04.119 There were not a lot of posts. There was not 0:21:04.160 --> 0:21:07.480 this outpouring of support. And I don't know if it's 0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:09.600 because of the like the charges that were being brought 0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:16.000 against Freddy, they were too touchy and people had their questions, 0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:18.480 but there was no question when it came to him. 0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:19.760 That's why I'm annoyed. 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:21.960 I'm like, oh, now, niggas want to like public like 0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:25.119 go a free asap rocky campaign. But it's it's like 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:29.560 people choose based on how famous you are, how much 0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:31.080 they want to ride or support you. 0:21:31.440 --> 0:21:32.960 Yeah, And I don't think that's yeah. 0:21:33.040 --> 0:21:35.040 I think that's bullshit. That's why. When that's that's the 0:21:35.040 --> 0:21:36.800 only reason why I read this story, I kind of 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.359 was like whatever, but and then I had But then 0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:40.760 I had to check myself and be like, okay, wait, 0:21:40.760 --> 0:21:43.080 he's still a black man, and he's still like he 0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:45.800 doesn't just he doesn't deserve to serve six years in 0:21:45.920 --> 0:21:49.040 fucking Swedish prison for throwing a phone out. Of course 0:21:49.200 --> 0:21:50.399 that's not justifiable. 0:21:51.200 --> 0:21:54.639 On another note, though, I remember watching documentary and I 0:21:54.640 --> 0:21:55.840 thought the Swedish Gales. 0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:58.840 Were very nice Swedish the sweet the. 0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:01.440 Swedish culture is like much more very racist. 0:22:01.640 --> 0:22:05.320 Oh they are, yes, it's very very racist there. They're 0:22:05.440 --> 0:22:08.399 nice people. But there's deep rooted racism in there in 0:22:08.440 --> 0:22:11.480 their history. And even talking to Jennifer, like, she's told 0:22:11.560 --> 0:22:11.760 me a. 0:22:11.760 --> 0:22:12.280 Lot of stuff. 0:22:12.560 --> 0:22:14.399 I dated a Swedish guy once and I think I 0:22:14.440 --> 0:22:16.560 asked him about the temp climate for black people in 0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:19.280 Sweden and I thought he said, to everyone's very nice. 0:22:19.080 --> 0:22:21.040 Well there are a lot of black people there, a 0:22:21.040 --> 0:22:25.560 lot of biracial people. Yeah this guy. Yeah, I would 0:22:25.640 --> 0:22:28.840 say that they're more progressive, but that there's still there's 0:22:28.880 --> 0:22:31.000 there's a deep rooted history and a lot of people 0:22:31.080 --> 0:22:33.280 that are making those decisions are older Swedish people that 0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:36.840 are probably still holding on to their old story and 0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:39.560 their old thoughts and stuff. So I mean, do I 0:22:39.560 --> 0:22:42.840 think it stop rocking out of Joe? Yes, yeah, he's not. 0:22:43.400 --> 0:22:45.840 He's not gonna stay in jail. You know, they're not 0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:47.360 going to use him, and may people are saying they're 0:22:47.400 --> 0:22:48.640 going to use him as an example. 0:22:48.680 --> 0:22:49.359 I'm like, no, they're not. 0:22:49.400 --> 0:22:49.760 I hope he. 0:22:50.040 --> 0:22:53.680 I mean obviously he released different, you know, different perspective 0:22:53.760 --> 0:22:55.600 after he got backlash, which a lot of people do. 0:22:55.680 --> 0:23:00.120 But I hope, I hope genuinely from this experience and 0:23:00.320 --> 0:23:03.080 just in life, I hope that he, you know, gets 0:23:03.080 --> 0:23:05.679 a little bit, gets with it, gets just get smarter. 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:07.800 Like you're on a platform, you have the opportunity to 0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:11.280 say something smart that helps the community. Say something smart, 0:23:11.320 --> 0:23:13.879 don't say some ignorant shit. I don't support ignorance. I 0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:17.119 don't support injustice, I don't support racism. So obviously I 0:23:17.119 --> 0:23:18.399 don't have him to stay there, and I don't really 0:23:18.440 --> 0:23:20.440 feel like fuck him, but I do feel like, yeah, 0:23:20.640 --> 0:23:20.840 do it. 0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:22.760 I mean, express yourself, if you know. 0:23:23.280 --> 0:23:25.200 And I'm not saying all rappers need to be I. 0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:27.120 Mean, look at mek Mill, like Meekl's talking about still 0:23:27.119 --> 0:23:29.880 talking about the same shit, but he is pro he's 0:23:30.000 --> 0:23:33.800 active in the community, He's getting shit done more because 0:23:33.800 --> 0:23:34.679 of his experience. 0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:36.400 People want to grow. 0:23:36.560 --> 0:23:41.240 Yeah, you're right, so freeze that Rocky wait Worth the 0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:42.359 letter right here. 0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:49.800 Also another news. Yeah, I don't know if anybody else 0:23:49.840 --> 0:23:52.400 is feeling this retrograde, but I am because my computer 0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:55.159 like almost broke yesterday. And I say almost because it 0:23:55.200 --> 0:23:56.439 was broken and then I opened it and it was 0:23:56.440 --> 0:24:03.480 fixed again. Like the internet sucks. Communication could be better, 0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:04.960 but that's like they're staying retrogade. 0:24:05.880 --> 0:24:08.239 Uh effects communication. 0:24:09.600 --> 0:24:13.280 And I was born in a retrograde, so apparently communication 0:24:13.320 --> 0:24:14.760 is always going to be difficult for me, which I 0:24:14.800 --> 0:24:16.680 feel like I'm a really great communicator. But maybe I'm 0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:18.600 just maybe it's the way I communicate. Other people don't 0:24:18.640 --> 0:24:19.920 think so yeah, I know, So maybe it's the way 0:24:19.920 --> 0:24:23.719 I communicate. I'm just a little too blunt or not. 0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:25.719 I don't sugarcoat shit. I don't know. 0:24:25.880 --> 0:24:27.000 Have you seen my water bottle? 0:24:27.720 --> 0:24:28.440 Yes, it's weird. 0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:42.879 Uh we Oh I got I got threatened on Instagram today. 0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:44.440 First of all, I. 0:24:44.359 --> 0:24:44.680 Need to know. 0:24:44.760 --> 0:24:47.320 I saw her. I call you Jemima Animi. 0:24:47.440 --> 0:24:50.920 He also call me like, that's. 0:24:50.760 --> 0:24:52.280 Because you called a girl Becky. 0:24:52.440 --> 0:24:54.240 Yeah, I did. I did. 0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:55.960 That. 0:24:56.080 --> 0:25:02.960 Damn Beyonce. Beyonce taught me. So there's been another event. 