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Speaker 1: Like the legend of the things all ends with the beginning?

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Speaker 2: What keeps the planet sitting?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: What's nothing again?

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Speaker 4: Come too far to get back, So.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Mela. Sure it's Wednesday, be it and as hot

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Speaker 2: as fuck?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it is super hot in l Are.

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Speaker 2: We recorded my like outdoor dining room room situations. It's

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Speaker 2: not really insulated, and I have a feeling in the

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Speaker 2: next like two weeks.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna die.

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Speaker 5: Wait, did we not do this last summer? We did,

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Speaker 5: but we were hot. No, we were gone the oh.

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Speaker 2: We were gone and July we missed that part. But

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Speaker 2: then we came back in August and then we recorded

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Speaker 2: some in my room. I think because it was hot. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so it's hot.

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Speaker 4: How's your week going so far?

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Speaker 5: It's going it's going good. I think retro grade has me.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, emotional. Oh no, the nipples keep coming out.

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Speaker 5: Go on YouTube because see some nipple action.

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Speaker 4: Check out our YouTube. This is our last YouTube a

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Speaker 4: little do you.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know if you guys know this, but

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Speaker 2: we actually record our episodes, so you can actually go

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Speaker 2: watch this episode on our YouTube channel. You can watch

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Speaker 2: pretty much all of our episodes on YouTube, well probably

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Speaker 2: the last like twenty maybe.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, before that, we.

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Speaker 2: Didn't really have our lives together. But we actually have

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Speaker 2: the full episodes, but they're on our iPhones and it

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Speaker 2: was really hard to upload. So then we just decided

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Speaker 2: to just go live on YouTube and schedule them.

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Speaker 5: Also, if anyone knows any interns who are technologically savvy

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Speaker 5: and have videoographer backgrounds, we are looking for you if

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Speaker 5: you're in the LA area, serience school credit or something.

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Speaker 5: If you want weed, I don't know, we can, we.

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Speaker 2: Need food and I don't know, hang out with us.

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Speaker 5: We would be eternally grateful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we really need someone to record our episodes on

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Speaker 2: a more advanced level than this my.

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Speaker 6: Computer, because if you go on YouTube you'll see you'll

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Speaker 6: see the quality.

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Speaker 5: It's rather poor.

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Speaker 2: So don't go to YouTube expecting like it to be

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Speaker 2: like this. It's definite experience. It's just it's just bare minimum.

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Speaker 2: But it's us.

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Speaker 5: It's US, fuzzy, but it's us.

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Speaker 4: It's us. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also, we just launched our Patreon, so definitely go check

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Speaker 2: out our patreon. If you don't know what patreon is,

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Speaker 2: it's this website where you can.

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Speaker 4: It's great for podcasters.

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Speaker 2: Basically we can give you an extra episode a month

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Speaker 2: on there. There's different tiers that you can sign up

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Speaker 2: for under Good Mom's Bad Choices and basically you'll get

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Speaker 2: more of us, more of us. You get to interact

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Speaker 2: with us personally, like we'll call you and shit.

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Speaker 5: Who wants more of us? Like we don't give you

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Speaker 5: enough already.

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Speaker 2: There's also a little secret Facebook page situation happening on

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Speaker 2: over there, so yeah, check us.

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Speaker 4: Out on Patreon.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so before we started recording, Erica was just telling

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Speaker 5: me the tea and I said, just just stop there.

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Speaker 5: Let's uh, let's get this sun.

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Speaker 2: Well okay, so I didn't watch the whole video, but

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Speaker 2: my girlfriend Jennifer from Stockholm, Yeah, she messaged me this

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Speaker 2: clip of April. What's her all name O Marion's baby daddy,

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Speaker 2: big daddy, baby mama, Oh my god, and she was

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Speaker 2: going on a rant about like her pussy is good

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Speaker 2: texts her on Mother's Day. No, and that likes the

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Speaker 2: pussy too. Oh no, y'all can't fuck rich niggas because like,

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Speaker 4: Know, and she looked sober, which I was like more.

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Speaker 5: It was literally my second question, my second question, like

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Speaker 5: tune into all sixty episodes and they're like, are they

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Speaker 5: Everybody who's following the Shade Room knew that she had

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Speaker 5: like kind of there were some instances with her Little

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Speaker 5: But prior to the tour, there are rumors that Little

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Speaker 5: it looks like he was like, bitch, please, why the

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Speaker 2: I was like, it was just kids were there.

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Speaker 5: The kids were there, like it's just you know what,

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Speaker 5: that's so confusing for them. It's just confusing in general

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Speaker 5: it seems to us it seems like they're fucking and

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Speaker 5: obviously they are because she said little Fizz thinks this

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Speaker 5: pussy's good too, right.

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Speaker 4: She was wilding out.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's because she needs attention, she

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Speaker 5: This, Like I really thought she was classy. I thought

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Speaker 4: She's like she's something's going on.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me ask you this, because this is a

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Speaker 5: good topic. Do you think that it's okay to pursue

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Speaker 5: the roles are on that? Because obviously I think live

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Speaker 2: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 5: But in that in that space when there's kids involved,

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Speaker 5: the tension in the room.

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Speaker 2: They've been talking.

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Speaker 5: No, not literally, not for the like the first half

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Speaker 2: Of they're just you're purely doing this for the money.

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Speaker 5: Nothing purely for the money, because I knew people were

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Speaker 2: So bad for these boys. They've been there, They've been abused,

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Speaker 2: why they all, each of them collectively have and separately

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Speaker 5: True, I think j Book is the most.

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Speaker 4: Sane, probably, but Jirasby is fu o Maria.

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Speaker 2: would say he's probably maybe the Maybe he's kept it

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Speaker 5: I felt that as a shoot too.

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Speaker 2: Should I talk about this?

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean that's that's obvious. That's obvious observation.

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Speaker 5: Jammila's map, who let her on the show? More talking

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Speaker 5: about beauty.

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Speaker 2: I don't say my government on here, bitch. They can

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Speaker 5: It's a map of that.

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Speaker 2: Always really gonna throw him?

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Speaker 5: Do you think so? You think Fitz has problems? He

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Speaker 2: They all got issues. Look, Chris Stokes as a predator,

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Speaker 2: and I know that's firsthand. No, I know, well not

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Speaker 2: first hand, secondhand because my cousin was signed to him,

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Speaker 2: oh right, and has a whole history with all those guys.

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Speaker 5: But she's also a female, right, she's a female.

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Speaker 2: But she lived in those houses. They all live in

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Speaker 2: Ranch Cuckamonga. In these houses was happening like they're all

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Speaker 2: I would go visit her too out there, and I

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Speaker 2: We're swimming, we're having pool parties, were drinking. Actually they

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Speaker 2: I just feel like I feel bad for them now. April,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. She wasn't part of that. She just

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Speaker 2: acting crazy. Do I think No, To answer your question,

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Speaker 2: I think that there are there's you. There are so many.

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Speaker 4: People in this world.

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Speaker 2: You're telling me this one like the only connection you

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Speaker 4: I know you wouldn't, but I'm just saying, but that's

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Speaker 5: Right, right, you know what I mean, Like like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: like you're gonna go fuck somebody.

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Speaker 2: Like you couldn't find nobody else, someone not in my

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Speaker 5: And then it's like it can't be that magical if

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Speaker 5: like he's obviously not being public about it and you are,

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Speaker 5: like I just you know know what I get from it.

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Speaker 5: And this is my own uh novella I thought of

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Speaker 2: I think that.

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Speaker 5: He O Marion hurt her really really really really badly.

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Speaker 5: Maybe there was some ship, some some ship that he did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he one of her friends or.

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Speaker 5: Red handed and some weird ship. And this is how

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Speaker 5: this is how like she's in reaction to that, she's like,

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Speaker 2: The thing is like your kids, yeah, the kids and

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Speaker 4: But I just feel like.

