Speaker 1: Like the legend of the things all ends with the beginning?
Speaker 2: What keeps the planet sitting?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 1: What's nothing again?
Speaker 4: Come too far to get back, So.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 2: I'm Mela. Sure it's Wednesday, be it and as hot
Speaker 2: as fuck?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it is super hot in l Are.
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Speaker 2: not really insulated, and I have a feeling in the
Speaker 2: next like two weeks.
Speaker 4: We're gonna die.
Speaker 5: Wait, did we not do this last summer? We did,
Speaker 5: but we were hot. No, we were gone the oh.
Speaker 2: We were gone and July we missed that part. But
Speaker 2: then we came back in August and then we recorded
Speaker 2: some in my room. I think because it was hot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so it's hot.
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Speaker 5: Okay, so before we started recording, Erica was just telling
Speaker 5: me the tea and I said, just just stop there.
Speaker 5: Let's uh, let's get this sun.
Speaker 2: Well okay, so I didn't watch the whole video, but
Speaker 2: my girlfriend Jennifer from Stockholm, Yeah, she messaged me this
Speaker 2: clip of April. What's her all name O Marion's baby daddy,
Speaker 2: big daddy, baby mama, Oh my god, and she was
Speaker 2: going on a rant about like her pussy is good
Speaker 2: and that like the game wants to fuck her he
Speaker 2: texts her on Mother's Day. No, and that likes the
Speaker 2: pussy too. Oh no, y'all can't fuck rich niggas because like,
Speaker 2: I didn't watch the whole thing because I could I
Speaker 2: couldn't deal with that, and she kept like patting her
Speaker 2: pussy and grabbing it and being like, yeah, you want
Speaker 2: this pussy and if you're not eating it, then get
Speaker 2: the fuck away. No.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like okay, so I.
Speaker 4: Know, and she looked sober, which I was like more.
Speaker 5: It was literally my second question, my second question, like
Speaker 5: the think she's on drugs. I don't know, but you
Speaker 5: know what, let me take that back. I'm sure people
Speaker 5: tune into all sixty episodes and they're like, are they
Speaker 5: on drugs? Yes? Yes, but I saw okay, So everybody knew.
Speaker 5: Everybody who's following the Shade Room knew that she had
Speaker 5: like kind of there were some instances with her Little
Speaker 5: Fizz on live and then recent instances I showed you
Speaker 5: like them just hanging out, was them hanging out, and
Speaker 5: then this was re one was so sketch. So first
Speaker 5: of all, you know, the tour ended, and I told
Speaker 5: you that ended because it's over. It ended because it's over.
Speaker 5: But prior to the tour, there are rumors that Little
Speaker 5: Fizz and her had something going on. So I guess
Speaker 5: you must have came home from the from the tour
Speaker 5: and then she is on Live. Oh my god, it's
Speaker 5: so mortifying, and she's like, come here, just come here.
Speaker 5: Like he's out of the frame and she's liked, just
Speaker 5: come over here. So then he reluctantly gets in the frame. Girl,
Speaker 5: it looks like he was like, bitch, please, why the
Speaker 5: fuck are you doing this place? And she's like, we
Speaker 5: could do whatever we want. Live your life, just live
Speaker 5: your life. And he was like like threw up the
Speaker 5: peace sign and like exited stage lap and then she
Speaker 5: immediately turns the camera to her kids.
Speaker 2: I was like, it was just kids were there.
Speaker 5: The kids were there, like it's just you know what,
Speaker 5: that's so confusing for them. It's just confusing in general
Speaker 5: because it's probably like Uncle Fizz. But also I don't know,
Speaker 5: it seems to us it seems like they're fucking and
Speaker 5: obviously they are because she said little Fizz thinks this
Speaker 5: pussy's good too, right.
Speaker 4: She was wilding out.
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's because she needs attention, she
Speaker 2: got a project coming out sometimes like all.
Speaker 5: This, Like I really thought she was classy. I thought
Speaker 5: she was on the show. I mean, obviously she's not.
Speaker 4: She's like she's something's going on.
Speaker 5: Okay, let me ask you this, because this is a
Speaker 5: good topic. Do you think that it's okay to pursue
Speaker 5: something romantically with someone you have chemistry with if we
Speaker 5: dipress record on her, despite despite if they've maybe have
Speaker 5: relationships with like someone like your baby daddy or an
Speaker 5: old friend or a friend, Like, what do you think
Speaker 5: the roles are on that? Because obviously I think live
Speaker 5: your life, much like April said, because we can't really
Speaker 5: help the chemistry we have with people.
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah.
Speaker 5: But in that in that space when there's kids involved,
Speaker 5: the bandmates who just came out to toward each other,
Speaker 5: and I don't know if I should say this, but
Speaker 5: I went to the B two K tour photo shoot
Speaker 5: and for very random reasons, and I peeped. I peeped
Speaker 5: the tension in the room.
Speaker 2: They've been talking.
Speaker 5: No, not literally, not for the like the first half
Speaker 5: hour of the shoot, so you know, no, and you
Speaker 5: could tell like eventually like they were like happy to
Speaker 5: be there, and the tensions kind.
Speaker 2: Of they're just you're purely doing this for the money.
Speaker 5: Nothing purely for the money, because I knew people were
Speaker 5: going to come out, but I did I did feel like,
Speaker 5: I feel.
Speaker 2: So bad for these boys. They've been there, They've been abused,
Speaker 2: and that's why they are the way they are. That's
Speaker 2: why they all, each of them collectively have and separately
Speaker 2: have issues.
Speaker 5: True, I think j Book is the most.
Speaker 4: Sane, probably, but Jirasby is fu o Maria.
Speaker 5: I also, I mean, what do you think about it?
Speaker 2: Maria? I mean I don't. I don't. I mean I
Speaker 2: would say he's probably maybe the Maybe he's kept it
Speaker 2: together a little better because he's been successful and he
Speaker 2: was the pampered pooch of the group. They made sure
Speaker 2: that he was taking taken care of.
Speaker 5: I felt that as a shoot too.
Speaker 2: Should I talk about this?
Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean that's that's obvious. That's obvious observation.
Speaker 5: Jammila's map, who let her on the show? More talking
Speaker 5: about beauty.
Speaker 2: I don't say my government on here, bitch. They can
Speaker 2: go on Instagram. Your instagram is jammyla map.
Speaker 5: It's a map of that.
Speaker 2: Always really gonna throw him?
Speaker 5: Do you think so? You think Fitz has problems? He
Speaker 5: seems so sweet.
Speaker 2: They all got issues. Look, Chris Stokes as a predator,
Speaker 2: and I know that's firsthand. No, I know, well not
Speaker 2: first hand, secondhand because my cousin was signed to him,
Speaker 2: oh right, and has a whole history with all those guys.
Speaker 5: But she's also a female, right, she's a female.
Speaker 2: But she lived in those houses. They all live in
Speaker 2: Ranch Cuckamonga. In these houses was happening like they're all
Speaker 2: they lived, like literally they had they had rented like
Speaker 2: three houses next door each other. They're all living in
Speaker 2: these houses, and she was living in one of them.
Speaker 2: I would go visit her too out there, and I
Speaker 2: mean during the time, it seemed amazing, like there's so
Speaker 2: we're fifteen, we can do whatever the fuck we want.
Speaker 4: To run a house.
Speaker 2: We're swimming, we're having pool parties, were drinking. Actually they
Speaker 2: didn't really drink like that. They were actually kind of
Speaker 2: cookie cutter because they were too busy doing other weird
Speaker 2: fuck shit with Chris Stokes, you know. So you know,
Speaker 2: I just feel like I feel bad for them now. April,
Speaker 2: I don't know. She wasn't part of that. She just
Speaker 2: acting crazy. Do I think No, To answer your question,
Speaker 2: I think that there are there's you. There are so many.
Speaker 4: People in this world.
Speaker 2: You're telling me this one like the only connection you
Speaker 2: could make, Like I would be like if I if
Speaker 2: you were to go, like if you were to go
Speaker 2: start dating my baby bitch, I would fuck you up.