0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:08.040 So my homeboy Senate does mister checkpoint. If you've never 0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:11.399 checked out the Instagram profile mister checkpoint. He's big in 0:25:11.520 --> 0:25:16.080 like justice community. He's always reposting things that cops are 0:25:16.080 --> 0:25:18.560 doing secretly and you know, just speaking out on it 0:25:18.600 --> 0:25:21.560 and making bringing awareness to it. So this morning I 0:25:22.400 --> 0:25:27.720 saw the one A. There's a guy and his son. 0:25:27.880 --> 0:25:30.359 The son's probably like eight outside of his building. I 0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:32.359 guess the black guy was trying to enter his building 0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:34.800 while they were exiting and instead of and he said 0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:36.800 who are here to see? The guy wouldn't answer them. 0:25:36.840 --> 0:25:39.359 He proceeds to call the cops. He's like, yes, it 0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:41.440 appears to be an African American managed trying to enter 0:25:41.440 --> 0:25:43.160 my building. He will not tell me who he's coming 0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:45.919 to see, as if this guy knows every fucking resident 0:25:45.960 --> 0:25:49.000 in the building in which apartment they reside in, And 0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:51.960 the guy records him. Apparently his friend comes up. The 0:25:52.000 --> 0:25:56.200 friend he's waiting for does not live in the building either, 0:25:56.280 --> 0:26:00.280 but she's not black. And the man, I guess, hangs 0:26:00.359 --> 0:26:02.520 up the phone of his police call and then doesn't 0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:05.040 question them further, lets them go in. But the fucked 0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:07.960 that part is the son is like, please, dad, guys son, 0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:10.480 it's just like, please just leave him alone. Let's just go, Like, 0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:14.240 let's just go, and the guy is obviously getting you know, 0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:17.840 everything's getting intense. The guy is recording them and he's like, 0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:21.399 you need to listen to your son. Meanwhile he's fucking 0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:25.320 putting in an order on nine one one, and it 0:26:25.400 --> 0:26:26.920 was just a bit much in front. 0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:27.320 Of a child. 0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:32.080 I think the guy who was recording sit cursed and 0:26:32.520 --> 0:26:37.000 I responded that this is white people shit because they 0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:40.280 can't mind their business. And some other guy was like 0:26:40.560 --> 0:26:44.200 started going back and forth with me. Anyway, long story short, 0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:47.560 the guy says, I hope your husband has a gun. 0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:52.160 I'm really wealthy. Basically it was a threat, some violent threat, 0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:53.720 like he was gonna find me, and I'm like then 0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:56.240 it maybe, like, oh no, what if I put on Instagram? 0:26:56.600 --> 0:27:00.640 How much information he knows? I'm an La. It's such 0:27:00.680 --> 0:27:06.000 a small place. I know I'm not, but I need 0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:10.439 to stop getting involved with Instagram commenting and also what 0:27:10.480 --> 0:27:12.000 do you think about that situation? 0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:17.480 Ericon? So I was watching Don Lennon last night of 0:27:17.600 --> 0:27:21.439 the CNN and he was breaking down what like, you know, 0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:24.800 the whole story or whatever the scenario. The guy came out, 0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:27.679 the guy who called the police came out and said that, 0:27:27.840 --> 0:27:31.800 you know, he he was triggered because his father was 0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:33.960 murdered outside of his house and so he's and he's 0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:36.320 always that guy that doesn't allow people to just walk 0:27:36.320 --> 0:27:38.800 into the building, no matter if you're white, black, whatever 0:27:38.840 --> 0:27:41.119 you are, he's gonna question you had nothing to do 0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:46.520 with race, and that he understands that, you know, disproportionately 0:27:46.840 --> 0:27:51.159 black people are you know, discriminated against and this, but 0:27:51.480 --> 0:27:57.840 this was not that instance. So with that said, first 0:27:57.840 --> 0:28:01.800 of all, I think after how listening exactly how the 0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:05.880 story unfolded, and like the fact that at the end 0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:09.840 of it all, his friend came who was not black 0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:13.199 and does not even live in the building, and they're 0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:15.960 both going to a party and suddenly it was like, Okay, 0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:17.240 she's here, you can go up. 0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:20.480 That's where the problem lies for me, because I, like, I. 0:28:20.400 --> 0:28:23.919 Do understand like the security of your building, Like I 0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:26.200 think I'm not that type of person, but I understand 0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:28.040 there are people that are like do you live here? 0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:29.840 Like what are you doing here? And you know, it 0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:32.320 is kind of their right, it is their property, it. 0:28:32.240 --> 0:28:34.919 Is there, but isn't to the point like, for instance, 0:28:34.960 --> 0:28:38.760 has he said mister John and unit ten ten two 0:28:39.000 --> 0:28:41.440 is that does he know him? But that has eased him, 0:28:41.760 --> 0:28:43.080 Like would you have called the police? 0:28:43.160 --> 0:28:45.560 No, he was asking him to buzz. He said, buzz, 0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:48.960 buzz her. Then buzz the gate, buzz the buzzer then 0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:50.840 and he was buzzing it. So he said, when he 0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:53.400 first walked up, he was buzzing the door, and then 0:28:53.640 --> 0:28:55.600 he came out, and then he walked in and the 0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:56.080 guy was. 0:28:56.000 --> 0:28:56.880 Like you're tailgating. 0:28:56.920 --> 0:29:00.280 He's tailgating me, and she was like you He's like, 0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:02.040 you can't go in there, and he's like, well, I 0:29:02.080 --> 0:29:03.520 was just buzzing my friend. He's like, well, buzz her 0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:05.040 again and make her come down. 0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:07.160 At which point he should have just kept walking with 0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:09.720 his son, at which point buzzer again. Okay, I'm out. 0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:13.040 You're you're leaving the building, so this is no. 0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:15.360 Longer your like someone else could have accident and let 0:29:15.440 --> 0:29:17.840 him in. That's what I'm saying, Who the fuck is 0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.120 going to actually call the police? 0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:24.240 The step of woll what was that? Did you hear that? 0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:26.280 You bestuttered? 0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:31.360 The fact that he called the police. 0:29:31.360 --> 0:29:35.240 That's where it gets so ridiculous. That's where it gets 0:29:35.280 --> 0:29:37.800 like what you call the police for? 0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:41.239 Like this is not an emergency. No, it's not like 0:29:41.280 --> 0:29:43.280 there's no threat. And as far as i'm what is 0:29:43.360 --> 0:29:45.720 the threat? As far as I'm concerned living in a building. 0:29:45.760 --> 0:29:47.360 This is my other thing that irritates tohit at it. 0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:48.760 But someone argue, well, it is a threat. It's like 0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:49.880 someone walking into your home. 0:29:49.880 --> 0:29:50.480 If someone was. 0:29:52.000 --> 0:29:53.600 I have a front door with a lock. It's the 0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:56.040 equivalent of me walking into a neighborhood. I could walk 0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:57.640 up to your door right now. Because you don't live 0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:00.240 in a building, you just get an extra door because 0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:03.040 you live in a building, Nigga, everybody's door needs to 0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:03.480 be locked. 