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Speaker 5: This is just sin line. It's just like there needs

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Speaker 5: but that yeah, I just I get it, Like don't

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Speaker 2: I just feel like it's just tacky and also calling

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Speaker 2: and then he's texting around Mother's Day because she's a

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Speaker 2: She had to throw that one in just because for

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Speaker 5: I'm like, it's just sad that that she thinks that

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Speaker 5: that's that's validating her. Oh, you can't fuck rich niggas.

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Speaker 7: Bitch rich niggas, cheat, richgas industry niggas. All niggas are dumb,

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Speaker 7: so it doesn't really matter. You're not bragging on anybody now,

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Speaker 7: And I don't know, are you any richer?

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Speaker 5: Because it right And I really don't believe in Like,

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Speaker 5: if someone creeps in your dmsh like, why out them,

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Speaker 5: you know, unless you're like sending unsolicited dick picts. Even

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Speaker 2: If Michael B. Jordan DMS, I'm outing.

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Speaker 5: Him everybody because everyone gets what happened.

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Speaker 4: He didn't get the message. But actually, over Michael D,

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Speaker 2: Whatever the name is.

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Speaker 4: If KOFE creeped in.

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Speaker 5: My idea, I would tell I would screenshot it and tell.

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Speaker 2: All my friends.

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Speaker 4: I would tell the putt it on Instagram stories.

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Speaker 2: Only reason that not tagging him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't want him to think that I'm telling

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Speaker 2: Actually, I wouldn't tell. I wouldn't put on instgram stories,

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Speaker 5: I made up with Chris Brown like ten years ago,

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Speaker 5: and I haven't stopped telling anyone who brings them up, like,

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Speaker 5: oh I left Chrispin like, oh I made out with

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Speaker 4: It was a new Chris Brown song. Oh really, I

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Speaker 5: I haven't stopt bragging about it since even after.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't it passionate? It was good, but was like a

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Speaker 2: passionate kiss. It was like a slutty like, like just

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Speaker 5: Or was it like I was straddling him?

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Speaker 2: To me?

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Speaker 5: It was passionate to him, and my eighteen year old

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Speaker 2: It was passionate.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 5: This is not bragging rights at all.

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Speaker 2: It was very Was he you were eighteenth time? And

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Speaker 2: I think he was underage?

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Speaker 5: Oh? No, the fuck, I'm just going to jam this episode.

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Speaker 5: I'm just talking so much shit.

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Speaker 2: It's kissing illegal. Please don't press me. That's terrible, Please

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Speaker 2: don't press charge.

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Speaker 5: I was twenty, he was eighteen.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, I.

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Speaker 4: Was speaking of Chris Brown.

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Speaker 2: Did you hear about you know his controversy about him

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Speaker 2: saying he likes black girls with good hair.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought it was I mean, child, I'm so

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Speaker 5: sick of fighting. I don't even but that was my thing.

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Speaker 5: It's like, what's good hair?

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Speaker 2: But like if you're a black girl who thinks so,

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Speaker 2: you don't you think you don't have good hair? Like

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Speaker 2: I get the whole the conversation of black girls and

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Speaker 2: good hair, don't. I'm not I hate that term. I'm

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Speaker 2: not like disvaluing, like disvalidating like people that like what

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Speaker 2: it means, because I get I get exactly what it means.

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Speaker 5: But we don't know how he I mean, we probably will.

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Speaker 5: I doubt he meant it in a smart way, but

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Speaker 5: who cares. I just don't care enough about Chris Brown's

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Speaker 5: preference of hair I care to complain about it. Like

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Speaker 5: I'm not buying that fucking album. So you know whatever,

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Speaker 5: If I catch up with them, I'm going to try

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Speaker 5: and get another makeout. My hair is.

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Speaker 2: Good on both fronts.

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Speaker 5: Actually, I think I think honestly now it would go

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Speaker 5: all the way.

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Speaker 4: You'd go all the way.

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Speaker 5: You tried then and I was too scared.

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Speaker 4: Oh you did it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he pulled his dick out. It was nice?

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Speaker 2: Was it big? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: It was it skinny?

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Speaker 2: I remember I think we saw I think didn't we

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Speaker 2: He had like a torpedo dick.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't remember being skinny ever, being nice. But

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Speaker 5: I was also like twenty.

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Speaker 2: So but you were also having sex then.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I remember being big.

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Speaker 4: So well, why did you do it? Are you scared?

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Speaker 5: I was with two others?

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Speaker 4: You were scared?

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 5: I was with two other girls.

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Speaker 2: I didn't really know.

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Speaker 5: And we were we were holding up signs at his concert.

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Speaker 5: No no, like no like we were like there was

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Speaker 5: but we were we were supposed to be stage girls

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Speaker 5: holding up signs for opening acts. So we were backstage

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Speaker 5: and I had ran into a friend from LA This

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Speaker 5: is in Atlanta, and he was like, oh, Chris asked

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Speaker 5: about you, but I told him you weren't like that,

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Speaker 5: and in my head I was like, wow.

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Speaker 2: Oh he loved he loves a skinny small for a girl.

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Speaker 5: So when I went, I went on the tour bus

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Speaker 5: with him because I went to pee. The two girls

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Speaker 5: I didn't really know were out there, and so was

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Speaker 2: I wasn't like that.

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Speaker 5: So I was like, fuck, I want to disappoint my friend.

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Speaker 5: I don't know these too bititious. So I after I

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Speaker 5: went on the tour bus, I like made I pulled dick.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh no, just take my number because

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Speaker 5: I was shiny, classy, even though I wasn't. Later I

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Speaker 5: asked the girls, like, did it look bad?

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Speaker 2: I was in there?

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Speaker 5: These fucking hate he ass bitches, We're like kind of.

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Speaker 2: I was like, the want to be in there.

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Speaker 5: I should have sat on it real quick. But you know, Chris,

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Speaker 5: if you're listening, I told all thousands of our followers,

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Speaker 5: you have a big one so hollow.

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Speaker 4: It could be our Zaddy of the wheel.

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Speaker 5: As we're talking about, oh my god, we should have

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Speaker 5: a Zaddy of the week.

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Speaker 2: We should.

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Speaker 5: But this, this is a funny conversation, isn't it ironic?

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Speaker 5: After we're saying out unclassy, I'm classy, bitch. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: By the way, by the way, he made out with

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Speaker 2: Chris Brad and pulls tack out.

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Speaker 5: And if you're listening, we'd like to go all the

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Speaker 5: way now, oh ship, Okay, we need to grow up

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Speaker 5: is what the fuck needs to happen.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're not over here grabbing our pussies on on

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Speaker 2: live talking about this is good, this right here. But

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Speaker 2: she was like, I need to see the video. It

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Speaker 2: was so aggressive. Wait I think I was like, dang, girl,

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Speaker 2: do you think it's drugs? I do? You don't know?

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Speaker 2: She looked fine, but who knows. I don't know what

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Speaker 4: She's real loose.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 5: Also, speaking of guys, she fucked acept Rocky was on

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Speaker 5: that list. And as everyone knows, or if you don't know,

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Speaker 5: acept Rocky is having some legal troubles in Sweden. We

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Speaker 5: anywhere out of the US or at all. If you're black,

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Speaker 5: you don't want to get trouble anyway, period. But apparently there's

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Speaker 5: they're treating him poorly. There's feces everywhere. He's so mad,

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Speaker 5: and everybody's preaching said literally it's unlivable. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: You know, of course, I don't want accept Rocky to

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Speaker 2: be in jail. Oh, she's back on love and hip hop,

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Speaker 2: that's why. Oh so she's trying to cause a scene

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Speaker 4: I think that why he's in jail, and the reason

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Speaker 4: he's in jail.

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Speaker 2: I think it was like he did he throw someone's

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Speaker 4: Threw their phone or something.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he threw a phone.