Speaker 4: I know you wouldn't, but I'm just saying, but that's
Speaker 4: essentially what it is, right.
Speaker 5: Right, right, you know what I mean, Like like, yeah,
Speaker 5: like you're gonna go fuck somebody.
Speaker 2: Like you couldn't find nobody else, someone not in my
Speaker 2: own group. It's magical connection, right right, I don't know.
Speaker 5: And then it's like it can't be that magical if
Speaker 5: like he's obviously not being public about it and you are,
Speaker 5: like I just you know know what I get from it.
Speaker 5: And this is my own uh novella I thought of
Speaker 5: in my head.
Speaker 2: I think that.
Speaker 5: He O Marion hurt her really really really really badly.
Speaker 5: Maybe there was some ship, some some ship that he did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he one of her friends or.
Speaker 5: Red handed and some weird ship. And this is how
Speaker 5: this is how like she's in reaction to that, she's like,
Speaker 5: fuck you in the boat you rowed in on but
Speaker 5: you have But.
Speaker 2: The thing is like your kids, yeah, the kids and
Speaker 2: the kids, and like I know they're young, but they
Speaker 2: can go back and look at this ship. And also
Speaker 2: like the fact that you're doing it in front of them.
Speaker 2: It's like I get like we're in this space right
Speaker 2: now where it's like like women were feeling more empowered
Speaker 2: than ever right and like we're doing what we want
Speaker 2: to do, We're saying what we want to say. But
Speaker 2: there comes a point where I'm like, this shit is
Speaker 2: just irresponsible to a point, Like I get being free
Speaker 2: and dudes talk about their dicks all day long and
Speaker 2: what they do with them, and then when a woman
Speaker 2: wants to talk about what she's doing with her pussy,
Speaker 2: it's a problem.
Speaker 4: But I just feel like.
Speaker 5: This is just sin line. It's just like there needs
Speaker 5: to be some finesse, there needs to be some eloquence,
Speaker 5: but that yeah, I just I get it, Like don't
Speaker 5: don't make us all look bad? Is that what you're
Speaker 5: trying to say.
Speaker 2: I just feel like it's just tacky and also calling
Speaker 2: out all the men that apparently want to have sex
Speaker 2: with you or that you have had sex with. It
Speaker 2: was kind of unclear, like I think she said she
Speaker 2: fucked the game and that he still wants this pussy,
Speaker 2: and then he's texting around Mother's Day because she's a
Speaker 2: good mother and that she tried naming basketball players, she
Speaker 2: started naming other rappers shared naming Asap. She named Asap.
Speaker 2: She had to throw that one in just because for
Speaker 2: ships and giggles.
Speaker 5: I'm like, it's just sad that that she thinks that
Speaker 5: that's that's validating her. Oh, you can't fuck rich niggas.
Speaker 7: Bitch rich niggas, cheat, richgas industry niggas. All niggas are dumb,
Speaker 7: so it doesn't really matter. You're not bragging on anybody now,
Speaker 7: And I don't know, are you any richer?
Speaker 5: Because it right And I really don't believe in Like,
Speaker 5: if someone creeps in your dmsh like, why out them,
Speaker 5: you know, unless you're like sending unsolicited dick picts. Even
Speaker 5: then I just think I think that's tacky.
Speaker 2: If Michael B. Jordan DMS, I'm outing.
Speaker 5: Him everybody because everyone gets what happened.
Speaker 4: He didn't get the message. But actually, over Michael D,
Speaker 4: Michael B.
Speaker 2: Whatever the name is.
Speaker 4: If KOFE creeped in.
Speaker 5: My idea, I would tell I would screenshot it and tell.
Speaker 2: All my friends.
Speaker 4: I would tell the putt it on Instagram stories.
Speaker 2: Only reason that not tagging him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't want him to think that I'm telling
Speaker 5: everyone ruined my chances.
Speaker 2: Actually, I wouldn't tell. I wouldn't put on instgram stories,
Speaker 2: but I would send a mass text.
Speaker 5: I made up with Chris Brown like ten years ago,
Speaker 5: and I haven't stopped telling anyone who brings them up, like,
Speaker 5: oh I left Chrispin like, oh I made out with
Speaker 5: him ten years ago.
Speaker 4: It was a new Chris Brown song. Oh really, I
Speaker 4: laid out with him.
Speaker 5: I haven't stopt bragging about it since even after.
Speaker 2: Wasn't it passionate? It was good, but was like a
Speaker 2: passionate kiss. It was like a slutty like, like just
Speaker 2: another slut kiss?
Speaker 5: Or was it like I was straddling him?
Speaker 2: To me?
Speaker 5: It was passionate to him, and my eighteen year old
Speaker 5: self thought.
Speaker 2: It was passionate.
Speaker 4: No, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 5: This is not bragging rights at all.
Speaker 2: It was very Was he you were eighteenth time? And
Speaker 2: I think he was underage?
Speaker 5: Oh? No, the fuck, I'm just going to jam this episode.
Speaker 5: I'm just talking so much shit.
Speaker 2: It's kissing illegal. Please don't press me. That's terrible, Please
Speaker 2: don't press charge.
Speaker 5: I was twenty, he was eighteen.
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, I.
Speaker 4: Was speaking of Chris Brown.
Speaker 2: Did you hear about you know his controversy about him
Speaker 2: saying he likes black girls with good hair.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought it was I mean, child, I'm so
Speaker 5: sick of fighting. I don't even but that was my thing.
Speaker 5: It's like, what's good hair?
Speaker 2: But like if you're a black girl who thinks so,
Speaker 2: you don't you think you don't have good hair? Like
Speaker 2: I get the whole the conversation of black girls and
Speaker 2: good hair, don't. I'm not I hate that term. I'm
Speaker 2: not like disvaluing, like disvalidating like people that like what
Speaker 2: it means, because I get I get exactly what it means.
Speaker 5: But we don't know how he I mean, we probably will.
Speaker 5: I doubt he meant it in a smart way, but
Speaker 5: who cares. I just don't care enough about Chris Brown's
Speaker 5: preference of hair I care to complain about it. Like
Speaker 5: I'm not buying that fucking album. So you know whatever,
Speaker 5: If I catch up with them, I'm going to try
Speaker 5: and get another makeout. My hair is.
Speaker 2: Good on both fronts.
Speaker 5: Actually, I think I think honestly now it would go
Speaker 5: all the way.
Speaker 4: You'd go all the way.
Speaker 5: You tried then and I was too scared.
Speaker 4: Oh you did it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he pulled his dick out. It was nice?
Speaker 2: Was it big? Yeah?
Speaker 4: It was it skinny?
Speaker 2: I remember I think we saw I think didn't we
Speaker 2: have a dick pic? And it was kind of skinny.
Speaker 2: He had like a torpedo dick.
Speaker 5: No, I don't remember being skinny ever, being nice. But
Speaker 5: I was also like twenty.
Speaker 2: So but you were also having sex then.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I remember being big.
Speaker 4: So well, why did you do it? Are you scared?
Speaker 5: I was with two others?
Speaker 4: You were scared?
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 5: I was with two other girls.
Speaker 2: I didn't really know.
Speaker 5: And we were we were holding up signs at his concert.
Speaker 5: No no, like no like we were like there was
Speaker 5: an opening act. I forgot what the fucking group is now,
Speaker 5: but we were we were supposed to be stage girls
Speaker 5: holding up signs for opening acts. So we were backstage
Speaker 5: and I had ran into a friend from LA This
Speaker 5: is in Atlanta, and he was like, oh, Chris asked
Speaker 5: about you, but I told him you weren't like that,
Speaker 5: and in my head I was like, wow.
Speaker 2: Oh he loved he loves a skinny small for a girl.
Speaker 5: So when I went, I went on the tour bus
Speaker 5: with him because I went to pee. The two girls
Speaker 5: I didn't really know were out there, and so was
Speaker 5: my friend who just told him.
Speaker 2: I wasn't like that.
Speaker 5: So I was like, fuck, I want to disappoint my friend.