0:30:03.560 --> 0:30:05.480 That's true. It's literally, you're not the wood. 0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:09.080 You're not security for the whole motherfucking building. And if 0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:12.520 you were so scared because of the instance with your father, nigga, 0:30:12.640 --> 0:30:14.320 you need to be in a building with a doorman 0:30:14.440 --> 0:30:15.360 so he can handle it. 0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:18.760 Well, I'm really curious the incense with his father who 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:19.720 murdered his father. 0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:22.280 And what race they were, because is that? What is 0:30:22.280 --> 0:30:23.360 that what is triggering you? 0:30:23.440 --> 0:30:25.560 I mean, I also know, like it still is that 0:30:25.680 --> 0:30:27.520 you said that they live in San Francisco, the homeless 0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:30.240 population is bad, that there's been multiple robberies in that building, 0:30:30.760 --> 0:30:32.200 that which I don't know to be true. 0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:34.880 There are a lot of homeless, I know absolutely, there 0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:36.880 don't enough homeless actually do a lot of robbing. 0:30:37.040 --> 0:30:40.520 But the who's doing robbing then, I mean I mean 0:30:40.760 --> 0:30:45.360 everyday people, I mean homeless well that and homeless people, yeah, both, 0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:46.520 But like I. 0:30:46.480 --> 0:30:49.000 Think you can distinctly see the difference between a homeless 0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:53.840 person and a homeless person. A guy going to a 0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:57.720 party and a homeless are not gonna look identical, Erica, No, no, absolutely, 0:30:58.440 --> 0:31:00.560 I just I just feel like the problem is that 0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:02.760 some people didn't mind their own fucking business. No, no, 0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:05.640 I agree, and you took it too far. And now 0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:08.760 you're on fucking the internet. And what's your son? And 0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:10.480 I wondered, I said, I wonder if this is a 0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:14.280 learning moment for his son. Is he's so traumatized and 0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:17.440 which ways I gonna like, in which direction will he 0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:20.240 go as a result? And not even that this is 0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:23.400 his father, So whether or not he admits to understanding 0:31:23.400 --> 0:31:26.760 injustices that we face, who, like, literally, what is he 0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:27.560 teaching his son? 0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:29.760 Well, I'm curious what he taught his son after that? 0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:33.600 What did he say to validate his actions after the fact, 0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:36.200 because that's what we do as parents, especially like when 0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:38.280 it's something big like that a lot of times. And 0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:41.400 his father obviously feels strongly about maybe his choices. 0:31:41.440 --> 0:31:42.720 I don't know if he has had a change of. 0:31:42.720 --> 0:31:46.040 Heart now, but he has to explain this situation to 0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:48.760 his son, and he said the guy said that afterwards 0:31:48.760 --> 0:31:52.120 he got it. When he entered the building, he was 0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:56.680 encountered by the wife of the son, and she was hysterical, 0:31:57.000 --> 0:32:01.080 upset that her son was traumatized by him or the name, 0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:03.920 by the situation and him, and was mad at him. 0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:07.800 And she kept trying to show her the video he recorded, 0:32:08.400 --> 0:32:13.000 which that would be pointless because she didn't give but 0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:15.080 and she he was like, we were just not going 0:32:15.120 --> 0:32:17.920 to like agree, and she was just mad. She just 0:32:17.920 --> 0:32:20.400 felt like I had traumatized her son, which multiple times 0:32:20.400 --> 0:32:23.720 he said, just go, I'm gonna stop recording, just hang 0:32:23.800 --> 0:32:26.200 out on the phone. Yeah, like yeah, he did, like, 0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:28.680 I'll stop recording, but I have to protect myself. And 0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:32.120 unfortunately that's where we are right now, where we literally 0:32:32.160 --> 0:32:34.240 have to record everything we do. We have to be 0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:39.520 those annoying ass motherfuckers because our word against theirs isn't enough. 0:32:39.560 --> 0:32:41.080 And it really isn't. 0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:42.120 That's really the truth. 0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:46.480 And shit, not just us people, literally, it's not limited 0:32:46.480 --> 0:32:49.719 it as black people, like when it comes to authority 0:32:50.000 --> 0:32:53.040 or you know, like it's not just us, like you 0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:56.480 might need to record because people are people in positions 0:32:56.480 --> 0:32:59.320 of power are scheming, fucking liars if you haven't noticed, 0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:05.280 not everybody who wears blue is fucking uh morally ethical period. 0:33:05.440 --> 0:33:06.680 So it's just it is. 0:33:06.760 --> 0:33:07.600 It's fucked up. 0:33:07.680 --> 0:33:11.200 But I mean mean, had Loki had to cut somebody 0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:13.800 out in front of our kids, they still get cussed out, though, 0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:18.640 No to be cursed that guy out of Mexico. Wait 0:33:18.680 --> 0:33:25.600 what what for the time share? Then Richard to trick 0:33:25.680 --> 0:33:27.320 us for to do your time share? 0:33:27.600 --> 0:33:30.560 Oh yeah, and kid was there. 0:33:30.280 --> 0:33:34.440 Our kids were there, His kids are there, and we're like, see, no, 0:33:34.520 --> 0:33:36.720 I don't think to be cur We're just like, you're 0:33:36.720 --> 0:33:38.640 trying to take advantage of us, and we don't appreciate it. 0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:41.600 You showed up here because I kept escalating it and 0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:43.360 we were look, my daughter's here, were like, our kids 0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:43.720 are here. 0:33:45.360 --> 0:33:47.600 He was like, you embarrassed me, you disrespect me. And 0:33:47.680 --> 0:33:48.720 I was like, I get that. 0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.680 Get that ship out of here, the toxic masculinity ship 0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:53.920 out of here. You scammed us. 0:33:54.320 --> 0:33:57.600 Yeah, I mean sometimes your kids got to see you 0:33:58.120 --> 0:34:00.680 be a little rowdy. And I don't dress like violence 0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:01.960 or like cursing. 0:34:02.080 --> 0:34:05.840 But I know, I really feel for the kid the 0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:08.239 most out of all of the situations, because he was 0:34:08.400 --> 0:34:11.840 really annoyed. No, it was not annoyed. He was scared. 