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Speaker 4: Is that what it was?

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Speaker 5: I think of something like that about a gun too.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that much about yourself, Rocky. I just I, oh, look,

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Speaker 5: he saw it. He didn't say anything. Okay, So the

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Speaker 5: people are like calling to action civil rights people for

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Speaker 5: on his behalf.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't know this.

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Speaker 5: But a long time ago, I guess he had an

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Speaker 2: Doesn't apply to him.

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Speaker 5: He basically lives in Soho, he lives in Beverly Hills.

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Speaker 5: He'd be in the studio and what happens in Ferguson

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Speaker 5: doesn't pertain to him. He's not he doesn't have to

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Speaker 5: be some fucking activists.

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Speaker 4: You just need to speak on it.

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Speaker 5: And now I feel like, fuck him.

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Speaker 2: Leave them in Sweden, Whereas I feel like, Okay, first

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Speaker 2: of all, that interview was a while ago. I think

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Speaker 2: I think, but which obviously doesn't necessarily mean that he

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Speaker 2: doesn't feel meant it. But I feel like we can't

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Speaker 4: That's the whole problem. If that was the case.

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Speaker 2: Do you know how many people wouldn't be wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: wouldn't apply to this movement? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: There's so many people that only care when something's happening,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: And so I just I don't feel like.

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Speaker 2: I would. I don't agree with you.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't be like, fuck him, I mean, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean, I don't think if I don't think if he

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Speaker 5: had doesn't deserve to be there, he should stay. I'm

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Speaker 5: not into anything unjust, but I just have a problem

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Speaker 5: who we put in certain positions. I think that like

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Speaker 5: the ship people are rapping about right now is done

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Speaker 5: as fuck. I think, you know, Molly Park is set.

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Speaker 5: You know, there's just things that like we should be

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Speaker 5: more conscious and especially suddenly ha ha ha, you're in

445
00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,479
Speaker 5: this position, But five minutes ago you didn't, I mean

446
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:02,919
Speaker 5: a couple of years ago, you didn't care to give

447
00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,960
Speaker 5: a fuck about someone else's death, or you know, like

448
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 5: we at the end of the day, we have in common.

449
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,880
Speaker 2: But also, he's not asking people to support him.

450
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 4: People are just doing it, you know.

451
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 2: I mean, of course he would expect them to, but

452
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 2: that's just because he's a sap Rocky.

453
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,760
Speaker 4: People are gonna come out and support him.

454
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,680
Speaker 2: And also and also people are always looking for they

455
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,200
Speaker 2: even have cause to support.

456
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:26,000
Speaker 5: But even as Kim Kardashian to help him.

457
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,800
Speaker 4: With legal services, he did.

458
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,360
Speaker 2: I don't want to lie. I mean, I actually think

459
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 2: what Kim is doing is pretty cool. I wasn't laughing.

460
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,199
Speaker 2: She's done.

461
00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:39,119
Speaker 5: I agree.

462
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 2: I will say though, personally, as someone who has experienced

463
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:50,280
Speaker 2: their baby daddy being in a foreign jail overseas, I

464
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 2: think what annoys me about this situation, and maybe I'm

465
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 2: taking it too personally, is that when this ship was

466
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 2: going on for us and Freddie's not a sap Rocky,

467
00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 2: but people know who he is. No, there were no posts,

468
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 2: There were not a lot of posts. There was not

469
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,480
Speaker 2: this outpouring of support. And I don't know if it's

470
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 2: because of the like the charges that were being brought

471
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: against Freddy, they were too touchy and people had their questions,

472
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 2: but there was no question when it came to him.

473
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 4: That's why I'm annoyed.

474
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, now, niggas want to like public like

475
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 2: go a free asap rocky campaign. But it's it's like

476
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 2: people choose based on how famous you are, how much

477
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 2: they want to ride or support you.

478
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't think that's yeah.

479
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 2: I think that's bullshit. That's why. When that's that's the

480
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: only reason why I read this story, I kind of

481
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 2: was like whatever, but and then I had But then

482
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 2: I had to check myself and be like, okay, wait,

483
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: he's still a black man, and he's still like he

484
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 2: doesn't just he doesn't deserve to serve six years in

485
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 2: fucking Swedish prison for throwing a phone out. Of course

486
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 2: that's not justifiable.

487
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 5: On another note, though, I remember watching documentary and I

488
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 5: thought the Swedish Gales.

489
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Speaker 2: Were very nice Swedish the sweet the.

490
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Speaker 5: Swedish culture is like much more very racist.

491
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 2: Oh they are, yes, it's very very racist there. They're

492
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 2: nice people. But there's deep rooted racism in there in

493
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 2: their history. And even talking to Jennifer, like, she's told

494
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Speaker 2: me a.

495
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Speaker 4: Lot of stuff.

496
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Speaker 5: I dated a Swedish guy once and I think I

497
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 5: asked him about the temp climate for black people in

498
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 5: Sweden and I thought he said, to everyone's very nice.

499
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 2: Well there are a lot of black people there, a

500
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: lot of biracial people. Yeah this guy. Yeah, I would

501
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: say that they're more progressive, but that there's still there's

502
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 2: there's a deep rooted history and a lot of people

503
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 2: that are making those decisions are older Swedish people that

504
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 2: are probably still holding on to their old story and

505
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 2: their old thoughts and stuff. So I mean, do I

506
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: think it stop rocking out of Joe? Yes, yeah, he's not.

507
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 2: He's not gonna stay in jail. You know, they're not

508
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 2: going to use him, and may people are saying they're

509
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:48,640
Speaker 2: going to use him as an example.

510
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, they're not.

511
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 2: I hope he.

512
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 5: I mean obviously he released different, you know, different perspective

513
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 5: after he got backlash, which a lot of people do.

514
00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:00,120
Speaker 5: But I hope, I hope genuinely from this experience and

515
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 5: just in life, I hope that he, you know, gets

516
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,679
Speaker 5: a little bit, gets with it, gets just get smarter.

517
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 5: Like you're on a platform, you have the opportunity to

518
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 5: say something smart that helps the community. Say something smart,

519
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 5: don't say some ignorant shit. I don't support ignorance. I

520
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 5: don't support injustice, I don't support racism. So obviously I

521
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 5: don't have him to stay there, and I don't really

522
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 5: feel like fuck him, but I do feel like, yeah,

523
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 5: do it.

524
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 4: I mean, express yourself, if you know.

525
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 5: And I'm not saying all rappers need to be I.

526
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 2: Mean, look at mek Mill, like Meekl's talking about still

527
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 2: talking about the same shit, but he is pro he's

528
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: active in the community, He's getting shit done more because

529
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 2: of his experience.

530
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 5: People want to grow.

531
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, so freeze that Rocky wait Worth the

532
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 4: letter right here.

533
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 2: Also another news. Yeah, I don't know if anybody else

534
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 2: is feeling this retrograde, but I am because my computer

535
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 2: like almost broke yesterday. And I say almost because it

536
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 2: was broken and then I opened it and it was

537
00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 2: fixed again. Like the internet sucks. Communication could be better,

538
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: but that's like they're staying retrogade.

539
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,239
Speaker 5: Uh effects communication.

540
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 2: And I was born in a retrograde, so apparently communication

541
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 2: is always going to be difficult for me, which I

542
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 2: feel like I'm a really great communicator. But maybe I'm

543
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: just maybe it's the way I communicate. Other people don't

544
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 2: think so yeah, I know, So maybe it's the way

545
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,719
Speaker 2: I communicate. I'm just a little too blunt or not.

546
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,719
Speaker 2: I don't sugarcoat shit. I don't know.

547
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 5: Have you seen my water bottle?

548
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 2: Yes, it's weird.

549
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 5: Uh we Oh I got I got threatened on Instagram today.

550
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 2: First of all, I.

551
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 5: Need to know.