Speaker 5: I don't know these too bititious. So I after I
Speaker 5: went on the tour bus, I like made I pulled dick.
Speaker 5: I was like, oh no, just take my number because
Speaker 5: I was shiny, classy, even though I wasn't. Later I
Speaker 5: asked the girls, like, did it look bad?
Speaker 2: I was in there?
Speaker 5: These fucking hate he ass bitches, We're like kind of.
Speaker 2: I was like, the want to be in there.
Speaker 5: I should have sat on it real quick. But you know, Chris,
Speaker 5: if you're listening, I told all thousands of our followers,
Speaker 5: you have a big one so hollow.
Speaker 4: It could be our Zaddy of the wheel.
Speaker 5: As we're talking about, oh my god, we should have
Speaker 5: a Zaddy of the week.
Speaker 2: We should.
Speaker 5: But this, this is a funny conversation, isn't it ironic?
Speaker 5: After we're saying out unclassy, I'm classy, bitch. Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: By the way, by the way, he made out with
Speaker 2: Chris Brad and pulls tack out.
Speaker 5: And if you're listening, we'd like to go all the
Speaker 5: way now, oh ship, Okay, we need to grow up
Speaker 5: is what the fuck needs to happen.
Speaker 2: Well, we're not over here grabbing our pussies on on
Speaker 2: live talking about this is good, this right here. But
Speaker 2: she was like, I need to see the video. It
Speaker 2: was so aggressive. Wait I think I was like, dang, girl,
Speaker 2: do you think it's drugs? I do? You don't know?
Speaker 2: She looked fine, but who knows. I don't know what
Speaker 2: she's she has a wine line.
Speaker 4: She's real loose.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 5: Also, speaking of guys, she fucked acept Rocky was on
Speaker 5: that list. And as everyone knows, or if you don't know,
Speaker 5: acept Rocky is having some legal troubles in Sweden. We
Speaker 5: all know we don't want to get in legal trouble
Speaker 5: anywhere out of the US or at all. If you're black,
Speaker 5: you don't want to get trouble anyway, period. But apparently there's
Speaker 5: they're treating him poorly. There's feces everywhere. He's so mad,
Speaker 5: and everybody's preaching said literally it's unlivable. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: You know, of course, I don't want accept Rocky to
Speaker 2: be in jail. Oh, she's back on love and hip hop,
Speaker 2: that's why. Oh so she's trying to cause a scene
Speaker 2: she's trying to be.
Speaker 4: I think that why he's in jail, and the reason
Speaker 4: he's in jail.
Speaker 2: I think it was like he did he throw someone's
Speaker 2: or his security guard hit somebody and then he.
Speaker 4: Threw their phone or something.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he threw a phone.
Speaker 4: Is that what it was?
Speaker 5: I think of something like that about a gun too.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know that much about yourself, Rocky. I just I, oh, look,
Speaker 5: he saw it. He didn't say anything. Okay, So the
Speaker 5: people are like calling to action civil rights people for
Speaker 5: on his behalf.
Speaker 2: But I didn't know this.
Speaker 5: But a long time ago, I guess he had an
Speaker 5: interview and said some shit basically like the black struggle.
Speaker 2: Doesn't apply to him.
Speaker 5: He basically lives in Soho, he lives in Beverly Hills.
Speaker 5: He'd be in the studio and what happens in Ferguson
Speaker 5: doesn't pertain to him. He's not he doesn't have to
Speaker 5: be some fucking activists.
Speaker 4: You just need to speak on it.
Speaker 5: And now I feel like, fuck him.
Speaker 2: Leave them in Sweden, Whereas I feel like, Okay, first
Speaker 2: of all, that interview was a while ago. I think
Speaker 2: he got a lot of backlash for it and obviously
Speaker 2: had to come out and say fix it or whatever
Speaker 2: I think, but which obviously doesn't necessarily mean that he
Speaker 2: doesn't feel meant it. But I feel like we can't
Speaker 2: abandon our black brothers just because they're uneducated.
Speaker 4: That's the whole problem. If that was the case.
Speaker 2: Do you know how many people wouldn't be wouldn't be
Speaker 2: wouldn't apply to this movement? You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: There's so many people that only care when something's happening,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: And so I just I don't feel like.
Speaker 2: I would. I don't agree with you.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't be like, fuck him, I mean, I.
Speaker 5: Mean, I don't think if I don't think if he
Speaker 5: had doesn't deserve to be there, he should stay. I'm
Speaker 5: not into anything unjust, but I just have a problem
Speaker 5: with our community period. I feel like we should be
Speaker 5: more conscious of who we who we put on a pedestal,
Speaker 5: who we put in certain positions. I think that like
Speaker 5: young black boys and girls are very impressionable. I think
Speaker 5: the ship people are rapping about right now is done
Speaker 5: as fuck. I think, you know, Molly Park is set.
Speaker 5: You know, there's just things that like we should be
Speaker 5: more conscious and especially suddenly ha ha ha, you're in
Speaker 5: this position, But five minutes ago you didn't, I mean
Speaker 5: a couple of years ago, you didn't care to give
Speaker 5: a fuck about someone else's death, or you know, like
Speaker 5: we at the end of the day, we have in common.
Speaker 2: But also, he's not asking people to support him.
Speaker 4: People are just doing it, you know.
Speaker 2: I mean, of course he would expect them to, but
Speaker 2: that's just because he's a sap Rocky.
Speaker 4: People are gonna come out and support him.
Speaker 2: And also and also people are always looking for they
Speaker 2: even have cause to support.
Speaker 5: But even as Kim Kardashian to help him.
Speaker 4: With legal services, he did.
Speaker 2: I don't want to lie. I mean, I actually think
Speaker 2: what Kim is doing is pretty cool. I wasn't laughing.
Speaker 2: She's done.
Speaker 5: I agree.
Speaker 2: I will say though, personally, as someone who has experienced
Speaker 2: their baby daddy being in a foreign jail overseas, I
Speaker 2: think what annoys me about this situation, and maybe I'm
Speaker 2: taking it too personally, is that when this ship was
Speaker 2: going on for us and Freddie's not a sap Rocky,
Speaker 2: but people know who he is. No, there were no posts,
Speaker 2: There were not a lot of posts. There was not
Speaker 2: this outpouring of support. And I don't know if it's
Speaker 2: because of the like the charges that were being brought
Speaker 2: against Freddy, they were too touchy and people had their questions,
Speaker 2: but there was no question when it came to him.
Speaker 4: That's why I'm annoyed.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, now, niggas want to like public like
Speaker 2: go a free asap rocky campaign. But it's it's like
Speaker 2: people choose based on how famous you are, how much
Speaker 2: they want to ride or support you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't think that's yeah.
Speaker 2: I think that's bullshit. That's why. When that's that's the
Speaker 2: only reason why I read this story, I kind of
Speaker 2: was like whatever, but and then I had But then
Speaker 2: I had to check myself and be like, okay, wait,
Speaker 2: he's still a black man, and he's still like he
Speaker 2: doesn't just he doesn't deserve to serve six years in
Speaker 2: fucking Swedish prison for throwing a phone out. Of course
Speaker 2: that's not justifiable.
Speaker 5: On another note, though, I remember watching documentary and I
Speaker 5: thought the Swedish Gales.
Speaker 2: Were very nice Swedish the sweet the.
Speaker 5: Swedish culture is like much more very racist.
Speaker 2: Oh they are, yes, it's very very racist there. They're
Speaker 2: nice people. But there's deep rooted racism in there in
Speaker 2: their history. And even talking to Jennifer, like, she's told
Speaker 2: me a.
Speaker 4: Lot of stuff.
Speaker 5: I dated a Swedish guy once and I think I
Speaker 5: asked him about the temp climate for black people in
Speaker 5: Sweden and I thought he said, to everyone's very nice.