0:34:11.880 --> 0:34:14.239 He was scared. He felt fear, and I don't know 0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:17.640 if it was fear because he was scared of the 0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:20.359 black man, or if it was fear because he thought 0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:23.399 something bad might happen to his dad or the guy 0:34:23.560 --> 0:34:26.160 or the guy like it was unclear, but it just 0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:28.720 was like all around was just I don't. 0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:30.120 Know, I really understanding kids. 0:34:30.200 --> 0:34:34.840 Kids can sense panic, kids can sense tension. I remember 0:34:35.040 --> 0:34:38.160 certain situations as child, as a child being there like, oh, 0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:43.080 this is this is uncomfortable. But the fact that his 0:34:43.440 --> 0:34:46.799 small child can say, let's just go. Lets you know, 0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:51.360 it wasn't a matter of it being an emergency or let's. 0:34:51.120 --> 0:34:53.120 Just go because this isn't the first time his dad 0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:53.799 has done this. 0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:54.960 You do this shit a lot. 0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:57.160 Yeah, and he's not again. 0:34:57.320 --> 0:34:59.680 Yeah, like you put your ship, your yourself, you put 0:34:59.719 --> 0:35:01.720 yourself and places that have nothing to do with you often. 0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:03.040 Really that might be what it is. 0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:06.120 I think that's because it seemed like a familiar fear. 0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:08.240 But like enough already. 0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:14.719 Yeah, it's like you always are doing this. Yeah, let's 0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:19.160 find that, guys, get him on the show. Wasn't there 0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:20.839 something else we might to talk about? 0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:22.960 Uh? 0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:24.400 Are we doing a. 0:35:24.719 --> 0:35:28.200 Half year check in a hot hot girl summer? Are 0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:29.759 we too old to have a hot girl summer. So 0:35:29.800 --> 0:35:30.440 what you said? 0:35:30.760 --> 0:35:33.120 Yeah, well, I'm not old for small. No, I never 0:35:33.200 --> 0:35:35.680 used the world old. That's you. 0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:38.160 You said that ten minutes I said, is. 0:35:38.120 --> 0:35:40.080 It hot girl summer or is it hot woman summer? 0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:44.120 Oh? Okay, question, that's the question we need to we 0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:46.120 need to forward to the city girls. 0:35:46.160 --> 0:35:48.920 Then you mean Megan the Stallion? 0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:49.720 Oh ship? 0:35:50.040 --> 0:35:51.239 Yeah? Wrong, wrong girl? 0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:53.480 Okay, Yeah. 0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:56.040 I just I just keep saying, if I see so 0:35:56.120 --> 0:35:59.600 many posts it's heard of something about hot girls summer, 0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:03.000 is it hot girl summer? Guarantee one of you bitches 0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:05.440 that's listening definitely has a hot girl summer pose? And 0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:08.880 you know what do you use it for? I've been 0:36:08.920 --> 0:36:11.279 waiting for the right moment, the right photo. I feel 0:36:11.280 --> 0:36:14.000 like I would need a bikini photo near or something 0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:15.200 with a cocktail or something. 0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:18.160 Well, but I did post the question. 0:36:18.200 --> 0:36:20.880 I did post an Instagram story of a sexy post. 0:36:20.960 --> 0:36:22.560 Did you see what? Did you see it? But I 0:36:22.680 --> 0:36:25.720 was on my doorstep and I said hot girl summer 0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:30.839 or hot woman summer? Which is because I don't know? 0:36:34.520 --> 0:36:34.799 Do you? 0:36:37.080 --> 0:36:40.239 Does it irritate you either way to be called like 0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:41.120 girl or woman? 0:36:41.440 --> 0:36:42.520 Does it matter to you? 0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:43.919 Depends on how long is girl? 0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:45.240 Okay forever. 0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:48.440 It depends on the context. Sometimes I feel like, what 0:36:48.560 --> 0:36:52.600 is the park yesterday with Luna and this little boy said, 0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:54.719 I wanted the slide with Linda? And he said are 0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:55.879 you are you a little girl? 0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:56.640 Are you a mom? 0:36:58.120 --> 0:36:59.560 And I said I'm my mom and my mom said, 0:36:59.600 --> 0:37:01.480 oh I know, and it's like it's okay. So I 0:37:01.520 --> 0:37:03.480 was because he was leaving, we're saying bye, said told 0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.480 his mom what he said it was. I thought it 0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:07.400 was funny. He's like, no, I didn't mean it, like 0:37:07.480 --> 0:37:09.560 I just thought I was just confused. I was like, oh, no, 0:37:09.600 --> 0:37:12.560 it's fine, baby. But the woman was like, you do 0:37:12.640 --> 0:37:15.960 look really young and then kept going but not like. 0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:19.040 Kept like going walking, like like walked away. 0:37:19.320 --> 0:37:23.759 And sometimes I feel like in certain instances, I feel 0:37:23.760 --> 0:37:26.040 like people think like I'm a teen mom or some shit. 0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:29.319 Like no, bitch, you know what I mean? Like I 0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:30.799 could see that, actually I think I can. 0:37:31.800 --> 0:37:35.239 I think people get confused that in certain instances with 0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:38.000 Luna or something like. I think people get like overstep 0:37:38.040 --> 0:37:40.319 their boundaries or I've had people say like rude things 0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:43.000 because I'm small, like you're not going to be that 0:37:43.080 --> 0:37:45.319 small for which you have kids, like bitch, I have 0:37:45.360 --> 0:37:48.239 a kid, which I think people are not as conscious of, 0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:50.759 but like or it's like, I don't know, it just 0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:53.160 depends but like like hay girl, even like bitch, I 0:37:53.160 --> 0:37:55.120 don't really get offended. But I know I'm not a bitch, 0:37:55.160 --> 0:37:57.239 you know, like unless it's in a disrespectful manner. 0:37:57.320 --> 0:37:58.680 I think you're trying to be sarcastic. 0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:01.920 But other than that, I'm I'm not like, I'm not 0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:03.600 gonna do a post about how I'm not doing a 0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:06.480 hot girl summer because I'm sophisticated and shit, I don't 0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:09.880 think it's not serious. 0:38:12.800 --> 0:38:18.000 I don't know. For me, like I prefer woman, but 0:38:18.080 --> 0:38:20.360 I don't. I say girl all the time too, But 0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:22.800 I guess it just depends who's calling me exactly. 0:38:22.800 --> 0:38:23.880 It depends who's calling me. 0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:28.200 Yeah, it's who's calling me girl. And can I imagine 0:38:28.560 --> 0:38:30.600 I'm like, I think about myself as like a seventy 0:38:30.680 --> 0:38:32.839 year old woman. I'm gonna be like calling my friend 0:38:32.840 --> 0:38:34.840 like hate girl or does our language change? 