552
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 4: I saw her. I call you Jemima Animi.

553
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 2: He also call me like, that's.

554
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 4: Because you called a girl Becky.

555
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, I did. I did.

556
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 2: That.

557
00:24:56,080 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 5: Damn Beyonce. Beyonce taught me. So there's been another event.

558
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 5: So my homeboy Senate does mister checkpoint. If you've never

559
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 5: checked out the Instagram profile mister checkpoint. He's big in

560
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 5: like justice community. He's always reposting things that cops are

561
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 5: doing secretly and you know, just speaking out on it

562
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 5: and making bringing awareness to it. So this morning I

563
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 5: saw the one A. There's a guy and his son.

564
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 5: The son's probably like eight outside of his building. I

565
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 5: guess the black guy was trying to enter his building

566
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 5: while they were exiting and instead of and he said

567
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 5: who are here to see? The guy wouldn't answer them.

568
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 5: He proceeds to call the cops. He's like, yes, it

569
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 5: appears to be an African American managed trying to enter

570
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 5: my building. He will not tell me who he's coming

571
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 5: to see, as if this guy knows every fucking resident

572
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 5: in the building in which apartment they reside in, And

573
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 5: the guy records him. Apparently his friend comes up. The

574
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 5: friend he's waiting for does not live in the building either,

575
00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 5: but she's not black. And the man, I guess, hangs

576
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 5: up the phone of his police call and then doesn't

577
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 5: question them further, lets them go in. But the fucked

578
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 5: that part is the son is like, please, dad, guys son,

579
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 5: it's just like, please just leave him alone. Let's just go, Like,

580
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 5: let's just go, and the guy is obviously getting you know,

581
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 5: everything's getting intense. The guy is recording them and he's like,

582
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 5: you need to listen to your son. Meanwhile he's fucking

583
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 5: putting in an order on nine one one, and it

584
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 5: was just a bit much in front.

585
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 2: Of a child.

586
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 5: I think the guy who was recording sit cursed and

587
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 5: I responded that this is white people shit because they

588
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 5: can't mind their business. And some other guy was like

589
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 5: started going back and forth with me. Anyway, long story short,

590
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 5: the guy says, I hope your husband has a gun.

591
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 5: I'm really wealthy. Basically it was a threat, some violent threat,

592
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 5: like he was gonna find me, and I'm like then

593
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 5: it maybe, like, oh no, what if I put on Instagram?

594
00:26:56,600 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 5: How much information he knows? I'm an La. It's such

595
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 5: a small place. I know I'm not, but I need

596
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 5: to stop getting involved with Instagram commenting and also what

597
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 5: do you think about that situation?

598
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 2: Ericon? So I was watching Don Lennon last night of

599
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,439
Speaker 2: the CNN and he was breaking down what like, you know,

600
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: the whole story or whatever the scenario. The guy came out,

601
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,679
Speaker 2: the guy who called the police came out and said that,

602
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 2: you know, he he was triggered because his father was

603
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 2: murdered outside of his house and so he's and he's

604
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: always that guy that doesn't allow people to just walk

605
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 2: into the building, no matter if you're white, black, whatever

606
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 2: you are, he's gonna question you had nothing to do

607
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: with race, and that he understands that, you know, disproportionately

608
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:51,159
Speaker 2: black people are you know, discriminated against and this, but

609
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 2: this was not that instance. So with that said, first

610
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 2: of all, I think after how listening exactly how the

611
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,880
Speaker 2: story unfolded, and like the fact that at the end

612
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: of it all, his friend came who was not black

613
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 2: and does not even live in the building, and they're

614
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: both going to a party and suddenly it was like, Okay,

615
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 2: she's here, you can go up.

616
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 4: That's where the problem lies for me, because I, like, I.

617
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 2: Do understand like the security of your building, Like I

618
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 2: think I'm not that type of person, but I understand

619
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: there are people that are like do you live here?

620
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: Like what are you doing here? And you know, it

621
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: is kind of their right, it is their property, it.

622
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 5: Is there, but isn't to the point like, for instance,

623
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 5: has he said mister John and unit ten ten two

624
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 5: is that does he know him? But that has eased him,

625
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 5: Like would you have called the police?

626
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: No, he was asking him to buzz. He said, buzz,

627
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 2: buzz her. Then buzz the gate, buzz the buzzer then

628
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 2: and he was buzzing it. So he said, when he

629
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 2: first walked up, he was buzzing the door, and then

630
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 2: he came out, and then he walked in and the

631
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: guy was.

632
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 4: Like you're tailgating.

633
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: He's tailgating me, and she was like you He's like,

634
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 2: you can't go in there, and he's like, well, I

635
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 2: was just buzzing my friend. He's like, well, buzz her

636
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: again and make her come down.

637
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 5: At which point he should have just kept walking with

638
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 5: his son, at which point buzzer again. Okay, I'm out.

639
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 2: You're you're leaving the building, so this is no.

640
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 5: Longer your like someone else could have accident and let

641
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 5: him in. That's what I'm saying, Who the fuck is

642
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 5: going to actually call the police?

643
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 4: The step of woll what was that? Did you hear that?

644
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 5: You bestuttered?

645
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 4: The fact that he called the police.

646
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 2: That's where it gets so ridiculous. That's where it gets

647
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 2: like what you call the police for?

648
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,239
Speaker 5: Like this is not an emergency. No, it's not like

649
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 5: there's no threat. And as far as i'm what is

650
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 5: the threat? As far as I'm concerned living in a building.

651
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 5: This is my other thing that irritates tohit at it.

652
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 4: But someone argue, well, it is a threat. It's like

653
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 4: someone walking into your home.

654
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: If someone was.

655
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 5: I have a front door with a lock. It's the

656
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 5: equivalent of me walking into a neighborhood. I could walk

657
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 5: up to your door right now. Because you don't live

658
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 5: in a building, you just get an extra door because

659
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 5: you live in a building, Nigga, everybody's door needs to

660
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 5: be locked.

661
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 2: That's true. It's literally, you're not the wood.

662
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 5: You're not security for the whole motherfucking building. And if

663
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Speaker 5: you were so scared because of the instance with your father, nigga,

664
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 5: you need to be in a building with a doorman

665
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 5: so he can handle it.

666
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: Well, I'm really curious the incense with his father who

667
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: murdered his father.

668
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 4: And what race they were, because is that? What is

669
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 4: that what is triggering you?

670
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I also know, like it still is that

671
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 2: you said that they live in San Francisco, the homeless

672
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 2: population is bad, that there's been multiple robberies in that building,

673
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 2: that which I don't know to be true.

674
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 5: There are a lot of homeless, I know absolutely, there

675
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 5: don't enough homeless actually do a lot of robbing.

676
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: But the who's doing robbing then, I mean I mean

677
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 2: everyday people, I mean homeless well that and homeless people, yeah, both,

678
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 2: But like I.

679
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 5: Think you can distinctly see the difference between a homeless

680
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 5: person and a homeless person. A guy going to a

681
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 5: party and a homeless are not gonna look identical, Erica, No, no, absolutely,

682
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 5: I just I just feel like the problem is that

683
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 5: some people didn't mind their own fucking business. No, no,

684
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 5: I agree, and you took it too far. And now

685
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 5: you're on fucking the internet. And what's your son? And

686
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 5: I wondered, I said, I wonder if this is a

687
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 5: learning moment for his son. Is he's so traumatized and

688
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 5: which ways I gonna like, in which direction will he

689
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 5: go as a result? And not even that this is

690
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 5: his father, So whether or not he admits to understanding

691
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 5: injustices that we face, who, like, literally, what is he

692
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 5: teaching his son?

693
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 2: Well, I'm curious what he taught his son after that?

694
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 2: What did he say to validate his actions after the fact,

695
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: because that's what we do as parents, especially like when

696
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: it's something big like that a lot of times. And

697
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 2: his father obviously feels strongly about maybe his choices.