Speaker 2: Well there are a lot of black people there, a
Speaker 2: lot of biracial people. Yeah this guy. Yeah, I would
Speaker 2: say that they're more progressive, but that there's still there's
Speaker 2: there's a deep rooted history and a lot of people
Speaker 2: that are making those decisions are older Swedish people that
Speaker 2: are probably still holding on to their old story and
Speaker 2: their old thoughts and stuff. So I mean, do I
Speaker 2: think it stop rocking out of Joe? Yes, yeah, he's not.
Speaker 2: He's not gonna stay in jail. You know, they're not
Speaker 2: going to use him, and may people are saying they're
Speaker 2: going to use him as an example.
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, they're not.
Speaker 2: I hope he.
Speaker 5: I mean obviously he released different, you know, different perspective
Speaker 5: after he got backlash, which a lot of people do.
Speaker 5: But I hope, I hope genuinely from this experience and
Speaker 5: just in life, I hope that he, you know, gets
Speaker 5: a little bit, gets with it, gets just get smarter.
Speaker 5: Like you're on a platform, you have the opportunity to
Speaker 5: say something smart that helps the community. Say something smart,
Speaker 5: don't say some ignorant shit. I don't support ignorance. I
Speaker 5: don't support injustice, I don't support racism. So obviously I
Speaker 5: don't have him to stay there, and I don't really
Speaker 5: feel like fuck him, but I do feel like, yeah,
Speaker 5: do it.
Speaker 4: I mean, express yourself, if you know.
Speaker 5: And I'm not saying all rappers need to be I.
Speaker 2: Mean, look at mek Mill, like Meekl's talking about still
Speaker 2: talking about the same shit, but he is pro he's
Speaker 2: active in the community, He's getting shit done more because
Speaker 2: of his experience.
Speaker 5: People want to grow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, so freeze that Rocky wait Worth the
Speaker 4: letter right here.
Speaker 2: Also another news. Yeah, I don't know if anybody else
Speaker 2: is feeling this retrograde, but I am because my computer
Speaker 2: like almost broke yesterday. And I say almost because it
Speaker 2: was broken and then I opened it and it was
Speaker 2: fixed again. Like the internet sucks. Communication could be better,
Speaker 2: but that's like they're staying retrogade.
Speaker 5: Uh effects communication.
Speaker 2: And I was born in a retrograde, so apparently communication
Speaker 2: is always going to be difficult for me, which I
Speaker 2: feel like I'm a really great communicator. But maybe I'm
Speaker 2: just maybe it's the way I communicate. Other people don't
Speaker 2: think so yeah, I know, So maybe it's the way
Speaker 2: I communicate. I'm just a little too blunt or not.
Speaker 2: I don't sugarcoat shit. I don't know.
Speaker 5: Have you seen my water bottle?
Speaker 2: Yes, it's weird.
Speaker 5: Uh we Oh I got I got threatened on Instagram today.
Speaker 2: First of all, I.
Speaker 5: Need to know.
Speaker 4: I saw her. I call you Jemima Animi.
Speaker 2: He also call me like, that's.
Speaker 4: Because you called a girl Becky.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I did. I did.
Speaker 2: That.
Speaker 5: Damn Beyonce. Beyonce taught me. So there's been another event.
Speaker 5: So my homeboy Senate does mister checkpoint. If you've never
Speaker 5: checked out the Instagram profile mister checkpoint. He's big in
Speaker 5: like justice community. He's always reposting things that cops are
Speaker 5: doing secretly and you know, just speaking out on it
Speaker 5: and making bringing awareness to it. So this morning I
Speaker 5: saw the one A. There's a guy and his son.
Speaker 5: The son's probably like eight outside of his building. I
Speaker 5: guess the black guy was trying to enter his building
Speaker 5: while they were exiting and instead of and he said
Speaker 5: who are here to see? The guy wouldn't answer them.
Speaker 5: He proceeds to call the cops. He's like, yes, it
Speaker 5: appears to be an African American managed trying to enter
Speaker 5: my building. He will not tell me who he's coming
Speaker 5: to see, as if this guy knows every fucking resident
Speaker 5: in the building in which apartment they reside in, And
Speaker 5: the guy records him. Apparently his friend comes up. The
Speaker 5: friend he's waiting for does not live in the building either,
Speaker 5: but she's not black. And the man, I guess, hangs
Speaker 5: up the phone of his police call and then doesn't
Speaker 5: question them further, lets them go in. But the fucked
Speaker 5: that part is the son is like, please, dad, guys son,
Speaker 5: it's just like, please just leave him alone. Let's just go, Like,
Speaker 5: let's just go, and the guy is obviously getting you know,
Speaker 5: everything's getting intense. The guy is recording them and he's like,
Speaker 5: you need to listen to your son. Meanwhile he's fucking
Speaker 5: putting in an order on nine one one, and it
Speaker 5: was just a bit much in front.
Speaker 2: Of a child.
Speaker 5: I think the guy who was recording sit cursed and
Speaker 5: I responded that this is white people shit because they
Speaker 5: can't mind their business. And some other guy was like
Speaker 5: started going back and forth with me. Anyway, long story short,
Speaker 5: the guy says, I hope your husband has a gun.
Speaker 5: I'm really wealthy. Basically it was a threat, some violent threat,
Speaker 5: like he was gonna find me, and I'm like then
Speaker 5: it maybe, like, oh no, what if I put on Instagram?
Speaker 5: How much information he knows? I'm an La. It's such
Speaker 5: a small place. I know I'm not, but I need
Speaker 5: to stop getting involved with Instagram commenting and also what
Speaker 5: do you think about that situation?
Speaker 2: Ericon? So I was watching Don Lennon last night of
Speaker 2: the CNN and he was breaking down what like, you know,
Speaker 2: the whole story or whatever the scenario. The guy came out,
Speaker 2: the guy who called the police came out and said that,
Speaker 2: you know, he he was triggered because his father was
Speaker 2: murdered outside of his house and so he's and he's
Speaker 2: always that guy that doesn't allow people to just walk
Speaker 2: into the building, no matter if you're white, black, whatever
Speaker 2: you are, he's gonna question you had nothing to do
Speaker 2: with race, and that he understands that, you know, disproportionately
Speaker 2: black people are you know, discriminated against and this, but
Speaker 2: this was not that instance. So with that said, first
Speaker 2: of all, I think after how listening exactly how the
Speaker 2: story unfolded, and like the fact that at the end
Speaker 2: of it all, his friend came who was not black
Speaker 2: and does not even live in the building, and they're
Speaker 2: both going to a party and suddenly it was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: she's here, you can go up.
Speaker 4: That's where the problem lies for me, because I, like, I.
Speaker 2: Do understand like the security of your building, Like I
Speaker 2: think I'm not that type of person, but I understand
Speaker 2: there are people that are like do you live here?
Speaker 2: Like what are you doing here? And you know, it
Speaker 2: is kind of their right, it is their property, it.
Speaker 5: Is there, but isn't to the point like, for instance,
Speaker 5: has he said mister John and unit ten ten two
Speaker 5: is that does he know him? But that has eased him,
Speaker 5: Like would you have called the police?
Speaker 2: No, he was asking him to buzz. He said, buzz,
Speaker 2: buzz her. Then buzz the gate, buzz the buzzer then
Speaker 2: and he was buzzing it. So he said, when he
Speaker 2: first walked up, he was buzzing the door, and then
Speaker 2: he came out, and then he walked in and the
Speaker 2: guy was.
Speaker 4: Like you're tailgating.
Speaker 2: He's tailgating me, and she was like you He's like,
Speaker 2: you can't go in there, and he's like, well, I
Speaker 2: was just buzzing my friend. He's like, well, buzz her
Speaker 2: again and make her come down.
Speaker 5: At which point he should have just kept walking with
Speaker 5: his son, at which point buzzer again. Okay, I'm out.
Speaker 2: You're you're leaving the building, so this is no.
Speaker 5: Longer your like someone else could have accident and let
Speaker 5: him in. That's what I'm saying, Who the fuck is
Speaker 5: going to actually call the police?
Speaker 4: The step of woll what was that? Did you hear that?
Speaker 5: You bestuttered?
Speaker 4: The fact that he called the police.