0:38:34.880 --> 0:38:37.719 No, girl, We're gonna be seventy Like hang out. I 0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:39.080 tell my grandma, hay, guy. 0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.440 You said your grandma, yes, okay, but you're not seventy 0:38:42.480 --> 0:38:44.120 does your mom does your grandma say hey girl to 0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:44.479 her friends. 0:38:44.560 --> 0:38:46.520 Yeah, I think so you think were you doeshit? 0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:51.440 I'm pretty sure my hate girlfriend my my grandma's girlfriend girlfriend. 0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:52.360 Okay, that's different. 0:38:53.239 --> 0:38:56.040 I mean, I just don't. I just I think people 0:38:56.120 --> 0:39:00.040 think a little too deeply about shit like that. 0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:03.200 There's other shit to worry about. You mean me, I'm 0:39:03.200 --> 0:39:05.320 a deep finger to Meila, Leave me the fuck alone, 0:39:06.120 --> 0:39:09.000 deep thing scorpio, deep ass thoughts alone. 0:39:10.200 --> 0:39:10.719 Oh my god. 0:39:10.800 --> 0:39:12.280 I was this guy hit me out with my DMS 0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:15.839 the other day. I was like, uh have you Oh 0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:20.120 I post about the pattern and he was like, uh 0:39:20.320 --> 0:39:24.000 do you? Are you taking this personality test? And there's 0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:26.600 like I hate the personality. He sent me this personality 0:39:26.640 --> 0:39:29.479 test and somebody did like a g T p ac 0:39:29.840 --> 0:39:32.040 ate those there's like, oh those are that's like the 0:39:32.080 --> 0:39:35.680 ones that's like super analytical or something like it. Really, bitch, 0:39:35.680 --> 0:39:37.759 you can't identify my type of personality. 0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.040 It's just one kind, it said I was. 0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:42.759 It says I'm the mediator. I'm like, I don't feel 0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:44.200 like a mediator. I mean maybe I could be. 0:39:46.280 --> 0:39:48.240 Someone sent that shiit to me for a job interview 0:39:48.280 --> 0:39:50.200 and I was like, bitch, this is dumb. 0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:51.440 I think he was just trying to see if we 0:39:51.440 --> 0:39:53.440 were compatible. He thought he was speaking my language and 0:39:53.600 --> 0:39:55.160 knows I like signs and shiit no. 0:39:55.239 --> 0:39:58.480 But I think people who like need that type of 0:39:58.480 --> 0:40:01.520 indicator of type of personnelity type they are. They let 0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:02.840 them to let them know if they get along with 0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:04.800 other people, Lets me know if we're not going to 0:40:04.840 --> 0:40:06.080 get along, well. 0:40:06.000 --> 0:40:08.759 Kind of lets me know that you don't know who 0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:09.000 you are. 0:40:09.160 --> 0:40:11.080 Yeah, Like you have to get look on a chart 0:40:11.520 --> 0:40:13.279 and to figure me out and figure yourself out and 0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:15.840 see if we're compatible. I could, I could have a 0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:16.879 conversation with one person. 0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:19.880 And that's how we like Oh my god, It's like 0:40:20.200 --> 0:40:22.719 these little tests that people take are low key like 0:40:22.840 --> 0:40:25.200 ways to control us even more and more, to make 0:40:25.280 --> 0:40:29.640 us so dependent on labels like no, like the internet 0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:32.680 and like way yeah, labels and how people decide to 0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:34.840 label you so that we can all fit into a 0:40:34.880 --> 0:40:38.719 category and then follow suit in whatever category that is. 0:40:38.760 --> 0:40:40.320 Did you say my posts and I posted today? 0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:41.720 Oh good moms? 0:40:41.800 --> 0:40:43.920 Uh oh about makeup? 0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:45.640 Well? What was about makeup? It was about makeup? 0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:46.560 But like being called fast? 0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:46.919 Yeah? 0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:48.400 Were you ever called fast? 0:40:48.480 --> 0:40:48.840 Or grown? 0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:50.200 Growing out? Grown? Yeah? 0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:52.560 But I definitely heard it a lot, like oh she's grown, 0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:54.520 Oh she's fast, like talking about other people's kids like yeah, 0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:55.319 she's fast, she's fast. 0:40:55.400 --> 0:40:56.120 I'm like, little, do you know? 0:40:57.040 --> 0:40:59.360 Right? But it was you were the fastest. 0:40:59.400 --> 0:41:02.160 Yeah, I was saying, I wonder how that if I 0:41:02.200 --> 0:41:05.440 believe that? If because I heard it often? Did I 0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:08.000 believe it? And did I like, uh, move that way? 0:41:08.200 --> 0:41:10.520 Or was I just hot in the ass, which is 0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:14.840 probably too no, but probably both probably influenced too. But 0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:17.040 that's why I'm like, I'm really careful even. 0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:18.840 Or it's like whatever you already think, I am, so 0:41:19.120 --> 0:41:19.440 fuck it. 0:41:19.560 --> 0:41:24.759 Yeah, And I don't know, like femininity, sexuality, how does 0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:27.040 that come along with kids? How do you like? How 0:41:27.040 --> 0:41:30.120 do you not make it everything so negative? And so 0:41:30.239 --> 0:41:32.399 because I hated that, I hated, I hate. 0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:33.400 I don't really like. 0:41:33.800 --> 0:41:36.399 I don't believe in adults whispering about kids at any 0:41:36.440 --> 0:41:38.839 age because I feel like they're way more conscious and I. 0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:40.120 Remember and whispering. 0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:42.359 Just like you said, you've heard other parents talking about 0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:45.040 other kids like oh, yeah she's fast, so and So's daughter, 0:41:45.080 --> 0:41:47.040 she's a little grown. That's just what people do, though, 0:41:47.160 --> 0:41:48.799 I know, but I don't. I don't condone that That's 0:41:48.840 --> 0:41:50.040 what I'm saying. I don't want to be that type 0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:51.680 of parent. No, I don't want to be that either, 0:41:51.960 --> 0:41:53.879 like that she's a kid, but her be a kid. 0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:56.879 You're being a child by trying to label somebody else's kid. 0:41:57.320 --> 0:42:00.400 It was even yesterday I came home and I was 0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:03.480 playing with her dolls and she was like, can you 0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:06.200 play with me? And she had like the baby stroller 0:42:06.440 --> 0:42:08.080 and she's like, you're gonna have this baby and I'm 0:42:08.080 --> 0:42:09.000 gonna have this baby. 0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:10.560 Okay, rock the baby and. 0:42:10.480 --> 0:42:13.080 Put it in the stroller and d d And I 0:42:13.160 --> 0:42:15.840 was like thinking to myself, like why the fuck is 0:42:15.880 --> 0:42:18.719 my daughter playing with the stroller? And like I was 0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:20.879 just like why are we first? So I didn't buy 0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:23.120 her that, But I'm just saying, but it was, it's been, 0:42:23.160 --> 0:42:25.279 