698
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 4: I don't know if he has had a change of.

699
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 2: Heart now, but he has to explain this situation to

700
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: his son, and he said the guy said that afterwards

701
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 2: he got it. When he entered the building, he was

702
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: encountered by the wife of the son, and she was hysterical,

703
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: upset that her son was traumatized by him or the name,

704
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: by the situation and him, and was mad at him.

705
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 2: And she kept trying to show her the video he recorded,

706
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 2: which that would be pointless because she didn't give but

707
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 2: and she he was like, we were just not going

708
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 2: to like agree, and she was just mad. She just

709
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 2: felt like I had traumatized her son, which multiple times

710
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 2: he said, just go, I'm gonna stop recording, just hang

711
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 2: out on the phone. Yeah, like yeah, he did, like,

712
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: I'll stop recording, but I have to protect myself. And

713
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: unfortunately that's where we are right now, where we literally

714
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 2: have to record everything we do. We have to be

715
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 2: those annoying ass motherfuckers because our word against theirs isn't enough.

716
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 5: And it really isn't.

717
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 2: That's really the truth.

718
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 6: And shit, not just us people, literally, it's not limited

719
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,719
Speaker 6: it as black people, like when it comes to authority

720
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 6: or you know, like it's not just us, like you

721
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 6: might need to record because people are people in positions

722
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 6: of power are scheming, fucking liars if you haven't noticed,

723
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 6: not everybody who wears blue is fucking uh morally ethical period.

724
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 5: So it's just it is.

725
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 2: It's fucked up.

726
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 5: But I mean mean, had Loki had to cut somebody

727
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 5: out in front of our kids, they still get cussed out, though,

728
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 5: No to be cursed that guy out of Mexico. Wait

729
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 5: what what for the time share? Then Richard to trick

730
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 5: us for to do your time share?

731
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and kid was there.

732
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 5: Our kids were there, His kids are there, and we're like, see, no,

733
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:36,720
Speaker 5: I don't think to be cur We're just like, you're

734
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 5: trying to take advantage of us, and we don't appreciate it.

735
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 5: You showed up here because I kept escalating it and

736
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 5: we were look, my daughter's here, were like, our kids

737
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 5: are here.

738
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 4: He was like, you embarrassed me, you disrespect me. And

739
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 4: I was like, I get that.

740
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: Get that ship out of here, the toxic masculinity ship

741
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 2: out of here. You scammed us.

742
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean sometimes your kids got to see you

743
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 5: be a little rowdy. And I don't dress like violence

744
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 5: or like cursing.

745
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 2: But I know, I really feel for the kid the

746
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 2: most out of all of the situations, because he was

747
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 2: really annoyed. No, it was not annoyed. He was scared.

748
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 2: He was scared. He felt fear, and I don't know

749
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 2: if it was fear because he was scared of the

750
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 2: black man, or if it was fear because he thought

751
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 2: something bad might happen to his dad or the guy

752
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: or the guy like it was unclear, but it just

753
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,720
Speaker 2: was like all around was just I don't.

754
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 4: Know, I really understanding kids.

755
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 5: Kids can sense panic, kids can sense tension. I remember

756
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 5: certain situations as child, as a child being there like, oh,

757
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 5: this is this is uncomfortable. But the fact that his

758
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 5: small child can say, let's just go. Lets you know,

759
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 5: it wasn't a matter of it being an emergency or let's.

760
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 2: Just go because this isn't the first time his dad

761
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 2: has done this.

762
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 5: You do this shit a lot.

763
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's not again.

764
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, like you put your ship, your yourself, you put

765
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 5: yourself and places that have nothing to do with you often.

766
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 4: Really that might be what it is.

767
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: I think that's because it seemed like a familiar fear.

768
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,240
Speaker 4: But like enough already.

769
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like you always are doing this. Yeah, let's

770
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 5: find that, guys, get him on the show. Wasn't there

771
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 5: something else we might to talk about?

772
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 2: Uh?

773
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 4: Are we doing a.

774
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,200
Speaker 5: Half year check in a hot hot girl summer? Are

775
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 5: we too old to have a hot girl summer. So

776
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 5: what you said?

777
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm not old for small. No, I never

778
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 2: used the world old. That's you.

779
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 5: You said that ten minutes I said, is.

780
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 4: It hot girl summer or is it hot woman summer?

781
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 5: Oh? Okay, question, that's the question we need to we

782
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 5: need to forward to the city girls.

783
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 4: Then you mean Megan the Stallion?

784
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:49,720
Speaker 5: Oh ship?

785
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 2: Yeah? Wrong, wrong girl?

786
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah.

787
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: I just I just keep saying, if I see so

788
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: many posts it's heard of something about hot girls summer,

789
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 2: is it hot girl summer? Guarantee one of you bitches

790
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 2: that's listening definitely has a hot girl summer pose? And

791
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 2: you know what do you use it for? I've been

792
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 2: waiting for the right moment, the right photo. I feel

793
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 2: like I would need a bikini photo near or something

794
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 2: with a cocktail or something.

795
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 4: Well, but I did post the question.

796
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 2: I did post an Instagram story of a sexy post.

797
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 2: Did you see what? Did you see it? But I

798
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 2: was on my doorstep and I said hot girl summer

799
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 2: or hot woman summer? Which is because I don't know?

800
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 4: Do you?

801
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 2: Does it irritate you either way to be called like

802
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: girl or woman?

803
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 4: Does it matter to you?

804
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 2: Depends on how long is girl?

805
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,240
Speaker 4: Okay forever.

806
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 5: It depends on the context. Sometimes I feel like, what

807
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 5: is the park yesterday with Luna and this little boy said,

808
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 5: I wanted the slide with Linda? And he said are

809
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 5: you are you a little girl?

810
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 2: Are you a mom?

811
00:36:58,120 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 5: And I said I'm my mom and my mom said,

812
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 5: oh I know, and it's like it's okay. So I

813
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 5: was because he was leaving, we're saying bye, said told

814
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 5: his mom what he said it was. I thought it

815
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 5: was funny. He's like, no, I didn't mean it, like

816
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 5: I just thought I was just confused. I was like, oh, no,

817
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 5: it's fine, baby. But the woman was like, you do

818
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 5: look really young and then kept going but not like.

819
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 4: Kept like going walking, like like walked away.

820
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 5: And sometimes I feel like in certain instances, I feel

821
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 5: like people think like I'm a teen mom or some shit.

822
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 2: Like no, bitch, you know what I mean? Like I

823
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 2: could see that, actually I think I can.

824
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 5: I think people get confused that in certain instances with

825
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 5: Luna or something like. I think people get like overstep

826
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 5: their boundaries or I've had people say like rude things

827
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 5: because I'm small, like you're not going to be that

828
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 5: small for which you have kids, like bitch, I have

829
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 5: a kid, which I think people are not as conscious of,

830
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 5: but like or it's like, I don't know, it just

831
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 5: depends but like like hay girl, even like bitch, I

832
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 5: don't really get offended. But I know I'm not a bitch,

833
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 5: you know, like unless it's in a disrespectful manner.

834
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: I think you're trying to be sarcastic.

835
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 5: But other than that, I'm I'm not like, I'm not

836
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 5: gonna do a post about how I'm not doing a

837
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 5: hot girl summer because I'm sophisticated and shit, I don't

838
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 5: think it's not serious.

839
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. For me, like I prefer woman, but

840
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 2: I don't. I say girl all the time too, But

841
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:22,800
Speaker 2: I guess it just depends who's calling me exactly.

842
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 5: It depends who's calling me.

843
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's who's calling me girl. And can I imagine

844
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, I think about myself as like a seventy

845
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 2: year old woman. I'm gonna be like calling my friend

846
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 2: like hate girl or does our language change?

847
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 5: No, girl, We're gonna be seventy Like hang out. I

848
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 5: tell my grandma, hay, guy.