Speaker 2: That's where it gets so ridiculous. That's where it gets
Speaker 2: like what you call the police for?
Speaker 5: Like this is not an emergency. No, it's not like
Speaker 5: there's no threat. And as far as i'm what is
Speaker 5: the threat? As far as I'm concerned living in a building.
Speaker 5: This is my other thing that irritates tohit at it.
Speaker 4: But someone argue, well, it is a threat. It's like
Speaker 4: someone walking into your home.
Speaker 2: If someone was.
Speaker 5: I have a front door with a lock. It's the
Speaker 5: equivalent of me walking into a neighborhood. I could walk
Speaker 5: up to your door right now. Because you don't live
Speaker 5: in a building, you just get an extra door because
Speaker 5: you live in a building, Nigga, everybody's door needs to
Speaker 5: be locked.
Speaker 2: That's true. It's literally, you're not the wood.
Speaker 5: You're not security for the whole motherfucking building. And if
Speaker 5: you were so scared because of the instance with your father, nigga,
Speaker 5: you need to be in a building with a doorman
Speaker 5: so he can handle it.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm really curious the incense with his father who
Speaker 2: murdered his father.
Speaker 4: And what race they were, because is that? What is
Speaker 4: that what is triggering you?
Speaker 2: I mean, I also know, like it still is that
Speaker 2: you said that they live in San Francisco, the homeless
Speaker 2: population is bad, that there's been multiple robberies in that building,
Speaker 2: that which I don't know to be true.
Speaker 5: There are a lot of homeless, I know absolutely, there
Speaker 5: don't enough homeless actually do a lot of robbing.
Speaker 2: But the who's doing robbing then, I mean I mean
Speaker 2: everyday people, I mean homeless well that and homeless people, yeah, both,
Speaker 2: But like I.
Speaker 5: Think you can distinctly see the difference between a homeless
Speaker 5: person and a homeless person. A guy going to a
Speaker 5: party and a homeless are not gonna look identical, Erica, No, no, absolutely,
Speaker 5: I just I just feel like the problem is that
Speaker 5: some people didn't mind their own fucking business. No, no,
Speaker 5: I agree, and you took it too far. And now
Speaker 5: you're on fucking the internet. And what's your son? And
Speaker 5: I wondered, I said, I wonder if this is a
Speaker 5: learning moment for his son. Is he's so traumatized and
Speaker 5: which ways I gonna like, in which direction will he
Speaker 5: go as a result? And not even that this is
Speaker 5: his father, So whether or not he admits to understanding
Speaker 5: injustices that we face, who, like, literally, what is he
Speaker 5: teaching his son?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm curious what he taught his son after that?
Speaker 2: What did he say to validate his actions after the fact,
Speaker 2: because that's what we do as parents, especially like when
Speaker 2: it's something big like that a lot of times. And
Speaker 2: his father obviously feels strongly about maybe his choices.
Speaker 4: I don't know if he has had a change of.
Speaker 2: Heart now, but he has to explain this situation to
Speaker 2: his son, and he said the guy said that afterwards
Speaker 2: he got it. When he entered the building, he was
Speaker 2: encountered by the wife of the son, and she was hysterical,
Speaker 2: upset that her son was traumatized by him or the name,
Speaker 2: by the situation and him, and was mad at him.
Speaker 2: And she kept trying to show her the video he recorded,
Speaker 2: which that would be pointless because she didn't give but
Speaker 2: and she he was like, we were just not going
Speaker 2: to like agree, and she was just mad. She just
Speaker 2: felt like I had traumatized her son, which multiple times
Speaker 2: he said, just go, I'm gonna stop recording, just hang
Speaker 2: out on the phone. Yeah, like yeah, he did, like,
Speaker 2: I'll stop recording, but I have to protect myself. And
Speaker 2: unfortunately that's where we are right now, where we literally
Speaker 2: have to record everything we do. We have to be
Speaker 2: those annoying ass motherfuckers because our word against theirs isn't enough.
Speaker 5: And it really isn't.
Speaker 2: That's really the truth.
Speaker 6: And shit, not just us people, literally, it's not limited
Speaker 6: it as black people, like when it comes to authority
Speaker 6: or you know, like it's not just us, like you
Speaker 6: might need to record because people are people in positions
Speaker 6: of power are scheming, fucking liars if you haven't noticed,
Speaker 6: not everybody who wears blue is fucking uh morally ethical period.
Speaker 5: So it's just it is.
Speaker 2: It's fucked up.
Speaker 5: But I mean mean, had Loki had to cut somebody
Speaker 5: out in front of our kids, they still get cussed out, though,
Speaker 5: No to be cursed that guy out of Mexico. Wait
Speaker 5: what what for the time share? Then Richard to trick
Speaker 5: us for to do your time share?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and kid was there.
Speaker 5: Our kids were there, His kids are there, and we're like, see, no,
Speaker 5: I don't think to be cur We're just like, you're
Speaker 5: trying to take advantage of us, and we don't appreciate it.
Speaker 5: You showed up here because I kept escalating it and
Speaker 5: we were look, my daughter's here, were like, our kids
Speaker 5: are here.
Speaker 4: He was like, you embarrassed me, you disrespect me. And
Speaker 4: I was like, I get that.
Speaker 2: Get that ship out of here, the toxic masculinity ship
Speaker 2: out of here. You scammed us.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean sometimes your kids got to see you
Speaker 5: be a little rowdy. And I don't dress like violence
Speaker 5: or like cursing.
Speaker 2: But I know, I really feel for the kid the
Speaker 2: most out of all of the situations, because he was
Speaker 2: really annoyed. No, it was not annoyed. He was scared.
Speaker 2: He was scared. He felt fear, and I don't know
Speaker 2: if it was fear because he was scared of the
Speaker 2: black man, or if it was fear because he thought
Speaker 2: something bad might happen to his dad or the guy
Speaker 2: or the guy like it was unclear, but it just
Speaker 2: was like all around was just I don't.
Speaker 4: Know, I really understanding kids.
Speaker 5: Kids can sense panic, kids can sense tension. I remember
Speaker 5: certain situations as child, as a child being there like, oh,
Speaker 5: this is this is uncomfortable. But the fact that his
Speaker 5: small child can say, let's just go. Lets you know,
Speaker 5: it wasn't a matter of it being an emergency or let's.
Speaker 2: Just go because this isn't the first time his dad
Speaker 2: has done this.
Speaker 5: You do this shit a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's not again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you put your ship, your yourself, you put
Speaker 5: yourself and places that have nothing to do with you often.
Speaker 4: Really that might be what it is.
Speaker 2: I think that's because it seemed like a familiar fear.
Speaker 4: But like enough already.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like you always are doing this. Yeah, let's
Speaker 5: find that, guys, get him on the show. Wasn't there
Speaker 5: something else we might to talk about?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 4: Are we doing a.
Speaker 5: Half year check in a hot hot girl summer? Are
Speaker 5: we too old to have a hot girl summer. So
Speaker 5: what you said?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm not old for small. No, I never
Speaker 2: used the world old. That's you.
Speaker 5: You said that ten minutes I said, is.
Speaker 4: It hot girl summer or is it hot woman summer?
Speaker 5: Oh? Okay, question, that's the question we need to we
Speaker 5: need to forward to the city girls.
Speaker 4: Then you mean Megan the Stallion?
Speaker 5: Oh ship?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Wrong, wrong girl?
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I just I just keep saying, if I see so
Speaker 2: many posts it's heard of something about hot girls summer,
Speaker 2: is it hot girl summer? Guarantee one of you bitches
Speaker 2: that's listening definitely has a hot girl summer pose? And
Speaker 2: you know what do you use it for? I've been
Speaker 2: waiting for the right moment, the right photo. I feel
Speaker 2: like I would need a bikini photo near or something
Speaker 2: with a cocktail or something.
Speaker 4: Well, but I did post the question.
Speaker 2: I did post an Instagram story of a sexy post.
Speaker 2: Did you see what? Did you see it? But I
Speaker 2: was on my doorstep and I said hot girl summer
Speaker 2: or hot woman summer? Which is because I don't know?