It's it's normal to me. But then I had this 0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:28.440 moment of like I'm like, we're training her to believe 0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:29.560 that this is what she's supposed to be. 0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:31.040 This is this is. 0:42:31.120 --> 0:42:34.319 How you define girl. Girls do this? Girls play with 0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:37.000 strollers and babies. You would never see go I've never 0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:38.719 I would never go over to a boy's house and 0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:40.360 see him playing with the stroller a baby and he 0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:42.120 might have a kid one day too, you know what 0:42:42.160 --> 0:42:42.440 I mean? 0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:44.600 And then true, and then I realized I was like, 0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:47.160 is this wrong? This is where it starts, like. 0:42:47.120 --> 0:42:52.160 All these like labels of like what roles we play like, 0:42:52.160 --> 0:42:54.920 like even speaking about Daphne and like Daphne on her episode, 0:42:54.920 --> 0:42:57.040 just as someone commented and was like, I fucking hated 0:42:57.080 --> 0:43:00.920 that episode. She was like, She's like her way of 0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.680 thinking is archaic and dah da da da, And in 0:43:03.719 --> 0:43:06.640 some ways to me it is like like the roles 0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:09.480 that she defines for women and men. Even we were 0:43:09.480 --> 0:43:12.080 having conversation, you were like men are better drivers and 0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:12.920 I was like, what. 0:43:13.160 --> 0:43:15.279 Because I don't believe. I don't believe, Like I don't 0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:16.279 really believe, but that. 0:43:16.200 --> 0:43:18.960 Could be true based on a study. 0:43:18.680 --> 0:43:21.600 Like but but it doesn't mean that he studies. 0:43:22.000 --> 0:43:24.080 It's fucking but I. 0:43:24.160 --> 0:43:26.920 Fall into it all day long, all the time. 0:43:27.040 --> 0:43:28.880 Why I mean not why I'm not gonna I'm not 0:43:28.880 --> 0:43:30.240 going to go in there and take away her dolls 0:43:30.280 --> 0:43:32.560 or whatever, but I'm just thinking to myself, like why 0:43:32.719 --> 0:43:36.040 is this? But I'm definitely gonna think more about what 0:43:36.120 --> 0:43:38.520 kind of like things like let come into my house 0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:40.520 and what I buy her because it was just like 0:43:40.600 --> 0:43:43.720 I don't want her to feel like so many women 0:43:43.760 --> 0:43:46.239 feel like it's their duty to have kids. 0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:47.400 It's like they have to. 0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:48.760 They're not that's the next step. 0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:51.640 That's what's missing. I'll be happy if, like I have 0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:53.399 my career, I have this must have. 0:43:53.360 --> 0:43:58.000 Kids complete puzzle piece, and like, don't get me wrong, 0:43:58.040 --> 0:43:59.400 like I wouldn't. I love my kid and I'm so 0:43:59.440 --> 0:44:01.359 happy I have. I mean, that would the best thing 0:44:01.400 --> 0:44:05.080 that's ever happened to me. However, I don't know, well 0:44:05.160 --> 0:44:07.719 for me though, actually I never really wanted kids. I 0:44:07.760 --> 0:44:10.239 only wanted kids after I felt like you. 0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:12.120 Had gotten everything else off the checklist. 0:44:12.280 --> 0:44:14.800 I don't know, I just started. I think naturally women, 0:44:14.880 --> 0:44:17.400 we do have a maternal instinct in us. It just 0:44:17.440 --> 0:44:20.000 comes when it comes. But I think things force it 0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:23.360 along though faster, like having our kids play with babies, 0:44:23.800 --> 0:44:27.480 or like you know, assigning these gender roles to our 0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:28.240 to our children. 0:44:28.360 --> 0:44:30.040 So you want to you want to create a more 0:44:30.080 --> 0:44:32.080 gender neutral environment. 0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:33.759 Where she can decide what she wants to do at 0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:34.480 her own pace. 0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:35.759 Is am I is? 0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:37.200 And but that's it's it's. 0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:42.879 It's impossible because because there's like it's not impossible, it's 0:44:42.920 --> 0:44:46.480 just very difficult and conscious. You really have to be 0:44:46.760 --> 0:44:49.840 conscious about it and almost annoying and like people are 0:44:49.840 --> 0:44:50.400 going to take. 0:44:50.280 --> 0:44:53.440 To the point where colors, every every little thing that's 0:44:53.480 --> 0:44:56.719 like even even outfits, even when we go shopping. It's 0:44:56.760 --> 0:45:01.960 it's so many things that we are not we're not 0:45:02.000 --> 0:45:05.520 conscious of that we we've adopted. Even for instance, like 0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:09.920 if your armpit hair grew out like super long, next week, 0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:12.120 you're gonna feel like you feel less feminine. 0:45:13.520 --> 0:45:17.000 Shouldn't, right, you know. 0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:18.839 What I'm saying. And I tried it once. I try 0:45:18.880 --> 0:45:21.520 to be like anti feminine and like and grow my 0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:27.000 armpit hairs out. And I did it for a little while, 0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:29.080 probably because I was in a relationship and he didn't 0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:31.440 give a fuck. But then I went to Disneyland. I 0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:32.920 was like Disney World. I was like, this hair's got 0:45:32.960 --> 0:45:35.120 to go. I cannot do this for Mickey and Minnie. 0:45:35.480 --> 0:45:41.080 But I have trouble really realizing. But I feel like 0:45:41.239 --> 0:45:44.480 is sexy versus like in feminine, which what I've been 0:45:44.480 --> 0:45:48.120 taught versus what I believe. Right, So it's it's really 0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:50.000 hard to create those type of environments for our kids. 0:45:50.040 --> 0:45:51.960 So they go to they watch movies, they get Saved 0:45:51.960 --> 0:45:53.399 by the Prints and every fucking movie. 0:45:53.640 --> 0:45:55.760 I mean, I've thought about that, but for some reason, 0:45:55.800 --> 0:45:57.280 like I don't know, I never. 0:45:59.360 --> 0:46:00.680 Like, I don't know, I don't know why. 0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:03.719 Specifically, the stroller thing hit me so hard yesterday I 0:46:03.800 --> 0:46:06.120 was like, what this is? So maybe because I saw 0:46:06.200 --> 0:46:09.719 how much how happy she was. She was so excited, 0:46:10.000 --> 0:46:13.200 so happy. You know, we're gonna have to wrap it 0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:13.640 up soon. 0:46:14.200 --> 0:46:17.880 Okay, do you have any six months it's happy or 0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:18.880 mark check ins? 0:46:19.880 --> 0:46:21.240 Oh? God, damn, she's. 0:46:21.160 --> 0:46:23.480 So oh, I know, she's so fine. 0:46:24.880 --> 0:46:28.040 We're looking at Alex Undunn's instagram. She has another one 0:46:28.080 --> 0:46:34.640 stay down check out her episode with her called self Harm, 0:46:34.840 --> 0:46:41.000 self Harm and something six month check in. Uh. I 0:46:41.000 --> 0:46:47.359 don't know. I feel like I feel good. Actually i've, 0:46:47.520 --> 0:46:50.000 but throughout the six months I've felt good, I felt bad, 0:46:50.000 --> 0:46:52.640 I felt crazy, I felt insecure, I felt anxious, Like 0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:54.880 throughout the whole six months, I think I'm in a 0:46:54.920 --> 0:46:58.200 good place