849
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 2: You said your grandma, yes, okay, but you're not seventy

850
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: does your mom does your grandma say hey girl to

851
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:44,479
Speaker 2: her friends.

852
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so you think were you doeshit?

853
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure my hate girlfriend my my grandma's girlfriend girlfriend.

854
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 2: Okay, that's different.

855
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 5: I mean, I just don't. I just I think people

856
00:38:56,120 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 5: think a little too deeply about shit like that.

857
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 2: There's other shit to worry about. You mean me, I'm

858
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 2: a deep finger to Meila, Leave me the fuck alone,

859
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 2: deep thing scorpio, deep ass thoughts alone.

860
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

861
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 2: I was this guy hit me out with my DMS

862
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 2: the other day. I was like, uh have you Oh

863
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 2: I post about the pattern and he was like, uh

864
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: do you? Are you taking this personality test? And there's

865
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 2: like I hate the personality. He sent me this personality

866
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,479
Speaker 2: test and somebody did like a g T p ac

867
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: ate those there's like, oh those are that's like the

868
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 2: ones that's like super analytical or something like it. Really, bitch,

869
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 2: you can't identify my type of personality.

870
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 5: It's just one kind, it said I was.

871
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 2: It says I'm the mediator. I'm like, I don't feel

872
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: like a mediator. I mean maybe I could be.

873
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 5: Someone sent that shiit to me for a job interview

874
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 5: and I was like, bitch, this is dumb.

875
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 2: I think he was just trying to see if we

876
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 2: were compatible. He thought he was speaking my language and

877
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 2: knows I like signs and shiit no.

878
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 5: But I think people who like need that type of

879
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 5: indicator of type of personnelity type they are. They let

880
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 5: them to let them know if they get along with

881
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 5: other people, Lets me know if we're not going to

882
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 5: get along, well.

883
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 2: Kind of lets me know that you don't know who

884
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 2: you are.

885
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like you have to get look on a chart

886
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 5: and to figure me out and figure yourself out and

887
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 5: see if we're compatible. I could, I could have a

888
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:16,879
Speaker 5: conversation with one person.

889
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 2: And that's how we like Oh my god, It's like

890
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: these little tests that people take are low key like

891
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 2: ways to control us even more and more, to make

892
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 2: us so dependent on labels like no, like the internet

893
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 2: and like way yeah, labels and how people decide to

894
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 2: label you so that we can all fit into a

895
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 2: category and then follow suit in whatever category that is.

896
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 5: Did you say my posts and I posted today?

897
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:41,720
Speaker 2: Oh good moms?

898
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 4: Uh oh about makeup?

899
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 5: Well? What was about makeup? It was about makeup?

900
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 4: But like being called fast?

901
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:46,919
Speaker 2: Yeah?

902
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 5: Were you ever called fast?

903
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 2: Or grown?

904
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 5: Growing out? Grown? Yeah?

905
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 2: But I definitely heard it a lot, like oh she's grown,

906
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 2: Oh she's fast, like talking about other people's kids like yeah,

907
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 2: she's fast, she's fast.

908
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, little, do you know?

909
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: Right? But it was you were the fastest.

910
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was saying, I wonder how that if I

911
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 5: believe that? If because I heard it often? Did I

912
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 5: believe it? And did I like, uh, move that way?

913
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 5: Or was I just hot in the ass, which is

914
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 5: probably too no, but probably both probably influenced too. But

915
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 5: that's why I'm like, I'm really careful even.

916
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 2: Or it's like whatever you already think, I am, so

917
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 2: fuck it.

918
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't know, like femininity, sexuality, how does

919
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 5: that come along with kids? How do you like? How

920
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 5: do you not make it everything so negative? And so

921
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 5: because I hated that, I hated, I hate.

922
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: I don't really like.

923
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 5: I don't believe in adults whispering about kids at any

924
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 5: age because I feel like they're way more conscious and I.

925
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 2: Remember and whispering.

926
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 5: Just like you said, you've heard other parents talking about

927
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 5: other kids like oh, yeah she's fast, so and So's daughter,

928
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 5: she's a little grown. That's just what people do, though,

929
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 5: I know, but I don't. I don't condone that That's

930
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. I don't want to be that type

931
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 5: of parent. No, I don't want to be that either,

932
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 5: like that she's a kid, but her be a kid.

933
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 5: You're being a child by trying to label somebody else's kid.

934
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 2: It was even yesterday I came home and I was

935
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 2: playing with her dolls and she was like, can you

936
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 2: play with me? And she had like the baby stroller

937
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: and she's like, you're gonna have this baby and I'm

938
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 2: gonna have this baby.

939
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 4: Okay, rock the baby and.

940
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: Put it in the stroller and d d And I

941
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,840
Speaker 2: was like thinking to myself, like why the fuck is

942
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 2: my daughter playing with the stroller? And like I was

943
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 2: just like why are we first? So I didn't buy

944
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 2: her that, But I'm just saying, but it was, it's been,

945
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 2: It's it's normal to me. But then I had this

946
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 2: moment of like I'm like, we're training her to believe

947
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 2: that this is what she's supposed to be.

948
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 4: This is this is.

949
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 2: How you define girl. Girls do this? Girls play with

950
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 2: strollers and babies. You would never see go I've never

951
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: I would never go over to a boy's house and

952
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: see him playing with the stroller a baby and he

953
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 2: might have a kid one day too, you know what

954
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 2: I mean?

955
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 4: And then true, and then I realized I was like,

956
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 4: is this wrong? This is where it starts, like.

957
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 2: All these like labels of like what roles we play like,

958
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 2: like even speaking about Daphne and like Daphne on her episode,

959
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,040
Speaker 2: just as someone commented and was like, I fucking hated

960
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 2: that episode. She was like, She's like her way of

961
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 2: thinking is archaic and dah da da da, And in

962
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: some ways to me it is like like the roles

963
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: that she defines for women and men. Even we were

964
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 2: having conversation, you were like men are better drivers and

965
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 2: I was like, what.

966
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 5: Because I don't believe. I don't believe, Like I don't

967
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 5: really believe, but that.

968
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 4: Could be true based on a study.

969
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 5: Like but but it doesn't mean that he studies.

970
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 2: It's fucking but I.

971
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 4: Fall into it all day long, all the time.

972
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 2: Why I mean not why I'm not gonna I'm not

973
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:30,240
Speaker 2: going to go in there and take away her dolls

974
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 2: or whatever, but I'm just thinking to myself, like why

975
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 2: is this? But I'm definitely gonna think more about what

976
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 2: kind of like things like let come into my house

977
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 2: and what I buy her because it was just like

978
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 2: I don't want her to feel like so many women

979
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 2: feel like it's their duty to have kids.

980
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 5: It's like they have to.

981
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:48,760
Speaker 2: They're not that's the next step.

982
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 4: That's what's missing. I'll be happy if, like I have

983
00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 4: my career, I have this must have.

984
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: Kids complete puzzle piece, and like, don't get me wrong,

985
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 2: like I wouldn't. I love my kid and I'm so

986
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 2: happy I have. I mean, that would the best thing

987
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 2: that's ever happened to me. However, I don't know, well

988
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: for me though, actually I never really wanted kids. I

989
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 2: only wanted kids after I felt like you.

990
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 5: Had gotten everything else off the checklist.

991
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just started. I think naturally women,

992
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 2: we do have a maternal instinct in us. It just

993
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: comes when it comes. But I think things force it

994
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 2: along though faster, like having our kids play with babies,

995
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 2: or like you know, assigning these gender roles to our

996
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 2: to our children.

997
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 5: So you want to you want to create a more

998
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 5: gender neutral environment.

999
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 4: Where she can decide what she wants to do at

1000
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 4: her own pace.

1001
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 2: Is am I is?

1002
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 4: And but that's it's it's.