Speaker 4: Do you?
Speaker 2: Does it irritate you either way to be called like
Speaker 2: girl or woman?
Speaker 4: Does it matter to you?
Speaker 2: Depends on how long is girl?
Speaker 4: Okay forever.
Speaker 5: It depends on the context. Sometimes I feel like, what
Speaker 5: is the park yesterday with Luna and this little boy said,
Speaker 5: I wanted the slide with Linda? And he said are
Speaker 5: you are you a little girl?
Speaker 2: Are you a mom?
Speaker 5: And I said I'm my mom and my mom said,
Speaker 5: oh I know, and it's like it's okay. So I
Speaker 5: was because he was leaving, we're saying bye, said told
Speaker 5: his mom what he said it was. I thought it
Speaker 5: was funny. He's like, no, I didn't mean it, like
Speaker 5: I just thought I was just confused. I was like, oh, no,
Speaker 5: it's fine, baby. But the woman was like, you do
Speaker 5: look really young and then kept going but not like.
Speaker 4: Kept like going walking, like like walked away.
Speaker 5: And sometimes I feel like in certain instances, I feel
Speaker 5: like people think like I'm a teen mom or some shit.
Speaker 2: Like no, bitch, you know what I mean? Like I
Speaker 2: could see that, actually I think I can.
Speaker 5: I think people get confused that in certain instances with
Speaker 5: Luna or something like. I think people get like overstep
Speaker 5: their boundaries or I've had people say like rude things
Speaker 5: because I'm small, like you're not going to be that
Speaker 5: small for which you have kids, like bitch, I have
Speaker 5: a kid, which I think people are not as conscious of,
Speaker 5: but like or it's like, I don't know, it just
Speaker 5: depends but like like hay girl, even like bitch, I
Speaker 5: don't really get offended. But I know I'm not a bitch,
Speaker 5: you know, like unless it's in a disrespectful manner.
Speaker 2: I think you're trying to be sarcastic.
Speaker 5: But other than that, I'm I'm not like, I'm not
Speaker 5: gonna do a post about how I'm not doing a
Speaker 5: hot girl summer because I'm sophisticated and shit, I don't
Speaker 5: think it's not serious.
Speaker 2: I don't know. For me, like I prefer woman, but
Speaker 2: I don't. I say girl all the time too, But
Speaker 2: I guess it just depends who's calling me exactly.
Speaker 5: It depends who's calling me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's who's calling me girl. And can I imagine
Speaker 2: I'm like, I think about myself as like a seventy
Speaker 2: year old woman. I'm gonna be like calling my friend
Speaker 2: like hate girl or does our language change?
Speaker 5: No, girl, We're gonna be seventy Like hang out. I
Speaker 5: tell my grandma, hay, guy.
Speaker 2: You said your grandma, yes, okay, but you're not seventy
Speaker 2: does your mom does your grandma say hey girl to
Speaker 2: her friends.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so you think were you doeshit?
Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure my hate girlfriend my my grandma's girlfriend girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's different.
Speaker 5: I mean, I just don't. I just I think people
Speaker 5: think a little too deeply about shit like that.
Speaker 2: There's other shit to worry about. You mean me, I'm
Speaker 2: a deep finger to Meila, Leave me the fuck alone,
Speaker 2: deep thing scorpio, deep ass thoughts alone.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I was this guy hit me out with my DMS
Speaker 2: the other day. I was like, uh have you Oh
Speaker 2: I post about the pattern and he was like, uh
Speaker 2: do you? Are you taking this personality test? And there's
Speaker 2: like I hate the personality. He sent me this personality
Speaker 2: test and somebody did like a g T p ac
Speaker 2: ate those there's like, oh those are that's like the
Speaker 2: ones that's like super analytical or something like it. Really, bitch,
Speaker 2: you can't identify my type of personality.
Speaker 5: It's just one kind, it said I was.
Speaker 2: It says I'm the mediator. I'm like, I don't feel
Speaker 2: like a mediator. I mean maybe I could be.
Speaker 5: Someone sent that shiit to me for a job interview
Speaker 5: and I was like, bitch, this is dumb.
Speaker 2: I think he was just trying to see if we
Speaker 2: were compatible. He thought he was speaking my language and
Speaker 2: knows I like signs and shiit no.
Speaker 5: But I think people who like need that type of
Speaker 5: indicator of type of personnelity type they are. They let
Speaker 5: them to let them know if they get along with
Speaker 5: other people, Lets me know if we're not going to
Speaker 5: get along, well.
Speaker 2: Kind of lets me know that you don't know who
Speaker 2: you are.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like you have to get look on a chart
Speaker 5: and to figure me out and figure yourself out and
Speaker 5: see if we're compatible. I could, I could have a
Speaker 5: conversation with one person.
Speaker 2: And that's how we like Oh my god, It's like
Speaker 2: these little tests that people take are low key like
Speaker 2: ways to control us even more and more, to make
Speaker 2: us so dependent on labels like no, like the internet
Speaker 2: and like way yeah, labels and how people decide to
Speaker 2: label you so that we can all fit into a
Speaker 2: category and then follow suit in whatever category that is.
Speaker 5: Did you say my posts and I posted today?
Speaker 2: Oh good moms?
Speaker 4: Uh oh about makeup?
Speaker 5: Well? What was about makeup? It was about makeup?
Speaker 4: But like being called fast?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Were you ever called fast?
Speaker 2: Or grown?
Speaker 5: Growing out? Grown? Yeah?
Speaker 2: But I definitely heard it a lot, like oh she's grown,
Speaker 2: Oh she's fast, like talking about other people's kids like yeah,
Speaker 2: she's fast, she's fast.
Speaker 4: I'm like, little, do you know?
Speaker 2: Right? But it was you were the fastest.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was saying, I wonder how that if I
Speaker 5: believe that? If because I heard it often? Did I
Speaker 5: believe it? And did I like, uh, move that way?
Speaker 5: Or was I just hot in the ass, which is
Speaker 5: probably too no, but probably both probably influenced too. But
Speaker 5: that's why I'm like, I'm really careful even.
Speaker 2: Or it's like whatever you already think, I am, so
Speaker 2: fuck it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't know, like femininity, sexuality, how does
Speaker 5: that come along with kids? How do you like? How
Speaker 5: do you not make it everything so negative? And so
Speaker 5: because I hated that, I hated, I hate.
Speaker 2: I don't really like.
Speaker 5: I don't believe in adults whispering about kids at any
Speaker 5: age because I feel like they're way more conscious and I.
Speaker 2: Remember and whispering.
Speaker 5: Just like you said, you've heard other parents talking about
Speaker 5: other kids like oh, yeah she's fast, so and So's daughter,
Speaker 5: she's a little grown. That's just what people do, though,
Speaker 5: I know, but I don't. I don't condone that That's
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. I don't want to be that type
Speaker 5: of parent. No, I don't want to be that either,
Speaker 5: like that she's a kid, but her be a kid.
Speaker 5: You're being a child by trying to label somebody else's kid.
Speaker 2: It was even yesterday I came home and I was
Speaker 2: playing with her dolls and she was like, can you
Speaker 2: play with me? And she had like the baby stroller
Speaker 2: and she's like, you're gonna have this baby and I'm
Speaker 2: gonna have this baby.
Speaker 4: Okay, rock the baby and.
Speaker 2: Put it in the stroller and d d And I
Speaker 2: was like thinking to myself, like why the fuck is
Speaker 2: my daughter playing with the stroller? And like I was
Speaker 2: just like why are we first? So I didn't buy
Speaker 2: her that, But I'm just saying, but it was, it's been,
Speaker 2: It's it's normal to me. But then I had this
Speaker 2: moment of like I'm like, we're training her to believe
Speaker 2: that this is what she's supposed to be.
Speaker 4: This is this is.
Speaker 2: How you define girl. Girls do this? Girls play with
Speaker 2: strollers and babies. You would never see go I've never
Speaker 2: I would never go over to a boy's house and
Speaker 2: see him playing with the stroller a baby and he
Speaker 2: might have a kid one day too, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean?