now, you know, I'm like, I feel like 0:46:58.200 --> 0:47:02.000 I've I've really starting to like feel empowered enough to 0:47:02.120 --> 0:47:05.280 like set boundaries for myself because a lot of times 0:47:05.360 --> 0:47:09.440 I I think with men like it's hard for me too. 0:47:09.719 --> 0:47:11.760 You know, I think I can, but if I really 0:47:11.800 --> 0:47:14.000 love you, it's hard for me to set boundaries. So 0:47:14.160 --> 0:47:16.920 I just feel really empowered in that way, you know, 0:47:18.000 --> 0:47:25.160 still single as a buck, but also more secure saying, yeah, 0:47:25.200 --> 0:47:26.879 I'm single, but I actually know what I do want 0:47:26.880 --> 0:47:29.759 a relationship. I do want partnership, I do want kids. 0:47:29.800 --> 0:47:30.919 Whereas before I'd be. 0:47:30.840 --> 0:47:33.120 Like, I don't know, I don't want to like, I 0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:33.959 don't want to like. 0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:36.240 You know, scare anybody away, scare anyone away. 0:47:36.320 --> 0:47:39.640 But though I'm like so, I feel I feel good 0:47:39.680 --> 0:47:43.240 about that. I feel overwhelmed with work. I feel overwhelmed 0:47:43.280 --> 0:47:48.520 with podcasting. You know, people want to start podcasts and 0:47:48.520 --> 0:47:50.480 you don't understand how much. I mean, it's a lot 0:47:50.480 --> 0:47:52.600 of work, especially if you really want to make it good. 0:47:53.200 --> 0:47:53.960 It's a lot of work. 0:47:54.200 --> 0:47:56.880 But I love it. But I've just been feeling a 0:47:56.880 --> 0:48:01.560 bit overwhelmed, like I want to run away and yourself. No, 0:48:01.680 --> 0:48:03.439 like I would need to go on a trip, get 0:48:03.440 --> 0:48:07.000 out of LA. That's my runaway. I know. 0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:09.040 Yeah, so. 0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:14.120 Probably going to do that, which I don't know if 0:48:14.120 --> 0:48:22.919 it is good or bad. But you know, what about you, I. 0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:27.200 Feel completely out of control and overwhelmed with adulting. I 0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:28.560 feel like at the beginning of the year is like 0:48:28.600 --> 0:48:30.640 I was in a good place, like yeah, oh yeah, 0:48:30.680 --> 0:48:33.239 I got this. I got this, and then I don't 0:48:33.280 --> 0:48:35.840 know how I got here the seventh month of mark. 0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:41.359 But I'm just reminding myself to just take one day 0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:47.160 at a time and just deeply, deeply reflect about decisions. 0:48:47.200 --> 0:48:52.480 I make decisions I don't make being proactive. What pushes me, 0:48:52.560 --> 0:48:56.800 what doesn't like Where my fear lies, where my procrastination lies, 0:48:57.400 --> 0:49:01.640 is that fear. Just try to really examine myself, but 0:49:01.760 --> 0:49:04.720 it's hard to exam I'm trying to examine myself without judgment, 0:49:05.239 --> 0:49:08.839 just to be and then in being fixed this shit 0:49:08.920 --> 0:49:13.480 I don't like that. I observe, but it's just difficult. 0:49:13.560 --> 0:49:16.920 It's difficult. And then obviously there's other things that have 0:49:16.960 --> 0:49:20.200 to be done. There's you have someone depending on you. 0:49:20.320 --> 0:49:24.480 They need to eat like every two hours. You know, 0:49:24.560 --> 0:49:27.799 there's bills, there's financial things, there's passion things like we 0:49:27.920 --> 0:49:30.320 love our podcast, of course, but then I'm like, fuck, 0:49:30.520 --> 0:49:32.520 like you and any business you have to put money 0:49:32.560 --> 0:49:35.480 in to get you know, to be fruitful. Everything just 0:49:35.560 --> 0:49:39.319 requires it's just a nurturing, nurturing and it's like how 0:49:39.360 --> 0:49:42.920 much time, like can you put into nurturing all aspects 0:49:42.960 --> 0:49:45.560 of your life and just trying to find the discipline 0:49:45.560 --> 0:49:47.600 to do that is just kind of where I'm at 0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:49.680 right now, because I'll go here, and then I'll go here, 0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:51.080 and then I feel bad about it. 0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:52.600 And just yeah, no, me too. 0:49:52.680 --> 0:49:55.239 It's like, oh, I didn't do that, Oh I didn't 0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:59.520 finish that. Yeah, I get it. I think breathing. I 0:49:59.560 --> 0:50:01.920 think I forg get to breathe. And that's something I 0:50:01.960 --> 0:50:04.839 realized yesterday when I was feeling really anxious and I 0:50:04.880 --> 0:50:07.600 told my friend and he texted me. I was like, breathe. 0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:11.760 That's literally all he texted me. And then I was like, damn, 0:50:12.120 --> 0:50:14.360 I haven't been breathing. And I felt the shortness of 0:50:14.400 --> 0:50:19.360 my breath when he said it. So I encourage you 0:50:19.400 --> 0:50:23.360 guys to check in with yourself, you know, just breathe, 0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:26.280 Just fucking breathe. Check in with yourself and ask yourself 0:50:26.320 --> 0:50:27.919 how you're doing. I think like a lot of times 0:50:27.920 --> 0:50:30.200 we wait until the new year to check in and 0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:32.680 like start over, Like take this time now, take this 0:50:32.719 --> 0:50:35.040 week to like check in and see how you're feeling, 0:50:35.040 --> 0:50:37.239 where you're at, where are your goals at that you've 0:50:37.239 --> 0:50:39.440 started at the beginning of this year, Have you accomplished 0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:43.000 any of them? If not, don't hate yourself. That's why 0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:48.360 we're checking in, you know, and look at it as 0:50:48.360 --> 0:50:52.640 an opportunity, not like a negative. It's kind of like 0:50:52.680 --> 0:50:55.040 what I really try to do because I've spent so 0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:57.279 many years beating myself up. But I feel like this 0:50:58.080 --> 0:50:59.560 this year has been like one of the most productive 0:50:59.640 --> 0:51:02.640 years of my life. And I still I'm not I'm 0:51:02.680 --> 0:51:05.760 falling shortened ways, but I'm like, I just feel more 0:51:06.000 --> 0:51:07.319 like I can forgive myself more. 0:51:08.440 --> 0:51:08.920 Are they here? 0:51:09.320 --> 0:51:13.880 It's that kacky oh? 0:51:13.920 --> 0:51:17.520 But yeah? Is that it? 0:51:17.960 --> 0:51:18.520 That's it? 0:51:18.680 --> 0:51:25.000 Breathing and drinking water free asap, free ACEP. I think 0:51:27.480 --> 0:51:28.600 I'm gonna do more research. 0:51:28.640 --> 0:51:30.320 We need to take a breath right now already. 0:51:30.400 --> 0:51:41.880 Okay, wait, okay, and we're gonna inhale. I'll let all 0:51:41.920 --> 0:51:48.360 that shit go. Today's a new day. We're starting fresh. 0:51:48.440 --> 0:51:51.239 And that's the most beautiful part is that every day 0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:52.880 is a new day and we can start over and 0:51:52.920 --> 0:51:56.280 we can let renew and be different and try harder 0:51:56.400 --> 0:51:59.279 and shit, honestly, yesterday it doesn't even matter. We're here now, 0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:04.160 we're living, reading and that's that's all that matters absolutely. 0:52:05.280 --> 0:52:09.520 Well, you guys have a great week and make sure 0:52:09.880 --> 0:52:14.840 you check out our website. Oh, we're having a meetup 0:52:14.920 --> 0:52:18.120 on Saturday. If you're in LA, please come and meet 0:52:18.200 --> 0:52:21.279 us at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery. They do like a 0:52:21.400 --> 0:52:24.520 drive in movie night, except not driving. I guess you picnic, 0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:28.000 but it's really fun. Like I know, it sounds creepy. 0:52:28.040 --> 0:52:29.640 I've had multiple people like, wait, we're gonna be in 0:52:29.680 --> 0:52:31.120 a cemetery, Like, yes. 0:52:30.880 --> 0:52:33.040 Everybody is so weird about it. 0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:35.440 Have you ever heard of this? 0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:38.600 Even though it's a really cool thing, Like it's dope. 0:52:38.640 --> 0:52:42.160 They have DJs, You bring wine, cheese, weed, you chill, 0:52:42.239 --> 0:52:43.920 you smoke, you watch a movie, or you don't watch 0:52:43.960 --> 0:52:44.239 the movie. 