1003
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 2: It's impossible because because there's like it's not impossible, it's

1004
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 2: just very difficult and conscious. You really have to be

1005
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 2: conscious about it and almost annoying and like people are

1006
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 2: going to take.

1007
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 5: To the point where colors, every every little thing that's

1008
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,719
Speaker 5: like even even outfits, even when we go shopping. It's

1009
00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 5: it's so many things that we are not we're not

1010
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 5: conscious of that we we've adopted. Even for instance, like

1011
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 5: if your armpit hair grew out like super long, next week,

1012
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 5: you're gonna feel like you feel less feminine.

1013
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 2: Shouldn't, right, you know.

1014
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 5: What I'm saying. And I tried it once. I try

1015
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 5: to be like anti feminine and like and grow my

1016
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 5: armpit hairs out. And I did it for a little while,

1017
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 5: probably because I was in a relationship and he didn't

1018
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 5: give a fuck. But then I went to Disneyland. I

1019
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 5: was like Disney World. I was like, this hair's got

1020
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 5: to go. I cannot do this for Mickey and Minnie.

1021
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 5: But I have trouble really realizing. But I feel like

1022
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 5: is sexy versus like in feminine, which what I've been

1023
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 5: taught versus what I believe. Right, So it's it's really

1024
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 5: hard to create those type of environments for our kids.

1025
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 5: So they go to they watch movies, they get Saved

1026
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:53,399
Speaker 5: by the Prints and every fucking movie.

1027
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I've thought about that, but for some reason,

1028
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,280
Speaker 2: like I don't know, I never.

1029
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, I don't know why.

1030
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 2: Specifically, the stroller thing hit me so hard yesterday I

1031
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 2: was like, what this is? So maybe because I saw

1032
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 2: how much how happy she was. She was so excited,

1033
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 2: so happy. You know, we're gonna have to wrap it

1034
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: up soon.

1035
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 5: Okay, do you have any six months it's happy or

1036
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 5: mark check ins?

1037
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:21,240
Speaker 2: Oh? God, damn, she's.

1038
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 5: So oh, I know, she's so fine.

1039
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 2: We're looking at Alex Undunn's instagram. She has another one

1040
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 2: stay down check out her episode with her called self Harm,

1041
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 2: self Harm and something six month check in. Uh. I

1042
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 2: don't know. I feel like I feel good. Actually i've,

1043
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 2: but throughout the six months I've felt good, I felt bad,

1044
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 2: I felt crazy, I felt insecure, I felt anxious, Like

1045
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 2: throughout the whole six months, I think I'm in a

1046
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 2: good place now, you know, I'm like, I feel like

1047
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 2: I've I've really starting to like feel empowered enough to

1048
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,280
Speaker 2: like set boundaries for myself because a lot of times

1049
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 2: I I think with men like it's hard for me too.

1050
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 2: You know, I think I can, but if I really

1051
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: love you, it's hard for me to set boundaries. So

1052
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: I just feel really empowered in that way, you know,

1053
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 2: still single as a buck, but also more secure saying, yeah,

1054
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 2: I'm single, but I actually know what I do want

1055
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 2: a relationship. I do want partnership, I do want kids.

1056
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:30,919
Speaker 2: Whereas before I'd be.

1057
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, I don't want to like, I

1058
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:33,959
Speaker 4: don't want to like.

1059
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,240
Speaker 5: You know, scare anybody away, scare anyone away.

1060
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: But though I'm like so, I feel I feel good

1061
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 2: about that. I feel overwhelmed with work. I feel overwhelmed

1062
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 2: with podcasting. You know, people want to start podcasts and

1063
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 2: you don't understand how much. I mean, it's a lot

1064
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 2: of work, especially if you really want to make it good.

1065
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 5: It's a lot of work.

1066
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 2: But I love it. But I've just been feeling a

1067
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 2: bit overwhelmed, like I want to run away and yourself. No,

1068
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,439
Speaker 2: like I would need to go on a trip, get

1069
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 2: out of LA. That's my runaway. I know.

1070
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, so.

1071
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: Probably going to do that, which I don't know if

1072
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 2: it is good or bad. But you know, what about you, I.

1073
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 5: Feel completely out of control and overwhelmed with adulting. I

1074
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 5: feel like at the beginning of the year is like

1075
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 5: I was in a good place, like yeah, oh yeah,

1076
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 5: I got this. I got this, and then I don't

1077
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 5: know how I got here the seventh month of mark.

1078
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 5: But I'm just reminding myself to just take one day

1079
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 5: at a time and just deeply, deeply reflect about decisions.

1080
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 5: I make decisions I don't make being proactive. What pushes me,

1081
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 5: what doesn't like Where my fear lies, where my procrastination lies,

1082
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 5: is that fear. Just try to really examine myself, but

1083
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,720
Speaker 5: it's hard to exam I'm trying to examine myself without judgment,

1084
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 5: just to be and then in being fixed this shit

1085
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 5: I don't like that. I observe, but it's just difficult.

1086
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 5: It's difficult. And then obviously there's other things that have

1087
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 5: to be done. There's you have someone depending on you.

1088
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 5: They need to eat like every two hours. You know,

1089
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 5: there's bills, there's financial things, there's passion things like we

1090
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,320
Speaker 5: love our podcast, of course, but then I'm like, fuck,

1091
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 5: like you and any business you have to put money

1092
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 5: in to get you know, to be fruitful. Everything just

1093
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 5: requires it's just a nurturing, nurturing and it's like how

1094
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 5: much time, like can you put into nurturing all aspects

1095
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 5: of your life and just trying to find the discipline

1096
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 5: to do that is just kind of where I'm at

1097
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 5: right now, because I'll go here, and then I'll go here,

1098
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 5: and then I feel bad about it.

1099
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 4: And just yeah, no, me too.

1100
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, I didn't do that, Oh I didn't

1101
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 2: finish that. Yeah, I get it. I think breathing. I

1102
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 2: think I forg get to breathe. And that's something I

1103
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:04,839
Speaker 2: realized yesterday when I was feeling really anxious and I

1104
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 2: told my friend and he texted me. I was like, breathe.

1105
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,760
Speaker 2: That's literally all he texted me. And then I was like, damn,

1106
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 2: I haven't been breathing. And I felt the shortness of

1107
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 2: my breath when he said it. So I encourage you

1108
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 2: guys to check in with yourself, you know, just breathe,

1109
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,280
Speaker 2: Just fucking breathe. Check in with yourself and ask yourself

1110
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:27,919
Speaker 2: how you're doing. I think like a lot of times

1111
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 2: we wait until the new year to check in and

1112
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 2: like start over, Like take this time now, take this

1113
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 2: week to like check in and see how you're feeling,

1114
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 2: where you're at, where are your goals at that you've

1115
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 2: started at the beginning of this year, Have you accomplished

1116
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 2: any of them? If not, don't hate yourself. That's why

1117
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 2: we're checking in, you know, and look at it as

1118
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 2: an opportunity, not like a negative. It's kind of like

1119
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 2: what I really try to do because I've spent so

1120
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 2: many years beating myself up. But I feel like this

1121
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: this year has been like one of the most productive

1122
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 2: years of my life. And I still I'm not I'm

1123
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 2: falling shortened ways, but I'm like, I just feel more

1124
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 2: like I can forgive myself more.

1125
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:08,920
Speaker 4: Are they here?

1126
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 5: It's that kacky oh?

1127
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 4: But yeah? Is that it?

1128
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 2: That's it?

1129
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 5: Breathing and drinking water free asap, free ACEP. I think

1130
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do more research.

1131
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 4: We need to take a breath right now already.

1132
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 5: Okay, wait, okay, and we're gonna inhale. I'll let all

1133
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:48,360
Speaker 5: that shit go. Today's a new day. We're starting fresh.