Speaker 4: And then true, and then I realized I was like,
Speaker 4: is this wrong? This is where it starts, like.
Speaker 2: All these like labels of like what roles we play like,
Speaker 2: like even speaking about Daphne and like Daphne on her episode,
Speaker 2: just as someone commented and was like, I fucking hated
Speaker 2: that episode. She was like, She's like her way of
Speaker 2: thinking is archaic and dah da da da, And in
Speaker 2: some ways to me it is like like the roles
Speaker 2: that she defines for women and men. Even we were
Speaker 2: having conversation, you were like men are better drivers and
Speaker 2: I was like, what.
Speaker 5: Because I don't believe. I don't believe, Like I don't
Speaker 5: really believe, but that.
Speaker 4: Could be true based on a study.
Speaker 5: Like but but it doesn't mean that he studies.
Speaker 2: It's fucking but I.
Speaker 4: Fall into it all day long, all the time.
Speaker 2: Why I mean not why I'm not gonna I'm not
Speaker 2: going to go in there and take away her dolls
Speaker 2: or whatever, but I'm just thinking to myself, like why
Speaker 2: is this? But I'm definitely gonna think more about what
Speaker 2: kind of like things like let come into my house
Speaker 2: and what I buy her because it was just like
Speaker 2: I don't want her to feel like so many women
Speaker 2: feel like it's their duty to have kids.
Speaker 5: It's like they have to.
Speaker 2: They're not that's the next step.
Speaker 4: That's what's missing. I'll be happy if, like I have
Speaker 4: my career, I have this must have.
Speaker 2: Kids complete puzzle piece, and like, don't get me wrong,
Speaker 2: like I wouldn't. I love my kid and I'm so
Speaker 2: happy I have. I mean, that would the best thing
Speaker 2: that's ever happened to me. However, I don't know, well
Speaker 2: for me though, actually I never really wanted kids. I
Speaker 2: only wanted kids after I felt like you.
Speaker 5: Had gotten everything else off the checklist.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just started. I think naturally women,
Speaker 2: we do have a maternal instinct in us. It just
Speaker 2: comes when it comes. But I think things force it
Speaker 2: along though faster, like having our kids play with babies,
Speaker 2: or like you know, assigning these gender roles to our
Speaker 2: to our children.
Speaker 5: So you want to you want to create a more
Speaker 5: gender neutral environment.
Speaker 4: Where she can decide what she wants to do at
Speaker 4: her own pace.
Speaker 2: Is am I is?
Speaker 4: And but that's it's it's.
Speaker 2: It's impossible because because there's like it's not impossible, it's
Speaker 2: just very difficult and conscious. You really have to be
Speaker 2: conscious about it and almost annoying and like people are
Speaker 2: going to take.
Speaker 5: To the point where colors, every every little thing that's
Speaker 5: like even even outfits, even when we go shopping. It's
Speaker 5: it's so many things that we are not we're not
Speaker 5: conscious of that we we've adopted. Even for instance, like
Speaker 5: if your armpit hair grew out like super long, next week,
Speaker 5: you're gonna feel like you feel less feminine.
Speaker 2: Shouldn't, right, you know.
Speaker 5: What I'm saying. And I tried it once. I try
Speaker 5: to be like anti feminine and like and grow my
Speaker 5: armpit hairs out. And I did it for a little while,
Speaker 5: probably because I was in a relationship and he didn't
Speaker 5: give a fuck. But then I went to Disneyland. I
Speaker 5: was like Disney World. I was like, this hair's got
Speaker 5: to go. I cannot do this for Mickey and Minnie.
Speaker 5: But I have trouble really realizing. But I feel like
Speaker 5: is sexy versus like in feminine, which what I've been
Speaker 5: taught versus what I believe. Right, So it's it's really
Speaker 5: hard to create those type of environments for our kids.
Speaker 5: So they go to they watch movies, they get Saved
Speaker 5: by the Prints and every fucking movie.
Speaker 2: I mean, I've thought about that, but for some reason,
Speaker 2: like I don't know, I never.
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, I don't know why.
Speaker 2: Specifically, the stroller thing hit me so hard yesterday I
Speaker 2: was like, what this is? So maybe because I saw
Speaker 2: how much how happy she was. She was so excited,
Speaker 2: so happy. You know, we're gonna have to wrap it
Speaker 2: up soon.
Speaker 5: Okay, do you have any six months it's happy or
Speaker 5: mark check ins?
Speaker 2: Oh? God, damn, she's.
Speaker 5: So oh, I know, she's so fine.
Speaker 2: We're looking at Alex Undunn's instagram. She has another one
Speaker 2: stay down check out her episode with her called self Harm,
Speaker 2: self Harm and something six month check in. Uh. I
Speaker 2: don't know. I feel like I feel good. Actually i've,
Speaker 2: but throughout the six months I've felt good, I felt bad,
Speaker 2: I felt crazy, I felt insecure, I felt anxious, Like
Speaker 2: throughout the whole six months, I think I'm in a
Speaker 2: good place now, you know, I'm like, I feel like
Speaker 2: I've I've really starting to like feel empowered enough to
Speaker 2: like set boundaries for myself because a lot of times
Speaker 2: I I think with men like it's hard for me too.
Speaker 2: You know, I think I can, but if I really
Speaker 2: love you, it's hard for me to set boundaries. So
Speaker 2: I just feel really empowered in that way, you know,
Speaker 2: still single as a buck, but also more secure saying, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm single, but I actually know what I do want
Speaker 2: a relationship. I do want partnership, I do want kids.
Speaker 2: Whereas before I'd be.
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, I don't want to like, I
Speaker 4: don't want to like.
Speaker 5: You know, scare anybody away, scare anyone away.
Speaker 2: But though I'm like so, I feel I feel good
Speaker 2: about that. I feel overwhelmed with work. I feel overwhelmed
Speaker 2: with podcasting. You know, people want to start podcasts and
Speaker 2: you don't understand how much. I mean, it's a lot
Speaker 2: of work, especially if you really want to make it good.
Speaker 5: It's a lot of work.
Speaker 2: But I love it. But I've just been feeling a
Speaker 2: bit overwhelmed, like I want to run away and yourself. No,
Speaker 2: like I would need to go on a trip, get
Speaker 2: out of LA. That's my runaway. I know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so.
Speaker 2: Probably going to do that, which I don't know if
Speaker 2: it is good or bad. But you know, what about you, I.
Speaker 5: Feel completely out of control and overwhelmed with adulting. I
Speaker 5: feel like at the beginning of the year is like
Speaker 5: I was in a good place, like yeah, oh yeah,
Speaker 5: I got this. I got this, and then I don't
Speaker 5: know how I got here the seventh month of mark.
Speaker 5: But I'm just reminding myself to just take one day
Speaker 5: at a time and just deeply, deeply reflect about decisions.
Speaker 5: I make decisions I don't make being proactive. What pushes me,
Speaker 5: what doesn't like Where my fear lies, where my procrastination lies,
Speaker 5: is that fear. Just try to really examine myself, but
Speaker 5: it's hard to exam I'm trying to examine myself without judgment,
Speaker 5: just to be and then in being fixed this shit
Speaker 5: I don't like that. I observe, but it's just difficult.
Speaker 5: It's difficult. And then obviously there's other things that have
Speaker 5: to be done. There's you have someone depending on you.
Speaker 5: They need to eat like every two hours. You know,
Speaker 5: there's bills, there's financial things, there's passion things like we
Speaker 5: love our podcast, of course, but then I'm like, fuck,
Speaker 5: like you and any business you have to put money
Speaker 5: in to get you know, to be fruitful. Everything just
Speaker 5: requires it's just a nurturing, nurturing and it's like how
Speaker 5: much time, like can you put into nurturing all aspects
Speaker 5: of your life and just trying to find the discipline
Speaker 5: to do that is just kind of where I'm at
Speaker 5: right now, because I'll go here, and then I'll go here,
Speaker 5: and then I feel bad about it.
Speaker 4: And just yeah, no, me too.