0:52:44.280 --> 0:52:45.400 You just hang out with your friends. 0:52:45.719 --> 0:52:47.560 Anyway, we're gonna have a big ass blanket and we're 0:52:47.600 --> 0:52:49.919 gonna have lots of wine and other things. 0:52:49.960 --> 0:52:51.120 So you have the blanket. 0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:55.680 Yeah, you know, putting like three to make one big one. 0:52:55.800 --> 0:52:57.760 I wish we had a flag that's a good mom's 0:52:57.760 --> 0:52:59.799 bad choices so they could find it. 0:53:02.200 --> 0:53:03.680 That's too late now, but next time. 0:53:03.560 --> 0:53:04.640 I feel like we can get a flag. 0:53:04.680 --> 0:53:07.879 Mate, girl, I'm gonna let you handle. You can go 0:53:08.000 --> 0:53:10.799 on our link in our bio and it's you can 0:53:10.880 --> 0:53:14.040 just click that and then click the meetup and then 0:53:14.120 --> 0:53:18.560 rs VP and we'll see you guys there. Bye bye. 0:53:18.719 --> 0:53:21.840 Make sure you check in on Instagram if you haven't, 0:53:21.880 --> 0:53:25.200 and follow us and say hi, good Mom's underscore bad Choices. 0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:27.120 If you haven't, sign up for the newsletters. 0:53:27.160 --> 0:53:27.600 Sign up. 0:53:27.640 --> 0:53:30.000 Oh and most importantly, if you're listening to this and 0:53:30.080 --> 0:53:32.480 you like us even a little bit, can you leave 0:53:32.520 --> 0:53:35.440 a comment and leave ratings hopefully a five. 0:53:36.160 --> 0:53:39.200 On Apple Podcasts on Apple Podcasts and subscribe. Thank you, 0:53:39.880 --> 0:53:41.399 thank you, thank you, thank you very much. 0:53:42.760 --> 0:53:44.800 Before we go, though, we need to add a horry. 0:53:49.520 --> 0:53:51.120 Who stories. 0:53:51.920 --> 0:53:55.000 I have an old horry, like an old horry, emphasis 0:53:55.040 --> 0:54:03.040 on the old. So I lived in Atlanta. Me and 0:54:03.160 --> 0:54:08.919 my girlfriend, Mike Piss's best friend. We are both we 0:54:09.200 --> 0:54:14.440 have similar strange horrish ways, and we had we self 0:54:14.560 --> 0:54:19.680 proclaimed ourselves the good time girls. And sometimes we just 0:54:19.719 --> 0:54:21.360 like have a crush on the same guy or the 0:54:21.400 --> 0:54:23.959 same girl and be like, oh yeah, that's good time girl. 0:54:24.000 --> 0:54:32.239 Then okay, we like plot which is rather interesting anyway, 0:54:32.600 --> 0:54:35.439 me and my friend who had a saga. 0:54:35.080 --> 0:54:36.080 Of good time girling. 0:54:36.280 --> 0:54:40.160 I'll have plenty of stories, especially from specifically from this era, 0:54:40.239 --> 0:54:43.560 from this era girl era. So at the time, she 0:54:43.600 --> 0:54:46.520 was seeing this guy who I think I think maybe 0:54:46.520 --> 0:54:47.840 she had slept with him once, and she was like, 0:54:47.840 --> 0:54:50.560 he's so sweet, like he's a big dick. Oh my god, 0:54:50.640 --> 0:54:52.560 it'll be so fun, Like that's a good time girl him. 0:54:53.000 --> 0:54:55.680 In addition to that, he used to throw these after parties, 0:54:57.080 --> 0:55:01.200 like these these late night after parties in the uh 0:55:01.200 --> 0:55:04.480 they really called the castle. Were they lofts? Anyway? They 0:55:04.520 --> 0:55:07.240 used to be this like a lot full of huge 0:55:07.280 --> 0:55:11.480 ass lofts. Some are residential, some ran businesses out of them. 0:55:11.640 --> 0:55:15.600 People had a lot of studios, people live loft. I'm yeah, yeah, 0:55:15.680 --> 0:55:17.000 but I don't even know if there was supposed to 0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:20.200 be lived, but people was living. So he would said 0:55:20.200 --> 0:55:23.040 these after our parties, and if we were at that, 0:55:23.160 --> 0:55:26.000 we were at one, we're getting struck. People were there. 0:55:26.040 --> 0:55:28.799 He like had like a little apartment above it. So 0:55:28.800 --> 0:55:30.520 she's like, yeah, that's a good time girl. And I'm like, 0:55:30.680 --> 0:55:32.719 I'm on my period, Like I can't grow good time 0:55:32.719 --> 0:55:34.800 girl home tonight. So anyway, I don't know what happened 0:55:34.800 --> 0:55:37.919 between me telling her that and late that night, if 0:55:37.920 --> 0:55:40.680 it was completely ignored what I had said if I forgot, 0:55:40.760 --> 0:55:43.320 I don't know anyway, I know he knew because we 0:55:43.320 --> 0:55:46.879 we had relayed this message. Anyway, we all like mass 0:55:47.120 --> 0:55:49.120 circuits starts getting hot, and he did it like all 0:55:49.120 --> 0:55:51.960 making out and like touching and groping. Like keep in 0:55:51.960 --> 0:55:54.280 mind discus me and my friend good time girl people 0:55:54.320 --> 0:55:57.879 like we really never like fucked alone or anything like that. 0:55:57.880 --> 0:55:59.680 That's still my best friend right now. She's a mom too. 0:56:02.800 --> 0:56:09.560 So eventually she's like riding him, I'm writing his face. 0:56:10.520 --> 0:56:11.719 So the next day she's like. 0:56:11.800 --> 0:56:14.600 Girl, was so funny. I was watching you. She's like, 0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:17.080 you were writing him, but your your tampa string was 0:56:17.080 --> 0:56:22.080 on his chin. She was like, I was shrying not 0:56:22.200 --> 0:56:22.680 to laugh. 0:56:24.520 --> 0:56:27.120 Wait, so she she was riding him and you were 0:56:27.160 --> 0:56:32.080 like facing the other way. Yeah, so guys probably hitting 0:56:32.120 --> 0:56:35.239 him in yes, but what was he doing was he like. 0:56:35.239 --> 0:56:38.800 Eating my pussy and fucking her and never said ship 0:56:38.920 --> 0:56:42.800 about it. In fact, be good Time girled him again 0:56:42.960 --> 0:56:45.960 like years later, like after we went into retirement, we 0:56:46.000 --> 0:56:47.920 came out of retirement to a good Time girl him. 0:56:47.920 --> 0:56:50.399 I'll save that story for next week or another week, 0:56:50.480 --> 0:56:54.840 but it's also pretty funny. But yes, it was a 0:56:55.480 --> 0:57:00.439 hot girl summer that summer. I clearly went and letting 0:57:00.480 --> 0:57:03.400 any periods or tampon stop me, and neither were they. 0:57:03.600 --> 0:57:05.319 Oh my god, that's a good one. 0:57:05.480 --> 0:57:10.120 Yeah, thanks for sharing. You're central Horries guys. 0:57:11.360 --> 0:57:14.120 Good ones though, because some of you guys keep sending 0:57:14.160 --> 0:57:17.439 the weak ass ones, they need to like, come on, yeah, 0:57:18.120 --> 0:57:19.640 level ten horries. 0:57:19.280 --> 0:57:21.760 I need to look at a level ten, like soon. 0:57:23.520 --> 0:57:26.840 It don't happening your old ones, you know what, Like 0:57:26.920 --> 0:57:27.720 I can't think. 0:57:27.560 --> 0:57:30.400 Of any I've been having like a hoary blackout to. 0:57:30.360 --> 0:57:32.880 Write them down. Every time I think one, I'm like, 0:57:32.880 --> 0:57:33.680 I'm gonna do this ship. 0:57:33.880 --> 0:57:34.360 I try to think. 0:57:34.640 --> 0:57:36.280 I like sometimes I'm like, did that happen? 0:57:36.520 --> 0:57:37.880 Or is that a dream? Or was I high? 0:57:38.520 --> 0:57:39.760 Or did that happen? Or were they drunk? 0:57:39.840 --> 0:57:42.400 Or did it happen it happened? Or is that one 0:57:42.440 --> 0:57:46.120 of my masturbation fantasies. I need you to be clear. 0:57:46.320 --> 0:57:47.080 I'm telling why. 0:57:47.840 --> 0:57:51.400 Okay, exacts it. That's my short. 0:57:51.160 --> 0:57:52.000 Horry for today. 0:57:54.600 --> 0:57:59.920 All right, well bye bye. 0:58:00.360 --> 0:58:03.000 I'm my father night to get sarve. She's a farm 0:58:03.120 --> 0:58:06.200 night for good fine, I'm a bon night to get lucky. 0:58:06.520 --> 0:58:09.200 We'll rop bone nights at the sign. We rap bon 0:58:09.320 --> 0:58:12.360 night to get sound. We're a bumb night for good fine, 0:58:12.720 --> 0:58:15.200 We'll rop bon Night to get it lucky. We're rock 0:58:15.240 --> 0:58:17.920 Bond Night to get lucky. We're rop Bond Night to 0:58:17.920 --> 0:58:20.680 get lucky. We're rop Bond Night to get it lucky. 0:58:21.000 --> 0:58:22.000 We're rop Bon Night. 0:58:21.960 --> 0:58:22.720 To get lucky. 0:58:23.840 --> 0:58:32.560 Nights again, Nice again, rop nights again, Nights again, Nights again, 0:58:34.160 --> 0:58:34.640 nights again,