1134
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 5: And that's the most beautiful part is that every day

1135
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 5: is a new day and we can start over and

1136
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,280
Speaker 5: we can let renew and be different and try harder

1137
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 5: and shit, honestly, yesterday it doesn't even matter. We're here now,

1138
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 5: we're living, reading and that's that's all that matters absolutely.

1139
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: Well, you guys have a great week and make sure

1140
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 2: you check out our website. Oh, we're having a meetup

1141
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 2: on Saturday. If you're in LA, please come and meet

1142
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,279
Speaker 2: us at the Hollywood Forever Cemetery. They do like a

1143
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 2: drive in movie night, except not driving. I guess you picnic,

1144
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 2: but it's really fun. Like I know, it sounds creepy.

1145
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 2: I've had multiple people like, wait, we're gonna be in

1146
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 2: a cemetery, Like, yes.

1147
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 5: Everybody is so weird about it.

1148
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:35,440
Speaker 4: Have you ever heard of this?

1149
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 2: Even though it's a really cool thing, Like it's dope.

1150
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 2: They have DJs, You bring wine, cheese, weed, you chill,

1151
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 2: you smoke, you watch a movie, or you don't watch

1152
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 2: the movie.

1153
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 4: You just hang out with your friends.

1154
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 2: Anyway, we're gonna have a big ass blanket and we're

1155
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,919
Speaker 2: gonna have lots of wine and other things.

1156
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 5: So you have the blanket.

1157
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, putting like three to make one big one.

1158
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:57,760
Speaker 5: I wish we had a flag that's a good mom's

1159
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 5: bad choices so they could find it.

1160
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 2: That's too late now, but next time.

1161
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 5: I feel like we can get a flag.

1162
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,879
Speaker 2: Mate, girl, I'm gonna let you handle. You can go

1163
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 2: on our link in our bio and it's you can

1164
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: just click that and then click the meetup and then

1165
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 2: rs VP and we'll see you guys there. Bye bye.

1166
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 5: Make sure you check in on Instagram if you haven't,

1167
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 5: and follow us and say hi, good Mom's underscore bad Choices.

1168
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 5: If you haven't, sign up for the newsletters.

1169
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: Sign up.

1170
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 5: Oh and most importantly, if you're listening to this and

1171
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 5: you like us even a little bit, can you leave

1172
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 5: a comment and leave ratings hopefully a five.

1173
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 2: On Apple Podcasts on Apple Podcasts and subscribe. Thank you,

1174
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:41,399
Speaker 2: thank you, thank you, thank you very much.

1175
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 5: Before we go, though, we need to add a horry.

1176
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: Who stories.

1177
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 5: I have an old horry, like an old horry, emphasis

1178
00:53:55,040 --> 00:54:03,040
Speaker 5: on the old. So I lived in Atlanta. Me and

1179
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:08,919
Speaker 5: my girlfriend, Mike Piss's best friend. We are both we

1180
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:14,440
Speaker 5: have similar strange horrish ways, and we had we self

1181
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 5: proclaimed ourselves the good time girls. And sometimes we just

1182
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 5: like have a crush on the same guy or the

1183
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,959
Speaker 5: same girl and be like, oh yeah, that's good time girl.

1184
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 5: Then okay, we like plot which is rather interesting anyway,

1185
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,439
Speaker 5: me and my friend who had a saga.

1186
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 2: Of good time girling.

1187
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 5: I'll have plenty of stories, especially from specifically from this era,

1188
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 5: from this era girl era. So at the time, she

1189
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 5: was seeing this guy who I think I think maybe

1190
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 5: she had slept with him once, and she was like,

1191
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 5: he's so sweet, like he's a big dick. Oh my god,

1192
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 5: it'll be so fun, Like that's a good time girl him.

1193
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 5: In addition to that, he used to throw these after parties,

1194
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 5: like these these late night after parties in the uh

1195
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:04,480
Speaker 5: they really called the castle. Were they lofts? Anyway? They

1196
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,240
Speaker 5: used to be this like a lot full of huge

1197
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 5: ass lofts. Some are residential, some ran businesses out of them.

1198
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 5: People had a lot of studios, people live loft. I'm yeah, yeah,

1199
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 5: but I don't even know if there was supposed to

1200
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 5: be lived, but people was living. So he would said

1201
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 5: these after our parties, and if we were at that,

1202
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 5: we were at one, we're getting struck. People were there.

1203
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 5: He like had like a little apartment above it. So

1204
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 5: she's like, yeah, that's a good time girl. And I'm like,

1205
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 5: I'm on my period, Like I can't grow good time

1206
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 5: girl home tonight. So anyway, I don't know what happened

1207
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,919
Speaker 5: between me telling her that and late that night, if

1208
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 5: it was completely ignored what I had said if I forgot,

1209
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 5: I don't know anyway, I know he knew because we

1210
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,879
Speaker 5: we had relayed this message. Anyway, we all like mass

1211
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 5: circuits starts getting hot, and he did it like all

1212
00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 5: making out and like touching and groping. Like keep in

1213
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,280
Speaker 5: mind discus me and my friend good time girl people

1214
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,879
Speaker 5: like we really never like fucked alone or anything like that.

1215
00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 5: That's still my best friend right now. She's a mom too.

1216
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 5: So eventually she's like riding him, I'm writing his face.

1217
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 2: So the next day she's like.

1218
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 5: Girl, was so funny. I was watching you. She's like,

1219
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 5: you were writing him, but your your tampa string was

1220
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 5: on his chin. She was like, I was shrying not

1221
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 5: to laugh.

1222
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 3: Wait, so she she was riding him and you were

1223
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 3: like facing the other way. Yeah, so guys probably hitting

1224
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 3: him in yes, but what was he doing was he like.

1225
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 5: Eating my pussy and fucking her and never said ship

1226
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 5: about it. In fact, be good Time girled him again

1227
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,960
Speaker 5: like years later, like after we went into retirement, we

1228
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 5: came out of retirement to a good Time girl him.

1229
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 5: I'll save that story for next week or another week,

1230
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 5: but it's also pretty funny. But yes, it was a

1231
00:56:55,480 --> 00:57:00,439
Speaker 5: hot girl summer that summer. I clearly went and letting

1232
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 5: any periods or tampon stop me, and neither were they.

1233
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's a good one.

1234
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for sharing. You're central Horries guys.

1235
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 5: Good ones though, because some of you guys keep sending

1236
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,439
Speaker 5: the weak ass ones, they need to like, come on, yeah,

1237
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 5: level ten horries.

1238
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 2: I need to look at a level ten, like soon.

1239
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 5: It don't happening your old ones, you know what, Like

1240
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 5: I can't think.

1241
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 4: Of any I've been having like a hoary blackout to.

1242
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 5: Write them down. Every time I think one, I'm like,

1243
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do this ship.

1244
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 2: I try to think.

1245
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 4: I like sometimes I'm like, did that happen?

1246
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:37,880
Speaker 2: Or is that a dream? Or was I high?

1247
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 4: Or did that happen? Or were they drunk?

1248
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 2: Or did it happen it happened? Or is that one

1249
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 2: of my masturbation fantasies. I need you to be clear.

1250
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 2: I'm telling why.

1251
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 5: Okay, exacts it. That's my short.

1252
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 2: Horry for today.

1253
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 5: All right, well bye bye.

1254
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm my father night to get sarve. She's a farm

1255
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: night for good fine, I'm a bon night to get lucky.

1256
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: We'll rop bone nights at the sign. We rap bon

1257
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: night to get sound. We're a bumb night for good fine,

1258
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: We'll rop bon Night to get it lucky. We're rock

1259
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: Bond Night to get lucky. We're rop Bond Night to

1260
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: get lucky. We're rop Bond Night to get it lucky.

1261
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:22,000
Speaker 1: We're rop Bon Night.

1262
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 4: To get lucky.

1263
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 1: Nights again, Nice again, rop nights again, Nights again, Nights again,

1264
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: nights again,