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, I didn't do that, Oh I didn't
Speaker 2: finish that. Yeah, I get it. I think breathing. I
Speaker 2: think I forg get to breathe. And that's something I
Speaker 2: realized yesterday when I was feeling really anxious and I
Speaker 2: told my friend and he texted me. I was like, breathe.
Speaker 2: That's literally all he texted me. And then I was like, damn,
Speaker 2: I haven't been breathing. And I felt the shortness of
Speaker 2: my breath when he said it. So I encourage you
Speaker 2: guys to check in with yourself, you know, just breathe,
Speaker 2: Just fucking breathe. Check in with yourself and ask yourself
Speaker 2: how you're doing. I think like a lot of times
Speaker 2: we wait until the new year to check in and
Speaker 2: like start over, Like take this time now, take this
Speaker 2: week to like check in and see how you're feeling,
Speaker 2: where you're at, where are your goals at that you've
Speaker 2: started at the beginning of this year, Have you accomplished
Speaker 2: any of them? If not, don't hate yourself. That's why
Speaker 2: we're checking in, you know, and look at it as
Speaker 2: an opportunity, not like a negative. It's kind of like
Speaker 2: what I really try to do because I've spent so
Speaker 2: many years beating myself up. But I feel like this
Speaker 2: this year has been like one of the most productive
Speaker 2: years of my life. And I still I'm not I'm
Speaker 2: falling shortened ways, but I'm like, I just feel more
Speaker 2: like I can forgive myself more.
Speaker 4: Are they here?
Speaker 5: It's that kacky oh?
Speaker 4: But yeah? Is that it?
Speaker 2: That's it?
Speaker 5: Breathing and drinking water free asap, free ACEP. I think
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do more research.
Speaker 4: We need to take a breath right now already.
Speaker 5: Okay, wait, okay, and we're gonna inhale. I'll let all
Speaker 5: that shit go. Today's a new day. We're starting fresh.
Speaker 5: And that's the most beautiful part is that every day
Speaker 5: is a new day and we can start over and
Speaker 5: we can let renew and be different and try harder
Speaker 5: and shit, honestly, yesterday it doesn't even matter. We're here now,
Speaker 5: we're living, reading and that's that's all that matters absolutely.
Speaker 2: Well, you guys have a great week and make sure
Speaker 2: you check out our website. Oh, we're having a meetup
Speaker 2: on Saturday. If you're in LA, please come and meet
Speaker 2: us at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery. They do like a
Speaker 2: drive in movie night, except not driving. I guess you picnic,
Speaker 2: but it's really fun. Like I know, it sounds creepy.
Speaker 2: I've had multiple people like, wait, we're gonna be in
Speaker 2: a cemetery, Like, yes.
Speaker 5: Everybody is so weird about it.
Speaker 4: Have you ever heard of this?
Speaker 2: Even though it's a really cool thing, Like it's dope.
Speaker 2: They have DJs, You bring wine, cheese, weed, you chill,
Speaker 2: you smoke, you watch a movie, or you don't watch
Speaker 2: the movie.
Speaker 4: You just hang out with your friends.
Speaker 2: Anyway, we're gonna have a big ass blanket and we're
Speaker 2: gonna have lots of wine and other things.
Speaker 5: So you have the blanket.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, putting like three to make one big one.
Speaker 5: I wish we had a flag that's a good mom's
Speaker 5: bad choices so they could find it.
Speaker 2: That's too late now, but next time.
Speaker 5: I feel like we can get a flag.
Speaker 2: Mate, girl, I'm gonna let you handle. You can go
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Speaker 2: just click that and then click the meetup and then
Speaker 2: rs VP and we'll see you guys there. Bye bye.
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Speaker 5: Before we go, though, we need to add a horry.
Speaker 2: Who stories.
Speaker 5: I have an old horry, like an old horry, emphasis
Speaker 5: on the old. So I lived in Atlanta. Me and
Speaker 5: my girlfriend, Mike Piss's best friend. We are both we
Speaker 5: have similar strange horrish ways, and we had we self
Speaker 5: proclaimed ourselves the good time girls. And sometimes we just
Speaker 5: like have a crush on the same guy or the
Speaker 5: same girl and be like, oh yeah, that's good time girl.
Speaker 5: Then okay, we like plot which is rather interesting anyway,
Speaker 5: me and my friend who had a saga.
Speaker 2: Of good time girling.
Speaker 5: I'll have plenty of stories, especially from specifically from this era,
Speaker 5: from this era girl era. So at the time, she
Speaker 5: was seeing this guy who I think I think maybe
Speaker 5: she had slept with him once, and she was like,
Speaker 5: he's so sweet, like he's a big dick. Oh my god,
Speaker 5: it'll be so fun, Like that's a good time girl him.
Speaker 5: In addition to that, he used to throw these after parties,
Speaker 5: like these these late night after parties in the uh
Speaker 5: they really called the castle. Were they lofts? Anyway? They
Speaker 5: used to be this like a lot full of huge
Speaker 5: ass lofts. Some are residential, some ran businesses out of them.
Speaker 5: People had a lot of studios, people live loft. I'm yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: but I don't even know if there was supposed to
Speaker 5: be lived, but people was living. So he would said
Speaker 5: these after our parties, and if we were at that,
Speaker 5: we were at one, we're getting struck. People were there.
Speaker 5: He like had like a little apartment above it. So
Speaker 5: she's like, yeah, that's a good time girl. And I'm like,
Speaker 5: I'm on my period, Like I can't grow good time
Speaker 5: girl home tonight. So anyway, I don't know what happened
Speaker 5: between me telling her that and late that night, if
Speaker 5: it was completely ignored what I had said if I forgot,
Speaker 5: I don't know anyway, I know he knew because we
Speaker 5: we had relayed this message. Anyway, we all like mass
Speaker 5: circuits starts getting hot, and he did it like all
Speaker 5: making out and like touching and groping. Like keep in
Speaker 5: mind discus me and my friend good time girl people
Speaker 5: like we really never like fucked alone or anything like that.
Speaker 5: That's still my best friend right now. She's a mom too.
Speaker 5: So eventually she's like riding him, I'm writing his face.
Speaker 2: So the next day she's like.
Speaker 5: Girl, was so funny. I was watching you. She's like,
Speaker 5: you were writing him, but your your tampa string was
Speaker 5: on his chin. She was like, I was shrying not
Speaker 5: to laugh.
Speaker 3: Wait, so she she was riding him and you were
Speaker 3: like facing the other way. Yeah, so guys probably hitting
Speaker 3: him in yes, but what was he doing was he like.
Speaker 5: Eating my pussy and fucking her and never said ship
Speaker 5: about it. In fact, be good Time girled him again
Speaker 5: like years later, like after we went into retirement, we
Speaker 5: came out of retirement to a good Time girl him.
Speaker 5: I'll save that story for next week or another week,
Speaker 5: but it's also pretty funny. But yes, it was a
Speaker 5: hot girl summer that summer. I clearly went and letting
Speaker 5: any periods or tampon stop me, and neither were they.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's a good one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for sharing. You're central Horries guys.
Speaker 5: Good ones though, because some of you guys keep sending
Speaker 5: the weak ass ones, they need to like, come on, yeah,
Speaker 5: level ten horries.
Speaker 2: I need to look at a level ten, like soon.
Speaker 5: It don't happening your old ones, you know what, Like
Speaker 5: I can't think.
Speaker 4: Of any I've been having like a hoary blackout to.
Speaker 5: Write them down. Every time I think one, I'm like,
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do this ship.
Speaker 2: I try to think.
Speaker 4: I like sometimes I'm like, did that happen?
Speaker 2: Or is that a dream? Or was I high?
Speaker 4: Or did that happen? Or were they drunk?
Speaker 2: Or did it happen it happened? Or is that one
Speaker 2: of my masturbation fantasies. I need you to be clear.
Speaker 2: I'm telling why.
Speaker 5: Okay, exacts it. That's my short.
Speaker 2: Horry for today.
Speaker 5: All right, well bye bye.
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